Digital Social Hour - From Engineer to Influencer: Her Viral Journey | Ara Bozorgian DSH #1308

Episode Date: April 8, 2025

From chemical engineer to viral influencer, Ara Queen Bae shares her incredible journey on the Digital Social Hour with Sean Kelly! 🚀 Discover how she took the leap from a traditional career to building a massive following on platforms like TikTok, Instagram, and OnlyFans. 👩‍🔬➡️📱 She spills the tea on her first viral moment, life in Miami, navigating the world of content creation, and the surprising requests she gets from fans. 😱💬 In this episode, you'll hear about the highs and lows of influencer life, her thoughts on relationships, dating in Miami, and even stories from Diddy parties and celebrity encounters. 🌟✨ Packed with valuable insights, humor, and raw authenticity, this conversation is a must-watch! Don't miss out on the secrets behind her viral success. 💡 Tune in now and join the conversation! Hit that subscribe button and stay tuned for more eye-opening stories on the Digital Social Hour with Sean Kelly! 📺🔥 Watch now and subscribe for more insider secrets! 🚀 CHAPTERS: 00:00 - Intro 01:20 - Daily Routine Insights 01:55 - Creating Your First Viral Video 05:00 - Prolon Diet Overview 05:58 - Qualities You Look For In A Guy 06:40 - Dating a Crypto Enthusiast 08:11 - Managing Your Career: Do You Have a Manager? 09:18 - How You Got Started on OnlyF*ns 10:28 - Unusual Customs People Pay For 12:02 - In-Person Meetups: Would You Consider It? 16:40 - Collaborations in Your Industry 17:30 - Living Celibate for a Year and a Half 22:18 - Traveling to Dubai for Intimacy 24:10 - Lily Ermak’s Experience in the Industry 24:20 - Lana Rhoades' Dating History 26:58 - Golden Showers for Money: Would You? 28:30 - Instagram as the Best Dating App 32:08 - Tory Lanez Shooting Incident 37:08 - Kanye West & Drake: A Discussion 40:12 - Who Should Pay on the First Date? 42:24 - Your Last Date Experience 45:16 - Where to Find Ara Online APPLY TO BE ON THE PODCAST: https://www.digitalsocialhour.com/application BUSINESS INQUIRIES/SPONSORS: [e-mail] GUEST: Ara Bozorgian https://www.instagram.com/araqueenbae SPONSORS: PROLON: http://prolonlife.com/DSH LISTEN ON: Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/digital-social-hour/id1676846015 Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/5Jn7LXarRlI8Hc0GtTn759 Sean Kelly Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/seanmikekelly/ #socialmediamarketing #digitalmarketing #financialeducation #selfimprovement #financialfreedom

We know what's going on. Yeah, we know exactly what's going on, but I mean, she's coming back with a new Birkin every time. I mean, if you do that once every two months, that's half a mil a year. Yeah, that's crazy. It's not bad. Shit it on. I guess you could just immediately shower.

Would you would you shit on somebody? For what, 100k? Wait, they have to pay you to shit on them? I'm gonna go get the gym on my own. Okay guys, got Aura Queen Bay here today with Sushi, brought the dog out. Yeah, you know, he comes with me everywhere. He's my sidekick. Let's go. Got the service animal on it.

Yeah. Thanks for having us. Absolutely. What's, what's, uh, did you just land in Vegas or? Yeah, I came yesterday. You have a fun night last night? Um, no, I actually just stayed in. I went to bed at like 8 p.m. because I'm on Eastern.

So that was like 11 for me. You didn't want to hit the clubs or anything? I'm not really like a partier. Really? Yeah. Never been or just got over it? I used to be like a big partier, but I feel like I'm just kind of over it. It's like the same thing every night.

I like smoking weed and just chilling. That's like my- Once the OF money started rolling, I'm sure. You didn't need to go out as much. Yeah, you know, it's like, don't get me wrong, I'll go out every once in a while to celebrate something, or if there's something good going on, but I don't know, I've been to every Vegas club at this point.

What's a typical day like for you? I wake up, I walk sushi, hit the gym, take content, answer messages, emails, all that fun stuff. Um, traveling, sometimes I'm traveling sometimes at home. So it depends. Every day is kind of different. Are you posting daily? Yeah, I post on every social media.

So I'll have like a couple of hours a day where I'm just like sitting there, like posting, editing. Damn, you do all that yourself? For YouTube, I have editors, but for reels and TikToks and stuff, yeah, I just like to do it myself. What was the first viral video? What were you doing? My first viral video? Well, I started doing social media in 2011.

Oh, wow. So it was Instagram and it was mostly pictures at the time. But most viral video on TikTok got like 30 million followers and it's just like, or 30 million views. It's behind the scenes of one of those like white background dating shows. You know the blind dating ones where you just see the feet? Yeah, I've seen that. So there was like a viral clip of just the feet.

And then I had the behind the curtain, behind the scenes and I duetted it. And that video got like 30 minutes. Oh, that's cool. So were you on the video or you were just- Yeah, I was in the video. So I was behind the curtain, but nobody knew who was behind the curtain,

like in the original video. Then when I duetted it, they're like, oh. And did the guy end up picking you? I was third or second. Okay. That's an interesting show. Cause you don't know what they look like. It's like that show Love is Blind or whatever. Yeah. You have to go based on like the answers. I gotta watch that one. Who was the guy in that one?

It was either Trevor Wallace or Hunter Mark? Okay. Trevor's funny and then who's that one guy from dropouts? That's hilarious. Zach. Zach. Yeah, Zach. I think it might've been Zach, actually. Okay. Yeah. Zach's, he's got game, man. That guy can talk.

