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Hi
The Donnie Rowling Show live in your face Thank you. It's 41.
It's 41. It's 41?
Yeah.
All right, ladies and gentlemen, that's right.
We are at our 41 episode, and this is the Donna Rawlings.
Oh, no, this is the Javanta Roberts Show.
Thank you for tuning in.
I'm your host and star of the show, Javanta Roberts. We want to make sure
everyone's having a phenomenal day. As you can see, Loudmouth Donnell isn't here, so it's all about
me. I mean, you got a producer in the house. You can shout at your producer. Oh, yeah. I'm sorry.
There goes David Derry. How you doing, David? I'm chilling. I'm doing good. I don't know. It's something about this. It just feels so light and fresh.
It's a vibe.
It's a vibe. It's a vibe.
Oh, look who we have here.
Oh, you're late. You're late.
How you doing, Donnell?
I'm doing great, but first first off how can i be late all right welcome to the
gervonta roberts show donnell decided to come to the show late i didn't come to the show late first
off i can't be late to my show i didn't come to the show late. I came as you. Okay. Alright? That's the point.
So
we should call you Javanta?
Hi, Javanta.
Javanta, hi. How are you?
Javanta, no disrespect, no disrespect, but your titties
look good today. No, no, no, no, no, no.
Disrespect. No, no. I'm being
respectful. Thank you. Your titties look really
good today. Thank you. You know, not
because you're my daughter and everything, but you just look really good today.
You look really, really good.
Thank you.
You know?
Take that.
Thank you.
So I just wanted to start off by, you're me.
I'm you.
What'd you say? Who? Who? Take that take that bitches This is fun I get to do whatever I want talk to people any kind of way
This is the best life
You know what I'm so happy that you feel good
Okay okay okay Are you gonna keep shooting me?
Take that, bitches
Fuck these bitches, let's get this money
Are you gonna let me
Be a part of the show?
Of course
Are you going to let me be a part of the show? Of course.
Are you going to let me be a part of the show?
All right, continue.
How you doing?
How you doing, Dono?
How you feeling?
Thank you.
I feel good. Mm-hmm.
That is not me, by the way.
That is not me, by the way. That is not me.
I feel good.
Derry, did you do my lights?
Yeah, how did they look?
I mean, you tell me.
All right, first off, you don't know because you're white.
You don't understand.
Now you're going to stop.
Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.
This is the Devanta Roberts show, so you're not going to go ahead and attack Derry like you always do.
Okay.
Thank you. Positive energy, everybody. Positive energy. advance a Robert show so you're not gonna go ahead and attack dairy like you always do okay thank you positive energy everybody positive energy I'm not attacking dairy but what I want to say is you don't understand how black people need to be lit because you're light you're already
light so you don't understand what the light is if you weren't light you would understand light
you don't understand
sounds like somebody's not having a good
day how are we doing donnell are you are you let's all let's let's all be happy let's sing let's sing
a song fine don't worry be happy if you're happy and you know it clap your hands if you're happy
and you know it clap your hands if you're happy and you know it, clap your hands. If you're happy and you know it, clap your hands.
If you're happy and you know it and you really want to show it.
If you're happy and you know it, clap your hands.
Dina.
Looks like someone's not here today.
Someone's not happy.
I'm happy.
Okay.
I'm really happy.
What did you do today?
I sold 14 bottles of uni.
I produced my one woman show.
Fuck your oils.
Fuck your oils.
It's all about my show.
Get these candles.
And this dick.
As co-producer.
As co-producer As co-producer
And co-host
I had a great day today
Fuck that
How you doing, Derry?
I'm chilling
What'd you do today?
Played some tennis
Okay
Yeah, I lost
Six, six, three, six
Six, three, seven, five
Two sets
Two straight sets I lost
We gotta get Donnell on the Oh, Donnell don't want this smoke 6-3-7-5. Two sets. Two straight sets I lost.
We got to get Donnell on that.
Oh, Donnell don't want this smoke.
He already told me his knees are buckled.
He's a river ninja, though.
He can handle it.
I'm a Javante ninja right now.
I'm a Javante ninja right now, and I like the role reversal.
I like the role play.
And I'm just going to, you know, from your end and your perspective,
you have to understand how it feels to create a conversation and someone's on their computer like this.
Well, to my defense, I'm always looking up facts
because you get mad all the time if I don't come with the facts.
So whenever we're – I don't even smile like that.
Do I smile like that?
They love my smiles like you.
They do.
But I don't remember you getting the facts.
I do get the facts.
Don't I get the facts?
Oh, don't bring me into this shit.
You're here.
Of course you get the facts.
What's your password?
You always get the facts.
Oh, no, you ain't going to get my password.
No, we can bleep it out.
We all know your password.
Let's bleep it out. We can bleep it out. We all know your password. Let's bleep it out.
We can bleep it out.
What's your password?
