Dumb Blonde - Bunnie Q&A: Ask, Tell, Confess

Episode Date: June 26, 2024

It's a special Q&A with Bunnie! No question is too big or small for her to tackle. She talks about everything including crows, soulmates, open relationships, meeting her crush, handling online trolls, and staying healthy while traveling - and much more! Later, Bunnie and Meme read some wild listener confessions, including someone crushing on Demps and a family affair gone terribly wrong.Watch Full Episodes & More:www.dumbblondeunrated.comSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

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here we are. You ready? We are fucking disheveled today guys. What's up you sexy motherfuckers? Welcome to another episode of Dumb Blonde. Today we are doing something a little different. We wanted to do a Q&A with you guys and just check in with Patreon and let you guys know we love you and you know we love doing Q&A with you guys and just check in with Patreon and let you guys know we love you. And you know we love doing Q&As for you. So let her rip, memes. How many questions we got?

A bunch, right? We did it different this time. We did a questions, confessions, or just a tag. Ask, tell, confess. Yes. You do your stories every Sunday. Every Sunday on my Instagram I do these, but I think we're going to start doing them more on Patreon too. First question, and this actually got asked multiple times, was did your crows follow you from the old house to the new house?

I wish. I wish I was that cool. They want to know if they brought you any new shiny things. I wish the crows followed me, but we have a bunch of crows that seem a lot nicer than the ones that were fucking in our old neighborhood so i'm gonna try i'm still trying to win them over i gave them peanuts the other day but then it fucking snowed so i don't know if they knew that they were from me or not but i'm gonna go back out there and put some more um they hang out in like the tree line right yeah in the tree line but they're they come and they talk to us all day long you can hear them squawking they'll

be in the backyard just talking and shit so if you get a crow will you teach it spanish oh like that one yeah what did he what does he say no he doesn't say all day he says um god what does he do now i gotta fucking look it up there's this fucking crow hola yeah there's this crow on tiktok and i his name, but he's so fucking cool. He's got the deepest voice ever. He's like, hola. Hola. Hola, cariño. Pero bueno. Hola. Hola, mi amor.

And I'm like, what the fuck? But yes, I would love to have a pet crow that talked to me. That would be fucking amazing. I love that. I don't know much about this. This is more of like your forte, but everyone wanted to know what happened during your Saturn return. During your Saturn return. During my Saturn return?

A couple times. I forget how old you are. Google what age Saturn return is. I think it's 28, right? And if that's correct, I think I went through a fucking hellacious breakup. I mean, so here, this is what I need to explain to you guys. My entire life is ruled by Saturn. I'm a Capricorn Aquarius.

So my planets that rule me are Saturn and Uranus. 27 to 31. Yeah. So, okay. That's what I thought. So I'm ruled by Saturn no matter what. Daddy Saturn has been fucking me my entire life. Okay.

So I can't get away with shit like it's and Uranus is the planet of like shit that just it's like um all like quick sudden like abrupt shit happens so that's how I've lived my life you know I'm it's a very karmatic life and it's a very like if I'm done with something I cut it off I move on I start again if I want to chop my hair, I chop it right then. If I, you know, like I've always just lived my life like that. So in between 27 to 31 was a pretty crazy time. That's when I hopped into, I think, I believe my abusive relationship. What year was that? 20, that would be 20. How old was I? Hold on. I fucking don't even know how old I was. 20, 2008 is when I was 2013 ish I guess yeah so that's exactly when I got into I was in a relationship that was really like with my ex

Frankie and he's like I love him he's like a little brother to me now which sounds so weird sounds so weird but it's like I he just went to jail last week and his family was like can you bail him out and I was like yeah sure. But I never had to bail him out, but it's like one of those types of relationships, you know? And I hopped into a, an abusive relationship in that time. So it was a really fucked up time in my life.

And from 2013 to 2016 is when I did the most growing and growth. So it was right after my Saturn return. So it kind of ended and then you were like, wait, now it's time for growth. Yeah, for sure. So my Saturn, like I said, ended and then you were like wait now it's time for growth yeah for sure so my Saturn like I said I've always been ruled by Saturn so my Saturn return wasn't anything spectacular I can't even I can't even think of those times that's when I met you

let me take that back yeah you didn't have a bad Saturn return no yeah very glorious and I need people to understand like when it comes to astrology, it's not all doom and gloom. Just because like right now Pluto's in my sun sign and I was freaking out about it last year because I was like, Oh my God, I'm going to have health problems and blah, blah, blah.

And I did. If you, what you fear you'll feed. So if you think something's going to be a negative lesson for you, it's going to happen. But Saturn is actually pretty forgiving. They just want, he just wants you to learn the lesson. So if he keeps sending you the same thing and you're not passing that test, you're going to keep getting the lesson in different bodies or in different

situations until you learn how to pass that test, which last year I didn't pass my test with certain things that we have been going through in this year back this year and you did incredible and you were so rewarded for it yeah it's crazy so you know just don't look at saturn as like a bad thing look at it as like what do i need to learn and grow because saturn rewards you when you learn and grow i love that yeah i would love to know more about astrology but i have actually learned a significant amount since we yeah i've like came together because i i you know i knew i was a horse that was it but like now when I see you're a whole Aries, we just had that conversation the other day. I was like, I am, but I'm not. Yeah. Yeah, for sure. It's funny. Um, Steph wants to know when she'll see horses in your yard.

Oh man. Bailey wants a horse so bad. Um, I'm thinking about doing mini horses my the problem is is we're just not home enough you know like if i if i knew we were going to be home for like a year straight yeah no problem but we we're not going to be home like we're always on the road so it's like i would never want to do that to an animal dude like chachi goes with me everywhere so but i can't take a horse with me everywhere national challenge yeah so i've been thinking about like mini horses or something like that but that's that's sweet there's one you know olivia started horseback riding lessons and the lady has like six horses but then she has like a little pony a little miniature horse yeah his name's dutton dutton like the dutton ranch like on uh yellowstone so sweet I love that I love that oh so she's a

Yellowstone fan obviously what the fuck happened to Yellowstone I was in the mid I did I was in the middle of fucking watching it and fucking season the season started and just never fucking went back on what yeah it got all these people invested in a storyline i think they're having like wars behind the scenes with like uh pay pay scales and stuff like that yeah and i don't think they're able to figure it out we got to meet what's his name from there yeah i didn't even know it was him listen rip is hot on yellowstone rip is not in person okay he is not hot his wife on the other hand though banging dude she was hot she didn't love me but she's pretty yeah she's really cute she's super cute if someone wants to clarify on your patreon because we talk about a lot about like we have a lot of patreons on there now

and they need clarification of whether when they're talking to you and when they're not so i think i could answer this really well we always sign it if it's one of us yeah so like if i'm talking it will always have the word mimi underneath yeah for sure or if you're getting messaged for your free merch it will say from the dumb blonde team but other than that it's always me it's her she's messaging you back when you send those really beautiful posts and like messages we'll leave them for her to respond to you guys because like i can tell that they're like for you yeah for me you know so i love that like you do interact on there so much and you get in the group chats a lot especially that's my favorite my hanky panky girls and dudes there's a couple dudes hey okay first of all there are some dudes in there and they've been sending dick pics you'll get blocked what is happening yeah don't send

dick pics because you're gonna get me in trouble okay like this is there's another website for that i don't have an account there anymore but there's tons of other women who would love to get their eye poked out so please don't do that to us guys there's always a guy who's got a fucking shit in the pool you know everyone's like whoa whoa whoa i know like this is not there's a place and a time ge George. Okay. Um, no, it's always me.

I love hanging out with you guys. I love my hanky panky chat. I'm always in there with you guys. You guys are just like, anytime I'm like even feeling sad or anything, I go in there and I just say hi and you guys make me feel so good. And I just love you. And I'm just so thankful that you guys want to be a part of this, um,

community that we're building. It's literally a community now. It's so cool. I love it over on Patreon because when you're across the board, you miss a lot on social media platforms. It's hard to filter through all of the comments and all of the people. And you can tell our Patreons are here because they care. And so you get to interact and you kind of can weed out all the rest.

That's really cool. If you guys notice on social media, I have stopped responding to comments. Um, so I, I literally only save that for you guys. I'll respond to like two or three comments on each post and that's it. I just post and ghost because you know, there's too many people who are trying to start shit now. They, if I could say the sky is blue and somebody I'll make a video like bunny did this and said this, and it's like, okay, yeah, I said that, but with what intention, you said this and it's like okay yeah I said that but with what intention you know so it's like I I just save all my love for the patreons absolutely and that's where we get all of these questions and like recommendations and everything like

patreon has been such a cool community yeah you guys are awesome this one was great her name was michelle and I appreciated this because she said a lot within a little bit. She first said happy birthday. Thank you. Happy birthday to you. Happy birthday. What would you guys define as a soulmate? And then her immediate next question was also fuck, marry, kill. Ice Cube, Snoop Dogg, Steve Harvey.

