Dumb Blonde - Spirit Guides, Ouija Boards, and Making Friends with the Voices In Your Head

Episode Date: January 11, 2021

This week, Bunnie is joined by Psychic Medium and Spiritualist Paige, who uses her superpowers to help others move away from fear and elevate to their highest purpose. Paige and Bunnie talk about their own spiritual encounters, and Bunnie tells a story that will never have you seeing the Easter Bunny the same way. Paige also talks about what to watch out for in a spiritual healer, how to embrace your own psychic gifts, and why you may not want mirrors in your bedroom. Then, Bunnie gets a psychic reading and finds out some of the crazy things in store for 2021 with her career and relationship with Jelly.  Bunnie: www.dumbblondeunrated.com Watch Full Episodes & More: www.dumbblondeunrated.com Paige  Contrary Cherry  @madeinkuntucky "Have faith in yourself. Don't write anything off before you try."  - Paige    "3D us isn't going to help us, it's the 5D us that is going to light the path." - Paige See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

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today we're gonna get spooky i wonder if the cameras and shit are gonna remember when we had eric on we had a psychic named eric brown on uh not too long ago and the cameras were like Eric on. We had a psychic named Eric Brown on not too long ago and the cameras were like, going to weird numbers and shit like it was crazy. But today, I brought in this little cutie page slid in my DM and was like, what happened? I mean, I think we had talked normally. Well, I always like had paid attention to your story. And you always talk about spiritual stuff. You're always talking about Libras and cancers cancers like you're always talking about astrology and I'm actually in astrology school so I don't know what happened but I just DM'd you one day and was like I feel so called to give you a reading and you were like yes like let's do it and I was like I'm easy to please okay so that's kind of how that worked but I had been in your DM

a lot like I feel like we had talked yeah yeah and I always you know had commented on your post but I'd been manifesting our connection for a little bit just by you know just talking you up telling everyone about you and I love that you know I love you well I fell in love because you gave me you did a reading on me first and then you did a reading on Jay and I just loved your energy you were like just so like I I don't know if clean is the word to say but just like pure i guess and intention and you know you prayed before it and it like everything was just like so there are some psychics or mediums and we're gonna get into what the difference of that is um that are kind of like doomsday people and you weren't like that like everything was so on point too like it was crazy the shit that you said was like so dope because

you really hit on points that are like we're really going through in our lives you know and then you did a reading on jay and i and i was just like oh my god i love this girl i love her energy so i had to have you on because i was just like dude this is you got to share your gift with the world. What do you call yourself like a psychic medium? So I'm a psychic medium, but I'm a spiritualist. So I actually pull from all religions from all walks of life and kind of incorporate that. I don't really follow a lot of spiritual gurus because anyone trying to sell you spirituality is fake. Like anyone trying to sell you something that's not already within yourself is pretty fake to me. So I really just incorporate all of the dark times and all the things that I've went through. And this really helped me bring it to light and bring the light into my own life.

When did you realize you had this gift? Well, I started hearing voices in my head probably like five or seven years ago. And I just thought I was crazy. Like I truly thought I was losing my mind. And you know, the drinking, the partying, substances, they don't really help. It doesn't really help you separate reality from, you know, what's going on. Right. So throughout college, like I knew I was different. Like I knew that I would like feel things and they would happen. I would predict things. And then people would always think I was up to something. They would always be like, how did you know this? Or, you know, they would think like someone told me or I was snooping or spying. So it really just started pointing to like, girl, you're tapped

in like, you know, something and something's happening to you. Right. And so when I stopped playing the victim mindset and started really taking my power back from the world, from, you know, what was going on in my surface level of life, I really realized like, wow, like I can, I can do this. Like I can tap in and help other people. Yeah. Not only, you know, find their gifts, but express their gifts. A lot of us leave our gifts gifts dormant

and leave them under the rug yeah and so that was really my goal was just to help people incorporate that yeah into their own life um ever since i was little i've always seen spirits i've i've i'm one of those people who um ran from it too um like drugs drinking fucking sex whatever i can do to just get the anxiety because i literally am a walking ball of anxiety i don't want the gift i'm like i i have people like you that i can i can talk to and stuff like that but i feel like there's something greater that is going on within me too because that i have visions I don't hear voices but I see things it's crazy I have really lucid dreams and I see things and I've predicted two deaths when Breezy died when I was with Frankie I predicted she was gonna die three months before she died everybody thought I was crazy I had a dream my thing is is when I have dreams and I wake up and I'm severely

emotional about them they usually come true and that why Jay, like if I wake up and I'm bothered by a dream, he's like, was I in it? Because Jay is so like tapped into me. And now like he'll, he'll always ask me, baby, how do you feel about this? Because like, I just, it's so weird. I just see things. So I understand what you're saying. I feel like a lot of people that do have that gift, um, run from it. And why do you think that is? I would say because the world puts us in this box of like who we should be, what we should do. And it makes us feel like an outcast. It makes us feel like the black sheep, like different from everyone. And no one wants to be different. Like a lot of people, they just want to fit in with the crowd and kind of roll on.

And that's where I really connected with your journey with you know getting sober and those things because it was like I dumbed myself down for so long just trying to run from it and I would say that most people they don't understand it so when you don't understand it you can't connect with others about it right you feel foreign you feel you know it's like well it's scary nobody wants to fucking talk to a spirit i don't it's like they scare me dude because i i've seen i see good i have a little girl that follows me around i don't know who she is but she's been around for a really long time i think she came off a ouija board and i don't know if she's good or if she's i swear to god you guys i swear this is real um i don't know

if she's good or bad but she's always there And other psychics have picked up on this little girl that follows me around, too. She thinks I'm her mommy. Like, it's really it's crazy. Probably a past life. Yeah. Something is going on there. But I just lost my train of thought. Oh, my God.

