Don't Blame Me! - SYNT: My Sister is Cheating on Our Cousin + Met Gala Review

Episode Date: May 13, 2025

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I heard that. No, no. When I said the woo, they were, I was just mouthing. The woo we were. this is episode 143 and as i stated when we were recording this episode one of my favorite episodes of all time as i like was making the votes for this i was like damn this was all one episode like this shit was like chock full of crazy yeah i explained it i was like telling months about it he was like wait i need more info and i was like bitch you and me

both like i i i'm telling you all i have this is genuinely all i know and he was like wait what i was like yeah that's literally it that's that's it first up melissa wants to know is the sperm race fraud six percent said i was wrong 94 said i was not wrong our resident scientist had a lot to say about i was so happy when i saw those come in me too so i need i need to start with her insight as you called her a resident science bitch did she is that what she said or is that what i call you called her that the last episode i hope she knows that was with love of course she does okay good first in case you missed it this was specifically for you she said i also refuse to watch anything with chris pratt and unless it's marvel i think i'd absolutely love jurassic

park or world or whatever but he keeps starring in them and he is just so punchable and his character is so punchable and she calls him crisp rat crisp rat crisp rat oh oh i love it we get insults on both sides i feel the exact same way specifically about the jurassic movies i know i would love them take him out and have jonathan bailey star in all of them my friend is in them so i watch for her daniella pinata well she's great when i meet her new the second accounting movie too so we almost went to just go see that yeah all right so this is what our resident science bitch says i'm looking up the sperm racing bullshit the website has a quote-unquote methodology page and it's literally on notion zero citations or references in their manifesto

page that gabs on about sperm motility and fertility and stuff and then she sent a picture there is a post that's from traded vc venture capitalists sperm racing startup launching the world's first live sperm race raises one million dollars and in the picture is four boys and i say boys because they are boys wearing what appears to be lab coats that are very cheaply made and then our science bitch says help they look like they're not wearing clothes under those lab coats oh they're probably not those lab coats also look like a poly blend not a fire safe cotton i never thought about that good point and then they also said having worked in the startup slash entrepreneurial slash commercialization slash tech transfer space this boy is the

fucking worst founder bro who the fuck is investing in him also if he got investment to do one thing but has used the money to do another that's a no-no it's illegal in some places founder bros and their gross exaggerations make me so fucking mad plenty of honest decent people who are here trying to start a company with legitimate ideas that could benefit society but get shot down and then she also added which was for you since you found out found out about helium, she added. Helium is a finite resource because it floats away. We've been in a shortage for literally decades. Like they keep saying we're in a shortage, but we keep buying giant cylinders to run our instruments, both in gas and liquid form. I think it's a lie like diamond

rarity. There's tons, but it's a non-renewable resource and no, we can't make helium. So I think people countries are hoarding it wow first of all the simple fact that helium just floats away makes so much yeah it does like i'm like holy shit you're right like wow um but no i that makes sense in the sense of like this if it's a non-renewable resource in general all non-renewable resources are then thus in a shortage as soon as you use some because you are short what you originally had the amount that you originally had because you can't make anymore um and so i support calling it a shortage and having us not make like balloon arches with helium doing all of that kind of stuff and just utilizing tape because right now we're not in a

tape shortage as far as i know if we are someone let me know you can make more tape oh there you go perfect yeah they tape is not a i don't know it's certain adhesives i don't know you make the adhesive hey you think you could make the thing that you're filling up the tank at party city but i've never thought that all right somebody said it reminds me of this unfortunately i screenshot whatever this is so i can't click on it hold on i'm gonna go back to your message so i can click on the link a mysterious company claims to sell sneeze filled tissues for 80 is it real and this is um from time magazine so this is a legitimate source but then it was updated on this was from january 18th 2019 then it was updated on may 6th vape tissues was revealed to be a host

created by a comedy central show the creator quote unquote oliver neeson is really mecky a los angeles-based comedian so i want to say from january when this article was originally written to may of 2019 people thought this was real um shout out to that comedian that comedian is on jury duty ah i recognized his name he's very funny why did they think it was real because he's a documented comedian i mean because he it wasn't under his name oh oh yeah it was it revealed to be and like this website it looks legit it looks funny though i guess also in like the right in the realm right now of like so many like the fact that this sperm racing thing like we yes we think it's fraud but also like it did happen like i in this era of like these like

