Digital Social Hour - Why Your Manifestations Aren't Working (Fatal Mistakes) | Tiberius DSH #944
Episode Date: December 2, 2024Why aren't your manifestations working? 🤔 Tiberius, the master manifester with 9 million followers, reveals the fatal mistakes holding you back! 🚀 Discover the 3 types of pleasure and how they i...mpact your manifestation journey. From ancient Greek philosophy to modern manifestation techniques, this episode is packed with mind-blowing insights! 🧠✨ Tune in now as Tiberius shares his incredible journey from post-communist Romania to becoming a global manifestation expert. Learn how to overcome trauma, embrace anxiety, and tap into your authentic self. 💪 Don't miss out on the powerful techniques that can transform your life! Watch now and subscribe for more insider secrets on the Digital Social Hour with Sean Kelly! 📺 Hit that subscribe button and join the conversation about manifestation, personal growth, and unlocking your true potential. 🔓 Available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and YouTube. #DigitalSocialHour #Manifestation #LawOfAttraction #PersonalGrowth #jimrohn #mindsetmentor #nevillegoddard #abrahamhicks #spiritualgrowth CHAPTERS: 00:00 - Intro 01:03 - What is Epicureanism 05:55 - Is the Universe Punishing You? 08:45 - Overcoming Traumas Through Manifestation 10:35 - Trauma and Psychedelics 13:56 - Thoughts on Billy Carson 17:47 - Near-Death Experience Insights 19:57 - Understanding The Secret 22:19 - Naivety vs. Arrogance 23:51 - Starting Instagram Pages 29:43 - Common Problems in Life 34:00 - Effective Meditation Techniques 39:33 - Exploring Religions 40:23 - Understanding Spirit 42:50 - Where to Find Tiberius APPLY TO BE ON THE PODCAST: https://www.digitalsocialhour.com/application BUSINESS INQUIRIES/SPONSORS: jenna@digitalsocialhour.com GUEST: Tiberius https://www.instagram.com/tiberiuslive/ https://www.instagram.com/lawofattractionlive/ LISTEN ON: Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/digital-social-hour/id1676846015 Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/5Jn7LXarRlI8Hc0GtTn759 Sean Kelly Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/seanmikekelly/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
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There's three types of pleasures. The first type of pleasure is the natural pleasures.
Connect with like-minded people and make a community to support each other.
There's another type of pleasure is called the unnatural pleasures.
It is good to have them but don't put your happiness there because you might lose them.
And then he talked the three categories he said completely avoid as he called them vain pleasures.
Don't chase unlimited wealth or fame or power
because this will surely get you into a bad place.
All right guys, all the way from Bali,
we got Tiberius here today.
Thanks for coming on, man.
It's a pleasure. Thank you for having me
and for making the time.
Yeah, yeah, it was super last minute,
but I saw your page, you know, nine million followers.
So I knew you were doing something powerful.
Wanted to have you on here today.
Thank you.
And you are the master manifester, right?
Some people call me the law of attraction guy.
That's all I can say.
And yeah, sometimes I think I should step up
and own it more because things happen for sure.
Yeah, you attracted this interview. We were just talking.
I have, yeah. It's a synchronicity.
Yup. And you studied with Greek philosophers in Greece for a year, right?
Yeah, three years ago.
What was a big takeaway from that?
You know, I love the philosophy of Epicurus.
He created a system for self-help.
The first self-help system, he made it 2,300 years ago.
It's like a personal development program, like ancient one.
And I think it's very apropos to what's happening today
in the world, and he had this way of helping people
be happy.
And the main takeaway would be he had,
he proposed three types of pleasures.
He said humans are pleasure seeking organisms.
He said we can see kids, they are looking to be happy.
And some people say that epicureanism is like the antistoic,
but it's not true.
He was a lot into stoic principles
because he would say, look for pleasures,
but don't go partying or be hedonistic if this will take away the joy of tomorrow
So he would be like look for constant pleasures natural pleasures, and he said this he said look
There's three types of pleasures
The first type of pleasure is the natural pleasures and he said go and find your basic needs met, you know some modest shelter
Modest food he, study philosophy because
knowing yourself makes us makes you happier. Connect with like-minded people
and make a community to support each other. And then he said, put your
happiness here. And then he said, there's another type of pleasure, it's called the
unnatural pleasures. And he said, this is where you know you want to have maybe a
bigger house or chase some luxuries in life, like set some bigger goals.
He said, it's good to have them, but don't put your happiness there because you might lose them.
And if you lose them, you might lose your happiness.
And then he talked the three categories. He said, completely avoid as he called them vain pleasures.
And he said, don't try to control outside events or don't try to control other people or don't chase unlimited wealth
or fame or power because this will surely get you into a bad place.
So he said put your happiness in the first one, the natural ones, go into the unnatural
ones but don't put your happiness there and completely avoid the third ones.
