Dumb Blonde - Group Chat : Bunnie, Meme, & Hailee

Episode Date: November 8, 2023

Bunnie brings in her gals, Meme and Hailee, for a Q&A session. The threesome chats about everything from implants, the pros and cons of fame, tour hookups, and what's in their purse. Bunnie talks about her UFO sighting, Meme swears she's not Bunnie's child, and Hailee spills on what makeup products she uses on Bunnie to get her camera and red carpet ready. Watch Full Episodes & More:www.dumbblondeunrated.comMeme: IG Hailee: IG See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

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is this thing on Bonnie who used to be a former sex worker and now hosts the podcast Dunblanc most little girls grow up wanting to be doctors and lawyers and shit and I was like I want to be super hot make a lot of fucking money and be a rock stars wife that was my goal as a child and here we are

are you bitches ready? No. Okay. One, two, three. What's up, you sexy motherfuckers? We are back, baby. We are nearing the end of the season, and I'm kind of excited about it

because next season's going to be fun, but today on the podcast, we're doing a Q&A. And I've got none other than fucking my little ride or dies, Meemer Lou and Haley. Not Bailey. Haley. My makeup artist. For some reason, you guys seem to think that Mimi and Haley are my kid.

And they are not. They're grown women who have their own fucking lives going on. Jelly's not our father. Yeah. I mean, we can all call Jelly daddy though. That's weird. Okay. What's up guys? What are you doing? Just chilling. About to eat some salad. Oh, I can't wait. I haven't had a chopped salad in so long. I love chopped. I am ready to just some salad. Oh, I can't wait. I haven't had a chopped salad in so long. I love chopped.

I am ready to just fucking shit my brains out. Every time I eat a salad, it makes me poop, and it just fucking feels so good. Okay. It's grass. It's grass. It's the grass that does it. Haley, a lot of people were saying

that they hope you talk more this episode and you come out of your shell. We're going to explain that. They just said that I was going to be on the podcast and I had no clue we're talking about a serial killer from a movie that I did not watch. Never mind that she had been in the conversations and in the room numerous fucking times. I don't remember that. You were. So I just sat there quietly.

I was just like, I want to jump out but i don't know what jelly to my peanut butter hayley is in her own little world always yeah yeah the daily hayley what are you doing mimi how you feeling uh i feel like a 50 year old lady who smoked palm walls for the same we're both i'm rough man tennessee weather sucks yeah jay was saying that because we had flown to the west Coast and he was feeling great. Everything was fine. As soon as we got home, boom, sinusitis. It's 40 degrees one day and

90 the next. He's been having a really hard time with it. I thought I was having an aneurysm the other day because my sinuses were so bad. I've never felt pain like that before. It was behind my eye, on never felt pain like that before it was behind my eye on the side of my eye fucking in my temple like it was like singled out pain which was

really fucking jason said because he's struggling with it too it's the top of his head and he can't tell if it's us from coughing so much he pulled a muscle in his skull or what oh fuck dude i hate that when i was sick with fucking tuberculosis it felt like the other fucking few months ago i was so sick if it wasn't covet i don't know what the fuck it was it was fucking six weeks long that i was sick and i was coughing so much that my ribs felt bruised that's it yeah that's what you said his chest yeah it's the worst feeling in the world yeah i think it's a new strain guess what today is worst feeling in the world yeah i think it's a new strain guess what today is today is the anniversary of me getting my implants out no shit yeah it's been four years four years a lot of people want me to touch base on um my explant journey so i figured why not we

could dive into it a little bit because maybe you were there for that too I was yeah it was the first time I bonded with Jay we went to lunch together some I don't know breakfast spot and he just sat there quietly and I sat there quietly that's bonding with my husband and then he'd pick up his phone every once in a while but he was really nervous like the whole time that you were in surgery I've never seen it and now knowing him a lot better than I did back then he was so nervous he sat there and his leg was just shaking the whole time he kept like every time someone would walk out he'd like look back and see if it was your doctor it was really sweet oh yeah so okay um I had my tits done in 2006 and I remember going into the doctor and i wanted my boobs done and because i got my boobs done because i caught one of my boyfriends watching porn and it was like these big titty

fucking blondes and i was like well i want to be what he wants women never get your fucking tits done to ever make a man want you more ever. If I could teach you guys anything in my fucking wise years, it's fuck these dudes. Do it for yourself. If you want to fucking get your boobs done because you want that cleavage and you want that look, do it for yourself. Don't do it because a man made you feel like you're less than now. So anyways, I got my boobs done in 2006 and I remember, uh, whenever I was going in to

get my boobs done, the doctor fucking gave me that twilight shot. You fucking feel glorious. What is a twilight shot? I don't know. It's like Valium fucking like, it's just a bunch of shit that just makes you fucking feel so good. Like it is the best feeling through space. Yeah, no, it's like, but you feel great.

Like you are ready to party. Like it is a fucking blast in a glass let me tell you and I was so lit that I looked at the doctor I grabbed him by a scruff and I was like hey and he's like yeah and I'm like pump him up as soon as I go in right so I had started out with like a small B and I was going to a D. I ended up coming out a double D. My tits were huge. Those were only double Ds. Those were double Ds. But we'll get to that.

So they were double Ds. They were big Ds when I first started. And then after the first year, when you get your boobs done, women always need. And I'm just really trying to put you guys up on game here. I'm not trying to sway your decision on fake boobs at all. But when you first get your boobs, they are beautiful. They're perky. They're everything that you want. Well, as you age, and as you gain weight, so do your tits. So, and a lot of women don't realize that your boobs come in later on in life. So like my mom, when I told her I got my boobs done, she's like, huh?

Still waiting. Yeah. So my mom told me, she's like, just wait when you her I got my boobs done she's like huh still waiting yeah so my mom told me she's like just wait when you're older your boobs are gonna get fuller and that's just because you know fat accumulates on the body and stuff like that and I didn't believe her well fucking fast forward to 10 years my tits grew to a size e your tittles were huge they were so big they made me look matronly they were fucking huge it it got to the point where like i couldn't even wear t-shirts without looking fat because my fucking shirts would stick out this far and i remember your before and after looked like you had like a weight loss surgery yeah almost you were so you went from like these ginormous titties to looking like a petite human. Yeah. Well, I love that. I don't know if me and petite ever go on

the same sentence, but, but yeah, so my tits fucking grew, but then also I started getting the worst fucking pain and my, I think it was my left one. I can't remember my left one and my left tit. You could, you couldn't touch it. There was like lumps inside of it. I can't remember my left one and my left tit you could you couldn't touch it there was like lumps inside of it I didn't know what was going on and my left tit was like twice two to three times bigger than my right tit it was under your armpit and around yeah how big it would get yeah no it would like swell up some days like if you if you if I showed my under boob you would see like my tit was bigger on one side like it was a picture one time in Vegas and you're like I know this is weird but does one tit look bigger than the other

and I was like um significantly and it was around your period every time yeah and but but I was in pain 24 7 I never had back pain I've never understood when the girls say that they get their boobs in and they have back pain because I'm like, I never, I'm built like a fucking linebacker. So I never had the back pain. Thank God. But I did get the fucking tip pain. We'll come to find out. And also,

you know, BII is a huge thing. And I, I don't ever like to say that I had breast implant illness, but I had a lot of shit going on that is under the umbrella of breast implant illness. I was never diagnosed with it, but I mean like my anxiety was out of control, fatigue, couldn't lose weight. Like

