Digital Social Hour - Inside an Exclusive $200K Membership Experience | Father Damon DSH #852

Episode Date: November 2, 2024

Step into the fascinating world of exclusivity with us as we explore the "Inside an Exclusive $200K Membership Experience" on the Digital Social Hour with Sean Kelly! 🎉 In this riveting episode, Father Damon shares his journey from the vibrant culture of the 70s to creating a unique club experience that intertwines love, connection, and art. Discover the transformation of a party into a place where people connect on a deeper level without judgment. 🌟 Don't miss out on Father Damon's candid insights into the evolving dynamics of his membership, the allure of Miami, and the art of meaningful connections. 🎭 Join the conversation as we delve into the intersection of sexuality, spirituality, and community without superficialities. Watch now and subscribe for more insider secrets. 📺 Hit that subscribe button and stay tuned for more eye-opening stories on the Digital Social Hour with Sean Kelly! 🚀 Tune in now to explore a world where connection transcends the ordinary. #connectivesexualityevents #eckharttolle #spiritualgrowth #openrelationship #losangelesnightclubs CHAPTERS: 00:00 - Why Damon’s Moving to Miami 05:00 - Damon's Event Goals and Achievements 17:40 - Spiritual Teachers and Drug Experimentation 19:29 - Growing Up in a Spiritual Household 20:23 - Discovering the Meaning of Life 22:16 - Recent Sex Party Experience Insights 29:33 - Exploring Fetishes at Parties 31:20 - The Intersection of Sex and Cannabis 32:36 - Final Thoughts on Life and Events 35:01 - Alysium VIP: Miami's Premier Experience APPLY TO BE ON THE PODCAST: https://www.digitalsocialhour.com/application BUSINESS INQUIRIES/SPONSORS: [e-mail] GUEST: Father Damon https://www.fatherdamon.com/ https://www.instagram.com/fatherdamon/ LISTEN ON: Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/digital-social-hour/id1676846015 Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/5Jn7LXarRlI8Hc0GtTn759 Sean Kelly Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/seanmikekelly/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Well, I was not literally raised by wolves. I was raised in the 70s. It was a different time. My parents were hippies. Everyone around was doing drugs. There were a lot of musicians. It was a different world. People just were free.

They just did what they wanted to do. Because if you think about the art and the music that came out of the 60s and the 70s. I mean, it was just like, it was some of the best music that will ever be made. All right guys, Father Damon here all the way from LA. Thanks for driving in today, man. Absolutely. Yeah, it means a lot. And I know you're moving to Miami soon.

I am in September. What prompted that move? That's a good question. I had to stop and think about it for a second because I started a club called Alicien, which is my new club and I had this real clear thing in mind about love and connection and sexuality kind of being combined into an event. I really felt like I achieved what I was trying to achieve. But what happened was very interesting,

which was that it attracted the porn community. I mean, our events would have 60, 70 girls, 80% were porn stars. And they were coming to the parties to have the kind of sex they like to have in real life. Like there's no cameras there, there's nothing being filmed, there's no exchange of money. So it was a place where they started to come to like enjoy their own sexuality. And as word got out, that really grew. And so what ended up happening is like, I think

that some of the people that were coming to the parties, you know, when you have couples coming, and let's say it's a couple in their 40s, and it's a wife or whatever it might be, being in a room full of 20-year-old porn stars, maybe it wasn't the most comfortable thing for them. And I was so open arms to the community, because I hadn't really had a lot of experience

with the porn community at all. I hadn't met a lot of porn stars, I hadn't really had a lot of experience with the porn community at all. I hadn't met a lot of porn stars. I hadn't talked about... It's not really something that I was interested in or pursuing, but it became this thing of these parties where they were coming to enjoy themselves and enjoy their sexuality. And I think that actually some of my members felt intimidated by the environment. And I saw that, because sex parties for me in the past, the guests were not from porn. It was just real people hanging out, wanting to meet other people.