Because I got to be able to get some facts.
Oh, I'm not in.
Here you go.
We got you.
See how hard it is to pay attention and to type?
I never asked you for a code.
This is serious.
What the fuck happened to your life when you need this?
You already know.
We talked about it last episode.
You know, people break into my shit.
The iPad.
You never said what was on the iPad, though.
I was curious.
Okay, so what was on the iPad was my ex basically found some messages from a friend of mine that were pretty inappropriate.
But I feel as though I was in the wrong and I admitted to being in the wrong.
But what?
You didn't get in yet?
No.
Can you do it?
You've been in that computer.
So since we're cutting it out, what was on that iPad?
Oh, yeah.
So, but yeah, it was like he found messages from my, the guy I was dating before him.
But we're really, really good friends.
I'm not going to do that.
I'll get in there.
Hold on.
Anyway, so we're really good friends.
And it was inappropriate because we were like sending gifts
and stuff like that but yes what was i'm just curious to know what is i know inappropriate
inappropriate penis portraits i know that i'm an artist myself um what was the inappropriate gift
it was like two people fucking in the ass. But I would be like lying.
No, wait.
Wait a minute.
First off, what keyboard do you have where you could go?
First off, how do you search for a gift with two, not one person fucking in the ass.
Please tell me how do you search for a gift?
So what was in the search bar?
It was basically like two people fucking and then I'd be like, ha, ha, ha.
And he'd be like, that's me and you, but you playing.
And I'm like, yeah, right, shut up.
Like, it'd be like interactions like that.
And, of course, it's inappropriate.
I think it's inappropriate when you interface with anyone that's supposedly your friend like that.
When you're in a relationship.
There's a phrase for that, right?
What is it called?
Texting ain't sexing.
Texting ain't sexing. Texting ain't sexing.
And sucking ain't fucking.
I made that up.
You made that up?
Eating ain't cheating.
What?
Texting ain't sexing and sucking ain't fucking.
And eating ain't cheating.
And eating ain't cheating.
Wow.
We ate shit.
Wait, wait, wait.
But you didn't, like, that wasn't the example of the inappropriate text messages, right?
Yeah, like, that is very inappropriate.
I feel like I would feel uncomfortable and I wouldn't like it if he was doing the reverse.
If she was on the other foot and he had an ex that he was, like, dealing with and I found those messages, I'd be upset as well.
What happens if that's just you about that life?
What happens? well what happened if that's just you about that life what happens what do you say for the person
that wants to be in love wants to be with one person but they still ain't really completely
off those streets and they about that life i feel like it's it's a decision that they have to make
with their partner and some people live their life like that. Like, you know, they have,
they're,
they're in a loose relationships,
but I'll do Jada and will.
Yeah.
I mean,
the,
the more I'm exposed to other types of relationships,
the more I'm,
um,
open to them.
Whereas I was very traditional.
I,
I just thought,
Oh,
it should be one way.
And I don't like girls.
So I don't think I could do like three sums or anything like that. But I don't like girls, so I don't think I could do, like, threesomes or anything like that.
But I don't know.
Like, if I'm sitting in my house in Morocco and my husband is, like, cheating,
maybe I wouldn't care anymore.
I don't know.
I'm jaded.
I don't know if it's cheating.
I would say exploring.
It's just, like, men can't handle their shit.
Like, if I were – it's just something that always happens. It shit like if i were it's just always something
always happens it's like it goes good you have an arrangement you have an arrangement or you
haven't what do you mean men can't like shit i'm talking what okay all right it's your show go
i feel like men can't handle their shit like i'm well I can't speak for a couple who make
makes arrangements because I've never done that but I am assuming from my experience with men
something always goes wrong and they probably have this arrangement and then they start seeing the
woman on the um like not telling their significant other that they're seeing the side woman or whatever,
and they're just doing their own thing, and that's probably how it gets messed up and people get hurt.
So you think if you're open about it and you're transparent about it and you say,
listen, I love you, but at the same time, every once in a while I might want to dip out
because sexing, texting ain't sexing, and licking ain't sticking, whatever it was.
Is that like a polygamy?
That's polygamy.
Polygamy.
Right?
No, the polygamy is when you're married to more than one person.
Polyamorous is when you're dating more people and having sex with more people.
Well, multiple people, rather.
Multiple people, yeah.
So what's more important, the physical connection with a guy or the mental connection because if you're not attached to the physical shit you could be in
love with somebody mentally and say you know what i don't care about having sex with you all the time
you could do whatever but mentally i don't want your brain to cheat because for the most part
when it comes to three ways and i've threesomes and i've been a part of threesomes you've had
threesomes yes i have threesomes i had threesomes but i'm been a part of threesomes. You've had threesomes? Yes, I have threesomes. I have threesomes, but
I'm a petty motherfucker.
You ever have male-male?
That's not a threesome. That's some whack shit,
son. That's an Eiffel Tower.
