Digital Social Hour - Becoming a Millionaire at 19 off Stocks, Most Money Made Off One Trade & Balancing Emotions Day Trading | Mark Thomas DSH #249
Episode Date: January 27, 2024On today's episode of Digital Social Hour, Mark Thomas reveals how he became a millionaire at 19, how he balances his emotions while day trading and the most money he has made in one day. APPLY TO ...BE ON THE PODCAST: https://forms.gle/qXvENTeurx7Xn8Ci9 BUSINESS INQUIRIES/SPONSORS: Jenna@DigitalSocialHour.com SPONSORS: Opus Pro: https://www.opus.pro/?via=DSH Deposyt Payment Processing: https://www.deposyt.com/seankelly LISTEN ON: Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/digital-social-hour/id1676846015 Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/5Jn7LXarRlI8Hc0GtTn759 Sean Kelly Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/seanmikekelly/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
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I'm sure you see that even even yourself. Oh daddy's money, you know, I bought a McLaren. Oh daddy bought you that
Yeah, I used to get triggered because I get those two but it's like there's no point fighting trolls on the internet
No, and the thing is is and I have that same thing in they wish they could be you
And for whatever reason they can't find that success that you have
So the only thing that makes them feel better is to hate on you. Right. Welcome back to the Digital Social Hour.
I'm your host, Sean Kelly. I have with me today, professional stock trader, Mark Thomas. How's it
going? Good, good. Glad to be here. This is actually first in-person podcast, first podcast I'm on
because I host my own podcast. So this is totally reverse roles. So I'm looking forward to this.
It's always easier when a podcaster comes on actually.
I've said that too. It's just like, I guess you, the more podcasts you do,
you just build up a knack to it and get better at it.
Yeah. I look back at my old ones and I was like, Ooh, that's tough to watch.
Oh man. So how did you get into stock trading? How old were you?
Yeah. So I started, I was like 14, 15. So late 2016, early 2017, it was my cousin who introduced
me to Bitcoin. Started trading crypto, did pretty well with that. And then fast forward to 2018,
transition into the stock market. And as most people realize, the amount of capital you have,
even if you have 10, 15,000 bucks trading just shares of a stock, you're not going to really
see worthwhile or substantial gains. So I'm like, options are risky. Inherently, if you know about
options, you're essentially leveraging your money 100 Inherently, if you know about options,
you're essentially leveraging your money a hundred to one, one option contract gives you the right
to buy a hundred shares of a stock. So, you know, I blew up a couple of accounts, $10,000 account
out the window trading options. And then I found an edge. And I think every trader needs to realize
that you, you have to find an edge to find consistent profitability in the market. And it took me about a year to find this edge. And so, you know, now we're in 2023,
the last years have flown by and I've been consistently profitable since then.
So when you say edge, what exactly is that?
Yeah. So I created a software. Now this is an order flow software. So what I do,
I license, I take all of the order flow data
from different data providers throughout the market.
So this is all retail order flow data.
I take that data, we buy that data, license it,
and then I have this software that I created
with the help of a couple other guys,
so I can't take all the credit.
And so that software is paired
with the technical analysis I do.
So as a trader, like my style or strategy,
to kind of put it into the simplest terms,
if you guys don't know much about trading,
I'm a trend trader.
I trade based off of a series of moving averages.
I look at setups within those moving averages,
trying to identify different patterns on different tickers,
and then I'll pair that with this order flow software
that I created.
Wow.
Yeah.
So what's the most you've made in a single trade?
So it's nothing crazy.
And I feel like everyone is like,
you know, I even had a friend ask me,
like when I bought my Audi R8,
he's like, what stock did you trade to buy this?
And I'm like, it's just consistency.
My biggest trade was 30K.
Okay.
