Dumb Blonde - Demps: Tells All

Episode Date: August 16, 2022

The most highly requested guest joins the show this week, the fabulous super sexy single mom and TikTok sensation Demps. She clears up all the rumors about baby daddy drama, toxic relationships, catching cheaters, and what's going on with her love life now. Demps also talks about growing up in Florida as a "bad kid" and what's next for this hottie.  Bunnie: Website  Demps: TikTok See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

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all right gentlemen coming to main stage next this is bunny get up there she's got a tornado of titties coming your way get those dollar bills ready she's got an ass that shakes like michael j fox so get up there and throw throw throw them dollars dude that is fucking iconic what's up sexy bitches welcome to another episode of dumb blonde you fucking crushed it baby can i get a i got the ultimate broadway girl slash single mom extraordinaire slash TikTok sensation. I wouldn't say sensation. No, baby, you are a sensation because everybody. If you want to call it that, I don't know.

Everybody wants to know what Demps is up to. I know it, right? They are just all intrigued in my fucking life. One of the most requested guests ever. Seriously? Besides Trashly. You and Trashly were the two most requested. Shut besides trashly you and trashly were the two most requested shut the front door i did not know that dude above mama tot above everybody

like well instead of making up those lies i guess let's make the record straight here huh i'm not dude i am so down to set the record straight with you me too i love it well let's let's dive in let's start from the very beginning. I want to just get to know Dimps from the ground up. So where were you born? Where were you raised? Oh, God. How the hell did I get here? Here we go. The Joker here. Here we go. So obviously, I'm not born and raised here in Tennessee as much as I wish I was. But I do come from a little small town in Florida people wouldn't think Florida is country but waiting till you get to those outskirts no it is it's fucking buck wild out

there my girl Savannah Dexter is from Florida and she's country as shit yeah it's it's a whole other breed like out there I grew up in plant city on a strawberry field in Orange Groves. Barefoot, baby. That sounds so pretty. The whole way barefoot. That's why I would never wear shoes. That's why I took off my shoes right now. Yeah. I'm not supposed to wear shoes.

I love that. It's like me. I usually take off my shirt, though. And I think, you know, obviously, as time went on, you know, back in 2008, the world went to, or the country went to shit. And then that's when my mom was like, of shit we're going to Nashville and me at 15 years old I was like what the hell is in Tennessee and I moved there here I was like you gotta be fucking kidding me but honestly Tennessee's my home and I don't think I would ever probably leave maybe I don't know I don't

know I've been seeing some tiktoks I know florida i've been fighting with myself recently it's like a battle i understand every time we go to florida because we'll go there for like girl vacations and shit i never want to come looking at like condos to rent on the beach out there and yeah same same not me scrolling through uh rent.com to look at new houses i I'm like, Lily, pack your shit. We're leaving. But then I have to come back home because I have animals, my fur babies and everything. Cole Slaw. I'm a Cole Slaw fan. I almost brought him. Oh, you should have brought him. Chachi might have had a heart attack, but it would have been great. You should have.

I almost brought that little asshole, to be honest. I love him. I love it. I have the same type of relationship with Nashville. I'm from Vegas. I grew up in Vegas. I'm a West Coast girl and I moved here about seven years ago. And when I first moved here, it was culture shock. It was a culture shock. I was like, what the fuck am I doing here?

Like, holy shit. And then now it's like my safe place. Yeah. I come back here and I'm like, OK, it's so fucking peaceful. You know, it was like mid sophomore year. I moved here in the dress code i was like you gotta be shitting me i can't wear holes in my pants you gotta be fucking kidding me i was at the schools out here the schools out here did you go to out here i went to blackman out in murphy's

bro okay and you know of course you get this tan i wasn't blonde at the time i had dark hair believe it or not my natural hair color is black girl the drinks do not match the carpet we don't have any we don't have any carpet oh really well i don't i'm trying to grow mine out i need to get a bikini wax is that what's in i don't know what's in all i know is i'm going to the keys in a couple weeks oh yeah you got to make sure like i need to wax that but anyway when i moved here it was such a culture shock i was like you can't wear tank tops you can't wear short shorts and no holes in your jeans that's crazy because my daughter goes to fucking well i'm not gonna say where she goes but her school these fucking kids run around looking like little hoochie mamas

well maybe they switched it up all i know is what i went to out there that was some bullshit when i was growing up it was the same shit and my kid now i'm like what happened to the fucking uh they they gave up the fingertip rule and like stuff like remember that you know what i'm like what happened to the fucking uh they gave up the fingertip rule and like stuff like remember that you know what i'm talking about yeah like these girls have their ass cheeks are hanging out and i'm like bro you're 14 stop it's different times we're living in different times we're raising little hoe babies but between then you know i'm growing up uh between living in florida and then moving here uh i was a bad fucking kid believe it or not you have brothers you have a twin I have a twin brother that's so crazy I'm prettier yeah yeah so you

have an older she said I'm prettier you have an older brother and then you have the twin yeah so who's older between you and the twin um he's five minutes older so I'm the baby out of four and my big brother came to see my life here in nashville not too long ago some bitch grew like 50 000 followers overnight like i created him a tiktok did one tiktok with him he got like i was like do you know how long it took me to get to 50 000 followers and like you're welcome yeah but i am the baby out of four um i think that's why my brothers and my family is just protected by me, honestly. So when you say you're a bad kid, what do you mean by that? Oh, girl, where do I begin?

And we laugh about it now, me and my family. You know, just not giving two shits about high school or school in general, throwing house parties. Oh, yeah. I love a good house party. My family always talk about this this one time my parents went out of town they went to disney or some shit i can't remember i said i was oh well i'm gonna go spend the night my friends snuck back in to the house i had three different high schools at my house that night so you know so demps knows how to throw a rager i do not

shocking and sometimes people will reach out to me on IG. Hey, do you remember that rager you threw back in 2009? I'm like, yeah, it still fucking haunts me. You're like, I'm still grounded. Yeah. Xbox got stolen. TVs got stolen. Smoke detectors out.

What? Cats went running out in the yard. My drunk ass passed out in the yard. My grandmother just looking at me i wake up and there's cops oh girl it was bad that sounds like a fucking fun time i steal in my parents car that's how you're supposed to that's how i did all this shit girl i literally stole my parents extra spare key and they had no fucking idea and i would just like they would go to work and i'm like okay bye i'm hopping on the

bus and just take that brand new honda pilot down on like you know the uh down to saint pete or clearwater you're a better fucking 15 you're a better car thief than i because when i stole my mom's car it fucking rained and we got mud tracked all on the inside and then it ran out of gas i always got caught every time i tried to do some shit i was always in fucking i got caught And we got mud tracked all on the inside and then it ran out of gas. Shut the fuck up. I always got caught. Every time I tried to do some shit, I was always in fucking trouble. I got caught one time, one fucking time. And I remember pulling up and I was just started like doing that ugly cry like,

you know, you don't know what to do. But my parents tried grounding me. Hell, I remember when they had the security code to the house, lock me in. So if anytime I opened up the door or something, you know, the alarms would go off. And back then I started smoking cigarettes and like, fuck this. I'm gonna go outside and smoke a cigarette on the patio, you know. But yeah, I was a bad kid. Bad fucking kid.

I can relate. I was always in trouble, too. I feel like free spirits like us always grow up to fucking do something with our lives though it's like we figure it out yeah but i haven't honestly when i turned 18 i was like okay this is like where shit can get real so i'm gonna turn it down i literally had all the experience i needed to in my teens so i've never been arrested never went to jail, believe it or not. I know, right?

No, that's awesome. Try pulling that up on Reddit. I can't say the same. What'd you say? Demps does not have a criminal record. Try pulling that up on Reddit. There you go. It's from Demps' mouth, ladies and gentlemen.

