Don't Blame Me! - BAIW: Sex Lessons

Episode Date: February 10, 2025

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hi hi welcome to uh but am i wrong if i guess we read to people who have not once ever been wrong talk about times we may have been wrong we talk about the things in your life that you might be wrong about and you know basically all it is is three different segments on this show gossip trash talking shit talking it's a good time it's very fun and we will explain each one of those segments before we get into it but what you need to know is we want you to participate not just by submitting things for us to talk about in your life that you want to know if you're in the wrong about but also topics for us to nominations for some of them but then also voting we want you to vote on who you think was wrong in each segment we post stories over on

instagram we add them to a highlight so even if you miss like the 24-hour window of voting we want you to vote obviously but even if you miss that you can still like go through and respond to those results there and like tell us what you voted the way you did what you thought your feelings and then we read the results as well as your messages and sometimes they include like updates or more context or funny stories from other people that are similar we do all of that on our see you next tuesday episode so it's a grand old time yeah our first segment is but am i wrong where we each of us individually pitch either a thing that is going on in our life that we want to know if we're in the wrong about or it can be a hot take a rant something we just

want to discuss get off our chest and yeah i want to discuss something that you've already brought to the table before but i feel like it needs to be brought up again stan culture is absolutely disgusting it goes too far and i'm talking about stan stans like the definition of a stan according to eminem who i didn't know had a new album out and he was nominated and i was like okay yeah same congratulations or i'm sorry i don't know i mean he lost to doji so no if he's if he's it was he having he got nominated he wasn't there so who knows that's okay really who can ever know who knows so uh people that take things to the extreme and it's also things that they're the people that they're standing over probably wouldn't stand for

i say probably except for one person that i'll discuss later but i won't actually say their name you can figure it out i am not i am not saying their name we have done everything in our power that we do not talk about this no we we talk around it we talk around it i'm afraid and like here's the thing i pick up what you guys are putting down i see what the power you have i don't want to fuck with it do i align with your mission start there yeah maybe i should just start start there okay so our friend friend of the podcast jamila bill she tweeted something that is related to what i'll talk to in a few seconds but she tweeted if you could buy a grammy then your faves plural faves would have one not talking about one thing and not talking about one artist

but also just specifically talking about Beyonce because people are saying that the reason that Beyonce won album of the year was because Jay-Z bought it. Which is crazy because I don't know if these people understand that Jay-Z didn't win the lottery

Jay-Z has had this wealth and could have bought it at any time. Beyonce could have had every Grammy ever he might have been able to pay for a backlog of Grammys and said give that back to me. Right it makes zero sense and so that is specifically what jamila was talking about people know that this specific fandom are very devoted to the person that they fan over for some reason they

thought that jamila was talking about them and she was not not in the least and they came after her they're still coming after her and they doxed her luckily the information that they put out was an old apartment she hasn't lived at in years they posted her dad's phone number online and as jamila said her dad stays strapped so good luck she's like good luck like okay but they also were her grandmother recently passed away and jamila has talked at length about how close she was with her grandmother and they were using her grandmother's photo as their profile picture as a way to say and do the most egregious disgusting things to her that and this is really what my hot take is is that if you are the artist and you see because

we know that you're online a lot and you see that your fandom is going after people and this goes across for what i'm going to talk about in a second is you should say something because these threats are getting ridiculous they've been ridiculous i mean the earliest fandom that i'm aware of and this is only because my seventh grade music teacher was obsessed with the beatles and made us watch every documentary ever known about the beatles and beetle mania and the way those people were was wild that's the earliest one i know because i was forced to learn about it but like we have to like there has to be something done because this shit is hateful sexist racist colorist and is putting people's livelihoods at risk also when i talk about like

artist responsibility and i know and i'm not specifically talking about people will take it like i'm talking about billy eilish i like billy she was in my top music i enjoy her music megan and i had a discussion earlier this week about this but like why are people so mad that billy lost album of the year and when i say people i'm talking about her her fans her stands stands i should say her stands because i am a fan i'm not a stand her stands were so mad she didn't win album of the year and are blaming beyonce saying it's not a great album when she literally was nominated for seven awards and didn't take home one but you're not mad at sabrina you're not mad at chapel i don't know what else she was nominated for so i can't keep going

but but like i guess kendrick song of the year yeah you're not mad at kendrick video but use both music videos at grammys do they no yeah they do oh yeah but kendrick was nominated for both but i'm not sure which one billy he beat her for i don't know if he beat her on both or just one well kendrick swept so no i know but i don't know if they're saying that he beat her because like they're being very selective they're like they do come after kendrick for one of them but i don't think they're coming after him for both got it um and saying that beyonce specific like doesn't deserve it saying kendrick doesn't deserve it but you're not going after like the other white people that won over her so billy did make a statement but it was in a story

oh i missed that right exactly i didn't even it wasn't even i didn't even tell me it wasn't specifically say it was more just like congratulatory and not specifically saying like what y'all are doing is wrong and i know that she's young but she's been in this industry for a minute and people are literally being so her stands are being so racist it's sickening and they're also doxing beyonce fans and billy is a i mean she's a genius for like she's young she's a genius i enjoy her music she's also a huge fan of beyonce so much so that i don't know why this clip isn't everywhere but like beyonce when beyonce was walking in billy turned around and like jumped because she was so excited to see beyonce she we've seen her fangirl at the

last grammys when everybody was like lining up beyonce specifically went over to talk to billy and phineas like we were touring the line and they were so excited billy was crying about beyonce because she was excited not because she lost so like i think that billy needs to make a statement like what y'all are doing and saying is not should not be tolerated she doesn't tolerate it no it's so like i cannot stress how embarrassing of behavior it is because like you are treating billy like she is this emotional inconsolable fragile little girl while also at the same time saying saying she's like an absolute powerhouse no one can touch her she's so like strong and like talented and i'm like you can't know like you can't do that aspect

