Digital Social Hour - The $25M Studio Built in a Pandemic: The Real Story | Marina Worre DSH #731
Episode Date: September 17, 2024🎥 The $25M Studio Built in a Pandemic: The Real Story! 🌟 Dive into an exhilarating episode of the Digital Social Hour with Sean Kelly as he sits down with the visionary Marina Worre! Ever wonder...ed how a massive $25 million studio came to life during the pandemic? 🤔 You're about to find out! Join the conversation as Marina shares her journey of transforming challenges into opportunities and adapting in uncertain times. From preselling 7,000 event tickets before COVID hit to creating a state-of-the-art studio, this story is packed with valuable insights on problem-solving, entrepreneurship, and resilience. 🏆 Don't miss out on learning how surrounding yourself with an A-team and focusing on your strengths can lead to incredible success. Tune in now to discover how Marina navigated the highs and lows of building an empire. 🌟 Watch now and subscribe for more insider secrets. 📺 Hit that subscribe button and stay tuned for more eye-opening stories on the Digital Social Hour with Sean Kelly! 🚀 #MotivationalSpeech #HowToBuildAHomeStudio #HowToOvercomeObstacles #ImpactTheory #PersonalGrowth #HomeStudio #EntrepreneurshipSkills #PhotographyStudio #SelfImprovement #HowToBuildAStudio CHAPTERS: 00:00 - Intro 00:38 - Building the Studio 04:58 - LinkedIn Networking Strategies 06:16 - Knowing Your Strengths for Success 07:42 - Starting a Business at 18: Tips and Insights 08:15 - College Education: Is It Worth It? 11:48 - How to Build a Network Effectively 15:41 - Do You Still Have the Same Hunger for Success? 16:40 - More Money, More Problems: Financial Insights 20:52 - Living for the Opinions of Others: Finding Yourself 25:57 - Rebuilding Self-Esteem After a Toxic Relationship 27:59 - Overcoming Verbal Abuse: Healing and Recovery 31:04 - Performing Under Pressure: Tips for Success 33:18 - The Narrative Around Failure: Changing Perspectives 34:38 - Where to Find Rina’s Next Events and Workshops APPLY TO BE ON THE PODCAST: https://www.digitalsocialhour.com/application BUSINESS INQUIRIES/SPONSORS: Jenna@DigitalSocialHour.com GUEST: Marina Worre https://www.instagram.com/marinaworre SPONSORS: LinkedIn: https://linkedin.com/social Deposyt Payment Processing: https://www.deposyt.com/seankelly LISTEN ON: Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/digital-social-hour/id1676846015 Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/5Jn7LXarRlI8Hc0GtTn759 Sean Kelly Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/seanmikekelly/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
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helping people make money right pretty much yeah yeah i found out that's one of the most
important life skills to have it's actually uh the most important skill in life in my opinion
is problem solving because uh we all gonna have challenges we're all gonna have obstacles we're
all gonna have problems and what i learned in my life bigger the problem uh that you can solve
bigger the paycheck facts
all right guys Marina waray is here today thanks for coming on thank you so much for having me yeah after I saw your studio I knew I I had to have you on oh thank you so much it's
my great pleasure and honor yeah you guys are doing something special over there what was the
vision behind building that huge studio uh you know it was not a big vision behind the studio
to begin with it was just covet and as a typical entrepreneur, that's what we do, right?
We adapt and try to figure things out.
And we typically do a lot of events.
Once a year, a big event at the MGM Garden Arena, 15,000 people, 18,000 people.
And kind of like part of our business model was to pre-sell tickets for the next year event.
And we did that in December of 2019.
And then COVID hit.
And we're sitting here like January, February of 2020 and thinking it's like, okay, it's going to pass.
You know, it's not going to last forever.
And then March, April and nothing really is changing.
So my husband and I, we realized that something has to change for us.
And because we already pre-sold 7,000 tickets,
and we knew that there is no way we're going to have that event for 7,000 people.
So we started thinking, like, what can we do?
And the idea of the studio came about. And in a very, very short period of time, I was able to build a studio, put the team together.
A lot of things came really, really close.
I got to see it all like a day before the show.
So that was kind of crazy.
But I had an amazing team who helped me to fulfill that vision
and make it an absolutely state-of-the-art facility.