like our science bitch said these fucking tech founder bros like this actually probably isn't as like absurdist as it would have been a couple years ago that people would have never bought into it right well this was from 2019 but you also have to think about theranos i was gonna say i think by 2019 we've already gone down the uh that thing that was like um they were making smoothies they claimed they were making smoothies but it was just like a little juice box like you bought this whole machine and then when you opened it up do you remember this no was this around the same time as soylent soylent is real i don't know why you keep no i okay soylent well that was a real thing like you yeah it still is real no no i know but i'm saying did it come out this thing

that they were selling with the drinkable juice things was it around the same time well it was it was uh i don't i think so but like it was a full machine that they said that it was making fresh squeezed juice in but it the the what what was packaged it you weren't like putting actual fruit in it it was like a little container but then once you open up the machine you just saw that it was just mixing that container with water which you can do without a machine yeah you can you don't even really need um a spoon or a fork you could just cover your hand and shake it uh-huh wow yeah that sounds like off the heels of the uh medical medium shit yes you know someone else said i saw a clip of this i thought it was a sketch like someone made up a funny sketch video yeah

yeah i don't blame you someone else said this is wild they are so wrong and once again i applaud melissa's way with words thank you i haven't found anything as good tomorrow yet i mean it's this is it this is like the day after you did the george santos one like it's gonna be yeah it's hard to follow great i have the um space too like i'm i i need so you've been on a roll yeah uh someone else said men concern me yes deeply and constantly and these are boys so they're just gonna get worse unless they get smacked now but i don't think they're making so much money i think they're just gonna get worse well i also think that in general like when you are under your parents roof if you can be this bad in public and not have repercussions because

like you're under 18 is the only time that like you can have repercussions for that that are like your parents implemented those consequences before you get into the real world they're not they're clearly not doing that and like that to me i'm like oh this is not gonna go this isn't gonna go well i hope he just goes down the line of that man who like wants to be like young forever who's just like doing like crazy shit to himself and then i mean he does like also like other bad things but like he's like a laughingstock as most of them are at this point all right your turn okay then we have megan loki doesn't see an issue with jordan or jordan oh i spelled it wrong so sorry she's gonna hate that she's like jordan oh that's how you say it no but that's how you spell it okay

and maybe it is how you say it as well but like i think it is just jordan but she says it that way so that people i think so but i could be wrong but i've heard her say that but i think she's doing it in a way to get you to spell it right uh with what jordan hudson is doing and i also forgot the word is in this guys this is post cowboy garter it was it hard uh ten percent said i was wrong ninety percent said i am not wrong and i did spell my name right both of these times good job thank you thank you someone said gold digging is legitimate work and should be fairly compensated that poetry like that is like so worded perfectly i agree and also as someone who was it uh has a big obsession not with like necessarily the history of like the gold rush i

am fascinated by the history of that what can i say i was born and raised in california baby um but specific also like digging yeah no i was gonna say specifically i love the act of extracting whether that's zits from my face hair from my body things from underground like i love i love a puzzle i love treasure hunting i love to find something i i'm addicted to that kind of stuff um i think that with the exact the term of it is like digging for gold no one thought the people digging for gold themselves were being like lazy like that was you were going out and you were trying to find the gold yourself now if you are trying to like you know sell mined diamonds that you paid like a fraction of a cent or like indentured servitude to children who are like

risking their lives for that yeah that is not that but gold digging i think unfortunately the people who created this term to include women who are dating people who have money as a means to get their money and saying that that like it's like a cheap and lazy thing to do they picked the wrong term because there is effort in the name and in the history someone else said god forbid a hot girl gets her bag from an old probably racist in some way white man yeah what happened to eat the rich i think people are just jealous it's not them because it's an even exchange and the gag is she probably doesn't even have access to his money as of now people like that often keep their finances on lockdown until they pass anyway yeah she's on salary like without a doubt she is on salary and

like what a great way to do it because she's not waiting for a ring she's not trying like i think in general if you are going to date for money you are if you're the goal is to get married you will have an ironclad prenup you should not just have access to the money when you are married and like you need to you need to get the money while you start dating you start investing you're doing all of that stuff. She's, I think she's doing it. All right. All the right stuff. Exactly. Someone else said there are exceptions to every rule. Get the bad queen. And that's it. This episode is brought to you by Accenture. When your advertising operations fall out of sync, everything else follows. Spotify and Accenture are working together to reinvent the rhythm of

