Dumb Blonde - 64: Dumb Blonde: Flex With Thane: Group Home, Losing Virginity, & OnlyFans

Episode Date: September 23, 2020

Thane talks about his behavioral problems growing up in a group home and transitioning to his multifaceted success as a meal prep company owner, fitness trainer, father, and OnlyFans content creator.  Watch Full Episodes & More: www.dumbblondeunrated.com Takeaways: Thane is originally from Arizona Growing up without a father, he was always in trouble as a child and ended up in a group home from ages 15 to 18 Thane’s father was a drug addict and wasn’t in his life, but his mom was always there for him From fighting to drug use, Thane faced many battles with finding himself. His meal prep company, Fuego Meals, donates a certain amount of every purchase towards Group Homes and helping children young adults to build a foundation for a successful future Thane got into football in high school to keep himself out of trouble He ended up breaking state records, getting offers from colleges like Illinois State University, and ultimately proving to himself that he could make a change In his life for the better Getting involved in football really sparked a change in Thane’s life, but he’s always kept his fighting spirit He graduated high school and had great grades, but lost his scholarship to a Division 1 school because he missed the SAT test and wasn’t allowed to retake it At the last minute, he got an offer to go to a college in California This was a huge change for Thane He was taking 21 college credits, working on the weekends at Chipotle and trying to find financial stability while pursuing his future He felt like he had a new shot at life and didn’t want to be like his dad Life really began to take off for him He started seeing a woman that he had known since 8th grade She is now his baby mama and they have an adorable son together They are no longer together but their son always comes first in their lives  Thane gave up his football career to be a full-time dad After working at a moving company, then working for a plumbing company, and almost working for a solar company, he began to realize he didn’t want to work for other people anymore and wanted to really take charge of his life He quit his job at the solar panel company and decided to become a Chippendale dancer The next day, he got into a really bad accident- he got hit by a semitruck and almost lost his life Chippendales wouldn’t keep him signed on because of his injuries and inability to train for the tour, and he couldn’t get his job back at the solar panel company He felt defeated, but his son motivated him to keep pushing Thane started training people and began utilizing his strengths He started getting more and more clients A lot of his female clients came onto him after sessions He took his professionalism very seriously and never pursued any offers This led to him starting his OnlyFans He started seeing a new girl and she wasn’t comfortable with him doing it, so he stopped They moved to Miami together and he began dancing at clubs He was making so much more money working less hours After their relationship ended, COVID hit, and he started back his OnlyFans which became very successful in a short amount of time The thing about OnlyFans is anyone can do it- everyone has their own type that they are attracted to, so there’s always room for more content creators and it is a great way to make money Thane is very selective about who he will make content with, but he does do collabs with other content creators Thane’s life advice to everyone is to stay resilient and never give up Quotes: “I think that’s when my life changed…I started to get confidence” – Thane “Don’t let the pretty face fool you, I roll like a boss” – Bunnie “I think guys put up with more than the girls do as far as dancing” – Thane “Guys like girl next door types” – Bunnie   Mentioned: Thane Instagram | Twitter | YouTube | OnlyFans Check out Bunnie: Instagram | Facebook | Twitter | YouTube | OnlyFans See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

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What's up, you sexy motherfuckers? to another episode of dumb blonde today i had to switch it up on you hoes i normally have like super hot bitches on but today i wanted to cater to my female crowd and i brought on flex with bane how are you baby oh i'm fantastic thank you for having me you do thank you for being here i'm like stoked to have you on because i normally have you know girls girls on. So I get to hear their point of view, like with the business that we're in and stuff like that. And I thought it would be really cool whenever somebody sent you to me. I was like, dude, this would be awesome for him to come on.

But then we talked on the phone and you told me kind of like your fucking story is amazing. Yeah, I've definitely been through a lot of things that I feel like I could share with other people that would be beneficial. A lot of people just see me for my Instagram. And instead of like I was mentioning before, it's a lot of people either read your book or they put it down. I think this gives me an opportunity to communicate with my fans or your fans on my side of OnlyFans. You know what I mean? Yeah, well, OnlyFans and your life. You had some shit really happen to you. Yeah.

