Ear Biscuits with Rhett & Link - Rhett's Shipwreck Adventure | Ear Biscuits Ep. 380

Episode Date: May 1, 2023

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up on my Caribbean vacation. Spring break for Shepard. Went down there to try to get close to our other son so that he could join us for a little bit. Had some adventures. I'm going to say that most of the stories that I'm going to tell, apart from a few catastrophic things that happened at the very beginning of the trip. I love catastrophic. It's going to read a little bit like a tourism ad for Grand Cayman.

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If that's triggering, listen away to something else. Are you gonna mention trigger fish? Well, and trigger warning, there is something, I'm not a huge fan of trigger warnings because the world doesn't give you trigger warnings and we all have to live in the world, but you know what? This is a safe space. This is your biscuits. Trigger warning, there's something... I think what you really meant by that was the first trigger warning was... A joke.

If you're gonna complain about me talking about my vacation, just don't listen to this. That's the first thing. And then the second one, I'm gonna be talking about my vacation. The second one is an authentic trigger warning, which is something kind of shocking and disturbing that involved something getting hurt. Really early in the vacation happened,

and I'm gonna tell the story, and it's a little bit funny but mostly tragic. That's not a- It's almost completely tragic. That's not specific enough to make people not listen. I know but if I tell you exactly what it is that happened, I'm gonna give it away too much if I tell you exactly,

if I give you why you should be triggered. Okay, I'm fine with that. So it's just a general thing. I do have a question. Yeah. I just couldn't help but notice that as you were talking to me, I could see your eyes go down to my mouth or my chin.

Is there something here that's distracting you? Do I need to remove something from my face? Just tell me. Oh, oh, oh, oh. It's on your mic, it's not your face. There's just something on your mic. I didn't think it could be seen, so. I wasn't looking at your face. I was looking at your mic. Okay, but I saw that.

Like, that's very disturbing. It was funny, and when you said that, I was like, I haven't looked at his mouth in years. I was looking at your mic. It had a hair on it. I don't believe it was one of yours. Probably somebody else. We share these mics with lots of folks. Well, I think it might've been a dog hair,

which could have been on my face. But before I give you that update. My dog's a good-bye nuzzle before I leave. But before I give you that update, you know, you were left stranded here in Los Angeles without me. I was thriving. So you got any updates?

Actually, I do. I'll spare you having to listen. I mean, you're not going to listen to my solo podcast. I didn't listen to yours. It's totally fine. Of course not. It's totally fine. Yeah.

We see each other enough. Well, I'll put it to you this way. I didn't plan it, but at the beginning, I kind of, I don't know, things just kind of ramped up very quickly, and I kind of went gangbusters. You? Yeah, me. Can you believe? You went gangbusters?

I went into this mode, tangents that had tangents that had tangents, and I just couldn't, I couldn't stick with it. And I think, you know, at one point I said, you know what, I'm not, later when I was talking about my anxiety, I was like, you know what, I don't, I think that's when I said it. I'm not, I wasn't nervous at all about doing the podcast on my own. I would typically be very apprehensive about it. But I think subconsciously I was like, oh, I better fill every second. And there was something subconscious going that like the first 25 minutes of the podcast was talking about 18 things at once. And part of it was a bit of a performance experiment. You know?

What if I went to more of like an impassioned, yelly voice? Isn't that what solo podcasters are supposed to do? I don't know. Do you listen to any solo podcasters? No. And the other thing was that, I guess because I couldn't interrupt you or be interrupted by you, it could happen. No comment.

I just thought I would interrupt myself again and again and again. And I think that was kind of part of the bit. Sounds like a pleasure. I hate I missed it. It was kind of part of the bit in my mind, I think think was like, you know, nobody's here for me to interrupt What if I just kept interrupting myself? That could be funny. That's that sounds cool matter of fact

I think I remember saying on the podcast at the 25 minute mark or so I was like, you know what? I'm not i'm not gonna use my entertainer voice anymore I don't I was using some voice now. I'm gonna go back to'm not going to use my entertainer voice anymore. I was using some voice. Now I'm going to go back to being my normal self. You used an entertainer voice? That's what I called it. Maybe I got to listen to this. Maybe I'll carve out something in the schedule.

I had fun. I've seen some feedback that people had fun. It was like, what's going on here? But I'm here for it, is what some people said. But yeah, then I was like, all right, let's settle down. Let's get into some realer. I would go into more my actual real mode. Okay.

Kind of like what I'm doing right now. This is real mode? This is real mode, homie. All right. So one of the things that I did want to clear up, there was one question about how I deal with anxiety, and I ended up sharing about how I decided to go off my anxiety medication. And as I felt, and I gave all the reasons.

You know the reasons because I've told you. So you don't have to listen to that. And I basically presented it as I'm seeing it, which is this is an information gathering exercise. I'm not saying anything negative about being on anxiety medication or positive about getting off of it. Like it, it was, it was just an experiment, an experiment of, do I, do I still need this as, as a part of my anxiety regimen along with the other, along with the other things, therapy, talking and sharing and getting feedback from trusted family and friends and things of that nature. And I just want to go ahead and give you an update.

I'm back on the medication. Like, it's a little weird because, like, I think the way I presented it was, and this is going well. And I don't know if that's exactly how, I think that's how I came across. And that's what Because I remember it was kind of around that time. Was that February? Early February. Yeah, early February. So I know I was going off of it about that same time, or I was about to. So it's been a couple of months. And I just started observing that I've been really on edge, that I've been really having a difficult time not being reactive.

And part of it is, okay, was it me just going off the medication? Is this a transition period? And this is some of the symptoms of that. period and this is some of the symptoms of that but um because it had been a little bit longer and i just felt like there was this it wasn't like the heart palpitations didn't come back like that was the thing i talked about as being a definitive thing that like that would be an obvious reason for me to go back on the anxiety medication because i it definitely helped with that and that was easy to measure. But short of that, like being more attentive to how my brain is working and how I'm interacting with people and just having a short fuse and even throwing a few tantrums, you know,

You know Getting mad and kicking stuff Punching a thing Like this is not This is not something that I want to be a part of my life And I'm like why Okay I'm gathering this information

But do I Am I playing into this trope of like Well I'm doing so much better, now I don't need the medication, but it's really the medication that's making me better, right? Very, very common. Very common, I think. I had to find out for myself, and I have.

