Drama Queens - Jen Palmieri

Episode Date: October 7, 2026

After a childhood in the South led her to DC, Jen Palmieri spent two decades inside the Clinton and Obama White Houses and at the center of presidential politics. Now she’s gone back home, trave...ling all over the South to figure out what Americans in that region really think about the state of the country. The conversations she had were deeply eye-opening! Jen shares the confessions she heard from southern voters, why she's convinced Americans are actually fighting stereotypes instead of each other, and the surprising discoveries that gave her hope.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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Starting point is 00:00:00 This is an I-Heart podcast. Guaranteed Human. Hey, everyone, it's Sophia. Welcome to Work in Progress. Welcome back to this week's Work in Progress, friends. Before we get started, I have something important I want to share with you. September is Hunger Action Month, which means it's just wrapped up, but the need certainly hasn't.
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Starting point is 00:02:25 Now do we have a smarty for you, one of the most brilliant political minds I know, who happens to be really fun to have a cocktail with, A brilliant storyteller, a director, a producer, a mind that I just want to pick all the time. Today we're joined by Jen Palmieri. Jen has spent more than two decades inside some of the biggest moments in our political world, working in both the Clinton and Obama White Houses. She was at the Center for American Progress.
Starting point is 00:02:52 She worked on presidential campaigns. She was Secretary Clinton's Communications Director during 2016. I mean, I'd be here all day reading her resume if I didn't decide to paraphrase it. Jen has a collective experience that has given her a uniquely close view of American politics and frankly a vantage point to understand what it's going to take for us to throw all this identity stuff in the garbage and unite the country and what it will take for the Dems to reclaim power and hopefully rescue the soul of America. Jen decided to look beyond Washington and dip back in.
Starting point is 00:03:32 to her southern roots. She grew up in Mississippi and South Carolina, and she decided to go back to the South and has made a six-part documentary series called Long Play, winning the South, and it is so good, you guys. It asks questions about how progressives can rebuild political power in a region that they largely stopped competing in and asks why they did that in the first place. She traveled all over the South, meeting with voters and communities engaging in. history and really examining the changing demographics that are reshaping our national map. I can't think of anybody better to talk to as the 26 midterms are approaching and figure out how we answer some of our big questions about where we go from here and how are we feeling
Starting point is 00:04:20 about the next election and what the hell should we be doing to get prepared. So let's go dive in with the brilliant Jen Palmieri. Jen, I'm so happy you're here today. I'm so happy you're here today. I'm so thrilled to have you on the show. You are one of the most dynamic, intelligent women I've ever shared space with. I'm so lucky that from time to time I get to be your dinner date. And you manage to be such a brilliant political brain, but you're also really fun. And you remind me that working to build a better world is actually really enjoyable. And the stories that you tell and the way you bring people in, it's all so amazing.
Starting point is 00:05:10 But I don't want to start now. I actually want to go back because when you become somebody that people know, they know your work. They know the woman you became in the world who holds these positions. But I want to know where little Navy brat Jen might have been at 10. You know, I know your dad was in the Navy. My granddad was in the Navy. I'm like, I have a real soft spot for it. And I know you moved around a lot.
Starting point is 00:05:38 So what was your life like when you were? were approaching double digits as a child? I was, I'm the youngest of four girls. So I had a lot of role models. You know, I watched, I think I grew up really observant because we moved around so much. So, you know, if you are constantly, you know, I went to like nine different schools. So if you're, if every 18 months or so, you're picking up and moving, you become very, I think, astute at reading a room, understanding what the incentive structures are in your grade school or you know what and kind of where people are coming from
Starting point is 00:06:16 which i think helped me a lot in politics so i was um i was always a big reader um i had three elders i mean my family was busy and so i i felt like i was a little um i had probably more independence than my sisters did but i watched a lot of what they did um and i felt i think i felt i learned a lot by watching them and thinking they're probably worrying too much than they should. They're awesome. They're beautiful. They're smart. And so I think I got a sense at a young age of, you know, so I think maybe things I was willing to challenge to do more daring things or think more things are possible than my sisters might have because I saw how they operate in the world and I saw, I knew they were like endlessly capable. Yeah. And that just made.
Starting point is 00:07:09 me feel like there was a lot that was on the table that you could do. That is, I've, I have never heard someone answer a question like that, that as a young woman, you had already keyed into the amount of worry, the amount of weight that comes with all that invisible labor that women do and you identified that you, your sisters didn't need to do it because they were brilliant and capable and you sure is hell weren't going to do it. Like, that is so wise for a child? Well, I don't think, I think I just intuited that, right?
Starting point is 00:07:43 I don't think that I don't think I didn't consciously have that awareness, but I definitely felt like I just moved, I think I moved a little easier in the world than they did, but I think it is because I saw that they were, how great they were.
Starting point is 00:08:00 And what they achieved, you know, my one sister who like blew through high school in three years and then blew through college in three years, you know, another high school, another sister that was very athletic and a cheerleader and then another sister that was a mix of all of those things. You were steeped in possibility probably before you even had the terminology for it. Yeah.
