Digital Social Hour - Why Sexual Energy Could Make or Break Your Success I Elisabeth Carson DSH #510

Episode Date: June 22, 2024

🔥 Ready to unlock the secret to unparalleled success? Dive into this electrifying conversation on the Digital Social Hour with Sean Kelly! 🚀 In this episode, we explore why sexual energy could make or break your success with the phenomenal Elisabeth Carson.  🌟 Elisabeth shares her transformative journey from the entertainment industry to becoming a passionate advocate for grounding and earthing. Discover how channeling sexual energy and practicing sexual transmutation can lead to enlightenment and manifest your deepest desires. 🌿✨ Elisabeth also opens up about her jaw-dropping travels to Cambodia and Bora Bora, and the profound impact of nature on her energy and wellbeing. Plus, she dishes on the importance of shadow work, ancestral trauma, and therapy, revealing how these elements can rejuvenate your life force and elevate your consciousness. 🌍💫 Join the conversation and gain insights that could revolutionize your life! Don't miss out on this powerful episode—watch now and subscribe for more insider secrets. 📺 Hit that subscribe button and stay tuned for more eye-opening stories on the Digital Social Hour with Sean Kelly! 🚀 #DigitalSocialHour #SeanKelly #Podcast #ElisabethCarson #SexualEnergy #Success #Grounding #Earthing #ShadowWork #Therapy #Travel #Insight #Manifestation #BrainHealth #SeanKelly #TherapyBenefits #Selfreflection #SexualEnergy CHAPTERS: 0:00 - Intro 0:39 - Elisabeth Carson on her dream wedding and traveling the world 2:06 - The importance of grounding and earthing 3:38 - Elisabeth's experience in the entertainment industry 5:03 - The importance of sexual energy and sexual transmutation 7:47 - Therapy vs shadow work - what's the difference 10:00 - What does shadow work look like 12:52 - Trauma can cause autoimmune diseases 15:37 - Self-sabotage 17:40 - The first step to consciousness is awareness 18:24 - The public education system is broken 20:00 - The Education System 22:10 - Video Games impact on brain 26:56 - Brain Scans and mental health 29:00 - Ancestral Trauma 30:10 - Past Trauma in Lineage 34:08 - Attachment Styles in relationships 35:20 - Love Languages explained 38:00 - Upcoming trips 39:05 - Where to find Elisabeth APPLY TO BE ON THE PODCAST: https://www.digitalsocialhour.com/application BUSINESS INQUIRIES/SPONSORS: [e-mail] SPONSORS: Deposyt Payment Processing: https://www.deposyt.com/seankelly GUEST: Elisabeth Carson https://www.instagram.com/elisabethicarson/ LISTEN ON: Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/digital-social-hour/id1676846015 Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/5Jn7LXarRlI8Hc0GtTn759 Sean Kelly Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/seanmikekelly/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

I've heard it's the strongest energy we have, right? Because it can make life. Yes, yes. So to be able to channel it. And there's certain people that purposely don't have sex at all. You know what I mean? Just so they can channel it. So they can use that energy to channel.

Right. Absolutely. Sexual transmutation, I think they call it. Yeah, I mean, people see God. You know, it's a real thing. When they... Or... People have seen God.

Really? From an... Oh, yeah. Oh, wow. Yeah. I can't relate to that. You become the oneness. Wherever you guys are watching this show i would truly appreciate it if you follow or subscribe it helps a lot with the algorithm it helps us get bigger and better guests and it helps us

grow the team truly means a lot thank you guys for supporting and here's the episode ladies and gentlemen we got elizabeth carson just got married to Billy. Yes. Yes, I did. I had to update the name because I had your old name. Last name. I know. They said Elizabeth Hookster out there. I was like, oh, it's Carson. Congrats.

Where'd you guys have the wedding at? We had it in Bora Bora, actually. Beautiful. Yeah. It was like a dream wedding, honestly. Nice. It was. Yeah.

Billy just came on. He said you guys traveled nine months last year. Oh, my God. We did a lot. We did a lot of traveling. I mean, it was like unreal, the amount of travel. Which location stood out to you as some of your favorites, you'd say? Okay, so I have to say Cambodia because I'm a nature girl. I love nature. I love being in the wilderness.

And I took the deepest breath of fresh air that I've ever taken in my life. Oh my God, it was great. So we walked through the jungle and I was sitting on the edge of this cliff, smiling in my own zone. Beautiful. Yeah, no, I loved it. We went to a waterfall, and it's just the feminine energy over there is so strong. And it just felt different to me. It kind of felt like I've had lives there or something, to be honest. Yeah, yeah.

