Digital Social Hour - The Untapped Power of Psychic Business Intuition | Amber Cavanagh DSH #1032

Episode Date: December 29, 2024

🔮 Unlock the secrets of psychic business intuition with our incredible guest, Amber! 🌟 She shares her mind-blowing near-death experience and how it transformed her psychic abilities. From stroke survivor to spiritual guide, Amber's journey will leave you speechless! 😱 Discover the untapped power of intuition in business and life as Amber reveals: • The shocking truth about the afterlife 👻 • How near-death experiences enhance psychic abilities 🧠 • The surprising connection between intuition and business success 💼 Don't miss this eye-opening conversation that challenges everything you thought you knew about life, death, and the power of the mind. Amber's incredible story of survival and spiritual awakening will inspire you to tap into your own intuitive gifts! 🌠 Watch now and subscribe for more mind-bending insights on the Digital Social Hour with Sean Kelly! 🎥 Join the conversation and unlock your hidden potential today! 🚀 #selfimprovement #consciousnessevolutionjourney #nde #spiritualbypassing #spiritualgrowth CHAPTERS: 00:00 - Intro 00:27 - Amber's Near Death Experience 07:01 - Past and Future Lives 10:48 - Predetermined Life Events 19:07 - Brain Surgery and Life-Saving Blood Thinner 21:10 - Experiences on the Other Side 22:30 - Recovery Process After NDE 25:10 - Remembering Past Clients 27:17 - Channeling and Spiritual Guidance 28:14 - Importance of Connecting with Spirit Guides 29:50 - Exit Points in Life 32:05 - What Happens When We Die 38:26 - DMT and Consciousness 40:03 - Your Path to Religion and Beliefs 43:34 - How to Read People 47:17 - Understanding Your Genetic Line 48:34 - Where to Get the Book 50:57 - End of Interview APPLY TO BE ON THE PODCAST: https://www.digitalsocialhour.com/application BUSINESS INQUIRIES/SPONSORS: [e-mail] GUEST: Amber Cavanagh https://www.instagram.com/westcoastmedium1/ LISTEN ON: Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/digital-social-hour/id1676846015 Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/5Jn7LXarRlI8Hc0GtTn759 Sean Kelly Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/seanmikekelly/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

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And I would pray to go back to the other side so that I wouldn't be a burden to my family. I don't feel like that anymore, but I just, it was so amazing. And that's our home. There's no other, this is school and it's a really hard school. That's home. And I knew it the second I got there. I knew, you know everything, like it feels like home. All right guys, we have Amber here today. Came in from Vancouver. Thanks for coming on. Yes, thanks for having me.

Absolutely. Near death experience changed your life, right? Yes. 2021? Yeah, 2021, Christmas 2021. Wow, what a day to have a near death experience. Yeah, well, it was a couple of days before. Okay.

23rd. Yeah. What exactly happened? So, we were having a Christmas day, we made gingerbread houses and then we were going to watch a Christmas movie and all of a sudden, I got the worst headache, like blinding. And I wish now, like I wish I got the worst headache, like blinding.

And I wish now, like I wish I knew that a headache that bad is something to be concerned about. I didn't. So I went to bed and I just said to my family, you know, I'm going to go to bed. My head hurts super, super bad. So hopefully I will feel better the next day. I was having 40 people for dinner for Christmas

Eve and I went to bed and like an hour later, my husband was still on the couch with the kids and I texted and I don't remember this. And I said, could you bring me some Tylenol and Advil? Cause my head hurts really, really bad. And he did. And that was my carotid dissecting.

And I didn't know that. So your carotid is like a artery or vein in your neck. Um, and it was dissecting, which didn't know that. So your carotid is like a artery or vein in your neck. Um, and it was dissecting, which caused a severe, severe migraine. And so I fell asleep and they think I had the first stroke around 11, 11.30. I went to bed around 10.30 and I didn't wake

up because strokes are not painful. And I didn't know that it doesn't wake you up. So neurologists actually say like the witching hour for strokes is the middle of the night because nobody wakes up and that seems to be when they happen. And I woke up around 4.45 in the morning and I was scared.

I thought I was dreaming. Have you ever had sleep paralysis? I have once. Scared. So it felt, and I'd never had it. And so, but people have explained it to me. So I was like, this has to be sleep paralysis. Cause I used to get dreams that there would be

spiders crawling on me and I couldn't move. So I'm like, I must be dreaming. I'm going to try and get up to go to the bathroom. I didn't know I was paralyzed completely on my right side. Nonverbal as well. I only could say two words, my sister's name and the F word, which was really wonderful.

And so I tried to get up, not realizing I was paralyzed and I tried to push off with my left hand, cause that still worked. And I got my feet on the ground and fell because paralyzed weight is dead weight. And then I was on the ground and I was in the bedroom by myself. Long story short, my husband, I ended up banging on the wall then I was on the ground and I was in the bedroom by myself. Um, long story short, my husband, I ended up

banging on the wall cause I tried to army crawl and I couldn't cause I was paralyzed. My husband came in, knew I was having a stroke cause he has first aid training, called the ambulance, we got to the hospital. It was a much longer thing than that, but got to the hospital and they can give you a medication to stop strokes.

