Dumb Blonde - Q&A with Bai

Episode Date: November 18, 2024

The beautiful Bailee Ann is back and ready to fill us in on her life at 16. She answers fan Q&A on everything from whether she gets an allowance, what it’s like when Jelly and Bunnie show up at school, her career ambitions and future plans, and where things stand with her mom. She also gives some great advice for parents of teens, and reflects on the ways she's grown up since the last time we heard from her. Watch Full Episodes & More:www.dumbblondeunrated.comSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

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right it's so weird to me first of all mimi is a 30 year old woman with fucking bright orange hair and black hair and tattoos everywhere. You don't have one fucking tattoo on you. You are 16. You know what I'm saying? My favorite comment was they said she's the blank version of me. Yeah. And I was like, that's so real. For real.

For real. You know who looks like you and Gracie look like twins. Yeah. You and Gracie. Now you both have black hair. Gracie Taja. Yeah. Yes, dude.

That was crazy. Right. Crazy. I was like, oh my God. Yeah. You guys are like doppelgangers. both have black hair gracie taja yeah yes dude that was crazy right crazy how much i looked at her and i was like oh my god yeah you guys are like doppelgangers there's a couple times i saw gracie at the wedding yesterday and i was like like even daddy was like dude her and bailey look so much alike like it was wild um but then yeah the hayley like hayley is just has curly curly fucking hair does not you guys none of you guys look like curly hair brown curly

hair none of you guys look alike it's kind of like when people are just like compare me to other blondes it's like oh you look like bunny xo and it's like we don't even look alike at all and it's like everyone who's plus size jason's like literally they say that he looks like him literally my bad um but yeah anytime like there's a plus size dude they're like you look like this guy he's like what because we're both fat like hello oh i love it dude bug of love got married yesterday bro oh my god beautiful the whole day the wedding was so gorgeous i haven't even is she home yet i haven't even got to tell her she's not even home yet how proud of her i am she's probably fucking hung over oh for sure yeah she was lit last night yeah it was she started drinking she was lit lit she was even making her centerpieces still and finishing them like

while we were getting ready oh my gosh in the bridal suite it was the only thing i'd let her do all day she was very upset about it oh i i just can't believe she pulled that whole wedding together like she did so proud of her and you helped so much too baby i do what i can but she killed it for sure when was the last time we had you on the pod last year yeah i feel like we do pods yearly yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah how are you doing you in a better better space since that podcast honestly really i'm chilling really. I'm chilling. I'm old. I swear I'm old. You're not old. Why don't you tell people what you just did

to your fucking arm? Oh, bro. Look at that bruise. Did we see this timing? Have you seen this timing? Why is it not wrapped right now? What am I going to talk about? I only have one arm, okay?

I can't wrap it. Why did you unwrap it? I had to shower. I had to wash it. Oh, gosh. I don't want to talk about it. I have one arm okay i can't wrap it why did you unwrap it i had to shower i have to wash it oh i don't talk about it i'll help you you could have brought it here and i was archery that did that i was like bro you're giving it up you're never doing archery again i don't know how she did it man but it was okay i was opening my halloween costume the other night and my knife got stuck on, like, a zip tie. So, like, it got, like, notched in it. So, I pulled it really quick.

And, like, you know when you think you have more tension in your arm than you do? Well, I didn't. So, I hold back, and it just sliced open. And the knives we have in our kitchen are so sharp. They're way too sharp. It's crazy. It's disgusting. Yeah.

It's scary how sharp these knives are. We got them off Amazon. I had to cut a lemon earlier and wanted to cry. I was scared. They're so sharp it's crazy so but the first like seven or so minutes i was in total shock so i didn't feel it i didn't know what to do i just basically tourniqueted my own arm and then went to run it underwater and when i went to run it underwater i like let my arm go and i just saw it shoot ah i was like oh listen hold on it gets worse you ready when i wiggled my fingers i could

see the tendons when i flexed like when i was flexing i could see the muscle moving i could feel and hear the blood pulsating it was guys i cut straight through a nerve when her and fucking it was rough i barely have function in this arm right now kayla texts me she's like are you awake and i'm like yeah she's like the kid just sliced her arm open so I'm thinking like you know you know we love Bailey but she is sometimes a drama queen so I didn't know what to expect you know and when I saw the look on Bailey's face and Kayla's face and I looked at her arm like I didn't want to freak out but I was just like you're okay you're gonna be good like when Kayla broke her ankle I'm like you're fine you're gonna be fine don't worry about it bone sticking outside yeah and at that point I

had I literally hadn't freaked out until you really you were really good at covering it up but I saw your face chain for this split a second yeah it went okay and I was like then I lost it I really it was like 12 minutes at that point I was covered in blood everything was bleeding it was like terrapin or three in my room like I yeah like poorake had to clean up all the blood upstairs oh my god no it was piles puddles rough and so 11 stitches later 11 stitches later fucking a you're a fucking soldier kid i've never had stitches has the house learned not to open things with knives i mean we do it all the time i know that's why i was like have we learned our lesson no i'm such a person i was very proud that i saw scissors in your house for the first time yesterday where oh i thought you

got them they were in here i was so proud of you what is the difference between scissors or knives though like really you could still cut yourself open with scissors too you can but i think it takes a lot more effort to do that open blade the blades are facing themselves i don't know it's much more there's some more depth yeah i feel like i thought they were your scissors i feel like zoro you know just they might be my scissors you know who's or was yeah they were like um like the ones you cut fabric with oh no that's wrong no those are those must have been kayla's or kayla's yeah she must have been sewing something for the wedding or she's okay never mind yeah so last time you're on the podcast was really deep podcast and i thought maybe you know i would love for people to get to know just you yeah let's not do all that yeah i feel like you're known for like

