Don't Blame Me! - BAIW: Religious Deal Breaker

Episode Date: January 4, 2024

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hello hello welcome to another episode of but am i wrong starring two people who have not once ever ever ever in their lives ever been wrong i'm trying to make my eyes look more open most of them i have been currently no i can you've got so much white in your eyes look me like no matter what it's just when we're recording there's just nothing i don't know why when i look back at the edits i'm like we're open your eyes bitch yes i don't know why yeah so i'm not i'm i'm like i'm here in in body i'm not here in mind nor am i here in spirit so it's gonna be a roller coaster of emotion in this episode where we've got lots of different

segments we'll get into each of them before we actually get into each of them that's a sentence that made sense but uh you should just know that all you really need to know for this is that we're never wrong and um the quicker you learn that the better it would help so many people it really would so um do you remember i guess we can get into our first well we should introduce ourselves my name is megan and i'm melissa and together we create art we create your favorite podcasts it's um it's a burden that we carry but we're someone's got to do it someone's going to do that heavy lifting someone's got to carry that load so um our first segment well actually before we get into all of it you should know that one of the best parts of this podcast is you get to vote

who you think is wrong in each segment over on our instagram stories and then we read the results of those on our friday episodes called fisting friday don't ask why we named it that if you're new here it is solely just because we made it once as a joke and now it's stuck so unlike the kids exactly fist comes in and out real quick only on fridays we stay moved up we we stay primed ready we stay stay in alert um so yeah do you remember who went first last time yeah me but speaking of my niece and nephew said we found you on google and i said no don't google me you said and they said we know now we know about you you now no they're like we know now not to look we learned the hard way auntie our bad that's on us we won't do it again we should have listened

and you're like and that's a life lesson little ones yep all right i went first last time so you're up great let's see what i wrote down so our first segment is called but am i wrong and that's when we get into something from our own personal lives that we may have been wrong about or a hot take this is my lukewarm take i think if it's a hot take i would love to hear why people are opposed to this we need to bring back the instagram like page where you can see what the people who you are following what they have liked because when i tell i think i've told you this offline when i tell you the jump scare of a lifetime that i had which wasn't even a jump scare because like i knew it was coming that i was on a uh a news post and it was a horrific

headline um and not something that anyone should agree with and i saw someone i know was like like and i was like good god so um i i when we find when we come across those in the wild it's very jarring and you know sometimes when you have to get a confirmation you suddenly have to be like looking through like the babylon b and you go if i'm having to look through this feed to see who who is like what what and what you already know you're in for a bad time but also bring it back make it easier don't let these people don't let it skate by so easy to don't don't let it don't make me have to put in all of this legwork like let me know let me know i thoroughly enjoy the like page i feel like it was here and there so fast and it was a great time when it existed

i remember all the women that michael b jordan was liking i knew when he was online i was tracking them as every move from that page i was watching my shots just fly out the window but you know at least i knew my competition he was like short thick girls i'm like i'm in there and here i was going well i can just keep hoping praying for a scrawny white girl amongst them and he's like not once ever and i'm like okay okay stay strong like it was helpful i know and why'd they get rid of it who are we protecting we shouldn't be protecting anyone if you don't in the same way where i love when i'm on tiktok and just randomly scrolling and see somebody that i know has commented on something i love it i want

to see because instagram doesn't give me the same because i'm not just girl instagram for me is for people i know and tiktok is for people i don't know and there was a tiktok for some i can't remember what it was but mons and i were like dying at it we looked at the comment and you were like yours just popped right up and we are both dying i need to ask him when he gets come back upstairs because he was like of course and i was like of course it could have been a cruise one great i'm unsure though yeah i actually i don't think i've commented a lot about the crew stuff yet um but i love yeah i'm just i want to get to know people before i yeah you know because i feel like there's gonna be there's gonna be some shots we got nine months there's gonna be some shocks

and i don't want my comments on somebody's page when we come out of her story yeah but i would like to know because i don't want all of a sudden somebody pops up with the video with somebody else that's quite controversial somebody that i liked very much yeah and then i'm thrown for a loop disappointed was the word that i responded when you said thoughts yeah i just said disappointment that is also what allison said too yeah so i'm just like i just want to know who who paid what amount of money to to remove this feature because like the the feature benefited so many and only harmed a select handful because i'm also like you're already publicly liking on your goddamn fucking public account like what do you mean you want it to be like more secretive