Start digging, Reddit motherfuckers. Yeah, start digging. So are you close with your parents still? What's the relationship with you guys me and my mother um what i like i said i was a troubled teen um me and her actually didn't really get close until i got pregnant with my daughter lily lynn um as you know i was a bad kid i was not gonna pass high school staying here in tennessee so my mama shipped me off to Pittsburgh, Pennsylvania to finish out high school. It's so dreary out there.

Oh, God. Remember we were out there on tour? It was so dreary. I mean, there's a lot of history. I love Pittsburgh because of the history. Culture. But then I looked in the mirror. I was like, all right, get your shit together.

You know what I mean? I went to cosmetology school. So up there, you can go to high school and go to trade school half the day, which I thought was ballin'. You know what i mean so after i graduated i was already a licensed hairdresser working in one of the biggest salons downtown pittsburgh yay and then um you do strike me as a hairdresser i can see dimps being a hairdresser i have a little salon in my house believe it or not i got the full-on chair and everything do i enjoy doing hair no yeah i'd pay to go get that

shit done i went to beauty school too i think every woman yeah in our yeah beauty school it was like the easiest thing to do but um my relationship with my mother didn't really um like get full into effect until i had my daughter now Now with my father, it really didn't bond until after he divorced his, um, wife, the third one. Oh, dad's been, he sounds like my dad. My dad's been married seven times. Shout out Bill. My mama always said third luck is her charm. So, and I love my stepdad now that I have, I've known him since I was like 12 we have a good relationship but um I hope my dad can find love one day was um his uh was his your stepmom you know what's crazy is that abusive or just she didn't want you guys to have a relationship my first stepmom was a

little toxic growing up I um granted I have good memories of my childhood growing up on that strawberry field, you know, a tree house and all that. But I grew up around a lot of yelling, a lot of fucking yelling. You know, when you go to your mom's house for a week or whatever, it's la, la, la, la. And then you go to your dad's and you're exposed to all of this. and you're exposed to all of this and but I it just it's crazy to think you know the jealousy of an older woman if that person has a daughter because I always experienced the stepmoms being jealous of me because of me and my dad's relationship and it just like got in the way of our relationship you know what I mean absolutely

so I I can honestly say I never really gotten along with any of my stepmothers and it sucks I just I tried I lord knows I tried it's not your job as a child to get along to try to have get along and initiate a relationship with a grown woman it's it baffles me that I could never gotten along with any of my stepmothers but that's my own dad's issue he's got a real picker on him yeah I'm gonna let him figure that out but as far as that I'm the as far as I know I'm the closest to my dad of each three kids because my older brother is my half brother believe it or not right so um i have a great relationship with my parents now right now i think every kid goes through that where it's like when we're younger we think our parents are like

just fucking can't stand them like they don't know what they're talking about and then as light you start having like life experience you look back and you're like okay you're an ignorant teen you don't know anything you think you know everything I remember fist fighting my fucking mama out in the front yard and like every mother's day card is a sorry card for all the shit that I put her through I'm like I love you so fucking much like I talk to my mama every day good every day I have said me and my mom um she helped me raise my daughter and I'm very blessed to to have her I love that. Let's talk about that. So how old were you when you got pregnant with Lily?

Bless it. I just turned 21. I remember because I got Nicki Minaj concert tickets and I was so pumped. And I was a hairdresser at the time and I did not feel okay. And I was like, fuck it. I'm going to go down to the John Eagle. If you guys know what that is up north. I went out and walked my ass to a John Eagle, got a pregnancy test, one of those clear blue ones.

Sure as shit, no, I had a client processing. I was like, I'm going to be right back. Okay. And I went to the bathroom. This is real life. I was like, I'm going to be right back as she's processing. Pee on a stick and sure as shit no it said five to six weeks pregnant and let alone i met this man as i'm just finished up beauty school let's talk about it can we talk

about his dad let's talk about it i just want to know i was a waitress at buffalo wild wings wrapping up my days in beauty school and here comes this man he walks in and I if I close my eyes I can remember the table he's sitting at and everything and the friends that he's with and here I am you know he looks at me like a southern belle blonde hair I just became blonde by then yeah okay I'm a new blonde have all the fun yeah I just became blonde by the time and he puts on this little act of course course, I'm flirting back too and everything. And I will never forget this. He laid down his business card and he goes, call me.

I was like, okay. Business card. What did he do? He owned a detail shop. Okay. Detail. So he's good with his hands. Yeah.

That's probably why it took me a long time to leave that ass. Probably a long time to leave him. What was your guys' relationship dynamic? How long were you guys together? Girl, at first it was just like lust. You know, that you just turn. I wasn't even 21 yet. It was that lust.

Like, who is this? I never want to leave you you know I was still living with my dad I was like I'm gonna stay with you every night blah blah and granted he showed me things that I never thought I would ever like dive into know about I was oblivious but is he older than you he was a little older than me not by far yeah maybe like two years oh okay that's yeah like maybe two years and forgive me if i'm having to sit here and think because it's it's been a while and bless it i've buried those memories fucking deep i buried those memories deep at first it was lust the sex was great oh my god and i think that's what got me i

was so attracted i feel like yeah i feel like the most toxic relationships have the best sex i was like i've never experienced this like i got goosebumps i was like i've never experienced this i'm never going fucking back like fuck that you know what i mean dick whipped yeah i was making my own money um i was a hustler believe or not I any buck I could make I would go fucking make it I can see that oh my god yeah and then um it was like three months in you started seeing the um that's always when it happens three months like the mask starts fucking sliding off I don't want to get too much into this but my dad actually kicked me out remember when I told you about stepmoms like hating me for some reason whatever I came

home from Buffalo Wild Wings one night and found all my shit on the curb in trash bags I had nowhere to go so I was dating this guy Lily's father at the time he took me in granted we even been dating but what maybe two months not even that um so there's that so I moved in with him and like I said through Mark I was like something's got to give you know what I mean very angry toxic yelling drinking partying that's when I started doing things um you know uh diving into a new error like i never thought i would do i learned about like what cocaine was and all of this i before i even had lily you know i started experiencing with all this shit this new lifestyle this adrenaline rush well it's easier to pull somebody down than it is to pull somebody up so if you're in a relationship i was sucked in i was sucked the fuck in i got goosebumps like i was here you you have this like innocent fucking girl i mean granted i i i knew what weed was all right my big brother taught me how to roll

my first blunt at age of 15 all right i mean i knew what fucking weed was. But when it came to that other stuff, girl. Just cocaine or was it other things? It got a little from on. We'll get there. But I started doing, you know, all that stuff with him and partying, like just a different fucking lifestyle. And then, you know, the toxic and just it was bad. It was very bad. And I'm trying to remember.

Was it abusive? It was very bad. And I'm trying to remember. Was it abusive? It was very abusive. And I. Verbally and physically? Mentally and fucking physically. I've never experienced any of that. But when. But you think you're so in love.

You think you just want somebody to love you so bad. I was in a severely toxic relationship for about three or four years abusive I mean like I'm talking like cracked my larynx fucking strangled me so bad every blood vessel in my eyes popped my nose has a crack right here like there's just so much but I loved that dude we had the most amazing sex and it was like he's gonna get. You almost feel like you can fix them. Or you can't fix them. Exactly. Or you feel like you're deserving of it because of the childhood trauma that you grew up with.

So it's like, do I deserve this? Am I just being a bitch? Am I wrong for thinking he's wrong for putting his hands on me? People don't understand the dynamic of an abusive relationship unless they've been through it. Girl, you're at war with yourself. Absolutely. You are at fucking war with yourself.

Yes, ma'am. So here it is. I make do do i'm still working my ass off um working multiple waitressing jobs um because i had to support myself you know living with this man i mean he's not giving me any fucking money that's for sure was he bringing in any money or did he stop uh he was he was a i want to say at the time he was a successful business owner in Pittsburgh because he was a detailer. He owned his own business. And then there was a time where I helped him with the business, you know, doing the filing and helping him, you know, with whatever expenses he fucking needed or hell, even going down

to the shop and getting my fucking hands dirty because he needed he was behind on shit you know what I mean oh it's almost like we had our good days and bad days we I felt like a team but there were times um the abuse was so bad but even before I had Lily Lynn I was like I can't fucking do this anymore and I would up and leave I would pack my shit in 30 minutes and be on the road back home to Tennessee and I would stay here for maybe three or four days. And I'd be like, I miss him. I love him so much. I'm going back. I'm going back.

