Digital Social Hour - Semen Retention Expert Hasn’t Had Sex in 4 Years | Josh Palerlin Digital Social Hour #86

Episode Date: August 26, 2023

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During meditation, dude, I start feeling actual energy in my hand. What? Like, you know Dragon Ball? Yeah. I literally feel that. I feel a ball in my hand. Holy ****. My mom's Asian.

She always told me to date an Asian girl. That is so Asian. Be a doctor, be an accountant, you know, lawyer and marry agent. Welcome to the Digital Social Hour podcast. I'm your host, Sean Kelly. I'm here with my guest today, Josh Palerlin. What's up, brother? How we doing, man? Good, man. Just a little bit somber. Yeah. It's good to finally meet you.

I know. We've been talking for years. Boy, a long time. Yeah. I don't even know where you were living when we started talking. LA. LA? Yeah. When you first talked to me, I was in LA. LA, but now you've been traveling.

I was out of country the past two years. So where'd you go? Man, I live in 12 countries the past two years so where'd you go oh man i live in 12 countries two years brother you just dipped i did i've six covet you know and i'm like all right screw this i'm just gonna live my life i want to see the world i want to see what's up i lived in asia i lived in europe middle east dubai everywhere wow what was your favorite bali thailand poland mmm I like many countries but one thing I learned is when you travel a lot you learn that there's no such thing as good country and back country everything has a good and bad right you know and

and and it's like you just gotta pick and choose it's kind of like my dad says just like woman there's no perfect woman there's always a good one the bad one but the most important thing is if you can handle the bad the bad part of the woman then you're fine because most people it's interesting most people when they get married uh this is things saying uh people marry because of emotion and divorce because logic you know because you know you're so emotional what you love you forgot the things that you cannot handle and when you get married you that thing start exposing so my dad told me if you're gonna get married one day find someone that you can be absolutely perfect what you hate about her

what you don't like about her if you're good with that that's a girl you can marry because people see about differently they'd be like oh i love this girl she's smart she's you know she's hot but it sometimes they you know love is blind she's smart she's you know she's hot but it sometimes they you know love is blind it's good advice are your parents still together oh yeah that's good that's dope yeah i feel like asians usually stay together right yeah yeah it's a culture thing for sure yeah the u.s it's 50 divorce rate yeah yeah yeah i think i think and and you know what as i'm getting older bro I realized I realized I'm I'm more attracted to a traditional woman now mmm interestingly the value

traditional woman brings versus I guess the new wave a woman what a thing because you know as a man you're in all your day you want legacy what's your legacy is your family right right so i see many successful men if you talk about what is their biggest achievement like i saw conor mcgregor talk about this his biggest achievement was his family you know his kids yeah forget about you know his his his uh double bill you know ufc same with mike tyson he said the same thing his kids yeah it's funny you said that because my mom's asian she always told me to date an asian girl like growing up that is so asian give it be a doctor be a accountant

you know lawyer and marry asian you know like she told me every day bro and i wasn't into asians growing up yeah for some reason yeah but um as i grew agree. Like, I like the value and the tradition. Yeah. I think traditional Asian, because I was in Europe a lot and I was in Eastern Europe. And actually, lots of Eastern Europe women, they are more traditional, meaning like they value family. They value, they want to have kids, you know. And nowadays, if you ask lots of women, they actually don't think about that. And they don't, lots of them don't want kids until they're like 30 40 and they start realizing wow one of my purpose in life is nurturing and taking care of you know the children yeah so facts so i think now

it's just it's interesting when you travel you see so many culture in the world and you see for me personally i think the western has been fallen recently with the culture and everything it's bad it's bad and then you have to think about it when what is a family family creates a little little what it's called like society right and society creates the country so if you start like falling of the family value the society will start falling the country was so falling so you know it was interesting to see how us the past you start like falling of the family value the society will start falling the country will start falling so you know it was interesting to see how u.s the past couple years has heading towards versus other countries yeah what do you think caused the u.s to have such a culture shift from

traditional values to what it is now with all this and craziness you know it's interesting i think is i mean i'm sure you know too you know it's it's it's the stages of society from strong men's right creates a good good i was called a a strongman creates good time right good time creates weak man weak makes creates bad time right that time's great strongman and currently i believe we're in you know that time right now because we got weak men you know i don't think and when i say weak man i'm not talking about physical i'm talking about mentally right and i think uh i don't think 50 100 years ago fan will exist even though the technology is there it's just because mentality is so different it's like why would i pay to see certain things when i can just talk to a girl in the street but nowadays most guy can't even talk to a girl in the

street right because you know social media everything makes so convenient but at the same time you are become less know how to communicate as a person as a human being all you need is swipe right like all you need is a swipe, right? All you need is that instant gratification, right? You want something to entertain, TikTok. You want Tinder. It's like, you know what I'm saying? Like everything's just instantaneously gratification.