Nice. What type of event was it?
It was an educational event.
My husband and I do for the last 15 years with entrepreneurs.
Helping people make money, right? Pretty much, yeah. Yeah, I found out that's one of the most
important life skills to have. It's actually the most important skill in life, in my opinion,
is problem solving. Because we're all going to have challenges, we're all going to have obstacles,
we're all going to have problems. And what I learned in my life,
bigger the problem that you can solve, bigger the paycheck. Facts. Yeah. You hear Elon say this too.
Yeah. He's solving going to Mars. So he'll make a couple of billion off that probably.
Yep. He solved electric cars too. Yep. Now he's got the biggest electric car company in the world.
Yeah. Find the pain point, solve that problem, and you'll never have to worry
about money ever again. Right. What were those first big problems you solved that helped you
get the ball rolling? I mean, with the studio, first of all, find the location because you guys
in the production business, you know that you need good sound effects or at least the walls and stuff
like that. So there is no sound affecting it because my vision was not just to use it for us in
educational events but also to have concerts there to have all the different types of events that
people can use for the studio for so I wanted to have a high ceiling because I wanted to have big
walls big sound big like grid for the lights and everything else. So finding the space was interesting. And then doing everything during COVID time
was another challenge because everything was closed.
The factories were shut down.
People were not necessarily working.
I ended up buying over 35 miles of cables for that space.
So I pretty much bought every single piece of cable
that you can find in the United States.
Oh, that was you?
Yeah, that was me.
So in case you were looking for cables, that was me.
Prices were crazy
for any type of construction material during COVID.
Yes, and labor. Labor was
a big challenge. So I
was pretty blessed because I found a team
that just ended up
finished building the Raiders
Stadium. So I pretty much took
them, the entire group. That's the A team
right there. Sounds like you invested a lot in this place. Oh yeah. That's, that's a pretty expensive place.
It's I put $25 million. Holy crap. Now we got to talk about how you made that. Yeah.
So it was interesting, but the team did an amazing, amazing job. So, uh, like oftentimes
when people come and tour the studio and I start talking about cable management and they're like, who are you?
It's like a girl talks about cable management.
So, yeah.
Sounds like you're a quick learner.
You're able to learn pretty on the fly.
Yeah, I think that, you know, I know what I'm capable of.
And I also know that surrounding myself with amazing team with the A players, that's probably another skill of mine.
So, and allowing them to do what they do best
and kind of like staying out of their way,
but painting the vision, building the team.
That was a really helpful skill that put together that entire project.
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the place to be. All right, just knowing your strengths, knowing what to outsource,
that could take you far in life. Yeah, I'm reading Dan Martell's book on this, on how to outsource.
And that's always been my struggle because I'm like a solopreneur most of my career.
But you can only get so far on your own. You know, what I think is like, I love to learn,
right? I try to learn and grow every single day. But I also realize that, for example,
I'm not going to be a lawyer. I'm not going to be a doctor. I'm not going to go to law school
for the next 10 years and 10 years of internships and stuff like that. So I would rather hire the higher end professional and pay them whatever they need,
whatever they charge, so I can get the best healthcare, so I can get the best legal advice,
so I can get the best thing I can get for that money. But I don't want to spend my time on that.
I would rather learn the skills I'm good at
and pour more into my strength than trying to fix my, you know, weaknesses. Because a lot of times
when I see people spend more time on that, that's where they kind of like, you cannot be everything
for everybody. You cannot be successful at everything. So even though I'm kind of a control
freak and I want to take care of everything and I'm challenged with delegating different tasks to my team, I'm learning more and more that I cannot do everything myself.
So trusting the professionals, that's another thing that I'm learning and discovering in life that is very important.
Yeah, just doubling down on what you're good at.
How did you find out the skill that you were really good at?
You know, I'm still learning, right?
I'm still discovering what are those different skills for me.
But problem solving is one of them.
I learned that I'm really good at building different things, building the house, building the studio, and just finding ways to build those teams of professionals who can
help me put the vision into fruition. That's probably one of my highest skill sets.
Right. Were you always into entrepreneurship growing up?