You get addicted to the pain. Yeah. And here I am back, get a new job, make fucking money, back into the same fucking cycle, yelling, screaming. And then, you know, you think you're doing so good, and then it all hits you. Like, this is my fucking life now, I guess. And then you know, you think you're doing so good and then it all hits you like this is my fucking life now, I guess. And then you get fucking pregnant.

And I remember going home after I was a hairdresser still. And I remember crying in the fucking shower and him coming home. He looked at me. He goes, it's going to be OK. And I just see in his eyes. I'm like, I don't know if i want this i i already know what it was like living with you granted this is almost like two years in dating his ass right and in within that two years i've already done did moved back to pittsburgh to tennessee at least three or four

fucking times just the thought of raising a child and the instability right but you know that is the father your child what are you gonna do all right let's fucking do it was he excited he was he was excited but granted um there were times where we get into arguments and he would tell me that's not the fucking father uh my kid blah blah blah blah and like make me feel like a piece of fucking shit because right now i'm in fucking survival mode all right i got a baby in me i need to fucking make some money where the hell what the hell are we gonna do we need a better house because right now we're living in a shithole in pittsburgh right you know what i mean like uh when i'm talking shithole i'm

talking about like gunshots like you can't even walk to the quick mark to go get a pack of cigarettes, you know, at 10 o'clock at night without getting, trying to get mugged. You know what I mean? Um, so right now I was in just fucking survival mode. Make sure this baby comes out healthy and all of that.

That's so good that you have that mama bear instinct in you. Cause some, I knew I wanted to keep the baby and just do what I needed to do so as time went on I went into medical assisting I have a certification in medical assisting and I was going to school full-time when I was pregnant and waitressing at night time so you got I did that up until I was nine months fucking pregnant nine months fucking pregnant I did that and before it's my life has been so back and forth and before that I remember packing up my shit and coming back to Tennessee because the abuse was so bad was he physically abusing you

while you were pregnant yeah I remember being in the hospital a couple of times and he would you know what the funny fact is he put you he put you in the hospital like there were nights where we got physical and he would shove me in a porcelain tub like and everything i would be like you know bleeding like or spotting and i would be so fucking nervous like i gotta go to the emergency room just to be make sure i'm okay and you know what the funny fucking part is i remember laying in that hospital with all these shit on me and him where the fuck are you you're not at the hospital blah blah and those nurses looking at me like we can't let you leave and i'm like you gotta let me go yeah you have to let me fucking go right uh so you know

before i gave birth there was times where i can't tell you and even my friends in Pittsburgh they would always say Dems would pack up her car like she's just moving down the street you know what I mean now I totally know what you're talking about because I did the same thing in my abusive relationship or I would kick him out because it was always my places so I would pack his shit and kick him out at least like once a week like girl okay if there was a sport of packing your shit up, I would fucking win the Olympics. I would literally win the Olympics. Your body is in constant fight and flight. And I didn't realize that until after I got out of the domestic violence relationship.

It took literally me being with Jay for the past six years to learn that that's not how you're supposed to be loved and to regulate my nervous system from that relationship it's finally just getting somewhat regulated like you don't realize the trauma because there's a book called the body keeps score I don't know if you're into reading or anything like that baby I can't read her spell hardly so um I'm gonna go and put that out there the florida school now the florida school systems failed my ass okay well they have audio books too because i i love a good audio book because i can't fucking sit there and concentrate but it's called the body keeps score and if you ever have time listen to it and i promise you anything that you're holding on from that you'll

you'll start you'll start having like light bulbs go off right and you're gonna be like holy shit like that i do this you know i don't think i had light bulbs go off until right as um i was about to give birth here i am nine months pregnant i just went to school all day waitressing at the spaghetti warehouse in pittsburgh they shut down but i absolutely love that place um and i would always come home and find him passed out on the fucking couch was he still using drugs and well that's when i started to learn about other shit like pills and all this hardcore fucking shit that i had no idea and i think it dawned on me right as i was giving birth it was not a pleasant experience and i think that's why i never want another kid you got my mama my mama flew up from Tennessee to come be with me for a few weeks I remember we having to get a hotel

because baby daddy didn't want my mama at our house and here I am in full-blown labor they sent me home we're in a hotel I didn't give birth until the next day you got my mama and his mama fighting in the waiting room. What was she fighting about? His family, I wanted to say loved and hate me at the exact same time. Me and his mom got into fights. I remember. Because it's always the narcissistic moms who protect the narcissistic sons.

There was one time this fucker hid my car, put a refrigerator in front of the door, couldn't let me in. I'm about eight months pregnant. put a refrigerator in front of the door couldn't let me in I'm about eight months pregnant and his mom comes over just starts yelling at me accusing me of pushing her on the acting like she's on the phone with cops like batshit fucking crazy and then that's just when I realized it's just never gonna fucking work so move forward to me giving birth this day that's supposed to be the most magical day of my fucking life. You know, bringing this beautiful daughter into the world. And you got these people fighting. I'm rushed into emergency C-section because Lily's heart rate dropped.

I mean, I'm fucking all doped up on all kinds of fucking drugs. I don't know what's going on. And then I had the option of baby daddy or my mother. And as much as I wanted my mama next to me I knew if I didn't have him next to me it was gonna be a big thing um I think I really found out he was using drugs when I was laying in bed still coming down off of all the shit he they were giving me holding my daughter and he looked up on my chart and he saw what they were giving me like oxycodone every whatever because hello I just had my fucking insides ripped out he was like you should really

sneak me a fucking oxycodone and I will never fucking forget that I will never forget that and believe it or not I never had the moment to bond with Lily Lynn after I gave birth. His family barged in and passing around my newborn baby that I just popped out like a damn hot potato. And I just remember I'm just shaking coming down off all this fucking shit they gave me. Nobody's even asking you how you're doing. No, not one fucking person. Oh, my God. Just cameras all in her in her face i never really um sorry if i get cry but no it's okay i could tell i never experienced like holding her and

you just got this fucking family that's just so toxic and what was i gonna do you know what the fuck was i gonna do I remember if you speak up then you get slapped down they gave me the option they were like so you can go home this day or you can stay an extra day I looked at my mama I was like I don't want to go home I'm gonna stay here in the hospital for another day and granted she had to get back to Tennessee and I looked at her I was like I don't know what i'm gonna do because believe it or not he forgot me at the hospital even though my mama was with me he was supposed to pick lily and i up it was supposed to you know this you see it like a lifetime movie oh picking your baby up going home blah blah you paint this picture in your head yeah

forgot to pick us up well okay when you say forgot was he just but didn't answer the phone calls I don't even know what he was doing that day for you didn't didn't answer the phone calls or anything but I remember the day I got home he came to the house and he was just on this like adrenaline rush you know what I mean and I just looked at my mom and I was like it's okay I knew he was using so as time went on my mom went home I suck it up the abuse still got worse and worse I like I said I'm in fucking survival mode I'm doing what I need to do to finish my medical assisting school because I was I was still pregnant while going there so I need to do to finish my medical assisting school because I was I was still pregnant while going there so I need to finish school and granted some of his family was supportive and helped me watch

