Dear Chelsea - Minisode: You Can’t Babysit Your Own Kids with Sam Jay and Yanise Monét

Episode Date: September 6, 2024

Chelsea is joined by Sam and Yaya to discuss working out finances when one spouse keeps the home, Louis Vuitton slides, and why Yaya makes Sam feel the funniest she ever feels.  * Need some advice from Chelsea? Email us at [e-mail] * Executive Producer Catherine Law Edited & Engineered by Brad Dickert * * * * * The views and opinions expressed are solely those of the Podcast author, or individuals participating in the Podcast, and do not represent the opinions of iHeartMedia or its employees.  This Podcast should not be used as medical advice, mental health advice, mental health counseling or therapy, or as imparting any health care recommendations at all.  Individuals are advised to seek independent medical, counseling advice and/or therapy from a competent health care professional with respect to any medical condition, mental health issues, health inquiry or matter, including matters discussed on this Podcast. Guests and listeners should not rely on matters discussed in the Podcast and shall not act or shall refrain from acting based on information contained in the Podcast without first seeking independent medical advice.  See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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And we're back with Sam and Yaya for Couples Counseling. So I have to pee again, you guys. Okay, seriously? I said it, yes. Yeah, no, me and Amina were talking about that because she was just like, yeah, you know, like, you're mean. And I was like, when have I ever been mean to you? She's like, well, you know, you come in the room and it's like, you don't know like you're mean and i was like when have i ever been mean to you yeah she's like well you know you come in the room and it's like you don't know what you want you might just come in the room and say what up and just keep it moving i'm like because i'm not in the mood to do more than that that day i'm here to do my job sometimes you know what i'm saying it's just like good to

see you but i'm in my own little zone i just want to do my little one twosie i'm tired i'm whatever i'm out but i say what up it's like i'm like why do niggas need. I do my little one-twozy. I'm tired. I'm whatever. I'm out. But I say what up. It's like, I'm like, why do niggas need that? What are you? What are you? I think it may be because y'all are in entertainment, too, that people just expect you to always be on. I can't speak for you, but I know for me because I'm always like, ah. That's what I be thinking, too.

People always expect me to be on. No, I feel that way. So I'm not always like you said. And it's like, nah. I feel that way. I feel like a lot of times when we're around each other, people are like, aren't you supposed to be the comment? Aren't you supposed to be the one that's like jovial and trying to make me laugh? And my lack of interest in doing that makes them think that I'm like a bitch.

And it's like, no, I'm just, why do I need to do that? I don't know, girl. Thanks, boo. I don't know, but you need to make me laugh, motherfucker. I do make you laugh all the time. I ain't know, girl. Thanks, boo. I don't know, but you need to make me laugh another second. I do make you laugh all the time. I ain't laughing right now. You're actually my favorite person to entertain.

Oh, okay. Well, go ahead, Bojangles. Do your thing. That's funny. I'm happiest when I'm in the house alone and you're cackling your ass off. I feel the funniest. Why so? I don't know.

I've always liked being silly for you. I like it when you're silly for me, too. I so? I don't know. I've always liked being silly for you. I like it when you're silly for me too. I always enjoy being silly for you. I like being silly for you too. Look at you two bonding while I'm gone while the counselor's in the bathroom. We do better without you. I know. Most couples do. Thank you guys for being so open and sharing so much.

I think our listeners are really going to enjoy it. By the way, thank you for my slides, my Louis Vuitton slides that I called Gucci or Fendi or whatever. I want you to know that I wear those whenever I get a pedicure and around my house. And every time someone sees me in these Louis Vuitton slides, they're like, are you fucking wearing Louis Vuitton slides? They're like, Chelsea, that couldn't be less you.

I'm like, I fucking love these slides. And then I left them in LA and realized yesterday I didn't have them in my suitcase. So they sent them and FedExed them and I got them today to take to Mallorca. Yes. I fucking love them. Best gift. I'm glad. And I still have the video of you walking in with the DHL box at the dinner.

Okay, let's talk. Speaking of Louis Vuitton, let's talk who's in charge of the finances and who spends the most money. Now, you already know Sam is in charge of the finances. In charge, or does she make the money and then you oversee the money? No, I do not oversee the money. Sam has a business manager who oversees the money. And how does that work for you two? I also oversee the money.

I'd just like to put that out there. Oh, yeah, I'm not saying that you don't. I'm not saying that. I? I also oversee the money. I'd just like to put that out there. Oh, yeah. I'm not saying that you don't. I'm not saying that. I'm also overseeing the money. I'm not just letting this guy. Unlike me who's not overseeing any of my money. I don't know what the fuck is going on.

