Dinner’s on Me with Jesse Tyler Ferguson - Justice Smith — on surviving high school and not giving a damn at 30
Episode Date: December 2, 2025‘Now You See Me, Now You Don’t’ star Justice Smith joins the show. Over chicken schnitzel and avocado confit, Justice tells me about his what it was like growing up with 8 siblings, how it was ...to be one of the only Black kids at a performing arts high school in OC, and how he found confidence — and clarity — around identity as he entered his 30s. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
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Today on the show, you know him from films. I saw The TV Glow, Detective Pikachu, and the HBO
Max series, Generation.
His latest film is Now You See Me, Now You Don't.
It's Justice Smith.
Have you gone to any high school reading yet?
Yes, I just went to my tenure.
Oh my God, tell me about that.
I literally went just to rub my success in everybody's face.
Thank you.
I'm so glad you said that.
Thank you.
This is Dinner's On Me, and I'm your host, Jesse Tyler Ferguson.
I became a fan of Justices when I started
watching the TV show Generation.
I had seen him on his previous show, The Lowdown, which I also loved.
And I was really taken by him.
I think he's such an interesting actor.
And also, he's a really good Instagram follow.
His looks on the red carpet are kind of iconic.
So I'm really excited to meet him as he's doing press for his new film.
Now You See Me, Now You Don't, which I'm a big fan of that franchise as well.
Today, I'm at Destroyer in Culver City.
I have been dying to feature it ever since I saw a critic say that it was strange, beautiful, and tasted like nothing else in town.
How's that for our review?
Destroyer is tucked into the Hayden tract of Culver City.
It's got that artsy, slightly industrial edge.
It's the kind of spot where the food looks like art, but doesn't take itself too seriously.
What makes Destroyer special is how it bridges worlds, the fine dining imagination of chef Jordan Khan,
who many foodies know from Vespartine,
with a lunch and brunch model that keeps it accessible.
You can order something like their famous avocado confi
or chicken schnitzel, which I'm pretty sure I'm going to end up getting,
and still walk out without breaking 30 bucks.
I thought Destroyer would be the perfect spot to bring my guest, Justice Smith.
Like this place, he's someone who lives between worlds,
thoughtful but playful, polished but never too serious.
Whether he's in a massive blockbuster or a quirky A-24 film,
he shows up with that same curiosity and openness
that makes his work so magnetic.
All right, let's get to the conversation.
You just had a big birthday.
I did.
30.
A few months ago, right?
Yeah.
Yeah.
I'm born in 75, so I have a 50th coming in like next week.
Oh, wow.
And my husband is, thank you, 10 years younger than me.
he just celebrated 40, and how do you feel about turning 30?
I feel young again.
Oh, that's interesting.
29, I felt really old.
Why?
I don't know.
It's just 29 is older than 30, I think.
Is it?
Because it's the oldest of the 20s.
Okay.
But 30, you're the youngest of the 30s.
Okay, I get it.
So all my friends who are in their 30s, I'm, like, still a baby.
Uh-huh.
Whereas if I hang out with, like, when I was 29, I was hanging out with, like, 25-year-olds, I was like, oh, I'm the wise one.
Yeah.
Hi.
Hello, how are you?
Doing great.
Are we ready for drinks?
Sure.
Do you know what you want to eat?
Yeah.
I do.
I do ready for everything.
All right.
I am going to start with this Yuzu ginger tonic.
Perfect.
Juicy ginger.
And I think I'm to do the chicken schnitzel.
Perfect.
One chicken schnitzel, ginger tonic.
What's that?
What is a Yuzu ginger tonic?
Jusu ginger tonic.
We make a syrup out of Jusu and fresh ginger.
Jusu is like a Japanese citrus.
And then we serve that with sparkling water.
Okay.
It's our version.
I'll try that too.
Awesome.
And then I wanted to get the loaded avocado confi.
That's like what, an avocado toast?
