Don't Blame Me! - BAIW: Bad Model Behavior

Episode Date: September 30, 2024

But Am I Wrong: Meghan: Common sense isn't so common Melisa: The WNBA needs to do a better of protecting the players But Are You Wrong: Friend doesn't match your aesthetic Friend is mean to her brother But Are They Wrong Meghan: Matt & Abby Melisa: Offset Write In: [e-mail] Weigh In: vote in the weekly poll on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/by.meghan.and.melisa/ Buy Our Merch: https://store.dftba.com/collections/don-t-blame-me Join Our Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/dontblameme Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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like shocked and surprised when it gets to a point where i go please tell me you're fucking trolling and when i find out they're not that fundamentally fucks with my head because whatever happened to the era of just pretending to be an absolute fucking idiot now now instead we've committed fully to the bit just stupid stupid stupid first up we have a woman who came on tiktok earnestly wanting to plead others and educate others about the dangers of logan's chopping device are you wondering what that is that's actually a mandolin and who's logan a man who makes cucumber salad that this woman tried to pin her severing of her pinky finger that she might lose the tendons she might use the feeling she might even lose the fucking finger on this man and she said what do

you mean i'm supposed to read the directions what do you mean there's a yeah sure i didn't use all of the safety parts sure i didn't read the directions i just saw what he did and i go you saw what he did in a 60 second tiktok video that's edited and cut up you don't ever see that man get into the nub there because nobody does it is the most dangerous kitchen tool ever and she's standing 100 in the fact and she's not budging saying well this is how i know of this thing and the urgent care doctor which i someone who went to an urgent care when she had a vasovagal syncope which was a seizing one and like no convulsive one which just looks like a straight up seizure i was even judging her for a bleeding open wound going straight to urgent care i go

that's actually not where you go for that one yeah and her saying that her urgent care doctor said this this and this I go cool my urgent care doctor said that when my earring is in my ear he said he could take it out but it wouldn't look pretty I don't think we have to trust what these people say with like this this is this is the law so that to me mind-blowing and the standing in that and not shifting any sort of okay well yeah you know you're right no no no like chefs themselves do not use mandolins for the most part because they think they're dangerous.

You'll never see it on an episode of Chopped. No, they use their actual knives, which they believe are more safe than mandolins. And they are. I've lost a nail using a mandolin and I've worn my gloves and it caught in the glove.

So I stopped. Also, they're very hard to clean. But I stopped using it and I was like, I can do the same thing with a knife. one but like who didn't know what a mandolin was this broad this broad had no idea and call it logan's device like as cucumber chopping device yes as if he created it patented all he's doing is making delicious cucumber salads making it so so it's very accessible they're even selling them

at the grocery stores now already sliced up for you do you stick foil in the microwave melissa when i saw the more of this woman's content i actually was not sure because she has this beautiful outdoor renovation and she has money and sometimes when people get money they get the dollars they lose the sense okay well maybe we should that was very good but maybe we We should hire somebody to cut our cucumbers for us. The way that I was like, ma'am, you clearly have money. Have someone do this chopping for you.

You're actually one of those people where I'm going like, you know, maybe you buy the pre-sliced. Maybe you get like, this to me was someone who, you clearly are not, you clearly don't cook. You clearly are not comfortable in a kitchen.

I am a little confused why you thought your early foray into that should be a giant, blade because that's what that is i need to get my i need to get my knife sharpened and so i have not been buying uh i have not been buying sweet potatoes because that is a danger yep so what have i been doing buying frozen sweet potatoes that are already chopped up for me that's because you have sense right and i again thought it was common this woman is desperately lacking and i'm almost i don't want to say i'm enjoying it i'm almost tuning in to see what else

is happening in her life because the way that she's so stubborn in this i go there's no way this is the first hill of this that's this stupid that you're dying on there's no way this is the first time yeah that one's a little wild to me and then the second is there is a girl who gets on tiktok and she is doing a wee bit of trolling in a way that is just straight up obnoxious like it's not funny it's just like obnoxious but she has had her braces for six years and she changes the color of her braces every day to go with her outfit and then she changes them back before she goes to her den her orthodontist appointments so they don't know what she's doing and guess what she's had her braces for six years do you know why do you know why they put the bands in a specific