And I was like, you know what? I don't experience side effects of taking Sertraline slash zoloft so for me what would be the reason to not be on it if i've been experiencing the benefits and now i actually know that i'm missing those benefits and i think honestly there's um there was there's still this element of i guess shame is the right word, of like, oh, you're taking a medication every day for your, to balance your mood or to help with your anxiety. It just seems like, I don't know, there's something,

there is a voice there that's like, yeah, if you were this, if you were just better in this way, then you wouldn't need this. I mean, there's a cultural, that's what, there's a stigma associated with any mental health aid. Exactly. It's just like, you know, if your knee wasn't,

if your knee was built a little bit differently and you weren't having this issue with it, you wouldn't need to wear this brace every day. It's like, you know, no one in their right mind would say that to somebody or should say that to themselves. Shout out to the knee issue people. Oh, I'm one of those. And the other part of going off of it, the main part I thought was the curiosity of it,

but I just had to be honest and say there's still a bit of stigma that is still deep within there, that little voice. And you know what? I'm not going to listen to it. So I've only been back on it for like five days now. And I am surprised at it. I won't say it's a night and day difference, but I am surprised with how much I notice the difference,

a positive impact. Just my level of positivity and my ability to weather crinkles, life crinkles. Right. I would fixate on these things. weather crinkles, you know, life crinkles. Right. You know, I would fixate on these things. I would sink my teeth into it. And then if there were like three crinkles in a row in my day,

you know, something happens in traffic, then you say something that I take sideways when I get into work, and then I feel like I didn't do a good job when I was recording a podcast or doing something well then it's like three strikes I'm out and then I just felt like I was I could I couldn't get over the hump anymore like I couldn't get in a place where I could um engage with my life in a positive way and I think that it was was, because it's so subtle, it's easy to write off and to minimize, but I just want to acknowledge it, you know, I think, because I do think it's a common experience to go through. And yeah, if you've been on something for a while and you feel like it's hard to measure, you're like, well, is this working? I actually feel very confirmed in being on the medication as a result of this experiment.

Information finding excursion. finding excursion. And so, yeah, I thought it was important that I tie a bow on that because it's just so funny that it's like, it happens so quickly in the podcast. It was like, it almost feels like, oh, I'm doing this and then I changed my mind. But the timeline was such that it had been a while. It was more time had passed than the podcast schedule indicates. Yeah, so. Well, welcome back.

Anxiety med for the win. Welcome back, Link. For this win. Yeah, I mean, you know, because you talked to Jessie a little bit about this. I mean, because she's had experience, you know, both trying to experiment early on in her life. I mean, she's been on SSRIs for 20 years,

but earlier, like she got off of them for both pregnancies. And then like six months after the pregnancy. So she was like a little double whammy of like postpartum depression and also being off of her meds. And she's, you know, it's made a huge difference for her. So she, you know, like, she told you this? I was talking to her.

I wanted to talk to her because I was like, I'm thinking about doing this. I'm actually planning on doing it. What's your input? And like, she didn't have to say anything. Like I'm actually planning on doing it. What's your input? And like, she didn't have to say anything. Like she had this look on her face. It was like, I'm going to be supportive and I'll be positive,

but my own experience dictates it. You have to find out for yourself. I mean, it's not like something that, and again, you're also not saying that if you're on an SSRI that you should be or have to be on them forever as a blanket statement because everybody's different. Everybody responds to them differently.

Okay, let's talk. So there we go. Wasn't that good? Yeah, that was great. It was great, man. Wasn't that good? You haven't snapped at me at all today. Did you, I mean, had you noticed?

I would say. Here I'm going again with some feedback. Let's just keep this short. No, no, you talked about that one moment where you punched that thing. We were filming the Rhett and Link channel video. Another video. That has a portable radio.

I do remember showing up and seeing you sitting there because you'll see, we'll talk about the video, but the whole point of the video is that we're apart and then we're together. And when I like showed up, there was a look on your face that was like, he's not in a great place right now. Yeah.

He's not happy right now. And I can imagine that he might get mad at somebody or me, if something goes sideways. But I had a smile on my face. And then you took it out on the boom box. Do you remember I had a smile on my face at that moment? I was really thinking, I'm gonna to put a smile on my face. Well, you know what?

That helps sometimes. I know. I was trying, like, literally, that's what I was doing. But you saw through that. And then, if you're a member of the Mythical Society, there's a Nick shot a piece with just me before you got there. That's going to be on the Mythical Society.

Oh. And, yeah, I was not at my best. Did you take it out on Nick? A little bit, but I think I was just like, I mean, you can watch that video through the lens of me just being at wit's end. It was a very demanding day. It was.

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with live trip tracking and highly rated drivers. Add your teen to your Uber account today. Add your team to your Uber account today. Okay. We planned on going to the Caribbean for two reasons. Number one, we had gotten SCUBA certified, you know, and I wanted to be able to go to a great location for that. Caribbean is known to be that. Grand Cayman is also known to be that in particular. And it was a short flight from Miami where Locke is currently residing. And while it was not coincidental to his spring break, he doesn't have class on Friday, so he could fly down on Thursday and be with us

Thursday through Sunday. So basically the last four days or so. Gotcha. So that was the plan. And that plan was executed. Okay, there you go. But the first half of the week or a little bit more than half of a week was just me and Jesse and Shepard.

And you know how when you go to a location where there's not a jet bridge when you get off the plane? Is it just steps? It's just steps. It's just steps into humidity. That's a good sign, right? It's a great sign. It's a great feeling, especially...

Hold on. That's what happens at Burbank. Well, Burbank, I love that about Burbank. I do love a good Burbank. It doesn't always happen at Burbank, does it? No, it always happens. I don't fly enough. I haven't flown into Burbank. It doesn't always happen at Burbank, does it? No, it always happens. I don't fly enough. I haven't flown into Burbank for six or seven years, probably.

There's never a tube. It's just steps. It's great. It's a great feeling. You feel a little bit cooler, because when you see people getting off of private jets, which I've never been on before... Yeah, there's steps. There's no jet bridge. But also, it's been so... I'm going on one Friday. I've never been on before. Yeah, there's steps. There's no jet bridge. I'm going on one Friday. I'm just going to tell you. Well, you're not really going.

I mean, it's not really a private jet. Let's not even go there. But it's been so cold. I've been so looking forward. Now, you might be like, it hasn't been cold. I'm from Minnesota. Okay, well, I'm not. I live in California. I've lived in California for 12 years.

I've completely adjusted, and it's been rainy and unusually cold. Every morning we wake up, even this morning it was 45 degrees when I woke up, but every single morning, it's in the 30s or 40s for months on end. And that's just not why anybody lives out here, okay? There's a lot of things we tolerate out here, like massive traffic, air pollution, so many people, et cetera. Fires. Incredibly high prices for living here. But one of the reasons we tolerate all that. Entitled rich people.

Is for the weather. For the weather. The weather has sucked. And everybody's leaving. Also, you're only as good as your accomplishments. Well, yeah, that's a vibe that we often get around here. But I looked at the weather in Grand Cayman, and it was going to be a high of 82 and a low of 78 the entire time that we were there.

