Digital Social Hour - Why Your Dog’s Diet Might Be Making Them Sick | Antonio Diaz DSH #625
Episode Date: August 12, 2024🎥 Why Your Dog’s Diet Might Be Making Them Sick | Digital Social Hour with Sean Kelly 🐶 In this eye-opening episode of the Digital Social Hour, we dive deep into the world of dog diets wi...th Antonio Diaz, the founder of Leader of the Pack. 🐾 Ever wondered if your dog’s diet could be causing them more harm than good? You’re not alone! Antonio shares his wealth of knowledge, discussing common mistakes dog owners make, the importance of proper socialization, and how to tackle behavioral issues like reactivity and aggression. Tune in now as we explore: - The impact of raw diets on dog health 🥩 - The truth about kibble and commercial dog food 🥘 - Effective training techniques for better dog behavior 🐕🦺 - Real-life stories and expert advice to help you and your furry friend 🐾 Don’t miss out on this packed episode full of valuable insights that could transform your dog’s life! Join the conversation and share your experiences in the comments below. Watch now and subscribe for more insider secrets. 📺 Hit that subscribe button and stay tuned for more eye-opening stories on the Digital Social Hour with Sean Kelly! 🚀 #DogTrainingTechniques #WhatToFeedDogs #ImportanceOfSocializationForDogs #PetCareTips #DogHealth CHAPTERS: 00:00 - Intro 00:39 - Dog Parks 03:48 - Reactivity in Dogs 08:13 - Pandemic Puppies Impact 09:45 - Dog Breed Aggression 14:15 - Neutering Benefits 16:50 - Importance of Vaccines 17:58 - Canine Cancer Rates 21:04 - Experience in Dog Training 22:00 - Dog Dominance Behavior 24:55 - Crate Training Insights 28:15 - Training Aggressive Dogs 29:43 - Monitoring Your Dog 32:38 - Separation Anxiety Solutions 34:02 - Cesar Millan Training Techniques 35:42 - Finding Antonio 36:05 - Thanks for Watching APPLY TO BE ON THE PODCAST: https://www.digitalsocialhour.com/application BUSINESS INQUIRIES/SPONSORS: Jenna@DigitalSocialHour.com GUEST: Antonio Diaz https://www.instagram.com/leaderofthepacklv https://www.lotpk9training.com/ SPONSORS: Deposyt Payment Processing: https://www.deposyt.com/seankelly LISTEN ON: Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/digital-social-hour/id1676846015 Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/5Jn7LXarRlI8Hc0GtTn759 Sean Kelly Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/seanmikekelly/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
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I tell people all the time, I get that you don't feel good or you feel guilty about creating your dog.
And I did that with my shepherd, actually.
She was like 10 months old.
She messed up the house.
I thought I got robbed.
And my dog is sitting there just happy, and I'm looking at her, and I'm like, thank God they didn't take you.
And I'm like, wait a second.
They didn't take anything.
Oh, you did this. Now, I remember being so mad, but then I had to be mad at myself. I was
like, yeah, okay, you're mad at her, but she's a dog. You're the idiot who let her out.
All right, guys, we got Antonio Diaz here, founder, owner of Leader of the Pack. We're
going to talk dogs today. I'm excited. Yes, sir. Me too. Very important topic. I can talk about
them all day. Let's do it. Dude, there's a lot of people
not doing the right things with their dogs. That is a fact. When I go to dog parks, I get so nervous.
You go with your dog? I used to. I don't go anymore. Too many fights. We need to have a
conversation if you're still doing it. Yeah, man. Too many fights. Yeah, it's crazy. I actually
wanted to just go there and film and basically educate people on the progression of how fights break
out and it's really an issue and people don't even understand it because they don't realize that
people that are bringing people that are going there are bringing their crazy dogs who they
have no control over to the dog park because it's an enclosed area and they're just like this is the
only way that i can get my dog to expel energy yeah last time i went i brought my 35 pound mini
aussie immediately got in there 60
pound dog puts his chin on my dog's back and i was like that's probably a fight sign or something
right dominance dominance yeah so i just i left if i stayed it could have been yeah you know it's
no different than like you walking into a place and somebody walks up to you and puts their chest
up to you like what's up bro yeah you know it's really a lot of times dogs do it just to see what
kind of reaction they're going to get and whether or not, you know, a dog basically will say submits and just goes out.
I don't want any problems. And then other times dogs are like, yeah, I'm about that life. And then you have a fight that breaks out.
