Digital Social Hour - Twerking, OnlyFans, and the Music Industry: The Lexy Panterra Interview | Digital Social Hour #20
Episode Date: May 29, 2023Hey there, podcast fans! You're in for a treat with this latest episode, where we sit down with none other than Lexy Panterra, the singer, songwriter, dancer, entrepreneur, and daughter assistant w...hose twerkout class went viral and made her a household name. We cover a lot of ground with Lexy, from her thoughts on cheating in relationships to her views on dating as a successful woman. She also opens up about her health struggles with Crohn's disease and how she's managing it, and the ups and downs of her music career, including her ultimate goal of winning a Grammy. So, what are you waiting for? Give this episode a listen now and let us know what you think! --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/digitalsocialhour/support Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
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                                         I'm your host, Sean Kelly.
                                         
                                         I'm here with my co-host, Charlie Cavalier,
                                         
                                         and our guest today, Lexi Pantera.
                                         
                                         What's poppin'?
                                         
                                         Not much. How you doing?
                                         
    
                                         I'm in Vegas.
                                         
                                         You're in Vegas.
                                         
                                         Yesterday.
                                         
                                         I've been traveling so damn much, I don't know where I go anymore.
                                         
                                         Vegas is cool.
                                         
                                         That's a no.
                                         
                                         That's a no.
                                         
                                         Yeah, that's a no.
                                         
    
                                         Like, to live or to party is cool.
                                         
                                         Okay.
                                         
                                         You were just at Coachella, right?
                                         
                                         Yes.
                                         
                                         How was it?
                                         
                                         You know, Frank Ocean just completely bombed the whole performance.
                                         
                                         That's disappointing.
                                         
                                         It is disappointing.
                                         
    
                                         It was insane what the set was like and it lasted for
                                         
                                         like 30 minutes i think and i was just like like this the whole time like what is going on
                                         
                                         but no i don't think i'm going back to coachella unless i'm performing i think i've had my share
                                         
                                         like i've been there like five over five times or something it took me an hour to park i'm like what is going on like i don't want all this dumb drama for no
                                         
                                         i agree i should be helicoptered in the festival just parachute in drop right in onto stage perform
                                         
                                         get ready to do it that's exactly what i would like yeah it was fun that was cool it was a vibe
                                         
                                         i like to see familiar faces okay what uh what do you do for people that don't know you? I'm a singer, songwriter, entrepreneur, dancer, sister.
                                         
                                         Assistant?
                                         
    
                                         Sister.
                                         
                                         Oh, a sister.
                                         
                                         A daughter.
                                         
                                         Okay.
                                         
                                         A sister or a sister.
                                         
                                         You have done a lot of different things.
                                         
                                         I mean, all the way back to the twerk out stuff, to everything.
                                         
                                         What do you think for you was your big break in the beginning that at least started
                                         
    
                                         your ascension the twerk out class the twerk out class that was that's when i started getting
                                         
                                         popular um it just caught on really quickly so it was just like a viral moment like a couple viral
                                         
                                         videos that like one right after the other it just kept going and going and i took the opportunity
                                         
                                         i'm like oh let me build a brand and let me make money off of it.
                                         
                                         Do you believe every girl should know how to twerk?
                                         
                                         Yeah, for sure.
                                         
                                         What about the guys?
                                         
                                         The guys, not the guys?
                                         
    
                                         I don't think it's that important.
                                         
                                         Yeah, guys don't do it.
                                         
                                         I'm tougher.
                                         
                                         But speaking of guys, you said 85% of guys are cheaters.
                                         
                                         The real question is why?
                                         
                                         And also what percentage of girls are cheaters the real question is why and also what percentage of girls are cheaters um if i was to
                                         
                                         put a random number on it i would say girls are probably 40 we're just making numbers 40 45 so
                                         
                                         half of men less than half so 85 of men are cheaters. Okay. As part of the 15%, right?
                                         
    
                                         How did we decide this?
                                         
                                         Like, how did this come about?
                                         
                                         Like, where is this coming from?
                                         
                                         Because I'm not, I can't say you're wrong.
                                         
                                         Okay.
                                         
                                         You know what?
                                         
                                         You've never held back before.
                                         
                                         So what is it you just want to say right now?
                                         
    
                                         I feel like maybe I misspoke when i said that but i'm only speaking from
                                         
                                         i think i changed my mind okay and the what i'm saying is in the industry 85 or more are cheaters
                                         
                                         your normal average joe probably not but also because there's really not that many options if you're in like a small town or like, you know, so that changes everything.
                                         
                                         So that's what I would say.
                                         
                                         Fair.
                                         
                                         Yeah.
                                         
                                         When you say industry, what industry?
                                         
                                         You know, this could go from.
                                         
    
                                         Okay, another thing.
                                         
                                         It could just be also maybe successful men are even more likely to cheat.
                                         
                                         So it could be business.
                                         
                                         It could be Wall Street.
                                         