That's quite... A four-degree window. That's a tight window. A four-degree window. And listen, that's my temp. I's a tight window. A four degree window. And listen, that's my temp. I like it a little toasty. You know, 72 and sunny, that's LA when it's perfect, and that is great.

But for me, 80 degrees, man. 80 degrees is a great temperature, especially when the sun goes down. I think I'm more of a 76 guy. I don't know. If it's 79 and 80 and it's not. I think I'm more of a 76 guy. I don't know, I love just a sweatin' just a little bit.

Just sweatin' just a little bit. 74 and sunny? I like it when you feel like you gotta be naked to get to the right temperature. Okay. Okay. Okay. So we get off of the plane, and of course, this is how they do in Caribbean places at

airports. There's like a guy on a steel drum outside of the airport. On the tarmac? On the tarmac, under a tent, playing as you get there. Because again, it's about the vibe. It's getting to the spirit of vacation. You're here to relax, or you're here to shelter some money offshore at a bank. That's not why I was there in Grand Cayman. Did you see people sheltering money offshore at a bank. You know, that's not why I was there in Grand Cayman. Did you see people sheltering money? No, but it's known as that. It's a tax-free haven. A lot of people... You have to bring it in suitcases?

I don't think that's how it works. It's probably electronic transfers. I would hope. But people have headquarters there. But anyway, to get the Caribbean vibe going, and I'm feeling so good that I... And Jessie was like, don't, don't. And I begin... I'm dancing. I'm dancing off of the plane. And I didn't so good that I, and Jesse was like, don't, don't. And I begin, I'm dancing. I'm dancing off of the plane. And I didn't even know I was doing it. I was so happy that it was warm.

That's when you fell. No, I did not fall. That's not when the tragedy happened. But one of the guys, one of the security guys pointed at me and nodded. He was like, you know what's up. You know what I'm saying? He wasn't embarrassed for me. He knew what, I knew what was up. Right, what I'm saying? He wasn't embarrassed for me.

He knew what, I knew what was up. Right. I mean. I'm getting into the mood, man. I know what you were there for. And then of course I have to like be in the customs line for almost an hour. Come on. What do you think I'm trying to do here?

I'm just here to have a good time. Bring in seeds. I'm not, yeah, I'm not trying to plant foreign vegetables, you know, or bring like a little rabbit that's going to take over your whole island. I did think about that though. If I brought a couple of rabbits, you know, like invasive rabbits. Uh-huh.

You thought about that. Think about the damage that I could do, man. I'd probably go to jail for a long time, but- I would hope so. You could like make an island be known for a specific species of rabbit and be like, you know, that's the McLaughlin rabbit. He took a chance one time, he brought a couple onto the island, he's in jail now,

but all these rabbits are named after him. I don't know, it's just something to think about. It's a big problem. It's not anything that I did, though. And then there's the whole tourist industry around like, come to the island to kill the rabbits. It's rabbit hunting, yeah. All you want, rabbits do all day long.

Get some Elmer Fudd action. I'm in a great mood. I'm having a great time. It's difficult, as I've established before on this particular podcast, it's difficult for me to get into vacation mode because of the way my brain works. And a lot of times I see vacation as an opportunity to just get all the other stuff done, like the mental work related to our work, the creativity, write something, whatever, plan something. But I'm kind of in a good place with that right now

and I feel, you know, we're prioritizing our, we're trying to prioritize our creative time and our creative energy and that kind of thing. So I felt less pressure to be like, I gotta come back from this vacation with seven great ideas, which is typically how I do. So just so you know, I didn't have any ideas on vacation. I'm glad. It was about me having a good time and connecting with my family. Good.

And we're feeling great as we get into the taxi to go to the resort. Now, Grand Cayman is a small island. There's about 75. This is something that I do when I get on an island as I immediately go to the Wiki entry and I start getting facts. Kind of like the old guy in front of me at the John Mayer concert.

I wouldn't do that at a concert. I'd freaking look down. I wouldn't do that. I would never do that. It's like I got blasted in the face by like the brightest light ever during the first song of his show. And it's a guy seated checking his email. He should be escorted out.

And then I was like... I called him the F word to Christy with an ER on the end. I was like, if this F worder doesn't shape up... But you didn't call it to his face. I'm going to have to say something to him. And then in the next song, I get blasted in the face again with a bright light, and I look down over his shoulder. Second song of the freaking concert.

He's on John Mayer's Wikipedia page. Reading. Like, getting up to speed. Okay, I've checked my email, and I'm going to figure out who's... Who is this guy? Who is this guy that I'm at his concert? Don't drag me into this, because that's not what I was doing, okay? I wasn't at a John Mayer concert. I'm getting in a... I'm in a taxi.

I'm on the way to the resort, and I usually do this... Let me get some facts. Before I get there, because I'm fascinated by islands, not just because you can overpopulate them with foreign rabbits, but because of the isolation and the history, and just the fact that it is an island, weird stuff happens on islands. Weird evolutionary things happen, and then there's also cultural evolution, but then there's this specific history of every island.

And I was like, okay, what's the deal with Grand Cayman? You know, that's what I said it just like that in my brain. And I looked it up and there's like 75,000 people who live there. It does not have any, there are no native people that were ever there as far as they know. Okay. Meaning the first people showed up.

As tourists. In like the, I don't know, I can't remember if it was the 1600s or the 1700s, but like pretty late, pretty late. Okay. And it was a bit of like a ragtag group of people. It was kind of a lawless society. And there was a bunch of different people that were there for all kinds of different reasons and all their descendants or many of their descendants still live there and

that's the people of grand cayman it's pretty interesting but also it's it's part of the commonwealth so it's the queen is on the money and um there's a lot of british people there there's a lot of indian people there as well because it it was part of the Commonwealth back in the day. And anyway, so I'm kind of like, I'm asking questions to the cab driver and I'm like, are you from here? Like, did you grow up here? Like, what's it like? Oh, wow.

And we are three minutes into the ride. Okay, this is where the trigger warning comes in. Yeah, and we're 30 minutes into this podcast. Three minutes into the- Don't make a note of that. But let me just say, you know what, just see if you can get through it. I just invite you to get through this story.

I'm nervous. And we're going, we're on the road, and there's a bunch of taxis, and there are all these sort of big vans, right? The taxis are all just vans. It doesn't matter how many people are in your party, you're gonna get into a van. And there's a van in front of us, which is another taxi.

And we're kind of just like looking around the island and then we see a cat come out into the road in front of the van. I'm in a great mood. I'm in a great mood. I'm having a great time. We're all laughing. And we see this cat get absolutely demolished by this van in front of us. Okay?

