Digital Social Hour - From Rock Bottom to Millions: Khalil Rafati’s Journey | Khalil Rafati DSH #1318
Episode Date: April 12, 2025From rock bottom to building a multimillion-dollar brand, Khalil Rafati’s story is nothing short of extraordinary. 🌟 On this episode of Digital Social Hour with Sean Kelly, we dive into Khalil’...s incredible journey from battling addiction and homelessness to becoming the founder of SunLife Organics and changing lives worldwide. 💪✨ Discover how Khalil turned his pain into purpose, the power of gratitude, and his mission to inspire others to chase their dreams. From his relentless grind building a juice empire to his transformative trip to Japan in search of the best matcha, this episode is packed with valuable insights and heartwarming moments. 🌿🍵 Don’t miss Khalil’s candid reflections on overcoming hardships, embracing accountability, and the importance of aligning with positivity and light. 🙌 His story proves that no matter where you start, you can achieve greatness with determination and resilience. 🚀 Tune in now and join the conversation! 📺 Hit that subscribe button and stay tuned for more eye-opening stories on the Digital Social Hour with Sean Kelly! 🎙️🔥 CHAPTERS: 00:00 - Intro 00:33 - Best Matcha Discovery 06:06 - Khalil's Journey to Homelessness 10:45 - Money vs. Happiness 14:24 - Seeking Divine Help at 33 20:35 - The Impact of Judging Others 26:23 - Supporting the Homeless 27:03 - From $200 to $11,000 Daily 32:41 - Profitability Timeline 37:09 - Escaping Maslow's Hierarchy 40:24 - Mike's White House Experience 45:34 - Mike's Take on Donald Trump 49:20 - Political Insights 55:17 - Changing the World Together 01:01:31 - Finding Khalil 01:02:21 - Khalil’s Inspirational Message APPLY TO BE ON THE PODCAST: https://www.digitalsocialhour.com/application BUSINESS INQUIRIES/SPONSORS: jenna@digitalsocialhour.com GUEST: Khalil Rafati https://www.instagram.com/khalilrafati SPONSORS: NORTHWEST REGISTERED AGENT: https://www.northwestregisteredagent.com/socialhour LISTEN ON: Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/digital-social-hour/id1676846015 Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/5Jn7LXarRlI8Hc0GtTn759 Sean Kelly Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/seanmikekelly/ #KhalilRafati #DigitalSocialHour #SeanKelly #Podcast #Inspiration #SuccessStory #OvercomingAdversity #SunLifeOrganics #Entrepreneurship #Matcha #Gratitude #SelfGrowth #spiritualawakening #lifecoaching #khalilrafatijourney #sunlifeorganics #selfimprovement
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do anything. That little spark, that thing that, you know, when I got on my knees and I prayed to God and I,
I reached towards my divinity. I mean, at the end of the day, I mean, there's darkness, which is the absence of God.
And then there's, and there's, and there's light. And if we reach towards that light, and we tried to align ourselves with that
light, we're going to grow.
I mean, we're going to prosper.
We're gonna grow and we're gonna prosper. That'd be amazing.
All right guys, got Khalil here with our Sun Life drinks, my man.
Cheers.
Man, these are so good.
Thank you, buddy.
I'm a big matcha guy.
It's grown on me the past couple of years.
I love matcha.
I used to be coffee, but I love matcha now.
When I first tried it, I hated it.
I didn't get it.
The guy from the red hot chili peppers,
when we first opened, he was like,
you have to have matcha.
And I'm like, matcha?
What is that?
I didn't even know what it was.
Ordered a couple kilos of it, put it on the menu,
created a smoothie, nobody wanted it.
This is 13 years ago, 14 years ago.
And then I was in New York eight years ago,
right when the matcha craze started to happen.
And I saw Chacha Matcha and Matcha Bar,
and I flew back home and then flew my crew out.
And I was like, guys, this is gonna be a huge trend.
We need to study this.
We need to find the best of the best of the best.
We need to capitalize on this
opportunity. And so they went home, I went to Japan twice, in search of like this mythical
like the best match on the planet. And I was in this region called Kagoshima. And nobody
spoke English. And it wasn't like you can just roll up and like buy shit, you have to
win over the team master before you can even go to the factory.
Yes.
Wow.
And it's very formal.
And they had to train me to like, when he goes to hand me his business cards,
because people still use business cards there, you have to take it with both
hands and you have to grab both corners like that.
You can't go like that.
You can't go like, it was so weird.
And the interview was going terrible.
And my outfit was, I think, a bit obnoxious.
And he wasn't liking me.
And at a certain point, I'm just like, fuck it.
I'm gonna throw a Hail Mary.
And I'm like, what does he like better?
Cause he kept talking about the matcha bushes,
the leaves and all that.
And I was like, what does he like better,
the matcha bushes, the leaves and all that. And I was like, what does he like better, the matcha bushes or his wife?
Which was like, you know, the interpreter was like, no, no, no, no.
I'm like, ask him.
And he asked him and there was like a pregnant pause and the guy just
fucking busts out laughing, gets up, puts his arm around me, literally
walks me over to his home, which I didn't even realize we were at his home, introduces me to his family,
keeps talking in Japanese.
I have no fucking idea what's going on.
And the interpreter is just like, like nodding his head.
He's like, you're in.
Oh my God.
Oh, that's legendary.
Yeah.
So we got this matcha.
It's from Kagoshima, Japan.
It's the region where the last samurai rules.
Wow.
Yeah.
That's historic.
Why is Japan known for macho?
What's so special about their environment?
I think it's just the growing conditions,
certain elevation and the humidity,
and it just rains a lot.
When I was there, it pretty much rained every day.
Wow.
There were waterfalls everywhere in Kagoshima,
which was bizarre because like, you know,
here you'd go and there'd be 500 people lined up to take a selfie in front of a waterfall.
There, like every time you turn a corner, there's a waterfall.
No one cares.
So I was like swimming in these waterfalls and like hot springs coming up out of the ground.
There's an active volcano in Kagoshima.
But the thing that was the most fascinating was was the samurai and the fact that that was where the last samurai actually ruled.
Yeah, I love samurais, man.
Yeah.
Something so exciting about just watching them fight.
Yes.
Yeah, I actually want to start collecting samurai swords.
I don't blame you. They cracked the code of life.
They did everything in their culture.
They did everything to perfection.
Like everything, every movement they did,
every job you have.
And that's kind of like a Japanese thing also,
because when I was there, I remember going,
I had horrible jet lag,
and I remember going down to the lobby to get coffee
and then having to use the bathroom.
And when I went into the bathroom,
there was a guy like underneath the sink,
like cleaning, which was weird.
Never seen a guy in a the sink, like cleaning, which was weird.
Never seen a guy in a bathroom on the ground cleaning.