of it and like even people who are saying like you know billy's like no skip out i'm like okay your opinion sure totally but the amount of people who quite literally have told me that like Beyonce doesn't like you it's a it's not country or like the album is not good blah blah blah it doesn't have any of the qualities and I was like what do you what part are you talking about but I'm like have you listened they go I haven't listened and I was like exactly they haven't listened but even if that's the criteria the category was album of the year it doesn't even matter what category it the actual album genre the actual album is it's overall and billy lost in everything but because beyonce didn't win a cma she shouldn't have been able to win an album

of the year because she only won one country music award and it was that same night i'm like you're insane but she also won for best duet don't and also like these are values that you know that your artist that you stand over doesn't stand for so how are you actually a stand how can you call yourself a fan of this person and also someone who so clearly and verbally has shown their affinity for black culture and every walk a day in her shoe her shoes every day in her life and like she grew up in la like this is not there's a there's like a reason why a lot of people who might not be quote-unquote cool with a white girl dressing the way she does even like talking in interviews when she was younger a lot of people have been like she grew up in like this is who

she grew up this is she grew up with all of that kind of stuff and so like she this is not they understand that's the part that really fucking frustrates me is like there is no pleading ignorance of like not understanding black culture i'm like she references black culture like she and so you can't be her biggest fan and then completely neglect that aspect of it as well as neglecting the fact that like she's a huge Beyonce fan it's just wild to me and I've like at this point depending on who's saying it saying Beyonce should have won for lemonade to me is now giving dog whistle because I'm going like you just started saying this today it's because it's far enough away that you now can say this but but you wouldn't have said it then and you

know you're not hearing them say Beyonce should have won over Harry's house not hearing that nope no hearing that and that both all of those things are true she should have won for all of those but like now to say she should have won for lemonade that's such a fucking safe and easy thing to set because you don't want to pick you're not well no i still think harry styles like it just makes me so irate and like when everybody else cites her and references her as like the inspiration and the best of the best i'm sorry while she is still making music and putting out music the one that the person who's inspiring everybody else she is going to win she in my heart she will win the academy might not recognize her but there's a reason why beyonce fans are like absolutely

celebrating this because it is so long overdue and her biggest fans being the people that were there in the room with her yep unless i literally like almost got so i was so fucking mad they were like well academies get it wrong like amelia it's like amelia perez and i was like if you compare cowboy carter to amelia perez i'm going to this is going to be the last breath you take you're comparing something that is objectively bad also offensive also part of the reason why that's blowing up which i didn't even realize they use a ton of ai so like they're really trying to push that forward it is a butchering of a actual culture and a cultural experience and his situation current event that is told through someone who has zero experience with that or

any of that and you are saying the same thing about a black woman writing a country album that is good and it just it's it's so fucking embarrassing and i i hope people do know that you might think that you're like defending your favorite or it's just all opinions or whatever those people's pr teams they know this you are if there's a fan event a pop-up you're not going to get invited you have this on your social media footprint i am telling you right now no those teams know they're not going to kick you out of the concert but like you are not going to get pulled up you're not going to get any of those you're not going to get those fandom things you're not gonna get that at all they run a tight fucking ship all of them do and i also think that

like there is a level of talent to being on stan twitter specifically that can translate to other things and if you're going to waste that drive ambition potential humor quickness like social media literacy on making people feel unsafe like you're not gonna get a good job like you're not this is it will be your downfall better with your fucking time that's i mean you can work at the fucking pentagon with that or like i think about or like little x is a he was a stan twitter account and like he does not post that or do that stuff anymore but like he was such a huge fan of artists and would like you know say whatever things and i'm sure he would think his delivery and all the stuff that he says like wouldn't stand by but he's able to like use that like quote-unquote

trolling or all that to assist his own career his own songwriting and all of that stuff that is not putting people that's not hurting anyone putting anyone in danger he's using that skill and that talent for his own own personal like his career and like his dream and his goal if your goal is just to be a permanent like absolute out-of-pocket fucking fan of somebody else the end goal of that is is not meeting them or having your idol love you at the end of that goal that is a restraining order if you want your idol to love you maybe know who you are why don't you take that time and devote it to one of the causes that they are so passionate about you could use all that energy to do good in the world yep makes me mad you're not wrong at all

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we're back for the next mine is a little silly but at the same time it's also incredibly serious and i need as a community for us to come together and we need some we need to do something about this stop making food videos sexual it was funny for the first one or two times at this current day 2025 i can't just scroll through my feed happy-go-lucky looking for some people cooking food because i open the comments and what do i see like lurking over the comments is their eyes wide open staring at me maintaining eye contact where they're kneading bread i don't like that i need you to not have your very close-up mic as you thrust and pound and slap your your sourdough all the while maintaining eye contact with me i hate it so much anthony bourdain would he's

rolling over in his grave like it is making me so mad because by the way none of this sex sexual food looks good now if you are that french man hold on before you move over you're not gonna do when they cut a piece of fruit open like a kiwi and then finger it and then it squirts you guys men have to die like we can't have any more men like they're so there's something wrong there is something so inherently wrong with these men and like you're about to talk about my favorite chocolatier french man now here's the thing that man that is not nearly as intentional there are two caveats that i will give pastry when it's that because you can't fake that so many of the other these food videos the food is not they're not doing a good job it's not and they're just