So where'd you grow up? I'm originally from Arizona. I lived there my whole life. I actually grew up without my father, so it kind of put me in a position to where I was always acting up. So I was always in trouble. So women aren't the only ones who have daddy issues yeah pretty much yeah but I guess mine led me into a

position to where I was locked up and I ended up getting put in a group home for three years and that's when my life really changed you know like I didn't have family I didn't have anything to look forward to all the other kids were going on field trips and doing this and graduating while I was like trying to figure out my life and nobody really wanted to get to know why these things happened to me or why I act a certain way right you know what I mean and it kind of just made me feel alone in the world oh yeah I mean that would be I couldn't even imagine that you know was it that you so you went to a group home so was it because your parents just you know were

they were they addicts or what was the deal with them so you want to a group home so was it because your parents just you know were they were they addicts or what was the deal with them so you want to touch base on yeah my father he's a drug addict he uh he died of drugs my mom has always been in my life but when you're away from a family member from somebody you love for a long time that relationship changed no matter if you want it to or not right so i felt myself in a position to where I was by myself, like against this wall as a young, young kid, you know, not a man, not over 18, 15 years old with cameras on me, other guys in the room at all times, always being watched. You didn't have internet access to anything, you know, your life is altered. Right. And so like, I just, I didn't really have that relationship with my family.

So I was by myself. So I kind of like grew up differently than all the other kids. Right. So being, how long were you in the group home for? Uh, three years. Three years. And then until you hit 18. Well, it was right before I was 18 because I, I was about to get off probation.

Oh, gotcha. So what did you end up going, you know, getting in trouble for? Well, it was right before I was 18 because I was about to get off probation. Oh, gotcha. So what did you end up going, you know, getting in trouble for? What were some of the things you did? So I was bullied as a kid. And I told this kid that was bullying me if I ever saw him outside of school that, you know. You're going to beat him up. Pretty much. Good.

I fucking hate bullies, man. So every day he would make fun of my father and like all these things. Kids are so fucking man and so anyways i saw him outside of school like a year later and i went to confront him and he hit me in the head with a scooter and knocked me out and then later that day he had texted one of my friends it was like yo tell him to come to the green belt i want to fight him so i go because i'm like furious at this point right well you just got fucking knocked in the head with a scooter i do this too that's a bitch move yeah so i i show up and there's like a hundred people just like there and i'm like what is going

on so i saw him and as soon as that happened i just i couldn't stop and he ended up having a seat beat the fuck out of him right yeah just all that too, from all the years of the shit that you were going through, literally that, that kid fucking caught the hands. Right. Yeah. So I, um,

I ended up, so anyways, yeah, he ended up like having a seizure and going to the hospital and the police, like, you know, I had to deal with that situation.

They said, if you know, you do anything else, you're going to have to pay the consequences. So, you know, I was between that and having drugs and smoking weed and fighting everything built up so I ended up having to go to court and they were like

all right you have to spend x amount in jail and then once there's a opening spot you can go to the group home and then try to rehabilitate yourself from there you know right so between the between like the group home and the therapist and all the different groups you be you're like able to graduate this program and then you're become like you become a citizen again right so they give you a citizen watch and then yeah it's kind of unique so horrible that they they throw kids in a group home expect them to not have behavioral problems because of the shit that they've gone through and then it's like you guys get in trouble for having behavioral problems and then you guys you know end up with like your juvenile records and stuff like that and i just think that's terrible yeah so we need a better system well no they just need

to let they need to rehabilitate kids instead of like punishing them because you can save somebody you know what i mean nobody's like a lot of the times they don't care because you're just another statistic. You're another number to them. Dude, I think you should, that's something that maybe might be like in your calling cards. Oh yeah. So I have a meal prep company called Fuego Meals and like every purchase X amount of dollars will go to like, you know, donating to group homes and eventually like I want to have my own group homes, but you know, giving to group homes. And eventually, like, I want to have my own group homes.

But, you know, giving these kids an option like I had to not just go to jail, but to actually rehabilitate. To do something, yeah. Yeah. Learn things and feel cared about and like build a family and then like a foundation. So when they come out in the real world, like they know how to live on their own. They know about taxes. They know about like the things that you need to know about in life. Yeah about yeah absolutely so what happened after you got out of the group home oh so how old are you i was i

was seven i know i was i was almost 18 okay we're 17 and a half year old day not i went to class with my head down i got straight a's did you really yeah and then i was like you know what i gotta do something with my life i was always that's fucking awesome that you were that young and you were like you know what i gotta be better it was hard because like i was apparently this good looking kid that like everybody was like why is he so quiet like people were like come sit with us i would eat by myself i didn't trust anybody you're a lone wolf yeah i didn't trust anybody because i didn't really know how the outside world like worked anymore. Right. So eventually I went and talked to the football coach and I was like, hey, you know, I'm on probation, but I need something to keep me busy

from getting in trouble. Right. And he was like, you have no chance. What? And I was like, why? He was like, because we already our guys have been playing for three years. I said, listen, I'm a different breed of human. Like, just give opportunity he said all right come to tryouts so i came and i didn't know the football what they call football iq i didn't have that so he was like lying up in so-and-so and i was like what's that he was like get off the field and yells at me and the other kids are like who's this you know right well as soon as i got like you had to Right. Well, as soon as I got. So it's like you had to prove yourself. I did. As soon as I got my chance, it was over. You just fucking lit the field up. I broke the state records.

