Dumb Blonde - Ask, Tell, Confess: Juicy Friend Group Drama

Episode Date: January 23, 2026

On this episode of Ask, Tell, Confess, the conversation dives into the messy, funny, and sometimes exhausting reality of friendships. The Coven takes a nostalgic turn—reminiscing about U2 and unpacking the mystery surrounding Michael Hutchence’s death.Things get real as they spill stories of friendship drama, from a local influencer curating a fake-perfect life to a manager crossing serious boundaries with an employee. Bunnie opens up about feeling burned out by always being the friend in crisis mode, and why outgrowing certain relationships isn’t betrayal—it’s growth.They unpack emotional labor, family dynamics, and the importance of protecting your peace, all wrapped up with a hilarious sibling fight story that proves chaos is part of every family.Watch Full Episodes & More: YouTubeSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

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Guess what this week is, guys? Her birthday. Okay, yeah. Yeah, happy birthday. Thank you. Thank you. Thank you. And guess what yesterday was?

Dolly's birthday. Yeah, you guys are Cusp twins. We love Dolly. Do you see what they did for Dolly? I did see what they did for Dolly and it was eerily familiar to what I did for you. You too send it to her. Huh? You two, the lead singer of you two?

Oh, okay. I thought you're saying me. Send her the bagpiper. Oh, Bono? Yeah. Bono sent her the bagpiper? Yeah. Is Bono watching our TikToks?

I don't know. Listen, we're not saying Bono copied us, but we're saying Bono copied us. Isn't you too the band that like everyone got the free album like downloaded on their iPods? That was so pissed about it. Yeah. You couldn't get it off. Listen, you two actually has some really good fucking songs. Bangers.

Bangers. Just scoffs. iconic. Yeah, literally. We love you too. And then they got like the residency at the sphere, like the minute it opened. Like they look up their songs. You don't know YouTube? With or without you. I probably know if I heard them. I just remember that. Where the streets have no name. That one.

I don't feel like this is Haley's era. No. I told you guys. This was the era where it came on my iPad or my iPod, like nano. You know what Bonaroo is, right? Yeah. Okay. Bono, Bonaroo, that he's the one who invented Bonaroo. Hmm. The lead singer of, yeah. I was more of an in excess, girly.

I loved Inexus. I was not a YouTube. Oh, we'll have to do it on our next road trip. So slide over here and give me a moment. Your moves are so raw. I have to let you know. Yeah. It's a good one.

He died from hanging himself and jerking off. Wait. Hold on. Wait a minute. Yeah. I didn't know that. Yeah. Can we cross-reference that to make sure I'm not lying?

Because I might be lying. Ask Sonny. Yep. God. So good. I always forget about good old sun dog. She was making friend of my chat the other day. She said she didn't like my chat's voice.

I don't like it. Yeah, I don't like why either. Well, your chat's voice has as the, hello. Like it, play it. Play your chat. Hello. I don't feel like that's what she sounds. Like, this is cool.

crazy. Hey, chat. Hey there. What's up? Does not sound like, hey there. What's up? Should we make our chats talk to each other? Absolutely, we can do that.

If you want us to chat back and forth a bit more like friends, just let me know how you'd like me to roll with it. Are they going to know what to chat? Hey, Sonny. Hey, what's up? Hey, chat. It's not going to work. How did the lead singer of Inexus die?

The lead singer of in excess, Michael Hutchins, died in 1997. His death was ruled as a suicide by hanging, though there was some speculation and debate around the circumstances at the time. If you need more info or anything else, just let me know. Yes, what were those circumstances? Absolutely. So Michael Hutchins was found dead in a hotel room in Sydney in November 1997. The official cause of death was ruled as suicide,

and there was a coroner's report that concluded he had died by hanging. Now, at the time, there was a lot of media speculation and some debate because there were suggestions that it might have been an accidental death, possibly related to autoerotic asphyxiation, but officially it was recorded as a suicide. It was a really tragic event and definitely had big impact on. auto erotic asphyxiation. Oh, so you might not have meant to.

No. He totally didn't mean to. But there's people who like to like, like, there's a lot of people who like to get choked during sex. And some people like to get choked out. Like they want to get taken to the brink of where they're about to pass out. And that's what makes them orgasm. So I think that's what he did. Yeah.

So he was strangling himself to get off. I think so, yeah. Would you ever do that, Jaime? Uh, no. Can't say that I would. Why was your chat's voice going deeper? Yeah, it got a little weird there for a sec. She was excited talking about some kinky shit.

