Dumb Blonde - Ask, Tell, Confess: Faith, Flashbacks & Freaky Tales

Episode Date: July 18, 2025

This week on Ask, Tell, Confess, the gals share a rollercoaster of stories—ranging from a listener’s moving battle with cancer to go-to comfort recipes like Bunnie’s trap house cornbread, spaghetti bake, and a rich chocolate eclair cake. With unfiltered honesty, they dive into everything from surviving shootouts to exploring unexpected sexual experiences. Bunnie opens up about the emotional weight of speaking out on past abuse, highlighting the importance of evidence and a solid support system. The episode closes with deep reflections on faith, gut instincts, and the healing power of sharing your truth.Watch Full Episodes & More:www.dumbblondeunrated.comSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

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Deep in your heart Lift on the rose Have you guys seen the new fucking, welcome to another AskTale, welcome to the am. Have you guys seen, have you guys seen the, sorry, what was the intro you guys get? Have you guys seen the trend, the Russian trend? I hate it. It's my favorite one, okay, I found this song. I hate trend? I hate it. It's my favorite one.

Okay, I found the song. I hate it. It's terrifying. It's such a good song. It's on my Apple playlist now. You should do it. I'm never doing that. I don't want to be that ugly for a moment.

Like that's, nobody looks good doing that. I'm obsessed. I don't want to see the back of your fucking molars. There's nothing attractive about that. I envision how many fingers I could just like shove in. I saw some girl had like brown shit in her teeth. I was just like, bro, she's like, the brown teeth girl. Yeah, they've made like Cap Cup out of her now and like they use her as a filter.

It is crazy. So I found the dude on Apple Music. I have part of my playlist. It's not bad. It's pretty good song. So I like it. You're always bad. Pretty good song. Okay. I like it. You're always into some weird shit memes. I'm still stuck on, ooh, in the hell, put the muffins in the freezer.

I did. I love it. That's my shit. That is my shit. I love it. That's my jam. All right. I'm going to kick this off today. Crass, Chelcon fam. Shh, hold on. Get my life together. I thought this was really sweet.

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select a podcast in the survey and be sure to select Dumb Blonde Podcast in the dropdown menu that follows. I love that. I love that too. So I don't know. I think I was thinking of like a simple one is my trap house cornbread, trap house cornbread, baby.

Just all you have to do. If you go on TikTok, just Google bunny X or just type in bunny XO trap house cornbread and the recipe will come up, but literally all it is, is you take a fucking foil pan smear some fucking cornbread mix has to be jiffy. Cause it's the best kind. Put some jiffy corn, a box of jiffy cornbread mix on the bottom, depending on how thick you want it.

Put ground beef or ground chicken or ground turkey mixed with diced green chilies, onions and creamed corn. Put that as the second layer. Put a whole bunch of sharp cheddar cheese on top of it. And then put another layer of cornbread on top of it. Bake that together to golden bubbly and boom, trap house cornbread baby. It's delicious.

I thought it was so sweet that our flight attendant made it for us. Oh no. I love that. Like that was the sweetest thing that ever happened. They made it for your birthday, was it? Yeah. Or something like that.

They surprised us and brought it on the flight. Yeah, it was so sweet. Thank you. It was delicious. What would you guys recommend for her? Like, do you have a favorite dessert or like a dish? I love my spaghetti bake and it's super easy too. All you do is like, I make homemade Alfredo,

which is like really easy. I've made videos about it before. You can look at my homemade Alfredo, but you make that. And then I get a rosé sauce from Kroger and I put ground beef or ground turkey, depends on what we're having. And then you bake a bunch of noodles and you mix the noodles with Alfredo

and you put it on the bottom of the dish. And then you put the layer of the mixed tomato sauce, whatever tomato sauce you want. I use the rose sauce and the meat and you just layer it on top. And then you put an entire layer of Parmesan, fresh grated Parmesan over it and bake it. And it becomes like this like lasagna type, but spaghetti casserole.

Mm, I love it. What about you, hey? I'm going to go the dessert route. Yes. My mom makes this chocolate eclair cake and I literally like is the best thing I've ever put in my mouth. It's like a layer of graham cracker and then it's like vanilla pudding mixed with whipped cream and smells basic thing ever layered up and like the top layers is graham crackers and then just like a whole thing of like chocolate

icing when that like when the graham cracker gets like soft and that I deadass thought you're like a fork in me I'm done the cookies that you brought to 4th of July. Bro, I don't even know what they are. I bring these cookies. I brought them to the past. Yeah, you guys partied without me. You're invited. And everyone goes crazy over and they're like, oh, my God,

really fight over these cookies. So like she tried to get them at the last one. They were gone. I went in. Everyone's like the whole pan. I'm like it's literally Nestle break and bake cookies. Chocolate chip cookies and I just put sprinkles on them. Everyone thought like they were homemade. I lose their mind. I'm like I did this in like 30 minutes. There was like four left and Cash was like can I take the cookies? Yeah. I love it. What about you Jaime? A dessert.