Don't. Long story short, the crowd was as big as they've ever seen. People were like recruiting me. I got college offers. You know, like I got an offer from Illinois State University. That's division one. Yeah. I'd never played football before.

I was like their best player. And so like the coach was like, what? Like, where did this guy come from? Who is this guy? Yeah. So it just felt really good. I think that's where my life changed because I started getting the confidence. Women started to talk to me. I have girls love athletes. I had sex for the first time. Like it was like, let's talk about that too. I have the craziest story. It was on Valentine's Day. I can't wait to hear. It was on Valentine's Day.

The girl I was talking to for months, she got grounded and I went to this party and this girl, she had knew me and she literally took me to her car and took my virginity. In the car? In the car. Oh my goodness. And then get this, she had left. Mind you, i'd never had sex before right don't tell me you double dipped so how did i know so then so then i go

inside and like the cops had come and we're literally just sitting there and there was three girls and me and my friend bobby well he had a girlfriend and i was sitting on the chair with a girl i've been talking to her like best friend at the time comes and sits on my lap and i said hey what are you doing? Like, that's inappropriate. I really did tell her that. Most guys would have been like, hey. And then I swear to God, she gets off of me.

And then her other friend, like I go to lay down and I'm almost asleep, lays next to me and ends up, we end up fucking. Oh, shit. All in the same day. And I was like, I never, I went home. I felt like the man. I was like, damn, I went from not having sex to like to banging two bitches in one night i was like this is what football does i'm definitely getting good at this my fucking virginity story sucks compared to that i fucking didn't have all that my i had to like pop my own cherry the dude's weenie was so small that

i had to fuck him we were outside fucking on a lawn chair and he was on top of me and he just couldn't pop my cherry so i was like you know what flip over let me pop my own cherry i broke up with him two weeks later i realized then that pussy was power the disrespect is real no not at all it's fine james and i are cool he knows he knows it's him every time i talk about him on the podcast um okay so how old were you when you lost your virginity i was 18 you were 18 so this is you're doing football you're doing all that jazz yeah so my life started to like slowly shift it went from you know not having anything no family nothing to look forward to no goals no did your

family ever show up did your mom ever show up to your football games yeah of course my mom my mom still supports me to this day she's never left my side you know yeah we're building that relationship back yeah um and it takes time yeah of course but it's also it's not necessarily her it's also myself as well right because i'm very guarded yeah you know because i feel like i'm broken no matter what i show people no matter how i dress yeah no matter what you know we're all broken exactly this is me being vulnerable with you yeah of course so no i love it so from 18 on what happens then after you're banging multiple bitches football star fucking just conquered the fucking made the group home your bitch pretty much and just changed your life around oh really i just uh got popular i end up fighting somebody i beat him up and then

it went viral what is it you know i grew up fighting too i think that's got to be an aquarius thing because we just pop off like i just don't have time for i'm cool but i'm not that cool that's what i always tell everybody like i will punch you right in your fucking face me too okay and i'm like i may look i may look pretty but i'm definitely right don't let the pretty face pull you i roll like a boss yes exactly so after that i actually um i ended up graduating high school I had great grades I was supposed to go to a division one college for football Illinois State but I lost that because I literally just got popular I was doing what I wanted and I missed the SAT test damn it so I

didn't take the test so I lost my scholarship and then oh fuck last minute I got offered a severe punishment like they didn't even give you a chance to redo it wow so anyways i ended up getting a offer last second and i went and played in california and as i was out there like it was a struggle i'm not gonna lie i was taking 21 credits in a college i've never been to college before i was in a different state i had no financial income i was working on the weekends seven ten hour shifts at Chipotle and then I would have to still do my homework and I was just like exhausting that's still admirable though that you really had that work ethic instilled in you especially from where

you came from as a child I was just determined I after I got that citizen watch I like I felt like I had a new shot at life and I was like I can't be what my dad was right and so like I would just do everything in the fact like yo like I can't be him right now so anyways everything's taken off for me life is just like amazing I'm in a different state I have no worries and then boom this girl starts you know seeing me like girls are always the downfall oh for sure but I've known her since eighth grade right and uh the one that was grounded no okay but so anyways i knew her since eighth grade and she saw we saw each other and she's like i want to come see you and i was like yeah right what girl would drive to california to come see me um she was she was there the next

day with a gift basket and i was like wow life is great Well, she's now my baby mama. Oh, that's sweet. And your son is so cute. Oh my God, what a cutie. What is he mixed with? His mom is, her family's from Trinidad. So she's like black and white. Her mom's white, her dad's black. Right, he's so cute, dude.