But when you have gratification, what happens, you know, in business, in anything, your retention rate goes low. And you know, it's like a kid, you're giving candy all the time. Now you become like weak in a low and you know it's like a kid you can candy all the time now become like weak in the way you know you don't work for it if you can get muscle without working out you know like but it doesn't work that way in real life you know for sure no I agree with that it makes it too easy for sure tinder yeah tinder ruined a lot of people oh for sure yeah man and woman both yeah

for sure because you know the day is you know we're we're spiritual beings so i feel like it's not just physical it's emotional and spiritual you know so it's like if you just go there for sex and feel like lots of times you don't realize it's damaging your soul yeah because you know i feel like sometimes if you just have those one-eyed standing stuck since you're young but after in life you realize like i'm just wasting my time you know i'd rather be with someone that actually can build something long-term i can be someone that can build empire right you know that's something that is long-term this is short term, right?

Short term, okay, cool. You can have fun and all that. But at the same time, it's like, what's the difference between you and an animal? Yeah, I agree. There's no purpose doing that short term stuff. Yeah. You said you said we're spiritual beings. Have you had an out of body experience before?

I don't think I have. But I did have some spiritual awakening in 2019 when I was in Bali. And for the fact I was sober, just so you know, I wasn't like on any like psychedelic. It would just, I was, um,

with some spiritual people and I started realizing certain things. And I mean, we can talk about it too. Yeah. Let's talk about it. Um, so I, I realizing I talk about this actually on my Instagram before.

I realize as a man, you might find it interesting, as a man, the most powerful thing you have is your sexual energy because that's the closest thing to God. That's the closest thing to the universe. So if you have this energy, it means that's the only energy you can create life.

That's the only energy you create consciousness. No such other energy is more powerful than that. what most men do they waste it right they waste it and they can't control the energy if you don't control the energy the energy controls you you know so once i realized that i start kind of restraining myself from uh like uh it's called like semen retention yeah so like you know like lots of people like the culture is like November no and stuff am I not that's not I tried it before but if you don't have a real reason and you don't have a real like enlightenment understand what you're doing it's just kind of like a like you know like a trend yeah but you really understand what you're doing and

you really understand the purpose behind it it takes you to the next level and i can tell you i once i start doing that i see a huge difference in me like physically mentally and spiritually wow like huge how many months did you take off from oh dude like uh not right i haven't i haven't watched the past four years whoa and it doesn't like if i see a it doesn't affect me i'm just like this is stupid this is four years. Whoa. And it doesn't like if I see it, it doesn't affect me. I'm like, this is stupid. This is four years. Yes. Because I'm like, dude, like once you understand certain level, it's like is something not real. Right. If you watch, that means you're watching someone having sex and it's not personal. It's not emotional. Right. And then that start with your consciousness that start messing up with your psyche you know i'm saying so it's like because like i said we talked about earlier

when you have sex it's i mean you're it's actually spiritual connection right you know and i i i i have personal experience in my past where you have to the girl and you don't know her past you don't know her trauma and all of a sudden the next day or sometime you feel depressed and you have no idea why and until you realize her energy is passing on through you whoa so this yeah that's crazy i can go really deep on style because i have personal experience with stuff like that so guys that are hundreds of girls it's not good bro you're messing up your whole energy your psyche and sometimes you wonder why you're wandering around and one wonder like sometime maybe in you know you that's how you have the great success and money and everything

but all of a sudden you one of this day you're like what am i doing what's my purpose why my life you know i'm saying it's like because you forgotten the most powerful energy you have and you kind of like let it loose wow you know it's the same thing like what god would say you know it's like controlling time if you don't control the time you don't have a schedule like today you have and you kind of like let it loose Wow you know it's the same thing like we got what say you know it's like controlling time if you don't control the time you don't have a schedule like today you have a bunch of pockets if you don't schedule time the time controls you and the most powerful energy you have as a man is the sexual energy and you don't control that that thing start driving you and guess I'm sure you've seen lots of men in your circle and in the party they can't control control their energy. And what happens to them?

They get destroyed. They get destroyed by women. They get destroyed by their drive, which is a good drive, right? For me, it's like yin and yang, like a fire. A fire, you cannot say it's good or bad. It's how you use it. You can use it to kill. You can use it to cook.

Same thing with sword. You can use it to protect. You can use it to kill. Same thing with your sexual energy. You can use it to empower. Same thing with sore. You can use it to protect. You can use it to... Same thing with your sexual energy. You can use it to empower yourself or destroy you. Wow. That's crazy.

So you don't agree with Andrew Tate's philosophy on women then? What is his philosophy? He can have multiple girlfriends. He can f*** multiple girls. I think, you know what? Everybody is quite different. So I can't really judge someone.