And so it's like, if you are consistent,
you know, you can make 100K a month. You just need two or three good trades a week so i'm a swing trader right i started out day trading
and it's funny enough the company's name is the daily traders uh start out day trading transition
into swing main reason being um the time that it takes to swing trade i spend about an hour and a
half to two hours uh trading every day that's it? And that's it. And that's what most people think. It's like
you don't need to sit on your screen all day and just burn your eyes out and
stress. I figured, you know, starting this company and having a lot of, you know,
other things I wanted to do and focus on outside of just trading, if I could find
a way to trade to kind of minimize the time I had to spend on my screen, which was swing trading, and then really finding that, I guess, style within swing using the software I have.
Nice.
So what is your win rate in swing trading?
So when it comes to win rate, and I want to talk about this because it's interesting.
And the last, so when I say what my win rate is, I'm looking at a year to a year and a half worth of trade data.
And so it changes as market conditions shift.
My win rate and any trader's win rate is going to change.
So last year, I closed the year with a 75% win rate.
Damn.
Which is pretty good.
And I think most people assume that, you know,
you need 80, 90% win rate to make money.
You can be consistently profitable with less than a 50% win rate.
Really?
It all comes down to risk management, risk to reward.
Sure, if you have a 50% win rate, you're kind of limited to taking one-to-ones.
So the more, the higher the win rate you have,
you can kind of push that risk to reward per trade you're taking.
Right.
And so working with that year and a half worth of trade data gives me the most
accurate win rate as market conditions change and shift. Right. Yeah. Cause you're taking the
balance of everything. Yeah. So I'm taking, and as I add on trades this year, I'm kind of removing
trades off the back over the last year and a half. It gives me the most accurate kind of
numbers that I can go off of when it comes to managing risk.
Have you ever taken a huge L
where you just couldn't sleep at night?
Like it was just a massive L.
Yeah, I mean, I lost a car on one trade.
It was two days.
I lost 64,000.
Jeez.
Biggest loss.
Would have been a nice Tesla.
Oh, what was the stock on?
I was trying to remember
because I got asked the same question the other day in a little interview I was doing, I was in Miami. Um, it was two years
ago. I don't remember the ticker. Uh, and it was one of those trades where, you know, I look back
on it and I learned so much from it and realizing that, you know, a loss is, is just a, it's,
you don't call it a loss call, like a uh you know a learn and i was working
with someone the other day one of my students and i was i was telling him when he was logging
his trades it's like don't put win loss put win learn win learn because there's so much you can
learn from a loss especially a big loss like that right and so as a trader i grew just from that
loss even though it sucks yeah that's a good way of looking at it yeah you have to stay positive
and yeah and obviously
the emotional aspect of that obviously that did shake me up a bit but over time you just become
numb to losing you get used to losing money because you realize losing money is part of
trading right that's part of this job like you lose money yeah it just comes down to risk
management you know you want to win more than you lose it's a numbers game at the end of the day it is um and it's funny because
i wasn't like a numbers guy i was never good at math in school um realizing that you don't have
to be like school smart to make money trading right and over complicating things is what a
lot of people do and i simplify everything i keep it
very straightforward and so the math behind it yes you need to know certain figures and numbers
because it is a numbers game um it's a numbers game there's like three parts of trading okay
risk management trading psychology and then the training itself so that edge or the charting
technical analysis fundamental analysis whatever it is you do to find those trades.
So it's really, there's three parts
that trading boils down into that you need to master.
Right.
And what were your parents' reactions when you said,
mom, dad, I'm gonna become a stock trader.
I'm not going to college for this.
I'm just gonna do it.
Yeah, so, I mean, I started finding success.
Obviously, friends, family saw that.
I bought my mom a car last year
like a new volvo for her birthday which was like really really rewarding really crazy to be able
to do i didn't even make a youtube video about that because it's just like it's not stuff i do
for content to get views just because you know i can you know giving back because my parents have
always supported me and when i told them initially like you know, I don't want to go to college. I actually ended up, um, not technically dropping out of high school. Uh, I never went to senior
year. Uh, I ended junior year and then I got my, my diploma cause my mom kind of pushed me to do
that online. Okay. Yeah. I moved to LA when I was 18. I moved out all on my own and, uh, I'm almost
21 now. So it's been, it's been a wild ride, but support all around from friends and family.