weight so that they'll straight now she's also putting point of the bands she also switches up you know what she does not have in her original set that they give her power bands you know what she puts on every couple days power bands because she likes the different colors you know her teeth she's fucking up her teeth so royally so royally and everybody's like who's paying for these braces because how long like are you she's made her entire career and stick off of changing the colors of her braces. And the fact that there are then people in the comments going like, oh, my God, I got to do this. And she goes, I know. I don't know why more people do this. It's so easy. Ma'am, I'm not taking braces advice from someone who's worn braces for

six years and is taking matters into her own hands. No one should be wearing braces more than two years unless you have, you know, severe things that you want straightened out. But for the most part two years is the max and if you were doing something that was totally fine you'd be telling orthodontist but you're not and you're fucking up your teeth you're gonna fuck up your bite you're gonna fuck up your jaw like all of these other things and people like you can't fuck with that shit and like i because i remember my bottom teeth started moving i was gonna do invisalign i was getting an invisalign brand deal i was so excited they did all the scans of my teeth and they said under no circumstance can you get braces don't we're not giving you invisalign you cannot

do this you can't do any of this because it will fundamentally fuck up your jaw because your teeth grew in this way and there's no way for us to this is the only position your teeth can be in the way that every time in both of these instances i opened up the comments and people were like oh feel you girl i support you and i go no are she not getting a lot of backlash no she is but similar to the cucumber logan's cucumber cutting device there are people who see themselves in her and then instead of going this is a learning moment for me to read the competency all these people who are like you're a fucking idiot i'm actually going to identify with the idiot in question and say solidarity so i need i need to find out who her orthodontist is and just send the videos

because at this point it's a liability for them too well also if you're fucking with the wire like the wires aren't strong enough to handle like if you cut yourself and that like I had friends where like it's a wire snaps and you get like cut really badly are you gonna blame them right so that to me it's just been a time on the internet where I didn't go to college but I'm feeling so big-brained you are and you don't give yourself enough credit I'll give myself a lot of credit right now because damn these issues are fucking dumb so dumb so dumb and I'm like girls stop i don't want boys to see you doing this don't let them see us like this no because they're already doing things that are yeah 50 times stupider but still come on we're better than this

yeah we're all better than this and if you're gonna be a bimbo i want you to get paid for being a bimbo and if you're gonna troll i need you to troll with intelligence and i need you to troll with subtlety there's a there's a level of trolling where people need to know if you're kidding and when you just keep going like no which one of them is doing that braces well fine i'll find her and send it to you okay well we're gonna take a break i'm gonna decompress because and report her yeah because i just don't if anyone doesn't know melissa went this is almost your path yeah it was i know how to put the um moles like that was my job was to do the moles i would um be in charge of the equipment so i actually know how to use the equipment and

then i would prepare the trays for the moles i was 15 doing that younger than her yep maybe the age she was she got them on for the first fucking time that's so expensive i can't even think about how fucking expensive that is and like the discoloration she's gonna have underneath those yeah and the glue that's what i mean like because it's the yeah i mean the longer they had them scrape the glue off but then like everything around that too like the longer that they had them the more discount like that you would just have just because they would be stuck there for so long yeah okay yeah yeah yeah yeah process we'll be back and we're back yeah we are sorry

okay so um mine is the much more serious than that stuff but that stuff has me shook so so so hard the wmbna needs to do a better job of protecting their players and by players i mean the majority of the players which are black women so the suns were playing the fever in the playoffs the suns beat the fever which is the team that caitlyn clark plays for and there's been a lot of racism that's been happening so carrington one of the players on the sun she accidentally poked caitlyn clark in the eye and caitlyn clark got a um a black eye and a lot of these uh fans of the fever new fans i should say because they now have their great white hope they have been racist as a whole but it really ramped up after this um with the eye poke and carrington was like

i don't even know why i would and why i would intend to hit anybody in the eye that doesn't even make sense to me but no i didn't i didn't know i hit her actually i was trying to make a play on a ball and I guess I followed through and I hit her obviously it's never intentional that's not even the type of player I am and then Clark she shut down any speculation when asked about it and she said it wasn't intentional by any means just watch the play but since Caitlin Clark is seen as this high profile rookie there's been so much pressure put on her by the WNBA by the fans the new fans but with the these new fans because again they see her as like this white savior that's entering a black space and becoming the face of the league whatever that

