Duncan Trussell Family Hour - 717: Raghu Markus

Episode Date: October 10, 2025

Raghu Markus, co-founder of the Love Serve Remember Foundation and a dear friend of Ram Dass, re-joins the DTFH! In these troubled times let this podcast bring you hair peace! You can check out the Love Serve Remember Foundation, and all of Raghu's good works, on their website! RamDass.org Omaha family! Duncan is headed your way October 17 & 18. Come see him at the Funny Bone Comedy Club! Click here to get your tickets now. This episode is brought to you by: Join the thousands of parents who trust Fabric to help protect their family. Apply today in just minutes at MeetFabric.com/DUNCAN! Get your first month of BlueChew FREE Just use promo code DUNCAN at checkout and pay five bucks for shipping on BlueChew.com. Minnesota Nice now has genuine Amanita Muscaria in stock, AKA Blue Lotus! Head to mnniceethno.com/duncan and use code DUNCAN22 for 22% off your order. Start with the gummies if you want something playful, or dive straight into extract mode if you want to feel what the pharaohs were feeling!

Greetings, friends. It's me, Duncan, and this is the Dunkett Truzzle Family Hour podcast, and today, oh, what a great episode we have for you today. I wanted to do a spiritual string of episodes, or at least people who I feel like have something to say that might help some of us or all of us cool down a little bit. Times are a little weird. People feel a bit uneasy or absolutely terrified and today's guest oh my god he really laid it down and i know maybe some of you feel a little cynical right now and don't want to hear some kind of hippie spiritual stuff but that means you definitely should listen to this episode ragu runs the love server member foundation he was dear friends with ramdas he had the good karma and good fortune to spend time with the great guru neem

Kroli Baba, an awakened being, the same awakened being that inspired Ram Dass to write Be Here Now. And we had a very frank and I think very powerful conversation about how do we find that place of love inside of us that for many of us seems to be covered up by a thick, bubbling sludge of lovecraftian hate. So, everybody, welcome back to the DTFH Raghu Marcus. He had a beautiful hairpiece, and he went there and... Your father went to see Maharaji and brought his hairpiece to India. He brought it along with him.

He wore it. Wow. Can you imagine something? Pain in the ass. In India. Anyhow, by the end of that, whatever, he spent a few weeks there the first time, by the end of it, poop, it was gone. And Maharaji never said a word to him. That's polite. Nothing, it was gone.

That's polite. You know, if someone wants to wear a hairpiece, why shame them? They're shaming themselves. You know, for those of you just joining us, Ragu, prior to me pressing records, said, what happened to you, is that a hair piece? Yeah, really. Well, let's talk about hairpiece. As in P-E-A-C-E.

That could be the name of this podcast. hair piece and I don't think I really do you know my though I did interrupt the series I was trying to do after Charlie you're doing by the way can you tell me what what series what were you doing well after Charlie Kirk got assassinated and everybody became it was already a powder keg and then at least online it became a everywhere all conversations everything I'm sure and so I thought all right damn it I'm going to listen to my hippie friends like you you who are like, why don't you use your platform responsibly? I'm going to have people on who have the potential to cool things off a little bit, or at least offer some perspective that isn't grounded in the maelstrom of politics that all of us find ourselves. Yeah. So what happened though? What happened to you just said that you stopped it? Well, only because I, well, my own bad scheduling because i fucked up you were supposed to be last week and i fucked up it wasn't able to do it and whatever i rambled about in the last solo episode i'm sure it wasn't it wasn't worth

anything so i messed it up but yeah you i just wanted to start having my spiritual friends on to get your perspective on this current incredibly apocalyptic fire very confused, angry place that not just America, but I think the planet finds itself in. Yeah, pretty much. But you've been through it, you've been through, you've been flopping around this ball of dirt a little bit longer that I have.

So you, you experience Vietnam, you experience Kent State, you experienced so many moments of, political upheaval in this country that this must not seem brand new to you. I mean, it certainly anyone has it. I would advise you. This is terrible, but there's nothing I can do. I did a podcast with Danny Goldberg.

You know, Danny is. Yeah, but they might not. Oh, so Danny Goldberg ran a number of labels from Warner Brothers to Polygram when there was a polygram and so on. And I did, we had a label back then, a small indie label that he took on as part of his, the conglomerate of labels. And we had known each other from a long time back, actually through a spiritual teacher, Hilda Charlton. That's a whole other. I don't even know if I ever talked to you about it, don't.

I don't think you did. No, no, that's a whole other thing, interesting thing. But some other time. Anyhow, he became very involved from the get-go. in politics. And he's a lefty. And he would host fundraisers at his beautiful place in Greenwich Village. And so he was really there. But the why this triggered me is because you know, say, hey, getting a maybe a little bit more of a historical

perspective. Because whenever I would say this is the worst of times and, well, not quite. Let's go back, and he would go back in history and talk about other occasions where, you know, some really, really tough stuff was going on. So I did a podcast with him last week. I think it's out right now. Anyhow, it's the last couple of ones.

It is so measured about what is going on now. It's the best thing I've heard about that. So go to mind rolling on the Be Here Now Network and you can get. A great podcast, by the way, truly. Truly. Thank you. Thank you, thank you.

But you know what? Let me, because you did say something and talked about when I came up at 60s, 70s as a kid. And it led me to say, to read something. I actually had this in my head that I wanted to bring this up. I thought it would be a good conversation starter, Duncan. And this is from, and I'm so sorry everybody to, do a little commercial in the middle of Duncan Trussell family hour. But I do commercials in the middle of my podcast all the time.

