Digital Social Hour - Why Anger is Destroying Your Life (and How to Overcome It) | Jesse Lee Peterson DSH #1336

Episode Date: April 18, 2025

Why is anger silently sabotaging your happiness and relationships? 😤 On this episode of the Digital Social Hour Podcast with Sean Kelly, we explore how anger could be holding you back and how to finally overcome it for good. 🌟 Packed with valuable insights from Jesse Lee Peterson, this conversation dives into emotional struggles, relationships, and reclaiming personal peace. Discover how forgiveness plays a critical role in breaking free from past traumas, why emotions can cloud your judgment, and the secrets to achieving a life of clarity and purpose. 🧠✨ Whether you've struggled with anger, fear, or emotional baggage, this episode is for you. Join the conversation and uncover life-changing advice that could transform your mindset. Don’t miss out—watch now and subscribe for more insider secrets. 📺 Hit that subscribe button and stay tuned for more eye-opening stories on the Digital Social Hour with Sean Kelly! 🚀 CHAPTERS: 00:00 - Intro 00:40 - When She's Crying, She's Lying 07:10 - Misconceptions About Women 11:52 - Jesse’s Political Views 14:10 - The Concept of White History Month 16:51 - Contributions of Black Americans 21:08 - Legacy of Martin Luther King Jr. 22:54 - Issues in Public Education 23:58 - Identifying Evil People 27:29 - The Importance of Forgiving Your Mother 30:18 - Jesse’s Experience Forgiving His Mother 32:43 - Effective Parenting Strategies 37:05 - Voting Trends in California 39:34 - Are Women Mean? 41:30 - Insights on Getting Married 43:15 - Understanding Traditional Marriage 44:56 - Where to Find Jesse APPLY TO BE ON THE PODCAST: https://www.digitalsocialhour.com/application BUSINESS INQUIRIES/SPONSORS: [e-mail] GUEST: Jesse Lee Peterson https://www.instagram.com/jesseleepeterson LISTEN ON: Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/digital-social-hour/id1676846015 Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/5Jn7LXarRlI8Hc0GtTn759 Sean Kelly Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/seanmikekelly/ The views and opinions expressed by guests on Digital Social Hour are solely those of the individuals appearing on the podcast and do not necessarily reflect the views or opinions of the host, Sean Kelly, or the Digital Social Hour team. While we encourage open and honest conversations, Sean Kelly is not legally responsible for any statements, claims, or opinions made by guests during the show. Listeners are encouraged to form their own opinions and consult professionals for advice where appropriate. Content on this podcast is for entertainment and informational purposes only and should not be considered legal, medical, financial, or professional advice. #cognitivebehavioraltherapy #selfimprovement #mentalhealth #selfhelp #mindfulness

You gotta forgive her because if not, you're gonna end up marrying a woman just like your mother. Because you won't be able to get away from her. You're gonna trash her too with your hate. And this woman is gonna deceive you, pretend like she's definitely your mother. But as soon as you marry her, all hell is gonna break loose. And you're gonna end up like your father and she's gonna screw your kids too. kids too. All right guys, Jesse Lee Pearson here. We are in LA for Black History Month. How's it going, man? Nice. Safe and happy we are. Absolutely. I appreciate it. Yeah, I fold open the G-Wagon, my man. You do that? Yeah, throwing stuff in them. I love it, man. What's new with you? I know you've been

making year-round. Busy. You know, busy. What do you say? Don't want my shirt. What does it say? When she crying, she lying. So explain that. Is that true? Where she's crying, she's lying. Yeah. How would it be true? You ever notice that whenever women are crying, they're lying?

They're like, oh, my husband beat me. He abused me. Right. And they start crying. Yeah. And as soon as they cry, right? And they started crying. Yeah. And as soon as they started crying, we people feel sorry for them, the courts and other, and they give them what they want. But they're lying, they don't really feel

what they're saying, they're using tears to control you. Wow. And when they want to take the man's children away from him, they cry. You make up lies and then they cry, and of course fall for it. And then when they want you to feel sorry for them, they cry.

So when they're crying, they're lying. They never tell you, oh, my husband beat me because I'm a bitch. Or he couldn't deal with me. They never tell you that part. And so people fall for tears and their tears are not real. Where never are the that part. Yeah. And so people follow for tears and tears are not real. Where never other tears real. Why every woman on earth.

So when they're crying, they're lying. Oh, why did you figure that out? How I wanted to see the gentlemen there? The first time I got it, I had no idea the women, they were going to get mad. I just, and when I walked in and I had this shirt on, conservative women like, what the? That's racist. That's the, something stupid.