Starting point is 00:08:17 And the other thing I think is different for my experience is there were no boys in our family. So there was no, you know, my husband is still like, let me help you with that. And I'm like, there were no boys in my family. We just, we picked every, you know, the couch needed moving. My sister and I did it. The trash and emptying, we did that, you know. Totally. So there was no sense of anyone.
Starting point is 00:08:38 treated differently than the other. So I think that that probably also put me on a certain path in terms of thinking what women were capable of. And my father was just, my father, very busy career in the Navy. And he's just kind of like, I got to just got to get out of the Palmary girls way. Because like the whole married girls will descend on a situation, even today, no matter what it is, if it's a party or a wedding or a funeral or like, whatever it needs gets done. My situation, and we are going to take care of it.
Starting point is 00:09:04 Oh, totally. Yeah, yeah. There is really that beehive energy. Like, let's do it. Let's divide. Let's conquer. Let's fix. What do you need?
Starting point is 00:09:13 Is it a snack? Is it a lawyer? Like, we got you. I feel that too. And I think it's because I went to an all-girls school. Oh. And so when you talk about the dynamic in your house with all girls, I'm like, sister, I know it. And it really does.
Starting point is 00:09:29 It hands you a permission slip that you don't even realize. some other women haven't been handed until they're shocked at how comfortably you give yourself permission. Yeah. Yes. I think Asia, like, I just didn't know, I just didn't know anything else. And it wasn't until like much later as an adult that I considered there were no boys in our family. You know, there was no. So it just, I think it, yeah, I think it. And the other thing that I saw as I was approaching my double digits is my mother got involved in politics. That was going to be my question. And when did your political awakening happen? When did that sort of service and line of work go from being interesting to a career you knew you wanted?
Starting point is 00:10:18 Very young. My mother, we lived in Pascagoula, Mississippi a couple of times. So I was born there. We lived there another time. And my mother, it was Trent Lott, who ended up being a Republican senator. He ended up being the Senate Majority Leader at a very successful career. in politics. And one of my mother's close friends, husband was the campaign manager for his first congressional race. And my mother was the volunteer coordinator. And so she got involved and she would
Starting point is 00:10:47 put me in a built like a sandwich board, like a Trent Laat sandwich board and stick me in front of the supermarket or door knock me. And I was dressed up as a Trent Laude sandwich board for Halloween. There's a picture of me with Trent Laught. I think I'm with seven. And I just got the bug of of people getting together to try and, you know, work as a team to have some kind of outcome. And you could just do it. And I think, and it was at that moment that, and my parents were probably mostly voted for Republicans, although my mother was very proud that she voted. She did not vote for Nixon. She wants everybody to know.
Starting point is 00:11:26 Okay, Mrs. P. Later, they, like, with Bill Clinton, they kind of became Democrats. But so it wasn't even, it wasn't a partisan thing. It was just I knew I wanted to work in politics from age seven probably. And then I just always had that, you know, and I continued to follow it, you know, through my high school years and involved in stuff there too. That's so cool. Yeah. I didn't know what it would be, what I would do.
Starting point is 00:11:57 Yeah. But I knew that that's what I wanted to. Yeah, the world you wanted to live inside of. I'm really curious, you know, because you talk about growing up in Mississippi and you lived so much in the South. I know you lived in South Carolina and, you know, I did 10 years in North Carolina. I find that moment, that sort of inflection point, I think Bill Clinton was such a fantastic candidate and communicator because in a way he made everybody feel seen,
Starting point is 00:12:29 traditional Democrats, and also Southern folks who have kind of been told they're Republicans, but who saw his policies and who realized like, wait, I agree with that guy. And he talks like me and he's from around here. And I think, you know, we're in this crazy moment where identity politics have almost become religious. And they've lost, I mean, they've lost the plot on facts and, you know, what's good for people and what government is supposed to do. And, you know, it just feels so crazy.
Starting point is 00:13:01 I'm curious, because I know you landed in the Clinton White House eventually. Yeah. Yeah. Did you, do you think, you know, my assessment of looking at him as a little kid in the 19th? and being like, I think, I think everybody likes him, you know? Was it that? Like, why do you think he was such a good candidate? And why do you think he was able to communicate to people that, in fact, democratic, I'm air quoting for the friends at home, like democratic economic policies made sense,
Starting point is 00:13:31 because we all know that in the last 45 years, every single recession has been caused by a Republican president and the Democrats come and clean it up. Like, were the better fiscal party, and yet people, don't believe it, even though the facts are non-emotional. The emotions make us sort of upside down. So you got to see inside of it. I've studied it. Like, give me, give me the inside scoop. So I think that Southern candidates make the best, I think Southern Democrats make the best presidential candidates. So, or just, or Red State, a Red State candidate. You know, Barack Obama is an exception, is a very notable exception to that. But the Midwest is sort of, it's not that it's Southern, but it has, I would say,
Starting point is 00:14:20 like a similar thing. Yep. There's like a cousin energy. And, and, you know, interestingly, like Bill Clinton is from Arkansas, which is, you know, maybe a third Midwest and two-thirds southern. Like, it is a different place than other Southern states. It is, it is, it is, it, It definitely has a Midwest sensibility. It's a little, it's a little more, it's a little more buttoned up than, you know, Mississippi maybe, for example. So it's slightly different. And he was, and he was both. But I think that, and there are modern day examples with Senator Warnock, Georgia, Senator Ossach.