Um, and so they gave it to me, even though the stroke was very large. So I'd had the first stroke and because I didn't wake up, it caused a second stroke. So I was still, I was having an active stroke, but once the stroke is completed, there's nothing they can do really, the medication can stop it from completing. And so they gave me, my husband had to sign the

thing because the medication can kill you. They gave it to me and it didn't work. So it did stop the frontal lobe stroke, which was good because that's a lot of things that you need to be human and be functional. But it didn't make me better. It didn't reverse anything. So I pretty much was, I wasn't getting worse,

but I wasn't getting better. I was still completely paralyzed, nonverbal, and I was blind in my right eye. And so they were, they life flighted me to a bigger hospital to do brain surgery. Dang. Yeah. And so they, they let my husband come with me.

All my family came to say goodbye because they said more than likely I wasn't going to make it to the hospital, let alone long enough to get the surgery. Whoa. So my kids were 12 and 14 and they came to the hospital, my parents, my sisters, just everybody came, said their goodbyes. They let Mike come in the helicopter because they

didn't want me to die alone on Christmas. They usually don't let a family member in a life flight in Canada, at least. And so we got into the helicopter and we went up and a sunbeam hit my face and my husband lifted his arm up because I was really red and hot, because I didn't know this, when you're dying, your temperature can raise. And so he tried to block my face from the sun

and I wanted him to not, but I couldn't tell him because the second the sun hit my face, I closed my eyes or went like to everyone around me unconscious and I opened them when I was on the other side. And it was that quick. I didn't have to go to a light. I didn't have, nobody called me there.

There wasn't, it wasn't like my loved ones were there or my guides or anything like that. I just closed my eyes and I was in the garden, in a beautiful garden. Wow, no pain? No pain at all. I was very, very scared before. So like when I was in the hospital getting

that medication, I actually had an anaphylactic response to the Benadryl they give with it. Dang. So I was very scared. I couldn't talk. I just wanted my kids. Nobody could understand me because I thought I was talking.

I had such severe aphasia. I thought I was talking. I wasn't. Apparently I was like mumbling and saying the F word or my sister's name over and over and over again. So I was very, very, very, I've never been more scared in my life.

That first hour and a half, the dying process, the crossing over process was so not scary. Whatever the opposite of scary is, that's what it was. It was the most amazing experience of my entire life. That's good to know, because a lot of people fear death. Yeah, no, I don't now. I fear leaving my kids. I do not fear death.

And actually the first six months after the stroke, it was so hard. Like I had to work for every gain and I would pray to go back to the other side so that I wouldn't be a burden to my family. I don't feel like that anymore, but I just, it was so amazing and that's our home. There's no other, this is school

and it's a really hard school. That's home. And I knew it the second I got there, I knew, you know everything, like it feels like home. Did it feel familiar? Yes, very, very much so. Like you've been there before. Yeah.

And so I don't know if you know this part, but I, people don't like this sometimes, but I was a psychic medium before and I accepted my gifts in 2015. So I had been working as a psychic medium, animal communicator, medical intuitive, all those things, healer from 2015 to present. So I knew my guides and I did have some beliefs and I do think we do manifest

a little bit what we see if we're going to come back because they're not going to mess up your path here if you're going to come back. And so when I opened my eyes in this beautiful garden to my left was some of my loved ones that have crossed over. Some of my dogs, which I loved because I love my pets. Like I love my family too, but you know, I talked

to the dead people so I knew they would be there. The animals, I always hoped my animals would be there and be okay and, you know, this isn't just it, but they were there. And then my guides were there, kind of, there was like a little creek and a gazebo, and they were sitting there on a bench. And then to the right, which I think is not totally average for NDEs, was all of my other lives.

Whoa. So, there was like a giant crowd of people from all different time dimensions, past, present and future, all different genders. Some seemed very genderless. And so, I didn't walk up to talk to them. I technically didn't walk up to talk to anybody. I, I technically didn't walk up to talk to anybody, but my guides, because everything

was telepathic. So I could feel everything, even through the grass, like everything emanated with this like rainbow golden feeling of love, um, every molecule. So like people, like my loved ones, my grandma and stuff didn't have to walk up to me and be like, oh, hi, it's so nice to see you. It didn't have to happen.

You don't have to necessarily talk. And I wasn't there for that. So I wasn't there to see my family. My family didn't need to tell me to come back or anything like that. I was there to make a decision. And so, yeah, it was, it was the most amazing experience. That's so interesting. Wow, you saw all your past and future lives. Yeah.

And you said some of them were genderless. So like you're talking about aliens or? I don't know. You know, technically anyone not from this dimension would be an alien, I guess, right? They looked similar, like they looked human-ish, just not how we, like we like to put people in boxes. They wouldn't have fit in any box that we have yet.