                                         It could be entertainment like music and movies.
                                         
                                         So you think the more successful a man becomes, the higher percentage likelihood they cheat?
                                         
                                         Yes, yes.
                                         
                                         Interesting.
                                         
    
                                         I would disagree with that.
                                         
                                         I'm seeing from personal experience, right?
                                         
                                         So I think that you're absolutely right.
                                         
                                         The more opportunities that are presented to you,
                                         
                                         right.
                                         
                                         The more often it might happen.
                                         
                                         How,
                                         
                                         how many of your guys could you say that,
                                         
    
                                         you know,
                                         
                                         that are your friends that have not cheated?
                                         
                                         Look at the smile.
                                         
                                         Automatic.
                                         
                                         Like both of you got a smile.
                                         
                                         Like you're one out of every guy I talk to.
                                         
                                         That's my friend.
                                         
                                         Right.
                                         
    
                                         They literally say, I don't have one guy friend that guy i talk to that's my friend right they literally say i don't have
                                         
                                         one guy friend that has not cheated or that yeah that has not cheated and i'm like this is crazy
                                         
                                         you know what she's not wrong i'm trying to i'm having trouble i'm having trouble thinking of
                                         
                                         that's so sad and don't introduce me to none of your friends don't worry okay so how many of your
                                         
                                         friends that are girls can you say have not barely any
                                         
                                         yeah no okay interesting girls just don't do that we're not the girls that do do that
                                         
                                         they've been doomed from the start like there's just something's wrong with you
                                         
                                         and like and like not that something's wrong with you but there's just doom from the start and like something's really really going on in that relationship that's like gonna make that
                                         
    
                                         happen and i'm not saying it's right but for a guy nothing can even be going wrong in the
                                         
                                         relationship and they're still cheating like interesting for what you know and what's funny
                                         
                                         is like a guy will never break up with a girl like the girl's always usually the one to like break up with the guy guys will stay in it for a minute i think and
                                         
                                         like just so you do think guys are willing to stick with it longer and like do what they're
                                         
                                         doing could you be in an open relationship you know i did well you know i was stuck and i was
                                         
                                         put in a situation where I was trying something new.
                                         
                                         And it was more open for him. And he didn't want me to do anything.
                                         
                                         So I was stuck.
                                         
    
                                         That's just called control.
                                         
                                         Yeah.
                                         
                                         And I'm like, well, how am I supposed to do this?
                                         
                                         And it was a really, I'm not going to say toxic.
                                         
                                         Because he was never a liar.
                                         
                                         He was never shady like that.
                                         
                                         But I just couldn't handle it.
                                         
                                         And I didn't know how to handle it.
                                         
    
                                         And I wasn't mentally where I am now. Maybe more so now just because of certain things in my mind
                                         
                                         but like it was hard for me to to deal with that yeah it's not easy especially when it's not on my
                                         
                                         end i'm like well then i can't be distracted and i'm only worried about what you're doing and who
                                         
                                         you're with like it's not fair yeah i don't think i could do it it's a hard that's a hard thing for barely ever do that that's why we suck at multitasking right like i got enough shit
                                         
                                         going on i don't need to worry about you guys can have multiple girls and talk to multiple girls
                                         
                                         not saying girlfriends but like guys talk to multiple girls at the same time yeah too time
                                         
                                         consuming by the way i thought of a friend that hasn't cheated and wouldn't be my friend sean
                                         
                                         right so like five and a half years yep are Don't lie, Sean. Five and a half years.
                                         
    
                                         Yep.
                                         
                                         Are you in a relationship right now?
                                         
                                         Five and a half years.
                                         
                                         Wow.
                                         
                                         Yeah.
                                         
                                         So as a successful woman,
                                         
                                         as you're doing a bunch of stuff,
                                         
                                         what is the hardest thing for you
                                         
    
                                         when it comes to dating?
                                         
                                         Everything.
                                         
                                         Just all the same normal stuff.
                                         
                                         There's nothing that your success
                                         
                                         or your fame brings extra to the table
                                         
                                         that makes it more difficult.
                                         
                                         It makes it more difficult that I have money.
                                         
                                         Why is that?
                                         
    
                                         Do you think guys get insecure?
                                         
                                         Absolutely.
                                         
                                         For sure.
                                         
                                         That's the first thing they do is get insecure.
                                         
                                         And then they're like, okay, well, she has everything.
                                         
                                         Like, what am I going to offer her?
                                         
                                         So then they feel even more Damascus.
                                         
                                         What is it?
                                         
    
                                         Damascus.
                                         
                                         Yeah.
                                         
                                         They just feel less of a man because they're like oh i can't provide for her oh what
                                         
                                         am i gonna do she does everything for herself they don't feel needed that's when they start
                                         
                                         to go cheat on you as well because then they go to like people that are lower than you in whatever
                                         
                                         aspect because they make them feel like they're gods and they're like oh like you know give me
                                         
                                         this oh my god you have this or whatever So I did read a lot of successful females
                                         