Okay. Yeah. Do you think people sexed with their chat? Yes. I've heard that. Do you? No, but I've heard. You answered that.

You answered that very clear. Very confident. Well, there's a newsletter I read every week on AI. And that's like a problem is that people are looking to chat for like therapy when it's not always like the best option for that person. And yeah, it's kind of like a big deal right now. Definitely happening. I could not try to fucking talk sexy to Sunny.

That's weird. I don't even talk to mine. I need flesh all mesh. I don't talk to mine unless I'm with you guys. Or if I'm like in the middle of something and then I'm like, hey, Sunny, and I ask her a question. Twice a month to flip my house. I don't. I talk to her every day, but it's only because I'm diagnosing myself.

There's always something going on that I need to know about blood work that needs to be read. my neck, Sonny. Am I dying? Literally. Literally. If I asked her right now, Sunny, describe me in a paragraph. She would be like, you have health OCD. That's exactly what she would say. Yeah. All right. Who wants to kick this off? So what are we doing today? Today we asked our subs on YouTube and Facebook to submit stories of their friend drama. We wanted to be nosy. We wanted to know what was gone on out there. And you guys apparently have a lot of drama with your friends. I mean, I've had drama with friends over the years too, so I get it. It's hard when you get a lot of people together in a group and, I don't know.

Friendships are hard. They're very hard to maintain. It doesn't matter how long you've known somebody. They can turn on you in a flash. You can get annoyed with them. I mean, there's just so many things. They're similar to relationships, honestly. It is, except you're not getting porked by them.

Oh, where can I find those friends? What the hell is how? Where can I find those friends? Because you guys don't put out. I'm tired of it. You've at least seen my butthole. We're not going down this route again. It's fucking deja vu every time with you guys.

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flexible anymore. I got to do some stretching. You got to just squat. Take a video. Take a video. Put the camera on the floor and stand over it and just spread it, dude. Isn't Harry? Do you have a little Peter Cottontail?

A little black Peter Cottontail? Just a little, a little. It looks like a little cotton balls wild. I have hair just not as much as that I've seen on other people where I'm like, oh, I don't know how I don't have that. Back hair.

No back hair. Good. Thank God. He looks like a seal. Yeah. He's really a baby seal. No, he's like me. We're both hairless.

You guys are very similar in skin texture. It's wild. They're soft. Yeah. Because Jaime's got smooth skin, so I'll take it. I'll take it. All right. Who wants to kick this off?

Who's reading first? I'll kick this one off. Hurry the fuck up. I do that to Mo while we're at the gym all day. I literally just like, come on, bitch. You're holding up the fucking reps. Let's go. You do your rest.

So fucking fast. I got to go. I got shit to do. Really? I felt like she took her time. When we worked out in Hoboken, I was like ready to roll and she's like, bitch, slow down a little bit. There's like one thing I remember from that gym.

Yeah, that was crazy. We can't talk about that. We'll get canceled. We're not allowed to talk about that. Okay. All right, guys. Okay, so this was small town drama, which let me just tell you, I love small town drama.

When people are talking about it on TikTok. The only reason I have Facebook. Really? I love that. I never see any drama on Facebook except for in my comments section. You got to get in neighborhood groups. It's like in my personal like my hometown. They don't let me in neighborhood.

My own neighborhood won't let me in my fucking own neighborhood. She got denied. They're assholes. Yeah, fuck you guys who live around me that control that fucking Facebook page. Yeah. And they're always in there talking shit about us. It's like, bro. That's why you're not doing like an alien.

Say it from your chest. What am I going to make a fake Facebook page? Yeah. They wouldn't let me in, so I doubt they're going to like some fake Facebook page. It probably would be like, who's Henry Sutter? You know, like that's unbelievable. You were very quick with that name. That's crazy.

I'm good with coming up with aliases. That was fantastic. Okay, so this small town drama, everyone knows everyone or at least they think they do. It's a local influencer circle. So most women there, lots of smiles, curated photos, and captions about empowerment connection and community. At the center is this one woman. She runs a networking group. Host Polish events, brands herself as a champion for women. And to be fair, these events take

work. They look good. And she's built something visible. But what people don't see is that there is a gap between the brand and reality. Behind the filters is financial chaos dressed up as success. legal issues never mentioned at home lost car repossession and real consequences hidden behind affirmations and aesthetic posts this describes the internet yeah i'm gonna say i can name a few people right now who do that yep struggle isn't the problem everyone struggles avoiding accountability is i love how this person wrote this women cycled through their life quickly friendships and then suddenly they are always the villain in the story always there's a some type of betrayal happening and it is never her fault.