Oh, that's good.
I feel like that's pretty rare, actually.
It is, you know, especially if your parents go to college.
They think you need that to succeed.
I don't come from a really wealthy family.
Just got it.
You know, middle class family.
And so I never had any fallback, anyone I could fall back on, even now.
Like, you know, you put yourself in a position where you can't fail. I always that like i've never had a plan b my plan b is my plan a it has to work
and so you know knowing like i don't have daddy's money or something and and i get that all the time
on tiktok i'm sure you see that even even yourself oh daddy's money you know i i bought a mclaren oh
daddy bought you that yeah i used to get triggered because I get those two,
but it's like, there's no point fighting trolls on the internet. No. And the thing is,
and I had that same thing in, in, in middle school and people, you know, whenever you're
doing something different outside the norm, people love to hate on that. And it's because
they're jealous of you and not just because they're jealous. It's, it's, well, they wish
they could be you. And for whatever reason, they can't find that success that you have.
So the only thing that makes them feel better is to hate on you.
Right.
Yeah.
I can't even imagine a kid trading stocks.
My middle school would have gotten bullied into oblivion.
And it's kind of a shame like that.
That's the way society is.
It is.
It is.
It's when you're outside of the norm at any age, especially younger.
You know, and I school is an interesting topic because you know I was very set on
getting good grades becoming a good student my first you know two years of
high school freshman sophomore year and then I really decided like you know
that's not the direction I want to go and that's not my path I want to I want
to trade stocks full-time right and so you find a way whatever you are
passionate about and that's the thing I'm
passionate about trading. And if you're not passionate about something, I don't think you're
going to find success in it. You have to love it. You have to eat, sleep and breathe it. And that's
all it was for me. And people look at where I am now and they don't see the years it took and the
failures to get to where I am. Yeah. You started at 13. It's been what? Eight years? Yeah. 14,
15. So seven, seven and a half years halfway through 2023 now it's um
it's like i i tell anyone if if you're looking to find success in anything you do
find someone that you look up to don't mimic or copy them um but use that as inspiration and
motivation so i had you know motive motivational people the, in the trading space that I was looking toward, uh, who I wanted to become and become more like,
right. Um, so who are like the goats of the stock trading space? Yeah. So Chris Katie, uh, he,
Chris is late sixties, not to age him a really nice guy. Chris Katie, he traded on wall street
for 43 years on the floor of the exchange.
I actually was in New York this fall. I met Chris in person and he was someone I looked up to as just, you know, this trader who had been in the game forever.
And, you know, he really made this his life's purpose to, you know, continue finding success, you know, every every decade in the market. Steve Hawkins, creator of Market Profile,
another very genius figure
who I got to talk with, network with.
And not that I trade like either of them,
but it's just surrounding yourself
with other people who are doing better than you.
And that's with anything in life.
Find people who you look up to
who are doing better than you.
Meet them, network, surround yourself with them, their mentalities, their mindsets,
and take what you can and implement that into your own trading or whatever mindset.
Yeah.
So I don't know the exact percentage statistically behind this,
but why do you think a lot of people lose money on stocks?
So trading is one of the most difficult jobs like in the world
It's also one of the best jobs in the world
And I think a lot of people lose money and that is because they either have the wrong guidance
As you know, there's a lot of fluff a lot of BS
Don't know if you can swear on you. Okay, um
There's a lot on YouTube. There's a lot of gurus. I've even been called a guru and
Finding that person out there in all
the noise who can show the results prove they're profitable you want to find a mentor who's actually
successful in what he's doing and you need a way to like for them to prove that and for you to see
that so a lot of people just go down the rabbit hole of youtube follow the wrong people buy the
wrong courses what have you uh And then the learning curve to
trading for some people, it could take five years. I think the average is probably between two to
three years to really become consistently profitable. And most people just give up.
That's it. Most people give up or they blow up their account. They don't have any more capital.
