Dumb Blonde - Ask, Tell, Confess: Bed Bugs & Bangs

Episode Date: November 29, 2024

This week on ATC, Bunnie shares her strategies for staying consistent on social media and Meme breaks down the truth about her hair, and how she keeps those bangs so crisp. They reveal a listener’s wild work crush story and unpack what it means to embrace your feminine energy while staying in your hot girl villain era. Watch Full Episodes & More:www.dumbblondeunrated.comSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Hey guys, I need to ask you a question. I want to know why in the hell are you not on Patreon? I don't think you guys even realize how much content we have on Patreon. Let me break it down for you. We have the Bunny XO Show. We have Meet the D-Fords. We have Popaganda. We have more shows that we're adding.

And not to mention, we have the visuals of the podcast. Head over to www.patreon.com backslash dumb blonde podcast and sign up ask tell confess ask tell confess ask tell confess Hello friend. Welcome to As Tell Confirmed I love that one.

That was like my version of a country music song I love that one my new favorite it was good right I'm actually really proud of myself I came up with it literally lickety split right on the spot all right lickety split baby this is what you sound like right now do you see this yep I swear that's what I feel like my teeth are that's what i feel like i swear oh that is so funny i got a question for you yes mimi are you ever going to go back to your old hair you look gorgeous with the split dyed platinum and black hair with no bangs i can't stand the fryer tuck bangs she fucking hates my bangs i hate them she has such

a beautiful face and i feel like the bangs take away from that uh no i'm gonna keep them for life just because you hate them the other day i like freshly trimmed and you guys i will give you a little secret of how i cut my bangs with trimmers yeah i take my husband's trimmers i comb them down and i just go right across so i'm when i say they are crisp they are straight why i cut them crisp fresh i'm that friend with add i say that in my head anytime i hear the word chris or fresh or fresh after that fucking tick tock yeah it's just not even the tick tock it's literally your version but i stole it from that guy he did it it's so good so funny but show up to this like video shoot and it must have taken hayley off guard because she just

looks at me she goes holy fuck your bangs are straight yeah i always know when you give it a little fresh yeah jason too he's like damn those are straight you know no the baby bangs listen i don't love my face shape without bangs that's just a personal preference of mine because i have a very like oval and then if my moon face is slurring up it makes me feel very round this you have a heart-shaped face not really yeah you do your little jawline's coming in now my jawline yeah just showed up out of nowhere. I very much noticed it on the CMAs, like the little clips that people were posting of me in the background. I was like, yeah, there it is.

But maybe, I don't know. I really love my bangs. I feel like they're my personality. My split dye too. I know a lot of people are just over it. I'm not. What color are you gonna do next i don't know i'm really i don't love the orange i love it i don't love it i feel like this one

is like and the reason why i feel like i'm just bashing on your hair right now i feel like the blue was so luxurious and like luscious if i was to change it would be blue i feel like the green was pretty too but i would love to see purple the orange to me has it washes out so fast i don't love purple on my skin that's only because i haven't been taking care of my hair yeah um i'm like hot shower scrubbing my orange out and she's like will you fucking stop like my other colors i'm like cold water not washing as much i'm just clarifying shampoo itos like i'm like i'll just color it again but i done purple at one point i did purple with some blues and there's just something about purple

i do not like on my skin tone really the only thing is i think is because i have a little bit of yellow in my skin like the tiniest bit and when i add that purple it just cancels it out so are we thinking like a deep purple. It was. Yeah. And I let it fade through to all the purple. So I started with deep. I always start with deeper tones and what I want because I want to live through the color.

Yeah. But I didn't I didn't like it. My favorite color. Yes, is blue. Yeah. Blue on my hair. And I start very dark blue and I let it fade through. It's one of my favorite colors.

So if I was to change my orange like the next color i probably would choose blue yeah it blew on you i remember it was so pretty yeah because i think what i don't hate your hair i love your hair but i mean it just sounds like i'm just like yeah i would really like the whole comment section hates my hair okay like let's get that straight i know but it's your hair so it doesn't matter what anybody that's why i don't change it for comments or like people's opinions. I'm like, no, this is what makes me feel pretty. So this is what I do.