there were so many things that were going on. So there were so many factors and I just hated the way I looked too. And I was just like, you know what? I want small perky titties again. That's what I'm doing. Point blank period. And I can't stand this pain anymore so I got them explanted by Dr. Tarola in Murfreesboro in Tennessee he's fucking amazing if you're going to explant ladies the best advice I could give you is go to a microsurgeon because you will have your scars will be extremely minimal like I have scarring but you can barely see it like you can see it around my nipples, which I'm getting them tattooed slowly. But other than that, I don't have those big ankle scars that look like anchor. I don't have those big anchor scars that look like, you know, the hooks and stuff like that. Cause I've seen some, yeah. And those women, I feel my heart breaks for them because, you know, they didn't go to

a microsurgeon, but, um, I got, um, my implants taken out and i got a lift so now they i never had fat fat transferred to my tits yet but i might you know in the future i'm definitely not above that but it's the best thing i ever did i love the way fake tits look i think they're gorgeous want to fucking suck on them when i see them but for me i think just having natural perky boobies is the way to go so somebody had asked me that question and I was like, you know what? Explain what happened to one, like why you had that pain when he opened you up. So we come to find out, I posted this picture too, and I'll give it to Jason to put in the podcast on the screen so you guys can see it. Um, I, my implant somehow folded in

half inside of my body and scar tissue started growing around the implant because your body is automatically going to protect yourself, protect you no matter if it's helpful or not. So the scar tissue ended up, I ended up being in surgery an extra hour because the scar tissue was almost bigger than the implant. Yeah. It was like a, he said like a plate size of a plate. It looked like a huge lobster claw yeah of just meat and the scar tissue was making me sick that's what was making me not feel good constantly like your body was constantly trying to fight that implant literally it was so bad so you know just so you guys know before you get breast implants there's always that to take into consideration

and like i said you found the implants like what a year later and they had all grown mold on the inside yep I had a fucking tiktok that went viral because I had left my plant my implants in like a drawer and I pulled them out and there was just mold floating around in them it was so gross which of course it's outside of the body but imagine if that can happen outside of the body what can happen inside your body and mine were saline they weren't silicone. So yeah, so just wanted to dive into that. Sorry, I took up a good, you know, chunk of the intro, but I've never really talked about it other than I do have vlogs on my YouTube, BunnyXO YouTube. If you go and search around like 2019, I have like why I'm getting my implants out. I have the day of the surgery you guys will

see mimi in that vlog too and uh that's you were recording that vlog back then yeah i made that whole vlog yeah yeah no it's crazy to think back to that time how far we've grown insane it's fucking it's been a long ride guys yeah that's like a number one asked question it's like how did we meet yeah how did we become the threesome that we are the three best friends that anybody ever had the threesome the menagerie um i'll let you guys kick it off because i just did a whole fucking spiel but how did we talk about this before you met first so you tell yeah no everyone asked i'm not joking i was even on live this morning and people were like, how did you meet Bunny?

I tell everyone I slid in her DMs. She did. She was trying to get the pussy. Yeah. If you go on one of the episodes of Meet the D4, me and Haley actually go through our whole journey of how we met, and we find the original post. But I did comment on a selfie, I think, of you and i was like we found your hair yeah i scrolled all the way back i was like i really want to do your hair and so then we began dming so i like to say isolating your dms and she sent me bailey and she was like i'm gonna i'm gonna make

you do bailey's hair which was like bailey was eight years old at the time um and she wanted to like completely transform her hair into like greens blues and pinks and as i was doing it jay facetimes her and he was like so we can just take it out right after she'll look exactly the same right and i was like yeah we had to like really talk jay into that because she was eight and he just wasn't into hair color then at that time and it's been crazy ever since that child has gone through every hair color you could possibly imagine she wants to do an undercut now i'm like oh lord i'm like you know i'd use it though she gets a she's got curly hair and if people don't like really get in there and like detangle the shit

out of their hair it still happens to me i get those little dreadlocks underneath and it hurts i just don't like undercuts because i'm a texture person and I don't like that. Oh, yeah. She's got enough hair for it. Oh, it'll grow back fast. And then after I did Bailey, she was like, oh, you don't suck. So I'm making an appointment with you. And it's been love ever since.

I think one thing I loved about Mimi, too, was she was from the West Coast. So that really was like. I think that's what we initially like bonded over. Yeah. I was like, Hey, I'm also, I'm not actually from here.

And you're like, thank God. Yeah. I'm like, these Tennessee bitches are fucking crazy. When it came to me, her bangs were about this big and she was wearing a bang clip in. It was a two inch clip in that she kept in her purse.

Yeah. For it. Listen, you got to say for admit for as bad as my hair was, it always looked fabulous. Yeah. I was, listen, I am the definition of fake it till you make it. And then, and then she was like, Hey, um, I don't want to come to your salon anymore. Can you just come to my house?

And I was like, done. And then you invited me to a photo shoot with, um, I don't know, a photographer one time at your house well we had started working together um you know once you started doing my hair then we started branching off kind of doing photo shoots together and one fucking makeup artist put red lipstick on me and i hated it it was awful and i was like this is not the vibe i'm going for and we were just in the fucking market for our makeup artist because you were still doing your own yeah in between as we did photo shoots yeah and I was just like I just need a

makeup artist so that we can elevate my pictures to the next level and um I had a videographer we won't say any names but I had a videographer and he was like hey my girl Haley really wants to do your face and I was like okay cool and I went I looked at her profile and I was like hey my girl hayley really wants to do your face and i was like okay cool and i went i looked at her profile and i was like oh she's fucking great i was like she doesn't suck so we invite me and mimi invited her to our first photo shoot you slid you slid in my dms i think i scrolled all the way up till i found that first dm yeah what did i say uh i don't even remember like hey i had it screenshotted i'll find it yeah uh it was just like hey like um i want to do a photo shoot and use you and kind of like go from there and yeah the very test ready yeah listen i let everybody know up front this is not permanent

i will not never talk to you again if you fuck this up. It's so true. We got kicked out of our first photo shoot. The first two. The first two photo shoots, we got kicked out of where we were at. Same guy. It's so funny because people tell me now that my image is too sexual. Like brands will not work with me and designers will not work with me because they say you're too sexual.

And I'm just like, did you see me three years ago that's really i live my fucking instagram i have more clothes on than i've ever had i oiled every inch of your body every shoe oh yeah dude remember we used to fucking that oil we would leave oil marks everywhere everywhere yeah one time you did this pam and then you were like i'm not ever spraying you with pam again because you just became glistening you know you're buttery and i think my hair like like your hair was just like stick and it would just become wet and so then you got that oil yeah the patrick taw shimmering oil oh we love that shit i still love it um but yeah so we got

kicked out the first two um because we were working with a photographer who would lie to us and tell us that he these were his places yeah that these were his locations and they really weren't and so some lady was like fucking get her vagina off the counter and i literally was like in a panty and bra set you know i'm from vegas and this is like the only thing i know how to do is pose in lingerie and fucking you know bikinis and still to this day i will wear a fucking bikini on fucking social media if i want to because nobody else get fucking britney aldean wears a bikini and nobody says oh my god you're a horrible fucking role model for your kids but i wear a bikini and it's like oh this fucking whore is at it again you know

shout out britney we love you but jesus christ it's like come on like they pick and choose who they want to pick on most definitely but i'm gonna rock the bikini no matter fucking what dude that's gonna be you what is it baddie winkle when you get older for sure love her blinged out cat suits when i'm 84 years old absolutely fucking trolling trolling for Cabana Boys. I can't wait. It's going to be so fucking awesome. I'm excited about it. All right. Well, we got some questions. So we

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something else but for now why is it everything we love always gets discontinued it is fucking that has been the story of my life your favorite perfume everything everything yeah and then i use essence clear gloss literally just clear she has like a really pretty like natural lip color so i feel like it's the same color as my pussy hole okay oh that'll do it that's like our text last night when she said that my sauce for my tacos looked like her pussy I was eating

I was eating the sauce hold on before you guys try to paint me like I'm the creep first of all okay the shit the fuck can we send each other all day long in our DMs is like we would get we would get canceled we would get

canceled at the gates like in front of jesus and yeah literally so we have this thing where we try to like gross each other out the most is that what it is that's literally indirectly what it is the seat in the crocs the other day and like whatever it was splooted out of the crocs hers is always shitting one yeah it's on my fucking feed i don't go searching for it no because i'm always sending it to you guys so that's why yeah mine is like people getting hurt now like people working out and something snapping oh i can't i can't deal with that. She fucking jigged the other day. I can't deal with that. Is that what?