You can only blow up your account so many times and refund your account so many times before
you're like, I don't have any more money. I'm going to go try something else. Drop shipping, what have you. Yeah. So what about paper
trading accounts? Do you recommend people start there? I do. And it's funny, like I, you know,
I used to not be a huge fan of paper trading. And the one reason is because there's no emotional
aspect involved in trading psychology being one of those three parts of trading. You need to
learn how to manage emotion. And so you don't have that when you're paper trading,
but you can learn the basic skills
and kind of go through those,
like something as simple as instead of buying a call,
you sell a call or you close the position by accident
or you just learn those basic things paper trading.
It's going to save you money, right?
Like you're going to lose money either way,
but you're going to save yourself some money if you hop into a simulated market and trade with you know paper money
absolutely so with all the fluff out there how can someone navigate these landmines and become
a better trader is is is it worth buying a course and following these signal groups
yeah so that's a good question and the one thing with signal groups uh and you know kind of my opinion on this i was just
making a youtube video about this the other day it's like if you pay for i think benzina has like
a signals group yeah um there's you know individual people who have gathered a bunch of traders
together to post their trades so say there's like five or ten traders in a signals group
the problem is that even if you enter every single trader's trades, so they post
their entries, they post their exits across 10 different traders, trading different strategies,
you enter all of their trades throughout an entire trading year. The chances that at the end of the
year, those 10 traders together will actually be consistently profitable. All of their trades
combined, it could be 100, 200 trades, extremely unlikely, more than likely you will not even be
able to get in on every single, you know, alert that is, you know, posted in that group. You, you know, you get, you,
you get in on one alert, you miss two, you end up the, you know, you see the ratios,
everything comes down to a science, especially when it comes to risk, risk management,
which I keep saying a lot because risk management is vital in becoming consistently profitable.
And so there's just this huge lack in
misunderstanding in how to actually trade. And it becomes this, this follow the herd kind of sheep,
just cattle, uh, you know, cattle ranching, everyone's just following this one guy or
multiple people. And you miss out on, well, learning the actual lifelong skill of trading.
Right. Cause you're not actually learning anything. You're not learning anything. You're
just blindly following someone. And obviously like what I do is I post my personal trades. I didn't do that to start an alerts group.
And when I like starting this company, the daily traders was totally on accident. I posted a couple
of videos on Tik TOK cause I'm, I'm trading. It's something I enjoy. I thought some other people
might find this interesting. I ended up blowing up on Tik TOK and you know, friends, family were
asking me to teach them how to trade, taught my
dad, my siblings how to trade. And I just ran out of time. And I'm like, this is not, you know,
I need to focus on my own trading. I need to focus on other, other ventures outside of just trading
because I'm very entrepreneurial, always have been. And so my mom actually was like, why don't
you just create a course? And the word course, you kind of think, oh, guru, like, oh,
you create a course. Oh, you'll be a trading guru. So I'm like, what if I can prove to everyone that
their mentor that they invest into is actually consistently profitable. So I'm like, I'll just
show my trades. I'll post my trades. I'll show my entries and my exits and people can follow along
if they so desire. I don't have any series licenses. I'm not a financial advisor. I can
just share with people what I'm doing. But then i also think it's important to learn that lifelong skill of trading
like it is a skill that you could have for the rest of your life you'll never have to work a
nine to five if you learn how to trade so i did put together a course just to teach people that
exact system that i use to find and execute upon these trades that's cool is trade is trading a
recession proof skill you think yeah it depends on how you
trade and so last year i don't know the exact number so i don't want to spin anything out
i trade both calls and puts long and short so the market's going up i can make money markets going
down i can make money um that's the thing if you know different strategies or within my system i
have different setups where i can go long or short on a chart. So even if we're in a bear market in a recession,
I can still capitalize on that and still make money.
And more volatile markets obviously create more uncertainty.
If you get caught on the wrong side of a move,
you can totally get screwed.
But that volatility can also, more risk, more reward.
You can make more money on that volatility
if you're caught on the right side of that.
