Digital Social Hour - My 5M Dating Criteria: Why I Don't Use Tinder I CJ Sparxx DSH #463

Episode Date: May 16, 2024

🔥 In this explosive episode of the Digital Social Hour, Sean Kelly dives deep with the bold and unfiltered CJ Sparks! Discover why CJ has ditched Tinder and prefers the elite Seeking Arrangements, specifically looking for men with a $5 million net worth! 😲 From the healing powers of nature and ancient civilizations to debunking adult industry myths and how going sober changed her life, no stone is left unturned. CJ even shares her wild experiences with time travel and speculates on whether humans are going extinct! 🌍 CJ gets real about growing up on a farm, her journey into the adult industry, and why she’s turned her back on traditional dating apps. Plus, hear her controversial takes on male beauty standards and the role of love languages in relationships. This is an episode you won’t want to miss! 🚀 APPLY TO BE ON THE PODCAST: https://forms.gle/D2cLkWfJx46pDK1MA SPONSORS: Deposyt Payment Processing: https://www.deposyt.com/seankelly PS Condoms: https://www.psgoodtimes.com/discount/Podcast10 Special thanks to our sponsors, including PS. Use discount code PODCAST10 for 10% off at PSGoodtimes.com.  👉 Don't forget to subscribe, like, and share! Stay tuned for more groundbreaking episodes every week! #AgeGapRelationships #ModelingCareer #ActsOfService #SpiritualBeliefs #LifechangingRelationships CHAPTERS: 0:00 - Intro 0:33 - CJ's Favorite Dating App 1:24 - Growing Up in a Small Town 3:55 - What Was Your Sugar Daddy Like 7:28 - Why You Don't Use Dating Apps 11:00 - CJ's Sobriety Journey 13:02 - Do You Want Kids 18:05 - Best Condoms on the Market 21:00 - Reacting to the PS Condom 25:50 - How Long Have You Gone Without Sex 27:28 - Sex Means Different Things for Men and Women 30:23 - Your Mom's House Podcast 32:25 - Can You Taste Race? 35:07 - What's Your Hall Pass BUSINESS INQUIRIES/SPONSORS: [e-mail] LISTEN ON: Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/digital-social-hour/id1676846015 Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/5Jn7LXarRlI8Hc0GtTn759 Sean Kelly Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/seanmikekelly/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Do you know the five love languages? Yeah, acts of service, words of affirmation, physical touch, physical gifts. What's the other one? Gifts, and then I think it's time. Time, okay. Time spent, yeah. All men that know the five love languages, it's very good, guys. It's helpful.

I really do think you don't necessarily use it every day. This episode is presented by PS. Guys, are you sick of using products that aren't effective or even good for you? PS has created products for men you actually want to use. Go to psgoodtimes.com and use discount code PODCAST10 for 10% off your order. Ladies and gentlemen, we got CJ Sparks here. You just said you're single, so you hopping on those dating apps? Yeah, yeah.

What's your favorite one? My favorite one and the only one I use is Seeking Arrangements. Oh. Yeah. That's the one where you could select your income and stuff yes okay so what's your criteria on that site um well i got um i went a little viral for saying this but i want them to be at least five million or more salary a year worth oh net worth okay yeah yeah i mean i feel like in la that's that's like middle class in la i mean i wasn't gonna say it but you know sean said it y'all so well no for real because like a house out here is like a million bucks a million plus yeah and we're talking you know kind of like a fixer-upper at that like in in a not so nice neighborhood yeah at that rate

unfortunately i don't make the rules y'all it pretty wild. Have you been out here for a while? I have. I've been out here for about eight years. Damn. Yeah. Where'd you move from? From Sacramento. So not that far, but a small town though. I grew up in a small town up in Northern California called Galt. What was that like growing up in a small town? A lot of cows. You were a farm girl. I was a farm girl. Yeah. We actually used to butcher the cows growing up. Whoa. Damn.