Starting point is 00:15:00 I love him. Oh, I love him too. Senator Osset and Georgia. So, and I think, and this is why, and I'm doing. a YouTube series about changing politics in the South. I love it. And this is why, because I think, you know, I kind of go back to like 98 as the year where for a while,
Starting point is 00:15:21 it seemed like Democrats were on a path. It was called the New South. I don't know if you remember that from Sophia. Like it's just like deep recesses up in your young brain. But it was, there were a bunch of Democratic governors that came out of the South at the time, like Bill Clinton, William Winter in Mississippi. be who really succeeded in, like after, it was the one that kind of really got integration going after
Starting point is 00:15:46 it was sort of like, Governor Roy Hunt in North Carolina, the research triangle, right? Like all of these things with UNC and Duke and North Carolina State, South Carolina was Carol Campbell, Florida was Lawton Childs. So there was a generation of, and they were men, that were coming up in the South, and I think Bill Clinton typifies the best that had really were excited about the possibility, economic possibilities and opportunities in the sort of traditional democratic sense,
Starting point is 00:16:18 but also understood the lives and the people that they were representing. And I think that, you know, and Asoff proves this, Warnock proved this back in his day, Bill Clinton proved this, which is if you think deeply enough about your argument, you can
Starting point is 00:16:34 make it across an ideological spectrum. I can't emphasize it enough. You know, when like when we talk about like, oh, there's there's a division of the Democratic Party, there's the Democratic Socialists and then there's the more establishment Democrats. It is that there are a lot of that is about fighting and judgment and and, you know, and like, you know, just the way families fight. But when you step back and look at issues and what's important in people's lives, there is a connectivity, connectivity. but not all politicians work as hard as I think those in the red states, southern states, Rocky Mountain states do to make that argument.
Starting point is 00:17:18 And I feel like, so that is what I think the thing with Clinton, with Bill Clinton was that he was this exciting new generation. And we see that now today. There's a lot of exciting, you know, new leaders. But he had that sensibility of having being raised. in a place where he knew that, you know, you got to talk to everyone. You know, that was a big thing that Clinton White House. We were not right in off any set of voters because they're never going to vote for us or we don't need them.
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Starting point is 00:18:18 Grab the free app. I heart radio. Everywhere you go. Always free. Download the free IHard Radio app today. One of the things I loved, I'll never forget, you know, him going to talk to groups of hunters. Yeah. And people are like, you remember that?
Starting point is 00:18:39 I got my first gun for my 12th birthday. You know, people are like that, you know, crazy liberal wants to take our guns away. I'm like, I'm a sharpshooter, baby. Like, what are you talking about? No, I don't. My way. But I think it's crazy that we don't regulate weapons. Like, we regulate cars.
Starting point is 00:18:57 Like, what are we talking about? And I loved that President Clinton, when he was campaigning, went and spoke to people and said, I'm not trying to take away your hobby with your family, your Saturday, you know, with your son. And I'm not trying to take away the way that you, you know, teach your sons or your daughters about how to live off the land and how to feed your family if that's part of why you do it.
Starting point is 00:19:23 But I do want to protect people. I do think we need some sanity here. And it really brought the temperature down. And, you know, when we talk about how things are today, you see somebody, you know, I love seeing how senators, Marnock and Asoff are really breaking through the noise. And let's be frank, you know, we're two women having this conversation. I think people are unfortunately still more willing to listen to men. You know, I look at the ways they are heard and I look at the ways someone like the brilliant
Starting point is 00:19:57 AOC is vilified. And I think part of it is because she's from New York. And I think part of it is because she's a woman. And then when you hear her get out and talk to people, she has that gift of being able to communicate political complexity so well and to personalize it. And yet we do seem to be fighting this sort of ideological war and these PR campaigns run by, you know, the Heritage Foundation and whoever else. Is that part of why you wanted to make the long play? And for our friends at home, you know, Jen's shows are all incredible, as you now know, but the long play is the new show. It's six episodes, the full title is Long Play, Winning the South. You can watch it on YouTube. I love, by the way, that you democratized this for us. Thank you so much. You know, I loved it the circus,
Starting point is 00:20:46 but not everybody has HBO, or I'm sorry, Showtime. And so I love that anybody can watch this. I'm just so curious, the difference between the first Clinton campaign and where we're at now and this sort of ferocity that feels like it's been engineered, especially in the South. Like, you're from there and you've gone back there for this show and you've seen everything that's happened in between. Where do you think it comes from? What's surprised you about the South today? I think that. I mean, there's so much. We should go back and talk about AOC some more because, like, I feel like that she is a monster talent. And like the thing that she has a comment with Bill Clinton is she understands what people's lives are like and you get that when you, you know, when anyone
Starting point is 00:21:32 speaks with her, they're going to, they are going to be able to, if you're, She can get in front of people, right? She's going to be able to, she's going to be able to translate that. But what I, I really wanted to go back to the South because I feel like, first of all, it drives politics in America. And I think people don't appreciate that. Like, nothing stays in the South. You know, the first right to work legislation, the sort of anti-labor legislation passed in Texas in the 50s. And then it, you know, then it spread.