But being able to play either direction
and switch that bias quickly and have like systems in place
where you can switch that bias and go from long to short on a chart based off of what the technicals
are telling you or what my software tells me that's just going to open up the you know a world
of possibility where the market could be totally for five years and i could still make money wow
so you've switched your positions like mid-trade not so the way i trade is i could
trade one ticker one week and be long in the next week i'm short oh wow um my actual so right now my
trading volume and volume is i mean the trades i'm putting on the amount of trades i'm putting on
i'm only putting on a trade or two a week uh i'm not sitting there like i said all day and trading
because i don't day trade i swing trade and you only need a couple good trades a week you can
still make a 100k a month just with a couple good trades a week. You can still make 100K a month
just with a couple good trades.
And I trade with 500K right now.
And when it comes to paying yourself as a trader,
it's something you have to figure out
how you want to go about doing that.
Some people like scaling their accounts.
So you start the year with 10,000, 100,000
and you increase your position size.
You scale that account, managing risk.
Some people like starting the year
with that initial value, say, whatever,
500,000 in my case,
and then say I'm up 530,000 off of that initial value
at the end of the month or at the end of the week,
then I'll pay myself.
So I keep my account balance around 500,000.
I can show you my account, actually, if you want to see.
That's cool.
And then how are the taxes determined from that?
So it depends if you're trading under an entity or not.
Obviously I have a really good accountant, very fortunate.
I found him three or four years ago.
And so capital gains taxes are brutal.
There are only so many things you can deduct
if you're trading under an entity.
You say your monitor set up, like I have,
well, my old office in Portland, I'm your monitor setup like i have well my old office in
portland i'm in malibu now but my old office i had this crazy setup like seven eight screens
desk chairs like ten thousand dollars setup and i could deduct that because i'm trading under an
entity so smart uh you know you just have to figure out how you find the right cpa that can
really give you the right direction on how to you know make sense yeah i'd love to see your account
like the year gains or whatever yeah so this is let's see i'm in a position right now i called out
inside my mentorship group last week uh on apple yeah so i'm short on apple and you keep them open
for a week you said so my average hold period or my swing period uh is wow it's between three to
five days so you know i might get stuck holding apple for that's sick
i might oh go on i might get stuck holding apple for a week or two but when it comes to options
you have to choose the expiration date of a contract and so like i'm buying contracts that
expire six seven eight months out i'm giving myself that flexibility or that room to you know
hold a trade a week or two if i have to, but preferably like the optimal trade is going to be within three to five days that I'm closing my position.
And I'll have max two trades on at once. You know, most of the time I'll have one trade on.
Wow. So you stay very focused on one or two a week.
One or two a week. And you know, I've seen people that I've worked with that have 20
trades on at once. And it's like, I don't know how anyone can manage that many trades.
Yeah. That sounds like he'd be up all day, all night, like watching them.
Yeah. And it's like, you have 10 trades on, you know, maybe you're up on five down on five,
you know, they're kind of just going to offset each other and end up being just flat. So just
focusing on one or two really solid trades that a plus setup, uh, that's what's worked for me.
Yeah. So trading a a little a little less size
right now because the market has been very difficult this last six months this year so far
i've been trading less volume like putting on less positions just being a little more conservative
until market conditions become a little easier to trade we've seen a lot of chop a lot of volatility
just being more conservative last year i think people think that you have to each year have a
bigger year trading. And that's not the case. I was talking with this, this trader, he was actually
on our podcast and he made 6.8 million in 2021, 2022, he made 1.1 million. And he's like, yeah,
you don't have to have a bigger year each year, right? The market's going to present different
opportunities. It's whatever the market presents you is whatever you're going to make. And focusing
on that end goal, that year, like don't look at the week
outlook, the month outlook, look at the end of the year outlook. Uh, and that's why it's like,
if you have a bad trade in the long run, you look at the end of the year and you look at your equity
curve and you see that you'll be up at the end of the year. If you continue following the same
system that you have in place with that same win rate with that same risk reward, you got to stay
disciplined, locked in. It's super like trading trading you have to be so disciplined one of the things
you have to be really disciplined in is journaling keeping track of as much data as you possibly can
and it could be something as simple as you know you log your your last 50 trades what have you
and you see you know i've won 80 of the calls I've taken and I've lost 45% of the
puts I've taken.