I love that, we'll get into the whole fatherhood thing in a minute, but he's super, super cute. You guys, when you go check out Thane's profile, he's like a proud daddy and he's got his son all over um okay so does you ended up having a baby did that alter your life like drastically like what were you thinking like oh my god were you happy was it expected when I was on the phone I started crying I was like wow I like I'm like happy but I'm like why is this happening to me I had no money I don't have family who's gonna watch the baby while I'm playing football

like all this shit so I was like you know what I got this I said I called her back and I said hey whatever you decide to do I'll be right here with you whatever it is and she like was like okay so she made the decision to keep the baby which was perfectly fine and after that I was like

I'm going to move back to Arizona. So at least that she's in Arizona. Yeah. So at least that she, you know, I'm close. If anything happens, I, you know, I can get there. So I ended up going to these tryouts. It was a combine at ASU and U of A. Well, they both wanted to sign me, Todd Graham and Rich Rodriguez. And so I was like okay cool and now I have an option now life isn't as bad as I thought well my credit couldn't transfer no why because it was like it was it a California to Arizona yeah community exactly so I'm like listen you got I need this right so they both told me no. Wow. And so Pima Community College, which is right across from U of A in Tucson, Arizona, gave me a full ride.

I was like, I'll take it. Dude. It's two hours away. You got like a rabbit's foot up your ass. But I'll take it. Yeah. So I took that and I started playing there. But mind you, that's a two-hour drive.

So I was just stressed. I was playing football and I was doing very well. I was going to go back to U of A. But I soon decided when I was ready to go back to U of A that, hey, what's important to me at this time and point is being a father and not an athlete. Yeah. And my goal was to be in the NFL it's like wow I had two years to become great out of all these years and all these other kids played football and their parents took them to practice and all that so it like broke my heart you know oh yeah so you made the decision to be a father does that mean that you gave up the whole

ride and just decided to stay home and what did you do after that yeah so I gave it up and I happily was a father I ended up moving in with her we got our own place and I was like you know it's time to be mature and I always told myself if I put myself in a situation I'll get myself out of it so you know every day I would wake up and I would feed the baby and how do you feel inside did you feel like whole or did you feel like a part of you was like I was like no i was like this is amazing i i have i have most guys wouldn't look at it like that they would be like fuck this well i have a little i have like a legacy like most people can't have that and it was it was a great thing and it felt like family it felt like you know but it soonly like turned to the worst you know me and her didn't work out um but i ended up being a

mover i ended up running this moving company i had to work 18 hour shifts oh my god i can only imagine if you showed up to some people's houses i have some crazy stories well let's hear one of them give me one yeah this one lady she's like oops i dropped the box and the box happened to have a bunch of dildos in it and she was dressed in lingerie and i'm like was she hot oh she was like this old lady but she was definitely she could get it now i'm playing but no it's fine we're totally with it no but for real uh that was crazy and i'm the guy running the shift so i'm like who do i tell like i'm just gonna act like i didn't see anything so i wrapped up the box and i was like good one yeah and then she oh you didn't give it to her oh she gave me a big tip and that was it oh she wanted your big tip oh yeah that's

what she wanted for sure but only fans wasn't a thing back then so damn it I mean she probably wanted it in person I don't think she wanted it only fans all right so you became head of the moving company and then what happens after that I just have a I have an authority problem when it comes to working for somebody. Why should I work for somebody else's million dollar idea when I should be putting all this energy into something that's going to make me, you know, at the top of the pyramid. I think we're natural born anarchists.

Yeah. So I turned, I literally told him, I said, yeah, like you guys, if you don't want me to be part owner, I'm out of here. He laughed at me. He literally laughed at me. I said, wait till you see me on TV one day. And I told him, I said, no disrespect because you know I'm a hard worker.

But I just had to get rid of that. But you realize your worth and there's nothing wrong with that. So to make a long story short, I ended up becoming the head of sales at a plumbing company. And then after they weren't paying me what they told me, I said, yo, I don't think you guys realize I'm not a sheep. I'm not going to sit here and let you guys lead the way. Right. So I quit that. And then right after that, I literally was about to take over a solar company because I got I would go door to door and like sell solar panels. That's crazy. And I was so I was so knowledgeable, but it was hard. Like I went from being a trainer to selling solar to selling dick. No, I'm just kidding. Let's get into the selling dick part.

