Dumb Blonde - Ask, Tell, Confess: What Hill Are You Willing To Die On
Episode Date: December 12, 2025On this episode of Ask, Tell, Confess, Bunnie Xo and the crew bounce from holiday plans to hot takes, and nothing is off-limits. From traveling to Branson and Vegas to debating matching Chris...tmas pajamas, they unpack the weird mix of holiday joy, burnout, and wanting life to go back to normal already.Things take a turn into unfiltered territory as they air out their biggest public pet peeves — airplane etiquette included. Reclining seats, bare feet on armrests, phone flashlights, grocery store obliviousness… if you’ve ever been silently raging in public, this one’s for you.But it doesn’t stop there. The conversation gets serious as the group calls out the disturbing trend of live-streaming children’s punishments, expressing real concern about exploitation, accountability, and the long-term impact of social media on kids. They dive into overstimulation, boundaries, and the difference between growing up as “bedroom kids” versus “living room kids.”The episode wraps with a powerful discussion on cutting off toxic family members, protecting your peace, and why choosing mental health over blood ties isn’t a trend — it’s survival. Equal parts chaotic, relatable, and deeply honest, this episode hits everything from petty to profound… classic ATC energy.Watch Full Episodes & More:YouTubeSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
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hello friends
welcome back to another episode of
As well, I can't whistle.
I can't whistle.
Hello, buddies.
How are you guys doing?
I'm doing good.
How about you?
I'm fucking just, you know, great.
I haven't seen you in a while.
I know.
So long.
Holiday season, guys.
Yeah.
You guys in weeks.
What are you guys doing for Christmas?
Anything spectacular?
Go home.
Oh, you're going home for yours.
I just like to go home.
I'm going right up the road.
Hi, man.
What are you doing?
I'm going home, see my mama and family.
Oh, I love that.
Yeah.
I'm actually going to Branson.
Oh, Missouri?
Yeah.
Misery?
Yeah.
Why?
My dad, my stepmom are taking all of us kids from a trip instead of just doing it at their
house.
Oh, I love that.
That's fun.
I've literally told my mom that all the time, but this is my mom's holiday, guys.
She goes all out.
So it has to be spent in her home.
she prepares she's been preparing for this i don't we've done like a summer trip where we went to
like like a beach or whatever but we've never done like christmas and we have like we all have
matching pajamas and i think it's the cutest thing never i've never done that before such a family
yeah we're laying low and then we're fucking taking off to Vegas baby yeah can't wait
Vegas for new years i'm excited hate the holidays i'm not that i like i love christmas don't
give me wrong. I live Christmas time. I love Christmas music. But I feel like the world just
slows down so much. And it's like, let's get back to the freaking grind. I love it. This is my
favorite. I love to slow down. Yeah, it's the slow down before the huge pickup at the beginning
of the year. But I don't like it for too long. Right. I get what you mean. Like I can't be slow for
too long because then I'm like I'm not doing anything. I feel like this Thanksgiving and
Christmas just haven't felt like Thanksgiving and Christmas. No, it didn't. It doesn't feel like
Christmas time to me.
Each year it gets more and more like that.
Yeah.
It's like less.
Mine starts to gear up when he gets a little closer because I've got kids.
But I think, yeah, I was going to say, I think it's the older you get.
But once you have a family, it's going to change dramatically.
Or if you had a significant other to do holiday stuff with, Haley.
Yeah, see, you know how it is.
You guys can go do holiday stuff.
They just opened the skating rink in Murpysboro.
Do you guys want to go ice skating?
Yeah, I do.
But I will fall, I think.
I haven't done it a couple years.
I've never went in ice skating.
I, shit.
Ice skating falls are the worst.
You're expecting me to roll around on a razor blade?
Yeah.
Bye.
I put you on one of the kids' things and push you.
I'll do that.
I've heard people who have gotten their fingers severed off
because somebody went over there with an ice skating blade.
You can get a finger fucking sawed off.
Yeah, didn't know that, did you?
All right.
Well, today the topic on Asked
I'll confess, is going to be, what is the pettiest, silliest, most meaningless hill you are
willing to die on?
Who would like to go first?
I'll go.
Go.
This one says, you lose, loose change.
Your team did not loose.
You did not loose your wallet.
You don't have lose change.
Someone said, this is my Waterloo.
I get it.
Yeah.
That drives me crazy too, so I get it.
