Don't Blame Me! - SYNT: Get My Boyfriend Out of My House

Episode Date: April 22, 2025

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This is the episode where we go through the results of last week's episode of But Am I Wrong? And we read the results, how you voted your thoughts and feelings your replies and um we discuss so we've got episode 140 i finally got the numbers correct and i'm gonna kick it off with megan teaches clayton edgard the definition of bullying and we do have him with a little dance and a speech bubble saying skinny jeans are my passion one percent said i was wrong 99 said i was not wrong what an

odd image and he doesn't want to be bullied for this and to that i say is it bullying if we're just talking about it also are we watching the same videos clayton like so this is something he just posts on tiktok he posts dancing videos from all the time and by the way clayton if anyone's gonna critique your dancing i do think it should be someone who is a semi-finalist in dancing with the stars and a professional dancer for the broncos cheerleaders so someone said in the same way you ladies were never wrong gabby is never wrong someone else said how old when megan said he is a p on top of a hoagie body type i did make a graphic that i posted on our instagram to to show clayton what what bullying actually is and i do think it's it's pretty apt if you've

seen him before also this man what a fucking deadly combo and i mean that in a derogatory way skinny jeans and a pea coat like a like a short pea coat that is quite literally so ugly like that is a hallmark budget in the in the dead of summer like the lint on that jacket like get it off someone else said where did it go oh him continuing to post those dances is 1000 rage bait he's asking to be bullied but gavi didn't even bully him that's how i feel even if this was bullying which it wasn't men should be bullied more so i see nothing wrong i also agree with that men are so sensitive men are melissa men are so fucking emotional and so fucking sensitive it's crazy like what do you mean that like this deeply hurt you

in the same 24 month period that a woman took you to court for a fake paternity of children who didn't exist like your litmus like your range now of like things that hurt you or like ruin your day in your life you can't be fucking serious the way that they will go punch a wall before just talking about their feelings is hilarious to me the way that they will break and bloody their knuckles before wiping their ass is like it's just fucking crazy like it is just it's insane to me and also the way that they will fly to turkey and get little dots poked in their head with singular follicles of a hair before they will go to therapy or talk about their feelings is just is just crazy it's just fucking crazy

someone else said talking shit about an ex is not bullying that's just called having an ex it's so crazy how vile men can be to you and then act like a wounded puppy when someone gives them a sip of their own medicine but kudos to gabby all around one of the only batch seasons that i watched was her combined one and the way she wasn't shy about shutting down these people also warms my heart i love knowing we play for the same team she also just did her courthouse wedding they got her and her wife got married in vegas but they just did like a courthouse one and i'm addicted to the fact that like again like i said bachelor nation the moms are very mad at her for her behavior towards clayton because they're like oh poor innocent boy gabby you are being so mean

to him um they are now all it feels like she's like low-key rage beating them with her outfit they're so mad it's like a micro micro mini dress long sleeve with like big ruffles at the bottom and no bra titties out like air you can you can it's sheer and they're all like oh my goodness this is so unclassy and she's just like she looks gorgeous she looks so hot and looks so happy and i'm just like i love that this woman came through the bachelor franchise and is like she's so like skyrocketing past that audience because she is a star and that's it for this one wait didn't you say someone talked about him yeah wait where was that stop clayton is on my all the time the ultimate you really think you ate with that sweater and there's a video he put

the dancing video on his hinge he's like built like the abominable snowman like he had to have played football he has no legs he's all torso oh and you know what they tried to do for so long on the live stream but i didn't cave is they wanted to know what your the fanfic you wrote what the genre was or the show was you don't even know what it is well that's what i said i was like wait you guys don't know and they were like no and i was like oh then i i was like i thought i've never said it to anyone that's what i said i was like i either i was like oh i thought we all i i didn't know this was either going to be a big secret so they were like well which one is it i was like here's the thing guys if i the one i thought it was if you don't know then it's not