No, no, no.
That's an Eiffel Tower. Your people?
Your people? That's a threesome.
That shit is illegal to me.
Two guys and one girl.
Gangbang. So wait, gangbang,
is that like,
is that a threesome?
Wait, is gangbang off limits too?
Yeah, have you gangbanged
a girl?
Or like, no,
they call it run the train.
Have you run the train?
No, it's two different things,
I think.
Run the train is like
one at a time.
I ran a train.
Oh, you did?
Yeah.
But that's one at a time, right?
I'm judging you.
Gangbang is all
in the same room
all at once.
Listen, when it's two girls, when it's two girls and a guy
it's a menage a trois right we we but when it's two guys a girl it's a gangbang you know i'm
saying like that's just how it is and for the most part men we don't understand we don't want
to even it out like you say like but what if you reverse it? No, no, no.
That's not cool.
Because like, yeah, I guess your balls are touching one another.
No, no, no.
They don't have to be.
Yeah.
If a guy's in the front and the girls, if she's laid down and then the guy's fucking her in the ass.
Let's say she's doggy style.
One guy's in the back.
One guy's in the front.
And then you do the Eiffel Tower.
That is not gay.
That's man shit. What's the E and then you do the eiffel tower that is not gay that's that's man shit what's the eiffel tower the eiffel tower you put your hands together one guy in the front
one guy in the back and you put your hands together and you form the eiffel you don't
know the eiffel tower i don't know that i don't know i've only been with urban dictionary what i
was trying to explain was my experience with eiffel fucking tower my experience this was my
experience and this is why um everybody's not built for the life of two bad bitches
at the same damn time.
Because I was in a situation where it was supposed to be the best time
of my life.
It was me and two bad bitches, right?
And this is where the pettiness come in.
Somewhere during our actions, I got petty.
In the...
What do you mean you didn't want what happened?
I got petty.
I said, hold the fuck up.
You suck my dick.
Five minutes, you be eating this chick pussy
for an hour and a half.
The fuck are y'all doing?
I got jealous.
Is it safe to say most women that go both ways,
they enjoy the women
more the woman that they're dealing with more or they're wanting to please her more I think
in my experiences I think it's like a woman that like you have women that's like they want to
completely be lesbian but they still have some connection to men if they with somebody or
girlfriend they're like this okay I don't want to call it fucking up, but I'm still curious about this.
But their emotions usually, when it comes to a three-way where it's two girls
and a guy, the emotional connection is normally more the girl and girl
than a guy and a girl.
And then that's where the pettiness come in because you think you're being played.
You're like this, hold up, I'm supposed to be superior in this situation.
I'm supposed to be the one you have the most attention to.
But the minute they be like this,
oh, you gone to sleep?
And they listen for you to be like,
have you gone to sleep?
And that's when the real shit pops off.
I think it's a tribute to trash dick.
I don't think so.
Because when a woman has a connection with another woman,
you can have the most fire dick ever.
It still ain't going to be enough
or can fuck with the emotional connection
that she has with another woman.
Another woman.
You don't think the emotional connection she has
with a man can compete with that?
Not with, is she like girls, no.
That's why a lot of guys get upset.
That's why a lot of guys get upset.
It's been so many relationships where, I'll give you an example, Busta Rhymes.
Busta Rhymes was, I don't know if it was his baby mother or whatever,
but he had big issues because they broke up.
And then when they broke up up his baby mother started dating
another woman. So it was like
it didn't make him feel comfortable.
Just like his ego. Yeah.
It's one thing to think, it's one thing to
feel fucked up that you leave
you lose your woman
another nigga takes your woman
but when another bitch take your woman
and then the bitch takes your woman but when another bitch take your woman and then
the bitch take your woman your bitch is the woman in that relationship so you said
another bitch took my bitch to be her bitch yeah it's like mentally you're like oh man what type
of dude am i but you always want to tell always want to – and it always goes back to like,
well, you think you didn't please the relationship sexually.
But with some women, it's not about pleasing the relationship sexually.
It's like mentally.
And for some women, they cannot love a man the way they love a woman.
They could love a woman and fuck another nigga,
but they can't. It's a different type
of love. And I'm pretty sure that the people
there are some women that are listening right
now in this situation, they would agree with me.
You know what I'm saying? They'll
play around with certain shit, but certain people
their
mind and their body can
only make them love
one type of person.
And when it comes to the girl on girl shit, it's hard to fucking bust through.
You got two bitches that love each other?
Yeah.
But have you just had anything casual?
Like, what's your experience with something casual?
Like, women that aren't that involved with one another.
Is it just very, like, free?
No, I've had that situation.
But the times I've had the situation, it was love involved.
Whether it was I was in love with this chick.
And I've had situations where I was in love with this chick.
And I thought that chick was in love with me.
But come to find out, she was in love with that chick.
And they act like they're not in love.
