Dumb Blonde - 66: Dumb Blonde: Pimps & Hoes & Bumping Beavers w/ Rylee Rabbit

Episode Date: October 7, 2020

Rylee Rabbit and Bunnie discuss common misconceptions about working girls and P&H relationships.  Rylee talks about her podcast, Down the Rabbit Hole, and how she balances her background... of being in the industry with her dating life.  Watch Full Episodes & More: www.dumbblondeunrated.com  Takeaways: Rylee has a podcast called Down the Rabbit Hole The podcast features all walks of life from sex workers to athletes Rylee hopes to open people’s eyes to the industry and help them understand that there are many parallels in the sex industry and other large industries People have common misconceptions about working girls: There is a huge difference between trafficking and working A lot of these women want to go out and make money. Women who use pimps often prefer it that way. Rylee had a pimp for a long time, and she was happy. One of Bunnie’s friend had a pimp for almost ten years Sometimes the law will back people into a corner and when they get into trouble, they begin pointing fingers instead of owning it Escort services, porn, prostitution, and strippers all stimulate the economy. It’s a multibillion-dollar industry that contributes to a major portion of it.  People often don’t think working girls are bosses Working girls run everything. They are in charge of how they look, their taxes, their content, employing people, expense reports, etc.  Most of these women have LLC’s and have teams of people that help run their business There is so much more to the industry than meets the eye. These girls work 24/7 to produce more content and find creative ways to expand and promote their brand Bunnie asks Rylee more about the pimp and hoe relationship structure Rylee says its different with every person With her first one, she was the bottom girl; she handled everything for him and took care of the other girls as well With her second one, she didn’t even meet the other girls. Rylee kept her relationship with him separate from his relationship with the others Dating now, Rylee wants a regular relationship She’s kind of seeing someone now, but the hardest thing for her with dating is trying not to compare her significant other to pimps and tricks Rylee plans on expanding more on her podcast and web channel in the future; she wants to have panels of people from the industry and discuss controversial topics head on     Quotes: “That’s the kind of language that excites me!” – Bunnie “Sex sells.  Sex makes the world go ‘round.” – Bunnie “People call us homewreckers.  We’re actually the home glue” – Rylee   Mentioned: Rylee Rabbit Instagram | Twitter | YouTube | OnlyFans Down the Rabbit Hole   Check out Bunnie Instagram | Facebook | Twitter | YouTube | OnlyFansSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

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Starting point is 00:02:55 what's up you sexy motherfuckers welcome Welcome to another episode of Dumb Blonde. Today we got two bunnies in the house. I'm so excited. I got Riley Rabbit here with me. Hey ya. If you guys don't know who this beautiful bodacious blonde is, she has a podcast called Down the Rabbit Hole. It's doing really great.
Starting point is 00:03:20 She started probably like right after I did and I saw her page on somebody went on your i think it was katie katie forbes went on your pot yeah so cute we love her to death um she went on your podcast and i was like oh let me go over here and lurk and i lurked yeah and i was like dude she's fucking i love it thank you like i was down the rabbit hole epic fucking name right why the fuck didn't i think of that it just rolled off the tongue because you know i go by riley rabbit yeah i was like oh i should just kind of play with that and then i was like down the rabbit hole no it's fucking amazing yeah it came out good so yeah
Starting point is 00:03:54 so tell me tell people about your podcast what can they expect and stuff like that so the podcast is i mean it's kind of similar to what yours is um i mean, I started off as like a street walking 10 toes down hoe. Yeah, baby. And I turned into. I got goosebumps. I was 10 toes down, baby. That's the kind of language that excites me. And I just, I mean, same thing.
Starting point is 00:04:17 I just, I took it into a business route and I wanted to be like so many. I mean, the dream has sold to us a little bit with this like, oh, let me help you. This is a stepping stone. Let's get to this. And I'm like. We're the dream. We're really the dream has sold us a little bit with this like oh let me help you this is a stepping stone let's get to this and I'm like we're the dream we're really the dream sellers though right exactly and I'm like well everyone's been selling this fucking dream about the game so let me see it and then I was like yeah but you guys really haven't
Starting point is 00:04:36 been turning it into an entrepreneurship right so I just wanted to like own that and I just like fuck it we're gonna do something with it so you're just pretty much you know fucking spitting game. Spitting game, telling stories. Yeah. What kind of guests do you have on your podcast and stuff like that? So, so far, I've had
Starting point is 00:04:51 like, I've had some strippers, some porn stars, some escorts, some like full whores. Not going to lie, like bitches are still walking up and down Las Vegas Boulevard. Oh, we got track hoes. Yeah, track hoes. In case you guys didn't know, there is levels to this shit for sure i have a whole episode why wasn't i on that one there is levels to the shit
Starting point is 00:05:13 so you have let's break it down for everybody real quick so that they can understand because my crowd is a little bit more they're square yeah and they're but i love them and i love them no we're squares now too and i love that that. But okay. So you have, let's, where does it start? You have like your track hose. You have like the, the street walking track hose.