Oh, God. Okay. Let's say fuck, marry, kill. I would probably fuck Snoop Dogg, marry Ice Cube, and kill Steve Harvey. We're going to off Steve Harvey. We're offing Steve Harvey. The teeth. He's a funny motherfucker.

The teeth are gleaming. They are bright. They look like a planet. Sorry, you got offed because your teeth are too much. No, I mean, have you ever seen Steve Harvey smile? It's like disco balls in his mouth yeah no it's crazy could not have found a better person to take over family feud oh no he's a sweetie pie I love that super sweet he's on it yeah I just feel like Snoop is like chill and like you know would just be high and then I feel like Ice Cube is like a g and he's like kind of a family man now. So he would be settled down.

And then what was the other question? What would you define as a soulmate? A soulmate is somebody that holds a mirror up to you. So there's a thin line between soulmates and twin flames. And I know some people are going to disagree with me, but the beauty of this world is that we all have our own perceptions of things. I really feel like a soulmate comes into your life and a soulmate doesn't have to be a lover. A soulmate can be a best friend, a dog, a kid, a fucking niece. Like there's so many people in your lives that can be soulmates. They're there to kind of like, you know, love you through everything, but also make you a better human. Whereas a twin flame is

like going to mirror all your negative traits back to you so that you have to change them. And they're usually like really tumultuous relationships. Normally they're based on passion because they are a lover. I don't think you can really be twin. You could probably maybe be twin flames with a parent. I could see that happening. You know, if it's like a narcissistic relationship or it's something super toxic like that, or even maybe, um, uh, I guess a sibling one could too, but you would have to really learn from that. And nine times out of 10, it's more of like a lover's relationship, but I didn't know that. Yeah. That's crazy. Yeah, no, but soulmates, you can have soulmates. I think everybody in this room is one of my soulmates you know definitely like one of my soul families you and i have built together bailey and i have taught each

other lessons together you know me and bug that's my little bit my little bestie over there you know so it's like i feel like and jay's um i've had every fucking um psychic in the world anytime we've ever talked to a psychic has always said that jay is my soulmate and my twin flame because jay and i went through some shit when we first got together and now we're just kind of coasting interesting it's so safe sometimes i'm like should i go fight with him just to fucking just to turn shit up yeah like let's spice it up like that but that's literally that's the toxic in me is like should i go and fight with him just to fucking get a reaction out of him because it's like so chill now because we went through so much bullshit in the beginning and then now it's

like we're just like hey you're looking around it's a little too calm yeah i'm like what is going on like well let's i came here to fuck shit up what's up okay so people wanted to know when you're on the road because because you do travel significantly, then you're very rarely home for super long periods of time. How do you keep up your lifestyle from the home to on the road, such as like your health, because you're very open about like your diet and stuff. Let me just tell you guys. We're all laughing because we know what we do

she will literally put in orders on the way yeah to make herself as in home to that place it's possible oh yeah like i i i could go to an airbnb for 24 hours and you're getting a whole fucking grocery stock full fridge in la the other day literally i may have just ordered an entire home shows up pan sets scales utensils eat like plates bowls spatulas literally she will make herself at home so the meal prepping and such because you don't really order out much or anything like that i don't order out unless i have to and then like if we're on the tour bus i cook you guys saw my, my tour bus cooking things.

I have like little air fryers. I have like little one skillets is what they're called. And, um, yeah, I, my new thing is, is I just said to Larios the other day,

the chef Larios, I was like, I wonder if I can travel with my Vitamix because now I wake up every morning and I make that healthy smoothie. And he's like, I did that before. He's like, it's heavy as shit. I was like,

go fucking Larios, dude. But coming through an airport with it. Literally. I ordered a Vitamix to the Vegas house. I think that's our chat. That's our food. I ordered a Vitamix to the Vegas house.

And yeah, like one of those little travel ones. Yeah, but they don't. So the motor and the Vitamix is what breaks everything. So like you saw all the shit I put in there today. You didn't taste any of it. That motor is what makes those Vitamix's so special.

So you can't have like the little bullet or the ninja or anything like that. Dang. I know. I'm going to laugh if that ends up in your suitcase one day. Yeah. So I travel with everything, the comfort of everything. If I have to fucking be okay, bring my own kitchen, I will. She will.

Not joking. Yeah. She will make it out of anything. It's a weird thing. I think it's borderline hoarderish. For sure. When was the last time you needed to go to a doctor but you pushed it off? Made the excuse of, I'm too busy.

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get dressed, get in my car, and drive to a doctor. If I can do it from the comfort of my own home, which is what I do, you bet your buttons I'm going to do it. Stop putting off those doctor's appointments and go to ZocDot.com slash bunny to find and instantly book a top rated doctor today. That's Z-O-C-D-O-C.com slash bunny. B-U-N-N-I-E. ZocDoc.com slash bunny. It's time for a confession. Okay. So Chad said, I had sex with my girlfriend's mom. chad you're not sending dick pics are you it better not be you in our group chat uh i had sex with my girlfriend's mom in college for a bag of weed in a xanax bar sex was amazing but the bag of weed was short a gram and the xanax was lost down the bathroom sink oh my goodness so he had sex with his girlfriend's mom so girlfriend's mom had sex with her while he

was in college for weed like stifler's mom it's what i tell bailey all the time i tell bailey i'm like i can't wait till you go to college because i'm joining a fraternity yeah she gets so mad at me she's like you're not coming i'm like oh listen you'll never even know i'm there just wait i'm gonna be van wilder but a female version of Van Wilder. That's going to be beautiful. Listen, Chad, I don't condone you cheating on your girl. I think that's fucked up. But did you ever tell her that you fucked her mom?

I would love to know how that conversation ever went. Or do you think the mom told the girl? Yeah, did they? And for mom to do that to her kid, that's fucked up. That's fucked up. i didn't even think of it that way mom's on zannies clearly yeah mom is fucking just looking for some young schlong zannied out ready for some hey listen i would never do that to my kid though you can't do that that's fucked up but yeah chad tell us in the comments if uh anybody ever found out yeah i

would love to know these fucking seats are ticking my tism, man. They just look like, you know that Mr. Hankey off South Park? She already ordered a new couch, by the way. Yeah, these couches are hideous. God, aren't they gross? Wait, don't we have a black velvet couch upstairs? Do we have one? I like the one I just ordered.

Okay. So this person's name is Cocktopus oh cocktopus you're definitely sending dick pics it's got to be the dick how did the gal's bowel movement on the bus go when you gave her amber poor amber my girl amber is so shy shout out amber native in nashville if you guys love really cool clothing and want to represent Nashville, she has the cutest clothing line, but my girl Amber, she is so shy,

so shy, so shy. Right. And I'm like, let me just video this. Well, actually I didn't, don't even think I asked her because our lives are just lived on camera.

So what you see is what you get. Like we never know that the cameras are on, you know, and they were recording this. And I was like, she's like, you can't post that. And I was like, dude, it'll probably won't get any views. Oh, 14 million views later. It got views. And then it went, it not just, it stopped there for a second, but then you posted it to your YouTube shorts and it went viral on there. So Amber's like every fucking night, i'm getting 10 text messages of people

saying how'd your shit go yep she shit fantastic i didn't know that you weren't there when that happened huh oh yeah she shit yeah she because so when you're traveling as much as we do your bowels get fucked up i wanted to know what our bowel movement routine was yeah your bowels get fucked up because you know you're just not used to traveling which is why I try to make such a home environment while we're on the road because I just want to make sure I stay regular because if I don't fucking

my belly gets I gain three pounds with one turd like it's a whole thing. We had a poop in bags guys. Yeah. No we had to shit in bags. It wasn't enjoyable. I don't care what she says. I think it was freeing. No it wasn't. I felt like it what she says. I think it was freeing. No, it wasn't. I felt like it was freeing. I used to like wait till we got there in the morning and then just run to the dressing rooms after we parked.