I'm so freaked out because this stuff like scares the fuck out of me. Like I spirituality. I love it. I embrace it. I think it's beautiful. But I've also seen like the bad side of it. And that's what scares me. And that's why I'm like, I don't want it. I love Jesus. I don't want nothing. I don't want nothing to do with this. So when you, you said you got sober. Um, what were you like? What would, what's your story there? So through college,

it was just like Adderall cocaine drinking heavily. I come from a family of heavy alcoholics. My mom's dad died in a car wreck when she was 11, drinking and driving. My mom has several DUIs, you know what I mean? So like I've kind of just grown around the substances. Right. So it was like, you know, at 12, 13 years old, that was just kind of like a lifestyle. It was normal. You were desensitized to it.

Yeah. And, you know, growing up in Kentucky, all the bourbons made there. I mean, we have like a lot of just alcohol that runs in people's family and in their bloodlines. And so I picked up on drinking at a very, very young age. And then by high school, you know, we were doing Oxycontin. We were doing Xanax. We were doing whatever. I love Xanax. Fuck, I will lick a Xanax bar right now if I could. You know, just the transition from that into going to college, trying to maintain a nine to five going to school full time. Adderall really, you know, them uppers started to motivate me to keep me on track. And you know, I just kind of got lost in the sauce for a really long time when was your first encounter with the spirit I would say I was seven years old we moved into my grandfather's house that he had passed in and when we moved in there we decided to gut the whole house and as we started

gutting the house we started finding journals bottles of wine keys we started finding journals, bottles of wine, keys, we started finding all this stuff. Well, I wanted it like I was clinging to it. Yeah, like I wanted these items. And the first encounter would be when something moved from the laundry room into the living room. Wow. And people thought that I was playing this joke that I was doing these things like, you know, but things were moving, right? And I was picking up on it. It was almost like my grandfather wanted me to to have that experience with him so I wouldn't be scared. It's like spirit has been prepping me for this for a really long time because as a child, I just saw things, felt things, you know, could read energies in antiques, especially mirrors. Like and now I have this obsession with collecting antique mirrors. Wow. Mirrors freak me out. Mirrors are portals.

Oh, I know. Mirrors hold so much energy. There's no mirrors in here on purpose. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. They really do hold a lot of energy. I won't even let a mirror face my bed. Like I cover mine up. Yeah. Yeah. Like it's, it's's a weird thing but I have a huge obsession with mirrors too but they have they can't have them in my room and I won't have them like in my zone you know like I'll have one so that I can like look at myself in the mirror but other than that I can't do a whole bunch of them so after the your first experience what led you on this journey to tap into your talent because Because it really is a talent. Well, I would say that when you struggle with the darkness and you get lost,

you search for the light, you start searching for the light. And I really just knew that I wasn't crazy. Like I didn't want to share this with other people because I didn't want them to say or put their fear onto me. But I knew I wasn't crazy. I knew there was something going on and it was for a very like special reason. Right. And so, you know, throughout college, I really started to see my connection with others, like people coming to me, people like seeking my guidance. And it's like, you know, I'm 17 or I'm 19. Like I've barely been through life and people are coming to me. Like there's a reason that people come to me.

And so I just started really trying to incorporate the healing and the growth in my own life and try to pull myself out of the darkness. But there for a while, like I was lost. And I think, you know, we all want to be found or we all want to feel supported. And so I've always felt supported from spirit. Right. Like I've never felt scared or felt. Complete opposite of me. Yeah.

Like it doesn't scare me. And I think you mentioned that earlier that I was very pure and genuine because I really work with my inner child and like the pureness of the world. Like a lot of people want to sell you the fear. They want to sell you the darkness. And that's just like not the point of spirituality. It's to help you grow. Absolutely. No, I totally believe in that too. I was just raised in a really like severely cult like Christian home. So, and my dad was like obsessed with Bob Larson. I don't know if you know who he is, but he literally always had demon possessed people on his podcast. And for some reason, my parents always had like books on Satanism and shit.

So I read all but they weren't satanic, I swear. So I read all that as a as a child. I was always grounded. So all I could do was pretty much like read and I read all the books on Satanism. So I've seen I've read so much about the dark side. And I think that's what scares me about it. Dude, I've seen the real life Easter Bunny. There is a fucking, when I was five years old, or no, yeah, I was five or six.

I was at my Meemaw's house in Texas. And this is when it started for me. And I woke up. There was like a coyote howling outside my window i woke up and i rubbed my eyes and literally this motherfucker looked like the bunny off donnie darko he was not fucking fluffy he wasn't cute and he literally he had a basket he was standing there in my doorway with the basket and i was just like go away and he went away woke up the next morning the same exact basket he had in his hand was my Easter basket.

So I saw the fucking Easter bunny. And that's how it started with me. It's always been weird shit. It's never been like fucking Tinkerbell comes down and says hi. It's always been like this fucking weird fucking thing is around me, you know? So that's why I've always been like, you know what? I don't want it, dude. And then when I turned 18, I started having like really severely bad anxiety that would like put me in the hospital.