Yeah, it's our version of an avocado.
We just serve it deconstructed.
So it's an avocado top with burnt onion powder, puffed death.
We serve it with a lot of goodies on the side.
Can I get it without arugula?
Yeah, of course.
Would you want to do a Kelvin step or just no greens?
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All right, cool.
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Okay, thank you.
My sister who's like two years older than me,
uh-huh.
She would, she told me a lot, like, being 30 is, like, you finally, like, don't give a fuck anymore about, like, impressing people.
That is true.
Like, a lot of being in your 20s is, like, well, thinking that, like, there's something wrong with you and you have to, like, grow and, like, bridge the gap between you and other people.
And, like, 30 is, like, a real acceptance of, like, oh, no, this is me.
Yeah.
And I actually just want to surround with myself.
Yeah, well, you figure out who you are in your 20s, yeah.
Yeah.
You have a lot of siblings, right?
Yeah.
What do you sit in that line of siblings?
I'm the exact middle.
I have four older and four younger.
How's your oldest sibling?
The oldest is she's 45, I think.
46.
I want to say.
Yeah.
And the youngest is 16.
Oh, my God.
Yeah.
My dad is a whore.
My dad gets around.
Wait.
Your dad and mom have.
been together for, are they still together?
No, no, no, no.
They're not, okay, okay.
So all my siblings are from my dad.
Got it.
I only have one sibling who's like my full sibling.
Got it.
From both my parents.
Got it.
Is anyone else in the industry?
Yeah, my old, one of my older sister, she was a dancer and a choreographer for a long time.
Okay.
For a long time.
She was like a backup dancer for Janet Jackson.
And then both my parents were singers, so they were in the arts.
How did your parents mean?
In Japan.
They, my dad was out there, I think, singing in bars and stuff, I think.
And then she met my dad in a club or a bar or something.
And they dated for a little bit.
And then she's like, all right, I'm over this guy.
And then, like, a month or two later, she had to renew her visa in Korea in order to work in Japan.
She goes to Korea and at the renewal office or whatever.
She runs into my dad again, who's renewing his visa.
And it just so happened that they were both staying at the same hotel in Korea.
So it was literally, like, fate that they, like, met up again in a completely different country.
Totally.
At the exact same time.
And then from there, they just, like, came back to America together.
And then you moved to Orange County.
Yeah, so after my parents divorced, they were, like, living in Silmar for some time.
That's where I was born.
And then my mom moved to Orange County.
What did they do in Orange County?
My mom, so at the time
karaoke was more of like
which they had learned in Japan
was more of like a culture
and there was like
they would hire someone
to host a karaoke show
but then also like perform
in between like other people
like drunk people coming up and singing or whatever.
And so my mom did that
at like
five different venues
or whatever.
Like when I say my parents are
singers, like, I mean by, like, vocation, not like, that's how they made their living.
Or they would do, like, singing competitions, and then they would, like, place first and second
and then, like, just, like, take the money.
Or, like, they would go in as a duet and, like, just, like, get double the money.
So they played together as well.
Mm-hmm.
Did they write their own music?
My dad did.
My dad wrote some music, but, yeah, nothing that really took off.
So interesting.
But, yeah, they supported us mostly through.
like performing at bars and lounges.
So you really grew up around, like, artists.
Mm-hmm.
Yeah, I never, like, had pressure to, like, pursue a normal career,
a quote-unquote normal career.
I never had pressure to go to college because my parents went to college.
Yeah.
They were, like, artists through and through,
struggling artists at that.
And so I think they had, like, a, they always, like, instilled with me in me, like,
this like never
give up on your dreams kind of mentality
you know
now for a quick break
but don't go away
when we come back
justice opens up about being bullied
in high school
and we dive into his dating life
okay be right back
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You went to performing arts high school, right?
I did, yeah, yeah.
But before that, you were in a public school?
Yeah, and I was, like, taking drama classes.
Yeah, yeah, yeah.