I don't know how you do that. When I gotta shit, I gotta go. No, I'm not pooping in a bag. It happened like three or four times. I had to finally do it. Like one time we were driving when it happened. That is traumatizing. Something about knowing how much your turd weighs and how much you shit like you know me i weigh out all my food and shit so just to be able to hold my turd in my hand

and look at it and be like salad and a half i'm definitely gonna be about 0.75 pounds smaller tomorrow i love it so much um this is going into what we just talked about april april cook said confession i shit my pants in my husband's truck and told him the stain was chocolate he didn't smell the shit fucking nature called and my asshole was a jail wasn't a jail cell the poo escaped oh my goodness i hate when shit stains get mistaken for chocolate god should we tell hayley's story even though she's not here call hayley tell her we're gonna tell her we're gonna tell no she has to be here for it we're gonna save that for when hayley's here or should we do it while she's on the phone she might be be sleeping. She's gonna hate us for this.

Hey, you got a salt and vinegar chip over there? Can I have one? You've been real sassy lately. Okay. Everybody's bleeding right now. She must be sleepy. How was that for ASMR? Crunch, crunch, crunch.

Fucking hilarious. I feel bad like we're not even telling them right now. Do we do it? And then just tell it again when Haley's on the podcast. Maybe have her reaction. We can't. We'll wait. We'll save it.

I'm supposed to do it. I'm going to tell it on the podcast we're doing in la oh not even our platform no yeah i love it look at that that's such a manager thing she's like not even our platform all right um tiberius oh said he my confession is I have a crush on Dempsey. Dempsey. I didn't know who she was when I first heard her voice on the podcast. When I got home, I watched the recording of that podcast.

Heard how she hasn't had a man that treats her well. I want to treat her how she deserves. Queen in the streets and meat eaten under the sheets. Oh, meat eaten. Goodness. Tiberius the meat i feel like you might be the one in the group chat the meats hold on we're gonna call dimps so that she can hear that herself i don't know if she'll answer a facetime but we'll see tiberius you little freaky deaky this red thing looks great behind me i'm looking at your shot over here it looks so sick i like it we're trying to tell dimps that tiberius wants her but nobody's answering us today

eat her in her sheets yeah nobody's answering us today all right um everyone tiberius i think that you should shoot your shot yeah dimps deserves a good guy. Yeah, she does. She needs one. Absolutely. But I also think Demps is addicted to the chaos. She's a Leo. She loves the drama. I didn't know she was a Leo.

Oh, she's a Leo Virgo. Makes sense. Yeah. She loves the drama. Save the drama for your llama. All right. This person wants to confess. She loves the drama with men let me

reiterate that oh yeah let's cut that part she loves she loves the drama she loves the drama with men no we don't gotta cut it but i'm just saying correction correction for the record i'd like the record to reflect my husband was younger than me and he cheated. We divorced. Ten years later, I met up with my ex-husband's dad. Oh, hell. We were both single and secretly dated for almost a year. Does this make me a horrible person?

I mean, no, because they were broke up for ten years, right? Yeah, so you were broken up for ten years, so anything... And I feel like, what was the intention? Did you hook up with dad just to get to the sun or did you actually really like that? No, because if they were together for almost a year,

if you guys were together for almost a year, I feel like there may have been chemistry there. Maybe you bonded over the fact that you dated the sun. Yeah. I don't know yeah i mean listen i did some fucking weird shit in my husband wait say it again so i thought it was a boyfriend i read that so oh so it used to be her father used to be now that i'm wait i'm comprehending we're trying not to judge you this is a father-in-law i feel like she let a 10-year gap go by i don't yeah i

don't feel and i'm sure he's moved on i don't feel like is it technically morally correct no it's not but at the same time dude cheated on you maybe you were attracted to dad while you were in the relationship you know like there's a lot of factors that play into it so yeah i mean i mean it doesn't make you a horrible person i banged brothers one time that's how i learned my lesson about doing shit like that oh yeah my ex cheated on just for the record okay my ex cheated on me the one who fucking backed into the dildo that loved that had the biggest butthole i've ever seen cheated on me with like fucking 20 girls and i'm talking like this is the guy that i had gotten pregnant with and fucking um and i'm not justifying my actions it was wrong but i had gotten pregnant had an ectopic pregnancy and he literally left me to rot for like a week in a bedroom while he was

out cheating on me so when i tell you i did this just because they were like a really close-knit italian family and i knew i could do it and literally the minute his brother left i called him and said guess who just left my house and he was like who i said your brother click and hung up on him dude so i literally only did it for vengeance um but i learned my lesson because it didn't make me feel good it didn't make like afterwards i was just like he was pissed off at me and fucking you know more chaos caused more chaos and it just honestly it was like what did i get out of that some dick like no i'm good you know so that was the one time that i learned my lesson so whenever i give people advice on stuff like this it's coming

from a place of love here's dimps right here it's coming from a place of love. Here's Demps right here. It's coming from a place of love and not judgment because I've been through it myself. Hey, you beautiful bitch. You're on camera right now. Oh, I love you. So really quick, really quick. I don't want to keep you out of your meeting. We wanted to tell you that we're doing a Q&A today. And there's a guy named Tiberius that said what? My confession is I have a crush on Demps. I didn't know who she was and first heard her voice on the podcast. When I got home, I watched the recording on that podcast. I heard that she doesn't have a man who treats her well.

I want to treat her how she deserves. A queen in the streets and me eating her under the sheets. how she deserves a queen in the streets and me eating her under the sheets i mean maybe so you know i was just saying that you deserve you deserve a good man but i also said i said i think dims is addicted to the chaos she loves the drama with men. I do. If everything's going smooth inside of my life, I'm like, this is abnormal. I don't like it. Yes. Mimi, tell him to DM

me and screenshot because I get so many DMs. Tell him, send me a DM. I got you. Slide in the DM Tiberius. all right we love you baby bye bye slide in the dm tiberius we got you we love to be the middleman would you rather oh gosh have to walk around naked for a day or have your thoughts displayed as thought bubbles for everyone to read. For how long? For the day.

I think I could. I don't mind walking around naked. It depends on where I'm at. Like if I'm at the beach, sure. I'll just fucking lay out spread eagle and let the clam get some sun. You know? Or if I can. But I don't think.

I say what I. What comes into my mind anyways. Yeah, I don't think I can control I what comes into my mind anyways. So I don't think I can control my thoughts. I do. I think I think if I knew I had to control them, then I'd start thinking weird shit. But if I were. Yeah. I don't know.

That's a that's a good one. Hard one. Yeah. I think I probably walk around naked. Like you had to go safer. Go about like a general day. Oh, really? Like go to the gym.

Yeah. Like you have to go to go to squat. My butth really like go to the gym yeah like you have to go go to squats with my butthole just hanging out what would you do thoughts or nakey grocery store i'm probably publics i'm really shy people don't people think i'd probably pick naked but i'll do the thoughts and then if something weird pops up, sorry. Okay. I feel like I could maybe control my thoughts better than I can control the fact of just being stark ass naked. Listen, my vagina is too wet to be walking around naked. I'll be fucking literally just dripping down the freaking broccoli aisle.

Oh God. What would you choose? Buck? Yeah. Bailey. No. Well, she's got a cute little body she doesn't have cellulite yet so man if i was her age i would too i mean i love attention but i don't i don't want to be fucking butthole hanging around you know like could you imagine yeah could you imagine

being a dog and having to walk around with your butthole just on display for everybody i mean chad's butthole be out there sometimes people get a genuine surprise when they pet him and don't realize there's no tail to stop them and they just graze that meatball yeah his little fucking his little his little crater is dry he's got a dry butthole well i mean it's out for i mean imagine most dogs buttholes are but they're like smaller this dude's got a fucking butthole man yeah i mean it's probably got like some like windburn on it he knows we're talking about him he's over here feeling very flustered can you see my foot this is my new i don't think you can i'm not allowed to have this desk i'm literally just gonna be like hey guys um all right this one says i found my ex-husband and my stepmom

what is up with the moms fucking the kids fucking god i found my ex-husband and my stepmom what is up with the moms fucking the kids fucking god i found my ex-husband and my stepmom my kid's grandmother in bed together then after three months they split he moved on to another state he lives with his identical twin brother and his wife and their five kids he's now uncle daddy because he's now married to his sister-in-law that dude's got problems tell her to fucking be thankful the trash took itself you're so thankful that so thankful his true colors and it didn't the trash took itself out and mom that's fucking terrible dude that's horrible i don't even talk to bailey's friends when they come over literally i'm just like and i do that for a reason because it's like

i don't there's no need for me to be close with any of her little boy i think it's weird when parents are like so close ingrained in their kids lives that's how her whole fucking circle is of friends and the parents are so in the drama with the kids and i'm just like what the fuck is wrong with you guys thing like you yeah really trying to be a peer yeah I feel like so often now you find that like parents are trying to live through their exactly yeah that's exactly what that is yes and I don't I I'll never be that like I I'm a parent through and through 100% yeah never appear I can have that relationship with my children don't have to be their fucking friend we had a girl whose mom was like super hot.