Like because I would visualize like cemeteries and just it was just crazy. So I haven't had a good experience with it. Why is it doing that to me? I would say when you're raised in like a very religious household, no matter what religion it is. Yeah. It gives you this box like this is right, and this is wrong. Everything else is wrong. So then it's like you start associating things as right and wrong. And I feel like, you know, there, there is darkness, like, I don't not

acknowledge the darkness, I just don't choose to work with the darkness. I don't want to either. So it's like, you know, when we when we're seeking the light the light can't exist without the darkness and i would say that you know religions and you know being right and wrong kind of creates that black and white like this is good this is bad right and you know as a child absorbing you know other people's fears other people's thoughts other people's emotions being very empathetic empathetic as you are. It's something that is kind of attached to you. It's like other people's fears, other people's emotions. That makes sense.

And, you know, I think that's why people attract to you in such a way, because you are a healer. Like you have a very healing energy. And I would say that anyone who is in this world to heal is going to attract darkness. Yeah. But you have to have those boundaries, you have to have those intentions. And, you know, being scared of it doesn't necessarily turn it off. You know what I mean? Sometimes I'm tired of it. It's exhausting, though. Don't you get exhausted? Sometimes I do energy work is very exhausting, especially the

people who want to just hop in your messages and send you their life story all day long, expect you to engage with it, expect you to read it. now i'm getting to the point where i just scroll through and at the bottom i'm like look if you would like to book a session yeah please do it's very reasonable it's not you know it's worth investing in yourself yeah some girl on facebook yesterday actually was like do they ever answer their dms and like was just like hella rude and started this thread about oh they're too good to talk to us and finally i was like bitch listen i was like do you know how many fucking people are in my dms every day do you think jay struggle or i have the energy to reply to everybody like how dare you feel entitled to our energy you know like it's just people have to and i understand

people are hurting dude there's so many people in the world that are hurting. And if I could help everybody, I would. But it gets to a point, even on Sundays, when I do my things on Sundays, some days I try to just keep it light because literally I have so much pain in the inbox coming in, you know. And it's like, dude, it's heavy. That's a heavy load to carry. It is. It is.

And I think I try to separate, you know, my energies from their energies, because if not, you will absorb their pain, you will absorb their fears. And as a child, we kind of absorb whoever we're around's energies. And when I was about seven, after I started seeing spirits, I started having really bad nightmares. And I just remember, I was 11 years old praying to God, please take these nightmares away. Like, please help me. And I just remember I was 11 years old praying to God, please take these nightmares away. Like, please help me. And I have never had a nightmare since. No, Jesus is good, man. Yeah, like I have the most lucid dreams, but I don't have nightmares. And even though sometimes they'll be really strange, they're not scary. Yeah. And I think that I've just really set that

boundary like with spirit, like if you all scare me, I'm not going to pursue my passion. Like don't scare me. Don't fuck this up. Keep me safe. And I always like with the blessing, always invite in the light, invite in the spirits that I would like to work with versus just letting any spirit. Have you ever had like just one fucking weird demonic spirit that won't go away? I have not.

But actually, I have a ouija board i do not work with the ouija board yeah i've always been a little scared of it even though i have one scary a little scared of it i've played them by myself a few times and i think it's really not a game it's not but i like to really set intention like you know to work with the person's higher self to work with the higher. Because 3D us isn't going to help us. It's the 5D us that is going to lead the way or light the path. That's so real. So my mentor has really trained me well or taught me well in that sense to not instill fear into people.

Because they're already scared. They're already hurting. I got that from you too and that's why i wanted you on the podcast because i really i i had another reading by a another lady i'm not going to say her name because i don't want to bring her into this but um she did a reading and it kind of was a little bit like fear tactic-y and i was just like god is there anything good in this fucking reading like so when i got your reading I was like finally shit balls something good's gonna happen it's funny like she pretty much was just like you're gonna work your ass

off in 2021 and I'm like I duh that's all I do now you know and then she said like Jay's gonna have like a surprise pregnancy in the next six years I was like well it's not with me because I'm old as shit so who the fuck is he gonna knock up and hopefully it's not somebody on one of these threesomes that we're having, you know. But so when you gave us our reading, I was just like so excited about that. You see dead people? I will say that I see orbs. I don't actually see them in a physical form.

Because when spirit transitions, earthbound spirits have the physical form. I do not work with earthbound spirits. What's the difference? Okay, so an earthbound spirit is kind of like. do not work with earthbound spirits what's the difference okay so an earthbound spirit those are the main ones right yeah it's kind of like the cliche like the unfinished business here on death's time you know doing the devil's work like whatever you want to say it's kind of like the movies and like what they make it i feel like those are all the spirits that come to me they're're like, hey, bitch, I'm here. Let's fucking traumatize you. I think earthbound spirits, they're trapped.