I don't know. That's like literally that and like fatal car accidents. Oh, my God. People chopping their like arms off. Like that's my Instagram. How is that on Instagram? But I get flagged if I show butt crack. No, there's terrible stuff on Instagram.

I don't know how to turn that off, but I kind of like don't want to. Oh, my God. You're so sadistic you sadistic bitch anyways jenna wants to know what our favorite gum flavor is it depends on what i'm wearing i know i had to ask that question because i knew that hayley was gonna come out with this right now you guys i'm not even joking she'll i'll be like hey hayley you want some gum and she'll be like what color is it yeah it has to be that like neon greenish yellow or like that like kind of neon blue because i'm telling you the truth it makes your teeth look whiter white gum makes your teeth always look like buttery or like darker because

white gum like bright white gum will always look whiter so i feel like it makes your teeth look less white yeah and everyone's like how's your teeth so white and really it's just my lip combo and gum and i brush them but that'll do it that'll do it but it's uh what brand is that extra extra green or blue we love that yeah all right i'm fond of you should we talk about your uh ocd that would go oh bro you guys i swear so she will not buddy will not unless she sees the gun being opened from the original package i'm not probably not even i'm not even talking i will literally be like i just opened this she'll be like i didn't watch it no i don't it's just a weird tick i have also with like um water bottle caps if it doesn't crack she does

a little thing with her thumb right there yeah if it doesn't crack or like the the seal looks like it's broken i'm not fucking drinking it listen I did a lot of drugs in my past and I am fucking triggered by shit. You have a lot of OCD. Yeah. Is that why? Not the Ritz-Carlton selling water to their customers with the cum in it. Did you repost that? Yes.

Yeah. I don't trust people, man. People are fucking weirdos. There is a question I know I saw this a couple times about you hugging with your arms up that has to do with your ocd yeah yes i am constantly washing my hands i don't like my hands to feel dirty i don't shake people's hands and it's not because i want i'm rude or anything and like sometimes people will go to shake my hand and i'll go fist bump because if somebody gets their sweat on my hand i will think about it for hours she will like it i will obsess about it even after i wash my hands like for hours she will like it i will obsess about it

even after i wash my hands like i just don't like people's bodily fluids on me or if someone spills something on her which is crazy from an ex hooker you know but it's like i i think you know i think that's what caused it yeah you just because you've already seen what has happened and what can happen versus people that don't they don't they don't know what to think forward yeah of like what could happen so the anxiety is not there yeah my ocd also shifts so like like i've gotten like now i won't drink out of uh red solo cups anymore that i won't i only drink out of glass bottles like there's just like a little weird can we like totally address the fact that people think ocd is just a cleanly thing no that is not what ocd means can we please normalize the fact that it is an

obsessive compulsive disorder which means you were obsessing over something specifically intrusive thoughts it has nothing to do with whether your house is clean or not. Right. That is a form of OCD, but there's so many different forms of OCD. There's drug OCD, somebody who has a fear of getting drugged, which is what I have. There is one of them that I have. I also am a clean freak,

which I've kind of let that go a little bit. Living with my husband, you have to. But there's the cleanliness one. There's sounds people who get, or like people that like have to turn off a light switch till it feels good. Yeah. Those kinds of things. That's a ritual.

Yeah. Yeah. Because it's an obsessive, it's an intrusive thought. Yeah. And you have to, until it feels right. Suicidal ideation is a form of OCD.

A lot of people don't know that. But when you are constantly thinking about on a loop of, you know, I can't stop thinking about suicide or i want to kill myself or you think fucking weird thoughts like that is a an ocd loop and a lot of people don't know that so yeah but yeah so hugging people i just um i can hug people that i i love and that i know and that i trust like mimi hayley like i can hug them no problem my husband of course bailey stuff like that but people that I don't know like I I want to embrace them because I'm a hugger but I that's why I always have my arms covered too I just can't skin to skin with people I don't know yeah

because it's the obsessive thought afterwards yeah yeah all right do you want to ask a question oh hold on let me get my glasses on i was i thought you guys were on a roll what is the best adventure y'all have been on together i mean there's so many so many i don't know every day right years yeah i mean there's just i can't i'm not one of those people who can single out a certain event. Wait, one that literally made me like kind of forget about everything else. And like, just felt like we were like, fine.

Like, I don't know, but at the Nickelback concert, when we were all just like dancing and like singing together, like that was just such like a core memory. Yeah, that is a core memory, but that's also because none of us were working that was the first time ever yeah none of us were working and we actually

got to just go and be friends you know like we're friends and we're super fucking close but we also work our asses off together you know so we never get time to go and just enjoy each other that was a great time which like typically like we would i would have been like filming you guys yeah you know but like we all were just like phones down like in the moment yeah i loved that i think 2024 we should work on that yeah we should i didn't realize that until hayley just brought that up but like we are constantly always the only time we're together is when we work yeah i wish this every fucking day yeah there's um i feel like also i have like really good core memories with like each of you. Like our Mexico trip. Yeah.

Was incredible. You guys went to Mexico? No. Mexico, Florida. Mexico, beach, Florida. Yeah. About to get so mad. We drove through the hills of Vegas. That will always be a core memory for me.

Yeah. We were like hanging out at the sunroof and just blasting our favorite song on repeat. What about when you guys went to fucking harry potter world oh my god so i know i made a tiktok that like went a little viral that i was miserable i was not you guys it was a funny tiktok that we made and we laughed the moment sarcasm i did i really like the butterbeer i had a really really great time yeah yeah i feel like we've all like had really cool like core memories together me and you bumping dolph down like las vegas strip yeah that was fun yeah it was just me there's always just like little moments but also i feel like we have been in each other's lives for such

huge highlights too absolutely you know like the cmt awards fucking just the growth over the past five years with just our brand and just the business and like everything has just been I think that's what people don't realize is that we've been together since the beginning yeah none of us came into this later on it was very close that you and I came into her life yeah and that all of this has been built truly and honestly since the beginning yeah for sure yeah yeah no it's crazy oh i think that's why we all trust each other too yeah because we know no one's like trying to just like yeah this was over yeah i think that's hard now bringing people into our lives because like i constantly

think like do you have an alternative they're using yeah like i still don't trust our videographer no no no offense andy i love you to death but it's like i have you have to put in time around me for me to really trust you absolutely and even like when we were going through our shit with hayley the dark days last year like we knew that it was gonna be okay was i pissed at her was she pissed that's literally happened like maybe two or three times yeah like we've had actual like fights like that yeah you know but it's always due to lack of communication and once we circle back and we talk about it i think communication has anyone yeah it just makes you stronger so much stronger yeah for sure i think

having that open line of communication and it did take those you know a couple times to make that line of communication so much stronger if anything is only in the end going to make us all so much closer our salads are here does anybody want to grab them off the porch sure i think the intro to this needs to be her farting and did we get that on camera? Yeah. Nice. And asking, how do you feel about that? Oh, God. Crunchy. Uh-uh. Where she does crunchy bread.

No. I haven't seen the crunchy bread lately. No. No, I just fucking finally got the I love meat lady meat sticks off my fucking FYB. I didn't have her. Look who it is. Is it the same one? No, I mean, of course it it's gonna be on her feed I feel like she says shit like that

I know I'm like this lady's going viral for shit I say every day alright get choked during sex or told how beautiful you are choked how about get choked and told how beautiful you are while you're being choked? I don't give a shit about what I look like.