Yeah. I think I low key think Trevor's kind of funnier. Really? You got Trevor over Zach? Yeah. Wow. I mean, Trevor is a comedian. Yeah. That kind of makes sense. Yeah.

I think Trevor's just like, there's something about him that makes him like. Quirky and funny. Yeah. That kind of makes sense. Yeah. I feel like Trevor is just like, there's something about him that makes him like. Quirky and funny. Yeah. Have you been on that Pop the Balloon show? The red balloons? I just did something similar to that in Miami. Yeah.

A T-MU version of it. But. It'll probably drop after this, so spill the beans. What happened? It's already, it's already dropped. Oh, it's already out? Yeah. It was, it was okay.

You didn't find love? No, I'm still looking I feel like you're intimidating to most guys Really? Is it your lifestyle? Really? Yeah, I I would say so probably I need like a confident man Yeah, cuz think about it. You're pulling in a lot of money. You're making sexual content. You're posting thirst traps Yeah, a lot of guys are insecure about that shit. Yep. You know? It's true. And you're in Miami.

Miami's already a hard dating market, I heard. It's impossible to date in Miami. Everyone has like 20 relationships at the same time. Do you like monogamous or do you like multiple? I'm a monogamous type of girl, but I feel like most people aren't. So that's probably why I'm single. Cause I'm just not gonna put up with bullshit.

You might have to get out of there. I that's probably why I'm single. Cause I'm just not gonna put up with bullshit. You might have to get out of there. I would for the right person. Okay. Like if my future husband lived in like Texas, I would move there. What's the right person look like for you? Confident man.

Someone with ambition and drive, family oriented. Just like funny. Like I like to have a good laugh. So like someone that also likes to travel. Over six feet. Yeah, cause I'm 5'1", so I need my kids to have a chance at being tall. Long work weeks and busy weekends can leave you feeling and looking depleted.

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So like, I need them to have a little bit of room to work with. That makes sense. What about salary wise? What do they have to make? It would be nice if they made more money than me. That's tough. Yeah.

They'd have to make basically millions a year. Yeah, basically. That limits your pool a lot. I mean, that's fine. I don't need to date all of the people. I just need to date the right person. Quality over quantity. Right, so I feel like they're out there.

There's some like rich e-commerce dudes and like- Crypto nerds. Crypto guys, yeah. You ever been with a crypto guy? Yeah. What was that like? He was a scammer, stole money from me. He stole from you?

Yeah. How did he do that? I call him the crypto swindler. So at the time I had purchased a bunch of crypto that had like matured, I guess, and I wanted to like sell it and then get into new positions. So I had asked him to help me and he took the wallet and sent it to himself instead of like trading things for me yeah so he just sent him a bunch of money no way from my wallet and you were dating at the time when he did that yeah why it's we were like seeing each other we were like officially was it a

good amount it was like 30,000 yeah took the bag and dipped yeah scared him away and then later on I You scared him away. And then later on I Googled him and he's like known. I might know him then. To be a crypto swindler. Say the name. Colt, Coltlin? No, I don't know that one.

There's a few that are pretty well known but I haven't heard of that one. I don't know what happened to him, but hopefully he's in jail. Well, there's a lot of scammers in Miami. And Vegas, right? Vegas is known for that, yeah. I haven't ran into any yet,

but I hear from the girls out here that there's pimps and scammers and stuff. I've heard a lot of crazy stories from the girls here. But Miami definitely is like one of the capitals of the scammers. You ever get try to get pimped out out there? No. That's good, at least. Yeah, I don't do like escorting stuff so.

Yeah, I heard they just get all in your business and start taking everything and so you don't have like a manager like your OF stuff? No, I just do everything myself. Wow, good for you. That's not easy to like pull off. There's a lot going on in that business. There's a lot going on, yeah. Here and there I'll have somebody that helps me

with like manage, like upload my content or something. Yeah, cause I'm sure you get pitched. You get pitched for management all the time. Yeah, a lot of them are scammers also. A lot of people just try to like recruit the girls that are already making money, just so they just get a piece of the pie instead of actually help scale and make it bigger.

I feel like agencies would actually be more successful if they helped the creators, like become bigger creators. But if you're just trying to take the money that I'm already making and take a percentage of it, then you're not doing anything. Yeah, some of them take 50%. That's insane. Crazy.

That's insane. I don't know who agrees to that. I mean, I get it. If you're just first starting out and like you don't really know what you're doing and you don't have much following, you don't have networks to like grow your following, it might be beneficial. But again, it's like a lot of times these guys just try to take your money versus help you.

Yeah. When you started doing it, did you have a set timeline or you kind of just go in day by day with it? So I started in 2018. It was before anybody really was on OnlyFans at the time. It was very like unfamiliar to people what OnlyFans even really was. It was before COVID and I was actually a chemical engineer at the time. Wow.

So I started growing a following on Instagram. I had like 20 to 30,000 followers and I was like, okay, how do I monetize these people? Cause brands weren't really trying to pay for the posts for 20,000 followers. Um, at the time I was like, okay, how can I like get people to just want to like be added somewhere? So that was like Snapchat. I'd be like, oh, like if you want me to add you back on snap at $20 or whatever, like I'll add you back. People paid for that. People paid for that. Just to add you back on Snap at $20 or whatever,

I'll add you back. People paid for that? People paid for that. Just to add you as a friend on SnapTruck? For me to add them back. Wow. Yeah. I did not know that was a market.

So I was just trying to figure out how to automatically get the payments. And first I did Patreon, and then I heard about OnlyFans and how you can make more money in the messages. And I was like, okay, wait, let me switch over. And then. The rest is history.