that like if the one i thought it was would not have been a secret and they were trying so hard to get me to tell and i was like i can't stress this enough everybody i don't know and also if the one that i think it is or i thought it was if that's like not i like made a joke where i was like melissa would be the one to tell everybody in her life a different one and then if it gets out then she knows who it was and like i'm not gonna fucking do that perfect and they were all like oh fair point that does make sense that does make a lot of sense um but yeah i think that is it all right then mine was melissa reminds us that protests should be a little scary one percent said i was wrong 99 said i was not wrong someone said i feel like a lot of allies

to the various communities see their allyship as exciting or risky and adventurous especially if they come from conservative backgrounds so they want everything they do to feel like an event so they can check it off a list no matter what protests i go to i'm always a little scared and never excited about the fact that i have to protest facts someone else said the white woman ignorance goes crazy then someone else said idk what to vote in this case as i don't exactly think that protests should be scary i think that they are and i don't see a context where they would not be but i don't necessarily think they should be like it would be better if they were not and if force wasn't used against peaceful protests but that's not the reality it's very contradictory

also in an ideal world world you wouldn't need to protest yes like protesting is a is a right that we have but it is a right of passage in a way that like there's a need for it in like an ideal world yes it's meant to go against the establishment i feel like your statement was a little contradictory because you're stepping out of a comfort zone anything that's out of a comfort zone there is a little fear that goes with it and um you shouldn't be comfortable going to a protest because you're fighting against the establishment and there's a such thing as good trouble yeah and there's and this is where like the the fundamental difference between a rally and a protest because like rallies are also for things that are like also for like established systems that we already

have to participate in like voting or signing up like doing like actionable things and like it's meant to drum up excitement yeah and for something that we have control we have an aspect of control over and like rallies are really a lot about like education and like unless it's like a clan rally do they call those rallies yes that's what they're called okay yeah so maybe that's why some people are like trying to like they dismiss the differences between like a protest and a rally in an ideal world we wouldn't have to have protests because to the point where you're protesting something and again it's not like a rally where you have a say in something or we're organizing to vote we're doing whatever like community organized like a protest is happening

that we have to disrupt it is because all of those other forms have not worked and like it has to get to that get to this level yeah i think you nailed it when you said protest is meant to disrupt yeah and that's because shit's already happening so it's a counteract to that so i understand and like neither of us are saying that like we want protests to be violent but in general and they don't necessarily have to be violent to be scary like being arrested at a peaceful protest can still be scary without being violent even though it goes against morals it's like the same thing when people like complain about like oh my god like what even is the point of this sit-in that's happening on like the 405 you're just like making people like late for work i'm like that's

the point like the point is for it to get in right in the way of your day the point is like you and the same thing of like i don't agree with like p-duck honestly like mostly point blank like i don't agree with like a lot of their tactics whatever but like that's the point like the point of them is like yeah when people like storm a fashion show or they throw blood whatever like it is quite literally to get in the to get in your way to make your day harder make your day more frustrating and like a lot of people are like well that doesn't change anything that's not true like that's it brings awareness to the cause because if you do if you're nice with it quote unquote quote nice with it then that doesn't make anyone upset you can ignore it the whole point is

it needs to be something you can't ignore and a lot of the time what protests are protesting is violence and that will be met with uh aggression whether that's emotional aggression or physical aggression from any side whether it's the response of trying to be like no not like don't do this don't do this or like fighting up against what you have been there for or what you are fighting for so i i understand we're not we're not saying like we love violence but it's it is just the history of of of the protest and even what a lot of people were taught were quote-unquote peaceful protest yep but i think a lot of people don't realize that that was it but we have writer number one are they wrong to ask their boyfriend to keep his sexcapades to

himself who is wrong four percent of the writers wrong 96 said the writer is not wrong and exclusive we do have a photo of her boyfriend listed and i say that with love if the writer is listening i don't know that okay as much as i hope that this is a my boyfriend was a dick god and satisfied a lot satisfied a lot of women type situation if i was a writer i definitely would not want to know whenever i finally find my wife no matter how many previous partners she's had i'm going to act as if i was the first one and lets me knowing about your previous sex capades will impact our relationship in a significant way more than just an awkward interaction i do not want to know at all i may have adhd my memory is good enough for that and that's a self-awareness