And we have a few seconds of watching the last moments of this cat's life, right? And it is just soul crushing. It takes all the air out of this cat's life, right? And it is just soul-crushing. It takes all the air out of the van. It completely stops the conversation. You know what? You gave a trigger warning. Be more specific. Everybody... What was he doing? What was the cat doing? Well, you remember that time? Yeah. Don't talk about it.

That you hit, accidentally hit that animal, and then we sat there and watched it die? Yeah. It was like that, except we were able to drive past it, as opposed to just sit there and watch it. We didn't have to be told to leave. It was awful. And I'm not, you know, as you can imagine, I'm not particularly sensitive to this kind of thing

on the spectrum of people, right? I'm not saying I, there's nothing about it that I enjoy. I don't like cats, but I do not like any animal to experience any discomfort. But for, for Jesse, this was, this was like, it's like, it, it, it risked coloring the vacation like significantly, right? Because it was just shocking. And we just sat there in silence for like 10 minutes as we got to the hotel and I was like, damn it. That was it. I was like, what does that mean?

What was Shepherd's take? Shepherd was like, he was in shock, but he also, he's like me, and so that he was thinking about the fact that it was like, Shepard, he was in shock, but he also like, he's like me, and so that he was thinking about the fact that it's like, it's so tragic, it's horrible, I can't believe we saw that, but you kind of have to like, be like, isn't it crazy that that just happened? That we got off of the freaking, we're all excited,

and this fucking cat gets killed in front of us? Like, it's, you have to kind of laugh just to kind of get through it. That's kind of where his brain works like mine, right? It's tragic, so like, ha ha. So, at that point I was like, what does this mean? Yeah, let's redeem this with meaning. And I decided that it meant nothing. Oh.

I decided that it meant that a cat got in front of a car and got killed. And it's horrible, but it happens, and I don't have anything to do with it, and it's not gonna impact my vacation. It wasn't your car. And then when I showed up at the hotel and I heard some more steel drums,

I forgot all about that damn cat. I forgot all about the cat. Well, it wasn't your cat. It wasn't my cat. Honestly, I don't think it was anybody's cat. I think it was the island's cat. You know what I'm saying? There's many of them, including, there's also lots of chickens that roam free, kind of like Kawhi.

So anyway, I believe that was his ninth life, just based on the situation with both of the wheels. It was his eighth and ninth life. Oh my God. And it was horrible, but it did not, it threatened to ruin the vibe, but it didn't. I was able to get the vibe back once we got to the hotel. That could be your new cold shower image though. Oh, you mean when you're trying not to ejaculate?

Yeah. Oh. That's redemptive right there. I just think about Richard Nixon. Use it for your own sexual performance. I'm not a crook. That's what I think about when I'm trying not to ejaculate. He gets me soft so fast.

Uh-huh. So anyway, I would- Now if that starts to change, that's the risk. Hey, there's nothing- That is the risk. Hey, listen. That's a big risk. I'm open, I'm fluid, man. If all of a sudden I'm attracted to Richard Nixon, I'll do something about it.

What? Don't answer that. So the thing that I was most excited about was the scuba diving, of course. And I was... You're welcome. And it's funny how having something planned on a vacation... I mean, first of all, having something planned on a vacation is one of the ways that I feel secure because of things about my personality.

Like having reservations at good restaurants, important to me. Having the activities planned, important to me. I'm very much like Stevie in this regard. Stevie is even better at this than I am. If Stevie's going on a trip with us, she takes full charge of everything that we're going to do. It's great. This restaurant, this restaurant.

But I'm that person in my family. I'm the planner. Because I'm in a family of non-planners. And I'm not much of a planner in general. But no, I kind of enjoy it. I kind of enjoy it because I'm like, oh guys, on Thursday night we're going to the highest rated restaurant on the island, you know, and I attach.

The rabbit is succulent. Anticipate, I anticipate those things. It just makes you feel like, okay, well, if all else fails, we've got these things that we're gonna do, and we will have had a good time. It's a little dad-ish, I realize that. But I was thinking about. You are a dad. Yeah, I am a dad, I It's a little dad-ish, I realize that. But I was thinking about- You are a dad.

Yeah, I am a dad. I'm just fulfilling the role. I was thinking about these two scuba diving trips. So Tuesday and Thursday, Shepherd and I were gonna go on two dives. Nice. And as I told you in a previous podcast, I was very excited about the shipwreck dive, right?

Yeah. But we go up to the place which was literally attached to the hotel, the place where you register. Okay. It was so convenient. The scuba diving place and water sports place. Just checking in. We want to get fitted for, you know, our shorties, or sorry, short wetsuits or whatever, you know, the stuff that your fins mask. And they're like, how old is that one, Shepard? And I was like, 14. He was like, well, unfortunately, he cannot go on the shipwreck dive because it's too deep.

As an open water certified scuba diver age 14, 60 feet is the maximum depth and you need, this is a 65 foot deep. 17, you could go? 15, he can go. There's a gradation. Okay. As you get older, you can go deeper.

I don't know exactly what that is. Need to look into that, but they're like, it's 14, you can't do this. So I was immediately like, oh man, that first the cat, and now this. This complication. But I was also like, you know what? We're going to have a great time. All we dove in was California water, which was cold and wasn't that clear.

We're in warm water, 170 feet of visibility. 170 feet. It's like being in air. So I was a little disappointed. Now, the guy checking us in eventually is like, why do you look so familiar? And I was like, I don't ever like to be presumptuous. But I was like, do you watch a lot of internet videos?

He was like, oh yeah, the guys at the desk. The guys at the desk. The guys who eat. And it turns out a lot of Mythical Beasts, full-time residents of Grant-Kamen, a lot of Mythical Beasts, we have infiltrated the island, Link. Nice. And I'm not saying that's why

the next thing that happened happened. Oh. But he did call me later that day and say, hey, you know what? I think we can do the shipwreck dive. It's just that Shepard is not going to be able to go into the bottom of the ship. He can go into the top of the ship. Oh, okay. So we'll have to make some adjustments or whatever.

But that was the Thursday dive, right? That was the Thursday dive. So I'm gonna show you some video. This is gonna get very visual and interactive. For those of you just listening, this is why you might wanna- Skip over to YouTube. You might wanna go to YouTube and watch.

Ear Biscuits channel. But I took this, now don't get too excited. This is my first time, this is one of my first, this is my first time like is one of my first This is my first time Like recreational diving Past my training

And I'm also trying to be a Diving cinematographer With a camera that I just bought But the way this thing works Is it's a 360 camera Inside of a dive case So it Because it's in the dive case

Like it's You're gonna see There's this thing on the screen where it's like the bottom of the camera. And then I had to put it through software where I select the 16 by 9 frame that I actually want to display on my computer so that it kind of will be making some choices.