And when they find someone that can hear them or see them, they latch onto them. Yeah, they need to go away. I'm tired of it. And we can do an energy clearing and really set those intentions to release them. Because we don't realize that we have cords that are attached to us. You and your husband would have a cord. You and your family would have a cord you and your family would have a cord but you also can get cords from just people in your dms people at the grocery store people in general so if you're not practicing cord cutting oh my god i

don't want any cords look i got goosebumps yeah i talked to so many people a day and because i tried if i can make everybody happy so i talked to so many people but that's scary yeah you know you can't just cutting would probably be very important especially when can we do the cord cutting i'm ready anytime anytime okay so back to seeing the dead spirit so you see you don't see earthbound spirits but you're not in a physical form usually when spirits come to me it's in with my clairvoyance so it's in my mind's eye with my third eye so i will see what they project to me so a lot of times if they passed very old or they were very sick they will show me like their golden days like maybe like when they were younger or like you know a great friend of mine passed at 19

like their highlight reel right like when he shows up he's a he's like a 12 year old boy yeah and you know they will give you identifiers so i can connect the sitter with the spirit when i'm doing a mediumship session but i would say that they show me what they want to show me yeah like and they'll give me their mannerisms and that type of thing monica's brother passed away we should try to talk to him that would be so cool actually i've actually feel like last night i was laying in bed and there was this younger man that was like i'm gonna come through tomorrow and i was like look not right now don't do it right now because they kind of like get in a line like

the more pushy spirits will be like i'm going first like we're coming right in that's gonna be me when i'm a spirit bitches it's all about me. All right. I'm going to be like Beetlejuice, but a cool Beetlejuice. Yeah. Monica, would that be something? Is that something that you can do? Yeah. Is that OK? That would be awesome

to have her try to talk to your brother. Is that something you would want to do, though? Because that's kind of personal. If you want to do it in a more private setting. I'm completely cool with that.

She's like, maybe not on the podcast, you whore. Stuff that can horn me out. Yeah, because it can be emotional. Yeah. She's like, maybe not on the podcast, you whore. Stop fucking pouring me out. Yeah, because it can be emotional. And it can be, you know, pulling on the heartstrings. I want to talk to Gracie. We could try to talk to Gracie, one of my best friends who passed away from cancer. I would love to talk to her, dude.

See what she's up to. She's fucking hilarious. She was like, she got cancer. And she literally told me, I'm going to fucking go out sniffing cocaine, riding a horse naked. Like, she's a wild soul, dude. Um, so when you,

when these spirits do come to you said that they're like pushy and stuff like that. How do you like, literally it's probably got to be like a fucking just a line out the door. Well, I have like, we have different spirit guides. And so I have a protector guide who kind of like is like,

look, you got to give her space. Yeah. I'll always always notice because it will get very warm when spirit comes close see that's how i got and whenever we were sitting now i'm freezing but for a second there i was like so hot yeah so it'll start getting warm because as we're raising our energy they're trying to match our vibration basically spirit's vibration is so much higher than ours that they have to lower and we have to raise ours to kind of meet. Oh, wow. So, you know, that's why you sing music in church.

It raises the vibration. Oh, I never knew that. So things like that help you connect with Spirit. So a lot of times, like, when I'm in the car and I'm, like, jamming out, I will really notice, like, my guardian angel beside me. And I know that a lot of people are like, we all have guardian angels. And, yes, we do. But if you don't choose to acknowledge them and work with them, you know what I mean? You won't necessarily feel their energy, even though they're there with you.

I've seen my guardian angel. I talked about it on the podcast with Seth. I heard that. I heard that in the passenger seat. He's a scary mofo. He's big. He's probably more of your protector god as well. He's a gangster looking dude.

Like, he literally looks like he's like seven foot tall sitting in the passenger. Like pinstripe suit? Yep. And tall sitting in the, in the passenger. Yep. And just no, not pinstripe suit. Um, I don't remember what he was wearing, but I just remember his face was so serious and he was just looking straight ahead.

Like he wouldn't even look at me. Like he was like ultra serious. Hopefully it was my guardian angel. I don't know who it was to be honest, but he was there. Um, all right. Well,

I want to have you do some readings. Okay. Let's fucking, uh, jump into this. Who's going to go first? I think we're going to have you do some readings okay let's fucking uh jump into this who's gonna go first i think we're gonna have you know what let's do a reading on jay for 2021 because we did one on me and we did one on me and jay so can we do one do it does jay have to be here for that no no as long as he's open to it and like he's not well i mean as long as i have permission yeah no you have permission he just he's he's more of like, tell me what she says type situation. I don't want to be there.

Because a lot of times, like you said, readers install like that fear mindset into people. And they're scared to get a reading. No, my husband already thinks I'm a fucking whack job. So, and he knows how in tune I am with the spirituality. So he just, it freaks him out because he's just like, God, I don't want to hear anything bad. He's like me. We don't want to hear anything bad he's like me we don't want to hear anything bad we just want it all good but i want the realness though i want like if something is bad there i want it to be said too you know i want it to be sure we have free will so the thing about a bad scenario or reading nothing's set in stone

yeah nothing's set in stone i mean you can get out and hit three red lights and miss the car wreck versus yeah running the red light and making the car right you know what i mean so i always think like divine timing is always protecting us absolutely so when we feel like oh wow i got caught by a train or i hit every red light like that's actually divine protection like that that's my baby divine protection yeah. Well, let's do one on Jay. What do we, you got all your cards right here. So what are we, how are we doing this? Jelly 2021. All right.

I'm going to say a blessing. I'm going to get the cards out and I am going to say a little blessing. I'm sorry about Chachi. She's just all up in the business. I think it's fine. You're a little lover. All right. So Father God, Mother Earth, thank you so much for this time together.

