Digital Social Hour - The Ego Trap: Stop Self-Sabotaging Your Success I Adonis Bjornson DSH #1327

Episode Date: April 15, 2025

Are you ready to uncover "The Ego Trap" and learn how to stop self-sabotaging your success? 🚀 In this powerful episode of the Digital Social Hour Podcast with Sean Kelly, we dive deep with guest Adonis to explore how ego, instant gratification, and negativity hold you back from achieving your true potential. 🌟 Packed with valuable insights, Adonis shares transformative tips on manifestation, raising your frequency, and aligning with your authentic self to unlock success. 💡 From overcoming self-sabotage and toxic patterns to embracing accountability and abundance, this conversation is filled with wisdom you can apply today. 💪✨ Don’t miss out on this eye-opening discussion! Tune in now to shift your mindset, crush limiting beliefs, and start living the life you deserve. 🌈 Watch now and subscribe for more insider secrets. 📺 Hit that subscribe button and join the conversation on the Digital Social Hour with Sean Kelly! 🎙️🔥 CHAPTERS: 00:00 - Intro 00:27 - Adonis is Back 05:00 - Sponsored by Aires Tech 10:28 - Finding Your Alignment 14:22 - Growth and Mindset Challenges 17:08 - Familiar Hell vs. Unknown Heaven 24:05 - Women's Biggest Issues Today 27:20 - Recognizing Timeline Shifts 28:56 - Understanding Empaths 29:43 - Exploring Narcissism 32:18 - Importance of Accountability 33:35 - Discussion on Religion 37:24 - Full Moon Insights 38:34 - What's Next for Adonis APPLY TO BE ON THE PODCAST: https://www.digitalsocialhour.com/application BUSINESS INQUIRIES/SPONSORS: [e-mail] GUEST: Adonis Bjornson https://www.instagram.com/adonis_bjornson/ LISTEN ON: Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/digital-social-hour/id1676846015 Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/5Jn7LXarRlI8Hc0GtTn759 Sean Kelly Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/seanmikekelly/ #cognitivebehavioraltherapy #selfimprovement #spiritualgrowth #mentalhealth #selfsabotaging The views and opinions expressed by guests on Digital Social Hour are solely those of the individuals appearing on the podcast and do not necessarily reflect the views or opinions of the host, Sean Kelly, or the Digital Social Hour team. While we encourage open and honest conversations, Sean Kelly is not legally responsible for any statements, claims, or opinions made by guests during the show. Listeners are encouraged to form their own opinions and consult professionals for advice where appropriate. Content on this podcast is for entertainment and informational purposes only and should not be considered legal, medical, financial, or professional advice.

We are living in such a time where so many people are empaths, you know, where they really do feel some empaths if they are pushed so badly or just drained of so much energy to a degree kind of can become a Version of a narcissist to a degree. Yeah, there's some people that just get pushed to such a level where they become that become that. All right guys, got Adonis back on the show suited up this time. Yes, dude. Got the John Wick look on. I've never seen it. Yeah, I know dude.

Thought of just switching it up. I think the first time I ever on your show, I was wearing like Viking. Yeah, it was the Viking fit, then the casual fit. Now it's the suit. Let's freaking go. Got a lot of different versions. Yeah, absolutely. A hundred percent. it's the suit. Let's freaking go. You got a lot of different versions. Yeah, absolutely. 100%.

What's new with you, Matt? Man, busy. Just nonstop go, go, go. You know, it's good. It's good. It's a, dude, time feels like it's been going by really fast. This year's been nuts. Yeah.

I feel like just days in general, just feel like they're going. You ever feel that? Like, I feel like the- Lately. Hours, yeah. I feel like time was way slower. There's actually a study on this as you get older, time goes quicker or something. Yeah, for sure. Cause it's, I guess the, um, it's like the percentage of life I've seen that where it's like when you're younger, it feels like a few years is like so long, like a year would be, I guess, a few years. Yeah. Now, yeah, for sure. Well, also school just felt like forever. Yeah. You know?

Ever. Yeah. I guess a pretty eight hour school day felt like torture. So bad. Yeah, for sure. Did you go to school out here? Oh, you know, I said East coast. Okay. Yeah. But I, dude, a hundred percent public school like that. It just felt like it was never ending. Oh my God. Right now I'm like, dude, once like even noon, noon, one o'clock,

I'm like, oh my gosh, the day's over, it's over. I gotta keep going, going, going. By the time I know it, it's like already nine, 10 o'clock. Dude, it's nuts. I don't know what's going on, but time's just flying. Crazy. Yeah. Well, a lot of people don't think time is linear.

Yeah, for sure. I mean, I don't think at like our whole, like the way we see time, I just, I think it's so different for every single one of us, you know, I think Joe dispense even kind of said this, that it's like reality. There's no like base reality. I mean, I guess you could say there's base reality, but like every single one of us has a different degree of like understanding or the way we see things. I think, um, what was it? Even scientifically, all of us see color a little bit different.

I think they're saying to the point where there's not like one of us who sees color the exact same. Pretty clean. Wow. Yeah. And when you really think about that takes it to a whole. Yeah. So life is all perception. Yeah.