Yeah, I started my own business when I was 18 years old. So it was like a little boutique for
kids, anything and everything you can possibly imagine from zero to 14 years
old. So that was my entrance to the entrepreneurial journey, even though I'm a banker by education,
but thank God I didn't go into banking. Yeah, there's a limit there, right?
There's a limit there. And I also learned pretty early that I'm unemployable. I tried to kind of
like, while I was studying, I went to the internship,
I think probably what, 15, 16 years old. And I learned that I'm not really good at that structure
that somebody else puts on me. And I'm not really necessarily best at building somebody else's
vision. I want to build my vision. I want to build my own structure. And entrepreneurship
was the only way for me to go. Facts. Yeah, I'm sure you didn't last long at your banking job.
I wouldn't.
So you majored in accounting or something?
Yeah, banking.
Oh, banking.
Wow, so you made it all the way through college?
Yep.
Impressive.
Most entrepreneurs don't.
And built my business.
You know, it's interesting because what I figured is,
because I was in college and already running my business,
and I came to my class and I was like, okay, what are we learning?
And they're just like, oh, we're learning how to open a bank account.
I was like, okay, great.
And I left, right?
And I continued to build my business.
And then I came back like a couple of weeks later.
I was like, what are we learning?
And they're just like, oh, we're learning how to open a bank account.
I was like, wait a minute.
We were just learning that a couple of weeks ago.
And you're still learning that?
Let me tell you how to open a bank account because I just did. And that's when it dawned on me that, first of all, I'm coming
from the culture of formal education, high degree is a must, right? So I cannot even believe I'm
saying it at this point in my life because I have my youngest who just graduated high school and
going to college. And I told him, I was like, babe, I never thought I'm
going to tell you that. But if you do not want to go to college, I'm not going to be upset because
you're going to learn all the business skills by doing things, by figuring out, by putting those
steps forward and taking those actions. That's how you're going to learn. Because when you go
to college, and I'm absolutely not against college,
don't get me wrong.
Like I said, I'm coming from the culture
of the total opposite.
But I learned that oftentimes
the professors that are teaching
are not necessary professors
that did that in their life.
So people who were teaching
how to open a bank account
for two or three weeks at a time,
and those students most of the time not even listening, it's so much easier. It's like, just go and open a bank account for two or three weeks at a time, and those students most of the time not even listening, it's so much easier.
It's like, just go and open a bank account.
It's going to take you an hour, and you're going to know exactly what it takes, right?
And what I figured that I need to go and get things done,
and that's probably going to be the best school for me.
So School of Life, that was probably one of the best education I got.
Yeah, especially for business entrepreneurship.
You're not going to learn that in textbooks.
Right.
Yeah, but for our parents that were immigrants, education was important.
Yeah.
Well, unless you're going to Harvard and Yale, all those big business schools,
where you have people who are entrepreneurs like Elon Musk or Bezos
who are coming and teaching you on the actual case study
and showing you what happened, how you do things.
That's when you're going to learn practical skills.
But other than that, just learning theory is not necessarily going to help you.
So that's what I told my kid.
I was like, just, you know, you go have fun, learn how to be independent,
learn how to build network, learn how to socialize with people,
take care of your laundry
and your breakfast but then come back to me and i'll teach you business right speaking of network
you have the most impressive network i've seen in vegas how long have you been here uh not that long
uh we moved to vegas nine years ago wow yeah i've been in states for 15 years only so wow
but you and eric have amassed the biggest network I've seen in Vegas.
Yeah, we have some friends. I want to learn like how you were able to pull that off. Was it just providing value to these guys and they enter your circle from there? Yeah, it's, you know,
building friendships. You know, what's interesting inside of our business, we have a lot of business
acquaintances, right? And not so much friends that we can just talk and be present with each other and not necessary.
You know, when it's fun to have friends when nobody needs anything from you.
But at the same time, everybody want to be in each other's company and everybody wants to learn from each other.
Because of the events that we do and being in the educational sphere, so to speak, we were very blessed to spend some time with A-listers,
celebrities, and learn from amazing business builders and the network of people that are
much smarter than me, much more successful than me, much more influential than me. That's the
network I want to be in. I don't know if you know that there is a law of average.
We are the average of five people we're spending most of our time with.
And one thing that people think oftentimes that being at the top of that five is the place you want to be.
And that's not true because if you're at the top, the average is going to pull you down.