It felt very familiar. And, yeah, I loved it. And, of course, Bora Bora. I've got to get out to both. Yes, you do. Yeah, I've never been to either of those. Cambodia's in Africa, right? Cambodia? Cambodia's in Asia. familiar and uh yeah i just i loved it and of course bora bora i gotta get out to both yes yeah i've never been to either of those cambodia is in africa right cambodia cambodia is in asia oh it's in asia wow why do i think oh okay yeah egypt is in africa i didn't know that okay there too we stay there for about a month last year actually nice yeah nothing like a good when i

go to jersey i get some fresh air because out here in the desert i mean not many trees so dry my lips be chapped every day but yeah i'd love to talk about the importance of grounding earthing and like what your procedure is for doing it oh my god so this has been a passion project for me since i found out about it and started doing it so i'm not talking about the kind of grounding where you're um you know sitting there and grounding your energy i I'm talking about the literal transfer of negative ions into the body, right? Which all of your cells in your body need electrons to function properly. So by grounding yourself to the Earth's surface,

because there's an abundance of negative ions all over the Earth's surface, hands to the ground, feet to the ground, you actually suck up all those electrons inside of your body. And by doing so, I mean, lowers inflammation within your body. It regulates your nervous system. If you're in a stress response, it will put your nervous system back into homeostasis. I mean, the effects of grounding have changed my life so significantly that I just, I mean, I've literally dedicated half of my work and things that I talk about to grounding because my end goal is to really ground more than a million people on the planet. And I know that we're well on our way to do so. I actually co-wrote a book with Olivia Smith from Earthing.

And she's partnered right with Clint Over, the man that rediscovered grounding in the late 1990s. We wrote a book together and it's out and now we're making it into a series. It's called The Mother Earth Effects. Beautiful. Yeah, a serious passion project for us. Yeah, that's cool. And I know you've had a total 360, right?

You used to be a model, an actress. You were in the entertainment industry. How long were you there? Wow. Well, I started modeling when I i was young probably about 15 years old and you know back when myspace okay i'm saying my age now so back when myspace was big i was kind i got big on myspace okay so um i became like the video vixen i was doing music videos and damn tv shows and magazine spreads i was traveling all over the was doing music videos and TV shows and magazine spreads. I was traveling all over the country doing like appearances and all this stuff. And yeah, that life, it was fun.

I think I stopped really working in it probably when I turned about 23, 24 years old. I got burnt out. Eight, nine years. That's a long time in the entertainment industry. Yeah. I mean, you must have seen some stuff there. Yeah, I definitely saw a lot of stuff. I saw a lot of stuff.

I mean, it was just the drugs and alcohol. It was a normal thing out there. Everywhere you went, every party you went to, it was like, hey, you want bump? So it was super normal. So all of that stuff is normalized, and it became really crazy for me to see. I remember I was at this one party, and it was just, I literally did feel like I was in hell's version on earth. It was really mad. Like, there were naked people walking around with plates of drugs on them, just orgy in this room, orgy in that room. It was, I was like, okay.

That is gross. A little much for me. Yeah, and I know you believe in sexual energy transfers, right? So sex is super intimate and you know, there's people out here sleeping with tons of people and you don't know what you're kind of absorbing Into your body, right? Yeah. Yeah. Well first let's talk about some stats the fact that syphilis is up 900 Damn, I didn't know that and it's just I mean stds for for you know teenagers and young adults right now has skyrocketed i mean it's like i was just looking at the stuff with billy there

i'm like i'm really glad i'm married right now i remember when i was at ruckers uh college syphilis the whole fraternity got it because this one girl crazy oh my god okay so that freaks me out but no it's just you know if people could understand how important sexual energy is and how powerful it is then a lot more people out here would be a lot careful more careful about who they share their bodies with because there is a transfer of energy there's an intertwining of energy and there's also you're taking on that person's trauma you're taking on that person's who they've been with trauma i mean it just goes it it gets very dirty and messy energetically and that's just energy let's talk about the body i mean your body gets intertwined with all these

different people and it's it's like an over amount a too high amount of stimulus coming in, right? And now your thoughts are messy, right? Your body feels junky. I mean, that's all energetic too. It's just, it can really mess people up. Absolutely. So both the man and the woman are absorbing it or is it one sided? I think both of the man and the woman absorb the energy when they intertwine with each other. And I think it's specifically stronger for a woman just because a man enters a woman right so we hold the temple so we're taking everything in i mean if people just knew

sexual energy it can be enlightening for people you can reach enlightenment through sexual energy so it's like why would you use this beautiful strong powerful manifesting energy and share it with the world yeah with people that are undeserving i've heard it's the strongest energy we have right because it can make life yes yes so to be able to channel it and there's certain people that purposely don't have sex at all you know what i mean just so they can channel that energy to channel right sexual transmutation i think they call it people see god you know it's it's a real thing when they orgasm, people have seen really from an orgasm.

