Don't Blame Me! - But Am I Wrong? Results: Privileged Friends

Episode Date: February 10, 2023

Meghan and Melisa read the results from But Am I Wrong? Episode 59. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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It's called Fistine Friday. Fistine. Fistine Friday. Yeah, yeah. I feel like we're at an all-boys, little children's summer camp. We're walking around the woods. like and it also simultaneously sounds like the song that the uh fish sings in finding nemo at the aquarium never seen it we've been over this i know but maybe that's what i want for my birthday

i want to do for my birthday i just will make everyone sit in a room and watch all of my favorite movies with me no because no one's gonna enjoy it as much as i want fair i know i'm wondering if i should implement that this year as well because like i'm doing like that's what i i know i'm saying like taylor swift concert for my birthday with just mods but like i need something else like what else am i gonna do welcome back it's friday you being are we your first or second fisting of the day if you're hashtag blessed could go either way fisting is on every row of the pyramid of the food pyramid and the cdc and

the world health organization recommends an fda the fda really heavily staunchly recommends a good helping of fisting every friday more than that speak with your own practitioner your doctor uh what about your needs but every friday you should be fisted all right shall we start made a bad joke yeah well we've got an update from a previous episode that i would like to share share it from she's got a whole fucking ass google doc right now i'm impressed boyfriend kisses mom on the lips oh my god thank you where have you been i've had so many questions well they say sorry it took so long for me to update but let me answer some of the questions y'all had so like i said my boyfriend and his mom have a perfectly quote

unquote normal and healthy relationship i am not a pda person so when people are greeting each other i tend to look away and feel similarly to what you were talking about megan yeah so when you don't like to see people getting tongue down on tv no i i they did the kissing challenge on love island last night and mods goes oh no you should get your phone up make sure it's charged play your games did mods make a love island reference earlier okay that's why his ego got boosted then he made that second joke afterwards he's on a roll and then i mean i played in two of my head i was like it's because i've made it before and i think you were like i know i know it was the british accent i was like i'll just i know you're both watching this i'm assuming that's what he's

referencing yeah uh i think this is why i haven't noticed before but the times i have observed them greeting each other my boyfriend typically kisses his mom on the forehead or on top of the head because she's so much shorter than him the particular situation where i noticed the mouth kiss my boyfriend had just competed and placed well in a competition and we all went up to him at the same time and did you say what comp what kind of competition why did my mind go to chess sorry i thought track okay i don't know that's so sweaty on the lips sorry place well in a competition we all went up to him at the same time and congratulated him. Once we were back in the car I asked him do you kiss your mom on the lips and his response was sometimes I guess it depends

on the situation. Usually I just kiss her on the head and that was the only conversation we had about it. He didn't appear to be uncomfortable or like it was a regular occurrence. It seems like it's only in extra congratulatory affectionate heightened emotion situations where they do this and no his mother has never tried to kiss me crying face laughing emoji that's good like i said i'm not much of a physical affection or pda so at most we like side hugs sometimes dream this is not a cultural related thing it's just a them thing hope this that provides some more clarification it does i don't i'm i don't feel you know before i said you know not for me and this just you know just seems like whatever his response is like that's everything i would

have hoped like because there's no like what do you what no what do you why are you looking i was waiting for you to be like so we were all giving him in that we were all going in to give him like congratulations i was like did you accidentally three-way kiss and i also thought this was something that happened way more yeah that's what it seemed like in the first one most of the people i know where like a kiss on the lips with like an adult parent with your adult children um is even when it's cultural again obviously i don't know all cultures but the people i know who do this and it is relatively common in their culture it's it's still in these circumstances like it's not like a high goodbye it is a extreme heightened like really exciting

things like you're not getting a fucking kiss on the lips for just any old reason you got to do real good was it lego robotics was it track was it chess was it debate was it dance was it flame throwing archery oh was it dueling piano competition was it fencing i find fencing really hot melissa i was gonna say the exact same thing there's something like imagine like i feel like there has to be a porn where it's like you're fencing and then you're like you're sweaty and you're sexy you don't even know who each other are and then you rip the masks off you're like yeah yeah i don't know what it is i don't know either little scales little little scale swords dick sword just