We always want to be at the bottom, and that's where I always want to be.
I do not want to be the most successful, the most impressive, the most influential person in the room because if I am, I'm in the wrong room.
It's going to feed my ego, but it's not going to help my bank account.
It's not going to help my mission in life.
So I always try to put myself in places where I'm the least impressive person so I can learn, so I can lean towards those amazing, powerful people and learn from their experiences.
Because back to our conversation earlier about the lawyers and the doctors, they already have been down the road of success for much longer than me or much more successful than me. So I don't want to spend another 10, 15, 20 years learning what they learned during that time period. I want to see
if I can get their mentorship or by earning my place at that table as a peer, still continue to
learn from them and educate myself so I can save myself that 10, 15 years of learning curve and do it in a day or two or five or whatever it might be.
100%. That's why I joined Masterminds and people think I'm crazy. I'm in one now that's
$72,000 a year and I'm by far the least successful one there, but I've learned so much.
Well, to give you kind of like a little sticker shock, I paid for my one of my mentors for one day to $150,000.
Wow.
For one day.
So I believe my husband and I would both believe that mentors are like time machine, right?
You can get smarter without being 20 years older or 15 years older or whatever time they took to learn that particular skill set.
And also, every successful person I know
either failed or made mistakes on that journey.
So you're not only saving yourself time,
you're also saving yourself those potential mistakes
or potential relationships that it costs you
to go through that journey to figuring things out,
what's working, what's not working, that journey to figuring things out what's working
what's not working and how to make things uh more successful so every single time i can spend
uh with people like i said who can pour into me business mentors health mentors coaches anything
i'm in sign me up yeah do you still have the same hunger you did 15 years ago? I think so.
Because, you know, there is a level to the shit.
There is always a next opportunity.
There is always a next level to play at the bigger table,
to sit at the bigger table and play the bigger game.
So, you know, having friends like Tom and Lisa Bilyeu
who are playing on a much higher level, it's always fun for me.
You know, having friends who like Ed Milad.
I mean, it's like the list goes on and on and on.
Jamie Kern Lima.
All these people who are self-made billionaires and achieve great level of success, to me, it's always more fun to lean towards them and learn from them and be that sponge.
So, I mean, it's like I believe that we're either growing or we're dying.
The peak of the mountain is actually not a flat surface.
It's a peak for a reason.
So we're either climbing that mountain or we're sliding down.
And I don't want to start sliding down.
So I'm going to keep climbing probably till the day I die.
I love that because a lot of people lose a step once they get some money.
You know what I mean?
It just comes on one side.
It comes with ambition,
but I think it's actually deeper than that.
It comes with a self-worthiness
because oftentimes,
because we work with a lot of very successful people
who are making seven and eight figures a year.
And one common theme is self-worthiness.
They don't believe they're worthy of success that they
achieved. And because of that, subconsciously, we sabotage that success with every fiber of our
being. We either go into the bad partnerships or bad relationships, or we just spend money on
something or invest money into something that we don't necessarily understand. And it happens to
the best of us. It happened to me. And sometimes people ask me, it's like, well, you don't necessarily understand. And it happens to the best of us. It happened to
me. And sometimes people ask me, it's like, well, you don't have any problems. Like what kind of
problems you have? I was like, my problems have more zeros behind the comma. That's the difference.
But I, you and I, and everybody else listening, we have the same problems. It's just the consequences
of those problems might be different because I'm no longer responsible just for myself.
I have a team.
I have a staff.
I have multiple companies.
So I'm responsible for the well-being of those people.
I'm responsible for their livelihoods.
I'm responsible for the people that are following me and my husband.
So, yeah, my responsibilities are much higher,
not just on the financial level but also on the impact level.
So it's kind of like something that I think it's important to remember.
Like Elon Musk, he has problems and sometimes financial problems, right?
It's just more comas, more zeros behind that coma when he was trying to buy Twitter, right?
It's just no longer in hundreds of dollars or thousands of dollars.
Now it's in billions, right?
Because most of his ideas's in billions, right? Because
most of his ideas cost more money, right? Going on the moon or into the space, it's not cheap. So
it just next level of your development of your growth and your success requires or builds bigger
ambition that requires bigger resources. Yeah. More money, more problems, right?