I for so long lived for other people that there's nothing right now that could make me change my appearance for someone else. Amen, sister. Yeah. Let's fucking go. Who's got a teenager? We do. And guess what?

She is ridiculously hard to keep track of. And if I didn't have Life360 on my phone, I would never know where this kid is. The entire family and I have Life360 and my husband actually uses it more than I do. He knows where everybody is at every time, which I think is so funny. But I'm telling you right now, Life360, if you have a teen, especially one that's newly licensed, you want to know how many miles per hour they're driving. You want to know how long it took them to get from point A to point B. It sounds crazy, but in this world, it's not.

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lets you see in real time where they are so you can eliminate the stress of wondering and asking them where they are. I gotta admit I was super iffy about the family having each other's locations in the beginning because I just felt like it was kind of a breach of privacy but I'm telling you right now peace of mind is priceless and knowing that our daughter is okay at all times means so much to me. Knowing that my husband made it to another city when he's on tour, them being able to check on me and know where I'm at. If my battery is low on my phone, they tell me to charge it. If they're missing me, they send me a little I love you message. Like it's the cutest app and I absolutely love Life360. I never want to live life without it family proof your family with life 360 visit

life360.com or download the app today and use code bunny b-u-n-n-i-e to get 15% off that's life360.com code bunny b-u-n-n-i-e you're next oh you're up you're up buddy You're up, buddy. So this one, I had to screenshot this one. I don't because I don't think I would know what to do in this situation. And it made me think about it for later. Like it freaked me out. So this person, this is a tell and it's a. OK, a few years ago, she went to a friend's halloween party and she got trashed by 10 o'clock and started drunk texting her former co-worker they had started

having sexual tension and had a few texts back and forth nothing more but being drunk and horny she decided to invite him over they partied for bit. Then she decided to go home with him. She stumbled into his apartment and went straight to his bed. Eventually, we both passed out. I wake and I'm guessing they probably fucked. Of course. But like, yeah, I eventually they both passed. I stumbled into his bed.

What the fuck? In case you guys were wondering, that's chaji finding his spot bro he just literally this is the most he's ever moved around and i want to fucking slap his behind dude uh they both pass out they wake now this girl wakes up at 5 a.m in a panic panic because she began to itch all over her body she grabbed her phone turns on her flashlight and looks down to see an army of bed bugs covering the bed and her body oh fuck that happened to me she just fuck go ahead i got the picture of my phone jumps out of the bed dude is still passed out she calls her friend waits for her to answer and tells her what's going on and to get her asap the friend doesn't show up for 30 minutes oh jesus all while in the bathroom freaking out i walk out

to the car in fishnets ripped up up her sexy cop costume from the night before. She brought her a change of clothes. She stripped down right there in the parking lot, never spoke to the guy again and never told him why. I felt like he should have known because his bed was covered in bugs. So she said, oh, and a few weeks later, I found out he gave me chlamydia. Oh, damn. Dude was dirty just all around. That is disgusting.

Bro. Yeah. All right. Let me know about your bed bugs. Girl, I feel you on this because I was dating this cute little, like, I call him my cabana boy, the one that looked like MGK and had the fucking dick of like a baby arm. And so cute. And he lived in a really nice house dude like i had a nice house

whatever whatever his bed was not on the floor it was a nice bed like the dude like worked and took care of himself and he fucking like showered and was very clean all the time i and i we had been hooking up for months so this had never happened but it was like off and on and so i go over to his house one night and i rarely ever stayed the night at his house i'm just that's not my thing i have my own place you know and the next day i wake up i go home and my entire back is on fire i'm talking like so fucking bad it was terrible i look in the mirror i have the picture on my phone still i look in the mirror take a picture i have welts up and down my back of just being bit by fucking bed bugs dude i

literally had a fucking entire brand new bed delivered to his house the next day do you think you're allergic to bed bugs maybe aren't they supposed to be just little bites it was welts i can find this picture for you i'll find it for you when we get off of here it was so bad it looked like hives almost all over my back oh my gosh it was so bad i hear that people can bring them home from like hotels yes stuff so it's like they want from hotels you could if you're moving or like anything it's not just a dirty thing yeah but i mean in this case this dude sounded like a fucking dirt ball i got it he's got chlamydia too yeah gross can you imagine having bed bug bites and chlamydia no that's just terrible girl i mean and that was her fucking hall her um not hall pass but her work crush yeah like damn dude i mean i want to know how they interacted with each other