Yeah, it took over. And then did the content, was it straight new at first or did you work your way up? I kind of was all over the place. I had no guidance. I had no management. Like I said, I was just kind of trial and erroring. People were doing customs a lot at the time.

So if somebody wanted something, I would charge them a certain amount, way more than what I would have thought that somebody would pay and they were down to pay it. So I would create the content. But. What were some weird costumes you got? Under, like people wanted my underwear.

Like they wanted me to take pictures in the underwear and then like work out in it and then send it to them. Yeah. Socks. A lot of people want to buy your socks and like feet content. Wow. A lot of people want to see you farting. Geez.

Yeah. They pay you to fart? Yep. That's nuts. It's crazy. There's so many weird things. And another guy wanted me to fully clothe, just lick crackers off the floor.

What? That's crazy. Yeah. Damn. Yeah, I hear some wild ones. I also have a lot of guys that are into Findom. I don't even know what that is. You're familiar with that.

So that's basically like financial dominatrix, where the guy just wants you to keep telling them to send more like send me another hundred send me another hundred like keep like sending me money like they want you to just basically drain their bank account. Sure I'll do that send me some money. So that's my favorite. Yeah those sound easy to deal with.

I love those ones so. Wow has someone ever sent you like a stupid amount of money? Yeah, I've had somebody that sent me like 30,000. Damn. In one day? Not in one day, like in overtime. And did you end up meeting with him in person? No, you won't do that. What if someone offered 100,000?

Just like to go to dinner. Yeah. Yeah, for dinner. OK. And then back to the hotel room after? Absolutely. Yeah. Yeah. You're catching Nuber from the dinner table. Yeah, like these guys want you to be mean to them.

So it's like, unless like, if you want me to like kick you in the nuts for 100K, sure, I'll do that. Wow. So you're out here being a little dominatrix on the side. Yeah, I kind of like it. You like it? Yeah. Damn. I mean, when money I'll do that. Wow, so you're out here being a little dominatrix on the side. Yeah, I kinda like it. You like it? Yeah.

Damn. I mean, when money's there, yeah. Yeah, you can just be mean and they like it. Whereas usually when you're mean, people are like, what the fuck is wrong with this girl? I wonder what causes a guy to get to that point. A lot of guys that have a lot of money or like status, like CEOs and stuff are into that.

Really? Oh, maybe because they're the ones dominating during the day. Yeah, you see that show, Suits? Yes. Was it Suits or like some other show where, yeah, they would just get dominated? Yeah.

Damn. Yeah, the bald guy in suits. What's his name? Oh, what's his name? I forget his name, but everyone knows who I'm talking about. I know who you're talking about. Yeah, yeah, he would be a lawyer during the day and then at night wanna get fuckin' pegged or something.

Yeah, he loved it. Yeah, damn, that's crazy. So you don't do any in-person meetups though, unless it's a big bag. Yeah. That's probably smart. I never, like, I know a lot of people, like, start from doing meetups with people

and then they went to OnlyFans. I've never really, I was a chemical engineer, so was just trying to like monetize my following. Not really like try to meet up with people. You didn't like chemical engineering huh? Listen it was cool. I liked the schooling part of it. I had a job in oil and gas and that was not very exciting to me personally because I was in a cubicle all day. I like being outside and like just talking to people and like I'm very outgoing. So like, and creative. It didn't really allow me to be very creative behind a desk. Like, yeah.

Yeah. Seems like it's not the most fun job. I had to guess. You lived in, let's see, four countries. Yeah. I've lived in Iran, that's where I was born. Moved to Canada when I was 10. During COVID, I lived in Mexico and now I live in Miami. What do you like the most? Miami. Really?

Okay, so you are a little Miami girl then. Yeah. They call them 304s. No. Ha ha ha. Imagine you on Fresh and Fit. I just went on there actually recently. Oh you did? And were they roasting you the whole time?

Yeah, but honestly, like nothing phases me anymore. Yeah. That's good. I was like, okay, Myron, what else you got? Like, you didn't take it personally? I thought Myron was pretty soft actually. Are you serious? Yeah. I've seen him go at girls, like make them cry. He called me fat, but I was like, I like it.

Really? Yeah. I was like, honestly, I did gain 20 pounds, but it went to all the right places. My fans seem to love it. Really? Yeah, I was like, honestly, I did gain 20 pounds, but it went to all the right places. My fans seem to love it. My boobs got bigger and my ass got bigger, so. Was that a procedure or was that? It was naturally, just gaining weight. Damn. Yeah.

20 pounds, and how long? A year and a half. Okay. Damn, 20 pounds. Yeah, I guess on a girl that's a lot, right? Yeah, I always thought about getting a BBL, but then I was like, God, please, I'm scared of going under.

Can you just give me bigger boobs and a bigger ass? I hate going under. I won't even get my wisdom teeth out. It sounds scary, right? I've just heard like- But that's not even that scary, because BBL, I've seen the videos are like going in like with this, like knife, like taking all your fat out.

Like it just sounds traumatizing. Oh my gosh. And afterwards the recovery sounds horrible. Like, yeah, it takes a while. Right? Yeah. I've heard just so many horror stories. How many surgeries have you gone? None.

Really? Yeah. Oh wow. All natural. Yeah. Just had like filler and Botox on my face. OK. That's not a surgery? No, it's just needles.

It takes five minutes. Have you lost the ability to make certain emotions from the Botox? No, actually, my Botox wears off pretty quick. Oh, really? Because I've heard some people can't smile. Have you seen that? Yeah.