I'm just like, tell me when I need to work and when I cannot work. Okay. So is it an area of discord between you two? Absolutely. Yes, it is. What is it for you of discord between you two? Absolutely. Yes, it is. What, is it for you, Yaya? We're supposed to lie? I mean, it's not for me.

I would say we just had a whole therapy session about it. So I think it's a thing. Okay. I think it's fair to say it's a thing. For you. Okay. Not for me. Okay.

Tell us what you're saying. I'm saying I think it is, there is a power imbalance that plays out, and I think it mostly stems from the fact that I am the sole provider financially. And I think that power imbalance bothers you as well. Sometimes. Yeah, so I can say I think it is an issue for both of us. I think it's an issue in your relationship. Yeah, but it's not like a come-all, be-all thing to me.

But I think it is different because when we first met, I had the money and Sam did not. And I was the business owner. And then when we got back together this last round, I sold my business. So I'm totally dependent on Sam. So the dynamics are totally different. Yeah, that must be strange. But I mean, the dynamics are also totally, they're just totally different, right? Because at the time when we first met, I wasn't living with you.

You weren't living with me. You just made more money than me. And I was too broke to take you on dates. So we would just hang out and fuck in your house. And that was the extent to which we dealt with money. Whereas now we're living together, paying bills together. That's like a whole nother, you know, kick. Yeah, so it's just different.

And do you give her an allowance? Do you have something? I'm on payroll, girl. I work for my allowance. What you're not going to do is minimize. Whoa, whoa, whoa. Isn't that a sex worker? Yeah.

You do get an allowance. I'm a prostitute. I said that. Oh, yeah. I said that. But I said I work for it. You don't. I do.

You're lying. I do. The only reason you're on payroll is for taxes and you know it. You don't work for it. But I work for it. You don't. I do. You're lying. I do. The only reason you're on payroll is for taxes and you know it. You don't work for it. But I work for it. I don't support you. I don't cook. I don't clean.

I don't do all the things. You don't cook or clean or anything? I do. She does all that. Oh, I thought, yeah. I thought you said you don't. I'm a good housewife. No, bitch.

I thought you said I don't cook. I don't clean. No, I'm asking her like I don't. I know you do. Yeah, I do. I work for my allowance. You think that that's working for your allowance? Yes, like, I don't. I know you do. Yeah, I do. I work for my allowance. You think that that's working for your allowance? Yes, girl, I work hard.

Yeah, I mean, are you cooking and cleaning? That's just like taking care of the house. Yeah, but that's what, I mean. She lives there. I know, but she's also. So you can't work, like, if I clean my own room, I worked. Well, then go ahead and do it. Go clean and cook.

We also have maids. So, well, so, come on, man. How many? How many do you have? Well, they just come clean once a month now, really. It's once every two weeks. She bumped it up. She had to bump it up.

She's like, listen, I'm fucking getting sick of this cleaning bullshit. I don't think cleaning your own house and cooking food in your own house is work. I'm sorry. I just don't. All right own house and cooking food in your own house is work. I'm sorry. I just don't. All right. I beg to defer. That's not work. You're not working.

You're like maintaining where you live. I'm maintaining our life. Yeah, where we live. That's not working. That is work. She's making your house nice and cozy and comfy so you can come home and relax. That's not like working. That is work.

That's maintaining. You're minimizing. Partnering. You're minimizing a whole segment of people. What about the moms of the world that are home and doing stuff? That's work. You're not a mom. We don't have no child.

You have a cat. I have to take care of your cat when you're gone. It's just one. That's your friend. That's what I'm saying. You're just hanging out with your friend. You like fancy. That's your child. That's what I'm saying. You're just hanging out with your friend. You like fancy. That's your child now, too.

You like fancy. You like hanging out with him. You don't go to bed without calling him and making him come to bed. But that's your cat. No, that's our cat. You rock with him. Yes, but I'm still taking care of him. So hanging out with your cat is not...