So he had this system and he was teaching people, he had a community next to Athens. And yeah, so this was the base. And then he said avoid two types
of fears. He said avoid the fears of the gods. He said the gods don't have any
business with us here. They're not there somewhere in the sky trying to like
control our lives. And then he explained, you know, some things about the gods. And
then he said avoid the fear of death. He said we don't understand death as we are alive. When we die we're gonna figure it out but don't live in fear of
the gods and of death because it will take away from the happiness that we can
enjoy now by removing these fears. I love that. Yeah. I love that. I can relate with
that because I used to fear death growing up but now I've come to terms
with it but it took me like you you know 25 26 years. Mm-hmm
but a lot of people fear death a lot of people fear death and what I'm seeing in the
Manifestation world is that a lot of people are fearing that the universe
Right. The universe is rewarding you for you know
Visualizing or being in a certain vibration a lot of people are fearing that the universe is going to punish them for having I say
a bad thought or a bad vibration or bad emotion.
I get this a lot in our Instagram lives.
Like, how do I master my thoughts?
How do I control my thoughts?
Because I'm afraid that the universe is going to punish me.
And I said, look, this is a belief that's very counterproductive, because what we're basically saying is we're living in fear.
And if I'm living in fear, I'm living in flight or fight and I'm I'm suppressing my emotions and I'm repressing myself, right and
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it's one of the challenges people are dealing with in the manifestation world.
Yeah a ton of people live in fear and that could be by design you know. Yeah.
They could there's theories that certain groups want to rule through fear. I think
so but I also think there's the narrative in the manifestation self-help world.
I think there's just a lot of programs out there who say, okay, you're going to manifest
an amazing life if you learn how to master your thoughts.
And then if the person goes through the program and it doesn't work, some people might say,
yeah, well, you didn't master your thoughts.
That's why the program didn't work.
I think there's a lot of standards
in the programs out there that are just like
impossible to reach.
No, I agree.
Manifestation is a controversial thing these days.
It is, yeah.
And they might say, well,
have you done your affirmations every day for 30 days?
Oh, you missed a day?
Oh, I'm so sorry.
That's why it's like no refunds.
You know what I'm saying?
Yeah, yeah.
Yeah, that's where I draw the line.
When you're charging people and then blaming it on them
You know, yeah
You should just stand behind your product and refund them if they're asking for one and this is where a lot of my work
started happening because I was working for a big personal development company out there and
What's interesting I talked a lot about harmful concepts in manifestation
It was a lot of like I was selling a program that worked for me and the program had a guided visualization meditation that
really worked like it created miracles in my life. Wow. But then I would sell the
program to other people and then they would say hey that visualization is not
working for me like I'm getting anxiety when I'm trying to visualize. So then I
would talk to my superior and they would be like no they have to try harder
because this works they had to try harder. I'm like these people are having
anxiety try harder in what way. But then what I discovered is that this thing
worked for me because I had a similar psychological build-up as the person
that created the program. That's why the person that created the program
accepted me, he seemed to like me a lot.
He's like, oh, you remind me of how I was.
But then I started talking to people
and really listening to them, like, okay, you get anxiety
because you're trying this method.
How about we go on a walk together
and you visualize with your eyes open
and I'll be there next to you, I'll hold your hand.
It was over the phone.
Like, you know what, I'm feeling better.
Now I can visualize.
Now I can start opening myself up to new ideas.
And the thing is that we should teach people
how to lead themselves and how to figure out their own way
versus putting clear standards and clear rules
that might just like wall people in
instead of helping them express themselves. Yeah I love that. You've also
been able to use manifestation to help you overcome some traumas right? 100%
yeah. A lot of people have these traumas that they don't even realize whether
it's generational or from childhood. It's true and there are a lot of successful
people this is what I noticed in my in my work there are a lot of successful people.
This is what I noticed in my work.
There are successful people that are successful
in society's eyes because maybe they created a business
or they're making some money,
but they're driven by their need to get validation
or to get love by being special
or by trying to prove someone from childhood,
you know, I'm going to show you and and on one side it's good because like you have some
money and you create some success but inside they might feel insecure, they might feel
anxious and they never express that to the world. And we're living in a society that
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I see traumas or things from the past still made them feel bad and repressed themselves.
I did a brain scan recently and I found out I had some childhood trauma. So my goal this
year is to kind of figure that out and fix it. Well, I don't even know what it is. I think it might be abandonment
because I was an only child, didn't have many friends growing up.
So I need to figure that out. I think it's important.
Yeah, it is.
Yeah, and then there's the other side of it, generational trauma.
That side is I think tougher to identify because you don't know what happened in your past lives, right?