Help me to be a clear channel and the highest good of all. Help me to bring through any messages that Jelly may need at this very moment. And help me to connect with his spirit gods, his angels, and his ancestors. Our spirit circle is now open and we ask for your protection and we give our love and gratitude. Amen. Amen. All right. So I'm just kind of... Who are his spirit guides? Do they have names? Well, actually, as you work with spirit, they will manifest and give symbols. So a name. So, you know, I didn't really have names for mine. you know we have like we have a lot like we have some spirit gods that work with everyone like ascended masters like buddha could work with you

directly or um that'd be crazy jesus can work with you directly i love jesus so you know there's all kinds of elements and actually in this deck it's all with the spirit gods so you know the ascended masters work with everyone and they're not with you all the time they may be with you during major life shifts major life changes um health changes things like that but then you have your own spirit gods that will be like past life connections ancestors um people that you i definitely feel like I met today in another life when I tell everybody when I first met jelly it was like the most familiar he's not my type at all like and I'm not his type he likes little brunettes that look like dudes no I'm just kidding I'm just kidding he likes little

hood rats that are brunette you know and i like a different aesthetic of man i like dudes that wear makeup and shit like i'm a weirdo um so when i met jay it was like all i can say is that our souls literally recognized each other and i just had i just loved him like it was so weird and i tell him that all the time like and he's like i know he's like it's the weirdest shit because him and i are not relationship type people like Like I've been in relationships, but I cheat on everybody, you know, like then so does Jay. So us getting together was just like, it was like just crazy how it all happened. And sometimes like, like I picked up in your all's reading is like our soul will match with the person that is going to elevate us.

That's going to push us. That's going to help us grow because that's the point. Like that's what our soul wants. Yeah, we did that. Is to go through the trials, the tribulations and then grow from it then elevate from it so you have beautiful eyes thank you they're so pretty like every time the sun hits them i'm like hey we're doing a reading right now but do you want to get naked all right i'm gonna pull a past present future card so we'll just keep it simple touchy he's making himself at home

the past we got the two of cups so i feel like like you just said you're all souls like came together like you knew each other look at this card like it's all about that union that joining um of two like kindred souls two like-minded people to push each other to elevate each other so i feel like you are very much on the right track when you say that you met in another life yeah you were meant destined to meet in this life and the thing about that is like i said we all have free will so you could have chose to take another path but it's still going to kind of lead you back around like no matter which path you take it still leads you back around yeah to where you started then we got present the king of swords so i feel like this is him i love how

excited she gets when she pulls the cards that was another thing that was so cute when she was doing our reading this is an awesome card it's got the butterflies on the background on the throne so i feel like this is the transformation card like he's really in the midst of a transformation he's literally talking about losing 100 pounds this this year he's like i want my dick back so he wants to lose 100 pounds and he wants to grow his hair out and i'm all for it whatever he wants to do and the thing about the king of swords it's all about that transition and like knowing you have the power like he has the sword like he has the support and like with the the butterflies that is transformation yeah good i see him fulfilling that as long as he gets out of his mind yes into his body yes a lot of things that

happen with us is our mind is like you're not good enough you can't do it you won't be able to do it and so that's our ego our ego runs the show a lot of times his problem is he wants instant gratification if he's not losing 20 pounds a week he gets bored with it so that makes me happy to hear that he's really yeah and i feel like the more that he steps into his king energy and steps onto that throne yes the more that he will see that he is worthy i'm gonna tell him that yeah that he is um he he has that dedication and he just has to put it into motion absolutely everything's already within him he just has to put it into motion. Absolutely. Everything's already within him.

He just has to put that into motion. Go, Daddy, go. Then we got the, for the future, the Six of Pentacles. So this is all about giving and receiving and balance. And Spirit is ready to give him

what he wants. He just has to work for it. And this card is also about balancing the scales so it's like you can't be down forever kind of thing and you can't be you know beating yourself up forever you have to step out of that energy so I see that in the future like it's not going to be easy but if he works for it if he pushes himself he can make anything possible yeah and I think he's already demonstrated that a lot in his life.

Oh, for sure. Because back when I was in high school, a good friend of mine who's in spirit now used to be like, Jelly Roll, Jelly Roll. It was the first time I ever heard about Jelly Roll. It was in 2007. He was like, he's going to pop one day. It's going to be the one. It's going to be the one. And I just remember thinking, I want to listen to Lil Wayne.

Who's Jelly Roll? This was forever ago. Me too. Yeah. remember thinking like i want to listen a little wayne like who's jelly roll you know because this is forever yeah and so i just really see that you know he's put dedication into a lot of areas in his life he's a hard worker and now it's time to bring it back into himself because you can only help heal the world so much before you really have to turn that back and heal yourself and heal yourself i'm gonna make i'm making him watch this. Yeah. And so like what is already, you know, making him unhappy or what is already triggering him is really just a battle between his head and his heart. Yeah. Well, he gives and gives and gives and nobody gives back. So, so the tables

have to turn. The tables have to shift. I keep telling him. And you know, I feel like if he puts that into motion, it's almost like the law of attraction. Like you can't be stopped when you start. And like you said, the instant gratification, that's what the world wants. The world wants that instant gratification. We are brainwashed to want that. And I feel like, you know, this union with you two has really transformed both of your all's journey. It's really elevated both of your all's journey. And so at this point, it's almost like nothing can stop this train like it's rolling like nothing can stop it besides your mind besides your fears and it's like what's the worst that can happen you know you lose a few pounds a week yeah okay or you know what i mean but it's still something yeah

it's still something so i think celebrating the small milestones like the baby steps yeah because it doesn't happen overnight right nothing worth happen is gonna happen overnight right and so i really see that transformation's coming yeah he just has to allow himself to have it awesome and believe he deserves it too yep i love it yay well that I like it. I think it sounds good. Who should we do next? Moski, bring that ass in here and bend over while we're just sitting in front of the table if you can. Yay. Do you want to pick a deck or do you want me to do the two? I'm going to do the butterfly cards for you.