And when I walked in, he looked up and he was happy
and he was smiling and it was like three o'clock
in the morning and I was like, wow, there is intention here.
Wow, people are present.
Pretty cool.
They're so at peace.
Yeah, you don't see much of that in America, huh?
No, we're so scattered and fragmented.
Yeah.
Cause you look at the correlation between wealth and happiness and it's not,
it doesn't add up, right?
The more you make doesn't mean the happier you are.
No, it does not.
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As a young man in search of fortune and fame and went to California and did a pretty good job initially.
Got my SAG card, got into a rock and roll band,
blah, blah, blah.
But unfortunately, took a left turn and, uh, and, and wound up, you
know, just losing everything and, and, and wound up on the streets addicted to heroin,
addicted to, um, cocaine crack and lost everything in the process of trying to find that happiness
through money, fame, success, whatever.
And yeah, it was fucking horrible.
That sounds crazy.
Yeah, it was horrible.
Was it a gradual buildup or was it all like-
It was.
I mean, drug addiction is,
it's like there's a honeymoon period
where you're just partying and you're dating models
and actresses and you're hanging out at clubs and you're doing drugs
and everything seems great and there's definitely a honeymoon period.
There's about a three-year honeymoon period and then as the drugs got
heavier and more consistent and the darkness began to enter and then all of
a sudden it's just like having a rug pulled out from under you.
Like addiction will rob you of your soul
without your consent.
And that's what happened.
So I went from a young, ambitious man,
you know, super insecure,
embarrassed of who I was.
Parents were immigrants of both from different countries, different
languages, different religions.
If that wasn't bad enough, having immigrant parents in rural Ohio, where
everyone was fucking blonde hair, blue eyes, good looking, and you got
bullied a lot growing up.
I did.
Yeah, I did. I just didn't fit in.
I didn't have any, I didn't have any skills. Like I didn't have any, like I was terrible at sports.
Terrible. And as a man that's yeah, you'll get ridiculed for that. Yeah. Um, I was shaped weird,
like very, like long torso, short legs, large skulls. So kids mercilessly made fun of me, called me names,
called me Charlie Brown or Pumpkinhead or yeah.
It was fucking brutal.
I mean, it's funny now, but like at the time,
like it was, it was brutal.
Like I, I, I hated myself.
I developed such immense body dysmorphia
and I was terrible at school. I wasn't tough but I fought a
lot and I just didn't fit in anywhere. So that was sort of like the, you know,
the beginnings of what I think set me up for that addiction was that, the pain,
the immigrant parents. There was also, there was unfortunately some bad shit happened to me.
There was some abuse, neglect, sexual abuse.
Um, I had a older sibling that was eight years older than me.
Um, that started doing stuff to me that I didn't want him to do, but he was
much older, much bigger and, um, that made me feel dirty.
That made me feel shame.
And then that, that became sort of a, a self-fulfilling prophecy, because then I
learned that if, oh, if you want attention, you have to let people like take advantage
of you.
And so, especially in Hollywood, that's kind of a mindset, right?
With acting.
Fuck.
So true.
So yeah, I never even thought about the correlation like as a child
Learning that that's how you maybe you were subconsciously attracted to that right interesting. Yeah
well, I'm just thinking about like when I
Eventually did become a drug addict and was living on the streets that that was my go-to was just sell my body for sex because
It you know, it's easy. Yeah. And I don't have to hurt anybody.
Um, but, uh, yeah, so brutal, brutal upbringing, um, very awkward.
Khalil, you know, people didn't even know how to say my name.
Um, and, uh, father was a Muslim mother was born a, but raised Catholic.
I went to Catholic school.
That's interesting.
Yeah. Yeah. I went to Catholic school because the only private schools at that time were
Jesuit Catholic schools, which Jesuit is like the strictest form of Catholicism. So again,
another level of shame and weirdness and not fitting in. I was just a f**king mess. I was
a mess.
Yeah. I can see why you were insecure now,
because you were just getting judged from so many different angles.
Your own family, your friends, your brother.
Yeah.
Damn.
Yeah, it was a lot of pain there and a lot of confusion.
And I didn't understand, like, other people, like,
seem to have these good families and they play catch in the yard
or they would, like, you know, boy scouts or camping or whatever.
Like nothing could be further from the reality that I was living the violence
and the neglect and the abuse.
And, um, I just felt like a real piece of shit.
So running to Hollywood to become famous because that's going to fix me and I'm
going to become rich and famous and that's going to fix me, Which is interesting because you think about how many people we hear about that actually
do become famous, kill themselves or they become drug addicts or both.
And when I was, I'll jump forward for a moment, but when I was, I think I was 45 years old.
Do you know who Rick Rubin is?
Yes.
Yeah.
I know him as a podcaster.
Yeah.
He's a music producer and he was a customer and a friend and a bit of a mentor.
And I had just sold a piece of my company for some of, yeah, for me, for all fucking,
like I was rich, you know, for me, it was a multimillion dollar amount and I was like,
so like blown away that I didn't even want to deposit the check because I wanted to just like hold it and keep looking at it
Wow, it like symbolized something and
I kept taking pictures of it and eventually I
deposited it deposited the check and
Then a couple days later. I sunk into one of the worst depressions I've ever had. Wow, that fast?
Yeah. Yeah. And I was in Pasadena with Rick and we were going to Dave Asprey's
conference or whatever. We were with Wim Hof and we were going to introduce Wim Hof to Dave Asprey.
And I was walking behind Rick and I said, Rick, I'm really depressed.
And he just, he's a man of few words.
And I said, like, I'm like really fucking depressed, like suicidally depressed.
And he stops and he looks at me and he goes, you just got a lot of money, right?
And I go, yeah.
Does he really single?
I go, yeah.
And I go, yeah. Does he really single?
I go, yeah.
And he said, so you got to experience and realize
what very few people will ever realize.
And I'm like, which is?
And he said, success doesn't equal happiness.
And he just kept walking.
Wow.
And I'm like, it doesn't?
And he didn't even respond back.
He just kept walking.
We went, we had some burgers and whatever.
But yeah, success doesn't equal happiness.
Money doesn't equal happiness.
Money is going to amplify who you are.
Money is going to make whatever you got going on become bigger.
That's why when you see people win the lottery, it often ends so tragically.
That's why when you see people become very famous very quickly and become
very wealthy very quickly or both, you see it end very tragically.
Because it's just an amplification.
And, um, yeah, I'm, I'm by the grace of God, I was able to get past the childhood, get past the addiction,
which most people don't.
I was 33 years old when I finally just literally got on my knees and asked God for help.
And I don't even know what that means.
I didn't even know who I was praying to
or what I was praying to.
But at 33 years old, I asked God for help.
And I was fucked.