So now I'm just going to go along.
I'm just going to trade calls.
I'm not going to trade puts.
Now you just become that much more profitable.
So actually spending the time to journal and log your trades, your entries, your exits,
as much trade data as you can, it's going to help you maximize and kind of squeeze the
most out of your trading system.
Wow.
That's smart.
So simple.
And people don't do that. You know what I mean? Yeah. I mean, everyone's busy. We all have
our lives, you know, work, what have you. It's hard to set aside that time to do so, but if you
want to become consistently profitable, that's something you have to do. Yeah. So talking about
risk analysis, cause your first few years trading, you probably have a lot of anxiety, a lot of
emotions. Yeah. Yeah. So I'm from an emotional standpoint like i said you you get
better at dealing with losses you realize that you know that's part of the game like i said
and i think one of the things that's helped me is a tool it's tilt or the tilt meter tilt
originated from a gambling term and it's when you get very emotional uh in your decision making
process so i have a way to kind of track or log my emotions so i can become more emotionally aware of myself as a trader so
if i see you know my tilt starts going into the red it starts going negative hey maybe i should
sit out of the market take a couple days off take a week off or say there's something like
you know like i'm moving uh because i moved from ma Maine to Malibu, um, two months ago now,
two and a half months ago. And I knew I was going to be super busy. There's going to be a lot of,
you know, stuff going on outside of my trading world, a lot of distractions that would, you know,
more than likely have an effect on my decision-making process. Right. My tilt would
probably go negative. So I just sat out the week. I didn't trade the week. And you have to realize
like you don't have to trade every week. That's really hard for people to do, especially when you're starting out and
you don't have a big bank roll. Um, obviously the more capital you have, the more money you have in
the bank, it gives you, you know, more of an ease like, Oh, I don't have to make money, but that's
the problem. Most people think, you know, because you don't get a paycheck trading, you're not
getting that paycheck. Like you would in a normal job. Like I got to get a trade on so I can make
money when that's like the opposite mentality that you should have wow that's so cool yeah i get tilted during chess and i
notice i play way worse when i'm tilted yeah like way worse yeah exactly and so it's just anything
like that like keeping track of your tilt just becoming more emotionally aware and more emotionally
mature i think and that comes with time, you get more mature as a trader.
So, you know, doing this year over year.
And then when you build up that track record
of consistent profitability,
you can look back at your last year,
you know, last six months,
and you see, hey, you know,
I'm going through a little red spell right now.
I'm not doing that well,
but I have a system that, you know, I'm sticking to,
and I know that I'm gonna be green at the end of this year.
Right.
So when the market crashed a year or two ago, you were able to basically adapt.
Yeah.
Yeah.
I mean, I have and always have had setups that I can play either direction of the market, whatever bias that may be.
And so, you know, I did pretty well.
I was more conservative because, you know,
you get short and then you end up getting squeezed. I, it all comes down to like, if you set your
levels, you have your stop loss, your take profit, you hit that target, whether you're making money
or losing money, you're out. And that's a problem. Most people end up holding their trades beyond
where they should have. And it's human psychology.
I think we're kind of, you know,
the way we think about things,
and most people who get into trading think
as soon as they're green, you get this like urgency.
When you see that money, you're up.
Oh, I should lock in profit.
I should take this capital that I've just made.
And then when you're red, everyone thinks,
oh, it's going to come back.
Don't worry, I'm going to make money on this trade.
So people end up letting their losers bleed bleed out more than likely blowing up their account
uh when again that's like the reverse like psychological way you should um approach things
right so yeah dip i was able to do well because i could play uh either direction play you know
that pullback and then that retracement back up to nice that crazy discipline that was a very emotional time for a lot of people so it'd be hard to stay disciplined during that yeah i mean
super hard and i mean i you said you traded a bit um crypto yeah and that's how i got started and
so like long term i'm very like my my bias and outlook on bitcoin has shifted over the last
couple of years i used to be I'm still a Bitcoin fan.