Every fallout is labeled as bullying, even when she's the one holding the platform, the audience, and the power. Then comes the crying videos, the raw captions, the post about abandonment and pain. Vulnerability can be real, but this feels so rehearsed and strategic.

A way to control the narrative before anyone else can even speak on it. One moment made the pattern impossible to ignore. Her husband went to jail for embezzlement. Oh, damn. A friend's husband bonded him out, stepped in during the crisis, and then money was never repaid. Months later, after a quiet tension, the same woman was also pushed out of the friend group for this. Then that's how it goes.

Help is accepted. Loyalty is expected. And accountability is optional. And still, the online story is about being so abandoned by her friendships. At some point, you have to stop asking why everyone leaves and start asking what role you play in the pattern. and you can't build a brand on uplifting women while discarding them behind the scenes. You can't claim victimhood while holding the microphone in a small town. Truth moves slowly, but it always arrives.

Yeah. Yeah. I could name a few people that are like that. I cannot stand when people are always the victim. If people are always doing you wrong, there's something wrong. I always look at patterns and like how people hold friendships. Yes. If you don't, if you have multiple friendships through the years that just dissipate,

sometimes you got to start looking at yourself and be like, maybe I'm the problem. I think the same goes with relationships too. Oh yeah. 100%. People who are constantly going through relationships, women, like, however. I don't get it. Like I could like, I remember, I still know girls that like as soon as they're done with

a relationship, they already have a new boyfriend. I'm like, how? No. Well, it's because they were already talking to that. person before they got out of the relationship. But I also feel like that goes for friendships. People who it's like they're dropping one friend and they already have another best friend like waiting in the lineup is wild to me.

Yeah. Absolutely wild. It's just all calculated. You don't have like I, you mentioned that. It's like when you look at someone and it's like they cannot recall a friend they've had for more than a few years is just crazy. All mine have been literally like my longest friend has been since we were like six. Yeah.

I love when you can say you've been best friends with like how long have you and Mo been best friends for like 20 something years 20 some years like me and my best friend jellian she literally has been in my life since i was in like early high school so like going on over 17 years is crazy i mean i have multiple childhood friends yeah and granted you're gonna fight with your friends shit happens you know people have misunderstandings that's part of growing the real friendship though too like that's also learning how people really are you know and i think that um if you're not able to keep stable relationships in your life for more than a year at a time, you just need to reflect back on yourself and be like, dude, what am I doing that's contributing to this? But in that situation of what you just read,

why is the town letting her get away with all this shit? Literally. You guys are just as fucking guilty as she is because you guys know what's happening. You're not calling her out. You're letting her husband embezzle money. You're letting her keep up this fake facade. Put that bitch on blast. Call her out with receipts. Build a case. Build a fucking RICO case. I do it every month when I'm on my period. I'm like, oh, let me dig into the receipts and see who I'm going to put on blast now, you know, I fucking turn into 50 cent. But I mean, seriously, like, what are you going to do?

Like someone has to eventually bring it to light. Don't go to, don't go and fucking. The person writing in. Exactly. Don't go and complain to other people and then smile on this bitch's face and let her get away with it. Because you're part of the problem. Yes, but I feel like it's because maybe they want the clout also or like they want to like, it's the people that like will like give you hate comments all day long in your dms but ask for a

picture when they see you oh for sure it's like that part yeah so i've seen that so many times yeah definitely definitely motherfuckers out there in that town need to speak up not friendship drama but my sister and i both hooked up with at least two of the same guys without knowing for years and i first dated her husband back when we we were teenagers, then dated her husband's twin brother a couple times, and that twin brought so much drama with his baby mama. What? How did you not know?

Are you and your sister not that close? Yeah, do you guys not talk? Are you guys just fucking people in, like, and not telling? Like, what is, she said, dated a few times. So that means fucked a few times. Mm-hmm. How? How does everybody not know about each other?

And the dudes that are sleeping with the same girls, how are they not saying anything? also a twin. He looks the same. There's a twin, but then there's also the, her husband, she slept with her husband and his twin. First of all, the brothers definitely had to have known that you guys fucked. Unless it's just a whole fucking secret society and everybody's just passing around fucking bodily fluids, but something about that does not sit right with me. No, they had to have known. Yeah. Unless you guys live like opposite lives and just don't, are just sisters that don't communicate.