maybe it's like it's like the outfit it's very tight and there's something like sexy anonymous it's kind of giving like is it zoro is it zelda who's the zoro zoro antonio banderas yeah that whole thing of like a whoo what's going on yeah you watch moon night i think you'd like it because his outfit it's it's a little more drapey but like it's kind of fancy i know what the outfit is yeah yeah all right shall we get into the results for this week yes episode 59 first up we have me versus bridal tiktok three percent said i was wrong 97 said i was not wrong a bridal stylist wrote in a bridalist and they said i'm a bridal stylus and the whole space is so toxic and i hate it crying emoji crying emoji but i agree with all

of what you said thank you next is moi melissa gun violence needs to end and it starts with the manufacturers one percent said i was wrong 99 said that i was not wrong someone wrote in and said i just learned this morning from a boston globe article that my home state massachusetts has the largest group of gun manufacturers slash vendors under one roof 83 the globe has done multiple investigations discovering they have been flouting state and federal laws and state ban on assault weapons one manufacturer in this building was found to have been selling guns illegally that were linked to gang violence to gang violence the federal authorities have finally now stepped in to investigate this past week it just shows how much it really starts with the manufacturers

we obviously need stricter federal laws but even the laws we have in place are still being worked around i honestly was not really informed about gun gun policy here because it's not as overt culturally despite being in a more quote-unquote progressive area it is still a major issue i go to look on click on some of the people who said you weren't wrong and immediately i'm seeing a gun and hunting you know next up was writer number one versus distancing self from privileged friends seven percent said the writer is wrong and 93 percent said the writer is not wrong do we have any messages on that one i don't think so okay then we've got writer number two verse not giving a shit about rachel who is wrong four percent said

writer is wrong and 96 said that rachel is wrong the writer wrote in this is my write-in and i would just like to say you were 100 right about being dead behind the eyes if you would like I can send you a photo of her just so you can understand how we would never share it we would never share it Rachel is also a trainee lawyer so had to win every argument or disagreement she also used to absolutely shit on my job and everything I know about my industry I'm in the wine industry and have to know a hell of a lot for my job so that really should have given me some insight into what she was really like hey but perfect career to go into for dead behind the eyes yeah yeah then we have writer number three versus boyfriend who wanted to

bring their dog over when the writer was fostering a small kitten one percent said the writer is wrong and 99 said the boyfriend is wrong this photo is disturbing um the only somebody wrote in and said the only exception to this that i can think of would be if the dog was a medical alert dog of some kind but 99 sure that's not the case here oh the writer wrote in this is my story and my now ex-boyfriend was 29 at the time old enough to know better alan mayo that's all they said yep okay great x is all we needed to hear we said it was a red flag and it was it wasn't orange wasn't coral wasn't pink it was red burning red sorry writer number four versus boyfriend that didn't keep up with chores while the writer had covet 55 said the writer is wrong 45 said the

boyfriend is wrong very you know i'm dividing that to me because not not that i think that we're always i mean we are always right but not that i think that like what we say will be popular i feel like we're good i'm good at thinking what will be popular with the audience even if were our opinions are unpopular this was one i didn't think i did you did um some people were like uh like this one person said that uh if the counter was sticky then he should have just used disinfectant wipes to wipe it up which whatever um somebody also said as someone who is scared of getting covet i wouldn't leave my room if my boyfriend got it when my boyfriend was sick not covet he slept on an air mattress in our second bedroom he only left to use the bathroom i wore

a mask and with said food in the room if he needed something if he was going out and not caring then he should have cleaned his own stuff agreed and then the writer wrote in so the writer said sweating emoji totally forgot i wrote in for this one he actually came back to me a couple hours later apologizing for reacting the way he did and agreed that in a non-covid scenario he would absolutely help i definitely had a lot more biases that i left out in the original write-in for brevity but he doesn't really help me as much he doesn't really help me much at all in general and asking for help makes me feel like i'm patronizing him all this to say we're working on it i did write some notes to answer some of your questions as well megan you asked what i