doing it it's just it's a kink it's kink like that's what it is yeah when they get that one guy that always has a toothpick in his mouth and then spits the unsanitary level of that kitchen is so fucking disgusting like that man has never i don't even think he owns lies all like so fucking gross that's part of his uh his thing too he'll clean and make it sexual i thought he was doing vinegar he might be doing bigger yeah i'm not i don't i don't think that man's using any real chemicals but like the two exceptions i will make is to content that the the what you are making in itself feels kind of sexual certain pastries yeah you're stuffing you're cream filling you're drooling the chocolate totally but there's a level of skill required there that you can't

make sex the priority yeah because that shit has to rise like you gotta eat that yeast is there's a time on here this gotta cure all of those things so that is just it is a side effect byproduct of of chocolate being sexy that is fine yeah and the chocolate the man he um i've only seen him do one we're looking about cheek and that was his recent video but like i don't think that was on purpose yeah like he he's a very he seems very wholesome we're not getting a slow zoom in shots with his eyes his fucking pupils looking at me as he's like dragging a finger on the fucking crack putting work in he's doing actual work and he is trained like the end result is not like oh thank you i orgasmed it's like oh thank you this looks delicious like i would love

to get this next time i am at a pastry shop like it is a skill the skill is first that's what's coming fucking first and then the only other time the only other time that i'm gonna say anytime that's a byproduct if these people want to get into making pottery that's fine you can have horny pottery but get your fucking dick out of my food like it's so stuff with the pottery too also a lot of it is bad like they're never gonna actually be able to put that in a kiln because it will fucking explode unless that those people don't even have access to a kiln so i don't care as much these other people are wasting food like that's pissing me the fuck off it just makes me so mad so mad and i hate that like yes i really fucking hate when men do it but i'm really good

i don't have pretty much any men on my feed it's not coming up now to my women my girls i understand melissa i understand you need to make a buck but the the issue is is that men are so stupid so the way that women do this to like get people to fall for it is it's like horny and helpless so like they're bad at it well like uh getting the clothes out the dryer yes oh no stepbrother i'm stuck like it is it is so fucking annoying and then people will do like soft core versions of it where they're just maintaining eye contact with you the whole fucking time it kills me and it makes me so mad because i go and this is the issue the cover art you go that looks like a beautiful loaf of bread and suddenly you're just met with

this like blonde woman with her eyes just staring at you it's like smiled the whole time i go oh my god stop looking at me and it's like do you do this thing with the dentist are you maintaining eye contact like this with everyone you are the quality of your food i think is this is play down now this isn't even real food at this point because why are you playing so much make the fucking bread we don't have to see your face there's so many people who don't even show their face doing this and at that point if you want to do horny food videos go sit on a cake on only fans but get off my fucking feet do you think that they're using it to direct people to to only fans i didn't consent to you being horny with a loaf of bread there's a lot of people being horny on

tiktok that when you look into it more and that's just their it's advertisement for their twitter totally and that is fine but stop doing that with fucking food because there is an actual need for that like i actually need to i i i want to i want to know how to make these things and when you are showing me what i think is a nice beautiful still of a wonderful a wonderful piece of bread and instead it's you i fucking me and they're not even good actors either because i'm just like it's it's it makes me so deeply uncomfortable and i and i know that like it's half rage bait and it's like the same people who like pour spaghetti on the counters and stuff and they're like oh some people say that's also a kink it is a kink yeah and they're like doing these weird

hand signals to signify like there's more to come if you send me venmo have you ever thought about just like showing your titties like i just like whatever happened to like good old titties like like stop with the stop with this like and you're buying the ingredients and like eggs are so expensive and you're gonna waste them like that like it's just it is killing me and specifically it's killing me because these people are not they're not like selling it with like if you showed me what's that one i won't say but you know what i'm talking about the cook with all these boyfriends were like making this food and they like told their girlfriend where and they're like who is this and there's a girl who like has an only fans but she's like cooking in

like a broad underwear and everyone's like i don't know who that is i can't remember her name but like for me there's a difference between like hey i'm like a i'm a baddie trying to cook and like look at me doing this versus like a fucking suburban housewife who's like wearing a turtleneck and like chinos who's eye fucking the camera while rolling out her like yeasty buns like that to me is fucking crazy because i don't know that i don't know that that's what's happening until we start like that's not that was not you you didn't you didn't show up with like you're like you know it wasn't like a sexual image and now you just have like creeps and then i'm sure like children and people are like this is funny i'm like this is not funny yeah i agree i think

i might have touched on this before too we're both doubling back on things that the other has talked about um at first i thought it was funny and then when more people started doing it i was like oh no y'all are serious when they have on the tightest and i'm talking about men not even women because i haven't seen any of the women's content have on the tightest shorts you've ever seen and then they're bending over full ass and they're usually see-through shorts too full ass so that they can get something out the oven and the thing in the oven doesn't even look like it's done no because i can't fucking cook at least finger paint like do something else like i'm fine with your horny content but like get off of my feed when i've curated like what do you mean i'm a

dense bean salad and then i just see you're like moose knuckle with your like raw fucking pizza dough like get out have a skill if you can do both like be good at it like and here's somebody who's not even making specific sexual content but it's still sexual thor sometimes he's like i made two versions of this video depending on what you're in to you're seeing x y and z version and one version is him moaning excessively but he has a message behind what he's doing yeah like i'm okay with people being horny yeah i'm okay with people being horny on maine i'm not okay with people being horny with food waste and people being horny and being bad at what they do be good and horny don't be bad and horny there was a show that was on the cooking network

and it was this man and this was like earlier i would say at least five years ago and there's this full commercial of this very attractive man cooking in just an apron and i was like and i literally responded and said this is the first ad i've sat all the way through that's the naked baker we used the same set was that him i'm sure and he responded back to me and i was like see this man has a skill and he's being sexy let's there's nothing sexier than having a skill come skill first not dick first yes because if you're coming with an unskilled dick nobody wants that can you imagine walking down the aisle and getting married and they're like oh what does your husband do and you go oh he pretends to cook on tiktok with his dick out like he fingers papaya