Just finger down the throat. Oh, spit on me. I love it. Just get fucking disgusting. Bust my lip open. I can't do. I can't do the spit. From somebody whose fucking semen you swallow?

Yep. Can't do it. What is the difference? I don't know. One comes out of mouth, one comes out of mouth one comes out of yeah that's exactly what there's dick and mouth i can't do the spit for some reason i do i love it spit on my titties i'll fucking just rub it maybe that but not spit in my mouth yeah i'm not a huge fan of the mouth spit either if it's like yeah i know i can't i spit it all just keep it to yourself i get

i'm getting real weak choke me spank me pull my hair motherfucker let's go oh my god hayley did you find dick on tour yep there's gonna say no comment yep she got some dickums i got to watch you did not get to watch oh okay wait a second what did you watch was it in the bunk the bunk okay all right i could be a part of that you have to grab my boob too she was like give me. Okay, but can we talk about the smelly feet? No one knows who it was. We're not going to say who it was. Oh, my God. But all I know is Haley brought a dude on the bus to fucking have some fun time with.

And in a bus, you have a very small area that you have to share with other people. And I got up in the middle of the night to get something. And fucking all I smelled was stankonia. And I'm not talking about my feet. I'm not talking to know it was his. We have been around you for years and never smelled that smell from you. That is not you. Stop fucking taking that for that bullet for him. can sometimes no this was fucking putrid okay and i didn't i text one of

you guys and i was like what is that fucking smell you put it in a chat jesus christ and all i smelled was just fucking dirty feet for the rest of the night and i'm like how can you fucking be in a closed coffin that's smelling i don't understand the boys like they have to have a really good hygiene because that's a lot of boys their bus smells good their buses it's probably because jack has ocd and cleans like religiously oh all the time and he's always lighting candles like i was like you guys he lights candles jack's right jack cooked the other night jack is actually a really good cook jack's very in touch with his feminine side and he is like don't say that cut that out no i'm in trouble for that leave it no absolutely fucking leave it because you can say that a man

is in touch with their feminine side and it not be a fucking insult i am so tired of the internet trying to twist everything you say and when literally he's in touch with his feminine side he loves to clean he loves to cook he lights fucking candles that's men don't do that so what the fuck else is he in touch with his feminine side so no leave it jason yeah i'm so tired of the internet dude like literally not gonna fucking run my shit at all and i'm not gonna change who i am and what things i say just because people fucking want to try to twist it jack fowler is all man baby fucking he a guitar. He used to be a guitarist for fucking Sleeping With Sirens. He is married to the hottest bitch named Lo. Best tits ever.

He is all man. And trust me, he would not fucking care if I said that to him. No. He's one of the girls, remember? He literally says it all the time. He's one of the girls, yeah. And my husband is in touch with his feminine side. He loves to fucking hang out with girls.

You ask Jelly who he wants to hang out with, a room full of dudes or a room full of females, he's going to say I want to hang out with the bitches. Literally. Hands down, every time. There's nothing wrong with that. You can still be a man and be in touch with your feminine side. There's nothing wrong with it.

Someone wants to know our take on aliens. I believe they're real i think they probably left this bitch because they saw how ghetto it was i um i saw a ufo because i grew up in vegas i saw a ufo when i was a little girl we were driving on the freeway i-15 i looked up in the fucking sky there was a huge it was black huge black like was it like what you think of a sphere or was it just a shape or it looked like almost like a fighter jet but bigger okay and but it wasn't a fighter jet because this motherfucker literally i was like hey what is that in the sky talking to my parents and it fucking went like it did a zigzag like this and then i'm talking like took off like into you couldn't see it anymore it was the craziest fucking thing i've ever seen in my life holy shit yeah and you still remember it so vividly oh absolutely but vegas is also very close to area 51 yeah so we've always had like alien

activity and like weird shit out there so crazy i definitely believe in it i feel like also i slightly believe in the fact that like a lot of like alien stuff that we see is also future yeah you know like people coming back like time travel yeah because you can't tell me in like 3 000 years there's not time travel yeah it's just yeah that kind of thing. I also feel like shooting stars are aliens. Just saying. Don't ruin my vibe of wishing on a shooting star. I wish on that shit. I'm a fucking Roger.

If a shooting star is an alien, then what's a comet? I'm just saying. I think shooting stars are... I did see one in Hendersonville one time. It was green. And it was like a flash of light. Then it like spiraled down and then disappeared. And I was on the phone with my dad.

I love that. I love shooting stars. Those are my favorite. Well, I don't, that doesn't look like a shooting star. No, that looks like a, like some type of alien shit. It was not a shooting star. I got a shooting star in my wazoo. I knew. some type of alien shit. It was not Shooting Star. I got Shooting Star in my wazoo.

I knew. There's actually something with your asshole. Is a wazoo an asshole or a vagina? Vagina. Oh. Whole new meaning. What's your least favorite food at Thanksgiving dinner?

Fucking fruit salad. People still make that barf i don't like stuffing let me guess you like fruit salad texture what are we talking about fruit salad fruit salad is like all the different fruits mixed with fucking whipped cream and the texture is just absolutely not i thought you're talking about the jello one no the green jello with the fruit in it i that's disgusting too i can't do jellos with fruit in it it grosses me out so much are you serious the green jello with the shot i can't do it i can't do it cotton i don't like most thanksgiving food actually really yeah i love like favorite time of the year yeah i love see i don't eat turkey anymore because it makes me fucking deathly tired but i love a good turkey and fucking a ham and i don't even eat ham puts his in a bowl so he like makes this mixture every year it's like turkey and gravy

and mac salad because my dad makes an amazing macaroni salad um and the stuffing and blah blah blah and then he just mixes it in a bowl like a casserole and eats it you know what my favorite is is after thanksgiving making the turkey cranberry stuffing sandwiches yes oh god they're so good so fucking that only goes in big touching so good yeah i'm the that's an ocd thing too I'm the reason both my families have the divider plates at holidays because of me Bailey is the same way that's a Gemini trait my grandpa like will put his corn

and his mashed potatoes and like just everything together that's how Jay is he loves it I can't even since I was little I couldn't even have like cake and ice cream together at like birthday parties yeah I wouldn't eat it even have cake and ice cream together at birthday parties. Yeah. I wouldn't eat it. I love cake and ice cream together. I do like cake.

It's so good. Like the ice cream cakes? Yeah. That's different. There's some things I don't like mixed together, but there are some things that I can handle. And I have to eat things one at a time. You're just slightly... That's weird.

We know what I am. So you finish... The unknown. we know what we know what i am unknown um you finish each like thing and then move on to the next i think i kind of do that so like like i always have to eat the fries first i think i eat like what i don't want to eat cold the most okay like i know i will never eat cold fries so i'm gonna eat that first like if a burger is a little cold i I can eat that last. I always eat my fries first. Oh, I hate cold meat.