So when did you become a weenie boy? I call male strippers weenie boys because I love them. I grew up with a whole – I used to work at Olympic Gardens back in my day. And all the boys upstairs, we were all just best friends. And we used to call them weenie boys. So actually, when I stopped playing football, I was like, I'm not working for anybody else. Right. I'm like, can I dance?

So I started looking around in Arizona and there was only one club and it was called like Dick's Cabaret, but it was gay. And I was like, I'll never do that. It wasn't Rick's Cabaret like in Houston. It was Dick's Cabaret. That's awesome. So I was like, no, I'm good. So then I was like, how about the chippendales so this

i literally like sent them my information i got a tryout i came here oh yeah they were looking at you like you're a fucking gold mine oh and i was like i was ready i was like i was telling my son's mom all right we're gonna make it was she supportive yes and no okay gotcha but at the end of the day i'll always appreciate her because- She can be your son. Yeah, of course. So I got the tryout. They signed me out of everybody else.

So what was that like? How did you feel the day that you became a Chip and Dale weenie boy? I was like, wow, this is going to be great. I'm going to travel the world on tour, all this stuff. Do they make pretty good money? No. Okay. No. I never knew. to travel the world on tour all this stuff do they make pretty good money no okay no some of them ever knew some of them make decent money because they get other gigs because of chippendales they're like paid gigs you know what i mean yeah so anyways i i rush home to arizona to go get my

uh like all my information like my birth certificate whatever yeah and so as i'm driving home you know it's like eight in the morning and then all of a sudden boom i get in a bad accident i got hit by a semi uh and the day that you got your fucking the day after oh the day after so i get hit by a semi i almost lose my life and i'm just like wow the like in my head i'm like what's going on like right did i do something to continuously have to just get set back yeah i'm like this isn't fair so anyways i go to the hospital they put like seven staples in my head i have glass in my face a hole in my leg and anyways you're so lucky to be alive though yeah there's no joke they told me they you know i lost that opportunity so

damn they weren't even compassionate. Like, you almost got fucking killed. I couldn't go on tour. I couldn't learn the dances fast enough. And then right after that, my landlord, I lost my house. And then right after that, I looked in the bank account because Cox called me and was like, hey, how come you didn't pay your bill? And I look and it says negative $445 in my account. And as I looked, my son was like hey how come you didn't pay your bill and I look and it says negative 445 dollars in

my account and as I look my son was like sleeping peacefully and I was like wow like I gotta get it together I gotta figure it out right lost my job at the solar company because I told him I'm going to Chippendales oh no so I was like wow what do I do I'm like should I just become a drug dealer like a lot of people do you know a lot of guys do did you go that route i refuse because i promised myself that you would yep i haven't been in trouble for like six years i mean i fight but that's right that's nothing um so what so what do you do from there you know you feel like you've lost everyone you pretty much have lost everything oh i which way do you go there's only one way to go and that's up, right? I started training people.

Good. I started, I was like, you know what? I'm going to utilize the things that everybody tells me I have. And that's where the flex with Thane comes in? Yes. Okay. Mind you, I tricked everybody. They all thought I had like some certification.

I had the ins and outs of everything. I didn't know shit. I just would, I would just pay attention. You got to fake it till you make it yeah so anyways I was getting all these clients and I was like let me target the women yeah I was like that would be easy and so I did that and then honestly all they wanted was sex and so it was kind of like they would come to you to train them and they would just want to bang yeah I had one girl she was like we finished our session and then

she got her water she's like, when's our next session? Can it be tonight? And I was like. Girls are so forward. I was like, no. Does that turn you on when a girl's forward or what kind of girls do you like? Absolutely. What kind of girls do I like?

I like anything that just doesn't look like everybody else. Right. So I like something that's kind of exotic. I mean, I honestly like a good personality too right and somebody that's not judgmental because i test girls right away right i'll do certain things just to see how you react right or i'll put things in push her because i just want to see what you know what where your intellectual thinking is right absolutely i get it um so when you're training these girls and they're like trying to have sex with you, does that

like, did you ever do it? No, I started, I stopped. I couldn't take it anymore. It was like sexual harassment. It wasn't even that. It was just, you can get in a lot of trouble for that. And like at this point, like I'm really like understanding of life and consequences. Right.