A hundred percent. Like we're not living the same life. Yeah, no way. I def, I mean, a hundred percent. You can, I mean, almost with anything when it comes to, you could do the most basic things like movies, music, like one person might like it. One person might hate it. Well, like, you know what I mean?

In that degree, does it make it a good? Does it make it bad? Like, you know, everything is perspective, perspective. Right. Yeah. I don't believe in good and bad anymore. Yeah. No way.

Yeah. It's just perspective. Yeah. If you doing that is probably the best thing. Cause you're then living outside of polarity. And you know what I mean? If it's the spectrum of good and bad, if you see above it, you know, cause that, that same degree, if something's good, there's

going to be someone who thinks it's bad. Something that's bad. There's someone who doesn't think it's good. Well, unfortunately we're programmed to take a side. Yeah, for sure. Always. Doesn't even matter what topic, you know? Yeah, for sure.

That's a hundred percent true. And you see that so often now, more and more every single day. I mean, it's so wild. It's just all a distraction too. Yeah, a hundred percent. Yeah, for sure. And you see that so often now, more and more every single day. I mean, it's so wild. It's just all a distraction to a hundred percent. Yeah, for sure. It's, it's amazing how more and more each and every day. I see this with people where it's, we're talking adults here. I mean, people 20, 30, 40, 50, 60, where the distractions again and again, and

it's even a level with the distractions is kind of the, how would you say? People get more and more impatient or they want that right now dopamine. It needs to happen instant needs to happen instant, you know, instant gratification, instant gratification. Yeah. People want results fast. Yeah, fast. And that's like a big issue.

I even see a lot with like with AI or chat, CPT, anything like that is no one ever talks about that, but the instant gratification. Now it's the, I mean, things have already been instant with our phone, but now it's like instant, instant, instant. You know what I mean? You want something done like, I got like, yeah, it's kind of crazy. Yeah. Yeah.

I like AI, but I am a little, you know, just about it. Same for sure. Like, I mean, a lot of movies come true. Yeah. So when you see like Charminator and matrix, it's like, yeah, actually be like, is this like a documentary or like, yeah, showing us what's coming. Yeah, I know. Yeah.

Exactly. Cause I think it will develop. For sure. You're already seeing signs of it. Yeah. So I think not even in the next decade, I think even sooner than that, I think year by year, we're going to see stuff get crazy. Crazy, especially if, if they really develop more human-like robots and that

even people could like have a relationship with her, it goes in that direction. It already is. Yeah. It, which is. Ever thought about how much EMF and radiation your body is exposed to every single day from smartphones to wifi modern technology never stops emitting invisible stressors that could disrupt brain function, hormone balance, and cellular health. That's where Aries comes in, the only scientifically validated solution designed to help your body

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It's so strange. It's like, I mean, relationships are already strange and then you add that into the mix. Well, because everyone's awkward now, like 30 to 40% of people are virgins our age, it's like they have no other choice but to date in AI. Absolutely. 100%. And that's, it's really strange because it's going to take so much.

Like people already to a degree are starting to lose some of their humanity or like, you know what I mean? Cause everything is so instant every of technology is so integrated within us. But then having that your only relationships or friendships is with a robot. Really strange. Yeah. I mean, people just, when you meet with people in person now, they're just on their phone.

Yeah. They're glued. Easy. Yeah. That's what I don't know if you've seen, there's this guy on TikTok and he has a, you know, that I don't know the game, but the five nights and Freddie bears or whatever those say, but he's building a robot that it's like the robots talking to him almost like ultra and it's like father, what is my purpose?

And it's like, it's, you got, it's off to find it for you. It is the trippiest thing. Cause he built this robot and the robots, like when he took the, uh, the vision out of the robot, the robots like, wait, I can't see I'm scared. Like, wow. And this is a guy just building this in his house, this robot. If he's doing that, it's like, yeah. It must be connected to some source or something.

Yeah, it's really, to that level. It's like, we have artificial intelligence, but is it more artificial consciousness? I think they're about to prove our, our soul exists outside the body soon. Yeah. It's looking pretty promising. Yeah, I think so. Yeah. Cause when we were growing up, they thought it was in the brain.

Yeah, a hundred percent. There's definitely a full disconnect versus like the real you and then like your mind and you know, all this, you know, absolutely frequently. Yeah. Cause this telepathy tape stuff is really providing you evidence, right? For sure. Oh yeah. People are communicating without speaking.

Yeah, a hundred freaking percent. Have you seen that stuff? It's the thoughts. It is wild you evidence. Right. For sure. Oh yeah. People are communicating without speaking. Yeah. 100% Have you seen that stuff? It's the thoughts. It is wild within that. Yeah. Does it like even be able to the different synchronicities we can have or how we can, I would say kind of like sync up to a degree if we're thinking, well, one thing it's, it's, I don't know.

It's even beyond telepathy where it's like, you're so in tune again, like you're on the same frequency as that person is really interesting because to what we were saying earlier, obviously we're all living in different, we have different perspectives, but yet we can still be in the same frequency. Right. And that's a big thing you teach frequency, right? Raise the, and all 100%.