means this has led to a significant amount of racism sexism and homophobia from comments online from people who are trying to in their own way i guess defend clark who's white and appears to be straight uh the connecticut sun star alissa thomas was asked on wednesday night about her team's ability to shut out the noise which we're calling racism noise that has come with the social on social media and in the stadium and Thomas said and this was after they had beat the Indiana and she said I've never been called the things I've been called on social media and there's no place for that something needs to be done and the league needs to check in with the fans and then Carrington Dijonay I should say her full name Dijonay Carrington she posted screenshots on Instagram

of emails that she's received that have threats and slurs in it and then the head coach of the Sun Stephanie White called any racism unacceptable when she was asked about it she also said I think the thing that frustrates me the most is that we in the media have to do a better job of not allowing trolls in social media to become a story. I feel like we have allowed trolls in social media to frame the narrative of what the story is, and it's unacceptable. After Indiana lost, then the team that Kaitlyn Clark plays for, the WNBA, then finally released a statement. Finally, after everything has happened, starting with coming in the league and the hate that Angel Reese has been getting. They released a statement saying that they don't stand for racism, blah,

blah, blah. I think it's very clear that the WNBA, because of the timing of this, is that they're more interested in money than they are of protecting the people that are fans. One, fans that support a diverse WNBA, and then also the players who are by far, like I said, a majority black the media is also playing a big role in this um like i said i've talked before about angel reese and said that and because of the way that the media has portrayed angel reese she said that you know she will take on the villain role if that's what the media wants but because she got injured and was out early and is out for the season the media had to find a new villain and basically this all fell on Dijonay so the LA Times reported Kaitlyn Clark

suffers black eye it was caused by a player who mocked and called her out in June again it was an accident this Dijonay did not do it on purpose it was an accident even Kaitlyn said it was an accident and we've also got people at the last playoff game they came to the game wearing MAGA hats yelling racist threats there was a woman wearing a shirt that said ban nails and Dijon Carrington's nails aren't even that long so why are y'all just not making a statement at the end of the season WNBA do better wholeheartedly agree and it's just so frustrating because the WNBA has been trying so hard for the the valiant cause of being respected women's sports being respected in, like, the narrative of all of the angry fans

of the same ones who, if this had happened between two Black players, would have been like, this is why women shouldn't play sports, they're fucking weak. Like, fucking, like, stupid weak, whatever. And for the WNBA to have spent the entire duration of the organization combating that to then remain silent when that kind of rhetoric

then benefits them. and this racist fucking fan base yeah it's it's like fucked and also like now like for one now when you get a white girl on the team who everybody quote-unquote everybody this audience absolutely loves and adores just fuck everybody else yeah right like okay yeah it this whole thing of especially like that caitlin clark is this like fragile little girl when she's pushing people around and yelling in their faces too and it doesn't add up you can't say she's the best in the league and then also saying that like she's a poor little innocent victim who's just a poor little girl being like you guys are like everyone's ganging up on her and like this is so unfair i'm

like i thought she was an elite athlete right so fucking insane oh you're not wrong at all thank you all right we're gonna take another break Real Canadian Superstore has everything you need this back-to-school season. Save on lunchbox savers like Ziggy's sliced deli meat products for always $3.75. And get Life Brand Pure Vita shampoo or conditioner for $8 each. At Real Canadian Superstore, when you're ready, we're ready. With a whole world and more. We are back and it's time for our next segment, which is, but are you wrong?

Where you write in to the podcast at butamyrongpod.gmail.com or you can email us at, nope, or you can DM us on our Instagram. And 300 words or less, let us know the circumstance you are in that you would like to know if you are in the wrong about. It is all anonymous. Please use fake names. And the only thing we really ask is that you write to us or have your parents' permission, but you let us know how old you are. And we will dish out our sentencing. Here we go. All right. Hi Eminem. I'm writing in for, but am I wrong? I use she, her pronouns and I'll be 26 next month. I moved to New York two years ago and have a great life for myself.