Yeah, it's terrible, man. Literally every time I've gone, I've seen a fight. It's not cool. They need to figure out how to optimize those better.
I mean, well, first of all, there are like a bunch of rules that are like I know the one at Desert Breeze Park here in Vegas.
You know, there's a whole bunch of rules there that I'm sure I know for a fact people aren't following.
Generally, what I teach, though, for my clients is to have a relationship with their dog so that they don't have to go to a dog park.
I want to be able to help people learn how to train their dog to a point where they can trust them at a regular park and have a relationship with them
to where they can either A, like throw a ball,
frisbee or whatever,
or maybe just let the dog sniff around,
but have trust at the same time.
So give the dog the freedom,
but have the trust and the ability to call them back to you
or put them in a down or something like that.
Yeah.
And I like that because I feel bad walking them on leashes
because I know they're dogs and they want to walk around.
So I really wish they could be off leash. I just don't know if they'll run away or something.
I mean, you know, training, but this is exactly what I do with my dogs. Anytime I work with a
dog, especially that I've, when I've done it with rescues, like my goal is always to get them
to be off leash because to me, I mean, it's just a beautiful thing to be able to
have that trust in your dog. And, and I honestly, I'll say this too. I don't think it's
appropriate for every dog to be off leash. I don't think it's appropriate
for every dog to be off leash. I think there are some dogs that unfortunately need to be leashed,
need to be physically controlled, um, for their best interests and those around them. But at the
same time, I think it's a worthy goal to have for anybody to have their dogs to be off leash and,
you know, have freedom, man. Like it's, it's really great to be able to do that.
Yeah. So both of your dogs, how many dogs do you have? Uh, right now I have four. So two, yeah. So two are,
so they're all my dogs, right. And my wife's, but, uh, we, so we have two Yorkies, which are
mainly like my wife's dogs. And then I have Brooklyn and Logan, a shepherd and a dingo,
uh, and they're my dogs. So those are like, you know, the dogs that I take with me with my,
on my sessions, help me with my clients. Um, and those are the dogs that I take with me with my, on my sessions, help me with my clients. Um, and those
are the dogs that most people know of on social media too. And what are some common problems you
see when people are coming to you with their dogs? Reactivity. Okay. Yeah. That would be the number
one thing. So, and that, so reactivity is like an umbrella term for what, what like aggression,
um, basically over, overreacting a lot of barking lunging and there's there's varying reasons
for why dogs are reactive but that's more or less like an umbrella term to describe it but yeah 100%
yeah my Aussie won't shut the hell up sometimes man I need to figure out why okay give me the
situation a lot of it's television okay so certain noises will trigger him for some reason got if you
hear something outside he'll do it but it's never aggressive yeah so how long have you how
how old was he when you got him uh i got him at eight weeks oh okay yeah how what was your
socialization time like period so he was uh attacked at a young age by a huge german shepherd
bit straight through his ear just climbing up the stairs the german shepherd just bit him for no
reason no reason and then he's been kind of scared since.
Plus COVID happened.
And then he wasn't really socializing often.
Gotcha.
So it's not that high.
I noticed he's good with girl dogs though.
Okay.
But he's not neutered.
Okay.
But in the house, he's barking at everything.
Everything.
Yeah.
I would say based on what you described, probably more like fear.
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just or i would say like a what the hell is that response i think so too yeah so his first
instinct is to just yap about it i mean honestly when it comes to situations like that the
i feel like the formula is fairly simple for most people that's a common issue too like barking um excessive barking and
what i would say to simplify my approach across the board it's i would break it down like this
as much as possible reward the dog for not for doing the right thing and in your case it would
be not reacting when he hears a noise recreating the scenario so try to make random noises happen yeah so that you can give him
feedback uh and then for me i'm not opposed to using corrections like for example and i get the
question a lot like what is a correction what's a meaningful correction and it really just depends
on the dog so uh a loud clap ah hey could be a correction maybe a leash or collar pop for
the dog um depending on the intensity of behaviors it could be an e-collar correction so but the idea
would be in your case and in many others is to recreate a scenario where you can get the dog to
potentially bark reward them for not doing it or give them a correction when they do it to let them know that's not going to work, knock it off.
But more times, I would say, for the most part,
90% of your feedback for your dog
should be positive reinforcement.
Just because, to me, it justifies any corrections that you give.
If you're constantly like, hey, good job.