that's crazy that is so fucking crazy i hate that i i hate it so much i'm trying to find this lady to show you if i do if i find it i don't want it i will say there's another woman who's like a hairstylist who she just like makes eye contact with the whole camera she's like the whole time she's watching people's hair that content doesn't threaten me as much because she's making that for women and she's also washing hair like that's something that needs to be done and i'm sure she's doing it with skill totally but i just mean like in the sense of like it's feeling very intimate but i'm like she's a lesbian this is for the lesbians and i don't feel threatened by her and her unskilled like and it's also she's not for you so no exactly and that's what i mean is

like versus when i see women who are doing it to appeal to men or when i'm like i'm not learning how to bleach my head she's doing it like this is not like let me teach you how to make cinnamon rolls and then all i'm fucking seeing is you shoving your titty into a cinnamon roll like i didn't learn anything like that's crazy let me write that down for content for me to do because i'm excellent at making cinnamon rolls and i love putting my titties out they've been covered up whole all day and even sometimes how people do it and like and like now i'm like hyper critical but when people like make their food videos too slow i go you're trying to be sexy like even this it's not even that slow but like speed it up this doesn't even look good though is it for

valentine's day i don't like people can i give you a few of my food hot takes yeah also you should check the video i sent you before the last video i sent you on instagram because it goes perfectly with this discussion um i don't like people putting excessive salt on my cookies anything like i keep that away from my baked goods if you are a person that wants it just send me a fucking robot i didn't just send it to you i sent it to you like days ago but it's exactly what you're talking about but for the digital age that is so scary you want to share with the class no i'm so afraid it's a robot needing bread but it's like fucking the bread essentially i hate it i hate it a lot i know you hate both robots i really hate robots by the way i really hate

robots i really hate robots that stand on their hind legs and i really hate this kind of food sexy things oh no but if you want to put it feels i feel like every bakery i go to now is putting big fucking flaky sea salt on everything and not giving me a choice to not have it i went to two different bakeries yesterday places one was specifically a bakery and one was a place that had baked goods and every dessert had big ass flakes of salt on i don't want that i do not think that it enhances the flavor for me it just tastes salty yeah so maybe just have some salt on the side and if people want that they can put it on themselves two sourdough i hate it i hate the way it looks i hate the way it tastes and i also hate that people brag about having pre-civil

war starters for it no why is one that i go keep that to yourself it is giving i don't wash the pan nasty that is so disgusting my grandma passed down this cast iron i haven't so guys nuts that sense keep that so far away from me and by the way your grandma's rolling over in her grave grandma wanted you to wash that shit fondant is another one there's a difference between cake that you can eat and cake that's art keep the art cake over there that's what fondant is art cake you can't eat that shit you can't it's disgusting imagine shitting out a crayon and that's what fondant is it's a really good way to put it it is it is finally cheesecake do i like cheesecake yes i don't want to see how it's made it's not even about what how it's made everything doesn't go

on cheesecake sage does not go on a cheesecake i saw that in our instagram feed i don't know why we're getting all cheesecakes this week but i saw fucking sage cheesecake nasty and the final one is not everything needs to have food coloring in it all these this was goes back to that whatever that fucking cinnamon roll you were making pink it looks awful like it really looks nasty it looks inedible yes and it's in the same category with fondant to me i agree with you those are my takes i've i've been sitting on these for weeks i i don't i don't disagree with you i think that like there are so many interesting ways we can like pair food together but like when you have to be like cranking out when you become like a food content creator or whatever especially a horny

one with no skills when you have to like crank out all these different recipes every single week we're literally just making shit up and it looks objectively bad and you don't even care because you're too busy making bedroom eyes at me and then also they specifically position it so it's over the comments so i can't escape it yeah they do that on purpose and it's like a rage bait that i just think like because it's objectively weird to and like here's i'm someone egotistical i'm just a leo so when i go when i became a cum tribute i said i love that that makes you feel so good and i'm not kidding i'm not lying but if if i spent my whole career knowing that i am going to make profiteroles or tiramisu and i know that the only thing people are doing

is ejaculating while i'm making this i'm gonna do something a little fucking easier or something that is doesn't take as much time i'm gonna thinking finger paint like if i if my goal is to get these men to finish to completion i'm not spending all this money on ingredients and like dirtying the kid like oh my god it just makes me so so mad and then they blow up and they get like so big and i'm like you don't even know what the fuck you're doing bad and horny bad and horny well thank you for listening yeah you're not wrong all right uh we're gonna take a break when we get back we'll get into but are you wrong In Toronto, every arrival is a statement, and nothing says it better than this.

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butareyouwrongpod at gmail.com. Keep it at 300 words. We do ask that you keep it anonymous. Let us know your age, though. you to be 18 or over to write in tell us the predicament you found yourself in and we will tell you if you are in the wrong all right hi megan and melissa i'm 22 he him i'm a shift lead at my job in the summer we hired several new people one of them being elect i'm just going to change it because i don't want my device to go off all through during this yeah please never

use that one as the fake name hold on oh my god red room of pain did that get you horny the bagel talk come on to the patreon melissa just got incredible you literally look like you're about to teach barry's boot camp all right everybody grab the dumbbells wear your shirt and tread our floor alexa make the light white yeah so that's why i'm not using that name i'm gonna call led Barry. One of them being Barry. A couple months in, I noticed Barry become short with me. Once we were closing, she was sitting on her phone, even though she already had a break that day. I said, Barry, can you help us close? She said, in a minute, staying on her phone. I mentioned it to our manager that day, then moved on. Once in December, all of the new