I model full time and have become really close with a few of the other models in my agency. So my birthday is coming up and my best friend from back home wants to come to New York to spend the weekend with me. I would love for her too, but my friends are already planning a whole weekend for me. My best friend hasn't met them yet even though she's been here a few times. I usually keep my friend group separate. They are all models and my best friend lives in a small town a few hours away. She is the absolute best but doesn't quite match the same aesthetic of my new friends. I just don't think they would have anything in common. Would I be wrong to tell my best friend she can't come to my birthday weekend here is i actually okay here's where i'll start i have so many

thoughts yes you are a high level bitchy cunt um and i do not mean that in a positive way because that can be a no no no a compliment but first of all you say that she's the best which that has not that has to do with her character not appearance but then you say that she doesn't match your aesthetic but aesthetic is appearance that's if she's the best why does she look like she needs to fit a certain way but also why would you think that she wouldn't get along with your friends because they don't aesthetically look the same because you've been keeping them her from them and that means if she's the best that means that they're horrible if they wouldn't match so why are you hanging out with horrible people because you're a horrible person no like you're

you're mean and like this is and i know i i've known plenty of models throughout my days and this is not a um stereotype no model it is kind of the polar opposite that like this is kind of like the idea of someone who what they think models are supposed to be like and how they act and when i tell you karma is going to hit you like a fucking freight train placing this kind of value on appearance like i can't even stress like if you think you're if your friends are in the same boat as you those people are not your friends those are fair like this is this is like so obscenely superficial that i don't think you should invite your best friend i think you should be like hey i'm a bitch don't come because i'm i'm i'm shitty and like this is like such a bad

friend move and if i had a friend that was doing this to their hometown friend i and i'm the new friend i would go i don't want to be friends with you you're a horrible friend right because a lot of times like models got picked on when they were in school. Yeah, most models were like fucking weird looking growing up. Yes. And like when they, so they're like they have that like hometown

girl mentality of like you know, like I understand. Yep. And if you have you don't see that in them, that means you're the horrible person because the

majority are probably closer to what your friend is. And we, we should all have friends like Cece. And New Girl? New Girl. Yes. She's a model. Yes. And she kept her hometown friend around, hanging around. Yeah. That's like, this to me feels like you're cosplaying what you think models should be like. And this is like, not what it is. Like, this is not how you do it. This is not how you have a

long career this is how you get caught up with the bad people this is how you start dating a dj this is how you start dating a club promoter this is how you start this is like this is the ones of like the burn fast and quick got into drugs dropped out of the scene like this is not this because like viewing who you are as your job and viewing like all of this as like a level of something that you have achieved is insanity because this isn't like a work co-worker luncheon these are supposed to be your friends and if you view your friends in a way of like well our aesthetic like look at yourself in the mirror and do you think you are pretty on the inside yeah like this isn't like this is like and and i'm not this not you're not a hopeless case

because i think a lot of people who maybe like feel like they had a glow up later in life or whatever or that they you attribute your value based on your looks and all of that kind of a thing like that is something that you got to unpack because then at what point do you become a worthless person to society if that's how you view your value yeah and if you assign that value to other people as well that is not like a byproduct of the industry you're in it's like a byproduct of how you view yourself in the world do better yeah this is like horrible maybe you should spend your birthday alone figuring out who you are birthday and therapy yeah good god where's your friend from i'll hang out with her a couple maybe she's from uh you jersey you like

jersey i do like jersey or pennsylvania if she's a philly girl i hope she finds you yeah she and also when you say like she's the best i don't believe you anymore like that sounds patronizing to me now what if the friend is actually the mean girl i would die like she is from philly but she'll like beat these bitches up she's like i can't have her around hey that i would understand a lot more and that's able to give us geographical information because it would affect it you say hey my friends are from hartford and my best friend is from philly and i go oh yeah ass fucking hand they're from westchester keep them at home keep them at home those girls can't fight right i hope i actually hope that's the situation that's so funny she goes i can't they

won't survive she'll she will kill them she'll fight the club promoter too like we want people to go and yeah that'd be so funny security comes new york is lawless right now because eric adams is getting indicted melissa when i got that push notification i said thank you apple you know exactly what i care about so the reason why i had melissa go first is because i just want you I'm going to read you just the summary of mine before I read it. And the summary of mine is, Bestie is a bitch. And I thought this would be a good one to follow it up with. Hey, Megan and Melissa, love the pod.