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of them but as i look through all of these and they also don't know what pronouns are i think that's also true i i think i forgot pronouns in at least three of these okay um i know a lot of people said that they were confused on how to vote and i don't understand why you were confused it literally said would they be wrong for telling their cousin yet there's i didn't give anybody an option to co-sign incest if you voted they would not be wrong that doesn't mean you're pro-incest if you voted that you do think it that they wouldn't be wrong that's also not like either way you should know that i did not word this in a way that would make you that would be this person is interested in incest i just don't have the bandwidth to set you up like that maybe another

time but like someone said what in the alabama is this good question someone from alabama got mad when i said that like not all of us are like sleeping with our siblings and i was like all right i know it's a joke but like people from alabama also make the joke yeah like and as somebody who's alabama adjacent like we all make the joke that means that they probably are i know i was like i don't think we need to be like have our feelings hurt by this hit dogs hollow um someone else said to date a cousin long distance that you don't even like and are just cheating on is wild just break up please whatever it takes yeah someone else said cousin and sister are wrong another person said break them up another person said break up that relationship break it up

i just read that in my head to the tune of um the pitbull song and done it like a tonk truck break them off another person said vote it wrong my cheesemosa ass needs to know if she told her cousin yeah i would love to get an update please another person said as someone who has no cousins but grew up with a god brother i genuinely don't understand how you can date a cousin my god brother and i aren't even blood related but the thought of hooking up with him still makes me vomit just no megan and melissa are so right break them up i feel the same way about my god brother yeah i also feel the same about someone who's like not even technically my god brother but like

was my like do what i mean like uh-huh because also like i didn't i know that like god parents and like god siblings is in religious some like some people who are religious like there is a much more like official way of doing or whatever but like even in mine which was there's no fucking paperwork i don't think there's like there's no paperwork okay but there's like not with like a church or something but like there's like not there's no ceremony there was like nothing like that even even the guy who like was not technically my god brother but like was my other god brother yes same like like megan and melanie's god brothers like they're not my god brothers but we still yeah grew up the same way like it's still the same way gross gross gross gross gross

uh someone said the writer isn't wrong at all but this definitely will stir up some family drama and i hate that i even have to say that in this scenario this feels icky all around no matter how desperate i get i will never look to someone who was like family to date my best friend who i call my sister and i are so close that her cousins are like mine too that's even more separation than this and i would never think about dating one of them so this is straight up icky yeah i even used to think like the trope of like um tv shows where it was like oh it was like you were best friends with the sister and like she has an older brother and it's like oh my god i hope we get married and so then we can be like real sisters like if any of the kids like my like childhood

best friends had a brother that's not that is my brother like that is not like there is no fantasy be like i hope we can get together and then we could be a real sister i'm like no we we are close enough that that person is also related to me right disgusting another person said an uncle who i've never met married a cousin and the entire family cut them off so it may be hard but you got to do what you got to do good yeah oh honey don't worry about that that's just your weird uncle who married our cousin and i also want to say when we're in this situation with these weirdos you still have to make the rest of your family aware of who the people are because then you don't want them in a weird situation where they accidentally hook up later in life because they don't know

yeah i think it's i think it's criminal to not let people know about family members like secret like if you want to have a secret family you need to keep them on opposite sides of the globe and you need to make sure they don't have internet you need to make sure that nobody there's no pen but like the way that like people can like meet from so like and so serendipitously you gotta tell people yeah you gotta tell them another person said a whole situation is wrong and that's it okay and um don't worry it doesn't get any better from here we have writer number two this has actually kept me up at night writer number two are they wrong for overreacting to their twin friend's closeness 77 said the writer's wrong 23 said the writer is

not wrong how are we doing everybody like i i'm hoping to get some explanations in there because that is like truly not a uh number split that i thought was going to happen someone said wild to be in a trio friendship with twins but i think there's more going on here sometimes eminem straight does show but not today i am the gayest bitch alive queer slash gay slash lesbian but for a long time i thought i was straight because i grew up in a rough context where even considering that was not a safe option i had these strange turbulent friendships where there there was a lot of drama and i felt betrayed and i left and felt left out a lot others reacted in a similar way to eminem this is weird why do you care so much etc looking back it