It's cool. You don't have to point the camera at the time. You decide what you want to, so to speak, point it at. Yeah. In the first dive, I just left the camera on the whole time. I learned my lesson. That's too much footage. It's like 45 minutes of footage.

So I did do the work. So I'll just show you. I'm gonna start, the first dive was just a reef dive, right? Okay. So there's nothing too special here. This is just a moment in which we encountered a turtle. As you can see that- What is that thing?

I've got the thing floating. So this is, it's on a thing. It's just on a tether floating, right? Oh, so that's the bottom of the case. And so I just wanted, I started the video like this to show you, now I see, oh, I'm gonna grab this thing, and here's this turtle that you can see right there. Everybody's like,

there's a freaking turtle. And of course, this is like the whole group that we're diving with. And then in the software, you can actually track the turtle. So you can just make the turtle be the center of the screen.

And then as long as the turtle is there, it'll just keep, it'll keep tracking them. I don't know exactly what that was where it zoomed in for a second because I don't quite understand the software yet. But this was pretty much the most exciting thing.

Is that Shepard in front of you? No, Shepard is... With all that hair? No, Shepard is over to my right. You might see him in a second. So, not much to see there. You can kind of see, oh, it's pretty clear, it's beautiful. But this was just kind of like adjusting and getting and getting into the groove right then

we the guy was like we're actually for our second dive we're gonna go to a shipwreck already

we're gonna go to a shipwreck and so this shipwreck that you're about to see I can't remember you know honestly I can't remember the name of it right now I wrote it down somewhere

it's in my dive log on my dive computer. But this is a shipwreck that has completely disintegrated. And I'm going to basically... So it's like pieces on the bottom. The whole thing is just disintegrated. This is the uncut video, so I'll just kind of scrub through. There's the engine right there. There's Shepard.

Shepard having a great time. Did they tell you not to touch the stuff? Basically, the guy was just like, just watch yourself. But then you can see the stern of the boat over here. Look, the stern of the boat, there's Shepard, the stern of the boat is over here by itself. And this is pretty cool.

So one of the things that- What kind of boat was this? Do you know? I think it was just like a fishing boat or whatever. So as you can see, like we're going up here to the little holes in the boat. See, I'm just kind of teasing you a little bit here. Like this is what it looks like to be on the outside of a shipwreck.

That's cool. But you can see how the camera adjusts once we put it in through this hole, like how it adjusts to the light and you can actually see, you'll see in a second the camera adjusts once we put it in through this hole, like how it adjusts to the light and you can actually see, you'll see in a second, as it adjusts and like, oh, we're inside of a boat there. Now you can't go inside this, right? But over here outside of the boat,

there are these bicycles. Bicycle? Bicycles on the floor of the ocean. And the guy said that the reason there's bicycles on the floor of the ocean is that there was a time in which people who were divers or dive instructors on the island would be leaving and they would ride, they had their bikes that they had been using to get around and their diving equipment and stuff. And they would like, they would throw their bikes and stuff off of a ship as they were leaving, because they didn't need it anymore.

Well, that sucks. And so, they're just on the floor of the ocean. Okay, so that's basically day one, was seeing that reef and then seeing the ship, and we get back and we're like, I'm happy that there was no real complications, we had a great time, I'm looking at the footage in the hotel, I'm like, yeah, I got some, I'm looking at the footage in the hotel,

I'm like, yeah, I got some good footage, I can show that on the podcast, feeling good. Feeling good. And I've gotten the call about going, but we can actually go on the shipwreck and- And then another cat. We show up on Thursday and you know what, I'll tell you another, there was something else

that happened that was a little bit negative. Yeah, good. Okay, and that was actually the- You need to complain a little bit more about your vacation. The Monday before the first dive. I forgot about this, but this was another sign that maybe things could go wrong. So Shepard and I were just getting started

and we knew we were looking forward to the scuba diving, but there's all the water sports right there on the beach, right? And I'm like, yeah, all this stuff is free. You can just like, you can paddleboard, you can snorkel right here out next to the resort. And he's like, dad, I want a jet ski. Can I jet ski?

Can we jet ski? And I was like, we'll jet ski tomorrow. Because I think this is actually Sunday. So I was like, yeah, we'll jet ski tomorrow. Hey, like, we're just getting like, hey, calm down a little bit. I was like, let's go snorkel at this spot that these people have told us is like a 10 minute walk

down where it was more of a reef. And so first of all, like there's a little bit of like teen upset coming from Shepherd about not getting to jet ski today, you know? And I was like, dude, come on, don't be an ass. Like you don't have to jet ski right now. Let's have a good time. And so then we're walking and about, I don't know,

a minute into the walk, my knee really starts bothering me. Oh, your knee, you're a knee person. I've got bad knees in general, tall guy stuff, but- Wear a brace is fine. The left knee, my right knee is the one that I've hurt multiple times and also like screwed up while skiing and has tendonitis. But my left knee hasn't been bad. But then when I was scuba diving training and I tried to get out of the water on those steps in Catalina and realized, holy shit, this stuff is heavy.

Yeah. I put all my weight on that one leg and was kind of in this squatty position and like my knees started hurting and it's been a little bit, it's not bad, it's just been a little bit off. But you know how when you're walking on the beach and it's kind of sloped and you're walking uneven and it's like, it's sand. It's hard but it's soft and... It's a beach, I've been on it. And just something about that exacerbated my knee.

And so then I'm starting to get a little upset. And I'm also a little upset because Shepherd's a little upset with me for us having to walk to this thing, instead of jet skiing right now! Okay. And I'm like, my knee's hurting! We gotta get to this thing, and then I'm like, I don't even know where this thing is.

They said it- Poor McLaughlin's. They said it was the governor's beach, where the thing was. It's like, where's the governor's thing? And he's like, I think it's right up here. I was like, listen, let's just turn around and take a cab. So now we walk back, my knee's hurting, and we get into a cab and the cab drives us

basically like 20 feet from where we ended up turning around. And then we snorkel there and it was cool. But then we start walking, I'm like, we can walk back, my knee hurts, but it'll be fine. 20 feet cab ride. Yeah, we get back to the beach where Jesse's hanging out. And at that point I realized,

because I had been carrying my flip-flops and my camera and my snorkel and my mask and a bag, that somewhere along the way I had dropped one of my flip-flops. Yeah. Lost a flip flop. And then I was like, am I gonna really go back with this bum knee and try to find this flip flop? Or do I need flip flops, really?

