Don't Blame Me! - FF Results: My Boyfriend Watches Movies With His Female Roommate

Episode Date: February 9, 2024

Meghan and Melisa share the results of But Am I Wrong: My Boyfriend Watches Movies With His Female Roommate  Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

hey everybody did you miss us long time no here and we're here now yeah baby we're back back back and it's time for fisting friday where we read the results of an episode of it's episode 90 whatever that means yeah um i told the people in our patreon um that i had a family issue so that's why we didn't have any new episodes um but i'm in arkansas we're dealing with it here we are i was ready in like our our monopoly group chat if anyone was like melissa and i was about to be like everybody don't don't attack melissa's landmarks but no one did i was like okay and now this makes sense because you said that in the future and diana said nobody will will attack you yeah thank you i was like then i accidentally attacked other people

but whatever that's you know what and that's allowed yeah also it's black history month so um attacking this anti-black it i wholeheartedly agree did you see that video of the guy who was like for black history month and on black history month we doing a video every day about things i love about black people and so i saw it for the first time with the stage with the black woman just being like uh-oh and then he goes on and says and he says that his favorite thing he's i love when oh god what was uh he's like there's nothing that makes me feel more uh successful important and like i'm doing a good job than when i'm dancing and a black woman says okay white boy and the woman starts laughing there she was like okay okay and then he did like another one he goes

i just want to apologize i'm so sorry if that was not like if i was doing it i did it wrong um and just all of the stitches i saw were like black i'd be like and then be like okay okay and they're like well now i know that like okay i guess you might be able to dance maybe yeah or enough that you're either so good you're either good enough that's like recognition or you're so bad but you're trying so hard trying so hard and you're entertaining either way yep oh well here we go episode 90 you're up first me megan wants more women to be comfortable fighting men three percent said i was wrong 97 said i was not wrong and some write-ins we had for this one see also bob's drag queens tiktok revulnerable people defending themselves it's great

that was how i saw i think that was one of the second videos i saw was bob's video yeah i was gonna say didn't you mentioned it i think i might have you did yeah that that was like my intro to this video was not the original um and bob was in the first one so if anyone else hasn't seen it it's great there's a lot of tips that bob gives um and we got to be fighting someone also said i inherited both my parents anger issues i will not hesitate to fight a man especially if he's being a prick to women and yeah everyone else was like hard agree would fight like i would at that point like even if i didn't like the girl even if i like hated her i hate the man more yeah i know how to throw some hands i've never actually hit anybody but i don't know how

to throw a punch you do too i do i'm not going to talk about any of the physical adaptations i've gotten into because i don't know the statue okay okay moving on high school and there's a reason why i don't drink anymore okay everybody it's a little too fiery already next up is me melissa wants people to stop asking co-workers about their colleagues side gigs who was wrong five percent said i was wrong 95 said i was not wrong i didn't see any write-ins at this one me either think you're just you're just right then we write a number two versus boyfriend who is friends where's writer number one oh i forgot to put it back in here so i just forgot to upload like i made it and then i just like i guess i didn't but later no i know and so then i added it later so if

anyone didn't see so it's gonna be in the wrong order um but just know that i did it i think a day later and thank you to the person who said hey where's writer number one i love when like so many of our like listeners viewers like they won't they'll be like you know i'm not gonna i don't want to stress them out or whatever but like if i do something wrong like this or if it's not in the highlights like please message me like it's not a conscious choice like i just i fucked up i forgot or i didn't notice okay so writer number one versus quote-unquote losing x's keys 81 said the writer is wrong 19 said the writer is not wrong and we got a message from said writer saying i'm the writer and i think i was wrong it was honestly embarrassing hearing how irrational

the idea was when someone else was reading it i appreciated the honesty it also felt really good to have the work i've done for myself validated so thank you for that i've come so far from where i was when i left that relationship and i'm really fucking proud of that revenge will not serve me i still have ways to go i still have a ways to go on this journey but i'm doing it for mystery maybe they meant myself and okay i was like i couldn't even that makes more sense um as of sending the messages 23 of the vote says not wrong folks do not do this it is a very bad idea i am wrong turn on the 10 minute version of all too well scream into a pillow or something much healthier much more legal and therapy if it's accessible to you sometimes all it takes