hires forgot to close. After searching for them for a while, I closed by myself. Later, I found them all together eating leftovers from the Christmas party. I said, guys, I just had to close by myself. And most said, sorry. Last week when Barry arrived, I waved at her, but she didn't wave back. I didn't think much of this until later. Barry was sitting, reading a book instead of opening i put brooms on her table and said barry could you help me sweep she didn't respond i said barry she still didn't respond she had already put her two weeks notice in so i didn't tell anyone on her last day she announced to everyone behind my back that i was the reason she quit apparently the time i told everyone that i had to close by myself was passive aggressive

and annoying and she thinks i've been holding a grudge against her since that day i can see why she might think i was holding a grudge but only since last week after she ignored me i stopped speaking to her because i knew she'd be gone soon anyway was i wrong do you have any idea why she hates me i think so and i'm sorry i don't want to be mean but are you her boss yeah i'm a little confused why why it doesn't because you have a you have a manager was what's she doing wrong like she's not a lot like or is it just like kind of inconsiderate yeah like i understand her being on her phone is annoying but i'm of the mind she was clocking in and clocking out that yes she showed up to work and she was just showing up to work and you probably take your job seriously which

is a good thing not a bad thing not a bad thing not a bad thing at all but you might and from the tone of this and i'm not trying to be mean to you but from the tone of this you would hate me at work you sounded you sound a bit too in like with your job and and you know you can do good it's good to have things that you're passionate about but in this situation especially since you're not her boss and you snitched on her for being on her phone i would have been i would have been a little bit more cool like going over to her and being like hey you know our manager really doesn't like us being on our phones like something like that instead of snitched or before you had to close by yourself going to find them and being like hey like walking the door of course been

being like hey guys because you did find them and i'm i don't know how big this place was but you did find them so like instead of doing everything by yourself going to find them first and saying hey guys it's time to close let's close down and then we can have food later so i think that might be might have been the reason because you just were going above and beyond and she was there to check it out yeah and like having like co-workers who like are not doing a good job or are like phoning it in in a way that like that means you have to do more work that's not a good I'm not saying that that's, like, a good thing or whatever. It's just, like, you know.

Your delivery for handling it. Well, I don't know that there's anything to do about that besides, like, complain. And, like, you did that. I don't think people are going to be happy that you did that. You know what I mean? Like, it's one of those things. But also, like, she's quitting. So the problem is solved.

Right. It was either that or she said, okay, did nothing. And then still continued to, like, do this. so i think like it's just a matter of like whatever whatever you're fine with putting up with but like in general correcting people when that is not your job will seldom go over well mm-hmm so here we are i kind of think you're in the wrong but also it's probably not the way to do it but i also don't know your job as well as you do what just where did you say they worked didn't but it seems like retail something like that okay if it's retail i think you're very

retail is so not that serious no i used to hang out in the dressing room just because i could i think if it's restaurant and like food handling and like there's that level of closing up with like what you know it's quality safety all that kind of stuff that i think is like like you know being a stickler for it because like you've got not even just like or anything like where anything where like the like osha or like food and drug stuff is involved like any of that sort of handling stuff i don't think that's dramatic at all of needing to report someone because if it's like if they're closing and you're like they're not doing enough whatever it is but i think if it's retail if this is just like folding jeans that made well not that that's not hard i just

don't think that i i i'm assuming that she maybe is not um doesn't have a passion for that like you didn't have a passion for tcby except i did lie on my application and verbatim said i have a passion for yogurt and that is what got me hired and that i can own was in fact a lie though i will say i definitely thought i had an affinity for yogurt until i got there and i said i actually hate this place yeah this is disgusting i didn't have a passion for dillards i didn't have a passion for vitamin world i didn't have a passion for lady footlocker you should have though i kind of low-key love lady footlocker that i don't the puma um zip up hoodie that i wore the last episode i've had that since i worked there when i was 16 it was my first like big purchase that i ever had

that was like over a hundred dollars that i spent my own money on i always just remember the lady footlocker stores just being so big and bright and like so many things the problem was and i talked about it before was that my godmother's niece hired me and she was stealing my um money from commission saying that they were no longer doing commission and she got caught stealing a lot of products later on and you know what she was there for a good time not a long time and i was there just because exactly would you have ratted her out no see but here and here's the thing like i was the manager but she was who would have i ratted her out to i would have to call like the district manager was she doing one of the gift card schemes no she was literally just

buying like taking stuff out the stock and then not clocking it at being as it being in the store oh that's less highbrow than the gift card scams i feel like everyone i know who got a manager job in retail pretty young it was opportunity for that um she wasn't that young she was in her 20s so oh yeah i think she was either in college or her just graduated something like that but you don't have to say though you have man this this this writer you have management potential yeah this is management potential so maybe you should be gunning for that if you're not already and if that hurts your feelings stay with that and reevaluate there's nothing wrong everybody needs a manager everyone needs a manager some people want to be the manager some people know

that they'll have to be managed eventually yeah and it's what role you want to take on i'm not a manager i am but only for my own company and that's ceo versus managing i'm a creative yeah i'm a dreamer okay i'm 36 she her and my husband is 38 p.m we've been married for eight years recently our sex life has been awful we've been having sex but the quality has gone down significantly it's not that he's not trying or putting an effort it's just it's just that it's just bad i don't know what's changed should i be wrong to tell him we need to go to a sex lesson i like this dungeon place that offers instructional classes and i think it'd be fun to awaken something that's died within us first of all change your goddamn phrasing hey husband we

gotta go to a dungeon because something has died within us oh my god he's gonna drive you straight to the attorney's office lawyer divorce oh my god i'm addicted to the just the lack of tact that some of you have with like describing these things because i respect it i hear i now i know exactly how you feel let's workshop you would be wrong if you just did that point blank straight okay so here's the thing we're being set up right now at the perfect opportune time valentine's day is coming up you just propose it as a fun sexy thing that you do together yeah you don't propose it as a solution to a problem he has no idea that's happening is he do you still find him hot are you still attracted to him or i'm gonna you know i might be you i might be stepping out and you're