That's scary to me. Yeah, no, I don't do that far. and some people can't smile and have you seen that? Yeah. Yeah. That's scary to me. Yeah, no, I don't do that far. Like I just want it a little bit to stay natural and like not like preventative, you know, you don't want to be like old and wrinkly cause we're in front of the camera all day. Yeah.

So don't want to look plastic, but just want to like cute. And yeah. Do you do a lot of collabs with other creators? I do. Yeah, I do. I used to do a lot of it more when I was first starting out just because I was trying to grow my following and every Collaboration opportunity I would take it but now I'm a little bit more selective with Who I collaborate with make sense. Have you done dread yet? No, I know. Oh you met those types of clubs. Yeah. What did you think? Oh, I thought you meant like just normal clubs.

Hmm. Well, I guess what's normal for you, you know, I'm talking like the, the OF stuff. Oh, okay. No, so collab wise, I did a few during COVID, like for OF, but I don't really shoot that type of content anymore. Cause it's just not really, it doesn't really align

with who I am as a person. I don't even have sex in my personal life. What? Yeah, I've been celibate for like a year and a half. Are you serious? Yeah. Why? You're in Miami.

Yeah, exactly. That's why, cause everyone just wants to fuck. And you don't want that? No, I don't really enjoy having sex with random people, just for one night stand type of vibe. I'd rather have sex with somebody that I'm intimate and in a relationship with. For me personally, the sex is always better

when I have feelings for somebody and I'm seeing them or dating them. Versus one night stands, I've never came from a one night stand. So what do we get out of this? Damn, that's impressive. Yeah, like, I don't know. Yeah, I guess it's a, for me,

it's a spiritual experience too. Exactly, like if I'm not like connected with you, like through like our brain and like chemistry and like, I don't know, being kind of committed to somebody also turns me on too. Like, I don't really, like, you could be also having sex with all these other people, which everybody has in Miami. So it's like, that gives me the ick.

Like, ew, like, who were you having sex with yesterday? Cause, like, you know? How easily do you get the ick from a guy? Pretty quick. You see those viral videos of like, the list. Oh my God, I literally, if you walk weird, I'll get the egg Yeah, guys can't even walk now. I literally just want to date with this guy last week and everything was great He he sent me to the spa the first like week. We started talking. Okay, he took me shopping on our first date

Everything's great. But shopping on the first date that is bold. It's very like normal man. What? Yeah on the first date you're gonna spend hundreds thousands on the first date, that is bold. It's very like normal in Miami. What? Yeah. On the first date, you're gonna spend hundreds, thousands on a first date? Yeah, he spent like 5,000. Oh my gosh. Probably more, cause like dinner and stuff too.

Jeez. And he didn't even get laid. No. And I got the ick. From his walking. That wasn't from his walking. What was it from? The way he made out.

Oh my God. Guys can't even make out? Yeah, he was just doing something weird. Too much tongue? Yeah, the tongue was doing weird motions. Yeah. I mean, I feel like you might have to lower some of your standards. But like, what am I supposed to,

like teach him how to make out? Just say, I don't like tongue. But he was like very like. Like some people just don't like tongue at all. Yeah, I guess. And then someone the whole tongue in their mouth, like French kissing. Yeah, like he was doing too much.

I never understood that. Yeah. Like I just met you, why is your tongue in there? Yeah. It could have been just like a normal kiss. I mean, he's probably to be fair used to spending 5K and then getting laid the same day in Miami. Yeah, probably honestly. Most girls probably would be like, holy crap, he just probably to be fair used to spending $5K and then getting laid the same day in Miami. Yeah.

You know, most girls probably would be like, holy crap, he just spent thousands on me. Yeah. I'm like, where's the Birkin? Damn. Yeah. Good luck out there. I don't know if you're going to find the guy in Miami. I probably will. Maybe if Andrew Tate moves there, you will. Maybe. Would you ever have a kid move? Is he buying Birkins?

He's buying a lot for his girls. He buys them a house. Maybe. Would you ever have a kid? Is he buying Birkins? He's buying a lot for his girls. He buys them a house. Oh, okay. He's got eight kids, or wait, no, 10 kids with eight different women. Really? Yeah, but you like monogamy. I like monogamy, but I mean, if he's a provider

and he's gonna buy me a house. So you would do a sugar daddy type of situation? Like, yeah, if you're gonna buy me a house, I make sure I'm good. And I get like a 100 K a month allowance. Sure. Okay. One hundred K a month. What would you spend that on?

I would probably like invest half of it. You're an investor? Yeah. Crypto, stocks. So I would probably invest half of it and then, you know, life necessities the other half. Little Birkin bags and cars and stuff. half of it and then you know this life necessities the other half. Little Birkin bags and cars and stuff. Are you kind of materialistic when you say? Yeah I've always been like into just luxurious things. I don't know if it's being Persian

like I always grew up with people that wore nice things, wore nice perfumes like my whole family was always like you know always dressing nice and stuff since I was a kid. So I was always attracted to like dressing nice and being on point and luxurious things. So physical gifts is your love language. Yeah. Yeah. Good luck with that guys. Yeah.

Especially someone that makes as much as you, man. I mean, I spoil myself. So it's like, if you can treat me better than I can treat myself, then. How much do you spend on just yourself a month? Oh, a lot. Like 50K? Not 50, but like anywhere between 15 to 20.

Wow. That's a good amount. If I'm traveling, it'll obviously be more, like some months I'm traveling. So there's more costs. Yeah. A lot of times I'll bring my mom or like friends along for travels too. And I'm paying for them.

So do they support you? Yeah. That's good. Yeah. My mom actually like helps me record my content. Really? Yeah. Wow.