Oh, that was good. Oh, I like that. That was good.
And then you put your foot down and go, absolutely not.
Knock that off.
To me, it makes more sense. Rather than just focusing all day on, don't do that, don't do that, don't do that. That was good. And then you put your foot down and go, absolutely not. Knock that off. To me, it makes more sense rather than just focusing all day on don't do that.
Don't do that.
Don't do that.
But I tell people it's just like anything else.
If you start a new job and all they do is tell you how much you suck and how many things
you did wrong, you're probably not going to want to go back to work there.
But if they were encouraging you and saying, hey, that's really great.
And then you make a mistake and they say, hey, don't do that.
That's not going to work for you.
We'll write you up if you do that that makes more sense that approach
is a lot more um i would say manageable and tolerable as a human being and it's the same
thing for dogs right and you saw a lot of puppies during the pandemic not socialized right so you
see them come up as adults kind of all over the place yeah they can't they don't know how to deal
with the world and honestly i feel there's a it's two parts to that right so during covid people
were obviously afraid to come out of the house or just felt more comfortable inside.
And then in addition to that, you have vets that recommend not taking the dog anywhere until
they're four months, 16 weeks, and all their vaccines have been taken care of. The issue
with that though, is that eight to 16 weeks is a very crucial time for socialization you need to
be getting the dog out you need to expose them to things and normalize everyday occurrences you know
a truck driving down the road a motorcycle kids yelling and screaming um strollers uh bicycles
scooters all these things that are normal to us even for example like we recently have a puppy
um that we got
from a family member because they couldn't deal with it but uh what was it like the the diamond
plated metal grates that are on the sidewalk diamond right okay um she was nervous of them
huh and so you know i help my wife we she's over it now but and i i often tell people like it's
little things like that, where a dog will
like, as if their life depended on it, avoid just that weird thing on the sidewalk. And that's just
to me, a lack of socialization and not normalizing it the right way, you know, but that, and now
imagine that same dog sees a motorcycle for the first time, they're going to freak out or every
time they see a kid, they freak out. So socialization is really,
really important. I love that. Now you're probably qualified to answer this next question because you've trained thousands of dogs, right? Yes. So there's that debate about like certain dog breeds
being more aggressive, like pit bulls and stuff. Are you a believer in that? Because certain
apartments won't even house pit bulls. Well, I would say that statistically we could say
on the record that that's true. But in my experience, I have a long list of dogs that have shown aggression.
And I've worked with pit bulls that aren't aggressive at all.
So I think statistically, if you look at what we're presented with, then I would agree with it.
But we have to take some things into consideration, right?
So, for example, how many dog bites aren't reported?
And it's more common, for example, so, and I'm going to walk you through this, right?
If a pit bull bites somebody, the severity with which that dog bites is a lot more versus, let's say, a golden retriever, typically.
If a kid gets bit by a golden retriever it's a family dog in certain households
that's not going to get reported so long as a kid didn't have to go to the hospital so in terms of
the frequency with which it happens i don't know if we can ever have a clear number on that right
you know but i would say look if i'm being completely honest with you if i walk into a
house and you have a if you have give me five dogs that are out of control
um one of them's a pit bull one of them's a rottweiler one of them's a german shepherd
one of them is a golden doodle and one of them is a um a pomeranian i'm probably going to be a
little bit more on guard than with the pit bull the rottweiler and the german shepherd for sure
because they're bigger yeah they're bigger they could do way more damage right so and i think that plays a role into it as well yeah that makes sense yeah
i never understood it i mean because i had my uh australian shepherds like 12.5 percent people
okay and when i was applying for apartments in la they were denying us just for that little percent
yeah i mean it's i would say that there is certainly a lot of hate on pitties, but again, I can understand it to a degree.
If you go online, you look up dog fights, a lot of the stuff you're going to see is pit bulls.
And again, I'm not saying that that is a hundred percent like, yeah, pit bulls are the worst, but you also have to understand a lot of these communities that these dogs come from.
They're, they're they're i would say
encouraging aggressive behavior and that's another thing two pitbulls are the most common dogs used
for dog fights so we have a long list of lineage that comes from the intentional uh you know
aggravating and aggressing the dogs so we're they're trying to create aggressive dogs and then
how do we know that two generations down the line when you get that little cute dog from the shelter that that dog
doesn't have the same genetic genetic yeah exactly right to be more aggressive wow um and there's
other there's a lot of things when there's when people talk about dogs that are like attacking
out of nowhere i don't know if i entirely agree with that because i feel like there's always some
subtle signs a lot of times people are just just so blind to interacting with a dog and then they
blame the dog. Matter of fact, there was a video I posted not that long ago of a little kid walking
up to a pit bull who was like on a street doing some sort of like little trick for his owner.