And I would like to talk... If Andrew's here, I would like to talk his perspective and to kind of see, okay, cool. I'm open, you know, I'm open. I'm like, cool. I respect everybody's perspective. If that's his perspective, then cool.

Or maybe he does f*** girls, but he doesn't f***. I don't know. Andrew, if you're watching, let me know. I don't know. You know, I can tell you, actually I do the same thing. People people get confused when I say semen retention doesn't mean I I completely strain myself on right I could still have but I don't release oh you don't finish I do not I go to 95 98 percent and I certain

matter I meditate every day so there's certain meditation I do to make my energy that I can control it to a point that do I can go it's gonna sounds very personal but funny I can go for two hours and I would not release whoa so you just blue ball yourself for two hours so it's funny because people keep asking me about like blue balls I don't get blue balls whoa because there's this thing if you look into it's called sexual transmutation if you don't know how to control your sexual energy just like any other energy you start like squeezing them but if you know how to release them but not completely out of your body but within your body that that that that's how you release it and i don't get blue ball because of that so you're telling me you could get the best

from Tiana Trump and you wouldn't finish because I know it's not worth it I tried it two times I would start practicing for three months and I was like this is crazy, this is some nonsense

let me just see if I do release how I feel I can tell you every single time not worth it really because immediately i lost drive oh and i immediately get tired and if you understand um the like in in french i forgot the exact word if you translate it it's called little death when you a little part of you die wow that. That's why when you feel when you drain, you feel tired physically. You do, yeah.

You know, because you're literally part of you. Think about part of yourself leave you and the most powerful energy. And let me ask you this. I'm sure maybe not you, but people who are watching this, it's like if you ever had with a girl and you have no emotion attached,

when you start, for some reason, you start a c***, for some reason, you start feeling attached to her because of that energy. Your energy start tidying up with her. And what happened is, think it's logical. It's like, as a man, this is your seat, right? A part of you become her.

So subconsciously, you feel like you need to protect her because she is with you even though you're emotionally like logically or emotionally be like i don't care i just want to stay and whatever but that start affecting you interesting wow yeah does that make sense though no it does i never thought of sex that way that's very yeah man it's the most powerful thing in this world wow so you're very selective who you finish in. But you'll f*** anyone. Not anyone. I become more and more selective.

Because like I said earlier, I don't want their trauma. I don't want their bad energy. But you only get that if you finish, right? Yes. And I think, here's the thing. I'm not an expert. I'm just talking based on my own experience and how I feel yeah

um I don't finish but I do notice even that sometimes you know you can still you know

when you when you when you have even you don't decide to you still have right so that can still

sleep through okay you know what I'm saying so it's like you're kind of playing with fire a little bit so the best is if you don't have s***

at all that's the best way so there's the three things the white the black the grey the white is completely you know

you restrain yourself on s*** which is what the monks do and if you study some of the monks they have some supernatural human being power which you don't understand how because they constrain the energy

and black magic is more like they use the energy But for certain things and then there's great which is you can have but you don't you don't you don't But sometimes you can lead to the black part. Hmm monks are not a lot of Nope, and they're not a lot of no, so they don't even have f***. So they control the energy and they manipulate it. That's not the right word. They transmute it to their body. And dude, if you go to some Shaolin or some monks, it's very secretive. It's a very scary secret.

Some of these monks can do some supernatural stuff which i have i'm not gonna say a detail i have seen or experienced when i was in bali you serious i was i was training with uh this is the first time i actually talk about it public i was training with um a specific um master um they used to train only the the the royals in uh the royal royals royals in bali so like all the kings and you know the royal family only to strengthen their energy but uh i was lucky enough that uh he took me with him and then he i i was practicing once a week to to do certain certain type of meditation it's hard to describe and i can tell you um i had a crazy experience after one to two months i i certain meditation do i start feeling actual energy in my hand what like you know dragon ball yeah like i literally

feel that i feel a ball in my hand oh and i can't because like dude it's it's something that i will never forget. And also, I just started, you know, after one month. And I talked to another friend of mine who was a monk before. He said, my friend, you just experienced energy. And it's like, I can tell you quickly. So when I do this, obviously my eyes are closed when I do this. I can feel there's something in my hand.

It's like a magnet ball. When I push it, it starts pushing me away. And when I try to move it it starts to become sticky it's like pulling back and then once I started pushing and start getting bigger and bigger and bigger it was like to this point is holy crazy insane so what do you think that is is that energy I guess that's energy that's that's within you but you need to know again how to how to manipulate it, how to control it. So we all have the energy. We have the power, but most people don't know.