Starting point is 00:05:29 Those are kind of the street stalkers. Yeah. Those are kind of the ones you're going to find on Tropicana. Yeah. Which I call them track hose. Yeah. That's, that's what they are.
Starting point is 00:05:36 Cause the Tropicana is the track. I used to hang out there all the time. I would go gamble at the wild, wild west. I like, I would be, cause I would be out working for the services out here in Vegas. Yeah. it's like you were you have you would have to wait for a call so they have these things in vegas called services and you literally get phone calls and they send
Starting point is 00:05:53 you to clients which is another level yeah that they will get to that so on the track meanwhile back on the track there was this one casino that was like a rundown casino that nobody fucking hangs out in but i did and i would go there the best ones when you kind of have a name yeah and i would just go in there and just gamble waiting for my next call and i some of the the um its name is very true to itself yes that's the well there was like a lot of track hosts that would go in there and they were like the coolest bitches oh yeah some of them are ratchet but some of you know but some of them were just like really cool and they just they were and everyone's just trying to get a book yeah and then what comes after the track hose then you have the i feel like it's the
Starting point is 00:06:32 internet bitches next yeah do you think so or do you think i don't know i feel like internet bitches now are kind of top tier well i feel like there's even levels of the internet shit because there was like the back page girls oh fuck yeah and then there was like the review girls what happened shut it down damn what happened to everybody that fucking was on back page they're all on only fans talk about a level up though they definitely leveled the fuck up dude i can't change hoes lives so yeah i guess internet bitches would be next but it would be more like bottom of the barrel i don't want to say bottom of the barrel like you're like my then you have the back page yeah our back page hose and then what comes after back page hose i
Starting point is 00:07:07 feel like after back page hose is is the las vegas strip girls not the casino girls okay just the ones walking in the strip hitting the bars like but they're 86 from everywhere everywhere i have a i have one of my best friends who's literally i can't go anywhere with her she can't go there can't be kisses lover to death but god bitch cannot be caught in a casino I'm telling you man and it's like it's really like a way of life out here like people don't even realize that but like there's girls that literally just walk the strip and they just hop the bars and I've done it a couple times I'm not even gonna lie and it's fine and it's fun I love freelancing it is so fun yeah it's a sport it definitely is it's like it's an acquired taste
Starting point is 00:07:45 i feel like it's like watching one of those like movies like like um oceans 11 or something yes so calculated you're like oh i gotta go in at this time yes security's over there yes sitting at the right bar watching the right people yes like do you know how much a hustle dude there's been nights that i've walked out with like fucking 20 grand because i hit like a big whale and it's just like and girls don't even realize like people don't even realize that we're really making that much money. Even, you know,
Starting point is 00:08:10 just out here doing our own thing before only fans, we were making that much money, you know, so it made it easier for us to stay home. Yeah, no, now we can fucking be weird. Now we don't have corns from walking around in heels all day.
Starting point is 00:08:22 I don't look, if I don't have to wear heels, I won't wear them. Yeah, I wore them today because I was like, I was kind of chill on my butt because I was like, let me get cute for Betty. No, you look super cute. You look super, super cute. Okay, and then after that, what's next?
Starting point is 00:08:34 Then I feel like that's when like the higher end ad girls come in. Yeah, like the arrows. And like the reviewed girls. Did that too. It's like a level underneath the arrows. I feel like you're like on those review, T-E-R, E-C-C-I-E. It's like a level underneath. Yeah. Eros. I feel like you're like on those review. T-E-R. Yeah.
Starting point is 00:08:46 It's like the reviews. They would never accept me. They always thought I was a fake profile. Yeah. They're haters. Fucking assholes. Right. There's like.
Starting point is 00:08:53 But I was always on Eros. I made so much money on Eros. I fucking killed her. Yeah. Eros was the shit. But right before I got into Eros, I did the whole like review. I was big on review systems. Wow.