Yay, flutterbys. We love the flutterbys. Do you have a question or anything that you want to just see what the cards say? She's like, what does 2021 hold for me? All right. I'm going to say a blessing and write in your spirit guides. All right. Father God, Mother Earth, thank you so much for this time together.

Help me to be a clear channel in the highest good of all. Help me to connect with mo's spirit guides angels and ancestors and to bring through any messages that she may need we give all of our love and gratitude and we ask for protection our spirit circle is open first card join in so spirit is wanting you to join in and co-creating your reality like you spent a lot of time worrying about what other people wanted what other people time worrying about what other people wanted what other people thought of you what other people wanted out of you and so spirit is like now is your time to step up to the plate and join in with manifesting what it is that you want bringing

in your ideal partner your ideal lifestyle your ideal you know you the ideal you we were talking about that yesterday when we were eating yeah and so it's like you know you've spent a lot of your life trying to make others happy so now it's time that you make you happy and focus on your growth your evolution yeah and then we got courage so spirit is acknowledging that you are a lot stronger than you give yourself credit for you are a lot stronger than you see yourself because when you get tore down by the world we start to believe that that's true and spirit is like no like that's not true that's not you like you are really strong and very powerful and the more that you acknowledge that the more that you accept that the more that you can use those energies to better your life, to work in your favor.

Aw, musky. It's all about like, you know, you are what you eat, but it's like you are what you think. So if you think you're weak, if you think you're not capable of certain things, then you kind of rule out possibilities. So I feel like, you know, just opening your arms to the world and just inviting in whatever is to come, not trying to control it, not trying to worry about it before it even happens, but just letting it happen. Because I feel like it's going to be better than you expect. So don't fear. Don't be worried. And then we've got parental care.

So I feel like this is nurturing your inner child. Nurturing your father. Nurturing. I feel like the is nurturing your inner child. And there's nurturing your father. Nurturing. I feel like the little you needs nurturing. Like what did the like the child in you dream of? What did she like? This is all stuff we've been talking about, dude. So we moved her out here to get on a journey of self healing and just figure because I told her I was like, dude, I had to move to Nashville and get to know myself sober.

It's the most fucked up, beautiful thing ever ever and I want you to experience it too so that's why she's here is to really get her life on track so you got this it's all about I feel like reparenting yourself cutting out the expectations that other people have put on you what you thought your life would be like by now accepting what it is not you know holding yourself to some standard that it's probably not even your standard it's it's societies it's your parents your friends their life what they're doing but it's more like you're not meant to fit in you're not meant to follow the same path as everyone else yeah so it's like doing what makes you happy will help you co-create that reality. And I feel like it really starts with self-worth. Like believing you deserve it would be like first step on the list.

Because I feel like spirit tries to give you opportunities, but you don't see them because you're like, not for me or I don't know. You know what I mean? just being open to receiving, not cutting out, not putting this, you know, wall around your heart, this wall around your, yourself and letting people in, letting, letting people help you. I feel like asking for help. Who tells you this all the time? I feel like asking for help is hard for you. So being able to ask others for what it is that you need and not always being the one that they call when they need something. You know what? Give me a deck of cards. I'm going to start doing readings. I'm just kidding.

I'm kidding. Yes. Because she's tapping into your higher self, your higher calling. And like I said, she has this healing energy that just attracts people. I don't want it. But when she cares about someone, it's like, you know, it's endless. I feel like you don't know any boundaries when it comes to caring about someone. Like you wholeheartedly want to see them shine.

Yeah, absolutely. You want to see them glow. No, totally. That's why I'm so glad she's here because it's like now I can take care of you and make sure everything you want to do. Now she can parental care you. Yeah. I am like her. I'm like strict with her like a parent.

And I'm like, no, you're not going to do this. We're doing this you know like so I need to try to be a little bit more looser and let her her do it find her higher self on her own too though yeah and I feel like you know you're already stepping into your power by moving by doing things that were unfamiliar like that already shows that you want this like you want this now you got to believe you deserve this yeah baby that's what we're talking about yeah mimi come get these hands i'm so excited aren't these great like isn't she like right on point dude it's nuts how on point she is with shit all right i'm gonna do the wisdom cards for you yay me or lou can we just all acknowledge mimi's glow up here guys can you look in the camera show them how hot you look she started wearing crop tops went blonde fucking hot

as shit over here man damn it i hate surprises are you a hairdresser oh yeah she does all my hair yeah because i saw she was doing jay's hair and it was like yeah she gets me together yeah or something i was like okay i was like i like this shit mimi holds my life together at this point i have a question god no okay all right father god mother earth thank you so much for this time together help me to be a clear channel in the highest good of all. Help me to connect with Mimi's spirit guides, angels, and ancestors and bring through any messages that she may need at this moment. We give our love and gratitude and we ask for your protection. Spirit circle is now open. These two cards are wanting to come together.