Did you have any generational trauma? I don't know if I had generational trauma. My luck was that I had so much obvious trauma
that I could pinpoint, you know, growing up. So that was a good thing. But in my work on,
let's say, healing and inner child work and, you know, trauma is that I used psychedelic medicine and
what I did understand and I found for sure is that those let's say types of
ceremonies they can take you in places where your conscious mind cannot you know
you can bring some memories to the surface and you can see oh this is why I
am like I am today because Because this is what happened.
And it can even go back into, let's say the generational ancestral.
Right.
So you did some ayahuasca.
I did ayahuasca, but what helped me the most was psilocybin ceremonies.
Really?
Yeah.
Mushrooms.
Mushrooms.
Wow.
I love mushrooms.
I might have to look into that.
I haven't done a full trip in a while, eight years.
It helped me.
I had mushrooms, I microdosed and I did it recreationally.
But since I've done it in a ceremonial way with shamans,
I stopped doing it recreationally.
Wow.
I'm like, this is just too powerful
just to like go and have some fun
and like watch the sunset and whatever.
I started respecting this so much.
Dang.
I still do microdose. I find that very powerful
But damn it's it's it's powerful. I love micro dosing. I think it's uh, it's like the best way of being productive
It is yeah. Yeah, you were so productive on it's way better than like Adderall or whatever. They're prescribing kids these days
Oh for sure. I'm not a fan of that pharmacy industry, you know?
Me neither.
It's not that big where I am.
Oh, really?
I think in Europe or in, now Indonesia.
It's not big in Bali?
Not at all, no.
Dang.
It's huge over here, everywhere.
Like so many people are on it.
Kids are on it now.
If you come to Bali, you're gonna see that
the average local person there
maybe has like 300 bucks a month salary damn even per household maybe but they're happier than most
people what yeah that's crazy to me so money's not the answer then no I mean
obviously not people think it is yeah I think people need to travel and
experience other cultures can learn a lot Do you think people were happier in ancient times, thousands of years ago?
I don't know what to say about that because if you look at the life expectancy,
it was a lot lower.
There was a lot more danger.
There was a lot more scarcity.
What I do feel is that maybe we're closer to nature in some sense.
We're more in our natural environment.
So maybe there wasn't so much depression
and anxiety like this today,
but there was a lot more like real risk.
Yeah, more fear maybe.
You could die from a wild animal.
You could die from your neighboring tribe
or you can die from an infection.
So I don't think it was easier back then or better.
I think it was a lot more natural and alive
in the sense that then were better. I think it was a lot more natural and alive. In the sense that dangers were there. And I'm just talking about known history.
I don't know about, like, you know, what Billy Carson would say from ancient civilization.
I don't go that far. I'm just looking at, you know, how we were like a few hundred years ago.
But yeah, nowadays we have some problems and some, you know, some mental health problems that weren't there a hundred years ago.
Hmm. You've done some collabs with Billy Carson, right?
Yeah.
What do you think of Billy?
He's fascinating to me.
I've known Billy since 2016, 2017.
Wow.
I used to take... the guy was sleeping like four hours a night.
Every time I'm texting him, he replies, I'm like, Billy, isn't it like 3 a.m. over there?
I just woke up.
I don't know.
He's onto it.
He's in the space of creating and responding so well to life.
I love it.
He's so centered.
And now he's exploding.
Yeah.
Joe Rogan.
Rogan, Andrew Schultz.
That's your show.
Yeah.
It's really cool to see him blow up
because I feel like I caught him right before he had that massive boom.
But you were there from 2016.
He wasn't even known back then.
Yeah, but he was doing some amazing work.
Like the way he was working and writing and creating.
And like he was very dedicated.
Dude, that's beautiful.
Did you watch the Anunnaki movie yet?
I haven't, no.
Yeah, it was really cool.
I can't wait to see the rest.
Shout out to Billy Carson, man.
I love his wife too. I haven't met. Yeah, it was really cool. I can't wait to see the rest. Shout out to Billy Carson, man I love his wife, too. I have I've haven't met her Wow. I I went on his first podcast two years ago
It was his first episode then I flew back to Bali
The the pockets got corrupted the sound sound or something
What and he was just about to go in and to get engaged with Elizabeth and I never met her
I was at his home in Florida.
Someone did not want that podcast airing.
You must have said something, man.
Maybe.
And he wanted to fly me back in.
Like Tiberius, I'm like, really, it's 30 hours.
I'm like, we'll do it another time.
Yeah, that's happened to me a few times
where I lost the audio and in my head,
I just think it wasn't meant to air.
I try not to dwell on it too hard.
Yeah yeah I'm the same.
I think everything happens for a reason.
100%.
Yeah good or bad.
I used to have victim mentality.
Did you have that too?
A lot yeah especially when I was talking about my past.
I got something from I mean I still talk about my past,
but I feel I talk it in a different way.
I was trying to get something, you know?
Now I'm like, hey, this is where I come from,
this is what happened, this is the good, this is the bad,
and that's it.
Energetically, it's from a different,
I'm communicating from a different point.