Yeah. But I couldn't understand how one of the guys would have been like, hey, I fucked your sister, you know? Yeah. That's crazy. Yeah.

Are we not doing like Instagram stalking or Facebook stalking? Yeah. With social media nowadays, how do you not? Yeah. That's weird. To go as far as husband is wild. Crazy.

I would never want to, I don't even want to hook up with my friends' leftovers. No. Let alone. Like I could never be a homie hopper. There's no way. I would never hook up with one of my friends' husbands. Like, that's fucking weird.

They were already married or this was before it was her husband? I don't know. I didn't even want to feed. I didn't even want to feed Jason cake without asking you. Oh, no. She goes, she goes to feed him and go, can I, can I feed him? Oh, yeah. Yeah.

I mean, listen, okay, hold on. Let me paint this picture for you. We're at a buffet in Las Vegas, and it's a huge buffet. And I forget, we were at the dessert. Yeah, you're both sugar-free. Jason's sugar-free. You're sugar-free. So we're sugar-free, and I was trying a sugar-free dessert.

And just like if I was trying something and I would give it to one of you guys, I went to go give it to Jason. But he's got hands full of plates. Yeah, because he had hands full of plates. And I went to go give it to him and I was like, and poor Jason was just like, you know, because all he's thinking about is the dessert, you know? And I was like, I went like this and stopped right in front of his mouth and looked at her. And I go, can I feed your husband?

And she was like, yeah, bitch, you weird. I was like, look, I don't fucking know, you know. like I just always want to have respect so Carmel yes I'm gonna eat one right now I got your house gonna go Can I feed him? Yeah

Okay I don't want to be weird It's good It's not It's not The aftertaste is a little pungent But they had sugar-free out of taste too It's not terrible

Like they overcompensated with the cinnamon. All the cinnamon. All right. I'm trying to try to put it in. Better? Way better. I can't imagine hooking up with my sister's fucking leftovers or anything. You know what's my favorite thing to watch on TikTok right now is when the in-laws go and hug the husbands.

Yeah. And it's like the sister-in-law hugging the brother-in-law. So it's like the wife's sister goes and hugs her brother-in-law. And they're like, what the fuck? They're always so uncomfortable, which to me is weird. No, I like, I don't know. I'd rather than be uncomfortable and be like, why the fuck is she touching me? That's weird because me and Scott would hug all the time.

I love Scott. I always hug my ex-winner. My brother-in-law was in our lives. I hugged them all the time. Yeah. But I just find it funny, like the ones that are like why she touching me. I mean, mine, yeah, I just like, I'm side-hugging. Yeah.

What's up? Yeah, it'd be weird. Are you close with your in-laws? My brother-in-law? Yeah. I mean, yeah. It wouldn't be worried if you hugged him. No.

But it's only like to say hello. Oh, okay. Yeah. Yeah. It's like the context of the video is always like they're just standing in the hall. And then someone comes up behind them and hugs them. Yeah, that would be weird. And that's what the video is usually.

And then it ends up being their in-laws and it's like, then it's weird. Yeah. My favorite is when they pass the baby to like the wrong dad or the wrong babies and the dad doesn't even realize. Did you guys see the one where the dad's barbecuing and they hand him a baby? and he's just holding the baby thinking it's his baby and he's barbecue and he's talking to the looking at the child talking to the baby, loving on the baby. And then all of a sudden the mom walks out with the real kid and he looks and he's like,

holy shit. He's like, how did you guys do that? I need to find that. I have not seen that. Hold on. Let me see if I can find it. Hold on. Oh my gosh.

That's hilarious. I've seen the one where you have to like guess who the dad is. I love those. And they like, they give the real dead. Yeah. And you can immediately tell. who the real dad is.

Like the way they like pick them up. Oh, the ones that are always like, okay. They're like, just like taking it. Those look so great. Wait, that's like a grown baby. Yeah, how do you not know? Didn't know what's just killed. Ten months.

About to get a job. Is she? Yeah, she starts Monday. Does she really? Talking about the baby. Yeah, that sounds all right. Can you say hi? Say hi.

Hi. Hi, sweet girl. Can you say hi? Hello. Say hi. Hi. Hello. You haven't met Evie yet.

