Dumb Blonde - Demps: Cat Daddy & All Things Freaky

Episode Date: January 25, 2023

Fan favorite, hot mom, and TikTok sensation Demps returns to the show this week. Bunnie gets her to spill all the secrets about everything from Cat Daddy and what makes him different, how she gets your needs met as a hot woman, drunk sex, and keeping things spicy. Bunnie and Demps share relationship advice on how to fight fair with your significant other,  if exes can really get back together and what they really think about Playboy. Let's get freaky!  Bunnie: IG  Demps: IG  Watch Full Episodes & More: www.dumbblondeunrated.comSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

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all right gentlemen coming to main stage next this is bunny get up there she's got a tornado of titties coming your way get those dollar bills ready she's got an ass that shakes like michael j fox so get up there and throw throw throw them dollars dude that is fucking iconic what's up you sexy motherfuckers welcome to another episode of dumb blonde today we're doing something a little different i have one of my dear sweet friends dimpsy in the house what's up baby what? That was so aggressive. That was kind of hot. I don't ever get to see you that side of Demps. I need to get some frustration out.

You need to call up Cat Daddy. Holla, holla, holla. Call me. How have you been, baby, since the last time you were on the podcast? Oh, baby, I've been good. Life has been good. Good, good, good good you've been fucking living and loving up and down the east fucking coast fucking raging yeah you miss me in vegas yeah

no we're gonna go out there we'll be out there for my birthday you gotta come out there okay let me go put that in my calendar maybe you can bring cat daddy and you guys can just bang all over the strip i swear man wait what are we allowed to tell people about cat daddy right now because everybody's in for everybody who wants to know todd is cat daddy that's what i call him you know what i'll give him full disclosure that man is such an easy go and believe it or not i've known cat and people are gonna be surprised by this i've known that man since fucking shrimp bj it was since my whole internet fiasco breakup where i was like first of all why is his name shrimp bj that doesn't sound enticing fucking shrimp bottom of the sea cockroach was his wieners no no i'm happy for keto porquito no but i just i don't know what it is everybody's obsessed with like i don't want to say obsessed

but my love life dating i look at it like sex in the city i mean it's fun i'm young i'm a single mom like i'm just dating you know like having fun but live it up this one takes the motherfucking cake oh call me i told uh Demps last night When we were texting I was like Every time I see you With Cat Daddy It reminds me of like

Pixie dust That's getting sprinkled Around everywhere Because you can just see The energy between you guys He just lets me do my thing Like we went to Applebee's I was like

Hold on Let me put on my mullet And he loved it so much And he still wants to fuck you Even in that fucking Damn bath I asked him I was like

Would you bend me over Backwards with that mullet on He was like you have no idea okay so when you guys are ready to make the of of content mimi and i will set it up and we'll fucking give you guys plots for each one of your videos well he's already got the mullet yeah no he's hot you know yeah he's really hot you should see him and he and then what i didn't know is he took off his shirt one time. I was like, how many tattoos do you got? Like full on chest. Is he tatted up?

Full on chest. That daddy. I'm like, is your dick fucking tattooed? I love that. Like what the fuck? I love that. Well, speaking about relationships, today Demps and I, you're going to get relationship advice with Demps and I you're gonna get relationship advice with Demps and Bunny

probably not the best advice but I'll just take it from me I've been I've been around a few listen I thought you were the perfect person to bring in for some relationship advice she called me up and she was like girl get over here I got a funny eye I'm gonna get over here all right so what I did was I had people submit questions on my Instagram story. If you guys don't follow me on Instagram, it's XOMG. It's funny. What's your Instagram? Dimps.

The real dimps because I can't get fucking verified. Oh, girl. It took me nine years to get verified on fucking TikTok. I'm like flicking off the camera. The real dimps. There's only one. I love the aggression today. It's very hot.

