Dumb Blonde - Ask, Tell, Confess: Not Your Role Model

Episode Date: September 13, 2024

The girls are on tour baby! Bunnie and Meme rip into another Ask, Tell, Confess laying the groundwork for future meet and greets that will make everyone happy and sane. They then open up the floor to talk about Jelly's cheeks, death fakers, cycle syncing, diaper wearing, and how they actually can relax on tour.Watch Full Episodes & More:www.dumbblondeunrated.comSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

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a question. I want to know why in the hell are you not on Patreon? I don't think you guys even realize how much content we have on Patreon. Let me break it down for you. We have the Bunny XO show. We have Meet the D-Fords. We have Popaganda. We have more shows that we're adding. And not to mention, we have the visuals of the podcast. Not only that, we have four tiers that caters to everybody's budget and everybody gets the podcast. There's no more excuses. Head over to www.patreon.com backslash dumb blonde podcast and sign up. Stop missing out. We have built a huge community over there, guys. I'm talking about hundreds of thousands of people over there. We even have live chats, live chats that I actually am talking in every single night. Last but not least, we give away gifts every freaking month i'm talking like signed stuff from

jay and i lives you just never know what kind of surprise you're gonna get it's like a crackerjack box i love the community that we've built over there at patreon if you are already a patreon member i freaking love you dude thank you so much you guys are my babies for life my writers if i could i would literally make out with each and every one of you i love you guys are my babies for life my writers if i could i would literally make out with each and every one of you i love you guys so much and that's a lot of kisses actually gotta go bye ask tell confess ask tell confess this the whistle it gets me every time mimi is not sick this week guys i'm so happy to have my friend back

tasha and hayley are fucking snooze fest to try to do a freaking thing with man I feel like you and I get each other like I love them and Tasha will loosen up too as she gets used to it because Tasha acts just like me but I just feel like you and I just have a we vibe yeah we vibe and we've been doing this for so long so long do you remember when you would not get on the mic no I wouldn't I hated it yeah and now you're just like, come on, let's do it. I'm like, all right, cool. Let's do it. We're on tour babies. We are on day two. They're about to be, well,

it'll be day three tomorrow. I mean, the show three, show three. We've been out for like, what, three or four or five days now. Yeah.

It's been a thing. I feel like, yeah, I feel like last tour was a lot easier the first week. Yeah. I feel like it, well, maybe because our adrenaline was going,

cause we didn't know what to expect with such a different aspect. Yeah. This, we knew what to expect, but then in the same sense, we didn't. It's all different. You motherfuckers have been assholes with the bunnies backstage pass. I'm just going to say that. Like, I am so, like, I feel like a mother who is disappointed in her children right now because I just don't understand like I love

all of you and I say this with love to you guys but stop being fucking dickheads man like slipping off wristbands and giving them to other people like I don't think you guys realize like I'm really pouring my energy out and making sure and this is something that nobody does. No. Nobody on Patreon does this stuff, you know? And I just try to do things that are different and things that are done out of love. But you motherfuckers are making it hard. And, you know, it's like it's not one person ruining it for all. It is like a handful of people who are ruining it for like a mass amount of people. And it's hard because we don't want to punish all the,

like the amazing patrons that we just love. I mean, you guys are our favorite humans. That's why we went so out of our way to do this for you. But like the amount of people that have just been complained of, like, it's just, I don't think you guys understand when we first did this and my husband actually said it best.