I've got some other, like, slip on things I just wear. All right. So I lost a flip flop. So there was the dead cat and then a lost flip flop. I'm so sorry for you, Rhett. I was like, I don't know, man. This is really, it could be ruining my vibe. But the main thing that was a problem was

the tension that it was causing between me and Shepherd early on, right? Which is not unusual to have tension with your teenage child. But to be in a place where you, it is a total privilege. You should be. That we are able to afford to be at this place, to afford to be able to take this time off,

to do these things. And I can recognize that as an adult. It's difficult for a kid to recognize that, right? They can. They can understand the concept. But that doesn't mean that once you're there, you really don't want it. You just want to jet ski.

So we ended up jet skiing that day. I was that dad. That was like, you know what? I said, hey, want to jet ski. So we ended up jet skiing that day. I was that dad. That was like, you know what? I said, hey, let's start over. There's no reason for us to be mad at each other. Let's go jet skiing. Of course, he had to be on the back because he's 14. Being 14 sucks.

Oh, yeah. You know, because it's like you're almost able to do all the stuff that you want to do. And you're capable of doing all the stuff that you want to do, but you just can't. So you have to like hold on to your dad's back while he's jet skiing and keep yelling at him to go faster! The whole time he's in my ear, he's like, Dad, go full speed, then take a hard turn! Throw me off! He just constantly wants to be thrown off of the jet ski. And I'm getting more aggressive and more aggressive.

Those things will turn on a dime. They will, but the thing is, they turn so fast that it puts so many Gs on me, and I've got this guy holding on to me that I'm just thinking about my own self-preservation and not hurting my back. Sure, yeah. I'm just thinking about I'm preoccupied. Being a dad's hard. Being a middle-aged dad is hard.

You have it tough. You've got a teenager holding on to your back. You're trying not to get hurt. You're trying to almost throw him off so he'll be satisfied, but not throw him off. And you got one flip-flop. One flip-flop. Well, I was barefoot at the time. Anyway, I think that was actually the jet ski ride is when the things really turned. And I was like, here, we are enjoying. This is about enjoying ourselves. Let's just do it.

And Shepard and I got to a good place. Now that was kind of undone once Locke showed up, which I'll get to in a second. The next thing that we did, so this was the, this is pretty fascinating, this is the, they call it the X USS Kittywake. Because when it's no longer in, you know, being used, it's technically X., you know, being used,

it's technically X. So this is a military ship, not like a giant, I think it's like 200 feet long. It's pretty damn big, you'll see. But this thing was purposely sunk in like 2011. Why? Because Grand Cayman was already a diving destination, but it didn't have any big shipwrecks

like some of the other places around the Caribbean. Okay. This is the one that you, Shepard got, like he slid in. Yeah, so they ended up bringing this thing in back in the day, and they cut holes in the hull, and then they removed things like wires

and sharp things because they were like, this is going to be a coral reef dive site. And so we're gonna make it enjoyable and easy to navigate and not dangerous. And we're gonna sink it in about 40 feet of water so that everyone can dive. Well, then a hurricane came along a few years back, shifted the whole thing around, sent it further out.

And so that's why it's on its side now and it's deeper. And that's why, but you can kind of see, I'll show you, this is just what it looks like coming up to it. So this is a big boat. That's the front of it, of course. Oh, it's kind of on its side, but not- Yeah, we're looking at the bow.

Is that the bow? Is the bow the front? The nose, the front. I think they call it the bow. The stern is the bow. I mean, that is pretty big. There's Shep right there. And you can see that hole.

This is where, and Shepard wasn't allowed to go in there. Now, the other thing that happened on this dive is that when Shepard got into the water, he realized that his BC, his buoyancy compensator, you know that, you're also a dive guy. His inflatable vest. Was leaking. Oh. And they made him come, so he wasted probably like 500 PSI dealing with this thing. Now, kids typically use their air very quickly because they breathe fast and they're darting all around.

So it ended up being the case that the guy. And then, of course, you're doing your thing where you're telling people how much air you've got. We were at the end where we were about to go into the thing. And basically, Shepard was down to like 600. So we had to go, but I was like, all right, we gotta go, but I'm going to, I can't do this. So I told Shepherd, I was like, hold on one second. And I was like, I gotta go into this thing. So I did this.

So you went through the hole. Yeah. In the hole. Yeah, so you'll see once it adjusts here, the light. Oh man, that's cool. So you can see they just cut. It's just like, you could go down that, you can go through. Like, I wanna go back because there's like four levels. I thought you, at a certain point,

you gotta get a special certification to do. Not in this, not, for some reason, not on this one. I don't understand why. Oh man, and then look, there's like the- The top of the boat. The top of the boat. There's actually, I was like, I don't wanna see there anymore, I wanna go through here. I would love to do this,

because this is reminiscent of all of our exploring in the woods and you'd like find a house or an abandoned barn or silo or something, and then you're kind of, you're just kind of exploring, I love the idea, the practice of exploring abandoned things, and to be able to like fly through it.

It's like flying. The great thing about it- I have not done any type of wreck, so. So we- I've been- You know where some of the best wrecks are is North Carolina. Caves. It's fine. The great thing about it... I have not done any type of wreck, so... So, we... I've been, you know... You know where some of the best wrecks are is North Carolina. Caves. But this is a great one because of how big it is, and it's like, I definitely want to go back where Shepard can go from the bottom, and we're, like, more relaxed.

But, so, then we come up, you know, have our hour on the surface, and then, because, you know, you have to have your interval period so that you don't get the bends. And then we went back to the Doc Paulson, another shipwreck. He was like, it's a two shipwreck day. And this is the one that we were able to go inside. This is a smaller shipwreck. And of course, so there's coral and stuff growing all over this.

So it becomes like a habitat. Yeah, so you can see this is a for real shipwreck. Now it's smaller, but it's actually like, it was not planned. This is just a ship that sunk and it's still there. So it's got, and it's falling apart quite a bit and it's got stuff hanging all over the place. Were there any toilets, stoves, or you think,

I don't know, the stuff that you have in a ship, like. I mean, you can see what they're. Sailors nudie posters. No, I mean, this thing's been there forever. You know, so I wanna show you the coolest video is this last one here of, once we're in there and and so Shepard and I basically, I was like, here's Shepard coming out of that thing.

He's having the time of his life. You know, cause it's just like, it's so- He's swimming hard. It's so cool to be, yeah, to access something. I don't see any other divers at this point. Where are they? I killed them all.

No, see, they're outside. For some reason, me and Shepard were always the last ones, like the first ones to go inside and the last ones to leave. I was like, I don't understand what the deal is. It's like, I'm having such a great time in here. People get bored. It was all so new to us, you know?