I need to let it out i'm telling you i need i can't daddy i'm calling you after this and you need to bang my girls back out okay you know what call cat daddy right now you want me to yeah call cat daddy right now we're gonna tell him like i just forewarn you i have to you're gonna have to hold the phone up to the microphone yeah that's exactly all i do is facetime okay i don't i don't i don't just call him no we facetime i mean like no you're on air he better he what if he doesn't answer all right we are waiting for cat daddy to answer better be talking to god hi darling what's up girl so i just have to

forewarn you you might be making appearance on bunny's podcast cat daddy what's up girl what up cat daddy um oh my bad i gotta got it. Oh, shit. There she is. What's up, baby? So are you going to plow my girl or what? Am I what? Are you going to plow my girl? Yeah, I'm trying to. I was telling her last night.

I don't know if she told you or not, but I was like, dude, ever since I've seen him with you, I was was like all i see is like pixie dust when you guys are like around each other like it's just such a cool energy and a cool vibe that you guys have i was like you need to sit on that for sure i've been trying to sit on what's the hold up why are you holding the peepee what so bunny's all for it then she loves it bunny approves. You heard it. Bunny approves. And you're a Sagittarius like my husband, so I really love it. Real quick, can you show them?

Can you take off the jacket? Yeah, show us your wiener. No. Let me see the... Show them the tats. Go ahead and show... Hold on. Let me get my glasses on. Hold on. Bunny's got to get her glasses. Hold on. ahead and show. Hold on. Let me get my glasses on. Hold on.

Buddy's got to get her glasses. Hold on. Here we go. Hold on, babe. Buddy's got to get her glasses. Here we go. Look, we're making them blush. Poor baby.

We're making them blush. Let me see. Let me see. Stand up. Put the phone down and stand up. Ladies and gentlemen, he has tatted up. Yeah, yeah. Does it go all the way down?

Does it go all the way down? Does it go all the way down? We don't play no games over here. No, it's as far as it goes. Do you have a happy trail? I'm just trying to visualize. For later on. No, I love it. I think you guys definitely need to bang it out and treat my girl good, man.

That's all I care about. Come over later. Bye, cat daddy. Bye. See you later. Bye. Aw, he's sweet. He's like the most sweet.

I'm like, here I is. Like, we went to the beach together, slept in different beds, didn't try fucking anything with me. Am I not pretty enough for you? No, he actually has respect for you, yeah i've never had that every guy i've talked to they just want to fuck me and just use me for money and clout and just gonna be gone you know and i'm just like the fuck and this one is just like hey babe do you need anything he's the one who sent me those flowers the other day

oh yeah people really think i can buy myself first off if i buy myself fucking flowers there's gonna Like, hey, babe, do you need anything? He's the one who sent me those flowers the other day. Aw. People really think I fucking buy myself. First off, if I buy myself fucking flowers, they're going to be the cheap ones out public. OK? They're not going to be the, you know. First off, your flowers, that's like cute and edgy. When you sent me those pictures, I was like, the fuck is that?

They were so cute. I appreciated them so much. Did you see the flowers Dempsey sent me? So sweet. Because I wasn't expecting them at all. so cute i appreciated them so much did you see the flowers dimsie sent me so sweet because i wasn't expecting did i see something different because it looked like just fucking weeds you know no at the bottom i was like the fuck is that no at the bottom it had like flowers and then it had like these these two things that came out like with flowers so it was really cute they're still

sitting on my you didn't send a full-ass pic i was like the fuck is that oh no i did a video on tiktok though they were so cute and i was having the shittiest week ever because of arbor herd so it was like fucking that's my nickname you don't want to know who it is she's literally is not even worth fucking the air we breathe okay but it's just all you guys know it's just all lies and anybody that had to even fucking see that bullshit like please you guys know i'm a real one and i don't have to prove it period um but i was having such a shitty week and it was it wasn't just her there was like a fucking series of events mimi almost died mimi got fucking sepsis almost died fucking jay and i were fucking you know hit a rocky spot Where we just had to communicate

There was like a few things that happened And you sent me those flowers And I was like oh it was perfect I don't know I was just so Like I saw you guys on vacation Hitting number one I was like my girl Every girl loves flowers

I don't give a fuck what anybody says You can say you hate flowers But who doesn't love fucking flowers They definitely put a smile on my face Oh I love that But I feel like December just fucking Sucked oh dude December dinner This was the worst Mercury retrograde

I've ever gone through I was at Disney and I was Unhappy Bitch I was in the Dominican Republic And I was fucking stressed out I was at Disney and I was even fucking happy I was like this is some bullshit No trust me I was Texting Mimi the whole time and I was like bro This is fucking like I don't know what I can't. No, trust me. I was texting Mimi the whole time, and I was like, bro, this is fucking, like,

I don't know what is in the air, but I am so fucking stressed out. Like, it was crazy. All right, so let's get talking about some relationship advice here. I'm going to skim through these questions. Can I vape on here? Yes, you're fine. All right. Here we go.