like this is kind of offensive you sound like someone who maybe has recently got into reading fantasy books are you lusting after men with wings like are you feeling horny for fairies are you feeling horny for men with tusks and horns because get him a fun little outfit but like if it has been objectively bad and nothing has changed it might be you too i fear it's you that is i fear it's you who has also changed i didn't imagine he's still putting in work he's just like he's plowing me but he's not reaching the goal i'm picturing him sweating so hard like he's trying to build a fucking ikea bookshelf and it's just not happening there's just a lot of eye contact and she's just like lying there like and she's reading her book about the horny fairies

i'm like what if i go to a dungeon also guys kinky already because i'm gonna say a sex lesson at a what does that even mean like have you how much have you vetted this yelp i've seen based on your fucking algorithm no not even that someone that we've had as a guest on this show they posted in their close friends i don't know why i was included in it damn you're in a lot of people's close friends i know you're really popular i guess people just trust me with they shouldn't because you're telling me and i love it and i'm telling people on there and she is a member of one of these dungeon places and has openly invited people on her close friends to come participate when they do have classes so i know that they exist happy for them yeah i just

think that like you really can't spur you can't just like spring public sex on someone maybe they're private lessons this one had this there's a coach i'm assuming yeah it was open to either private or group lessons okay but if this man has only been having sex with her suddenly they're being a stranger in the room coaching him saying a little more to the left a little more to the right really put your back into it that i think is i can't i don't think you can do that unprompted i don't think you can it's like an unprompted cucking with it's like a unprompted backseat cucking that's crazy i did see on that show where that reality show where that old lady was building sex dungeons there was one where they visited the sex dungeon and the instructor just kind of

taught them how to use specific tools in the bedrooms like whips and things of that nature how to perfectly tie a knot i don't think men should know how to tie knots that's just a slippery slope it's dangerous so maybe if it's like just specifically instructional to this but i i think if like i think you need to figure out why you're not enjoying this anymore because i'm gonna tell you right now if you don't want to have sex with your husband anymore having sex with your having that realization while a professional is there guiding you guys how to fuck he's like that's bad that's rough like it's you're asking him to do a lot yep do what i mean like that's like that's a very vulnerable thing if you're like what at the end you go i'm actually

just not in your dick and like that's maybe he didn't maybe it's not a him thing like we said before yeah so figure out the why first and then propose this as a sexy time as opposed to a lesson they're also oh remember also those um yoga classes they're quote-unquote yoga classes that's what i'm thinking about and i'm imagining were horny everybody in that class was horny it is quite literally group text like if that was we literally said i don't know why i get targeted all this stuff on i know reels but megan and i literally said like if they turn the lights out i'm sure when the camera goes off they are having an orgy no and like i can't say that anything i would like to happen less at a workout class unless that's something you're into if you're

just a no but that's why you can't spring it on him yeah it has to be like a hey honey how do you feel about railing me in a group yoga class with other other people railing their wives but it's clothes so it's dry humping and i know how much you love that speak room in there fucking sweaty and shit like it's just one of those things that like it is not fun and sexy when the goal of it is i have to correct you because you are bad at this it needs to be it has to be fun and sexy again and i i'm i'm really like i know i'm being funny but like i am genuinely not kidding if you are reading like horny fantasy books you have to stop yeah because it's giving you unrealistic expectations yes but if you just find out that you're into kink then this is something we explore

but it's not because he's bad at sex yeah it's because you there's something in you that you realize that needs to be awakened since it died in you i can't believe our relationship has died that is i don't don't say that unless you like really just don't ever have sex again because like i don't know how you i don't really know how you bounce back from that i was seeing which word choice you were gonna go with with that because if you said come back i was like well she's not coming anyway i wanted you to set me up so bad i'm sorry i just this is just so well like does he have any idea he's doing a bad job either like that's the part that like i need to know here you have me feeling bad for a man or you just have to break up with him

but i mean like not to give you like full advice and not to like totally scare you is anything making you horny because you could also be going through perimenopause yeah early onset perimenopause is a thing but if you're getting off other ways yeah because i'm gonna i know you didn't say this but for some reason you sound horny yeah just not for him yeah i think something could be done i i don't know that a sex dungeon is is the thing i would do because imagine if he's bad when it's just you two how much worse he's going to be in front of other people or maybe he's really good and it's just that she's just not into it yeah just get him some like mr tumness outfit and say like call him like my liege or whatever

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stupid silly and bad that we don't like and we would like to publicly shame them yeah i'm staying on my theme for the week which is the grammys and um something really made me mad even more than seeing that satanic sexual music maker from the pits of hell, Abel, on the stage and having this big introduction. And so good evening, good morning, good afternoon, whatever time you're listening to this. I want to talk to you today about a moment at the 2025 Grammy Awards that really sparked outrage and a much-needed conversation about the respect of our music legends it involves the iconic kenneth babyface edmunds a 13-time grammy winner and a red carpet interview that went terribly wrong picture this babyface a man who has shaped the sound

of generations is being interviewed by an associated press reporter the people who we look to for the election that's the part that really stressed me out not this election they're they're like the they're the top of the top like usually in your local papers when it's national news it has come from the ap and then it's been rewritten by somebody from the news desk at whatever it's like a whole other level of like quality control so like that it shocked me shocking so we've got reporter krista faria i don't know and then she spots chaperone and we love chaperone but she completely disregarded babyface the singer of the song that really if i'm in the mood turn on whip a pill

