Don't Blame Me! - FF: But Am I Wrong? Results: Betrayed by Coworkers

Episode Date: September 29, 2023

Meghan and Melisa read the results from But Am I Wrong? Betrayed by Coworkers. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

damn well if that wasn't clear about how you saw the production of the year based on the inspiration hey now they know honestly i want to be beyonce's intern to see the production of the whole thing but more on that on Tuesday on see you next Tuesday right now we're just thoroughly getting fisted which you do go through Beyonce's vagina during the um visual so fitting honestly what is a visual without an ode to a vagina like I genuinely think i'm like there's a visual there needs to be there needs to be a larger conversation here about this i need to know that if i was in high school english it'd be like now which part represents the vagina like all good art there's a vagina there is there is most things in life behind it

in it you know honestly there you tell me something good that a vagina had no part in you can't exactly you can't you can't you truly never happened well i can't wait to hear it but you're right. Instead, we are talking about fisting, which, you know, a lot of good fisting. There's this fisting. There's two vaginas behind this fisting. And however many hands and fists you want. I'm not here to yuck your yums, everybody. So if you're here for the very first time, welcome. Sorry for the abrasive beginning. Why are you apologizing? It's not abrasive. It's well lubed. It is well lubed, but we're saying this after the fact. So like they didn't necessarily know it was well lubed. But I will say, hazard of the job, you just clicked on it. You don't know

what you're getting into. So you're welcome to stay. You might be a little bit confused. To give you a rundown, we are going to be reading the results from last week's episode of But Am I Wrong? So you can hear or you can listen to that last episode, come back, and make sure you vote in this upcoming week's episode. And we're also going to- And as in last week's episode, you got go back a week not yesterday's episode yeah timelines are not great for me so default to melissa for what she says about it i just i have to break it down because i think bi-weekly can either be twice a week or every two weeks so i don't know think dictionary.com agrees with that definition which i i'm not cool with yeah i don't me either things are already

confusing for me i prefer there to be some facts yeah i think it should be every two weeks and semi-weekly means every within the week or twice weekly yeah well anyway enough with the english lesson let's get into the results the results so this is who is wrong for episode 82 first up was me and me megan i want to stop having audience cameras at award shows so someone responded oh no i shouldn't say the percentage 19 said i was wrong 81 said i was not wrong someone said i love the cameras just for like the sheer messiness of it all and the observation i was like again this is why selena is the exception to the rule someone else said i think there can be if it has direct connection to what's going on on stage and it's a positive reaction like blake

giving a speech about her husband to film the husband i don't know but just not filming taylor because she will always be positive that's not what i mean i agree with that i think that's That's also fine. Like, I think it's the expectation. The next we have. I'm so, I knew you would guess. Next we have, Melissa says that calling co-workers family is a form of harassment. Would you like to explain the visual to people?

No, I want people to keep it guessing. Keep being curious. Keep asking questions. I just have to say, in my life, I didn't know that they had this many iconic photo shoots. it was hard to fucking choose i've only ever seen them on like you know old cassettes or old cds so like not i was just like no you bitches are these outfit like i'm obsessed uh i can't stop laughing um anyway somebody said i've always gotten the ick from this melissa explained it perfectly i don't think you said the percentages you're correct what you did yeah no that was my

fault i influenced you uh nine percent said melissa is wrong 91 percent said melissa is not wrong this one really got me because i went on a work trip last week and got ridiculed for not hugging my co-workers by other co-workers and melissa validated all my feelings gross ew why would you it doesn't matter work or not you shouldn't be forcing anyone to hug anyone else period but um i want to know people that feel like their co-workers or family members what are your thoughts do you work with your cousin and in that case i said i gave an example of that i'm not going to call my sister family in a work condition to expect her to do something fair then we've writer number one versus co-workers who betrayed them in a performance

review. 19% said the writer is wrong. 81% said the co-workers are wrong. And someone said, I actually think the bosses are wrong. I had this happen to me at a home organizing job and I was so anxious and felt horrible after. I felt nervous when I worked too. And I agree with that. I think I probably should have phrased it with the review is the concept of doing it is wrong versus the co-workers because i actually don't yeah i don't think it's the co-workers who necessarily betrayed i think it's the format and so which we did talk about yeah so i agree with that i could have phrased it better and that's on me i think that's the only one i found there's one more that says no one is wrong assuming the co-workers were trying not to talk down on her performance also