Well, shout out to her. Yeah. You traveling to Dubai these days? Absolutely not. You're not getting shit on out there? No, I'm good on that. What if someone offered you 100K for that? 100K to get shitted on?

Yeah. No. Really? Yeah, a lot of girls are going to Dubai and getting shit on for 100K. Some less, some more. Yeah, I've heard 100's been being thrown around though. There's girls that I consistently see going to Dubai.

So I'm like, damn. Yeah. We know what's going on. Yeah. We know exactly what's going on, but I mean, coming back with a new Birkin every time, I mean, if you do that once every two months, that's half a million a year. Yeah. That's crazy.

It's not bad. Shitted on is insane. I guess you could just immediately shower. Would you, would you shit on somebody for what? Hunter K wait, they have to pay you to shit on them. Oh, would I just shit on a girl? No. Yeah, but like, yeah, so I don't understand. Why are you going to shit on someone?

I mean, if you get paid for it, it's a little different, right? Yeah. Like, I feel like you would do it for the right price. I would not. No amount of money? Shitting? Yeah. Absolutely not. A million dollars? No. I mean, it's just five minutes of unpleasantness. Oh my God, no, I can't.

I just try to picture how it would even go down and... What about peeing? Maybe. That's not as bad. It's not as bad. Yeah, a golden shower? Yeah, I've never done a golden shower, but I could be open to it for the right price. I mean, if you're just drinking water and eating clean, I feel like it's not that bad. Yeah.

But if your diet's complete shit and then your pee's like dark yellow, then it's kind of weird. That's disgusting. Because I just had Lily Phillips on and she said one of the guys did that to her. And it was clear or it was disgusting? She did both. One guy was clear and one didn't drink water for to her. And it was clear or it was disgusting? She did both. One guy was clear and one didn't drink water for two days. Oh God.

Yeah. She's doing some wild stuff. And she did it for free? Yeah, she was just doing it for a video. Oh. Shout out to her though, she's doing her thing. Yeah, and Bonnie Blue. Bonnie, yeah, she's coming on soon.

A thousand guys in a day. A thousand and 57 or something actually. Yeah, do you think that's legit? Honestly, I saw somebody talking about it online. A lot of the guys are wearing tristes. So you don't know if they went twice or three times or that's the only thing. Oh, cause you're so ashamed of showing their face, right?

Right, so there's a lot of the guys are wearing something that's covering their face. So how do you know? Hmm. It was actually a thousand. It could have been like, could have been like 25 guys that just kept going back and forth. You know? Nah, it was definitely a lot. 25 would be low. No, it was definitely a few hundred, but I don't know about a thousand. Maybe they went two, three times each.

I'm curious though. But even if it's the same guy cycling back, a thousand is still insane. How do you even find a thousand people that are just down? I feel like it's easy for a girl. It'd be way harder the other way around. A guy to find a thousand, girl? Yeah, it'd probably be impossible

unless you were some famous guy. But what guy would want to do that? I know a few famous guys that would want to do that. Really? They'd be in your DMs? Yeah. Yeah, you've definitely signed some NDAs. I can tell by the way you're talking.

You've been to some Diddy parties, I bet. I have actually been to a few Diddy parties. And you had to sign an NDA, right? No, I didn't sign any NDAs there, no. Oh, just to go in, you didn't have to sign anything? You didn't have to prick your blood? Did you have to give your phone up? No.

Wow. I thought that was kind of the norm. No, honestly I've been to a few of Diddy's parties. Small gatherings, big parties. It was nothing like anything crazy. It was actually really good parties. Everything is always very catered. There's drinks being served, good music, good vibes.

I never experienced anything weird, but again, I'm assuming there was two different types of parties and I was not invited to the party. I heard it was the after party, right? I was there for the after parties too. Oh, you were? Yeah. No giant orgies or? No.

Wow. So I'm like, I wasn't invited to those. Maybe it was a, yeah, separate. I'm kind of offended. Why wasn't I invited? Well, you probably weren't putting out. Or you were back in the day. No, I wasn't.

No, I didn't. I was. They'd probably judge it off like, oh, is she gonna take part in this, you know? I mean, at the time I was a little bit more thoughty, but yeah, I don't know. You had some thoughty days back in the day? I had some thoughty days back in my day.

You'd probably get asked about your body count on Fresh and Fit, I'd imagine. Yeah, they did ask. And did you answer? No. You keep it hidden. Why? I'd imagine. Yeah, they did ask. And did you answer? No. You keep it hidden? Why?

I don't even honestly know what my body count is. Oh my God, are we talking thousands? No, not thousands. About hundreds though? I don't even think, no, I don't think hundreds. Oh, okay. I've heard way worse. Yeah, no.

But it's up there. It's just, yeah, it's just like, probably like more than 50 I would say. The college days, right? It was for sure the college days. Where'd you go to college? Halifax in Canada, Nova Scotia, Dalhousie University.

Big party school? Yeah, it's actually the most bars per capita in that city and there's like four or five universities So you were wild and the whole city is like a big party Damn. Yeah, I could see why they would come at you for that Yeah, it'd be impressive if your body count was super low and you said you haven't had sex in a year and a half Then that I think they would have been impressed with you. Yeah, you know But the funny part is that people always assume

because I do OF, I have a high body count, but it's the OF part isn't why I have a high body count. It's before the OF part. That's true. They'll label any big OF girl as like a slug, right? Yeah. But like you could go talk to a college girl and she probably would have more bodies than me

at this point. These days for sure. Yeah. I mean with social media, it's too easy to get laid now. I mean you probably get a hundred messages a day. Hundreds. From guys on Instagram, right?