your trauma and that you're so much more than that okay after the video that we posted went viral their e-news made posted a video on tiktok i don't know if y'all have seen this yet but it's a five minute long tiktok and it's it's titled it's um the terrible truth about bailey ann no it wasn't e-news it was it it's some weird uh freaking that's been up it was before that you guys posted that and then e-news posted something too it was crazy and everybody's commented on it because it's true and i'm like this is crazy it's such misinformation and i get so mad when they talk about it's such an out of context dramatic storytelling one you're underage and two it's like if you're gonna talk about an underage child first of all they don't do that with very many kids and so for them to think that it's okay

to do that to you is weird to me and i already get weirded out by that just like that one time that girl posted where you were working at like oh my god like my mom did you remember I was part of it I found it yeah like we all put it in the group chat yeah like yo why is this online yeah and I understand from her point of view and she was very sweet when I was like this should not be online and she's like I'll take it down right now and I mean it was going viral but it was like this should not be online and she's like i'll take it down right now and i mean it was going viral but it was like you know the safety of your children is what matters when you have social media and to see you get blasted on there for things that aren't even true like that just fucking irritates me beyond in but i've gotten so much better with the internet now like when people say things i don't even fucking care anymore i'm just like i'm very proud of it took a very long time for you to do that i'll just put cap or like something like that but like it doesn't affect

me like it used to i used to get like really you were ready to go to war yeah and now now i'm just like whatever but when it comes to bailey i get really like defensive and that shit pisses me off no it's just wild i just don't i mean i just don't care because i'm fine whatever when was the last time you needed to go to a doctor but you pushed it off, made the excuse of, I'm too busy, it'll heal on its own, I don't need help? I think we've all been there. Booking a doctor appointment can just feel so daunting. But thanks to ZocDoc, there's no reason to delay.

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So we're going to start this off. Bailey, do you get an allowance? I do not. Because I, so that, so yes, I do not get an allowance. Period. That's the answer to that question. Period. allowance period that's the answer to that question period the context before she fixes her face is I don't really well a I was working so I there was no point in an allowance but b

it's like a do something get something type routine and I do the bare minimum if that thank you okay because we've had short listen I've tried to work out an allowance yes and that's true so the but the answer that question is no I don't and it's via choice okay perfect I love that good answer child I love I don't have time to do all of that okay I've got my own stuff going on listen this kid does not I am in five college classes as a junior in high school i'm a little busy but you know what i do love is that you will clean up the kitchen without and it took years yeah i don't want to do it i it's i mean it's not a big deal but it's just

yeah like what does your room look like as long as a big deal is not made out of it what does your room look like that's not a good that's not that Q and a question. I'm sorry. I mean, I want to know. It was on the list. Inquiring minds want to know, how does your room look? No comment. She said, uh,

like an unorganized 16 year olds would just clothes. It's honestly, there's not any food in there. No, it's just clothes all of the time. And bottles of water. No, cause I never finished.

She can't say anything about that. I got three of hers over here. I took a leftover a second ago. i throw them away okay sometimes they build up in my room but i do sweet miss bailey what is it like going to school with a famous parent it is it hard to make friends and trust people because of who your parents are? Yeah, no. I think for like the school thing, everybody kind of doesn't care anymore. Yeah. Because we're all kind of used to it.

He does like, he's come to football games and he, whatever. So I think everybody's kind of over that. Oh my God. And also people kind of just know not to fuck with me. Yeah. I'm just not the one. So it's pretty easy other than that making new friendships is hard but i just don't do that anymore yeah i have my i have my my chosen few

yeah other than that everybody else i'm good yeah yeah all right i like it it's not too complicated i like it a lot i like it a lot what are your plans after high school have you thought about pursuing a music career like your dad um so i want to go to columbia for law in new york which columbia is in new york guys i didn't know that guys hey columbia is in new york didn't know that did you know that did you know that no i was sitting here trying to figure out where it was thank you thank you because i was like when she said that i was like wait you want to go to school in tennessee and she's like no mom that's columbia that's columbia the community state college it is oh you it is a great school you went for tennessee i went straight for the country yeah that's also

what i thought i was that's what when i looked at you i said this is not south america yeah columbia is in new york yeah so yeah nyu is in northern manhattan and America yeah Columbia is in New York yeah so yeah NYU is in northern Manhattan and Columbia is in southern Manhattan um but that's where I want to go and I want to study law as for music I don't have any plans to right now I don't know if I ever get to law for medical so well Columbia actually has both yeah so if you ever like started going and didn't want to do the law thing you could can switch right over to. Yeah, exactly. So I have a lot of options at Columbia. Um,

but as for going from med law, the real decision was made in the ER the other night. I bet. Decided I don't want to do that for the rest of my life. Nope. But before that, I already started thinking about law just cause I don't. What do that for the rest of my life. Nope. But before that, I already started thinking about law just because I don't. What in law?

Criminal defense. Oh, yeah. We talked about this last night. I don't think I'll ever. Yeah, I think I definitely want to do criminal defense. I wouldn't survive in anything. What kind of cases would you say no to? What kind of cases would I say?