is hearing either your voice on don't blame me or hearing us read it out loud and then you go fuck i i nah this is not before they even go into their thoughts not it um someone else said i don't think the writer's wrong for wanting to get vengeance but them living their life and thriving without thinking about their ex is the best then we have writer number two versus boyfriend who is friends with his roommate 80 said the writer is wrong 20 said the writer is not wrong i'm only saying she's not wrong because i'm curious as to why her boyfriend is roommates with only a female but i think she's wrong in the fact of wanting him to ignore her slash not be friendly i do everybody we're just it's

incorrect for us to call human women female because unless you say a female human yeah exactly because the characteristic of woman therefore is that denotes that the the uh the human part so um but i would say that like i guess to that you know i i would be i'm curious too but it's the same extent of like who knows i had a male roommate and he literally um a male man a male human roommate um and he um his sister was his roommate and then she had moved home and so then i was just subleasing the room from her until she came back like six months later and it wasn't it was just like he picked me it wasn't like a i'm trying to fuck them type of thing no totally a good roommate is a good roommate like i don't yeah i i don't care

what's what's your vibe or your genitalia um and if you vibe with your roommate yeah when i moved to la i when i was like looking for roommates a lot of there was just a lot it was a lot of mix of people it wasn't some people some place that i go it'd be like two guys and a girl and then you know looking for another roommate or a guy and a girl or just guys looking for roommate and it wasn't there it was just like somebody that could pay the other part of the rent yeah someone also said which is a great point and i thought about and i don't think either of us i don't maybe we said it said as someone who's a woman and lives with a man never would i be attracted to him the writer's forgetting that she lives with him which means she sees his dirty

dishes sees how he operates when the girlfriend isn't around probably sees his pee on the toilet the roommate sees how the boyfriend acts when he's trying to look good for the girl also did the writer even say if the roommate was straight which is a like very valid point um and that like assumption that and also i do always think that like sometimes like okay we should just not assume that everybody is it like it's also insult the kind of weird and insulting to be like i'm actually just like not attracted to your boyfriend but like i don't know how to tell you that like it's we we see the people that we love through those rose-colored glasses and everyone else maybe is like no i'm not my vibe but like happy for you though yep so i guess we now have the

writer which i can't believe all right here's the writer hello again i emailed in recently for my boyfriend watches movies with his female roommate and i have a small update in hindsight i was very much wrong thank you for your wonderful perspectives to help me see that you gave me a wider view of the situation and helped me come to the to the realization that my opinions were actually rooted in misogyny an uncomfortable but necessary truth i had to be told megan's point of what we assume about other women is assumed about us really helped challenge my attitude and outlook i never thought to look at the situation like wow i'm happy to have a boyfriend who creates an environment that women feel safe in to conclude megan and melissa are yet to be wrong about anything ever

harry emoji oh i'm so happy i'm not like obviously i love when we're you know not wrong um but i'm always very happy when people are receptive to that and like we're not misleading someone into like a bad situation but it's more so oh i this weight is lifted off my shoulders now right like i see this in a different light that is a much better for my mental health and my day-to-day existence yeah i like when people's perspectives are shifted once they're not like seen red yeah no it's and we all have that feeling about certain things and like it's such it feels so good it's such a fucking relief so i love when we can help provide that for people or aid in getting to that point then we have my round of the week i nominated roxanne duquette and 97 said roxanne is wrong

three percent said three percent said roxanne is not wrong and i should make sure everyone knows that all five of those people who voted that she is not wrong did message and said this is probably the worst thing that i've said that she's accidentally misclicked like this is really bad i'm so sorry so for everyone's peace of mind no one actually thinks that she's not wrong um and justice for that man who that article kept referencing as the actor from the soap as opposed to the impersonator of that actor from the soap i gotta gotta ask inside sources about that one i know i wonder if like him and his team like debated like should i make a statement like this isn't me also like gotta get them on an episode of catfish