Lily while I went to school and all that did he ever help watch Lily honestly I want to say there was only a couple times I don't even think he ever gave her a bath wow so in the midst it it took a long about maybe until Lily was 16 months the abuse just I remember my mom calling me and she goes I'm afraid to pick up the phone because it's just you're not gonna be here anymore my whole family went through it with me no that's what happens my whole fucking family went through it with me it's so good that they had your back though and like were at least some sort of peace and such the chaos for you i remember like sleeping with like knives under my bed sneaking off to um you know domestic violence like therapy on thursdays and i would tell them oh i'm gonna just go hang out with some of my

friends a blah blah you know lying when i I'm actually getting help and support and all that. And I did everything. I did everything to take care of that girl. You know, I got on the state assistance, you know, WIC to provide formula to get clothes. I fucking did everything. He was just, honestly, I look back and I'm like, I don't even think I ever knew that guy. was just honestly i look back and i'm like i don't even think i ever knew that guy so after hearing this story i can completely understand why you you know don't want him to be a part i don't know if it's do you not want him to be a part of the baby i tried oh you did believe it or not lily was two

he came and stayed at my house here in tennessee i lord knows i fucking tried even my family well let's rewind real quick then so when was your breaking point when were you finally like you know what I'm leaving I'm taking the baby I gotta go when Lily was about 15 months old she can't even walk and I remember him hugging her and he was like he literally just said goodbye and let me leave i had all my shit packed he literally let me walk out that door was he still using at the time too and maybe when you're not in the right state of mind yeah when you're on those type of drugs yeah and granted i'm i'm not innocent he introduced me to things that i've tried i'm hella not innocent right but i never got hooked because i knew i i was better than that shit right i had a fucking daughter i know like i said i'm fucking survival mode to make a life

for myself yeah so so you packed up the car and where did you go you came actually my twin brother drove up and drove my car my piece of shit hyundai sonata back to tennessee my twin brother drove up and drove my car, my piece of shit, Hyundai Sonata, back to Tennessee. My twin brother drove up, and he drove my piece of shit down, and my mama put Lily and I. It was Mother's Day of 2016, Mother's Day. And I slept on my mama's couch, and my mom and I looked at each other. I was like, I'm not going back, I promise you. I'm not going to go back. It's almost like you know when you're done like no matter how many times

you've gone back there's always that one time that you're just finally like you know what fuck this i'm not going back all the fucking abuse black eyes busted lips fucking contusions like his family didn't give two shits they didn't give two shits I think the only person that gave a shit was his grandmother who passed away about two years ago but and his other grandmother were the the only people that absolutely like believed me what was actually going on by like behind closed doors but yep Lily was a baby I here I am sunshine and rainbows I'm starting a new life for myself baby I'm back here in Tennessee living on my mama's couch I got my a job at the goat making fucking bank yay what's the goat oh you never been to the goat they have one here in the gulch if you guys don't know please

go check out their food I absolutely love it oh my god hot chicken dip uh anyway i got the taste of um hustling pretty much like just working my fucking ass off and i think this is where me and my mama actually bonded because she helped me raise my daughter every weekend my mom would watch lily lynn while i would go waitress until three o'clock in the morning bartending go mama go go mama go shout out Tammy anyway I finally had money rolling in I got my first fucking apartment on my own um but you know obviously I still struggled because as a waitress you never know how much money you're gonna make or bring in and then yeah just fucking about two a year and a half of fucking just hustling cleaning houses scrubbing toilets doing whatever I could just to make the fucking rent whatever I fucking could to make that damn rent I did it baby do you trust I would go shovel shovel cow shit if i needed to i hear you i'm the same way

anyway i gotta do to get that money so you're doing great you're doing you know you're working your ass off you're hustling you've got your baby your mom and you are doing great i'm starting to find myself again right i'm finding out i look at the mirror when they come back no and yeah and I'm looking in the mirror I'm about 24 oh god I'm about to be 29 so I'm like 23 24 I'm looking in the mirror I'm like all right this is who the fuck I am I got this I'm looking at Lily Lynn I was like I got this baby it's just you and I baby girl it's you and I and so you know I get it better as time moves forward I find a better house you know bigger house a backyard and all this more room um believe it or not I actually got I was done with waitressing because I got fired they got sick of my shit calling out all the time but Lily Link kept getting sick they were done with my ass calling out all the time single mom shit um i

became a bail bondsman yay awesome bail bondsman started making even more money uh that didn't work out you know how the owners just fall in love with you and get jealous so that was some shit did you work for a bail bondsman out here who was it oh my gosh can we say that we can bleep it we'll bleep it yeah bail bonds okay i i had a problem with bells but bail bonds i don't know if you know who she is all right so that's davidson so i worked with wilson williamson county and rutherford okay we didn't touch davidson right okay gotcha but man what a drone rush that shit was huh i felt like a badass with like a little badge on hell I'll tell you what a pretty woman get you every time but I I knew that job wasn't for me because I felt bad uh putting people back

in I was like you know what there's my luck watch a fucker recognize me at Walmart or something yeah and then you bitch like you put me back in you set me up I can't yeah you always have to watch your back in that industry I dabbled in it too i had a thing called west coast fugitives on um on the west coast with my ex my now ex he was a bail a bondsman he could pass his test i couldn't pass my fucking test but i still went on the ride well the test is easy they practically not the one in vegas here in tennessee not in vegas anybody because he can become a bail bondsman here in Tennessee. Vegas was hard, man. Really? I was like, what the fuck, dude?

Yeah. But he passed his, and we did the thing, too. It's an adrenaline rush. Just like you. It's an adrenaline rush. But at the same time, I was like, I'm no better than these people. Yeah. Like, what the fuck am I doing?

The fuck I was putting you back in that fucking shithole. Like, I don't, you know what? I can't do this. And plus, the owner fell in love with me. He got jealous. Because this was the time that I tried to let my baby daddy come back into my life to make it work with my two-year-old daughter at the time okay fast forward here we are two years old all right um fucking he was still

not better blah blah I remember him laying on the Lily Lynn's bunk beds he said he was fucking sick but I know what dope sick is I'm not fucking stupid i mean i have friends that were addicts and who overcame their addiction so how long did the reunited last for like how long was he out here for trying to work things out a girl was like christmas and then you fast for no for her birthday i let him come down and then Christmas it was no better each fucking time I fucking tried yeah and then you know Lily Lynn just turned maybe three no no she just turned two and he came to Christmas when she was two and then honestly the last time I fucking checked he got married had another fucking kid and he's been doing his fucking thing

and then now he's crying on the internet fucking a i see his ass i see his ass on the internet i said i know you lying where the fuck have you been don't you love when you get a little bit of notoriety or a little bit of attention now why now but why because i have a fucking number in front of my name and i just blew up like because, where the fuck have you been? Because people are giving, because he's a narcissist. And one, they want to be seen. They want to be heard. Well, baby, he couldn't take the heat. He made a, after two days, he made a statement, him and his wife.

Oh, we can't take this. The internet, blah, blah. We're going away. Oh, what's wrong? You can't take the fucking heat? Yeah. Like, oh, yeah. So, I mean,

I'm so sick of the internet portraying me like, oh, she's a bad mother. No, you think I wanted to fucking struggle as a single mother. You think I wanted to do the things I had to do to fucking survive. Yeah. Like you got me fucked up.

You got me messed up. Well, there's always a, there's always two sides. There's always three sides. There's your story, his story and the truth, you know,

and you're not saying anything that i'm sure that you would say here i'm fucking lying but i'm sure he would corroborate the same thing you know like he might be cleaned up now but back then baby i don't know who that man is yeah if he came in this room and sat down i it's like getting to know a whole new person maybe he is clean maybe he's a great. Does he call? Does he talk? Like anything. No.

Never tries to reach out. Just literally went straight to the Instagram instead of trying to reach out to you. Pretty much. Because I did see the post that he posted. Like, I miss my daughter. Daddy's coming for you. I love you. But those were pictures that I took and he just reposted them.

Like, what? I have friends of mine, like my best friend, I'll say her name, Abby Fickley, who I went to high school with and like my ride or die. She goes, dude, do you know he posted this? I'm like, what the fuck? It's not like you don't even know who your daughter is. And you want to say daddy's coming. Where the fuck have you been?