but also it wasn't just women to be fair that is also true she and i will i still think it's so funny when the writer was like i don't even know why i'm telling you that i don't know if it's important i was like no i know i'm picking it up i understand this man is like is deeply popular the only thing i would say is like i have to assume they were satisfied customers like i just and so my thing is like our is this going to be the only person that we will have known by proxy who is going to have a wedding where someone stands up and goes i object because they're all just in love like i god i understand how that could be frustrating but as a leo i'm like i win though i would warrant the attention yeah i'm the i'm the i'm the chosen

the chosen one and i and i've got good damn fucking taste out of all of you yeah he sampled the entire charcuterie board he's had every crudité out there and he goes i want that one i like that little apricot right there yeah i almost had turnip and then i said wait i think turnips are little boys no radish sorry i love radish can you say that i do i don't hate them but i love a crunchy watery vegetable do you love celery yeah you would also really fucking love water chestnuts i just i'm gonna make some um lettuce cups cups and i just got some to put in I anytime people are like

oh we can just like omit you know that's never omit a water trout like you have to like there's there it brings a texture

and I I just I love it and I also love the little pieces and it's not the same but like they're in the same vein in the Chex mix

the little brown bread that looks like little slices they're delicious they're so good they're so seasoned to perfection and they're so crunchy

mm-hmm You know you can just buy those. Well, you can't eat them anyway. I can't, but I would love to do that if I could. I feel... They're so crunchy. You should be able to make a blueberry. Char probably has something close to it.

Probably. Depends on where they are popular. But you have to order it online. Yeah. I want another Thrive Market sponsorship. Thrive Market, sponsor me, please. All right. Then we have writer number two.

Would they be wrong to ask their boyfriend to move out? eight percent said the writer's wrong 92 said the writer's not wrong i gotta say this is one of my favorite ones this was so fucking funny and us just being like you have to get him out of your house why is he there this is also like such a i was so afraid of this happening for me like just in general like this is because this is also so me of being like i i actually need you to leave expeditiously someone said if this is accessible to the couple it might be good idea to rent a flat for a few weeks to try living in a space that wasn't hers at first and it's perhaps bigger so they have enough space and see if that would help yeah oh like an airbnb yeah that makes

sense and like in the city though but like not travel no another person said i'm autistic and have OCD but a personality disorder instead of a separate compulsive behavior. My brain is compulsive and a control freak in every aspect of my life lol and I know that I'll never be able to live with another human. You don't have to be neurodivergent or have a personality disorder to need your own space. Some people are just happier living separately from their romantic partner some even have kids together and don't live together and the other parent even though they are in a romantic relationship families come in all shapes and sizes and in all sorts of ways there is no right way to live and just because it isn't normative doesn't mean it's unhealthy or bad

agree i do think i would i would be worried about the partner who lives with unless the kids switch off like split evenly i've thought about that too just because i it's about um a certain level of cleanliness i have when it comes to things because i do have undiagnosed well contamination issues yeah i don't know how much you i don't need to be diagnosed to know that i have it yeah and i mean if i got diagnosed there would be really nothing no they would go so you have this and you'd go yeah i know i know thanks it would just be sure you would just be sharing yes and then um this man came over and he was putting on his shoes to leave and i was like well you can sit down because he was like almost falling over and he was like oh i don't like to have shoes in the

living room i was like actually this is the designated area for that and then i knew then that this could potentially be someone i could have in my eyes turns into hearts and you're just like what did you say say can you say that again understandable yeah do i know this guy i don't know god you're so fucking elusive i love the people as soon as you leave the live stream like give us dirt and i was like you bitches think i know more you just think that she doesn't put she doesn't tell me that too and then i i literally said to them i was like you guys she's my best friend but she hasn't instilled a healthy level of fear

in me from her and that's what she wants and I don't want to do it wrong the way that they were really picking at you lets me know that the next live stream we're going to have to have a little discussion they were like don't tell her and I was like you guys I have to tell her

my gosh nosy bitches I know and I was like you guys I love that you think that like I'm privy to more information than you but like at the end of the day the aquarius will aquarius like i there are certain things that are surprised to us all was this stuff that was recorded no someone else said i'm only saying this because i think the writer is ignoring a potential larger issue if she's this supposed to sharing space with