is so obvious that i was in love with my friend maybe something like that is going on with the writer or maybe there's codependency etc but either way the writer has some soul searching to do yeah yep yep yep yep someone's this whole situation makes me uncomfortable uh i don't have a twin but i do have a younger sister who i'm very close with we're about three and a half years apart in age so we don't have any shared friends but when our boyfriends are around we will tell inside jokes that they don't understand mostly to make each other laugh we joke around all the time and it sucks that no one else gets us like we get each other if for whatever reason we had a shared friend and they told us they felt left out because we have jokes inside

jokes i would be flabbergasted because duh we're sisters and truly the only relationship stronger than that is twins the writer is out of their mind yes and like i said as somebody who like historically has been friends with sisters with like a two-year age gap yeah like you you are not around you are also not on like family vacations like you're not you're you're not there someone said i don't think the writer's wrong for how they were feeling but definitely wrong in the approach to me this seems like a classic we became friends freshman year and i'm realizing that friendships change they definitely are having irrational feelings and this is the reason why you don't befriend twins on their own no matter what they will always be closer and you will feel

left out i think the writer really just needs to branch out on their own and find friends maybe realizing that this friendship isn't one that's supposed to last forever and that is okay that's a very compassionate way of looking at it which i agree the only reason why the writer should be worried about quote-unquote breaking them up is if twincess is going on and then the problem would be not breaking them up soon enough if they are just regular twins though the writer definitely needs to take a step back and figure out where these feelings are coming from may i suggest therapy straight to it i think the writer is more so anxious that they're seemingly only friends had a pre-existing relationship and because of that they feel left out and i think

it presented in a weird way only because they were twins i'm an only child so i never fully understand the concept of sibling relationships but i could see how the writer could have felt jealous or left out that their friends were doing things without them sure but that does not i don't think that makes any fucking sense because they didn't just become twins they didn't just be like they've had that and like i think if they were just like siblings who like looked nothing alike and like you met them in two different like one was in one class of yours and one was another class of yours and then you're going really want to introduce you to my friend and then you realize that like they're siblings and then being like oh like you know you felt like you were the

connective thing between them totally but like meeting twins at seemingly from what says at the same time you've been friends with them from the beginning like they have always been twins like that pre-existing relationship and friendship has like been there and like i think in general this is part of the reason why like teachers and like parents and stuff don't want they like try and have their twins have like their own front and doing things like separate because it is isolating if you are just with your twin all the time because like you are going to be a level of close that other people cannot relate to and so then it becomes like deeply like deeply codependent on that relationship and you're not branching out and like doing your own different things

so i think like this again would make sense if they were just siblings and the situation i described before but like having a realization a year into a friendship that like these people are twins and you knew them as they've always been twins you've always done that like are you mad that they're gonna be together all during break because they live together like they're going home they have the same parents what I just I don't know it's just odd to me it is odd to me too and I think it's great I like love being friends with siblings like I I I so like that's why I have a hard time with this like because I am an only child and like there is I have a different relationship with my friends who are only children than like my friends who have like

siblings like growing up like the the family like the people who had like multiple kids they were the houses where they're like everybody come over for dinner like that was just kind of how that goes but like i it was never like lost on me that like oh my god i'm actually not related even though you know we also didn't look anything alike but like right it's it's a fair thing to like not want to be friends with siblings or not want to be friends with twins because you're like oh i you know in a group of three i will feel left out which is fair if that is true you will but i think the real the late onset realization to me is like why i think there's something deeper there i have a twin brother so not exactly the same but the shit is weird we share friends and

have never and never have we had a friend be weird about us being siblings it feels like the collar was thinking of them as a unit which twins always get enough of and they need to be treated as individual people feel like the collar is strangely attached to the twin thing like what if these were just a pair of sisters two years apart would you feel the same yeah great point and that is it then we've got my wrong of the week julie and fred ramos 90 said the ramoses are wrong and seven percent said the ramoses are not wrong someone said this lady needs to get a life and then asterisk did correct derogatory use of this lady another person said god forbid children get some exercise i don't know what's even going on with