He said, bunny, you underestimate everything. And I was like, why you got to call me out like that? Because I genuinely thought that in every city, I was just going to see 30 or 40 people. That's why I didn't mind if they brought their plus ones because I was just like, Oh, 60 person meet and greet. I can do this. No problem. There's four and 500 of you at certain shows with your plus ones. So there's, that's 200 plus another 200. And I don't think you guys realize, like, I love you motherfuckers to the moon and back, but you,

my main priority is my Patreon numbers. Your plus ones are not subbed to me. So I don't owe them anything, nor do I care if you're upset about them not being able to come because you, the person who subs to me is my main priority. And I would rather have that extra five minutes to look you in your eyes, shake your hands and talk to you than have to just move everybody along and it not be personal. The reason we made that decision was because I hope you guys realize that you bringing a plus one takes that time and energy from someone who is just like you

who is another patreon yeah so it's not fair at the end for the last 20 people yeah for it to be just and i yeah and i just gotta say i'm sorry i did not realize so many of you guys were gonna sign up i did not think it was gonna be this huge i tasha tells me all the time she's like you don't realize no what's going on here. And I'm like, I really don't. Like, I'm so just in my little bubble. I just think like, oh, you know, 30 people are going to show up. It's not going to be a big deal.

And when she handed me that list, I was like, Mimi, I can't do this. One, the venue, the venues have been giving us. You guys, these venues have not been accommodating. It's been a thing with the venue. Okay, my dog's behind me. Sorry, I got scared. The mom kicked in. These venues have not been accommodating.

And, you know, we're still getting used to the times. We're not going to do it later because we don't want you guys to miss Alexandra Kay. We absolutely love her. So I feel bad that we're doing it in the middle of her show. Well, no, it actually isn't. We are in between set changes. Yeah. And because it did grow to that,

some people were missing out a little bit because having those plus ones, it ran over our time, you know? So we don't want you guys to miss anything. That's why we chose certain times. But I just, I'm begging you guys, like, please, for the love of all things holy, just be fucking normal, man.

Yeah. I'm doing this for you guys because I love you and I want to squeeze you and I want to just be in you guys' energy. I'm hugging everybody. And I'm not wearing fucking gloves at this shit. So you've come a long way. Work with me here, people, okay? Yeah. Because we know last meet and greets I was gloved up and had long sleeves on and everything.

And I'm raw dogging it, you know? Just for you guys yeah i just want you guys to be sweet and we are going to cap some of them the larger yeah ones that we do have to cap there's just no way you know because more and more people are like well i'll just buy for my plus one which we totally get but if we're already maxed out we can't't go all night. Yeah, we can't. You guys would miss Jay's show. Yeah, my husband will be like, bitch, you're getting in the way of my business now. Yeah, exactly. And listen, if daddy ain't happy, ain't nobody happy. So we're just going to go on from there.

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one says and this is from anonymous they don't even want to give their name better be juicy starts out with he faked his death oh hell is this brooke no i'm just kidding didn't you do like a 12-part series on somebody who did something like that or faked his mom's death or something hello you guys love you all so much so here's my story long story short i met this guy on tinder after a few months of talking you know what it's always tinder it's always tinder man you got to go to something else other than yeah go to bumble yeah do we like bumble i don't know what do we think what's your favorite yeah hinge cory's over there he said hinge so after a few months of talking we

met up and yes we did the dirty then it was obvious that a few months off tinder it was all he wanted so i left and that was that a month later we started talking again he reached out to me i tell him i don't want anything i saw his true colors he pulls the suicide threat okay red flags yeah these started at tinder i had to block that dude you know where's the guy with the big red flag yeah um we love him i love that guy and next morning i get a message from him saying that it was his sister and that he had died that morning it was a lie and blocked him two months later i get a tiktok follow request saying that i messaged him on tiktok as a joke oh my God, you're back from the dead. He said, I have cancer and I don't have a long time. Oh my gosh, girl.

Listen, you were right the first time. The minute you just let him hit and then you fucking left and never talked to him again was God's divine intervention. Could you imagine getting in a relationship? That would have ended up like the girl the who did i marry series the 60 part i marry yeah series what's her name i forget her name uh i forgot i know i forget her name yes but it would have ended up like that he would have ended up being this crazy who did i marry that is so weird i just don't understand like i i my heart goes out to anybody who has to date these days. I say