Not necessarily more problems, but more
things that we can do and things just cost more, things that we want to do because of the scale.
Yeah, and I see this all the time on social media. People think money can solve all your problems.
It could solve a lot of them, I'd say, but not all of them.
Money is a very interesting subject because, in my opinion, money is just, first of all,
it's just a piece of paper, right?
It's the reflection of the value that you are bringing to the marketplace.
The more value we bring, the more market will reward us with money.
But I think that oftentimes if we put all that pressure into that piece of paper and think that that piece of paper can deliver on happiness, on love, on relationships, on health.
It can't.
Of course, you can buy a best care.
Of course, you can buy the best lawyer, the best doctor, best whatever.
But you cannot buy relationships and love and happiness.
At the end of the day, we just need to decide what that happiness means to me, right? What that love means to me, what the things that I want and
love mean to me. One of the definitions of success for me personally is I love to travel the world,
do it in style, and do it with people that I love and care about. I don't want to see any more world
in the pictures or screensavers or in the postcards. I want to see it with my own eyes. I
want to see that beauty. I want to experience that. That's why even though I have social media
and I know how important it is, oftentimes I forget instead of grabbing the camera and doing
live stream or something, I'm just embracing and enjoying the moment. And I mean, it's like it goes against all the social media rules.
But for me, I want to be present in the moment
instead of kind of like showing like,
oh, look at where I am.
So it's up to us to decide.
And I think that we can have it all
and we can be it all.
We just often don't have the full definition
of what that happiness means to us.
Once we define that, awareness is to us. Once we define that,
awareness is the key. Once we define it, then we can start building and designing our life
towards things that you want. Yeah, I love that so much. Too many people are living for the opinions
of other people. It's crazy. I used to live like that. Because that's the society that we live in,
right? The pressure. And think of it, you probably the same way as I am.
We were told since we were tiny, tiny little human beings, what to do and how to do, what to wear,
what to eat, how to brush our teeth, how to do our bed, how to do our homework. So it starts with
parents, then it goes to school with our educators, then it goes up, you go to college, then it's
college, then we go to the workplace, right?
So then it's our boss, do this, do that. And we just kind of like conditioned what is okay,
what's not okay. And oftentimes what happens when people who are conditioned to be an employee minded person, now all of a sudden go into the entrepreneurial venture, that's when things get
really messed up. Because now all of a sudden,
you don't have somebody who's going to tell you what to do and how to do things. Now we need to have that inner drive that will push us forward to do things when nobody's watching, to do things
when there are no necessary kind of like outside consequences. And that's where the entrepreneurship comes in as a very unique process that requires
a lot of self-discipline, self-motivation, that inner drive. And that's when, on the other side,
the opinion of others forcing us to do things one way or the other. So learning that, you know, oftentimes when people state their opinion,
it's not necessarily the truth, first of all. Second of all, oftentimes they do not necessarily
know who you are. And they just say that because that's what they think, that's their opinion.
So I learned pretty early on that I was like, when I was building that, when I had my store, one of the people came into, one of the buyers came into the store.
And so she's looking at things.
And because I was so passionate about what I was doing, oftentimes I would be on the floor and be like a salesperson.
So I would tell people like, look at this, look at that.
So I'm selling her whatever she was buying at that time.
And she says like, oh, you know what?
I know your owner. And she promised me a oh, you know what? I know your owner.
And she promised me a 20% discount. And I'm looking at her. I was like, wait a minute.
First of all, I am the owner. I do not know you. And I didn't promise you anything.
So that was kind of like a first little aha for me to realize that people do not know you. And
oftentimes they will say things just because they either want to gain something or it gives them significance.
And what I realize is back to the mentors, I want to listen to the feedback of people that I trust.
I want to listen to the feedback of people who went ahead of the road that I want to go to.
So that's the feedback that I'm interested in. But oftentimes we go to our neighbors, to our family, and asking them for financial advice when they never built a business, when they never accomplished anything.
So it's the same thing as asking a health question of what to eat somebody who is obese or overweight.
Excuse me.
That's not going to work.