                                         have trouble dating.
                                         
    
                                         Really?
                                         
                                         And I'm very highly independent,
                                         
                                         like independent, hyper independent person.
                                         
                                         So I have a hard time asking men for like money
                                         
                                         or things or I need your help
                                         
                                         because I don't really need you.
                                         
                                         And so it's like,
                                         
                                         well, how do you make a man feel really needed
                                         
    
                                         if you don't need them?
                                         
                                         And that's why I love love. Like I'm a very big big lover i love affection and i'll be there for the person like all these other things that don't have to do with like i don't necessarily need
                                         
                                         you to do things for me but that's what a guy is like thriving in in his masculinity is like
                                         
                                         to provide and do for you you know so i'm trying to find my vulnerable okay like how can i step
                                         
                                         back and let him do for me i don't really know what that's like or how that feels or what that
                                         
                                         even means so i'm trying to learn and see what that is interesting you have two songs going very
                                         
                                         viral on tick tock right now you have both a male and female crowd that is absolutely falling in
                                         
                                         love with your stuff across all platforms. To you, is social media a good thing or a bad thing
                                         
    
                                         for your career? Do you enjoy doing it or do you find it toxic? No, I love social media. I don't
                                         
                                         think, honestly, I don't think social media is toxic at all. Really? So you don't find yourself
                                         
                                         scrolling. You're not stuck in the echo chamber no
                                         
                                         okay i've learned how to meditate the past couple months so i've been in a very good space mentally
                                         
                                         physically emotionally and when i feel like something's like my energy's shifting and like
                                         
                                         oh i'm doing too much i'll just get off of it it's not yeah it's not a big deal for me okay
                                         
                                         hate comments i don't care about i've been in it so long i don't really give a damn anymore but i like to comfort people for sure like comebacks online are hilarious i'll go for
                                         
                                         your life and you go hard on twitter you go very hard on twitter i'm always on twitter
                                         
    
                                         i love twitter i am literally scared to like the tweets sometimes i'll be like i don't think i want
                                         
                                         my name like attached to it. Yeah. It goes up.
                                         
                                         The more fuck shit you do on Twitter, the more popular you get.
                                         
                                         It's hilarious.
                                         
                                         It's hilarious.
                                         
                                         So you're the most followed OnlyFans creator.
                                         
                                         Actually, I think there's like two girls right now that are like heading me.
                                         
                                         Okay.
                                         
    
                                         But you're top three, whatever it is.
                                         
                                         How has getting into OnlyFans affected your personal life with family, with dating?
                                         
                                         I don't think it's changed anything with dating.
                                         
                                         Okay.
                                         
                                         Thankfully.
                                         
                                         No one's really cared about it.
                                         
                                         Family, me and my dad kind of got into a little thing.
                                         
                                         But honestly, I think he's just projecting because he knows I've been on the platform for a couple years now.
                                         
    
                                         We got into a whole thing.
                                         
                                         So me and him are on little terms right now now but it's been totally fine it's helped
                                         
                                         my family if anything i mean i help pay for my family stuff so um it's benefited all of us okay
                                         
                                         yeah what has been the hardest part about your ascension fame money anything if anything to do
                                         
                                         with your personal life.
                                         
                                         Like maybe the dating, right? Hard to find guys that are secure enough
                                         
                                         to hang out with or whatever.
                                         
                                         Well, even being kind of the center
                                         
    
                                         of the attention of the family.
                                         
                                         Right.
                                         
                                         I feel like I'm like, I try to go home
                                         
                                         and I'm like trying to be normal
                                         
                                         and it doesn't necessarily work that way.
                                         
                                         I don't know really how to explain it not like
                                         
                                         they're all like ah but it's just a lot of attention on me like even when i'm home sometimes
                                         
                                         so that kind of gets a little weird but um so what does a normal day of relaxing look like for
                                         
    
                                         lexi pantera like are you by yourself are you playing video games are you playing with the dog
                                         
                                         like if you can escape from right now, I'm just, yeah.
                                         
                                         I like to spend a lot of time at home.
                                         
                                         Nightmare.
                                         
                                         Nightmare.
                                         
                                         My dog nightmare.
                                         
                                         Love hanging out with him.
                                         
                                         He's my best friend.
                                         
    
                                         The most loyal man in my life.
                                         
                                         Um, yeah, I just, I honestly, like I've been getting, like I said, the meditating.
                                         
                                         So like, I'm learning about chakras right now.
                                         
                                         So like, I'd like to just be home eating some good food, focusing on my health.
                                         
                                         Because I have like Crohn's disease.
                                         
                                         I'm focusing on eating, like cooking at home.
                                         
                                         I've really been liking just really homey shit, homey stuff.
                                         
                                         Like chilling, just chilling.
                                         
    
                                         Soaking in the sun, going outside.
                                         
                                         Because I live in Miami.
                                         
                                         It's the best.
                                         