So yeah, it wasn't, there weren't like green guys or anything like that. It was more, yeah, just different levels of energy. Like humans, we have it really hard. We're here to learn a lot. And so that shows on our faces, you know, like I haven't seen a human that just looks carefree all the time, but a lot of the people that were there

looked so carefree, well, all of them really, yeah. And then the other thing that sometimes I mentioned, sometimes I don't, my husband and my kids were there looked so carefree. Wow. All of them really, yeah. And then the other thing that sometimes I mentioned, sometimes I don't, my husband and my kids were there as well. Whoa. Even though they're not dead, they're alive, but their souls were there because I knew without a shadow of a doubt, it would not be a choice

if I actually fully had to leave my kids and my husband, but he would be okay. My kids were 12 and 14, right? So they were there as well. Their higher selves, just like all of us. There's a piece of you there right now, piece of me there right now, sort of being like the marionette for all the lives we're living

in all different time dimensions. Well, there is that theory that the kids' souls choose the parents, right? They do, yeah. You think they do? Yes. Just like I chose my life. I don't know why I chose to have a stroke

and a lot of people say, you know, like, why, what kind of psychic are you? If you didn't know, you weren't going to have, you were going to have a stroke. Ah. But I choose not to know things if I can't prevent them. So, you know, if, what's an example,

if my dad, my dad is in his 80s, you know, if he's going to break a hip when he goes to the mall, stepping on a curb wrong, and it's preventable, so not, it doesn't need to happen, I will tell him. If he's going to break his hip and he has to, because that's part of his path and his learning, I don't want to know that.

I don't want to know when people are going to die or if something's going to happen, because I would be so anxious all the time. And the stroke needed to happen. Wow. I had to have an NDE. And when I was there, they explained that the stroke was one option, the other option was a car accident.

And I would have been completely paralyzed, not just half paralyzed. Dang. And one of my kids would be with me. And then that kid would struggle with addiction because of the painkillers, they would give them for their injuries. Oh my gosh.

And so, you know, it's like, which one do you choose? I'm glad we don't have to choose, my higher self did. That's so interesting. So it makes you wonder what's predetermined and what isn't done. I think we have a plan. A lot of people use the word sole contract. Yeah.

Contracts are very human. We don't need to sign on a dotted line, but I kind of explain it as, it's a weird, I like visuals. So, you know, there's a buffet and your soul is like, okay, I'm going to plan this human life. And you have one of your guides with you. And then there's specialized guides just for

planning lives. And you go along with your buffet and you, you yourself, your soul loads it up and puts everything on and your guides help you make the choices. And then you get to the end of the line and the guide to focus only on planning lives are like, oh, you know, you have a little bit too much of that, let's take some of that off.

Oh, you have maybe not quite enough of this, so put some of that back on. And then you go into your life with your perfect little buffet plate. So, it's not like concrete, at least from what I have learned. It's more, we have infinite free will, but we have sort of a guideline. And if we choose, oh, I'm going to go this really hard way right now, at another time you might get to go an easier way or one of your other lives gets to go a much easier way because you chose a hard path in this life.

Interesting. Yeah, I've heard you've got these guides and if you don't accomplish the goals in that life, you'll just have to repeat it. Do you think that's true? There is no repetition because time doesn't exist. So time and space don't exist on the other side. So everything is happening at the same time. So right now I'm living, right now I'm living

in the 1800s, the 2300s, I'm living in different areas. Dang. Right now in this dimension. So I'm living a life, I don't know how, because it seems foreign, but in one of the southern states, I'm like a 50 year old woman with big hair. I'm living a life in a different part of Canada. You know, there's millions, millions and millions

of souls, but there's billions of people on the planet. Wow. So, you know, all of us are living. It's not important to know your other lives. It doesn't necessarily impact you right now. It's just, there's such a bigger picture, which I don't think everybody who has NDEs learns all of this stuff.

You know, again, I had a good relationship with my guides and when I was there and they helped me make the decision of whether or not I wanted to come back, they were able to say, okay, if you come back, this and this and this is going to happen and it's going to be great, they were able to say, okay, if you come back, this and this and this, it's going to happen and it's going to be great. But this and this and this is going to be, it's going to happen and it's going to be

the most difficult, horrible, you will want to come back. And so I was fully aware of what I was signing up for, coming back. Wow. Yeah. So you knew that it'd be super difficult. Yes. I don't think it's like rose-coloured glasses.

When you're over there, it's like, oh yeah, I can handle that, no problem. No, it was so hard and I wanted to go back more than I wanted anything in my life in that first six months. And they explained, you know, like, if you choose to go back, the first six months will be, you will learn a lifetime worth of patience,

like a lifetime worth of patience in six months. It will be the hardest time you have ever had in your life. And my life has not been easy. So to be more hard than, you know, like I moved out at 14, I was homeless. I have had a very difficult life as far as like having to be independent, just so, so much stuff.

It hasn't been an easy life. And so when I kind of thought about it over there, everything, yeah, rainbows and unicorns, you come back and it's like, oh my gosh, like I woke up paralyzed on the right side completely. I didn't even have a shadow of movement. I was nonverbal. I did wake up with vision. So I magically woke up and I wasn't blind anymore. Because your right eye was blind, you said?

Completely. Like in the first MRI, it was all the way to the back. Dang. They told my husband that's never coming back. Like that's not something that can come back. And so they actually took my license away because they didn't believe me that I could see. Whoa. So I didn't have a license.

They did because I, so the thing that was going to kill me was a seizure that I started having when I landed there. And I think, you know, was not fun to have, but I had to be on a very strong medication for six months. And so they take your license in Canada when you're having seizures and that's. Geez, you had a stroke and a seizure?

Yeah. So I had two strokes and then yeah, a seizure when I was still unconscious. Holy crap. Yeah. But thankfully I was on the other side. So I went to the other side when I was still unconscious. Holy crap. Yeah. But thankfully I was on the other side. So I went to the other side when I was in the life flight, I stayed there, like my soul stayed there.