minnesota we had the one racist cunt from rochester 20 minutes ish away from saint louis park who somehow raised 350 000 on her gofundme for calling akin the n-word also saint louis park is full of like i door dashed there before and was yelled at for not putting the food properly on their doormat i hate the city honestly amazing houses but i don't like the people insider info someone else said we have been looking to buy a flat and there was one we really liked then the real estate agent told us the one drawback of the flat is that there is a shared garden and the neighbor's kids might play in it and i was so baffled because it just brings me joy to hear and see happy children if they bother you so much buy a house in the middle of a forest maybe join a convent

also kids already have to go through like enough of the sadness when they like get so excited when there's a moving truck coming in every time someone is moving to our street literally all of the kids on the entire block walk up and they're just like waiting to see if there's a kid and we were like we don't have any kids they're like oh okay like they're devastated when like already people are moving in who don't have kids and then it's like then you hate kids horrible i don't understand why move there another person said my apartment is directly across from my complex's playground i love coming home and seeing the kids play and whenever the sun comes out i know i'm gonna hear their giggles and screams and it always makes me happy i don't

understand how a completely avoidable problem can be the bane of your existence yep okay then we have my wrong of the week nomination katie max 100 said katie is wrong or kate i keep calling her katie kate and did that i know i don't know i think i just i don't know i don't know if they knew any kate's growing up so i think i automatically just do a katie and maybe just how the t is uh and zero percent said kate is not wrong one of the key things i did forget to mention is um in her defense of this she did call uh uh they call her kkk caroline um that she's a great role model to young girls for what having the longest space between the top of your nose and your lip despite having so much lip filler like being able to guzzle lip filler and have it

go absolutely no like what is the inspiration being like being stupid and angry about it like having a microphone and zero qualification like what the fuck yeah no one responded for this one um i'm not surprised i i will say i don't know that um our audience gives me the vibe of like a bunch of long distance runners you know i just think that we have a different kind of energy yeah i didn't know who she was like hell i can't still can't even say her name so that's it for the results all right let's get into some fun shit hell yeah your playlist might get you through the workday but have you ever wondered how your ancestors spent theirs what work helped them build a life how did they adapt as the world around them changed

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really love perfect i thought christian latchman i love the who is number three on this list i love the drapery here i love the bow i love the collar which is very much of the time that they were representing the theme was super fine tailoring black style they also raised the most money that they've ever raised before which i thought was amazing wow yeah and it was very black and i i'm always rooting for everybody black so um then what'd you think of i really i really i really liked it i got really annoyed with people who were um bored with like suits and then the same people who were like why isn't everybody wearing a suit because like tailoring does not just apply of suits but also like tailoring does very much apply to suits so like having this i don't know

i think like having a very specific theme like this i think creatively was really cool and people being like oh my god we're seeing the same things over and over again i'm like but they're not the same things because they are tailored to each different body which is quite literally the theme um and i i was i didn't miss anybody who wasn't there and like i i i mean i we know my absolute adoration of coleman domingo and like specifically like his fat like see when i as soon as i saw him i was like oh this is everyone is going to be and as soon as even prior to that when we saw the uh lewis hamilton and like asap like the pre of this i think is really cool and i do think i've never wanted to like root for men but like men always get shit that they only ever wear suits

to this and i was really happy to see so much like varying levels of like different things this time yeah yep and coleman like he had several outfit changes and all of them were beautiful um i love the valentino kind of zoot suit that he had on that was beautiful that's number four on this list um what'd you think i loved i love the mixing of the patterns and like i loved seeing that in other people's looks too he i knew he he he blew me out of the water and the fact that he was even i had such high expectations for him and he like exceeded them exponentially i will also say on a side note i thought it was crazy that the live streams of this one for the first time ever um they like kept the audio going after so like you were just hearing the

photographers talk about these so they were already being like oh my god like big fit and then they're like wait who was that but then there was someone who i don't remember who it was but the guy from the cut he was killing me he just went yeah i hate it hate it hate it hate it hate and like it was it was uh i i liked hearing from that side of it as well did you see the guy from a cut when he was interviewing la roche and then anna the girl that had on the similar outfit for yeah zendaya walked in like he was interviewing him at the time and both their heads just kind of turned and la roche is like like you can see it in his eyes like okay okay and then he goes i guess we're gonna be in a