i just think that we as we as a society we as women we as humans deserve the like page back bring it back bring it back i specifically wanted it last week we're on the same page yep same fucking page so that is my um take if anyone knows why it's gone anyone has any insight we'll keep you anonymous let us know maybe somebody at instagram got in trouble with that's what i'm thinking yeah i'm sorry i forgot to take my gummy vitamins like a child your focus ones this one's for active immunity oh yeah you because right now the immunity has been pretty inactive dormant immunity all right mine i don't it's a hot take but i don't think yeah i was still swallowing and going

i was like damn is this really hot or not i don't think it's hot for us or our audience but i think other people think it is so mine is tesla needs to be stopped i wholeheartedly agree these are toys these are actually supposed to be cars my man not toys so a tesla factory robot reportedly attacked a worker and left them bleeding do you know why not to victim blame but do you think they've been saying thank you probably not so it happened in 2021 but for some reason we're just now hearing about it it's just now getting to the news a witness allegedly observed the robot at the giga texas factory pin an engineer down and claw him at his back in his arms and it caused a trail of blood on the factory floor that's a horror film

yes the engineer was able to break free from assembly after robot colleague pressed the emergency stop button so if someone hadn't been around we know it was a different robot colleague yeah like a somebody that works in assembly with the robot like a real person or an actual robot that would be terrifying bumblebee being like you gotta turn on megatron wow yeah so when the person was released from the clutches of this robot they reportedly tumbled a few feet down a chute intended for collecting scrap aluminum this is final destination there was also an open wound on their left hand the robot was designed to handle freshly cast aluminum car parts and according to reports tesla said the engineer's injuries did not require him to take any time off

of work i'm shocked elon musk has said that it's getting blown out of proportion and doesn't understand why somebody dug up a story from two years ago and my question is why wasn't this in the news two years ago on top of this there's been so many tesla controversies in 2021 seven women came forward and claimed that they had faced sexual harassment and discrimination at the Fremont factory. And then in 2022, a California judge ruled that sexual harassment lawsuit could move to court, rejecting Tesla's request to a closed door arbitration. In 2016, the National Highway and Traffic Administration took issue with Tesla's use of NDAs regarding customer repairs and in 20 october 2021 they formally asked tesla to explain its nda policy

and the reason why they have ndas is so that they can't report things that are happening like malfunctions in the car and things like that well if anyone has any questions about how well teslas are functioning might i encourage you to go to the tex drive just by the tesla repair shop melissa i drove by with monster's parents and they were like oh is that which one were you at the tesla dealership it's by ikea okay there's one in culver city too that there's so many cars at too so but this one this is like you know it's ikea it's far away from la and so they like they were like oh my god there's a tesla dealership here and i was like no guys those are the repairs they're overflowing onto the street same with the one in culver city so bad i'm like it's the worst

pr ever and they have so much like tesla flags tesla branding like so much i'm like you're literally just advertising the fact that like all of these cars are broken yep in 2019 a former tesla security manager filed a whistleblower complaint alleging that the company had hacked employees phones and spied on them casual in september 2019 a judge ruled that 12 actions in 2017 and 2018 by musk and other tesla executives violated labor laws because because they sabotage employees attempts to unionize the u.s national labor relations board ordered musk to remove a tweet and reinstate a fired employee over union organization activities the california civil rights department filed a suit in 2022 alleging a pattern of racial harassment and biases a former

black worker described the work environment at tesla's buffalo plant as very racist place they had something weird that happened on juneteenth in 2020 that approximately 100 former employees have submitted signed statement alleging that tesla discriminates specifically against black people and i haven't i can't find what this juneteenth incident was seems like they're trying to keep it quiet we'll hear about it in two years yeah also this man won a million dollars in his discrimination case against tesla and then also tesla like during covet they were criticized because musk had sought exempt to exempt the tesla fremont factory from government stay-at-home orders and urged people to go to work and in an earnings call in april he

was heard calling the public health orders fascist so that's just a few of the reasons there's so many more you can google it but stop don't support tesla they need to be stopped yeah and they're not good cars no point blank like if they were good cars and you're like separate the art from the artist the artist is bad and the art is bad follow any detailer on tiktok they'll tell you how shitty teslas are i saw a thread of someone who was like talking about on twitter about how like there was like some like issue with theirs and they were like talking to like their repair people at tesla and they were like you know we haven't been around as long as like honda and toyota all those places we're still ironing out the kinks and you're here with us