I didn't have to feel anything. So that part for my physical body was very, very painful from the helicopter all the way to when I had the seizure, extremely painful. And so I was not in my body. Um, I was still on the other side until just before the seizure and that's when I made the decision. Again, time and space don't exist there.

So it felt like I was there for a hundred years. Whoa. Or 50 or 10 or like there's just, there was no pressure. I didn't have to make the choice quickly. I kept going from the grass to the water because it was like Avatar. Like everything, you could feel everything, just I had no shoes on. And so I would put my feet in the grass and I can

still, anytime I have a hard time, I close my eyes and I can feel it. Wow. And so I was still over there. As soon as I made the decision, and was when the seizure started, and I chose to go back, the second I chose, I was no longer in the garden, but I wasn't in my body.

I was in like this light filled kind of waiting room. And I know other ND ears, like people in surgery and stuff kind of float above their body. Heard that, yeah. Just to be sort of outside of the pain. And so I stayed in this like floating zone until the seizure was done. And then as soon as it was done, as soon as the,

cause it was long, cause they had to give me a medication to stop cause my brain was swelling so quickly. And yeah, so as soon as it stopped, I closed my eyes again and I was in my body, completely unconscious. There was no still join to the other side, nothing, I have no recollection from like the moment I went back into my body until I woke up a day or two

sort of later. Wow. Yeah. So you were like unconscious, but you were in your body. Yeah. And were you having thoughts or but you were in your body. Yeah. And were you having thoughts or? Nope. For all of that part, no, I was fully, fully human

again. I was very medicated. So I got there and my husband had to choose whether or not to do the brain surgery because I was too far gone. Damn. So they pretty much said, it's probably not going to do anything.

And because she had that very strong blood thinner, it's probably not going to do anything. And because she had that very strong blood thinner, it's probably gonna kill her. And so they said, you have to decide if you wanna do brain surgery or not. And Mike, my husband, had no idea. And so he's like, well, what would you do? He said to the neurologist or neurosurgeon,

if it was your wife laying there. And he said, I would not do the surgery. So if the neurosurgeon wouldn't do it for his wife, I think my husband made a good choice. He was not educated about this stuff. And so, because I wasn't going to get the surgery, they put me into the ICU, just to try to keep me alive till my family got there.

Cause we've like, it was a short light flight, but it was a two hour drive. And while I was on the other side, not only could I sort of make decisions and be there and be with them, I could see all my family. So I could see my kids packing a suitcase and I wanted to be like, what are you packing? They were packing like fancy clothes.

They had no idea what was going to happen. I could see my one sister, she hates when I talk about this, but she gets a nervous stomach. And so she was bawling her eyes out. She was in the car too, driving to her house and she was racing to try and make it to the bathroom because she was so nervous. I could see my other sister bargaining with God, if you let her live, I promise I will start going to church.

Wow. Like I will do anything if you let her live. And so I got to, I didn't feel sad watching it. Even my kids, like they were so scared and I didn't feel sad because everything made sense. But I think it was still, it was helpful to be able to see them. So you were like astral projecting then. Yeah, I was on the other side

and I think on the other side, you can kind of see anything anywhere. Right, that is anything anywhere. Right. That is so interesting. Wow. And then how long did it take to fully recover? A long, long time. To the doctors, it was miraculous. To a mere human that doesn't understand doctor terms,

it was the hardest thing I've ever done. So being paralyzed, they told my husband to start looking for long-term care. Um, you probably won't be able to take her home ever. Um, I was in the ICU for two weeks. Um, and then after the ICU, they let me go home because I lived close to a hospital and then I did, um, uh, rehab in the hospital for 10 weeks.

And then I did paid rehab, almost broke us for the whole first year. Whoa. Because not only was I paralyzed, the movement, I started moving on day, maybe three. That's quick. Like maybe four. They said you'd be paralyzed for life, right?

Yep. On the right side. So my left side worked fine. No, they said, I won't get anything back. And they didn't get anything back. And they, they didn't believe my husband. They thought I was like twitching, but within three or four days I was walking and we actually,

my husband did a video the first time I walked to the bathroom and I think that was like December 27th, the stroke was the 21st or 22nd in the morning. Yeah. Um, yeah, or 23rd. And I was saying words almost as soon as I woke up. And I fully had to learn to talk again by

repetition, speech therapy. But the first, when I, so I came home and my first checkup with the neurologist we drove to, and he could not believe it. I was walking, I was walking with like canes and he actually called the stroke team from Emerge to watch me because they were so affected by the mom who was dying in front of her kids on Christmas

day and that nobody could believe it. Whoa. But it was still, I'm still recovering. I still have aphasia. I can't feel the right side of my body at all. Really? No, I can move it. I can move it better if it's mirrored to the other one.

I can't feel anything. It's like a line. Wow. I have struggles eating. Once it hits three o'clock, I start losing my words. I do stumble over words still or can't find words. I'm missing all of this part of my brain and most of this part.

What? Yeah. There's a picture in my book. It's like, it is all gone. So they took it out? No, it goes away. So in the picture in the book, it's still there. It still looks like brain tissue, but it's white. And so that was right after the stroke.