ate basically and the unfortunate answer is basically nothing on day one i ordered some groceries for myself and he dropped them at my door and even that i had a hard time eating my appetite still hasn't returned completely oh my god i feel for you very much understand melissa you brought up the dishes and yes they were his dishes but when he and i talked about it later it was exactly what you said he didn't want to be out anywhere or touching anything for more than time than he had to and that totally makes sense thanks for giving thanks so much for giving it to me straight and never apologize for telling me that i'm wrong otherwise how else how else am i going to learn love you both i love that ending of this i'm gonna say unsolicited advice about

having a hard time with appetite, whatever you want to eat, if any craving comes up or anything is good, like have a variety of shit at your house, variety of textures, a variety of things. And like, sometimes if the only thing, if I want to eat chips and that's the only thing that sounds okay, then like, I'm just going to eat a bag of chips and like, that's going to be it. Like, I'm not, I don't do, I'm not worried. And my doctor was saying this, like, do not worry about like the nutritional density of the food that you're eating to get your appetite back when you've been sicked out by food you just need to eat food and like whatever that is later on when you're able to develop more of an appetite and to crave more things like just eat something try

something try something different and just keep doing that because the longer then it becomes like can be fear of it and like all of that it's a it's your stomach is a muscle um it's not it's an organ is it a it contracts but like i think i just think that you have other muscles around it tissue anyways um but i feel for you on that aspect of it immensely and might i recommend and protein shakes and smoothies. Found cold food was better for me, but that really fucking depends. Then my wrong of the week, I nominated Madison Russo. 97% said Madison is wrong. 3% said Madison is not wrong. I have a question for the three of you who said that she was not wrong. And was it an accident? That's literally my only question. Shall I give the

madison russo update at the i think at the end i do want to say that somebody wrote in about this oh i didn't say that and they said thanks for speaking out against madison russo she stole photos of my friend's abdomen with port tubes to use for her posts and content to make it seem legit my friend is waiting on an intestinal transplant because she has severe gastroparesis among other conditions just disgusting yeah i've got some of updates including that stuff or relating to that stuff it gets worse all right my next one is uh wrong of the week pat grassley 98 said he is wrong two percent said he's not wrong fuck pat i just have to say this was one person that when i looked up i go of course this is pat

yeah i didn't sometimes i try i make sure i go out of my way to get pictures that like i don't want a brad pitt headshot when we're talking that like he's an abusive fuck this man i if you told me to find a picture where he doesn't look like a bumbling idiot i would be like so sorry i can't find one there are no thoughts behind those eyes and that's a professional okay so we have a little bit of a madison russo update and i want to give a fat fat capital fat disclaimer large disclaimer big disclaimer that like this is 90 like the audition is alleged like this shit not not what she did like that's not alleged but like what i'm going to say i'm

not going to like mention like usernames or anything like that like you know that people have different theories running around all of this and if this was a true crime situation and we're speculating that someone killed someone or anything else no no i'm saying if this is a true crime situation and like you're airing out people's theories or like what people are saying like oh i know her but it's an anonymous account and like blah blah blah i would not give any time of day to like saying those things this keeping names out of this shit but like i don't know there's just one rumor in here that i just gotta let we have to talk about it because it might not be true but there there are some things that are pointing there so the big thing and the question

that we had the first time was like how the fuck did this 19 year old do this all on her own she had to have someone in on it so we've got a big question mark here pointing towards peggy peggy is her mother and Peggy's soldiers online are working on overtime anytime someone is saying that saying no I know her she's wonderful she's great she had no idea she had no idea people are trying to wrap their heads around how that would happen so Peggy did post all like all of Madison's like cancer reposting her things that she was posting all over Facebook she reposted that stuff like on her personal thing of like the GoFundMe all of that but Peggy and Peggy's people online are responding to comments alleging that Madison cut out Peggy from her life and refused