Right. And the only reason why, you know, the whole child support thing, the only reason why I get $25 a week or something, it's like restitution from the state. Oh, $25 a week. You can definitely raise a child with that. Because I needed help with daycare. Here I am working a nine to five in the medical field. But you don't need to make an excuse as to why you need child support from the man who created a child with you. I didn't never ask for child support or anything.

It was the state coming after his ass. You guys are better baby mamas than I because literally if I had a child with somebody, we are splitting everything down the middle or we're doing child support. After all the abuse and shit I went through, you just want to fucking just block out everything and just move on with your life.

I understand that, but just to hear you have to justify why you're even getting $25. People on the internet are fucking crazy. Since we're talking about some rumors, a lot i understand that but just to hear you have to justify why you're even getting 25 people on the internet are fucking crazy since we're talking about some rumors let's rewind back to the situation that happened with your mom too can we talk about that yeah let's go she'll tell you i feel like you know i hate even bringing them up but reddit man they are just always creating drama for no fucking reason they are obsessed i'm telling you like i'm gonna have to give them pto like do you guys like not fucking sleep like i'm gonna have to like give

y'all paid time off or something can you imagine being that invested in somebody's life that you literally just every day have to like every waking moment post about what they're doing i kind of find it flattering like knowing that like I wake up and I post something and somebody's like you know looking at their like you just you just your your light irritates their demons pretty much I kind of find it flattering so cheers mama I know who you are yeah so what happened with the mama situation that they were trying to drag your mom for her mugshot her mugshot her pretty little mugshot is all over the internet. And I love it.

You know, I was born cross-eyed. I'm going to do it right here in the camera. Every baby picture of my ass, I would look like, here's my cute little twin brother. Nothing wrong with him. And here's my ass just sitting there like, she's like so of course um i don't know the full terminology of what it was called that i had it's a fucking big word that i probably can't pronounce anything having to do with the eyes is always so fucking long and weird optic i don't know anyway and my mom i needed surgery and hell my mom said she wasn't working but she was working until she found you know

i'm gonna say it uh her sugar daddy at the time which i love we stan a mama with sugar i love my first stepdad charlie shout out to you charlie you are the real mvp we me my first stepdad we still have a good relationship i absolutely love him. So here you are. You have a young mother who had four kids, needs to get her youngest baby's ass fixed. She committed Medicaid fraud, food stamp fraud. She ain't ashamed of it. Yeah. She owns it.

She goes, I don't give a shit. I needed to do what you needed to do. And she paid her dues. Yeah, she paid her restitution and everything. We all fucking make mistakes you know but the fact that people went digging and brought that shit up i was about my mom and you know what's crazy they pulled up somebody else's fucking criminal record linked with her name and it's like crack cocaine drug dealing i was like mom you done cocaine with

me i was like what the fuck? And she goes, no, bitch, I've never done any of that. They pulled up a wrong criminal record linked to her name. So she was laughing at the fact about that. But she did what she needed to do to help me. Mama Bear protecting her cub and doing what she had to do so that you had a better life. Yeah, well, so i'm not cross

side 24 days that's what i mean so you're not bullied and like you know harassed because children are fucking mean man children are fucking mean but i embrace that shit now when i get drunk a little bit or like you know talking my eye will like drift off and you just like kind of pop it back in place when i get drunk when i get drunk i look cross-eyed too and i don't even have a reason sometimes my tiktoks if i'm talking to the camera you slowly see it like go and i'm like oh yeah my bad hey we got a floater here we got a floater i'm supposed to wear glasses 24 7 but i don't oh god i fucking know bifocals there comes a time in your life where you just have to give in and finally fucking wear them like i was blind for so long and then finally i was just like you know what i'm this is

it i'm gonna wear glasses i think dimps with glasses on would be hot honestly it's a good time you gotta pay for that shit i think it would be hot yeah when's the dimps of coming out oh my god you know how many times people have asked me if i had an only fans dude only fans made me a millionaire honestly i'm tell you right now before i even thought about making a tiktok or anything i had a conversation with one of my dearest friends and she knows who she is she was i remember her calling me she goes i don't give a fuck when anybody says about me i'm sick and tired i'm I'm not having money. I was like, yeah, I'm with you. Because right then I just, the pandemic was just starting.

And I was like, well, fuck, I'm broke is a fucking joke. I got maybe 50 bucks in my bank account. I got rent, groceries, like, you know, not a car payment because Dempst drives pieces of shit. I don't like car payments. It's probably why my car is in the shop right now. You're probably fucking smart though No not really but

Nevertheless I made at OnlyFans but I never posted anything Oh everybody is going to go Looking for your OnlyFans Go put the subscription up because motherfuckers Are going to subscribe I want to say the username is like Demps

Demps93 I don't fucking know it was like two years ago i made it only fans oh yeah listen reddit will find it ass pic reddit will find it get on your job haters get on your job i'm gonna leave it up to you you guys gonna find that let me know what her username is but i I never, I never fucking made one. I just, it's not that I like never wanted to. I just like, it's just. You just haven't felt the need. I just haven't felt the need.

Like I feel like being naked and intimate with somebody that's, that's a connection. That's an energy level. That's, you know. Not me. I will spread my love. I love that for you girl. I'm like an. Not me. I will spread my love. I love that for you, girl. I will spread my, I'm like an old hippie. I will just sprinkle love everywhere.

But that doesn't mean like if I'm on summer vacay and mommy finds like a little summer fling, I'll spread it wide open, baby. I think that's why I'm going to the Keys in two weeks. I couldn't, I'm like, you know. Bust it open, Dempiana. I think that's why I was like, you know what? I'm going to see you again. Let me go ahead and book that flight in Airbnb.

Yeah, we're going to get to this love affair that you are leaking on the internet. But let's rewind back a little bit. And OK, you tried to work it out with baby daddy. That didn't work out. What does Demps do now? Honestly, I got into my first relationship after baby daddy. Is this the one that you caught cheating? Yeah.

Okay. I do do my research. Despite what Reddit says, I do my research on my guests before they come on. I was not on the internet. Demps was like, Demps was still Demps. Right. All right. And where did Demps come from?

Is that your last name? Real quick. Dempsy is my last name. But in high school, living in Pittsburgh, I was at a house party. And this guy named Ian. Shout out, Ian. He looked at me. He goes, Demps.

And I looked at him. And I've been called Dempsey my whole life with softball and sports and stuff. And it just fucking stuck. I love it. That's how Benny was with me, too. It just, like, I got goosebumps. It just literally just fucking stuck and I've been built a brand off of it pretty much like I'm in the middle of

trademarking it like I just literally just who I am yeah so after uh what was your question sorry we kind of bounce around um after uh you and baby daddy tried to work it out it didn't work out he went back to to fucking pittsburgh or wherever pennsylvania yeah pennsylvania doing his thing living his life and here i am like i said excuse me i'm in survival mode all right i'm still trying to make this fucking money i got rent i got daycare to afford i got fucking clothes like whatever the hell my daughter needs to give her a good life i'm in fucking flight i'm working multiple jobs whatever the fuck i can do to make 20 bucks all right i meet this guy i was at a halloween party i was dressed up like ariana grande i'm gonna have to fucking show you that photo because it's actually it's like that TikTok sound it is so bad I will give you it is you need to make that a TikTok

it's so bad the way I try dressing up like Ariana Grande anyway I meet this guy he's Russian and I think I connected with him is because my dad has a thing with Russian women I tell him to stop searching on fucking line for Russian women I can't even take it and anyway so I'm like oh yeah my dad loves Russian like you know he'll talk to me in Russian so we grew a bond right then and there next thing you know we go on dates I honestly fell in love with this guy and I'm when I mean big Russian I mean he's fucking Oh no they build him good You know what I mean like Fucking full on whatever

I couldn't see dimps hanging off of a Russian's arm That's so funny When we get off here I'll show you He's still my fucking DMs He's still in love with me You know you are He wouldn't be DMing you if he wasn't uh-huh snapchat like what he's still obsessed with me anyway not obsessed but in love um anyway i fell

in love i'm still working at the um hospital nine to five blah blah but that was more mental abuse um it was almost like he was embarrassed by me because here i am i left my baby daddy i had a few years to find out who the fuck i am i'm loud i'm noxious i'm outgoing and i own that shit and um he also had his insecurities put him out on me i did everything for him like whatever i could do to make him feel loved and like one time one morning he went out uh the night before i had a gut feeling like a knots in my fucking stomach and i was like lily lynn let's go she wanted her barbies from his house and i had a key to his fucking house wouldn't you know i show up at his fucking apartment you guys are still together we're still together baby i find this pretty pink phone on the

floor walking in his bedroom. Like I said, I had a key to his house. Lily Lynn wanted her Barbies. Green, she's like three, three and a half. All right. And I pick up the phone, lift back the covers. I see this girl. I'm not even fucking kidding you.