But I was like, it's just a t-shirt. Why are you reacting to it, right? But did you know that when they were crying, they were lying? Now I know. But you didn't know before? No. Did you believe them when they cried and they were telling you they're not lying? Sometimes

in my new life. Really? Why? Because they're crying emotional, Gizo. That's why you have to overcome emotions. Yeah. Is it abnormal for human beings to be emotional? Isn't it amazing? Yeah that's interesting advice. So when your wife is crying. I know she's lying. It started level sitting in the corner and cry. Sort of about when a guy's crying. He's lying. You think a guy. A guy that cry cries better when I'm not married to her, but a guy that cry, he has his mama's spirit, so he's the acting of that woman.

But a guy that cry, he has his mama's spirit, so he's the act of a woman. Any man that cries, any man that get angry, become emotional, he's only doing it because he has his mother's identity. It's abnormal for men to get angry. It's abnormal for men to cry. It's a mama's boy when they're crying like that. Real people don't cry.

Interesting. You're not amazed yet? That's interesting. I grew up in a single parent household. And you cry? No. Oh, good. I used to.

Were you shocked? I was shocked. What means you get over that? Well, I was, I was downed off the house. So I just had to take this position. I'd be the man of the house. So I'd be tough. Oh.

Yeah, so I broke my career. Nice. Yeah. So I'd be tough. Oh, yeah. So I broke on a career. Nice. Yeah. Real men don't cry. There's moments. If they cry, they obey them. There's moments, right? No, I mean, let's say that your father, your mother died. It's part of it.

And maybe you're at the funeral or you hear about it. You share the cheer, but you we share the cheer and you let it it, you shed a tear, but you, we said to cheer and you let it pass. Right. Don't get all into it. Don't want other to catch you on the show. Babe, don't fall for that. Yeah.

That's a BAM. Do you hold your emotions back? I have not. Let me do though. I have, I may have those, no, actually I laugh at things. I, uh, but I never cry or I break up with my woman or something. I'm like, okay, bye. I don't think about, oh my God, what am I, I used to when I was a bear, but I'm not into all that.

You had to overcome that. It's a lot of time too. It's a waste of time. And it's, it's evil. It's not good. and it is not a sign of love at home, right? No, I see a lot of men with uncontrolled emotions like anger usually especially on basketball course. Oh my god Oh you will try to fight. Yeah every time I play That's why I'm telling guys in order to overcome that you have to overcome the spirit of your mother And the way that you overcome the spirit of your mother.

And the way that you overcome the spirit of your mother, you have to see for yourself that you're angry at her. Anger is hatred, right? And anger separate you from your true self. And so the mothers, because the women are evil, they turn the children against the father. They're jealous of the father and the children. So they always turn their children away by playing fishermen or whatever.

But the moment they turn them away from their father, the kids become just like their mothers. They become angry, they identify with the mother, they turn against their own fathers. But the way to overcome that is you got to admit you're angry. You can go and apologize to her for, hate her for what she done to you. Right. And don't ask for forgiveness. But you just say, you know, mother, I resented you.

You turn me to get my father. You oppose your will on me or you baby me or whatever. I realize now you couldn't help yourself. I'm sorry for resending you. The God will forgive you. He'll take the spirit of the mother away from you, which in the evil, and he will give me your father's spirit. Wow. Is this what happened to you? Yes. For what they treated you. Every human being on earth, that's their problem. They got to overcome their mothers and return to their father. If they don't, they will always feel that something is missing.

They're going to feel emptiness inside and no person plays a thing to fulfill that emptiness. There's only when you drop the anger by forgiving your mother, and forgiving your father too for not protecting you from the mother, you can help it because every man hates their mothers, they end up marrying the woman that just liked the mom by their trypity. Yeah, your attraction to what you hate. Yeah. And the cycle repeats itself. The guy becoming the baby again, the boy, and the wife become the mother and the

mother screw up the kids. But if the father of virtue overcome it and they get married, they will protect their children from the mother and they show love and the kids wouldn't have to go through the same thing. What a mess, huh? Yeah, that's how big. Isn't that like amazing? Well, you figured it out at least. You could tell your son about it.

You said women are evil. Yes. All women are just certain types. Every woman on earth. It doesn't matter how what color, how much money you have or don't have, rich or poor or well, and every woman is evil. Their nature is evil. It's not them, but their nature is evil.

Your mama nature is evil. Your mama's mama, your sister, your cousin, your friend, female friends, and their nature is evil. It's not them per se, but the spirit of evil comes, the hell comes through the woman. And the reason for that is because of what happened with Adam and Eve. You're in this story?

I know about it, yeah. You know about it. So we're doing it, should I tell you? Let me just summarize it, some people watching went on, oh, okay, so what happened was God created Adam and they were just the father and the son. And the father and son were one. They were closed, but they communicated without words.

And then one day, God said, you know, I'm tired of creating human beings with my hands, you know, my hands, right. And plus, we create human beings by creating human beings with my hands, with my hands, right? And plus when you create human beings, by creating human beings with his hands, human beings were forced to love him. They had no other choice. So he said, what I'm gonna do is I'm gonna create a woman and through that woman, I'm gonna create human beings, right?