That's the most important thing is whatever you're trying to manifest, whatever you want, whatever outcome you have to be that thing, you have to be that version of you. You know what I mean? So many people, I think manifestation is becoming so popular, but it's so misunderstood where I think a lot of people think it's this wishing or this genie or wanting it. You know what I mean?

Rather than, okay, I, oh, I want to be really abundant. I want to make 10 grand a month. I want to make this much. How do I get there? I want to manifest it. It's, you have to think about if you were doing that, what would you be doing? What would that version of you be doing?

Hmm. That's something I have, like I work with so many clients and there's some that when they first come to me, they're, they're not in that place at all. And that frequency at all to be making that money. And that's the first thing where I'm like, okay, we got to change up your habits, everything. I mean, you're sleeping in till 12 noon.

I mean, little things like that. People think, oh, come on, that's not important, but it is. It's still, it sets the tone for who you're going to be. Absolutely. Yeah. Manifestation is just the first step. Yeah. People think it's like the only thing you need to do is a hundred percent.

Yeah. There's so much to it. You know, I always think it's, it's action. You have to actually do certain things. You have to have a mindset for it. And then I call it like soul. You're, you actually have to be aligned to that. You don't even know. Once you're aligned, it's way easier. Yeah. Cause I used to go against my alignment. Like I used to just chase money. Yeah. It says, yeah, that wasn't my sole purpose. A hundred percent. Yeah. 100%. I used to go against my alignment. Like I used to just chase money. Yeah. It's as I, yeah, that wasn't my sole purpose. A hundred percent.

Yeah. And I hear that so often from so many clients. They'll see a success story of that day of a client who like achieves something really great. Like financially, like, oh my gosh, I need to do this. How did they do that? How did they make that much? And I'm like, you can't look at the money like that. If it's, if it's something you're not aligned to, you, you're not going to do it.

You're not going to want to do it. I know. I mean, I do a little bit, a little bit of trading and then sometimes I want to get more into it and whatnot, but I know guys that are like die hard. I mean, a lot of people do that. Or for me, I just could like, it's, it's not aligned to me all day. I could not just be, I couldn't, I just couldn't do it. You know what I mean?

I know I would eventually, yeah. Just kind of taper out with it. Yeah. How did you figure out where you were aligned? You know, this is a, I love this question here. If you can go back to your childhood, like the things that you were most fascinated with that really, I feel that's the best way. I mean, everything I'm doing to a degree was always very helpful.

Always spiritual. Like always liked to guide people in a sense, but I also like every aspect of my business, even doing social media, doing Instagram, YouTube, whatever it may be. I love, um, filming and just kind of like the whole thing that I do. You know what I mean? I was doing that when I was a kid and I feel everything was aligned to that. And even more, you know, when I was a teenager, I kind of wanted to be a psychologist. So it kind of all intermingles to a degree.

Like I said, if you want to really know where you would thrive the most, try to go back to childhood and think, okay, what did I kind of like to do? I love that. That applies to me for sure. Because when I was super young, I loved asking questions. That's awesome. I get answers to all adults. 100%. Now I young, I loved asking questions. That's awesome. My parents are, it's all adults. 100%. Now I'm doing that for a living.

That's odd. That's exactly it. 100%. You know what I mean? If you do that, it's so much more fulfilling. Yeah. Yeah. That's your inner child, right?

Yeah. 100%. Absolutely. Yeah. And a lot of times everyone, what'd I say? They don't protect their inner child or kind of like push it aside. You know what I mean? It's like, if you tap more into that inner child and even feeling like

your inner child is safe to that degree, I think she's going to be way better. I think part of that is because when you're adults, you want to hide that side of you, but you don't, you want to appear mature, you know what I mean? Yes, absolutely. So I still leave you with that, which is so strange. Cause like what we were just saying, even a little earlier is the impatience, they all like so many adults almost, I don't wanna say act like kids,

cause sometimes kids have a little bit more manners to a degree, but they just, they act out in a certain way where it's like, if you actually thought more, and I don't wanna say act like a child, but just had more of that carefree imagination and enjoyed life more within that. It's just so much better. Yeah. I mean, there are a lot of people that can't control their emotions.

They can't. Yeah. For sure. It's impressive how many there are. Yeah, for sure. Absolutely. And I think that's a lot of times that's almost a cry for help on kind of wanting attention, but not knowing how to get it again, if we aren't aligned to the right

things and trying to be the best version for ourselves, that's where things really get disrupted. You know? Yeah. Like I play basketball. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah.

Yeah. You know, I'll talk some shit, you know, but I always know not to take it to that next level. Yeah. For sure. I won't get 100 fights and stuff, but some people will just, you know, rain crazy. Yeah. And again, fist fights playing basketball.

It's like a sport. It know, rain crazy. Yeah. And again, fist fights playing basketball. It's like a sport. It's not that serious. Yeah. That's reacting is probably the worst thing I think we could do. You know what I mean? I always say don't react respond because it's like when you respond, you kind of almost have to, you know, take that, like take a pause for a moment. Okay.