Oh, because you're going to have to say no to a lot of people. I don't. I think it's very case by case. Um, so I don't know if there's a specific category of people other than like, I don't know if I can say sex offenders on your podcast. No, you can. Other than like sex offenders. Yeah. Anything having to do with kids. Anything.

I don't think I can do. Yeah. I couldn't do kids. That's really the only thing. Like if somebody murdered their kids somebody killed their kid or if somebody killed a kid or anything sex related i don't i just couldn't do yeah like yeah no i couldn't do it is there a subject you would like to be like more specialized within um drug or also yeah i've thought about i like the narcotic field i I think it's very complex.

It's very complex morally and legally. There's a lot of loopholes. I mean, the whole judicial system is corrupt. It's wild, to be honest. And I think that's part of the reason I'm so invested in it because I really, because if I was going into medicine, I would have done medicine. And I hate, I hate the medical field. I hate Western medicine. I hate the way that we handle health and health insurance and everything.

And I couldn't, there was no getting into that for me. And whatever field I get into, I'm ready to turn it upside down. You can become a doctor though. And also do like Eastern medicine and holistic medicine. Yeah, I ain't trying to do all that. She's like, I've had enough of that with you. Yeah, I am so done. So done with everything medical. She's like, if you had enough of that with you. Yeah, I am so done. So done with everything medical.

She's like, if you make me take another fucking vitamin. It is the worst. So yeah, I want to turn the judicial system upside down. And the best way to do that is from the inside. Maybe I'll be a congresswoman one day. Maybe that's the real goal. Go law and be like a judge. I could see that.

Maybe I'll be president. I could see that with you. Jolly Roll's daughter, president. president i love that let's fucking go shoot for the moon baby i'm totally open to that because i'll be what would i be if you were the president's i would be mother of the first mother of the president first mother first mother mother. Okay. I would totally own that and make merch. I would be like, that's my baby. I'm first mother. I am first mother.

First mama. I don't have a question, but I would like for Bailey to know that I was blown away by her last podcast. The amount of healing and maturity coming from a girl who was not yet 16 was astonishing. Keep being authentically you. Keep improving every day and keep loving yourself thanks queen i still get so many dms about that podcast like as much blowback as we got for it there was so much more love yeah and just love that healing and you know i i don't think people realize you wanted to do that yeah you were like hey let's do this so so saying that much you know when we're

not going to dwell on it too much but where do you and your mom stand because I'm sure that's going to be one of these questions in here too uh me my mom haven't spoken in a year and a half a little yeah about a year and a half actually um and I don't have any plans to speak to her you guys have actually seen each other I You mean Felicia? Remember when she opened the door? She opened the door. Oh, oh my God. I forgot about that. That's how much I don't speak to my mother.

Yeah. So yeah, my grandmother passed in January. My mom's mom. And this is Felicia seeing her daughter for the first time since getting out of jail. This is Felicia seeing her first time. Yeah. From getting out of jail, from me getting back home. From my, yes, from my little exciting road trip. Yeah. So my grandmother passed and and i felicia's mom passed my yes so i went up to where where

they live to go to the funeral and things um and i was dropping off we had brought my cousin back and i was bringing him back to his house. Okay. I remember Mike. And when I dropped him off, he went in the back door and me and Cheyenne were about to pull out the driveway and my mom opens the front door and like we make eye contact and then she just shut the front door and walked away. No, well she,

no, she, she, cause it was like a glass door. She shut the glass door and I saw her walk away and I was like, hello to you too, Felicia. Yeah. And it's like, you door. She shut the glass door and I saw her walk away. And I was like, hello to you too, Felicia. Yeah.

And it's like, you would think that a real, and I don't, I'm not here to bash her. Yeah. But in that moment, you're a real motherly instinct would no matter how mad you are at your child or how much you want to gaslight them or manipulate them,

you would want to go and hug them. Yeah. Like, I think you're a fucking asshole for that podcast. Or, Hey man, I think you're a fucking asshole for that podcast or Hey man, I think you're, you know, thanks for putting me on blast or Hey,

I'm sorry. Yeah. Be pissed off at me. I don't care if we should be mad, but like, yeah, really? What a crazy way to go about hasn't tried to reach out to her.

Has not tried to have a relationship with her. Like completely just what just looks at you and just looked at me and walked away. Like I wasn't even there. I was like, okay girl. girl i was like i wouldn't have entertained you if you came and said hi to me anyway yeah but but it's the place full of you should have looked you should have it's hurtful because you want that relationship with your mom you know and no i really don't yeah well we're not gonna dwell that, but I just want to, I know that people are going to ask that question anyways. And you know, she's just,

she's out and she's not a part of our lives. I have the best for her. She is, she seems to be, from what I've heard from family members, she is working and is in a happy relationship and is living, is doing fine for herself. And I hope that's what she continues to do. Yeah.

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so many, like so many memories are in your brain you're like i don't even know i go blank when people ask me that like yeah people are like what's your favorite memory with the girls i'm like because there's just so much like we live life every day with each other that's exactly how do we have a favorite moment yeah i'm just like like you know it's hard to pick one because when you live life with people it's like i don't know we have so many. Yeah. In what circumstance are we speaking? Yeah.

Literally. Like what type of memory? Cause there's a bunch of different, you know? Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. I don't think I have one. Um, what about with your dad?