I was doing community theater.
And I was just, like, doing whatever I could to, like, act and be on stage.
What was that community like in Orange County?
I just feel like everything close to L.A.
There must be like some sort of vibrancy to it because it's so close to an entertainment capital.
But I know that Orange County is culturally and politically so far away from L.A.
Yeah.
It's a Red County.
Yeah.
In the arts scene, like in the community theater scene, I didn't necessarily feel the weight of it being a Red County.
It was just a bunch of like girls and gay boys, like, you know.
singing songs yeah and like and i if anything i was just like oh yeah this is these are my kind of
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feeling the weight of what it meant to kind of grow up in like a conservative area until I went
to that performing high school. It was an independent charter school. And so it was like a lot of it
was donation based. And there was a lot of like white kids from Irvine that were like coming to this
school. And I started to like receive a lot of messaging, I think from their conservative.
of parents, like now being parroted by them onto me about like my race and my sexuality.
And high school was really tough for me because I was like one of like 17 black kids
in like the whole school.
It was difficult.
While I did experience some discrimination on my sexuality, most of the kids at the school
were gay.
Like it's like, you know, and like all the popular kids were gay.
And so I grew up in a little bit of a bubble in terms of that, right, in terms of sexuality.
And I learned, like, a lot of, like, radical, liberal things at that school that I didn't realize the world was so behind on until after I graduated.
But I think it being so homogenous in, like, like, it being majority white.
Yeah.
I think that didn't allow for, like, these kids to, like, reflect on race and, like, understand, like, how they were treating me and, like, what was, you know, like, really, like, be immersed in, like, and appreciate someone's differences because they, they weren't exposed to that.
You know, it was, like, mostly people who looked like them and then me.
so like they could only be so liberal you know they could only be so understanding yeah
did you feel like you had um a safe enough environment to be yourself like sexually like
you were open about your being queer and that was something that you never had to really hide
and not really i didn't really have to hide that yeah it's so different from when i grew up my god
I imagine.
So that's so interesting.
Did you have relationships as a kid?
I mean, in high school?
No.
So, like, all the popular kids were gay.
I love that.
Or girls.
Like, the girl to guy ratio was, like, 11 to 1.
Like, the school was mostly girls and gays.
It's my dream school.
But they also were, like, mean gays.
Like, they were all bitchy and mean.
Like, before I came out, which I also have issues with the whole coming out.
I understand it now, but like, I came out when I figured it out.
I came out junior year of high school.
I remember, like, sophomore year, there was this older girl who was such a bully.
Like, this girl would, like, cut girls' ponytails off.
Oh, my God.
She was a horrible, horrible person.
I hate her.
Jesus.
Anyways, most of my bullies growing up were girls.
Girls can be really vicious
Anyways
There was this
Improv exercise
We were doing in one of our classes
Where it was like a game
Where someone leaves the room
The rest of the class
Like creates a party
Some sort of event
The person comes in
Everyone is improvising
And has to guess what the party is
From how everyone's behaving, right?
Yeah. So I left the room
I come in
this girl had made everybody act as if it's my coming out party
before I even knew what my sexuality was
and so like she had made that decision for you
and she told the whole class to like get in on it
and like so what what what did it look like when you walked back in the room
so like there was like two people like these two her
and like one of her fucking friends
were like pretending to be my parents and like one of them pretending
my dad and like being disapproving of me and like you're not my son and like and then like one of
the like popular gay boys was like pretending to be like my lover and then and then like I'm slowly
realizing what it is and then I just like like to end the game you have to like raise your hand
and say what it is and I'm just like it's my coming out party and like I'm like so like and then
everyone's laughs it was so fucked up it was so mean that is really fucked up it's so mean I think
the part that really fucked up for me is like them deciding
that how your parents were going to be feeling about that.
Yeah.
And then choosing the version that feels like the norm for them
that this would be something that they'd be disapproving up.
That's what, that's shocking.