Butt ass fucking naked like this. Eyes like fucking deer and headlights why cover the hootenanny now i will never fucking forget this i'm looking at her fucking like she's full on fucking like lips out everything wow and granted he's fully fucking clothed so none of this makes fucking sense like what the fuck happened you know what i mean i got my fucking who here yeah like exactly like what the fuck so i have my daughter who's in the fucking doorway you know what i mean i just instantly fucking lost it i'm like what the fuck bubba start being and i'll never forget this my daughter was like here mommy here's your shoe i was like you know what i can't

do this i have my daughter with me i grabbed her barbies got in the car and fucking went out to dixon tennessee to go hang out with my brother on the boat that day crying my fucking eyes out what did the girl say did she say anything oh girl i still see her nowadays oh really she's a manager at one of the local restaurants in my town oh no i honestly i'll drink my martini in front of her i'm like girl bye like i don't even i don't i don't even give two blind shits honestly so right after i broke up with him tiktok um quarantine just happened like tiktok was just like a thing i got on it and if people have time and scroll back far enough my tiktoks are fucking cringy i mean i think everybody's starting out the lighting is shit the sounds are shit like it's just bad i did not want to get on

tiktok she made me get on fucking tiktok i was like i'm not fucking doing dances i'm not fucking i'm not doing it i don't do dances i can't i grew up in here i'm like wait five six seven eight my kid like tries to show me how to do these dances and i'm like bro i'm not wired i can twerk and i can be i'll give you a lap dance nobody's seen dance twerk but then i'm gonna shake that ass i want to see dims maybe off camera you gotta pay for that you gotta pay for that well they do have to pay for it because it is on patreon no but you know here i am and i was like all right i'm gonna start tiktok here i am making comical videos about because we just bought a boat together like a

30-foot boat that we were fixing up and all this shit and like i started making comical videos like you know about to go bust out my boyfriend's boat get it out of my driveway blah blah blah yeah and then i just started posting about my fucking life being a single mama catching the damn fucking school bus yeah which that is some real life fucking shit by the way baby that's some real life fucking shit yeah I hope you know that no I know that's not 14 year old that's not skidded out or anything that is some me bitching to the camera you gotta be fucking kidding me like you have to be fucking kidding me I love how you present yourself online because it's it's really you have it's you but you know it's this I don't want to say character because it is you but it's like that's what people are in love with is that you are just

you just put everything out there literally and like nothing is off off you know grounds like you literally just fuck this fuck that i'm being a mama i got i got hermit crabs no but i love that because that's relatable what moms don't cuss the ones that don't cuss are weird i don't i think it's weird if you don't cuss something's wrong with you something is wrong yeah like seriously i met somebody they were like wow you're actually who you are on camera i'm like well who else would the fuck I be? Yeah. Like, you know, like, I don't know.

But you would be surprised. I have had a few people come to the podcast and you see them on camera and they're in there here and you're like, who is the person online? You know, because that's not who's here. So it does happen a lot. What you see on camera is what you fucking get. Same. I'm the same exact way, too.

You get the full enchilada. Yeah. don't fucking hide i don't hide shit so tiktok starts taking off for you when did you kind of realize that hey this is really gonna be you want to be honest yeah are you like i'm just looking at my notes here, so don't mind me. November. I was working from home. I got a new job at Dell Technologies. Dell. I'm sorry if I didn't make it last. The computer? Okay.

Dell Technologies. I was working at home selling servers to like big corporations. And the fuck I look like selling a server I don't even know what's in a fucking server okay like all I give me a fucking number how many you need like whatever what's the credit card yeah like give me a number what's your credit card detail like so I literally um by then I was hustling like I was working nine to five. When I got a 10 minute break, I would go make a TikTok, go put on a cute ass outfit, go shotgun a beer, you know, just to show off this outfit. Not because I wanted a shotgun a beer. And if you watch my shotgun and beer videos, never got the full fucking beer in my mouth.

All right. Like it was just like everywhere. All right. So anytime I got a break or something to make a TikTok to a cool new sound, because I don't do dances, I would just strut down my little driveway. Yeah. You know, in a cute outfit. And it just literally fucking just blew up for me. Yeah. I think the first time I saw you, you were doing you were doing one of your little dimps

kicks and your dances, a dimps dance in front of your house. And I was like like she's so cute yeah but that honestly moving forward if I ever do move her I'm not doing dimps dances in front of my house you can't there's a lot of fucking creeps in the world oh my god yeah no I mean you have people that are I don't even think obsessed is a word I think it's like enamored like I think they're in love with you and they want to like be close to you and the only way they can be close to you is to hate on you to get your attention you know what I'm saying because honestly it baffles me because some of the shit that they make up I'm just like what

can we talk about one of the uncomfortable things that's kind of hitting the internet right now yeah go for it it's about dad is that okay oh yeah so you apparently have a stepsister that is coming out and making really crazy allegations yeah um that was that stepmother my first stepmother when I grew up in a trailer in a strawberry field um like i said uh i had good memories about my childhood and i had good memories with my stepsister andrea um me and her is it really her that's saying these things honestly it's the internet and who fucking knows right i want to say me and her had a falling out um and granted i i don't know if it is her or not um but as a mother to a daughter um i think it's weird that now they're coming out and saying these allegations right i don't know if it's because, what, because I have one point close to 4 million followers

and I'm known in Nashville. Like what kind of, what attention are you wanting? You know what I mean? Why not discuss this privately in a private matter? Right, why tell hundreds of people who can't help you when you could call one person who could help you? I think it's's bullshit it's honestly bullshit because if it was if she did feel this type of way i hope she would reach out to the

right people and to do it in a private matter not go on the fucking internet for millions of people what are you trying to do make me look bad what the hell did i do right well because you guys had a falling out so maybe she and we're not victim blaming if there is. No, most definitely not. My thing is, why didn't she go to the police? Exactly. You know, like go to the police, fill out a police report, call you. You know, like I think she was trying to say that you you knew about it or something like that.

I could be wrong. I don't I didn't dive down the hole that deep. But, you know, like there's steps to this that you could do instead of going to a fucking reddit page or just the internet in general right it's almost like uh with their people's traumas and i have fucking trauma but i'm not gonna go and like put it on other people handle it in a private matter but mine and her falling out is a lot different than uh it'll probably be a while before I even discuss any of that right while we fell out but um there's a reason why I don't really talk to that family anymore um I think the last time I talked to them was I think at Lily Lynn's like baby shower right when they came drove down and came and saw me but I mean

I have memories with them they were my stepsisters growing up I mean I mean they're family to me but we just haven't talked to them in fucking years have you talked to your dad since this has came out I haven't really fully talked to him my life has been so crazy busy um i just know that he said you know there's rumors going around i'm gonna have to get off social media your dad will have to get off social media he deleted his tiktok and all of that um personally i have a great relationship with my father i couldn't perceive i couldn't even fucking imagine yeah you know what i mean heavy it's it's a heavy allegation to fucking make yeah you know what i mean and like why now and for you to have to even sit here and address that i think instead of being in a private matter yeah i mean it's

like you have all and i i you know people come at me sometimes when i reply to things and they're like you don't have to explain yourself and it's like sometimes yeah you sometimes you do because that's a heavy fucking allegation heavy allegation but it's also our responsibility as creators to tell our truths so that people can understand well baby I don't know what the truth right no that's what I think I have the heart to sit here and ask my father face to face absolutely not I'm just saying sitting on the couch and just even dealing with this is you telling your truth and like that was like back like in the 90s like i i i couldn't even pick up the phone right now and call my father and get the words out of my fucking mouth yeah you know what i mean no that's how i couldn't imagine so i i think it's huge of you to even address it i think um once that time comes i think it's going to be handled in a

very fucking private matter yeah absolutely and i just whatever my sister is needing seeking help i hope she gets help yeah but i it blows my mind why the fuck now it baffles me how many people came out in my past family that that just i've never said i grew up in a rundown trailer i grew up in a fucking trailer the first trailer was we love trail i'm trailer trash i fucking love i'm embraced growing up in a trailer but i remember getting a message from that side of the family calling me a tiktok slut and all that it's just if that doesn't show you how toxic that side is, I just ignored it.