I like Bitcoin, right?
And I got stocks now.
Oh, I lost my train of thought.
Bitcoin.
Oh, Bitcoin.
Yeah, yeah, yeah.
Anyway, my long-term outlook on Bitcoin, you know, I still believe in Bitcoin.
I think we'll get back up there to 100K plus.
I ended up selling kind of as we came off that high at 67.
Nice.
I didn't sell the top. I can't say I sold the top. 67 is still pretty good. I didn't sell it. I didn't sell the top.
I can't sell it.
67 is still pretty good.
I didn't sell 67.
I sold like 45.
Oh, okay.
Yeah, like a lot of Bitcoin that I was holding.
Okay.
You bought it at what price?
Because when I was trading Bitcoin, it was just around a couple thousand bucks.
Oh, so you made out huge.
And so I did pretty well.
I mean, I kind of sold on the way up and then really got rid of mostly everything around 45, 46. I mean, at that point, you're not going to 10x. You know what I mean, I just kind of sold on the way up and then really got rid of mostly everything
around 45, 46.
I mean, at that point, you're not going to 10X, you know what I mean?
So I like your strategy, to be honest.
Yeah.
Long-term investments like, I don't know, Roth IRAs, anything like that, even though
I was told by people like, max your Roth, put whatever, 6,000 in a year.
I've always been in
the mentality like i don't want to be rich or wealthy when i'm 50 60 right i want that now
but there's also a problem with many traders where it's like you know everyone thinks training is a
get rich quick scheme yeah you enter market people enter markets uh with this you know idea that you're going to become
a millionaire uh within that year uh or in the next two years you know my and most people should
realize like the success i've had is not typical that's not usual um and people see like anyone in
this space this trading space or any anything that you can do making money online, all these influencers, everyone looks at them and is like, wow, they're doing really well.
And then that becomes the norm in people's heads.
And so one guy makes $4,000 a month and then looks at someone like me who makes $100,000
a month and is like, I'm the same age.
I should be doing just as well.
And then they end up getting down on themselves and thinking they're not as good as the other
person.
And that's not the case.
Everyone has their own journey.
Trading, there's no right or wrong.
There's a million ways to trade.
Everyone's opinion, there's always going to be a reverse opinion on someone else's opinion.
For sure.
And that's what I've realized is really cool.
And speaking with traders, I was at this big summit in Miami and speaking with some really big traders who are way bigger than myself.
Like one of these guys, he made like $860,000 in a day.
Jeez.
And there are similarities and correlations when it comes to the mindset behind what it
takes to become a profitable trader.
But how he trades, I don't get how you make money doing that.
It doesn't make
sense to me but clearly he's doing well right and so it's just whenever i hear someone tell me how
they trade like i and most people are skeptical if someone's like oh i made 160k in a day yeah
trading um maybe it's because they haven't had that big of a day i haven't had 160k day
but people find ways to make money that you would think were not even possible in the market.
100%.
There's always different opinions,
different strategies, for sure.
Yeah, million strategies.
And that's what makes trading so cool.
Absolutely.
There's no rules, absolutely no rules.
And I always hated following rules, like in school.
Yeah, I didn't do well in school either.
Any group activities, I'm like, no, I'm not doing that.
I just don't, I didn't like feeling like I was like everyone else not that i feel like i'm i'm not
special i'm not different um i just am determined i'm motivated i'm driven i sacrificed a lot to get
to where i am and you need that level of discipline and sacrifice and i was talking with my friend
who i who i met up with and you know, he's like, dude, you just disappeared for like three years.
Like, I don't think people realize, like I literally cut everyone in my life out.
Like all my friends, like I might've been in touch with like one or two people.
I was just focusing on, you know, trading and building this company and like nothing
else mattered to me.
That was it.