Oh yeah. Oh wow. Yeah. You become, you become what that feeling, what the oneness, what the whole is because you literally lose yourself into this high vibe frequency and you feel everything you are.

You become the one. Damn, you'd be having some good sex out here. Get me there. Um, i want to talk about therapy right so that's that's a term that people throw around like if you have mental problems go to therapy right i've tried it personally didn't really work on me what's your take on the therapy industry so i believe therapy is is important i think it's really important um but not for the fact to rid yourself of trauma that you've taken on through your life and childhood trauma and ancestral trauma i think you have to go a little deeper than therapy but what therapy is good for is self-reflection so

what the therapist is doing for you is they're creating a mirror so you can then see which what's going on with yourself and you can then self-reflect because you know and then also when you think when you speak things out loud your brain hears it in a different way so you can actually think and and process that information on a whole different level when you're speaking it aloud instead of just keeping it in your mind right so i think it's good whereas you know you're being self-reflective and you're kind of speaking these things out loud and, and just, you know, kind of seeing yourself a little deeper, but I don't think that therapy necessarily can really, like I said, remove trauma from your body. Yeah, I agree. I think it's more surface level, but for the deeper stuff, the ancestral trauma,

you need some, some deeper work there. Yes. And is that what shadow work is? Yes, yes. So my work is based on shadow work because I've dove into shadow work. And what I've taken away from it is a brand new life, a brand new frequency, a brand new vibration. Wow. I'm now able to literally manifest things like that. I mean, I'm now able to literally manifest things like that. I mean, I'm living within my divine power. So through my own journey through of shadow work,

I've learned how to heal my mind and body. I mean, it's a continuous lifelong process. No one ever gets fully healed. But I mean, I've gone a long way than where I was at. Are you interested in coming on the Digital Social Hour podcast as a guest? Well, click the application link below in the description of this video. We are always looking for cool stories, cool entrepreneurs to talk to about business and life. Click the application link below. And here's the episode, guys. And basically just what shadow work is, I mean, it's shedding light where you might have turned off the light, right? So something happens to you, and let's say you're a kid and you get sexually abused or something.

For society and what is appropriate, we're conditioned, you know, stuff that you got to be strong. Don't look at that. That's going to mess you up. You have to keep going, going, going. And it's all of these different things that we're conditioned in, right? But really the power is to look at that to shed light where that shadow is so then you can process it and release it so that's that chain isn't holding you back anymore so people really have to do the the shadow work if they really want to grow in life period point blank i think it's the basis of everything of all

success and real success as in you're happy mentally you're at peace mentally yeah because you can be outwardly successful and have all the money and all the women and all the blah blah blah but are you really happy with yourself tons of people like that man they think money and girls are just the key to happiness and then they get it and they feel lost exactly exactly i've seen it so many times oh exactly my point yeah so what exactly does doing shadow work look like for people watching this that are interested in doing it? So shadow work, I mean, I wrote about 46 different ways to do shadow work in my book, The Recipe to Elevated Consciousness. But some modalities, what I've done is used a lot of modalities.

So when people used to tell me, stop being so stressed out, you know, just feel better. Just don't be so angry. Just don't be so stressed. It's like, OK, well, don't you think I would want to do that? Don't you think that if I could snap my finger, I could get out of that feeling? I could never do that. So what I started looking for and searching for are things to help you, things that will help assist you get out of these feelings. Right. are things to help you, things that will help assist you get out of these feelings, right? So one of the first modalities I did was brain training.

Specifically, it's neurofeedback or neurooptimal, my specific technology that I have. And what that does is it really puts a mirror up to your brain so your brain can see patterns that are not serving your highest good. So your brain is fixing itself in real time. And what you're doing is you're listening to music and it's doing skips, pauses, and interrupts. And you're literally just rewiring yourself while you're listening to this music.