Starting point is 00:09:03 Like big. Like I was like one of the biggest reviewed girls. And but it got to a point where i felt like the tricks had control right and i'm like because they were like telling girls yeah like oh you're not reviewed i'm not paying you that price yeah excuse me yeah like who the fuck do you think you are my body my rules my pussy hello backup yeah if i say i want this much for it that's what i want like just say no thank you yeah how about i say no to you how about i I'm not going to see you? Yeah. And there's, there's nothing more powerful than that though. Yeah. Oh, that's, I think a lot of people don't realize either. They're like, oh, these girls are, you know, they're whores and they're prostitutes
Starting point is 00:09:37 and they don't realize that we're really running the show. Absolutely. Every time, every time it's a control thing. And I think, um, than the money, you get addicted to the power. Yeah. I've said that so many times. Yeah. Yeah. It's you. You walk into a room and you own that person.
Starting point is 00:09:53 Yeah. You're like. And they have to do what you say. And of course, you know, you get a couple assholes every now and then. Yeah. But like. You're literally doing something that thousands of women are doing for free. For free.
Starting point is 00:10:04 And someone's giving you thousands of dollars for. Bitches are fucking for Uber and i'm giving you thousands of dollars yeah bitches are fucking for uber rides and dinner you know sure like they're fucking just to be standing at a bottle service like and you didn't even get a drink they're fucking a dude because they think he's hot for free you know it's like come on shit for me like yeah but that same guy is like i don't pay i don't pay i don't pay. And then you turn around and he just hands you a damn band. You're like, oh, you pay, bitch. You pay. You pay.
Starting point is 00:10:29 You just don't pay them. I love it. I love it. OK, so we got sidetracked. So your podcast, you bring all walks of life on and stuff like that. Yeah. I've got a football player on. I've got a baseball player on.
Starting point is 00:10:41 So just everybody. Yeah. You don't discriminate. I want to open the world's eyes to this like this parallel universe that ours is to like other people and they don't realize how close our industry is to all the other industry it's like we're like oh like shadow banned from everything but they don't realize we're right here literally was just talking about that in the last podcast that we get discriminated against so much but without us
Starting point is 00:11:05 sex sells sex makes the world go around sex work makes the world go around you know like you don't have to agree with it but you can't deny that literally we have paved away absolutely and i've tried to say this and some people get mad but i don't care people call us homewreckers and i you're actually the home glue to be honest if somebody's gotta suck your husband's dick and if you're not doing it at least let him go home and be happy every night right like and i'm sorry that i may offend some people but at the end of the day you don't want to do what i have to do well otherwise you'd be doing it it's like i said i said in another podcast i used to always to me i felt like a dude that was married that was cheating on his wife deserved either a just get completely taken advantage of or and just like you know i don't i use the term
Starting point is 00:11:50 rob but it's not really robbing him just like rob the motherfucker blind dude like you're cheating on your wife you have a wedding ring on you deserve to have to pay me fucking tens of thousands of dollars to hang out with me yeah and then like we said there's levels to this shit there's not a lot there are some girls out there that are fucking for a hundred bucks you know and that's their choice yeah that's their choice you know but just know that that she's in control of that that's what she wants to do you know don't you know people get so mad and they think that oh these women are getting trafficked and stuff like that yes there are women who are getting trafficked that's a real thing you know but a lot of these women want to go get this money yeah you know even
Starting point is 00:12:29 girls that have changed trafficking and working right i've i some one of my best friends had a pimp for you know 10 years and one of the coolest bitches i've ever met and she wanted to have a pimp like that was her i went through that i had a pimp for a while yeah i was with him for a while yeah and i was happy. And she didn't want, she wasn't getting trafficked. It made her happy to go out and get money for him and, you know, build their house, you know, their home together. I think sometimes women, and I think that with bringing light to our world, like it
Starting point is 00:12:56 can allow these women to not necessarily do like name blame or like pointing the fingers when something goes bad. Because I think what happens is they're so afraid of being prosecuted right that when something goes wrong they automatically point the finger oh it wasn't me right and really they should be like yeah own that shit like it is what it is this is who i am and being able to control their life but i think sometimes they get backed into a corner from the law that makes a lot of sense you know what i mean and a lot and it's scary they do kind of i've been arrested a few times out here in vegas these motherfuckers will they i don't know man it's like they they love us but they hate us all at the same time i mean think about where we stimulate the economy i don't
Starting point is 00:13:32 think you guys realize like all of us have an extra phone all of us like pay for we a lot of us for a long time had to use bitcoin to post ads like hotel rooms cell phone bills eating out ubers and even those remember for a long time we had to use like those little fucking rush cards yes to post everything yep the fucking fake prepaid card company would not exist without prostitutes yeah absolutely like all of us yeah so it's like we're stimulating a major chunk of the economy totally and they don't even realize like if you gotta take us all away yeah i porn you know escorts fucking just even down to strippers strippers all of it all of it that is fucking stimulating the economy you take that away that's a huge i think we make we probably stimulate more money than the marijuana business absolutely because sex always prostitution is the
Starting point is 00:14:22 oldest fucking trade yeah jesus was best best friends with Mary Magdalene. Full prostitute. Yeah. Yeah. And I think people don't realize like it's a multi-billion dollar company. I mean, or industry. Yeah. So like if you're taking all that away, like think about.