One time, I've never told this story on a podcast. One time, the school bus pulled up and there was like a cow hanging from a crane. Wait, what? And he was preparing to go be cut cut up sounds pretty traumatizing to see that as a kid honestly so here's the thing you know we were all country kids so um it was a little bit traumatizing because we were young we didn't really understand but we kind of already knew so it was a lot less traumatizing i think today nowadays i think probably the suit of the school would get sued and probably you know whoever's family was would get sued and probably whoever's family it was would get sued.

Yeah, they'd get canceled. People are so happy. But yeah, the whole farm would have been canceled. I don't know where I would have went to school. There was only one. Wow. Yeah. You were in the slaughterhouse capital of California right there.

I didn't realize that, but I guess I was. Yeah. So what made you want to leave that and go out to- What made me want to leave my riches on the farm where we were slaughtering all my pets? Well, let me see. You know, I moved to Sacramento, kind of hoping to start a life there. And I got started into modeling. And I went down to LA a few times and had made some friends down here.

And had tried moving once, lived in like a webcamming house and then moved back and I got myself a sugar daddy and then moved back to Sacramento and tried to like live life on the straight and narrow if you will and um then I went back down there uh to LA to here and um to West Hollywood and have been here ever since. Honestly, I feel so at home here. There's a lot of people up in Sacramento or different small towns you'll go to. And they're like, oh, I hear that LA is full of bad people. You guys might get that about Vegas. Do you ever get that about Vegas though? Because it's just such an influx of people from all over the world. I hear people are bad there. You can't trust anyone. There's so

many good people down in LA and I've met so many of them. I'm so grateful to be down here. I don't think I would have been able to get sober if I was living in Sacramento. Wow. Yeah. Okay. So there's a lot we got to dissect here, starting with the sugar daddy thing. What was that relationship? Like, was it financial? You would just get money from them well okay so i'm like really bad at like being a sugar baby because i fall in love like when people are really nice to me and give me money that's your love language i just gifts gifts are my love language yeah i actually used to feel a lot of shame around that and um i don't anymore because it's a very it's a very valid love language y'all.

Okay, there's five. Do you know the five love languages? Yeah, acts of service, words of affirmation, physical touch, physical gifts. What's the other one? Gifts, and then I think it's time. Time, okay. Time spent, yeah, yeah. Very good.

All men that know the five love languages, it's very good, guys. It's helpful. I really do think. You don't necessarily use it every day, but I think it's helpful knowledge to know. So, um, that's my big one. And, um, I met this guy, he was 20 years older than me and yeah, but he was so smart. That's one of the things, um, also that I love. I love when somebody can teach me something. So typically it is older guys. So I've typically always dated older guys.

And this guy was like my first sugar daddy. And he just kept trying to give me things. At first I was just like, oh, this is a little uncomfortable. I'd always dated older guys who had done nice things for me. And I'd had boyfriends ever since I was like 14, 15. Probably too young to have a boyfriend admittedly, but I did as a small town. That's what we did.

So I was used to people doing nice things for me and I always knew that I liked that. But then this guy came around and he was much, much older, again, 20 years older. So that was the biggest age gap dating situation I'd ever been in. But he was so cool. He spoke like five different languages. He had a couple of different businesses. He at the time was encouraging me like to get a

real estate license and to kind of think into the future. And I'd never, I'd never thought about that. I was in my early twenties. I'm like future. Well, I'm concerned about tomorrow. I didn't know about any of that and so um it was very it was very life-changing for me so that's kind of how i choose to continue to date because i had such a good experience the first time that's an interesting dynamic when i think of sugar daddy i just think of like gifts and money but that seems more of like a dating relationship yeah that's why i say sugar daddy because honestly i think it's very shocking and it gets people's attention he was giving me money but i know a lot of girls um they kind of use sugar daddy for a term like where somebody is

they don't care about the person yeah and i'm kind of bad in that i just fall in love because i'm like this person is so nice they're so awesome and they're so wonderful and they just want to do nice things for me like i just just fall in love. Yeah. Some people fall in love easily, man. For me, it's tough. I've only had maybe one, two loves in my whole life. Really? Yeah.