And I kind of call it like a brain dump because it takes out all the unnecessary thought processes that you have. It helps with focus. It helps with anxiety and sleep. So, I mean, I would tell people to look for places that offer NeurOptimal. I mean, there's things that are free, like EFT, emotional freedom technique. So that's tapping on certain specific energetic points on your body

while saying an affirmation into the mirror, or you can even do it without a mirror. And what that's doing is it's rewiring your subconscious so that now you can process these things and let them go and learn to look at these traumas in a different way. So what's interesting is I've been through a lot in my life and I've had a lot of- That's an understatement, right? Yeah. I've had a lot of trauma, right? But I can talk about my trauma because it doesn't have an emotional charge on me anymore. Wow. There's no chains that are holding me from my past trauma because I've processed it. I've learned to release that trauma from my body.

So now I can speak about all the stuff that I pretty much went through without an emotional charge because I'm okay. I'm here in the present moment. And that's what shadow work does for you. It really brings people into the present moment with no judgment. Yeah. So everybody goes through things in their lives that have caused them to prejudge a moment, right? Triggers.

People call them triggers. Okay, because my ex cheated on me, you're going to cheat on me too. Facts. Trigger. And if I start seeing what my ex used to do in you, then you're cheating on me. So what it does, what the shadow work does, is it helps you to process and let all that stuff in the past go so you can come to the present moment, have no judgment, and literally not take those old triggers

and place them upon people who are undeserving. Yeah, I mean, it's really powerful stuff. So powerful because there's some people that live their whole lives with this trauma and they never get it off their shoulder. I know. And it eats away at their life force, right? Disease. Disease, yeah.

Disease. I mean, we're at an all-time high of autoimmune disease right now. And what is that? That's your body fighting against your body. It's not supposed to do that. We are intelligent beings. We have 73 trillion cells in our body that are working for us, right? They're supposed to be working for us.

I mean, without our conscious thought, we can pump blood to our heart. Our heart is beating all day. We breathe. I mean, these avatars that we are in are so powerful, so intelligent without us even having to think about it. So, I mean, if you think about like trauma, when you don't deal with it, it creates that inflammation within the system, within your body, and creates autoimmune disease. So many people are walking around with their bodies fighting each other, fighting themselves, because they have not gone through and processed these things. They have these emotional ties that are holding them back. Specifically, when your body goes into a fight or flight response and your nervous system goes into fight or flight, your body releases different hormones like cortisol and adrenaline.

And those are great hormones if you're running away from a threat and you need to get away from something or you need to stand and fight, right? But when the nervous system gets stuck in that response, then you're basically flooding those hormones all the time, creating inflammation inside of your body. And the basis of all autoimmune disease is inflammation. So think about it. I mean, when people are literally stressed out all day, their nervous systems are in fight or flight. Yes.

You basically believe a lot of people are self-sabotaging themselves. Yeah, absolutely. Without them even knowing. Unconsciously. Right. Unconsciously. I mean, I was the biggest self-sabotager. I was a self-sabotager until about eight years ago when you met billy uh well no it was before it was it was before i met

billy okay um but i i realized i became aware my eyes became open and i'm like wow why would i do this right self-sabotage is just it's it's just a response from trying to get out of the way that you feel. Right. So it's people that reach for something outside of themselves because they're trying to get away from that feeling. So to me, it was alcohol. It was drugs. I was feeling so empty inside. I literally felt like I had a physical hole in my gut when I was younger because I was just reaching for other things. I didn't have any love for myself. So I was filling that love, that love hole up with alcohol and drugs and parties. I was distracting myself from really where my power was, was to go inward and create that self-love within my own

self. So, I mean, a lot of people are stuck like this and they're running away from their past. They're running away from the pain because they think that by facing these things, it'll be too hard. Yeah. Which is sad because then they'll end up with debilitating health conditions. Super sad. I still people I see people partying still like in their 30s, 40s. And I'm like, wow, you know, everyone goes to that phase. Right.

I did it in my 20s for a bit, but it's not a sustainable way of living. No, no, it's not. And it's just, what are you searching for, right? What are you searching for by going to all these parties and drinking and doing all these drugs? I mean, really, really sit down and ask yourself that question. I mean, why am I having these drinks? Am I having these drinks just to have a good time and let loose for a little bit? Or am I having these drinks because I'm really anxious and I'm trying to calm myself down you have to really self-reflect and that's the beginning of the whole awareness and shadow work process and i think that's where people's egos get in the way too because they'll deny oh yeah but it's it's your own ego just you know

fighting back that you do have a problem you have to admit it yes exactly i mean the first step to consciousness awareness enlightenment is becoming aware that you know you are the cause of the things that you bring into your life and if you are full of drama and your life is full of drama well why are you attracting that drama yeah and drama you know being grown up in the public education system drama was something we looked for on a daily basis we wanted gossip we wanted to be with popular people or whatever and i feel like just the public system is is a proponent of that narrative yeah yeah i really i believe that i mean the public the public system all of these systems sean like i cannot with these systems, okay? I mean, unfortunately, my family was, one of the systems, the medical system, they ruined my family.