Starting point is 00:14:38 Where does it go? Where does that money go? The dark web. Because then they start fucking selling on the dark web. It goes worse and worse. Exactly. I think another misconception that they have about working girls and stuff like that is go then the dark web because then they start fucking selling on the dark web exactly i think another misconception that they have about working girls and stuff like that is that we're not
Starting point is 00:14:49 you know we're not bosses they don't realize how i've met more boss bitches in this industry than i have in any effort more than a ceo of a company dude like we literally run everything we are in charge of how we look taxes fucking uh llcs we all have llcs we're all expense reports paying people paying for it like yeah we employ other people yeah yeah like we have a whole fucking team of people that make this brand go yeah there's like so much behind us and they also don't realize that making the content every day too it's exhausting dude it's i mean we're like get a real job bro i work more than you do like you know 24 7 i work 24 7 it's never enough that's what i try to tell
Starting point is 00:15:31 people is literally from the minute i wake up to the minute i go to sleep i am on my phone just sending out content always you can ask my team i'm literally just always fucking working people think that we're always just like on our phone because we're dumb like yeah because we're like scrolling i'm on instagram because it pays me a lot of fucking money yes i need to be on here and people don't realize that and i think that i think what's cool about what our podcasts are doing is that we're opening up people's eyes because you're doing it too and you know i'm doing it also and i think we need to join forces i'm look we talked about this i want to talk about it publicly because i want to manifest it let's manifest that shit girl i really think we need to like join forces and maybe do a podcast tour as soon as this covid lifts and yeah you know fucking how cool would
Starting point is 00:16:15 that be to just be able to go to one show and see fucking you know like three or four of your favorite podcast people get together i love it i think it'd be dope just like center stage that shit and have like little audience and stuff that could come do like private viewings and shit i think that'd be dope i think that would be awesome dude fucking when kofid lifts and there won't be like a limit to and there's a couple people that have gone on tour and they're selling out like thousand cappers and stuff like that i mean we'll start we're gonna start small but you know i gotta get you out to nash Nashville though so you can uh come out there I was telling you about this yesterday I like one of the most one of my most like memorable nights
Starting point is 00:16:50 ever yeah was in Nashville I went out there for one night I was working yeah well there one night and then like my date was over and I'm like what am I gonna do now and I just like walked down Broadway she mistakenly went honky-tonking that's what it's called my life away dude that's exactly what when i first moved to nashville my husband was like i'm gonna take you honky-tonking because my husband's just real southern and i'm like okay what the fuck is honky-tonking and literally he took me from one end every bar it's a serious country bar crawl dude i fucking puked probably like by the middle of the fucking i was like throwing up they kept going i'm like hold on i get this out real quick i'm like what i come back let's go like yeah no it's dude did that since college dude it's so much fun just going down on broadway now i'm kind of over it because i've been
Starting point is 00:17:35 there for five years it's like vegas you know but if you come out there we'll definitely have to do something we'll have to shoot some content together or something like that what's dating like for you since you've been doing this only fan stuff? Dating has been a little more difficult for me because like I said, I did have a pee for a while. So I've had three total. I'm not going to lie. It wasn't like I've been in the game. It's my eighth year.