And if you have your freedom taken away you'll definitely think about doing something wrong right absolutely so what happens after when did you start getting into the only fans when did this happen that's when i discovered the only fans the only fans yep so i started it it's going well and then next thing you know i get this girlfriend oh and she's like yo i'm not comfortable with this and i'm like hold on why doesn't she do it with you she exactly that's what i said yeah i'm like you look good too like you know yeah why would you do it with you that's crazy yeah yeah so anyways i um i ended up just stopping it for her and i was like hey i respect that right well then i ended up moving to miami

with this person right I'm already telling too much I moved to Miami with this person and that's when I started to dance right so this is when I actually you got my friend Miami this is when I first started to be magic gotcha magic Mike yeah so my my my stage name is magic oh gotcha I ended up going to this club called la bear it's in miami and um i ended up becoming like one of the top guys there as far as the dancing i took second in the competition like like i was making a lot of money like i was doing well so i was like wow why working nine to five so she didn't want you to do only fansans, but you were allowed to dance? Because that person also was doing the same thing I was.

Gotcha. Gotcha. Okay. I'm just trying to get a- Yeah, I know. I'm trying not to tell too much. I'm not trying to get you to talk shit at all. I'm just trying to get like a whole story here.

Right. So- It's my job. Yeah. So I started to dance and I was making so much money. Oh, yeah. And I was like, wow, this is great. I only have to work on friday saturday and

sunday how fucking crazy are the ladies that you dance for i used to go upstairs to my instagram you'll see they're crazy i used to just go upstairs to drink like before my shift and we would like i said we would hang out with all the weenie boys and i'm telling you those women up there they would like stick their hands down their pants they would try to suck their dicks like while they're dancing like you guys really had to put up with a lot i would slap a dude if i got treated the way you guys get treated we we do actually i think guys excuse me put up with more than the girls do as far as dancing totally because i i've been put in so many bad positions thankfully i stuck to the g code and i didn't give out my number i had girls offer me like

thousands of dollars to come home with them i've had husbands say you know they want me to you know fuck their wife all this you've never done any of that no that's wild not at the club okay all right now we're getting somewhere because i was like all my boys used to fucking do that not at the club i you know um but yeah so i was just like i'm not working a real job anymore so then at the end of our relationship we ended up splitting for whatever reason and i was like wow like covid literally just happened yeah and as i was like what am i gonna do so two months before COVID happened, I started OnlyFans. Right.

And I just started killing it. Like the first month I made like, I would say like $5,000. And then the second month it was like $9,000. And then like 10 and then like, you know what I mean? So I was like, why not do this? I don't even have to do much. Yeah. It's like, it's insane.

It took me forever to get on OnlyFans. Everybody kept asking me and i was like no no no i'm not gonna do it and then finally fucking four months ago i was like fuck it i was during the fucking rona and i was like i've got to do something because i always have to be hustling i cannot fucking just stay idle it drives me crazy so i was like i'm you know i told my husband i was like i'm just gonna try it and see what happens dude we could have never even imagined the windfall of money. Like, it was insane. I couldn't believe it.

It really is. And a lot of people were, like, telling me, oh, there's a lot of competition. And I was like, you guys don't realize it's not about competition. It's how you advertise and how you network. Well, that and there's just so much money for everybody. Everybody is somebody's fucking type. Somebody's looking for you. Somebody's looking for me.

Somebody's looking for her. Like, it just, that's all that it is. And to touch on that, whoever's watching this, it's like anybody can do it because everybody has their certain someone, their certain thing, their certain fetish. Their niche. Yeah. So, because I've had girls and guys, well, I'm not in shape. I'm like, yo, honestly, some of the ones that aren't in shape are making the most money. Dude, big girls make money.

Stupid. And ones that aren't like picture perfect, guys most money dude the big girls make money and stupid ones that aren't like picture perfect guys like girl next door types you know like a lot of guys don't like the way that porn like porn star looking girls look you know there's a lot of men who do like natural looking women there's a lot of men who like bigger girls like thicker girls you know just everybody has their own thing right of course let's talk about some collabs you've done we don't have to mention names or anything like that but how is that in this industry because it's weird i've heard of like collab parties and stuff like that is this like a big orgy what is it well um so the it's actually a content party right and then and honestly it's not like if you and another someone

want to go run off and do your thing and record it, that's on you guys. But the content parties are actually like photographers there and like sexual implied, you know, content, pictures, whatever it is. It's not like an orgy. I mean, I personally I haven't been to one of those. OK, I've definitely seen that. Yeah. Not like that. Gotcha.