And then that way, the human beings to have a choice if they love me or not, because forced love is not love. You just have someone trying to make you look at the blacks, they're trying to make the white people love them, and the blacks don't love them, the whites don't love them because they hate the whites, right? But if you leave it alone,

it will come together naturally. But that's the assert. So he created E, and in the beginning, E loved Adam who loved his father. And they were a perfect piece. And so one day E was at the market and you're Chinese? Yeah. And said, I'll use Chinese. And she was buying Chinese food, you know, rice, noodles, and all that, right?

And while at the market, she saw Satan there. And Satan was like, hey, you still married to that man? Yeah, I love my husband. You can be your own woman. The servant there tried to deceive the woman because it didn't work with the man, so he went to the woman. And he said, you could be your own woman. Don't be like Adam. She's like, no, no, I love my husband. I obey my husband. I love him. I'm one with my husband who was one with his father. So he's like,

okay. And then she went to the market again. This time she wanted soul food. So she bought sweet potatoes to make sweet potato pies, collard green, cornbread, and ham ops. And she saw a scene again at the store, right? And said, are you still with that man? He's like, yeah. She's like, he was like, E, you could be your own woman. You could be independent.

You could take your bra off. You could be like a man. And then he was like, look at Adam. Adam was not his old man, he was his father. And that moment he believed him. And then at very moment, she lost connection with her husband, who had connected with his father. And God became, I mean, Satan became the woman to God. became, I mean, Satan became the woman's god. And then at some point, once it was short, because beforehand men did not listen to women, because they knew that every time you met you through the woman, they're going to suffer. So Adam did not listen to his wife. And so at some point, Adam, after she became the daughter of evil, Satan,

Adam, after she became the daughter of evil, Satan, she convinced Adam to not listen to his father. Be your own man, do your own thing. And Adam believed the woman. And in that very moment, the woman became the man's god. And so that's why today men are subject to women. They're afraid of women. Yeah. Because they're afraid of that spirit in women. They're afraid of women Yeah, because they afraid of that's you that spirit in women and the woman is to man God and so obvious The woman is to man God as Satan is to woman guys. So evil coming through the woman That's why we must be born again We must return to the father so we could bring back the order of God in Christ, Christ in man, man over woman and woman over children.

Nothing else is going to work with that. Damn it. Another amazing story? The what story? Amazing. Oh, amazing. Yeah. What do you think about that?

That's interesting. My dad has a similar view for sure. Does it make sense to you or no? Uh, yeah, I'm not Christian, but it makes sense. You don't have to be a Christian. The Christians don't even understand it. Sure. Damn, that's nice.

Yeah, you don't believe women should vote. Little how messed up things have become as a result of women voting. We now pay for daycare centers. We now pray for them to take all work to have a baby. And then we now pay for them. They're like, oh, I want my husband to be home too. Well, I'm having a baby. It's not fair. Right? Now, the men get paid to be all work. Then after the woman get have the baby, she wants you to pay for insurance for the baby. We would now vote in and say that men would never vote in. And it really right.

It's because there are more women than men voters. So the country has screwed up as a result of women voting. In the good old days, and when men were men, boys were boys, you can only vote if you own land. If you didn't own the land, you could build, father. And so when I become president, I'm going back to that. Because the reason for that, because people who own land

will bought illogical things. But if you don't own any land, you're suffrage. So you want all this stuff, and the land owners have to pay all the taxes. They'll probably notes and goes up and blah, blah, blah. Yeah. And the cost of their home goes up. But now you're taking care of these people who don't own property. Right. You said you're going to run for president.

When after the Great White Hulk is done. Yeah. No, man. But I would like to see that room changed and put it back to only if you own property, can you vote? Yeah. Yeah. You were pretty outspoken this past election, right? Oh, yeah. I saw you support Trump. The great white. Oh, he is making America white again. Yeah, it's got a lot of white people around it. Amazing. Yeah. How do you feel about that? Amazing. What do you say about tanks?

As a matter of fact, we, and I'm telling you, I know it's not funny, but it's a true, um, we celebrate white history month, July is white history. A lot. You know about that? No, you guys know about that? Never heard. This is our, I believe our eighth year celebrating July White Hills.

I started it seven years ago. And the reason I started White Hills Street in July, number one is that July just feels white. Am I right? Yeah, July 4th. July 4th, vacation time, summertime, uh, relasting time right there. But I started White History Month because these people tried to destroy everything

that's white, statues and monuments and everything that's white, and they are creating a false history about America. And so I want to encourage people to remember history, true history, so generations to come would appreciate America and not destroy it. So that's why we started White History Month. Well, we got Black History Month, so might as well throw in white and Asian. They have everything but white history. Oh, well, they celebrate white history month. I mean, I like black history month, gay month, woman month.