don't talk about being in the mood you're nasty that's exactly what his song whip a pill is my it was a song that i liked as a child but then when i was an adult and learned what this song is about and i said oh baby that song made you a woman it did it did still does that is my that's my um what was that that man that was having sex to that yeah oh my god what was it what's the name of that song it was crazy it's one of those edm fucking songs i can't remember but if anyone hasn't read that reddit thread it is so funny it's i it's my favorite thing when i get to show people that so this is whip a pill is my version of that got it got it got it so then krista completely disregards babyface and calls over chapel effectively cutting him off mid-sentence

and my beautiful prince old man baby face still has a baby face no he does it's a little crazy was ever the gentleman and just stepped aside now this is a blatant disrespect this was blatantly disrespectful and it didn't go unnoticed and i would like to turn everyone's eyes to a legendary singer and icon the queen of twitter and i say twitter not what it's called now because She also refused to call it that, too. Dionne Warwick, she weighed in and said, 13-time Grammy Award-winning Kenneth Babyface Edmonds? Am I seeing this correctly?

That single tweet perfectly captured what happened. Fans across the internet echoed her sentiments, expressing their anger and disappointment. And then the hashtag, Respect Babyface, began to trend. people called the reporter's actions rude unprofessional and talked about babyface being a pioneer and in case you don't know babyface's music you know babyface's music he produced ariana's first album he produced a lot of whitney's music including what i considered the greatest soundtrack ever and i haven't even seen his movie because i wasn't allowed to

which is waiting the exhale which whitney went to because he just wanted whitney to do it and she was like no i gotta get all my girls on this and we've got tlc is on it tony braxton brandy monica it's the greatest soundtrack that ever existed is it horny is that why you couldn't watch it or is it violent waiting to exhale yeah it's about cheating men and women getting their revenge on it that's the movie that has whitney and angela bassett like i gotta see it yeah we talked about this like last week oh yes it's that one okay okay okay he did tlc's crazy sexy cool he did fallout boys thanks for the memories that song he did so many he's worked with uh patty labelle shaka khan aretha franklin madonna janet jackson faith evans beyonce

diana ross michael jackson michael bolton paul abdul eric clapton i can keep going because everybody that you love has worked with baby face and this is not the first time that i've seen him disrespected on television he was on an episode of real housewives of beverly hills what when yolanda and um who was she married to that music dude you know who i'm talking about he had they were having a dinner and baby face was there and then brandy david foster yes baby face was there with his fiance it was just a dinner like it wasn't anything baby face wasn't really like trying to talk just a dinner and he had just like got engaged and brandy leaned over and was like you need to get her a bigger ring your baby face is it a small ring no it was pretty

big and i'm sure just like the size of it like it probably had like a very high clarity on it like it was a good size ring brandy was just drunk as she often was and saying things and she was also hitting on him i was gonna say it sounds a little flirtatious uh-huh and so facing immense public pressure the ap issued a statement apologizing to baby facing the viewers and then krista apologized on the live stream saying she was a big fan but i guarantee she couldn't name one thing because that disrespect just left a bad taste in my mouth babyface in a statement took the high road he focused on positive aspects of the night emphasizing the power of music and connection he made and this speaks volumes on mr kenneth babyface whoop a

pill edmunds he really put that whipping on me it's a question and in this we should like question and ask ourselves how do we do better in respecting those who paved the way for us while the apology was there was it enough mainly because this man made whoop a pill has anything so many hits that i'm gonna level with you i thought he was dead i didn't know he was not even old no he's like 60 something he has been cranking out hits i swear to god since he was 14 like yeah it is like his career is so legendary that i thought this man was deceased i thought this man had lived his 150 years no you thought he was looking like david foster i thought i thought he was all i thought he was dick van dyke's father i thought he was so fucking old because

he his it spans so fucking long yes and he's quite literally like 60 yeah he's 65 that and that and i have to say i really really resonated with the the look on the face as well as the elbow into the the rib cage from her um co-worker i and i understand that feeling were you that person unless i i deeply understand the feeling i will say that i also opted for something that i just called the shimmy and shift which was i'm gonna scoot my way off camera this is i'm not about this this is not this is not what i'm gonna do i'm not gonna be doing this here and that it was just so mad i have to say though people like coming for both of them and then being like actually so sorry just that one girl one girl just people were like redacted so sorry to this other one and then even

when people were like i can't believe those girls did that all the comments make just one do not come for that other girl the other girl was fine she looked very embarrassed yeah yeah um also it's black history month and her apology on the live was that's it was a producer wrote something real and she didn't read what they told her to read no she said i'm just free bought she probably went to brown she was like i'm smart i can do this and i was like not not that smart not that smart also what is the associated press doing at the grammys because they cover all the news this would have been in the ap part of the music npr like send they were probably there too i just think you have to think anything that's news related ap is going to be there totally i just don't think

they should be given a spot to necessarily interview on the carpet when you are not a music or celebrity forward-facing public relation kind of company it's just i think it's quite a large liability but near nix so i would like to nominate i was debating if i was going to nominate alex earl's stepmom aka the woman from the um governor ashley madison scandal whoever was she was the sex worker who took down one of those ones and now she's married alex earl's dad she's she's hopping on tiktok and spreading insane conspiracy theories but that's not as that's not what i want to talk about instead i would like to nominate the daily mail i know that i said last time people tried to told us to talk about australian drama i was like i don't get

australian drama on my feed i did this is this is australia so sometimes australia ends up there i'm not picking and choosing australians were like oh you don't know enough about this i think that's the key part of this i don't need to know enough like i don't need to know more about this i don't need to know like well the context is i don't need to know the context because objectively you might be letting your dislike or disdain for this person i don't know why i don't know what they've done cloud why you think this would be okay um so the daily mail posted a article with photos of this i would say she's a radio host i think she also is an actress not sure posted videos and photos of her in a park crying stumbling getting up and uh driving