Well, I also don't know what was going on in their houses.
You know, like maybe they were experiencing a lot of shame and guilt about being fear.
Well, obviously, I think obviously to that point, yes, they were.
But to then, you know, superimpose that upon.
you is just
it's a
it's a very surprise
that's a
that's a that's a
that's a bit traumatizing
yeah it was mean
yeah
it was really mean
wow
but shortly after high school
you I mean
you started working
that must have been
I mean
do you
first of all
have you gone
to any high school
reunions
yes
I just went to my
tenure
oh my god
tell me about that
I literally went
just to rub my
success in everybody's face
Thank you.
I'm so glad you said that.
Thank you.
Because...
But then I went and nobody who bullied me was there.
No.
It was all the kids who were nice to me.
They all know. They all know.
You've done so much in 10 years.
Like, you've done more than any actor I've known.
They all know.
Believe me.
But I also, like, think that some of the people who bullied me in high school, like,
I don't even think they really knew that they were bullying me.
Because I...
I had, like, a desperate need to be liked.
So a lot of times when I was, like, being bullied,
I would, like, act like it was funny and, like, it was okay.
I'd be like, ha, ha, ha, ha.
Right.
You know, like, pained smiles.
To make them feel comfortable.
Yeah.
Yeah.
I also, it's like I felt like I spent most of my 20,
like, unpacking, like, the trauma, like, high school.
And, like, only recently I've gotten to a place where I'm like,
okay, I think I'm, yeah.
It's so interesting because, I mean, if you look at, you really have done so much in 10 years.
Like, you graduated high school and, like, really started, you know, working steadily as an actor.
And when I was just looking at your body of work in 30 years, I mean, it's really impressive.
Not only in the fact that you've done so many things, but you've done so many different things.
And you've also, there was like a, there was, I don't know, there, I don't want to say blind eyes.
given to your sexuality, but you were given the opportunity to do so many roles that did not
bring your sexuality into the storyline at all. I mean, it was just like a, it was something that was
not an issue. Well, I would audition for them and I wouldn't get them. Every time it was a gay part,
I would audition. Yeah, you wouldn't get it. Yeah. But I mean, you were kind of like a romantic
lead for a little while as well. I mean, how did you, uh, was that a tricky thing for you to navigate
to sort of be having this break
and having this moment
and having these jobs given to you
where you were
you know put into romantic relationships
with women and like things that maybe you didn't have
necessarily a personal connection to
but you were obviously so
listen I think actors can play everything
and you did it brilliantly but um
you know it's just interesting that
uh you know your opportunities came
with such a
It was so separate from, like, the reality you lived in high school.
Yeah.
I think, so I think the missing piece here is that I dated a couple girls in high school.
There you go.
There it is.
And then, also after high school.
Okay, okay.
I was dating, I was dating everybody.
Okay.
For a second.
Were you fluid for a little while?
Yeah.
Yeah, I was, Jesse, I like to call myself technically bisexual.
I will never date a woman again.
We'll never date a woman again.
Not because I'm not attracted to them, but because I don't like the feeling of having to be the man in the relationship.
I really don't like that feeling.
What I like about same-sex relationships is that we both can kind of
switch off on what parts of ourselves were showing and when I was dating women it was like
I just felt like I was always like I always had to be the proverbial big spoon and I'm like
also like I'm not really like a half half half bisexual like I very much more attracted to men
than I'm attracted to women but having those experiences with women is helpful when you're like
playing all these roles where you're like supposed to be you know like I know like I know
and even if I didn't have reference for that in my like personal life I feel like to be a
marginalized person is to like study the dominant culture you know like I know what straightness
looks like I know how to perform straightness like most gay people do right because like that is
how we survive society yeah we know what like it's like our level of
of code switching. Like, we know how to, like,
keep in our voice and, like, masculineize our posture
and, like, do all those things. So it's, like, when it comes
to, like, playing straight roles, like, I understand
what is required of me, you know?