Go ahead. They're for you. Anyhow, it's, we have a new book coming out, me as the director of the Love Server member foundation from Ram Dass. First posthumous book since he left six years ago called There Is No Other. and how to move towards wholeness instead of staying in the divide that we're, you know, vast divide that we are in right now.

So it's a perfect book for the times, and we called the best talks of Ramos around this particular subject. And then we invited Annie Lamott, had something great to say, and all of the friends that you know quite well, Joseph Goldstein, Jack Cornfield, can't help but notice i didn't get a yeah the book is on the way to you didn't get an invite

to write something for the book so oh you didn't get that yeah well oh you didn't get that yeah well um talk to romdas about that so this is uh this is an excerpt from the book okay and it speaks to exactly what you just mentioned about me when we got free in the six then suddenly it was the empowering of the individual heart, the intuitive heart, that said, hey, there's work to do in civil rights. There's work to do in sexual freedom. There's work to do with women's issues and gay and lesbian issues. There's work to do with foreign policy and the anti-Vietnam movement. There was a link between the intuitive heart of individuals and the feeling of rightness or appropriateness between that

and these dissonant institutions that were out of line. The problem was that those of us who had experienced that quality of love had such a sense of the power of love that we underestimated the power of fear. Tim Leary and I had a chart on our wall in Millbrook, a geometrically rising curve showing how fast everyone would get enlightened. Wow. It did involve putting LSD in the water supply.

but other than that, it was not terribly dramatic. It seemed so inevitable and irrevocable because the experience was so powerful and so irreversible once it had happened that we started to surround ourselves with other people who had experienced it. Kennedy was in office and lots happening in Haid Asprey and the rock and roll movement.

Minstrels like Dylan were carrying these messages of the relative nature of reality that undercut the power of any one point of reality. The carriers of Native American wisdom were our elders instead of objects of sadism. What happened to us in the 60s was so strong that we assumed everybody would fall before it. But they didn't.

There were the people who didn't have that experience. they experienced was that the whole social structure in which they had power was under attack. They got frightened and they pushed against it.

In that sense, the 60s polarized the culture because it was naive. It only understood its own perception and assumed its perception with spread by osmosis. I now see that the naivete with which we embraced our idealism fed the fundamentalist and right-wing movement in the United States.

Wow. That's so president. How beautiful that he admits it. That's so powerful, I think that is a fair analysis and a brilliant analysis. Yeah. and the well and I you know I've heard of other I know that his view of things as a whole instead of this or that or othering people I can't remember which lecture but I remember him talking about how one side tends to hold up the other side even if they seem opposed yeah one side is you know for example let's look at what's happening in Portland Chicago we've got Trump is sending the National Guard,

the military into the cities this has always been the nightmare of any garden variety conspiracy theorist this has been what people like Alex Jones have been saying was going to happen totalitarianism will come

the military will be in the streets but because it's coming from the right and not from the left, it does seem like some of those people are being a little quiet about it, even though it's the exact thing that they prognosticated. And so we have this, this is happening. We've all dreaded it. I have, I don't, you know me.

I remember when we first met, I'm like, what do we start throwing moths off cocktails? I'll go this, stop this now. It's coming. And suddenly, here it is. the military in the streets of our country the president saying it's a war within meaning that the military that we've been God knows how much every single individual in America has been paying for this military force via taxes is now coming into the streets of our cities and the military does it

I think the military wants to do it even like less than anyone I don't think they want to be there They don't want to fucking They didn't sign up to like potentially Use lethal force On the on the country that they wanted to defend It's madness So

To get back to the original point And correct me if I'm wrong here It seems like Gramdoss would look at both sides of this And see how The one side Is what's going to happen inevitably is people are going to come out in the streets to protest the military being there.

And then all it takes is one person off their fucking meds or whatever to come there with a gun. Fire on the military. The military fires back. That's the match in the powder keg right there.

And so you see how both sides are doing this terrible dance. And no one wants to be doing the dance. That's the saddest part. I'm pretty sure that the people Trump is freaked out about on the streets, I'm pretty sure they'd rather be at bars. Looking at them, I'm pretty sure they'd rather be having fun at a bar. I don't think they want to be fucking in like black masks getting pepper sprayed.

And I'm damn sure the ice people don't want to be there either. I don't think anybody wants to be there. That's the really ironic thing. of course there's a few people there's sociopaths everywhere so no doubt there's some state operatives are getting off on the power and no doubt there's some messianic activists who are getting off on the drama but the good art of the people when I'm looking at it nobody it's just other than getting high off the drama it doesn't look fun you know but both sides have to be there one side has to be there for their own reasons the other side has to be there for other than

you get this mess it's like a hurricane it's like watching a hurricane form i don't think hurricanes want to be there i think they'd just rather be like nice mild waves and winds so but but is that a fair analysis of what he might say By Gerber Life is term life insurance you can get done today. Made for busy parents like you, all online, all on your schedule, right from your couch. You could be covered in under 10 minutes with no health exam required. And that's incredible, friends. That's incredible.

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what's the source of that reality of othering people what is the source of that how do we break through that okay let me let me take a side so you can talk to a side it's not how I believe someone will clip this and make it seem like this is what I think nothing I can do about that but

I am now going to take the side of a violent protester someone who's willing to use violence so I'm going to take their side now okay and then I want I would love it if you could channel Ram Dass or just yourself how would you respond to this

okay I think I can I think I can voice what they have to say forgive me for those of you out there on the streets if I parrot you in a way that is obtuse listen no offense I appreciate the hippie stuff

I do and believe it or not even though right now imagine I'm in like a like I'm wearing a black face mask and a weird backpack and I've got like shit to get the pepper spray out of my eyes

and I'm packing heat somewhere in there too I get it but here's the problem children are being dragged into vans by masked men who don't even have to show ID. And we don't know where they're going. The men who are doing this don't seem to have any repercussion for what they're doing.