High school dropout, convicted felon.
Was that for drugs?
Yeah, yeah.
95, I picked up a felony, actually here in the state of Texas.
High school dropout, convicted felon, no talent, no skills.
Life had passed me by.
Um, and I was fucked, but, um, I got on my knees just cause that's what they told
us to do when we were in school.
So I got on my knees and I folded my hands and I asked God for help.
And I will tell you, there was something there,
something happened in that moment.
There was like, there was no burning bush
or anything like that.
The cravings didn't go away.
The withdrawal didn't go away.
I was in rehab at the time.
But there was something there.
There was like a levity to my spirit.
Like I knew that, I somehow knew I was going to be okay. Hmm.
It was just a little spark and, and I grabbed onto that spark and, um, you know, I stayed
in rehab, then went to a halfway house, et cetera, et cetera.
At that time, things were very grim.
I mean, again, life had passed me by.
I thought I was old at that point, you know, like, what am I going to do? Like everybody has this, everybody has life had passed me by. I thought I was old at that point.
You know, like, what am I gonna do?
Like, everybody has this, everybody has that.
People had good parents, people went to college.
Um, I had to start over.
And, uh, in the midst of losing everything
and in the midst of being in so much pain,
there was a clarity that came with that.
And the clarity was, wait a second, you did
this to yourself. A lot of people get molested. A lot of people experience violence in their
childhood. A lot of people go through bad shit. Oprah went through bad shit. How come
she wasn't shooting dope? No. She ended up helping a bunch of people.
Going through trauma as a child is not an excuse as an adult decades later to continue
putting poison into your body. And that clarity came to me. I was like, oh fuck, I did this.
I did this. I was the one that fucked my life up. And, um, and that, that was a harsh realization.
Wow.
Not a lot of people will ever get to that realization though.
They won't take accountability.
Most people don't have having, having sovereignty over yourself and taking
responsibility over yourself.
I think that paradigm shift is one of the most underrated superpowers there is.
Yeah. And hate him or love him. I actually learned that shift partially from Andrew Tate.
Did you really?
Yeah. Cause he always talks about taking accountability for your own actions.
And he's very open about all the attacks on him. You know, he's somewhat accountable for that.
Because of what he's doing on social media.
Yeah. I don't know him well.
I've seen clips here and there.
Some of them I actually do find quite inspiring.
But I will say if,
number one, if he wasn't successful
and he wasn't really good looking and really fit,
because he is, nobody would be talking shit about him.
Facts.
Yeah.
So Andrew Jade Love love him or hate him, is a very, very intelligent, very, very attractive,
very fit man.
Not really my cup of tea, but if I think there's something wrong with him, then there's something
wrong with me.
Projection, right?
Yeah.
I mean, I was the classic, as a kid growing up,
if a guy was better looking than me, oh, he's gay.
If a guy's in better shape than me, oh, he's on steroids.
You know?
I had to create a story as to why somebody else
had something that I didn't have.
I played victim and engaged in learn helplessness my,
and my entire life up until I was 33, 34 years old.
I did it to about 25. Yeah. Yeah. It's not a good, uh,
good strategy for growth.
No. And what's amazing and you're more proof of it than I am is that we can
literally do anything. We can literally do anything.
We can fucking do anything.
That little spark, that thing that, you know,
when I got on my knees and I prayed to God and I reached towards my divinity.
I mean, at the end of the day, I mean, there's darkness,
which is the absence of God, and then there's light.
And if we reach towards that light and we try to align ourselves with that light, we're going to grow and we're going to prosper and we're going to do good.
Whatever that is, I don't even know what that means. And I don't consider myself a religious
man and I don't consider myself a spiritual man, but I pray a lot and I ask God for help.
And I start out each day with gratitude. I literally just walk. I get up in the morning, it's 5 a.m.
and I just go outside and I say, God, thank you. Thank you for the roof over my head.
Thank you for the clean water that I get to, to, to bathe in. Thank you for my amazing
friends. Thank you. You know, I start out with the basic stuff and I begin to develop
an attitude of gratitude and then, you know, thank you for my cats and thank you for my girlfriend.
And then eventually I get to the point where I will finish with, thank you for this perfect
health, perfect wealth and perfect love.
And when I speak life onto myself like that, I'm opening myself up, I'm becoming expansive
and I'm welcoming things in. If I'm hating on Andrew Tate, oh, that guy's a piece of shit, oh, I'm becoming expansive, and I'm welcoming things in.
If I'm hating on Andrew Tate,
oh, that guy's a piece of shit,
oh, that guy did that, fuck that guy,
that guy heard this, I heard that,
making myself small,
and I'm shutting myself off from that light,
from that source.
100% agree.
I'm gonna call it God, but we can call it source,
we can call it whatever.
When I'm judging other people and hating on other people,
I'm shutting down my ability to bring in abundance and prosperity.
When I open myself up and I stay out of judgment and I get into an attitude of gratitude,
doors begin to open and things happen that I mean,
I was just outside waiting for you to finish your previous podcast.
There was a kid out there.
He was standing.
He's watching, I think his boss, you were interviewed as boss and we're talking about
Sun Life and he was talking about, oh yeah, man, I go there all the time.
It's great.
Whatever.
I'm like, yeah, you know, when we first opened, it was the biggest failure we've ever had.
He's like, it was, I'm like, yeah, you know, when we first opened, it was the biggest failure we've ever had. He's like, it was? I'm like, yeah, like the worst.
It's that, that location fucking sucks.
Was this in Austin?
Yeah, there's no parking.
If you don't have parking, you don't have a business.
People that pay 25 bucks for a smoothie,
they want to pull up in their fancy car
with their aloe leggings on or their lululemon or whatever.
And they want to go in and they want to get their shit and they want to get in their car and they want to leave.
If you don't have that, you don't have a business.
There is no parking.
So we were fucked and okay.
Well, I don't have talent.
I don't have skills, but I do have the ability to run through walls.
We were doing $200 a day at that store and I explained that to this kid that
was watching his boss. You're only selling like eight a day. Yes. It was an abysmal failure. Even
if people would walk in, they would walk in and go, $18 for a smoothie, fuck this place and walk out.
Not knowing that I was the owner sitting there going, fuck man, I'm just trying to feed people and do some good for the world. Yeah. And we moved into the Line Hotel and we joined on it,
Lifetime Fitness, Equinox, Collective, Stretch Lab,
every yoga studio, every, we made up gift cards,
we printed up menus and we went to every single place in town
and we just kept going and going and for
For about three months. There was no ROI. There was nothing. I mean, I'm walking up to strangers at Lifetime Fitness going
Hey, man, here's a $25 gift card to Sunlight forget, you know, and these people were like fucks this dude talking to me
Who's this weird old guy, you know, like and I felt felt it. I could feel that that was their, that was their, you know, feeling.