                                         So I like to soak in the sun and relax and listen to music, read books.
                                         
                                         Okay.
                                         
                                         Yeah.
                                         
                                         Nice.
                                         
                                         Pretty wholesome stuff.
                                         
    
                                         Very wholesome.
                                         
                                         Very wholesome stuff.
                                         
                                         Normal stuff.
                                         
                                         Yeah.
                                         
                                         TV shows here and there.
                                         
                                         Kind of jump in and out of some sometimes.
                                         
                                         What's your go-to show?
                                         
                                         I literally just started or I finished watching Bridgerton, which is older,
                                         
    
                                         but like,
                                         
                                         Oh my God,
                                         
                                         it's so good.
                                         
                                         I haven't seen that one.
                                         
                                         I haven't seen them,
                                         
                                         but I've heard good things about it.
                                         
                                         This is a very,
                                         
                                         like,
                                         
    
                                         I would not have guessed that for you.
                                         
                                         I mean,
                                         
                                         either,
                                         
                                         but like the thing is in the beginning,
                                         
                                         it got me because it was all about courting women.
                                         
                                         And it's like the old days where it's like the men were like,
                                         
                                         the,
                                         
                                         the women were created to be married and the men were
                                         
    
                                         created to like show off to the you know and find the best woman it's just very different now and
                                         
                                         I'm like whoa like they were just fully taking care of the women they were the guys are fighting
                                         
                                         over the women even in public like it's just it so different now. So that's what really got me
                                         
                                         going. I'm like, Ooh, I like this. Let's go back to that. What do you think of this masculinity
                                         
                                         movement on social media? I'm like, I have a band on? What's this from? You're the hospital
                                         
                                         recently? Clearly I was out last night or something. I'm like, what? I don't remember.
                                         
                                         My life goes too fast for me. It was something last night. But yeah. What do you think of this
                                         
                                         movement on social media with guys like Sneako, Fresh and Fit?
                                         
    
                                         You know, I definitely hate that it's a hating on women-focused podcasts, which I like to go on because the clout.
                                         
                                         But it's funny just because they're not necessarily like this in person as much as they try to be online.
                                         
                                         So I'm like, okay, like it's like alter egos almost.
                                         
                                         I just don't get it, though.
                                         
                                         It's like what's the point of the podcast?
                                         
                                         Like just to bash women?
                                         
                                         Like I don't know.
                                         
                                         It's really weird.
                                         
    
                                         Do you think – because it's weird, right?
                                         
                                         Because there's definitely very much of a debate on social media right now right there's like there's all the there's the take guys you know screaming about how
                                         
                                         horrible you know only fan stuff is or certain girls or girls nowadays right or as the whatever
                                         
                                         guy says right hoflation with all the nonsense going on with all that so all these little terms
                                         
                                         that they keep coming up with too like they like say random things on the podcast i'm like what do
                                         
                                         you say to me i genuinely think it's coming from guys insecurity about women making more money than
                                         
                                         they might be able to a lot of the haters i see on some of the content creators things
                                         
                                         are from guys you know sitting in their mom's basement complaining about whatever whatever
                                         
    
                                         whatever where do you if you want to learn how to get a girl honey you ask us don't ask andrew
                                         
                                         tate so here's the question then what is your advice to guys who want to learn how to get a girl, honey, you ask us. Don't ask Andrew Tate. So here's the question, then.
                                         
                                         What is your advice to guys who want to date successful women?
                                         
                                         I would just say be secure in yourself.
                                         
                                         Yeah, you got to be funny.
                                         
                                         That's number one.
                                         
                                         You got to be secure in yourself.
                                         
                                         I don't care how broke you are.
                                         
    
                                         Honestly, I don't give a damn.
                                         
                                         If we're connecting, if we have the chemistry,
                                         
                                         if you're walking head tall, shoulders back,
                                         
                                         you're a fucking man.
                                         
                                         You're going to notice that.
                                         
                                         We're going to feel that.
                                         
                                         And money doesn't have to be protection either.
                                         
                                         So it's not all about the success, the money.
                                         
    
                                         So just that's my advice.
                                         
                                         And I'll vouch for that because you dated someone I know who didn't have money.
                                         
                                         Yeah, I've dated multiple guys.
                                         
                                         I've mostly helped my boyfriends and before OnlyFans.
                                         
                                         It's been like that.
                                         
                                         And then I've dated successful people.
                                         
                                         They're both terrible.
                                         
                                         Whoa.
                                         
    
                                         They're both all guys to tear them out.
                                         
                                         No.
                                         
                                         So is Lexi Pantera going to get married and settle down one day?
                                         
                                         I want to, yeah.
                                         
                                         Okay.
                                         
                                         So you want kids?
                                         
                                         Yeah, I want kids.
                                         
                                         I'll have kids, you know, in a couple years.
                                         
    
                                         That's my goal, my hopes, my dreams one day.
                                         
                                         But I'm so focused on the music.
                                         
                                         I'm going on tour.
                                         