Well, you're a dude. I think it's maybe it's a little bit different. You know, you guys have a lot more different things that I think you're thinking of when it comes to love. Women were typically led by our emotions so that's why women um men and women or the feminine the masculine fits so well together yeah because whereas you guys are a little more standoffish then we're like hi baby how's your day how's it going do you like this outfit i was like i was i was talking to somebody when i walked up and i was like dude like oh do you like my outfit?

I'm like, I'm being such a girl right now, but whatever. I feel that. I'm a woman. Wow. So you never tried out like Raya or Tinder or anything? No, I don't. Okay. Raya number one, because I think that's for people that have a little bit of celebrity.

I don't give a shit about that. I don't give a shit. I'd actually rather somebody not have like the social clout and just have, you know, be very, very financially stable. I really don't care about that. Also, I think it's weird. I'm going to be honest. I think it's weird when guys profit off their looks. When guys profit off their looks? Yeah.

What do you mean? Because I think that men should be like a little bit more on the smarter side. I think that women are typically the sex that is profiting off of our looks. It's more of a feminine thing to me. Oh, so like male models, you're not a fan of that? Male models or, you know, like people that are like a male that's in the mirror, like doing a selfie or like a gym selfie or shirtless selfie. Like there's such a fine line for you guys there's such a fine line like there's guys that there's one guy that i follow and he's like always taking

a shirtless selfie and i really like him as a person i know him as a person but i'm just like this is so like i don't know look into the camera and say something like what am i getting from this as a woman like who are you thirst trapping for sir so looks aren't enough for you you need no i don't even care what they look like really so you could date anyone i've dated people that are overweight i've dated people that are balding i've wow so that little baby alien shorter than me that little baby alien guy have you seen him no who uh he like hooked up with that girl on the bus the little short black guy you haven't seen that he's a baby alien yeah damn um well okay so i did um date somebody pretty seriously for about a year that uh was burned on 70 80 of their body burned on 78 so he was literally like yeah he had burns

all over his body yeah and all over his face But before you dated him or while you were dating, he got burned? He had been burned before at his, I believe it was his high school prom. He got in a car accident and stuck in the car and the car blew up. Yeah. Damn. Yeah. So looks really don't matter. Looks really don't matter.

That is rare. I feel like most people put that in the top like two. You know, I like want somebody that's gonna prioritize me make me feel good and really want to do things to make me feel good and put a smile on my face um i just don't i don't know i don't really know when that happened for me i've i've never cared about looks like i'll have girlfriends be like oh look at this guy's six pack i'm like what is this doing for me nothing like i've even said on my podcast i, I'm not going to fuck a celebrity or like a hot guy. I see no point just because they're a celebrity or just because they're hot.

Unless it's like, I don't have to pay taxes afterwards. Then that would make sense to me. Yeah. But like, other than that, I'm just like, what is this guy's abs going to do? Like, he's not going to have these abs for the rest of his life. So you're a team dad bond. I mean, yeah. I want somebody to be healthy.

I wouldn't want somebody that's smoking, drinking, coughing. Bad health. Coughing. Can't hardly breathe. Snores when he sleeps. I wouldn't want somebody that was grotesquely not taking care of themselves. But yeah, I don't need a six-pack if you're in the gym and you have like a belly like i don't care just try to try to do the best for yourself

that's hopeful for a lot of guys watching this thank you you just need five million dollars baby five million dollar network guys that's all it takes um so you said no drinking i know you're completely sober right now right yeah how long have you been sober? I'm so excited. I'm coming up on five years, April 15th. So of course, one day at a time, but I'm looking forward to that timeline because in the 12-step program, that's when you kind of graduate from being a kid to a teenager. Really? Five years? Yeah. It's a long time. Bit of a milestone. Yeah. Wow. And how bad was it at the peak? Were you drinking all the time? to like a teenager really five years yeah it's a long time bit of a milestone yeah wow and uh how