Starting point is 00:22:00 You know, most of the abortion restrictions, they start in the South. most of the efforts that make it harder, we will devote start in the south and move elsewhere. So, and I have just, it's always bothered me as a Democrat that for, I would say again, like maybe the last 25, 30 years, 25, I guess really, there was to sort of ride off the south. I know. Just ride it off. I don't get it. It is like, it's like, I mean, I had this weird sense that it was sort of like the southeast, like the SEC region of the country was like hermetically sealed from politics and we just weren't going to go back to any of those Gulf
Starting point is 00:22:37 Coast states or and also there's a, you know, and that's just bad politics. It's also bad leadership. If you can't really, it is a really important dynamic part of the country that drives a lot of our culture and you can't just ignore it. Even if you could
Starting point is 00:22:54 it's also, it's also if you want to be president, you want to lead the country, you need to lead all of the country. But now also every, every, every demographic is moving to the south. It is a faster scoring region, Texas, North Carolina, Georgia,
Starting point is 00:23:08 will probably all have more congressional seats after the next census. You cannot win. A Democratic candidate cannot win probably in 2028, maybe you only need to win one state in the south. But going forward, you're going to have to win multiple states in the south, multiple states in the south.
Starting point is 00:23:25 And so there's a practical reason to understand it, but I also just have a sense that it's ready for some kind of change. And so what I found is that it was, there's just gross, gross negligence, inertia that is made, has made it hard for Democrats to compete in places like Tennessee, Mississippi, Alabama. But it is all right there. People are ready for something new, Sophia. And it was like, I just felt it most, I guess in Tennessee. which has one party rule, say after the Clay decision, the Supreme Court this spring to undo the voting rights act.
Starting point is 00:24:11 It's been really bad. They moved within one week to get rid of the last remaining Democratic district, the last remaining take to divide up the last remaining black city in Texas, Tennessee into three different districts. You know, and you're like, for what? It's just so brazen and it's so big at it. Well, and it's funny, I did. I interviewed a Republican, because one thing we really try to do is talk to. who has talked to everybody. So talk to Republican.
Starting point is 00:24:35 First episode I did an interview with Marjorie Taylor Green, just someone I've gotten to know over the last six years or so. And a state rep in Tennessee, Jeremy Fasson, who was the chair of the Senate or the House Republican caucus in the state of Tennessee. And he, so he's like, I'm a hardcore conservative, Tea Party guy and I am leaving elected office because it's just getting too crazy.
Starting point is 00:24:58 You know, but still he voted. great guy, mixed-race family, you know, real clear about not carrying racism and how are very sincere. Everybody, you know, people even understand, you know, how, you know, it's not like, I think you can, if you're, if you don't live in the South or have a, you know, you may have the wrong impression
Starting point is 00:25:17 of where Republicans are coming from there on, on some of these issues that, that's buttress race. But still, even though he was frustrated with dysfunction in his own party and, you know, virulently anti-racist, he voted to Carpet Memphis in the three districts. He's like, why? And he said, well, you know, politics. And it's like there's no pushback, Sophia.
Starting point is 00:25:40 There's no, because there are no, there's no Democrats to fight back, people aren't challenged. The prisoners are never challenged. They're not. So I think it's so easy to go along with what everyone else is doing, even if you know at your core, there's something about it that's not right because there's no one challenging you. And that, if that was just so, you're like, well, this is why this has happened in the South is because there's just no opposition. There's no healthy opposition. There's no, there's no
Starting point is 00:26:11 argument. There's no debate, you know, thoughtful, friendly, spirited debate. It's just been forfeited. And that can, it's easy to change, though, I, you know, I think. You think, because what I don't understand is this falling in line even when you know it's wrong. And somebody said recently something I thought was very astute that, you know, Democrats get lost in the weeds because we're really debating policy. And sometimes we forget to talk to people about feelings. And that because of that, you can put a bunch of Democrats in a room and they'll agree on 90% of a candidate's points. But if they don't agree on the last 10%, they won't vote for that candidate. Which makes me crazy because I'm like, you don't have to marry this person.