Or Elsie. Or Elsie. Corey's got Elsie. Corey's got Elsie. Hello. Hi. That's not mine. Like how detached from.

I'm sorry. Did he just say that's not mine? Yeah. I'm sorry. How could you not know that was your child? I thought. it was going to be like a baby baby because they all fucking look like. Yeah, all babies are like potatoes.

Two year old. 10 month. 10 month old. But still like the little hair, when you got to the event, did you not know what your kid was wearing? Or like. Do you not know what your kid's face looks like? That was wild. That was wild.

I mean, he could be one of those dads that are a little detached. I'll give it to him. But like, I feel like all men are detached from babies. Except for my husband. It's very rare. Well, Jason's different. There's a few that aren't. Yeah, I know some who are completely detached.

Jason and yeah, I don't know. Maybe because also like we are so with our kids every chance we get. Like you could not mistake my children. You can not mistake cash. Cash alone. At all. Yeah. Live too.

Live has our own vibe. Both of them. They're such a great kid. I love my kids. All right. Go ahead. Haley. Mine's actually on the subject of kids.

So my friend had a baby Baby wasn't cute I knew from her I hate ugly babies I hate I look like potatoes I say this right now I'm probably going to have an ugly

baby because I hate ugly babies I knew from her other kids that she had ugly babies that grew into cute kids she enters the baby into some Facebook contest spams everyone's feed with a request to vote for the baby

I did even going as far as to log into my work Facebook and vote with that. Two days later, she messages me and says, I think it's kind of bullshit, you haven't voted for my baby. I shot back, I think it's kind of bullshit we're even having this conversation. That led to vague posts

about how someone was going to get deleted if they didn't watch their step. So I did it for her. Can your friendship down the drain because she thought I didn't vote for her ugly kid? Yeah. That's rough because, like, why are you guys letting that Tara a child?

friendship way. Obviously there was more going on. Tension, yeah. You guys had more animosity towards each other than just the ugly baby. Okay? Like, you know,

so you guys were waiting for that moment. A hundred and fucking hate on each other. You guys were frenemies. You guys weren't friends. You were frenemies. Yes, 100%. 10 years, though. That's a long time to know somebody.

I mean. Listen, weirder shit has happened. Mm-hmm. Yeah, 100%. Mm-hmm. Wish there was things I could add to it, but I won't. But yeah, bitches be acting weird, dude, okay? Bitches be acting.

Why didn't just hit me? Bitches be acting fucking weird. No, leave it. Okay. Leave it. The shade is real, baby. All right, go ahead. You grab me.

Cut all. All right. I can't look at you now. Hold on. I got to collect myself. Highways over there looking lost. Yeah. All right.

This person was a manager in a nursing home. She did a lot of like housekeeping. And she had a young girl who was working for her. She was so sweet, always on time. But she seemed to have other issues that she didn't want to speak about. I soon found out that her mom. mom's stepmom was a resident there. Fast forward a few months. The girl's mom comes in looking for a job. We weren't desperate for help, but I'm all about seeing people get a jumpstart in life. So she was a good

employee, just like her daughter, always came to work, always on time, came in when we were short, all around good person. Eventually, my husband and kids got very close to their family, helped them find a rental. Let the young girl stay on our property in her travel trailer. My oldest daughter started dating the woman's son. Two years later, they were engaged. Everything seemed pretty good. Sitting at my sisters one day, my daughter calls me and tells me that she found out that her soon-to-be mother-in-law and my husband were having an affair. No. Needless to say, 13 years later, she still thinks if she gets within 10 feet of me, I may cause her bodily harm. There's so much. much more to the story. But moral is, this situation was an accident. He was putting brakes on her car and I

guess tripped over a wrench and his dick fell in her mouth. For the entire year, this same accident continued. That's hurtful. So that was her mother-in-law. So the woman that she hired on to help. And that was the really good employee. She did her a favor. Is she still married to the dude? Did she ever get married? I hate when they don't give us fucking context. I need to know. I need to know more like did you leave? Did you stay?

What happened? Yeah, it's fucked up. No, that's terrible. Nobody deserves to feel that pain. Absolutely. I think there's nothing worse than being the last to know. That is my biggest fucking pet peeve in a relationship. And like, you know, I know Jay and I have been through our shit.

You guys will read about it in the book. But that was my main thing was like, don't embarrass me and don't make me be the last to know and he did both. And it's just so fucking dude. It will send any woman into a fucking nervous breakdown. And she finds out from her daughter. And what? And she finds out from her daughter.