They not ruined it, but they kind of did at the end of the day. I mean, my dad, he died from knee surgery. Damn. Yeah. Knee surgery? Knee surgery. Did they give him too much anesthesia or something? Well, he got out of knee surgery, and a week later, he died because they gave him the wrong type of medication, which made his blood flow with blood.

And yeah, he keeled over and died from knee surgery. My brother has a kidney that's bad, right? So, well, both his kidneys went bad. So my mom actually donated her kidney to him when I was 16. And now that kidney has failed because kidneys don't last forever. And so now he's been on dialysis for eight years over something that a doctor could have fixed when he was like six years old. And then I watch these things and I watch it over and over again with different families and how this system has ruined so many families because it's a practice, right?

They're guessing and they never really get to the root of the problem it's symptomatic they always treat the symptom they never treat the system they never get to the root of what the issue is so i mean these these systems they're broken that way because you have the big dogs that are obviously gaining um from being able to keep people between sick and healthy. So they have to go back and get that prescription drug every single month. I mean, we all have a dollar on our foreheads. Yeah, we're just a number on a paper, right?

Exactly. So how can we get the most money? It's terrible. They tried putting me on ADD medication when I was like seven. Seven? Yeah. My mom was going to do it, actually. But one of my parents wanted to do it.

So I ended up not doing it, thankfully right i would have been a robot i mean i was already a robot in school and now imagine on medication on top of that i mean think about this right they tell kids to sit in a classroom for eight hours sit pay attention don't goof off you need to pay attention the whole time but don't do drugs drugs, right? But then when a kid is energetic and hyper and wants to learn and absorb and be creative, the system that shuts down their creativity. They punish it. Yes. And then they put them on drugs. Yep.

I got suspended, detention all the time, thinking I was a terrible kid. But in actuality, I was escaping from the system. Escaping, exactly. And they didn't want that. Yes. Yes. I mean, it's really terrible, to be honest. It's so old school. kid but in actuality i was escaping from the system exactly and they didn't want that yes yes i mean it's it's really terrible to be honest i it's so old school let me let me not say this is terrible doctors teachers they're all doing what they're trained to do so unconsciously they're participating in these systems that are broken and they've been broken for a really really long time

i think i mean we have to really figure out that that children they they live in the brain wave of creativity right they're alpha theta all day it's creative creative they're literal sponges yeah so why are we making them sit in one place and look at things on a board when they go home and they look on their phone they're playing on their pad look at all that stimulus going into the brain yeah right so it's when they go to school now it's even less they can even they can't even pay attention i can't even imagine now because yeah we were we didn't have smartphones when we were in school but yeah now it's must it must be terrible being a teacher bad so bad because you literally are battling with the pad and all these different games and all these video games i mean it's an

incredible amount of stimulus for a brain that has not adapted to that amount of stimulus they actually did a study on a child's brain the adolescent's brain after they got done playing two hours of video game and they compared their brain to an alcoholic's brain and it was the same what yes it was the same really from video games yes so it's like our brains have not adapted for the amount of stimulus that these pads and these screens and these games are are throwing at us i could see that because i i took a five-year break from video games and the day i came back i felt like i was so high yeah because all that adrenaline or whatever just like shooting in my head i literally felt like i was high yeah yeah i mean our dopamine receptors these days are getting literally they're getting overrun and just worn down yeah so it takes more and more

and more stimulus for people to become happy i mean i even see it unfortunately in my son he's 11 and he loves video games and i let him i have a time limit for him but i let him play because i'm not going to keep him from what society is is growing into right so i mean i let him play for a specific amount of time but i watch him and he cannot sit still there is no boredom with these kids these days because it's it's like torturous to them because the amount of stimulus and then you shut it down and then you have to look around and and create that amount of dopamine hitting yourself to feel good yeah i mean it's schools it's, it's schools are going to have to adopt their teaching styles. I think the class is shorter or something. Cause 40 minute periods are too long,

especially eight hour days, eight hour days. Does he go to public school right now? Yeah, he does. Are you going to keep them there? No, you know what?