I'm wondering if I'm wrong for not calling out my best friend for being a bitch. So my best friend and I have been besties for about 10 years. We tend to hang out with just the two of us, but sometimes we'll hang out in larger crowds. When it's just the two of us, things are great. We have a blast. Lately, I've noticed when we're hanging out with groups of people, she becomes a bitch. For example, her brother's birthday, she rented out an Airbnb. B, and we all want a mini getaway to celebrate. When we got there, the groceries hadn't been

delivered yet, and we were all hungry. Her brother and his best friend volunteered to grab some snacks while we waited for the groceries to arrive. She started yelling at them, pissed that they suggested grabbing snacks when she spent so much money on groceries and they were just running behind. My eyes were so wide that she freaked out on them. Her brother blew it off, and the weekend turned around just fine. But she does stuff like this all the time, and I notice. I'm wondering if it's wrong of me letting this continue and not calling it out it depends on who she's being a bitch to if you're being a bitch to her family no it's not your place she's allowed to yell at her brother but his friend too that's casual friendly fire like to me i think like if it's

not family then yeah you can be like okay let's not do this this is this is a little much um but for the family stuff don't get involved in that yeah yeah yeah don't get involved in that but what if she's like yelling at like other people that have been invited yeah that i would be like can you chill the fuck out yeah like especially if she's your best friend you should be able to tell your best friend it doesn't have to be like a serious conversation of being like sit down like hey i'm worried that you're a bitch just be like let's take it down a level like dial it back chill out do you need a snickers are you hungry like well she was hungry because the groceries weren't there yeah so i i think in that instance you can de-escalate the snickers exactly he knew

that's why he goes she's fucking angry still want to help her out but yeah i'm a i'm a big believer in um in those kind of conversations it's always good to just like make it a little bit of a joke and just be like i think we heard it okay let's dial it back change the subject but if you make get really serious i just hope you are prepared to square up because she's gonna yell you curious is what type of situation you all have going there because it was his birthday and his friend was there but you were there too i know i'm like do you have a crush on the brother be like don't be so mean to your brother he's so cute he's so cute and then you want to get with the other friend yeah i mean not you her your friend wants your best he wants to get with his friend

yeah i yeah i am curious about that too this let us know the drama let us know the tea the uh i was trying to make a grocery joke with the tea the i was trying to find a grocery store with the tea name but i can't and i just kept thinking of t-birds tiggly wiggly yeah exactly let us know the t-t-t-tiggly wiggly because of tin dixie what are the other ones to have snow trader joe's oh my god i was like i know there is one like i'm seeing the tea in my mind trouts trouts well we're gonna take a break and we'll be back

we are back from break it is time for our final segment but are they wrong where we nominate a person place or thing that we just think deserves a public shaming who's done the worst i'd like to nominate matt and abby for first of all exactly i'm mad that i know who these bitches are like i'm angry that i know about this um and maybe i'll just do this as my whole one because this is the one that i can discuss the most in depth because i'm annoyed that i even know about it but they're um a social media couple he hates her she tolerates him she raises their child he complains she takes care of the home he complains you know it's a wonderful dynamic and then they get on a podcast she cries he complains and i've avoided them because why

the fuck would i want that at all on my feed but then i started seeing all of these things of people talking about them that she went on her instagram story and posted a picture of like parenting life hack where they were essentially on a cruise and their kids hated going to the restaurant but also hated going to daycare their kids are one and two years old so because the restaurant is more than 20 feet away which is how long it takes like the distance range for the monitors instead they facetimed the monitor and left the babies in the room while they went out to dinner and so i want to get up right now i know she posts this as like a life hack and then goes like deletes it goes dark for like 48 hours and everybody's like girl did you arrest it you

went i went well first of all international waters they were still they were they were posting first of all in real time that they had done this so they were posting to their millions of followers left the kiddos back in the room they'd already done a room tour they had shared the fact that they didn't just have one room they had conjoining rooms so the kids could sleep in different rooms so they had two monitors in two different rooms their kids are in a full tent so it's like blackout curtain but it's like a zipped in kind of thing so you can't even see them from outside so let's say if there was a fire and an employee came in they wouldn't know that there's kids in there at all um and then they got on there so so are they thinking because they're on

a boat that somehow it's safer that it's like a like they're considering the boat like their whole house and like if they were just downstairs for dinner at their house and they had monitors in the kids rooms is this what how they're seeing this but again take in mind that they're without the range of monitors so they have to facetime the monitor and you know what is consistent on cruise ships wi-fi of course wi-fi is never lagging always super consistent i'm so angry right now i know and then they had the audacity to get online and she says okay guys i could totally see how you took it this way and i'm like bitch there's only one way to take this and she says well of course there was someone else in the room with them who the holy spirit great question