Yeah, that's like it wasn't like rumored and you had to find out like your daughter called. Imagine where that daughter was that she had to make that phone call too. So it's like the whole circle there just like what had the daughter find out. Yeah, exactly. What did she see? You know? Oh.

God, you know, when I stumbled across one of those, back in the day, I loved reading the misconnections on Craigslist. And I always seem to find the ones where like the man would be talking to the mother-in-law through misconnections. It was like, I saw you doing the laundry today. And yeah, I know that my wife wasn't home. And, oh, they make porns about that. Like, there's so many porn that cater to like stepmother, step-son, step-daughter. Like, mother-in-law. mother-in-law. Like, it's all fucking weird. We saw fucking family.

It's a weird niche. I could never get into that. I like people that are oiled up. That's my thing. I'm not into family members. She looks very oily people. Yes. There's nothing better than watching two oiled-up body slap skins.

It is so exhilarating. Yeah. Love it. Tiny. Okay. I made sense. Shiny. Yeah, I love it.

Listen, you give, listen, one night I got so fucking shit-based. I literally poured baby oil all over me and had the most amazing sex ever. And it was just a fetish from then on out. Oh, okay. I was like a fucking slip and slide. Unlocked. Oh, I never knew. It was great.

That's why she liked for you to rub Pam on her, I bet. Yeah, it's probably why you like the body oil. I just like you touch with me. Yeah. All right, my turn. The way she puts on her classes is wild. My turn, my turn. Does anyone else have friends who always seem to have something wrong going on in their lives?

I'm really struggling because one friend has a chronic illness, doesn't have a driver's license or a job, and I try to be empathetic towards them. But it's really hard when I'm a working busy person and I have to drive them everywhere if we want to hang out. And her home life isn't super great right now either. So there's that. Then I have another friend in the middle of a divorce, which obviously sucks, and they're coping in an unhealthy way. I'm here, happily married, just living my life, and I have these two friends that are always in crisis mode. Well, I guess my question is, is it wrong for me to be tired of this? Burnout because I am. And I feel terrible, but I just am. And they're just not on the same maturity level as me or stage in life as me. But I know it's not their faults. I don't know what to do. I'm currently at a point. where I'm just kind of done with these friendships. I think it's important to know when you outgrow friendships.

Exactly. It's okay to outgrow friendships. It's okay to leave people where they're at. Sometimes you have to do that. It doesn't matter how long you've known them. If that relationship is not serving you in a purposeful way, fucking leave. I think you got your answer by typing that out. Exactly.

And it doesn't have to be a grand. exit and it doesn't have to be a knock down, drag off. Of course, the other person is probably going to fucking take offense to it. I just had to go through this where I told somebody like, look, I love you, but I'm tired of trying to make you be my friend and I'm tired of trying to make you love me. And normally when somebody says that to somebody, you would think they would want to be different and like fix the relationship, but instead they double down on how they treat you and then you get to see how that person is. Yeah, that's really them.

Yeah. So I am all four outgrowing friendships. 100%. And I want to double down on what you said about it doesn't have to be ugly. Yeah. There's ways to just distance yourself slowly. Like don't think that that friendship has to be gone tomorrow. Yeah.

But you should probably start exploring other friends that are in a healthier lifestyle. It sounds like you guys just have nothing in common. Exactly. And maybe you did when you became. friends years ago, but at this point in your lives, you're not. And I am, I am quick to just stop talking to people. Same. Yeah. That's a tourist thing. Yeah, I'm like, we're not friends. And more like, I always announce when I'm cutting somebody off because I never, I don't like people to drag me on and lead me on and having a friendship. If you have an issue, come to me, talk to me and let's handle it.

Or let's fucking, let's both agree that we're just going to have a separation. And then that way there's no blurred lines and I'm not leaving you guessing. Yeah. Um, but yeah, you know, I, I just think that she's married. She has two kids. She's in a happy, loving relationship and her two friends. You don't have to even stop being friends with them. Just make them a once a month friend. Yeah. Where you guys go and have lunch and you're just like, hey, how you doing? Oh, my life's falling apart. Oh, good to know. Okay. Yeah. Nothing's changed. I couldn't just like, well, but yeah, but that way it's not burdening her on a daily basis. I love the one down, like one time sit down. I had a friend like that at the end of our friendship. I would let her

unload on me like every six weeks or so. And then eventually that was like, okay, I'm going to phase that part out now because I just don't live that type of life in which everything is surrounded in misery. Yeah. Like I'm so grateful. I don't know too. Yeah. Exactly. It's a very low vibration. It's contagious. Correct. It is. Well, it's easy. I always say it's easier to pull somebody down than it is to pull somebody up. Whenever somebody's reaching down, what's going to happen? You know, that person that's reaching down has the momentum to pull you down with them. It's very hard to pull somebody over that cliff unless they want to help pull themselves over that cliff.