So we've got chopped wood and soulmates. So I feel like you have really been working on yourself. Like you've really, really been elevating your awareness of things and not so much leading with your emotions, not so much leading with your past traumas, past fears, failed relationships, that kind of thing. So I feel like you're really finding this soulmate within yourself. Like you're, you're realizing that if nobody got you, you got you, and you're no longer letting other people make you feel bad about choosing you and about putting yourself first. And so with Chopped Wood, I feel like you've really been storing up a lot of energy and a lot of patience, a lot of resilience. And you're like,

I got this, like I can do this. And that's a new chapter for you. That's like a new level of awareness for you. And I feel like spirit's really acknowledging that and acknowledging that, you know, you can't pour from an empty cup. So as you take care of yourself, spirit can take care of you. The world can take care of you, But it all starts with how you feel about yourself. And I feel like everything you're doing is really working because we've got 42 and 41. So they're acknowledging that you're taking the steps, that you're guided to take, that you're doing the hard stuff. You're doing the shadow work.

You're working through the traumas, the fears, why you believe certain things. And you're like, I'm not going to live certain things and you're like I'm not gonna live my life like this anymore like I'm just not so we got a leg up number 34 so spirit is saying like as you do this you've got a leg up on your old self like you're no longer competing or comparing with others but you're really like look how far I've come look how far I've went and so like they're acknowledging that it's crazy really yeah I'm just over here smiling like this is she's so on point now do you guys see why I wanted her on she's so fucking on point it's crazy so I feel like you know you've got a leg up and you're to win the race as long as you stay in the game. Like don't let your head get clouded with emotions. Don't let your head get clouded with fear,

other people's opinions, and definitely don't get caught up on trying to fix anyone or pull someone else out of the darkness. It's like you can only do so much, but if it's at the risk of lowering your energy, if it's the risk of lowering your awareness, it's not worth it. Even if you love them. And I feel like you will have to have those difficult conversations with yourself. Like, does this person really help me or do they bring me back to here? And you know, it sucks that a lot of the times that people we care about do that to us, but I feel like you're strong enough that you know when to say no now, like, you know, we're not going to do that. And I'm not going to let you use me and abuse me and, you know, get me all worked up.

Like, I don't deserve that. And so kudos to you. Yay. I love that. Isn't that awesome though, how on point she is? It's crazy. Should we do one more? What should we do?

Yes. Brittany, you want wanna do it? Sure Maybe we'll do one more quick one on me too And just see what it says I'm gonna do the moon cards for you Yay Come on down

Britt Britt This is Jonathan's wife We love Brittany so much She's just She literally is just Dude the funniest bitch I've ever met in my life we love her to death all right father god mother earth thank you so much for this time together help me to be a clear channel for britney help me to bring through any messages that she may

need at this moment we ask for your protection and we give our love and gratitude. Spirit circle is now open. Ooh, look at the bigger picture. Full moon and Sagittarius. Oh, I love it. Her dude is Sagittarius. So Sagittarius is a fire sign. We just left Sagittarius season.

So I feel like you had a lot of realization moments in the last month or so. Like the last month has been like a roller coaster of emotion. And it's been like, wow, like I've been holding myself back this whole time. Like I've been scared of being successful, of being, um, being close to other people, being in connection with other people. It's like you're letting the walls down that you had built to keep you safe, but now you're like, this isn't hurting anyone but myself. Like I can't, I can't not let people in and then wonder why they don't understand me or wonder why they don't support me. So I feel

like you've really looked at that bigger picture. Like you're starting to put those puzzle pieces together and it's like, wow, like this is serious like i'm working on this and i've got this so that's awesome then we've got a new romantic cycle begins new moon and libra jonathan's getting some pussy i see a lot more appreciation in your relationships a lot more just staying in and enjoying each other not necessarily needing to be seen or to go anywhere to do something but it's like the little things I feel like little notes around the house flowers like that type of stuff like it's gonna be like that lovey like I appreciate you I love doing that Jay gets so mad at me that is so funny because I love doing that. Jay gets so mad at me. That is so funny. Cause I love that. I love

Jay gets some out and I'm like, you can't have an ass that big and not expect me to not want to shove my face or hand in it. Like, come on, dude. All right. We got half faith in your dreams, the waxing crescent moon. So I feel like you're really hitting the reset. Cause we've got the full moon, the new moon, and then the waxing crescent moon. So I feel like you're really hitting the reset because we've got the full moon, the new moon, and then the waxing crescent moon. So I feel like you really reset your energy and like anything that's no longer serving you, write that on a piece of paper and catch it on fire, period. Like work with the fire magic. I feel like using candles, you know, you light a candle and you just speak into it, whatever it is that you want, whatever it is that you're thinking about. And it will help, you know, elevate that intention. So I feel like if there's something that you're looking to do, something that you want to do, have faith in yourself. Like

don't write it off before you even try. Like don't count it out before you even know kind of thing. So it's like you have a way bigger plan in the spiritual realm like they've got big plans for your life so know that anything that you've went through anything that was negative that was perceived hard hardships know that that was for a reason it was to prep you because you have this nurturing ability like this very kind like essence that people will come to you and they will take your word for it like they don't have to go through the same things to believe what you're saying kind of thing and I think um I really see you working with like kids like mentoring or um just like supporting young minds of some sort like people are really going to be drawn to your nurturing ability.

Yay. That's awesome. That's really funny because of what I do, I'm a massage therapist. So, I guess it's kind of, like, in my nature to be. Yeah, it's hands-on healing. Giving. Yeah, hands-on healing. Baby, everybody.