Starting point is 00:17:56 It's my eighth year. So my first one I was with for four years. There was a little breakup in there and I went to somebody else and realized it was a mess. Let's talk about that pimp and hoe relationship. Can we talk about that? Am I allowed to call it the pimp and hoe relationship or is there something else that you would want to call it? I mean, that's what I would call it. Okay, good. I just say, you know, I don't want to offend anybody. No, I was a fucking hoe and he was a pimp. So let's, what is the structure of that? Like what's funny is it's different with every
Starting point is 00:18:23 person. Oh, is it? Okay. Yeah. Cause like the first guy i was with i was very involved um and i've actually done an interview on soft white underbelly about my relationship with him um it was very i was full-on bottom bottom meaning i was the girl that like pretty much handled everything so there's a bottom bitch that is like his main bitch i'm the main i'm the one taking most of the time taking care of other girls whatever else so when that was going on i was very involved with the other girls like i helped like make sure their ads were posted i made sure they were fed you're like the mama hen i was basically yeah yeah i was full-on mama hen yeah so it was like i get up i cook i clean i work and i still had a quota and i still had to work and I still had to get shit done on top of taking care of them so when what's it like having to fucking run I don't mind it I'm a task person
Starting point is 00:19:09 I like doing things that Aries yeah I get bored fast I'm like I need things to do so it didn't matter it didn't bother me as much um I think that one thing that was the hardest for me is when it comes to a certain point you're always still on the same level as them. Right. And I'm like, bro, like you're not about to have me doing all this shit and then think that I need the same trait. Like, was there ever any like jealousy
Starting point is 00:19:32 or did the girls ever, no, like from them, like because you were the bottom bitch and did they ever like try to take your place or were they always pretty much in line? They were pretty beta bitches. I'm not going to lie. I just got lucky with the girls I was dealing with.
Starting point is 00:19:46 And I didn't really have problems with that. But I did with one girl. And I left. And he fired everybody. Oh, shit. He was like, bitch. Yeah. I got a call.
Starting point is 00:19:54 He's like, if I don't get bad income, I'll get no income. Bye, bitches. Bye, bitches. Yeah. Yeah. So then I was like, OK, cool. But then he ended up getting locked up. And I stayed with him for four years.
Starting point is 00:20:02 I was in prison. Aw, that's a good girl. So our relationship was very like, I don't't know we just had this goal in mind and um once that finally ended did you guys ever reach that goal or was it the prison the prison assistant because he went down for a recall conspiracy oh fuck so it was like when the feds come in yeah when the feds come in that's everything yep that's what they do no everything it's like g-wagon shoes like when like sentencing days they literally dragged in like 20 trash cans of our stuff and went through it individually and was like this is part of it this is part of it like documented everything took everything oh my god that was rock bottom one of the game that is sickening dude oh my god and you can't you can't do it when
Starting point is 00:20:47 the feds come in you can't do shit you're they are the real gangsters for sure our government's number one gangster oh dude they're the real fucking gangsters man i'm not saying that they're the good gangsters they're the fucking asshole no they're worse than fucking mob i'd rather have a mob boss running the community no the mobs the mob boss wouldn't take our shit yeah they'd at least leave us with something only fucking up people when they're not acting right right it's not just cuz all right so your second one the second so the second one we had like a little when he first got locked up right before he got locked up we had a spat and i went to someone else for like three months i'm like i don't know what the fuck i was doing i'm going back right so that ended up that so that was pretty they call that choosing up right well actually i'll
Starting point is 00:21:25 give you this i i gave him this ultimatum um and i was like i need these things right he was like i can't do those for you right now so i was like okay i'm out so then i found someone else that said that they would they didn't do it either so we renegotiated right this are you willing to do it now he's like i got you because i need you to come back yeah so it worked out yeah so then once we split up then i got with someone i know from high school and we were together for like two years after that um that relationship was completely different than the first one okay I didn't even know the other girls really I didn't want to see I really you didn't want to I would want to I would want to be in the business I just want to know what's going on I was just tired and
Starting point is 00:22:01 I wanted to focus on me right I didn't want to be part. I'm like, our relationship is completely separate from yours and theirs. I don't want to like play wifey. Right. I don't want to take care of everybody. I don't want to take care. And I'll do it naturally. Right.
Starting point is 00:22:14 Because that's just who I am. Right. So our relationship was like, yo, we did our own vacations, our own time, our own everything. I was with him two and a half years and didn't even meet the other girls. Wow. And I did not want to. That's solid though. I preferred it. Like it was a lot less drama. There was like no jealousy and a half years and didn't even meet the other girls. Wow. And I did not want to. That's solid though. I preferred it.
Starting point is 00:22:25 Like it was a lot less drama. There was like no jealousy and there was no cattiness. Yeah. We all had our own fucking fat crib. We all had our own cars, our own time. I love that. I know a lot about the pimp lifestyle just because one of my best friends had one. So I do know a lot about it.