Now for a quick break, but don't go away.
After the break, Justice talks about working with Jesse Eisenberg
and Mark Ruffalo, and now you see me, now you don't,
the third installment of the hit franchise.
And he loses his mind when he realizes a past role of mine,
that I played. Okay, be right back.
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Was there something, because I know your role is before generation,
I mean, it was, you know, you had an incredible role in the Get Down that Baz Luhrman did.
Yeah, I love that.
I love that show.
Great show.
And, you know, you've done several other things so different from the character you played in Generation.
Was there for you anything that felt like liberating to be able to embrace that part of yourself?
Yeah, it was the most fun, liberating thing.
Like, I remember after the show got canceled, I was.
I was very, like, I was heartbroken because I was like, I was so, I felt like I had unlocked
a side of myself that I didn't even know that I had, that, like, was now, like, forever a part
of me that I was like, I want to, like, inhabit that even more.
And not just in sense of, like, my sexuality, but, like, Chester's, like, freeness.
Like, he is just, like, so unapologetically himself, and I gave him more of, like, a feminine lilt and, like, like, the way he, like, walks through a space and the clothes he wears, like, how, like, the way he likes to peacock, I just, I, I, I had so much fun, like, crafting that character, and, like, anytime, like, I play a character who's, like, where I give him a little vocal something, or I give him a little vocal something, or I give him.
a little, you know, where it feels like a real kind of character, I like to stay in it, you know?
And so, like, being on set with all these, like, kids and just, like, feeling like how I wanted
to feel in high school.
Yeah.
You know what I mean?
Just, like, so free and feminine and it just was, yeah, it was very healing, I think.
And what's crazy is it, the show was set in Orange County, right?
Orange County.
Yeah, yeah, yeah.
In Anaheim, the exact city I grew up in.
That's wild.
I know.
It was like...
Did you film any stuff there?
No, we did it.
No, we filmed in Pasadena.
I wanted to.
But it was really healing.
But I often find like every project that I do has a weird parallel to like what's going on in my real life.
Like it's like...
And not always in like the obvious way, but like just like weird connections start to
line up where I'm like in my relationship with the flying spaghetti monster in the sky I'm like
oh I see why I'm here now I see why you've put me as a part of this project because I'm learning
something about myself and I'm like healing a part of myself that I need to see you that's cool
it makes you feel like you're doing the right thing and you're in the right place in the right time
and you're like sympathetico with the universe and yes yeah exactly yeah because I know you
I think I read that you were like a big fan of Pokemon and we're in the Pokemon movie
Yeah, as a kid, I was a huge fan of Pokemon, yeah.
Yeah, that's going to be wild.
Or, like, because the first movie I did was this YA movie called Paper Towns,
and in that movie, there was, like, a moment where we're, like, singing in the car
or were singing somewhere, like, to not be scared or whatever, and it was originally supposed
to be, like, partying the USA by Molly Cyrus, but Pitch Perfect had just did that, right?
So we were like, she said she loves Pitch Perfect.
They had just did that, so we were all on set.
trying to figure out what we should sing,
and I suggested we sing the Pokemon theme song.
And then it ended up in the movie,
and then years later, I ended up doing the Pokemon movie.
So I was just, like, weird, like, connections like that
that I'm always, like, paying attention to.
Yeah.
Yeah, it just makes me feel like I'm aligned
and I'm going in the right direction.
I know right now you're doing a promotion for,
now you see me, now you don't.
Yes.