And then after about three months, people started to show up.
And then when people started to show up, I eventually got invited to, uh, like
it, like a, an event, like a daytime event at this guy's house, Cal Callahan.
And I went there and it was all these founders and all these entrepreneurs and all these people like myself
Who were self-made who came from nothing? Yeah, I met
John Durant there. I met Kyle Kingsbury there
I met a bunch of just really it calls a MMA fighter
But I met a bunch of really amazing people there and I brought smoothies with me those people
Took two sips and they were like, this is the best shit ever.
You got to shop.
I'm like, yeah, it's on South Congress.
They started coming.
Then they went and told 10 people, then they went and told 10 people.
They went and told 10 people.
Saturday, we did over $11,000 in business.
Holy crap.
In one day.
That's insane.
Yeah.
We're at one location at one location. We'll, we'll do close to two million dollars a year in sales there. And again, why it's a fucking terrible location
No parking no parking but
If you are willing to do the work if you are willing to stay out of judgment if you are willing to
When you walk into my stores
You'll see Psalm 103 1 through 5. I'm not a Christian willing to, when you walk into my stores,
you'll see Psalm 103, one through five. I'm not a Christian.
I just saw that shit in the Bible and I read it.
I fucking loved it.
And it said, if you seek God with all your heart,
he will crown your head with love.
He will make you new again.
I'm like, that's amazing.
Yes, that's true.
That's my truth.
Like, so I don't wanna falsely represent any religion here
because I don't belong to any religion,
but that is the truth.
Like, I got up every morning,
I developed an attitude of gratitude.
I went out, I handed out my gift cards,
I did my shit, I kept myself in decent shape.
I was kind to people.
If I saw trash on the street, I picked it up,
I put it away.
If I went to Whole Foods and it was raining outside and I finished putting the shit in
my car, I was taught 12 step programs. Like put that fucking cart back. Don't look around
to see if anybody's watching. Don't have that attitude of like, oh, you're taking away someone's
job because it's someone's job to collect all the cart. No, shut the fuck up. When you
finish with your card,
regardless of what's going on with the weather, put your cart back at the thing.
When you see trash on the ground, pick it up. If you got some dough in your
pocket, which I always do, I always carry a lot of cash with me,
but if you have some cash in your pocket and you see somebody that's less
fortunate than you share that with them, share that.
Don't worry about, Oh, what if they go do drugs?
Are they good for them?
Drugs are fucking awesome.
Drugs feel great.
Why wouldn't you want them to go have some relief and some comfort?
I mean, I'm not promoting drugs here, but I'm just saying, like, if some poor bastard
is living on the street and he wants to go buy some booze or he wants to go buy some
drugs to alleviate some of the pain that he's going through it's none of your fucking business
That money that abundance that prosperity comes from that source
And since you have found a way to tap into that source and now you've got some of that share it
It feels good. Yeah, worry about if they fucking get high with it. Don't worry, you know, it's none of your business
Yeah, I know that hits deep for you because you spend some time homeless, right?
I did, yeah, I did.
Yeah, I at least try to get food or water,
but I know some people are fans of feeling money,
but I at least think you should give some food, water, you know.
I think you should give to whatever your comfort level is.
Yeah.
Right?
If you think food or water,
oh, I mean, God, in Vegas, definitely water.
Yeah. Um, I think that's a great idea, but I just think in general, getting out of the victim mentality, getting out of the self-righteous indignation and just putting your nose to the grindstone and working hard, uh, is going to bring you anything and everything you've ever wanted.
Hmm. Man, I love that story.
$200 a day to $11K.
And that's in two years, you said?
Four years.
Oh, four years.
Yeah.
Still insane.
All from good old word of mouth, too.
Word of mouth, yeah.
Networking, just getting up every day and you just keep going.
You get up every day.
I think the thing with...
I see so many people that are taller than me, smarter than me,
more educated than me, like sort of stuck in life
because they come up to a problem and they just accept no as an answer. They
don't keep going. You gotta keep going, you know? I mean when you were
starting your thing, did you ever imagine that it was gonna be like this?
Not this quickly. Yeah. Yeah.
And it was tough at first.
I lost money for six months and was almost, almost quit a few times, you know?
Yeah.
But I didn't.
Yeah.
We lost money for 10 years.
Jeez.
10 years.
Yeah.
I am complaining about six months.
10 years.
Wow.
The last, the last year of losses was 2019, ironically enough, right before COVID.
We lost $1.6 million.
Holy crap.
If you want to start a food business
and you want to do 100% certified organic
and only have the best of the best of the best ingredients,
you're not gonna make a lot of money.
You might not make any money at all.
I mean, we operated an 8% profit margin.
Wow.
Now we'll do 23 million in sales.
So 8% of 23 million, I can't do math, but it's pretty good, right?
And the company has been profitable since 2021.
Nice.
Yeah.
But for 10 years, I just kept going.
And I think if you're willing to put a decade into something and you just keep going,
I think you're gonna find success no matter what.
I really believe that.
I agree.
Yeah.
10,000 hours is so cliche, but I think it's true.
Yeah, I know.
He got some shit for saying that.
And I love it.
I think if the Beatles never would have went to that club
in Germany and played, you know,
I think they were playing 14 hours a day
or whatever it was, seven days a week.
And I don't think they would have become the Beatles.
I think they became the Beatles in the midst of that chaos.
And even though it probably sucked
and they didn't sleep much and they were dirty
and they kept going.
I mean, I think about the early days of Sun Life Organics
when I was living on the Halverson's property
in a 400 square foot basically shed, you know,
with no air conditioning and no heat, just grinding it out, grinding it out, grinding
it out.
Every single day I'd be at the shop and people would come in like, oh man, just catching
any of those waves.
See that swell that came in?
Well, and I'm like, like, no, man, I'm fucking working.
You're grinding. Yeah, I'm grinding. Uh, but that grinding got,
got me to where I am now, to where my friend called me yesterday. He's like,
what do you do in end of this month? Like, I don't know.
Not a whole lot. Opening some new stores. Do you want to come to Abu Dhabi,
go surf Kelly's wave pool? I'm like, fuck yeah. Cool. I have a,
you know, jet come pick us up LAX. If you can be there on the whatever 22nd or 24th. Um, so I get to surf now. I
love it. I get to surf now and I get to surf at one of the coolest, probably the best wave
in the world. It's a thousand yard ride. Holy crap.
A thousand yard in the middle of Abu Dhabi, in the middle of the desert.
And it's just fucking magnificent.
I was there two months ago and it's magnificent.
And the life I get to live today where I do all these incredible things.
I mean, it makes me sad for the little boy,
but it makes me encouraged to the people out there.
It makes me sad for the little boy,
the little boy version of me,
but it makes me excited for the people out there.