at work did you just ignore each other and never fucking talk to each other again yeah like poor dude probably thinks he has like a little wiener or something she probably gave him like a complex like was the dick at least worth it though but yeah no the bed bug things is fucked up that was the only in any any that was the only situation i've ever had with bed bugs i had one but it wasn't with me i went to a wedding in gatlinburg and the bride and groom's room ended up being infested with bed bugs and they came in and like because it can get on literally anything her wedding dress was in there his clothes were in there the baby's pack and play was in there all this stuff right so they had to do one of those like bombs like the smoke bombs yes bro

when they got their clothes out all of their clothes had like oil spots her wedding dress his outfit all the kids clothes everything was covered in these like oil specs oh no yeah it was crazy i mean fuck that bitch but yeah oh fuck well fuck her you deserved it no i'm just kidding whore i don't even know what happened but you deserve it she fucking decided i'm gonna put her on blast we're gonna keep this in but she decided to tell me that i only didn't like her because she could have kids and i could not while i was in the middle of my infertility so fuck you bitch no that's never cool that you never throw someone's infertility in their face something like that about her people who are dealing with infertility i can't have babies i hate that oh bro i literally that was that was one of the worst things you could have

said to someone it's evil yeah yeah she ended up you know doing her kids all taken away oh okay well the bed bugs was a pre-warning for how her life was about to fucking turn out jesus moving on i recently joined your patreon and went straight for top tier as i'm an all or nothing person obsess obsessive personality, maybe. My question is, how in the world do you maintain all of these social media platforms and things you are involved in doing? I'm sitting here a month in and thinking, damn, this is a lot. Also, what's the Utah timeline look like? B Lawson. I love that. I love this because I try to tell everybody how much content we have

on Patreon and I don't think people realize like whenever I do start putting shit on YouTube I have years worth of shit that I can fucking put on YouTube dude and Patreon is a testament of how hard we work like you guys don't really get to see it unless you're on our patreon there is so much shit on there it is crazy dude like i mean we're talking back to like 2000 2020 right 2020 yeah 2020 so like five years going on five years that's crazy crazy so we started patreon the same year that i started my only fans yeah at the end of the year so you started only fans in the beginning of the year and then we started patreon at the end of the year. Yeah. So let's clarify to everybody really quick. Everybody's like, Oh my God, you were in the sex industry for you just

retired a year ago. No, I retired from the sex industry five years ago. I have not had a sugar daddy in five years or fucking a client in five years. And I started my OnlyFans in 2020, which only lasted two years. I only had my OnlyFans for two years, and I retired from sex work online in 2020. Yes. So just so everybody. No, not 2020. Huh? 2022.

2022. Sorry. I retired from sex work online in 2022. So for everybody who's like what's the timeline and you know how long have you been retired i've been retired from that lifestyle for half a decade now yeah so yeah and like you weren't actively even at the end of of you weren't like actively working it like you were in the beginning the first year i shot like 200 movies and i just recycled them the entire fucking yeah that's free game for you ladies by the way yeah always stack content yeah that even goes for social media like i know they were asking

about that just stack content yeah that's what you can't expect yourself to film all day every day throw some shit in the drafts make a day of content and you've got a week of content yeah it's not realistic and i go through phases there's phases of like where I shoot every day and I post fucking three times a day on each fucking platform and then there's times where I'll post once a day I always post once a day on TikTok or you know Patreon we always post on and um Snapchat I've got to get better at because that's really a good money maker for me so I really need to start she definitely shows a side of herself on snapchat that she does not show anywhere else i'm going to preface this if you want to see the most unhinged version of bunny

go to snapchat it's those filters man it just makes you act i feel like it's not me and nobody can see it's me mascots you know like when mascots like are like super like vibrant in their costumes but then they're like the quiet person that is you with your filter i do don't give me one of those fucking hilarious filters man the ugly face filters are my favorite we're driving down the road the other day and she's like i'm literally trying to pay attention to the highway and she's like look at me and it's like the most ugly faces you can make dude it's my favorite i just i love it so much but yeah to answer your question b lawson we you know it's just it's our job it's my job and that and my job is to make you guys smile and that's what i really try to do that's why when i get