And every time all the boys would go hang out, it was very Stacy's mom, right? She'd go out and get in a bikini and lay out by their pool. Yeah, that's weird. And I'm like, why the fuck are you always doing that? Or walk around in a towel. Yeah. And I'm like, bro, these kids are kids. That's weird.

I could never do that to Bailey walking around in a towel. That's strange. Yeah. Any boys that come to the house, I'll never be nice to them. There's no reason to be. Literally. She goes, no, there's no reason to be, though. Oh, God.

The shit stain story. Hey, friend. Hey. What you doing? okay well we got on the subject of chocolate and poop and you just came to mind so we just wanted she's laughing give you a jingle that's weird i don't know i've got runs that jingle jangle jingle I've got runs that jingle, jangle, jingle. Okay.

Okay, well. We wanted you to just, you know, elaborate on a story that happened a couple weeks ago. I didn't know if you could relate to that story or not. No, no, that's weird. She's not ready to speak about it, guys. Okay, sorry, guys. Gave you false hope. That's hope maybe maybe i was thinking of someone else

yeah it's got to be somebody else no no shit staying mcgee's over here yeah no all right well we love you good night okay i love you good night she'll tell you guys in due time or you gotta go listen i'm gonna i'm just gonna have to tell it yeah that's exactly i won't tell it today but i'm definitely gonna tell it last one i'll have to leave the names out yeah we got i don't even know his name i don't either oh i do what do we call i do yep yep members oh no that was the other one i actually don't know his name no what do we call him skid row skid row yeah for sure but but i yeah i don't know skid row's name but the the firefighter she was talking to last night i do know just because of the hairdresser yeah all right last one i left my

fiance who i have a son with this this person i think wants maybe a little advice okay also but his confession i left my fiance who i have a son with because i no longer felt the intimate love with him for a younger guy who lives in another state who made me feel as if i was like missing what i was missing but now i found out that i'm pregnant and i'm scared to tell my ex he's been trying to get his family back together however i'm starting therapy because since i've been pregnant now i'm currently shitty towards my new man so she said it's really stressing her out and she doesn't know how to take care of a situation like this and she says she just wants help to be better and i will say the fact that she's already recognized the fact that she's the problem you've already taken huge taken yeah proud of you for doing that sister um so i guess this kind of circles back to what we were saying

earlier is when you're in an extremely safe situation sometimes it gets boring and you need to analyze the fact was is that what happened with you and your husband like were you looking for some passion and just that flame because you are addicted to chaos was there childhood trauma that's triggered at any sort of trauma that's triggered it doesn't have to be childhood you know maybe you were just bored and you were looking for something um a little more exciting and then now that you've actually got what you wanted it's not fun anymore the chase is gone so it's like this is reality you guys are actually having a kid together and you're kind of stuck with this dude for the next there's

also people who just love the chase right i will say i'm one of those but hayley loves the chase me too i'm the same way yeah the minute the person even settles down a little bit she's like i don't know how i feel about this person yeah i'm like yeah but it is cool I think she like once she gets over the hump and she can get comfortable with someone and into a part like of their relationship like you and I are in it's a really rewarding feeling yeah for sure to find to have somebody that be your safe space is probably the best thing that you could ever fucking I used to chase you know I used to do three and four year relationships, three years tops, because I just would get bored and it would just feel like it was getting stagnant. But really, I don't want to say comfortable because I never got comfortable, but it was just like I was always looking for the next best thing.

And once I got with Jay, I had to learn to not do that. And it's been the best thing ever. He is my best friend. I fucking love that dude. And it's a different type of love and a different type of intimacy um but you know maybe you were really over your husband and maybe you you know i feel bad for people who don't have a best friend in their significant other yeah and it happens so often jason and i just made that tiktok the other day it's like you see so many people and it was a huge realization for me was like we used to kind

of giggle at the people that we knew for a personal fact like y'all ain't that close but online they make them seem like they're the best couple ever and then jason was like you know i feel like that's the only time they get to hear that and i was like damn i feel like shit now yeah because i would giggle at those but then i also feel bad because there is a possibility that's the only time that wife or husband gets to hear that significant other say those really intimate and sweet things which is shitty though you shouldn't be in a relationship like that absolutely if somebody can only tell you that they love you online that's weird it happens so often now in this like new generation of relationships it's so much i feel like i was shocked that my husband made a fucking

birthday video for me. Oh, sweet. I was really. I know you helped him with it, but it was all him, though. Yeah. But the fact that he even wanted to do that, I was like, you know, so you deserve somebody. My point is, is that you deserve somebody who shows you love at home. Yes. Not just online. Like if they do it online, it's a bonus.

Like what Jay did with me. It should be the shock that they do it online because it should always be something that is between you and that person yeah absolutely i feel like jason and i and even you understand this is like we came into social media we were born into social media we created social media as our generation and we felt the need to have to express these long ginormous posts every chance we get yeah and like in the last couple years jason and i were like you know what i don't feel like we should do that yeah i feel like that's a conversation you and i need to have behind a closed door yeah not to the general

public and like we'll make cute little things like and say nice things but like i want you to express that to my face yeah for sure to tell me those things absolutely always express it to the face but i also there's a i agree and kind of disagree with you because like when we have like monumental moments like when jay wins awards or like it's something really cool i'll do a long post and i do that because i want that memory i want to see that pop up in my memory valentine's day yeah every valentine's day yeah no no i'm talking about like monumental moments from the rooftop yeah yeah yeah for sure but i think that you're figuring it out babe if you're already going to therapy and stuff like that i mean you're already one one step ahead so you'll

figure it out and you'll figure out what's causing you to get be so restless yeah yeah she's just getting tired you guys have like 560 questions i doubt we'll be able to get to all of them but we will definitely try our hardest um update this podcast studio we are getting the keys in what 10 days i'm so excited i cannot wait we picked a color you guys helped pick the color and once we get the keys and we get in there i'm gonna room by room you guys are gonna help us decorate it so i'm really excited about the new studio i cannot freaking wait what about you memes uh i feel like this is like the biggest jump we've ever made yeah this is like i was actually got emotional because i went to the old studio to pick up all the gear and i got really emotional standing there and there was no more fur on the wall and there was no more you know wood the paneling for the studio and i was just like this was our home

for a long time long time we built a lot there we did i like literally had flashbacks of like the dorito video yeah i had flashbacks of like the some of the muck muck bangs or what do they call them muck bongs i somebody said mook bong yeah i've always called them muck mock bangs or what do they call them mock bongs i have somebody said mukbang and i've always called them mukbangs i always thought it was a mukbang i was very weird saying mukbang i don't like it we did so many of those and then i asked you remember i was like hey do you know what this mark on the bathroom door is from you're like what and i was like when you kick the door open and from the bathroom with two rotisserie chickens that was so sweet we're gonna we actually do need to do another mukbang and a new place that would be awesome when we first get in there

beautiful kitchen we're gonna get new cabinets too have to get new cabinets all right let's dive into some of these questions all right charlotte said i'm curious does it ever bother you always having cameras in your face? I know you want to grow your brand and I know in retrospect you signed up for this, but do you ever think, man, I just want to be the left the hell alone, especially when you're having mental health days. Go ahead. You first.

I feel like we grew up MySpace babies. So we were already documenting everything a lot of the time. Like we were the kids with the digital cameras and stuff. I record literally her whole entire life all the time. Yeah. Whether she knows it or not. Yeah. But I feel like.

We pick and choose. We do it very respectfully too, because like they have no idea how much footage we have that we don't share. That's what the crazy thing is. It's like, you have such a small team. People aren't just cell phones 24 seven sharing it across the internet. Yeah. You control your narrative so gracefully that it's not like a big group of people with cell phones all the time yeah we know when yeah and also like she said i'm always like um i keep a lot of our life private yeah a lot of our life is private it doesn't look like it because we pump out so much content but this is a lifestyle it's not to us

it's not work like literally we fucking wake up and like, we'll record us going to fucking Starbucks and make it look fun. You know, like it's, it's just a lifestyle. And there are some days that I'm like, you know, like when the trolls come out or if people make a hate video about me, would that have fucking lies in it and stuff like that? Like, yeah, I want to clap back and I want to say something or I want to kind of disappear off the internet. Cause I just get tired of people lying or like when people are always coming at us about the Illuminati or like straight up lies is that's when I get tired of the internet. Cause I'm like, golly, there really is like people out here who just don't want to see people happy. But then I just realized that the love far outweighs the hate. I can get like a thousand

hate comments, but get 20,000 love comments, you know? So I always have to remind myself that, and I have to take the good with the bad, but yeah. I mean, anytime I need like a mental break day, I'll post old stuff. What I don't think people realize if you're not in this industry, you have no idea how much footage you can actually film within a small amount of time that can be used across a long period of time. So what you guys are seeing is never actually happening in the moment no which i know that like if you're just a casual poster you're posting as it's happening we're not like alex earl alex earl posts where she's at where she's going we can't do that yeah

absolutely not like which i don't know how she gets away with it to be honest yeah i genuinely don't like does she have security 24 seven with her? Yeah. Does she not have the same type of fans Jay and I have? Like, it's just kind of different. Yeah. So I just, I do feel like in retrospective things we have within a few days, a month's worth of content. For sure. Yeah.