And it became a little confusing. The clientele that I'm used to, like I said, they felt a little confusing. The clientele that I'm used to, like I said, they felt a little intimidated and the tickets are really expensive and the memberships are really expensive. I thought it was kind of heaven. I thought it was paradise. Like if you have 60 girls that are all cool and beautiful

and enjoying themselves very sexual, that environment, I thought a man would love that environment. But we also had some porn stars there, and the males. And I think it was an intimidating environment for people. And so as I started to kind of build this membership in LA, I just started to feel like my vision of what I was trying to achieve

was not going to be achieved here. And I also feel like for better or worse, LA isn't a bit of a decline. I think that restaurants are kind of, a lot of them are closing. The scene that used to be there isn't really happening. You know, people aren't spending money like they used to. My tickets are 5K.

Wow, for one night? Yeah, my memberships go from 50 to over 200,000. Holy crap. And, you know, I feel like that community that can afford what I do because I like to do really big productions, a lot of theatrics, costuming, hair and makeup, a lot of performers, I bring in set decorators,

I transform the space and it's expensive, so I need to charge those prices. I'm not sure that the market is there for me anymore in LA. I think just what I was experiencing was guys constantly trying to get in under the prize. Can I give you some cash? And it was not something I was used to. And most of my friends and most of the people that were like the guys that really have money have moved to Miami or New York and I think there's

been kind of an exodus from Los Angeles. The nightclubs aren't really doing what they used to do. Bottle service is doing what it used to do. So in a way for me I feel like um I want I need to... BetMGM, authorized gaming partner of the NBA, has your back all season long from tipoff till the final buzzer You're always taking care of with the sportsbook born in Vegas That's a feeling you can only get with bet MGM and no matter your team your favorite player or your style There's something every NBA fan will love about bet MGM download the app today and discover why BetMGM is your basketball home for the season. Raise your game to the next level this year with BetMGM, a sportsbook worth a slam dunk, and authorized gaming partner of the NBA.

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And I've never lived in Miami. I've been there. I really like it. I'm curious what it's going to be like. So I'm going to get a place for a year. We have a dock, we're going to have a yacht, have a Rolls Royce and a driveway. I like the whole thing. It's going to be wild.

And yeah, and experience that. And then I love New Yorks Royce in the driveway. Like the whole thing is gonna be wild. And yeah, and experience that. And then I love New York City. I love the energy there. And so I'll be able to do, I'm gonna be doing events in Miami and New York. So yeah, the LA experiment went really well as far as I'm concerned.

Like I delivered what I wanted to. And I really did make a party, even though it's a sex party, really about connecting with people, about having the kind of sex that I think is good, which is more connective, not just like performative or just the motion of sex and just whatever. Sex can be either something that I feel is a spiritual experience, literally, or it can just be a physical experience. And I'm trying to tap into the more spiritual aspects of it for whatever reason. I don't think the LA audience was really there for it,

other than all of the girls in the porn community. It was like, you know, and I got to know them really well, and I got to understand their sexuality, the kind of sex they were having on set, how disconnected it was. And a lot of them don't even have sex for their own pleasure. They don't, they don't even have relationships. They just fuck on camera. Am I allowed to say that? Yeah. Okay. And, and it's pretty, you know, it's pretty empty. And, And so because of my ethos and what I was trying to accomplish, that energy did kind of happen there and they really loved it. So it helped me to sort of start something I didn't think I was gonna start,

which is a content house and starting to film explicit content that is very connective, you know, that where I'm asking the girls like, what do you actually like? I interview them, talk to them about their sexuality, what they're genuinely into. Generally, they'll show up on set and it's like, okay, you know, this is your, this is a stepfather stepdaughter scene and you know, these are the positions and then you know, you're going to get, you know, come all over your face. And it's like, whatever people watching porn may think, most of these girls aren't really into that. They're not even actually orgasming. And that's not everyone. There are girls that absolutely love what they do. But a lot of times it's the girls that have really established careers

and they can dictate things more so. They can talk about what they want, they can say no to things. The younger girls coming in, I mean they just get like train rolled through. I mean there's no one there to look after them or really care about them. At least that's what I'm experiencing and hearing and you know I could be wrong, I don't know everything, but that's been my experience with these girls. And I got to know them as friends, and they told me their truth. So yeah, I definitely think that I can,

I definitely think that I can make content that is more along the lines of what they want. They're real sexuality and what they're really into. And so I'm starting to get into that. And yeah, I mean, the events and the relationships I formed there kind of led me into this thing now where I'm doing content and I'm creating things that I didn't think I was going to because I do parties, I do events, I love doing that. But now, so there was like a loss because I know that I wanted to achieve something in LA that I wasn't able to, but I feel like I did it the way I wanted to and I'm proud

of that and I'm hoping that the East Coast will be more into this. We'll be into the idea of this and what this is about. So yeah, so we'll see. I think you'll do well on mine. A lot of crypto money there and crypto is doing well. Yeah, and really, although it's hard for people to talk about or admit it or whatever sometimes, we all want love.