Starting point is 00:26:54 And you just need this person to be in charge of the stuff that, by the way, you don't want to be in charge of. You want a responsible person to handle for you so you can go back to living your life. And then they said on the other side, it seems that on the Republican end, you can disagree on 90%. But if you agree on 10% of issues, you fall in line. Like this guy you're talking about who voted to do this thing that he knew was wrong, but he did it to support his party. And I can't square that. And I struggle with how we are ever going to move forward or perhaps build a more just world, perhaps gain back some of the bipartisanship we used to see.
Starting point is 00:27:38 If we can't say wrong is wrong and has to be on both sides, but we can then debate how you think it's the most beneficial to invest these tax dollars. you know, what you think are the most important programs we need to, you know, make sure our American school children have, like, whatever it may be. It feels like you see people cause harm and then go, but I had to. And I don't understand that. And to your point, I've lived in the South. I know how wonderful people are. I know that the stereotypes of them are just as annoying as the stereotypes of people from California. And by the way, none of them are completely accurate. And yet the stereotypes seem to be what we're fighting about now and not the actual way forward.
Starting point is 00:28:27 Yes, we are fighting about the stereotypes. Like, what the heck? We are fighting about the things that are fake. And I think that I'm going to say a bunch of, you know, like a bunch of stuff. That's sort of great. Just from like my different experiences on this. But we're fighting over the stereotypes. Because we don't talk to each other, it's easy to believe in the stereotypes.
Starting point is 00:28:49 You know, like one woman I met, she's. like, you know, I don't hate black people. Just as I'm sure is this, as you're not, you don't, you know, you're not, you're not, you're not hoping women get late-term abortions. And I was like, what? You know, so like she actually, this woman, I think, from Pensacola, Florida, I think that, nice lady, whatever, I think she, you know, that's just sort of the stereotype is, like, I think we're, you know, a woman like myself, you know, a hardcore Democrat work for Hillary Clinton.
Starting point is 00:29:20 Yeah. hoping that that women will get late-term abortions. I hope that I am pushing her child to change genders against the child's. You know, this is like how bad that's so it's, you know, the way I try to look at it is, if I believed to be true, what they believe to be true, you can understand why they're scared. And this is why just listening and talking to people and not letting there be silos, it's just so important. So when I go to a Republican rally with, you know, Republican candidates or a Trump rally or something, I, and I want to interview someone, I walk up and say, hi, I'm Jennifer. I work
Starting point is 00:30:02 for Bill Clinton because that's the easiest one for them to handle. I work for Barack Obama and I work for Hillary Clinton. And I'm here because I want to understand where you're coming from. And they will, like, I have never had a bad reaction. I've never, you know, even. in the most, you know, even in 2020 in Trump rallies, and people really appreciate that I was up front with them, explained exactly where I'm coming from,
Starting point is 00:30:31 and then they're not trying to suss out who I am or what I'm hiding, and then they're willing to be open with me. And I think that that is like a really, that's a really important place to start. But you can't, and you just can't like forfeit it you got to stand up and particularly in places where there's not a lot of democrats you got to stand up and raise your hand to be like I'm one of your I'm your
Starting point is 00:31:00 neighbor I'm your friend you know me I see you with the Yale gates we all like the same things I'm not trying to me and also by the way I happen to be a Democrat right and start to normalize that South Carolina used to have no Democrats this Republicans would run unopposed just unopposed um in Congress there would be no Democratic candidate And this year for the first time, because there's a lot of people in South County doing great work. There are candidates at every race for the state legislature and for Congress. So this is like, and it's homegrown and it's organic. And that's how you start to build up an infrastructure.
Starting point is 00:31:38 But if, you know, with these silos, if people don't know any Democrats or people that are people don't speak up and say they're going to believe the stereotypes. So I don't see any solution other than old-fashioned talking to each other. But I think that's always where everything starts, you know, especially the Internet and a lot of these dark money political organizations. They're funding this online discourse that anyone who's not like you is a boogeyman is out to get you. And the easiest way to undo that is to talk to people. And, you know, it's part of the reason I'm excited to be having conversations like this around. around the midterms. And even outside of the political arena,
Starting point is 00:32:22 for me, I know that what's true for all humans is we just wanna be seen. We wanna be valued. We wanna be heard, at least for me, and I think most of the people I know, we also wanna listen. And I don't wanna listen while I'm looking over your shoulder. I wanna listen, I wanna hear your story.
Starting point is 00:32:41 And I think we really need more of that. And I'm curious, you know, long play really takes a long view of the South and you did as you said you traveled everywhere you talked to all sorts of people I'm curious if there were things that you saw or that you heard while you were on the road that gave you that that feeling that hopeful feeling three things one Texas we met with PTA is a huge deal in Texas right now yeah and there were three Republican women one who was like a never Trump Republican rate. She left a while ago, Mindy. Two others who, Fort Worth, Tarrant County, this is like
Starting point is 00:33:26 the swing area of Texas. I went into that saying, not believing in Tallarico. I did not believe that he could win. He came out feeling very different. Yeah. So, and then two other women who had been, you know, voted for Republicans, most of their lives, evangelical Christian. And they are furious about the MAGA lies that they were told about what was happening in their schools. This one woman, she's so great, this woman Erin, and she said, you know, her child was an infant during COVID. She's like, I believed it when they said they were teaching critical race theory. I believed it when they said that there were boys and girls bathrooms and boys and girls' sports. And so I voted for this candidate.