the writer is entitled to feel stress writer number two versus cutting james out of the writer's life 11 11 percent said the writer is wrong 89 said the writer is not wrong someone said i don't remember this and then voted anyway if you don't remember just don't vote yeah that's okay you don't have to vote what's that that one is fine um i have to say the looking back at the all of the pictures i chose the mood i was in is like the definition of you play too much like imagine me fucking on canva pro giggling my little butt off i make myself laugh then we have my wrong of the week nomination mila kunis and ashton kutcher 98 said mila and ashton are wrong two percent said mila and ashton are not wrong that one is only eight votes we definitely didn't get eight people

saying they voted wrong but probably at least half of those oh eight people that got it i thought you it just eight votes total i was like why no people were like i'm abstaining this one was really hard for me um but um yeah i'm i'm curious to see where this goes and i think by the time when we recorded the first one he hadn't stepped down from thorn but he has now someone was like that's not a good call like because then it's like you're not then it looks like you just like don't even care and i'm like no that's not what that is someone wrote in and said that no i saw like people just talking about it on like you know subreddits and stuff and on twitter about how it's like well if you actually like now this is just

like you're further proving that like you don't care about this because now all of these like children that you could have saved and i'm like you do realize that it's the organization is continuing yeah and i'm like you know that it's not like one of those things where people are like i'm actively being sex traffic but unless it's ashton kutcher like i'm just gonna just i'm just not gonna donate money to this or i'm not going to receive help from this because i needed to like no what the fuck idiotic then we've got tina trahan trahan i would say trahan trahan to Rahan to Rah-han

to Rah-ha so many different pronunciations lots of them I just knew someone with this last name and it was Trahan 98% said Tina's wrong 2% said Tina's not wrong should we share

I think we should the information that I realized when searching for this woman okay um so in searching for this woman's photos i was like she looks a little too young to love um the brady bunch looked it up all of her other photos are her with her husband who by the background we can see from a television network immediately my context clues this is mr kate's father and mr kate's stepmother wow he's got some interesting dating history as well

if anyone would like to um deep dive kate has talked about it yeah i see that his former wife uh is currently 37 years old and they were married to babysit her and they were married from 2011 to 2015 and then he married this woman in 2016 neither which of these are kate's um mother obviously yeah no that would be a really a a big timeline question yeah fun facts well what a small world shocking it's not sure but that's the thing that's so funny about um la small world small worlds and i remember i was talking about like you know crazy family and joey her husband was like oh you you and kate should you and kate should be friends kate's kate's got a she's got a family and i was like kate let's talk about it yikes

so happy for her sad for her oh and also apparently apparently uh lance bass wanted to buy it and he like tried to buy it was absolutely devastated that he didn't get it well Lance is also devastated he didn't get to go to space fair and valid I told you about how I told Monsa's co-workers like sometimes I get really sad when I realize I can't go to outer space and they were like what and Monsa was like and I was like sorry but he was like you guys are really seeing your personality if you have enough money you can get to the just the tip no because I want to be an astronaut like it's just like it's too late for me to like be an astronaut I don't want to go recreationally

also don't like science no i know math i know and also i don't really want to go to space but it's just the fact that like if i suddenly wanted to go to space like i can't like it's too fucking late that's devastating to me it's not too late you just have to start go to school now it's literally not too late it's too late for me to go to space and become an astronaut you like it's you the years you have to clock in i understand but it's not too late it's literally not too late for you to go okay that changes everything about my life you just have to go you have to start going to school yeah and i don't want to and so now it's a choice an undergrad degree and then a grad degree and then a post grad probably a couple post grad degrees also helps if you know how to

fly a plane or if you have some specialized thing like you know how to like grow plants like as in having a degree in that oh um see it's too late it's only too late if you don't go to school and therefore this is the end for me and you have to train and you gotta go work out the breathing thing is going to be an issue too it's the breathing thing and the nausea and um i would never poop i wouldn't poop the whole time being on well i don't think they really have a regular poop schedule as it is because of the things that they're intaking to eat um and then the little swirly thing that they move you around with you throw up i would um i do want to note that matz's parents were here this weekend and his dad said something that i was like todd

you're on the money where he was like you are so good at reading people like you're just you're very like very good at reading them or reading them um he doesn't know what the other definition of reading is but it is both and in the context of what he was saying he didn't know he was saying in both meanings but he mentioned both meanings because i was talking shit um and i was you know assessing someone's character and um this is when my mots was gone and it was his mom and i just talking about specific people. Um, and I said, thanks, Todd. It's the trauma. And I just want to say that he is not wrong because someone tweeted me and said, you're onto something in today's episode. And we talked, this was on, was it see you next Tuesday? But I just had to bring

