Don't Blame Me! - SYTN: But Am I Wrong? - Is it Fall Yet?

Episode Date: August 27, 2024

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welcome to cnx thursday well we are about to reach the results of last week's episode is it episode 110 no have the last three been called episode 110 yes why'd you slip out i was enjoying that transatlantic yeah that's literally montez's number one accent he's like oh what are we happy? And I'm like, okay, for sure. Um, so yeah, I apologize, everybody. This is not episode 110. It's 113. I think you did two 110s, not three. I think you did a 109 and then two 110s, maybe. Let's, let's, I mean, there's a way to see. Oh, that's true. There is a way to find out. 109. There's two 109s. There's a 109, another 109, then a 110. Okay. That's what it is. It's two 109s. So this is 111. For sure. Yeah. Yeah. This should be 111. So it is marked as 110.

i do apologize but um i will do it right the next time i hope just maybe in your notes put down the next one is 112 or i got a better idea i'll just add it to oh the top of it smart smart smart but i i feel like i posted them at a right time i just couldn't get it all right there something else had to give and that thing was the numbers and numbers are hard numbers have always been hard so the results for episode 111 you're up first i fully put my phone down okay okay uh melissa says stop the trans attacks on athletes and one percent said that i was wrong 99 said it was not wrong khalif she uh is suing people that uh talk shit about her so first first before we even get to that congratulations because she hadn't won yet but she won the gold um so

congratulations to her and uh she's suing everybody that talks shit about her that said that she was a man which she is not and so uh jk rowling hasn't said one word since this has happened uh but yeah she has done what she deleted a bunch of tweets which by the way in the uk that does for those criminal cases against that um i saw throughout someone who like had gotten sued for a tweet in the uk and was like yeah so if you delete them that is shows the court that you know what you said was bad and like you are admitting like oh the morality aspect of it there so she's really not bright she's not bright never has been hopefully something will happen to her because bitch uh elon musk i don't i don't think he cares but i'm glad it's happening um anyone

else that talks shit about her i hope logan paul logan i couldn't remember which one it was logan paul hope something terrible happens to him too so great job everyone i don't think anybody wrote in and we have mine megan says stop accepting apologies that are not for you zero percent said i was wrong and a hundred percent said i was not wrong yeah i've been uh keeping up with like some of the response or like what she's gonna do like like seeing on like reddit threads or whatever and um it's looking like from if i'm not wrong okay there's like now beef between her and tana and like if they're supposed to go on tour together and like all this shit and she's like posting videos of her like dancing and like going to the dance class and everyone's like stop dude

and she's like what am i supposed to do and i was like everyone's like she's just stop she's supposed to stop living her life and i was like no but stop posting some people don't know that there is life outside the internet yeah and i'm just like what huh huh so odd someone i don't keep up with these people if i saw them walking down the street would know a thing i don't know them yeah um i don't even tan i know you've talked about her i don't know her like she doesn't tell you what she looks so young so she would be so off your radar but somebody sent us something saying that she's been cut out of the podcast that's like somewhat the implication has like seemingly been um that like i guess like tana did a statement i didn't see it

but like did a statement on the podcast that like really separated her from brooke and people were like some people think that that was just like a business move to like save face and then they're like still close behind the scenes and like she'll incorporate her back on or other people think that that was just like not what she meant like at all like it was she was just trying to disavow her statements and like but yeah the whole thing i was just like because i've seen conflicting things of people being like she's off the podcast permanently and then one's being like but she's still going on tour and i was like how would she go on the podcast tour she's on the podcast special guests oh yeah but i'm like if they have beef they have beef if they don't they don't so

it's just kind of like huh imagine having beef with somebody but still inviting them to travel around on a fucking tour bus with you like the way that like it will ruin perfectly healthy relationships so maybe actually it's better to go with an enemy remember the time you remember the time i was going on tour no no remember the time that people said i was going on tour and i said no i'm not going they included you in the picture well it was different it was different and then as soon as we got to that meeting i literally walked out of there and i said i'm not going and they're like you have to and i said okay can you like paint me the picture of how that's gonna happen this is before months i were dating and like he just like worked for my

manager and he's like you have to and i was like okay tell me how you envision that for me tell me how you think that's gonna go because when i tell you i'm not going i'm not packing a bag i'm not getting on a plane i'm not going to the airport i'm not even opening my door if you try and come to my door and knock on my door and tell me to go like are you gonna drag me you're gonna pack a bag for me drag me on a plane or drag me on a bus and then push me on stage every night and then marionette doll ventriloquist me no yeah this was before we were friends but still we still knew each other knew each other by association um and i just heard the rumblings of what people were saying and i think was this at vidcon did you do something on stage with them at vidcon