Starting point is 00:22:39 I never got involved in it because I just have always been a fucking renegade at heart. I don't, you know, I don't follow structure very well I'm like and I would probably be one of those that would end up getting beat up or something because because I am a mouthy bitch there's no dude that's gonna be able to fucking handle me without one to stick a gun in my mouth I feel like the only reason why I stayed with the first one so long is because I made a commitment to him to help him get through the trial right so I was a good woman yeah so like even if I'm like I'll sink myself sometimes off a loyalty and it's me too yeah but the second one we actually had a good thing going like he like it wasn't we didn't really have a lot of problems but when it went bad it went bad fast
Starting point is 00:23:17 and I'm like I'm not gonna deal with this right I'm just done so but each one was so different right so dating now do you do would you rather be in a relationship like that? Like a P relationship? Or would you rather have like a normal? I think I was still learning. Right. And I still wanted game from everybody. Right.
Starting point is 00:23:33 Just soak it all up. Yeah, because even the four years that he was down, I was doing it all by myself. Right. I had to figure everything out by myself. I was with him seven months. He got locked up. And I was with him four and a half years after that. Right.
Starting point is 00:23:44 So I'm like, I was just like, like I needed some game. So that's why I ended up with the other guy for so long. But people don't realize the game is addicting. It's so addicting. It's so addicting. And it's so hard to get out of. I stopped working for a year. And I just kept telling my husband, I was like, I don't know how to not bring money in.
Starting point is 00:24:03 You know, like this is. It gives me anxiety. Yeah. Like I have to always be working towards a goal or always doing something. They don't understand that street mentality. Well, my husband does because he used to be a drug dealer. And mine's hard for me without cash. Yes.
Starting point is 00:24:15 Like now that I'm doing OnlyFans, it's like, I know I got this chunk of money coming in, but I'm like, I can't see it. It's not here. Right. Until it hits the bank account. I need the fucking, like, even when it's there, I'm like, I'm used to having like a safe full of shit and i'm like i feel broke every day because i'm like i mean i know i got it in there yeah no it's a it's a whole it's it's digital and we're not used to that for sure so have you been in any regular relationships yeah i mean i mean before
Starting point is 00:24:39 i got in the game i got the game late i was 27 got in the game. So I had like a long-term boyfriend then. And then I'm kind of seeing somebody now. But the hardest thing for me is with dating is trying not to compare them with tricks and pimps. Oh my God. I am so glad you said that. It's so hard. My husband and I had this conversation before I left because I'm allowed to have a hall pass. And he knows that, you know. I give him out too. Yeah. So he can have have he my bring girls home for my husband all the time
Starting point is 00:25:09 but I'm like allowed to fuck any dudes that I want to but I'm just like so picky and I told him I was like babe I can't just go and fuck some random person without looking at them like they're a trick fucking pain yeah like I can't just free fuck somebody for the hell of it like that's just not me I can't do it you know and then he's like well it's worse for me because now you have to have an emotional attachment to somebody no it's true and I think I feel like that's more what I'm looking for now it's like nah okay I know what I don't want anymore so that's good but I have a hard time because I kind of get in this mentality sometimes like do you know who the fuck I am like yeah I don't I'm trying so hard not to do it but part of me I love that like don't ever pay me
Starting point is 00:25:46 thousands of dollars to fucking hang out with me and you're wasting my fucking time yeah like don't fucking play games with me like I hate that and that's the hardest times because like I can't do that to guys when you're dating them you're like you gotta let them kind of be that man yeah you gotta let them um honey I've been waiting on you for a fucking this excuse me I would have gave you 15 minutes and been the fuck out with your deposit like it's so hard to not let that trickle down it's hard it's very hard and i'm trying to get to a point where it's like i don't want to throw that into one's face it's hard enough for men not all men but it's really hard for men to date women with our past oh yeah so like when you find someone that's willing to deal with it you kind of got
Starting point is 00:26:21 to be like oh yeah don't be a naggy bitch yeah yeah yeah like pull it back he's not a trick he's not a pimp yeah so that's what i love about my husband my husband was a street dude and he was a drug dealer i watched some of his videos today i was in a great i love it there was what's the one like mix or something like that what is there a song i think it was called mix you were like in the bathtub like rapping with him oh uh wheels fall off okay i think they just mixed it in oh gotcha gotcha yeah yeah i was like this is so cute oh you gotta see the the videos we just shot for his new album oh my god we have viking barbie yeah we have viking barbie we have kata we have um just they're so cool like he's he's i just love how she's like in the bathtub they're not even the same scene and
Starting point is 00:27:00 she's just like rapping everywhere like yeah i know all my baby's words i love him that's that's daddy role you know but he he understood and like when i first met jay i was still in the game yeah and he didn't try to take me out of it he was like you know what you're gonna do when you want to come out of it you can just know that you don't have to do this yeah so it took me about four years yeah it took me about four years and was like, as we gradually started getting bigger, people tried to shame me. And that's another reason why I started the podcast, too, is people would try to shame me because they would find my Eros ads and they would screenshot them and like try to post them on their stories and tag me.