I'm that person.
I'll misspell it in a heartbeat.
Yeah.
Oh, you are?
Yes, you guys.
Oh.
No, we have that way that.
I'm confused. What are you going to say?
Got it.
All right.
No, that pisses me off too.
Loose and Lose are two different things.
Yeah.
No, I don't have the comprehension.
I literally can't.
Well, she's just.
flexic too so that could okay you get a pass yeah no I literally can't understand differences in them
you could explain it all day long I'm not going to comprehend it yeah you know the theirs ones just one has
one oh and the other the one that has two o's means like a loose vagina a loose tooth okay loose vagina
you'll never forget it what the fuck she'll never this is wild you'll never forget it though
now you will never forget it when you look at the word that has two o's you're going to be like
loose vagina.
Two lips, two o's.
Think about it like that.
I'm going to try, guys, but can't promise.
I may had a hill that he was willing to die on that we actually disagree on.
Yep.
Very much so.
What I may tell people?
The hill I will die on is if you are on an airplane and you recline your seat.
In economy.
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In economy, you cannot do that, in my opinion, because those two inches of you're not comfortable
and you've made me uncomfortable sitting behind you.
Well, you know you could recline your seat, too.
Yeah, but then the person.
And get those, and get those two inches back.
You know?
Did a thing about that.
Then everyone just did.
Yeah.
I mean, it's a domino effect.
Let's be comfortable.
Especially if we're stuck on a plane for fucking three to four hours.
Fuck you.
I'm sorry.
When we went to Europe, I fucking reclined.
Yeah.
That's different.
That's a different recline.
I'm talking like if you're traveling within the United States.
I've done the reclining and it's not comfortable.
So to me, if you do it, you're making me more.
uncomfortable than you're comfortable like you're not as comfortable as you could be if it was a
better recline no sitting up fucking i cannot i hate sitting up like this the whole time i have to lean
back a little bit because i don't know it's like my anxiety from sitting up straight i can't do it
but you're always welcome to recline your seat back too this is crazy because i'm on high may side
of the fence here really i i am only because i'm a forward person so like i like to go forward
I can put the tray down.
I look over this bitches.
Yeah.
Yeah.
See, I'm not like that either.
I've got to go forward with it.
Well, I've had like five back surgery.
So any kind of pressure backwards is like it really kills me.
So I have to go forward.
But if somebody puts their seat back, that gives you an easier access to laying forward, right?
No, it does not.
Oh.
It makes the ride way more.
Like it goes from it being here to now you're here.
Yes.
So now like, okay, we could have just been here, but now you're one inch movement has made my flight experience.
years back a little bit more and then came forward when it.
Yeah, but I'm not doing what you're doing to the person behind me.
Who gives a fuck?
I don't know you.
I don't think he's paid good money to fucking fly.
I don't think that doesn't bother me as much as why do you have your fucking window open on a.m.
flight.
Everyone else has it closed.
Fucking shut it.
Close it.
We can agree.
I love to.
I'm one of those people who loves to have my window open, but no.
Not when the sun is fucking shining directly in your face.
And not when I'm the only one.
I feel like everyone's staring at me.
My thing is my pet peeve on an airplane and hill I will die on is do not put your
fucking feet up on the fucking armrest in between you.
I will fucking chew somebody's toe off, dude.
Do not do that.
And they raw dog it too.
Oh, just fucking bear bunyan.
Mm-hmm.
I see.
Yeah, I agree with that.
I just said bear bunyan.
I can't do it, dude.
No, taking shoes off in a plane, bear, no socks, and just putting them place, nope.
No.
I can't handle it.
There's so many things on a plane that I- Taking forever in the bathroom, like when there's a line for the bathroom.
Like, what are you doing in there?
No.
Like, I know it doesn't take that long to shit.
If you know you have sleep apnea, you should not be allowed to sleep on a plane.
No.
Or the people when the plane is completely dark and they have their light on.
I'm like, bro, what are we doing?
Yeah, just be part of the group, turn it off.
Yeah, like turn it off.
Read the fucking room.
Read the plane.
Yeah.
That or fucking use your phone light.
You know what I'm saying?
Like, don't make it a quickie.
What do you need light for?
That's the same thing with like, um, like when you're getting on the plane and the person's
just standing in the middle of the aisle, like putting something up, getting things out.
It's like fucking move and then get it.