Starting point is 00:34:03 And then my son goes to school. And none of it is true. She's like, they're just teaching normal history. You know, we need to eat the good stuff, the bad stuff. you know, another woman was upset because she said, I'm an Edauntal-uncle Christian. They're teaching the Ten Commandments. I don't need my child to be taught the Ten Commandments.
Starting point is 00:34:19 That's not why he's going to school. I want him to get dual. She's like, I want him to go continue through his dual language program. I want him to continue, you know. And they, and this woman said, she said, I feel like I've been duped. And what was interesting, Sophia, was that it was people were saying, instead of saying, well, I heard or I read, they're saying, I know, I experienced. and they were like taking ownership of it.
Starting point is 00:34:45 And so then I said, okay, so you're, maybe you're not going to vote for Governor Abbott or you're not going to vote for Ken Paxton, but you're not voting for the Democrats, Gina and a host of governor are going to have a town of Rico. And they're like, oh, yeah, oh, yeah, yeah. One one was like, she's like, I got Calrico money. They're like, he is a minister. That is what we need. I would be proud to have him living next to me.
Starting point is 00:35:06 He is a pastor in his church. you know and they so but what was so great wasn't like it was that they were oh that they were just you know they were like I am open to voting for anyone in 28 you know we talked a little bit about that and I think it's partly because Trump's not really an ideological conservative and and it just the one thing that was good is like it felt like we're coming to the end of a Trump era you know knocking on wood that like he bays the rules of democracy. or, you know, courts force them to do that. But people are ready for something new and kind of thinking for them selves.
Starting point is 00:35:49 That's one. The other one is Georgia. Georgia is so different than any other southern state. And it's because of decisions individuals made 60 years ago and 20 years ago. So 60 years ago, after the end of Jim Crow, White Mayor of Atlanta, Hartfield. You know, we know Hartfield Jackson Airport. this is why. A lot of black residents in Atlanta and he said
Starting point is 00:36:11 that Atlanta is the city too busy to hate. Now, part of that was economic because it's like racism is bad for business. But they made a decision to build the Atlanta airport because it made a huge, the biggest airport, the busiest airport in the world. Yeah. Because they knew
Starting point is 00:36:27 that would support a black middle class in Atlanta. It was very intentional. And then of course, you know, it's cradle of the Confederacy, birthplace of civil rights. You know, you have all these great, so Martin Luther King and everybody passed through there. John Lewis,
Starting point is 00:36:43 individuals speaking out, making decisions, and then you have Warnock, Asoff, today, very aware of that tradition. You know, Warren, Asov talks to me about how he's Jewish. John Lewis made sure that he did not forget the Black Jewish alliance that was so important in the Civil Rights era. How
Starting point is 00:37:00 symbolic it was, but also important for the future and the future of Atlanta that Warnock and John Osson. were elected from Georgia on the same day. They are steeped in that history. And then, of course, you have the women like Stacey Abrams, Latasha Brown, who was one of the founder of Black Voters Matter, who decided, you know, they started doing this work 20 years ago
Starting point is 00:37:23 of building up infrastructure outside of the Democratic Party around voting and civic engagement. And, you know, even after Post-Colay, black voter turnout is up. and every primary that there has been since the Clay decision in the South. Because people are like, so it's like, it's just,
Starting point is 00:37:43 the decisions we make today will affect us 50 years from now. The decisions make today will affect us in the midterms. And then you see, you know, and you see like that is why Atlanta, that's why George is different from every other state in the South is because just these individuals made these decisions to do this. And then the third,
Starting point is 00:38:05 thing that makes me really hopeful, which we haven't talked about yet, I am a creator and director of a sports documentary and it's about the men and women that built the Buffalo Bill Stadium. And wow, America could use a dose of what Buffalo's
Starting point is 00:38:21 got because these are people that have been through such tough times. They hang together. They support that. And it's funny because it's not just that they support the Buffalo Bills. The Buffalo Bills, the players themselves love this townwards. an average of 14 degrees and 31 mile per hour wins when you're on the football field every day.
Starting point is 00:38:40 Because of the unconditional love and support that that community gives them, and you're like, this is what the best of America is. Hardworking people, having each other's back, loving each other, supporting each other. They're building. They have a good game. They have a bad game. It doesn't matter. That town is going to be there to support them. And then, of course, all these people came together, thousands of people, four years of work to build this incredible stadium for their, I mean, the pride that these people who worked on the stadium have is just incredible. So that is like the third thing that like Buffalo man, I feel like it's, you know,
Starting point is 00:39:17 the way like Detroit became cool. Yes. That's my home away from home. Don't you love it? I love Detroit. I do too. I do too. They're just so, they're so proud. There's so much pride in Detroit and coming back to such an American thing. Yes. They don't talk about Paul. They don't talk about party. I, you know, I've worked on this show for over a year and not one person. I have no idea. No idea to apologize to anybody that I met with or that we shop with. That's really cool.