sucked into like fucking unnecessary drama i'm like bro i'm not here for the drama i am here to fucking have fun to make people laugh to make people feel good that's my way of giving back my husband you know goes to these jails and that's his way of giving back my way of giving back is to you guys in the world of just being able to sit here make you laugh if i can fucking keep you engaged in a podcast for an hour an hour and a half and you listen to that and you forget about everything that else that's going on in your life that's what the fuck i'm here for if these ask tell confesses teach you something and make you laugh and fucking gross you out all at the same time that's what i'm fucking here for you know so that i don't i don't i guess i don't think of it as work it is work

but i don't think it's my job it's my job to make you smile and that's what i'm here to do so i love that that's such a great way to put that. Yeah, that's how we feel, man. Gina, she wants advice on how did you go from like a more masculine energy to a more feminine energy? And this is something we barely touched on the other day of like you have a masculine energy and then you have your feminine energy. And I actually just talked about this with Jason the other day is like I don't feel like I ever leaned into my feminine energy I always feel like I'm on the more masculine side of it versus like Haley for instance she is the most like feminine energy I have met in my entire life and that's why her and I vibe so well

she's the yin to my yang well first of all Haley's not in her feminine energy Haley Haley is in her damsel in distress energy dad there you go she is definitely a damsel in distress energy. There you go. She is definitely a damsel in distress. She's a ding dong and we love her for it. And it is what it is, but that's tell them what every single morning on tour looks like for you. For her. Oh, when she just walks out, she's just like, For her? Oh, when she just walks out? She's just like... Or when she... Do we get matcha?

She calls you. She calls me every morning. Hey, where do I go? Just step outside the bus and look to your right. She's like, okay, then what? I've stayed on the phone and walked her from the bus to a green room.

That is the most damsel in distress hayley yeah when he was like she calls me he goes i actually enjoy and wait for that phone call because it is the same thing every morning hey where do i go yeah hayley is damsel in distress um but to answer your question i don't know if it's something that you can teach yourself except for it's a lot of like healing you have to heal trauma wounds you have to heal you know um parts of you that are willing to let your guard down and you have to be around people who make you feel safe and you can't like you're never going to heal in environments that made you sick that's what's making you masculine yes your need of fight and flight and it may not be masculine but it could just be fight and flight so when we say masculine energy when i say masculine energy it's me being

like i'm very aggressive i'm the boss i have to have what i say goes um you're not gonna you know just that you know how males are where they're just very driven to lead. And sometimes it's okay for us women to not want to lead. Like I don't want to lead in our household. I want my husband to tell me what the fuck we're doing. That turns me on, you know, not everybody's like that, but you know, it's also all it boils down to is feeling safe. Whoever you're feeling safe around, like your your friend group you have to feel safe and vulnerable around your friend group i don't want to hang out with people who don't make me feel safe you know like that situation that just happened online the other day and i cut that

person off that did not make me feel safe you you are looking for a reason to fucking hate on me you know so it's like you don't you want you have to be around people who make you feel safe. A man who makes you feel soft. You want a man. It took a long time for me to be able to like look at Jay and be like, okay, I trust you to lead me, you know? And you're not going to, that's not going to happen overnight. It's a process. And it was a battle. You know, it finally got to a point where Jay was like, are you going to let me lead this relationship? Are you going to fight me every step of the way? You know? And I was just like, you know what? You're right. You're right. You know, let me, let me, let me be your partner and not somebody who is working against you because who wants to be in the same household with somebody they don't feel like they're on a team

with either, you know? So, I mean, there, it's just lots of steps. I, first I would start, you know, figuring out what is what is something that triggers you to put a wall up yeah you you helped me tremendously in the fact that i've always thought in my traumas is that i have to do it myself because no one else can and i reference that towards like picking up heavy things or like like you know i'm not gonna a long time ago yeah i would never ask a man to pick up something heavy i or like, like, you know, I'm not going to a long time ago. I would never ask a man to pick up something heavy. I would always.

And like, even last night for independence is a trauma. Yeah. Last night I'm carrying out a huge, I'm carrying my purse, my backpack, the camera bag and my water and my two cell phones and a case of water. Right. And Jaime comes like running down the hallway.