Scoot in.
Like people don't have like situational awareness.
Situational awareness is so important.
It's so important.
Someone wrote in on that one to the Hill to Die on is Situation Awareness in a grocery store.
I know you guys don't grocery stores.
But yeah, like I love to grocery store shop.
I go to Walmart on a weekly basis.
I love to go to Kroger.
I will sometimes insta cart, but I enjoy grocery shopping so much.
And both of you guys can't handle it.
The fluorescent lighting pisses me off.
It's the checkout.
It hurts my eyes.
I get anxiety at the checkout.
What is the point of grocery shopping?
Let's really talk about this, okay?
You get in your car, you drive to a store, you get out of your car, you grab a cart.
You go down every aisle and pile shit in that cart.
When you're done, you get to the checkout and have to take everything out of that cart
just to put it in bags, to put it back in the cart.
And then take it out.
And then you have to take the cart out to your fucking car, load that car up, put the cart away,
drive all the way home, and then you have to fucking unload the groceries for
from that car, take them inside your house and unload them again.
And that's why I just open my door and it's right there.
Yeah.
I've never actually thought about it.
Oh, I have.
I fucking don't like it.
That's fucking anxiety.
No.
The fucking the lights, the noise, the smells.
And normally you have to self-checkout because no one works at a cash register anymore.
And then it's yelling at me that I need to remove something from the bagging area.
Yeah.
It's not even there.
And then I have anxiety.
and then everyone's, I feel like I'm holding up the entire line and everyone's just like waiting
on me to check out and I just start panicking.
Go ahead, me.
Tell us what you love about that.
Yeah, all of it.
It was great.
I enjoy it.
I get it.
Yeah.
I'm also not a stagnant grocery shopper in which like I know exactly what I want.
I don't keep the same things in my house.
It's like, it's a mood.
So it's like that week I might be into something different.
I got to go browse.
What if there's something new?
I won't know because I can browse on the app.
No.
On Instagram.
Not everything's on an app.
I feel like I can see everything more.
No, not everything's on the app.
And someone accidentally left my receipt in there the other day.
You guys know how much of a price difference it is?
I don't care.
You care when it's like $100 more.
What's $100 more?
Like it was a grocery bill.
It was $100 more because of the prices.
So if you go on the Kroger app, like let's say Kroger, they don't take the markdowns.
They charge more.
So that Instacart will literally charge you this set amount.
Don't care.
But it's all on sale at Kroger.
So you can go there.
And they have coupons that you get to have.
Oh, now you're fucking taking it over.
Guys, I'm a Midwest mom.
Fucking coupons, Sally.
Oh, all right.
You cut them on the app and then you just put your little number in and they all come out and buy one, get one.
I get those magnesium gummies.
Buy one.
Get one there.
They're like $8.
I'm with you, Mimi, on that one.
I'm going to have a lot of wife on that one.
Mimi, you're going to have a lot of housewives who agree with you.
I don't care of me and Haley agree.
That's all that matters.
You guys are the same person when it comes to this.
Me and Himey walks to Trader Joe's.
I also goes for walks at midnight in the middle of fucking strange cities.
I cannot go into Trader Joe's ever again.
Bro, I went one time.
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It's so much anxiety.
It's worse than a regular grocery store.
Why is every fucking Trader Joe?
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I will be honest, they have like the highest recall rates.
Wow.
Because everything's so fresh.
So it's like there's the difference of like going to Kroger where you got like a lot of GMO.
and then like Trader Joe's is like you don't have as much genetically modified at Trader Joe
so then you get a lot of like the rawness of the foods and then you get so many more recalls due to it like
Trader Joe does have some cool shit though like that chili that crispy that crispy chili fucking stuff oh
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And I was like, I'm never doing that again.
That was horrific.
Yeah.
No, you're right, though.
Like, I've never been so close to people grocery shopping before.
Like, talking about situational awareness, they don't.
They'll bring your cart right to your ankles.
And I'm like, my guy, I'm just trying to shop here.
No, but Kroger, I wanted a shadow.
I'd go outside.
You know?
Oh, God.
That's funny.
All right.
Who's next me?
Go for it.
You?
Who?
You thought you'd never ask.
One of the hills that this person said that they would die on.
This is one that I'll die on and I agree with this person.
This is fucking getting so bad, dude.
This person said live streaming your kids' punishments.