Hopefully somebody is listening to this
and they're going through a tough time
or they feel awkward or they feel like they don't fit in.
And it makes me excited for them
because hopefully they can look at me and go, fuck
man, if that guy can do it, I can do it.
Yeah.
If that guy can do it, anybody can do it.
And that's the truth.
Yeah.
And I love that.
There's really no shortcuts.
It's a matter of when you want to put in the work, right?
Yeah.
Like, do you want to put it in when you're younger?
You could take more risks.
Like, some people wait a little too long, I think.
They got kids to worry about.
They got other people.
Yeah. Yeah.
Yeah. I mean, I, I mean, my whole thing is like, I tell anybody that works for me,
you just, you just fucking grind and spend less than you make, invest your money.
Keep putting it away.
Even if you worked a minimum wage job and you, and you just consistently put money.
There's some crazy statistic you might even know it. I've seen it. Yeah. The compound, the compounding thing. Yeah. It's some crazy statistic. You might even know it.
I've seen it.
Yeah.
The compound, the compounding thing.
Yeah.
It's fucking insane.
Right.
You can retire a millionaire if you save.
Right.
But how about there's that, how about the statistic of what if you, instead of
buying a new iPhone every time it came out, what if you took the same amount of
money and you bought Apple stock?
I've seen that one too.
Dude, it doesn't even seem real.
It's fucking insane how much money you would have
if you simply invested your money.
Like when we first opened, I would tell people,
like stop buying Lululemon pants
and start buying Lululemon stock.
Lululemon stock was $40 a share.
It's $400 a share now.
10X.
Yeah.
I've had quite a few young employees come to work for me that were making shit.
They were making minimum wage plus tips that ended up taking my advice and 10 years went
by and now they fucking do whatever they want to do.
That's awesome.
It's pretty amazing.
That's super cool.
Yeah.
Yeah. You must have had a tough challenge because mentally people were accustomed to paying five ten bucks for smoothies
Right. Yeah, but that was obviously poor quality ingredients
Yeah, I mean there's like a smoothie and then there's like a meal in a cup
I mean like the holy cow smoothie which has the noble protein powder in it. It's got 50 grams of protein
Yeah, so now that protein is like the thing we're all trying to get like, you know,
one pound per body weight,
like getting a smoothie that's got 50 grams of protein in it
and it's organic and it's amazing.
And it's a meal in a cup and it's already chewed up.
So imagine if you and I, we just worked out
and we had to go get 50 grams of protein at a typical place.
It's a lot of fucking chewing.
That's a lot of shoveling into our fucking, into our mouth.
Right?
And a lot of money.
A lot of money and a lot of stress on the system to break that stuff down to be able
to digest it.
When you're getting it in a cup, it's pre-masticated, right?
It's already blended up.
So it's already chewed up and you're able to absorb all of that into your body much,
much better.
Wow.
I didn't know that. Yeah. That is good to know,
because yeah, I got to up my protein intake,
so maybe I should start looking into liquid forms.
For sure.
I mean, I'm there every day.
Like, I can eat wherever I want.
I can go to whatever restaurant I want.
I've done well.
But I go there every day.
I go there every single day,
and I will typically get a smoothie
or I'll get an acai bowl
I love the holy cow. I substitute the noble protein, which is a beef based protein
And I want all the organs and all that stuff in it because I can't stand taking vitamins
I do take vitamins a couple of days a week just to make sure I'm not missing out on any like vitamin D or
magnesium or whatever but
just to make sure I'm not missing out on any like vitamin D or magnesium or whatever.
But yeah, it was a challenge in the beginning.
People definitely were horrified by the prices
and people still talk shit about the prices.
But having said that, you know,
I was working out this morning and I'm looking at the kid
who's cleaning the gym that I'm working out in.
I know he's making minimum wage, right?
And he's wearing a Chrome Hearts T-shirt.
So this kid's gonna go spend, I don't know what a Chrome Hearts t-shirt. So this kid's gonna go spend,
I don't know what a Chrome Hearts t-shirt costs,
but I'm gonna imagine 150 bucks, 200.
It's not cheap.
Yeah, it's not cheap.
So you see people wearing these stupid
golden goose tennis shoes, you know,
and buying these Chrome Heart t-shirts
or these girls walking around in these $3,000,
but what's that? Work in bags? No, these $3,000. What's that?
Work in bags?
No, no, no, no.
Those are, those are the price of a house.
That's like next level.
Goyard, Goyard.
Goyard.
Yeah, you see every basic girl that drives a white Jetta
is walking around the Goyard tote that costs, you know,
three grand, but she can barely pay her rent.
How much sense does that make?
Like they've got us by the balls,
where we think we need to have all this fancy shit
to feel complete and to feel whole.
Nothing, nothing will ever make you more,
feel more whole and complete
than a relationship with God, your creator, a person who you get to share your life with, a mate,
and escaping Maslow's hierarchy.
You cannot, I shouldn't say you cannot, it will be very difficult for someone to self-actualize,
to become the highest version of themselves.
I'm not talking about the girl on Instagram
that's living her best life.
I'm talking about the person who literally becomes
the hero in their own journey.
Yeah. Right?
You're experiencing that now.
I am, yeah.
When we get to take care of our parents,
when we get to take care of our friends,
when we get to become the hero
in our own journey, it's very difficult, if not impossible, to self-actualize until
you can escape Maslow's hierarchy.
So most people are down here in Maslow's hierarchy, right?
And then some people are lucky enough to get here on that pyramid, but to get up
to the top, to escape, to get to the point where let's say you got a couple rental
properties and now you have no debt.
And now the income coming in is yours.
You're free.
You just gave the matrix.
You escaped the matrix.
Yeah.
Yeah.
I agree.
I love, I love that you use that terminology.
That's one of my favorite movies. It's, it's, it's a documentary. Pretty much at this matrix. Yeah. Yeah. I agree. I love, I love that you use that terminology. That's one of my favorite movies.
It's, it's a documentary.
Pretty much at this point.
Yeah.
It really is.
It's, it's a documentary.
And, and do you know about the allegory of the cave?
No.
Okay.
So Plato thousands of years ago, basically said that life is like this.
You got a bunch of people huddled in a cave
and these people are sitting in this cave huddled up
and they're looking at these images on the wall
and they're being controlled by these images on the wall.
Well, the images on the wall are actually coming
from the fire and the people behind the fire,
the people that the fire,
the people that run shit,
Vanguard, State Street, Black Rock, governments,
Catholic Church, the people behind the fire
are projecting these images onto the wall.
And most of what they're projecting is fear.
Fear controls the people that are huddled in the cave.