apparently they were there for like one of their like parents like anniversaries or whatever but they had mentioned that they were going to dinner not just them too they were going with other adults and now they've created this pretend saving grace that of course there was an adult in the room and i go there's an adult in the room where positioned behind the facetime of the baby monitor that they just sat there and you yeah you would have thought that that's not a part of the parenting hack because that parenting hack is just called babysitting babysitting you wouldn't post that that's it's irrelevant because you would just have the person who's in the room there that you can call say how are they let me see the monitor no no no no no no and it was just

ridiculous and i am so angry that i like know who these people are and like he seems like the fucking worst also i'm pretty sure he's like trying to be like musical artist and a musical artist i assume with his haircut like a mormon soundcloud rapper and i think that's one right isn't he the one who also tries to have a music career i don't know i've avoided everything i could about these people and then this one was unavoidable and purely shocking especially when they got online afterwards i'm like oh my god i get to totally see how you could take it that way that's like actually not what we meant at all so i hope cps uh has been called to the point where i don't think their kids would have been taken away but in this line of that they should a not do this

but beyond not doing this they should not be posting about this in a sense of influencing other young parents because also if it's in real time too then yeah somebody could just go to their room and take their kids some fucking perv who works on the cruise ship like it could you know it's like it's so ridiculous like if there's a fire if there's an emergency cruise ships are huge and we've seen the titanic that shit is not well organized a chaos happens like no or they have to do something that happened like a hundred years no but i'm just saying that like think of like the the chaos that happens no matter how many like things that are in place from employees and all these guidelines and stuff you have you are outnumbered from the amount of guests there versus

people who work there who are supposed to remain calm under pressure like you don't have that there's an emergency you might not be able to get back to your room you might have someone else who gets like all of this is like there's so many variables here and like the idea that if you want to have alone time this is going to be a crazy suggestion maybe you have a babysitter i promise you if your kids don't like the daycare that's fine they'll they'll survive for one day or you don't go to dinner without your children like or you don't bring your kids exactly like you can't have everything you can have whatever you want but you can't have it all at once and the idea that this is like a parenting hack was truly shocking to me because it was giving

the same vibe and then i even opened the comments like some people who are talking about this being like oh my god my parents used to like go to the bar down the street when i was a kid and i turned out fine i go i promise you you didn't turn out fine i saw these kids you may saw them too like three-year-old and the baby baby it was on tiktok of um the three-year-old was just walking around outside with one shoe on oh my god yes and um the neighbors found the kids and the neighbors were like trepidatious thinking like maybe the mom fell asleep inside so they home yeah so they went inside and were calling around no she was gone there was no adult that was there and so they had posted on tiktok and people were like why are you posting these children but they were like

the police are taking a long time to get here who knows these fucking who knows these kids so the police finally get there you know and they answer the questions and the the um little baby baby was like so happy that they had picked him up and then the three-year-old was like trepidatious about going to them and it was clear that like he hadn't been taken care of in a long time the police finally get there and then like the mom shows up and is like mad that they call the police and like isn't even running to the kids no it's just like what's the problem the kids aren't running to her which is a telling sign and she's like well my brother was supposed to be here did you see your brother come though no the brother was coming but she didn't stay to see

if the brother came yeah this whole thing of like you know we have to do what we have to do kind of a thing is yes i understand and sometimes the thing that you have to do is like put your kid in a daycare that they don't enjoy sometimes what you have to do is hire a babysitter that you don't sometimes what you have to do is your kid has to go to a neighbor's house who doesn't have tv and it's really fucking boring sometimes you have to bring your kid with you on the air like sometimes you have to do those things and like i understand stranger danger but like the whole thing of like people who are afraid to leave with their kids with other people that's totally fine to be afraid of that but the result is then you bring your kids with you you don't leave your kids

alone so yeah fuck matt and abby and that he has the most i can't even explain to you when i tell you he has the most punchable face i'll find you a picture okay all right my pick is offset my nomination so cardi b and offset are going through their second divorce cardi announced in december that she'd been single for a minute however they reunited in public multiple times since then during an instagram live carly cardi accused her estranged husband of blowing up her phone trying to make her jealous over him moving on from her and i think it's like after new year she clarified that their relation status that the answer to getting back together is not a good night at the club and fucking the night long not quite sure what that means cardi but