It's interesting, because you've done,
this isn't the first franchise you've,
been a part of you've done drastic films as well um i mean i i love now you see me the first one
i thought it was such a romp it's such a you know a good time and i i just thought there was so
first of all well cast jessie eisenberg is so talented i love him so much um woody harrelson
i love him so much dave franco yes i mean it's an incredible incredible cast and you know then
this third film
like Rosemann Pai Koi Ador
and Mark Ruffalo
it's just the casting is
so insane I mean what was it
like you know
first of all
so many incredible legends like
what was it like just being
in a massive film with them
I mean this is not a low budget
indie thing
this is massive
it is the
it was one of the best experiences I've ever
had on a film
and I
don't say that lightly
I wanted to do the film
because I wanted to work with these actors
and also the director
I met with him and I really
liked him and
he felt like he
was going to be a really good shepherd
for this kind of project
and it was
like non-stop fun
not only because
the, us, like, new cast, the, like, new cast of magicians, me and Dominic Sessa and
Ariana Greenblatt, we got along so well, and, like, we would, like, do escape rooms around
Budapest and, like, watch horror movies and, like, hang out all the time.
But the existing horsemen were so welcoming to us.
Like, I remember the first day I got on set, Jesse, when he met me, he was just like,
oh, like, come have lunch with me in my trailer, like, on the first day, like, and just, like,
get to know me and ask me questions and like they really don't have to do that right they
went out of their way to invite us into the click which was it just was yeah it was everything
i'm really blessed to know these people now and like i'm really excited to do another one is there
going to be another one yeah they already announced that's incredible they already announced
it right yeah okay good um you know did you learn to do any any any
magic with it. I mean, that's, is it's, we had magic lessons. We had like a whole magic training
school day for like a month. Oh my God. I mean, the magic in the first two films is pretty
astonishing. I mean, obviously it's a film like, you know, there's editing it is involved, but like
just the way that, you know, they, um, in the story that they would play out some of these,
these tricks, it was, it was so, um, I don't know, there's such a performative elements to,
a really great magic show.
I mean, it felt very big
and it felt very exciting.
And, like, it was just, you know,
it was a romp.
It was just a lot of fun.
So I'm really excited to see it.
Yeah, I think this one is a lot of fun, too.
Rubin, the director,
made a point of making sure
that all of our magic tricks were practical.
Like, they could all, like, really be done by a magician.
Which I, I'm a big fan of practical effects.
So we like trained
Like I like learned all of these different like card tricks and card flourishes
And that was before like the script was really set
And like what magic tricks I was going to be doing the movie
And then we got like
Like the most updated draft
And it turned out I wasn't doing any card tricks in the movie
Oh really?
I like learned all these car tricks like no reason
But then I like
It's like when you like learn how to do a stunt
And then on the day you stump doubles on set
And like and he's going to do it
And you're like, well, I want to do it.
Yeah, I trained.
I did all this work.
Yeah.
And the thing is also, I need to start re-trained.
Like, I need to refresh all my car tricks too, because I know that people during this press
junkie are going to ask me to do magic tricks.
Wait, let's guess, let's guess all the, because I love on a press junkie where it's like
you get the same questions over and over.
For modern family, it would always be like, so what makes a modern family modern?
And so, or as a cast, we would like, turn.
it into this game and I think one time we sat down is a group for an interview and we're
like like if one of your questions is what makes a modern family modern we're walking out and like
literally you saw the person like go to the next car because that's what's like literally the first
question I just imagine the interviewer at home just being like this is going to eat they're going
to love this question like I get it nine 100 times a day I've had people in interviews yeah like the
The way they, like, ask a question that's been asked before, they ask it, like, I bet no one else.
Yeah, yeah, yeah.
And I'm like, you'd be surprised.
Yeah, yeah.
I am a very big fan of the one song of yours that I found on Spotify.
Oh, my God.
First of all, you're a great singer.
Did you write that song?
Thank you.
I did.
Oh, my God.
Justice, it's so good.
Thanks.
that's crazy
yeah
I feel like you read my diary
I feel like that's what you're telling me right now
I found your diary
and I also found your diary
questions
but first of all
when did you record that
and second of all
are you
is that something you would do more of
because you're a great songwriter
thank you
yeah
I'm working
I've been working on an EP
for like
I don't even know how long
I recorded that
I wrote that
In 2017, I recorded it, and it was about my ex-girlfriend.
