Digital Social Hour - Richelle Ryan Will Take Your Virginity! | Digital Social Hour #124

Episode Date: October 7, 2023

On today's episode of The Digital Social Hour, we sit down with Richelle Ryan to talk about her transition into OF, taking virginities and how good the money is in her industry. BUSINESS INQUIRIES/SPONSORS: [e-mail] APPLY TO BE ON THE POD: https://forms.gle/qXvENTeurx7Xn8Ci9 SPONSORS: Opus Pro: https://www.opus.pro/?via=DSH HelloFresh: https://www.hellofresh.com/50dsh AG1: https://www.drinkAG1.com/DSH Hostage Tape: https://hostagetape.com/DSH LISTEN ON: Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/digital-social-hour/id1676846015 Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/5Jn7LXarRlI8Hc0GtTn759 Sean Kelly Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/seanmikekelly/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Out of the 17 years of doing,, who would you say, like, out of all the races, have, like, the biggest? Predominantly, black men do have the biggest ones. Sorry, Sean. Because after MILF, there's, I don't even know what's after that. Yeah, I mean, there's GILF. But I don't know if I want to go that route.

What's GILF? Grandma. Grandma, I'd like to. But I don't want to get GILF. Oh, it's out there. It's out, ask the Google machine. It's out there. Grandma, I'd like to f***. But I don't want to get guilt. Oh, it's out there. Ask the Google machine. It's out there. Wow, guilt.

And then what's after that? Oh, I don't know. I hope there's nothing after that. G-Gil for great-grandma. Great-grandma. welcome back to the digital social hour i'm your host sean kelly here with my co-host wayne lewis what up what up and our guest today rachelle ryan hi how you doing i'm doing amazing thanks for having me on absolutely white so seely whites, I see you. Oh, yes. I overly bleach my teeth.

For real? Yeah. What do you use? Everything. Really? Everything. You got to give me some advice. Yeah.

Oh, I get that. Well, I get the Zoom whitening from my dentist, and then I sleep with the Crest 3D whitening strips on. You sleep with them on? And I think that's why they're so white. And trust me, like, I have- Yo, those yo those hurt i know i have major sensitivity issues hot cold everything yeah wow they're like really white but i have white teeth and you guys noticed it yeah and they're not veneers either no literally just yeah i had braces as a kid

are you supposed to use the strips for like 10 minutes 30 yeah like 30 and i sleep with them for eight hours is that like supposed to you're not supposed to do that that bleach is working up working work that is oh i'm seeing right now on the screen yeah they are nice and white what you've been working on other than whitening your teeth oh my gosh i am a workaholic. I'm always working. I still currently shoot adult films and then I feature dance and I also do. So I have my hands in all the baskets making money. So out of those three, what's bringing in the most dough right now? Probably OnlyFans. Okay.

Yeah. For real? Killing a dough fan? Oh yeah, definitely. Wow. okay yeah for real killing a dolphin oh yeah definitely definitely yeah yeah i've so i started in the adult film industry i did oh yeah okay and back to our regularly scheduled program yes um i started doing adult films july 11th 2006 so i'm coming up on 17 years wow so which is a huge deal because being relevant almost two decades and seeing the shift from you know when i first got in the industry we were literally just that's all we did was just shoot for the companies and we were making them so much money. And millions. Billions. A billion-dollar industry.

And it's insane. And so I'm enjoying seeing the shift. I love that the control is in the performers' hands, that we can now own and create our own content. And fans are seeing that, and they love that. And it's very personal. They can chat with us. They can see our private videos and, you know, whatever we want to share with them. And, you know, I think it's great.

So you so you still do today? Yes. So you actually like doing. I do. You know, I shoot anywhere from two to four times a month. And that's just to kind of keep my name relevant. And I want to get the traffic from the big companies. You know, when I first got into the industry, my agent, he had me working all the time.