My whole family from Indiana tried to come for me whenever I got custody of my mom is what I call it. And I was just like, who the fuck are you guys? Like, where are you coming from? Yeah, I haven't talked to you guys since fucking, I don't know how long. And you guys are just now coming after me. Like, what the fuck is happening?

It's crazy. But to go back to my father, think um I love my dad yeah I absolutely love he me and him have a great bond together and I hope he finds the love of his life I mean he's finding himself and all this but for me to actually get the words out of my mouth to look him in the face and ask him to decide and I I honestly i'm i don't know i couldn't tell you i get it let's move on to something lighter because you addressed what everybody wanted to know yeah since you've been on tiktok you have developed a relationship with perfectly kelsey yeah that's my girl yeah what i i would never see you she seems like i love her she's hilarious but she seems so square compared

to like how you are no she's actually like no fucks given yeah no fucks given i'm gonna do what the fuck i want screw you screw you and screw you like i i remember i went on a miami trip and i was meeting all the girls i was so fucking nervous you know I mean here I am I'm a fucking nobody you know and then I felt so honored because they invited me to the Miami trip I have never felt more welcomed in a girl's trip oh that means a lot I got goosebumps like they were just so fucking welcoming good times and wouldn't you know when I'm having a bad day out of the group of the girls like like Kelsey, V, or Bonnie, I will pick up the phone to call them and be like,

I don't know what the fuck to do, especially Brittany Jade. Me and Brittany Jade really bonded when she stayed at my house a couple weeks ago. I love that girl. But the internet portrays them to be such fucking bitches, like stuck up, blah, blah, blah. But those are the most genuine women. I don't get that vibe from them. I just got Kelsey as kind of like straight-aced you know like yeah she's buck wild yeah

and i'm gonna put this on camera i taught kelsey how to throw up with two fingers down her throat and she got drunk on broadway i was like listen this is what you do oh yeah um i dragged her ass in the bathroom i was like shove those two fingers down your throat eat something really quick and you'll be back in the game baby you'll be good you'll be good next you know we're taking shots of lemon drops i love that i love that and i love that you have that group of girls because i'm huge into like women empowerment mama you guys have that love for each other i just want everybody to succeed in this world and i always said this i um that's why i help a lot of boutiques you know i will go out of my way and when a boutique sends me stuff i will spend two hours of my time um posting about them tagging them just because i always said what's the point

of having a large platform if i can't help anybody else absolutely and i think that's like i stand by those fucking words like what is the point of having a fucking platform if you can't help any other people? That's what I try to do with this podcast, you know. Like we're given this for a reason. So it's like why not utilize it as much as you can. And then you get fucking people who take advantage of your ass. Yeah. Do you have a manager?

I don't have a manager. I've been doing this shit on my own. I love that. Yeah. And then, you know, if you want to get further. You can't trust people's you really can't but if you want to talk about like how's tiktok been since i quit my nine to five job at dell yeah i was like listen this could go two ways i could be applying for food stamps next week again or we're just gonna fucking rock and roll it yeah and the next thing

you know i'm hanging out with Priscilla Block going out to Vegas which on the podcast huh she's coming on the podcast Priscilla I want to come okay I want to be that hot girl Priscilla I love that girl so much yeah I love what she stands for she um oh my god I can't even get into Priscilla right now that is my girl right there anyway that's when I went to vegas the first time what if you want to talk about a culture shop oh yeah see to me it's normal i'm like that's normal life to me and then coming here it was like i couldn't i didn't sleep for like fucking two days and i wasn't even doing anything i just wired it was just fucking wired yeah and then i

that's when dents forgot to pack socks and i wore socks for three days and then they were selling for 10 grand on ebay that's hilarious what fucking sicko call me find the dimps only fans page call me but then ebay took them down and was like i can't sell used products well hell i put gently youth on the fucking description i'll have to show you a picture what they look like i still have them so you wore the socks like barefoot yeah oh you're brave listen one thing it's one thing on broadway broadway is kind of crazy but vegas girl five dips is ass running up and down you are lucky you did not get a syringe in your foot like that's crazy oh my god what a culture shock that vegas was is that amazing we'll have

to go out there i'll have to take you out there on my my way so i don't know if i can not the strip though okay i want to do old vegas yeah we could do old vegas i didn't get a chance to do old vegas we're actually uh buying a house out there and we're gonna be airbnb-ing it so we'll be able to go out there i'll come out with you buddy i'm a good time i don't know if you've heard baby girl i can tell i don't drink but i might drink with you i might just look at mimi's face we might have to film some content because i've been sober since 2017 don't you put that on me don't you put that on me on the fucking internet damn scott me to fucking do that's the last shit i'm fucking me no i'm sober choice, not because I had to be.

I just needed to get my shit together. I had severe anxiety, depression, stuff like that. It was popping pills. But you're good. I was living the biggest lifestyle. But you're good. But I decided I wanted to be on a spiritual journey and get sober. I didn't get sober because I had to.

I love that. So if I do choose to drink with Dems, I think it would be fucking hilarious. It would be a good time. I've been long. I think it would be fun. Oh, my God. The whole think it would be fun oh my god the whole internet thinks i'm a alcoholic yeah let's address that dims how does it feel to be a functioning alcoholic oh no i'm getting my done right right i have a full front like bills are paid how is like taking care of a kid i must be one hell of a functioning alcoholic to have it all, you know, get it done.

I mean, it's my husband literally sings about being an alcoholic. Musicians sing about being an alcoholic all the time. But yet when you see not saying you're an alcoholic, but I'm just saying like people accuse people of that. Like it's something bad. Like you're not handling your business. To me, an alcoholic is somebody who's desolate in the streets and can't wake up without fucking. To me, an alcoholic is somebody who's desolate in the streets and can't wake up without fucking downing. I think it's because when I make videos, I always have like a prop in my hand. Right. And that's what it is.

It's a fucking prop. Right. You know, or just to make the video, you know, vivid or, you know, shotgunning a beer makes it more interesting. You know what I mean? Look, she doesn't get it all in her mouth, you know, gets into comment, like get the whole beer. That's alcohol abuse, blah, blah, blah. Right. Or I think it's just because of my fucking personality.

Right. I'm such. Yeah. I'm just a fucking ditz outgoing person. Yeah. Like I'm completely sober. You're actually sitting here talking with you. You're not ditzy.