The people who are being thrown into these vans, we aren't really quite sure where they're going. They're not getting legal representation. They're not being protected. in any way, shape, or form, and the places that we do know they're taking them are horrific. Limited access to water, to food. Some of them are being deported to places that they didn't even come from and thrown into horrific prisons there.

I'm afraid that meditation is not going to do shit about that, and that the only thing that is going to work right now is countering their very violence with our violence and if i thought otherwise i wouldn't be here but as far as i can tell this is all we've got left nobody wanted to get to this place but if i sit by and meditate my fucking apartment and burn incense and chant rom-rom-rom while little children are getting ripped away from their fucking parents then who the fuck am i and how can i sleep at night I'm speaking from their perspective. And then I'd love to know what you think.

I hear you. Listen, I mean, I, this is an anecdote to what you're saying. But I introduced the fact that this book is going to become available here in October 2025. I'm going to pirate it. I'm still the antifur guy. I'm not going to buy it. I'm going to pirate it. That's what I do.

I'm a hacker too. Anyhow, I was with a group of friends, people who had been practicing quote-unquote meditation and had a perspective, a spiritual perspective about who we are and where we are going, purpose in our lives, wonderful people. So I said, yeah, isn't this great? We're going to do this, you know, help, you know, just cut down on the polarization and stuff. And they went, one particular person, a woman actually said, that's true. Terrific. That's great that this book is coming out.

Meanwhile, can we hang so-and-so? Holy shit. That's the mood. I went, holy shit. Are you, what? And that's really what you're saying. It's a knee-jerk thing, you know? And I, listen, meditation isn't going to do anything. I mean, you use that in a, you know, obviously.

I'm being a little hyperbolic as this character, but, you know, I've read enough Reddit comments that I do feel like I can embody the sentiment here. And it is the sentiment that your friend apparently has. And the sentiment is, why are they allowed to use these violent techniques and that's okay? Why are they allowed to use force? And if they are allowed to use force and we neuter ourselves by not using counterforce, then how in the world is that going to stop anything? Again, everybody, I'm just voicing.

what I think is a meme out there in the hopes that we can get this we can come up with an actual pragmatic response from someone who's been steeped in this world and has been with an enlightened being yeah listen I honestly I don't think we have a chance in hell unless somebody comes that is a you know at the very least somewhat of a replicate of Martin Luther King. Yeah. Someone who has that kind of courage, who is not going to just say, we're getting shot, so we're going to shoot back.

Right. Someone is saying something that cuts through that kind of thinking, that thinking that we are all separate. I'm a separate entity. Right. You know, and hey, where did we get off there, you know? Where do we get off the train there? I mean, since when, even in any rational way, through economic stuff, through world trade, through all of it, we are interconnected.

Not to mention, of course, the digital age. We are so interconnected. How can you possibly say something like that? Well, I just, I think like, yeah, I think. that the problem is, is like, you know, to me, I've told this story before, but you're just reminding me of the time, the first time I met Ram Dass, and the first thing I asked him is like, are you my guru? Everybody wants a guru. Not everybody gets to meet him, Krolybaba. And his response was, with a big smile, yeah, now what? And it was really funny because he popped to the

balloon. He wasn't really saying I'm your guru so much as saying like come on. He never would say anything about that. He was never intimating. He was anything but a teacher. And I took that. I didn't take that to me. He's my guru. I took that as pointing to something in me that wanted somebody else to do the work for me. And in this case, I would say to my Antifa character, okay, but now what? now you now you commit violence now you use the force that the oppressors are using now you've killed who knows you shoot you know you shoot one of these people they're a dad now you have justified their violence with your violence now you have shown the world what you consider to be the right way to push back and now what

what do we do now because the next step is you know balkanization civil war and do you see somewhere at the other end of this justice do you actually see somewhere at the other end of this the end of these atrocities because of your and your comrades violence can you honestly say that it would be effective that it would work and if you can't say with a hundred 100% certainty. This is the way. You really want to roll the dice so that after a few years of horrific violence, you look back, nothing's changed other than more of your friends are dead and more people, whoever, on the other side, are dead. And now what? Nothing's changed. Things have just become more authoritarian and people are more scared. That would be my response. That's not exactly

a Martin Luther King response, but I just don't see, I don't think that violence in this case or in most cases leads to anything other than further violence, further atrocity. I don't think that it, it's, and also, if it, if it worked, or I'll go, what, if it worked, If violent resistance worked, we would be living in a utopia right now. Because all of human history. Just look at it. So it's not affected. This is not new.

This is not new. And hopefully in our potentially more enlightened state, we can go back and look inside ourselves and see that that hate and anger begets, Exactly the opposite. Exactly the opposite. Right. Oh, but it feels good. You know.

It felt good being that character. It feels good. Yeah. No, I know. I know. It feels good to get angry. You know, I mean, I know. I have anger problems.

Me too. I think we both share a little bit of that. And yeah, you can feel the righteousness that comes in there and the power. And it feels like, oh, wow, I got control now. I'm going to blow this person away, whatever it is. this is what we're missing when i say martin luther dr king martin luther king i'm talking about when that man spoke you could hear the you could feel rather the love in his being right there was love you

could feel it right you know he wasn't a big guru or anything anything like he wasn't his spousing hippie beliefs you know um spirituality that's basically in bypassing all of the Christian. He's a Christian. He was a true Christian, absolutely. And, you know, I'm hoping, I mean, this is my own, you know, thinking about all this and seeing what's going on and feeling, you know, the horror of it, that we will support people who have some love in their heart.