He's like, give me the water. But I'm just saying that's so mean to just be like not gonna ask for help yeah you know there's like three of us there we're like Mimi what are you doing fucking Brutissa and that's what I'm working on is like letting it be okay that there is someone stronger than me in the room that it is okay for someone else to do those things because it's so often that I'm just like I can't let a man do that because I can do that. But that's not the case. Hyper independence is a trauma response.

And that comes from something that happened to us when we were younger because I was the same way for the longest time. I still am that way. But now I've learned to kind of delegate things, you know, and kind of just be like, all right, you do this. You do this. We'll do this together. You know, like just teamwork makes the dream work and I don't know I feel like life is so much better in soft girl era than it is in that era where I had to like I don't know I just felt like I couldn't trust anybody and it was me against the world

and like you know granted there's still I'm very weary of people but my little bubble I am I try to be as soft as possible with oh absolutely yeah absolutely. Were you ever in like, and I know you like fluctuate, did you ever have a time in your life where you were very, very tomboy or I feel like, have you always been like feminine ish in like appearance? And so, cause I remember I went through a long period of tomboy. Well, I mean, I have always been a sexy tomboy.oy like i've i've learned to like kind of master the art of both like i would wear fucking you know sneakers boxers rolled down and t-shirts to school like that's just how i was and i played sports and you know that was my thing but i always managed to keep an essence of femininity to it which i don't know why i never did i got called a boy so many

times shaved my head like but like that was just me going into that more masculine era of my life and it wasn't until i met my best friend at the time and she was the hayley like when i know i vibe with hayley so well because she reminds me of my childhood best friend in which they are so feminine yeah like the multiple perfumes the lotions and like the spray tan the makeups in the spray tan like she was a spray tan addict i never spray tan with her but like she was a spray tan addict she's a spray tan addict it's so funny for me to see so many similarities but she's the reason why i made that change in life because i saw that it was okay to be feminine i don't know why i felt the need to always wear i probably went like three years

only wearing skater oversized shirts and hoodies with jeans like so many people were like boy like they would call me a boy they called me mitchell for the longest time my cousins all called me mitchell because i was so manly in that sense and it wasn't until i met uh my best friend and she was like it's okay to like put on makeup and like do your hair. You know that, right? And I was like, nope. Susan maybe didn't teach you that? No, my mom wouldn't leave the house without makeup.

Really? To this day, my mom does not leave the house without makeup. My mom doesn't go into a grocery store without freshening her lipstick. No. Like she won't let her grays show. She is very feminine. like she won't let her grades show she she is very feminine so i don't know where that aspect of me wanting to fall so hardly into this like very manly manly huh i don't know look and you'll if you saw pictures of me when i like shaved my head yeah you'd be like what in the fuck that is i would

love to see the shape of that dome with no hair on it it's a good it's a good dome it's a good dome yeah it's good i could never didn't have no lumpies oh anything like that i mean i'm domongous there's no way my head's short i didn't go bald though oh okay i went like a maybe a four guard so like that i mean that's still short oh yeah i know you can see my scalp like it was still short for sure that's crazy that was um what era would that have been where they would like do a middle part and they would like gel it down and put a clip oh god you were one of those okay i remember that was that was probably like maybe like and i'd wear like dickies button up early 2000 oh for sure it had to have been yeah late 99 i don't know like around that era i loved like and like they would like all of

like drew barrymore shaved her head to that point like that was my inspiration was that short spiky yeah gelled look but i didn't get the feminine side of it like you said you went feminine i did well even as a little girl i admired um like the the hot villains so like superman 2 i loved the villain in that and i used to try to like imitate her walk and like with shira i loved catra you know because i loved the villain in that and i used to try to like imitate her walk and like with shira i loved catra you know because she was the villain and like i've always been so it's like a feminine masculinity yeah you know yeah it was like bitches who could hold their own i was always attracted to that even as a child so i don't know that's just always how i was so

i always wanted to be just a bitch who could hold her own and look at you now look at me now just a bitch who could hold her own i'm just kidding all right guys i gotta go it's fucking nine o'clock at night you have kept me here all day i really have i've been here since the crack acid on crack out all right love you guys see you next week bye