i don't know it was like an outdoor stage or something we definitely did a like the promo shoot at vidcon i don't think we announced it though okay well um people were talking about it by people months and kindle uh which i can say that now but uh they were chit-chatting away about it i was just like i don't know what the fuck is going on but good for her yeah no i i was like what are they gonna do like i'm telling you right now if you make me go i'm not gonna make it easier for anyone i'm going i will i will ruin this if you don't let me out and they said okay and here's the thing i respect everyone who i don't remember actually everyone who went on so i can't say i actually respect everyone because you know but like at the time people who are like

going on you know different audiences but also like they made a good amount of money the second time they made like but when i saw how much money was like it wasn't it's nothing to like cry about like it's it's money um but there are certain things they won't do for money and like other people will and that's fine yeah happy for them I am not one of those people I am so fucking like hard-headed like the way that like the best part was though as soon as I was like if you make me go like I don't know how you're gonna make me get on stage immediately my interest like oh good god and she's like she knew she was like yeah no she she's you guys are gonna want to let her out of this this is not she's not lying she's not she will not go quietly yeah i released a statement

saying there's like scheduling conflicts or something i was like sorry i have something else i'm working on i remember people were like what's that thing you're working on i was like life yeah sleeping not that cooking dinner anything anything else breathing shitting singing dancing around doing my own thing tweeting posting the podcast we like met about the podcast that week too so because i remember it was like oh because it was going to have to delay the yeah and then i remember like we had another meeting like oh aren't aren't we like doing that it's like i'm not going i'm not going don't worry about it they might tell you that i'm going i'm not going yep that's why it was part of the conversation there we go that's what it was

yeah yeah and i only really blame one person new people are like that didn't know you before they're like what the hell are you talking about i was like should i make a tiktok talking about how i was almost at girls night here's to promote our uh patreon we did talk about it in depth a while ago on patreon that's fun i remember that yep uh that's how because you were like i wasn't in the promo picture anything and then somebody found the promo pic and posted and like oh like a promo video i was like i knew i was in the picture definitely didn't think i was in like a video or anything but i was and i went news to me because here's the thing i want to say that i did the photo shoot

already being like i'm not doing this i don't know i'm gonna do this and my team was like you got it just come on like it'll be fine and i was like no it wasn't until um we were in the writer's room which turns out was just a script being handed to me in that moment i closed it and i said i'm too old for this shit i'm gonna go i'm gonna see myself out all right uh writer number one is she wrong for not letting her sister and family stay with her one percent said the writer's wrong 99 said the writer's not wrong the audacity that the writer's sister has is crazy knowing there's not enough room for you and villainizing someone else for is wild. When I went to New York a couple of years ago, me and the friend I went with didn't

stay with our friend who we were visiting because she said she would rather stay in a hotel because she doesn't have enough room in her apartment. Even though we were kind of sad, we couldn't stay with her. We never made her the issue because we respect her wishes. And she stayed with us at the hotel for the most part anyway, and even shipped in on the cost. The writer's family's anger with her is so unwarranted and stupid yep agree now we have one which i didn't know y'all would have so many feelings quite controversial writer number two is it too early sorry is it too early too early that's my bad decorate for halloween and 54 of the writers wrong 46 that the writer is not wrong and so many people wrote in i can't celebrate fall or the activities

if it it brings until it's cold outside if it doesn't make sense to sip an apple cider then i will not be participating in any fall activities that is also someone that is also an august leo there and i we both feel the same like don't encroach on my summer like i can't say half of my birthday month is summer and then the other half is fall right that's not how it works i think when even the first day of fall isn't even till it's like september 22nd oh yeah the very end one month from today yeah because it's labor day people still view as summer yeah and that's yeah the first week in september it's one of those weekends people usually say that that's like you know the end of the summer we still have a few weeks after that but yeah

we're not there yet no a couple weeks out someone else said personally i won't be decorating until autumn equinox but if it makes the writer happy they should do it i have no idea what the autumn equinoxes i don't know oh okay perfect well perfect um someone else said as someone who lives in a country with what feels like two months of summer and 10 months of winter don't even start mentioning halloween slash fall until october i'm in denial until then i as someone who lives in los angeles and our weather is wonderful like so beautiful um the way that i no i know but i'm saying the way that eat the way that i dread the sun going down early and i go oh i'm gonna miss summer so much i'm like megan shut the fuck up like other people don't see the sun for months