Same or? Yeah. I kind of feel the same with him. I feel like we just have, I feel like my favorite, like I feel like my favorite, I don't have a favorite memory with my dad, but I have like a collection of favorite memories and it's just our car rides yeah just a collection of years of being in the car together yeah well your dad loves to communicate in cars we love to talk in the car it's we're both roadies like it's just our thing so we get in the car and it's just it's just everything we can talk about yeah if you ever want to have a conversation with

jelly roll get in the car with him okay i remember my favorite member with my dad dad. We were going to the Bridgestone Arena the first time he ever played. And it was the night before. We were going for rehearsal. And we were in the car. And we pulled. And, like, you can go. He was parked in, like, this weird spot. You go under.

It's, like, a whole thing. And on the way in, I was, like, Have you ever seen Finding Nemo? And he was, like, Yeah. I was, like, Okay. About two minutes later i was like have you ever used a like a fire extinguisher he was like no i was like okay about three minutes later i was like hey dad he was like hey i was like do you think you can use a fire extinguisher in the ocean and he was like bailey where are these

questions coming from and he just looked at me like what is wrong with you and i was like just my brain wondering things and he was like okay well it needs to stop because it's because he probably didn't have an answer for you and your dad has an answer for everything so when he can't shut it down oh last night no last night we were having a conversation and I asked him, I was like, which love am I for you? Am I your first love? Second love,

third love. Cause I want to be his third love. Cause that's the best love. And he's like, I don't know. And like, we started talking about it. And then somehow we started talking about like where your soul goes when you

sleep. And Jay's like, I genuinely, yeah, it was crazy. He's like, I think that, you know,

that's when your, your soul's finally at rest. I said, yes, but what about when you're restless? And he's like, I genuinely, yeah, it was crazy. He's like, I think that, you know, that's when your soul's finally at rest. I said, yes, but what about when you're restless? And he was like, what the fuck? He was just like, looked at me all weird. I was like, I think our souls suspend above our bodies. I can't talk anymore. Conversation over.

Because sleep is literally the fucking sister of, it's not the cousin, it's the sister of death. And like, it's the closest thing to death that you could possibly do i don't think our souls are in our body when we're sleeping that's why the dmt i think my souls are getting shit done i know and that's why the dmt in our brains yes is on overdrive and we have lucid dreams some of us have lucid dreams and some of us have dreams because our souls are not in our body and they say before you die the same thing happens if i dream it's always lucy it's crazy i wasn't prepared for how deep this got because that was not gonna be a warning i'm telling you man but it makes sense right but it makes sense

because i you know get a lot of like parenting stuff on instagram comes up it's like you know don't do this to your children you know everyone's telling you how to parent and one of them is talking about and it's changed my perspective ever since and i cannot unhear this about getting angry with your children for wanting them to go to sleep and it says could you imagine if someone was forcing you to pass out? And I was like, as an adult, I was like, I wouldn't want to just pass out. And they're like, that's what you're doing to your child. And you're mad at them for not wanting to become incoherent. And I was like, that's so right.

Because children experience life much different than we do. We go to sleep because we're tired. And imagine as a child, it's like, pass pass out go pass out by yourself in your bed and i'm like anytime my child's like you want to cuddle like yes let me hold you but i also think it's a catch-22 because i feel like you're also teaching children boundaries and you're also teaching them a schedule you know if you want me there while you fall asleep i'll be there right and then i'm gonna bounce once you're out yeah but you have to teach kids a schedule because if not and you have oh no schedule is fine i just meant like i always like didn't realize like the the concept of like when they're trying to tell them to go take a nap or something yeah i could totally that's

so wild to me like i always had to remind my husband with our kids i'm like you remember this is the first time they're lifing yeah and he's like oh man don't hit me with that no this is not the first time live has life oh yeah cash for sure yeah cash is a new soul she is not live is fucking an 85 year old she swear alien she has yes yeah a thousand percent she has to be she's she's very deep um bailey how's your relationship with your brother noah are you guys close we're as close as people eight years apart can be yeah i mean he's still a baby we're close but he's a baby he's getting cool he's half of me in height literally yeah he's getting cooler though yeah you know he's cool like i love my brother he's so smart there's

not much a relationship to be had between a 16 year old girl and an eight year old boy yeah yeah for sure he's super he's super smart but he's and i love that little guy he thinks i hung the moon it's the cutest thing ever no he loves his sister and i love kids i mean i love i love working like with kids it's like my favorite thing ever we were on the bus and um i was like yeah bailey's gonna be here and he goes bailey's here and like got so excited it was the cutest thing like he's so cute no he's you guys you guys cannot deny dna you guys are all fucking made to go it's go go go go you him your dad it's exhausting yeah i just let you guys go i'm like oh you said it's everybody go because i'm the complete opposite i like to just i like to marinate

and take my time what a good word to say you like to marryinate and take my time. What a good word to say. You like to marinate. That explains you so well. Listen, stick a fork in me. I'm done. Okay, baby. I like to just fucking kick it and kick back. I'm like Bill. Well, Bill was go, go, go too.