Back then, I was kind of trying to impress you with my story
or trying to get something, you know?
Now I'm like, this is it.
And it is what it is, and it's beautiful.
Nice.
Some of the most fulfilled people
have really traumatic past.
I noticed that with interviewing a lot of people,
almost all of them, all the successful people
had some sort of traumatic childhood or something.
I think something traumatic needs to happen
to take one person out of this like story,
like this mainstream story we all live in.
Like it had to happen to me,
like I grew up in post-communist Romania
and I grew up in a very like,
I would say insecure environment, you know.
A lot of moving around, my parents got divorced, I had some mental
conditions, I had to go for 12 surgeries. So this made me like a bit like, well, I'm
here but like I cannot really trust these people and like once every while something
like painful happens to me. So I grew up a lot of skepticism. So I'm watching around, I'm like, I don't trust this. So that was good because like I wasn't trusting the post communist
environment. And I was very attracted actually to American American like, cartoon, capitalism,
TV. Because like when I when I grew up, it just started coming in Romania. So I'm like,
okay, this is not okay. The mentality I'm living in is not okay. I would look in American TV as kind of like a mentorship thing, like, oh, this is better.
And grew up very skeptical. And I would always fight and debate like the religious system,
the hospital system being in hospitals, like they were really bad. But then what happened
was that, and I was like super atheist.
Oh, wow.
But then what happened in the seventh grade, I had like a near-death experience. I was with you
know when they they you have an appendix burst inside you? Yeah. You gotta like
get this surgery. Yeah. Very fast. I stayed with three days. What? Yeah. Three days
because I was in a really crappy hospital in a small town. I didn't have
someone to do surgery on me. me. You know what's interesting?
I had this near-death experience moment
where out of insurmountable pain I was feeling,
I went into this place where everything was very blissful.
And it's almost like I was talking to an entity,
but not with my voice.
It was more of a telepathic thing.
And I felt that I had a chance to choose,
to stay there or to go back.
But I knew that if I would go back, it would be very painful.
You know what's interesting?
In the third day when they did the surgery on me,
I had a little cross on a little bracelet.
I didn't know what the cross was.
But the nurse tried to take it out
when they put me on the operating table.
And I said, please don't take the cross away
because I will die if you take this away.
Because I would look at that cross and put all my mental strength into fighting.
And later I found out that that's the ISIS cross, the ISIS key of life.
What?
Yeah, yeah, yeah.
Later in life, I found out.
Years later.
Oh my gosh.
ISIS?
Yeah.
Like the terrorist organization?
No, like the Egyptian goddess.
Oh, Egyptian, oh, got it, okay.
Yeah, yeah, Billy knows about this.
God is crazy.
So it kind of like shifted me because I'm like,
okay, I grew up very skeptical, very pragmatical,
very like, hmm, testing and not trusting straight away.
Atheist, and then this whole thing changed my perspective.
I'm like, I left the hospital after a month and a half jeez
I was two weeks in the ER room, and I'm like okay. There's definitely something out there and
Then this whole I didn't tell people because I didn't want people to think I'm crazy back. Yeah in Romania in Romania
Yeah, you know they'll kill you for that right not really, but it's just like it was just one more reason to be like
Marginalized yeah, and you already didn't fit in right so if you said that you would have been totally ostracized really, but it's just like, it was just one more reason to be like marginalized. Yeah.
And you already didn't fit in, right?
So if you said that you would have been totally ostracized.
But this is something that kind of like led me to seek my own
path and my own truth.
When I was 19, I watched The Secret, right?
Yeah.
And until I watched The Secret, I was like, you know, I know
I'm ambitious, I know I can do things, but like, I didn't know
that there's power in our thoughts.
So then I watched The Secret, and this guy from The Secret,
Bob Proctor, maybe you met him.
He died a couple of years ago.
I never met him, but I saw him.
He was my mentor.
I used to work for him in Arizona.
I got one of his programs,
and I spent like a salary on the program back then.
And if you're Romanian, like,
you don't buy digital products.
Like, it was my, like, I was was like I saw the secret. I like this guy
I'm gonna I hope what he says is real
I bought his program and then I'm like I'm gonna follow what this guy says and he says this power in our thoughts
And he said we should set goals that scare and excite us at the same time
Because when we set goals like this
Then we're gonna challenge our potential and it has to be a goal that we don't know how to get
because this is what's gonna inspire us.
So I set some goals, just made a little bit of a list
of things that I want.
And as I was writing them, some things that I wanna manifest,
like moving to a better room, and I get a car, whatever,
I got his voice in my head saying,
wouldn't it be great if this guy, Bob Proctor, comes to head saying, wouldn't it be great if this guy Bob Proctor
comes to Romania?
And wouldn't it be great if I would go to America,
and I was 19 back then, to learn how to teach
this information to other people?
But then another voice said, it's impossible.