But now, so when you have a stroke, it doesn't come back at all. Like you don't heal that part of the brain. So once it dies, it takes a while. So I think it took like a year for it to change, to look how it will look. So now it's probably TMI, but when you see scans of my brain, it looks kind of like a bladder

looks in an ultrasound. It's just black water. Wow. So like it's, they call it sloughing. It sloughs off all the brain tissue and it fills with fluid, like brain fluid. And so you don't heal the brain, but you create new pathways.

Got it. So you, your brain relearns to do things from different parts of your brain. And I shouldn't be able to talk, but your speech center usually is on this side of the brain or this side, but because I'm left handed, very rarely a left handed person will have a speech center on the other side of the brain.

And apparently I do. Wow. Yeah. Everything just happened, right? And I call that a miracle, but you know better. Yeah, I know. If you go in my medical chart, every doctor, because I've had a few little strokes,

which is part of recovery, it says my miraculous patient at the top of the neurosurgeons chart. Yeah. And because I shouldn't be able to do anything. That is so fascinating. Wow. Did you lose memories? Yes.

Yes. So I have retrograde amnesia. So for me, every morning when I wake up, it is March 28, 20. What? It's like that movie where the girl wakes up at the same day every day. And I have to tell myself and reorient.

So I lost, so the stroke was in 2021. I lost the two years before completely. And then the four years before that were patchy. So I created memories through pictures. So like, you know, when you see a picture of yourself when you're three and you think you remember that birthday, when more than likely you don't.

Yeah. I have created as part of rehab, looking at pictures and my family would tell me what we were doing and I would create memories. So I remember some stuff now, but I always, like when I write a date, 2020. Wow. Yeah, it's anything.

And I have short-term memory loss now, long-term memory loss, but kind of nice. When I get mad, I stay mad for like half an hour and then I'm like, oh, it's fine now. It's great. That's crazy. Wow. So do you even remember any of your past patients

that you've done work for, the psychic work for? I didn't ever. I like to leave work at work. So when I'm even sitting here, I meditate beforehand and allow them to, their thoughts become my words. So it's them talking. So unless I am learning something,

I don't want to remember anything I say. And so I do groups and private meetings and stuff like that. So when I sit down, I let spirit come in. And then when I'm done whatever work I'm doing, I let them leave and I take nothing with me. That is fascinating. So is that channeling? Yeah. Yeah. So that's your higher self coming down to take over.

Or my guides. It's mostly my guides. My human self, I'm just human, right? I don't know any more than the average person other than I can read people's energy and stuff. But I think even that is the other side, but it's their guides, it's their loved ones. I don't physically channel loved ones through my body.

Like I don't let them come into my body, cause I think that would be number one, kind of weird. Possession. Yeah, very tiring, I think. Yeah. But guides, it's all telepathic and that part of it got a lot easier after being on the other side.

It's cause I'm not as scared of it, I think. Yeah. Before I wanted like a separation, like I always let them stand to the right, so I made them stand over there. I like a separation. I don't want them like fully in my, I know people that do that and are fine, but I like a little bit of separation. I can see that. Do you think it's important for people to know or connect with their spirit guides?

It depends on your path, you know, it's, I don't think my life's any easier or better because of it. Um, and if you are, you know, a soul that's here to learn more than teach, it's probably better not to, because it's a little easier, I think. Um, so if you are kind of like a mid energy

soul or higher, then it's probably good and helpful, um, but you know, there's certain people, I could talk for 10 hours and they would never understand what I'm saying because they're not meant to. It's not my job to give anybody faith. Um, they have to get there by themselves. And I think same with guides, you know,

certain people I think can get obsessive and then not make decisions for themselves. So I don't ask my guides to make decisions for me. And I think people who want to know their guides, it's more like, okay, tell me what to do now, to be the best me or be on the right path. And if it's like more obsessive like that, it's probably like, okay, tell me what to do now, to be the best me or be on the right path. And if it's like more obsessive like that, it's probably not great.

Um, there's no way of being human that's wrong. Right. Um, just because I can see my guides, talk to loved ones, that sort of stuff doesn't make me any better than somebody who can't. And it's all different levels of learning. And if you take like somebody in kindergarten and stick them in a PhD class,

they're not going to understand anything and vice versa. Somebody with a PhD would be real bored in a kindergarten class. So saying to like a lower energy soul, hey, get to know your guides if you want to be this good human that can understand things,

it's not necessarily great. Makes sense. So when you say lower energy soul, is that someone that things, it's not necessarily great. Makes sense. So when you say lower energy soul, is that someone that hasn't had as many life experiences and you were soul? Yeah. I use soul age, but then people get angry because it's, yes, it's easy to understand age,

but then people will be like, but I know a three year old that's clearly like an old, I don't mean age, I mean how many lives they have lived, right? But I think people get confused there, but yes, a lower, like a younger soul, it would be, there would be no benefit. They need to forget the other side or else they will go back there.

So like when we plan our lives, we plan a beginning and an end, but then in that time span, we plan anywhere from two to 10 exit points. So the stroke would have been an exit point. And if you're a young soul and all of a sudden the entire world gets dumped on your lap, you're going to take the next exit point.