I was shooting for anyone, basically. And now I'm just kind of like, I only want to shoot for the top companies because I want to get their traffic. But I spend so much time between my takes up so much time. Yeah. Have you ever done a shoot where you're like kind of uncomfortable, like they're making you do some weird stuff? Um, no, I was always pretty good. I'm pretty vocal. I'm an Italian from New York. So if I don't like something, I'm like, I'm out. I don't like this. And I'm really good at communicating like, Hey, this is what I like. This is what I don't like. And you know, so I would, I would leave. So, so what do you like um what do i like um you know

it's it's weird the older i get the more vanilla i feel like i get um you know when i first got into the industry i was 21 and i was like oh i love women and i love everything and now i'm kind of like yeah i just like guys i just wanted like i love men i love like that testosterone that's all i want to be around but i mean i don't hate women but it's just me it's you know when i first started in the industry i was 21 which i could do like teen stuff and then i kind of morphed into that weird age from like 28 to 32 where it's like oh okay well we don't know what category to put her in so you're just kind of like why not um there's there's teen there's milf and then there's like the hot girls like in between and then there's like tatted up girls it's like

everybody wants to put everyone in a category yeah and um so i was just kind of in that weird stuck in that weird category for a very very long time time and then morphed over into the MILF side, which I absolutely love. So how do you separate actual, like the interaction of *** outside of *** and ***? Are they the same? I've always been. Do they feel the same in general? No, definitely not. I've always been really good at separating work life and my personal life. It's, you know, when you're performing on camera, even for a lot of people too,

it's not about us getting off as the performer. It's we're actresses and we're giving a performance. And, you know, you want the viewer that's paying for it you want them to get off so it's like a lot of times you know I'm shooting and I've been on set I've been up since 6 I haven't eaten breakfast I bet it make up for tuna before you eat breakfast and you're like oh you know but um yeah so it's like when i do get to have my personal life it's great it's i call it smothers it's like which we don't get on camera because we have to like open up and show everything like i like like good smothers they just want to be smothered by a man and yeah i love that yeah so i'm really good at

kind of separating like work and home life. So how do you separate? How does what's the mental that a guy has to have? It's it's very tough for guys. I honestly couldn't imagine being a male performer in the industry because for guys, it's more mental. And now what I'm seeing, I'm saying a guy that you're involved with like he's at home waiting oh that's that's a whole nother podcast we can get into that one that's a whole nother thing what kind of mentality is that because that's tough you know that's you know and and you know touching on that a little bit that's setting good clear healthy boundaries with your partner like hey this is what i'm okay with you doing and not doing and yeah but it's

it's very honestly tough I mean if I wasn't in my line of work there'd be no way I was ever dating a male performer absolutely um I don't know I'm greedy like I you know I marked my territory like no that's my nobody else yeah it's nobody else's you can't date a male performer oh my god no i wouldn't want to i love normal men like normal men but you want a normal man to date you though right yes okay yeah yeah yeah why um i i just i don't i i think like my i wouldn't want like an athlete or anything like that i just want a normal guy. Like, cause I live a very normal life outside of what I do. I mean, to me, I'm like,

you know, I'm home, I'm doing all this. If I go to shoot. And then when I come home, it's me, I'm home. I'm with my dogs. I'm doing yoga. The weekends I go out to the desert. I shoot guns. You know, I like to go have drinks, go out to dinner. I'm very, very, very normal. It's just my profession has just made it abnormal. Yes. Got you. Now, do you think you'll switch fully to from adult stuff or do you think you're going to keep doing both? No. You know, I love I love being able to kind of have my hands in all the baskets and stuff.

And I think that's really good as far as growing your brand and making money. I wouldn't want to throw everything into, I still want to be on set and shoot and, you know, meet new talent and, you know, just, I enjoy the camaraderie and just, you know, chatting with everyone and just, you know, hearing what's new, like hearing the tea, what's going on in the industry a little bit. Like I just, cause other than that, I'm just like in my house shooting oh just stay in my little bubble but so how do you how do you deal with uh people that see you outside of work and they're like yo you're so and so like the craze fans like god it's it's honestly gotten very is it scary um i have had scary

moments um but i like to i always say i'm like, oh, around to find out with me. If you get up on me around to find out, I'm crazy. I got a big mouth. And yeah, but no, it's yeah, I don't know. It's I get recognized a lot. I've noticed within the past three years and I think it's just all the MILF stuff. And it's even like when I'm dressed like normal, like no makeup, no hair extensions, no nothing. And yeah. And I'm like, how are you?