And then I caught myself in between.
I'm like, this is what this guy's talking about.
We have an inspiration, we have a big dream.
Like for a second second pops into our
mind and the next voice of limitation comes in and says it's impossible. And the
truth is that if I would look around, I had no money, I was 19, you can't even
get a visa to get to America, right? So in a rational way, everything was like
true, like it's impossible. But then he says, you gotta believe in that dream
and you gotta start doing things straight away.
So I just followed his program.
And like in less than one year,
I was on stage with him in Romania.
Then I moved to Arizona and worked for him.
Wow. Yeah.
That is crazy.
It was a quantum leap.
I got such a high level education.
I bet.
In this industry.
Yeah, that's the legend right there.
The fact that he came to Romania is. Yeah, that's the legend right there. The fact
that it came to Romania is pretty crazy because that's not a common
country for people to go to and speak. True, yeah. And we started like the
self-help industry. You know, right now in Romania there's a yearly event.
Gran Cardon goes there. Oh really? Jordan Peterson. In Romania? Yeah, yeah. Oh wow. I
forgot the name of the conference.
Yeah, 5,000 people.
Does Andrew Tate go there?
He just left.
Yeah.
Did you move out of Romania right after that?
You started working for him?
I moved out of Romania when I was 21.
And that was a big change, right?
Coming to US.
It was a huge change.
Like two years before that,
I was living in a forty dollar, forty
euro a month rent. Wow. It's like fifty dollars and I went from there to living in
Scottsdale Arizona is one thousand four hundred. It was a such a shift. It was
beautiful because like I think when you're young you can make quantum leaps.
I think when you're young, naivety helps.
Because if I would have went to a business consultant
and say, hey, I wanna bring Bob Proctor to Romania,
he would have said, go to school, bro.
But like, naivety and a little bit of arrogance
helped me a lot.
Because on one side I'm like,
I'm just gonna visualize and this is gonna happen.
And I was doing that and things started showing up for me.
Yeah.
And then on the other side, when people would tell me,
dude, you're crazy, I would say,
you don't know the secret.
So there's a little bit of arrogance,
like would push people away and the negative influences
and then a little bit of naivety
would be keeping me open-minded enough
so I can just like take the action steps.
That's a good balance.
Yeah.
And then when did you start the Instagram pages?
I started in 2015.
It's quite interesting because I was working in sales in Arizona for Bob.
And one day I was doing a meditation.
And this popped in my mind to reach one million people with information that can just like
wake them up a little bit.
Because this is how I started in Romania.
Like after I saw the secret, I'm like,
Romania needs this information
because we're a very rich country in human resources,
in natural resources, but like communism
and the system like keeps everyone down, right?
So I was like, okay, now I'm working in sales.
This is like my dream.
I was in the coaching department as well.
I was the youngest guy there.
But I had this meditation.
I'm like, I want to reach one million people.
And just based on working one-on-one with people,
I would have needed to live like 500 years
to achieve this goal.
And I'm like, I'm going to hold this idea in my mind.
And two weeks later, we were having an event in Phoenix
with Bob Proctor, it was called the 3% Club.
So it was like a half internet marketing event
and half Bob would teach mindset stuff.
And I didn't know much about internet marketing,
I was just like more into Bob stuff.
But then there was a guy on stage there and he said,
if you wanna start an online business,
you wanna run ads, don't run ads on Facebook,
this is 2011, he said run ads on Google because they're better targeted and blah blah blah blah. You know what I did?
I went home. I took a digital product from Joe Vitale. He's one of the speakers from The Secret and I put it on Facebook ads.
I did like the opposite what he said and I started getting clicks.
So I started playing with that. It'll be just like, you know, testing.
So I started playing with that, just like testing. And I'm like, I think people are gonna organize themselves
into communities around specific interests in the future.
So I started creating stuff on Facebook,
and then I started creating stuff on Instagram,
and it just grew basically.
Wow, that's crazy.
And I left the sales team, and I just got into
web development, because I need to learn all of this
so I can figure out how to do this better.
Yeah.
And you probably have one of the biggest pages
on Instagram now.
Yeah, yeah.
Especially in your space, it might be one of the biggest,
right?
It's the biggest, I would say.
On law of attraction manifestation,
and we have like amazing people.
I spoken to Hollywood celebrities for the page,
and I'm just a guy from Romania.
Crazy.
It's crazy how, even how synchronicities happen. A year ago, after
New Year's, Tarejee Hanson, she's a Hollywood actress. I love her for the
Curious Case of Benjamin Button, whatever. She reposted something from my page to
her page. And I was like, isn't this beautiful?
Wow and I followed her and sent her a text. But this is the crazy thing, and I don't know
how this happens, but the universe works in mysterious ways. Two weeks later, I was in
Bali. I was in the lobby getting ready to go to a hot yoga session, a Bikram yoga session.