The pushback has to be there, I'm sure. Well, this is the problem, right? because what's happening is, is an attempt to push back. You've got Gavin Newsom, imitating Trump's tweets. The idea is, let's fight fire with fire. We're going to use the exact same energy that we hate to push back against that same energy. Whereas Martin Luther King, as you're brilliantly pointing out, his energy seemed to be being piped in from a transcendent reality.

And you can't fake that. And so when somebody is standing in front of God knows how many people, saying I have a dream and inside their heart is not hate but is also not is also not someone who isn't a who hasn't seen people getting murdered lynched direct encounters with how tremendous suffering so there's it's that love is grounded in reality and even in the midst of that horrific reality that, you know, when you, I guess if you want to look at like the antithesis to some degree of Martin Luther King, you go Malcolm X. And, you know, and he was fiery. Malcolm X was not saying nonviolence. And, and, and, you know, you look at him and you think about

what he has experienced his entire life. And you're like, I get it, man. I get it. But when you see someone like Martin Luther King theoretically experiencing similar things. Not theoretically, for sure. Honestly, I'm only saying that because sadly someone will be like, you have no idea about the difference between those two. They had different encounters in 1976. Well, we don't. We don't.

So forgive me. But Gandhi, for example, another example of nonviolent resistance, the salt march over through the British Empire, not with a revolutionary war like the United States. did but just pure nonviolent resistance and something happens in that moment when you're seeing people who are being peaceful protesting peacefully getting firehosed in the street what in it illuminates the oppressive system and sometimes that illumination is enough to create real social change because nobody wants to support that system that seems to be where it becomes effective is when you let them crucify you instead of fight back. I'm sorry I'm talking too

much. It is your podcast. I know but theoretically you're my guess so I'm not I'm going to shut the fuck up and everyone out there I apologize that was too much. Let me read a little something else you know Anne Lamont you know Anne right yeah we've had her in and with us in many different instances at retreats and so on she wrote a forward to the book there is no other. I just want to read a little bit of it, because it's directly addressing. Okay. She gets, she's a Christian too, and she gets at the

human part of us. So, that's something we've got to bring into this conversation, the human part. She says, it's human nature to take sides and to think that you're right, and you speak for God.

My great Jesuit friend, Tom Weston, said, you can tell you've created God in your own image when he or she hates all the same people you do. So that's always a very good hint that you're a little off track. We're taught black and white. And what has gotten a lot of us into trouble is this black and white thinking, this win and lose consciousness.

Much of social life isn't split into black and white. Real life has got subtle. and layers and complexities and nuance. There are two ways nowadays of looking at a stranger. When you're distrustful of some, do you think they're going to take your food or your car or your right to vote or whatever so you have the right to punish them and exclude them?

Your instinct tells you that you have to for your own survival or they've come here to trade with you and you have the right to be involved. It's a transaction. So you have to make sure that they don't cheat you and that they accept returns. We don't entirely trust anyone outside of our households and our sacred communities. We have fences and private properties and envy and a general sense that the people who live next door and definitely the people who vote differently than we do are not of our tribe.

Right. So we're still worried they're going to steal from us. They're going to bargain unfairly with us, and we're going to come out on the losing end. So she's just speaking to the human part of us. And I say to you, you know, when we're talking about, you know, here we are, and you played the role of somebody who's seeing the atrocity and wants to come back in exactly that manner, right? I think that as many of us that can have some consciousness that this is not a black and white situation. And I love what you see.

You know, the ICE people who are part of that? Yeah. You think that they want to be there? You said, no, they don't want to be there. No, I don't think so. And you don't think they want to be happy, which is holiness says we are, that's the one thing, every being. in this planet has a desire to be happy. So when we start to think about those things, and then we think of our own polarization

inside, which this book speaks to, and Ram Dass spoke to that better than anybody, once we have that, and, you know, it's like one heart, it's the only way is for hearts to open. Does that mean you don't go in Chicago, you know, to resist what's going on there? no it doesn't but it depends a lot of the success of whatever you're trying to do is dependent on not having hate in your heart that's the tough thing that's it that's it yeah that's it's it and that is the toughest that is the toughest thing because This episode of the DTFH has been supported by Blue Chew.

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Because you've got to work on yourself to, how do you, how do you, you know, listen though, let me just say this. Here's the thing. Instead of hate shaming people, you and I, we do have, we get angry. and so I feel like if I know I can talk a lot more about hate experientially than I can talk about compassion and don't say that about you that's no I don't mean I'm saying what ends up so this is what ends up happening

accidentally because you're not doing this and I'm not intending to do it but thank thank God you and me are never going to know what it's like to remove rubble from on top of our dead children right like like the Palestinians right and and we're never going to know that or walking into the you know

people being shot up out of nowhere yeah never going to know that is never ending to have your child in a tunnel never going to know that never going to know that I hope and and

and so to sort of like and so for some for me you know I've got hate in my heart but my hate my hardest

because I broke my fucking phone Ragu it's going to take me like 10 days to get a new phone you know what hell I'm living in right now

you know what I mean like the kind of my my day to day suffering compared to someone who is going to be traumatized for the rest of their lives and think about what happened to them every night before they go to bed and right when they wake up maybe they'll have a moment where they don't remember and then they'll remember so i want to acknowledge that first meaning yes that's one thing i think ramdas would say

to somebody who is filled with that righteous hate and anger yes you are are not wrong your feelings are yes they should you you're not malfunctioning right now you've gotten a taste of what we're up against here and and and you've gotten a real taste and you know what else would make me angry if i'd gotten that taste some motherfucker telling me not to be angry that would make me even more angry it's like yeah cool yeah okay i'll just cool down You want me to just calm down a little bit? Okay, I'll cool off. Yeah, so that you could, so things are a little easier for you, I'll calm down.