I would probably go dessert route. And I'm a big fan of like a yogurt parfait, like in a jar, you know, with some like granola, some fruit, maybe some coconut. I like coconut. Oh, I love coconut. Some honey. Call it the Jaime.

There you go. Like a parfait. Jaime, the Jaime parfait. I love that. Love that. Parfait Jaime. That's great. Like a parfait. Oh, I love that. The Jaime parfait. I love that. Love that. Parfait Jaime. That's great. I like it. I like it.

That was good. I like that. I hope that that helps you and that you put them in the book for us. We love you and we're just so happy that you're kicking cancer's ass, man. I want to buy the book. Yeah, let us know.

Please, can we buy it? Yeah, let us know where we can buy the book and we'll shout out the Amazon link if you want us to put it up on, or if you want us to say it on the Ask Tal can fail. Yeah, I'm gonna have someone else go and buffer that between because I don't feel like my story is appropriate after that What? Hmm. What's your line goes a dark route after that? I don't feel like I should follow up with mine. So you go next. Okay. Okay

So, this is anonymous. I grew up with an immigrant narcissistic father who was super strict. Years ago, I finally got him to allow me to go out with some girlfriends, but I had to borrow his truck. He told me not to come home too late. Well, I hit the club with my friends,

ended up hooking up with a guy that I met there. After we went to a diner and we were just chatting and getting to know each other, I noticed the place started crawling with cops going table to table. They stopped at ours and asked, do you have a white Tahoe? My heart sank because I thought someone hit into it. Nope. The cop then said, you didn't notice the dead body laying next to your truck? Nope. The cop then said you didn't notice the dead body laying next to your truck Me and the guy looked at each other and the officer and said no the cop says well We need to do an investigation and your truck is now part of evidence I had to take a cab home and explain that to my dad. He asked how he didn't see the dead body

I said we were preoccupied Well, the guy wasn't dead when I parked. Turns out it was a mob hit. I did grow up on the island of the mob wives, so it wasn't surprising. Damn. That's fucking traumatizing as fuck. My car, if I would have when I was in my ratchet clubbing days, my car would have been evidence if I would have parked in my ratchet clubbing days. My car would have been evidence if I would have parked in my normal spot,

but it was taken. So I had to park across the street. But it was the one time, pretty sure Chill was there, is the one time I had to duck and cover during like a shootout. And the guy died literally in the parking lot next to all the cars.

I've actually been in a shootout myself. I've had bullets whizz by my ear. That's crazy. It's like, it feels so unreal when you're in a situation. Yeah, I laughed. Well, cause you're nervous. Yeah. No, but I'm the same way.

If I get really nervous, I'll start laughing or I'll start giggling and then I'll have to poop. Literally every freaking time. My stomach goes in knots. Yeah, every time. I get it. I had to hide under the hookah table. Oh. I had to hide behind a tire.

Go ahead Memes. Yeah, what do you got? I was with my oldest daughter's father. He had a foot fetish and we started getting down and he used to love his feet to be worshiped. And I started worshiping his feet and he started to finger my pussy with his toe. Okay.

And asked me if I enjoyed it. It was so weird, he never did it again, but it was the last time having sex with him. I've tried that before. Come on, you guys don't just get freaky and want to shove shit in your vagina. Your own toe? Not my own toe. Not someone else's toe.

I'm not putting anyone's toe in my vagina. I did a long time ago. That's happened. It doesn't feel like anything. It's so short and little. It doesn't do anything for you. I have watched a video of you put your toe in Mo's vagina. I did put a toe in Mo's vagina vagina, actually, from my old OF.

Yeah. I edited the video. Yeah. Maybe I used to have to edit all my OF shit. Oh my gosh. This poor woman has seen the inside of me, okay? She's seen every crevice. There's nothing I haven't seen.

I hate that word. Crevice, moist crevice. Ugh. Yeah. Yeah. I thought about the time that we put your butt in a cake that one time, but the cake was frozen and we had put spam art. We put Pam all over your back. So it just slid out.

Kicked out of. No, we did this at my house because there's like this thing called sploshing. Yeah, I think is what it's called. And so I was like, you know what? I'm going to cater to my. I think somebody paid me to do the video actually. And so I thought I got like a regular fricking cake from publics and we got it out of the fridge and I'm in lingerie.

I'm all agree step. And I go to plop down on this cake. So that, cause the, the, the fetish is the cake, just you sitting in the cake and it just all over your ass. Yeah. Literally I fucking go to sit on the cake and it just all over your ass. Yeah. Literally I fucking go to sit on this cake and it's like, boom. Like it is a frozen tundra of cake.

It barely even made a fucking imprint. I slid right off the cake, dude. The slid, it literally just came out from under her butt. Literally. And I'm like, okay, this is, I'm over splashing. I can't do it. I'm just not good. You were such a good sport about it.