Right?
And then it's making me go crazy. Then come to find out, at the end of the day, they was in love. And everybody's they act like they're not in love right and then it's making me go crazy they come to find out at the end of the day they was in love and everybody's making me feel fucked
up why they was in fucking love be honest about the shit yeah let me know what i'm competing with
i can't get man a man especially when it comes to sexual shit there's not too many men that can compete with a woman when it comes to condoling.
What is it?
Condolingus.
Yeah, condolingus.
Condolingus.
Who that?
It's Busta Rhymes.
He heard you talking about it.
Hello?
Busta Buss.
Hello?
I didn't call you back because I was talking to my accountant.
I was talking about something that was more important than talking to you.
And now I'm doing a podcast where I'm talking about the importance of a man eating pussy
and if a man can eat pussy better than a female.
That's where we are right now.
If you want to add to this conversation, you can.
If not, I can hang up and I can talk to you tomorrow.
Sorry, it didn't mean any disrespect, bro.
Okay, so you don't want to answer this question no what question would you like me to answer the question is
and i'm assuming that you're a man that has went been down on a female before
kid when it comes to oral sex and pleasing a partner. Cunnilingus. Cunnilingus. Can a man.
Cunnilingus.
Cunnilingus, whatever.
I can't say it.
Can a man out eat a female is the question.
I'm going to say no.
I'm going to say no.
Have you ever been in a situation where it was like you was competing or it was going back to back?
No, but I would love to see what that competition is like see you're a freak man you just want to see everybody wants to videotape but nobody want to participate
everybody wants to videotape but nobody wants to participate well thank you for your answer
didn't help this conversation out at all but i i will call you back, and I do appreciate the shit you sent me, okay?
All right.
Enjoy your day.
Sneaky never ends. Who is that?
Speaking of menage a trois.
Menage a trois.
We haven't talked about the cabin with you, Bobby, and Bert.
Oh, yeah.
What happened?
You were sticking people in the ass, I heard.
I didn't see the episode, so I didn't know.
What happened?
First off, that wasn't a menage a trois.
Okay, but there were three of you.
It was three of us, but it was three.
It was, okay, I'll put it like this.
It was a trois.
I'll answer your question.
It was three of us.
It was two of us that was open for anything.
It was one of us that wasn't open.
Open for anything?
What does that mean?
Like down for whatever?
Yeah.
I would like to complete my thought you asked me a question i'm
answering oh i know there was out of the three people when i say us because you lumped it up as
if i was down for everything that was a part of the cabin i wasn't it was three of us it was two
of us that were down for whatever it was one of us that was like, not fuck with any of that. Okay, you
pick who you think was down for whatever.
Bert Kreischer
and Bobby Lee. First off, Bert Kreischer
is an exhibitionist. I've talked to
one of my friends. She said, no, Donnell, get ahead of me
to call yourself a nudist. Bert Kreischer
is a nudist. For the most part,
his nakedness is usually from the waist
up. But in the case of
the cabin, it was from the waist down
and when i walked into this facility or this cabin first thing i see is burke chrysler sitting on a
bare skin rug he resembles the physique of a bear already he sits on a barefoot barefoot rug
and he's sitting there and he's butt ass naked so you saw his penis and everything um
maybe let's do this like school save all your questions and answers to the end and he's butt ass naked. So you saw his penis and everything?
Maybe let's do this like school.
Save all your questions and answers to the end.
Oh, don't know.
I'm articulating and explaining to you how we could communicate better.
This is something that you don't do in the show.
This is what I'm doing.
I'm telling you, I'm explaining to you
how I would like for you to communicate with me.
Okay.
Save your questions and concerns and answers to the end.
All right. So I walk in and and answers to the end. All right.
So I walk in and Bert is sitting on a bare skin rug.
He's butt ass naked.
His hand is over his penis or he's tucked in.
But I do not remember seeing a dick.
Okay.
But I do remember being alarmed and shocked.
Like, nigga, what did you get me into?
And only white people can be butt ass naked on a bare skin rug and have a smile on their face.
A smile of excitement like hey how you doing
this is all normal
so I walk in
I'm running to Burt doing that
and then Bobby Lee is right behind me
and Bobby Lee is another
naked nigga aka nudist
he doesn't have a problem with that
he has no insecurities he's in touch with himself
he presents himself however he wants to
he don't give a fuck about what you think and Bobby Lee sees He has no insecurities. He's in touch with himself. He presents himself however he wants to.
He don't give a fuck about what you think.
Right.
And Bobby Lee sees Bert Kreischer naked and he seizes the moment.
And immediately, if you look at the video, once he saw Bert naked, he was shaken to get naked.
Oh, my God.
Like it was like, oh, shit.