I was, that's what I'm not going to do. Um, I was going to talk to a couple of my friends. Uh, they have their children in, in private schools, which Billy and I travel all the time. Yeah.

And I'm actually looking at getting in trouble because pulling my son out of school because I took him to Egypt. Right. He came to Egypt with us last year and missed about two weeks. And then he came to Bora Bora while we got married. And I will never. I don't care how many people I have to fight through this system, I will never make him miss a trip like Egypt,

climbing in pyramids and learning what he did out there to sit in a classroom that's teaching you one plus one on a chalkboard. Absolutely. It's just ridiculous to me. Oh, the school was pissed.

He missed a lot of these. Oh my God. They're really pissed. I mean, and it comes to a point where you actually have to go to court and they threaten you with jail time and all this type of crazy jail time for missing school yeah if your kid misses a certain amount of school it's a law

it's a law in florida that's so jokes yeah i think in jersey you could miss like 10 days or something but that's ridiculous i mean how much is my kid gonna learn in egypt compared to the classroom in a day you know what i'm saying it's, let's think a little deeper here, people. I mean, I absolutely will pull them out again if I were to take another Egypt trip or something like that. Yeah, I'm definitely not doing public school. No. I mean, I look at what happened with me

and it was just like terrible, honestly. Yeah, yeah. I mean, they make you feel bad. Yeah. They make you feel bad for being creative. I failed marketing class. Really? Now I have the number one marketing podcast in the world.

Oh, my God. See what I'm talking about? I mean, they just don't like when you're different, dude. No, no, they don't. They want you to fit in the mold because then you'll follow along, right? You'll be the sheep. You'll do what they tell you to do because they want you to stay unconscious. Yeah.

Literally as a walking reaction to what's happening. A walking reaction. I love that. That's what people are. They're walking reactions. Yeah, no, as a walking reaction to what's happening. A walking reaction. I love that. That's what people are. They're walking reactions. Yeah, no, for real. I look back at my first 20, probably 25 years just following the system. Oh, yeah.

Crazy. Oh, yeah. And doing what they tell you to do because it's the right thing to do, right? I mean, it's- Yeah, and it goes on a parental level, too, even though our parents love us. It's just like what they were taught, you know what I mean? Get a nine to five, and if you don't go to college you're a loser oh yeah especially you're asian right yeah yeah so yeah i was adopted but my parents were very strict with me on on school

and grades and because they were so strict with me when i was younger i completely rebelled wow all the way i was like screw school i was skipping school all. I mean, I almost got expelled out of this school. They put me in. They had to pull me out before I got expelled. It's like, you know, I was like, screw you. You were a wild Asian. You weren't studying on the weekends. No, I mean, I got good grades.

What I would do is I would skip school and then I would show up for tests and ASIM. Okay. I mean, I was always smart, but I just, I never liked to do the work. I just, you know. Yeah. The book Smart, it's cool. Like I respect respect it but i respect street smart more yeah like you have both yeah which is great yeah you know i mean you have to to be able to be a functional human in this well to be let me say to be a wolf in the community instead of a sheep and i follow along you have to be street

and book smart yeah yeah because i see people that are book smart but then they just suck at business yeah yeah you know what i mean like they'll get a marketing degree or whatever, and then they can't do anything. It makes sense to me. I have so many friends that have all these big degrees and I never finished and got a degree, but I have certificates in different things because it's appropriate. Right. I have a certificate from Harvard for cell biology because it's appropriate. I mean, I'm in Dr. Amen's course. This is brain health course right now. I want to take that brain scan. Oh, it's so good.

Yeah, yeah, the SPEC scan. You have to. I'm going to do that soon. Yeah, yeah, you have to. I mean, everybody jumping into this subject because this is like, the brain is everything, right? So think about people who are in prison and how many people,

how many of those people have a brain injury, right? That is a hardware problem, not a software problem. Like, for instance, there was a story about someone's nephew that was drawing pictures of guns and people hanging and blood gore. And he actually went onto the baseball field and punched this girl, right? So his parents were like, what the heck and they took him to get a spec scan found out that he had a a um like a tumor in his brain that was pushing on his left frontal lobe right so they got the tumor removed and then now he's a normal kid wow completely normally so think about the people in prison yeah and how many people snap and and do all these different crazy things right

is it a hardware problem is it a brain problem or is it you know because they're actually crazy i always think it has something to do with the hardware or with trauma i'd be curious we should get a brain scan to a prison test like 100 inmates and see what the ratio is absolutely and that'd be interesting because i know billy was talking about also ancestral trauma yeah 15 and 20 generations. Oh, yeah. That's why he said a lot of black people are actually still have a lot of anger because of slavery. Exactly. It's literally deep inside of your DNA. Like you incarnate into this vessel with trauma already from ancestors, which is so crazy.