                                         Like, I have a lot going on right now.
                                         
                                         But I do want kids.
                                         
                                         My family definitely wants me to have kids.
                                         
                                         Charlie knows.
                                         
                                         I've known Charlie for a long time.
                                         
    
                                         Family friend here. And they all want me to have a charlie knows i've known charlie for a long time yep family friend here
                                         
                                         and they all want me to have a baby 10 years ago so and whether honestly it's with someone that
                                         
                                         i'm married with or love like we'll see and i don't really it doesn't really matter to me
                                         
                                         but i do want to have a child with somebody that i can trust okay so you believe in marriage or a friend or whatever you know marriage
                                         
                                         yes i'm like a guest no i don't know but it's a long commitment it's a weird it's a weird thing
                                         
                                         as i get older i'm just kind of like well what's the point of it but like oh i want the wedding
                                         
                                         dress like i want a two to the two well now you got assets so a marriage would be maybe you get
                                         
                                         a prenup lexi whoever's out there we're pretty risky. Maybe you get a prenup, Lexi, whoever's out there.
                                         
    
                                         We're going to make sure Lexi has a prenup.
                                         
                                         Prenup until children.
                                         
                                         Right.
                                         
                                         Because if I have children, we're definitely sharing some things.
                                         
                                         Okay.
                                         
                                         Because you have to give up a lot.
                                         
                                         I'm taking some of his, I'll tell you that.
                                         
                                         There you go.
                                         
    
                                         Because you give up too much when you have children.
                                         
                                         Especially women.
                                         
                                         You've had a very successful career in the music industry.
                                         
                                         It has been a bit of a roller coaster.
                                         
                                         I would say like for a lot of people from different genres,
                                         
                                         working with different people,
                                         
                                         what has been the highest and lowest point for you in music specifically?
                                         
                                         You know,
                                         
    
                                         it's just a bunch of highs and lows because like one day you're like,
                                         
                                         Oh my God,
                                         
                                         I booked a tour.
                                         
                                         And I say,
                                         
                                         you're like,
                                         
                                         damn,
                                         
                                         that person said no.
                                         
                                         Oh,
                                         
    
                                         you did this. Like, damn. So you're just like up and down up and down like that's the
                                         
                                         freaking business and you live on those highs you know and then when it's low you're like i give up
                                         
                                         like i quit no one fucking likes me i might as well stop i suck and there's so many artists around
                                         
                                         me right now that are independent that are so talented and it's like it's just not promised you got to do
                                         
                                         it because you love it and that's why we're doing it so it's a complicated business to be in
                                         
                                         emotionally it's really hard you know and so yeah it's just it's really up and down yeah i feel like
                                         
                                         not a lot of artists last long either no and it's like well what do you do after too you know it's
                                         
                                         like well what what's next if i'm not doing music like this is the only thing i really wanted to do yeah and i say it's not like
                                         
    
                                         being a doctor there's no right way like you can't be like oh here's your path on how to be a singer
                                         
                                         like no way you're learning as you go people are telling you right things wrong things like you're
                                         
                                         going this way you're supposed to go that way it's just like there is no right way or timeline
                                         
                                         or anything so you're just going with the freaking flow of it and because you like to do it that
                                         
                                         makes sense that's the only that's the only way so if there was something you could change about
                                         
                                         all of this culture around the hate on only fans creators right now who would you tell to fuck off
                                         
                                         and why right who is the person there's only two haters okay in the only fans community
                                         
                                         which are a group they're groups it's not just two people a lot of you um the girls who can't do it
                                         
    
                                         whatever that means sure don't want to because a family can't because whatever they hate on girls
                                         
                                         that have it and then men because men are mad that they can't do it so hate on girls that have it. And then men,
                                         
                                         because men are mad that they can't do it.
                                         
                                         So it's like,
                                         
                                         there's your group.
                                         
                                         Other than that,
                                         
                                         I feel like everyone doesn't really care.
                                         
                                         I agree.
                                         
    
                                         That's just super religious.
                                         
                                         Maybe,
                                         
                                         you know,
                                         
                                         that's fine.
                                         
                                         That makes sense.
                                         
                                         Other than that.
                                         
                                         Yeah.
                                         
                                         I mean,
                                         
    
                                         guys,
                                         
                                         guys are a really big part of that.
                                         
                                         They're just mad because,
                                         
                                         you know,
                                         
                                         instead they have to sell drugs to do the the equivalent of
                                         
                                         what an only fans would be you know i always say like rappers and shit like they get they get away
                                         
                                         with selling drugs and and doing that whole thing but god forbid a girl has only fans
                                         
                                         i don't think it's like a bad thing and i've experienced this personally in my in my industry
                                         
    
                                         the singing industry like i've had opportunities taken away from me because i'm an only fans artist and i'm like okay but you support these people murderers people who have
                                         
                                         shot people people who are still drug dealing and drug dealers are known for all these things
                                         