Let me think of what I should do next. You know, where most people it's just reaction. Instinct to actually with family growing reaction. It's instant too. Instantly with fans growing up. Instantly. Yeah, instant. No matter what they said, I'd want to take the opposite stance.

You see on social media too, someone like with everything, someone sees something and they instantly comment some craziness. It's wild. I, it's so interesting. I've had people, you know, I have a lot of haters and whatnot,

and I'll have people that'll say certain things, even messaged me like the meanest nastiest thing. And I'll just actually messaged him back. Hey, are you okay? What's up? And then they'll get even nastier. I'm like, look, I know you're upset. What's going on? And then they'll start crying and break down.

Oh my gosh, I'm sorry. You read it. Should it like, I just feel so angry. I'm thinking, Oh wow. Gosh. They just needed someone to recognize them or kind of help them through or a friend. I mean, it's not, that's not the right way to do it, but it's very interesting having that approach where, okay, if I was going to be on the same level and be

like, Oh my gosh, why are you saying that all this stuff, it's just escalating and more, but trying to be relaxed and neutral with any best thing we can do. I also think it's a really hard experience growth when you're in a hateful mindset. Yeah. Yeah. I don't know, man, successful people that hateful like that. It's true. A hundred percent.

It's that's probably one of the most difficult things. And if you have for anyone listening, you, you can't, if, if, if you're in a place of hate and anger, any low frequency like that, you're never going to grow. I mean, it's just that you're going to, but it's, you're going to be stagnant. And if anything, you're going to digress and get even worse. And within it, you've got to let it go. And that's, it's really interesting again, with perspective and our identity within and just thinking of self, we have the choice at any moment to

change anything, which is wild. I mean, even the worst situation, we have the choice to change the meaning of it at any time. Wow. Yeah. Yeah. Cause that's how you interpret it, right? Yeah, a hundred percent.

I mean, any situation really isn't that bad. You know what I mean? There's times, I mean, the other day going out here to the strip, it was a really nice restaurant and the waiter was so nice and he was so good. And I could see just, um, other people he was dealing with. And then he just, as they was walking by, this one table was really rude to him. And you could just tell he was like, he cursed to himself and just thought, gosh, like, and I felt so bad for the guy, like in that moment, like he was so frustrated.

You know what I mean? And I was the reason I bring this up in that moment for myself, I was dealing with stuff and I was frustrated and I was like, you know what I feel for that guy. Like it could be worse. I could be in his shoes I was frustrated. I was like, you know what? I feel for that guy. Like it could be worse. I could be in his shoes. You know what I mean? And I mean, that's a really, not this dramatic crazy example,

but it was anything there's gonna be truly, probably billions of people that would love to be in your shoes or have it worse. That's true. So it's great to always put that in perspective for our own self. Like, hey, I can snap out of this right now. Like, is this really that big of a deal? Let me snap out of this. You know? Yeah. For me, it's like, will I care

about this in a few days? And usually it's no. Yeah. So why do I care right now? Yeah. Which is so, it's so strange. And I think, so I feel we have, there's like our true like soul self, which is our consciousness outside of us. But then in this realm on earth, wherever, however you want to say it in this body, we have our ego, which I feel our ego tries so hard to control us and wants us to stay in that place. Wants us to stay depressed, wants us to stay in that frequency. You know what I mean?

It's an ongoing battle. I'm constantly like evaluating my ego where I'm at, checking myself. Like it seems like you can never fully put it at rest. Yeah, no way. It's, I think of it like this, like we have homeostasis for our body, obviously, you know, are hard or everything has to work, but I feel there's a ego homeostasis that no matter what, even if we're in a really bad, like living situation, or just if we feel depressed, it's like the ego would rather stay there than move

forward. I think I've said this before. It's like, um, people would rather stay in a familiar hell than an unknown heaven. That's why people attract toxic relationships because they're used to it. Yes, absolutely. Yeah. Yeah.

Cause their parents or whoever growing up. Yeah, it's so true. What triggers like that certain big emotional triggers will leave such an impression on the subconscious mindset. I mean, I'm at like the where, let's say a girl has been dating like toxic guys her whole life and things like that, or had a bad relationship with her. That impression on her subconscious is always going to be there. And then to a degree she kind of sees that as love sometimes, or if there's a

good guy that comes along, the mind almost doesn't like, is like, Oh, there's something wrong here. Why are this person? There's this can't be right. There's something bad. And it's like, we are own subconscious. It either self sabotages us or moves forward to what? Yeah, that's great.

I used to self sabotage myself and I didn't know why. For sure, yeah. I'd attract like great people and then just cut off their relationship. It was weird, dude. For sure, yeah. Has that happened to you too? Yeah, oh yeah, for sure.

There's been so many, throughout my whole life, there's been a lot of beliefs I had to overcome big time. You know what I mean? And I could tell there was big pivotal moments where I'm like, if I don't squash this and change my subconscious, this is not going to be good. Or some of the big ones.

As funny as this may sound, there was times like growing up, like in high school, I was really bullied. Yeah. I tried, you know, I, I don't know, I did my best, but I was really bullied. I just, I didn't even do good at all in school. I almost like got freaking expelled. I just, I was really bad. You know what I mean? That's funny.