Interesting. And it doesn't mean suicide necessarily. It's just like people maybe drive the same way to work every single day. And one day they're like, Ooh, you know, I'm going to go this way. I want this different type of coffee. And then there was an accident where they were supposed to be

or maybe there's not, but there would have been and they went that way. That's avoiding an exit point. So it's not always this blatant, Oh, I almost died. It can just be certain circumstances where if you do it, you're going to the other side. Wow. So everyone deals with these exit points, huh? I don't think I've met anybody that doesn't have any,

other than maybe, you know, a baby lost very young or in utero or something like that. But even those are like lessons, right? Yep. For the parents. Yep. My dad lost his baby at birth. Yeah.

And that was really tough for him, but I think it was a lesson, right? It is for the parents for sure. And we will live every human experience. So in this life, he lost a baby. In another life, he will be that baby that was lost. Whoa. Right?

You have to experience every facet of what it means to be human. And you can't do that in one life. You need infinite lives and infinite dimensions to understand. You have to experience every facet of what it means to be human and you can't do that in one life. You need infinite lives and infinite dimensions to understand. So is that like the game then? We live all these experiences and then what's the end

do you think? I don't a hundred percent know yet. I know eventually, you know, so I have an analogy of rain clouds, cause I have an analogy of rain clouds because I think it helps me understand. So picture your higher self as a rain cloud and all the lives you're living are raindrops. And so they come down, they live, they go about and they go back up to that rain cloud and there is a

higher rain cloud above. So God's source, whatever you want to call it. And that rain cloud has created all the other rain clouds by their raindrops. I do think eventually we go back to source. I don't fully understand how it happens because I wanted to go there so bad. I don't want to know necessarily how it happens. But I know there's no pressure and we want to come here.

Life is not punishment, even though sometimes it feels like it. Yeah. It's not like, oh, you messed up or you made a mistake and now you have to do it again. No. It's more a learning experience. So you live your life, you have your buffet

plate, you go to back and then you do a life review and you see how you affected the world and how the world affected you. And you also get to see, like say you had an argument with a family member and you felt really vindicated, like, oh yeah, I'm right, I won that. And then you go about your life. When you do your life review, you then need to watch the other person and maybe something you said

offhand, not even thinking about it, really, really hurt them. Dang. And they then carried that with them for the rest of their life. You get to look at that, experience it, learn from it, but that soul also is over there. So it's not like you're stuck, unfinished business, oh God, I'm going to have to apologize when they experience it, learn from it, but that soul also is over there.

So it's not like you're stuck, unfinished business, oh God, I'm going to have to apologize when they get here. That's not it. It's more a very objective, loving, learning experience. Okay. So you don't get punished for that?

Not at all. There is no punishment. Oh, no bad karma or anything? No. Because I believe in karma. Karma for humans. Yeah. So we here, we need a reward punishment

society in order to function and exist. Otherwise we will all just offer each other and get mad and be like, screw you, right? You have to have that here. Yeah. On the other side, no, it's just love. Really? A hundred percent.

And that's very hard to understand when you think about some of the horrible people in the world. Like I want certain people that do certain things to be punished. Like in the core of my soul, I want them to be punished because you want them to feel some of the pain that they have caused other people. But when you get to the other side, those

people that have done those horrible things, even though I still don't agree with this, I'm getting on board with it, they are older souls because they're not here to learn. They're not learning anything. They're horrible people. They're here to teach. Think of the worst and everybody brings up

almost the same examples. I'm not going to say it because everybody's thinking the same thing. But that somebody who every, almost every human on the planet agrees this is a horrible person, they are not learning, but think how much they're teaching. Like somebody who died decades ago, we're still learning from them now.

That's true. Right? That is a teacher. Maybe not the type of teacher we want, but it is part of the human condition. And I think it's hard to like objectively see being human that way. Yeah. Well, there's no good and bad, right? No good and evil or whatever.

It's all relative. And I've never seen a demon or a negative energy, you know, and there can be an argument made that I have really good protection. So, you know, I'm not saying I'm completely right and I probably wouldn't disagree if somebody has something different to say, but I only see love. And I've talked to horrible people, like when I've done readings, that people who only come forward to apologize for the pain or crimes they have committed, but they were on the other side, just like everybody else.

Interesting. Well, I also think your vibration's really high. So if there are demons, I don't think they would even reach you honestly. No, no. But the fact that I've seen, I don't know what kind of censorship you, honestly. No, no. But I, you know, the fact that I've seen, I don't know what kind of censorship, if you have to take it up, but like I've seen pedophiles,

I've seen rapists, you know, not physically in person, but like talking, you know, a daughter will come for a reading and doesn't want to talk to this person. I do have boundaries and I don't let them speak a long piece, but sometimes they will, if they think it will help that person, they will apologize and they are surrounded in the exact same love.

Because how, if you see that rain cloud, how can you punish the rain cloud and all of the raindrops because one raindrop did something horrible? And that soul would have to be punished at the same time as that one raindrop. So it would affect everyone you're saying? Yeah. Wow. That's crazy to think about.

Yeah, forgiveness is important, right? Yeah. And it's okay here to not, because maybe that's your lesson. You know, if you're going to be an angry person for your whole life, which I would not recommend because guilt, shame, regret and anger cause cancer, cause heart attacks. For sure.

And cause very awful people, but you can be angry and horrible and grumpy your whole life and you're not going to be treated any different when you get to the other side. Wow. Yeah. I did not expect that answer. Yeah.