on this on our first voyage and the guy was like i i don't want that like that's like you're not instilling like support and like um comfort and security in your customer base by saying things like that not at all and cars have been around for years if you can't improve on what already exists then you shouldn't be making cars just maybe just don't do it we'll be fine we don't need it well you're not wrong i wholeheartedly agree with you and i do think it's a great time to remind everyone this is a fact that i recently learned that the little boy from love actually is married to elon musk's ex-wife i thought she was married he was married to his like his daughter no ex-wife well that's not a reminder to me that is new information brand new information

i like knew he was married to someone that it was like related to it and i looked it up and i was like oh shit so how old is she i don't know but that little boy look was a lot little like he and karen knightley were closer in age than karen knightley was to most of the other cast oh he was a petite boy okay i think he was like 13 and that or something which ex-wife i don't know how many are there or just to lula and him were married twice oh that's a that's embarrassing oh she's 38 okay he's 33 who's brody thomas brody sangster uh-huh yep okay well that's all i got for this segment we're gonna take a break and when we get back we'll get into but are you wrong

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tenses of that and we rule with our sparkly little gavels and we tell you so first up hi m&m love y'all and thanks oh keep it under 300 words and um it's all anonymous so if you if it's like involves a lot of other people use fake names and yeah hi m&m love y'all and thanks for always giving me something to listen to while i get ready you're welcome i'm a bartender at a really nice bar and one of my regulars who i've known for a little over a year wants to buy me a matching van cleef bracelet and necklace set for christmas while this is obviously very very generous i simply don't need such extravagant gifts i've told him many times that while i appreciate it he really doesn't need to but he insists and showed me yesterday that he's already purchased a set

i've been having car trouble lately cost of living is high where i am and my heart medicine isn't covered by insurance so that's like 400 a month on top of regular bills etc etc my finances are pretty tight and while i'm very blessed to have it handled i budget well and i'm good about making investments for my future there are just other things that would help me more and be more meaningful than designer items wearing such expensive things while knowing i have other financial stuff that needs to be taken care of would feel so wrong would i be wrong if i sold the jewelry and used the money to purchase a good replica to wear around him and use the rest towards trading in for a more reliable car instead you would not be wrong at all literally i'd have to

say buy a freaking replica and then do your thing also stop resisting expensive gifts from people who want to buy you expensive gifts you you say no no you really don't need to do that one time and then the next time you just laugh it off yeah i love this for you it's already passed so i hope that you yes and this picks hope you get a great money for this and uh i wholeheartedly stand by this the only thing make sure you get the warranty from him too yeah if he didn't give it to you already make sure you get the warranty on it just so that you specifically have it so you can use it and get it more money when you go sell it but take it i also this might be the hottest thing in the world i think van cleef is so ugly it is just the idea that it would cost

that much and it's not even like sometimes they'll have diamonds in it but i'm like if it's gonna cost that much like i need it to be i need dime like i need i need some stone stones not just a little like gold yeah so i'm glad that he's giving you something that is so easily replicable because like if he gave me like a dime and tennis necklace that would actually be very hard to part with yeah like you'd be like fuck i want to keep this and then cleave it's like cartier like there's a dime a dozen in the replica market so i'm excited for you send pics yeah what kind of car are you gonna get get a couple replicas just so you have the exact same one so then when he sees it you know in case it tarnishes or something facts but good for you yeah good for you all right next one hi

Eminem, I know you two wonderful women have different backgrounds when it comes to religion, so I need your advice. I don't know what they're talking about. My best friend, 24SheHer, has been with her fiance, 30HeHim, for two years, and they got engaged this summer. He is very religious and she is not. Throughout their relationship, she has started to attend church with him, though still not really feeling like she identifies with it herself. She's always been open and honest with me about her feelings on this topic so I tried to push her to be honest with him as well. Well things came to a head when after asking his pastor to officiate their wedding he told her she essentially needs to identify with his religion by their

wedding next fall and she'll need to move out of their apartment to abstain from any ungodly activities and she has a month to decide if this is something she wants to do. Throughout their relationship she was constantly she was consistently questioning him on what happens if she was never able to fully identify with his beliefs and he has always said it wouldn't be a deal breaker. As her best friend I don't want to see her pushed into something that she has communicated over and over again to me that she isn't ready for and isn't even sure if she wants and sort of holding her accountable to everything she said to me about what she wants i don't know what to do i mean i wouldn't think you would be wrong for bringing this like up to her but i can't imagine