We all wanna be connected to somebody. I think the ultimate experience with anybody is a feeling that like you're desired, you're wanted, you're loved, you're feeling a connection. A lot of men pay for sex, and that's not the kind of sex that I like because it's just not very satisfying. It's pretty empty.

I like really deeply connective sex. And so because I'm back in this business again, and I've been doing this for a long time, I'm hoping that I can guide people to that place because it's just better. It's better sex, it's like, and it's a better feeling after, and you can form friendships that are real. You know, I say like, if you're gonna be with someone

for a night or for 10 years, it doesn't matter. You can have love and connection at a sex party. It's very possible. But I need the clientele that desires that. And truly a lot of men, mainly, I mean some women too, but a lot of men, they just want to fuck. You know, that's what they're coming there for is just, they just want to fuck. But I've taken out any kind of exchange of money. I've taken out the kind of aspects that would allow that to just happen in that way. So you actually have to connect with someone. So when you're meeting a girl at one of my parties, you know, you have to sit down and

talk to them and relate to them and look in their eyes and have some chemistry and some connection. And I think that some of these really wealthy dudes are so used to paying for it or in so many ways, whether it's like a sugar daddy, baby doing a relationship, it's based on commerce. And yeah, and I think that it's like, you know, it's like eating at McDonald's or something, like it tastes good, but then you got a stomach ache after and it's not even good for your body. I feel like empty sex and non-connective sex

is very similar to that, so. 100%, a lot of people have sex and they feel like shit after spiritually, right? Yeah, I think so. And you know, I know this message will resonate and will catch on. I think that it's a strange business that I'm in. I don't think of what I do as sex parties. I think of what I do as a place for people to connect

and see art and experience theater and all of this great stuff that we do. And out of that, when you make connections, if you go out to dinner with someone, right? And you take them out to dinner and you're connecting with someone and you're turned on to them and she's turned on, then you might wanna go back to your house

and make love and have sex. Like that's totally acceptable and normal. When you're doing it in a sex party type of an environment, it's the same exact thing, but like you're having sex on there. And there's something about that, that makes what I do seem like people have to hide from it. They can't talk about it.

It's a secret for them. In a perfect world, I would make it where like, people could come to my party and feel proud about it and say, I went to a list and it's an amazing place. I love the experience. All of these great people whose names I can't mention who tell me that personally can't say it out loud. There may never be a time, at least not in my lifetime, when sexuality is something

that people can just talk about. Right. You know, when different kinds of sexuality and all this, when people can be accepting of that. But I'm trying to make that happen, you know, that's part of my like little mission here. Yeah. I can definitely see that.

There's a lot of shame and guilt with talking about sex openly, right, publicly. If that wasn't the case, your club would be popping because everyone would just be word of mouth marketing for you. Yeah, it's interesting because I've always had to operate as a bit of like a secretive society type vibe, right? Because I can't, because it's gotta be secretive.

I've gotta protect my members. I can't talk about it publicly. And you got some of the biggest clientele. I do. I have amazing people, you know, and I've forged friendships with them and they genuinely love what this is, you know, and it's amazing that they come. I love having them. You know, it makes for great parties when you're looking around and you see these people

that you recognize or that you look up to and things like that. Shit, I'd pay 5k to be in that room. You know what I mean? Well, I mean, you could come. Are you ever in Miami or? Yeah, but I got a fiance. So, oh, well, you know, couples come all the time. Oh, yeah. And there's another thing too, is that is that most people are not, it's not like you're stepping

into an orgy. I think the public perception and the reason people are sort of afraid of what it is, is they think, oh, I'm going to walk in. It's just going to be a bunch of people fucking in a room. And it's not like that at all. At my club, you're not even allowed to have sex until after midnight. There's shifting lights and the lights start like an amber color and then they get a little deeper orange and then they turn red. When the lights turn red, that's when you're allowed to have sex.