I can't do cold meat unless it's, like, super cold chicken and I can, like, eat it in a sandwich or something like that. Tabitha wants to know where we see ourselves in three years. Look, I think ever since 2020, I cannot see the future anymore at all I don't know what happened that year but I literally like stopped being able to envision the future so I've just been trying to live in the moment oh I wish I could do that yeah and not even worry about the future anymore like I used to I think I used to worry so much about the future that I couldn't live in the moment and I was missing everything and now I couldn't live in the moment and I was missing everything and now I feel like I'm the opposite and I love it way more yeah it changed my perspective

when someone said anxiety is worrying about the future and depression is worried about the past that has like completely blown my mind and now like I realize like you know I do have anxiety when I didn't realize I had anxiety i always said i didn't i struggled really badly with my depression but i realized when i'm not in my depression i'm in my anxiety oh yeah same it's always like this is the happiest i've been in a long fucking time i don't want to jinx it but i had to do a fucking ton of diet changes i had to fucking like really fight to get here but before it was either fucking fight or flight it was either fucking I'm fighting for my life or I'm fucking scared to be that I'm

gonna die like there was no fucking in between so I think for me my three year is just like our next step in all of our lives yeah for the business everything for our lives. We've just built something so cool and so sustainable. We're just kind of riding this wave. And the problem is, is with the podcast, um, this might be, this might be me being a little vulnerable, but with a podcast space, we don't have a lot of fucking options, you know? So I'm trying to pave a way and trying to do my own thing. Even though people are telling me no left and right, I'm like, pave away and trying to do my own thing. Even though people are telling me no left and right, I'm like, no, I've really built something here. I know what I'm doing. So when that time comes, you know, maybe this will evolve into a TV show or a late night talk show

or something like that. And that's our goal. People keep telling me you can't do it. So the more they tell me I can't do it, the more I'm going to hold my beer, bitch. Yeah. The more they also told me I couldn't make money doing a podcast yeah you know and it's like yeah we figured that out now what's next you know so it's really cool to talk about the podcast to people because I think for a long time I wasn't sure how to talk about the podcast you too like I think both of us were always just like well it's a podcast because it was so new people didn't understand when you say podcast now and you get to say you are one of the number one podcasts it's even fucking cooler yeah you don't just get to say oh i'm good everyone has a fucking podcast but not everyone gets to say it's one of the number

one podcasts in the world yeah for sure that's so cool no we're definitely kicking ass over here and i'm proud next three years is going to be a big step and i think you and i even talked today was like we began to see the the shift in this and how different things are going to start becoming like someone stopped by my salon today and like yeah you know it's it's becoming a little more real like you even you know you get you get noticed a lot yeah i get noticed everywhere a lot it's crazy where'd i get jimmy johns the other day yeah that's hilarious walk in looking terrible and there she goes i know you and i was like can i have a number four

somebody actually that's a question that somebody has is how are you guys handling the fame how are you handling becoming famous with people knowing who you are and who you know um how are you handling becoming famous with people knowing who you are and who you know that's hard for me i think it depends on the people that we do meet because there's some that are like oh my god cool and so nice and stuff but there's people that really push it and almost like get scary almost that's where i get scared but the ones that are super cool and just like i love when people actually come up and say hi versus like staring and whispering from afar i think that or dming you after you leave like i saw you and you're like why didn't you come say hi i do ask people i'm like if you're gonna see me and like if you plan on messaging me later please just say

hi at that time because i do have anxiety. Like I don't, you know, then it makes you feel like people are looking at you. People are talking. I already have that anyway, but I don't want to be the person who's like, they're looking at me because they know me. I don't feel that because I don't feel like that part yet.

But like I was at Walmart the other day with Olivia and I had two people stop and Olivia didn't understand it yet. But Olivia immediately was like, those were fans. I was like, no, baby, they're like friends.

I was like, we got to meet new friends because because I don't I feel like that's a weird word to use yeah I never use I never ever call my following fans I always call you guys followers family or something like that but I don't know I think it still hasn't hit me that I'm famous I don't my husband gets so mad at me because or that we're famous you know my husband gets so mad at me because he's like you need to take security with you. I'm like, I'm going fucking tanning, dude. I'm going to the airport. I'm going, you know, like and he's like, I don't care.

Take security with you. And I'm just like, I'm not going to do that. Like, I'm going to the airport. Remember that one time we went and we got stopped at least eight or nine times. Yeah. And we had the incident at the casino that one time and like i think those those little incidents is like what makes me even realize when i when i stand back and look at you and what you have to go through i'm like damn like she's really famous no i just don't

see it i feel like we're literally i don't know i just feel like we're all one big fucking happy family and it's like everybody that we meet is like an extension. And I just feel so blessed that anybody cares one, what I have to say on this fucking podcast and to fucking about our family and our lives. You know, somebody on fucking Facebook yesterday said to me, why is she always, um, I'd have to, I'll have to dig and look, but she said, why is she, why does she never give props to the women who work with her behind the scenes? Are you kidding me? And I was like, I said, who like forced us to have social media, like the one who forced us to grow our brands. I said that to her and she said, why does she never validate the women who work behind the scenes for her? And I was like, first of all,

validate my balls, bitch. How about that? And I said, secondly, she never validate the women who work behind the scenes for her? And I was like, first of all, validate my balls, bitch. How about that? And I said, secondly, the reason they have the followings that they do is because I forced them to fucking do that, dude. Like you have to fucking in order for it's like all boats float. So in order for us to be this huge brand, everybody has to fucking show their talent. You know, without you you i wouldn't fucking look amazing every day same with you like you run everything behind the scenes so it's like i'm proud of the little girl cult that coven that we've there is so many people he's been

very vulnerable i don't know what's wrong with him he's been doing this since last night. I'm pushing the microphone away. I like legitimately, that's the number one thing I can't brag on you enough is that you bring everyone with you because there's so many celebrities that you see and you have no idea what their crew looks like. Ever. I've met so many celebrities, have no idea what their managers look like, have no idea what their makeup artists look like, have no idea what their managers look like have no idea what their makeup artists look like have no idea what their hair cells look like ever yeah you were like if someone was to ask you like and i think it's funny because in the comments if someone gets us wrong of who we are your fan base yeah comes for them they're like excuse me that is not her daughter

that is her manager or her makeup artist or whatever it is i think that's so cool because you have really made sure everyone knew exactly who we were yeah i just can't imagine trying to fucking just only be in the spotlight you know like i first of all i don't and that's another let's this kind of segues into something else somebody sent me a screenshot of somebody commenting on something the other day and they're like yeah yeah, she's a, a fame whore. And it's like, all right, so let me get this straight. If I don't work and I don't bring in my own fucking money, which I have always done ever since I've gotten with my husband, then I'm a gold digger. But if I try to have my own brand and my own identity outside of my husband, because I'll never be just a fucking wife, I I'm sorry. And no disrespect to the women in

the industry who just want to be wives. I wish I could do that. My trauma won't allow me to just fucking do that. Like I can't, I have to be, have something going on at all times. So it's like, if I do that, then I'm a fame whore. So it's like, you can't win with people ever. It's like, yeah, I'm damned if i do and i'm damned if i don't but what you guys don't realize is doing what i do has really helped my mental health because i do suffer from such bad anxiety and i was suffering from depression it gave me something to look forward to but it's also pushed me outside of my box the first fucking four seasons of the

podcast i would have panic attacks while i'm interviewing these people you just recently you can tell how comfortable i'm getting behind the microphone you know and it's like i'm working my shit out and people are like you know well if you have such bad anxiety why are you always in front of the camera because i'm not gonna let fucking mental health rule my life i'm not gonna be a bitch and fucking just lay down and die. Like I'm going to get up and I'm going to fucking fight. You know, like I'm going to fight to live a normal fucking life. And if I can show people that, hey, just because you suffer from these things, you can do this too.