Ready? Let's do that. Has Dimps and todd hooked up friends with benefits yet i think we just answered that no todd come over tonight would you buy an rv and travel the states hell yeah i would i'll take lily out of school and fucking just go you only live once and i think today's society we're just so stuck up like everybody's just stuck up their asses go live go put your toes in the damn grass go breathe some fucking air yeah no i believe it mimi and i've always said we wanted a glamper and just wanted to like travel around and just go do like meet and greets and fucking just me and coleslaw are coming yeah i put his ass in my book bag i love him so much you should

have brought him today how do you know if your needs in a relationship is asking too much if they get fucking annoyed like your needs should never be like i don't think it should i think your needs are necessary so if you feel like they're too much you're in the wrong relationship most fucking definitely and if you can meet like're too much, you're in the wrong relationship. Most fucking definitely. And if you can meet like my last relationship I was just in, I commuted verbatim, communicated verbatim like, hey, this is what I need fixing like twice. And it just didn't work out. And that's why the last one didn't work out because my needs were not being met.

And I did fucking everything to show him, hey, I'm interested. Yeah. You know what I mean? I'm putting effort in you know and then i just like if you're communicating and they're not listening that's a problem because you deserve to feel a hundred percent yeah it's not fair that they feel a hundred percent like their needs are getting met and then you feel like you're on the back burner and if you do that twice and they still don't understand you for the fucking third

time don't stick around babe ever get the fuck out yeah no no matter how much you like them it's just it's not gonna change it's gonna get worse it's literally not gonna change would you fuck a big dicked little person i would show them a little good time a little shamalem everybody like everybody deserves one chance i don't know i'm not hurt anybody. I don't know. I'm not really. I would. I don't know. I'm up.

See, most people don't know this. I'm up for a fucking good ass time. I mean, you saw me at your husband's fucking. You saw me backstage. I was fucking having a job in my life. When Brent Smith came on stage, it's so funny. Everybody thought you were screaming over jelly. When really, it was Brent Smith from Shinedown.

I was like, Dems, keep your pussy in your pants. And she's like, I still didn't get to meet him. My little social butterfly ass went running off. Well, no, he's very, a very private person too.

So he kind of like six to himself. I've only, Jay has been on tour with him and I've probably shook hands with him once or twice. Yeah. He's very private. I'm still in love with you. Zach is the more pussy banjo.

We love Zach Myers. He's the more outgoing one one is that the one that you said hey she wants you to suck your pussy maybe who knows no that's i'm all yeah i was like what no we love do you and daddy ever fight or argue absolutely we did in the fucking Dominican Republic. I think the thing with Jay and I is, is we don't fight or argue at all anymore. But when we do, boy, it is,

it's like, it's deep ones, you know? And so it's like, it's just ones that are necessary and that need to be had, you know? So it's like, there's nothing wrong with the communication.

You should be in a relationship where you can fight fair though. Not like knock down, drag out fights where you guys insult each other or anything like that. those are the worst fucking fights. Yeah, that's toxic. Nobody deserves,

like when you're in a marriage and you love somebody, nobody deserves to get knocked down. No. Oh my God. There's nothing worse than the person that you love and seeing and fighting.