I didn't know this was the spot so bobby gets naked and scoots up inside of burt being inside of a bear so it's a fucking three
rows of nakedness right and i'm like what the fuck did you get me into i didn't sign up to this i
signed up to a nature show where guys were going to get together they was going to pow wow there's going to fish they was going to bomb originally bill burr was supposed to be
on the episode he couldn't do it bobby lee showed up i knew that neckiness would ensue
a lot lot quicker than it would normally do but it was one of those shows like i'm like okay
burr christian bobby lee this whole brand this frat boy brand of comedy it's big there's some
people that like it they're tuned into it so i was like am i going to be a spoiler yes i'm not going to get naked i'm not going to do that punk ass
shit y'all doing but i'm not going to hate on the party so there was one scene the opening scene
when and fucking bobby was so excited birds tried to push a coffee animal on me
like hey donnell like nigga black lives still matter black lives
black asses matter way more than black lives nobody penetrated me the most penetration my
ass has ever had was wiping my ass that's it that's the close i have a question you've never
had a colonoscopy at your age yeah but i didn't you know i'm saying that's a whole different shit
it's cold you know i'm saying it's cold whatever it was it wasn't like i prepared for it it wasn't like this oh shit maybe
i like her anything it was just like just some doctor shit whatever but it wasn't like the plan
and the preparation that these guys do right you know i'm saying coffee animal was for you
no it was for whoever was down with it i was the the one that said, I'm not down with it.
It was proposed.
I knew, hey, we're going to do.
And they looked at me like, what do you want to do?
I'm like, I ain't doing none of that shit.
So Bobby couldn't wait.
Bobby Susie, he rolled his sleeves up.
Bobby had his sleeves up.
He grabbed his shirt.
He had a smile on his face.
He got the fucking tube.
And he, sorry, people, he inserted the joint.
No, not only did he insert it.
He didn't insert it like, ugh.
He inserted it with a smile on his face looking deep into his anal cavity.
Jesus.
Did your dick recoil?
No, first off, my dick wasn't part of the scene at all.
There was nothing in that situation like, yo, maybe my dick would have got hard if he
wouldn't have put it in his ass.
My dick was like on.
I don't even like the fact that you asked me about my dick.
It was a medical procedure.
No, it wasn't a medical.
It was something that I went down with, but I didn't want to be a party pooper.
So while Bobby was penetrating motherfucking, he was like fat fat fat he was penetrating his
booty hole i was reading directions off of it i was like i had to and then i was in the comedy
i was like okay are we gonna do a countdown five four three two one fire in the hole and exactly
when i said fire in the hole bobby was like just fat that was funny to them to a lot of people i'm
not knocking your brand of humor that you like and as i did the entire show i was like it was a couple of times i was like why the fuck am i here
because they sold me on they sold me on friendship um manhood brotherhood like a connection i was
like where is the connection i'm like i don't know This is not my ideal Of a friendship This is perfectly
Giving me
A coffee enema
Would be
The first
Number one way
To ruin a friendship
With me
How much would the paycheck
Have to be
For them to be like
We're gonna get naked
On a bear
There's never gonna be
A paycheck that can
Pay me to do that
Nope
Not even
400 million dollars
Wow
You know what
That's so unrealistic
Is it though?
Yeah.
Okay.
Okay.
How much would it take for you to fuck me?
$3,000.
Yeah, right.
Probably in my next lifetime.
See?
You can't answer that question.
You know what I'm saying?
You didn't want to do it.
You don't want to ask me that question?
No, because I know.
I know white dudes don't give a fuck.
No, but like, I know. They're looking for their future. I've never done anal. White people are looking for their question? No, because I know. I know white dudes don't give a fuck. No, but I know so.
They're looking for their future.
I've never done anal.
White people are looking for their future.
Like, wait a minute.
One blowjob, that was $30 million.
Listen, I've never done anal, but for the right amount of money, I probably would.
That's not the question.
That's not the question.
Because anal is an enema.
All right, Javanta, that's not the question we asked.
That's not the question we asked.
And for the right amount of money.
You wouldn't do an enema on television. What? there's no that's the question there's no amount of the
question there's no amount of money that i would do that for there's no amount of money and i i
know people hypothetically there's no amount of money that could that's a man that's comfortable
with his money situation right now that's what that is no it's not that I I roast some
motherfuckers right you you're mean you're mean Queen mean Queen you're mean
king you know I do not need the enema memes talking to me for the rest of my
fucking life but at the same time it comes to a point where money isn't much
it doesn't matter what like I'm to feel comfortable spending ass enema money.
You know what I'm saying?
Aren't you going to need one eventually?
Huh?
Enema, aren't you going to need it?
At some point, people do that to cleanse their colon and everything.
At some point, you will, but it's not going to be on live TV
and it's not going to be a part of the show.
And now, going back to answer your question about my involvement with the show,
it was sold to me a certain way, and I'm not hating on the show.
The show turned out to be a good show on Netflix.
It went to the point where it was like trending six,
like any show on Netflix in the United States, right?