Just on a side note, you could get expelled for bad grades. Oh, I was really bad. Yeah. I actually, my senior's funny. Just on a side note, you could get expelled for bad grades. Oh, I was really bad. Yeah. I actually, my senior year, I almost didn't finish and they were like, they told me just to stop. Like I forget, it wasn't trigonometry. I was like, I forget what algebra or whatever it was. And they're just like, just, no, like we just got it to pull them out of the

class just to get them through. But it's so funny. Cause I mean, I guarantee I'm probably the most successful person now that I'm in high school. There's times, yeah, it's not about driving my Lambo back or my Rolls Royce. I mean, like, hey, what's up, everybody? I had those thoughts too.

I'm not gonna lie. Yeah, it'd be freaking awesome. But I've took the high route. High out front. For sure, yeah, it's one of those things that like, who even cares? But there's times I'm definitely like, this would be pretty freaking cool.

But yeah, big thing I always, probably in my early twenties, I, there was time I feel like a loser all the time. And I remember my mom even saying like, you got to stop saying that you're, you would, you're going to fulfill a self fulfilling prophecy. He keeps saying that over and over again. You know what I mean? And I know when I would say it, uh, like just, it would get worse. Like things around me would get worse. You know what I mean? And I will say this, this is, it's amazing. Even if someone doesn't believe in manifestation or any of this stuff or

spirituality, really analyze your day. If you are going about your day in a negative way, you'll be attracting so much negativity. If you just change it up right away. I don't care if it's the worst thing that has happened to you. I don't care if there's no money in your account, whatever it may be. If you truly start to change up your mindset, I call it the Lulu is this Lulu. If you start to become delusional in that way, things will get better.

A hundred percent. And I see this on a daily basis. If I start the day off bad, if I have like, I mean, my days truly will either be is like this, like it's a flow constantly where I'm, if I'm doing good. It just gets better. If I focus on negativity I'm doing good, it just gets better. If I focus on negativity, Oh my gosh, it gets, it gets worse and worse. And I have to check myself pretty quickly or else. I mean, cause I feel at my level of knowing all this stuff, being so self aware.

If I go down that road of being in a negative frequency, I can get there really bad, you know what I mean? It's like the people that say they have bad luck and they started tracking everything negative. Yeah. Thank you guys. It's saying that it's like your mind is now going to focus on that. Yeah.

Our brain filters through so many things. I think it's, I want to say it's 11 million, but I swear, I think that it's even more. It's like, I might be wrong saying 11 billion, but it was something. It's so crazy how many thoughts or just things we're perceiving. Like right now, even in this room, like but it was something, it's so crazy how many thoughts are just things we're perceiving, like right now, even in this room, like our eyes are just, there's so many things going on, so many memories, a bazillion things we're thinking about, but our mind focuses it down to like 50 to a hundred things that we're looking at.

You know what I mean? Oh, so if someone is like, Oh, I always have bad luck. Their brain is going to find bad luck is going to make sure that belief stays. I mean, that that's everything there. If you can really think to yourself, okay, like brain, find me more abundance. See abundance. I want to see things that are just amazing. You say that enough times and really want to see that your mind has no choice,

but okay, that's what we'll be focusing in on. And I mean, and it's just, it will build more and more and more, you know, I like to think of the law of compounding interest, even if it's just a little bit every day of anything is going to build up over time. Yeah. This is where, why I think school is so dangerous because a lot of people tie their identity to their grades. Yes.

So you start to be dumb. Yeah, a hundred percent. It's the word. It's, it's really strange actually school. When you think about it to the degree of the way it's laid out, how long it is. It's just, it's, it's so set up for people to kind of be in this strange workflow for whole life, you know what I mean? I mean, I know the world has to run a certain way.

I know some people think, Oh, it couldn't, it should be like this. Should be free no matter what someone's going to have to grow the vegetables or do this or this or that, you know what I mean? That's the camp. There's never going to be just this absolute freedom to a degree, but it's, um, I just think the way society's made it's, it's amazing how much control there is and how much people fall victim to that control thinking they have to do that. Yeah.

Just so strange to me. Super strange. I mean, we didn't start questioning it until we were done with sale. For sure. You know, absolutely. Yeah. And now I think people are waking up, which is good. Yeah, for sure.

Absolutely. Yeah. Yeah. It's, there's probably the most ever people really waking up and questioning things and being like, no, I'm going to do it a different way than there's ever been before, and it's just going to get more and more of that. Obviously there's going to be more and more people that don't do that too. That want to like stick to like, no, I'm going to do it this way.

That way you probably get the craziest comments and DMs dude. All the time. I see some of the ones I get on my clips. Yeah. It's like, it's wild. Yeah. That's it's crazy within social media. If you don't realize it, I mean, you're talking to people all over the world and

people, you don't, I mean, they legitimately to people all over the world and people you don't I mean they legitimately could be the nicest person or they can be someone you just don't know. Did the hate get to you at first? Yeah definitely at first for it was uh I can't even remember this I would like I responded back when I first started to this one comment on Instagram I actually got in trouble for it. Oh really? I got yelled like a strifer this is a long time ago it was all finished but I was so mad It was all finished, but I was so mad. I was like, Oh my gosh. And I was more mad at myself because I was like, why did I do that?