But in Plato's allegory of the cave, one of the people escapes and he climbs up out of the cave
and he goes up top and there's a sun and there's forests and there's rivers and there's streams
and there's waterfalls. And he's like, Oh my oh my god wait this is really life oh my god this is
amazing and he goes back down to tell the people and they attack him whoa yeah
this we repeat itself huh they attack him this is going on right now and
what's going on right now wow it's going on right now? Wow. What's going on right now? I did not know that. We are all controlled by the images,
the images on the cave, right?
This phone or that screen or that television,
that's the cave wall.
And the people that control shit,
people that own shit,
they're projecting images on there.
And most people, more than half of this country for sure, just
watches whatever they see on those screens, on those screens,
and they believe it to be real.
And they think that that's real life because they're struggling to pay the rent.
I think the statistics is 70% of the people living in this country have
less than a thousand dollars in savings.
I've seen that.
Yeah.
And a large percent live paycheck to paycheck.
Yes.
And 70% of the people live in this country are overweight or obese.
Right?
How many people are on psychiatric meds?
Half the fucking country.
So, we have become a society of domesticated animals bred for taxation.
Most people out there can't fuck without a pill, can't sleep without a pill, We have become a society of domesticated animals bred for taxation.
Most people out there can't fuck without a pill, can't sleep without a pill, can't go
to work without a pill, can't digest their food without a pill, can't make it through
the day.
Now they're fucking injecting themselves with shit to stop them from gorging on food.
Like what the fuck happened to us? What happened to us if you look at images of people at the beach in the 30s 40s 50s 60s 70s even
Everybody skinny. Yep, everybody. I've seen them and then you go to the beach now and what you see is just
It's horrifying so but you guys with your power tapping into that source,
which I'm going to call God, you don't have to,
but tapping into that power, you guys are going to make the people
that are huddled in the cave realize that that's not real life.
Sitting around talking shit about whether Leo got a facelift or not, or why is he dating,
why is Anthony Kiedis dating a 20 year old girl, he's 62 years old, and why did Kim Kardashian
get another nose job.
What the fuck does that have to do with your ability to create a life that is so wonderful that you don't feel compelled
to escape from it.
It has nothing to do with that.
The reason sports are so prevalent and so successful is to keep people distracted.
The reason that religion, which is not so prevalent anymore, was the great opiate of
the masses, right?
Religion used to be the opiate of the masses.
But the other day I was scrolling through my television, I was trying to get onto the
Apple TV and I was scrolling through, I don't know what TV it was.
And I'm just looking at show after show after show of just gross people, hoarders, 600 pound people, murderers,
all of this gross stuff.
It's like Hollywood just continues to pump out
this darkness, this sickness,
and everybody's just lapping it up and consuming it
and staying glued to their little parasitic devices.
And the moment they stop and they start putting some good stuff into their body
and they start, their ears start to perk up because they're listening to Sean's podcast
or listening to Rogan's podcast or listening to whatever,
which thank God is beginning to wake people up.
They start to understand that maybe what
they've been told and what they've been taught is not reality.
Yeah.
You're starting to see that movement for sure.
Yeah.
Actually in the health scene.
Yes.
You know, I know you've had your health battles, which is a big reason why
you started this company, right?
And, uh, I can see it, see it when you talk, this means a lot to you.
Yeah.
Well, because I went from 109 pound walking corpse
with my fucking teeth falling out of my head
to 173 pound athlete at 55 years old.
I'm in the greatest fucking shape of my life.
I feel amazing and I have boundless energy.
And I'm at the point in my life where I realized like,
fuck man, I can do anything.
I'm just barely scratching the surface.
I can literally do anything.
Sean, I'm going to build a global billion dollar brand.
I'm gonna take this little mom and pop juice bar
that I started in Point Doom, Malibu, California in 2011,
and I'm gonna open all over the country
and all over the world.
And if I can do that, anybody can do anything.
Anybody can do anything.
I love that.
How many locations do you have now?
We have 18, 18 locations.
We operate in eight different states.
We have three more coming, another one in Nashville, a new one
in Boulder, Colorado, and finally New York City is coming in April.
I love it. And Aria, right? In Vegas?
Aria, Vegas, that's coming this summer. Talking to some people about licensing deals in South
Africa, talking to some people about licensing deals in the Middle East.
Wow.
I'm going to build a billion dollar brand.
I'm going to, I'm going to make a bunch of dough and I'm going to do a lot of good with it and I'm going to help a lot of people because it's fucking fun.
And because it's, it's, it's, it's the right thing to do. I love that. I want to,
I want to inspire people. I want to get people healthy.
I want to get people off their fucking phones and jumping into a river or,
or, or a lake or an ocean
Climbing a mountain building a business
Or just attracting a mate into their life who they love so they can experience
real true intimacy not what they see in pornography, but like real true intimacy and and
That that's my purpose, that's my passion,
that's my mission.
That's beautiful, man.
I know you said you weren't spiritual earlier,
but I do believe in energy.
Yeah.
And I think you're just putting out so much good energy
with your products.
Like this stuff is super healthy, all organic.
Thank you.
You're helping so many people.
I think that's gonna come back to you, man.
I mean, I appreciate that.
I think in many ways that it has, um, to go from where I was to whether it's
surfing a thousand yard wave in the middle of the desert or being in the
oval office, uh, last month, um, which was a surreal experience.
Was that a maja event?
No, my friend Tulsi was getting sworn in.
Oh, nice.
She's been on the show.
Really? Yeah. Oh, amazing. Small nice. She's been on the show.
Really? Yeah.
Oh amazing.
Small world.
Small world, yeah. She's one of my dearest friends. I love her.
She's amazing.
She's absolutely incredible. She's absolutely... like all the women in my life, she's even
more beautiful on the inside than she is on the outside, which is... that's an awesome
quality to have. But being there in the, um, watching her get sworn in.
I mean, I just stood there like frozen going like, this is crazy.
I could actually fucking reach out and touch him.
Like he was in there like, you know, doing his thing, like being Donald Trump.
And, um, I liked him.
I liked him in 2016.
Like I liked big time wrestling when I was a kid.
Yeah.
You know, um, I didn't, you know, I didn't think like, Oh God, this
is a really moral good and, but I liked him.
I liked how he decimated everybody on stage.
I, I, I hated Republicans.
I always hated Republicans.
I always consider myself a liberal and a Democrat and I hated Republicans.
So I loved how he got up there and he just fucking assassinated every one of them, came
up with nicknames for them and just destroyed fucking Clinton, that cackling cowl and destroyed
everybody. And so I liked him for that. But then he became president and I won, I bet
five grand, three to one odds.
I won, so I was happy about that.
But it still wasn't like, oh, I love the guy, I'm a MAGA.
But then he did a pretty good job.
I mean, you know, he definitely made some mistakes
and he definitely said some really stupid shit.