As far as OnlyFans. I would be scared to go because i'm just so nervous you know you never know vaginas are like caves you don't know where fucking what's behind door number one so you so honestly i have a funny story the first time the first time i ever tried to collab with somebody i was like hey like i was telling her about it i was like you know what do you think and she's like okay no problem but she didn't really speak english like fully well you said you like i'm exotic yeah so she was from miami and i was like perfect like you're down that's what it appeared to me so anyways you see how this is set up in here yeah that was like basically set up in my room and the

light was on so we had walked in and she looks and she like got so scared and i'm like i'm like confused i'm like why aren't you coming in? She's like standing. Probably thought you were going to kill her. Yeah, she's like at the door. And I'm like, you know. Yeah, get in here, bitch. Get naked. Yeah, Benikeet. And she left.

No. Yeah, and I was like, I went. I was like, yo, I'm like, did I do something wrong? Right, and she's just like, no, it's fucking weird. I don't get it. I don't know. I just left it at that. I was like, maybe that was too much. Maybe next time keep the light wrong? Right. And she's just like, no, it's fucking weird. I don't get it. I don't know. She, I just, I left it at that.

I was like, maybe that was too much. Maybe next time keep the light off. Right. Don't let her see all the cameras and lights. How do you pick girls to collab with? Like, do they pick you?

Is that pretty much what it is? Honestly, yeah, because I don't, I don't, I think that's so phony. I think that's a pattern of life right now for you. You poor thing.

Yeah. I'm like, I think, I think that's so phony. Hey, you want to make content? Like, yeah. I mean, I guess think i think that's so phony hey you want to make content like yeah um i mean i guess it's sure i'm saying hey do you want to fuck yeah i mean it's not like it's a big deal like you're being straightforward i mean we i mean it is a business at the end of the day yeah but uh so far the girls have picked me yeah so i've been i've

been blessed to have a couple good ones yeah i You know what I mean? All my content is amazing. Yeah. I know that for sure. Yeah. We kind of strolled through it the other day. Yeah. Mine's great. I had to do research, you know, because you were coming on the podcast.

So I had to see what we were getting into. Yeah. Do you have any big plans for like anything else that you're going to be doing on OnlyFans or anything that people can look forward to if they subscribe to you? Honestly, now I'm going to become like, now I'm just going to like turn it up a notch, you know, like because I told myself like, you know, if I'm going to do something, you might as well be the best at it. Absolutely.

That's my life motto. Yeah. But I'm very selective on who I just fuck. Like girls think like I'm going, you know, girls think like we're automatically like, no, like I'm not thirsty. Don't get it twisted. Like I enjoy curving beautiful women. Right.

I don't know. It's like. That's how I am with dudes. I'm like, it's just like, and you know what I mean? So, yeah. So what do we have to look forward to though? Like I want to hear. Are you going to do like some big collabs?

Are you just going to do more content? Yeah, I actually just did a big collab with this girl. I posted some of the content. Awesome. But I have another plan to do another video do you have a free page or just a paid page i do have a free page but it's under somebody that i don't want to get the money okay gotcha and i was like you need to make a new free one i know and delete that one i know because the free the free page the free pages and the paid pages talk to each other. So you just make money over here, you make money over here. It's like, I got you.

I'll teach you all my little tricks of the trade. They told me to do that, but I was just like, I really don't want my son's mom to see some of this stuff. She knows, but it's just like, to me, it's like there's a little... You don't want to hurt her feelings. I'm very respectful like like i told you i'm a gentleman so little things like that kind of mattered to me so like i know my son's mom or like certain people like my mother or whoever are gonna hope mom's not on only fans but yeah me too but i'm just saying like people are really curious i've had guys i've had my friends the

most weirdest shit like they're curious people want to know and i don't think it's like a gay thing i think they're just like no i want to see everybody's body parts that's how i am i'm the same way but my husband had somebody come over to our studio the other day and he's like a huge comedian and he's like man i love you guys's content and my husband's like what the fuck he's like i never in my life would have thought that you motherfuckers are watching our content it's just you know that's human nature people want to know what people's buttholes look like and that's just the end of the story so if you could tell anybody in this world any sort of advice coming from what you grew up in to who you are now what would you tell them like for some like life advice um i would just say to be resilient honestly i feel

like no matter what happens to you everything ends up being okay whether it's for six months five years whatever everything ends up coming back to you know square one yeah and then whether there's something that happens after that or not, it's how you handle it. And I feel like now that I have a son, I have to teach him, you know, to be a young man and what it's like to have responsibilities and, you know, to, you know, grow up. So I feel like that's my legacy. And I would be a coward if I wasn't resilient and gave up and, and, um, you know, ask for a handout all the time. It would make you feel like you were weak. Yeah, no, I totally get that. Well, I'm

excited to see what you have coming up in the future. I mean, I definitely want to have you back on the podcast. Yeah, I have, I do have a lot of cool things coming up. I'm not just music. Wait a second. Let's talk about this reality show. You did a reality show too. Yeah. So we allowed to talk about that? Yeah, we can definitely talk about that. Okay, cool. Talk about it. And I don't know if your husband's watching this, but I definitely want to rap.