But so Shepard goes through here and you'll see, this is a cool shot of me going through and you kind of get the, I've shown this to a couple of people who are claustrophobic and they get a little bit freaked out and I guess I'm not claustrophobic because it just, I feel like I'm in something that I shouldn't be. I'm accessing something that I shouldn't be able to.

That is pretty tight. Oh, it's like you're in a crawl space. It's getting shorter and shorter here. Oh, wow. And the cool thing is it's almost like a buoyancy obstacle course because you control, it's not just swimming up and down, but you don't wanna swim to move up and down.

You wanna use your buoyancy control, you know? And if you get good at that, you can. And it's actually your breath. You can save your breath. Or just use your breath as buoyancy control. Yeah, so once I get to a certain depth, I'm just using my breath to go up and down very slowly. So anyway, it was incredible.

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Lincoln wants to, he's thinking about majoring in psychology, going off to college in the fall. And I'm like, you should be a scuba dive guy around the world. That's what you should be. You should be a dive master or you should be a world traveling dive guy. So that then I call you up and I'm like,

hey, where are you at now? I'll meet you. It's some exotic location because it's your job and I'm just coming to visit my son at now? I'll meet you at some exotic location because it's your job and I'm just coming to visit my son. That's not how parenthood works though. They won't do what you asked them to do. Because I said the same thing to Shepard, right? So Shepard, you know.

You know what you should do for a living? Scuba dive. No, no, no. I just asked Shepard because we got to know, the guy who was the captain of our ship both days was an Irish boy from the homeland. And he, I was just, first of all, he's very into NBA basketball.

Like, so, he knew everything about every team and every player. I was just like, I don't know how it came up. I just said something, he asked me, I guess, if I play basketball and I'm from America. And I was like, no, no, no. But they started talking about the Clippers and the playoffs. And then all of a sudden, he gave me so much more than I needed.

Oh. But one of the things I did get, besides all the sports information, was the fact that he had lived in Thailand as a dive instructor for six years. And then he had been in Cayman for like five years. And this is what the dude does every day. I mean, of course, everything gets boring and everything ends up being a job. Right, you gotta put up with these jerk divers like you.

But he's leading the dives. He's doing the dives every day. And I just asked Shepard, I was like, like, would that be fun for you to like, at least for a little bit in your life to like, you know, be like a dive instructor in a location like this? And he was like, I don't think so.

I was like, let's go jet skiing. Faster. You wanna be a jet ski guy? You wanna be a professional jet skier? You don't wanna be a jet ski guy. So Thursday night, Locke shows up from Miami. Okay. And of course, we're all happy to be together as a family. You know, you cherish these moments of all four McLaughlins being in the same place.

But it can be the case that the family dynamic that you unintentionally established is reestablished sometimes when they're all together. intentionally established, is reestablished sometimes when they're all together. And in particular, the dynamic between bros. So there was a couple of barbs that were thrown. I mean, first of it was great. We had a great time. We went out to dinner. You know, because the sunsets are so beautiful,

a lot of the restaurants are like set up so that you can like eat and watch the sunset at the same time. I mean, it was incredible, right? We were having a great time. Yeah. But then I was like, hey. The cat runs by. Night swimming.

I gotta do night swimming. Ever since we did night swimming in Miami all those years ago for the Nerd vs. Geek shoot, I've had this obsession with trying to recapture the perfect night swim that we had. Okay. And the perfect night swim can only happen in a place that is warm.

Oh yeah. And the water is warm. Of course. So, and there's very little rules in this hotel. Like you could go out to the beach and swim around and there's no lifeguards. Cause it's kind of like the way that the island is situated in the Caribbean,

it's blocked by all these other islands. And so it's like a lake. There's, I never saw a wave the whole week. Really? Never a wave. Oh, okay. And the tide only oscillates like a very, I don't know how tight,

I know the tide is caused by Poseidon in the sea, but I don't know exactly how it works. And I don't know why it's more in other sea, but I don't know exactly how it works. And I don't know why it's more in other places, like why it can be seven feet some places. It's like a foot here. I don't know why. You didn't read that far in the Wikipedia. No, no, I lost interest.

But I was like, there's these platforms, these inflatable, inflatable, inflatable, and by definition, floatable platforms out in the ocean that people lounge on during the day. I was like, let's swim out to one of those at night and hang out on the platform. Oh yeah. So we go out there and- Was Jesse with you?

No, just me and the boys. And let the boys have their fun. And so we go out there and of course, I'm trying to get them to be scared of sharks like a dad would do. Nighttime, sharks, they feed at nighttime you know and so that's freaking him out a little bit we get on the platform and then uh shepherd just being you know a little brother has the idea hey my big bro is back in town i'm gonna knock him off of the platform. You know, it's just what brothers do. Well, Locke was not ready for this.

Shepard pushes him off the platform. Locke falls into the water. He tries to get back up. He's trying to grab Shepard. In the process, Shepard ends up hitting him in his face with his foot, and then he takes Shepard, throws him in the water, and I'm like, hey, guys, break it up!

And so we all kinda sit there for a second in silence. Again, it was another moment of silence, like for the cats. Seething. And I was like, okay guys, listen. And I was like, Locke, Shepard was just, you know, he's happy that you're here. He's trying to connect with you. He's doing what brothers do.

He's throwing you into the water. It's a love lick, right? You've already been in the water. It's not like you were in a ghetto. And he's like, but I think he may have given me a concussion when he kicked me. And I was like, I don't think he gave you a concussion. I think everyone's gonna be fine, but hey, let's just say,

we all love each other, let's just get along. So we sat there after my speech and I was like, and sorry for yelling at you, but you were being assholes. And did you make them hug? No, we just sat there for a little bit. Hug. And then we started talking about something else and we got over it. So we kind of corrected course.

You know, there's always, you're adjusting to a new environment. That's right. But we- You gotta be nimble. We had planned some group activities. With the life crinkles. The last two group activities that I will share, we had planned for when Locke was going to be there.

And the first thing was we were going to go to the number one tourist attraction in all of Grand Cayman, and it's Stingray City. No, it's better than Putt-Putt. Stingray City, huh? So this is a place that, again, there's a history, and it's actually a relatively recent history. There's a place out on a sandbar. The whole island is shaped like a giant C, like the letter C, but really more of a U if you're thinking about North being at the top.

And if you go to kind of the top of the U, it's where, I guess, thousands, millions of years ago, it was probably just a full island, but now it's just a very shallow sandbar. The O became a U. And there's these stingrays that traditionally came out there because the fishermen would be cleaning their fish after a day. Oh.

And the stingrays would come and eat. And so they got very friendly and familiar. And then it turned into essentially a tourist attraction because it's very calm. It wasn't that calm the day we were there, very shallow. And you're surrounded by stingrays the size of this table. What? Hundreds of them.