But you know how he's like real calm and like just. Yeah. Not in a rush for anything. Not in a rush. Yeah. That's me too. Except for when I have to be in a rush for not in a rush yeah that's me too except for when i have to be in a rush and then i'm like we gotta go oh that was the world's falling apart no you're zero to 100 real quick yeah yeah um bailey what is your advice you can give my 15 year old

daughter who has been literally struggling with so many things that you have mental health a short stint with vapes and drinking and smoking weed and she is bullied because she's five six and 175 pounds they call her fat but she isn't fat she's thick with beautiful curves that i'm jealous of i tell her every day how amazing she is but she doesn't believe me i feel so defeated and lost like i can't help her what can i do okay look there isn't a piece of advice that's going to fix anything for anybody. There isn't a single thing I can say that works for me

that's going to work for somebody else because you know how much advice I got that didn't do anything? Throw something at the wall until it sticks is really the only piece of advice I got. But also, and I really just at this point in my life, four months ago, something in like 15, 16, 17-year-old girl brain is just going to flip,

and you're just going to stop caring. And not in the bad way. You're going to care about the important things. You're going to care about your future. You're going to care about what actually matters. But everything else is gone with the wind. Yeah. So I would just say get yourself to a point that you can flip that switch and focus on yourself and focus on what matters.

Because there's only a couple more years you have left to actually kind of figure out what you want before you have to like step into what you want. So I don't know. Just wait. Just wait it out. And I know it sounds like a really terrible, just wait, just wait it out. And I know it sounds like a really terrible piece of advice, but wait it out. Cause at some point that flip's going to switch. That switch is going to flip. I can't use words. And you're going to realize that you're the only person that has to live with yourself and you've got to do what's right for you. And I also think

as a parent, just reassurance helping. I think with Bailey, I had to really learn to kind of let her come to me with like I would go to her and be like, OK, we're going to have a meal plan and we're going to eat like this and we're going to do this and we're going to exercise. And she would feel like I was calling her fat or like I would hurt her feelings because I was totally and that was as a parent. That wasn't my intention. feelings because I was totally, and that was as a parent, that wasn't my intention. But now Bailey, I'll, I leave her alone and just let her do whatever. And she'll come to me and be like, all right, mom, I'm meal prepping. I'm going to work out. Can you help me with my macros? Or can you help me with, you know, like when she comes to me for advice now, and I think that you just kind of, as a parent, you have to back off, but just always let them know that you think they're beautiful and that they're, you're her decision yes exactly yeah and you don't you don't i know as parents we want to just go and like save

them and be like no yeah you can't solve our problems right most of our problems are made by ourselves they need to be entangled by ourselves so i think just being like her strong support system anytime she comes to you and you know wants to vent just listen to her don't give her your two cents i've learned to do that with bailey sometimes just people want to be heard yeah i don't if i don't ask please don't tell me how you feel about it exactly gosh i'm the worst about giving advice when people talk because i'm like well let's fix your problem yeah that's how i am and i don't mean it by offense it was took me a long time to realize some people just want to be heard so and i think also because i'm also like a fixer type person with other people but i've had to train myself because I like I will figure out a way to solve my problem

if I just talk it through yeah I like and I have I have to talk it through with myself but sometimes being able to like say it to somebody it like oh my god I can just do this and it fixes it but if somebody else can be advised I feel like it's just overwhelming unless I like come and I'm like hey can you tell me what to do in this yeah yeah and i've also learned as a parent to say do you want my advice and then she'll be like yes and i'll be like okay here this is what we're gonna do yes or i'm like honestly not in the place for right now and i'll be like all right later yeah and i'll be like all right cool and then we just go about our business so it's it's a learning curve teenagers are fucking really difficult yeah being a mom myself, I'm all about giving the bonus parents their flowers.

What do you admire and appreciate most about Bunny? What is one thing you want other people to know about her? How have the last three to four years impacted your life? Okay. That was so many questions. That was a lot. You said, tell me all about me. Yeah.

Repeat the first question. I was going to say that. Okay. What? you said tell me all about me yeah i didn't know i was gonna say that um okay i feel like there's a moth in this light or something a moth there's something in this light and it's tripping me out did you know that moths eat flesh anyway um uh what do i admire most about bunny um i you are one of the most like hard-working driven people i've ever met in my life and i love it you're very like when i want it i'm gonna get it period like there's no ifs and or buts about it like my favorite thing ever accurate thank you um something i want people to know about bunny bunny is very open about her dog being her favorite human favorite her favorite child um and

it's created a lot of abandonment issues for me because i feel stop it get the fuck out of here because i feel that chachi doesn't deserve the love I deserve. And I feel like he gets it. Whatever. So I just want y'all to know, Bunny picks a favorite. It's the favorite. It's always Chachi.

It's Chachi. Chachi over everybody. Fuck the world. Literally. Literally. Put that on the shirt, please. I love that. And then how has the past three to four years in your life affected you well it's affected like the last three it's that's just a crazy time frame of my life what

the question that you're the person who read that wrote that is asking how has the last four years of you of you guys's incline affected me and it's just kind of affected the way that i live life and function on a daily basis it's i can't list something that has changed because it's just kind of affected the way that I live life and function on a daily basis. I can't list something that has changed because it's changed everything. Yeah. You're living a whole new life. And also, I've gone from being 12 to 16. And I've learned a lot about myself. And I've had that personal journey.