I definitely want to get on the track. Not necessarily get on the track. Kata raps. Kata's really good. Kata raps. She's actually making an album. My husband's producing it. Perfect.

Her and Viking Barbie together. I'm with it. Yeah. All yeah all right well maybe we'll have to get like get you two together maybe you guys will have to go to dinner or something and talk about it see look what she's doing i'm like chuck woolery over here i'm fucking like love connection lay lay up um so let's talk about the reality show um so i actually went out to atlanta because one of my best friends he's on um what's the show called wild and out with nick cannon yes and so i went there still going on right now oh absolutely so like anyways we were at the hotel and i was walking out and i'm walking out and this girl like grabs me like this and like i'm like you know she pulls me in she's like and what's your name and i'm like i'm like starstruck you know what i mean because it was b simone it was like she was a comedian

I see yeah she's fucking hilarious yeah she really is and I was just like I don't know I really didn't know what to say and I was like who me yeah so anyways we started laughing about it and then she was like what's your number blah blah blah so anyways we just stayed in contact right and she had hit me up she's like I need a fine ass white boy on my show and I don't know if I'm supposed to say anything, but all these guys like try it out. And so she's like, you better make it worth it if I fly you out. I was like, duh. Yeah.

Did you tap B. Simone's ass? Absolutely not. Oh, damn it. I was hoping it was absolutely. I was like, yes. No, we just had the kissing scene. Yeah. Yeah.

So it was actually a cool experience. I went to Atlanta for a week and we filmed there and we're in this big mansion with all the guys and her friends came and it was a good time. And then it definitely gave me exposure after that. It was kind of a wrap. My Instagram started blowing up. Where can people find this? Zeus Network.

My boy, Lemmy Plummer, he's the owner of Zeus Network. Awesome. Amazing person. They actually have the OnlyFans TV show. Oh, I didn't even know there was one. Yeah. Well, everything's the owner of Zeus Network. Awesome. Amazing person. They actually have the OnlyFans TV show. Oh, I didn't even know there was one. Yeah. Well, everything's on pause, I guess. I'm supposed to be on that as well.

What is it? It's called OnlyFans. I forgot. What's it about though? Like, obviously OnlyFans. Like, it shows different like top OnlyFans people. Oh, no. And it shows like what their niche is.

Right. Okay. Or kind of like the podcast in a sense. But it's like it shows like certain things awesome so it's actually really cool i have to tune into that did they have to stop it because of fucking rona yeah so i was like man this is gonna be dope my money's about to go to the roof oh my god yeah yeah because it's a big network zeus network you can look them up they're huge yeah no we we watched it the other day yeah so anyways i got

deleted off the show. I think it's because, I don't know. They just didn't want me to win. Yeah. Who ended up winning the show? I don't even, we didn't watch that. On the show, it was Invisalign. Oh my God.

Yeah. His real name's Darian. He's amazing. He's such a good. Did you guys really fight? Was that a real fight? No. Okay.

I didn't think so. Cause you were laughing. We were like, he's he's laughing yeah so i was just like i literally told him i said yo we got to make this show something quick right they flew me out yeah you're like let's do this yeah so exactly so it was cool so um but yeah i got after that i started i did like some stuff for telemoon though i started modeling and then like you know i just kind of started yeah you're modeling pictures you got you get you got a really cool thing and you have a really good look so it's going to take you far you obviously know that because of how far you've come just from your childhood and stuff like that why don't you shout out um where people

can find you all your socials that you want them to find you can shout out your only fans page too yeah um it's really only flex with thane i have a youtube channel it's called um uh what is it it's they oh thane's world okay and then it's it's me and my son flexing oh and then it has like five stars it's cool and then uh my only fans is also flex with thane so you guys can follow me there awesome well thank you so much for coming on the podcast i hope this is you know one of many appearances that you're going to be making on the pod. And I hope next time you come on, it's going to be just more shit that you're doing. And, you know, when you get really big, don't forget about us little people. I'll never do that.

I'll come back whenever you want me. Awesome. Thank you so much. Thank you guys for tuning in to another episode of Dumb Blonde. I will see you guys next week. Bye.