But like the minute the cameras cut, we laughed so fucking hard. It was ridiculous, bro. Did you did you take a double dip? Did you go back in? I mean, I think we still film the video and we try to make it look as cool as possible. Just kept slapping her ass on the frozen cake. Yeah, yeah, that works. Listen, you got to make them happy.

All right, I got one more for you guys. It's 444. Everybody make a wish. I've been seeing angel numbers like crazy. What's your angel number right now that is coming the most? All of them. They're all here. I have the craziest story.

We were literally like, I was kind of stressed out yesterday and I was talking to Bailey on the back porch about what's happening this month. We can't talk about it yet, but anyways, I was so stressed about it and I was just like, I don't know if I'm making the right decision. I'm just, you know, whatever, whatever. A literal fucking bee comes and zooms like this

and comes right in front of my nose and then just takes off. Like it would try to land on my nose, a bee, right? What's the symbolism with a bee? So I chat, GTPed it. Sunny. And it's literally because it was crazy that we were you know the conversation that we were having because it's been a very stressful month. I said I'm in a heavy talk right now and a bee almost landed on my nose. Oh my god bestie the universe really said pause girl here's a bee to lighten the mood. That was

definitely your spirit team pulling some chaotic comedy to ease the tension. B symbolizes fertility, productivity, and divine timing. So that little buzz bomb was literally a cosmic mic drop. Also a B almost landing on your nose that's your intuition center. Translation you already know in your gut what's right trust yourself. Crazy. Chills. I know. That's crazy. It's been insane, dude. It's been just the signs have been so heavy this month. And I'm just like, wow.

Wow. I'm just trying to have the faith. What do they call it? What does Jesus say? Have faith of a mustard seed or something like that. It's been on my heart. I need to read that story. I'll come back later and tell you about that story.

But yeah, so that's what's been going on. All right, so I have kind of a heavy question, but I've been wanting to answer this for a long time. And I think there's- After the toe story, I think this is perfect. Sorry guys. All right, so this is from Allie. Bunny, would you or have you ever talked about

the abuse you went through in your past life as far as different stories? Or had someone that really hurt you, but everyone treats them like a God. I have stories that I stopped telling because no one believed me and now I have to watch my abuser be a local celebrity. So I have talked about the abuse many times in my podcast

and stuff like that, but my book that's coming out for sure, February 26, I have the entire story in it. And it sucks because every time I talk about the abuse I went through, my abuser comes forward and he tries to go online and outright like lie. He's told people that he's recorded me. He's like, there's just so much shit that this man has done.

And I have actually tried to like be nice to this dude. I've tried to be have be friends with him. I've tried to just like move on because I don't like having hate in my heart But this man hates me so much and wants to destroy me so badly that he's willing to go to any length But also the scary thing is is he gets mad that I've never said his name So he wants people to know that he's the guy that abused me Which is scary so weird to me like he wants people to acknowledge him and know that he's the guy that abused me, which is so weird to me. Like he wants people to acknowledge him

and know that it's him. And it's really weird. So I'm very interested to see how he reacts when this book drops with the full story that comes out because, you know, it's like abusers will do whatever they can to keep you silent. And they're gonna, they will lie. And he tries to tell me all the time, oh, it didn't happen.

I only whooped you this hard or I didn't do this. Or like, I have literal recorded conversations, you know? And it's like, when it comes to telling a story of your abuse and nobody listening, I'm sorry that you feel like that, but you are heard and your feelings are valid. And, you know, tell people, if people ask you what happened,

tell the truth of what happened to you. And don't let your abuser being a local celebrity stop you, you know, especially if you have evidence or if you have proof. I have police reports, I have restraining orders, I have video that I tried to get from the taxi cab that I was beat up in, you know, it's just, there's so much that you can do

to prove that you are right. And it sucks that in this kind of world, we have to prove that to people. Like if you say somebody abuses you, people want receipts and they want proof. Yeah. And it's like, It's sad.

Yeah, it's crazy. But don't give up, speak up, girl. Never let them silence you because that's what people want. And I've been threatened many a times that, oh, I'll say this about you or I'll go forward and say this. And it's like, I don't say whatever the fuck you want now, dude.

What's crazy though is you're an open book. Yeah. You don't keep these like crazy dark secrets of like these people who come out later on. And it's like, oh, we found out so and so was in sex work or something. You literally put that out. Literally.

So that like no one could ever use anything against you. Yeah, and it's just like, I'm to the point where I'm like, do whatever you gotta do, cause it's not gonna have the reaction that you think it's gonna have. You think people are gonna worship you and be like, yeah, you're the one that fucking beat bunny's face and you're an awesome guy.

Like, no. Such a weird complex. Yeah beat Bunny's face in. You're an awesome guy. Like, no. Such a weird complex. Yeah, it's really weird. So definitely speak up. Definitely don't let them ever silence you. 100%. Yeah. Well, on that note, we're out of here.

Love ya. See you when I see you, I gotta go, bye. ["The Star-Spangled Banner"]