But the thing that I connected with the show was there's a point where we're all in the kitchen and we're cooking food and we're talking about fatherhood.
We're talking about how we grew up and me and Bert took it to us being fathers.
And it was a part of the show where it got deep.
I can hear that.
It got deep.
It got deep. It got deep.
It was thought-provoking,
and it showed a side of all three of us.
For the most part, I don't think there was ever on television.
So as I'm assessing the situation of me being on that show,
I'm like, why the fuck am I here?
That's it.
You know what?
That's why I was here, to talk about fatherhood.
And it was a lot of things. Being on that show, I'm like, why the fuck am I here? That's it. You know what? That's why I was here, to talk about fatherhood.
And it was a lot of things.
Like Bobby Lee has been through a lot of emotional trauma from as a kid to being an Asian dude from a successful family to saying, fuck everything else.
I want to do comedy, which isn't accepted in that community too much.
An Asian dad is like, I spent all this money sending you to college, and you want to try to do comedy?
You want to be a musician or whatever?
It just doesn't happen.
So he had to deal with that shit, and he talked about it.
He exposed himself.
He exposed some parts of himself that a lot of people didn't know.
He told us the story of how he wanted acceptance from his dad so much
that he would hurt himself if he felt that it was going to be any shortcomings.
He told us the story of how when he would have a bad audition, he was embarrassed to tell his dad or anybody in his family.
And he would take a bottle and just beat himself in the head until he bled.
So this is a person that has mental scars.
This is a person that deals with a lot of shit.
And he also said how he gave up drugs and alcohol because he really wanted to be more in tune of who he really was.
He didn't want to mask his feelings.
He was honest and open.
So as much as people rave about the frat boy, yeah, he stuck a thing in his ass and you guys are in a sauna and shit.
For me, that was the part that resonated with the show that I was proud and happy to be a part of.
That part particularly was the shit that I was like,
this is why you did it.
And you had a breakthrough as well?
Were you sharing stories like that?
No, I didn't really have a breakthrough
because black people are a lot different
from a lot of racists and shit.
We tolerate a lot of shit and we deal with a lot of shit.
We don't ever think it's a time for us to go get mental,
I don't know, therapy and assessment.
We don't think that.
That nigga crazy.
Yes, you might think he's crazy, but why?
He has issues.
Why?
We like this.
Ah, niggas.
Nigga, you don't spend that money on a psychiatrist.
Yo, go get a bag of weed.
But I think you're ready to unpack some things.
I think you're in a space where you've been exposed to different things
and different experiences where you would put yourself in a position
to talk to a therapist.
I think.
I don't want to talk to a therapist.
I think you would be ready to if you had to.
The thing about therapy that people don't understand,
it's just a conversation with someone who knows behavioral patterns.
And even in good times. And I understand that. It's just a conversation with someone who knows behavioral patterns.
Even in good times.
I understand that.
It's amazing.
I understand people need to seek help because they're trying to get somewhere else. I really feel like in my life right now, it's nothing that someone is going to tell me that's going to alter the way I live and the way I want to live.
Because I don't think it's a bad place.
But I don't think it's about them telling you.
I mean, if you've ever sat with a therapist before, you're pretty much talking the whole time.
Yeah. So it's just a bunch of discovery that's going on.
It's not necessarily them telling you, well, this is what you need to do with your life and this.
They make observations and then suggestions and then you end up.
I get observations and suggestions from you too exactly
I mean most of the time when they get it's they tell you stuff that you already know because you're saying it and then you're
Like oh, I just realized that I'm mad at my wife because she puts the fucking limes in the sink every night
But I understand that and I have therapy sessions on this show
There's times you said something and Gervonta has said something and I look I listen therapy sessions on this show. There's times you've said something and Javante has said something.
And I listen to it like this.
Yeah, they might have a point, but do I give a fuck?
And me giving a fuck, what does that change?
You know what I'm saying?
That's just my therapy.
Like, oh, yeah, you know what?
You were right when you said it about me.
But do I give a fuck?
And does that affect what I'm trying to do?
Do you want to just continue the hamster wheel of the same pattern or you're the pattern first off the thing
is we first off first off here we go here we go with the pattern how is the the pattern
maybe fucked up to somebody else or what they think but ultimately what am I trying to do
what am I trying to do with this what am I trying to do you as my friend you as my, what am I trying to do? What am I trying to do with this? What am I trying to do?
You is my friend.
You is my friend.
What am I trying to do?
If that pattern, if how I feel does not disrupt how I get to that end goal, I don't give a fuck about that.
And that's the reason why I say I don't need therapy.
I don't need, yeah, down there, you, like, I don't need anybody to say, yeah, down there, you're right, but did you ever think about this?