yeah yep that's such a good crossover it really is and then wrong of the week the ones that i nominated people that got married at the mansion society who's wrong 100 said these people are wrong zero percent said these people are not wrong i just need you guys to know i got married at the actual venue next to the coffee shop some of my detail shots are from the inside of the coffee shop too but it was before these new owners took over so it used to just be like a lounge for apartments that's also in the building anyway it's been fun to see the community support the coffee shop and i was like no fucking way and like there are people who respond to like a bunch of our stories where we're like very active even if they're not in our patreon where

they are and like this is someone who like i'm like they respond to a lot i'm like i recognize the username and so i'm like oh my god you got married and like it's just so crazy so it was great your playlist might get you through the workday but have you ever wondered how your ancestors spent theirs what work helped them build a life how did they adapt as the world around them changed with ancestry you can search select historical occupational records for free for a limited time and discover the stories behind the jobs in your family tree. You've got questions. We've got ancestors. Search free until August 31st. Visit ancestry.ca for details. Terms apply. I wrote down something to talk about that now I have to take off because it happened where I was

like in the whole Nicki Minaj which everyone we're not going to get into because we're not trying to get doxxed um but you know thank you but I truly want to and I started making notes for but am I wrong the day that everything starts spiraling and it was already at four pages and we hadn't even got to someone specific I don't know if you can even call it a diss track their spoken word i guess i don't know what it was gabby hannah rice gum yeah um and it was already four pages so um but we have spoken very verbally about our dislike of this person anyway and our love of the other person so like there's no hiding where we stand but like when um when when fandoms have search um like google alerts on and it's like at that height in the peak of that like yeah we're

gonna die down and then on on the off season in the low in the low season like no we talk about it constantly like we've said this over and over again um but i literally wrote down how the hell has azalea banks not commented on it and i was like bitch i have to take this off because yes she did people were like they they that she was awoken and it was like first of all choice of on caught so much more heat for just being a twink then i was just like she it was so like when azalea banks gentle parents you i was like this is wild like great we're at it we're at a new level and she's like let's be nice like essentially like everybody she's she's broke like she's she's so she was like she's so poor and i was like what like it was like that was the whole

gist of it and i was just like oh my god azalea banks is showing restraint and and and really talking about the financials like okay like this is not exactly how i predicted it to go um but i thought it was and there are other i saw on um online but there are other podcast hosts who are saying like team nikki like and i when i say they're podcast hosts i mean um other people who who look like me and who are not really involved uh in listening and consuming to any of this music okay but we're saying yeah team team nikki what can you imagine first of all like can you imagine coming up with a take and choosing a side in one of like the i i would say in one of the most so clearly documented not even feuds but like of the

the background storylines arcs of each of the individuals having all that information not even like at your disposal but like pushed to the top of your news feeds you there's there's no way you complete ignorance to be like oh i didn't know that one of them is married to a pedophile and the other one um was was shot and uh been told she was about not a real victim and all of those kinds of things and i'm like and you pick the other are you kidding i don't even follow that other woman like i anything that i hear about her it's because it has been put upon me so i'm saying you can't escape it you can't escape it so there it doesn't make any sense for them to know you're picking her side because of this yeah i'm looking at you different now you know and also no sorry

go ahead i just said yikes well and also i did also recently learn about the term megan's law and uh i will stop saying that murphy's law should instead be called megan's law because i didn't know that there was a real i didn't know there was a real one either yeah so anytime that i've said that if you've heard me say it prior just know that that was not what the reference was it was a murphy's law kind of a thing um and yeah and i also saw where like the funniest thing to me i was like okay getting mad uh what is like there's a phrase like hit dogs holler like that and if the shoe fits there you go if it doesn't apply let it fly i'm like okay so clearly you opting in for this without being named because it could have been anybody well no that's what i was gonna say

everyone's like first of all it was whoever was gonna whoever was gonna talk about it first like you didn't even have to say anything because like there's a long list and it doesn't even have to be about one person but when you suddenly go this is about me all of those other people are going bullet dodge and i'm like because the whole song itself could have been except for like the last couple lines could have been about one specific person which person is that another person that we both despise that was slinging his floppity flippity flop his laffy taffy he was tying it up in a little bow flipping and flinging that little silly blowing in the wind yeah he was just he was whipping it bobbleheading exactly and for the record