I screenshotted that too.
But it's not just live streaming your kids' punishments.
I get overstimulated.
That's like, but you can't help it.
Sometimes it's literally forced onto your feet.
That's what I'm saying.
Like they've normalized it now.
Exactly.
It's crazy that that shit's normal.
like the laura lee and norali and laura that whole thing also that gets that's they're a scam
artists they're a scam artists that made millions of dollars off of we can talk about it but they
it's norali and laura right yeah nerali and laura are a couple and this couple they what they
do is when money gets low they come online and they pretend to fight and they pretend to break up this last
time Norali was posting videos of Laura shitting outside what shoving wasn't she fucking a toaster
like she was like so much shit and it's fucking disgusting and so what they would do is they would
put swipe ups and they ended up making like what 1.7 million dollars in a month off of fucking all
of this shit and they were posting it on Instagram and Instagram wasn't shutting them down like
they're fucking scam artists but people are so desperate
for some sort of like trash TV
that this is what their trash TV is.
And it's literally like it's disgusting.
But unfortunately it's not healthy for the kids in the situation.
The difference is we were raised on trash TV that was made up.
Yeah.
TV like that we watched was so staged.
The majority of it was made up.
There was some.
There was of course.
But like a lot of it is so staged and dramatized.
Yeah.
That this, these people acting these things out, it's actual.
It's happening in their lives and they don't realize TV is TV for a reason.
Yeah.
This isn't normal.
No, it's so bad.
And I just to go back to what this person said, sorry that we went off on that ramp,
but it's like, when is enough enough?
When are these streaming sites going to be like, people are literally dying?
Yes.
Trying to fucking live stream crazy shit.
There was a creator who was streaming while they were driving and flipped a vehicle.
and it's like
then that's when they kick them off
you know and it's like
they should have mods that are already
seeing what's going on
and there should be heavy heavy penalties
for crazy live stream shit
if not we're going to have kids out here
fucking doing shit with cars
like it's just like dude
this stuff is scary
like if this is what our world
is turning to
we have no fucking hope man
no it scares the
like raising children in this generation right now
scares me so much my kids don't really do internet you know you can I literally cannot expose them
to what we are looking at right now as internet and I know so many parents out there who let kids
of my daughter's age on social media and I'm like that's an issue and it's because they don't
want to entertain their kid a thousand percent it is exactly that it's a babysitter yeah it's a free
babysitter oh here sit scroll doom scroll you're going to be quiet and you're not going to bug me
I couldn't imagine the funniest thing though Jason and I realized like sometimes we get very
overstimulated because Jason and I were raised as bedroom kids and we are raising living
room kids holy crap there's a difference in the two and I'm so thankful for it but like I know
you look kind of confused over there I was a bedroom kid too a bedroom kid is like you were raised
to like go to your room and entertain yourself yeah right well I don't have a room for a minute but yeah
Stop.
What happened?
I didn't have my own room for a while, like,
eighth grade, maybe.
Oh.
Hi, me.
Yeah, I slept on, like, the last one I remember,
I was up on the couch for a couple years and living room.
Jason just told me he slept on a couch for years
because he didn't have a window in his room.
Well, yeah.
Well, it's because my mom left my dad,
and it was one of those situations where it just took one time
where she saw something.
She's like, my kids are not going to be in this.
with me and my sister bounced out of there.
Good for her.
You're mom.
I respect her to this day for that because I'm just like,
imagine that excuse of,
well,
we're staying together for the kids or whatever,
but like,
yeah.
Good for mom.
But the difference,
please explain.
Well,
yeah,
no,
it's like the kids who are like forced to their rooms.
So it's like their entertainment comes from the rooms.
And it's like a big separation in families.
My kids,
I almost have to sometimes force them into their rooms and being like,
don't you want to go like play in a room or something they're like nope perfectly content here
with you and i'm like i'm a good mom i swear just sometimes to get overstimulated because it's like
they've got the tv going and then like cash is running around and jason's doing something and like
the phones are going and like but then i have to like sit back and be like i'm raising living room
kids that my kids feel so comfortable being with us versus wanting to go hide in their rooms and
isolate themselves my kid and you guys i was a bedroom kid i was a bedroom kid
You were a bedroom kid.
A lot of our generation and before and below were bedroom kids.
Oh, that's because I like to fucking move my room around and redecorate.
Oh, I did that.