and you have your gloomy web like you're fine but like i always think like if it can affect my mental health for the sun going down this early and like if we don't see the sun for like a couple weeks like good god let those poor people in places where they their distance to the equator is doing something let them live so cruel yeah i got mad because uh i have my all my lights on a timer in my home yeah and it goes off after it's i think i have a set three minutes after sunset said and it came on at 7 50 the other day and i was like what is this interrogation what is this what is happening lights on right no we have solar lights out in our trees and i remember i like went to like you know go check about watering and i was like who turned you bitches on like what do

you mean you're not getting enough sunlight now you're thinking that it is it is nighttime it's only 7 30 and then lo and behold very quickly i couldn't find the phone either hated it someone else said i support happiness and mental health so if it will improve your mental health decorate the inside to the dying today but if it's not then then if it's not then writer is wrong keep holidays and their seasons and time frames please and thank you i say decorate the inside and go off girly but personally i would not want to see skeletons outside unless they were wearing hawaiian i can never vote against halloween it's my favorite i understand the argument that each holiday should get its own time to shine but if it makes writer happy to have a couple pumpkins

and a fall candle in her house how could i recommend her for that been planning all how oh i've been planning all halloween plans and of course since july 5th it's very cutesy very mindful very demure i already bought lewis i need you to send videos of lewis to the writer i want go to tj maxx they have a bunch of spooky stuff i don't think starting to decorate for fall right now is too early but halloween is deaf and october only decor situation that's when i can get behind if you want to do like some fall so if it's feeling spooky ooky okay let's quell that for a bit but if it's feeling crunchy fall okay get some leaves let's do some like burnt amber colors but like yeah let's keep the uh gravestones out of the yard okay it's a year-round spooky bitch

which most and i can both clarify this is our resident spooky bitch i just gotta say let people enjoy things october is less than two months away at this point and we don't blink an eye when people put their christmas decorations i do the first day of november and leave them up till february i do writer's not wrong going from a year-round halloween person see in my defense i don't do that because i i participate in that i don't look down on people because i would be a hypocrite but um my thing is it's weather so like when it was so fucking cold in la and it was like literally like 40 to 50 degrees in february like yeah i'm going to keep my christmas decorations up because if it's this fucking cold i need it to match the vibe and i disagree with that you should be having

pink and white yeah but it's cold and really yeah i'll do that now valentine's is valentine's is a winter holiday and you should also have a picture up of me because that's my birthday month that is in the same way how you feel oh true true true true so adamant about not putting stuff up let february be valentine it's also black history month like you have so many other things to celebrate that aren't christmas during february we do take our decorations down we didn't keep them up till february last year we did the year before because it was we didn't have heat and i needed something to keep me going um but matz's birth is matz's birth month's birthday is january 14th and his whole thing is like he's always as a kid like they kept the

decorations up until his birthday and then they'd take him down and so we usually as long as we get to that january i mean christmas is on or new year's i think the 25th time to keep the decorations up um so like a month that's fine but by february no ma'am that's just gotta come down and so a person that wrote in as our resident spooky bitch your uh argument is invalid to me because i do blink an eye i say thanksgiving needs to have its own time and by thanksgiving i don't mean like pilgrim thanksgiving i mean family holiday thanksgiving it should have cabbage and sweet potatoes yeah it should have its own time um no christmas tree should be going up until the day after thanksgiving i truly believe that i've stated that numerous times on this podcast

um and uh so you're wrong yeah i'll probably put my tree up day after halloween um yeah you're wrong exactly and i'm fine i'll live in my wrong do i tell you i ordered garlands yes i can't wait they're here i gotta open them to see what they look like how do you know your impulse control astonishes me what do you mean because as soon as something comes for me i have to open it immediately even if i know that it's just charm and toilet paper which is literally sitting directly across from me open with a some toilet paper out of it but like i have to open things as soon as they come so i do too the where it diverges is if i'm not the one who brings it in from outside if motz does then i don't think like then to me it's motz's package and so i forget that that's

what it is but when i if i go walk out the door and i have notifications a package there so does and i go why don't you i have to open his so for me i open if i know what's it like i'm opening it but um that one also just got here and i keep forgetting that that's what it is because it's addressed to him because he ordered it um but yeah no if i open something if i see a package outside i go i must open it but if he brings one in i have a hard time not even opening his mail i'm like can i open your mail i don't want mail that's no me neither mail is disgusting to me that i'm getting somebody i don't know when they ever lived here because they weren't the last people that lived at this house and i don't believe that were the people before that lived