So we just need to be mindful whose opinion we're listening to. And to me, I always tell my
students, the best question that you can ask when you're listening for the feedback is,
do you want to trade places with that person? And if the answer is no, then just take it or leave it,
but don't take it close to the heart and don't start making huge changes because somebody didn't
like what you said or what you did. As long as you inside, your heart, your soul feels comfortable and knows that you
didn't steal from anybody, you didn't hurt anybody, you did your best, that to me, it's good enough.
If I can go and sleep at bed every single night knowing that I did my best and I didn't harm
anybody, that's already good enough as a base. But then I can add on to it
the opinion of people that I trust and I want to trade places with as a constructive feedback.
Yeah, I love that. That's great advice because it's easy to listen to your parents on certain
topics, but not everything should be learned from your parents.
And not because they're bad or anything. They just sometimes they don't know anybody, right? Because the world changed so much.
You and I are in a slightly different age category.
So when I was growing up, my parents did not necessarily knew things that I learned through my life.
And right now, my 18-year-old, he's so much smarter than me in so many different ways.
Because of the technology, because of the development.
He pretty much was born with the phone.
I had my phone, the first phone, when I was 18 years old.
Wow.
So, I mean, it's just different. So thinking that our parents know all the answers, not necessarily can be the case,
even though they want the best for us most of the time.
We just need to understand that the base knowledge might
be different. And it's okay to listen, but not necessarily take that as a truth and as a kind of
like a call to action. I think it's smart. Absolutely. Yeah. I saw you say on another
show, it took you several years to rebuild your self-esteem and overcome guilt of being a single
mother. It's not so much guilt of being a single mother. It was more of a,
when I was a little girl, my mom and my grandma always told me that I'm smart, I'm powerful,
I can achieve everything I want in life. And I was naive enough and I believed that.
And then life started happening to me. So at the beginning of my entrepreneurial journey,
I started like that energizer bunny. I thought that's like, I can journey, I started like that, you know,
Energizer bunny, I thought that's like, I can do everything. I believe that honestly.
But then I made my mistakes. And then my relationships fell apart. And then I became a single mom. And when I got married for the second time, my husband at the time, I did not
know, but he was verbally abusive. Wow. So it took me time to realize that things
that he was telling me were not necessarily the truth, right? The opinion of other people.
So I did not necessarily realize that what was he telling me is not the reality. So when I was told
that I'm the worst mother, or I'm not a deserving wife, or our business is falling apart because I'm a bad businesswoman was not necessarily true. It just that was the way that he was communicating, or
that was his reality, or his self esteem. So what ended up happening, I lost belief in myself,
I lost my confidence, I lost my self worthiness, because when we repeat it for too often,
the same thing over and over and over,
we start believing in it. And that's what I started believing. So I lost that idea that I'm
confident, smart, capable, and I can achieve everything I want in life. I lost that belief.
And I gathered new belief system that I'm nothing, that I'm nobody, that I'm a bad mom,
that I'm a bad wife. And it took me time to, first of all, find my way out of
it and rebuild that confidence. So it took me a long time to remember who I was and who I lost
belief to be for a season in my life. And I feel like verbal abuse, whether it's from family,
a loved one is pretty common. So what steps did you take to overcome that?
Surround myself with people who are more successful, who believe in me more than I believed in myself at that time.
And continue to pour into me different set of beliefs and surround myself with different relationships. So I had amazing privilege of being taught by amazing leaders in our world,
and that helped tremendously because garbage in, garbage out, right?
So whatever we're feeding our mind, that's what we believe.
And learning how to protect what we're allowing into that computer that is right here is a very important part, in my opinion.
So having to spend time with people who believed in me more, who repeated different affirmations, and also seeing the evidence. Evidence played a huge role in building my own confidence because,
you know, when we don't take actions, there is no proof of what we can or cannot do.
Right.
But once we start taking action, even though we make mistakes, even though we have failed,
even though it's not, it's never going to be a smooth ride, taking those actions,
learning from them and figuring out, oh, I guess I'm not that bad.
I guess I can do something.
I guess I can achieve this.
And once in a while, not throwing a huge party and huge celebration for small achievements,
but recognizing them because those little stepping stones are going to be the road that
when we look in the past, look back, we're going to have evidence of like,
huh, I guess I can do something. So when somebody's opinion comes to you and tell somebody
tells you is like, hey, you're not good enough. You're not like, who do you think you are? Right.