You can't babysit your own kid. All I'm saying is I work hard. You know what I'm saying? All I'm saying is I work hard. Don't what I'm saying all I'm saying is I work hard don't minimize what I do I work hard I'm not minimizing it I think what you do is absolutely amazing

and I really appreciate how it contributes to our household and our life and I'm not minimizing it I'm just saying it's not work you're just maintaining your life it's an interesting debate I'm sure

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important ingredient is communication and being vulnerable with your partner because you have to expose yourself. And it's hard to do that long term because when you first meet somebody or you're first dating, y'all aren't really being your authentic selves. You're being a version of the person that you think that they want. And then once you get to know the person and you're your most authentic self, you have to let all the shit go that you came with, all the baggage. You got to let that go. And just be there for your partner

and communicate to your partner. What? I'm trying to think. No, you're saying it right. I mean, you're saying so dope, but you just like, just be there, bitch. Yeah, because that's what it is. You have to communicate and you have to let all the other shit go. You can't bring in all the stuff that you went through in your life because everybody has traumas and experiences that they bring into a relationship.

But if you want to have a healthy relationship, you have to get to the root of all of your traumas and all the things that fucked you up as a person. So you don't bring that into relationship. You can just be the best version of yourself for that person. And do you think you can get rid of that and your trauma without therapy? Absolutely not. I know I couldn't. So I can't. I couldn't.

So I can't speak for anybody else. I know I could. What about you? No, there was definitely places I wouldn't have gotten to without therapy. And I think I do a lot of my own work really well. Like, I'm one of those people who maybe three years ago would have been like, you don't need therapy. You spend enough time with yourself.

You dig in deep enough. You could probably, you know, excavate most of this shit because I've done it. But once I did do therapy because of what we were going through in our relationship, I don't think I ever would have went otherwise. I never would have went for myself. But you saying, like, we have to go if we're going to keep doing this

is the only reason I even ended up there. But once I was there, I have to say, things that I landed on with my brother and all that, I would have never, I never would have went there. I don't think my brain would have allowed me to go there. So, yeah. And what do you think the most important thing to have a long, sustainable relationship is? Patience.

Patience. Just patience. It's like, if you're going to really be with someone, then you have to accept you're going to be multiple versions of them and that time span who they are when you first get together is not who they're going to be later they're going to go through things they're going to change as a result of the things that they go through they're going to need different things and it's like giving people space to change. Like a chance to change or space to change? Space. Like if you're really going to be with someone forever and say they hit a slump, say they hit a depression, say something happens in their life and now you're with somebody and it's like that ain't who you started out with

and this might not even be a person that you like that much, if you're going to be with them, it's supporting them and being patient to that so that they can get to the other person that's on the other side of whatever that is. And that's like giving them space. It's like not requiring them to hurry up and figure it out. Not requiring them to just go back to what they were. Not requiring them to tell you what the

fuck is wrong because maybe they don't even all the way know but just like allowing them the space and being supportive and sometimes you have to do that shit from a distance to get there whatever it is that they're getting you know which might be a whole another person most likely than the person they were before the person person they are in the shit. And then it's like, patience with that. Yeah, because sometimes people can change so drastically within a relationship that they're not even recognizable to as the person that they were in the beginning. And in that case, there could be an argument for like, well, you're not even the same person. It's not like you're, there's this evolution. It's you're a completely different

person now. Absolutely. You know, because of whatever circumstances. Yeah, absolutely. And what do you think, Yaya, like if you had to name something that you've learned through your relationship about yourself, the most powerful thing you've learned about yourself to adjust your own behavior or something that you didn't know you had what is that adhd i'm so serious adhd i was diagnosed with adhd i think that was the most transformative thing for me in this relationship and if she didn't like i would see things and be like oh i think i got that shit and she'd be like, no, no, maybe. But when shit hit the fan, her saying, hey, I think you may, you may really have that. You may want to go talk to someone. And me going to see, well, talking to my therapist and then seeing a psychologist and getting

clinically diagnosed with ADHD, I think was the biggest game changer for me because it made me see why I was doing things, how I was doing things, why it just everything aligned once I understood that because I understood myself more. And what were the things that you were able to identify that you were doing as a result of having undiagnosed ADHD? Well, they were first they were misdiagnosing me saying that it was a depression or anxiety and this and the third when it was really just untreated ADHD. So it was like kind of like the same symptoms, but just in different ways. So even with our house, trying to complete our house and design our house, I would start tasks, like start wallpapering and then do one room and then not finish the other room. But it

was just because I got bored because I had already started that. So then I would just start another task in the house. So there was like a whole bunch of different tasks that weren't completed. So then me finding out that I have ADHD, I figured out why I wasn't completing the task. I was getting bored quickly. So I moved on to something else. So now I just make a list and now all the things are completed. So it works now. And are you on medication for ADHD? No. Oh, you're not? No, I'm not on medication. Oh, okay. So you can combat ADHD without taking medication. Yes, you can.