Like even today, just going to Liv's talent show, you know that we that was a vlog for today and like we have content from that that we can post you know throughout the month if we want to and like i uh i love the on this day feature on tiktok because some days when i don't feel like posting i can just post one of those or i have so much stuff that i've already like um filmed that's in my drafts that i can post so yeah same, like all the ones I've been posting are all from when we were in Texas. I just used like five sounds and that way when I got home, it was like, all right, this is family time now, but I've already done that. And that's literally what you do once your hair and makeup's done. You're like, cool, we're going to do all these

sounds. So for the next week I can post one a day. Yeah, absolutely. So yeah, I mean, I guess the answer is yes, but we know how to deal with it. So it's like whenever we want to fall off the internet, even though you guys don't know we're falling off, we are like, we're just posting older content. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Good question though, Charlotte. I loved that question. What do you got memes? All right. Someone wants to know what does XO actually stand for did you do it for hugs and kisses or was this just a symbol like Prince okay I'm gonna tell you guys the truth and you guys are not even gonna realize fucking how funny this is it was kind of like a fuck you to my husband because anytime I get in an argument with somebody or I'm talking

to them and I'm texting them, if I want to fucking end the conversation with them, if I want to end the conversation with them, I'll be like, say what I have to say. And then I'll put XO. Just do like a little space and then it's just XO, lowercase XO or sometimes the uppercase X and the lowercase O. Yeah. Yeah. That's how I kind of tell people to fuck off. So when I did my brand, I was like, I didn't want to just be bunny, but I was like, Oh, I, my brand is literally centered around telling people to fuck off. So I was like, bunny XO, you know, like being sarcastic. It's like using the middle finger in a picture. Literally. And nobody knows it. They all just's like for like hugs and kisses and that's not what it's for what a good question yeah great question nobody's ever

asked that yeah you didn't it's like a like a you know like the friends watch i'll even call my husband he might not remember it but i'll let's see if i can get him to say it while we're on the phone i'm like baby what's one thing i do whenever I'm pissed off texting somebody? What's my signature? Hello, my beautiful woman. Hey baby, I have a question. You're on air with us right now. We're live on air. So, um, my brand name, bunny XO. Do you remember, uh, why did I name myself bunny XO? Because how do I i once i'm like sending a text to somebody how do i end it whenever i'm like mad at them he even asked me when i first started my brand he's like why did you put xo in it and i was like because i don't like it still i told you yeah no i was telling everybody it's kind of like a fuck you because

everybody thinks x and o is like um like kisses and hugs and really with me it's like no you motherfuckers are talking shit so my brand is like bunny xo like go fuck yourself he said yeah i hate it i've made it a complete brand too love you baby bye that's so fucking funny bro what a question yeah that is so yeah yeah that's fucking hilarious yep great question who asked that we're gonna start saying their names because they deserve to be on air show shelly sanford shelly sanford that was a great question all right i just want to clear the air i have never once threatened to sue anybody if i'm gonna sue you i'm not gonna threaten you i do however say hey this your warning. If you fucking are using this, my image to bully me, I will have my lawyer take it down.

There's two completely different things than saying, hey, I'm going to sue you or hey, my lawyer is going to take the video with the picture of me in it that you're spreading misinformation about and defaming my brand down than suing somebody. So the internet needs to fucking understand that you don't think kim kardashian and the kardashians don't have shit pulled down whenever you're talking shit about them there's just so much of it but chris jenner goes after fucking everybody dude literally and they're not the only ones like people do not realize the reach like i think also because you're so public about it like you're literally willing to be like, yeah, fuck you. Yeah. Versus them. They're just like, I'm just going to take everything you

have. People lie and say that they don't have shit taken down, but they do. They do. And I will own it. I'll be like, yes, if you defame me or if you defame my family, or if you fucking use my image or any of my family's image to bully them, I will go after you. I've said that a million times. Yes. And I stand on it a million times and I stand on it. And I stand on it again. The love always outweighs the hate and it is what it is. And I just love the fact that my name can make people money and get them views and get them clicks. I love that. So they will literally use the fuck. I'm so getting used to people hating on me that it really does not bother me anymore. Like my energy doesn't go to that anymore. Cause I'm so getting used to people hating on me that it really does not bother me anymore.

Like my energy doesn't go to that anymore. Cause I'm just like, these people can't even reach me. They're trying so hard. Yeah. I've never seen an attractive, successful person hating. Ever. Ever. That part. Crazy.

I think it's just a cute question. What was your favorite bar in Vegas when you used to party and what was Jay's favorite bar in Vegas did you have like a place that you like went often or did you bar hop um yes we had born and raised in Vegas we had Parkway we had roadrunner there would always that used to be wasted space like there was always like moments where like a bar was hot and everybody would go to it and then there would be another one and then we would go to that one did you party in bars or was it casinos like bars bars yeah you never went to casinos you do but you go to clubs like when you live in vegas you don't go on the strip it's like

how nashville is yeah that's because you know like locals in nashville don't go to broadway so as a native vegas vegan vegas i was trying to struggle i was like a las vegan yeah you don't go to the strip so you go to all the ones that are off the strip yeah you never go i'm one you're gonna be paying fucking 60 a drink if you go on the fucking strip like it's crazy here yeah it's really wild and i don't dude they i hear nothing about i didn't hear nothing good about like broadway i hear like people are getting drugged all the fucking time in vegas like do people get drugged a lot i mean i don't know now because i haven't been there in like eight years but it's never been like that we never had that problem ever my goodness yeah no i that's all i think i got drugged downtown at 10 roof you

were i remember you telling me like one of the last times you ever drank was because you were like no i really feel like i got roofied yeah something fucking bad happened yeah it was bad that's really scary i feel like a lot of bad things actually happen in nashville yeah like that they feel like that Riley guy, they feel like he could have possibly been roofied and that's how he fell into the river. Yeah. So I'm like, man,

that really sucks. People be throwing chairs. And that was from Micah. Thanks. Would you ever consider having MGK or Megan Fox on dumb blonde? I would love to have Megan on dumb blonde. Eventually she just did an interview with the, um, with, um, call her daddy. So I don't like doing interviews back to back. I would love to

have MGK on too. He's a sweetheart, but we're just building our friendship with them right now. And if they want to come on, then they'll tell me, but we do have, um, mod son who is MGK his best friend coming on. And that is one of the best fucking interviews episode you guys please if you don't listen to any of my podcasts listen to the mod sun one it is almost three hours and it is so good so freaking good like what an amazing human this boy is man this is the only time i've ever done this but quotes he was saying in that i were literally putting in my notes yeah i'm yeah yeah hailey over there hailey's laughing because hailey's crying fucking all the entire episode the sun is or the sun is yellow and she'd be like oh it is okay good question yeah uh nat she said, sick new world.

What bands did you go to see? What bands did you get to see? Did you discover any new bands that you liked? Did anyone recognize you? Was shaking hand everything? Let's address this. We have not talked about this since it all happened. I don't want to talk about it because when i talk about it it goes

viral i gave this man over 20 million views dude that was insane you're like a million maybe 20 million i just want to let you guys know i am thoroughly humiliated embarrassed like i never want to talk about this man ever again as a matter of fact jason we're gonna bleep out his name from now on i am like my butthole is puckered okay it is crazy to me that that entire story took on a life of its own it was worldwide news i on, people were sending me their newscasts, videos in their living rooms of me fucking and meeting my hall pass. And it's literally just a shake. Literally. It's like the fastest handshake ever. And I pulled my hand away from him. Cause I was like, and I, and you guys know this, I hug everybody. I do not shake people's hands. And I purposely did not hug him because I knew the

internet would go crazy. So I was like, Oh, if I shake his hand, nobody will think anything of it. Yeah. My husband can meet his crush, Taylor Swift, and he gets 11 million views on that video. And it's all love. Doesn't make news. Nobody cares. Fucking it is what it is sweet little jelly roll got to meet his crush his whore wife meets her crush and it's fucking headline news i'm like bro and i felt so bad that i wrote i dm'd him and i apologized i was like guys yeah he hasn't read it i dm'd him on tiktok but he's not very restraining order way no this dude hates me i know i know he hates me and he even said we haven't met before and i was like no no yeah i've just seen all the clips you've made about me yeah he's like i just see you all the time on tiktok talking about me but it's not

it's like those are the ones that go viral people are so people were so invested in this that they just took it and fucking ran with it. And the media was really sweet to me. Like I have to give them that they were there. The media is always so good to me and Jay. And I just love you guys and appreciate you guys so much, but I was fucking humiliated. Okay. I did not think it was going to be this big of a deal. It ended up being a 10 times bigger deal than anyone expected. And I fucking think it's hilarious. But that brings me to another topic that we're always being asked about. Bunny, do you and Jelly have an open relationship?