bad was it at the peak like were you drinking all the time so bad oh my god and i love too i don't know if we could say that maybe just bleep that out but um i really just i really just love drinking and people are like do you miss it and i'm like y'all have this beautiful vision of me on a yacht and Sandro pay having like a beautiful glass of champagne, like the sun's beaming down. I'm being served grapes on a platter. It wasn't like that. It was in a very dark, dingy, small, tiny bar. I was belly up to the bar and, um, you know, like, like Ted or Bill, bill bob whoever is like on the other side and i'm like chatting with the bartender and i'm like buying this old guy uh you know around or whatever so him and i can drink together because i'm just i didn't even want to go to like beautiful places

i love to go to the dark places the dirtier the better the smaller the better yeah i didn't want to have to like get dressed up i mean that's the end of course but in the end i even started like i wouldn't want to go out because i would just be like i'm gonna come back home and there's not gonna be any alcohol here or like i'm gonna have to stop drinking at 1 30 so i can get back home and there's a mad rush to go get alcohol at 2 a.m yeah wait people are going to the liquor store at 2 a.m like you've never been to the liquor store at like 159 like please okay then you're not an alcoholic congratulations well yeah i guess that's the test right there to determine if you're an alcoholic or not yeah wow um it was very dark

geez um so you're 38 are kids out of the question or do you want kids? No, I think that obviously it's harder. It's going to be harder for me at this point. And there are more risks when you're older. But, you know, this is just like where it is. I have to date with intention currently. Like Kevin Samuels used to say, I have to focus like a laser during my dating right now. I can't just be out.

Do you know who Kevin Samuels is? Actor, right? No. He was like – he's kind of called like the godfather of the red pill. Oh, wait. Okay. I think I heard of him. He died.

Yeah. Was he black? He was black. Yes. Yeah. Was he black? He was black. Yes. Yeah. And so he would say, you know, he would also say, I think like after 25 or something, it's like no man's land. And then there was like a soundbite that he would use. It would be the equivalent of like the, what is the bush like blowing in the wind?

Like no man's land where it's like the desert yeah i've seen that clip the tumbleweed yeah yeah so you would have like the he would have the sound bite that he would play um i had the um good fortune to meet him in person and have like a private one-on-one hour-long discussion with him and he gave me some really beautiful insight and he was just like listen you, like you've made mistakes. Congratulations. We all have. Like just, you know, when you're dating now, from now on, choose differently, be better,

hold yourself accountable for certain things that you kind of up on up until this point and try to do it differently in the future. I do want kids. I think it's like a little late for me to freeze my eggs. I've had a couple of girlfriends say, you need to freeze your eggs. I'm like, I'm not freezing 38 year old eggs. Well, Holly just had a kid at 40. I mean, that's Holly. Did she freeze her eggs? I don't know what she did. I think she had her baby naturally. And I think she's been in like a committed relationship for a while. So that being said, I mean,

that would probably work for me, but am I going to freeze my eggs at 38 and not hope that by 40, I'll already have had a baby naturally? Yeah. I think for me, you know, 40 is probably where it starts to get really scary. It's nerve wracking right now. I'd be lying if I said it's not nerve wracking. It is nerve wracking. You know, I don't really have the cushion. the cushion is gone and I'm on borrowed time. Yeah. Girls are on a clock. I'm lucky to be a guy. I can have a kid at Hugh Hefner's age, 80. He had a kid. Yeah. Yeah. I don't really know if 80 is that healthy. Yeah. That's extreme.

That's definitely extreme. But even like forties, you can have a kid because, um, there is studies that have to do also with men's sperm and different things. It's kind of tough for you guys as you get older to the health of the child. It can be questionable. Oh, really? Interesting. Yeah, because the sperm is not as strong, right? Yeah.