You don't have to be on medication. How? Well, that's just what works for me and what my psychologist and what my therapist felt was best for me, that I didn't need to be medicated. I'm not saying all people. They call them like workarounds. Yeah, you just work around. Some people are able to develop workarounds. Yeah, you just work around. Some people are able to develop workarounds. So what she'll do is just like implement systems around the house that structure her where the structure doesn't exist. Which is why I have to clean up after Sam where I don't see my mess, but I see her mess because I have to clean it up because I know that it'll pile up if I don't get it out the way.

Right. Have you noticed a big difference between? Yeah, she finishes things. Like before there would just be like, you know, wallpaper just hanging off of different walls all over the house. And then I'll know in my heart, like by the time she gets back to this room, she gonna want it to be a whole nother wallpaper because she done dallyed on. So like constantly we weren't having a complete experience.

It was just like everything's going to change, which is wild for me because I grew up fucked up. So I like consistency because I did not have consistency. So, like, the constant change for me was, like, basically, like, sowing the feeling of instability. Like, I don't even have a place because everything just changes. And then my stuff usually is in this closet and I was happy there. And now I'm in a closet up in the third floor. So it's like, damn. So now I get used to that. Now I'm in a closet downstairs. So I'm like, is this really my house or do I just get put wherever I get put? And I'm not allowed to get acclimated with anything. And like, I was taking that so personally, but I had to realize like,

it's not even nothing to do with me. Well, that's what my Jenny and Jason, who are doing this too. Jenny said something which I thought was very profound. She was saying like, whatever your partner is upset about, usually has nothing to do with you. Like, even when they think it's about you, it's really not. And that's something important to remember, think it's about you it's really not and that's something important to remember because it's so fucking true the whole reason we have any discord is because people take things personally yeah and if everyone was like yeah whatever he's in a bad mood he's a fucking asshole fine who cares like everyone would just be kind of gliding around a little more easily yeah because it's super not personal at all you know it isn't personal and that's why I think it's important to like tell your person like your trauma because the truth is you're not gonna

get rid of it like I'm not ever gonna just be over the shit that happened to me when I was younger but if I could tell you like hey the reason I react like this over socks isn't like just because I'm crazy over socks it's like some other shit up shit happened to me. So when you do that, it makes me feel like that. It really puts me right back in that mental space. And then I become reactionary from that place. And that's why it's coming off irrational. But she also is crazy over socks. Let's be clear.

But that does sound like a deeper issue. You're wild and reckless over socks. You mismatch them. You'll put any socks together. Yeah, you saw me put the socks together. You'll wear any socks. You don't care if the socks match. You don't care anything about that.

You don't care. They'll put a medium length sock with a low sock. So the socks don't match. It's nuts. I'm not tripping. That's no way to handle socks. We don't have time for this bullshit. We're not going to fucking sit here and talk about socks. We're

going to wrap it up. And thank you, Yaya and Sam. Yaya, I still think you need your own podcast. Are you ready to do something like that? I am. I think I am ready. And what would you do it about? Let's brainstorm. I don't know. Let's think about it. I think maybe you should be giving advice to people too. You think so? Maybe. Okay. I'm

down. I mean, I feel like we need to think about it and brainstorm. Well, you know what? I was doing counseling when I had a salon, so it's kind of like the same thing. Well, that is fucking counseling. That's also why I don't go to a salon, because I don't want to fucking have to talk to somebody in a hair salon. Okay, we'll be introducing a new set of triplets next week. You can check out Sam Jay, who is on tour now in cities all over the country,

and she's fucking funny. If you haven't seen her on The Roast or on her own special, then go watch both of those. Her special's on HBO Max, now known as Max. And then you can follow

Yaya at vanity.vixen on Instagram and TikTok, and it is worth the follow because she's up to some, well, shenanigans. I mean, you'll understand what I'm talking about. Joel, the holidays are a blast, but the financial hangover, that can be a huge bummer. If you are out there and you're dreading the new statement email that reveals the massive balance that you may have racked up, well,

you could use our help. That's right. I'm Joel. And I am Matt. And we're from the How To Money podcast. Our show is all about helping you make sense of your personal finances so you can ditch your pesky credit card debt once and for all, make real progress on other crucial financial goals that you've got, and just feel more in control of your money in general. You know it. For money advice without the judgment and jargon, listen to How to Money on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts.

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Transformational. The best antidote to a bad mood I've ever heard. Join the pack and start feeding your best self. Listen to The One You Feed on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. I'm Jason Alexander. And I'm Peter Tilden. And together, our mission on the Really Know Really podcast

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