But it's the booty. That's what it is. I'm like, how are you finding me? I'm in the gym with no face on, like hat on, like sweater. And you're still recognizing me. It's crazy. But no, most of the guys are really cool i mean i have had some weird ones where people recognize me out and they'll try follow me home

and i'm like i just drive right to the police station just drive right to them yeah i mean i'm not gonna go home i don't want them to have a clue where i live so i'm like if you want to follow me follow me to the police station like around and find out we'll have we'll be met by las vegas's finest right right why do you think a lot of girls get hate on social media um i honestly like hate from just hate from guys hate from like people jealous i guess yeah i don't know why that is. I think it's because now, and I can kind of understand it, is that, you know, women, men want a woman that is kind of dependent on that. Men want to be the captain, save the elfers and the providers. And now here's this era of women where, you know, the whole movement of I am woman, hear me roar, like it's happening now.

Women are, you know, they're working hard. They're building brands roar like it's happening now women are you know they're working hard they're building brands whether it's acceptable or not and they're making great money that it's and yes some of them are like oh well i don't need a man well you know you can't if you want a man you can't like have that attitude and money money doesn't make everything you can make a hundred thousand a month and have a attitude and stuff but i think that's why some of the girls do catch a lot of hate is just because of that and i i i see a lot of it and i'm i don't know i just i don't necessarily agree with all of it just stay silent and yeah you know because i mean because then i just start arguing with people online it's

not worth it but yeah you can't win arguing with people online. It's not worth it. Yeah, you can't win arguing online. It's never. What's the wildest thing that you've done? Oh, my gosh. I don't know. I'm kind of vanilla. You don't know?

Really? I think I'm, like, fairly vanilla. I did, like, a b******, like, five guys. And, I mean, I guess that's pretty crazy. A b******. So, like, so like five guys so it's called a uh because you're just everyone it's like you're just you're literally just like running into oh bro she said you're running into we're literally running into the it's here it's there it's in your ears it's everywhere so how did you so how so how did you organize it or you

i didn't that was when i first got into the industry and my agent booked me for it with um was it unexpected or did you know no i know oh yeah yeah we know everything we know also you knew going in like yo oh yeah you have to know going into everything and it's a company that's no longer around yeah um you know it's it's crazy some days when i think back i'm like i've been in 17 years i've literally been around before the tube sites i've been around when visa and mastercard when they weren't paying out performers um i've seen the top companies yeah i've seen the top companies and the webcam companies everyone go

under and i feel like that's where not speaking necessarily on the girls but mainly just the adult film stars why we do have our eggs in many baskets because you want to diversify you can't just throw it all into you can't just shoot solely for the companies you have to feature dance you have to do public appearances you have to work the cameo app you have to work the chat apps and you know it's a lot i'm a one-woman show doing it all i am a workaholic so i do enjoy it body count matters uh that's a very good question and what's yours if you want to say? Oh, gosh. Do you have a body count?

I wish I would have kept a book. I have to be around 100 is my guess. That's kind of low over 17 years. But you work with the same partner a lot. Oh, you do. And now that I've gotten older and I've morphed into like the MILF category when I shoot, I'm like, these are the five guys that I want to work with. And cause now what I see, and I think it's adorable. It's cute. But a lot of the guys that are coming into now,

they're showing up on set and they're like, Oh, you're working with Rochelle Ryan. And they're like, Oh God. And they're like, you know, know you are my favorites i used to watch you all the time growing up and it's like these young guys and i think it's cute but then it's with men being on set it's all mental and the second they start getting in their head it's just it's downhill from there all the viagra in the world and me talking to them it does not help it's a little too much you've had someone get soft on set oh yeah and it's it's happened a lot and it's just because they're just they're in their head they're so excited it's like this is the woman they've been wanting to you know they've been watching you for however long and then they