It's like, no, I have enough evidence. I know who I am. Right. I've done this before. And,
you know, bigger accomplishments obviously help you or help me to build that confidence even higher.
You know, building the studio was one of those moments.
Even though now I have an amazing asset, I have a great business.
The best thing that happened out of that entire process was this girl.
Because I learned that's like, I can do something really special.
I can do something pretty amazing.
Even though a lot of people said,
no way she's going to make it happen.
No way she's going to get it done.
No way in the timeline that she has or the budget,
it ended up costing her more than we planned it to be.
But the timeline was insanely tight.
And a lot of people said,
no way she's going to make it happen.
And to me, oftentimes when people don't believe in me, I know that some people kind of like shrink because of that and shy away from it.
To me, it's actually fuel to my fire.
I'm like, OK, watch me.
Let me show you what I'm capable of, not just for them, but to myself.
And proving myself that I'm made more of, I'm capable of more than other people believed in me was a big deal.
That's a great mindset because a lot of people fold under pressure, especially in sports.
And there's the top 1% athletes.
That's where they separate themselves because they can perform in the last minute of the game.
And that's the reason we have only a very, very small percentage of people achieving something of substance.
It's hard to be an athlete.
And there is a very interesting saying, do only what you love. And I do not necessarily believe
in that because here's the thing. All these amazing athletes, if you look at the Olympians,
right? It's great to be on that podium and receive that medal. But nobody really looks at the sacrifices they had to make.
All this ice bath and all the injuries and all the broken relationships and all the moments of their loved ones and their life that they had to kind of like miss because they were in the training camp or competing or traveling or doing whatever they love at the end of the day.
But the sacrifices were tremendous.
So I feel like right now we live in a culture where everybody loves to glorify the result, but dismisses completely the road
that took them to that glory.
So the sacrifices that were necessary,
the mistakes, the failures,
because majority of the people right now
are afraid of failure.
And I'm just like, why?
That's what we're going to do.
We're going to fail.
I mean, it's like fail your way to success faster
because that's how we're going to learn.
That's how we're going to get better.
Because if you can keep repeating the same mistake over and over, that's an insanity.
But if we make a mistake, we learn from it.
We know, okay, that doesn't work this way.
Let me figure out how that works.
And now we're a little bit better.
Now we're a little bit stronger.
Now we're a little bit smarter.
And now we can achieve more and accomplish more because we already have that experience,
because we already have that evidence of what's possible.
But we're also becoming better and better every single time.
So instead of wishing that the problems were easier, wish we were better to solve those bigger problems.
Love that. Yeah, the narrative around failure needs to change because I felt so much and that was necessary to get to where I am today.
Absolutely.
Yeah, I feel like every entrepreneur I know has failed hundreds of times, you know?
And the question is, would you change something?
If you had the ability to change
all your past failures and mistakes, would you?
Probably not.
Yeah, because like they made you who you are today, right?
Without that, it would not be the Sean you see today.
Exactly.
It would be somebody else.
Better, worse, we don't know. Probably not be the Sean you see today. Exactly. It would be somebody else. Better, worse, we don't know.
Probably not as good as you are today because those experiences made you who you are.
The same thing for me.
Oftentimes people are like, well, wouldn't you wish you didn't have all that abusive relationship or you didn't have all those failures or losses?
I was like, no, because this girl that you see today would be completely different.
She would not be as strong as she is today.
And she probably would not be as passionate of helping other people.
So, yeah, I would not change anything.
I would just, one advice I would give myself, my younger version, is dream bigger, faster, and give yourself permission to play at the highest level you can possibly play i love that
because a lot of people have limiting beliefs they think having a million is enough these days
no i have pretty expensive taste so yeah the car you pulled up and looked pretty nice
thank you yeah but uh where can people find out your next events and what you got going on next
uh right now i'm actually i'm gonna have the women's event that is happening on June 15th.
It's women empowerment.
That's what I'm really passionate about.
But we have a lot of events that are happening in the studio.
So just if people follow me on Instagram, Marina Worry, that's great.
Perfect.
We'll link below.
Thanks for coming on, Marina.
Thank you so much.
My pleasure.
Thanks for having me.
Thanks for watching, guys.
See you tomorrow.