You're very fucking smart. And you're very into. I'm honestly, I'm street smart. I'm not book smart. I'll give it to myself. If I lost everything. I'd i'm street smart i'm not book smart i'll give it to myself if i lost i'd rather be street smart over book smart any day and that's why i teach my daughter yeah i could lose everything tomorrow but i would have a fucking house a place to live the next day amen don't fuck with me amen don't fuck with me but so where do you see demps in the

next year what do what is what is this fucking 2022 what does 2022 hold. But so where do you see Demps in the next year? What is what is this fucking 2022? What does 2022 hold for Demps? What do you want to accomplish this year? Honestly, so many blessings have happened in my life. I just filmed my first CMT music video with Nate Smith. So I'm super pumped. I'm definitely not going back to a nine to five she's like fuck that fuck that um i really just want to help out with country music promoting country music do you sing

yourself i can sing i got a studio in my house baby don't make me if i can have everybody's everybody's been waiting on that dance track i ain gonna lie um my husband will sit down with you and write a song i've never i've thought i've like imagined writing a song and i've talked to my best friend lj about this i'm like how do you let the words flow out like when i hear a song i can vision the storyline behind it but to get the words out, I'm not, I'm not a literacy person. You know what I mean? I can't get the words out,

but a lot of people in country music have writers, ghostwriters and stuff like that. So I didn't know that until being working in the music business. I'm like, well, damn. Yeah. And all you got to do is just sing it.

Pretty much. Um, I've, I've grown to love the music business so much and helping inspiring artists get their music going and everything or being in music videos. I just want to keep pursuing that and hope I can stay in this field. Definitely not going back to wiping asses.

That's for fucking sure. That would be an amazing job wiping ass get to see buttholes every day unless they get a boner with you it's like oh johnny keep it down we're not doing that today johnny put it back but ever since tiktok has taken off for me i some days i wake up and i'm like what the fuck is my life i'm out with my daughter at a mexican restaurant you got people asking to take pictures and my daughter's finally fully understanding oh mommy's known mommy people know mommy does it feel good for your daughter to be able to see that you got out of something that she saw honestly she doesn't know baby really

she she just looks at me she goes i don't have a dad but that's okay i have you and i look at her i'm like mommy's not going anywhere um but i always tell her it's just been me and her literally me and her for the past couple years i get when i tell you that little girl's my world all this could go away tomorrow TikTok and all the like fame and all that I would fucking go work at McDonald's just to keep the roof over my head not that there's anything working at McDonald's that was my first job Fatburger was my own shout out I love that but I would have to go do what I needed to do to make ends meet to provide for my little girl absolutely I think she's starting to realize that

mommy's something here in nashville because every time we go out she's like oh mommy taking no more pictures i'm like smile for the camera baby cha-ching no i'm just kidding um so let's talk about dems's love life oh hell, hell. So who is this Florida boy? We don't have to have names, but can we talk about it? All right. I'm going to put this in perspective, okay? I was talking to a guy, and I think I broke his heart. He made wallets, and I really liked him, believe it or not,

but it got hard for him to see things on the Internet when people make videos about oh i'm obsessed with dems especially if a man's making the video right and still that's it's just for like views like i mean that's why they're doing it hello it's not and he should be happy that other people love you and see what he loves in you yeah but like to justify it the whole time like listen blah blah so me and him had a conversation like hey this is this is just not gonna work and i wish all but nothing happiness and love for you and i know i i know i broke his heart but it takes it's gonna take a strong fucking man to understand me because i'm such a uh it's not that like i have a wallet but i'm a fucking

independent woman i don't need no goddamn man all right i got fucking a good old pink eight inch boyfriend baby okay i know how to please myself all right it's one thing and they don't talk back no i'm married and sometimes i would rather play with myself oh my god it's one thing if you get in bed you're like to the left to the right come on find it anyway um so uh when I was on Florida vacation have you ever seen that movie fool's gold yes baby when I tell you I was living that movie and I was running barefoot in a bikini for three fucking days straight and my kid was taken care of like I had family there my mom looked at me she goes go enjoy yourself I was like you ain't gotta tell me fucking twice so of course I made my daughter was taken care of I love her

whatever but I went and like just had fun yeah you know what I mean you deserve to have fun I met this guy and he next thing you know i'm on the back of a jet ski driving out to a little island and i was like what the fuck is happening oh that's so romantic and i don't think it's gonna last i really don't think it's gonna last because school's about to start up i have a life here in nashville he has a life there in florida but like i honestly will never forget the summer of 2022 what's that song it was a summer in love you know yeah yeah you know um and i told him that i was like listen if i never see you again after this upcoming trip we have together i got us a polaroid camera just for myself like i'll never forget you and if i ever

come back which i do go back st pete's my area yeah um i'm gonna hit that are you guys going are you guys going on a trip together in the keys yay you know we got like a little airbnb yacht we're going lobster diving i love that as much as i don't want to be negative on the subject but i really think it's not gonna last like just live in the moment listen i'm living in when i met jay i just wanted to fuck like literally and i tried and he made me make a five-year plan and like when you go in with no intentions of just hitting it and quitting it it somehow fucking works out honestly that's where i'm at yeah it's that that's that's exactly where i'm at i'm not looking for anything because you have to understand i have a daughter yeah i'm not expecting for a man to come in and be a father figure to my daughter that's a fucking big

fucking commitment mom is allowed to have fun though yeah you know and i'm a i'm a fucking trust me i'm gonna have a fun because believe it or not i'm a good time me. I'm going to have a fun because believe it or not, I'm a good time. Yeah. Well, I'm looking. I am looking forward to this trip. I can't wait. I can't wait to hear the details about it. I don't know if I want to post anything while I'm down there.

Yeah. I don't know how to post anything. I don't know. I get there. I'm like, fuck it. I'm making a tick tock. Yeah. You could always make him just turn around and never show. I do fuck with the Internet. Oh, I don't know I get there I'm like fucking I'm making a tiktok yeah you could always make him

just turn around and never show I do fuck with the internet oh I don't think honestly I don't think I'll ever show his face yeah me and him already discussed it you don't want to name the puppy because once you do just wildfire you didn't know who I was until his friends like I posted that one tiktok of him running out to his truck and his friends were messaging him and were like no fucking way you're talking to damps i'm like dude how the fuck is how big is my phone what um and me i told him i was like i think i'm just gonna keep this private i don't think i'm gonna show your face even if people feel like they figured it out whatever let them let them think whatever but i'm not gonna fully post yeah you know well you deserve some sort of privacy.

Like, we share so much of our lives that people think that they know everything when really they only know what we want them to see. And I told him, I was like, trust me, you don't want that kind of attention. Yeah. No, you don't want. You don't want this. You don't want this, boy. As much as you feel like you want the attention, it's a whole fucking ballgame.

Well, I'm excited to hear about the trip on or off camera i'm you know i'm gonna be hitting you up like hey girl you know i'll give you the whole detail how is that fucking florida dong baby honestly i'm probably not gonna leave you i'm fucking in there nice well i'm really excited to see what everything holds for you i think that you are just a sweet spirit and i think that you deserve everything good that's happening in your life thanks i can't wait to see it you're a beautiful soul too has anybody told you you're beautiful today uh no but you're gorgeous mom i love you you're gorgeous um but thank you for coming on the podcast and trust me with your story why don't you shout out where everybody can find you like your socials? You can find me on TikTok, D underscore dance 93, Instagram, the official damps,

all those damn spam accounts. Snapchat, that's a hit or miss, baby. Some months I'm on there, some months I'm not, honestly. But TikTok, D underscore dance 93. Yay. Thank you so much for coming. Thank you for having me, mama.

Dude, and you got to come back. I want you to start coming back every year and just, you want to know about that Florida dong. I do. I want Florida dong details. He knows I might be like, he asked me for my ring size.

Oh, already? Yes, girl. Dems has that powerful pussy. You know what? I think she's hiding it. I think you drive these motherfuckers crazy. And then you're just like pussy you know what i think she's hiding it i think you drive these

motherfuckers crazy and then you're just like you know what the wallet guy asked me about my ring size this guy's asking me about my ring size and it is i didn't even meet the wallet guy all right what is your ring size let's put it out there for everybody it's a size six yeah baby size six but she likes big rocks i do four carat princess cut she knows exactly a woman who knows but she likes big rocks. I do. Four carat princess cut. She knows exactly. A woman who knows what she likes. I love that. Well, thank you for having me, mama.

Dude, I really appreciate it. And thank you guys for tuning in to another episode of Dumb Blonde. I will see you guys next week. Bye.