Why did I even entertain that person? I got a freaking strike for this. You know, where now I just don't even look at it at all. You know what I mean? Yeah. I think sometimes it's good to have some controversy, but it's also if it's like, if it's not really serving a purpose, just block the person. Absolutely.

Now I know you have a big female following. What are the biggest issues you're seeing with them? Yeah. Biggest thing is the dating where almost all of these women, they want to be, they want to feel good. They want, they want princess treatment. I know a lot of people are going to be like, Oh, this is ridiculous. It's not, women aren't asking,, you've got to be making a hundred grand

of money. You got to be making crazy. If they just, they want to be treated like a lady. And I really do see this where it's just, it doesn't, it exists, but it can be very small. You know what I mean? Simple things. I mean, like just holding a door open for a lady.

You know what I mean? Like there's the other day, my friend and I even just going into the casino where you held the door and like these women were shocked like, wow, my gosh, such gentlemen in my mind, I'm thinking like, oh yeah, I know that's like normal. That's how it should always be. You know what I mean? Guys should be as kind and as willing to do that as possible. You know what I mean?

But, uh, he is saying so many of my goddess clients, they'll, when they first like start working with me, they'll, when they first like start working with me, they'll say like with their exes or even just the relationship they're in, they have to do all the work, they have to be the ones to text first, they have to be like almost chasing after the guy. And that's a big thing. I mean, it's, it's, I don't think people realize how much of an epidemic it is like that, where it's like, they're doing a lot of the work and guy, I, I think guys don't know what to do.

I think some guys have felt like maybe betrayed or they're afraid of things or the, you know, just how like a masculinity, I think to a degree has been really under fire, but then also, uh, confused, I don't know, maybe just confused. I'm trying to find the right word, but no, I know what you mean though. I think guys are like, cause of the top. To be a guy. Exactly. For sure.

And they don't know how to be because it's either you got to be that to the extreme or what else do you do? You know what I mean? There's no kind of middle ground or like different way. I did approach the thinking, you know? And I also feel like a single, uh, single parent income is really hard these days. So now the female has to work. Masculine energy.

Yeah, absolutely. A hundred percent. Yeah. And there's a lot that, um, that a lot of my goddess clients, like I said, they have to do almost everything they're working, they're doing so many different things, you know, and they feel like exactly said that they're fully in their masculine energy and they're like, I can't stand this. This isn't normal.

Cause that makes it tougher to date. Yeah. If they're not older, feminine, big time. Absolutely. And then you got guys and they're feminine. Oh, big all the way. Absolutely. And it's amazing because the dating scene within that it's, it's not, again,

guys think they got to be like, you know, all the rich, this and all, I got, you know, and it's like, you don't have to be that you have to just, you have to have ambition. You know what I mean? If a guy really has ambition, he's kind. And, um, you know, within everything we're talking about here, spirituality manifestation, I like, I tell guys learn more of that, you know, it makes you more exciting to talk about than just the same old, just, uh, you know, just

same old guy stuff, dude. Yeah. You know what I mean? I think the more, I always say this, the more value you have within yourself, the more that you learn, the more that you try to become valuable to the world, you'll have no problems at all. You know what I mean? Absolutely. Not with these timeline shifts.

Man, it's, it's been kind of crazy. And I think, um, the biggest thing with all of us, just, what we said earlier, kind of waking up more people being aware. I feel that has such a huge connection then to the earth itself where, you know, the earth has its own frequency. There's this thing called the Schumann resonance that will track it. And like there's times where it has massive spikes when that happens, that's kind of a collective timeline shift to a degree.

And it's very interesting because a lot of people say, well, how do you like see it, like what is a true timeline shift? And it's to that degree collectively, obviously, I'm going to always say, as we said earlier, like we have different perspectives, but I feel we can all get onto that same frequency where when something, there'll be a big shift and it's really, it's hard to describe it. Do you know what I mean? Like when you can just tell, like you have to be very kind of awake and like feel the

energy of this, but you can just tell when it's changed. And I see this all the time where it's like just the world itself, like politically things change on a massive scale. You know what I mean? And there's it's. I don't even know how sometimes to put it into words, it is such a feeling where you can just feel that energy change. And it's, um, yeah, it's just different.

And it's definitely a big, what I would say is it feels like things aren't the same or you can't go back. Yeah. I mean, that's a big thing would say is I feel like things aren't the same or you can't go back. Yeah. I mean, that's a big thing that's I, I have felt even in the last year, it doesn't feel like it feels like so many things have changed. You know what I mean? But a year feels like time has flown by just happened. You know what I mean?

Are you an empath you think? Yeah, for sure. I would say so. Yeah. I feel like maybe sometimes a little bit too much. Right. I even feel like I'm very airy so I can feel like I can be, I want to just say I can be sensitive, but I can also be kind of like, like don't mess with me.