Starting point is 00:27:38 And I'm like, Jelly Roll's wife is a hoe and blah, blah, blah, blah. Yes. Oh, and he loves it. No. Yeah. No, for sure. Hoes are winning. For sure. And my husband just looked at me. He blah, blah, blah. Yes. Oh, and he loves it. No, yeah, no, for sure. Hoes are winning. For sure.
Starting point is 00:27:45 And my husband just looked at me. He said, tell your story. Oh, yeah, that's dope. Yeah. And that's what I did. And so when you do find somebody who really gets it and understands it, you got to hold on to that. Yeah.
Starting point is 00:27:57 And you just got to, you got to, as a woman, sometimes I think we forget how, how powerful one, our silence can be oh yeah no i love the silent treatment yeah i'm so toxic mission right like people think submission is like this like weak oh you must submit to me and say no sometimes you just like as a woman need to decide okay i'm gonna i'm gonna play the lady role on this one because he's already like swallowing a huge pill no for sure i love letting my man be an alpha like because he's such an alpha and everything he does so i'm just like okay daddy whatever you want and then every everybody every other aspect of my life i'm just you know a boss i've also realized that um when i date i'm a big
Starting point is 00:28:35 trick yeah me too i'm like what do you want do you want everything yes like you just want to spoil them like love bomb them with everything so long to be emotionally connected to somebody that now i'm like you get it all yeah i remember that little cartoon house you get a car yes no i do the same thing that's exactly bad because like even this guy i've been the one i've been dating on sunday torque because you know torque on is yeah it was my roommate right now like he's staying there so he's like he's really sweet by the way i love him yeah he's like uh he's like riley you're like really simping right now huh and i'm like i'm a big simp i freaking brought but we talk shit about tricks but yeah we are the biggest tricks first of all that's pretty much what a pimp is anyways yeah you're really just tricking off on someone for some affection yes so like i love how she just breaks it down it's so
Starting point is 00:29:24 real like nobody else is gonna get this but a pimp or drug dealer or he's fucking everybody off on someone for some affection yes so like i love how she just breaks it down it's so real like nobody else is gonna get this but a pimp or drug dealer or he's fucking everybody for free so yeah these are my choices yeah but i don't know so and i did i was like i ordered like myself like a couple's massage to the house and like while he was getting his massage i made him breakfast yeah then i got dressed like i'm like who am i you're in love oh I love it and I was like and you better fucking just just come hang out when I call like so then when he's like I'm running when I call yeah and then that's what I get offended because I'm like I can't go off on him like do you know what I did I'm like calm down he's with you because you're not that way yeah that's my biggest struggle right
Starting point is 00:30:01 now well what can we expect from Riley Rabbit for the rest of the year? What do you got up cooking in the pots? Well, I mean, we ran mastered a whole fucking plan yesterday. Oh, yeah. No, we're fucking doing it. So I definitely want to. Right now, I'm just trying to expand more on like the whole like web channel podcast thing. I do want to do a few like panels, which getting like a like a round table together of some girls oh dope um
Starting point is 00:30:26 because i want to have like big discussions where like things that people like we could talk like this all day but i want to get like one of those matters that like are argumentative yeah like i really want to get a karen on the panel yeah i do i do i want to get like i've been wanting to get like a stripper a porn star oh like a street Walker, a hoe and escort, like one of every girl. And just be like, cause there's a lot of cross industry, like hate.
Starting point is 00:30:51 Oh, is there really like strippers? Hate escorts, escorts, hate this webcam thing. Like everyone thinks strippers, stars are so much better. I'm like,
Starting point is 00:30:58 bitches, porn stars are broke. A lot of the time strippers become escorts. They all do. They all escorts can either become porn stars or porn stars become escorts. They all hate on each other. That's insane to me. We're all in the same game.