And I'm there on a bench. And guess who walks in front of me? It's her.
Wow.
And I'm shocked.
When I get shocked I get a bit of asthmatic so I'm like taking a breath.
So I want to go in and talk to her, talk to her but in the same time I'm like you
know some people come here to heal, they need their privacy, she's a very famous person.
But then she stopped like six feet in front of me to a locker and I'm like so I took out my phone instead of approaching her, and I'm like, so I took out my
phone instead of approaching her, hey I'm your fan, I took out my phone and went to her,
I'm like, you follow my page. She's like what? You follow my page. Oh my god you're the
blow of attraction guy. She gave me a hug, we did a selfie, we did hot yoga
together. Yeah and after the after the session, she came to me and we had like
an emotional moment and she said, look, your page helped me a lot a year and a half ago.
I was going through a hard time and something from your page helped me. Keep doing what
you're doing. God's working for you. And I was shocked. I'm like, this is like way too
much for me because I'm like, I just came from nothing and from like Romania,
it's like nothing, right?
Yeah.
And I'm like, I'm just talking to this person
who's like, I'm a fan.
And I did something that impacted her.
This is amazing.
Crazy.
Yeah, you don't realize who you're reaching
with social media.
Yeah.
I get people messaging me coming up to me now.
It's amazing.
It's so interesting. A few weeks ago, I was people messaging me coming up to me now. It's it's amazing It's it's so interesting a few weeks ago
I was with my system in Bali and I started doing this realize but we're shadow band somehow
So instead of like getting like a thousand people on the live we were getting like 200
Mm-hmm, so I'm like, what can we do? We're shadow band. Anyway, I'll keep doing the life
so I did an Instagram live and
Connor McGregor
Popped on the live what?
and Conor McGregor popped on the live. What?
Yeah, I took a screenshot.
So I'm like, universe, on one side you're like,
not notifying people that are new in the lives,
on the other side, Conor McGregor pops,
I'm like, is this like, this has to be a simulation.
Well, he's big on manifestation too.
Yeah, he is.
Because he came from nothing
and manifested the best UFC career of all time,
it's financially at least. Yeah, yeah, and he openly talks about it He is because he came from nothing and manifested a the best UFC career of all time. It's a
Financially at least yeah. Yeah, and he he openly talks about it and visualizing a lot of attraction. Yeah. Yeah I watched his documentary is really inspiring. He really came from nothing man. Yeah, that is so cool. Yeah your journey
I feel like you're just getting started though. I
Think so. Yeah, I think you're gonna do some huge things. Thank you. There's always something new to do
there's always something new to like. There's always something new to discover,
to approach, and there's always something
to help people with.
One thing I do know is that I really listen to my community
and I don't take it lightly.
I listen to you.
If you have a problem, I'm not gonna say,
oh, go try harder or whatever.
I'm really gonna listen to you and to see if I can find a way to help you based on the level you have to get you
to maybe believe in yourself a bit more. Take a little micro step because sometimes that's
what we need.
Yeah. What are some common problems you're seeing from your community?
Like I said, people are living in fear, thinking the universe is going to punish them, the
whole overthinking. There's a lot of comparison going on.
People think that people on Instagram,
like the influencers, they have this perfect lives,
and they're like, well, I don't even know
how I'm ever gonna get them.
There's like the deep feeling of unworthiness.
And when I try to teach people,
and I would say this,
a paradigm shift that I teach people out and I would say this a paradigm shift that I teach people is to go from I'm broken or I don't know or I'm not good enough and someone for the
outside needs to teach me to all I need is within me now and this is a paradigm
we get from the schooling system because we're treated as being like there's a
word in Latin tabula rasa like empty and then people of authority need to fill us up with information but
then if you look at the word education we think that education means going to
school and going to college and getting a degree and then you're now you're
educated right education etymologically comes from the Latin word educo which
means to draw to develop from within.
So what I teach people is to understand that you are not broken, needing to be fixed. Don't
live your life looking from someone from the outside to give you something that will change
you. Start looking inside, start welcoming who you are. And I have some methodologies
from, youologies from which people
to feel safe in their bodies,
to stop running away from anxiety,
to stop shaming themselves,
to know how to talk to themselves.
And I'm like, look, all the major people,
take the religious leaders, the prophets,
like the Buddha, right?
What did they do?
They went in the forest, they meditated.
They went to the desert.
There's a lot of isolating yourself and going within.
They became the biggest name. They weren't like, well I read this book.
They were like, I went within. And I think if people
switch from like someone's gonna fix me or save me to like
okay there's an outer world and there's an inner world.
And I'm running away from this inner world because I think I'm not good enough, or I'm afraid of my fears, or
like all these things inside. Well if I learn how to relax myself, and how to
accept myself, and how to welcome all these parts, I'm gonna find there's some
really beautiful things inside, and there's some real treasures there.