Mexican month. Filipino month, Indian month. Months I've never heard of. Everything about white history, I'm like, why not white history? It was white people who founded this country and created with the help of God. They created the greatest country in the whole wide world.

Everybody and their mama want to come here and they come and they want to change it. That doesn't make sense there. what do you say about that? That's interesting, man. You like white people, huh? I love I love white people. I love the and I love the blacks. I love all people.

But yes, I know why do you love white people? Yeah. You know, white people like what you hear. What? What he say? I'm half white so oh good yeah you love your own people yeah nice I like all people though oh you do yeah you love the backs yeah I got I got black friends you do yeah I've uh I shouldn't even say this I got a fiance now but but yeah, I've slept with a black girl. Oh, God. Oh, Lord. Yeah. When you go flat, you can't go back though. I didn't like it. I'm cheating. I rest my case.

Are you able to be honored with the blacks? As to what's wrong with them? To a certain degree. And why not all the way? Because some of them get you mad and they want to get violent. Yeah, I won't. I? To a certain degree. And why not all the way? Because some of them get you mad and they want to get violent. Yeah. I won't. I won't cross certain minds. Really, I won't say that word. Um, you won't? No, I will. Will you say, nigger-rara? There's a country called nigger-rara, right? Call it nigger-rara, yeah. Am I saying it wrong?

Yeah. How did I say it? You said it, yeah. Nicaragua? Yeah. That's... is that wrong? Is that right what you said? Get away with it.

Nicaragua. Would you say that? No. Why not? It's got an end to the word, you know? It's half a word. Really? Like, the first half.

So, is it that a country or somewhere? Yeah, I haven't been there. I haven't been there. But you heard it at Leeds, right? Yeah. And what is it called? Nicker Robbie. It's like a tongue twister, man.

God damn. See? That's a good one. That's a good one. Yeah. But tell me one thing that the Blast have done to make America great again. What have they done to enhance the country for all people? Entertain them. They've been doing that for ever, man.

Yeah, something real. Something real. The Blast and Dance is saying, I'm talking about real star. Real star. Yeah, I guess something happened. I mean, shit. He's on me. So you can't think of him there? Nah, I can't. I rest my taste.

I mean, we had Obama for a little bit. And look what a mess he made. Yeah. He didn't make the American half the battle. He made it work. We are more divided today as a result of Baraka Baraka, the father of Messiah and Big Mama Michelle. We're more divided today than any other time

in the history of America. And I grew up in Alabama. I grew up on a plantation. I grew up, my parents worked at plantation fairfares. My grandfather, he grew up there. And so did I. And black were way better off than they are today. worked at a plantation, fairfares, my grandmum, full raker out there, and sorted out right. And Blacks were way better off than they are today. Oh, yeah. Wow. I remember for Blacks only bathrooms, yeah, like whites only bathrooms, all that kind of stuff. But Blacks

were more independent. They did not have Black leavers. So they fought for themselves. They bought land. They did their own things like you did, right? When you're forced to take care of yourself, you're more apt to take care of yourself. Right. And so the blacks took care of themselves, but they don't now because they have black leaders. Damn.

The worst thing that ever happened to the black, the worst thing was the civil rights movement and the second thing abortion but the civil rights movement was the worst thing that ever happened to the black. They have not returned since then. Wow, so you think they went down to all sorts of places? Holy damn you, holy crap. One was sent down with you. Wow. They didn't have the same mentality prior to the civil rights movement than they have now. But then they were independent thinkers. They treated each other the way that

they would like to be treated. They knew that was a spiritual barrier. There was no such word as racism. It was made up word. No such word. Really? Yeah. Why did you start seeing that racism? When I moved out here to LA because growing up in Alabama, there was no such word as racism. Really? No, because you're sure of the South you think of racism. No, you know? No, that's another lie. They have pretended that the South is a really bad place.

The people in the South got along better than the people in the North. Because when they went to the North, they were more dependent on the government than they were in the South got along better than the people in the North. Because when they went to the North, they were more dependent on the government than they were in the South. And there was no such word as race. And again, we were all separated as far as the races. But when we would see one another, it didn't matter.

We treat each other as human beings, right? And there was no such word as race. That word was made up by this so-called mother to king and desert jester, you know Martin Luther King or? Yeah, starting to burn power, he was really a socialist. Yeah, the mess. They taught him in school. He was a legend, global.

Yeah, but they made him seem like a hero when he really was a zero. He brought in socialism and told the blacks that, okay, I want, because he started out as a Republican. It's all real. Yeah. But then I've been told, I don't know the whole story yet, but he met up with the Kennedy guy. Yeah. John or? The first one, the president. Yeah, Jeff. And then somehow another, I don't know if it's true or not, but it made sort of a deal.