finally get the opportunity to shoot with you and stuff they're nervous yeah 100 so out of i usually just stay away from the male talent i'm like okay, okay, you have your room to do your thing. I have mine. And then we meet when we need to meet. And then it's on. Out of the 17 years of doing p***, who would you say, out of all the races, have the biggest p***? Predominantly, black men do have the biggest ones. Sorry, Sean. But I mean, I't know like i i don't discriminate i

love it all um actually to be honest i prefer average normal men yeah i love it like when guys send me like pics and and every guy wants to know how they size up compared to a star and i'm just like i honestly could give two. I, I don't care about picks. I don't like them. I don't care about size. Like my last ex, I saw one of the questions that you had for me and I was going to touch on it a little bit.

I was with a guy, I think it was like, does money matter? And I met a guy, he actually found me from a barstool post and it was so funny it's because I was like what is barstool like I did not know at the time and I feel bad because I'm consider myself like a stoolie I love them but um anyhow we met he was an uber driver probably made like three grand a month and yeah just normal like oh so you dated? Yes. He was 10 years younger than me, too. Wow. Wow. I was 33.

He was 23. But he had to **** together because I wouldn't be with a 23-year-old punk or anyone that was very immature. I just couldn't handle that. I have to be able to have a conversation and talk with you. And he was living in Vegas. And he was comfortable with you doing what you're doing? In the beginning, yes. But then it was kind of like the more we started to living in Vegas. And he was comfortable with you doing what you're doing? In the beginning, yes. But then it was kind of like the more we started to fall in love and then it just became really,

really difficult. And it was really hard to kind of keep the relationship going. But, um, you know, I don't hate him. Has any relationship that you've been in that you love them so much that you wanted to stop? Um, I was kind of toying with it with the last one, but then it was just, there was so many restrictions that were going to be put in place that I felt like my wings were being clipped. And, you know, when I first got into the industry at 21, it was, I wanted to be a rock star without a guitar. I was just kind of like, this is my people.

This is my crew. I was working as an entertainer, as a dancer at a club in Richmond, Virginia. So I came from stripping and then into actually Hooters girl stripping and then into, um, shooting milf where it was like, oh, wow, like this is going to be my end all be all. I need to start making a three, five, seven year goal list. And I mean, I had a financial advisor when I was 22 and I was always extremely smart and doing very smart things with my money. But it wasn't until the whole milf thing blew up that I was like, oh, yeah, because after milf, there's – I don't even know what's after that. Yeah, I mean, there's GILF, but I don't know if I want to go that route. What's GILF? Grandma.

Grandma, I'd like to fuck, but I don't want to get to that point. Wow, I haven't seen one of those. All my groceries. I will be done. Oh, it's out there. It's out – ask the Google machine. It's out there. Wow, GILF.

And then what's after that? Oh, I don't know. I hope there's nothing after that. Great- Google machine. It's out there. Wow, GILF. And then what's after that? Oh, I don't know. I hope there's nothing after that. Great-grandma. Great-grandma. Yikes. Double G, GILF. Oh, gosh.

I don't want none of that. So you're good at MILF? Yeah, I love it. So after MILF, you're done? Yeah. I mean, I don't have a time frame because at first, you Yeah, I love it. So after MILF, you're done? Yeah. I mean, I don't have a time frame because at first, you know, when I first got in at 21, I was like, okay, I'll do this until I'm 40. But I turned 38 in a couple weeks, and I'm still at the peak, almost to the peak of that wave.

And it's like, why would I get off now? So what? So it's 50 to stop an age for you? Oh, I don't know. I don't want to give a number because, you know, maybe at 45. Right. You know, maybe at 45, I'll be like, all right, I'm done. And then what, though? You just.

Then I'm going to live off my. Hopefully, I'll be on a beach in Mexico selling coconuts with my dogs. I'm going to take my cell phone. I'm going to throw it in the ocean. And I'm going to be in Puerto Vallarta selling coconuts. Have you lost any of your drive that you had when you were in your 20s? Or do you still have that same level? No, I think it's it's it's grown a lot more.