it all the time. You and I always say that we could never date in this era. Yeah. All right. Moving on. This is Mia. She's asking, how do each of you wind down after a show? I lay on my couch and watch reality TV after work. It's a lot, you know, after a a show i think i shower immediately um i shower i take all my makeup off i fucking get all the hairspray out of my hair and i just soak in my serums and if i have podcasts i just lay there and kind of like study for the podcast or we'll eat food or i don't know we just kind of i play my nintendo switch yeah we just all kind of vibe out yeah we do something that like helps us just calm down because like it's a lot of energy you're putting out a lot of energy and you're around a lot of energy that you're soaking in uh people don't realize like

backstage there's like 50 plus people running around maybe 60 people running around that you have to deal with on a daily basis yeah Yeah. A lot, a lot of fucking people, a lot of moving parts, like a lot of people that you have to meet, like in every city, there's, you know, like this last, um, show that I have a girl who has followed me for 11 years, you know, and I, I needed to see her and actually squeeze her and take a picture with her because, you know, this, this girl has supported me forever since before i was even bunny xo yeah you know i love her little stories of like when you guys were playing like the catalyst or something in santa cruz yeah yeah the dad said she wanted to come and he wouldn't let

her drive there yeah no just so cute and then i got to meet vampy boca hide i love him what a sweet boy sweet he's actually his dad's really sweet too i we call them vampy and grampy um if you guys want to check out a hot little vampire dude on tiktok his name is boca boca will hide b-o-k-u-w-a i don't know how to spell it but anyways on the screen yeah boca will hide um he's a sweetheart he's actually taller than i thought and i'm trying to hook him and tasha i saw it last night yeah that's all happening i know me too tasha was like she came up to me she goes liss i was like what she goes he's cute and that's in tasha's world that's hooked me up so i was like all right bunny is very uh she has no filter so if that person is in front of her she will just be like slip it in her vagina there is no i hate listen i hate sexual tension if you guys are gonna fuck let's

just fucking do it you know like right then and there get it up get it in get it on get it out we've only been together for two days on this tour and i've heard her offer up her vagina to multiple people so poor tosh listen you throw enough ideas up against the wall one of them's bound to stick so i feel the same way with wieners you know funny and it's all people that tasha has told me she thinks hot so it's not like i'm just offering up her vagina i even told hyman i was like if you didn't have a hot girlfriend i would totally let you break tasha in you fit in so well it's a new year year, new you, new business, okay? Don't put it off another year. I want you to manifest, put action behind it,

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gangster and he's just so sexy to me no matter what so he's like how he is on stage is how he is in real life a thousand percent yeah so it's to me i'm just watching my husband be my husband you know and it's like that was the main thing that attracted me to Jay in the first place was that he's just such a boss, you know? I saw your husband's ass on stage last night. Oh, he got excited if his crack came out. Oh no. His like pack went out and the guy helping him just lifted his shirt.

Cheeks. Oh, that was big. I got to see the cheeks. I love it on video. Listen, I love my husband's ass cheeks did he know his cheeks were hanging out i don't think so okay i thought the guy was going to pull his pants up for him i didn't know he was searching for a pack so all of us standing sides that jacoby was right there we just locked eyes with his booty cheeks oh fuck it was great

listen my husband's got that fucking donk all all right? That shit is, listen, when he's naked and he's walking, I'm just like, all I look at is just these fucking cheeks just rumbling. It's like two sheep fighting under a white blanket. Because he's just got these, he is so fucking pale, dude. But his cheeks are just so plump. Like, I love them. I will, like I said, many a times, I will wear his ass like headphones. Yes.

I would just, let me shove my head in his butthole. We have polar opposites. We have complete polar opposites. Let me just fucking live in my husband's crack and I am just excited about life. That's great. All right. What do I got here? Hot and steamy over here.

Look at her. I'm just, I'm excited. Hot and steamy. Ask. I have to know bunny. Chachi's popcorn feet, love it or hate it? What does that mean? Frito feet. What do they smell like?

Oh, like what do they smell like? Mm-hmm. Oh, I love Chachi's feet. She sniffs every part of them. They're just like little frickin' potatoes with toenails. Yep. I just love it. They're just beefy and meaty.