And he switched over and saw working with the Democratic Party. Wow. I do remember him signing a bill for welfare. He was standing with Legally B. Johnson, a black Democrat president. And they told black people, OK, we're going to give you welfare and all this. And we're going to be your leader.

So vote for us, give us your money, and just be down with you every single time. Yeah. Black people vote Democrat almost every election. Because they're lost their way. They're not independent thinkers. They're not free. And that's why they're so angry too. They're angry because their mothers have turned them away from their fathers.

So inwardly they're yearning for their father, but they don't know it. Uh, and so the Democrats and the liberal whites walk them that way so they can hear some putter boats. Hopefully that changes, right? It started to change a little bit now with the great white hope sold out. So it started to change because, uh, because a lot of blacks are started to think for themselves. There's nothing worse than he would be who will not think for himself. Yeah.

You have to think for yourself. Well, that's why public education system is dangerous. Any parent that send their children to a public school, they hate their children. They have no love for the kids. They send them all because they can't make the wife stay home and raise the kids, right? Watch out. Because she want to be out as a like the man. She want to be equal to the man.

Which would never happen. But to send your kids to a public school is a sign that you hate your children. There's no way I would do that. I have two grandkids and an adult. And three great grandkids. I would never send them to a curse. Yeah I'm with you on that. You know what I miss?

That's all that happened to me. It's helped me to be not a free thinker. Yeah that's true. Anytime I questioned it, I got punished. Absolutely not detention or suspended. They hate for people to think to themselves because you cannot control a human being who thinks for him or herself. You can't control them.

And they don't like that. That's why they hate Donald Trump so much. They hate the great great white hole because they cannot control us. No matter what they try to do to him, it does not bother him at all because he understand that human beings are evil. Did you know that human beings are evil? She'd been met and well, they're able to. Me and everyone.

Why? It because the, the, the, the spirit of the woman has passed on to the children, to the boys and the girl, but you could overcome them with you. We'll allow your wrong for being evil. to the children, to the boys and the girls. But you can overcome it when you realize you're wrong for being evil. But human beings are evil. And God said that an angry person is a murderer and that we should never, ever, ever, ever,

but never trust an angry person. They cannot be trusted. And if you think back and reflect on your life, everyone you ever, everyone that you've ever trusted have turned on you, you bitcher. Total shit. Up deep. Because they're evil. You're right though. Almost everyone.

It's like, yeah, everyone. Even my closest friends at the time. Absolutely. Because they're evil. And you can't, it's not going to change until your heart change from anger to love. And you can change and you have perfect love. And you would live a life without words and it would be amazing. And you will hang out with people, you know, but you can take it or leave it.

Yeah. Do you trust anyone? No, but no one. And it's not that I hang out with people, you know, I hire people, have a family, so I don't trust them or not trust them. I just live, whatever happens, fine. You want to do the right thing, fine. If you don't, you have a right to be wrong. I don't have a right to be mad at you for being wrong.

I just move on with my life. Interested. Live of simple life. Yeah, I think people are too easy to trust one another and then their extra facies they let down, right? And that's what happened when you're evil, when you're angry. Anger is evil. It's hatred. When you are angry, you can't see. And so your blindness, because you've been turned away from what is right, and your

blindness, you call good, evil, and evil good. So you trust people thinking that in your mind, you don't see that they're evil and you trust them. But if you were not angry, you would see who you're dealing with. They don't even know that you can see them, but you see who you're dealing with and you're protected from it. You hear about awareness. You think there's different levels of evil. Yeah. Evil, evil, evil, that evil.

I met some, uh, evil people, some demonic people. But it's a demonic evil person. It's the same as a nice mother. You know, you had a mother that, oh, she's just so nice. And she's so sweet. And you think that she's as evil as a demonic. Really? Yeah. Why?

Because evil is evil, and evil is cunning in a way it works. It could pretend to be nice, or it could be outright mean, you know, whatever. It put on an act to deceive me Right. Yeah, those are probably harder to deal with when they're putting on an axe There's at least if someone's evil to your face, you can do with a quick Not if you if you all help overcome the evil inside of you

Yeah, you can see him you see it and they don't know you see them. And you're going to deal with them perfectly. Well, you're being, I need to get to that level. You can, but you got to forgive your mother. I'm afraid of my mother. Me and my mother used to fight every day. Yeah. Yeah, every single day. Right. You got to forgive her because if not, you're going to end up marrying a woman

just like your mother, because you won't be able to get away from her. You would trash her to do what you hate. And this woman got to deceive you pretending like she's definitely your mother because you won't be able to get away from it. You attract it to what you hate. And this woman going to deceive you, pretending like she's definitely your mother. But as soon as you marry her, all hell is going to break each day. And you're going to end up like your father and she's going to screw your kids too. My father had two failed marriages, man. He paid a nerve because he hated mother. And every woman you get involved with is his mother.