Yeah. Yeah, you're welcome. Yay. That was awesome. Now you guys see why I love her so much? Like, she literally is just like so legit and just right on point with everything i know you already did a reading on me but we did it in private so let's do like a little mini one for me i'm gonna do the work your light cards

all right tell me if my i have a brain problem because i'm getting an mri done on wednesday i saw your story you were just at the doctor today yeah I just been having I face planted on the deck fucking six months ago and I already broke my c1 vertebrae and I think I really fucked something up so I'm just gonna get an MRI done make sure everything's good I just been having headaches and blurred vision and shit

say the blessing father god mother earth thank you so much for this time together help me to be a clear channel and the highest good of all help me to connect with bunnies spirit gods angels and ancestors we give our love and gratitude and we ask for your protection spirit circles now open amen this is so special the age of light you've been training for this for lifetimes oh so didn't i get that in my reading before too yes god that card needs to leave me alone you are i'm telling you man spirit really is acknowledging that you're an old soul like you have done this that's why things seem familiar to

you i'm an old war whore okay that's what i always call myself i feel like you get deja vu a lot all the time you're really in tune with other realms so i don't know if people are like you zone out and they're like where are you where did you go yeah like you're zoning out people cannot hold my attention at all i'm all so you're tapping into other realms yeah and i think um you know with you kind of being afraid of certain things, just really ask for protection, you know, every single day. Yeah. And not just, you know, your normal prayers, but in addition to that, just asking for protection and guidance. Because I feel like your soul knows where it's going.

And it's almost like, you know, a cat with fire up its ass. Like it's ready to go. And it's going. And it's got the direction. And nothing's going to go and it's going and it's got the direction and nothing's gonna stop it yeah so it's like just letting things unfold naturally not trying to control it I feel like I think that's one of the lessons I'm gonna take from this entire podcast is I've got to stop I guess operating in fear right I really do like and I think whenever we've been through so many lifetimes and we're here to really connect with others,

like in this lifetime, you have this platform and you're able to spread your message and to connect with others on a deep level. That's what you've been training for. You've been training to have this, um, can I come back as Joyce Myers next one? Just fucking be a fucking female preacher. I love Joyce. She's great. She's amazing. Play, have fun, celebrate. Don't be so serious. What you were just saying. So spirit is really acknowledging that it's all in a day's work.

Like you can't do a month's work in a day. I try to do that. That's what we're doing tomorrow. So quit trying to overdo it because you're really just gonna burn yourself out yeah and i feel like you know your plan is so big in this lifetime that spirit does not want you to get burned out they want that fire to keep glowing and keep attracting and keep spreading the message right because it's a team effort like you know it's it's a team effort so i feel like you know celebration and enjoying the little moments and even if that means you don't post all day or you don't do something all day, like or whatever it is, take that time for you.

Take that time to have fun. Yeah. I need to tap out sometimes. Yeah. And celebrate the baby steps because I feel like you've made major strides in 2020. I feel like elevation on 100. Yeah. It's crazy.

Enjoy the view for a little bit. Like enjoy the view because there's always going to be another mountain to climb. There's always going to be. I just always feel like, all right, I did that. Now I got to do more. Right. Right. And I think whenever you're when you're an old soul, you know that time is limited.

Right. And there's only so much you can do in one lifetime. So Spirit really wants you to enjoy this lifetime. That's why they're giving you. Sorry, my dog is obnoxious right now. Tachi, relax. That's why they're giving you this, these resources and this ability

so that you can enjoy your life and not burn yourself out. Awesome. And we've got transformation. Things are changing at a cellular level, deep healing. Yeah. So they're acknowledging how far you've come just in the last few years. Yeah.

Like they're almost letting me know that you've made more moves in two years than you did in 10 years. Oh, yeah. So know that you deserve everything. You deserve the world. And that you are changing on this level where you went from navigating blindly, navigating with rose-colored glasses on, like just kind of all over the place. And now you've got this laser focus and spirits like you're in the right direction. Just don't get burned out.

And I think that is something that as a hard worker, as an independent woman, we want to just get shit done. Yeah. But it's like, if you don't take that time for you, you won't have much more to give to others. Yeah. I do need to take a vacation. You mentioned, you know, always wanting to like reply to people and be there for other people. But it's like, you know, when you need people, make sure that someone's there for you. Make sure that you're able to ask for help or ask for support. And I feel like you do a lot of supporting, but are people supporting you? Right. You know what I mean? So making sure that that energy exchange is there because you will drain yourself and burn yourself out. And I feel like you're not at your best when you're worried about so many different

things. Yeah. And I know that with your you know your soul's evolution like you're super powerful and you can get a lot done right doesn't mean you have to do it all today right fine I won't fine I won't do it fine I'll take a nap Paige you're so sweet baby thank you so much for being here I like want to make her like the in-house psychic I think she's amazing we need to keep just bringing her back on at different times and stuff like that why don't you drop your um website and all your socials so people can find you okay right now yep go ahead um at made in kentucky so it's k-u-n-t-u-C-K-Y. Gotcha. And then ContraryCherryCo.com. And then you can also find me on all platforms. We'll also write it out so you guys can see it.

With The Made in Kentucky on Twitter, on TikTok, all the above. But if you make it to my website, it will connect you to all the socials. Yay. Thank you so much for being here. You're just a little ball of light, and we just absolutely appreciate you and adore you. Thank you so much. I literally was so excited to come down here. Not a far drive at all.

Oh, you're going to be. We're going to have you on probably every other, like every few months. Just bring you down here and have you check in with the team and all that stuff. I would love that. Thank you guys for tuning in to another episode of Dumb Blonde. We will see you guys next week bye