I mean, we all age, you know, but women, our worth in society is a lot more on our shoulders as we age versus you guys. It would be societally accepted a lot more for you to have a baby at probably not 80, but like 55, 60. It would be societally accepted. You would have that easier for me. I would be roasted, my God. And I think it would be foolish too, because I don't even know if, you know, there's probably some lady in India who's maybe carrying a baby when she's 60. You know, I don't know. It's like, there's always these incredible stories where you're like, oh my God, she was sleeping and then she woke up and had a baby, you know?

So, I mean, but obviously that's kind of like a very random, not the norm experience. But that being said, societally, you know, women are a lot more judged. Yeah. Especially with like body counts and stuff. Yeah. See that all the time. Yeah. But now that now it's a new era i'm starting low body counts you're starting a new era i'm starting it's a spiritual movement high mileage lady no no mainly for guys okay so like guys it was looked down on to have low body counts for men yeah you got made fun of like in high school to have a low body count it would be um a minus for a man yes yes you get bullied made fun of you should but

now i'm changing it oh you're changing it changing the narrative guys no the men need to know you need to know what to do as a guy you're supposed to kind of be the leader what are you gonna fumble around sean i'm keeping it single digits. Single digits. Yeah. That's the way to go. Just like one at a time or like no more wild orgies for you? None at all.

No. Okay. You've put the kibosh on that. I don't know what that is, but yeah. That means that you've stopped it. I never started. You never started.

I've never been in an orgy. No. Oh my God. That's so beautiful and pure. You've been in an orgy? I haven't been in an orgy no oh my god that's so beautiful and you've been in an orgy i haven't been in an orgy but i'm a woman if i say yes i've been in so many orgies people are gonna go boo death to cj sparks canceled that's awful and then you as a guy you're gonna be like i've been

in so many orgies what do you mean they're incredible they're great and then people are gonna go that's great sean ke. We think you should do more. This episode is presented by PS. Guys, are you sick of using products that aren't effective or even good for you? PS has created products for men that you actually want to use. These guys have done a ton of research

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right away because you're a man. Yeah. Double standard, right? Yeah. But you do tweet a lot about full moon. So are you into like astrology, spiritual stuff? Did I tweet about a full moon? A few times. Okay. I am. I was just talking. I was actually just telling one of my guy friends who was out the other night on Saturday. And it happened to be a full moon.

I was like, you should go up to these girls at the bar. And you should ask them about it being a full moon. Like it would be a really good opener. A really unique opener. I don't really know too, too it being a full moon. Like it would be a really good opener, a really unique opener. I don't really know too, too much about the full moon. I have an app called Moonly. You guys should sponsor the Sean Kelly podcast. There's an app for everything.

There's an app for everything. God bless. And so I'll check up some of the things on that. Women, our bodies are, you know, again, we're a lot more like with connected to the seasons and connected to nature like the earth is called a mother mother earth you know like the time is a father time is a dude time's a man father time but the earth is a mother so we're a lot more connected in that way spirituality and all that good stuff, you know, like without getting too crazy, like, you know, as a woman, it's really good if your cycle is synced up with the moon.

It's kind of like telling you that you're in sync and you're at one. Yeah, I've heard that actually. Yeah. Yeah. So that being said, I think that especially like the full moon has a unique meaning for women. So I am, I guess, a little bit witchy in that. I wouldn't be able to describe exactly why. I know that there's a thing like with the water.

Like we as humans have, I don't know, 70% water. Somebody's probably going to roast me in the comments for that. However much water. We got a lot of water in our bodies. I think it's in the 70s. I've heard that. Okay. Sean said he agrees.