okay i'm on your side whatever you say girl we need to work out our shit we need to work on communication there's things that we that he needs to work on there's things i need to work on But then the allegations came out that he had been constantly cheating on her, which at this point, they're really not allegations because he's been saying it and she's been saying it. So if the accused is doing it, then therefore they're doing it. And then he wrote on Twitter and did, which some fans online speculate it had, it was confirming that he was cheating. and she said but fuck you i regret you i'm too good for you i've always been too good for you which is true accurate accurate at fashion week in paris she said i don't care about my i don't care about any other woman with whom offset might be having relations i'm too much

of a woman for you and i've always been too good for you so she's reiterated this and she really didn't want to bring the issues to social media but he was out there being messy and petty because he was hurt then she said let's go lick for lick let's go round for round let's go hit for hit I told you leave me alone and then Cardi said since you want to fucking threaten me talking about you want to take my shit you want to take my shit because I'm moving on move on move on why can't you move on and it's because he's been accusing her of sleeping with other men while she was pregnant and it's like y'all aren't together so what does it matter you were sleeping with women while you were actively married not separated actually married but he's been

harassing and threatened her threatening her on social media um and just being the loser that he is i've never liked this dude i said it before i even know that he i even knew he was a rampant cheater i said i didn't like him and i it was just based off looks and then she said nothing surprises me anymore you've done it all so i don't care thank you for my kids though all three of them i don't regret none of them but i regret you i don't regret my kids you're a good daddy you're all right i don't want you dead because my kids love you down so i would never do that and i really follow street codes she is a bigger person than i could ever be yeah how many times do i wish a death upon a man you do today but you don't have children with those men no i know but

But I'm not, but I've never, as of now, I couldn't be that big of a person. Yeah. And she still is. Yeah, because if I was around that, gotta remember our audience. Just do the motherfucker thing. There's no space for exactly the right amount of syllables. I just needed two. if i was around him the the wop that i would be rapping about it wouldn't be the wop that

she raps about it would be the wop that kendrick lamar raps about wop wop wop wop wop fuck him up i just how can you be a serial cheater and then be mad that she's fucking somebody just because she's pregnant and there is no point to there is no goal there is nothing he achieves from this other than being petty so like if they were because they were not married but if they had if they had no um if they had a prenup in place that like was void in the sense of like if one party cheats then they don't have to pay whatever and like he had well they're still technically currently married am i wrong in making up that they had said she had said something about a prenup she's rapped about a prenup i don't know if she said it specifically but because i was

gonna say if you were gonna pull this shit i would have thought it would have been the first like the first marriage because this time i'm pretty sure it's a lot of money yeah i'm pretty sure it's pretty fucking iron clad and so if it was the first time around if it was something along the lines of like prenup is void if one party if if that party cheats then the fact that he had cheated he would then want to accuse it of her too so it would even out the playing field but i'm like this is the second one so i don't think that that's even in place here anymore like this is this is this if i'm not wrong that she's been quoted this is far more ironclad in that sense that like they both have too much to lose and so it's uh we walk away we wipe our hands

free of this other than whatever child support those things that happen naturally that's not like a prenup or a postnup or whatever like what just happens so i'm just like what you the only thing you gain from this is like you feel embarrassed and so you're trying to embarrass her and it's not working it's not working she's beloved and who cares about him but i do think about how they're in the baby shark movie as voices as a family even the babies have baby have a character about them and i was like who thought this was a good idea because at any point you'd be like they're not going to be married well i know because i in my mind i thought again it's hard to remember what when they were married the first time and to them when the second marriage

started again of that because in my mind the baby shark i'm like what's that in between like it it was after the second one so that would have been during marriage yeah but i don't know why he's acting well i do because he's a man and then we'll do one thing consistent consistently and that is act surprised when their partner is upset that they cheated on them and then they will retaliate with being even more upset that their partner has moved on yep and then they essentially treat that like cheating and i go but i thought cheating wasn't that big of a deal i think that's so odd that you would be so upset about this nut for nut yep yep yep yep yep yep i saw a whole thing about how like men won't stay if a woman cheats because they won't even stay if a woman

gets sick like it's just like mentally like that's the whole thing and so then to put these standards on her and she does not have to be this nice to you and her fan base does not have to be nice to you either and we have to keep in mind cardi has not let out a record since her first one she's that single so like the fan base is like deep from one album and loving hip-hop so no like it is just there's nothing that you could do better for your career and your well-being than being respectful co-parents with her and that she's even letting that be an option right so there it is idiot idiot idiot idiot well that's it we hope you all enjoyed this episode as always you can write in about uh your circumstance and situation that you for the

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