here either but somebody has put down my address as their address and i'm keep getting their um parking tickets in pasadena and um that's bad i know and i keep like writing return to sender this person does not live here on here so that they can like know and maybe find out where they actually live and they're still sending it and um it's making me perturbed to say the least yeah that person's gonna go to jail yeah i mean when they renew their car then they'll have to pay for it but no oh in my mind this was someone who thought they were getting around not having to pay their parking oh i don't they could be because i don't know when they ever lived here like I've never received any other mail for this person so I don't know why the mail is coming

here the other there's like some a couple other people where I'm like yeah like I'm still getting your mail because you never changed your address even though I am writing return to the center this person does not live here on every piece that comes here and it's coming from the same place but and I have also contacted the company and told them that this person doesn't live here because it looks important but um it's like the ryan goss thing when he was getting like residual checks to someone who worked at like entertainment tonight and they're like we brought you these and he's like what yeah and so um yeah even they got that you know how we've gotten like rebates back from the state they've come here and i you know send it back but i'm like there's you know they

were sent when they were sending out those debit cards i was like your debit card like change your address that should be the first thing that you should do is when you move change your address you've got money sitting out there baby yeah i don't know where mine ever was it was like 200 bucks yeah damn hope i cashed that if it wasn't even a cash it was like a legit a debit card yeah i know i don't remember that well i finally get better opening my mail it's uh expired by now because they sent out another mail another piece of mail that was like look through your mail because these are expiring and i think i told you about it yeah probably sounds about right anyways uh the last one i'm

browsing for decorations but like megan i'm tempted to wait for mid-september around my birthday but after beyonce's i love the specifics for that one b-day as you're supposed to say but ella you have it no person no i'm just saying it's b-day is yeah i would okay i would have said b-day if it said b-day but it says birthday i thought it says birthday i was letting the writer know that yeah i was like i know she named the whole album after it i was talking to mods and i asked him because we were listening to um when playing with my nephew we were listening to some beyonce obviously and we were performing and then we did some chapel braille and we were performing hot to go the dance for my niece the way she was like cackling was like loving it i

was obsessed i was like oh my gosh it's so fun um but we were listening and then matzah like asked about some beyonce song and i was like do you know this one he was like no i don't think i know this one and he's like i know justine shawley's like i don't really know like beyonce Beyonce and I was like hold up so the entire of course I said hold up and then I said actually I know what song I'm gonna play for you first hold up exactly and uh we did like the whole car ride home and I was telling like I was telling him that um I felt like and I was right that his reaction was kind of going to be like um the uh music reactor guy HT Hayes where like he was like yeah I don't he's like I know some he's like I know Destiny's Child because obviously but I don't

know a ton of beyonce besides like the singles and then every song he goes wait this is like the most popular like woke up flawless like that was her of course it was her and like it was like oh i know all of the words of the phrasing because i've seen it quoted so many times or i know the beat or whatever and it was like oh i actually know i do know this because how could he's not never seen the lemonade album visual album i oh i did say while we were driving i said when we were listening i said oh i gotta watch it again and he was like what and i was like he's lemonade and i was like i gotta watch it i'm just hearing i forget what song it was that i was hearing but immediately i was like closing my eyes and i was like i gotta watch it again i haven't

watched in a while and i don't remember i think he must have seen he didn't say like oh i've never seen it before i feel like no way he wouldn't have he should have known hold up then so that makes me believe well he's heard like he's like no i've definitely heard something and i'm like but i don't know how much or in depth of his you know y'all need to have a no i know a night to watching i think it's okay no way he's not seen homecoming because yeah homecoming but also i watched homecoming a dozen times but also like homecoming isn't like a visual album it's yeah we're looking at a performance in the behind the scenes i need like lemonade was like it changed it shut down hbo for a whole day people that i didn't even know cared about beyonce like a bunch

of these men i worked with at the uh when i was working at that coffee company like yeah that's all they were talking about for weeks that would have been like 2016 yeah i think so yeah 2016 um if i'm not wrong i think i watched i think i watched it on my phone in between takes of freakish like i i think that we were it was and it was like we were everybody was like crowding around try and like all of like the crew like every it was like wait everyone stop right something the winds have changed something has happened yes the world is not the same everybody was like check on jay-z and it was like no he's good everyone's like does he have a pulse is he still with us has there been a body literally in the video found in the hudson

no exactly but everybody when they heard that it was what's going on um but yeah just i think y'all should because i think it's i think that your nephew can watch that i don't think there's anything bad in it so i think y'all should have i was thinking of doing like a quick scan through first to see if he would enjoy but the real thing is the first thing i have to make him watch is um we are talking about possibly for his birthday we haven't told him this but possibly for his birthday uh taking him to disneyland with everybody besides his father who was like i don't want to fucking go to disneyland so me ma sent his mom um and we were like that could be so fun and so she was like her whole goal is like she was like she'd love for him