And the kid comes up with a water bottle and just hits the dog in the face. And then, you know,
he kind of, the kid gets shooed away a little bit but he comes back and does it again and in that moment if the dog he the dog ended up turning around and kind of
barking at the kid yeah but just imagine if he attacked the kid nobody would look at that scenario
and say the dog was provoked they would just go ah pit bull attack the kid pit bulls are terrible
of course you know and you know all these other things but i think that's important to bring to the conversation is what are people doing or not doing you know not excuse me
not respecting boundaries pushing the dog being aggressive with the dog and then the dog ends up
flipping the script and they get all the blame some of them get put down for attacking but
they got provoked yeah and they attacked so you mean just to kind of like round
like bring it back i'm not saying that there isn't an issue but for me i don't hold any particular
judgment towards dogs when i meet dogs when i walk into somebody's house if your dog is big
as hell i'm automatically and potentially aggressive i'm already gonna be like okay
i gotta be on my toes If they're smaller and aggressive,
but clearly less of a threat to me. Yeah. I'm going to be a little bit more relaxed. But for
me generally, I know that any dog has a propensity to bite. They have teeth, they could bite. And
that's kind of my take. So what's your take on neutering? So I have two male dogs. One of them's
neutered, one of them's not. And they say that the one that doesn't get it gets in more fights
or something statistically, right? Yeah. Well, I mean, the testosterone is going to be higher.
But here's my take on it.
If you're going to neuter your dog, I would say wait until they reach full maturity.
Okay.
So there's a veterinarian that I followed years ago.
Her name is Dr. Karen Becker.
She did a YouTube video about how she used to basically say to her clients,
in a nice way, like, hey,
if you don't spay or neuter your dog, go find another vet.
And years later, she realized that a lot of these dogs
were coming back with health issues
that were directly related to spaying and neutering
at a young age.
So generally for me, I tell people,
and I agree with her in when she speaks about,
if you're gonna be an irresponsible dog owner owner then you should probably neuter your dogs sooner because you don't want them running
around just getting everybody pregnant basically but we have enough problems with dogs and shelters
so we don't need more uh but for me if you're going to be responsible dog owner i would say
wait until the dogs reach full maturity now this this idea that neutering a dog is going to make
them less aggressive or less dominant isn't necessarily true and the reason being is
because we're talking about the potential for a habitual behavioral pattern right so if a dog
it's like saying you have a behavior pattern and now if we neuter you all of a sudden that's going
to change not necessarily your behavior your behavior
patterns have been ingrained in you that's you wake up you don't even think about these things
you're doing them subconsciously and i feel like it's the same way with dogs it is the same way
with dogs there are times where people neuter their dogs and it changes absolutely nothing
so there's no real scientific evidence that supports that neutering the dog will make them
like less dominant or less aggressive interesting yeah wow
it's kind of like 50 50 so there hasn't been any proof to say that it's true and there hasn't been
any proof to say that it isn't true it's just kind of like there's really no way to tell it's 50 50
i felt so bad i don't think i would do it again for future dogs i mean same i was convinced uh to
to spay my shepherd when she was six months so they basically you know i didn't know at the time
so and i i definitely regret that decision i would have not spayed i probably wouldn't have spay my shepherd when she was six months. So they basically, you know, I didn't know at the time. So,
and I, I definitely regret that decision. I would have not spayed. I probably wouldn't have spayed
her at all, or at least waited until she reached full maturity. But yeah, as soon as she had her
first cycle, she was six months old. I brought her in and they spayed her. And you know, there's
studies now that just show that, uh, there might be some long-term health issues because of that.
Yeah. These vets, man, similar to the Western doctors, right? Exactly.
No prevention. It's all put in a bandaid.
I don't know if I'm even a fan of all these vaccines that dogs are getting.
Same. Well, funny enough, I had a friend who actually,
her dog was vaccinated and then he had a vaccine injury,
had a seizure. Jesus. And what we ended up finding out,
or she found out, I should say is that uh from a holistic vet that
there's no dosage for each dog so in other words if you bring your two dogs so you have a hundred
pound dog and you have a 10 pound dog yeah and they're getting a vaccine they're going to get
the same exact what yeah it makes no sense it doesn't make any sense. So exactly. So why would we give the 10-pound dog the same amount, the same dose that we would give the 100-pound dog?