And then you come through the birth canal and whether they hold you as a baby or look at you as a baby or whatever happens to you within that first couple moments of life can dictate how you feel and how you are for the rest of your life. So it's, I mean, this is hard. I mean, speaking from experience, I was adopted. So I literally went through a process where I re-experienced my birth again. And because I wanted to know, I have all these abandonment issues, right? And I'm like, why do I always feel so, like i'm literally dying when someone walks away from me or something it was just so deeply rooted so in doing shadow work i found out when i was born i never saw my mom i got ripped away i got immediately just placed down into this little crate type thing and kind of

ignored for the first three months of my life right wow i'm like wow it makes all the sense why i would have abandonment issues now yeah and so i mean it's it's it's so serious the trauma that we come into in this life already makes our lives a little bit more difficult because we have to create space between whatever stimulus is triggering and our response right that's how we become appropriate humans. Otherwise, you have people that are reacting and snaps, right, that show. People that are killing mofos because they got so triggered and they're out of their minds that they haul off and kill somebody

because they have no space between that stimulus and their response. So that's why the shadow work is so important because it creates that space so now even though i get triggered when i feel like someone's abandoning me i get that body feeling but now i have the space between that stimulus so i can make a decision like hey this is this is not babyhood you know this is not what's going on here this is just a normal woo-woo and move on from that feeling right and it is necessary necessary for people to do that work because i mean yes billy was talking about 15 generations of trauma i mean i know that i have past trauma in my lineage of starvation damn because of food like food gets so triggering to

me i mean it's an and i i study this work So I know when a trigger is like a normal trigger or when it's a real deep one. Yeah. And my parents always fed me growing up. So I never was starving ever growing up. So I'm like, where does this trigger come from? And I would bet you a million dollars that it goes deep into my lineage of, of past, you know, family members. Wow. That is crazy.

I had a past life where I died of a heart attack and i was super stressed uh taking care of my whole family yeah and i used to get like heart pain in this life like heart palpitations randomly and like pain and i got that cleared and i haven't had it since wow see that just gave me chills yeah doing past life work i highly recommend everyone do it because you never know what happened exactly you never know what happened. Exactly. You never know what happened. And like I said, once you can get rid of that emotional charge, subconsciously, unconsciously, or consciously, I mean, you are winning at that point. You get the power back once you can literally break free from those emotional chains. And we hold things in our subconscious. So, I mean, all of these abandonment issues that I was going through my whole life that was laid in my subconscious and only until i made that connection to hey what happened to me

when i was born maybe this could be something i mean i literally experienced the feelings as a baby coming through the canal and wanting my mother so bad right and not being able to have that that i know that that i mean those first, I mean, zero to seven, you're in theta, which is your subconscious, right? So you're being programmed for the rest of your life. So in those moments, I mean, those first moments here in this incarnation, I mean, ripped away from the only person that I wanted to be held and seen by, that created a lifelong subconscious trauma for me that I only could clear once I literally visited that part of myself.

Incredible. And being in the womb, you build a biological connection with your mother, right? So I know some adopted people seek out their old parents. Did you try to do that? No, I tried for a little while, but then it got to be a little bit too stressful. I didn't want to create stress in my life i just um i think it would be interesting to find my parents but then at the same time it's like you know i'm i understand what happened with it yeah yeah but i i do and i am in the process of writing a book about adoption and i think it's

important because a lot of adoptees come out and they don't understand why they have all these issues, why they're so rebellious, why they feel so bad sometimes, why they feel empty. And I believe and I truly believe after healing that part of myself that a lot of it has to do with the birth process, how they got given away. I mean, that's stamped into your body systems as like, hey, we don't want you. You're not good enough. I mean, this is what our consciousness tells ourselves. Two, we don't know these things. One, two, three, four, five.

We don't know that, no, this was an adult that probably had to do this for our better life. We can't tell ourselves that when we're that age. All we know is that the only person that we really cared about just abandoned us. It's tough. There was a girl in my high school that lived in a foster home. I didn't even know for months, but I could just tell she had so many abandonment issues because she gravitated towards me so quickly. She wanted to date and stuff quick.