I assumed karma would come get them in the next side. Wow. Yeah. I did not expect that answer. Yeah, I assumed karma would come get them in the next life or something. Nope, because it's all happening at once, right? So maybe they're a complete nightmare here doing awful things, but they're living 50 other lives, doing wonderful, loving things. So in that way, karma is balancing everything. Wow.

You're doing awful things in this life. So let's make sure that this life is doing something amazing for humanity because it has to balance. Everything has to balance. Yang and Yang. That's crazy. When you hear people taking DMT, which is release when you die, is that like a cheat code to experience what death looks like? I think maybe, but I think you have to be cautious. A lot of people talk about, what is that? Tia Wasco. Yes.

And if you are somebody that is at least like a middle-aged soul, I think it can be beneficial. It can help you get to where I am when I'm channelling, right? When, because I can just sit down and talk to dead people or talk to my guides. So I think it can kind of bump you up so that you can, at least for yourself,

get that kind of knowledge. And I think that's wonderful. But if you are a little bit of a younger soul, or if it's not meant for you in this life, it can actually cause mental illness and psychosis. So you have to be cautious. You have to make sure you're cleansing your energy, cleansing your space, and you have very

trustworthy people around you. Same with, if you ever go to somebody like me, if the energy feels off or heavy or just tell them, say, hey, you know what, no thank you. You know, cause not everybody is coming from a really loving, high energy place. Very quickly, if people start making a lot of money, they're not necessarily delving in like

somebody who isn't or, you know, the focus can shift. But I think, yes, any substance that could potentially push you a little bit higher in this dimension can be good, but maybe with caution. Right. Have you dabbled? No. Psychedelics?

No. So part of my past was I was born this way. So I could see dead people from. From a young age. Three, four, I remember it. I also had psychic visions. So I would see a plane crash and then it would happen.

What? A bear attack and it would happen and I thought I was causing them. Damn. Because I had no reference. I didn't want to tell anyone. I thought adults were rude because they didn't talk to half the people in the room.

And I couldn't understand why they just ignored because I didn't know they were all dead. Um, and so I learned through, like at some point I was like, I'm not doing that. I'm so scared. I don't want to do this anymore. I hate it. I don't.

And I learned any type of substance, shut it off and let me ignore it. So I started, I live in Canada and on the West coast, so it's like weed central. So I started smoking weed, which led to things like psychedelics, alcohol, stuff like that. And then I had, I think when I was 16, had like a spiritual awakening where there was this bright light.

I was in Mexico, I dropped out of school, my parents took me there because I was not doing good. And there was two paths shown to me. This bright light was there and this path of one way was just light, the other way was all my friends and all the stuff I was doing, which was comfortable to me and I had to make a choice. Um, and I had no idea what I was doing.

I was 15 or I think 15, whatever grade nine is. Um, and I chose light and I was 15 or I think 15, whatever grade 9 is, and I chose light. And I didn't pick up drugs anymore. I came back, started going to church. Unfortunately, I soon learned. Church. Not necessarily, because for me, light, when I was young, I was like, light is religion, right? Because that's what society tells you. No, no, that's not what they were trying to tell me. I maybe misinterpreted a little and I ended up at a church where I went all in and I

ended up getting married at 18. A week after I turned 18. Not the greatest choice. I learned a lot and I'm so grateful for it, but it was a slightly cult fight. Yeah. Was it Mormon or? No, it was like a very Pentecostal Christian, like born again Christian. Okay. But like we couldn't do things like dance, play cards. Really?

That was all of the devil. Wow. And being a medium was like the, and psychic, the psychic was the problem because then it's a false prophet. So you probably had a lot of shame just like. Very, very much. Seeing those visions. Yeah, but I think it saved my life.

I think I would have, you know, stepped it up to much worse drugs and I probably wouldn't have, I would have had an exit point there of an overdose or something like that. Wow, so the religion saved you in a way. I think it a hundred percent saved me and I practiced religion, the same religion, not quite as strict. I didn't stay

with that husband. I was with him for five years altogether. But I practiced religion until I accepted my gifts. And when I told the church, like 2015, I think it was 35, you know, this is, I was born to do this. I had this awakening. And they said, I was a Sunday school teacher, and they're like, nope, you know, you can do, the mediumship is okay, because that's, you know, okay to talk to them, they're your loved ones. It's okay to do the medical stuff, not psychic. That's a false profit, we don't, and so I didn't go back.

Wow. She had a pick. Yeah. Wow. Lots of choices in my life. Yeah, but I didn't go back. Wow. She had a pick. Yeah. Wow. I mean- Lots of choices in my life. Yeah, but I think you chose the right one. You helped a lot of people choosing the psychic path.

I don't think you would have impacted as many people with the other route. No, and I think for my human self, I needed that, the calm before the storm because being psych is fun, sometimes. It's not always fun to know everything, you know? Like, not everybody walks into a room and knows exactly what everybody's thinking of them. And a lot of people are scared of me.

So you could walk into any room and just know what people are thinking? But I also know the why. I know why you are the way you are and how you got here and where you're going. And that's hard. And at first I didn't know how to shut it off. Now it's like a light switch.