                                         you guys can put them on radio you guys can do this blah blah blah but god forbid i have an only
                                         
                                         fans like that's psycho yeah do you think women should uh care about their body counts
                                         
                                         i don't i mean we do because it's i think just so badly shunned on it is and it's good for men
                                         
                                         to have high body counts right but for women it's like that's wild critical yeah it's not fair but
                                         
                                         that's why women don't like to talk about it i would never talk about my body count i think a
                                         
                                         lot of it comes from insecurity i think there comes from i like you just said like a place of judgment where
                                         
    
                                         guys just want to feel overly masculine yeah the amount of girls you get that's a whoo what is the
                                         
                                         worst experience you've had with telling someone that you do only fans in some capacity whether
                                         
                                         it's family friends no recently it was a really big deal in the business. I was cussing out the air for three days straight.
                                         
                                         I was getting on the phone.
                                         
                                         I was going crazy because I had an opportunity to do some radio stuff.
                                         
                                         And they took the guy who was interested in my music, liked my music, blah, blah.
                                         
                                         My team was talking to them.
                                         
                                         I never talked to them.
                                         
    
                                         And then he took me to his team team which were a bunch of females and the females were like oh no we don't want to work
                                         
                                         with the girls that have only fans and i'm like like you guys don't even know me you don't know
                                         
                                         what i've done who like they don't know anything about me or music or anything so it's like if you
                                         
                                         guys knew what i was doing and how i was the first
                                         
                                         music video or the person to put a music video on only fans and i i just changed the fucking game
                                         
                                         period and brought all these girls on only fans and so and it's for other reasons like bts and
                                         
                                         music videos and all these things that we created they don't look at that they don't care they just
                                         
                                         think it's a sexual platform and you're just done and so that i was it took away an
                                         
    
                                         opportunity for me and i was just beyond mad so you don't do any gram don't pay so i had to leave
                                         
                                         so you don't do any sexual stuff on your only fans not sexual i mean i don't have nudes and i don't
                                         
                                         do porn and i don't touch myself wow yeah i feel like a lot of girls do though right yeah a lot of
                                         
                                         girls do do that and they make a lot of money this is a common conversation we've had before
                                         
                                         like i've never been on only fans in my entire life yeah you loved making fun of me because you
                                         
                                         were like you know showing me analytics one day and i'm like lexi i don't i don't want to go on
                                         
                                         only fans i don't need to go on only fans i don't need you to go on my only fans either exactly and
                                         
                                         so i feel like what is weirdest, awkward thing that you've
                                         
    
                                         had to deal with in the music industry? Because of OnlyFans? Obviously, the situation you just
                                         
                                         Oh, well, there was a there's a big show that has a really big artist on it that hosts a show,
                                         
                                         like a talk show. And my PR comes in there like, Oh oh like one of the producers is like a big fan of yours
                                         
                                         and he's on only fans or something i was like oh god like it's just awkward at that point it's like
                                         
                                         oh good to know like that yeah it comes because you're vulnerable on only fans but you don't
                                         
                                         really have to deal with it in person necessarily and you don't really it doesn't affect my life
                                         
                                         until things like
                                         
                                         that little thing come up and i'm like cool so how many followers do you have on there like 620,000
                                         
    
                                         there's that many people on there there's millions wow yeah i've never been on it people on only fans
                                         
                                         that's crazy so what does the end of your career look like right is there like is there a life get married to a rich man
                                         
                                         is it like a musical award is there a dollar amount like what is the point at which you do
                                         
                                         decide i'm going to stop going a million miles an hour i want to settle down
                                         
                                         for me i think music wise grammy oh
                                         
                                         and in like about four years it's done okay i have a good couple more years left in me
                                         
                                         unless you know something starts exploding and i'll go till i can't go anymore but like um yeah and i mean i don't
                                         
                                         really give a shit about the grammys the award shows like it doesn't mean anything so i really
                                         
    
                                         it's it'll be very flattering i'll be crying on stage i'm sure but like now when i think about it
                                         
                                         i don't really care it's not a big deal for me like it's all politics telling me that like yeah
                                         
                                         i'm good like bitch i know i'm good like so but um for me personally
                                         
                                         it's sold out tours shows like the fans that are in the audience that's what matters and like them
                                         
                                         singing my records and then making videos on tiktok to my song using my song like the fact
                                         
                                         that there's 60 000 people on a bad bitch right now using my song is insane and i always think
                                         
                                         numbers i'm like oh 60 000 views like that's whatever for me
                                         
                                         but no this is these are people using your song into a video clicking 60 000 people and i'm like
                                         
    
                                         that's a lot it took me like two days to like process like what what does that really mean like
                                         
                                         oh it's not views it's like real yeah it's real shit it's a lot of videos and it's two songs right
                                         
                                         now at the same time
                                         
                                         i don't understand how you got no label pushing this no i'm independent wow that's impressive
                                         
                                         let's loot their records i remember a few years ago uh it seems like a few years ago now we were
                                         