who wore best situation which by the way that's my the worst place in my life is me and who wore best against sundaya like yeah i'm so sorry i'm gonna i'll change i'll change yeah um but i thought they both look great it was just different it was tailored different yeah and hey tailored for you and it's the part that i think is it has dispelled the rumor that everyone that anna wintour approves every single outfit that everyone wears clearly not because even if she like been allowed she it wouldn't have been allowed it really would not have been allowed as zendaya like anna wintour like anna wintour likes and if it was someone who like she's had like public beef like it was a kim kardashian you might be like oh she's sabotaged her on purpose not zendaya so i'm

like oh yeah this is this isn't it um one of my like favorites favorites who and i love to see her winning coco jones in the all like lace so fucking stunning and the beading it looks so heavy i was like this is one of those ones and like her hair goes like almost all the way down to the carpet the level of like strength and poise you have to wear that and i'm always impressed when people wear not kim kardashian her like little corset skinny look but when people wear things that are like really intricate or heavy in a way that's like something on your head or something on your neck you don't have a lot of time it's not like a tour look where someone has it for a while they can practice and rehearse it like it like sometimes they can like spiral out

of control and you really are the vessel for this outfit and this designer you usually don't have as much say in it and so you don't have as much time to repair so like the fact that like she i know this was so fucking heavy and she just like she's she's wearing it like it's effortless but in like a yeah i did that way and she just and like the jewels and i was so happy i have to say people wore jewelry this year and i'm so thankful i'm so thankful we got accessories we didn't just get like a gown and a drop earring like we're getting like we're getting like avant we're getting bracelets we're getting rings we're getting necklaces and we're actually getting like more custom looks in a way that feel more specific to that person which i

love because i do find often that things are lacking in that department for the men yeah agree love lewis hamilton he is just a beautiful man he's so pretty but he's also smart and knows how to dress like he puts those race car boys to shame no the way that like when i was like oh my god is this what all these guys are like and monster's like no he's in a league of his own and then zendaya of course who we just talked about who was referencing diana ross from lady sings the blues and diana ross was there for the first time in a decade and evan like told her to go and diana ross is the like she looked phenomenal herself and then zendaya was like fangirling because photographers were she was near she was walking up the stairs and was

near diana ross referencing her yeah having no idea that she'd be there right and um the photographers were trying to like have her go take a picture and she's just standing there fangirling and freaking out i need to go see that um i don't know if they actually got i'm sure they did because evan kind of like went over to zendaya and they i guessing they know each other because they were like talking um and so he was he wanted them to take a photo together um but like to be there and then the person that you're referencing is there too that you didn't know what who that she was going to be there hey you know and that would be a perfect time if he said live who wore it better diana ross you tell us oh god and again this is why i would have seen i would have been

like don't worry i'm not even in the competition where's red wine someone give me a little little splishy splash uh-huh lapita is and i will stand by this she is the reason why she's the only she's the only chanel ambassador who's making chanel look good at all the chanel ambassador like it is like not when a girl gets like signed by chanel it is unfortunately a downfall of her looks for the next calendar year like chanel is not it's not good it's not good and the fact that like every time i see what lupita's wearing and i go chanel does she have a different catalog than you're giving every other chanel girl because boy oh boy what she she looks phenomenal and it's so her and like fits the theme so perfectly which like i i that's my my ideal for anyone getting

dress for the mech outlet is that like it fits the theme so perfectly and it is like so them like it fits but it like checks off two boxes or you're like a totally transformed person but like this i thought was like fantastic the color coordination the hat the accessories i love how the little hat is just perched obviously they've pinned it underneath but i love how it's just kind of just sitting there on her head it's just like it has that whimsy to it that feels like theatrical and like old like that like performance based kind of thing and i love like the draping of the like cape on the coat like i just think she looks beautiful yeah i love ggid was uh referencing josephine baker as so was meg the stallion we'll get to her later but um i