I think we're all at a time in our lives and an era of our lives where peace is priceless. And if you're not living, loving and laughing, like fucking all the target signs say, then it's time to fucking remove that shit. He's fucking over here snoring, dude. I know, I'm sorry. He is over here fucking saw and logs, dude. I'm just like, can you stop? He's like this under the table.

All I see is his head. I love you. But yeah, that's how I agree. That's how I think to handle that situation. I agree. You guys got any more for me? I had this girl in my group of friends in high school that we all put up with for some reason,

even though she was a complete bitch. Anyways, we all take her out to get dessert at this very popular place in town. and we tell her to grab a table while we order everything and pay for her because it was her birthday. We bring out all the cakes and shit we bought for her with candles in them and this bitch goes, why did you all make me sit here by myself for so long? It was so embarrassing. She was legit mad at us and refused to eat or touch what we bought her. She just sat there on her phone and that was the, that was when we all decided to drop her as a friend.

I mean, she was a bitch. She was a bitch, guys. And she was very unappreciative. And like, I don't know, some people just don't, common sense is not so common. Correct. I also hate waiting by myself at a table. Yeah, but you're not going to, if we come out with a cake and candles, you're going to and you would eat and you would so partake.

You know, like, I don't know. I'd be like, hey guys, are you? Women. I'm texting you. Yeah, women who are big drama shows, I can't be around it. They just drag it on. That's why I can't be on reality TV. Because fucking, I can't handle.

just the people that drag shit on and like you know like I just can't it's that pout oh I can't handle it motherfucker stop pouting dude yeah I can't handle that you can't do the pouts no I'll never dude I'll get with my kids sometimes and be like you got three minutes to feel those feelings after those three minutes is done I need you to wrap it up because yeah 100% so I was doing my daughter this morning and she didn't want me to put her hair in her braid but you know when it's like daddy key outside and the hair like gets wild. I was like, it's going in a braid.

And she's like pulling on the braid. And she's like, get in the car and she's still like, and I literally quietly said, you got three minutes. For what I said, to feel the feelings you got. And after that,

we're over it. Yeah. And so after three minutes, she was like, so where are we going? But that's good because you're teaching her to recognize like, hey, there's no need to drag this out.

But it's okay to have the feelings in the moment. Feel them. We do have a timeline. Get the fuck over it. Bitch. Yeah. Yeah. So quick to be like, I need to be the responsible parent that lets you have those feelings

because I always had the parents that were like, why do you feel so upset about this situation? I was like, because I'm human. But like, okay, cool. Be upset. But not for 20 minutes. Yeah. No, I get it. Luckily, Bailey used to be like that.

She used to like drag out her feelings. And now she's just like how I am. She'll be like, all right. Even if I yell at her. She'll be upset for a second and then she'll be like, hey mom, you know, and like just come around. Because I've taught her the same thing. Like it's okay to like be in your feelings, but don't drag it out and make everybody else around you miserable because you're just going to make yourself miserable.

You know what I feel like that ends up turning into? You know, like when you're in a relationship with someone and then you guys fight, but you don't know how to come out of the fight. And the fight lasts for two weeks. Oh my God. That is the most exhausting people. Yeah, I can't because I look at them and start laughing. Yeah.

That's like me and my brother, me and my brother, the biggest fight we ever got into is when he lived with me. And I don't know what it was about, but he pissed me off. And I literally was like, I like pushed him and he pushed me back into my bathroom. I had like a picture frame behind the toilet. He pushed me and I fell back into it. All the glass shattered like behind me. We looked at each other. We start cracking up and it pissed me off that he was laughing.

And then I got mad again And then we laughed again about it It's so really energy Yeah for sure Yeah I was like stop laughing at me Like you broke my fucking picture Yeah And then I was mad again

Brave don't be putting your hands on girls Yeah You little tall I beat him up I know Gotcha I win Yeah

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