So I'm just saying, I'm trying to fully acknowledge it. And my feeling is that when moments like this arise, when the moment that Martin Luther King responded to arose, not only did he make great change but he showed something to everyone there's another way to do this there's another way to do this and in moments like this there is an opportunity

that appears because I think what's amazing about humans is like out of the blue we'll figure shit out that they thought you could never figure out we're about to have fusion reactors we're about to have like infinite free energy. We're going to cure cancer. We're going to grow hair back. We're going to do all kinds of

incredible things. It's already happening for the first time in medical history, a child stage three brain cancer. They cured it. Never done it before. Wait, wait. I never heard. I'll send you the article. It's amazing. It's a kind of aggressive brain cancer. They used some kind of new therapy cured this kid. So what I'm saying is, What's one thing when I'm feeling the hate or really down is I remember, there is a historic precedent for moments of novelty. Things that have never happened before happen. And generally, they happen in response to horrible things. Martin Luther King being a case, study.

And so when you have these events happening, there is a moment where, you're in the most depressing laboratory of all time nobody wants to be in this laboratory no one's ever wanted to be in that laboratory i'm sure martin luther king didn't want to be in that fucking laboratory but here we are we're in a laboratory where there is hate and violence and scary shit going on and that means there's a chance for somebody to not just do what martin luther King did but to do it 50 billion times better because he didn't have TikTok. He didn't have the internet. Imagine if Martin Luther King had the internet. Imagine if he had a podcast. Imagine it, you know what I mean? Imagine if he could instantaneously connect with the whole planet. And I think

that's what this moment is, Ragu. That's why these moments are actually, could potentially be incredible moments where you're saying these moments will produce what potentially might be a game changer in terms of the way we all feel about each other as separate individuals and don't give a shit about it absolutely and not in a bullshit way in a real way it can happen because anything can happen I mean will it happen I'd say the odds are very slim it'll probably just lead to more violent suppression mass surveillance digital ID complete authoritarian government a crack down across the entire planet mass arrests and eventually some kind of horrific technological police state that it will be impossible to escape from our organs being harvested

to keep the dictators alive. But thank you for this wonderful prognosis. Jesus, God. But there's also in these moments a chance. There is a chance. You know, I remember when I was pushing, the last time I saw him, I was pushing Ram Dass Abil in his wheelchair. He said, thank you for joining me in this revolution of love.

that was the last time you saw yeah i didn't know you never told me that yeah it was the last retreat i saw him and and and and and to me when he said that i was not spiritual bullshit he saw what he was doing as revolutionary he recognized it as revolutionary and he understood that uh this this is a revolution that is fueled by something that he taught love and that it's not some hippie-dippy bullshit he wasn't he never struck me as hippie-dippy he had an edge to him that I loved so much and to me that is the place we're at right now there has to be a methodology other than the methodology most of us including myself have been using yeah you know love just say the word

And it, for many people, many, many, many people, this word is slightly cringe-worthy. Yes. You know? We did a thing with, I remember this many years ago with Sharon Salzburg. And it was, oh, around Ram Dass's new concept that he brought up while he was in Maui, loving awareness. Yeah. And she said, you know, love, it's kind of tough. People think you're weak when you mention that weird.

You know, and just her saying that was like, right, right. This is, this is our unfortunate link to something that is more powerful than anything on this point. In fact, people who know a lot more than me or you or anybody say that that is the interconnecting fabric of the universe is that. But it's a bit of a dirty word maybe going too far, you know, because love, we love our mates, we love our families, we love, you know. It extends out as far as it can extend out, extend out, but it's, hey? It stops. Yeah, it stops. And that's the, that's the whole point.

So this, what love is, is not the kind of, if you do this, I'll love you. If you don't do that. It's not transactional. Forget about it. It's transactional, exactly. It's beyond that. And how do we find that place, which I do, I know, beyond knowing, exists in every one of us. And I got, obviously, I was really fortunate to be with a being who that's all that was going on.

There wasn't a matter of, okay, the next five minutes, we'll have a meditation and on love and say, it had nothing to do with that. In fact, he never told us to meditate, Mnig Karolibh, Baham. Right. Right. So how do we get back to what that really means and how do we share that? How do we share that? And most especially with people who maybe don't agree with us. And by the way, you know, we, you did the apocalyptic kind of dance on what's happening and where we're going with this. Yeah. There's a doomer in me. You know. There's a doomer in me. Yeah, right. But the truth is, maybe this is going to go a lot further in a very sad way. This can go much further than where it is right now. And maybe that darkness, you know, that darkness has to produce, the only way light happens is through darkness, right? So maybe that has to happen further before there to be. any kind of change and before enough people acknowledge hey I'm not different than you I was listening to I love that and it made me think of the book of Job and I was listening to I had this great professor when I was in school and you know liberal arts school so definitely like

Christianity not the top of the charts at a liberal art school but this professor I remember him saying. I'll turn on AM Christian radio and listen to it and I'll take something from it because I know how to not throw the baby out with the bath water. I can pick out from it

something good. That's what he tried to teach. It's like, don't just turn off entire streams of data because parts of it offend you. There's gold and then there hills. There's something there. Sometimes I'll do that.