Starting point is 00:31:09 I feel like it's less now that OnlyFans has come around. Cool, because it leveled everybody. Yeah, but there was definitely some hate between like street walking and like, so, and even just like, there's even like a racial battle, right? Like everyone knows like white girls get more money. Yeah, blondes are bigger and like i just kind of want to face some of those dead on within the own industry girls like especially girls i know hate on other girls and like let's bring it let's rip he might need to have some security there because these bitches might start flying full
Starting point is 00:31:39 on like atlanta housewife in there do it do it i think that'll be fun i want to be there i want to sit in on one of the tables for sure yeah I just think it's dope. And I just want to like let them because people don't even know those things go on in our world. No, they don't. And it's you know, I think it's really cool that you that you can talk so freely like this and you talk about it like I do. Like we're so comfortable about it. And I think that really helps. What's really cool about the podcast is I have women who came to come to me all the time they're like I really wanted to hate you but after I hear your story like it really makes me understand and I just you know want to tell you that I absolutely love you yeah I think it's fine and I think that the most that we can change you know especially
Starting point is 00:32:18 women because women's opinions are so hard to fucking change so hard you know when they actually first one hates somebody it's crazy and we do that to each other i don't know i don't i love women that's why i'm always surrounded by women like i get away from my husband so i can hang out with women you know like i just i i think women are beautiful i you know i'm not a lesbian or anything like that i have been known to bump a beaver or two for some content girl i feel like i feel like we're like like spirit animals right i am strictly diggly but i will be gay for pay if i have to be play with me i will eat that box for the right price don't play but you know i just um i think that opening people's eyes and just uh
Starting point is 00:32:58 you know fucking what you're doing is great and i love you that you know you're so open with it and just making people comfortable you talk about it is so comfortably that it makes people want to listen and that's what that was my goal like my goal is to like just shed some light like yeah so people i don't want i feel like women just need to i want us to be sisters again yeah like there was a time and day like women were sisters they got together they did like their little tape party yeah yeah we don't do that anymore without a fight no well not Well, not over here, baby. You've always got a group of girls over here that'll love you and embrace you. Everyone here has been the coolest fucking chick.
Starting point is 00:33:29 Like, everyone's like super sweet. I love it. No, we all want to see each other win. And we're all here. There's enough money to go around, y'all. That's what I'm trying to tell everybody. Nobody fucking believes me when I say that. But I really feel like girls like us that have been through it and just fucking lived,
Starting point is 00:33:43 you know, hard lives really, honestly, it's, it's been a rough life. Oh yeah. There's been some times and some of it was caused by myself, but yeah, I'm always my biggest enemy. Sure.
Starting point is 00:33:52 Um, but you know, we all come through and in the end we are all each other's supporters and we have to fucking support each other. I'm huge on women. That's why I'm like, when you brought up the tour idea, I'm like,
Starting point is 00:34:02 I think it would be so cool. You're so excited. We're manifesting it. What do we got to do next? I'll be like, fuck yes. I think it would be so cool. Victor's so excited. We're manifesting it. What do we got to do next? I'll be out here next month, so we definitely need to get together and collab and stuff like that. Well, why don't you tell people where they can find you, where they can find your podcast, all that stuff.
Starting point is 00:34:15 Absolutely. So my podcast is Down the Rabbit Hole with Riley Rabbit on YouTube or any of the Spotify, Apple Podcasts, all that stuff, Google. or any of the Spotify, Apple Podcasts, all that stuff, Google. And then my Instagram is downtherabahole.tv. And then my main page is Riley underscore rabbit. And it's spelled R-Y-L-E-E. Got to spell it a little cute.
Starting point is 00:34:36 Love it. You guys got to go check this cute little package out and those fucking beautiful boobs. Are those natural? No, my ass is real. My titties are fake. Oh, I love them. They're fucking beautiful. They came out good tell i always tell them my mama gave me this my doctor gave me you guys make me miss my fake boobs so much like your tits still look great
Starting point is 00:34:53 though i love you but they're like shriveled raisins now do you probably have like these did you have like huge porn star yeah i had big old porn star titties but i'm thinking about going back i might go back a little bit just make find them maybe in between yeah like time there's just a little oomph in there yeah i just want that's great oh thank you so much she's like i just want this little yes i just want i just want my cleavage back that's all i want just a little bit i think she's fired i was like telling my mom earlier she's called i was like i have to go i was like bunny's ready i was like she's so cute that's how i feel about you yeah i'm the same way i'm like i'm not really into chicks but i'm like she's fucking oh you're so sweet
Starting point is 00:35:26 well I can't wait to have you back on the podcast thank you thank you so much for being here thank you for having me on y'all yes
Starting point is 00:35:31 and thank you guys so much for tuning in to another episode of Dumb Blonde I will see you guys next week bye Bye.

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