And then also there's recently, again, Dr. Karen Becker is another proponent of this.
She talks about the titer tests.
So there's a way to actually test dogs for the antibodies to see if they even need the vaccine or not.
Oh, wow.
Yeah.
So that's another thing that I think people are becoming more aware of and awake to that
you may not need to constantly get these updated vaccines for your dog.
Just check and see if they have the antibodies.
And if they do, why get them vaccinated?
Yeah.
It seems like the cancer rates in dogs are skyrocketing, man.
I heard one out of two by the time they die.
Yeah.
Well, and I think a lot of that comes into what they're consuming.
Yeah.
You know, people, again, and I'm all about this.
Like health-wise, just for me, very particular about what I eat, you know, being physically fit, et cetera.
And that definitely is applied to my dogs.
So they're on a raw diet.
Love their diet. I think they're on a raw diet um love love their diet i think they're
the healthiest dogs i know wow so no kibble all raw food correct yeah well and i'll be honest like
i do use kibble as a as a food reward for my dog so i use a high quality kibble um and and i take
that with me too like on my training sessions as well so where do you get the raw meat from uh from
from walmart really yeah so every pretty much everything that they eat comes from the grocery And I take that with me too, like on my training sessions as well. So where do you get the raw meat from? From Walmart.
Really?
Yeah.
So pretty much everything that they eat comes from the grocery store.
Bone-in chicken, leg quarters.
And then I have a veggie blend that I make them.
A bunch of different veggies, some oil, blueberry, flaxseed, chia seed,
mixed out all up.
And then I do like chicken gizzards, beef liver.
We feed mackerel,
pumpkin, Greek yogurt. But the main source of protein for them is going to be the bone-in leg quarters. Interesting. Yeah. I've got to look into that. My dog's allergic to,
one of them's allergic to chicken. And you can do other things like potentially venison,
lamb, get them from butchers. I mean, obviously it's going to be more expensive. A lot of people think that raw feeding is a lot more expensive. For me, I'm grateful and lucky
that I get to feed them chicken because it's obviously the least expensive of the meats.
I did a comparison a couple of years ago. And if let's just say you were by like a four average
12 pound bag of food with the kibble that I use versus the raw meat. I paid $4 per pound for
the kibble for the chicken and all the goodies. I paid $2 and 20 cents per pound. So, and in
addition to that, the health benefits are, I mean, priceless. I don't have to bring my dogs to the
vet as much. Um, they're yeah, just overall, it's awesome.
I love that.
Are you a believer in any supplements?
I know some people say CBD and stuff.
Yeah, so my wife handles all that
and recently made a video on that too.
We do ones for joints, the joint supplement.
Another one is just like a general nutrition.
It's just some extra vitamins and minerals.
And then I forget what the last one was, but enzymes.
I think enzymes.
So enzymes, the joint supplement, and then just like a general nutrition stuff.
Wow.
Yeah, I go hard with my dog health.
I don't even give them tap water anymore.
Yeah, same.
Crazy.
Yeah, I know.
I mean, but that's the age we live in, right?
People love their dogs.
And I think people are choosing to have dogs instead of have kids.
Right? we live in, right? People love their dogs. And, and I think people are choosing to have dogs instead of have kids. Yeah. Right. Which, you know, it's funny, but it's cool with me because I mean, dogs, the more people that have dogs in their life, the more people that need to learn
how to live with those dogs and give them a good life. So, and I think that's where the behavior
and the training comes in for me because I know how much people love their dogs and, um, and I
want to help them live really, really great lives with their dogs absolutely
so you've been doing this for a while yeah seven years eight i think it'll be eight years in august
um but this is my life this is this is what i was meant for people always ask me you know like how
long i've been doing it but i actually trained my first dog when i was like eight nine years old
yeah and i've loved dogs i remember having a thick book called the book of dogs and it was just like all these different breeds and i would just read it and i just loved
dogs i remember snuck a dog in my house when i was like three years old named a max remember that
vividly like three or four um yep no it was like it's crazy because i remember too uh there was a
big german shepherd like two houses down his name was name was Poncho. He was like, he was
the Sandlot dog. You ever seen the movie Sandlot? Yeah. He was that dog for me and my friends as a
kid. And then there was a little dog named Benji. And yeah, but just like, it's funny to me how I
remember this stuff. Like very, very good. You're like the dog whisperer. Yeah. Try to be. Yeah.