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Starting point is 00:40:24 It's stories like that that remind you of what we do really well here. The kind of hopefulness and innovation and really American essence of these great cities that we just don't quit on them. And it feels, it feels like that's the energy that we need to put into these races and frankly into each other, into our neighborhoods. And I'm, I'm really excited, you know, to be with you today, as you know, but also in the coming weeks as we lead into the midterms, I'm going to get to chat with Dr. Annie Andrews, who you talk to in Longplay. I just love her. And for our friends at home, she's running for Senate in South Carolina. She's a doctor. She's mom. She's just like a total smart, badass who I think like some of those women you were talking about was like enough is enough this is
Starting point is 00:41:13 crazy and clearly a mom needs to come in and fix this what I like about Annie Andrews is she doesn't talk about like a politician she just started getting involved in politics she's run a couple of times for different racist and just like wait a minute no one knows what they're doing I'm really worried about health care you know I'm really worried about R of K I'm a doctor all these things are making my life harder all up my job harder all these things are making my life harder, you know, and raising kids, you know, she is, she is speaking exactly what the women in South Carolina are feeling, I think, regardless of the party. She doesn't really have a partisan message. It is, and that is, it's a very tough state still. You know, I applaud the Democrats in
Starting point is 00:41:57 South Carolina for at least assembling a team, right? They're fighting back now. They have candidates everywhere. And it's an interesting race because all of a sudden you have Darling Graham, the sister of Lindsay Graham as an unknown Republican nominee for that Senate fight. So Annie has the opportunity to just, there's a lot of, South Carolina is changing every day. More people moving there every day to make that kind of argument. I mean, I can feel the age of accountability coming. Coming. I can't come fast enough.
Starting point is 00:42:31 Again, I think Senator Offsuff is particularly good talking about that and putting in an historic perspective about what we should expect from our leaders and what our Constitution demands of them too. Not like a, not just like, let me go get Trump, but like these people all work for us and they need to be held accountable and I can feel that, that coming. But it is, and Democrats are different than Republicans. Yes, like you noted that before, we argue with the details. We do. We argue with the details.
Starting point is 00:42:58 And they're built differently. It's a different, they're a different party. But if it weren't for us, there'd be nothing left at the Republic. So I guess it's okay to fight a little bit on their response. I agree. We'll be back in just a minute after a few words from our favorite sponsors. This record is on. Miley is having a moment.
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Starting point is 00:43:37 Stream Miley's new album, bass persuades today. I think fighting and getting granular about how you build a better world is important. You know, I spoke to Timothy Snyder recently. Yeah, I saw that. Yeah. And he's just such a dream. And he echoed something that I say, you know, as a person who talks to a lot of young people, I'm like, every single thing you interact with all day is the result of a policy.
Starting point is 00:44:10 The roads you drive on, the stoplights in your neighborhood, the stop signs in your neighborhood. of the water that comes out of your faucet. Like, so these people who get obsessive about, oh, smaller government, I'm going, this only exists because of government. The world, we've actually forgotten what good government is supposed to do. It's supposed to feel kind of invisible, but it's also supposed to support you. And the money you pay as a citizen or a resident of this country, the tax dollars, you pay, you're investing in the country and the country is supposed to give you a return
Starting point is 00:44:43 on your investment. And these guys who've sort of hijacked the whole thing that are taking all the money for themselves, you know, launching an American oligarchy, I'm like, you can't be long for this because people are going to wake up to the fact that all of our systems that we forgot only exists because of politics. They're falling apart. Like the food recalls, we're done. I can't feed eggs to my kids. I'm done. And the problem is, I mean, humans are able to hold so much dissonance. And so much dissonance in their hearts and in their heads. The reason when it comes to politics, and unless you are a political leader who is able to connect with the people you represent on a personal level, the most important thing to people.
Starting point is 00:45:34 I mean, look at what we, you know, look at what we value. Look at how important football is in people's lives because it feels like it brings community and a sense of identity. You know, it's, there's nothing more dominant in American culture than the NFL. And like, what's that about? That's about being on a team. That's about feeling like part of a community. That is about your identity. And that is really important. And Democrats have never fully appreciated that. And so, like, you got to, like, before you can talk to people about what you're going to do with the roads, you got to get to, you got to make sure people know that you don't just understand what their lives are like you respect the work they do you expect you respect the contributions that they
Starting point is 00:46:15 are making to to to your town you're like that stuff and it's like it's not like i'm going to come in and take care of this problem for you or you're stupid for not not seeing that like this is the right way to do something it's like we're in this together and you know and that so it's that it's that middle part of it that we've just really lost um and the last and i think the problem is the problem one with Trump for Democrats has been, it's so hard, understandably so to just fight him and try to contain him legally or, you know, clean up the mess or just that we're not thinking deeply enough like with intellectual arguments or just making the, or making the case about what we want to do and how much we love this country and, you know, and everything that the people in it are capable of
Starting point is 00:47:08 and why we and why we love them. You know, like, that's all gotten lost. And that, I think that's part of the reason why, is why a lot of folks have not been open to listening to Democrats. Yeah. And, you know, there are, you know, the people are the best of this. Generally, you know, you're from a red state and or you're a governor. You know, like the governors are great at this.