She hated his mother, actually. Yeah, of course. Every man I heard, he hated his mother and every woman you get involved with is his mother. He hates his mother, actually. Yeah, of course. Every man on earth hates their mothers. Every woman hates their mother. That's why they become like their mothers. So the mothers have a lot of power. They have none. It's just that you think they do because you're angry and you're afraid of them.

Anyone that has anger has fear. And they're afraid to do what mama, right? Yeah. When I tell people, go and face your mother and just apologize for a recession of her, they're like, no, I can't do that. I'm afraid I can't do that. I'm like, but you gotta face the fear to overcome it. Fear is an illusion, right? And so don't let fear control you. You do what you gotta do anyway. And so a lot of them around the world, they go and face their mother and they call me back and they're like, wow, it wasn't what I thought it would be.

I was shaking in my boot, but I faced it and now the fear starts. But I'll do that this week then I'll talk her out. Are you serious? Yeah. I tried you then saying I'm willing to learn, you know, try it out. Just, hey, mother realized now that you can help yourself. Yeah, she watches every episode too. So, are you joking or are you serious?

I try to take one thing from every guest in the lives of my wife. Well, if you're serious and you truly apologize to her for resenting her, not for what you did, because you couldn't help yourself We became like her or apologize to her for Resenting her for being evil. She could not help herself her mother did it to her and God and if she said, oh, sorry You're right. I'm wrong. Sorry, that's nice. But she's like, oh no, he's your father It wasn't me or she said, I need to be forgiving you. I kind of crap her.

Let her say whatever she want. You know, say, hey, I'm just sorry for resenting you. Yeah, I realize now you can't help yourself. God will forgive you. That's why God said, go and forgive and I will forgive you. You need to admit you're wrong or hate her. And he will change your nature just like that.

And you will have an amazing life. Really? It become easy. Things that used to be important, wouldn't be important anymore. You'll be able to take it or even you have a perfect free purple bag. I'm excited about. Why was this shift for you, how old were you? I was 38 at the time.

When you forget your mother. Yes. 38. And I, I didn forget your mother? Yes. 38. I don't think. And I, I didn't know I resented my mother. I because my mother, see back a nice little Christian woman, you know, that woman I was in church to, right? Yeah.

And so she see like the nice woman. She had eight other children. Damn. That was normal back then. Oh yeah. It was normal. I had one aunt, she and her husband have either 15 or 16, then, oh crap.

That's like one a year until 40. And they born in Alabama had their own land and everything. And all of their children went, finished high school with the college and everything. But you don't hear about that from the black people. Nah, they're going to tell you, oh, it's so bad, they're going to suffer, doctor. But anyway, when I had the anger from my mother, I was very emotional. I had doubt, I had fear.

I didn't know what I wanted to do in life. And I had gone to church and I would ask the preachers, what's wrong with me? I'm not overcoming this thing. Yeah, oh, you need to pray some. You need to whatever. It's not working. So finally, I asked God to let me see myself.

Why am I so? I was praying to one day to date a lot, but I couldn't correct the one. And I couldn't live without her. So I weep with that. And whenever I broke up with a woman, I would have to have another woman waiting in the West waiting for me to break up with this woman because they were my gods.

And I didn't know it at the time. And so finally I asked God to let me see why I'm so emotional and what's wrong with me. And he allowed me to see that I resented my mother. I'm like, well, how, because I didn't know. I thought I loved her. Because emotion, I thought, oh, yeah. And I forgave her and everything changed.

Nice, that's horrible. I have no anger, I have fruit-built peace, and life is amazing. That's very, because anger can destroy your health. It destroyed every fiber of the body. Everything about you anger destroys it and it brings on loneliness, suicidal thoughts, worry, insecurity, fear, doubt Everything. There's nothing good in anger. No matter what the so-called level it is. Anger is aimless. There's no love.

Yeah, it's dangerous. I saw you say you when your child is 18 years old, you should leave them alone. 100%. And if you raise them in the right way, meaning you teach them to work, how to be independent kids, you know, let them speak up to be themselves. When they turn 18, they will be ready to leave home, you know, let him speak up, beat him sound. When they turned 18, they would be ready to leave home, you know, because down in Alabama, I was raised up,

everybody was raised that way for the most part. And my parents, all my grandparents especially, they say, well, when you turn 18, you're out of here. You know, I'm about to go on a prayer take, I'm like, where am I going? And my grandmother said, I don't know, I don't care go on a prior date. I'm like, where am I going? So, and my grandmother said, I don't know. I don't care. You're out of here.