And I've had this public journey. It's been crazy. So I don't think I can. Everything humanly possible has changed in the last four years. Yeah. Yeah. Bailey, are we ever going to see you back on TikTok? No. No, probably at some point um i'm sure i'll be back on there making the same

weird funny crazy tiktoks i was before i would love to see a 16 year old bailey on tiktok oh my god i'd be hilarious what do what's so funny it's because i don't know what a 16 year old tiktoks look like what do your friends do on tiktok or do they do the dances do they do no i think i think a lot of tiktok is out of the dance era yeah i think there's still a portion of tiktok that will always kind of have a dance and we do in like when we're dressed up and we're out and it's like oh my god but it's not really dancing it's just like you know so other than that mostly i would just say skits and lots of voiceover lots of yeah lots of voiceovers lots of get ready with me

lots of sounds just most just honestly not a lot of original content or anything no not really is that is that a millennial they're not smart for what it's worth i've been rooting for her to get back on social media for like a year now you really have i've been going back on there eventually it's listen when i come in i'm coming in hot yeah let me warn you yeah it's going to be wild it's her daddy we're having to convince daddy has laid the smack down what do you do to relax and collect yourself when times get hard lay on the floor yeah i've seen you do that before i mean that's the that's the truth i lay on the floor i don't know why but for some reason being horizontal on something cold is just the best feeling ever yeah i lay on the floor maybe it's a stimulation thing i think so

i feel like there's like ground people and then there's furniture people because jason's a ground person i'm a furniture person i'm a furniture person i'll never catch me on the ground no i'm always on the floor i get on the floor my kids are like mom's on the floor guys i swear no i'm always on but you can ask mom like she'll come she'll be walking around the house sometimes i was like you're on the floor you're like you're good i'm just on the floor you're like you won't choose to sit in a chair you choose there will be an empty piece of furniture and bailey's on the floor yeah on the floor yeah it's weird can't do it this isn't a question but i got to meet bailey in louisville and i just want her to know how sweet mature beautiful and and a pure pleasure

it was to meet her i loved her being on the podcast before and could relate myself i'm excited for her to be on again love you bailey love you guys this was sweet bailey i would love to know what you think is your greatest strength and what is your weakness i feel like two things about me that are both my greatest strengths and my greatest weaknesses if this is gonna make sense oh yeah i am very open-minded and I'm very manipulative. And I think that both of those things are strengths and that both of those things are weaknesses. Perfect for a lawyer.

Exactly. Wow. That was a good one. Yeah. Yeah. Very self-aware. I love it. But you're also a Gemini.

So I think you're just manipulative by nature. Yeah. And it can be a very good thing and it can be a very bad thing it really depends on how you use it no I get it I'm gonna have you used it I've manipulated men my entire life so it's just something that some are just born with it you know what is your dream job these are a bunch of questions here good lord this person wrote like why did he ask me so many questions in a row okay Okay, hold on. Let's start with one by one. Okay. Dream job. Maybe not as a career.

Like right now, if you could go out and get a job right now. If I could just go out and get a job right now. What are we doing? Which, by the way, the kid loves working. I really do. He's doing fucking chores. I've always loved working. But if you give her a job, she'll fucking do it.

I love it. Because there's a schedule. Yeah. I'm such a schedule sucker. She's a sucker for a schedule. Yeah. I love a good schedule yeah um even though she fought me on her schedule her entire life i would go um i want to be one of

those people that hold snakes on the street and scare people that's what i want where did you see this why have you never been to la or like new york where they have the giant snakes where they walk around they're like hey yeah i just want to be I want to have one of those I want to be one of those guys a job like that's your kid with like I would because you know in my in my head I look like the tiger king I have like chains on and like an open like and he's trying to get on the podcast non-stop oh I'm like let's do it I want to be there no still in jail we could for like the true crime we could go i didn't know his life right now that's weird yeah he's alive he's alive and well he's kicking it all right great answer okay next question what's your favorite food um steak yeah you love

a good yeah she likes it bloody oh i want it mooing i have no idea we need to figure out your i found out my blood type is like it's on my birth reason i love uh red meat so much and i hate chicken what is it my chicken is a no and what's your blood type b yeah be positive i'm a b positive i don't know what i am i'll check later yeah we need to check your blood type something you want to accomplish in the next five years uh getting admitted to columbia let's fucking go favorite musician or band jelly roll um no comment he came on pandora yesterday at the wedding we were like skip oh yeah like get out of here like love you love you honey gotta go uh i don't know what changes all the time i'd say today i'm feeling feeling very eminemi today oh yeah

is your period about to start no it's over actually aggressive ovulation that's exactly i get aggressive sometimes during ovulation too yeah hardest hurdle you had to get over and how did you overcome that please listen to the last podcast yeah absolutely that sums it up if you could be any animal what would it be jodgy so you could feel all the love oh stop it i hate both of you i want to be a seal i want to be a dog of the sea oh a little sea puppy a little sea puppy baby no i want to be they're like really aggressive too no i want to be the famous animal i know bussy the bus dog oh fucking please um in case y'all were wondering the bussy drama is real and i understand that i'm in chachi's camp but i'm coming and firing bussy the bus dog please the

best dog that has ever lived oh yeah he just he's gonna make america great again i just had to clean up fucking pee again because he peed in the fucking house oh you want to talk about peeing in the house every corner of every wall in our house is chachi stained okay no lies no it's not he peed in the bridal suite he did he did in fact how do you know it was him because the other one was wearing a diaper no his diaper came off and i had to put his diaper back on and i cleaned up numerous spots from villain he's old i know and also we know the difference between a chachi pee and a villain pee it wasn't a chachi pee it was a chachi pee it was big no i don't believe it if you could meet any person dead or alive who would it be oh it's a great question i don't know there's a lot of answers there's a lot of