Then that's what I'm going to fucking do. Yeah. You know, so. I encourage everyone to go back on YouTube to her first season of the podcast yeah and watch how different that entire season is compared to where you are now yeah and just and it's not even in interview wise it's just how you interact with the person because i think the number one comment you get and the best compliment you get about the podcast is how comfortable everyone feels to open up to you

yeah it's like sitting there talking to a friend everyone feels like they can just spill their heart to you and be their most authentic selves yes and i don't think people realize that hasn't always been as easy like before it was like she would have notes on her phone and she would go through the notes there was one podcast and i'm wondering if anyone can find it where you accidentally deleted your notes and you went in full panic mode yeah and you just kind of and then you just kept rolling with it and i think that was such a crucial moment to me also to witness because at that moment is just like your anxiety you had no other choice but to just free ball it and that's exactly what you needed to do now was just a free ball you

never pull out your phone during a podcast unless there was something specific you needed to know i rarely so and that's this that's a good um point to prove is like i rarely have notes for people's podcasts whenever i created this podcast i wanted to make it a safe space for people to come and tell their stories because one people were telling my story for me and I fucking that's why I made this podcast because I was like no you motherfuckers are telling it wrong I'm gonna tell my story so you know when guests come on yes I'll do a little bit of research but one I never research people's drama ever like and that is my mistake because the field that I'm in fucking there and some of the guests that I have on do have drama but that I don't I care about their survival story I care about where they came from I care about like how they conquered shit how they fucking beat addiction how they fucking got out of

that abusive relationship you know I don't give a fuck about who they're beefing with on the fucking internet dude I got enough shit going on in my life though I don't fucking get involved in people's drama period has the fucking drama came out on the fucking podcast and i've had to get involved in it because i what my biggest fault is always taking people for their word you know and i always like when you're sitting here talking to me you're my friend but i don't feel like you take them for their word right you will you give them a platform to speak their side right their story and their side does not always mean you agree with them right you have in the past just sat there and let that person tell their story and move on and people assume that is you taking their side right in

that story which is by no means right well like if i make a the wrong comment or if i nod in agreeance i get you know in trouble for that but it's more like when somebody's sitting in my on my couch they're my friend in that moment and i and sometimes i have relationships with these people before they come on the podcast so i consider us having a friendship so i'm always gonna have my friends back you know if they're telling me somebody's fucking bullying them or fucking isn't treating them good. I'm like, damn, what a fucking asshole. You know, like that's what your fucking best friend or your homie would say to you.

Any of my girls that come to me and they're like, hey, this this person is doing this to me. I'm like, what the fuck is their problem? You know, like that's just how I am. So I think a lot of that gets misconstrued. And fucking, of course, the Internet just takes shit and fucking runs with it you know and creates their own narrative in reality like it's just me trying to fucking get this person's story out and not fucking i don't want to control their narrative you know so when you were talking about how i always had the notes and stuff like that and i don't do that anymore it's like i love

the dynamic shift i think that was such a crucial point in the podcast was when you deleted that and you realized i can do this without it yeah i don't fucking need notes yes you just watched from that moment on you just progressively stopped looking at it because i think it gave you that confidence of knowing like i don't have to actually do that yeah i don't want to be an interviewer i'm not an interviewer like i'm not gonna sit here and drill you with questions unless i really fucking want to know something yeah like this is a conversation i want you to tell your side and then as questions organically come up that's when i'm gonna that's what i'm gonna ask you nothing is staged on this podcast no at all nothing and and the and another thing is is you know sometimes my team will come

to me and they'll be like do you want to edit that out and i'll be like no leave it in and then it fucking of course it bites me in my ass but i try to keep it as real and as g as possible and you know and some of you guys love me for that and i love you guys for being able to see my intentions because with everything in life i really believe that intention is everything, you know? And then some of you guys try to twist it and make it seem like my intentions aren't pure. And I don't really give a fuck.

You guys are going to come up with whatever you want to anyways, but can't control the internet. Yeah. But just so you have a little bit of those tidbits of behind the scenes of the podcast, you know, so maybe you guys can understand how it runs now and how I run my business.

Absolutely. Yeah. I love that. You got one? one dying over here uh yeah something completely different what do you what do you listen to while you're getting ready hair and makeup just everything yeah nickelback machine gun kelly i love rock like classic rock regular rock occasionally it'll get weird yeah sometimes i'll fucking put on like brent belinda carlisle and fucking like some oldies and shit i'll fucking start pumping out the 80s playlist yeah the 80s

yeah once in a while i mean we listen to everything it's we don't it just depends on what mood we're in uh what is something like must-haves you have in your like purse or nightstand medical kit bro i've gotten better at it so that was a part of my ocd that's that's kind of morphed whenever i was going through those health problems in the beginning of the year um i would carry around a blood pressure cuff a fucking we always thought it was her vibrator going off it was just her blood pressure cuff blood sugar tester pulse oximeter fucking i don't even have asthma but i would carry around a fucking um inhaler epi pen i mean you name it i still have a few of those items in my purse as we speak right now but

like i don't travel with the blood sugar kit anymore because now i know like if i feel like my blood sugar gets high i just fucking pound a bunch of water or eat a banana and i'm good yep and yeah so what about you guys um i don't know i'm not one to really do you even carry a purse you don't carry a purse okay we both carry backpacks and mine is like the lesbians that you are bisexual like the bisexuals that you aspire to be little mini backpacks are a bisexual thing i will put it out there like i just always like it because it's out of the way i don't like to carry a purse on my hand she has a whole fucking toddler that she carries on her own it weighs like 50 60 pounds we had to weigh it to get on the pj the other day and i was like this thing i think

it was like 30 some pounds and that was already after you had cleaned it out and it's a actual toddler i'm pretty sure it weighs as much as cash does what do people carry around in their purse what are they supposed to carry i literally only carry my wallet in there everything else is just like collected from my children and shit i gotta be prepared if shit goes down i need stuff i guess yeah i have like gum i got gum jewelry every lip gloss product you could ever think of some scrunchies powder that's it yeah eye drops just the normal shit see what i'm saying that's what i have too like i mean plus the medical shit water 700 waters in there every time we travel we used to get stopped for the longest time because she'd be like or her body sprays she was like is there something in your person she'd be like absolutely not they'd get to the bottom and just pull out like a whole or her bath and body work sprays always listen you can never be too prepared and i need to make

sure i can quench my thirst not if they throw it away it's just nice to know i have it up until that moment or the benadryl i have it in my purse i have it in my purse right now i now i know i can buy liquid benadryl in the fucking um gift shop so now i don't have to go yeah we found it yeah nice yeah yeah very nice all right let me pull up like a couple more questions someone asked where do we shop where do me and you shop oh that's interesting fashion nova that's it i love a good fashion nova haul and those motherfuckers won't sponsor me yeah they won't um probably because i wear shirts that say i love whores you can buy that at 1620productions.com this is mimi's little uh fucking clothing line that she started and i'm very proud of her for it

thank you are you i am bitch why wouldn't i be it makes me so happy i love it i really like it i feel like it's it's been a fun little adventure for jason and i because i made a tiktok about this but i'm not even joking when i say i had a Dell computer when him and I first met. Mind you, we met in 2011 and I didn't have Wi-Fi. So I'd go to the Starbucks down the road and I would create T-shirts. That was like something I was really passionate about. And him and I always wanted to start our own T-shirt company. I need fucking T-shirts now. I have nothing.

What am I going to say online? No, but like this vibe you need to come out with like a lip gloss or a lip kit that's been asked too like if i'm gonna come out with a makeup line and i feel like we need to yeah definitely need to do a lip kit yeah yes the bunny kylie's out of that now so let's fucking take that over yeah we could do like a liner and a gloss yeah that's all you wear and it comes in like a little xo yeah box yeah a little titty okay that's where it turns just fucking have to you have to twist the nipple to open the box tune in tokyo actually that it feels like a piercing and then you turned it and i mean i can see it how has each of your lives changed the most with all of the increasing fame one pro and one con each

i know a con what's the con uh people from my past that i haven't talked to since high school or five ten years are now trying to talk to me asking me for tickets and autographs and everything it's just like where you haven't even asked how I've been doing the past five years but that's the first thing you're gonna ask or even asking me for money that's terrible or having me like ask you guys for money i'm like oh my god i can't do that that's definitely a con for me like i have people ask me for stuff every fucking day and i don't mind because i do a lot of shit behind the scenes i give to a lot of people what you do yeah i give to a lot of people i do a lot of shit like some girl and this is not me bragging but um i'm gonna shout her little boutique out because I thought it was so sweet.