it up because we're talking about NSYNC. Lance Bass was in NSYNC, right? It was yes, but it was on Don't Blame Me. And I said, that man looks like he is an HGTV star. You're talking about one of the guys from New Kids on the Block. This is a continuation of Don't Blame Me of me being like, it's all the same thing. I don't know the difference. But just in relation to boy bands, this man, New Kids on the Block star, Jonathan Knight, the one who I said looks like a home renovation television personality not a specific one just that like he physically embodies that look he's a farmhouse fixer for a home renovation network what can i say i know a house flipping hairline when i see one and that was way and that was way before he was ever on this it was years

because that picture was from the 80s 90s and i'm telling you i see it in i could if you show me a picture from as a baby i could probably tell you this man loves a subway tile and an uneven grout line i could have told you that this is a shiplap bitch up in here and i just knew it i just knew it and he wasn't even wearing a flannel now he's wearing a flannel and like everyone else is like oh yeah obvious no back then I knew so good job Megan thank you so much um I have a question for you and I might have an answer but I can't guarantee it so there is an account on TikTok that's called questions for love but it's meant they're like questions that the person that runs the account posts every day and they're meant for like either

like your partner or like your best friend or something so if if someone told you they saw me at a random location in the middle of the night where would you immediately assume i was oh picking up a sweet treat um if this was another time i don't even know if you played pokemon go but you give me the vibes of someone who would have put kyle played pokemon go so i couldn't i hated pokemon go i could have seen you if it was some some little adventure thing like that that's you i'm surprised you weren't into it oh i was but then i forgot about it and then i stopped opening the app kyle almost jumped off the santa monica pier to try and get some one of them but i also don't

know much about pokemon so like the novelty wasn't there um what else would i think that you were doing i would think like maybe or maybe like you're at like urgent care i don't know that would be the only reasonable answer because if i wanted to be exciting you'd want like i would think it wasn't it was that you ordered it and it got it was wrong and you were upset and then you're like let me go pick this up or if it was like right down the street from you and it with something absolutely not i order things 10 p.m urgent care yeah unless i'm like at a concert or something but it says a random location had to be urgent care urgent care where do you think i would be urgent care same why would you leave your home well what time of night it says middle of the

night so for us i would say that's midnight on yeah so that's too late but if you're saying like a 10 p.m like see I'll pop over to Ralph's if I'm riding passenger that's early for me that's early evening yeah even though I still go to now because of this writing thing I have to go to sleep at 10 between 10 and 11 but um that's still early yeah one of these days not that you ever like not that I'm saying that you actually hope it's you but like it's always so annoying that sometimes like it would just be if it was me that at least i would have like a reason to be stressed instead i'm just worried and then to figure out if it is mine so well yeah urgent care is probably the only actually to be fair i'm not going i'm just

waiting till the morning yeah there's no shot i'm going middle of the night unless someone again someone's driving me even when like i woke up in the middle of the night like extremely sick I just ordered everything from CVS. I was like, let me get this neti pot. Let me get all this medicine. I don't know what's wrong with me, but I'm just going to bring, it's going to be all sent here. Yeah. I'm only going to urgent care if I know I need antibiotics and it depends on what level I need antibiotics. If it's my toe, I'm going to wait. If it's strep throat, I'm not going to fucking wait. I'm going to get there quick, prompt. Imagine that aliens came to earth and made an exact replica of me you can only ask one question to try and set us apart what would

you ask and what would my answer have to be to let you know it was really me okay now i have to think about something that i would say on the podcast um i don't know because i would have to pick something that we haven't said publicly because i would need to know that this is this alien wasn't just a huge fan of our podcast and listen to them as research to like impersonate you let's just say it's all they have is like a physical replica okay because what i was going to say to you is they would bring up something specific about a cease and desist that's a good one that is a good one that would be it because that that would be that would be it that's a very specific it wouldn't just be that it there there is one or the concept it would be it would be

something specific it might be yeah so i think that would that would be it other than that um i i think it would be i would probably pick like an obscure like family fact you know yeah yeah if it's just like a basic thing where they don't actually know anything about you i'd be like hey Megan I have your mom on the phone do you want to talk to her I'm like yeah and then you're like imposter that would be funny um and I mean I can go into if it was something that was not I can go into specifics about that yeah or go back to the um cease and desist and ask you who shared the information initially yeah yeah yeah ask about like other clients that were yeah i wonder if the do those ever have a statute of limitations

i don't know but i hope they do i know we obviously wouldn't get into the weeds of like no because we're not gonna no we're not gonna talk about other stuff like that but you know just as like um broad strokes yeah broad strokes would be nice and specifically these people would care well we hope you all enjoyed and um we will fist you again soon you got it wrong i like it Thank you.