Yeah, a lot. Like I've seen some of these inboxes, I've seen like girls Tinder accounts or whatever, it's just like insane. Yeah. Like it's so easy. Instagram is my favorite dating app, I will say that. How come?

Cause you could just, like the messages are coming. You can go look at their profile You can kind of like investigate like scroll through find out if Like what they're about. Yeah, you know, it's a good it's pretty much like a resume It is your Instagram and then you could always Google them like from their Instagram Yeah, whereas like on Tinder, it's like, I don't really know anything about you. Like you could make a whole fake profile, like tell me you're a dentist. There's a lot of fake ones on Tinder I heard these days.

Yeah. A lot of people are using my picture on their robot pictures. Well, I know a lot of girls just have Tinder just to funnel them to their own. Yeah. I got banned from doing that. Oh, they started banning people for that? Yeah, they've been banning people. Oh, wow.

Yeah. Yeah. That makes sense though, because they don't want to lose people on their app. I heard Hinge is the best one right now. Yeah, I have it, but I just always forget to check. Really? I'm not much of a dating app girly. Like for dating, I might swipe right

and I might think you're cute, but then it's like, I'm never going to like message you. You won't make the first one. It's just never going to go anywhere. Yeah. And on Bumble, you got a message first. Yeah. So I stopped using that one. Cause there's absolutely no way I'm messaging anyone first. Are you on Raya?

I'm not. I heard that's a decent one too. Yeah. There's a new one too called Blush. I need to get on that. Is that the one that limits how many people get on it in each city? No, sure actually, okay I heard a one that limits to like a thousand per city or something and if you don't show up to the date you lose Points. Oh, and then you could get banned if you I guess no show two of three dates or something. Oh, I

Couldn't like that you like that Yeah, cuz a lot of people know show right? I couldn't like that. You like that? Yeah, cause a lot of people know show, right? Has that happened to you? I've never had a no show happen to me, can't relate. Yeah, every guy has though. I do sometimes like cancel last minute though.

You're one of those. Oh my God, sorry. They're so excited the whole day and then you frigging get drunk and cancel. No, I don't even get drunk. I'm just like, oh, my couch is so comfortable. You get high. Yeah, it's definitely the weed.

Yeah. Are you smoking every single day? Damn, you love that weed. Yeah. Damn. I used to be like that too. Really? How do you stay productive?

Honestly, it actually helps me. When I'm editing and stuff, it makes me more creative. I feel like I whip up a better reel, or if I'm editing things, it just like the colors, I don't know. Damn. I'm the opposite., it's just like the colors, like I don't know. Damn. I'm the opposite. I use it like a tool.

So you like micro dose it or do you get super high? Yeah, I'll smoke, like I won't smoke a whole joint. I'll just like hit the joint like a couple of times and then like put it out. Yeah. And then just like get my work done. Cause I also have ADHD and I don't like taking Adderall. I took it when I was in university

and I feel like when you take Adderall, you're taking a bunch of chemicals. So you're fucking up a bunch of other things at the same time, so you can't sleep. You're fucking with your appetite. Your mood is weird and different. Like you're not really yourself anymore. So I didn't like taking Adderall for that reason.

Cause then I had to take sleeping pills to fall asleep. So I was like, I'm just taking a bunch of chemicals, like to fix the, so I was like, I'm just taking a bunch of chemicals to fix the other chemicals I took. Whereas with weed, you got Sativa, Indica, Hybrid, so you can really manage what you, if I want to be creative, I could take a creative strain and smoke a daytime creative strain

that helps me with my job. And then nighttime, if I'm winding down, okay, I could hit it, Indica, and just, you know, relax. That makes sense. Yeah, I hate Adderall too for that same reason. Yeah, music artists love Cannabis too. You've been in some big music videos, right? Yes, I have.

My first one I did was No Guidance with Chris Brown and Drake. And then after that, I did one for Tory Lanez, and then a few other artists. I can't remember. They were a little bit smaller artists. Free Tory Lanez. for Tory Lanez. And then a few other artists, I can't remember. They were a little bit smaller artists. Free Tory Lanez. Free Tory Lanez.

Yeah, following that story was crazy. I kept switching sides. I was like, he definitely shot her. Wait, now I don't think he did. Yeah, what do you think? Do you think he shot her? I don't think he did. I don't think he did either.

Yeah, I don't know. Like I see conflicting stuff. Yeah, he did. I don't think he did. Tory is actually one of my close friends and he's one of the best people to have as a friend because he's actually genuine and he makes sure you're good.

He's actually a good person. So I can't even imagine him actually shooting someone. Yeah. And also there was like camera footage of her stepping in glass. I know. As more evidence came out, my opinion changed. Right.

But at first when it broke, I was like, yeah, he a hundred percent did it. And I don't know if you listened to his last podcast with the Nelk Boys. I did. With the fingerprints. Yeah. They have so much on them now.

I don't know why. His fingerprints aren't even on the gun. Yeah, I don't know why they didn't free him at this point. Exactly. And he got a pretty big sentence, right? 10 years or something. Yeah. But you know what? I feel like it's giving us some good music. I don't know if you listen to his music, but he just released an album from jail. He dropped an album? Yeah. He recorded through the phone. No way. And it's actually decent. It's really good. He's got some bangers. Yeah. Like I still bump his music to this day.

Yeah, Free Tory. Yeah, Free Tory. If you ever see this clip, man. Drake and Chris Brown video, what was that like? That was my first music video. So I was like kind of nervous, but I was a feature model. So that was pretty dope.