Yeah. But I feel tremendous. And I think we are living in such a time where so many people are empaths, you know, where they really do feel seeing a lot now. Yeah, a lot. But I have this theory within it that some empaths, if they are pushed so badly or just drained of so much energy to a degree that kind of can become. A version of a narcissist to a degree.

Yeah. There's some people that just get pushed to such a level where they become bad. You know what I mean? Yeah. The narcissism stuff is nuts. So early on my podcast career, certain guests would drain me. So I had to learn how to start protecting myself because I would come home and knock out.

Like I'd be drained. I can imagine. Absolutely. That doesn't happen anymore, but I'm sure a lot of people deal with that, whether it's a family member or a friend. Yeah. You know, it's so interesting you say that because there's different levels of narcissists too.

I fully believe. Like, I mean, there's full blown mean, very manipulative narcissist, but then there's, I call it a victim narcissist where the person, they are so, woe is me all the time and sad and just always so depressive. Like they just want misery loves company. And they might not even know that,

but they're so negative to be around that it just, it is just soul crushing. You know what I mean? And then even to that, but they're, it's, they're so negative to be around that it just, it is just soul crushing, you know what I mean? And then even to that, sometimes they're maybe not, well, it was me, but they complain about everything. They just like everything. Everything is, oh, that's not good. It's a, oh my goodness. And I, I deal with that a lot sometimes.

You know what I mean? Yeah. I had to cut off complainers. Yeah. I used to be one. Yeah. For sure. Same thing.

And it is, it's so bad. People don't realize that it's probably one of the worst things you can do. And it takes your frequency down so quickly and keeps you stuck in this loop of complaining again and again and again. Yeah. I hate excuses. Me too. Yeah.

Like once in a while. Yeah. If you're doing excuses daily, like that's on you at that point. For sure. A hundred percent. Absolutely. Yeah. And it's, I, people almost don't want to help themselves at all.

They'd rather just be in that place of complaining. And I just, I don't, that's something I don't understand. You know what I mean? I, maybe I can be, maybe that's me being critical there, but there's times where I've seen this with people all the time and sometimes with certain clients or, um, when people start working with me, there's certain things like I just, I'll have some instructions or stuff like that. And one thing is very strange to me.

I don't know if you've seen this, but just in general, just all over the place, I've seen people can't follow directions to the, or they don't like their, maybe it's an ADHD where their mind's always gone. Yeah. Like it'll be like the answer is right in front of you. You know what I mean? Or if it's like, you know, it's like, Hey, so like, you've got to stop thinking that way. But okay, how that's the question always is how, how, how I'm like, the first thing is just stop.

You have to be self-aware enough. And I think everyone is, but they, they want a band-aid. They want some magical genie that's going to be like, okay, they hear this or that. There's some things where you just have to take accountability and be like, okay, I recognize I'm doing this. I have to stop. You know, that's probably one of the most powerful things.

Sometimes the most simplistic thing is the most powerful thing. I love what you said about accountability. Cause for me, that was the biggest step to get to. Yeah. For sure. A lot of people won't get there. Yeah. It's probably the most important thing that you can do is really be accountable. And if you can take it to an extreme, it's actually the best thing. If you can really see, to a degree, everything you'd, if something bad happens, I'll actually say, okay, it's my fault. Let me find where I should have been more prepared. Why I shouldn't have done this.

I try to take accountability for everything. You know what I mean? Cause then if, if that's the case, you can correct it. You can really control it. By a degree. You know, if you just don't take accountability, then, oh, it's their fault, it's this person's fault. Oh, it's the government's fault.

It's this, it's everything else except for me. You have no control at that point. You know what I mean? And then almost you don't have any self identity other than being a victim and do it great. You know what I mean? Victim mentality. You need to blame the government.

It's easy to blame your parents. Everything else. Yeah, of course. Hey, there's some bad things. Absolutely. There's unfair things, but accountability is like a superpower and people just don't want to do it with anything. You know what I mean? Especially like someone's mean, someone did this or that.

Again, I will try to think of how could I have been better? How could I have brought more value to myself though I wasn't in this situation? For sure. How do you approach the topic of God? Cause there's all sorts of religions and beliefs. Is that a controversial one for you? Yeah, for sure.

I am, you know, I, it's very funny. I grew up like Catholic and then Christian. And the more I really looked into it, I, for sure. I am, you know, I, it's very fun. I grew up like Catholic and then Christian and the more I really looked into it, I, for me, actually, like, I feel like I found God more, you know, like everyone says Jesus, I say Yeshua. And I feel like I really understood Yeshua more and God's teachings. And it's like, when I really see the Bible now and everything that I know, and even just learning more and more, like, wow, there's so much more than meets the eye. You know what I mean?