that she's also not thinking the same things you're thinking this should have been something that was handled a long time ago well he lied he said it wasn't a deal breaker for him for him but it is i mean it still might not be like a deal breaker but like it would she would he be okay to be married by somebody else that would be the deal break like the actual deal breaker part he can have anyone do this he could have a friend get officiated and do this they don't have to be married by the minister yeah so that is what i would say is would he be open to being married by someone else and then after that after that reaction that would be yeah like did that come from the pastor did that come from him that would have come from a pastor i think yeah but he was

like okay like fine i mean i point blank i think like religious differences like active practicing religious differences are like it just is a deal breaker and i say this as someone who like is not religious that i would if i was dating someone who was religious i would know that like it is a deal breaker for me as well and i think like we kind of just view it as like oh the person who's an active participant in religion it's if it's a deal breaker for them or not um because on the other side of it if you're an atheist or you're agnostic it can be like oh well you're not being tolerant of someone else's you know religion in that sense and that if you if it's your deal breaker and if they're fine with it but you have to like you know if people want to have kids later

on in life but religion is such a huge part of people's like core life and belief system that like that's not something that i think you know you would have to if you have two different faiths like what do you if you have kids are those kids like what do you want them to learn what do you want them to believe at all even if you're not going to have kids i just think that it's pretty unrealistic to be like oh it's not a deal breaker but then you're also asked to participate in religious aspect like if it wouldn't be a deal breaker then the default would be no religion not your religion yeah yep you know agree because you know i have things that i would prefer like i would prefer to be someone that like with someone that believes in god but like not churchy

it's very specific and that's fair yeah and thankfully there's a lot of people in la like yes there are big big la vibe um but yeah it's like i don't think that you would be wrong for like bringing it up i think you would be wrong if you like didn't say anything and just like silently supported it because i think religion is a really touchy subject and you always want your people you're always afraid of being offensive to other people's like religions without being like this is her life too so i think like being that voice of reason and being like you know you can just say no to this like this is like not cool i think if i was in her shoes i would feel really appreciative of my friend just shooting it to me straight yes and then also i would say

this seems like a very conservative church too yeah so i don't know if it's even an option where they could maybe go to visit like a more liberal church and they would have more relaxed they wouldn't care about your living situation at all so like you may like find a minister like it can still be someone that's a religious minister but they don't care about you abstaining yeah i think it's like you also have to figure out if it's is is her partner talking through the pastor like is it like oh i'm not going to be the bad guy like he will he's going to set these things but if he's not i think it's on him to like lead the charge of being like oh this is not going to work for us because he's the one who wants to incorporate religion but also yeah i think

like he's just defaulting to his we have to incorporate his religion and that doesn't that to me sounds like it is a deal breaker yeah to not yeah so maybe find a non-denominational church and it'll be better if he still like wants a relationship with god and then it's not clicking for her maybe going to a different type of church might help if she is willing to do that but if not this might not be the right place to be yeah well best of luck to your friend and best of luck to you this is stressful situation to be in as a friend as well shall we take a quick break before we get into our final segment oh yeah baby your playlist might get you through the workday but have you ever wondered how your ancestors

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fucking long and i've talked about it offline with so many people i'm nominating panera fuck you panera fuck you panera so if anyone has missed this panera has this thing called panera charged lemonade which has not been um accurately depicted or advertised as uh being an insane amount of caffeine and they also released it at the same time that they released these like panera rewards something along the lines of free refills so it is a self-serve drink with free refills that people are not being told how much caffeine is in it because also lemonade is not something that typically has caffeine in it so um it is horrible um and it is advertised charged lemonade as plant-based and clean wit and then it in smaller print and if you have to go online

some people only found this online because they were diabetic and we're trying to see how much sugar was in it so even like the sugar initially wasn't advertised as it as it is in a lot of their other drinks and they had to go online and were like oh thank god i looked at this and saw this it's got 390 milligrams of caffeine and a 30 30 fluid ounce charged lemonade has more caffeine in total than any size of panera's dark roast coffee and the large cup contains more caffeine than content of a standard can of red bull monster energy drinks combined plus the equivalent of nearly 30 teaspoons of sugar and the fda says a healthy adult can safely consume 400 milligrams of caffeine a day but let's remember this drink 390 and it's not advertised so two people have