thought i thought she looked good i think she also i think i like that they uh committed with the hair as well yeah and then shocker of the night i didn't know he was gonna be here uh kb lame is that how you say his last name i think so but he's known on tiktok he's like one of the most famous people on tiktok even though he rarely yes he has like the most follows on tiktok i hadn't wait i did not know that yes he um let's see how many he has but he's famous on tiktok for just pointing at stuff i thought he was a model he's 81 million on instagram oh he does model so yeah he's does that's now he does but that wasn't i thought that was his come up no he has 162.5 million followers on tiktok holy shit and i thought that he he i didn't know

he won that he was gonna be there and then when i saw him i was like this man is so on theme and looks so good yeah no stunning stunning stunning stunning i'm shocked to know that this man didn't come up from being a model like that i fully thought that was his come up no wow tiktok pointing at things wow no i'm i love this look i love like the split sides of it like i love i love the shoes like i love the commitment to this the hat it's just it's good and yeah i love i love but speaking of tiktok uh wisdom wisdom kane kane i am shocked he was not invited invited but he and because he had gone before but that was because tiktok had bought a table um but wow love bad bunny and prada because here's the thing i love bad bunny whatever he wants to

wear i love bad bunny in no clothes i love bad bunny when he's just dancing on his skivvies like that and people say oh my god who is this made for the two girls who are on the mics right now that's who that was made for we loved it and also my follow-up question do you know any gay men because they also loved it at least the ones i know yep oh i love danielle dead wires that's so good gorgeous who does she look like in this oh she looks like taraji in this she looks stunning stunning that's like a very different silhouette but also tailoring when you have like the exposed corset aspect of it like showing like the looking like a work in progress that it would look like at the tailor like that's another interpretation of this that i thought i i really

loved yep now i get to talk about somebody that i actually know a friend and when she posted this i literally gasp jody turner smith in burberry this she's in my top three top three easy easy top three like the hat the way it's leaning the way it's sitting the the suit which is leather and then also maybe satin and the shoes the cut oh my gosh the way her titties are sitting like everything about her face the way that she's giving like she's acting on the carpet yes she looks so good the way i need a willie wonka remake with her stat get rid of the johnny depp one like this it's giving that like that like exaggerated whimsy which is just so fucking good and like the silhouette of everything and like tailoring doesn't have to mean suit and like this

technically could be called like a suit by some definition but like just how everything is like wrapped and pulled and like it is just done so magnificently that like shows off her figure and in that exaggerated way as well like it's just impeccable yeah impeccable i love and i love the monochrome so fucking much and the hat the proportions of the hat like the high side like it's just so fucking cool yeah and like it works with her cheekbones too yeah like it fits her fate like the whole thing fits like her face and then it fits like it reminds me of like when Zendaya like talks about like getting into the persona of like the outfit she's wearing on the red carpet like to me this like this this this look has a personality and she's conveying that

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i like angel reese and tom brown it's very tom brown i'm glad that that's who she worked with i thought that was like fun and so many people worked with tom brown i know i felt like that this is the busiest tom brown met gala ever which feels like a a natural kind of win hunter schaefer looks like like a little french kid and i'm loving it very much like oh may i tell you oh like this is giving like the the like the try hard at like the french boarding school and we kind of love that's fun don't you i love the hair i love the cigar i love some people are saying they wish that she wore pants but i think if it was pants it wouldn't be as interesting no and i like the work in progress look yeah the the tail in the

back too like i love that i also people have been giving her shit because she was like you know asking her assistance and like people exactly what she needed to like hide her reveal i just like need people to understand that like being meticulous and particular about how you want something done is like how we have beyonce so like criticizing someone for caring too much about the art that they put into the world like regardless of like what the context of that is is like how you get the oh go girl give us nothing like i think it's insane to like be chastised for like caring too much and then also for not caring enough and like i would always rather try really hard and i would always rather care a lot than like not at all so i'm i i've

gotten very annoyed with the discourse over that oh i love cola scola but i also cola scola can do whatever they want i like tessa thompson 45 i enjoy this i enjoy the exaggerated aspects of it like the exaggerated shoulders sleeves waist hips but then the exaggerated shoes and the hat as well i also i will say i am like deeply biased like i really love her and i really love her fashion choices in general this feels very her and cool i like this i like this take on him very cool and then next i've got dapper dan who if you don't know this but he is a fashion designer from harlem he has his dapper dance boutique and he is very much associated with bringing high fashion to hip-hop like he had a very his list of people that he styled is deep and then