And so when I turned 18, I left Alabama, went to Indiana. Got a job at Turets to make some money to come to California. I moved to California in 18. Made a lot of mistakes along the way, but I have not looked back. I started my own business before I started Bond and I didn't, I had never been taught how to start a business. I just wanted to start my own business. So I started my own business and then I sold that business. Nice. And then I started Bond, my not by bit. And it's been around now for 35 years and it's

just been amazing. It's wild. But that's what's gonna happen when you drop the anger. You gotta drop the anger otherwise you're gonna be afraid to live life. Yeah, it's awesome. Why'd you choose California? Well, I came out that summer. I have an uncle and aunt out here. They had invited me out this summer before I finished high school. And when I walked off the airplane, I fell in love with California.

It was like paradise. Like what the hell. Originally I was living in Atlanta, Georgia, but when I came here, I fell in love with California. That's why I came back. Most of the weather up here. Weather at that time, they had a lot of opportunities. Uh, there were no homeless people around. Really?

How? A few downtown, but that's about it. I can't picture that Yeah, how do a beautiful street stream? opportunities everywhere Opportunities everywhere and the crime would almost zero Wow a lot has changed yeah, yeah, holy crap almost zero and that has all changed because Holy crap. Almost zero.

And that has all changed because then California are voting in the wrong people. The never fat don't care about California. It was about money and power. And then women are voting in the wrong programs and things like that. Can you imagine they voted in a bill that would take bail bonds away and let the criminals out of prison.

So they they agreed to defund the police. What kind of sense of that make to look what's happening as we do. But California was beautiful at that time. Still beautiful. He said they asked a lot of crime and a lot of crime and homeless people. I feel safe when I'm walking out here. Yeah. No, you really have to wipe your back.

And also they voted in a female mayor. All right. That ring by now. Yeah. What a mess. I mean, you guys had to the fires really done. And I think, yeah, like terribly. And all she does is smile and she

all she does is smile and that she build places for homeless people. And homeless people are so evil and nasty. Have you seen how evil and nasty homeless people are? They feel entitled. They would go into your parking lot and they'll go through the trash cans and they'll dump everything out of the trash can and leave it there to walk away. Yeah. Because they've been spoiled.

They don't have to worry about anything the government took care of. Out here they're squatting. Well, yeah, the houses are staying in there. Can you imagine that? You have our government to think for that. I literally know people who they would like re-go into apartments and things and buy a new place. The homeless people move in and now these people have to go to court to fight the homeless people to get out.

That's crazy. Can't believe about it. In Texas, you could just pull up with your gun. Nice. Take care of it. Yeah. No one will arrest you. I know we need that back. And that's why we need to vote in the right people in California. Yeah, they used to have the last term, right?

This is it. Thank God. Yeah. Both of you guys, you had someone good. Yeah, that's going to be important. You live in the Vegas, then it's pretty cool up there. Yeah, Vegas is nice, man. No crime. We're like top 10 safest neighborhoods. Now you with the country. I have family members up there, sir.

Some kind of not bad, right? Yeah. You know, the night's up there. Good food. I just don't like it. It's cold up there, right? It's cold, though. I can all family members up there. So sometime I know about it. Yeah. You know, the nights up there. Good food. I just don't like it. You get cold in there, right? It's cold, though. I can't have that. You can't beat the weather here. Right. That's unbeatable. Yeah. That we would love hot weather.

Yeah. We don't love the winter. We don't love swimming. We don't love skiing. That's a hot ski. We don't love all that mass that you call it. Yeah, I'm bad too, I'm not. I'm not a fan of a bowl. Oh, you're not?

No. Nice, it's all crap. I like snow once in a while, but not every day. Would you ever, were women created to mean or to follow? Follow. Would you ever follow a woman? In what? Period. Period, like overall? Period. Would you ever follow a woman? In what?

Period. Period? Like overall? Period. Forward brain? No. New meaning. You know that there are men who even follow women?

Yes, they're called sex. And they're suffering as we go. Yeah. I never thought in growing up, and I'm old now, right? And I was a little bit in dirt, but you're not a pick up. God made me first, and then he made dirt from, so that I may walk out.

That's how I'll act. But I never imagined growing up, and men will follow women. The woman is supposed to obey the man, but the man is obeying the woman. I never thought that I would see that. It didn't seem possible. Yeah.

Well, OnlyFans is a big reason for that. What's that? You haven't heard of OnlyFans? I've kind of heard of them. These girls can sell their body. Oh yeah. I know, I swear. They make millions of dollars and then they defy these guys sending them money.

Because guys can't get laid anymore. Yeah, 40% of my generation are virgins. Amazing, isn't that crazy? I heard a report the other day that, well sorry, but that men from the age of 20, I believe I may be wrong, to 28 have never dated a woman. Whoa. Some of them, they're having their percentage rate off, but they have never dated or. Oh, some of the every having the percentage rate off,

but they have never dated a woman. That's crazy to me. I saw something good in there. No, but they are afraid of these women and because these women are nothing but bitches. Have you noticed that? I had a date in so long, man. I got lucky. But you do see a Mariah.