Some people have that sense where they can pretty much communicate with them. Yeah. I actually, so that's actually a whole nother topic.
Not something that I practice, I would say regularly.
There's certainly times where I'm working with dogs where I feel very influenced to like move a certain direction.
You can call it an instinct, you know, but I certainly try to, I very deeply try to understand where the dog is coming from
and understand their personality and sometimes you know i look at dogs and i'm like hey you know you
guys need to be a lot more guiding with your dog and more gentle and other times i meet dogs i'm
like yeah your dog's an asshole you know like he knows what he's doing he's manipulating all of you
and and it's not it's not to me too like just to clarify i'm not i don't look at dogs
as like these creatures that are constantly trying to dominate us there are dogs that display dominant
behavior but as a general uh description of dogs they are not trying to dominate us there are
they're uh manipulators and they are trying to learn what they can do in their life that benefits them.
And it's up to us to provide those boundaries for them.
They're opportunists, basically.
I say that all the time.
I can see that.
Yeah, they're 100% opportunists.
And some, just like people, though, just like the kid in high school who nobody really put him in his place,
so he walks around thinking he's all tough and bad, but he grows up and turns into an asshole.
And we can call him a dominant person
or he thinks he's an alpha or whatever,
but the reality is that he's never been put in check
and he's grown up to think
that this is the appropriate way to interact with people.
And I find the same thing with dogs.
Once they start to learn that,
hey, that's not going to work for you anymore,
then the whole dominance thing goes away. And they're like, ah, okay's not going to work for you anymore then the whole
dominance thing goes away and they're like ah okay right that doesn't work for me anymore i should do
this instead and we're like yeah that that helps a lot of the issues you're seeing are caused by
the owners actually not the dog yeah because i think dogs well and absolutely and the main reason
for that too is because we want dogs to live in our world if dogs didn't live in our world then
what what would we care what they were doing
right if they got into a fight if they were barking at each other nobody would care but
because it's our dog who wants to fight that dog we're like hey how do i get him to stop fighting
people or wanting to fight dogs i should say so and because we want them to live in our world we
have to teach them how to live in our world and i think too that everybody's world is different
you might want a different relationship than the next person. And you might say, Hey, I don't, I don't really
mind if, you know, when I asked my dog for a sit, if they lay down, but you know, Gary over here is
like, nah, man, if I say sit, I want my dog to sit. And those are the kinds of things that I
help people navigate through. Right. Sometimes people are like, I don't know, is this okay?
And I say, well, you tell me, is it okay? Because there's nothing inherently wrong about the behavior that's happening. It's just a matter
of how do you feel about it? And if you don't want it to happen, here are some things we can
do to make sure that it doesn't. And if you're okay with it, then let it, let it, let it fly.
Right. So what do you think of a crate training? Cause I love sleeping in bed with my dogs,
but I know some trainers are against that. No, I think crate training is great. Not opposed to
you sleeping with your dog. Again, that's a situation for me that I would say, if that's your thing, go for it.
But if you contacted me and you said, hey, you know, when my girl comes over, my dog won't let my girl in the bed.
What do I do?
I'm going to be like, you can't have him in the bed because it's I feel like that's a privilege now that has to be removed because of how it's gotten to his head.
Right.
He thinks he has
the right to tell your girl or anybody else that comes into your room that they can't come on that
bed and is that okay with you and if the answer is no then we need to do something about that right
but in general i think crate training is great because if you use it correctly you're giving
your dog a safe space to be in um you can teach them what i like to call down time which a lot
of people's
dogs have no concept of. In other words, they're just like on a hundred until they get exhausted
and then they turn it back on and then they get exhausted versus giving your dog an outlet and
then teaching them downtime, which is those times of the day, we're not going to do anything. We're
not going to interact with you. I just need you to chill. And I think a crate does that. Crate
also helps with preventing issues like destroying property, you know, the furniture,
chewing things, swallowing things.
I tell people all the time, I get that you don't feel good or you feel guilty about creating
your dog, but how would you feel if you came home and found out that your dog like chewed
on your socks, swallowed it, and now they suffocated and you walk in and you see your
dog laying there, you know?