Damn, you're putting all the heat on me this episode i really am because i know the internet loves to roast um so i just i need a partner in this place just to be my partner but um and then so the full moon does have uh it can like control or i'm probably not describing it very well but it has something to do also with the waves and the ocean so there is something like um there's something emotional about that we have our we can have mood swings or we can feel very at peace i love being a woman really yeah i like being a guy i don't think i'd pick woman if i got to choose i'd pick guy that's good what about you that's good i'm happy being a woman okay yeah although i did have a dream that i had i about you that's good i'm happy being a woman okay yeah although

i did have a dream that i had i mean you probably were in a past life who knows i mean yeah i hope i would get to experience like being a guy in a past life that would be really cool i feel like if i was a guy i'd be like a very cool fun guy like probably for sure i would be um like the tribal leader for sure i hunted dinosaurs at some point and got one a big one for sure and for sure i had a really nice house as a caveman wow the housing seems to be important to you over these lifetimes stability yeah yes interesting what was the dream with the about what were you doing What were you doing? I don't know. I just, I had this dream. It was a while back. And in my dream, I had a p***.

And I, in my dream, was like, p***, I've got to put this somewhere. Because it was like ready to go. It wasn't a flaccid. It was hard. It was hard and ready to go. Okay. And I was like, and I, now I feel as though I can empathize with guys a little bit just from my small, tiny dream experience that in that dream, I was like, I got to put it

somewhere. Yeah. It felt like I had the urge to put it somewhere. I feel that. Did you have to put a PS condom on it? Did I have to put a condom on it? Yeah. You know, in the dream, I didn't get that far.

But honestly, you know, like I would like to think I would be a responsible owner and put a condom on it. I feel that. Let's see one if you don't mind. Where is it? This is the box? Yeah. Okay. All right. Here we go. go zoom in ps condoms what are we psing because you know ps is something you say at the end of a letter like ps love ya i remember everybody knows

ps never call me again yeah yes die letters are a lost art we should bring them back i'd be bringing letters back i'd be leaving notes. Yeah? Yeah. People would be knowing if I was there. Are you that girl that leaves a note when you hit a car? No, I don't drive. For like, I just don't. I'm like a passenger princess. Okay.

Very nice. I would like to say the box is a 10 out of 10. I have to also comment, it's a little sticky. Did y'all already use this? Might have spilled some lube on it earlier. Okay. Oh, love that. Extra large. Okay. So this is an extra large sonar. Don't know if I had an extra large one in my dream. there's so many in here this person is having a lot of sex wow that's at least slip into something more comfortable

that's a very good tagline for a condom because is it more comfortable i would like to know what is it more comfortable than right the actual vagina itself because that is a bold claim that is bold probably other condoms are talking about okay is the condoms do they like cut the you know is it good to have a little tightness at the base sean yeah well these are loose i don't know these are 30 thinner i think 30 thinner how many do we have in here? Let's find out. Let's count it. You've been busy. No worries. We've got you covered.

So let me ask, is this something that comes monthly? Is this a subscription, if you will? Much like the OnlyFans? I don't know. Okay. Two, four, six, eight, ten. There's 11 in here. Now, is the 11th a good luck condom or has one already been let astray? We might have filmed a little earlier, you know?

Oh, my God. Keeping it LA, baby. In the same chair you're sitting in. I love that. I love, okay, well, you wouldn't be the first people to film in the same chair I'm sitting in. So, just so you know. All right. Latex condom.

There we go. There we go there we go okay love this all the looks really nice you are is it like different colors or smells tastes open one find out let's see open one is it okay hold on it's not gonna get juicy is it okay it's just your typical yellow pineapple condom there you have it guys doesn't smell bad shout out to uh who's gonna have sex with this one now unused unused all right guys well there you have it all right well honestly those condoms can take a lot of abuse so i highly recommend using them the next time you f*** guys how long will those 12 last you? I'm not having sex right now

yeah you are no I'm not what's the longest you've gone without sex? the longest I've gone recently was like six months damn five and then I had like another spurt after that where I did five months. It's pretty long, honestly. I mean, not to say that I wasn't, you know, like furiously masturbating at home.