Joseph Campbell said like the the cave you fair to enter contains the greater
treasure.
And this is where there's a lot of places inside
full of treasure, but we're afraid to go there.
Absolutely.
I agree.
My best ideas always come when I'm alone in nature
on vacation or whatever.
It's never when I'm actually working.
It's always when I'm alone, focused on my thoughts.
Yeah, it's powerful.
It's super powerful. Even Bill Gates, he dedicates I think hours a focused on my thoughts. Yeah, it's powerful. It's super powerful.
Even Bill Gates, he dedicates, I think,
hours a day just to thinking.
He blocks it off on his calendar.
I was watching Yuval Noah Harari,
who wrote Sapiens and Homo Deus.
He spends 60 or 90 days a year in Vipassana,
which is a silent style of yoga meditation.
Wow, that is crazy. Do you do yoga every day?
I do yoga not every day, but I do quite a bit. Okay, it's it's a thing there in Bali.
I need to start doing it more. I haven't done it in a while, but there's a lot of benefits it seems like.
Yeah, I used to go here to hot yoga to Vegas hot. I remember like five years or seven years. Oh, yeah
Yeah, I sprained my neck last time. I did hot yoga
Oh really? Yeah, I'm too competitive
The girls there are really flexible man. Yeah. Yeah, so I was the only guy there and I was trying to keep up with them
Strain my neck. Well, it's quite a competitive way of yoga
Yeah, I'm gonna ease into it
Probably start with beginner classes first. There's a style called yin yoga, which
I really don't like because I like the competitive one, but I really need because it just teaches
you how to relax and go very gently. I feel how I have trauma stuck in my body. I feel
it. And sometimes the very slow yoga, it just brings, it's just too much. It brings too much to the surface. Too slow, yeah.
I'd rather just go do crossfit style yoga.
I feel that.
Yeah, there's a lot of different styles.
You gotta figure out which one works well for you.
Do you meditate every day too?
I do meditate every day.
What's your technique for that?
I have a technique where I breathe
and I just start listening to myself
and I start welcoming everything.
So imagine taking 10 deep breaths. You inhale through your nose, you exhale through your mouth.
And then start noticing what's coming up. Might be some sadness coming up.
I'm just scanning my body. There might be some excitement coming up and some sadness at the same time.
There might be some joy coming up.
I could feel it in my chest,
but then a little bit of insecurity in my stomach.
Usually they're located in the body.
So I just welcome them and welcome them and welcome them
and I see them and I'm there with them.
And then what happens is like,
they relax and they get me into this
kind of like centered state.
It's quite beautiful.
That is interesting, I've never heard that technique.
It's a powerful technique, it's what I use
with the people I work with to get into a concept,
we call it the aligned self.
The premise is that, and it's supported by therapy and also
supported by spirituality, the premise is that there's a power within us that's
very resourceful, very loving, that's very compassionate, very forgiving, it's very
like playful and curious. And they talk about it in religion, like the higher
self, or the Buddha nature in Buddhism, or the Atman in Hinduism, or maybe if
you're a fan of Eckhart Tolle, he talks about the power of the in Buddhism, or the Atman in Hinduism, or maybe if you're a fan of Eckhart Tolle,
he talks about the power of the present moment,
or he talks about the space consciousness.
That's how he calls it.
Yeah.
But the thing is that this part of us is like,
deep down there, we don't access it
because we're run by a stressed mind usually, right?
So what I do is I get people to just relax by accepting every single part
that they have, not shaming or putting on a side or trying to escape. It's like
welcoming everything because there's a there's a message and there's there's
something beautiful that happens when I'm looking at my anxiety and instead of
saying oh this anxiety is bad I'm gonna go take a cold shower. I'm gonna say, hey I see you, I welcome you, I'm here with you, what's up?
Let's talk. Interesting. Maybe there's a part of me who, you know, I'm coming to a
podcast. A part of me is excited, I have something to share with the world, but
maybe there's a part of me who's insecure. Why? Because I'm a dude from
Romania, my English is not perfect, I'm very intimidated, you know, I grew up in
the system, so that part, I used to run away from it. Like this is not perfect. I'm very intimidated. You know, I grew up in the system. So so that part I used to run away from it. Like this is not good. I'm gonna go and prepare and it would work I could
Enhance my skills, but in the same time I'm dragging this part of me throughout like my journey and sometimes it can get a bit loud
Nowadays, I'm like hello anxiety
I'm here with you.
We want to go talk to that podcast.
How do you feel about it?
Okay, well I'm gonna meet with Sean.
I'm not gonna meet with the fifth grade teacher
that shamed you.
Okay?
Can we move here together?
We're gonna do something beautiful.
I want you to be there with me.
So I'm moving together with all these different parts in me
and I'm seeing them and this gets me
into this center state.
So you embrace the anxiety.
Yeah, instead of running away from it like everyone,
I used to do that, I still do it.