The answer for the last time is absolutely not. We do not have an open relationship. We do not pursue other relationships outside of our relationship. We used to like to have fun before we got as big as we are. We would always, you know, get drunk and, you know, bring an extra girl home. The option has always been there that if I want to sleep with another dude, I can. Does that mean I do? Absolutely not. I'm a fucking weirdo. I don't like, I don't like to shake people's hands. Do you think I'm going to let somebody's fucking wiener inside of me? Like you guys need to use your brains. But in the past, what,

two and a half, three years, we don't bring anybody home because we, one, it's just a different level of success that we're at right now. And you honestly, you can't trust people. And two, that's just not where we're at in our life. When we were younger, it was fun, but now it's like, we have a fucking 15 year old and it's just like, you know, there's just certain things that we can't do. Maybe later on in life, if we want to bring girls home every once in a while we can, but we don't pursue other relationships outside of our relationship and i think that's where the internet is like got it confused or something i really feel like they think you guys are like out there just seeking other people never and if they only would like take this if you guys

are going to run with any piece of information let it be this yeah they are not yeah no by any means not at all like the they will take any little piece of information and twist it into like the weirdest possible shit but it's like the it's like the um the game telephone where you literally tell one person something and then the other person runs with it and then by the time it gets to the fucking 15th person it's like changed and like back to you and you're like i didn't know that yeah no it's crazy the shit that we hear about ourselves one of these days we need to do a podcast or like a show of just all the oh we are whenever on the bunny xo show we're gonna do um a lie detector test where i'm gonna bring up all of these questions and i'm gonna answer every one of these questions and every one of these rumors on a lie detector test and i can't wait i can't wait let's take that you

fucking hate us that was a really good one do guests get paid to be on the podcast absolutely not no i've never paid one guest we do fly them out and put them in a hotel room though so i mean i guess i guess that could be considered some sort of compensation but they're not getting paid to appear i just feel like that's the least i can do if people are traveling from out of state to come and be on the podcast. What's the best, most thoughtful, meaningful gift Jay gave you before the fame? He's sleeping in the chair right here. The Grand Chahi. Hey.

Croce Alan Jackson DeFord. How's it going? Tell him. Tell him, Chach. My dog was the best gift he ever gave me and the kid. But I love the dog. I love the kid too. Yeah.

Tell him. That's my son. That's my sweet boy. Would you get taylor swift on the pod yeah yeah fuck yeah i would love to have taylor swift on the pod i would love to pick her brain i've always been curious how the initial conversation went between you and jay the night you guys actually met from jamie exactly like we said it did. Nothing's ever changed. It was literally, so, okay. I met Jay in 2015. I think a lot of people skip over that. I met Jay in 2015

and we didn't really talk too much cause I was there with my ex and you know, but we just kind of felt each other's vibes. And then we remet again in 2016. And a little after that, my no, no, I'm sorry. I saw him twice in 2015. And then my ex ended up going to prison in February of 2016. And Jay came out and started FaceTiming me in 2016. So when he came out to stay, he said he came out to started FaceTiming me in 2016. So when he came out to stay, he said he came out to shoot some music videos,

which there is a music video that's out there. I ain't got a problem with it that I'm in that all me and all my friends are in that never made it to, to, I wonder if we can find it. Yeah. Yeah. A little white might know where it's at or um somebody has it yeah message nicole or jj our old jj um our old photographer jj might have it too but yeah we should get a hold of that but um we shot that in my condos that we were living in um that i was living in but jay and i we have actually the first time i sat on his lap is on film. The first time we kissed is on film. What's the story. Cause I don't, it's very vague to me about like

him inviting you to go smoke on a rooftop or something, but then he invited other girls. Yeah. Yeah. Okay. So that's before Jay and I were together. So my ex went to prison in February, my best friend, Grace died. So I lost my ex and my best friend all in the same month. So I kind of went through a fucking depression, but I didn't know it cause I was masking with alcohol and drugs. Um, March or April, we had her funeral and it just so happened to cross paths with, and Jay and I had been talking by then, but we just so happened to cross paths, um, on a tour that he was in on, he was on tour with be real. I was hooking up with one of the other musicians that were on that tour. We will not name names. Um, so I was like, cool. Yeah, I can see him. And then I'll come see

you and I'll hang out with you and the band, the boys. And so I went to the show. He was opening for the guy that I was hooking up with one of them. You guys will never know which one it was because I'll never tell you no matter how much you guys try to dig and find it. And but I was like crushing on Jay. You know, I had been hooking up with this dude off and on for like 10 years. Um, but I was, and I just knew that it wasn't going to go anywhere and he was married and I didn't know that he was married until fucking way later on into our hooking up. It was just a fucking just stupid thing I did. And, um, I was crushing on Jay and he had just got done my, the dude I was hooking up with

was performing and we were like sitting in this kitchen and I'm kind of like flirting with Jay or whatever. And he's like, Hey, you want to go up on the rooftop and smoke? And I'm like, yeah, let's go. So me, my Monica was with me and Jay start walking up. And then these two, like, you know, groupie chicks love them walk by and jay's like hey you want to go on the roof too and i was like me being the alpha female thinking i'm gonna get alone time with him you were like this is our moment yeah this is my chance to like if i can

hit on him or something and so we get up there and as soon as we get up there i just left because i was like this is not did you leave with monica or did monica's just bounce yeah i was yeah i was like left him with the groupies yeah i was like all right i'll talk to you later you know like i you know how i am to this day you're the most irish goodbye person i know literally you and jay you'll turn around and you'll be like where the fuck did they go yeah yeah yeah yeah jay and i have always been like that and i think that's when he realized he was like oh shit maybe i should have hung out but But we had a blast. I had a blast. And what's crazy is we were all staying at the same hotel

with the band. And there was a couple of the band members that were trying to hook up with me. And I just kept fucking blocking them left and right. And Jay watched that. He was like, you know, because most girls will come and they'll hook up with whoever they can. And I just had my eyes set on him. I was like, I want the boss. And if I don't get, I was like, I want the boss and, um,

his, and I can't remember who else, there was one other one. And, um, and so yeah, fucking, uh, they would try to hook up with me. And he was like, I just sat, sat back and watched you say no to all these guys. He's like, and I thought that was so hot. And I was like, I was there for you, dude. And meanwhile, I'm covered in bruises from this fucking little boy toy that I had that had a fucking 10 inch dick back home. You know, so like, I mean, I had I was listen, when I was single, I had lots of options. Lots of options.

I had lots of options. Lots of fucking options. I love the story where you say he would FaceTime and you would crawl out of bed from a cabana boy to go answer his FaceTime calls. I love it. I'd leave them in bed while I talked to him in the living room. That's so funny. How long did your recent tattoo take?

It took four hours. I'm almost done with my leg sleeve though. It's looking so good. Can I do the inner? Yeah, that's next. I'm going to do the back of my thigh first yeah that makes me want to throw up oh it's that bad i've never everybody saw the one that i was gonna get was bad not the whole thing it's the creases on the back of the knees

man i don't think the knee hurt that bad did you go on top of the knee though i went on top of the knee and around it and on it a little bit. Yeah, no, I felt like the backs of my knees, I didn't go all the way down the back of my knees, but like that little fatty part back there made me want to throw up. I just kept telling Ashley, I was like, are you done yet? She was like, no. She's like, no, bitch, don't ask.

I love Ashley. She's so patient, dude. She's really so sweet. What has been the most scariest, most creepiest thing that's happened to you? All three of us. From Charlene. God. You guys go first.

I can't think. There's a lot of creepy shit that have happened. Oh, together? Yeah. Have we had anything scary? Not all of us together, but me and Mimi in that Vegas house. We had to call the cops. You had to leave.