Yeah. So humans used to be very spiritual. Why do you think that has kind of, you know, basically gone out of existence? I think it's not gone out of existence. I think it's still there. But it's kind of like we have the power. But maybe maybe just maybe I don't know

I'm just guessing maybe certain people certain group understand how powerful as we have and we are and they want to

hide that power and hide that secret to give you certain food so your your power gets lower why? because it's easier to control you

you know so I think, I do believe the matrix, you know, and I do believe some formal matrix that we are in and I do believe

we are powerful beyond our imagination but you have to first be awakened and seek it. I'm having this guy named Matthias De Stefano on my show

next month. Have you heard of him? So he is able to remember all of his past lives. Wow. Yeah. Do you believe in past lives wow yeah do you believe in past life i do cool so i actually did past life regression therapy nice okay tell me about that so i wasn't spiritual enough so it didn't work but basically they put you under

hypnosis and then once you can uh visualize you can see all your past lives wow what did you see i wasn't spiritual enough so i wasn't getting vivid images interesting but i know people that have done it and have had success with it do you believe in past lives you know it's funny i was raised as a christian but i'm always open to what i experience because i believe in god i believe in universe i believe that you know god is not this religion thing my parents the society told me i want a personal relationship with the creator you know so I for me I'm open to that concept okay you know and I I have met certain a couple people which is very weird to me when I was in Bali and and when I was in Hollywood certain people told me I have a very interesting

bloodline and very interesting background where I came from which I don't know how but I had multiple people told me and some of them saw certain things behind me and I was like I don't know you gotta look into that man yeah I don't know do you believe in like the afterlife heaven and hell I don't know about heaven and hell to be honest but I do believe I do believe we don't just vanished mmm I do believe we go somewhere your soul goes somewhere percent I do believe energy doesn't doesn't it's not created it doesn't go away

it just continues to maybe not a dimension or something I don't know that I don't know I'm still a student of life I don't know do you believe in

spirits and ghosts? 100% so my parents actually are evangelists they dedicated 40 years of their life to church so they never worked one day in

their life I used to live in Russia I lived in Moscow because after Soviet Union collapse my parents were volunteered to go there to help people and I have seen my dad and heard by my dad that he was literally what's it called that like people get possessed and he was you know try to get people the demon out whoa and if you've been to taiwan which i that's where i was from bro i seen um certain people and and religion mostly buddhism i guess they have certain ceremony where people literally get possessed like possessed bro go taiwan you'll see certain people get possessed and they will climb stairs of knives and they will just climb like there's nothing and then you can tell it's not them anymore

their eyes everything they just they just literally possessed they will they will hit themselves with knives to show their you know invisible But we would just do it. Like, this is... Yeah, so this is the thing, bro. Like, people say, if you don't believe God and you believe the ghost and the demon, that doesn't make sense, right? Everything has a balance.

So if you believe in ghost and demon, there's also the other side. The angels and the gods. Wow. Dude, that was a great episode. Where can people find out more about you? Oh, just, I mean, Instagram, probably.

I'm pretty active on Instagram at the moment moment I'm getting back on YouTube because I've been taking a while break just getting some personal development spiritual development sounds like you've got a lot of development I got a lot I got a lot to share and I feel like I can I can definitely help more people you know and I think we're heading to a very dark time and i think um as men we need to strengthen uh you know keep each other together and you know keep each other tight and hold each other accountable but at the same time like you know like push each other and stuff because i think women are very natural to do that they talk they share man you don't really talk to your bro like

oh you know like yeah you see you know, like, yeah, you see, you know what I'm saying? It's like, but, but, but that's also the thing. Men, suicide rate is way higher than women. Right. You know, and that's very sad. You know, as men, we have so much burden in society, in family that on our shoulder

that sometimes we can't even talk about because we don't have that culture. And I think we should, as a man, to have that and to talk about it, you know? When you culture. And I think we should as a man. To have that. And to talk about it. You know. When you're down. Bring a brother up.

Yeah. I agree. I started opening up. Past year or two. Yeah. It was tough at first. But. 100%.

But when you do. It's you know. That's how you be free. Yeah. 100%. You don't want. You don't want to go to the grave with regrets. Yeah.

Definitely. You know. Do you have any tattoos? I don't. Do you? I have one here. It's tattoos i don't do you i have one here is this too shall pass and i have one here is my burn right here is gift so it means give from my heart oh nice so i want to make sure when i die i can be sure to see you know my past it's like i want to give but from my heart and i think the true giving is from. You know, sometime when you give you subconsciously feel like this person owe me

something, but that's not a true giving. The true giving is you forget about it. If I help you, if I do something, I want to forget about it because that's a true giving. And the true giving is from, for example,

your parents. Right. And then you love them so much. You're willing to die for your parents because they don't care. They don't need anything from you because that's a true giving from the heart right so they're giving without expectation 100 i love that all right guys you heard it here josh palerlin sean kelly digital social hour see you guys next week yeah