Yeah, definitely. Especially off camera. OK. Yeah, especially off camera. Like when I first got into 20s, I was like very eager beaver very excited like you know to get on and i i didn't know what i was doing like performing wise and stuff and i was just very eager now when i'm on set it's more like okay make sure you open up and stretch out your you know suck in your tummy and do like my head's thinking of a million things but the that I have off camera now as a woman who's almost 38 is amazing.

And I think it's just because I grew up in, you know, getting in it, you know, 21. So now it's, you know, almost 38. I grew up in the industry. I learned a lot about my body. Just everything that I probably would have learned outside of the industry. And, um, yeah. So what originally got you into like the data you woke up and was like, you want to know what? everything that i probably would have learned outside of the industry and um yeah so what originally got you into like the day that you woke up and was like you want to know what my stuff camera i was um what day was that the club that i uh was a house dancer at where i was

uh working as a stripper they had a lot of stars that would come in and feature dance kind of like what i do now and so i got to meet a lot of the adult film stars and, um, you know, it was just seeing them all glammed up on stage and just all the money they were making. And just, it just seemed like a rock star life, you know, just getting to try. I mean, I've traveled, you know, the world paid. I didn't have to pay for any of it, like dance bookings, appearances, you know, just everything. And it's great. And I wanted to do it. And, um, so I kind of started doing my own research. I was looking at like the top license and bonded agents that were in the adult film industry. I had never been to California. I was just, I'm originally from, uh, upstate New York, but grew up in Richmond, Virginia. So I grew up in

the South. I've never been to the West coast, never been to Cali. I found a couple of agents. I went out to LA. I met with them. I checked out California and I was like, all right, I think I like it here. And they were like, we can put you to work as soon as you're out here. And then I planned to move across country like two months later. Wow. Yeah. So you were, you were green still. You didn't even know anything about it. Like I didn't know anything as far as like so so you were you were green still you didn't even know anything about it like i didn't know anything as far as like how much you were getting paid until i got there and met with agents and but you have to like have right yeah or no oh yes yeah there's some people there's some stars just like you know i mean i'm sure there's something that they really don't like

they do as a job oh gosh that sounds like force enjoyed it oh yeah definitely still so when did your enjoyment for start like when you like um probably like 18 okay yeah 18 i'd say you were like i love this yeah yeah yeah but i wasn't with that many men before I got to the industry. I was with like six guys. In high school? Like from, I lost my virginity at 16 to literally 21. Like that's not many. I mean, I don't think. From 16 to 21, one a year.

Yeah. I mean, you was f***ed a little bit. Yeah, a little bit. One a year. One a year is good. These days, that's nothing. Oh, yeah. That's like nothing. I mean, you're hearing like some of these kids are just losing their virginity so young

and it's just – A little too young, yeah. A little too young. I think some things are just being a little over-f***ed nowadays and I don't know if I necessarily agree with that. For sure. I definitely think that all p*** should be behind paywalls. And I think parents need to monitor their children so that way they're not getting access to, you know, pub and, you know, social media sites and everything else. Yeah.

Yeah. Have you ever had like a crazy celebrity slide in your DM? You know, I have. But I have to say when you DM to me, I was like, Oh, who's this kid with 10 million followers and like stuff like that excites me more. Like when I was in my twenties and athletes were sliding my DMS, I was like, Ooh, like, you know, he, he plays on the giants. Cause I'm a huge New York giants fan. Like it's my tech, but it was just kind of like it was such an ego boost and now i'm like like i could care less i'm like you slid into my dms i don't care unless it's grunk or like