I was in a few different scenes. I got to watch that one. Yeah, no guidance. But it was honestly, it was like great. Tory Lanez was on set for that one. Yeah, no guidance. But it was honestly, it was like great. Tory Lanez was on set for that one actually, but yeah, the whole thing with like music videos is like you're there for so long and nobody realizes like how many hours and days it took

to just get like three minutes. Yeah, because you just watch it. You don't assume that you're like sweating balls and he like you're re filming the same scene over and over again. Like you're there from like 7 a.m. to like 7 a.m. the next day. Are you serious? Yeah. The that one I was on set for like 12 hours, maybe even longer.

I think 14 hours. And some people had to come in the second day. Geez. And you're just standing outside in the heat? Yeah, like redoing the scene over and over again. Wow. Standing in heels. Well, I guess for yeah, Chris Brown,

cause he's dancing and stuff, they can't mess it up, right? Yeah, and then like they'll get it like with one camera and then they'll get it with a different angle. And then like somebody won't be like as enthusiastic in the background so you need to rebuild it. Like.

Damn. So it was, it was a long, long, long shoot day but the final product was fire so. Did you get to chop it up with them or you were just so busy just working? At the time, no, but I have been to like a few different parties with both Drake and Chris Brown. Nice. That's nuts. The Diddy parties.

No, not the Diddy parties, but different parties. Must be nice. Drake usually does his own like private parties. I've seen those, yeah. And in Toronto, right? Yeah, in Toronto too. I've been to his house in Toronto. Those ones look crazy. That's where you get your phone taken and you have to sign an NDA. See, I would do it for that, you know? But as a guy, it's harder to get invited to stuff like that.

I mean, Drake's actually pretty cool. Like, I feel like he fucks with a lot of streamers and podcasters and stuff, so. I've seen that, yeah. He would be the easier one to be friends with, like, as a dude, I feel. I could see that, yeah. No, he's very good at tapping in with the culture,

with the trends. Like, he's tight with Aiden Ross,, Kai Sanad, all the streamers. Exactly. He streams himself. Does he? Yeah, he does. Oh, the gambling ones. Yeah, yeah.

I've seen him bet like a million dollars on a spin. Yeah, or lose a million dollars. Yeah. Did you see the one where the drone caught him in his penthouse? Yeah. That was messed up. That was so fun.

That was on purpose. You could tell they said- Oh, you think so? Yeah, cause I'm why it was just steak there on the table. Oh, so you thought it was a viral marketing stuff? Why is the laptop just open on steak? That's true. That's a viral marketing.

That's fucking true. Yeah, him and Kanye are good at those viral marketing things. Just blowing up randomly. Yeah, Kanye's been going crazy. Yeah, Kanye, I don't know. Is he going to come back from this, you think? He always does. He always really does.

No matter what it is. There's gonna be something that comes out with all these people that he's exposing now. We're gonna be like, he was right. Everyone thinks he's crazy. And then five, 10 years later, they're like, wait, he was right. Yeah. It's so wrong.

Because right now, people are going back to whenever he was doing his rants before and they're like, wow, he told us about all these things. Yep. Funny how it takes some people time, you know, to get woke. Do you believe in like conspiracies and stuff? Yeah, I do. I'm big on those.

Same. I watch YouTube compilations, Candice Owens. Candice Owens. I go through down the TikTok rabbit hole. Yeah. TikTok. Ian Carroll, I just had him on the show. A lot of them end up coming true.

You can't deny it. But is the Earth flat? No. Do you think it is? I thought during a few months that it was flat, and then I was like, it just doesn't really make sense. They're super convincing with it. I'm not going to lie. Yeah, it's very convincing. But then when you really think about it, it's like...

I just don't think so. I've had on too many alien experts and too many like smart ass like people. With the sun and the moon and like, it's just like, Yeah, what's the one you believe in the most, which conspiracy you're like completely sold on it? The moon landing. The moon landing for sure is fake.

I think so too. Like the pictures look like green screen. Yeah. And why didn't we go back? Yeah, it's been 52 years. Like if you guys went 52 years ago before we even had iPhones and we didn't go back since then, that's sus. Yeah, I'm with you on that one.

Yeah, there's some crazy ones. I mean, I don't want to get the video taken down, but like the JFK stuff is interesting. Yeah. The files just got released. Did you have time to comb through those yet? I didn't look at the files yet. I mean, there's the JFK stuff is interesting. Yeah. The files just got released. Did you have time to comb through those yet? I didn't look at the files yet.

I mean, there's 10,000 pages, so. I'm just like waiting for someone to summarize it for me. I'm waiting for Chachi Buti to summarize it. Can we just get a summary as a YouTube video? Yeah. What about aliens and like stuff like that? Aliens are for sure real. I mean, you live in Vegas, so this is like the closest.

Yeah, area 51 is right by here. I have never had any encounters or like seen anything, but I definitely feel like they're real. What about ghosts? For sure. Okay. That one we already knew. You think so? Some people still don't believe that.

I feel like ghosts. Yeah. Have you had an encounter? I haven't like personally, but I went to a psychic once and they were like the way that they were like explaining things. I was like, OK, yeah, like that's what made me like believe in it more. Yeah. Because I feel like every time you go to like the psychic people, like they're topping into like somebody that died in your family or whatever. So I feel like that's a ghost that's coming in, communicating with them.

I believe in psychics, too. I actually have a call tomorrow with my psychic. Yeah, I do a monthly call. I need a new one. So maybe you can send me yours. Oh, you need a good one? I got you. Oh my gosh.

You will say stuff that you've never shared publicly. That's kind of how I test them because there's a lot of BS ones. Yeah. But as soon as they say a few things where I'm like, wait, you can't even look that up. I'm like, all right, I'm listening. Yeah.