to see like one movie that has like a character in it or something just so he like has that familiarity there um and he's just like not that interested but i think i can get a mentally lone stitch i've never seen it so well because he likes he likes ocean water stuff but he doesn't like the mermaids because they freak him out so he didn't like little mermaid she like and my sister is a scary movie yeah and so she like was like okay but like that's the only one that she really loved because she's a redhead and so that was hers um and he i was like i think like Moana he like might I think he would like Moana but like it's a little bit more print like it's not she's not princessy but like I would classify it as a princess movie and like I was not a

princess Disney movie kid um and I think Finding Nemo is a little too scary and like intense for him but I was like I think Lilo and Stitch would be like great because you have the water aspect but then you also have like an alien coming down and like you've got the space part of it too for a bit and I was like yeah he'll love that and he's like in that phase of like little kids where they just want to like essentially bark at you and i was like yes big stitch vibes so hopefully we'll do that and then um maybe after that we'll do the way that he would just like the way he would be so entranced he like every time he just wants to look at a photo of her while we listen to her saying well there's there's a lot of water in the lemonade stuff so it can be even watching um the

b-day because it wasn't uh it was like lemonade was a uh visual as in like it was like a movie but the b-day is just like straight video so even just watching that i think he would enjoy that that's true maybe i'll watch some during our lunch break i remember the um i bought the b-day i wrote the b-day album song by song individually on it because i was a child saving up my money and i remember having to like listen to like the what 15 second preview and to be like okay is this the one because like i don't think i went in chronological order oh my god it was so fucking funny and i was like yeah it's it's a story in chronological order it's what you have to do though oh my god okay now i just want to listen okay i need to be

distracted is like the one like if you want to get up and just dance like that is that reminds me b-day reminds me so much of college because like you could just put on that whole album and just dance straight through it and have a good ass time no you feel so hot and so untouchable when you're listening to it like the way that i'm like i'm actually the most desired person on the like it what it does for my ego is insane and that's what i'm always like impressed by with her because i'm like no other artist does that for me no other artist makes me like so cocky and i'm like that's not my song yeah i don't know but like something about it something fucking about it yeah oh and then after our sorry weekly beyonce tangent next up we have uh ron in

the week Nassau County 97% said Nassau is wrong 3% said Nassau is not wrong before we move on fully I hope that she is at the convention tonight oh yeah um doing freedom freedom live she already served Trump his paper so she's ready i live in nyc and covet is absolutely still a big thing i think we should be masking more agree yep it is a thing everywhere if you missed it on friday and um from the news because for some reason they're not really talking about it anymore but there There is a new COVID booster out that dropped, so get boosted, baby. Get boosted, and also please get your flu shot and any other ones you can get, meningitis,

because I can't stress enough, as someone with long COVID, even if you don't have active long COVID at this point, every other subsequent viral illness or infection or anything I've gotten has made me exponentially sicker in the long term, so protect yourself. vaccines are so cool then we have my nomination tasha page and 99 said tasha's wrong one percent said she's not wrong um someone said as an australian i was so shocked that this showed up on your for you page megan but also so happy needed someone to talk about this with yeah this has been plaguing me like the way that i was like so still deep diving after all of this And I can't stress enough how I think the ethics or I think the marketing and creative ways that you have to, people use their social platforms to promote their OnlyFans and all of that, I think is a skill that should be used for something else in this case.

Thinking about the way that she blew up and went viral, I'm like, I promise you, girl, there's a way you could have done this to get people to click on your OnlyFans as the segue. It's just so fucking wild to me. And I, again, I respect people doing what they do to get views to push that over there. But I think that there are certain things that should not exist on the same platform. and like you shouldn't go from talking shit about a friend and their baby who has died to then talking about how what your pussy is those just that's not a sandwich that's those things should be on two different platforms two different accounts can be on the same platform but like that is not let's work on branding cohesive branding yeah maybe this is your calling pr

branding marketing have you ever thought about just maybe not talking about um children regardless if they are alive or not alive on the same account where you talk about being Eiffel Towered. I just think we can be multifaceted people. We can be more mindful. Incredibly not demure. Matz, by the way, obsessed with that quote.

He's like, very mindful, very demure. And he started adding his own word. And I was like, You can add your own words, it's okay. Yeah. as long as it makes sense to what you're talking about but that's also why I was asking what does that mean in this context

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