She hit me last night and she was like, hey, Bunny, you know, I would love to give you some of my clothes from my boutique. So I went over and I looked at her boutique and I was like, oh, my God, this is cute. And it was a girl who's like really trying to build something. And it just kind of touched my heart. But it's called Divinity Dolls. So it's shop divinity dolls.com. And what I did was I went on her site and I bought like a few band tees cause she had some really cute muscle band tees.

And I was like, you don't have to give me anything. I said, but I did, you know, make some purchases just to, um, help out.

I was like, just keep going, you know, because I know what it was like to start a fucking business like that. Yeah, for sure. Um, but the thing is, is like, I'll have people send me fucking cash app fucking requests.

And it's always like, I just need help. Here's my cash app. It's never. But people I have helped already will like fucking mess. Some lady wanted her surgery paid for. So I paid for it thinking that it was like a real story, which it could or could not have been. And this chick messages me a week later and wants like $5,000. And it's like, and then people get mad at you and they try to twist things and like,

say like, oh, you know, she did this or she said this. And it's like, no, that's not what happened. You know, like it's just crazy. So I think that's definitely a con or like people who gift us stuff and we don't get it because we're on tour or, um, you know, who, who you gave it to, what didn't work for us. And then they get mad at us. I gave it to a security guard at the front of the venue. That's not our security. And they're not going to come to us and tell us about stuff like that. Like, yeah. So half the time, like we don't get the stuff or take it or something. Yeah.

So I suggest if you guys make stuff for us, come to a meet and greet. And I'm not just saying that to like get your money or anything like that. But if you want to make sure that it gets in our hands, yes, do it at a meet and greet. Don't give it to somebody at the venue. Even if they're in the band,

the boys are the most irresponsible people ever and i love we love them but they're boys you know like they're not gonna yeah and we're always everyone's so busy it's just like yeah they're like oh i'll just put it right here and remind him later and then somebody can take it or like i think people also forget sometimes like in those situations we're working yeah you know that would be like going to someone's job and being like in the middle of their job being like hey i need you to handle this situation you're like wait i'm literally for like a co-worker that works at a store yeah another state away or like exactly it's like and and by no means am i saying that to be rude i literally mean like

we have so much happening that i don't think people realize like that's actually us working. Our downtime is when you don't see us. Yeah. So sometimes things get lost and we are so sorry. And we would do anything in the world to like see everything that everyone wants you guys to see. But don't paint us as the bad guys because we don't shout you out or we don't get it. Or,

you know, like you guys have to have so much patience with us. And yeah, that's definitely a con. But I would say, what are some pros? I mean, the life that I've been able to have from this. Like I was able to like, I just got a new house. You know, I don't think I could have ever done this on my own at all.

I'm going to get emotional. Wait, go ahead. Your turn. Cry, bitch. Cry. No, I'm not going to cry. It was a lot. Like my house was like over double the size

i'm so proud of you though you deserve that you guys fucking work your ass off so for all a lot of you who don't know mimi's husband does my editing on these podcasts so it's he's the one who makes all the clips that you guys see he's the one that puts the podcast together so i literally fucking just invade these people's lives every day and they work so hard you know to just keep this fucking machine running for me so you deserve that dude i had to make mimi go get this house i wasn't gonna guys i was just gonna stay in my tiny home forever and like we outgrew our house so long ago you guys i'm not joking you for years now jason has been editing for what two years um he's been working in our master bedroom yeah we didn't

have a space for him um and now i have an office and he has an office and the kids have a playroom in their bedrooms and i even have a formal dining room no it's wild to me she came to me though and she was like i'm not gonna i forgot how you worded me. She came to me though. And she was like, I'm not gonna, I forgot how you worded it, but you were like, I don't know. She was going to let this house go. I was.

And I was like, Mimi, get that fucking house, dude. I was like, you deserve this fucking house. I was like, you're miserable at your other house.

Like take that fucking leap and just fucking. I don't think people realize how much your home, um, dictates your mental. Absolutely space yeah i never realized that till i got into this home and i realized it's so much easier when things have a spot because you know like i said we outgrew our house so like it just seemed like it was always messy you're on top of each other all the time you know and jason couldn't just close the door and work. So then he would get behind and work. And then he was working till four o'clock in the morning sometimes.

Yeah. Because you got the kids that are like right there. And our poor children, I know they're, they're trying to understand, but they have by no means can understand that when we are doing things like that, we are technically working. Yeah. like that we are technically working yeah both of our kids were born into this that we work you know from home essentially and they they are used to parents with like nine to fives or anything and it's hard for them to be like at this moment they need to be working but i see you mommy and dad what like you can't be working if you're right in front of me yeah so that's really hard on us but i think they're they're getting there yeah but no i'm glad i made you get this

house i am too you guys can see it bitch i know i have listen let me tell you something i am the worst fucking friend you can ever have i am the i'm not gonna show up to anything that you want me to birthdays fucking holidays nothing if you want to hang out you got to come to me like i am the worst fucking friend but i will have your back to the fullest and i will fucking you make up for it in all other ways i promise you that like you are an amazing friend of yours she'll check on you every single day she'll send you care packages or dumb memes yeah like she will take care of you in all the ways that she is she can take care of you yeah but she's not gonna no i hate leaving my fucking little hole but now that we're only

going to be 30 minutes away from each other we're houses are only 30 minutes apart yeah so well then i'm even farther now yeah you are yes so jay and i just bought our new house and we close on the 15th it has been what happened did you salads moved okay i didn't know if it was like the recording went off. It has been an eight month fucking journey to find our dream house. And this is, it's so beautiful. You guys, it's on 10 acres. It's bigger than the black and white house that I showed on Tik TOK. And you guys will get to see it soon. I'm going to bring you guys with me while we decorate it and fucking, you know, do everything. I, we signed for the house on the 15th I have eight I think

it's either six or eight days to get it together before Thanksgiving so I'm definitely gonna bring you guys on this journey but I'm super super fucking excited about it but pro for me I guess would be just fucking getting to fucking just feel the love from all of you guys you know like of course material things are always fucking amazing but they don't bring true happiness and I think what my whole lesson this year and this journey has been is I love giving back to people like I love helping people there's fucking people on tiktok that I see all the time and I'll like send them fucking a $500 gift or you know like I just want just want lady. Yeah. Oh yeah. Remember when we were in Texas?

Yeah. The cart lady. Like that was just like, you just like said it like, like it wasn't anything. I'm like, Oh my God, that literally changes someone's life. What happened? I don't remember the Instacart lady in Texas. When me and you went down there, uh, to visit your dad. Um, and she was like, she was homeless or something and she was just like trying she wasn't even like trying to like vent or anything but she was just kind of telling you about your day and you just like just literally changed her life like that like that was something like literally almost fucking cried yeah they actually ended up getting a house with what we sent them yeah it was really sweet. That's amazing.

Yeah. No, but that's what I'm talking about. Like, that's what makes me feel good. Like, I was talking to a friend the other day and they were like, you know, you make so much money now. What really brings you happiness? And I said, honestly, bringing other people happiness, helping other people. Like, you know, it just makes me feel so good inside. And that's how my husband is, too.