Flip through the AM radio. Do a little, like, bibliomancy, a little oracular work. Let's see what it has to say to me today. Pastor, talking about the book of Job. Talking about how, you know, this ridiculous bet between God and the devil. God tells the devil. The devil comes to God. It's like, you know, that's your greatest servant, Job.

But that's just because he's got it easy. Let me fuck up his life. He's not going to care about you anymore. He only likes you because you're paying him. And God is like, okay, go ahead. Do whatever you want, but don't kill him. Keep him alive and do whatever you want. And what this pastor said,

Satan is like a junkyard dog on a very long chain. He was really cool, but like basically he talked about how, you know, Job gets fucked up. boils i think his kids are killed and his wife says just curse god and die she's freaked out like you fucking asshole and he said if god kills me i will still love god whoa and that's love that's love it doesn't look like the bullshit hallmark channel thing it is savage it is wow It is not tame. It is not domesticated. And it is the opposite of weak. It just seems crazy. If you're worldly, it seems absolutely nuts. And, you know, this, this is a muscle you got to build. Because I'm telling you, Ragu, I can't do it. I can't. I want to. Like on paper, I want to. when people are coming at me online i want to be able to honestly feel legitimate love for them

i don't at all and and and so i'm thwarted constantly by reality in this regard so how how did neem corolli baba get there how because i know he didn't want to be the only neem caroli baba i know he wanted other neem corolli babos so how how do we do it how do we do it is how do we do it and not just for my petty grievances against anonymous strangers online i'm talking about people with legitimate justifiable grievances against systems of violence that have permanently damaged if not destroyed their lives how to love them and i don't mean other people did it i mean what's the method to get there you're saying how do they love the oppressive how do we do it rogu what's the yeah how do you and me do it what's the path towards

this reality if you're saying this is the this is this is this is the you didn't say this this i'm misphrasing but i'm going to say i think this is the only option we have if we don't want to live in an apocalyptic hellscape we don't want our children to live in what's the option The only option we have is figuring out a way for some kind of revolution fueled not by hate but by love. It's the exact same thing the hippies were saying, but now the rubber has hit the road. And I feel like you're a link to that. And I don't think it was all failure. I think a lot of beautiful, incredible things have come from it.

People come to me on the road all the time telling me, thank you for introducing me to Ram Dass. It changed my life. the stuff that the love server member foundation has tirelessly been radiating out into the world is changing people subjective experience of reality but i'm i'm what i'm asking you is what is the method here that in the face of this darkness we can feel more than a fake kind of charlatan style I love you or like in the south how they go God bless your you know what do they say Josh bless your heart they don't mean bless your heart they mean I hope you fucking die I hope a I hope an eagle rips your eyeballs out so how that's too general perhaps how do we do it for real

how do we do it for yeah man we need it now now now it's now it's not just about getting along with the person who farts next to you in the cubicle now it's about like this is real now and so what's the what what you're going we we're talking how do i do we no it's how do i do it is the starting point yeah yeah and and everything you said about you know you see what's going on and you feel a kind of devastation of something inside yeah right and it just brings this reactivity immediately. Then you start looking at that reactivity. And for me, you know, I just, I see, because we were talking about anger before.

Yeah. And you get angry and you get righteous. Yep. You know. And you feel that power. Yeah. That power is a feeling of control. Right.

Right. Okay. So how do you deal with this? I mean, I am, so I look at this and look at it exactly the same way as I might be triggered into an angry state. I look at exactly the same and how do I approach this inside myself? Now, you know, I have the privilege. kind of talking about it when you say neither of us have had to go through what people are going

through now ripping children being ripped away yeah all of all of it and there's so many instances and uh that privilege is a two-way street yeah we should look at that privilege and and be very very grateful just grateful to the Whatever you want to call the thing that is in this universe that reflects ourself, the truth of who we are. Yeah. Whatever you want to call it. And I, you know, so the privilege of even asking the question. Right.

How do I deal with this want to react? Yeah. This feeling of the power of the anger that comes up. How do I, just that question is a privilege that we have. Yeah. We need to take that privilege and share it as much as possible by virtue of just being inside ourselves in a way that is not polarized. The thing inside ourselves that's polarized is the thing that manifests. side. Right. Right. And so how do we get at that? I don't know. Well, I mean, honestly, I mean,

because of the work that I do, representing Ram Dass and teachings and so on, you know what the best way? I mean, I see it more and more as things get really heavier. Being together where we can, first of all, drop that at the door because you walk in and into a pavilion, or whatever it may be, and you're, you, oh, okay, I don't have to walk around wanting to kill people right now, you know, all of that. I mean, and then you start to build a little bit of a resilient muscle, you know, so that you can absorb the reality of, what is this life, the 100,000 horrible visions, and the 100,000 beautiful vision.

Ram Dass's thing, we can be on more than one plane of, it's one of my favorite things from him, by the way. We can be on more than one plane of consciousness at the same time. We can grieve for someone who's left us and we can love them in the deepest place that

we did love them while they were in a body and know that that is not going anywhere. So we start to have a little bit more of multiplicity in our day day life. And that, yes, you do need to have some mindful consciousness, mindfulness consciousness. You need to be able, we did a wonderful book, didn't we now? I'm bringing that up. It's another

commercial. Yeah. The movie of me to the movie of we. Duncan and I talked about all of our wonderful habitual patterns and neurotic tendencies that we built into us. That's what everybody's dealing with everybody not not just left or right you know in the middle everybody's dealing with that dealing with the story we tell ourselves and that makes us righteous in this particular situation yeah so i i do want to talk a little bit about that thing i want to go a little deeper into what you were saying about this sort of schizoid nature yeah inside us that you know that is This episode of the DTFH is supported by my dear friends at Minnesota Nice Ethno Botanicals. Holy Lord in heaven, I am so lucky that they chose to sponsor my podcast because I was introduced not just to the miraculous aminita muscaria, but I was sent.