nick bow said jimmy g then maybe i might get a little excited but everyone else i'm like i i really honestly don't care i don't like athletes they're bigger than me right and they're playing than me and they're literally playing all the same girls like they do the eye emoji or like the hand or something stupid then i'm just kind of like i don't know you do it to all the girls if it's college athletes i get excited but you like younger men yeah why um i feel like older men have never taken me serious it's just i go on a date with a guy my age or older and it's kind of like well when are you gonna get out of this little phase and i'm just like little phase like i've been in for 17 years how many people can you say have been in the same career field 17 years like i think that's a very long time and you know i don't do drugs. I'm a social

drinker. I've always done very smart things with my money. I'm not reckless, wild and crazy. So I'm just kind of like, I don't understand that versus younger men are very like, rock on. That's awesome. Do your thing. You know, they're very like open-minded older men aren't. And I think a lot of that kind of goes back to like what we were talking about. It's I, men want to be alphas and providers and it's a little intimidating where, you know, they're meeting me. I drive a nice car. I own two homes. Like I need you for loyalty and that's it. Well, you're already getting right. But the thing about it is is i don't know if it's about them being alphas or wanting to like be the you know the highest earner or the provider is just that i mean their girl

their wife is getting like smashed for sure 100 she he she has to come home after getting smashed and then she lays with you and you know that she's just been getting you know she's someone else yeah kind of like yeah but you again you have to be open to that if you want to date you right 100 and you know that she's just been getting, you know, she's s***ing f***ing with someone else. Yeah. But again, you have to be open to that if you want to date you, right? 100%. I'm very honest. Even with the last one, I was like, hey, this is what I do. Either you're with it or you're not because I'm not stopping it. I did kind of slow down a little bit.

Do you ever get tired of f***ing though? I mean, I'm not. I do have, you know, between f***ing and shooting and stuff like that, but I do keep a very good pace. I'm not having every single day. I know what I'm saying. Definitely not. Let's say you have a shooting, then you go home and then your guy won't, you know. I don't think so, because if it's my partner, I'm really into him.

Like, I want to make you happy. I love you. Or, you know what I'm saying? It's like, you want to make your partner happy. Girls can do it more than guys. Yeah. But I'm just saying, it's her job. So it's like, when is it like, I'm tired of it.

I mean, if there was like a day where I came home where I got like some nut or something in the eye or whatever, I'd be like, sorry, babe, it's not happening. You know? But I feel like that's when you're in like a partnership where it's like, you know? What is a nut in an eye? Like if a guy like accidentally. I know. But what does that feel like? Oh when you're in like a partnership where it's like, you know. What is a nut in an eye? Like if a guy like accidentally. I know, but what does that feel like? Oh, it's just burns like you wouldn't believe.

And I wear contacts and it's just the worst pain. It's horrible. I got hot sauce in my eye once. No, the hot sauce and nut are two different things. Hot sauce might be worse. It's almost like nut. No, I got hot sauce in my contact oh yeah it's brutal it's brutal yeah that was fun what's next for you you know i'm i'm really enjoying this this wave that i'm on right

now it's the milf wave the milf wave honestly yeah and i like 10 years i mean i don't know i don't like putting numbers and limits to things you You know, you never know. I mean, you know, I could want to retire maybe tomorrow. Do you want kids? No, you know, I've never had that itch. I've never wanted children. I have, I have two French bulldogs. I am happy raising French bulldogs, but I think, um, it takes a very unselfish human to want to raise children, men and women. And I've always can admit that I'm very selfish. I don't want to sacrifice my time, my sleep, my body, my nothing. And I also think it's a very scary world right now, raising children. And it's, it's tough. I mean, my hat goes off to all the parents out there. It's definitely a full-time job. Yeah.

Yeah. I'm, i'm good with my dogs are locked up right now in the house i love dogs man i know i want like 10 dogs when i'm older for real 10 dogs yeah like a farm with like 10 dogs that'd be awesome i want to have a little frenchie farm that'd be sick yeah i'll tell you my idea what i have for it i don't want to say an on-air cause proprietary yeah somebody will like check my idea. We'll have to hear it off camera. Wayne? Yeah.

There's a lot. That was a lot. That was a good one. Yeah. Thank you guys for watching the Digital Social Hour. See you guys next time. Peace. Peace.

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