But you know, like it's hard to be around somebody like me. It's hard to be friends with me because I think a lot of people feel on edge. My sister, the one whose name I could say, who's like one of my closest soul bonds in this life, in the beginning, like she tried to be so cool with everything and she was trying to learn because she didn't really understand any of it. But every time she was around me, she's like,

I don't know why, but like, I know I shouldn't think bad things, but all of a sudden I'm thinking about like dead babies and mass shooting and like all these horrible things. And she's like, I know, I'm not actually thinking that, but because I know you can read my mind, I just start thinking horrible. And I think a lot of people think that.

Yeah. And a lot of people are scared of me. Wow. It's, yeah, as a human, in my human life, it's hard, my spiritual life. And when I'm working, doing videos, interviews, readings, it's the best gift on the planet. Yeah, absolutely. Because you could just read people.

I can see why people are scared, because a lot of people are not being their authentic selves, so they're hiding something. And it's hard for me to react to what you're showing me on your face. So, like, so many very unhappy people joke a lot, laugh a lot, laugh a lot, smile a lot, and I try not to react to how they're actually feeling.

Because I want to be like, why? Like, how come you're joking so much when, you know, like your grandma is dying or you just got in a fight with your spouse, like, let's talk about that. But people don't like that. Nah, they don't. You know, and it's not helpful. You know, unless somebody invites me in,

I have no right being there. And that's a hard line. And I don't think everyone who has like gifts like I do practices the hard line. And I try to, like with my kids, I really try not to invade their personal thoughts and feelings. Although the other day, my daughter came up and she's like, I don't feel very good.

And I get a look and I like, I don't know, scanning her kind of. And she looks at me and she's like, mom, stop scanning me. I'm like, what are you talking about? She's like, I can tell. I'm fine. I'll tell you if I'm not.

They probably have powers too, right? It's genetic. Yeah, both of them have, they don't have all my gifts and I am grateful for that because even though now I look so balanced, I was not. Like my life has not been easy, but both of my daughters very intuitive. And I think my son is going to be a bit like me

with the empath gifts. Like he feels everything and has a super high IQ with it, which I think makes it kind of worse. Nice. Or not nice, I guess. Yeah, but both kids have parts of me, neither of them are exactly like me. I don't have a genetic line of people like me.

Oh really? And most people do. I don't have any genetic line of people like me, and most people do. I don't have any. Wow. So are you adopted? We thought, no. I'm not, but my soul chose this because my path, I needed to not feel understood. I think my life would have looked a lot different.

If you could relate to people. Yeah, and if I wasn't so isolated in who I was. So we choose even the painful things for a reason. So now I don't have any regrets about everything I did or said when I was young, but I sure did before. Oh, for sure. I felt super isolated growing up and I always was like, I had a victim mentality at the time,

but now looking back, I was like, that was probably really good for me. Yeah, and like made your path so much stronger, right? It's not woe is me. And I was pretty woe is me for a long time. Like I couldn't understand why I just didn't fit. Like I felt like I was a square peg trying to jam myself into a really round hole.

It just didn't work and I couldn't understand. And I was very blamey, you know, like, well, if that person didn't do that, then I wouldn't be who I was now. And so it's their fault. But no, I chose this path and I chose these lessons. I love it. Well, let's end off with the book and talk to

everyone about this and where can people get it? Yeah. So you can get it on Amazon. I self-published because I am not fancy like that. And I did write it. So my guide said the first six months would be horrible but the first 18 months would be really difficult. And then it would slowly start getting better.

And I started writing it like right at the 18 month mark. I can't type again, I can't feel the right side of my body. So somebody typed while I talked. And so it is quite simple language. I still had very limited verbal skills from aphasia, but it's the story of my life and then the stroke and the other side and everything I learned from the other side,

from my guides. And then each of my guides, my guide's names are Peter, Jessica and Gail. Each one of them have a chapter that they answer questions because they're very different. And Peter, I gave him the name Peter, his name's not Peter, it's like something weird, like Pa or Ra and I don't know.

So I just call him Peter because it's non-threatening. Yeah. And they're very different types of energy. So they each have a chapter as well. That's beautiful. I can't wait to read that. Thank you. Is it on audible too? I don't know how to do it on audible yet. I'm trying to learn.

So I'm not very techie. Okay. You're going to have to, man, I haven't read a book in a while. I'm an audio book guy, but I'll do very techy. Okay. You're going to have to, man, I haven't read a book in a while, I'm an audio book guy, but I'll do it for you. Because for me, I think, I hope it's not an imposition tuning into your energy, but I think your attention span is not wonderful. I have ADHD, so that's not an insult at all.

Okay. I made it ADHD and stroke brain injury friendly. Oh, nice. It's almost double space and the writing is bigger. So it's much easier for people whose brains aren't totally able to focus to actually read it. I'll definitely give it a go then. And then I also write poetry.

My guides helped me write poetry. So at the beginning of each chapter, there's a poem that I wrote. I also came back with a gift of painting. So I painted a flower in there for you. I always hear stories of that where like some guy will wake up, know how to play the piano. I, I, my guys kept saying, pick up a paint brush.

And I was like, are you talking about a paint in my life? No, I can paint. Beautiful. Well, I'll definitely read it and let you know how I take it. Thank you. Thank you so much for having me. Thanks for coming on. Yeah. We'll link it in the description below.

Thanks for watching guys as always. See you next time. Bye bye.