And I recorded it in 2019 after we broke up.
Yeah, that's right.
That relationship created a very good song.
Yeah, I like that song, too.
It's really good.
Thanks.
Yeah.
I mean, you're a singer, right?
You do musicals.
I did musicals, but I don't consider myself.
You have a much better way.
than I ever did or will.
I doubt that.
No, you do.
Believe me.
We'll listen to the recording of Spelling Bee,
and you'll see that I'm right.
Wait, are you in spelling?
I was the original Leaf Coney Bear.
Yeah.
Oh, I love Piedon Cheney.
Yo, I never saw it, though.
I only listened to the soundtrack.
Yeah, I'm not that smart.
I'm not that smart.
That's me.
You didn't know that?
No.
Oh, that's funny.
I would sing that song all the time.
Really?
Yes, I would like, because I would like, I want to audition for the school musical.
I want to do it.
And I would prepare that song and then I would never audition.
That's so funny.
But I prepared that song over and over and over again to, like, build the courage to audition.
So I've heard your voice so many times.
I didn't even realize it.
That's hilarious.
Oh, my God.
Yeah, that's like a pretty popular song for kids to audition with.
It's a great character song.
It is a great character song.
I remember when William Finn was writing it for me, and he's like one of my.
and he's like one of my idols.
He's recently passed away.
The guy wrote Spelling Bee, William Fenn,
and we were workshopping the show together,
and I was so excited.
I was going to hear this song for the first time,
and he could stand at the piano,
and he wasn't a very good pianist
and an even worse singer,
but he was a great songwriter.
Right, right, right.
And he says, stand with the piano.
He's like, this big guy,
and he's crazy voice.
She's like, okay, so here's your song.
And he just starts pounding on the piano.
He's like, I'm not that smart.
People have been telling me.
I'm like, oh my God, no, no, this is, my idol's writing me a song and this is
shit, it's terrible.
And then, you know, you take it and you own it and you develop it and like it became
what it was.
It's an iconic song.
Yeah.
Oh, thank you.
Sweet.
Yo, that's crazy.
I'm like having so many flashbacks to me and my bedroom.
Like that's so funny.
Literally pushing the rewind button like back, back, back, back, back over and over again.
That's crazy.
That's you.
Yeah, they're reviving it on Broadway.
Oh, really?
They're reviving it in New York, off Broadway.
Oh, really?
I'm going to go to the opening of it.
Do you know who the cast is?
Yeah, some of them, yeah, it's a...
The guy who's playing my part is this kid named Justin Cooley, who is nominated for a Tony Award for...
Yeah, I love Justin.
Yeah, for...
Kimberly Akimbo.
Yeah, I met him once.
He's really sweet.
He's really great.
Yeah, he's very talented.
Yeah.
When you see...
Have you ever seen someone play a role that you originated before?
I saw kids...
I've gone to school.
productions of
Spelling Bee.
So I've seen
people do that.
That's not how I would do it.
Oh, it makes me so happy.
It moves me to tears
every time.
Even if they're not very good.
Listen.
You're missing the art of the character.
Listen,
dude.
No, no, you're getting Lee Paul wrong.
No, no, no.
You're playing them for laughs.
You're playing your relaps.
I'm really glad you said yes to this.
It's really nice to meet you.
I've really truly been a fan
for such a long time.
And I've been
I didn't realize that I was.
I didn't even realize I was a fan of yours.
Well, now you know.
Now you know.
I mean, I knew I was a...
Wait, hold up.
That sounds weird.
I knew I was a fan of yours.
I didn't realize how far back I was a fan of yours.
Yeah, you're an OG.
Yes.
It was a lot of fun.
And also, the food was great.
Oh, well, thank you.
Listen, I got this one.
Dinner's on me.
Don't worry about it.
Hey.
Hey.
Hey.
Hey.
Hey.
Hey.
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