him he may not be the one for her totally agree with you too about the power dynamic of a partner moving in versus moving into a new place together um here's some tiktok comments that i'll bring over there's a few of them someone said i was cackling throughout the whole reading like hey waking up next to someone are you sure you like him girl it's a valid point yeah uh someone else said my boyfriend this is the one my boyfriend and i talk about buying a duplex and each having our own space we do have kids involved and i've seen this where people like live in a duplex and the kids just have two rooms and they can just go back and forth between the two places as a family have like dinner together and stuff like that i think that really also

depends on the partner that you pick because like the mental load is so often in heterosexual like heteronormative relationships so often put on the woman mom figure and if you've got a partner who like that's that you know that is not like an issue but like yeah i would i would very much worry it's like the whole instead of like you know like go ask your mom trend like oh just go ask your mom and then it's just you know like it's you don't want to have like downstairs be disney dad upstairs be wicked mother kind of vibe disney death the mom's always dead i mean disneyland sorry no you're right disney dads are to be fair they kill a lot of parents they're like mom dad suck both of them kill them both it's either the mom is dead or they're both dead

it's never like the mom is alive and there's no dad no because they said life goes on these men weren't doing shit anyway no they're like we got to kill both parents if the mom as long as the mom is dead i do also think that like it's crazy even in like a disney stereotype the dad's moving on real quick and like she is like quite literally a witch yeah um because which happens in real life men move on a lot faster because they're used to somebody taking care of them yep and it's about that person taking care of them and taking care if they have children taking care of the children and not necessarily someone that they love no and like that's a lot of the time that like people will clock when like you ask a man like what his favorite thing is about his partner and he'll

share like something that she does for him or something that she brings out in him all right you're next my new vocal stim is driving me crazy why can't will what to say i can't stop and also as a share fan you know i was chair for halloween one year as a kid yes imagine me in that long fucking wig let's say it went it makes sense it went to the to the crooks of my knees nothing about this does not make sense or surprising to know yeah i think the year before was elvis i loved a wig unless it was lilo and stitch that was my yeah wasn't wasn't elvis i was also like my i didn't grow up listening to elvis i grew up listening to exclusively i'm just i'm surprised your parents even allowed this i will level with

you i do think it is it is when one of them had cancer and so i don't think that they were very aware present in that no no no no no and i was just watching lilo and stitch over and over again which is again i don't understand why you don't like bruno mart you know when you put it that way that is actually quite fair that is i should love that little man by the way i'm loving that little man's personality he makes a great music i don't think you've listened to his recent music no because all i listened to was his i used to listen to his old old stuff yeah and then he got too famous so like he got so famous so fast so he was no longer like my my guy on the ep on my fucking playlist and he became like so big and then it was like you couldn't go to a marshall's or ross

a target a mace anything without hearing over and over and over again and it was a little too much for me okay then we have my wrong of the week jk rowling and her mold uh who is wrong the mold turf is wrong 93 mold turf is not wrong seven percent um i would like to i'll take the onus people were a little confused about how i worded this and they did vote wrong mary you didn't vote wrong i don't know why mary messages that oh my god no no sorry jk rowling's wrong you vote if you didn't vote wrong it's okay um and i i apologize everyone someone said this bitch is wrong am i two weeks behind on the podcast yes we'll catch up do i need to listen to know that she's wrong no and she will always be wrong but and i will never forgive her for being a raging

bigot i haven't reread one of my favorite book series because of her and i will never be able to read it in peace again jacob rowling was wrong yesterday is wrong today and will be wrong tomorrow i will say like i'm not of the camp of like if you like if it's like if you can't consume it at all like anymore because like it has lost its luster for you that's really fine but like i can't stress to you how like i swear to god the harry potter books are the books i find most in used bookstores more than anything like there are ways if you still want to like read them or whatever that like don't that do not give her money like don't go to harry potter world don't go don't spy official things don't support official stuff or whatever but like the secondhand market