Like, God brought us here for a reason and it's like if i can fucking make somebody's day fucking brighter and feel better about life because i know what it's like to fucking you know have to suck dick for a living so it's like you know like i know what it feels like to be not knowing where your next dollar is coming from or doing things that you don't want to do to fucking make money so you can fucking survive you know so it's like i don't know i just love the fact of giving back to people so that's definitely a pro we always adopt a family during christmas and we just found out we're gonna adopt this year so i'm really excited yeah i would love to do that yeah it we always try and i do it for people like i personally i don't go on the

internet by any means because i feel like people can just twist narratives online yeah but we find people within our local community yeah and jason and i have decided on the mom that we're going to help this year we seem to always like go for like a single parent yeah typically or if it is a family it might be a family but we you know we've done a local hairstylist who worked i knew for a fact that she worked multiple jobs to provide for our kids and we don't typically do something for the parent we always adopt the children yeah so we just ask them their age their favorite color and something that they need that is not a toy and then we just buy mass amounts of presents for the kids and that's what we're going to do this year we found a mom with five kids who works multiple jobs she's local to our community and i'm just gonna give back to her kids this year i think for thanksgiving i'm gonna pick like five families to like just

send thanksgiving dinner to do an instacart to um probably not instacart because that'll get a little hairy but maybe like just cash at them to get them the the food or something you know sweet yeah what's your pro hayley we've talked everybody's ear off today pro what again of just like this life this life um i would say okay so i feel like obviously i did make up before you and I had like I was doing like 10 clients a day like I was like constantly working and I was overworking myself yeah and it was crazy yeah I would say I had like kind of no life and because I was just I was overworking myself to where I was literally like not healthy and like my first meal would be at like 10 p.m like every day because I would just overwork myself and I feel like now like I don't

I obviously don't have to do that I haven't been in my studio for like three or four months but it's just nice that like now I don't have to like constantly worry about that like I have to do 10 people in order to fucking live and like feel like now i can enjoy my life and enjoy like the moment i think you realize i'm not working to live anymore i'm just like but i think you've also realized your worth too because i'm like bitch you need to hike your prices up which bit me in my ass but but you know like it's just you realized your worth you were working so hard for fucking barely but i've always been like bum i've always been like that i worked three jobs like when i moved here and i've always been by myself yeah always and so i always just like

overworked myself just so i wasn't like i guess lonely lonely or just like, I don't know. I felt like unproductive if I wasn't working. So yeah, it was constant. I always was fucking working and shit. And I wasn't being able to like enjoy life. Yeah. I feel like, and now I feel like, I don't know. I feel like I don't have to do, I don't know. I can just take a deep breath.

Yeah. Yeah. I think that's another joy for me is the the freedom yeah you know i can take my kid every saturday that was one of your questions was um do you miss working behind the chair do i miss working behind the chair absolutely not you get asked that all the time and my number one thing is is i can i cannot be someone's hairstylist i found out like that people feel like they have um rights to every part of your life and you as a hairdresser yes damn um and i just don't feel like that was the job for me i get that yeah like people feel like you people literally feel like

they own you own oh and i have to talk to them 24 7 so that's another that kind of goes with mine like i don't have to like i was able to give up weddings yeah yeah and like weddings remember i told you i was like stop doing fucking weddings yeah yeah and i think i have like four this year the whole year but like they feel like they have all rights to weddings literally weddings are the reason i don't want to get married they're one of the reasons and they would literally give me crippling anxiety to where i would cry in my car afterwards every time i wouldn't eat all day like and i have been treated so shitty sometimes like at these weddings like oh it's been it's been fucking terrible and like

now i just feel like i'm treated better like so now it doesn't it doesn't feel like i'm working yeah like i'm true because you get to pick and choose who you want to give your time yeah so now i just have like my main clients i feel like and i love it because like they're not the type that's like ew i don't fucking like that or Or, you know, the overly picky, crazy people. And it's just like it's like I could be doing. I did the Grammy. OK, this is a perfect example. I did the Grammys one day and I'm like so high up here because I'm like, I just did the fucking Grammys for the first time.

Had a wedding the next weekend and they literally treated me like dog shit and was like didn't feed you i didn't feed me two hours didn't give you water i think i remember that didn't give me water like literally like they made me feel and i was like damn i was like i was such on a high and now i'm like literally treated like i'm fucking nothing yep that's like that's exactly how i thought I didn't like beach I don't even really consider myself like a true hairstylist anymore I just more I'm like the friend that does your hair yeah like literally coming over to me I guess no but I mean like I mean you would like to but like I I am so much more than that and that was such a past life I I've retired from that

life I will fully and honestly say i've retired from that part of my life because that doesn't serve me a purpose anymore yeah i do so many more things now and we i'm i'm proud of all these photography is fucking fire dude your pictures are getting so good me yeah okay i could never fire mimi because i would lose everything someone asked me what i did for you the other day and I was like well do you how much time you got yeah literally like when I say you're my right hand bitch you are my right hand bitch I don't think Haley's my left you're my right and literally fucking I photography hair manager uh I make graphic design stuff yeah I fucking do all the merch stuff like i i i am in everything to you yeah truly and i do i but i again i had to step away from that life so no i do not miss

ever working behind the chair you could not pay me to go work behind the chair again i would be one of the other like if nothing will ever happen something was to ever happen a dark days yeah like i truly i have so many other avenues that i just enjoy so much more you know with my clothing line now and like my photography those two things bring me so much joy and like sets your soul on fire it does like and i love it like our life that we have with the podcasting and now that you've like integrated me into the podcast a little bit i don't think you know how much like i fucking love that like i've loved being able to be more you're my robin i'm howard you're robin bitch it's like so much more creative yeah you

come out i feel like we both have come out of our shell yeah you a lot out of our shell yeah but i can you guys a lot dude i used to not even want to be on camera it would be her hand and it had to be a good angle of her hand yeah when she was powdering your nose or she didn't even have tattoos no like i was like i'm never getting tattoos and now look at me everywhere but no i remember like our first video together i even put a giant heart emoji over myself yeah i used to hate that i would be like girl i think that comes from like always being behind the scenes like my whole life like i never was like in a camera or anything like because i was like i am working it's not about me

like i shouldn't be in this video that goes back to like Bunny forcing us to be a part of this though. Cause I felt like, I felt like I had my own, like I would get recognized for being makeup by Haley, like in Nashville. Cause like of other things I did, but like they would recognize just the name. They wouldn't recognize me for like me.

And I feel like now I get recognized. They're like, Oh my God, you're Haley on tape. Like, you're the girl that smells like dick. Yeah. Like they, it's more like life things yeah it's like oh you've done this person it's like oh yeah but like i'm a person too yeah and now it's like yeah i get recognized for like

dumb shit i say or the daily hayley i literally i got recognized at i think it was like i was leaving a wedding like i just did a wedding or something and i was leaving and someone's like i saw you in a tiktok about some ribs and i was like all right that is fucking hilarious that was so real oh it was a thousand percent i didn't even know they were recording yeah that's the thing i was like those are ribs bitch no she said this is a knee bone i knew it wasn't a knee but then i definitely forgot it was crips well i love you guys you guys want to eat our salads and yeah thank you guys for coming and doing this i have one last very serious question oh lord okay okay final this will do it okay

it's very serious are you ready this is for you buddy yes is your christmas tree up yet not yet because we are moving into our new house so as soon as we move into the new house it will be put up in between the 15th and the 23rd don't you fucking worry motherfuckers i am on it are we doing the christmas tree competition this year every year we have a christ Christmas tree competition that I win, that my husband swears he does, and we're going to – listen, baby, it's a tradition. Do you think he's going to pull out all the stops this year?

He never pulls out the stops. He hires – let me tell you, my husband hires people to do his work. When you see him hanging ornaments, it's because I'm like, hey, babe, hang a fucking ornament so I can fucking put you in this vlog. But this year, all gloves are off. So if he doesn't do it hands on, I'm exposing him. You hear that jelly roll? OK, Mr. DeFord.

Jelly roll has been exposed. I'm calling you out to decorate your own fucking tree this year. Love you guys. Thank you guys for tuning in to another episode of Dumb Blonde. We will see you guys next week. Bye. Bye. Ow.

Ow. You don't need a fucking need a shave is it your pussy hair again yeah they get like twisted sometimes how fucking wiry is your pussy hair it's pretty coarse good lord of course here