Because I've had some BS ones too. Yeah, some of them are just saying the same generic thing. They're like, oh, like you're a great aunt, like had a heart attack. Yeah. It's like everyone's great aunt had a heart attack. Yeah, for real. Yeah.

When they're, when they're too general, it's like, what the hell? But she was saying, shout out to Jessenia. She was saying stuff about my dad, who's a ghost on social media. No social media profiles and just spot on. So shout out to her. I'm excited for her call tomorrow.

They've changed my life, psychics. Okay, I need one. I got you. I'll connect you after this. All right, what else we got? Who pays on the first date, guy or girl? I'm not paying on the first date. I mean, I just told you about my first date. If you're not coming with a bag,

if you're not coming with a gift, yeah, there's no way. I've never actually had a first date where someone tried to make me pay, but I have heard a lot of girls that have had weird first date experiences, but. You've never had a guy offer 50-50 split? No. Wow, well done. If a guy offers 50-50 split? No. Wow. Well done.

If a guy offers 50-50 split, I'd be like, you know what? I'll just pay for it and I'll never talk to you again. When do you start paying then? What date number? Like once we're, if we're like in a relationship, you know, I don't know if date number at that point, like we're dating for a couple months maybe. Yeah. Like you buy the dinner, I'll buy ice cream.

Fair. Fair enough. Yeah, I'm not a fan of the woman paying on dates. Yeah. I don't know if that's just an old school thing. Or like what about the woman that give their cart to the guy to pay? That's weird. Do people do that? Yeah. Oh, just to make the guy feel like they paid?

Yeah. That's wild. Nah, if you're a guy, you got to be making a bag and taking care of your girl That's your job. Like your job is to be a provider. So if you can't pay on the first day, then what are you gonna do? For the rest of the life. Yeah, I get it's harder now with the economy and everything but still Yeah, but it doesn't have to be like a crazy day. Like it could you know, what's the best first day location in your opinion? the best first day location in your opinion? The best first date location in my opinion

would be in Miami or just in general. Just in general, like restaurant, movies. I think restaurant is good because you can actually talk and get to know each other. Movies is weird because it's just like, you're sitting in a movie theater, like how are you gonna talk or get to know each other? I like movie dates like once you're dating someone because it's like we gonna talk? Or like get to know each other. I like movie dates, like once you're dating someone,

cause it's like, we already know everything we need to know about each other, we just wanna spend time. But yeah, I think I like for sure restaurants, like lunch, I feel like lunch is a good start. Lunch is casual, yeah. Dinners are kinda like more intimate, I feel like. Yeah, I feel like lunch first date, dinner second date.

Yeah. Any good dates recently for you or no? Yeah, I just, well, it was pretty good until the makeup. Until leave, until leave. That I just went on. Is that enough to end it? No, but I just don't know how to like, like what do I tell him?

Well, he's gonna see this. This is gonna get millions of views and he probably follows your Instagram. So if you're watching this, I had a great time, but little less tongue please. I feel like that's fixable if you just tell him. Communication's important in relationships. You know, if he doesn't know the ick,

how is he gonna fix it? Cause a lot of girls keep the aches hidden. That's true. So I feel like if you just vocalize the aches, guys are pretty logical, I feel like. Yeah. I feel like guys don't have aches. Like, do you guys get aches at all?

Some guys have aches about like, I guess farting and burping. Yeah. I mean, I don't. Girls don't fart. I don't have that one. Trying to think what else we're like, I guess just controlling. You know what a lot of girls do is like,

if they're dating a guy, let's say like, let's say we're dating and we go on to Cancun together and we're staying in the same room, they will literally hold their shit in for like days. What? Yeah. Cause they don't want to like go to the bathroom in the same room. What? Yeah, because they don't want to like go to the bathroom in the same room. What?

Yeah. Are you serious? Yes. Just time it though. Yeah, but it's still weird. Like what if he comes back, smells like it? Like, I don't know. It's just, girls are really weird about it.

Do you do that? I have done that and I know my friends do it too. What? Man, that's nuts to me. I gotta go, I'm going. Yeah, I went on a trip with my friends and she literally was like, can I come to your room to you. What? Man, that's nuts to me. I gotta go, I'm going. Yeah, I went on a trip with my friends and she literally was like, can I come to your room to use the bathroom?

Oh my gosh. Did you go to the naked resort in Cancun? No. The nude one. Have you heard of that one? I heard of one in Jamaica, but not Cancun. Yeah, there's one in Cancun. I found out on accident. You were there?

I was walking through. Yeah, cause all of them are connected. And it's adults only naked. All naked people. Would you ever do something like that? No. Yeah, that's not my vibe either. Yeah, no. Yeah. And even on the cruise I was just on, I was on Virgin out of Miami. Have you heard about the upside down pineapple thing? Oh, wait. Is that like for swingers? Yeah, the room next to me. Wait, they had an actual upside down pineapple. It's a magnet. Yeah, you put it on your door. Oh, God. That's a sign that you want to swing.

That's so funny. A bunch of people. That's big in the cruising community. That's insane. Yeah. Swinger lifestyle is not for me. No. Hell no. There's a lot of clubs out here that are big on it, too. Yeah, no, I'm monogamy unless it's Andrew Tate. You would change for Andrew Tate?

Yeah. All right. I'll text him if you want. He just came on. Okay. Let me know what he says. He's probably got a lot of interesting things to say to you. Yeah, I would love to talk to him. I would love to hear it. All right. Well, where can people find you and subscribe? Aura Queen Bay on all socials. I post every day, all day, everywhere.

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