is like quite literally littered with the movies as well as the books and all your nerds already have all the paraphernalia anyway so i didn't have them because someone had some someone else had taken them um and when matz's parents found out like oh probably like four days later there's like this heavy ass box that is delivered two of them and i open and it's all of the old hardcover books that they had that they sent and i was like oh my god thanks like this is so lovely so i have themselves i will say that like i do think people if you had only really read it when you were younger or watch them when you were specifically read them when you were younger i do think it's important to read them when your frontal lobe is developed and you're older because like

you have a a stronger understanding and a larger understanding of like racist tropes or uh stereotypes and things like that because like there are clues in this that like i fully did not get as like a little white girl growing up in marin and like now when i look at them like oh this is really this is really this is really fucked up and so i think like viewing this as like oh she has tarnished this whole legacy the legacy of itself there was like hate woven into a lot of it and i think the overarching theme of the the parallels between um the wizarding world versus the muggle world and the and racism and like the civil war and all that stuff like those were so those overshadowed a lot of the fact that like she wasn't necessarily she was writing about

the right side but she was not on the right side and like you can tell in other stuff so um you know i don't think we'll get as an adult i don't think i i would get bamboo like be shocked by things like this again because she wasn't hiding it very well and that was also before the mold got to her someone else said she is always wrong she either needs to learn to shut her bigoted mouth or get off the internet and live her molded in life without making it the world's problem that's the part that i'm like just be rich in that castle like i think about that all that with certain people where i'm like mike myers where's mike myers he like shows up on snl every now and again and i'm like what has he been doing and mox is like spending his money

where is mike i know and then i said the same thing about eddie murphy but now eddie murphy has a new movie every murphy's everywhere all the time i don't feel like the five like i this year i started seeing him in a lot more like just out and about and like either paparazzi pictures or on carpets or promoting things but like five years prior to that i was like where is he and he's been around okay then i missed him just been missing him and i and by the way i was i was actively missing him and then emotionally i was i was missing him and so i just saw he's got a new movie coming out dr doolittle i am ready it's not dr doolittle but to me he will always got shrek coming dr doolittle i know but his face he's got he had the uh beverly hills cop came out

at the end of last year they had dolomite like he's had plenty of movies i just think you're missing oh did he do the new coming to america yes oh he had to okay so i actually i actually think that i think you're just missing his black projects i think i i think i am and now i gotta go back oh that's 20 hasn't gone anywhere well you said last five years that's in the last five you're right well so matz has never seen dream girls and then he said he's like wasn't i i like refell in love with him when he said this he goes oh dream girls wasn't that the one where like eddie murphy was just robbed of of the oscar and i was like yes yes i was like the fact that you that's that's what you know about dream girls is that eddie murphy was robbed and i was like

yeah he was robbed and i like thank you thank you love you even more and we gotta watch it the fellow that played cc is the first recast on the new soap opera he's gonna be oh really yep the first one everybody's like waiting because soap recast happens so frequently and they're like who's it gonna be and i'm surprised who it is because the guy that plays him currently is very talented like where's he going he's one of the and so he he made a post like saying like he wasn't fired he just had something i think he got a movie or something okay i'm realizing that my timeline of me missing eddie murphy is not the last year because i look and yeah he was in you people and coming to america and coming to america was the first time that i was like where has he

been for the second one of like he was doing what i forget what talk show he was on that i saw him on i was like oh my god and now i'm looking through this my the timeline that i'm missing is pre like 2020 because that was his animated era but he's got by the way he's a christmas movie that i fucking missed 5.6 stars gotta see it what was the movie candy cane lane sign me it's a good movie i can't believe i haven't seen it is it gonna be amazon prime that's why it always comes back you missed the ones on amazon prime wait this is a good cast well now i don't have to wait oh okay you can do a christmas in july situation we used to wait we used to do that for when i was a kid um because i would only see my grandparents like once a year my birthday's in august and so

we would do i know yeah but so we would do my birthday in august and then july we would do like a christmas celebration too okay someone else said i hate that mold gremlin jk is always wrong it is confusing because it's jk like just kidding just kidding someone said jk rowling is very fucking wrong i might have clicked the wrong one someone else said not sure how to vote but ultimately whoever gives jk rowling a platform is in the wrong that mold shit is crazy but someone definitely needs to capitalize on this and make a hate movie inspired by her as sad as this is i am having people are seeing how vile she really is yeah she just needs to get off social media and she's not gonna get off social media i think we need to bully her off of social media i think she