Everyone's just. Yeah, but before that, you're talking to people. It's like a cocktail party. You're meeting amazing people. You're meeting the kinds of people you'd wanna meet, having real conversations. Everything's curated. The ladies' guests, everyone's really beautiful.

It's a great environment. And then you're watching shows and we do all kinds of things that are really, really fun and experience. And we have art everywhere, like, you know, amazing erotic art that's multimillion dollar art. So it's a really, it's like, it's like a cocktail party, you know, for the kinds of people you'd want to be at a party with. And then when the lights turn red, that that lets people know that that if they want to start to engage and and make love and well fuck whatever that they can't and and you know and at that point

you and your fiance could could you know watch or walk around or hang out or leave you know like like like there's a there's an opening to this thing where you get to experience what it is and then when the sexuality starts you might find that you're so comfortable in that environment, and your fiance is too. But you guys are like, wow, this isn't what I thought it was gonna be. This is super cool. That's what everyone says.

That makes sense. It's like the same thing. Like, this is not what I thought it was gonna be. But if you guys are like, maybe uncomfortable around sexuality, or the idea of seeing other people have sex would make you uncomfortable or being in an environment where that was so kind of open then then I can understand someone being uncomfortable with it. It's become

so second nature to me you know it's like you're used to it I don't even I don't even notice it and and when it's when it's a really cool party it can be some of the most amazing things you've ever seen in your life. I mean, to see people in groups making love and having sex, you know, all of it. It's funny, I don't know whether to say making love or having sex, because they are different.

You know, to me, having sex is like the physical act of sex. Making love is like actually being connected to your partner so that when you're together, there's love, you know, and you're sharing in that probably what you have with your fiance. When you bring that to a party, yeah, I don't know, you guys might want to just check it out and if you do, I mean if you want to, you let me know and I'm not going to charge you $5,000. I appreciate it. Absolutely. I love showing people what I do.

I really do. Because generally the reaction is just like, wow, I had no idea that that is what it was gonna be like. And I think the more people that experience it that can talk about it, like you could talk about it. Yeah. Right, because I'm inviting you on the show, you would be going for research.

You're not there, you don't have to be embarrassed about it. Like a lot of my clientele, if they go to a sex party, it might affect their careers, their job, maybe they're running a company. But for someone like you, you could actually go talk about it and so you could help me get the word out. And I know that whatever preconceptions you have about it, that I would change those.

Yeah, I'd be open. There's growth in uncomfortable situations. So for me putting myself in a situation like that, I'm willing to try it. Yeah. You know, and what and you know, and you can, and I'm not going to say what you do there. So whatever happens, whatever happens happens. It would be, it would be on you to speak about it or not. Yeah. No, that's cool, man. On your website, very interesting site, by the way, it said you were raised by wolves, spiritual teachers and drug experimenters. Yes. That's a lot. That's the's the Father Damon website. Yeah, I haven't even looked at that in a little while. Yeah, so what's going on with that? Well, I was not literally raised by wolves, but I was raised

by, I was raised in, you know, in the 70s, you know, I was born in 1970. I'm 53 years old. It was a different time, you know, my parents were hippies that everyone around was doing drugs. There's a lot of musicians You know, it was it was it was a time when When anything anything went, you know, like when I would fly to New York I know as a six-year-old kid cuz I have a lot of family over there They would put me and my sister, you know him me my sister over to the stewardess And and and one time they were like, you know, there was no seats left in non-smoking. Wow.

Okay, so imagine two little kids sitting on a plane and people are smoking next to us. It was a different world. You know, it was, people just were free. They just did what they wanted to do. And so some of that was absolutely beautiful. Cause if you think about the art and the music that came out of the sixties and the seventies, I mean, it was just like,

it was some of the best music that will ever be made. Agreed, I listened to seventies music. Okay, cool. And so that culture, you know, born me and I learned so much in it, but it was also as a child, a scary place. You know, it wasn't a place of safety. It wasn't a place of like, you know, I mean, I don't know how you were raised, but I have

I have kids now I have two kids. And like, I would never expose them to any of that. I would never do drugs or even drink in front of them. My parents did it was second nature to them and and everyone around them. So so yeah, I mean, it was raised by, what else did I say? I wrote that along the way. Raised by wolves, spiritual teachers

and drug experimenters. Yeah, right. So that pretty much covers it all. The spirituality was very strong in my family, but not religion, but spirituality. And I think a lot of people were searching at that time. Also spirituality was a lot of LSD and mushrooms and finding your way there through those channels.