Yeah, I see them. You know, they're bitches. Some of them are mean, yeah. But they bitches. Yeah, I mean, some of them for sure. I'm not going to lie. What a bitch. Yeah.

What the? Well, LA just got voted the worst dating city in the country. Yes, sir. I'm not surprised. I didn't know that, but I'm not. I'm not surprised. And why are you not surprised? Well, first of all, super liberal.

So that's terrible. Second of all, people care about money and followers here. Yeah. So most guys don't hop up. So they're going after the top one percent man out here. So if you're a regular big, you're screwed. So what what I was suggested to man is that they got a show working on themselves. They got to overcome the anger. They got to overcome all that emotional stuff,

overcome their mothers so they can overcome their emotional stuff. And I promise them it would get bad, their natural nature of no fear. And they will want for nothing and their life would be amazing. And so what would happen is they would, the right kind of woman will be put into their life.

And if they should get married, they will have a marriage that will laugh into death through the park. Because they would not, they would not be obeying the woman. She would have to obey them. And they would know in advance if they should marry a woman up during the date of period. I tell men when they date, the first question is you go out to the cafe, you order food and while the food and drinks are coming,

your first question should be other than the food thing. Will you wish you get married? Will you obey me? And if she says no, get up and leave. Meet at the table, say bye. Because you're never going to have a good marriage if she's one obeyed. You tell all your guys to get prenups. I haven't said that.

No one asked me about that. For real? No. But I hear it all the time. You know, but I think people naturally doing that now. Maybe some of them are not, but most of them tend to be doing it already. Yeah, I'm getting one. Are you? Yeah. And so how long have you been dating?

For years. Really? That's a nice time. Yeah, I met her at 21. Nice. You're supposed to date at least seven years before you you can see because the women are tricking you. They're pretending to be a queer. I'm saying that. Yeah, they're pretending to be a green and this and that. And in seven years, you will know if this is the right one.

You know, yeah. Yeah, I wish you well with that, man. Yeah, thank you. I got married this year, so let's see what happens, man. Is she going to stay home and raise your children? Yeah. Nice. And she will obey you? I think so.

I'd take advice from her to my life. But what kind of range? She's a good at greeting people, but these women, they're intuitive. Yeah, what it is, because they're they're earthy. Women are earthy, right, because they're low to the ground because of nature and they can pick up evil and get right there.

Facts. If you can read so many of these, they're here. Men tend not to pick up evil, that is because they're from above, right? The women are from below, she tall. I don't pick up on it. It's still women to pick up evil like that. But once men overcome their mother,

they can pick it up too. You may be the sister spirit of evil. And again, they won't know you see it, but you will and it'll be your protection. That's cool. But do what you want, of course. But I would fire her if she could obey me or not. Yeah, I lost her. She's going to be cursed. You're a traditional type of marriage guy.

But that's the only thing that worked. I mean, look at these the way things are. Marriages are not working. They are not working. Oh, man. I counseled with men and women around the world married independent families and they are Reasonable You they don't know why they got married Yeah, and they get they get married and they start fighting the day after nine moon the night after it was over And all they do is fight. Yeah.

And they're like, Oh, I saw you love me. And I thought I love you. I thought you, and it's not true at all. There's a lot of sexless marriages. A what? Sexless marriages. Meaning what? So they're married, but they don't have sex. Really?

Yeah. And so what the perp began to marry then? No idea. Yeah. It's like 40% of something crazy high. The only reason you get married, if you want to have children, if you want a family, right? But if you don't want kids, there's no other reason for marriage.

There's no reason to get married. No. Wow. Yeah, I want kids. Yeah, I definitely. That's the only reason to get married. Some people say, oh, I get married because I don't be lonely. Or I don't want to grow old by myself. Why not? And if you're lonely, why not overcome loneliness? But why do you think some person got to help you to overcome loneliness? Right. That's not the way to overcome loneliness.

Overcome loneliness. It'd be fine. Yeah. But people think coming to Gallagher and Ameri, they're going to get rid of their loneliness, their sadness, that's not right. Just create more problems. I agree. You should overcome it without something on the outside. Definitely.

Jesse, it's been fun, man. Where could people find you? They could go to jessilepeuterson.com or rebuildandamere.com and I think jessileadputerson.com or rebuildingtheman.com. And I think this is awesome. Should I do my alcoz? Yeah, but I wore the incursive. You gotta drop the anger.

You're never gonna have perfect peas until you drop the anger. And you are responsible for your own life. As an adult, we're responsible for our kids, but every individual is responsible for your own life. As an adult, we're responsible for our kids, but every individual is responsible for their own life to overcome the hell within. And you, anyone that has anger, fear, doubt, loneliness, suicidal thoughts, worry,

and all that kind of mess, compare yourself to other jealousy, envy, and drive, you're living in hell. In hell, you can overcome all that. You can have perfect peace, but you gotta drop the anger. Love it. Check out the stuff guys.

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