You hear that? I mean, he's right here snoring. I mean, you can see him. He's literally right here. I don't know if you meaty you hear that i mean he's right here snoring i mean you can see him he's literally right here i don't know if you can see him on screen but he is right here dude you got the paws no i let me tell you something he's the best dog in the world but this motherfucker is too comfortable everywhere he goes he is fucking he came out in the uh meet and greet last night guys and he was the hit of the show yeah they were more excited to see him than us someone wore a chachi shirt i know we need to and they gave us a great idea we're going to be putting chachi merch on the website everyone is going to love chachi merch yeah no i love i love

everything about my son that is my i gave birth to him yes okay he came out of my freaking womb that is my son right there so i love everything about him uh so wait did your you just went right yeah um okay so atm's mom wants to know if all of our menstrual cycles are linked now that we're going to be in such close quarters i feel like they were linked for a while there right and then i feel like now we're all kind of like on our own off a little bit i'm wondering if it's a great question back up we are going to be in such close quarters for so long i feel like we might get into sync again mine is pretty powerful dude so mine will not change for anybody you make mine start yeah my period will not change

for a soul now let's talk about on the tour bus though how are we gonna do this oh bro it's gonna be disgusting because you can't shit on the bus and you can't fucking you're not so i've been throwing toilet paper down the bus the toilet i did i'm gonna get yelled at by elma pretty soon yeah yeah we went through this last time i know what i just it's a habit you can't put toilet paper down that you gotta throw them in the trash can um and we didn't know that for the first month last year and we all toilet papered yeah and it got clogged yeah and elmo was like i love you all but don't fucking put toilet paper down yeah i'm about to get that talk too because i realize my toilet's fucking up already yeah yeah i'm sorry,

Elmo. I think Haley's on hers right now too. And she, the bathrooms are so small and for being a bigger person, it is very hard. I've talked about this on the podcast before that changing a tampon on an airplane is the worst experience of your life. This is very similar.

You're in close quarters and you have to somehow shove a tampon in there and out. It's bad. Not me. I just wear a diaper. You do. I do. I am not putting tampon tamp there and out it's bad not me i just wear a diaper you do i do i i am not putting tampon tampons up this hoo-ha there's no way maybe i gotta switch to diapers i'm telling you diapers are you are gonna feel so free and like dude you can bleed in them and

like i use one diaper a day whereas before i used to use like fucking six tampons a day because i'm so heavy yeah i use one diaper a day those black ones yeah tasha she was like i'm never wearing a diaper bitch and she's she wears them all the time now on her period shit yeah i might be switching you have to man you guys know i preach these diapers and they're not they're black like they look like briefs true yeah all right this one's kind of a long one is this my third one this is my third. Last one. Alva says mine will be a mixture of ask and tell. First, my question is, are you and jelly twin flames? You speak openly about your relationship and your healing journeys. And since hearing your stories and learning on my own healing journey that I'm a twin flame, I've always felt you two were. that I'm a twin flame, I've always felt you two were. I also want to add that I never in my life loved, respected,

and looked up to anyone I didn't know personally, the way that I do not only you and Jelly, but your entire soul tribe. Aw, my soul tribe. I love them so much. I feel I connect with you as far as our past with unhealed, unhealthy parents. My bio mom not only did drugs while pregnant with me and left me a lifetime of medical issues oh i fucking hate that she said i have a backwards heart and have died nine times holy shit i didn't even knew fucking fear unlocked bro i didn't know your fucking heart

could be backwards cory's over there of course that's crazy um but she also sold me to her dealer for drugs for him to have his way with me. Oh, my God. Not to mention the abusive relationships I saw her in. That is so terrible. So sad. Yeah, that's rough. I'm sorry that you went through all that. And I'm not here to compare trauma, but you have definitely been through some shit, girl.

I'm grateful you're so strong. I'm grateful that you're part of the Patreon and able to share your story like that. That's amazing. As far as Jay and I being twin flames, absolutely. We've had so many psychics tell us that we're twin flames and soulmates, which makes it pretty rare because you're either one or the other. And I do understand that because I always tell everybody, you know, the first three years of our relationship was fucking hell, dude.