So it was an intense childhood, but I think that I wouldn't want it any other way. I learned so much and it brought me to this place now where I am a very free thinking, very creative person. I would never be doing this if I listened to what society told me was okay. And I love what I do and I love what I give to my guests and to the people that come.

So yeah, it all worked out pretty good. Beautiful. And also mentioned on your site, you were finding the meaning of life. It sounds like you've really found your purpose, though. Yeah, I mean, I wrote that a long time ago. And my life has been really like a constant evolution. And I'm constantly learning more.

And I may say something to someone two months ago or three months ago and feel differently now. And I may say something now. And I might change my mind. And I allow myself to do that. You know, right now, I just spent six months, seven months up at this house, this estate in the Hollywood Hills, and I dove into a community that I'd never been a part of. And I, you know, and I was having a lot of sex

and a lot of like threesomes and foursomes and just a lot of stuff that was new for me on that level where these girls in the community are so free and open with their sexuality and they love sex. Was that the porn community? Yes. Okay. And in particular, they were really into the kind of sex that I'm into, which is that, like I was saying,

on set and all of that, they're just bodies getting fucked. They're not, you know, and then in their personal lives, a lot of times men just assume that that's what they want or that's what they are. But when you show them love and you connect in deeply with them and make love with them and fuck their brains out, of course, you do both. But that energy I found that they were very, not only open and receptive to, but it was like they would invite their friends over too.

I would be in a bed with three of them. Yeah, I mean, for real. And it was like they would invite their friends over too. Like I would be in a bed with three of them, and we were just, yeah, I mean, for real. And it was beautiful. And I thought, and I really had a lot of that experience. But sitting here now at this moment, like I'm glad I had the last five or six months of my life, but that is not actually what I'm seeking. And it reminded me that I like to have like my life, but that is not actually what I'm seeking. You know, and it reminded me that, you know, I like to have like my person and I like to

have a deep connection. And I was in a 20 year monogamous relationship before I started Sanctum. Dang. Yeah. And I have two kids with my ex wife and she's just an absolute, I mean, she's an incredible, incredible person. And then I started my club. And then when I about two years before I sold my club,

I got into another relationship that was six years. And I've only been single like maybe nine months or so. So I'm back in this stage of like wild experimentation and learning new things. I mean, these girls have taught me a lot, quite honestly. I thought I knew everything and I was already there, but I was learning things from these girls have taught me a lot, quite honestly. I thought I knew everything and I was already there. But I was learning things from these girls because they are like, their sexuality is advanced. How so? Like, what does that look like? I mean, part of it is just like, you know, this is not about spirituality at all. But part of it is

just like technique. I mean, like, these girls know how to suck dick in a way that civilians don't, you know? And they know how to like, yeah, just like, I mean, my bed would be soaked with so much squirting. I mean, the last time I had sex, I was like, I'm telling you, like, because I just changed the sheets. You know, I mean, we just fucking ruined the sheets the night before. And so, and this has been happening with me, I'm like, we just fucking ruined the sheets the night before. And so, and this has been happening with me,

I'm like, you know, like don't fucking squirt. Like just don't do it. I don't, you know, and I'll, it's kind of fun, but then it happened. So they're different. They're like, I've, in all of the years that I've had sex before this last seven, eight months, I'd maybe experienced that like one time.

Squirting? Yeah. Yeah, same. And I mean, these girls are just like, they're like, explode, it's crazy. You know, and I don't know if it's like, if they're doing that because that's part of their act now, you know, or, but in talking to them and, you know,

I'm not getting the feeling that it is. I'm getting the feeling that they're learning these things. They're learning how to squirt. And once they find that, that intensifies their orgasm, or it can. And so they want to really let go and release into that feeling. And it just all over the place. Whereas most women probably haven't, haven't learned that experience, you know? Yeah.