Right. Because I was. But, you know, um, also as women, like, I think that, um, I think that if we're, like, sex just means, sex is typically used correctly. I support everybody's right to do. And I know that a lot of these women really enjoy their jobs and they have a very different sexual experience, you know, because there's work sex and then there's relational sex. for myself, I was thinking or I was making probably like not the best decisions, like who I was getting into relationships with. And so I had a couple bad experiences. And I was like, I need to take a break, because I don't know, you know, like kind of to work on myself and just be like, why did I choose this person that was ended up being very very very wrong i feel that yeah yeah so you said sex means different things for men and women yeah what did you mean by that um sex emotionally you know like endorphins are released and sex for men is typically

kind of like a means to an end. You know, you kind of just want to get off, which is neither bad nor good. It just simply is. Sex for women, our emotions typically get more involved, you know, even if we just have sex with somebody just once, you know. And I also acknowledge that I think I really do think that when these porn stars are having sex, I truly do think it when these porn stars are having sex, I truly do think it is different for them because they go in there with a certain mindset.

Like this is the job. Like when I take my pictures for only fans, I'm like not taking it them in the same way that I would maybe take like a hot selfie for a guy that I was dating. You know, I'm just not, you know, if there's a connection emotionally, then things are things are different. So I do believe that. For me, when I'm having sex, it's like, I'm not somebody I'm like a big boyfriend gal. I love a boyfriend. Like even when I was drinking all those years, I had people that I'm so grateful helped take care of me. It was typically my boyfriend. So I'm so grateful for all those experiences. And when I'm having sex with somebody,

it's typically because I'm already liking them. So you won't just have a random one night stand. I mean, I definitely am not an angel. I certainly have had those in my lifetime. But yeah, it's just, it seems like a net negative for a woman to even just go and have a one night stand. Like why? What am I getting out of this? Nothing. Just pleasure in that moment, I guess. I would hope so. I would hope so. But if it's a one night stand, how much, how much can that person know about me or my body? And then

how comfortable am I going to be able to say like, no baby, don't do it like that. Can you do it like it's a one night stand how much how much can that person know about me or my body and then how comfortable and am i going to be able to say like no baby don't do it like that can you do it like this please i prefer it more like it's gonna be kind of weird yeah because most girls yeah most girls what's your name again can you hit it like this and not like this i don't really like that the person's just gonna be like okay weird yeah why are you talking yeah because i heard most girls aren't even finishing like that you know from sex you need additional stuff done yeah a lot of girls typically again i don't know the numbers um typically most women come from penetration and clitoral stimulation so it's like a puzzle we are you you know the meme about the men's switches and women's switches

like men have an on-off switch and then women have like a whole motherboard computer board like dexter's laboratory yeah exactly yeah and men it's just on off which there's nothing wrong with that it's not right or wrong it just simply is it's just how it is i guess yeah yeah well uh i want to talk about your podcast, actually. You've been crushing it. Any exciting guests coming on or recent episodes? Yes, we have so many guests. I actually just received a voice message from one of our guests the other day who is very excited to come on. She's a very huge, very well-known, very decorated star. So I'm very excited to have her on

very soon. So we're just figuring out dates for that. We're going to be filming again this weekend and we have another I think we film

typically anywhere from four to five episodes in like a little crunch. Yeah. And so we have a bunch of great

performers coming up and I'm excited for all of them but we have one that i'm very very excited for yeah do you have any that you filmed that are favorites of yours any favorite guests that come to mind you know um some of the guests recently have been killing it we all of all of the guests i imagine it's kind of like being a guy hosting these podcasts. All of these women bring something beautiful, unique, exciting, and sexy to the table. Like I imagine it's like what dating would be like in LA as a guy where you're just like,

everyone's hot and like they're all good in their own certain way like there's definitely not any one standout guest because every guest brings the heat in a different way which i'm so thankful for yeah especially because when we were first starting out it was there was like a little awkward moments where maybe people didn't really know what to say and you're kind of like still figuring out like what your job is as a host. I've been there. Definitely been there. Yeah.