to let Peggy come to any treatments. So the idea that Madison has Munchausen's is not a thing because someone who has Munchausen's would have shaved their head. They would have gone to all of these appointments. They would have made themselves sick with the notion that they thought they were, they were sick. They were convinced that they were sick. And people with Munchausen's usually end up becoming sick. Like you would have gone through the treatments. You would have like been doctor shopping if you're not getting what you needed she didn't go to any of these appointments she didn't go do anything and she refused to let her mom go they don't live in the same state her sister in a turn of events is a pharmacist so do pharmacists have like a deep

knowledge of oncology like right off the bat out of like out of out of school like no like you could be a pharmacist who works in oncology as your specialty she wasn't there is a baseline knowledge and there are people who figured this shit out who have zero medical background so there's some questions there but it's also being said that she was not in her life at all that she cut them out too and right now it does seem like they're trying to position it as the they went to like the only time she would let her mom come to things allegedly is like when it was like these events like she was speaking at something and her mom was like you know i found another doctor you get another opinion like on a certain like something and she apparently

allegedly like lost her shit on her mom and was like no no no and they cut her off and i'm also like well mom if you thought something was up but at the same time as a very fair thing it's like who would believe that someone would be faking this right allegedly her mom also posted the fake hospital photos which have the european machines and european outlets to that so maybe she just has no idea and allegedly as well which this is will be very easy to prove um she was not on her parents insurance anymore she removed herself to do like state funded insurance because it was going to cover everything and the other question is like well who's the beneficiary on like life insurance policy when was the last you know all of these

sort of things she's saying that she just did had medicaid and that's why uh someone pointed out that the orange tan that she has she has a photo of her not wearing makeup or a video of her not makeup and you can clearly see the goggles from the sunbeds now i have not found the video in question where she says this but enough people have said it and like quoting her that i believe that it was out there that someone commented on her appearance asking like why she was so orange and she said the radiation was making her tanner i thought that was mentioned last week i don't know that it was but that was just absolutely wild so i mentioned charlie in the last one in the original episode who is the girl with cancer who madison co-opted a fuck ton of her time

towards the end of charlie's life charlie's from her community charlie's from her same community they went to high school together so this entire community has already been shaken up with the diagnosis of a young girl with cancer charlie's done so much within the community like everybody's rallied around so madison saw all of that but then she also attached her story onto charlie's and they were simultaneously happening at the same time so here's where the plot really starts to fucking thicken so tom belonged b-o-u-l-u-n-d we know two things about him he is the one who started the gofundme and he's the one who posted her ten thousand dollar bail he's um person of interest a 50 to 70 year old man there's different um uh recollections there now here's where the

rumors start the rumors again completely alleged that they were having an affair and he was that by the time that he came into her life this is when all of this shit started and here's where it gets even more fucked up so she went to speak at a doctor it's ohl strong which is the dr brent all oh maybe it's all sorry the dr brent all pancreatic cancer support and awareness organization she went to speak there and she's wearing her wig she's doing all this stuff there it's a local father from her school district who had passed from pancreatic cancer she is faking pancreatic cancer her mom's father died from pancreatic cancer. So, and her mom was also friends with this father who died from pancreatic cancer

in their community as well. They grew up together. So Peggy, there's a screenshot from Peggy's Facebook. We don't know if this is, I mean, I'm not, I can't corroborate this, but this is a screenshot. Unfortunately, I've never been, this is her mom saying, I've never been to allow, I've never been allowed to go along to any appointments I never met her doctors I've asked lots of numbers bajillion times please let me learn about this and help you told her she didn't have to do it alone but she insisted one thing I've said to her many times is Charlie never did this about her parents they were a team she said you guys are working I'll just go to Iowa City alone I never understood why I thought she wanted to go by herself she told me she could handle it