You embrace it and you kind of ask questions.
Yeah, and people are just amazed by it.
Oh my God, I feel so good, I feel so relaxed.
I got comments from newbies, like I feel enlightened.
Wow, I'll try it out.
And is there an audio for it,
or you just do it without any audio?
Usually I just do it live, but we can create an audio.
I can create one for you.
Yeah, I'd love to do that, man.
Yeah, my issue with most meditations is it's so long.
It's like 30 minutes to an hour,
and I have trouble just sitting still that long,
because I have ADHD.
Yeah, there's a lot of rules in
meditations usually. What we're doing is like getting the rules out, embracing,
accepting. I think there's beauty in that. And when we do that we start
following our own beat. Yeah. I feel it's another thing I see in
manifestation all these rules that people feel they need to they need to
Subscribe to you know I need to write down things in the present tense because if I write it in the
Dude there's super successful people out there who never wrote anything down in life
And who never set any goal and it's happening
It's there's not like a formula you know but the industry likes a formula because that's what sells.
Easy to sell, yeah, manifestation journals.
Yeah, right. So I'm like, just welcome everything, you know. You want to come to our group session,
come as you are. You don't have to prime yourself, you don't have to do push-ups and like breathing come as you are come sad come tired come let's learn how to be okay with ourselves because
when we're kids were okay with ourselves and then society conditions us to be
like this shameful yeah I think religion is a big part of that yeah religion and
and the way like we're being like mentored in the way we receive love
mm-hmm right so what I'm about like, let's just relax a little bit.
Let's welcome everything because this will get us
to feel safe in our body.
And this will get us to tune in more to our intuition.
And this will help us to make better decisions
based on how we feel and how we are versus,
oh, I should be like this, or I should be like that.
This is like being yourself.
Absolutely. So you mentioned you were atheist growing up. You've probably studied a ton of religions and philosophies now
Is there something you gravitate towards?
Really I think all religions have some similar points
One thing I do gravitate towards is this nexus. I would say, of this divine self that's within.
I'm really curious about what are the easiest ways to get myself and to get people to be in this place of alignment.
I call it the aligned self. You can microdose and get into the aligned self.
You can do the type of meditation I was talking about, you know, there's just different ways to do it.
And like what I'm curious about is like, what's the simplest way to get there?
And how can I teach this to someone else that they feel empowered to do this and to share it with other people?
Love it. It's nice and simple. Do you believe in a spirit, soul?
I do believe in a soul. I feel we are a soul and we're in this beautiful human body.
It's a beautiful mechanism.
I feel that everything we try to do in life is great to do things in life and to achieve.
But I think what we're trying to do in life is nothing compared to what we already have.
Like as we're talking right now, there's like 50 million cells being replenished. Right.
And like this whole computer system that's like our nervous system and so on.
It's like amazing.
It's a miracle.
So one thing which I feel is good is to like really live with this a little bit.
Like I have this amazing miraculous organism.
Like what can I do with it?
Right.
And we have a soul.
And we also have different stories
that we like to play, different archetypes.
So I'm a soul, the soul is unlimited,
it's like it's here.
And then how can I navigate through life,
building beautiful relationships
with different parts of me?
Like I have an achiever inside me. Let's say this
person that wants to achieve and go and conquer the world, a warrior. But I also
have a very empathic side. I also have a person inside me that likes to dance. And
there's just different parts of me. And usually this this part can get into
conflict because the warrior says no. life is about going and like showing who you are
and like making a change in the world.
And children of dancers like yo,
life is about dancing and connecting
and they can fight.
So now I'm like, I'm not any of this.
I'm a soul, I have these parts,
I have these stories that I play in life,
I have these archetypes that I play. What can I do, parts, I have these stories that I play in life, I have these archetypes
that I play.
What can I do, how should I behave in order to make one big beautiful family inside of
me?
That's...
Almost like a puzzle.
Yeah.
Yeah, that's cool.
Yeah, I could see that because certain activities really make you feel good, right?
Yeah.
And that could be your soul, maybe past lives,
I don't know how to explain it, but.
It can be a soul, it can be an archetype,
it can be a talent, it can be many things.
What's important is to listen to them
and to find out what they need.
And I think there's time for everything.
There's time for entrepreneurialism,
there's time for philosophy, there's time for everything.
I love that.
Tiberius, it's been really fun, man.
What do you have coming up next and where can people find your pages?
At Law of Attraction Live, it's our community page.
At Tiberius Live is my personal page.
And we're launching a method soon, it's called Authentic Manifesting.
It's gonna be promoted on the page.
Nice.
Looking forward to it.
Hopefully it's out when we launch this.
We'll link everything below.
Thank you so much. Yeah, thanks for watching out when we launch this. We'll link everything below. Thank you so much.
Yeah, thanks for watching guys as always.
See you tomorrow.