                                         talking about how you were putting out music videos on only fans you didn't have a record
                                         
                                         label backing you how broke is the music industry where someone like you had to do all this work to get your name
                                         
                                         out there but there's record labels that are just suppressing other musical talent like yourself if
                                         
    
                                         you didn't have the money to do it yourself there's no way i would do it there's no way it
                                         
                                         would have happened so so that's the crazy part is just like independent artists like
                                         
                                         you are fucked if you don't have money you're not it's like more than impossible then at that point
                                         
                                         because you can't do you can't pay producers you can't pay your engineer you can't pay studio time
                                         
                                         you can't do music videos you can't do wardrobe hair makeup like it is crazy the amount that you
                                         
                                         spend on these things and you know labels they pay for it all but you eventually pay for it all
                                         
                                         and there's artists that are on that i know that are on labels that had to join only fans and i'm like how are and this is where my shift came
                                         
                                         in i was like whoa i'm absolutely doing everything correctly because the fact that you who i know
                                         
    
                                         you're way bigger than me in the music business i look up to you almost you just joined only fans
                                         
                                         and you're with a major label and you have a lot of streams on spotify a lot of
                                         
                                         followers on spotify you're going and performing it rolling loud like all these things that i want
                                         
                                         yeah and they're over here joining only fans because they're like yeah well my label doesn't
                                         
                                         pay for everything so i gotta like put in money for this this is i'm like i'm obviously doing
                                         
                                         everything correct yeah at that point i was like i'm on top like i'm doing it you don't have to answer anyone either
                                         
                                         hell no and i make any type of music any type of videos anything i want to do i feel that i've got
                                         
                                         like i said it costs a lot of money a lot of money i've got a wild question coming your way okay have
                                         
    
                                         you ever been arrested i have been arrested really like it's weird that I say that because I never thought that this would ever happen.
                                         
                                         In January, I got arrested in front of Club 11 in Miami.
                                         
                                         You were drunk?
                                         
                                         I was a little tipsy.
                                         
                                         Okay.
                                         
                                         And a little bold.
                                         
                                         You were probably a little tipsy and very bold.
                                         
                                         I'm always bold.
                                         
    
                                         So that was on high, high.
                                         
                                         But I was a little tipsy, which is because I don't drink.
                                         
                                         Yes, I definitely was drinking a little that night because I had hosted at Swan.
                                         
                                         So I went to Swan, hosted a night for Bad Bitch, I think.
                                         
                                         Went to 11 and like some shit went down with my brother because he wasn't allowed in, obviously, because he was underage.
                                         
                                         But the whole thing, his phone died.
                                         
                                         He couldn't get a taxi.
                                         
                                         He was asking people for help.
                                         
    
                                         No one would help him. This is my little brother. so i come out of the club because i noticed my text messages
                                         
                                         are going in green i'm like like he's not gonna be able to get home i come out he's like
                                         
                                         almost crying sad he's been out there for 45 minutes he's like no one's helping me i was like
                                         
                                         like no one's helping you like what do you mean So I go cuss everyone out in front of the club.
                                         
                                         All the security guards.
                                         
                                         I'm like, how fucking dare you not help?
                                         
                                         How dare you?
                                         
                                         He's like, I asked him.
                                         
    
                                         I asked him.
                                         
                                         I literally just cussed everybody out at that point.
                                         
                                         Then I walked away.
                                         
                                         The police were watching me.
                                         
                                         I walked away.
                                         
                                         I was trying to catch an Uber.
                                         
                                         I was, like, going on Uber.
                                         
                                         I was in the street.
                                         
    
                                         Not a lot of cars were around.
                                         
                                         It's, like, 4 in the morning almost.
                                         
                                         The cops are like, get out of the street.
                                         
                                         Get out of the street. out of the street i'm
                                         
                                         like no whatever so basically they end up tackling us whoa my brother ends up on the ground my shoes
                                         
                                         fly off i'm on live stream and it goes like it goes i'm like and i'm like screaming at my brother
                                         
                                         because i'm like he's half black i know that people don't play about race.
                                         
                                         This shit is serious.
                                         
    
                                         I was like, don't fucking speak.
                                         
                                         Don't talk.
                                         
                                         Do what he says because he was trying to like fight, do other.
                                         
                                         I was like screaming at the top of my lungs to him while I was literally getting arrested.
                                         
                                         But what's really funny is so when we left i spent 24 hours in jail by the way the worst thing
                                         
                                         is how fucking freezing it is in there they freeze you out yep freeze you that's the worst thing i
                                         
                                         could spend i could spend weeks in jail i was not caring the fact that like you're in flip-flops
                                         
                                         with no socks you're in paper thin outfits like
                                         
    
                                         it was freezing that's the worst thing but other than that so they were dropping us off eventually
                                         
                                         it was like three in the morning the next night because it was like a whole 24 hours they're like
                                         
                                         we're gonna drop you off where like basically you like oh it was a police station it was a police
                                         