answers let me pick a non-controversial one amy winehouse oh i have a lot of questions yeah she's a good she's polarizing a lot of questions yeah what about you dead or alive oh man i don't fucking know probably jesus and mary magdalene alexander mary magdalene i want to know the truth like were you really married to jesus were you really a disciple why did they get rid of your book in the bible that's a way better answer than amy winehouse no it's not in case anybody was no way no i love amy winehouse if it's not in case anybody was wondering no i love amy winehouse if you could pick one favorite piece from bunny's closet what would you choose can we talk about the fact that bunny's closet doesn't say stay as bunny's closet once she wears

it she doesn't wear it again so it's just constantly new stuff it's constant it's like a revolving door when i clean my i clean my closet out probably twice a year and every time i clean it out that kid gets first dibs yes whatever she wants because usually you don't have like a piece no in there well okay what about one of her red because i don't do i don't do designer clothes no exactly so you don't keep you don't hold on to things i don't have pieces i have like you know like what about a red carpet look oh the grammy red carpet look yeah oh god what's my favorite thing ever beautiful does it include the diaper gorgeous yes with the diaper with the diaper to the diaper yeah sew it into the diaper i love you i appreciate that because i feel like that was my worst that was the most beautiful i was so swollen you look beautiful it was crazy

i got rained on didn't we't we all? One thing older generations should know about your generation. What are you, a Gen Z? I'm a Gen Z. Okay. We're usually meaning to be mean. So every time that we tell you we're not, we are.

Every time we make it. So you guys aren't a bunch of smart asses? It's just real? It's just true. Son of a bitch. Every time we make a joke. I't a bunch of smart asses it's just real it's just true every time a bitch every time we make a joke i don't think i was prepared for that mimi's face every time we make a joke or a comment we mean every word of it you guys yeah we just say we don't make fun of millennials all the time we know well i feel like put away your eight foot tall uggs i feel like gen z is way less sensitive than millennials or am i wrong gen z is less sensitive yeah for sure oh yeah no we're definitely less because we're mean to each other we're not just mean to you guys we're and we're way meaner to

each other than we are y'all yeah oh i know i hear about all your shit at school yeah so like we have honestly really tough skin when it comes to stuff like that because we just don't care but we'll fire back that's something that a lot of other generations won't is fire back We have, honestly, really tough skin when it comes to stuff like that. Because we just don't care. But we'll fire back. That's something that a lot of other generations won't, is fire back. Bailey, how does it feel being able to drive yourself now? Being able to drive and go by yourself. I love driving.

Driving's such a therapeutic thing for me. You do love driving. I love driving. I think I get it from my dad. I'm such a driver. Yeah, just don't let her drive a golf cart yeah you know what she made our maui lose a tooth no i was 12 the castle was rough no it was not yeah we took those corners you full we did she's like i'm not the one who ran us into ditches eight times that was hayley who the hayley drive i did once and then I didn't the rest of the time. I don't even like being in the car

with Haley. It's scary. Where is Haley? BTW. She went to go tan before we leave. Like she's not tan enough? It's like a two hour ritual for her to tan. It's a whole thing. She does a scrub. She washes her hair. Has to shave.

Shaves her whole body. Washes her hair. I've never heard of anybody washing their hair before they go spray tanning. Before they tan. It's the weirdest thing to me. Well because she doesn't wash the tan off. So it's like it's like at least 24 plus hours before. I could never sleep in fucking spray tan. Yeah what happened

to your last spray tan Bailey? That was sinful. It was so disgusting. She had a fucking mustache. It was so I still did you get the dookie tan yes because I still had I still had like some of my self tan on part of it was coming off and then I'm autistic and can't stand up straight in a um spray tan booth apparently so I was standing there and it's like it goes one two three and then you turn around for four well i got distracted thinking about squirrels or something i was thinking about that squirrel episode of rick and morty where all the squirrels try to eat rick and morty so i got

distracted and i was in there and i was like one two three and then i zoned back in and i was like oh my god so i double tanned half my body and i also got a double dark with no tint no hydration you were very dark last time yes i said wow i was giving ariana grande it was dark okay i got so mad he's like why does she not wash that off i'm like honey once that spray tan's on you can't no like it was not coming it was dark tell him to get over it okay god the judgment you know your daddy is the most judgmental human on earth he really is no it's so funny yeah it's funny we're not gonna we can't we're not gonna shit talk daddy but let me tell you something if there's an opinion to be had he has it he Jason DeFord has it. He's got one. He's got three, okay? And he don't care about hurting nobody's feelings. He don't.

How's your mental health going? I'm great. I'm really good. Yeah. Like, I'm honestly really good. Good. She said, I just found out that my 12-year-old is cutting. So any advice for me from your perspective would be nice.

Take away access to objects in a non-obvious way because if we don't if there's not something that you can immediately see that you're like I can use that then you're not going to use it but if it's obvious that stuff's been taken you're going to find a way um so as for that that's a piece I would say and then don't get angry that's the biggest mistake you can make is because like that that and i get that it's a lot of times reactive a lot of it's times out of fear or just being upset that people get angry but getting angry with your child for cutting themselves like that isn't going to do anything to make them do it more yeah because you just can't get angry you have to be compassionate and you can't you can't make them feel like you're throwing them under the bus.