died like straight up just died from this one girl had a pre-existing heart condition and would not have drank this if she had known that this was what the contents were and another one was a man named dennis brown who it hasn't been i don't think it's been officially released but had an unspecified chromosomal deficiency disorder a developmental delay and a mild intellectual disability he lived independently frequently stopping at padera after his shifts at the supermarket because he had high blood pressure he did not consume any energy drinks so again like this is not being advertised or marketed as energy drink in store and that is the cause of death and it is just horrific and awful and i hate them and the position of them

in the store is again self-serve next to other things that do not contain caffeine and i know that like i frequented panera when i was in college and like this would have been something that you would have no idea and there are people who are on tiktok who are like oh my god i'd love these drinks and people are like um hey girl have you looked at the ingredients because like you are talking a lot faster than normal and they were like talking like this and they didn't even realize that they had been consuming all of this and a lot of people were drinking this regularly who then suddenly became incredibly dependent on a super super super fucking high amount of caffeine with people who don't drink caffeine in their normal lives like the the aspect of like

consumption consent of like knowing what you're consuming knowing what you're drinking knowing what you're taking and the fact that like we trust big especially like we trust like big chain restaurants and things like this like you think of like there's all these regulations and all these things to follow well no of course i'm not going to like have something sketchy have something bad and it reminds me a lot of like the natural stimulants or the certain one that they sell at gas stations which like people have found are like essentially synthetic heroin and all of these things like we put all of this trust in corporations while we also put like we hate big pharma which again that's like a fine thing to like be questioning a lot of things about

pharmaceutical companies but we then put our trust in like capitalism and like these other companies that they're all they're fucking everyone else over and like i just think that panera is like royally fucked up and the fact that they haven't pulled this from shelves immediately because regardless of you change the signage and if it becomes like a mcdonald's lawsuit where they now have to like heat it to a certain temperature and they have to say caution hot on the cups or whatever that is nobody needs this amount of caffeine let alone this amount of caffeine self-serve and in good conscience you should not you this should not be allowed it's so unnecessary caffeine's like it's a drug like it is something that like you get addicted to and you need and

when you're withdrawing from it like you have symptoms and i think it's like such a clear depiction of corporate greed at the expense of like legitimately people's lives and i don't currently eat at panera but if anyone does like i would be fully boycotting like consuming anything there just because to put your consumers lives at risk and then to not pull the thing off of shelves that has been doing that said thing like you had to have predicted that this was going to happen there's really no other outcome like what the fuck else would you think this would be the best case scenario is you just get a bunch of people addicted to insanely high amounts of caffeine which is also like unethical as fuck so fuck panera fuck panera and there's wonderful

recipes on pinterest for like panera dupes if you want some broccoli cheddar soup or something like that yeah i wholeheartedly agree with you and as somebody whose heart would probably stop like that freaks me the fuck out yeah all right mine is and i may be mispronouncing this person's name but their name is nusha n-e-u-s-h-a alexandra afkami a-f-k-a-m-i she's 27 and she was riding in an uber and was mad that the driver wasn't going as fast as she wanted them to go so she took their phone and tossed it out the window that's gonna slow you down real fast yeah and when he got out to get his phone she jumped into the driver's seat and stole his car what were we running from she was going to the airport so who knows i was almost made a joke was she going to

She was going to the airport. My guesses are LAX, Houston, Atlanta, Denver, Chicago. You're in the right vicinity, Austin. Oh, okay. I've never been to that airport. All the other ones I've been to, and they're huge and stressful airports. So he was driving a 2016 Chevy Cruze.

Officers located her at the airport attempting to board a flight. She was found in possession of the victim's wallet, which she had put her Chase Visa card in. Okay. She had his card on her. As well as a credit card,

there was also a receipt that showed that she had used the card at the airport to shop and purchase half a pound bag of cactus candy and several other items totaling $130. So she had time before her flight. She did. Good God.