likes it she likes the attention it's because the mold rage like it's just like it is like it's like steroids in her body like she's buzzing she's like absolutely she's like looking for a fight jersey sure but like those guys they just juiced up someone else said trigger warning for essay as a sex repulsed ace i'm glad she went for us so publicly because there's no way to twist this in a way to quote unquote protect women as far as quote unquote fake oppression goes asexuality is still considered a sign or a symptom of mental illness or disorder and there's a little conversion rape therapy to cure us but mostly we just hear about how we've never had good sex yet so i think a day of education and visibility is a good thing yeah she's just like angry and on it she's like so

deeply angry and uneducated here's the thing you couldn't pay me to do that and like she quite literally is like sitting on more money than like anybody could ever have and is like living the worst the worst like she's doing rich wrong like so deeply wrong and like she's so miserable and sometimes miserable people just love to be miserable i think she does she's one of those people she loves the controversy she loves talking shit she loves people giving her the attention from it she's obsessed with it and like yeah it's just like it's a personality type that like i don't understand and then when you pair that personality type with a mold infestation you know what she needs carpal tunnel give her carpal tunnel she'll just uh use voice stations

and you're not watching her get even more angry at the technology and it's just sending it uh i think they've also released more casting of the show yeah i saw it on deadline yeah all right then my rongo week was the k-pop group kiss of life oh by the way i didn't pick the one that is like literally from the birthday party because like one of them was like half cut off and the quality was not good but i realized they're that's a lot of these poses like they're they're classic poses that looked a lot more um i was shocked to see that i was like oh this wasn't just you this is what you do in all of your photos this is your dressed up in the photo oh is that the one i did i thought i did the other one oh sorry no no but this is these poses

are like there are group photos of them like professional photo shoot not at the party and they're doing like the same and i was like oh this was so deeply on brand and they're even in the same like positioning and order all right someone said not so fun fact julie from kiss of life the girl whose birthday party it was had previously been called out for saying the n-word and made an apology also julie and bill are both born and raised in the u.s so their blatant racism and ignorance is even more embarrassing another not so fun fact pre-debut videos of black pink have been circulating recently showing three of four members also rapping singing the n-word yes and i briefly mentioned that in my thing but i said since i was specifically talking about this

one group i wasn't going to mention the others and then this person continues and don't even get me started on their attempt at using aave in their songs for example you gonna finna catch me a video from another artist cl from the same label as blackpink also recently went viral for her rapping lil kim song whoa and using the n-word multiple times unfortunately that's just a few of many examples yeah and if anybody does not know finna is aave that also is huge in the bay area like that was like my that was like high school bay area slang finna means this is like chai tea tt like it finna is a is is gonna like it is the it is a it's like i'm i'm gonna gonna gulla gulla island like i loved that show did you watch it as a kid of course i did i loved i was a

kid when that came out so you're watching old ass reruns yeah melissa i was watching i think it was on public access yeah i was watching it was when it was on nick jr no no no i also might have watched it on it on a vhs but i loved i literally searched it on tiktok the other day and watched like they're they the people are on tiktok that's how i got into it and then i said i actually run it back i need to see a full episode all right someone else said am i still allowed to bring up billy yes you can always bring up billy and one of them is very much dressed like billy dressing like chingy yeah this is a safe place for you to bring up hey has anybody ever thought about the fact that billy eilish's moon board is chingy this is a safe place for that yeah uh and then

they continue this is the main reason amongst many i hate that black people can't gatekeep shit even though there are artists slash people who get inspired by other cultures slash genres to make their art and some of them give credit where it's due very rarely do their race slash cultural appropriating fans get put in check when they do shit like this and i'll add on to that it's also because the artists themselves don't give credit because like let's say someone like renee rap who is not appropriating in any type of way but she has a cultural appreciation for black music and you can hear it in her songs but she's always crediting black artists as her inspiration yeah uh also said then these people get popular and dumb shit like this happens