Only thing I want to be right, only thing I want to do is be right about that thought if it's going to benefit now if it's
something that hurting is this if it's something that's hurting this podcast if it's something
that's hurting your growth and your growth then i will look at a different way but if it's not
hindering that growth or hurting it i'm like the way i think ain't a bad way to think. That's the way I think about that. People always want to tell you, yeah, but you're this.
But you're an asshole.
You're an asshole.
Why do you think like that?
Why do I think like this?
Because the way I think works.
Is it fucking you up?
Is it fucking you up?
You're an asshole.
I lost this amount of money i lost
these opportunities whatever now i gotta fall back and say maybe i need to judge it so you're
saying if it was a situation where it financially affects someone in your life then you you could
reconsider it's not just fine it's not just it's not. It's like there's emotional connection to it too.
It's the same thing as like this.
Okay, the way I think, and everybody comes to me like this.
Yeah, Donnie, you this, you that.
Does that affect you?
Are you still inspired by me?
Are you still motivated by me?
Those are things
I consider more than
a moment
of you
not fucking with me
so I don't argue with people
well we've booked you a therapist
tomorrow at 10am
and I'm the wrong person
for a therapist
because I know some therapists
have clients they can't fuck with
like you sit me down on the couch
I'm like bitch I don't want to hear that suck my dick
Alright you want to really help me with my problems
Do that that's the reason I need
I think that's like self sabotaging
Because I get
Not being open to
To growth and
Where's the growth
Like well I don't want to get into
What I'm saying is like the whole thing
Keeping your mental Okay but well i don't want to get it what i'm saying is like the whole thing i'm just keeping your mental like okay but mentally healthy okay but who says you're mentally ill
it's not you i don't feel that i'm guilty most crazy people don't feel like they're
see they're crazy or i mean the word see now you're talking about mental health and this is
why i know it's not fair because you talking about mental health and you use the word crazy. Well, I was joking.
I was joking.
So my point is most people with mental health illnesses, you know, sometimes they don't realize that they actually.
Who judges the illness?
Right, exactly.
Well, it's not about the judgment of the illness.
It's about knowing where you're at.
Okay, there are certain things that aren't working out in my life.
It'd be maybe taking a chance
on speaking to someone might help.
The point I'm making is
those things aren't not working.
What I'm saying is like,
you're assessing something
that is not the reality of this conversation.
Like you said, you need help.
I've never said like,
oh, maybe this, maybe that.
Me personally, I think if you don't-
So you think you're a perfectly fine human being? No, not at all.
That's what I'm saying. You can't sit here and say,
well, someone can't judge you and
say that they can't help you. So who's going to say?
But who's going to say you need to go out?
I don't feel that.
Most people don't.
Therapy is just a gym for your mind.
That's all it is. And it's just like taking
a vitamin, drinking water.
It's just a gym. It's just a workout for your mind.
You take an hour.
You talk.
The people give you a little feedback.
They ask you questions.
I understand that.
I would respect that more so.
Don't come at me.
Anybody come at me like, nigga, you need to see a doctor.
Right.
I mean, no, but maybe if you thought, and for the most part, when people suggest therapy for you, it's in a bad place.
I agree.
It's in a bad place.
I think that's the stigmatism on therapy that I would like to see change because I think therapy is amazing for people that are healthy and happy.
Healthy and positive.
For literally everybody because it's just a good mental workout.
I think it's self-care.
It's intellectual conversations about your own mindset.
And everyone can always work on their mindset.
I mean, people that are really, really good at it,
the David Goggins of the world, I mean, come on.
They're like 1%.
David Goggins, use him as an example.
I guarantee you that David Goggins, it was not anybody that he sat down with and said, you need to do this.
I think that.
Why not?
I'm pretty sure of it.
No, I know.
Let me say this.
He's at 1%.
1%.
Yeah.
I'm pretty sure.
Some people can do that.
Yeah.
Go ahead.
I'm pretty sure there was some point where he had to
and I've heard him have this conversation
eventually you gotta look in the mirror
and you gotta say what do you need
I guarantee there was one point
after he was a Navy SEAL
when he talked about all the time
I was a 325 pound fat fuck
and I made excuses and everything
everybody tried to help me
they couldn't help me
but I said you know what fuck that or you gonna die like that are you gonna get out there
and do something people talk a lot of shit all the time but who's gonna put the work in who's
gonna put the effort who's gonna make the change and it can't be from god it can't be for your
friend it can't be your fucking mother or your father it's gotta be from you and you gotta look
at yourself you fat fuck what the fuck am i going to do it fuck a therapist fuck what anybody says because you know what when i'm
laying on that deathbed that's going to be me and myself with these fucking beat up fucking shoes
that i ran 3 000 miles in i don't need help from anybody i don't need anybody to tell me anything
i gotta look at myself and say fat fuck make a, go hard. That's when he made a change.
That was an incredible David Goggins impression until you got to the end.
He says, stay hard.
Stay hard.
Damn, you're so close.
I'm out here.