melissa and i don't believe it's real nope where are the balls where are the balls show me the don't look up people's nudes everyone no no no i came upon it on accident it was purely i was like why is this trending and there it was here's the thing when before elon musk took over twitter i had all of those results uh filter all of those things like videos i don't want to see things automatically play i don't want to see i want to be able to have content warnings before once he joined on um those things are now since gone and i was accosted with that video relentlessly to the point where i'm like i can't go on twitter today i couldn't not it was everywhere everywhere he felt violated and i also felt violated yuck yuck in the words of kiki palmer

disgusting absolutely disgusting um i also went on a deep dive i have a new i mean i've always loved this person for like i don't know the last couple of years um and i loved them before but now i have like a that was like a passive love like i enjoyed what they made and now like i enjoy them as like an artist and a human and i've just done a deep dive on t-pain oh yeah do you know t-pain is like very active in like the reddit community and he like posts his cars and then people are like oh my god like people will like this car is so ugly it sounds like dude this is t-pain i am so sorry mr pain like i actually like your car he's like that's fine that's okay and like he played his him and his wife play animal crossing and he like goes into her little village

and like leaves her the things before but he also invites people to play animal crossing with him and there was like this whole uh reddit uh subreddit i think it was a pop culture subreddit but a post people are like what is like a celebrity who you've heard about has done something or did something that changed your mind good or bad about them and there were so many about t-pain and someone's like he went to go get a new iphone or his like iphone fix at the apple store and he bought us all burritos like everyone who worked there and i was like oh how do you do that like do you order them there like and he just seemed like such a nice person and months and i've been listening to his covers constantly and he's just like he's my new he's my new one and you know how

everyone keeps calling baby girl and i'm just saying t-pain t-pain is jacob alorti can be all of y'all's baby girl t-pain is my baby girl he's so fun um yeah i've been when he joined tiktok that that's when since i've been like really looking into him and i like that he's like singing more without auto-tune because he has a really great voice beautiful voice um yeah and his what him and his wife have been together since they were like teenagers i know but we were looking it up because you're what matz and i will have nights where we either just watch a bunch of like movie trailers or we watch a bunch of music videos and we were doing music videos we were watching t-pain music videos because why not and um watch was like who did he marry and i

like look and i was like he's been with the same woman for ever and he was like what and i was like yeah that's it was wild and he's just like so good and you know eventually we should go because i'm pretty sure a lot of the time when he's singing live he's doing jazz and w oh pretty sure we should if he if if that's because if i'm not wrong he's done that a couple times we should we should go because he's so good and also i heard that the the reason why he did autotune is everyone was using it but no one was saying it and so then he was like i'm gonna overtly use it and people were like oh my god this is so bad but then would want him on all the hooks and like want that sound and like they were still using it and apparently one of the people who was like

really hated on him was usher yeah usher yeah i remember that you're both you're both children play nice they're both so young they were so young anyways usher's going on tour really yeah vegas to super bowl to tour it's a lot yeah but good for him no very much good for him i'm just like did you get like a hip replacement like what's the he's like ready to move i don't know like it's just like it feels like i think the the um the vegas residency reinvigorated him okay yeah you

remember like oh shit i like this yeah i think it was like people love me yeah let me go make some more money because it's just impressive you rarely hear people who like go from like the cushy lifestyle of a residency back to like tour but that makes sense if that was he was like oh shit this is actually fun and i enjoy this yeah so i'm excited and it'll be in september yep fine a few tours i'll be going on this this summer i won't say another one because i don't want to hear your mouth i'm not gonna say it because i'm protecting you i don't need to be protected i don't know how many times i have to tell you this i'm not afraid that's fair that is fair happy for you thank you appreciate it i hope it's everything you wish for it will be because

i've seen him three times and i will continue to see him what location are you going to la okay why should i go somewhere else no i don't know i don't know if it was hard to get tickets i haven't even tried yet well anything else or should we uh let the people go and we'll let them go then we'll see you on monday yes we will we will see you on monday hope you have a wonderful weekend and have fun live your life bye Thank you.