So yeah, like, and also, it's not, you know, I mean, I've had three, some stuff, but to have three girls all kind of me connected in with them and them all connected with me and them connected in with each other, you know, a lot of these girls are obviously bisexual for real, you know, not, not like a civilian bisexual, but like really, like they really love to have sex with each other. And so I get to be with them in this mix. So the sex was incredible, you know, it was really, it was really fun to be doing that. And I was, I told myself when I went into this, I was like, I want to be able to love these girls.

I wanna be able to say I love you. And I want them to be free to say that to me. And I would go into it like that. And I would say, listen, if I'm really feeling something for you, and I say I love you in a moment, because when someone is sucking your dick for 30 minutes straight and taking you to another planet. Like, you can't

help but to love that person. They are giving you so much pleasure and they're getting pleasure out of giving that to you. I mean, I literally, when I, after I have sex, I thank, I generally say, thank you. Wow. Thank you for that experience. And when I hear that back, then I know that, like, And when I hear that back, then I know that that was good sex. You know? Yeah. But I just changed the language a bit for them and the experience a bit for them and myself, because that's the kind of sex I like.

And the combination was just, it was amazing. That's incredible. Yeah, it was pretty strong. How are you lasting that long? Like from a blowjob? Yeah. I can't really come from blowjobs. What? It's really hard. Yeah. I can't really come from blowjobs. What?

It's really hard. I know people say that. But I'm a little weird. Like I don't, it's not that I don't ever want to come in someone's mouth or come out, but like I like pussy so much. Like I want to be inside somebody. And I get off when they get up like I get off on seeing them get off

You know when when when when you really take someone on a good ride? And and their eyes start to roll back into their head and you can see that they're They're they're going into this space where you're just and you're the one taking them there that fucking gets me off The a blowjob is, and I love pleasure, but what makes me want to get to a place of orgasm is going on that journey with someone. I like to, this is gonna, whatever, I don't care, I'm just gonna always speak my truth,

but I like having sex until I feel like someone can't really come anymore. Like they're at that point where if you keep going, it's like you can feel when it doesn't, they're done, they're exhausted. And then I will try to come with them for that last time. You know, I also, not that I want to say that drug use or of any kind is good and it might not be, but for me, like, I like to get really high when I have sex. I love sex and weed.

I have a brand called Sex Weed. I love sex and weed. It takes the ego out of it for me. It takes any performance anxiety out of it for me. And I really have like, you know, I just total dick control. TDC. That's what I call it. I just like, like, so weed helps me with that. Same. There's no doubt weed helps with sex.

And also being really comfortable with someone I generally don't just like, even though I throw sex parties, I don't generally meet someone at a sex party and just like pull him somewhere and fuck them. I want to get to know you. I want to understand you. I want to know a bit about you. I want to tell you a bit about me so that we form a bit of a connection because it makes sex better.

If you're jumping into sex and it's just this really perfect body and this beautiful girl and you're just trying to perform and you want to make her come and all you're thinking about is your own self and your own ego. Because really most of the time when you're thinking like, I want to make her come, you're thinking I want to make her come because I want to be the man. You're not thinking like, I just think I just want to be with this person. I just want to look at, I want to feel them. I want to have a hand on their heart so I can feel their heartbeat.

I want to listen to their breath. I want to have sex with them and I want to bring them somewhere. And I want to go to this place with them. So I'm really more focused on her than I am on myself. And it takes all of the pressure off me. You know, I'm just, yeah, I don't know. I kind of figured it out.

I kind of figured it out. And it's not like I can't know. I kind of figured it out. I kind of figured it out. And it's not like I can't come from a blowjob, but I just don't want to because I want to make love. You've got good control. Yeah, yeah, yeah. Do you let people explore their fetishes at your parties? Yeah, everyone can explore whatever they want. It's a really, it's a place where there's no judgment, which is nice for people. Where anyone can, you know, as long as it's consensual,

people can do whatever they want. You know, people can enjoy sexuality in any way that they like to. I don't attract, like, much of a fetish community to my clubs because I'm not necessarily that into fetish. You know, I've explored BDSM, I know Shabari, I've learned the art of it. And I can- Shibari, what's that? It's like doing the rope when you tie, put a dress on someone, you can suspend them from something.