It hurts you. Yeah. You don't want to be called names or whatever because you love that person. You made a commitment. you don't want to be called names or whatever because you love that person you made a commitment so it hurts even worse getting called names saying you're not doing this right like shutting you down making you feel like a low life yeah nothing no it's the worst and you you have to learn the key in a relationship is you have to fight fair you cannot hit low blows there's two sides to every story you guys have to meet in the middle

okay listen if you guys are to meet in the middle okay listen if you guys are wondering why i'm giggling dimps just got into character right now like in the middle of a fucking serious topic here we go put the camera on her it's a sad moment i had to make you smile i love it but yeah i know but the the beautiful thing about fighting is you get through it and you guys become closer but that's what makes you guys the power couple. And I mean that the power couple of Nashville. I'm sorry. Can you all take me serious with this?

No, I can. I love it. OK, if you know me, you can take me serious with this. But that's what makes you guys the power couple of Nashville. And I truly mean that. I'm like, these people are fucking goals. Like, I love you. It took us a long time to get there.

We were extremely toxic. You know what? I read one time. I did read this. This is when I went on. Some girl was so mad at me because she said, I idolized Jelly and Bunny's relationship, but it was extremely toxic. And because she glorified the toxicity, I was in my own toxic relationship. So she blamed me for that.

And people don't realize I was growing in front of people. I was being vulnerable. Behind the scenes. No, I would put it on. I would vlog on YouTube. So but I was always honest like, hey, yeah, we fucking I've fucking thrown dishes at Jay. I have swung on Jay, you know, whenever he got caught cheating on me. I was very aggressive with him and I was always very honest about that.

I'm never going to lie about who I was, but we have grown so much, you know, so for people to hold, you know, a toxic relationship against me because they were in one is wrong. First of all, I'm nobody's role model. I'm not your idol. Don't idolize me. If anything, I can show you what not to be i fucking love that i think i've heard you say that multiple times i fucking i'm i know i'm a single mom and i've made it through hell and back and i'm damn i'm living a better life than i was but don't idolize me like please i am far from being a

perfect mother but i know i'm a damn good mother you know what i mean well i'm far from being a perfect mother, but I know I'm a damn good mother. You know what I mean? Well, I'm far from I'm far from being a perfect human. But I know my heart. My heart is gold and my intentions are pure. And that's all that matters. You know, and I feel the same way with you. You are just a sweetheart. You I always say good karma. You what you put in this fucking universe is what you're going to give back.

Absolutely. Oh, do you think pisses me off do you think it's healthier when you and your boyfriend what do you think it's healthier when you and your significant other don't text all the time or when you do i think um like for this new fling that's happening like i i'll just pick up the phone and just call them and be like all right i gotta go two minutes later i'm calling them back and we're starting a whole other convo for like another 30 minutes so i don't really know it's just like in the moment what you're feeling like if you're in the lust and you want to just talk to that person all fucking day talk

to that fucking person all day absolutely i think people so many people nowadays play games where they like it don't want to be the person to respond first don't want to respond fast enough and to me i think that's so fucking stupid it's stupid it's a fucked up game you're wasting so much time getting to know somebody but you know i'll be honest because i've been in a relationship for seven years you're gonna have ups and downs you're gonna have waves where you guys communicate constantly 24 7 and then you're gonna have some where you're just talking fucking just for the bare minimum like i threw a little tantrum fit the other day because i didn't get what i wanted i wanted this person to come over and hang out with me but he was trimming his grandmama's head bushes all day and like i'm like well okay well screw i didn't talk to him all day but that

later that night it was just back to normal like i'm so happy you had a wonderful day ball ball and all that sometimes i gotta catch myself like bitch don't be a spoiled brat that's maturity don't be a spoiled brat i gotta catch myself like no step out you know there's boundaries and what's your favorite thing to do when you're not in the spotlight me yep fucking you really want to know Yep Fucking You really wanna know Take a fucking edible Lay in my fucking bed And rewatch Sex and the City And nobody fucking bother me I love that

Sex and the City is great Oh my god I love Sex and the City Not edibles I accidentally ate one the other day By accident Everybody's like How do you fucking accidentally Eat an edible

I'm like oh well here Let me tell you I was being a fat fuck And I was PMSing And I wanted fucking chocolate And fucking Kayla Had bought these bomb ass Dark chocolate things

The day before International? I don't even know what they were But they were so bomb But she was cooking dinner And I was being an impatient Fucking hungry hippo And I was like