Starting point is 00:47:31 Yeah. Andy Bashir, Gresh and Whitmer. The governors, the governors are so great. I mean, Maura Healy, my God, all of them. I feel so lucky to, you know, have been in the company of a handful of those great, I mean, great, great down governors, but especially the women, my God, they're just phenomenal. I'm curious, you know, we're looking down the barrel of this next election and I feel you on this, you know, you can feel the tide turning. You know, you feel the air shifting.
Starting point is 00:48:04 Yeah. I really am hopeful we can start to remember that our neighbors are not our enemies. And we're going to do the work to get there. But I wonder whether it's between now and then or if you think about it in terms of the rest of the year, personal, professional, what feels like, aside from trying to get folks elected, what feels like your work in progress? Oh, my work in progress feels like figuring out there is this opportunity now. People are ready for something new. And like, how do you harness that? So it's that moment's not missed because it could go, it could go either way.
Starting point is 00:48:45 And how do you give rather than how terrible everything is and how hard everything is, like a sense of optimism and impossibility in everything that I do. Because everything that you do and we, like, it's a hard time, it's a hard time in the world. It's a hard time in politics. it's a really hard time in economics. It's a hard time in the like stupid digital world. It's hard breaking through. It's hard being heard.
Starting point is 00:49:11 Yeah, you got to lean on people. I try to remind myself, you know, it's a relay. We're on a relay team. And sometimes you're the one leading the pack. And sometimes you've got to fall back and let somebody else do it because nobody can do it all the time all by themselves. And I'm proud to, I'm proud to be on a team with you. I'll tell you what.
Starting point is 00:49:32 And yeah. Can I say one more thing about women? Yeah. You know, it's like we had glorious item past. It's the top anniversary of Hillary Clinton's campaign. That's when I first met you. And, you know, there's talk about not women not running in 2028, which I will hate because I think there's like some fans, you know, like I think, you know, AOC would be fantastic.
Starting point is 00:49:56 I think Richard Williams would be a fantastic candidate. it. I hate it when Democrats say, well, when we tolerate the misogyny and the, you know, by saying, well, others won't vote for a woman. And it is harder
Starting point is 00:50:15 than I, you know, 10 years ago, I didn't expect it was going to be that hard to elect the first woman president. And because I thought women had, you know, I done really well, women had done really well in the world. And we liked the first black president. I thought that was harder and it's just different because we just everybody you know the biases are deep and they're
Starting point is 00:50:34 and everyone uh they're they're they're unconscious but they uh but they are all they're real but they're so real but like we can't be the ones that say well that's like how it is like the real like that is like that is what I feel so and Hillary Clinton talked about this all the time like every time I talk to her she's like make sure you keep writing about women because it's like yeah we got to keep, you know, you, there, all of it is just,
Starting point is 00:51:01 is also just like right, right there for taking. I think America could elect a woman the next time around. I think it could elect a black candidate next time around. It is like, do you have,
Starting point is 00:51:09 you understand the American people? Do you love this country? And do you have a plan for taking it forward? I think people are open for all of that. So it's like, that's a really important part of the real area right now for women because it can feel that demoralizing, the last,
Starting point is 00:51:26 you know, I mean, You know, I mean, the loss of Rose, the defeat of Kamala Harris, it's just like one blow after another, but like, we're the ones that got to dig in now and like really keep going. And you do that every, you do that with every show, Sophia. It's just like, that's just like part of what happens here. It's really important. Thank you so much.
Starting point is 00:51:48 I mean, I think, you know, one of the things I really value about our cohort of, you know, friends and activist fellows out in the world is like, Yeah, we're not going to lie. Sometimes it's really hard to keep taking the hits, but if I'm not going to get back up, like, there's no way I'm staying down. And you don't. And, you know, our dear Adrian and like all of our friends, like, we just keep going because we believe in this country. Yeah. Like for all her faults, I love America. And I want her to live up to who she says she is. Yeah. So we keep going. Yeah, we can go on. Well, thank you so much for coming today. I just, I love the show so much.
Starting point is 00:52:34 Friends, if you haven't seen Longplay, winning the South on YouTube, go and watch it. I just think it's so phenomenal. I can't wait for the dock on the Bell Stadium. Oh, my God. I'm so excited about it. And I just, I hope I get to be in person with you soon. I miss you. Thank you so much.
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