And I feel to a big degree, I feel religion is the greatest form of control in every single one. You know what I mean? I always say to people that like people will be like, oh, I don't trust the government, but I trust all that the Bible and Catholic says, or everything is always perfect to a T. I'm like, okay, how can you not trust this? But you think that they were more honest back then, or this is like, when you really look at everything and every different teaching and different religious, just all of it, the more research you can do for yourself, that's the most important thing. But a hundred percent, I think they're, I know there's God, you know what I mean? For all like, and I feel we're so connected to it, you know, I feel again, when you look at, you could like the New Testament and the Bible, Christian teachings, if you

really look at it in a different approach and the way it's really meant to be, you can see, Oh my gosh, this is like showing us that we are connected to God. You know what I mean? I feel the biggest lie ever that Christianity loves to do in most religions is that you're disconnected from God. You're not good, you're not this, you're terrible. Like there's so much, so much negativity that I was raised upon with. And then I feel like, again,

I always thought I wasn't good enough. This wasn't this, I wasn't connected. You know, and I was like, wait a minute, we're kind of, we are connected, you know? It changes everything. That's so true though. A lot of shame within religion. I remember going to church as a kid and I was like, wait a minute, we're kind of, we're, we are connected. You know, it changes everything. That's so true though. A lot of shame within religion. I remember going to church as a kid and I was scared.

Yeah, same. Yeah. Absolutely. Like I used to not want to go to church. Yeah, same. Absolutely. That's how I felt was so much. There was so much that I would read and I thought, did this doesn't make sense?

Like, especially then when you look at the Aramaic words or the Hebrew words, the Greek words, the translation starts to be a little different in this. I was like, okay, this is kind of cool. Like they say you lose 20 to 30% when you translate language language and they transferred it what twice? Yeah. It's English. Yeah, for sure.

And then there's even there's the, the book of Thomas. There's a few other ones as well. We were like, Oh, that's not canon. We don't want to put that in. Yeah. Well, who decided that? You know what I mean? like, Oh, that's not canon. We don't want to put that in.

Yeah. Well, who decided that? You know what I mean? I just, I feel the more you really study it and say search your soul is in it. When you feel like, I don't know, it's just you, you get the right connection with it. You know what I mean? But like, again, I feel religion is the greatest source of control and power. You know what I mean?

If I feel, Oh, I'm a better whatever religion than you all, I'm this or that, I'm more ordained, I'm chosen. You know what I mean? Like there's a lot of people out there that feel their religion, their this or that is the best so that they have authority over you. You know what I mean? You know what I mean?

It gets to be scary. And it's very much a huge, I feel power trip, big time. Well, religion goes beyond borders, right? There's billions of people involved. And you're probably right. Nairms of just numbers. For sure. Yeah, it's wild.

I mean, it's, it's. I, you know, it's not, it's not disrespectful to what anyone believes. It's just more, it's when you really look at it from a true loving standpoint, if we're here to love and if God is love and everything, and just from a real conscious standpoint, the most basic principle, it's like, I wouldn't want to be like, Hey, I'm better. My thing's better. I have the authority.

You're absolutely wrong and I can destroy you. I mean, how many people have been, you know, killed in the name of religion or wars or so many things like that. Right. Like I said, when you really analyze it, I'm like, it just doesn't make sense. Yeah. It doesn't make sense. Yeah. Full moon coming up. You got any plans? Yeah.

Uh, you know, it's actually gonna be my birthday that day. I don't know what I'm going to do. I might just, uh, there's some things I'm going to do for my clients, but yeah. I, and I don't know. You showed me a nice spot out here. Thank you by the way. Yeah. That was awesome.

Yeah. Pitch blonde. Amazing out there. Yeah. I go out there all the time. Yeah. It's so nice just to get away. Yeah. I thought Red Rock, it's just, it's amazing out there. Yeah. I go out there all the time. Yeah. It's so nice just to get away. Yeah.

I thought red rockets just, it's amazing out there. I just did a hike the other day and there was like a, like a creek was still flowing up there. It was even as hot as it is. It was really nice. It's beautiful. Something just, when you're at peace like that in a city like Vegas, it's rare to have. It's amazing. Yeah.

It's amazing. My wife and I, we went to breakfast at the Paris that morning. And then later that day we went on that hike. It's crazy that we could be at the strip and then this incredible hike, you know, that's one thing I would say the more you can get on nature, it definitely helps you rewire a lot of pathways, especially to help with the impatience. That's a big thing. Yeah.

Whenever I'm feeling like too, um, in, in social media or in my head, I go out in nature or kind of reset. For sure. You have to, cause it's, it's if we constantly go, go, go, go, go, you just burn out. You know what I mean? Yeah. Fake time with it. Well, dude, what's next for you?

Where can we catch up with you? Uh, yeah. On my Instagram Adonis underscore underscore. Am I saying that right? Underscore underscore either way. Underscore. Yeah, for sure. That's the best place to reach me. Uh, so I got a YouTube on TikTok as well.

And then my website manifests with adonis.com, but yeah. Uh, I mean, moving forward, man, just going to keep just going. You know what I mean? That's consistency is everything. And the more you stay in that place, you're going to be consistent with something. You're either going to be consistent with getting worse or getting better. Know what I mean?

And if you change a few things to your mindset, that will be everything. At its core manifestation is you changing. You changing to such a degree that you no longer require the 3D to change. Cause you're already changed in your mind of it. If you can, you wanna be rich, try to feel that feeling and see what you're already grateful for you can walk you

can see you can taste you can hear you're already rich you got some great things that some people don't have. I love that. Thanks for coming on again. Absolutely Ron. It was a lot of guys. Definitely.