Oh, that one weird, yeah. The cop was about to pull a gun on me. Yeah. Yeah, because you had to fly back home. Jay was having like a medical emergency. And so you and I were stuck in this like, how many bedrooms? It was like a 10 bedroom fucking house. Because that was when we were supposed to be filming something.

And it was a dope ass house. Dude. Yes. It was supposed to be the first horalympics yeah that we ever did and that was that house was bigger than its own good yeah and we were high and yeah and we had already been feeling we had recorded that episode so we had a podcast and in the podcast you can hear like doors creaking and things like that and we were like what the fuck is happening yeah so that night we're like laying in bed and you can hear people walking upstairs and the problem was is when bunning was there there was a certain room she wouldn't sleep in because the slider doors didn't

lock and so we were putting things like rods and stuff so you couldn't slide them open we're like oh my god did one of them open so we call the police the police were hiding in a back bedroom with a butcher knife where was i you flew home because jay had that medical emergency yeah so it's just me and you and we call the cops i'm on the phone with a 911 dispatcher she tells me to go into the hallway i turn the corner and the cop fucking pops out and like grabs her gun and i was like the 9-1-1 operator told me to come out here i'm so sorry yeah and then they like looked through the whole thing as we're standing there and we're like hey you can sleep here with us like we offered one of them like we'll take this you guys can have our house yeah and but they ended up posting up outside

it was so sweet all night they put a patrol officer out there for us. As we're standing there, the fucking French doors upstairs open up. Yep. Yeah. They're like, it's an old house. It could be just the wind. That door opens up. I said, close back the wind. Yeah. They're like, we're gonna go.

Thank you. Or that one time me and you thought we were getting kidnapped. Yeah. Or the plane. Oh kidnapped yeah or the plane oh yeah our plane yeah the plane was scary that was probably the scariest moment that was scary i said goodbye to my family yeah i was texting kayla like hey i'm gonna die she's like are you sure were you messaging jay at all or were you just no no no talking to this together yeah um some uh stacia stacia anastasia said i understand why you won't come to oregon but wasn't aware that you won't come to washington i'm just curious why i've never said i wouldn't come to washington i think i said i'm not coming to washington

these dates on this tour i love washington dc is my favorite but i don't mind washington oregon i'll never step foot in though you're not gonna smoke fentanyl right next to me and fucking call it a day what did you just say oregon did you say dc i love washington dc and washington oh i thought okay yeah no i love both washington okay i didn't know the sentence ran together and i was like let me let me no no no. I love Washington, D.C. And I love regular Washington, too. I love both Washingtons.

I just don't love Oregon. Yeah. But I'm just not going. I'm not going to be up northwest, I guess. Yeah, we're starting. We're starting in California just because it's way easier. And I think I forgot what I have to do before. I was just starting in my home area.

You guys, I'm so excited about that we're just like reminiscing on the fact that the first concert we're starting at is the first concert i ever went to it is avril lavigne and we're going to the shark tank i sat in the same row with her guys yeah like looked over there's avril. We just saw Avril at the country music at the ACM. Excuse me. Got the hiccups. Do you need some water? I got a whole tub right here. All right. We'll answer. God.

Hold on. Do you know how to get rid of hiccups? I'm going to teach you guys how to get rid of hiccups. Nope. This is it. If you want to get rid of hiccups, this trick works all the time. A lady taught me this when I was doing cocktails at the Palms. You take a bottle of water and you drink without taking a breath and it will get rid of your hiccups.

I can feel it going down. I love that. Do you know what a hiccup is? A hiccup is a spasm of your lungs. Get your diaphragm out of place. Really? I thought it was always a muscle spasm in your lungs is what they said give it a go what is a hiccup oh my god i've been lying to my whole life

who was right a hiccup is an involuntary contraction of the diaphragm that repeats several times the hiccups have been all interaction when one triggered reflexes strong contract wow so yeah if you ever have hiccups take a bottle of water sip sip sip sip don't chug sip you have to you have to go like this doing this forever now and i've always tried to hold my breath nope hiccups piss me off it gets rid of it hot cheetos piss you off notice i don't have hiccups it's crazy it's crazy right they taught me that a long time ago and i fucking live by it dude when will the book release 2025 we're coming up baby we're moving into grooving on it guys yeah it's doing good but anyway you'll be doing meet and greets we're gonna do some sort of um side stage type thing we're still figuring it out um but it's gonna be for the main tier there's a lot of logistics behind this guy. So let me just like clarify.

Maybe he's like, let me not let her talk and say anything. Let me clarify the situation of like we needed to. Every venue is different. We wish we could just like set a rollout and that was it. Every single venue has different regulations, different roles, different sizes of things some of them there's not even really an area for us to stand it just happens so when we realize the logistics of those kind of things there's just a lot even if it's not size stage we'll still get you better seats than what you have yeah for sure we want to do something really cool you know we're maybe we'll

run out and give you a wristband but you you will get to meet me is the thing. And we'll try to get Jay too if not, you know, he's so fucking busy on tour, dude. Literally. You rarely see him.

He's like coming out getting on stage and he is so busy. Yeah. It's crazy. Will you ever share a part of your group chat with us between you,

Mimi and Haley? A monthly gift? No, we will will be canceled there's no fucking way just go watch popaganda yeah go watch pop again we just we just did some of our d our our group chat dms on instagram so you guys great you guys can see where we're headed in the direction we head so is the poster that you sent an actual autograph or a computer generated off autograph no we signed thousands of those if you go like this it will spread the ink on the picture you can smell the sharpie on it guys and we posted videos of it how would it be like compete like you can literally see her signing them i gotta know who the person is you warned jelly about i warned my husband about a lot of people oh she's the first she warns everyone about everyone

yeah if she meets him she's like fuck that person yeah so they'll be like i love this person and i'm like nope yeah she's always catches them first she's always right she is she's never wrong it may take you a really long time to figure it out and you got to figure it out on your own yeah but it will always be at the end of it of her being like told you should have listened to me six months ago yeah told you xo what do you like to do when you come to las vegas well should we tell them what we just did i broke my sobriety and like okay so let's have a conversation about this because I wanted to post about it on Tik TOK. But again, I have to be careful with what I say because the internet

fucking runs with it and changes everything that I say. I am not sober because I had to be, I'm sober because I want to be. So there's a huge difference there. I, yes. Did I have a drinking problem? Absolutely. Did I fucking do eight balls of cocaine and take too many pills? Absolutely. But I was a functioning addict and honestly, I could have probably lived like that forever. I mean, it would have caught up with me and I would probably fucking look road hard and put away. But you know, I stopped drinking because one, I thought, I think I was drugged. And two, I was just tired of drinking all the time and taking pills and all that stuff. So saying that much, my sobriety was my choice.

It wasn't because I was forced to, or I had to go to rehab or anything like that. It was because it was my part of my spiritual journey. So every now and then, like on our anniversary, which I've always been vocal about, I will have a drink or something with my husband. And you know, I was having a really tough time with, I was just needed a fucking drink to be honest. Okay. I've been going through a lot of shit the past few weeks and Haley and I were in Vegas and I was like, let's go to the bar. I'm going to have a beer and fucking, I'm going to teach you how to play Keno. So we went to the bar in Vegas and I ended up having three blue moons and it was the best time ever. And we played Keno and I actually won $800

and we just, it was like, it was really chill. And would I would i do it again no because i was fucking swollen and my fucking gut was so fucked up for three days after i drank those beers but it was definitely a core memory and it was fun and if i do drink again it'll probably be like tequila and i'll just sip it because the beer just had way too much fucking gluten and wheat in it and you're like so yeah like health conscious like putting that amount of stuff in your body i felt it oh and ate fucking sourdough bread and cheese it was literally i just fucking all bets were off i'd fucking crushed my crashed my diet fucking crashed my sobriety and i was just like fuck it i just need a night of where i can just i feel like the best thing i

ever heard about your sobriety is that you, it's like the choice, like you said, that you can choose to drink if you want to. Yeah. And I think that's like, so awesome to me. Cause you know, like that's one of those things that I think a lot of people need to hear is like, you should know you should be able to, but it should be your choice not to. Right. Some people, they don't drink because it leads into like a spiral or they'll start doing other things. I'm such a controlled human that that never happens with me. Like I have, it's weird.