And I was like, this is weird. But she just wanted someone there for her. Looking back, it's pretty sad. Yes, attachment issues. Our attachment styles are created at those ages from zero to seven so if we're abandoned then we're gonna have that anxious attachment style where it's like oh just just hold me please just be mine because we're so afraid to lose so we go we overcompensate for for attachments because we're so anxious that that person is gonna leave us like how we got left when we were little.

So all of these different people should study attachment styles. It plays a huge role in life, especially with partnerships, because an anxious attachment style usually always ends up with an avoidant attachment style, which is like a narcissist and a codependent person. I mean, this is a polarity polarity world right a yin yang world so you literally opposites usually attract and it can get really really toxic seen a ton of those yeah it gets bad yeah it's good to know your style because then you can understand your partner yes right because you think you're all the same but really you're not oh no when you take these tests you realize you have a certain love language they have a certain way of showing love you got to be in the middle exactly everyone is so different according

to the things that they have been through in life yeah so whereas i might say something that means something to me might mean something totally different to you right and it's like you know if you're going to be in a relationship with somebody it's so important to understand all of that about the person so you know at the end of, I mean, your main goal is to be with that person, right? So if they say something that's triggering to you and they don't, they're just off on their own doing their own thing. They're perfectly happy about it. They don't even understand. It's because they don't have your past experiences to create the perception of today's reality.

Yeah, I realized acts of service was my love language because growing up actually my parents never told me they told me that they loved me or gave me physical affection we never hugged each other so but on the other hand my fiance's love language is physical touch so i had to learn to start doing that you know what i mean so it took a while right i never experienced that going up right exactly i mean people it's so. A wife and a man can be together. A wife and a husband can be together. And the wife is, you know, I don't know, doing the dishes and cleaning up around the house and doing all this stuff. And the man is like, you don't love me.

You don't love me because I guess the man's love language is words of affirmation, which hers is acts of service so you can literally have that that butting of heads but you still at the end of the day love each other the same but it's like you don't understand that other person's love language at all because yours is completely different so it's so good that you were able to learn that with your fiance because i mean now you guys can understand each other on the same level. Yeah, I mean, people miss a lot. They become toxic in toxic situations and stay in them, and then they miss a lot because of communication issues. Yeah, those tests are so important,

and I also have all my friends take personality tests too. Yeah, oh yeah, that's important too. Yeah, there's some interesting ones. Yeah, that's important too. But what's interesting about shadow work is the fact that, and trauma work, is the fact that you can change these things with that type of work, right? You can change your personality. You can change your attachment style.

I was able to change my attachment style through shadow work. I used to have a horrible, anxious attachment style. And through my shadow work that I've done, I've learned to have a pretty normal attachment style now because I'm able to, I'm filled up and happy within myself. Because what shadow work does is it pours love back into you. So, I mean, when you're so filled up and powerful within yourself, it's like you really don't need all of these outer stimulus, this outer stimuli to make you feel any certain way because you're so strong within the way that you can make yourself feel absolutely i love that anything you're excited about this year any

upcoming trips or projects you're working on yes so we are taking a trip to turkey uh september 10th or september 1st through the 10th um we're taking about 70 people out to turkey and then in october we're taking a ton of people to egypt this year Nice. Which I hope that you'll be able to make it. I think I'm leaning towards yes. Really? Oh, my God. That would be so, I mean, it's a life-changing tour. Yeah.

Life-changing. Every single person that we've taken has agreed that it's a life-changing tour. It's a very spiritual place. Yeah. It's a really spiritual place. It's a very energetic place. And the connections that we have over there is unlike anybody else. So we can,

yeah, get you into places where people aren't allowed in and open up, you know, certain areas for private visits, which people don't really get to do. Yeah. I'm pretty pumped. The real question is how's the food there though?

Egyptian food. Okay. So, okay. It's okay. Oh, I'm a big foodie. This is hurting food. Okay. So, okay. It's okay. Oh, I'm a big foodie. This is hurting me. Okay.

Well, you know what? The food that we're going to source from our tours is going to be good because we have private chefs on our boats. And we'll get taken to really, really great local places. What we do recommend is people not to go outside of the places that we take them. Yeah. So, don't, like, go walking on the streets of Egypt And go trying street food I made that mistake in Bolivia

I got so sick I ate cow heart off a $2 grill Listen, our microbiome is not set up For these other countries I don't know what I was thinking there But the food that we provide Is good Alright, cool

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