and most people don't blink an eye i do have sympathy for artists to get forced to perform and do anything they don't want to because they're stuck in a contract but this doesn't feel like that no and seeing how they pose in all of their photos yeah it's like this seems like a core level of your branding and then someone else said kiss of life is wrong what makes it worse is julie it was her birthday party she's the blonde one in the center grew up in hawaii she should know better birthday streams are a form of fan service in k-pop i don't ever watch these because i think it sucks to be obligated to do a live stream on your birthday you should have a day off on another note i used to be a big fan of k-pop now i'm a casual listener main reasons that turned me off

was because of frequent incidents of cultural appropriation like this other reasons include predatory business practices that often leave the artist underpaid and overworked sexualizing minors and extreme beauty standards don't get me started on the fandom it can be scary a lot of these fans or more appropriate term is stalkers are like baby reindeers martha who y'all we do have an update from the person that

shared with us this great story about crossfit yeah and ninja turtles and powerpuff girls all right and the original title of it was am I wrong for gossiping

here we go i'm late but wanted to provide an update but first i am so glad these names were a hit because i was unsure how it would go lol so for everyone who said i was wrong because i had to know my sister would blab girlies i really didn't my sister is typically a to herself wallow in her annoyance type of person so i thought she would just get a kick out of the cheating scandal lmao we have talked so much shit and she's never spilled the tea also i am the younger sister she is older so that's also why i didn't expect her to blab because she typically is more level-headed than me i really never got to the bottom of why she hated bubbles before the cheating she just said

she was bitchy and didn't sit right with her i did leave this gym and crossfit entirely so did my man donatello it definitely is a cult i was pissed my sister blabbed because she had people coming for my neck but i didn't want to be around those people to begin with i just wanted a big ass okay that's how we all end up in a cult they all were bigots on the down low i'm sorry but crossfit just gives racism point blank it is crossfit is like raw milk eugenics vibes yeah and we were the only black women there so honestly i i'm glad we got the fuck out there anyway ma'am sometimes saying your race is very important to the story no this is actually that i didn't expect this i i needed you to tell me this from the start because that would have it would have changed

some of the perspective that i had and i would have been even more egregious about you getting the fuck out of there and bubbles is salty i hope the dick was worth it because rafael went and fucked a whole nother client the next week we know this because after we moved out the third male roommate and unproblematic king michelangelo told us rafael ain't even want her anyways love y'all i will accept not wrong as the final verdict moving on with life with donatello and blossom talking just as much shit to side a virgo who never truly thinks she's wrong we love a virgo we do actually i don't know what that means but sure if you say we love them then we do we do who's a virgo what month is that

june no september um end of august oh beyonce's a virgo i was about to say beyonce that's that i was waiting yeah and zendaya i was trying to think of people in my personal life oh okay mostly most of my friends birthdays the vast majority of them may oh really like in the first week first it's two weeks what's that taurus avia sarah and katherine's birthdays are on the same day sinitra's birthday candace's birthday yeah every like i feel like there's like one more taurus yeah that's a good vibe i know a lot of aquarius's and it is crazy though that i do know i think i know three people who your birthdays are all in the same week you get me in there's somebody that you always switch up our birthday oh marilisa

your birthdays are a day fucking apart yeah two days apart your birthdays are never like i don't think since i've in years they've even one has been on a they it's maximum that one could be on a friday one could be on a side like they're just you both have your birthdays on a weekend both on a week like it's yeah and someone else is this week but next week next year not that next year but the year after next what is it Friday my no um my birthday will be on President's Day next year on Monday and then it'll be on a Tuesday but it's still in that President's Day weekend that's what messes it up it's in the Valentine's Day President's Day weekend it's all the same weekend mm-hmm mm-hmm yep yep yep yep yep it's

tough time it's kind of like a it's really like a lot of thought has to go in yes and i wonder why the last couple of plans we made for your birthday should just get stressful yep it's a lot of moving parts all right well that's it thank you all for listening join us tomorrow where you're going to listen to an old episode thank you so much come back and let us know what you listened to Thursday. We've got Don't Blame Me Friday. Fisting Friday. Monday.

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