                                         station my car was at 11 or my car was somewhere and so i was like okay they're gonna drop us off like at a police station in the middle of
                                         
                                         fucking three in the morning in miami me and my brother i was like cool like this sucks
                                         
                                         on the way to get dropped off they start figuring out who i am right so they're like oh you like
                                         
                                         oh you're you sing you do this i was like yeah i just released a song. They're like, oh, bad bitch.
                                         
                                         I was like, yeah, that's why I got arrested at the party.
                                         
    
                                         They're like, oh.
                                         
                                         So this big, huge police van situation where we're cuffed in the back,
                                         
                                         like this, me and my brother over there.
                                         
                                         And I can hear bad bitch playing in the front of the freaking car.
                                         
                                         So they're listening to bad bitch.
                                         
                                         Wow.
                                         
                                         That's wild.
                                         
                                         I feel like that added to the street
                                         
    
                                         no way not meeting the back of a cop car while the cops are listening to bad bitch right now
                                         
                                         i'm a bad bitch period what did you get charged with it's still going so i can't talk about it
                                         
                                         i could talk about those things that's unfortunate it was ridiculous is what it was
                                         
                                         pretty much jaywalking at this
                                         
                                         point so i'm trying to convince sean to move to miami can you please help me what are your
                                         
                                         why don't you want to move to miami humidity why does every man say the same whoa whoa don't
                                         
                                         lump us all together i ask or talk to you says the same thing. Crime. That's the first thing.
                                         
                                         Crime.
                                         
    
                                         Yeah, but she's the crime.
                                         
                                         We just established.
                                         
                                         Yeah, no, for real.
                                         
                                         Oh, crime.
                                         
                                         Yeah, right.
                                         
                                         Los Angeles and stuff is doing way worse than Miami is.
                                         
                                         That's true.
                                         
                                         I feel like everyone, Miami, I've never even came across any weird, like.
                                         
    
                                         Scammers.
                                         
                                         You're hanging out with the wrong people.
                                         
                                         I've lived there now. This is going on the second year i haven't
                                         
                                         dealt with any weird anything okay it's so it's like the beach is there there's winwood there's
                                         
                                         outside areas like events are outside like it's just like it's so cool i feel like everything in
                                         
                                         los angeles is inside indoors and i don't feel like us as humans we belong indoors that much
                                         
                                         right so i feel like there's just so much art outside the the party scene is just awesome like any type of party
                                         
                                         scene you want to join into it's there i'm not a big partier but like when i do step out it's fun
                                         
    
                                         and there's options you know there's things to do i feel that we're two months every five seconds
                                         
                                         you want to go on a yacht in two seconds you go go on a yacht. Yeah, let's do it. Well, we don't party, so.
                                         
                                         Yeah, see, like.
                                         
                                         No, yacht is for chilling.
                                         
                                         I would go on a yacht.
                                         
                                         We both gave up alcohol recently.
                                         
                                         There's beautiful women.
                                         
                                         Yeah.
                                         
    
                                         Good job, guys, together.
                                         
                                         The woman would be for you, but.
                                         
                                         I cheated.
                                         
                                         I had a beer that night in LA.
                                         
                                         Other than that, you've been good.
                                         
                                         Other than that, yeah.
                                         
                                         My Crohn's disease won't let me drink.
                                         
                                         I can't drink.
                                         
    
                                         I don't even really like drinking.
                                         
                                         It's never been my thing I feel that can we establish here and now that all the greatest things come
                                         
                                         from Sacramento California um like what me well like Lexi and I okay people wise I'll give you
                                         
                                         there we go so we win right go Sacramento Kings that's right go okay oh my god we're in the
                                         
                                         playoffs it's been a million years we were juniors in high school the last time the Kings were in the playoffs.
                                         
                                         That's nuts.
                                         
                                         So shout out to the Kentucky players that now play for the Kings, De'Aaron Fox and Malik
                                         
                                         Monk.
                                         
    
                                         It is a thousand percent.
                                         
                                         They're killing it.
                                         
                                         Let's carry the team.
                                         
                                         Yeah.
                                         
                                         Malik's had a good year.
                                         
                                         Yep.
                                         
                                         Very good year.
                                         
                                         Sean's been giving me shit about the Lakers.
                                         
    
                                         And so I say fuck LA whenever I get the chance
                                         
                                         Lakers will beat the Kings this year
                                         
                                         definitely not going to happen
                                         
                                         Kings are winning playoffs
                                         
                                         I agree, 1000%
                                         
                                         name three Kings players
                                         
                                         Malik and Fogg
                                         
                                         and the third
                                         
    
                                         Sabonis
                                         
                                         I know his name
                                         
                                         we'll end it on that Lexi
                                         
                                         Lexi Pan Where can people find you?
                                         
                                         Lexi Pantera everywhere, baby.
                                         
                                         Google me.
                                         
                                         All right.
                                         
                                         Digital Social Hour.
                                         
    
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