Yeah. I've seen that, yeah. It's like a Japanese- 50 Shades of Grey, right? Yeah, kind of that vibe. I wanted to learn everything I could. And so if there is someone that genuinely wants to be restrained

or wants to feel out of control or wants to feel a little bit scared or wants to be choked or wants some of these types of things, I know how to do it. And if I know they genuinely want it, then I wanna give that to them. I want them to have the best experience they can with me because I want them to come back and invite their

friends too. You know, I mean, that's the reality of sexuality for me in my world is that, you know, if I'm not, if I'm not a good lover, then everyone knows. We all talk, everyone talks. So like, there's that part too, where, you know, I'm always trying to get out of ego and just trying to get into love, but I'm still a human being and I still have an ego. And so, yeah, I mean, I do want to really take care of whoever I'm with sexually. It's important to me. You mentioned Sexweed earlier. What's that about? Is that a weed company? Yeah. It's a weed brand that I launched recently. It's called Sexweed. And can I, I want to,

sexweed.com. And it's just, you know, sex and weed have been a thing for me for many years. The girl that I was with for six years introduced me to weed and sex. Before then, I wasn't really into weed. I didn't really understand why people wanted to get stoned. I actually didn't get stoned. Do you get stoned? Rarely these days. Yeah. I usually get stoned before these interviews. Really? Yeah. Does that help?

Yeah. It puts me in a bit of a philosophical state of mind. I love weed. I love weed now. But before when I'd smoke weed, before I kind of built up a tolerance to it I think I would just feel tired and kind of you know, let's RJ. Yeah, but now it especially the weed that I Grow, you know the weed that I put in my stuff. It's just very expansive and it really I love it I love having conversations on it. I love having sex on it When we do a part two, I'll smoke with you before Are you allowed to smoke here? Yeah, probably not inside but outside. Okay, cool. I don't think anyone will care. That's funny though We'll link it below. That's cool. Cool. Anything else you're up to before we close off?

Well a lot, but I guess we're coming to a close. Yeah, so Yeah, I would I guess if I'm going to say anything, it's that I want people to learn that sex can be something really beautiful and it can be a spiritual experience and that society telling you that it's bad or that it's dirty or that it's wrong, like they don't know what they're talking about or maybe they're having that kind of sex and that's on them. But we can have incredible sex and sex is beautiful and it can even be beautiful in a group situation. It can even be beautiful what you know whatever it is for people. If you find a way to do with

some love and you connect in with these people, your partners or people you just met, then you can have great sex. And that's the message I want to spread it. And I guess the last thing before we go is that, you know, if you're out there and you're a 20 year old guy and you're watching porn and you're seeing these girls in these scenes and you're thinking that's what girls want, it's fucking not. Like I promise you it's not.

I know if anyone knows I do, it's not what they want. They want connection and they want love or they're just fucking for money. So connect in with them, make love with them. It doesn't mean you need to be like totally, it's a roller coaster ride. Fuck their brains out, whatever. If they like that stuff and then slow it back down,

bring it into its intimacy, give them kisses, love them, look in their eyes, let them know that they're more than a fucking body or whatever and that will bring a new kind of sexuality and when you go out into the world and you meet some new girl, like connect, connect in, you know, don't fuck her unless she's someone that you want to talk to the next day. It's stupid, it's stupid for everybody. Just find ways to connect with each other and sex can be so, so, so good. And I, you know, your listeners, I'm sure a lot of them are in their 20s and they're getting the wrong idea from porn. You know, and I've been with a lot of them now and I'm speaking the truth you know these girls love connection

they love to feel loved and they and they love sex especially when it comes with with you actually giving a fuck about them you know and and that goes across the board for any woman and anyone anyone could meet so if I only have this much time yeah no that helps we'll definitely do a part two we'll link your club below if anyone's in, they can check it out, right? Cool, yeah, that, alicienvip.com. Awesome, if you're in Miami, guys, check it out for sure. Thanks for coming on, man, that was fun. Thank you, yeah, cool.

Thanks for watching, guys, see you tomorrow.