He was a dick. I was a fucking just a lunatic that came in fresh out of an abusive relationship and you know just didn't i was healing dude i i was coming off drugs like that was it was wild it was really wild when i say that we were like two trains that collided dude we were literally two trains that collided and became like one train together. And it was a process. And that was our twin flame, um, moment because somebody asked me the other day,

they said, are you the runner? And I was like, we both are. Jay and I are both runners. So they, they always say that there's one solid person in the relationship who chases and then one that runs not in this fucking relationship.

We are both runners. Yeah. So I'm out at the first part of something and Jay's out too. And you know, we've both had to learn to stand and face any sort of bullshit that we've had to go through. And you know, relationships are not fucking easy. And your first three years were like, you're learning. Yeah. I mean, we're still learning, dude. We're eight years in and there's still weird shit that happens. We just got in a fucking huge fight a couple weeks ago. And we don't fight, you know.

Like, we really don't fight. But, you know, I did something fucking stupid and it was well-deserved. That fucking, I got yelled at. But, you know, I love my husband. And relationships take work, whether you're twin flames, whether you're soulmates. You have to really want to wake up and be with that human every fucking day you have to choose that you have to choose every day you're not always gonna like the motherfucker okay because there's sometimes that i'm like are we gonna make it you know or like are and but it's you can't think like that you have to literally just wake

up choose that person and know that this is where you're supposed to be and after being with somebody for so long you don't have that that fucking you know lust feeling that you get like in the beginning of your relationship and like you know like when you get the butterflies i feel like lust is temporary love is forever literally yes absolutely and that's how i feel like with my husband is like you will always love that person uncontrollably but you sometimes don't like them right you know there will be moments where you're like fuck yeah but uncontrollably, but you sometimes don't like them. Right. You know, there will be moments where you're like, fuck. Yeah.

But then other times, but even in those moments, you still love that person. Yeah. No matter what. Yeah, absolutely. And people are human. People make mistakes. And, you know, I think forgiveness is a huge thing in relationships, depending on what the situation is.

And, you know, I just, I think. Forgiveness is growth too. Absolutely. Learning to grow with that person and making those choices again, waking up every day to choose that person. Yeah. I just, I hate that people put Jay and I on a pedestal because we are not, they're putting you on a pedestal because you guys show how real it is to be in a relationship. Well, well i appreciate that but we are not role models you should not model your relationship after jni's relationship we are a work in progress we are learning and you know we are no one should model their relationships over anyone yeah you know it

doesn't matter who you are yeah because no relationship is one in the same yeah absolutely but i do appreciate how open and honest you guys are about your relationship. And that's why you guys don't put out a fake persona. And I feel like that's why you guys have been just pushed into this trajectory of like this power couple, because you are a power couple who shows what it's like to actually be a couple. Well, I think a lot of people forget that before we became whatever this is right now, a lot of people forget that before we became whatever this is right now we were vloggers on youtube and social media people so it's like you know my husband's always been a musician but he also my husband was a vlogger oh he was if you go back to 2000 and uh what is it

2016 jelly roll he was dropping vlogs you know and that's where we thought that we were going to make our money so we only knew that telling the truth we never wanted to lie yeah you know people are telling me oh you need to you need to tone it down a little bit you need to not be so you know or like if i say something it gets made into a news article and i'm just like is that really newsworthy you know like it just it's crazy to me what people find fascinating about our relationship now. You know, and all we know how to be is who we are and we don't ever want to change. And, you know, life is a fucking roller coaster, man. And one minute you're going to be, you know, in love and loving on each other. And the next minute you guys are going to be like, who the fuck are you and why are you in my room type of situation?

And then it's just it goes up and down, you know? And that's how relationships are. So yeah, maybe, maybe twin flames. I don't know. You know, you could. Yeah, for sure. All right. We're going to go eat. I love you guys.

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