also like time made him one of the most influential people he's 80 now yes wow yeah it doesn't look 80 not at all i have to say there are some handsome men on here who i have never seen before in my life that's how it goes every time and they they are very pretty oh love janelle monae janelle monae's she always gives theatrics yes so this is a perfect theme for her and this is suiting yes and i think she should be much higher on this list um this even before this specific outfit she was in like a box that looked very animated but it was clothing like it was box clothing that she was pulled out of like she arrived on the carpet in this boxy thing and she was pulled out of that and this also i saw the guy on tiktok that made this watch eyepiece

he had seven days to do this oh my god and uh he was the guy who does the technical stuff i don't know this is the first time i've ever seen him it does move okay and so he had to make it so that it moved but she could still see out of it so he like moved some of the stuff on the outside this is great yeah i think it's probably the same guy i'm thinking of he does like he incorporates like fashion and technology and so like they're practical things and like he's done a lot of stuff for like the met gala but he like does the things that like he did someone something that like it like was a corset and it had to be able to like move or do something like it's just yeah very cool there are other people that are not on this list that i think that should be on

this list including tiana taylor like where is she oh yeah is she on the reddit when i sent you yeah she's the first one on the reddit yeah love love love love love love i would also love to get a picture of her and jody next to each other like the color coordination um i will say i'm a little surprised surprised that tom brown didn't dress dochi because tom brown did all the wardrobe for her uh grammy performance as well as i don't know for her tour but like that's like been the like this era is like the tom brown era and i was a little surprised so i wonder if this is like a big shift into this you know what i'm realizing too coco jones's hair in some of these poses she's holding her hair almost as if it's a cane

which is like a very cool different way to do this too that fits in now i i gotta say i loved joey king's look too did you see hers i don't think i've seen it so she's number three in the slideshow i just sent you it's not even the best photo of it but like oh yeah yeah i did see this fucking cool yeah it is cool very cool like the mixing of prints and like a lot of people did the print mixing but they kept it in like black and white and like i was like love to see the color in this like i thought it just looked awesome oh my god trammell tillman oh my god stunning addicted to him um mindy kaling i thought looked incredible i love the cut of her suit i think she always looks really good especially at the met but i love the cut i thought it was

different the cut of it and then the little um cape that's coming off the back oh they have in this one that you sent from reddit it also has uh janelle monae's first um part of this suit oh yeah oh very cool and then also meg the stallion was left off that list which i thought she looked she was also like i said um referencing josephine baker and i thought she looked great and um whoopi goldberg's was so cool oh i haven't seen that i liked rihanna's too again like i like the the fact that they made it like different fabric to debut the fact that she's like pregnant to like show what you were under clothes girl was already pregnant no um but uh i like i liked cardi's too i love the coloring oh whoopies is great and it's also tom brown oh cool um andre

3000 is cool i didn't see that until this reddit post i love cardi's whole the makeup the the whole look there too a lot of people i've not seen like i mean doja cat did like very cool make a lot of the makeup has been a little more understated i like when people incorporate uh if their outfit like calls for it they really go for it beauty-wise too i thought it was great yeah beautiful also meg the stallion shot a video for three minutes inside the mitt doing what eating her and angel reese stop we're eating caviar put me at that table and i was like you're not supposed to be doing this wow this is how i literally wrote meg the stallion meg gala i meant met well i meant met i haven't seen this look oh my god oh also um ava duvernay looked really cool and she referenced

her grandmother oh that's so cool yeah i thought she did a different take but it was very much her because she loves these type of high-waisted dresses yeah no this is great i love the hat and i love the shoes too yeah i i think like when people specifically for like tailoring when it comes to women and like the time period of focusing on like exaggerating silhouettes like knocks it out of the park i thought sabrinas was cool too it was um very much her yes and people were like this looks like one of her regular costumes whatever and i was like but the reference that she does for her costumes are not of the current time period so like this is very fitting for her this is not like oh she's just wearing like a sparkly dress because

like that's all she wears it's like no she loves this era and this is a referential one and she looks like she's about to pull a bunny rabbit out of a hat like i love that shit that is it for our Met Gala recap and our see you next Tuesday episode. And guess what? We will see you next Tuesday. Bye. Bye. This is a Sister Sign production hosted by me, Megan Rinks.

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