and stay and work maybe because I'm a single parent and I help her financially I don't know no one's understood that was it pride but it's broke my heart all year so she we talked about how she was arrested but they they seized her oh allegedly apparently she met this older man at a gym people have found photos I'm not obviously going to direct anyone to go find photos mostly because there are other people in these photos as well who probably have absolutely nothing to do with this even if he doesn't so this is i'm gonna call probably bullshit but like let's just talk about it this is a text a screenshot from a text which if you're gonna be telling gossip that is like a criminal case i'm just gonna tell you right now you facetime you wait till you're in person

you don't send text messages so i don't know how true any of this shit is but where where is this stuff coming from some accounts so i guess like this is like midwest they are it's a small community people are like up in arms like really i think like they're really grieving the death of this other like young girl and there's a lot of people in the community who are like really fucking upset about it and apparently she was not a nice girl in high school so i think there's some people some time on their hands so people are speculating that maddie and this tom guy had an affair for three years and tom peggy maddie's mom was always trying to get her away from him and then people are this is where i'm like this is not real this seems like a badly written

am i like the asshole like fake reddit rage bait maddie faked a pregnancy test to get him to like leave his wife and like he has a daughter blah blah blah she's gonna expose him expose him she takes himself off her parents insurance and then she then fakes cancer to like get him to help her and like spend all this money so like he's paying all this money for her and then it kind of makes him like you know a victim too she also allegedly sold her car saying that she didn't need any more she's going to be dying but then she had a 2023 brand new kia soul or kia sportage kia something that was seized from the government uh and also but what this text message alleges which i'm hella fucking curious what's gonna happen is that maddie it says maddie didn't just raise

38 000 on gofundme which a majority of the donations were tom using fake names i don't believe that but she raised well over a hundred thousand dollars on her own profile care accounts and I'm like well if that's true they're gonna find out and he apparently was at her high school graduation which what is this relationship was this was this he would have been 63 when she was 16 like was this do we know this like what what is this so it's um a whole mess and a half um but she what was like seized from her apartment was like a brown paper bag with medical supplies in her diet i don't know what to call it but like in her iv drip i think of them as dialysis because

that's what my grandpa had and it looked like that in the machine she filled it was filled with cotton balls she didn't even fill it with milk or any other fluid like she filled it with cotton balls to basically look like she was getting feeding like tube feedings which it's not not a thing that is like a that would have been a completely separate issue with all of this she also had um all of the ports and all of her like tube sort of things everywhere and then and a bunch of comments on these videos like exposing her it was all these other people um all these other cancer patients who were like she used my photos she used my friend's photos she used this other person who's within this community on tiktok about supporting each other with cancer and

it's like ridiculously fucked up and i want to give one shout out to this creator who's documenting their journey and like that's who i think should be money being given to them and like support and focusing on that kind of shit the account is slabbing beauty on tiktok she her friend like yeah madison used her friend's photos and shit and that's i was looking at comments and that's how i found her and i watched so many of her videos and she is dealing with like a 10 year long case of doctors like not listening to a patient and she's documenting her journey she's talking about everything that she's going through she's making great content and

i just think that like there are so many young people and old people of all ages who are actively going through cancer and seeking a community online and fuck her fuck matt like 100 so yeah i'm just baffled and you know she looked exactly like i thought she was gonna of course people are like they're people have such a hard time believing that she's 19 she i will i don't it's i don't think that she looks old i will say like wear sunscreen do please do not use tanning beds like maybe she was were you trying to get skin cancer was that like the fuck but um pancreatic cancer also from researching all this it has like a five to 10% chance of survival. And I think it's, I think it's more like, I think it's five to 10%

for more than five or 10 years. It's like the quickest turnaround for that. And she also said that like when she had leukemia, it can't, you can't have cancer in an organ, then go to a liquid, like a mass cancer, like in an organ, then go to a liquid cancer. Like it doesn't, it, it doesn't spread like it's just in your pancreas like it's just it was like she was trying to get caught so it's raging narcissism and death like attention desperation and then again there's at least one fucking adult there but i think it's how she does her makeup too yeah anyways that's it i hope you enjoy getting fisted this friday

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