Where are they? And she's like They're upstairs in my room So I'm like fuck it I'll go get them I go upstairs Reached for the first bag Of chocolate that I see And I pop it in And I even go into jay's room and i'm like hey you want one of these

and he's like no no thank you and i tasted it and i'm like this isn't dark chocolate i go i go bug this isn't dark chocolate this is milk chocolate and all i heard her say was oh fuck how many milligrams was it bunny and what happened 20 minutes after oh when i tell you i fucking stuck my finger down my throat and fucking project i made myself projectile vomit for like 30 minutes and then fucking i just sat there hyperventilating like oh my god and then all of a sudden i just got so calm yeah yeah it was crazy i got so calm i see i see but it was a sativa I see. I see.

But it was a sativa. Two o'clock in the morning, I was fucking crackheaded. Yeah, girl. Just fucking sitting there. Just didn't know what to do with myself. I had to take Benadryl. Like, it was a fucked up fucking roller coaster. Make that ass go to bed. I love sativa.

Next thing you know, I'm scrubbing the grout on my fucking bathroom floors. Yeah, I can see why. I was lit. I was ready. While drunk, I once said, high sex is the best sex. My husband has never smoked a day in his life. What? While drunk, I once said high sex is the best sex.

My husband has never smoked a day in his life. Okay, so she probably like made her husband feel bad because he doesn't smoke. Yeah. And she admitted it whenever i mean you gotta meet your needs if your wife likes this while doing this i mean compromise meet in the damn middle i mean it's all about again going back to communication but wheat's legal right yeah i mean pretty much everywhere it's legal yeah i mean if we're doing other things then okay you know going back to that um i feel like um i love sex when i'm drunk i am like fucking jessica rabbit i'm like black blackout britney i'm like

fucking let's go me too me too i'm like so like i just turned into like this little sex kitten you know one of the reasons that helped me get sober and i've never told anybody this this is probably tmi jelly doesn't like drunk sex he likes to fucking party balls to the wall and then come home and pass out so i would get shit phased and be so horny and this motherfucker would not fuck me and i would just be like you know what what is the point of me getting drunk if i'm not gonna get my fucking back banged out you know so i just it was easy for me to stop drinking because i was just like what's the point if i'm not gonna fucking get dick down honestly this railed out in raleigh i'd love that for you but anytime i'm out getting drunk i may i can't get it up to fucking they just pass out that's what jay's problem is is fucking he just he gets whiskey dick and it's such a disappointment

because you're like thank me you're like spread my holes daddy spread eagle and you're like and barely they can just they're fucking talking gibberish yeah literally literally a fucking shit show no fucking hate it how do you handle men sexualizing you i don't think i'm sexualized on the internet are you i sexualize myself i don't think i've ever allowed a man to sexualize me except for when i was molested as a child and whenever I was raped at 16. That's when I was like, you know what? I'm going to fucking turn my sexualness into my power. And I love that power.

I can see me doing that, too. But for different reasons and everything, I've just grown to love myself. I don't need a man to fucking please me. I don't know. Yeah. Girl, I had a time last night by myself. OK. I just feel like it's 2023.

Women are sexualizing themselves. We are. We realize that we are. I mean, I realized this a long time ago, which is why I was a hooker. But it's like a fucking you take your power back and you also own that monetize off of it. So it's like, why not fucking own it it's crazy because I make more money now

with my clothes on than I do with my clothes off really oh yeah it's fucking insane and I've seen your tits those things oh my god

those things are I love you beautiful I love you I'm going to my doctor I want these aww I love you

alright why do women hold out on men cause we've been Fucked over too many fucking god damn times They just probably want to see Like your intentions They're probably like feeling you out

To see like if they do hold out you get mad Here's the fucked up thing here it is A couple months why haven't you tried anything You know what I mean What's wrong Am I not pretty enough for you the fuck like but then again it's also keeping a guard up because you know if you are a single mom you know you want to it's just all about boundaries and stuff but yeah i don't actually i'm contradicting myself

like i hold out on that there well there's i'm fighting with myself i hold out on men there's always two sides to every situation so I would think that if a woman's holding out either one she's really super shy or she just is protecting her energy and it doesn't want to share it with you yet because she's trying to feel you out and see if she's comfortable with you it's been a few months like I'm ready we're not talking about you we're talking about in general I'm ready listen we got a room upstairs does Katnetti want to come over here and just bend you over real quick oh my god that sounds like when i was motorboating you in the elevator oh i love

and you were like people would pay a lot of money to do this. That is so funny. You were like, people pay a lot of money. Good. Hold on one second. I was like, good. Come here, buddy. Someone said, who is someone you want on the podcast, but they won't be on it? Joyce Meyers.