You know, sacrificing, you know sacrificing you know the basics like oh video
games netflix i was never really into video games but family friends yeah parties that didn't
interest me what interested me was well making money i actually i have a dollar sign tattoo
not many people know that it's here so i can't tell you but it's just i i think it's it's not
even the money that motivates me it's just waking up every morning and having a purpose and a passion.
The second you wake up, you know exactly what you're going to do that day.
And setting goals and engraving things into your mind where I would literally write down,
like, I am a millionaire.
I am a millionaire.
I am a millionaire.
I'd say it.
I'd write it down over and over and over in this journal. And you say things in the tense that you, you already are that said
that, right? You don't say I will be a millionaire. You say, I am a millionaire. And so a lot of those,
you know, visualization kind of, the more you can drive something in your, into your mind,
you believe it's, it's true. It's possible. And it'll happen.
A hundred percent manifestation. Yeah, exactly. can drive something in your into your mind you believe it's it's true it's possible and it'll happen 100 manifestation yeah exactly so you became a millionaire at 19 what was that like
because that's a lot of people's dream and you achieve that as a teenager what was that like
i think i hit a point where i was like wow i can buy almost every anything i want like not a yacht
or a jet right yeah but you know i could buy some some nice super cars. I could go into a store and buy, you know, whatever I want. And that I had to experience
that kind of, it's a, it's a maturity that comes with a maturity that comes with when you make a
lot of money, you kind of just go on this craze of spending and walking into stores and dropping
thousands of dollars on clothes. And I was, I was in the Hamptons and I went into the
store and there's this jacket. I'm like, Oh, I like that jacket. I, you know, I don't look at
price tags. I just picked up the jacket. They ran it. Oh, $3,000. I'm like, okay. But now I'm
becoming more emotionally mature when it comes to money where it's like, I think money, the value
of money, I totally lost. I didn't have any sense of how much a thousand
dollars was worth. That's when I became a millionaire realizing that, well, I have so
much money and the value of money means nothing. I can make money so easily and so fast. It doesn't
mean anything to me. And I feel like if I had, if I hadn't shifted kind of my mindset and realized
like, Oh, you know, there is a value to money. Um, I could have gone down that rabbit hole of, you know, wearing all this gold.
Like, I have a nice watch, but wearing all these golden chains and shit,
that really don't matter.
Like, this is a $20,000 watch.
I always wanted a Rolex.
I bought a Rolex when I hit a certain goal,
a certain amount of money that I made in a month.
And so setting goals, however you can do it,
I had like a kind of like a little
Pictionary or whatever, where I had like car watch this, this at each point I hit a goal.
I'd get that thing to reward myself, to show myself and, you know, really see and realize
how far I'd come because you look at a million dollars in your bank account, 500,000, your
trading account. Um, it depends on what you do with that money some people misuse it
some people go out and party go to clubs can blow 20 000 in the night at a club and i think that's
just that's stupid and i don't ever want to become that person nice yeah but if i didn't really if i
didn't realize that like earlier on maybe i would be there now maybe i'd be yeah and a lot of people
go through that when they come into some money they start spending crazy yeah yeah exactly mark what's next for you
man well you know i think this software um that i've been trading on privately for years now i'm
just almost about to launch it which is you know it's something that i've had this conversation
with my advisors where we could take this software turn it into a hedge fund because of the profitability factor. So I'm launching it privately to some people
inside my group, just like kind of beginner user access. I don't know where that's going to take
me. I think I could either turn this software into a hedge fund or, you know, a nine figure
software company. Um, so I'm very excited for that. Yeah. I can't wait to see where you go
with that, man. Yeah. Any, uh, closing uh closing comments you know anything yeah i was gonna say some really cliche
like inspirational thing but um i mean like if i could do anyone can do it right it's true it's
like there's nothing holding anyone back it doesn't matter where you come from uh you can
come from no money you can learn how to you came. You came from Maine, right? Yeah. That's wild. Like middle of nowhere. That's nuts. Man, Mark, it's been a pleasure. Thanks for
coming on, man. Thanks for watching guys. Digital Social Hour. I'll see you next time. Thank you.
Thanks for having me.