with her daughter and then they also posted a video or photo of her going to a liquor store earlier and buying alcohol implying that she got drunk and drove her kid and it blew up everywhere there is no video of her drinking there is no video of her being with any of that and if there was you need to contact the authorities and take her keys you don't film it and then sell it and profit off of this story so she has now since like broken her silence from this but it like seems like they like followed her from the store where she bought the bottle of alcohol to the park and like she's having like a men she's not doing like she does not look like she's doing well met she's sobbing like she does not look like she's doing well and she made a statement saying i

struggle with mental health issues at times which are steeply personal this has proven to be a bigger challenge than i imagined so i've tried to take a break from the show her radio show and the team who i love to focus on my health i want to thank all of you has helped me through this difficult time i love you thanks for daughter for being there when she needed her and it literally goes like the photos go from her driving and they literally like say the car to the bottle shop near her home and then they followed her to pick her kid up from school and like it just is like so disgusting to me that like they like interview a witness who said that she said she looked really distressed she was walking around in the park talking and suddenly

sat down started rocking her body back and forth crying it was really she looked so upset her eyes were all red and puffy blah blah blah blah and like you have someone who's taking photos you have someone who's taking videos you're having time to interview all of these witnesses and like trying to hide it under the guise of implying that she has an alcohol problem and she's putting her kid's life in danger and they talk about how the kid is in the car while she's sitting outside of the car in the park doing nothing but they also knew she wasn't drinking because they followed her all these places but they did this to make it salacious yeah and they were like she's stumbling i'm like her legs could have been asleep but also if you thought she was drunk don't film this don't

photograph it get help like and like everyone's like well this is like and the people who are defending this are like well maybe this is like a good wake-up call i go it's not a good wake-up call it's public shame and embarrassment for reality the good wake-up call is offering an extended hand of saying hey i'm going to take your keys do you have someone we can call to take pick her up and take her home and like you know you can get this out of your system whatever that but like not to videoing evidence of someone doing that and then being like i'm just making sure of evidence that they put their child's life in danger is not protecting a child's life you're an accessory at this point yep yep yep yep yep and i think like the daily mail just like

constantly does these horribly heinous things and articles and i don't have like high standards for them whatsoever but like any any amount of defending this as like a this was a good thing this is what we have to do as a village in a community is like so wildly fucked up there are times when i think your phone needs to be up and recording and that is your civic duty and that is physical altercations and you also should be intervening you should be on the phone call you should you should you need to be multitasking this kid is gonna grow up and see this of her mom and it's just like so awful and heartbreaking and makes me just like i just fucking hate the daily mail and too hard it was even hard for me to go back and find this article

because there's a thousand and one other fucking horribly shitty things they've said in like the last 24 hours and i'm like oh it's just non-stop a million times on every social media platform on their website because they're just trying to find and be in people's faces all the time because sometimes it's factual stuff they're doing kind of like the social media of candace owens and other people like her where like there's factual stuff but it's also mixed in with salacious things so that you keep coming back yeah and it feels like there's so much of it that you can't consume all of the bad stuff so like you can you don't even realize how the whole scope of how horrible and problematic they are because you you physically can't read at all yeah it's just

and i also don't like them falling to the kids school and then saying they're doing that for kids safety cool it's just a lot they knew she didn't drink and they were just trying to make content and then disguise it as the news yep all right that's it oh i did want to i did want to do one thing because since i don't want to do politics things i do want to do one thing where i nominate somebody that's like the queen of the week oh i love that same with my grammys theme is going to be janelle monae because after the grammys there was a little party and she was rapping nelly's hot in here and then spotted him in the crowd and started going did you know he was in the crowd there's other angles of him there and she's talking directly to him so she stops the

song and starts freestyling and talks about him performing at the white house and saying fuck you anderson pock is also performing with her and he's like hey maybe chill and she's like i may be a little tipsy but i know what i'm saying and she just kept going in on him and i loved it i love my little i can look at her eye to eye she likes to have her titties out as much as i do and i just i've been to new three or four of her concerts i love that little woman and i respect her so much and my respect for her group that does make me think because remember we said where's chingy and i looked it up and the only thing on chingy's personal life is just chingy's feud with nelly where's chingy like right wonder what he's been saying

Chingy's looking good. Is he? I haven't seen him. He is. He does look like a motivational dad, though. Okay. Like that specific Instagram motivational dad content. I see.

Wisdom Wednesday. But it's not spelled right. What? I didn't even read that part. I'm just talking about his outfit. Okay. Well, on his Instagram, there's a thumbnail that says Wisdom, R-E-S-N-E-S-D-Y. but in the actual caption it does say it's supposed to be wednesday wednesday is hard to

smell it is but this is a lot of things not in anyone's order yeah i hope he did that on purpose for engagement i think so too it's like tell me he doesn't look like one of those instagram motivational dads he does it's the it's the not powdered skin it's the snapback it's the crystal clear teeth like gore like i don't know if they're whitened or veneers looking good he's looking he's looking very good he looked yeah he looks good well that is it we hope you enjoyed always nominate who you think we should talk about topics hot takes any of that for us to to tackle but please be respectful of the limitations that i already set because some people have been disrespecting my boundaries and saying i know you don't want to talk about this

but if you have to start something like that then that means no i know you don't want to talk about this thank you the end the end join us tomorrow for see you next tuesday wednesday go listen to an old episode thursday listen to don't blame me friday fisting friday and then we'll be back here on monday for but am i wrong and we will circle back goodbye this is a sister sign production hosted by me megan rinks and me melissa d montz plus diamond imprint productions post-production by coco lorenz production assistance by melanie d watson and music by ryan hunter and giacomo picasso