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whatever i'm not going any you're not going to love me away and I feel like that place is that's the first place people run away from because it's pain man it's pain and then if you do manage to like meditate and meditation does help in this regard or psychedelics or whatever you have some help with some MDMA or something and it you you manage to like walk through walls which I feel like so they were talking about when they're talking about that city They weren't talking about wall walls. They were talking about the only wall that matters, which is the one between you and your heart. And you feel it. Another bad word, heart. They've ruined every, listen, I'm reclaiming all the words.

I'm taking them all back. I'm taking back God. I'm taking back inclusivity. I'm taking back diversity. I'm taking back equity. They're not going to take these words from us, man. They're not going to co-op these fucking words. They're great goddamn words.

And people cringe when you say them now. Or they say, oh, you must be some kind of fucking liberal self like a piece of shit. It's like, no, these words are way older than America. And the things people think they mean now is not what they mean. It's right. It's way older than America. Don't you ever say that again on this podcast. I'm in Texas now.

They'll throw me out. No, you're right. But I guess what I'm saying is when you get to that place, it truly fucks. up your shit because man we we are committed to the satsong of sorrow you understand right we are committed to our miserable compadres we have taken by now you've taken aside you've had dinner conversations aligning yourself with that side you are on board and your friends are on board. And one thing that people will consider is like, man, if I drop the righteousness, I'm not going to have any more friends. People are going to think I'm, you know, people are,

and I'm saying across, I don't care what the fuck you are, communists, the narco, syndiclist, libertarian, Marxist, conservative, Christian nationalist, basic bitch liberal. we all have our political sats songs and man like if you start like a political is a what's that big sats song big apolitical oh yeah we don't do nothing we don't oh yeah i'm not even all that stuff not for me and and i've tried that one too it doesn't it's yeah good luck with that but the point is when I feel that love feeling that I feel like Ram Dass was pointing towards and that Niem Kroly Baba was embodying there it really fucks up the game and all the time you've invested in being on one side or the other it feels like a lot of tools get taken out of my toolbox

how am I going to ship post now how am I going to troll how am I going to like passive aggressively manipulate people or annoying me online These are fun things to do. But that love feeling, it doesn't invite you to do that shit. You know what I mean? I'm talking about the complete dissolution. Totally, totally. But you're speaking in big dramatic paint swaths,

but even in the most subtle ways, we do this day to day. Because it's hard. Like we said in the book, it's hard to transform habitual patterns and neurotic tendencies. Here's ours. Here's some of the things we did, but it's difficult.

We don't want to do hard things. We don't, you know, I'm off to India in a bit, actually, and just, you know, India is very hard, okay, the life there is difficult, you know, it's one point, almost five billion people now, and it's just like, woo. And I thought of some situation, I was telling somebody in some situation of getting, maybe even getting to a train in a train station and the mass chaos that's there and the things that can happen

to really make you so uncomfortable. And I said, but one thing, Indian people, they know how to be uncomfortable, way better than us. That's one of the main problems that we have. And I'm a big, I'm part of it. I mean, I am part of it. That's it.

And yeah, and that is, part of what's going on here aside from, you know, madness on an extraordinary level of people who are more attached to power and money and all of that with the normal stuff. That's all normal stuff. But with us, we just don't want to have any kind of discomfort. You call it. You called it. That's it. That's it. Yeah. That's it. That's it. That's it. That's it. That's it. That's because anyone who's experienced actual love love it ain't comfortable it's not some feather bed it's not some soft down comforter it's not the transactional love we're talking unconditional we haven't said that word unconditional love how do you get unconditional in this

situation you're going to be uncomfortable you're going to it is not going to anesthetize you it is not going to numb you it is not going to like make you feel like what you're doing is the right you're not going to get your righteousness. You're probably going to feel real weird like writing with your left hand or something. None of it makes sense when you've got claws and teeth and all of like, you know, your DNA is just like bite its fucking head off. Or wiping your ass with your left hand.

That's also very uncomfortable, by the way. I wipe my ass with other people's left hands. I'm civilized. No, you told me you went to India and you gave me a wonderful description. No, my God. My God. You're totally right, though, Ragu. It's like, I think there's two things that you've eliminated here.

One, if your experience of love, if you think love is comfortable, you might have, you might not have experienced truly deep love. If you think, in other words, the idea is that love equals pleasure, love equals, love equals, um bliss love is a high getting something back getting something back getting something back and and and because we've been raised in a transactional society yeah exactly you have to subvert at the very like core of your being transactionalism and you have to give up the idea that you're going to get anything back you're not going to get likes you're not going to get views no one gives a fuck no one will see it nobody knows god's too busy dealing with other shit right now god is

isn't even gonna know you did some damn thing just purely from love. Nothing back. And that's purifying, but it's, it subverts. It subverts. And I think that's the idea is like all of us just have to get uncomfortable. We have to get uncomfortable now

because we're illiterate when it comes to this particular language. Yeah, yeah, no, that's. We're just like, it's like, ugh, but I'm not. And this thing that you're talking about is you do you it's it's the hardest thing in the world it is the hardest thing in the world because so maybe we should go to war you can't end this on that note for god's sake what's wrong with you you know what maybe a civil war would be preferable to dealing with with love maybe you're right maybe everyone out there's right what are I saying Martin Luther King was crazy