She'll never come on the podcast. Oh, there is no way in hell she's coming I want you to get gold manifesting dolly oh I've been manifesting dolly I want dolly so badly dude everybody go on tiktok and tag dolly let me see why don't you like to scissor honestly I I've never I love a beautiful woman. Me too. Like, I love looking at you, Bunny. Yeah. But I'm not attracted. I could never, even when I could make out with you,

but to me, to go down on another woman, I couldn't do it, even when I'm fucking just hammered or drunk. Well, I have. I've eaten a few boxes in my life. But I just love dick. I love the way the dick feels feels i love the fucking flesh all a mesh and fucking the skin flute a root of toot toot i'm all about it i love sucking dick a lot of people are gonna find out a lot about me right now i love sucking dick i ain't gonna lie i love

just everything it's a fucking performance it is literally i'm about to put on my best i'm gonna put on my dancing boots you know like here we go this jack i've been drinking i'm gonna get that i'm gonna get that dick i love it i just feel like i don't know i love women but to me what is the point of scissoring what are we doing are we meshing beans like what's the goal are we rubbing up i don't know how lesbians like real lesbians have sex so i would love to learn like if there's a lesbian that would love to come on the podcast And show me how to have Lesbian sex Totally down So I can't really speak on it

Yeah So I can't really speak on it But I mean Do you want to go upstairs bunny I'm just gonna Cat daddy who You'll be calling me Fucking dog daddy

We'll be And this is an intermission break Watch these commercials It plays the Looney Tunes. That's all, folks. What has been your favorite part of your existence in this world so far? Me personally, my daughter. My baby, sweet baby girl.

Oh, my God. I love that girl so much. Yeah. And then just. She's funny. She's something oh my god she's your little her little character i'll have to show you some videos i don't want to say this like but there's like a app for like kids that's like a tiktok and her videos i don't want anybody to find it but her videos i'm holy shit. She watches me like no other. I'm like, oh, my God.

I mean, it's just crazy. I'm like, oh, my God, bless me in my fucking teenage years. But, yeah, my daughter. I would say mine is probably just the evolution that I've gone through because I tell everybody I've said this before numerous times I was a piece of shit growing up you know and like it took a lot of self-growth and a lot of looking within um to change and just become a different human so I think I love that I was learning the secrets of the universe and just kind of trying to apply that to your life and just be a better human.

And, you know, I was such a piece of shit kid. Oh, God. That I hope my kids not like that because, oh, God in hell. Yeah. I don't know what I'm going to do. I really don't know what the fuck I'm going to do. Lily's going to be hell on wheels, but it's going to be a good hell on wheels. I hope I'm here for the damn ride. But, damn, I was doing shit at 13.

I should have not been doing. OK, I was doing a 14. My arcade is 14 is 14 now and i'm just like what are you doing like i just don't trust her no i knew what i did you know what amazes me you know how weed's like legal now kids will never know the down under of like gonna go get a fucking mid sack of like you know like in the dark side meeting in the alleyway just shit weed of getting some stems and seeds having to fucking get the seeds out they're missing the experience the shit like burns your throat like oh it was just bottom of the barrel like horse hay literally let me get a dime of that fucking ten dollars stealing it from my mama's purse fucking just gonna go get a mid sack

oh my god I can't what are your thoughts on Hugh Hefner and that era of Playboy I have a lot of mixed feelings I don't think I ever gotten to Playboy so I really can't speak on it I mean yeah I looked up fucking magazines and I fantasized like yeah I want to look like that when I'm older but I don't really know much but But I did love the show growing up. Yeah. Oh, I grew up during the Playboy era. That was like a huge part of my life. I did.