I think one of my addicts to go out and like, not at all. And that's not what we're saying. My superhuman strength is my willpower if my mind is made up about something like if i take drink three beers i'm not gonna want to do a line of cocaine and i'm not gonna take a xanax yeah what i'm trying to say is that like your drink doesn't make you a drinker right you had a drink right exactly there's a total difference in that versus like someone who it's like the minute they have that drink yeah they are now a drinker yeah and which is that's that someone who it's like the minute they have that drink yeah they are now a drinker yeah and which is that's that's the difference between like a real alcoholic

and a real addict and stuff like that yeah truly no my sobriety was for my spiritual journey and just because i needed to get to know myself and heal trauma without being intoxicated and on drugs it's crazy too you you said like it had you continued that lifestyle how different you feel like you would look it would have caught up to you for sure when i look at when i met you pictures versus now you look significantly younger now than when we met we talk about this often if we find old throwbacks i'm like why do you look older five six years ago than you do now yeah it's kind of wild to me yeah sobriety man alcohol's rough on you dude yeah alcohol's really rough it is it takes a toll on every part of hair skin all of it yeah definitely pills i feel like that just cocaine comes through your skin oh yeah your

nails you are what you eat yes literally it will fucking it will wear it huh i said you've definitely taught me that yeah no for sure that's why you got to put good stuff in your body i posted a video yesterday with bologna in it and she's like don't you eat that because i know she loves fucking gas station i only eat bologna sandwiches from the tweakers and it's that thick ass bologna dude i couldn't i don't look like that there's no fucking way how many men have you been with a lot how about you how about you i don't feel like our numbers are anywhere close to one another you know what you'd be surprised though it's not as many as you guys would think but you know being in the industry people are probably like oh man she's fucking

blown out but first of all my pussy hole is tight ask my husband i've seen it yeah mimi has and secondly um i didn't you don't have to sleep with everybody so that's a huge misconception for sure i also learned that in our interview with the modern working girl yeah how many people just pay for cuddles and blowjobs they really do no they really do give me a little some men just want to be told that they're attractive because their wives don't tell them that you know like it's it's crazy yeah it's it's really crazy how about you mimi wait what how's your pussy hole it's great okay i didn't shit two kids through it so that's good oh you had c-sections damn i didn't know that two c-sections oh i would

probably want to do that if i yeah preserve the pussy well yeah because you know they don't they don't pre-slice anymore fun fact they feel like natural ripping is a better because you know when they come out they rip it and before they used to pre-slice you and sometimes it would then rip from the pussy hole to the butthole. And then you have to stitch that back together. So. Fun fact. This is why I've never had kids.

You also shit yourself when you push. Listen, I'm so constipated. I doubt that would happen. Yeah. They wipe you as the poop comes out and the baby's coming out and it just smells like badussy all up in there guys it rips open blood pussy and fucking shit i don't know people who are weird it's barbaric okay well what is your gym workout schedule routine i've been dying to know

she said kegels yeah um i lift weights i do cardio i try to do it from like four to five days a week and my diet is easy it's no seed oils no gluten no white flours no dairy no sugar am i forgetting anything no seed oils did i say that too fuck you eat i eat raw organic salads you know like fucking i buy fresh meat every week you also don't realize how many of those things are in your everyday diet until you start truly checking those things because i do become more conscious of what we keep in our house after you know being around you so much i'm like oh let's not fucking buy that yeah you know and you would be shocked what you find in things that i um if you guys truly want to get grossed out look at the ingredients on great value brand foods i'm not joking some of the ingredients like that don't have to do with seafood will have like seafood in them car oil

like i'm not even joking car oil so those you know those like new neutrograin bars used to buy when you were a kid and they had like the, the fruit paste in the middle. Well, they have a great value brand one. And somehow I don't know if the kids accidentally threw it in or I bought it. I don't know. It ended up in my house. To be honest, I threw the entire thing away because I read the ingredients on it and it was like fish was in there and then they said like byproducts of certain chemicals and i was like oh okay so there's not and there i mean the ingredient list for this bar was a paragraph yeah and a half and i was like i can't feed this to my kids and i don't feel comfortable feeding it to anyone so that's a good point too if you want to start eating healthy the first thing that you can do is start reading ingredients and the shorter the ingredient list is the healthier it is for you yeah we found

these new bars that the kids freaking love and they're like fig bars yeah and there's like four ingredients yeah that's perfect i'm like that's what i would rather my kids be eating than these great value yeah nutrient i mean the world is poisoning us anyways, no matter how fucking healthy you eat, especially America, but that's a whole nother subject. But if you're going to do it, start reading your ingredients, start cutting, cut out one thing at a time. Don't try to do everything all at once. I had to because, um, I was having health problems last year and somebody asked that question, which by the way, no more recent health problems. Everything's good. Found out that everything that was happening to problems last year. And somebody asked that question, which by the way, no more recent health problems. Everything's good. Found out that everything that was happening to me last year was because of rice. My body rejects rice. It makes my glycemic levels

go through the fucking roof. It's crazy. It makes me feel like I'm going to die. But yeah, other than that, and I had to find and discover that myself, nobody could fucking figure it out. They were trying to put me on blood pressure medication. Did you on a heart monitor stress test? Yeah. Like all kinds of shit.

I had to figure it out myself. One day I was like, what did I eat today? What have I been eating? And I'm like rice and fucking chicken. And then I was like, you were also, you thought it was for a little bit English muffins because you would wake up in the morning with butter and English muffin. You had to eliminate that. And you're like, wait, it's still happening. So you can have that back. Yeah. It was literally process of elimination. And I figured it out that it was rice and I've fucking never looked back. I do miss rice though, because I fucking love rice.

Can you get another, like like can you do like cauliflower rice yeah i can do cauliflower rice i've done that and i've tried every other rice you can think of and it just does not work for me no it doesn't feel the same rice is rice no but there are there is protein pasta by the brand burrita burrilla or whatever yeah we love it it's the best pasta that you could eat dude it's so fucking good it tastes better than regular pasta i just made homemade alfredo the other night and we put it over the protein pasta and dude that is my the kids love it they can't tell the difference no no just make small changes in your diet and then you know if you can get even if you could just walk every day walk around your block after you eat dinner go for a walk like it Like it's just little things, you know, you can't, I've been living like this for a really long time. So this is like, again,

a lifestyle. And you know, my dad was really strict with food when I was growing up. So I've literally just always been raised like that. I haven't ever really eaten bad, but you know, when you do decide to change your diet, just start small because if you start big, then you're going to tell yourself, Oh, you can't have this and you can't have that and then of course that makes you just want to rebel because we're all little fucking rebellious shits best advice i ever got was from larios he said if you're gonna do the bad at least do the good yeah and i was like i've applied that so many times in my diet of like i did the bad but if I can outweigh it with good this time, then it doesn't feel as bad. So when I do have to like make a bad choice of one cheat day a week, yeah. One cheat day, even one cheat meal, you know? So when you start have one cheat day,

so say you eat good Monday through Friday, have your cheat day on Saturday, start again on Sunday. And then as you get better with it, have your cheat meal on Saturday. And then, or, and yeah, and just whenever. Yeah. Yeah. And just have one meal where you cheat. Like tonight I had fucking sugar-free brownies. Yeah.

And falling off doesn't mean that you fall off forever. No, you get right back up the next day. Don't be discouraged. People so often are like, they will fall off and then be like, well, I'm off. I'm off. Yeah. Like if you really started the next day, that one day didn't affect you that bad. You have no idea. I saw something on TikTok

the other day that said like, someone was like, oh, I gained 15 pounds over the weekend. And the lady broke down what it would actually physically take for you to gain 15 pounds. She's like, you have to eat like an ash from non-water. Yeah. She she's like you'd have to drink this much water and eat this much food and consume and process that food through for you to gain 15 pounds she goes no is your body fluctuating chill the fuck out yeah yeah and i feel that like so often we're like oh after one day i'm five pounds heavier today that can't actually happen like yeah it doesn't work like that well i weigh myself every day i do that for my coach that I work with, but I weigh myself every day. And in the beginning of the day, I am always lighter.

And by the end of the day, I'm three to four pounds heavier. You don't realize how much like food weighs. It's the craziest thing. When you start weighing out your food, it's like you can eat a fucking English muffin and gain a pound. Like it's, I can eat a fucking english muffin and gain a pound like it's i don't know i feel like the bmi and the fucking like the way that we do our food now should definitely be looked at again because it's not the same as it was fucking 30 50 years ago 100 years ago you know food and

dieting has evolved and i feel like it does evolve every day but i don't know why they won't fucking update it like it's so weird yeah well i think that was a great q a it was great yay thank you guys for all the questions you ask us and we will do another one next month in the new studio baby i can't wait leave a comment below tell us uh some stuff you want to see us do in the new studio maybe some show ideas um anything, anything, leave us comments and we will look forward to doing a Q and a with you guys and the new studio. Love you guys. Bye.