Did you do that also?
That's why I paint every one of my houses and customize my houses because I cannot sit in white walls because I was grounded so much.
The only thing I was allowed to do was paint and redecorate.
I moved my room.
They get so mad at me because I would move that shit by myself.
Yeah, same.
Like giant dressers and everything.
and they'd be like, you better not be scooting that across the carpet and fucking it up.
I'm like, I'm not.
So I do it so slowly so they wouldn't hear me.
That's so funny, dude.
I know.
All right.
Who's next?
This was actually kind of like into what we were just talking about.
Cutting toxic family off is not a trend.
It's protecting your peace.
Yeah.
That is so important because I was always raised.
Blood is blood and you got to like keep family members in your life because they're blood.
And it wasn't until I got older that I realized that blood meant nothing.
Yeah, absolutely. I don't think anybody who's cutting their family out is considering it a trend.
Oh, it on social media. It is. Oh, absolutely. I have seen that a million times. That's so sad.
Yes. And it's like, that's not a trend. That's literally for someone's face. I've been cutting fucking toxic family off for fucking 30 years.
40 years. Deuce is shit, you know. That's, it's never been a trend for me. It's just protecting your piece. I literally just blocked another family member last night.
just because I'm just tired of it, you know?
I think if somebody doesn't make you feel safe, seen, or comfortable,
cut that motherfucker off.
It doesn't matter who they are.
There was that generation like before us that was like blood is blood.
Like you got to keep families together.
You have to be like that or, yeah, no, I get it.
Exactly.
Go give that uncle a hug or whatever like that.
And it's like that's how I feel like there was that generation.
And it was like once those grandparents started to die off,
you saw so many families disperse and never speak again.
Yeah.
It's so crazy how that like monumental person in a family can hold a unit together.
And when that person passes, you realize how much you don't have in common.
It's truly shocking.
You can like zoom out and be like, oh, I don't actually like you as a person.
Oh, yeah.
Truly.
Yeah.
And I don't like anybody in my family.
I literally was born into the wrong family.
You think so?
Yeah.
100%.
Who do I talk to in my family?
Yeah.
not one fucking person and if I do talk to a family member if I do talk to a family member it's not
blood it's an outside family member like my cousin Marybeth love her to death and like um
that's about it yeah yeah that you and I are very similar and that we were talking about how
like your family family's so close she she comes from such a beautiful family yeah and I like
it's very I very thankful for that too a hundred
freaking percent you've got like that typical like mine's all how did mom like me mom loved you i finally
got to meet mom you know she actually told me let's talk about me how did mom like no she uh she actually
came to me she said it meant a lot that you hugged her at the end like you were leaving and you're like
I want to give mom a hug she said that meant a lot to her oh well she made the most beautiful human so
I have to love her you know okay anyways let's not be gay
Let's not be gay.
Fuck, wow.
Yeah, I love you guys.
But no, your family's so sweet.
Your dad, I love it.
Shake and bake is hot, by the way.
And he's got a hot wife.
I love Patty.
Patty's hot.
My sister's.
Yeah.
Yeah, no, they're great.
You have a really beautiful family.
Your grandparents, are you kidding me?
Make me cry.
Oh, dude, grandpa's so cool.
The one that's in the cornfields.
Yeah.
Yeah.
Yeah.
Yeah.
So funny.
Your granny is.
Al-a-a-jonte-brumolette.
I love them so much.
She comments on everything she sends me TikTok.
My nanny is my number one, number one supporter.
She's always been like that.
Nanny has heard some fucking crazy shit.
She has.
Yeah.
Nanny has.
He has heard it all.
She's like, I just don't play them in front of your grandpa anymore.
I said, yeah, it's not.
Shout out Nanny for having our back though.
100%.
And she'll be in comments.
I'll see her in comments like going at people.
She's like, I just hate that they say such.
mean things to you guys.
I'm like, it's okay.
We get it all the time.
But I'll see her in comments, like going back at people.
And I was like, go nanny.
She's on, she's subscribed to like all of, like, all of our Facebooks, all of our
YouTube.
She's subscribed to like everything.
I love those supportive.
She buys your merch.
Like, she doesn't need to buy it.
We'll just send her boxes of it.
All right, guys.
If you guys loved this episode, let us know.
And we'll do a part too possibly.
But love you guys.
See you guys next week.
Bye.
I don't know.