I worked for I did some work for Playboy when I was 23. I want to find they would never put me in the magazine because my body type wasn't considered. I wasn't skinny enough. They told me I needed to lose 15 pounds. Yeah. Fucking bitches. I mean, but it is what it is. Back then, the girls were so much slimmer.

And also, they liked the girl next door. And I've always looked like the whore next door. So, you know. Now. No, no, no. For sure. Even when I was innocent, I still looked like a slut pup. And I'm fine with that.

Trashy Vixen is my thing. And I'm with it. But I think a lot of those girls who used Playboy as a stepping stone, like Holly Madison, Bridget Marquardt, Kendra Wilkinson, all of those girls. Kendra, what happened to her? I think she became like a realtor or something. I'm not sure. Shut the fuck up.

Holly is still fucking being Holly, just a boss ass bitch like she always is. I met Holly back in Vegas a long time ago when she was dating Criss Angel. And she's always just been like a cool bitch. It's never been like, she's never been like pretentious she's never got her head like so big ego just down to earth hold up she dated Chris Angel yeah baby this is all public knowledge oh I'm where the fuck have I been probably just surviving life I think I'm not sure but as far as like the allegations that are coming forward now about Hugh Hefner, I don't agree with them. I think that it's trash.

But at the same time, I feel like if you were involved in that world, it's not a surprise because we've heard all this on the West Coast forever. So I think what's news to you guys literally was just something that everybody turned a blind eye to. Not saying that makes it better, but I'm just saying that it's not shocking. I'm done, Fanna. I'm going to have to do some fucking research tonight. I what i'm doing tonight i am like what series that came out um on hulu about uh it's on hulu yeah i know what i'm doing go down the wormhole yeah i'm gonna call cat daddy and have him clean you want to come over and watch this yeah baby i just bunny i i had no fucking idea i might have to do my damn research That's some shit There you go

Do you think exes can come back together? No I don't either Like I used to think that it could happen But I think that it's just so much fucking water under the bridge It's toxic as fuck Yeah there's a reason you guys broke up But

Jay and I did split in 2018 We split for a good 30 days But In that time Were you guys still like fucking, like going on dates? But we were communicating. I was so mad at him. I wouldn't even talk to him towards the end. I wouldn't answer his text messages, nothing, because I had found out about the affair that

had happened. Right. And I was just like, this is it. Like, I'm done. Once it was confirmed that there was an affair, I was just like, this is it. This is done. I'm never going to talk to him again. There's boundaries in that split up like growth you know what I mean like hey I love you and we need to make this work but if it's fucking mine grant a mind games yeah

oh you guys are split up and now accountability and stuff like that then no but you know it just depends on the situation but nine times out of ten no no don't go back make a lot a good don't go back how do you keep yourself so grounded patient and full of grace i'm tired of being angry all the time yeah life is too fucking short you know i gotta say you are a lot more graceful than i am but some people don't see me on behind the scenes like there's days where i text you i'm like i'm fucking want to fucking scream but i just don't show the internet just like what you tell me you were like don't show them don't show them don't show them but i mean as much as i would love to call some of you bitches out

and everything and i know like who they are and all that but i just i can't i can't let them win but no i i finally had to deal with what you deal with. Like shit. I don't give a fuck. People can call me trashy. They can call me a hooker. But it's harassment. Like, yeah.

It's fucking harassment. Yeah. Like that shit is just whatever. But like, you know, when it starts infecting your own life. Your day to day life with your child. Then that's a problem. Come on. Come on.

What do they call it? Doxing? Doxing. Yeah. Doxing you. Isn't that like illegal? Yeah. And they do it on fuckinging doxing yeah doxing isn't that like illegal yeah and they do it on fucking all the time that's fucking crazy brandon put your bra on there's trouble next door hey how do i sound in the mic huh it's jack i've been drinking dems comes out with her next album

uh i what you know what comes to mind? Fucking Celine Dion. You know what's crazy? Because I'm your lady. There were nights when the wind was so cold. My body falls in love. Okay, I'm done. I love it.