And, you know, January 6th was certainly an embarrassment
for this country.
Was it an insurrection?
I don't know.
I mean, I thought so when I first saw the footage, but then a year later, when all
of the footage was released and I saw them literally the Capitol police letting people
in, letting, letting the fucking shaman bro with the weird hat, like letting that guy
in and escorting him through the Capitol.
Like, I'm like, wait, that doesn't look like an insurrection.
Why do they keep saying insurrection?
And, um, and then he lost.
And I thought, God, that's weird.
Doesn't seem like that many people actually voted.
Maybe there is some legitimacy to cheating because cheating has
always gone on in elections.
I mean, I remember when Bush stole the election from Al Gore.
I mean, straight up stole it.
Florida was the state and they just fucking stole it from him.
Everybody knows that.
So cheating happens in every election.
So I started to wonder like, God, did they really cheat?
I mean, it was COVID.
There was a lot of mail-in ballots.
They're starting to say that people shouldn't have to have ID to vote
because that's racist.
Wait, wait, wait, what the fuck did you just say?
Like, you already had me baffled
with all the pronouns stuff, right?
Yeah.
But now you're saying that people shouldn't have
to have an ID to vote?
No, you have to have a fucking ID to vote and no, that's not racist and, and people
of color and minorities and impoverished people have the ability to get a fucking ID.
I had to do it.
I had to go from living on the streets to eventually resurfacing and eventually, you know, building myself back up again
without any type of, you know, real help.
I did it.
So that freaked me out.
And then when he said he was gonna run again
after he lost, at that point I was like,
man, he should pick Tulsi.
That would be fucking amazing if she was his vice president.
I don't talk politics with her just out of respect, kind of like in the same way.
I don't talk surfing with Kelly Slater.
I don't talk music.
Well, I talk music with Anthony Kittis, but I don't talk red hot chili peppers with him.
I don't talk science with Andrew Huberman.
Uh, Andrew came over last night for dinner.
We ate some steaks.
We played with my cats.
We took a long walk.
We teased each other a lot.
I didn't ask him one question about science.
Well, it must be still refreshing for him.
Yeah.
I mean, and I think that that's probably why these people allow me into their
lives because I really just want to feed people and, and like inspire people.
Um, I'm pretty self centered and self engrossed.
Uh, so they probably like being around someone that's not asking them a
million questions about themselves.
Um, yeah, I, uh, yeah, I, I didn't, I didn't. someone that's not asking them a million questions about themselves.
Yeah, I didn't talk science with him,
but back to the Trump thing, he didn't end up picking Tulsi,
but he picked Vance,
which at first I was like, man, fuck that guy.
That dude would have beat me up in high school.
You know? 100%. Yeah, like that guy, I didn't like man, fuck that guy. That dude would have beat me up in high school. You know?
100%.
Yeah, like that guy, like he, I didn't like him.
He scared me.
And then somebody said, have you watched Hillbilly eulogy
or whatever?
I'm like, no.
And they're like, you should watch it.
So I watched it.
I'm like, oh fuck, he's from Ohio.
And then like his mom and me got a lot in common.
We were shooting heroin. Wow. Yeah. And me, we got a lot in common. We were shooting heroin.
Wow.
Yeah.
And me and him have a lot in common
because he had a fucked up childhood.
I had a fucked up childhood
that I alluded to a little bit earlier.
Yeah.
And I'm like, oh man, wait,
this motherfucker went through that shit
and then he somehow made it into,
I don't know, it was Yale or whatever he made it into.
Like that's some impressive shit.
So all of a sudden I'm like, okay, maybe he's not such a bad guy, right?
I was threatened by him because he really did look like the guys that wanted to beat
me up in high school.
And then I saw him on Rogan.
And I was like, holy shit.
He is articulate.
He is brilliant.
He's passionate.
He cares about this fucking country.
I think they're gonna win. I think they're gonna fucking win. And then, uh, Tulsi and I were hanging out
whenever this was, this was before the the election night, and she said, are you gonna come down, are you gonna come down to Palm Beach for the, you know, for the election night? I was like,
I don't know, I wasn't planning on it. She's like, we'll come.
It'll be fun.
Like, okay.
And so I flew down there and it was amazing, you know, to spend time with her as always.
But we were, we were sitting all together and I'm sitting there going, I don't know
if they cheated before they're going to cheat again, you know, I was skeptical too.
Yeah.
Like this is feeling pretty weird and
At a certain point she just goes I gotta go upstairs and freshen up. I'll be right back. Don't move stay here
They're gonna shut down all the streets his motorcade is coming. I'm like, what do you mean at this point?
nothing's announced at this point like they still hadn't announced, Pennsylvania and
I'm just like what what, what's happening?
And she just looks at me and she goes, it's happening.
I'm like, it is.
I'll be right back.
She went upstairs.
She came down and her outfit, we walked into the room.
She'd like had some section where I was going to stand and we're sitting there
watching CNN on the giant
jumbo screen and everyone's nervous. Everyone's like, and it was weird. There was like Mexican
bikers and Hasidic and Muslims. And I'm thinking, where are all the white supremacists? Like there's
a lot of fucking minorities here. To be fair, there were definitely some, some, you know,
shit kicker Republicans
and cowboy boots and whatever, but there was a lot of minorities there.
There was a lot of different types of people there.
And, um, all of a sudden on the jumbo screen, they announced Pennsylvania.
And I fucking look and you see Arabs hugging, you see bikers and
businessmen, the fucking my pillow guy was right
there Tucker Carlson goes walking by it was insane everybody's crying everyone
people started singing like gospel hymns whatever yeah it was it was so surreal
so what an incredible moment sorry I went off on a tangent but what an incredible moment. Sorry, I went off on a tangent, but what an incredible,
and I'm not supposed to talk politics,
I'm gonna get canceled.
What an incredible moment it was to experience that.
And that and the trips around the world
and all the exciting things I get to do,
that all came from me getting on my knees
and asking God for help.
And that all came from me realizing that my knees and asking God for help and that all came from me
Realizing that everything going on in my life
It's on me. Hmm. It's got nothing to do with
Someone touched by naughty spot or oh my parents didn't speak English good or whatever like, you know wild wonder
No, Rosalie the wild wonder drinks. Mostly I I haven't seen em immigrated here from China when she was 12
Didn't speak the language English is actually her third language
She learned English from 12 on she managed to get a scholarship to Stanford
She graduated Stanford and like sold her first business at 23. This is a little Chinese immigrant girl with a Mexican name Rosalie
I don't know why her name is Rosa Lee. I should ask her. And then sold that business and started
this incredible brand called Wow Wonder where she took her Chinese grandmother's recipe
and created these prebiotic probiotic drinks that only have like eight grams of sugar,
but tastes fucking amazing. I saw her on Instagram and I
basically stalked her and one day she hit me back and she's like hey I'm in
Austin we'd love to meet up with you and I ended up meeting her we end up
becoming friends but forget about my sad stupid little Cinderella story what
about girls like Rosalie right? What about like all the people out there that have built something amazing against all odds,
like yourself included?