Maybe you're, maybe, it is though, it is like, it is, um, I think it's good to put out there that we, we have to dispel the myth that there's anything easy about this because it's not, it's just not, it's too easy to pick up a, never mind a gun, it's too easy to mentally project out this the polarization that's inside you and project that out that is too easy

it's so easy yeah that is too easy and it's also too easy to ignore it all you know so we are here we are part of this and how do we get a little bit what did you just MDMA

yes MDMA does do something really important, which is it gives you the beyond the notion, it gives you the reality that we sure as hell are interconnected. We are not alone. And this, this aloneness is part of what's going on, is what is going on here. The people that are perpetuating this perpetrators as well feel, I believe, that they are completely siloed as a separate unit, and that unit needs to be protected. And in that protection, we're going to, you know, pull other people into that silo of separation. That's not just right. It's not just left. It's a reality. That's why I really do feel that one thing we can contribute through sharing is, hey, look inside oneself and see what's going on

outside yourself is what's going on inside. And how do we fix that? You know? Yeah. Yeah. Yeah, it doesn't do any good. It doesn't do any good surrounding the ice facility in your heart with screaming at your screaming at your neurosis how fucked up it is and how to get the fuck out of my fucking body. It doesn't work. Hey, how about what about the reality? The reality is that we have these thoughts

directed to ourselves that are not much different than what gets directed outside. It's identical. It's identical. It's right. So think of that. you know as above so that's a starting point you know yeah i love it you always remind me it's always we have these podcasts at just the right time right when i'm really spiraling into some nice fucking self right just angry hole it's great but but the reality is you went out and bought this

incredibly beautiful shirt that i keep looking at my chickens it's your chickens you like my chickens yeah My kids like my chickens, too. Yeah. Well, listen, Ragu, I think you've given us more than I was hoping. And I really like that you grounded it in the reality, that this is hard. And also some very pragmatic steps, which is just like start. It's just what Ram Dass said, but it's good to be reminded. Work on yourself.

You can do it. Don't expect it to be a walk. But it's not work on yourself, and when you get to a certain point, you'll be able to do social action of any sort. That's not the case. I mean, that's a wrong view. Work on yourself while you were doing whatever you can for anybody, for what you believe in, in a completely peaceful way. While you're campaigning for Trump. Or maybe not. Work on yourself.

No, you can't. Everybody, that's the thing. That's the thing. Everybody. Whether or not you're campaigning for Trump, whether or not you're working for Nancy Pelosi, whether or not you're the leader of some fucking Marxist cell of Antifa in Portland, I think Ragu isn't telling you,

throw your fucking scary-ass mask in the trash. Ragu is saying, go ahead. but continue go on but in the midst of this pattern that you find yourself in start exploring this thing that you're saying look into yourself and ask yourself is there a way to do this with pure love in your heart not bullshit love what happens if you go out there with that energy what happens we don't and this is yeah we're talking about christ here you know we're Danny Goldberg, who I talked to about that podcast that I did, he said, you know, they want to, you know, people from the Christian right, most particularly, want to put up the Ten Commandments in the front of schools and so on and so forth. He said, why not put the sermon on the Mount?

That is a very good question. That is a very good question. Why are they going to the Ten Commandments? Let's do. Blessed are the peacemakers. Blessed are the meek. Blessed are the poor and spirit. The beatitudes.

Yeah. Wouldn't that be fantastic? What a great criticism of that. Yeah. Yeah. No, that's really great on Danny's part. I love that. I love that.

Can I show Rondas's new book? Yeah, please. My God, I got to read this. This is good. Ooh, it looks good. You got the Rommdas font. But why is it backwards? It isn't for me.

It looks right. It's your, it's your, you're, it's all the drugs you do. There is no other the way to harmony and wholeness is just what we've been talking about here on the Duncan Trussle family hour. And don't, and friends, you know, for new visitors to my podcast, Ragu is, I'm so lucky to have him as a friend. And the loves server remember foundation doesn't just release incredible books. But when I'm out of the road, people go to these. retreats they they're just yeah that people get their lives changed and and you know I think that the what you were saying about look you can stay on the fucking channel you know you stay on you

don't don't worry Fox News is always going to be there if you want to flip back and listen to Sean Hannity fucking rip into some lib you can do that but there's a lot of other channels that you could just try on for size and you know you don't want to be like not political channels other channels other planes other ways in which we can have curiosity you could always go back what our lives are you could even do the thing where you have two screens going at the same time yeah you could do that yes and and and yeah I think that I hope people look into the foundation because you guys do and I'm rug who doesn't ask me to do this but you guys do some, just you're doing the work

that the world needs right now, friend, you and some other organizations, and boy, I would not want to be in your shoes right now. I would not want to be running a spiritual organization right now. My God, the fires you must be putting out every day. Well, there's a few here, yeah. I mean, yeah. But, you know, honestly, I just have gratitude that are able to do something,

just even the podcast I mean you've been doing these for years and years and you know what sometimes like okay I have to do a podcast I don't know the person I do a little bit of background and then I get on with them and then I look at them I look in their eyes and I'm like wow this is so cool to meet another soul yeah Rondas would put it and find out who they are that's what we need a little bit more curiosity yeah about who we are and who the supposed they are yeah to bring it into a much more healthy human human non-digitized you know even though this is technically digitized this bad example but you know what i mean that's it you're the best rugu i do love you i don't love a lot of

people out there you're one of them and i'm really grateful to you for your generous time that you've given me thank you so much thank you thank you duncan thank you everybody that was ragu marcus everybody listen to his mind rolling podcast all the links you need to order the new romdas book you're going to be down below i love you guys i'll see you later this week aray krishna