And of course that's an extreme example, but why risk it? Error on the side of safety. You know, when you come home,
your dog is going to be there. You might feel a little guilty. That's okay. It means you have a
heart. I feel guilty sometimes, you know, but there's things that have to be done. It's like
having a kid and they want to go to the party and you tell them you can't go to the party and they
just hate life because of it. And they hate you too you too and you feel bad but you know that the wrong crowd is going to
be there you don't want to put your kid in that situation and as much as it hurts you to tell them
no you got to do it and to me it's the same exact thing with dogs like yeah of course i'd rather my
dog just frolic in the house while i'm gone you know and no and i did that with my shepherd actually she was like 10 months old she messed up the house she i thought i got robbed i came home and i was like
oh shit you know and then it just you know like that first of all that that feeling of like okay
i've been violated right and my dog is sitting there just happy and i'm looking at her and i'm
like thank god they didn't take you and i'm like, thank God they didn't take you. And I'm like, wait a second. They didn't take anything.
Oh, you did this.
And I remember this very vividly.
I left for work.
I was working on a strip and I looked at her.
She was in her crate and I was like, she's such a good dog.
And she's such a good dog.
And I was like, man, I feel bad.
You're doing good.
I'm like, I'm going to be gone probably for like six hours. All. And I was like, man, I feel bad. You're doing good. I'm like,
I'm going to be gone
probably for like six hours.
All right,
I'll let you out.
And I came home,
you know,
and she just,
she turned my couch
into a futon basically.
That was her one chance.
That was her one.
Yeah,
she did.
And I remember being so mad,
but then I had to be mad at myself.
I was like,
yeah,
okay,
you're mad at her,
but she's a dog.
You're the idiot who let her out.
You know,
you let your feelings get the best of you.
So when it comes to that, I always tell people that story because it it's like, look, I understand that I'm not a monster. I'm not just like cold blooded, like,
yeah, screw dogs. And I don't have that, that mentality. I don't think dogs need to like be
our, our servants. You know, um, I don't use terms like alpha and master to me. It's ridiculous. I
think of it more of like coexisting, but like with boundaries, you know,
I want you,
I want you to have a good life,
but you know,
you can't do certain things.
And it's as simple as that.
That makes sense. Just like kids.
Have you ever had to train a super aggressive dog where they were pretty much on site if they saw another dog or something?
Yeah,
actually,
um,
one that comes to mind,
a little pity mix.
She was,
uh,
the thing is,
is that the owner was letting the dog chase and kill rabbits because
they were like oh you know they're a dog yeah so the aggression was being fueled and now they
started to look at other moving animals as targets you know fair game and so yeah i use an e-collar
with that dog she did well um yeah big i mean right from the get-go just the correction helped and then
at first she was a little nervous of dogs because she thought the correction had something to do
with them but after some passing like i use my own dogs in training so i bring them with me
and she quickly was able to understand that it was her actions that were directly related to
the consequences and not just the presence of other dogs oh wow so you could play with dogs
now um well we had a session where she was interacting with my dog.
It went well.
But things like that, it's important for everybody to understand
that when you're dealing with behavioral issues
and patterns of behavior,
that we don't want to just be complacent too soon
and give too much trust too soon.
So moving forward, for me know our sessions had ended,
but I always leave people with an understanding that you still have to like monitor the dog and observe them.
A good example that I like to use is if you have a bad habit, let's say you're, you know,
scrolling on social media, smoking cigarettes or eating sweets,
you become like literally addicted to those things.
And there's no thought process,
you know, maybe you enter a room and immediately you think food or you think whatever phone or
cigarette or whatever the case is for dogs. It's the same thing. These, some of these triggers
become habitual patterns that to a degree, they don't have much control over. Well, what I like
to help teach a dog is to think about their actions, right? But we also have to understand that just like the person who's trying to quit smoking
cigarettes, there's going to be that urge that has to be addressed. The thing for dogs is that
there's no conscious ability for them to go, oh, this is a bad behavior. I need to be more mindful
of that. We are their consciousness. So we have to see it sort of, um, unfolding in
their mind by observing them very closely and then helping them redirect or cut it off, for example.
So, so they react emotionally and you kind of be exactly, you kind of got to be logic,
logical about it, which is why too, dog training and behavior modification. Isn't it's not,
it's simple and it's in, in like, for example, I mentioned earlier, you know, reward the good
behaviors, correct the bad ones.
And that's a very oversimplified example or description.
There is an emotional aspect that I think a lot of people aren't aware of when it comes to dog behavior,
which is why it's important to have a good relationship with your dog.