I'm out here, and I'm out here in the morning, and you're asleep.
And you know what the fuck I'm doing while you're sleeping?
I'm awake because I told myself the only way i can do this if i do it my goddamn self i can ask you for help
you're not gonna do it sure i did joe rogan's show
if you ask me how i get my fucking money hey david how are you f you making fucking money when you're jogging 33 million miles a day?
These are the questions I ask myself and I got up off that fucking couch.
I was eating Twinkies and donuts and Doritos just like you.
I fucking used to go to every fucking city eating waffles and chicken and grits all day.
But that was going to get my body down to zero negative percent fat no i had to say
what the are you gonna do you fat
you know what i used to a lot of white back then i still do
you think who's holding this goddamn camera right now you think it's a fucking black chick fucking no way it's a fucking white chick you call it Karen
and I say okay Karen one thing she gets up early in the morning that she fucking
makes me fucking cottage cheese in arugula and I eat salmon and shit like that
because I don't want to be a fat fuck.
I don't have to always win
but I know I know
the fuck I need to do
is I got to get in the goddamn game.
You're never going to get in the game
if you're fucking sleep.
Getting close to home now.
It's my house right there.
My house is fat free.
There's no fat nowhere around us.
Don't make excuses.
Stay hard. Yes. That was great. us don't make excuses stay hard that's great oh yeah but I it was a joke but I understand there's some people it is a thing some people need help mm-hmm I'm not saying I'm one of those people
some people need a certain push
but here's my thing when it comes to
mental health and everything
I know it's serious
it's very serious in the black community
but what I'm finding happening is that
it's almost like
like
the end thing to do what do you mean by the end thing to do is that it's almost like like the
end thing to do.
What do you mean by the end thing to do? If you want
some attention brought to
you or your brand or your personal life,
mental health is
real. I'm seeking help. It's
becoming profitable.
Yeah. It's
true. I'm telling
you. Yeah. Yeah.
Okay.
Your thought.
My thought is it can be in the back burner, but it should be the forefront.
It could be profitable.
It's, you know, everyone's leaning back on mental health.
I know.
But, like, what you're just saying, said it's in like what i'm saying is
that that exists and you're saying it could be and i'm explaining my scenario on my uh just one
part of it yeah not one part of it my opinion of it okay and my opinion of it is that i get that
some people need help some people are you know like mentally challenged and all of that type
shit i understand that but also know that it's becoming the cool way to get attention.
On social media?
In what regard?
That's what I'm asking.
How is it becoming the cool way?
In what way?
On social media?
Social media.
Not on social media.
Social media on acceptance it's like
oh shit i want to be the cool kid you know what what's the conversation one of the cool
well like i believe it's coming to like it's not everything is not real about it you have some um
people that um dabble in different uh sexual lifestyle because it's the cool shit.
That's the hot shit.
You know what I'm saying?
You have people,
even when it comes to,
and I'm not just discrediting or taking away from anybody
that's really dealing with mental issues,
but it's so cool to be able to say,
yeah, I've had mental issues.
Yeah, mental health is real.
I see some people.
Well, in my opinion,
people are being more open about it.
In my opinion, people are actually expressing because more people are talking about it.
So people are feeling more comfortable on speaking on mental health.
That's my opinion.
Influencers, celebrity, women, they're just feeling more empowered to speak on mental health.
That's my opinion.
And I also know those same people you're speaking of, some of them feel empowered feeling more empowered to speak on mental health. That's my opinion. And also to speak on it,
and I also know those same people you're speaking of,
some of them feel empowered because they are the wave
and they're down with something that everybody's down with.
Everybody's going to jump the bandwagon.
You got motherfuckers that start non-profits.
Not to say that it's some real shit or it's not some real shit,
but you got some motherfuckers like this.
Oh, this is the hype shit to do.
This is cool shit to do.
Yo, I'm crazy. I'm crazy'm crazy i'm crazy i'm crazy too all the
flights are on the crazy motherfucker and everybody is not fucking crazy like
i don't know about that maybe they are i yeah i don't know
i don't know if I can agree on that.
But I see what you're saying.
I think therapy is a great thing.
I think being in a position to be self-aware and to get therapy, I promote it.
I'm for it, whether you're on the bandwagon or not.
If you feel as though you have mental issues and you're jumping on this wave,
but you're jumping on a wave to a therapist, I'm all for it.
Even if it's fake or not.
That's just my personal opinion.
Boom.
What else, Javanta?
That's it.
We beat that horse.
I think we did.
Well, if that's it, we got to play the music.
All right.
Let me find this.
Let me find this.
All right.
Well, you were watching the Javanta Roberts show. We want to thank all of our listeners and watchers for taking your time out to spend some time with us.
Thanks to Donald Rollins, who's on his phone like I usually am.
Thank you to David Derry.
Everybody, it's OK to seek mental mental to have a healthy mind
and to seek therapy Thank you.