I thought it was like Cher. I'm going to tell you something. I had the worst fucking breakdown in front of cat daddy and he i literally looked at him i wanted to throw my fucking phone in the ocean he grabbed it put me in the golf cart you know what song he fucking plays i'm alive by fucking celine dion blasting it on the golf cart doing donuts and i just forgot about everything bitch if that's not a soulmate i don't know i don't know i think so no man on earth is gonna fucking play celine dion you marry that motherfucker okay no he was like you want to go get a pineapple drink though i was like the fuck

i do you know this big ass pineapple drink all right keeping it spicy tips or tricks how to keep it spicy in a relationship baby go get you a vibrator and learn how to work that exactly you can't listen when you've been in a long-term relationship too that shit gets boring i'm talking like fucking snoozefest.com just bent over like it is like bro you get to a point where you're just like oh god please no like you don't know they don't turn you on or that you don't love them but i mean it's just it gets to a point where you're just like oh god please no like you know not this again they don't turn you on or that you don't love them but i mean it's just it gets to a point where it's like bro no go get you some toys experiment i mean let's have some fun i mean i know i i shocked what's

his face last night he was like hold up what is that i was like i was like we're just gonna close this drawer always keep a drawer full of toys for sure and you can always bring those in the bedroom too with you guys but she said don't i said you can always bring the toys in the bedroom with you guys but don't rely on just a man to make you feel good all the time go learn to love yourself absolutely i've done it quite some time now well i want to be hearing back about cat daddy tonight so you let me know what if he's got all that dick and fucking can't know rhythm it's just like it's like two like two pump chump like what honestly i don't want to brag but that's usually how it is like apparently maybe it's just too good or i like to brag maybe it's just me i don't know i had an ex

who okay let me not even call him know. I had an ex who. OK, let me not even call him an ex. I had a cabana boy. He was way younger than me because I like younger guys. So he was probably like twenty five, twenty six. And I was like thirty five, thirty six. And this dude had a fucking dick. He looked like MGK and had a dick that was like a fucking the forefront of your arm.

I'm talking like it was the most beautiful penis I've ever seen. Even Jelly to this day is like, that boy had a dick on him. That boy had a dick on him. If I've ever seen one. Every time. Because you guys. That boy had a damn dick on him. Yeah, no, for sure.

Every time. Because Jay and I were friends when I was dating this little cabana boy. So, you know, like his dick for some reason got brought Up while we were on I was on tour with Jay Um you know way before him and I Got together but that's a whole nother story So he knows about the dude Anyways this kid could not work his dick

To fucking save his life ain't that some shit Like it's like the bigger it is the more blood It takes to get to it and it just Doesn't ever get there so it's always like Half limp or it's like there's something wrong and i was just like bro listen you are beautiful to look at but that's about it i can't gotta go totally but i do want to make this clear like i i i know i'm having fun and everything with cat daddy but we i i felt i didn't feel this with the Florida Keys guy.

Fuck that dude. If you're listening to this. Fuck the Florida Keys. I never got a good vibe from any of them. He was ugly. Remember I told you about the last one. I did their fucking charts and I was like. I know.

But I was like I love you. Just have fun. Don't get invested. And she was like no this is going to work. And I was like OK baby. I tried to make it work. But damn what a douche. You was a douche. But I'm just like you know what. and she was like no this is gonna work and i was like okay baby i tried to make it work but damn what a douche but i'm just like you know what i'm just having fun or whatever but i if anything

would ever come of it i would i wouldn't make it known i'm in a relationship with him on the internet i don't think you need to know we'll have fun we'll flirt whatever but like he can go on live and flirt with other ladies like calm it back be like baby you beautiful and sexy like make them women feel good yeah you know make them make their day tear down things that make other people happy come on especially with you yeah you have such a target on your back dude i couldn't imagine having to move like that oh my god well fuck you go fuck yourself go fuck yourself oh well Dempsey thank you so much for coming by and doing this episode with us I love you darling I love you so much baby thank you for having me and people learned a lot about me yeah yeah actually I'm a fucking freak I'm a

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