It's something that I preach regularly and consistently with my clients.
Right, and some dogs don't seem to respect their owner.
Yeah, because they never had to, there's never been any boundary. And just like young kids who
can kind of learn that they can push buttons and there's no, there's no consequences. It's the same
thing. Like I see dogs that just jump all over their owners, literally walk on top of them.
And, and I think, I honestly believe that dogs have, I would say at a basic level, like an understanding of the application of boundaries.
And then when there are no boundaries, because there are dogs, for example, who you watch another dog, try to step on top of them and they're going to go absolutely.
Yeah.
They're going to snap at them.
Other dogs will straight up fight.
And then other dogs are just there're yeah they don't care and i feel like you find the same types of personalities in people we're just you know dogs are walking over people or
they're going crazy and i ask them like hey does that bother you and they go no and i go okay
all right you know and if it's something that needs to be addressed i'll let them know but
for the most part i'm just like hey live your life with your dog how you like as long as the dog isn't going to be hurting anybody I'm not
really here to to change that I'm here to change the things and work on the things that you want
done and then we'll address anything on the outside that doesn't seem to have a role in that
and we'll address those if needed yeah how many people come to you with separation anxiety issues
with their dogs quite a bit but the truth, is that not that many dogs actually have separation anxiety. So, I mean, obviously there are dogs with it, but
for example, recently I had a, um, a client consultation that I did and the lady said
separation anxiety. So I said, okay, great. Um, what does the dog do? Describe the behavior. She
says, oh, I have a video for you. So I watched a video and she leaves her mom and dad are home
and the dog is at the door howling. And I'm like, not really, not really like the textbook definition of separation anxiety.
Obviously the dog's a little worked up because the owner left, but it's not anything that's
that difficult.
Separation anxiety in its truest form is, it's like probably one of the most difficult
things to work on because of the way that it has to be addressed.
Separation anxiety for a clear description for everybody
watching and listening it's like the dog literally goes into a panic attack and they cannot come out
of that until the owner comes back so they'll pee and poop like on themselves all over the house
they are destructive it's again a full-blown panic it's like scratching at the door unable to self-soothe
in any way that's what separation anxiety looks like you know dogs that are just whining a lot
when people leave it's not it could it continue on to be separating separation anxiety i would say
yes potentially but that in and of itself isn't necessarily separation anxiety yeah my mom's dog has food aggression okay and
uh i had to pin it once like the caesar milan technique where you pin the head to the ground
yeah and he doesn't even want to come near me now so i think i don't know if i went too hard
yeah possibly i mean i'm not a fan of that i'd be lying if i said i never used it more in the
more in like a self-defense i've had dogs that have come at me and i'll pin them to the ground
yeah um but that's that's the extent of my use of it.
I know that other trainers use it,
like Cesar Millan.
For me though, the thing with that too,
which is one of the reasons why I don't teach it,
is because not a lot of people can do that,
feel comfortable doing it.
And I think that if not done correctly,
then you leave yourself open.
Like you said, now the dog's afraid of you.
He won't even come near me now.
I feel terrible.
And then imagine that's your dog now,
and you were instructed to do that,
and now you have a relationship issue
where your dog's afraid of you.
I think there's a healthy boundary
or a healthy amount of fear
with regard to the relationship with dogs,
and just in general, even with humans.
A lot of times, there's a healthy... with regard to like the relationship with dogs and just in general, even with humans, you know,
a lot of times there's a health, like, for example, maybe you don't speed because you're afraid of getting a ticket. That's a healthy fear. Now, every time you get in your car,
are you, are you panicked about getting a ticket? No. And I would say that that is a healthy fear.
Same with a dog. Let's say who is not is not listening well the correction acts as a consequence enough
that's strong enough for the dog to go i don't like when that happens maybe i should do what
i've been taught to do that's what we're looking for right not a dog who's literally afraid to make
mistakes yeah so there'd be a big difference there yeah you know so a little healthy amount of fear
is i think good agreed yeah antonio it's been really insightful, man. I've learned a lot. Where can people get some dog training
lessons from you? Leaderofthepacklv.com, L-O-T-P-K-9 training.com. And then my Instagram
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Cool. So link it below, man. I'm going to sign up as well for my daughter. Appreciate it.
Look forward to it.
Yeah, man.
Cool. Thanks for watching, guys.
And I'll see you next time.
Peace.