She's been charged with unauthorized use of motor vehicle state felony a state jail felony she got credit card abuse and state jail felony she was booked in the travis county jail under a sixteen thousand dollar bond she claimed that she felt like she was being kidnapped but officers noted that she did not call 9-1-1 so when do you know if this was like for the holidays it was just it was a couple weeks it was before the holidays because i'm just like imagining like you're stressing you're texting your friend because i think if like the amount of times like i've been in the back of an uber and i'm like i'm not gonna make this flight this person's driving so fucking slow and like i'm

texting lots and update and then he's like are you gonna make your flight you're gonna make your flight and like you're like i'm running through oh my god i had time i picked up candy and then i'm like psych i'm actually not able to make it i've i've been booked and he was like on a job and i go no in jail like like man like that's like oh so you rushed so fast you so far so quickly you ended up in a worse position than where you started that's a little crazy just a little bit just a little bit so that that's my worst of the week i love that you will also note everybody we are not nominating simone biles husband because i actually don't know that man's name Simone Biles husband I know nor do I know what he does and so it just feels like you know

I don't Simone Biles has so much going on in her life and like her husband is who I only know that he plays football because she was on the sidelines one game and had a custom some a fan brought her a fan of whatever team he plays for brought her a customized jacket Simone Biles brought her a custom jack yes because i don't think he's ever gotten off the bench and i by the way i asked mods i said and i looked up his name and i said do you know who this is and he goes no and i go he plays for the nfl and he goes no he doesn't i was like he does what team and i'm like no he does he does he does and i tell him he goes that man does not play for the nfl and i said that's simone bile's husband he looks him up and he goes he does not play he sits on the bench and like there

are times where there have been like bachelor contestants who i've been like who like it'll say like pro like football player or like x and i'll ask mods and like the vast majority of them he'll be like no no no and a couple of them he'll be like yeah no i know who that is i know who that is and he had no idea who this man was he looked him up and he was like i don't believe you that's how you know this man does not play for the nfl he warms the bench for the nfl ladies don't let a man's light shine you just just be like olympia's dad be like oprah's partner be like marco robbie's husband yeah dolly parton's husband who never shows his face we haven't seen that man we don't know no we saw a picture he's gonna be walking down the street and i

wouldn't know a thing sorry to that man like there are so many people kamala's husband the first husband like come on ride your ticket right that's high key worse to me than someone who's like a gold digger like someone who's like no no i want to get the fucking star on top of the tree i want to get the prize and then i want to make that prize feel so shitty about themselves that i become the like i'm like i'd rather you just be asking for my money then did you see sprinkle sprinkles response to it no but i will send it to you i the thing is i never know if her videos are old or new because she used the shittiest camera but also people are recording it from her youtube so it's already bad potato i mean her potato youtube quality is not good

first and foremost so i sometimes i'm like i this video could be 20 years old what she says is timeless yes it applies to every situation and so when this popped up i was like oh so she's like active like this we're talking about current events okay okay no i haven't seen it that's fucking funny though she has two two different people asked her about it on her live stream and she has two different responses that are both iconic have you seen where people are like holy shit i didn't know how hard white girls stood for like some of my i was like we've moved we've already moved on from this and they're all here just making tiktoks dragging yeah i think it's just so offensive yeah and listeners know that we've always been a fan

oh my god she's the goat she's our she's our number one we love her she's on that she's on that list so anyways anyways this may be the shortest episode ever and you're unmedicated that's i know i said i'm trying really hard and i'm probably forgetting a lot of things to say i'm so sorry and i didn't write any notes down so we hope you all enjoyed this episode should we talk more so it's not so sure no it's fine it's the new year go enjoy yourself have a new year's kiss have eat oh i also saw if you eat um black eyed peas under a table you fall in love i don't know about under the table but black eyed peas is a southern maybe specifically southern black thing but i don't know about it's a southern black thing i don't know about the

under table thing under the table thing i saw a white girl doing i think it started last year because i think it was a joke that somebody made because in like june i started seeing people post videos saying so how are those under the table bitches doing oh well i saw one who was doing well apparently well good for her i mean it would work one time if so many people do it the chances are one person would actually it would happen and also all of it is psychosomatic because if you think you did something then you're going to follow through on that thing that you think you did and you're going to think it's the universe playing through you when in reality it is just you made a conscious choice and then you're like oh i remember that and like let me follow through

on the next action steps by like responding to someone's message, texting them back, asking them out on a date, like makes you a little braver. Yeah. There's nothing wrong with that. I love a placebo. We've said that numerous times. We love placebos. We love a placebo effect. Anyways, have a wonderful

new year. Tell us what your resolutions are and maybe one of your resolutions is to help people and to that I say join our Patreon. Yeah. Help us. Help us help you. Maybe we'll have new merch dropping in a few weeks. Oh, yeah.

We will see y'all next time. Nope. No. We'll circle back. Bye. Bye. But Am I Wrong is a production by me, Megan Rinks. And me, Melissa Demonts, plus Diamond Imprint Productions.

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