Because that's a big, that's a dark, shameful secret for people to have. And for somebody that you love and care about so much to find out about it, it's a very shocking experience for both of you. Be graceful with each other. I've heard that some kids don't even use sharp things. They'll do, like, erasers on their skin. I know. It's bad. Yeah. I've heard that some kids don't even use sharp things. They'll do like erasers. I know skin. Like it's,

I know bad. Yeah, I know. Yeah. I've used pencil, like the springs from pencil from pens. Yeah. I mean,

you can use anything literally, but what I said, what I'm, what I was saying, that was like, you like, if I, if like when I was a cutter,

like if I didn't see like a knife and I wasn't, if I was kind of thinking about it and I saw a sharp object I was like oh shit it's a sign how do you feel about being a cutter now that you sliced your arm open oh my god it actually like for real in that moment set me spiraling because I like was like holy shit drama flashbacks and then I was like fine again yeah but the when I dude for real when I sliced my arm up in the first thing I thought about was holy shit how did I used. But when I, dude, for real, when I sliced my arm open, the first thing I thought about was, holy shit, how did I used to cut myself? I can't handle this.

Yeah. Oh. Like, I really thought about it. Yeah. I was like, I don't know how I did that. Like, I like, like, I looked at like the ones on my leg, like the scars on my legs are a lot deeper than the one on my arm because I was a lot more scared of hitting a vein. But like, yeah, I was like, I can't.

I'm glad we're through that child all right one last question and then we're gonna get out of here because we gotta go hop back on tour my question for bailey would be how do you feel about the potential of getting a new brother or sister i know your parents have been seeing doctors and talking about expanding the family expanding the family should we be honest about how we felt at first we can go ahead you want me to yeah yeah i don't care it's up to you yeah yeah okay um at first i was super anti-child and i have a lot of i have a lot of reasons some selfish some not um at first i was it was kind of but also i didn't find out necessarily the way i wanted to like it was kind of just like uh hey we're probably gonna have a kid and i was like cool um i just and i

current i wasn't the happiest about it i'm out of state with it now that i am supportive of whatever decision you and my father make and however you go about this and i really hope the best for it do i have a lot of concerns about it yes do i worry about you and dad's ability to balance a baby and our lifestyle i do i think having an eight-year-old at that level was different having a 16-year-old at where we are now is different yeah than having a kid no for sure having a baby baby that's a whole different step and I don't think that you guys can't handle it that's not to say you're not capable because I truly think you are capable of having a baby at any point in your life

I just think it's very it's a very very nuanced situation. Yeah. Um, yeah, no, that's it. Then that scares me too. That's always been a big question with me is like, dude, we are so on the go and daddy's like, we're just bring the kid with us. And I'm like, it's not that easy, baby. It's just not, it's just not that easy. You know, it's easier said than done for sure. I choose to not bring my children to many situations because it is so overwhelming. It's, it's a lot for people my age people y'all's age yeah i couldn't imagine putting a baby adding a baby and adding a baby into what it's already as chaotic as our lives is yeah sounds wild no it's a lot um daddy and i have

been chewing on the idea too you know we're still we're still chewing on it like it's not it's a very big decision it's a very huge life altering decision that is someone's life and that's your life so it's just like we want to do it but either way i'll support and i'll be a big sister regardless and i do my due diligence i love it i love it kiddo is there anything you want to talk about before we go i had something and then i forgot say oh okay so remember how i was talking about the squirrel episode of Rick and Morty? Yes. Okay.

So. Mimi's face. So I have a question for you guys. Do you think squirrels, or I guess any other animal, it doesn't have to be as specific as squirrels, run the government? What? What are you talking about? I uh birds aren't real what can we just have this conversation for a minute because i have i think majority of birds are not real i

feel like they are what do you think about pigeons like new york pigeons yeah i've heard of that i've heard that they have eyes no i think they're on the power lines to recharge to recharge i think squirrels were in our government i don't i'm convinced i'm 100 could see it happening like willy wonka where they're all sitting around typing on their little computers right i know they're not little computers and they're nuts in that video but yeah no i completely get it did you hear about the squirrel that got euthanized it was famous on like tiktok and everything and it's been famous it's like they've had this girl for seven years and the new york authorities came in took it euthanized it the internet is up in arms over this squirrel i would i can't wait to live in new york

what a beautiful city that's crazy that is wild yeah they literally came into these people's home raided it diverse place. And then took their squirrel and euthanized it. Yeah, I think that's terrible. Maybe it ran the government. Maybe it was a Russian government squirrel. This guy had the pet for seven years. And a raccoon, a pet raccoon. And they took both of them and fucking euthanized them.

It was not right what the government did. That's really sad. Yeah. That was an abuse of power for sure. Abuse of power 100 really sad. Yeah. That was a, I still think squirrels were in the government. Abusive power. 100%. Yeah. Yeah.

Just a weird, that's also just kind of a weird thing to do. Like for New York to kind of take the time out of its day to be like, all right, we're going to send this squad car. They were big on social media. And like what people like to do is ruin beautiful things. And they stumbled on butterflies.

Started calling the government and like the, the wildlife endangerment places and some guy had a pigeon and a raccoon yeah raccoon no a squirrel a squirrel and the squirrel was so healthy and cute and like oh i'll show you he'll like pet the squirrel yeah i mean this was like this was like their chachi you know and it's really fucked up they shouldn't have done it we don't need any more chachis oh Oh, we need 10 more. I'm going to fucking clone Chachi. Not cloning that dog. Oh my God, I love his little cowboy hat.

Cloning the Chachi. He's so sweet. You know what I think is actually real? Look at his cowboy hat. I know. Sweet boy. Sweet boy. I love him.

Can we get Chachi a cowboy hat? Yes. Okay. All right, tell everybody goodbye. Sign us out, baby. Oh. Bye. Thank you guys for tuning in to another episode of dumb blonde i'll see you guys next week bye