And you literally are like just want to reach over and poke them like, you good? Like, are you alive? Like, are you being forced to do this? Like, what's happening? And so I'm so grateful because as we've been going on, the interviews get easier and better and the guests get better as well. One standout guest who made an outrageous claim was the Dan Dangler. And she said on the podcast that she could taste between a black guys come and a white guys come. Wow.

And that she liked the black guys come better huh and that kind of like set the internet ablaze yeah i i can't speak from experience obviously but that's interesting you know i wonder if there's something there maybe the diet right she said that's what she said she said that the um black men and tasted better and she thought it was because they were ultimately taking better care of themselves because the black men are held to a higher standard physically. Really? Mm-hmm. In the industry?

Mm-hmm. I didn't even know that was a thing. But yeah, it's got to be the diet because if you're eating like ****, obviously, it's going to taste weird. Yeah. Yeah. Which I was like mind blown. We had a guest, Connie Pena, who was talking about how she was a working gal and she walked in on a client who was smoking crack. Wow. He was like chit-chatting with her with his leg like up on the sink like, you know, and she's like, oh, what is going on here?

Oh, my God. You know, and I hope it was after the sex. I don't I don't recall whether it was because it'd be like weird to kiss someone that like just smoked crack. That's so weird. I didn't even think about that. That'd be strange. But like, that would be so I want like, can you taste it? I would I would be so freaked out.

I just be like, sir, please brush your teeth. I don't know. I don't know how. That's what comes to your mind. Brush your teeth. Yeah, just brush your teeth. But it was so funny I don't know how. That's what comes to your mind, brush your teeth? Yeah, just brush your teeth. But it was so funny because everyone in the comments was like, Hunter Biden? So we didn't either confirm nor deny.

Could be. Could be. And here you go, Hunter. Disease. P.S. P.S. Condoms. Wrap something up somewhere.

Do you only have women on your show? So we typically do have women because your show so we um typically do have women because quite frankly that's what everyone wants to see we've had men um i would like to have jason love on at some point he's a big one um kieran carrying lee um johnny sins and manuel ferreira that manuel ferreira is my hall pass. Yeah, I'm not in a relationship, but that's my hall pass. If I ever get in a relationship and everyone's like,

what's your hall pass? It's not going to be a celebrity. It's going to be Manuel Ferreira. And it's because of his scene with Angela White. The scene. I don't even know what it was. Y'all don't know the scene.

You got to look it up. It was that good? It was that good. I watched just a little snippet and I was sold. Damn. Don't even know what it was y'all don't know the scene you gotta look it up it was that good it's that good all right i watched just a little snippet and i was sold damn don't even know what this man's face looks like damn ready that good ready to go it was looking good let me tell you um god bless that man all right well if you're watching this man shoot her dm i guess yeah i you know i don't think so but i think truthfully, I might be a little intimidated. I actually don't know if I could go through with something like that.

But so these are men that we love to have on the show. But honestly, the guys' episodes don't always do as well. People want to hear from the women. Like the crazy things are happening to us. I kind of feel that on my show too. The women get more views for some reason. Yeah. I don't know why. For what? For some reason? Yeah. Got to figure out why. So weird. They're just big personalities. Well, CJ, it's been fun. Anything you want to promote or close

off with? I will just say that I am very excited to be speaking at an upcoming conference that unfortunately is going to be done after this airs um but it's a biohacking conference i'm very excited about and i hope to have more speaking engagements in the future so if y'all watch this in the future you want me to come speak and do something crazy shoot me a dm speak on biohacking um well it has to do also with sobriety because yeah you can just i mean you hack your whole life if you're sober babe nice love me yeah thanks for watching guys as always see you tomorrow