Like this is the time now, this is the time where your generation is going to learn from
our generation and we're all going to come together and we're going to change the world.
Sean, we have to change the world.
There can't be war anymore.
The fact that there's war going on right now,
the fact that children are being trafficked for sex slaves,
the fact that there are people lying in the streets,
many of them veterans who fought for this country,
that shit's gotta end.
You guys are gonna change that.
I will do whatever the fuck I can.
I'll use my connections, I'll use my voice,
I'll use my silly little story,
I'll fuel people with the products that I create,
but like we have to change the world,
and by we I mean you,
because we're getting older,
but you guys are young and you're vibrant,
and you've tapped into that source,
and so now is the time for celebrities to come together, influencers to come together,
podcasters to come together, where we've got to stop whatever evil fucking forces
have taken over this planet. And we have to just push them aside. We don't have to throw them in
prison. We don't have to kill them. It doesn't have to be violent. It don't have to throw them in prison. You don't have to kill them.
It doesn't have to be violent.
It doesn't have to be an insurrection.
But you guys need to rise up.
Women need to rise up and reclaim their power.
God needs to not be a dirty word anymore.
We've gotten so far away from God.
We've got to go back to God.
And through the power and grace of a living, loving God
and the power that you've tapped into and so many others like you
have tapped into, and I've tapped into in a small way as well.
We have to come together and change the world for the better.
I'm with you on that mission, man. I'll be right by your side.
I'm I'm ready. I'm ready to go.
I don't know how a smoothie maker is going to push that forward,
but it seems like I'm exposed to a lot of incredible people, and I've become friends
with a lot of incredible people like yourself.
And listen, I love fancy shit.
I love shiny things, clearly.
I'm still insecure.
I'm still shallow.
I still want people to like me.
That little boy is still inside there somewhere
that wants to be noticed. I say a lot to like me. That little boy is still inside there somewhere that wants to be noticed.
I say a lot of stupid shit.
I don't have a filter.
I don't mean that in a proud way.
I mean, I literally don't have a filter.
Like I don't have Asperger's,
but like I will say the most inappropriate shit
at the most inappropriate moment.
I cannot fucking help myself.
Humor, because I suffered with suicidal ideation
much of my life,
gallows humor, AKA inappropriate humor,
AKA the type of shit that you get canceled over.
Yeah.
It saved my life.
Wow.
It saved my life.
When I was in that fucking halfway house, and it was 117 degrees outside, and I'm looking
at my life and the fucking mess that I've created, and I'm like, wait, I'm on welfare,
I'm in a fucking halfway house, I'm about to turn 34 years old, I'm a couple hundred
thousand dollars in debt from all the hospital bills and ambulance rides I had from
Overdosing and flatlining and all that shit. My credits fucked. I don't even have a high school diploma like
What the fuck am I gonna do?
Crack a joke. Hmm. I feel a little better and then somebody else would crack a joke somebody would make fun of me
It was a bunch of minorities in this place called new perceptions.
It was black owned, black operated halfway house in the
Valley on Roscoe and white oak.
There was like a couple of Mexican dudes.
Guy, Palestinian guy, Palestinian, Polish guy, uh, white guy, black guy.
And we would all just make the most wildly inappropriate,
what people would consider racist jokes.
But we did it for fun.
Sometimes we'd go too far.
And then we'd have to go, hey, you know what, let's pump the brakes a little bit.
But like, you know, stereotypes are stereotypes.
There's some funny shit in there, right?
There's nothing funnier, like watching Sarah Silverman
make fun of people is one of the funniest fucking shit
you've ever seen in your life, right?
Because there's some truths to those stereotypes.
Watching Chris Rock make fun of black people
is some of the funniest shit we've ever seen in our lives.
We need to fucking laugh.
We need to stop with this cancel culture bullshit
We need to stop all of us are flawed all of us all of us have made mistakes
I live the first 33 years of my life without a moral compass, and I'm not proud to say that I don't have a filter
I'm not bragging. It's just like God forgot to put a fucking filter in there
So he don't say shit like. Like I'm thinking of like,
I became friends with this guy, Charles.
He's a lineman for the Kansas City Chiefs.
And went to the Super Bowl twice, fucking amazing guy.
And I met him at the gym.
He liked my shoes.
I invited him over for a smoothie.
He tried to order a strawberry banana smoothie.
And I was like, this isn't fucking Jamba juice, dude.
I'm like, you're going to get a billion dollar bowl.
He's like, what's that?
I'm like, don't worry about it.
Got him a billion dollar bowl and he's eating the bowl.
He fucking loves it.
He goes, man, this shit's good.
Can I get another one?
I go, yeah.
I go, but we're friends now, right?
He goes, yeah, man, we cool.
We're friends.
I go, okay, so I can use the N now, right? He goes, yeah, man, we cool, we're friends. I go, okay, so I can use the N word, right?
He fucking laughed so hard and it was beautiful
because in that moment I used humor to break the ice.
I don't wanna call black people a derogatory term, right?
I don't wanna call Italians a derogatory term,
but when a comic does it or we're using humor
It's okay. Absolutely people need to lighten the fuck up. I agree Khalil. It's been so fun, man
I can't wait to film with you again. Where could people find you and where could people find some life?
Sunlight organics calm
There's a bunch of them in LA one One opening in New York, two in Nashville,
Miami South Beach, Chicago, in Fulton Market,
Vegas, Aria coming soon this summer.
I'm just at Khalil Rafati.
I'm just on Instagram.
I tried the TikTok.
I'm not sophisticated enough to maneuver it.
It's too confusing for me.
And I don't wanna get fucking,
I don't wanna go down that rabbit hole.
But yeah, just at Khalil Rafadi on Instagram.
And I hope, I know I babbled a lot, that's what I do.
But I sincerely hope there's somebody out there
that is in pain and suffering that sees me and sees my story and derives some sort of hope for it and makes a necessary change in their life where they can begin walking towards their dreams.
I get 1% better every day. I didn't come up with that shit. I was introduced to it by Tim Ferriss in his book, Four Hour Workweek, Kaizen.
Just get a little bit better every day.
No matter what, every day, a little bit better.
I've been doing that for 21 and a half years.
My life is like 17,000% better
because I got 1% better every day for the last 21 years.
I love that.
Yeah, so that's my message and I hope it helps somebody.
That's it Tim guys, message me, we're here for you.
Thanks for coming on man
Thank you, brother beautiful. Thank you. I'm out guys. See you next time