Show me the footage. So I don't, the footage of this was bad. It was like, I just think it's, you know what I'll do? I will Google Stingray City and find a more compelling picture for you. And then take credit for it. Than anything. So were you wading in the water or were you snorkeling

or did you have to take a boat out? It's like this. It's like standing in this water. But did you walk off the beach to this? No, you take a boat. They take a long boat ride. Okay. Not a long boat ride, but you know.

So like on our day, there was about this many people out there. I mean, we're talking like a couple of hundred people just like standing in knee deep, thigh deep water. And then like this guy, one of the guys who's with you, because they know how to hold them, will begin hugging one of them. And you can come up and you can stroke it.

Did you stroke it? Oh, I stroked it. Oh, he actually, then he basically, they're so friendly and they're just, they're so used to people. And again, I think it's a transactional thing because they're like, we get fed. Yeah.

So we gotta put up with these people, you know? So they give us the food and we let them play with us. He'll give it to you. And so I was holding it, I was holding one like that. Again, Jessie had the camera. She didn't really know how to work it. Okay, that's it. There's not good footage of this, so it's not even worth showing it to you. But you can imagine, just picture me being that guy

holding the stingray. Okay, yeah. It was pretty awesome. I mean, getting to enter, I felt a little bit like, is this like swimming with dolphins? Is this like, are we exploiting these animals? And then the guy was like, I don't know, I'm not little bit like, is this like swimming with dolphins? Is this like, are we exploiting these animals?

And then the guy was like, each one of these stingrays, based on the amount of money that this particular site brings in for tourism, it has been calculated that each one of these stingrays is worth a million dollars. Based on how many they are, of them that there are, and how expensive all the trips because there's hundreds of people

paying hundreds of dollars every single day constantly to go out there. I'm sure there's people who don't like the idea of this. That didn't help, but it is what it is. Now, the next night, basically the last night, so we did that like the next to last day. Then the last night, basically the last night, so we did that like the next to last day. Then the last night, we did something called the bioluminescent bay.

Oh, so we're talking about night glowing what? I'll show you the pictures in a second. Again, my camera is not sensitive enough to get these photos, so I've just got some, you know, there's just, you can Google these photos as well. But basically this is a, some rich dude a long time ago in the 80s dug out a lagoon on one part of the island.

And so it's like a manmade circular lagoon on one part of the island. And so it's like a man-made circular lagoon with all these really nice properties around it. Freshwater. No, it's the ocean. It's like inside of a bay. Okay. And then they created a bay inside of this bay. Gotcha.

Sure, it caused great environmental damage, but it was done 40 years ago. So now the people just live around it. And then the hurricane that came, another hurricane, brought a bunch of sand into it and created the perfect conditions for it to be just shallow enough and also isolated as this lagoon kind of, it's connected to the beach, but like, I don't know, this life, this bioluminescent, these little organisms, which the guy said what they were,

and I'm sure you can look it up, I can't remember the name. There's like a million of them in a cubic foot of water. And they don't even really understand how it works, or they understand how it works, they don't understand why when you agitate them by moving your hand through the water, it lights up.

What? Oh my gosh. So, and by the way, so Jesse, this is all four of us. It looks like light dust. Yeah, and see this right here, like where you, so you wear a mask and you go under the boat that the guy brings you out on,

because it's even darker under there, and you put your hand under the water, and you put your face under the water so you can see it, and you can see individual little things. I would just take my finger and just go like this, really, really moving, and there would be five, six, ten of these little light things, and you go whoosh, like they would explode into light. It was so crazy. I was like, and I felt... And you were holding your breath.

Like such a great dad. Oh, you did? When the boys kept saying, this is the coolest thing I've ever done. Like they were just, and it was the last night. There you go. Coolest thing they've ever done. And highly recommend that.

And then- A cat swam by. And then we took, no cats. And then we took a taxi to get some jerk chicken at this barbecue stand on the side of the road that was hard to find, but it was like, everybody's like, you gotta get the jerk chicken from this place.

We wrapped up the evening. So you had the bioluminescent stuff on your body. Did you take a shower? That's not how it works, man. You don't know. I'm sure there was some of that stuff was just stuck to you. Yeah, but. Some of those beans.

Just like any, but there's all kinds of stuff in all kinds of water all the time. I know, but did you shower? I took very few showers. So that's a no. I think I took two showers in eight days because it's Beach Bud, I got Beach Bod, you know what I'm saying?

That's not what Beach Bod is. Beach Bod is not a non-showered person. It was, as a matter of fact, because of my long hair and Shepard's long hair, when his hair is even curlier than mine, I didn't do any, I did very little hygiene

because I was in the salt water, in the sun. It was wonderful. It's good for your skin. I did a little hygiene. And nobody complained. My wife didn't complain. I mean, I wore deodorant

and I showered at two intervals throughout the thing. Are you saying that if you go on a beach vacation, you shower every single day? I mean, there's a lot of people going to be with me. You come in off the beach, man. Yeah, you're going to shower off the sand and the salt water. No, I would get under the shower next to the beach to get the salt water off. Okay. all right.

But I wouldn't like be, I'm gonna go up to the room and put soap on my body right now. I was like, I don't see the point. You know what I'm saying? All right. Except like twice. When you went through customs, did you tell them about the bioluminescent beans

that were all over your body because you had not showered? No, they're prepared for that. Here's the thing, is I noticed my hair was getting really matted, not matted, but like, you know, oh man, boy, when I get back home, I'm really gonna have to spend some time with my hair. It's like sometimes you just don't wanna take the time in the middle of the vacation to take the 45 minutes

that it'll take to brush out your hair in the shower, like with a conditioner in it. And I was like, I'm on vacation. I'll just let the knots continue to form and then I'll just worry about it when I get home. And it ended up not being that big of a deal. For Shepard, whose hair is curlier than mine and who apparently had adopted the same approach,

he got home and started to investigate his hair. And he basically was like, you know, dreading up in certain places. And he said that he flipped a coin. And this is how 14 year olds make decisions, I guess. He said, if I, you know, heads, I just wash my hair and get the knots out. Tails, I cut my hair.

Okay. And it was tails. He cut his own hair? So Jesse got home. She sees a bunch of hair in the trash can. And she's like, I don't know if that's Rhett's hair or Shepard's hair. They're pretty similar. I guess time will tell.

And then Shepard came downstairs and she said, when he came downstairs, he looked like, the way she described it was a 50 year old woman. It was kind of like a bit, just a big globe of hair. He had like cut the back and the sides, but like left the top and it was like very globish. And she's like, oh gosh, Shepherd. So she ended up salvaging it. And he looks good now.

I think you saw a picture of it. It looks great. I think it's an improvement. I can see his face most of the time. You know, I appreciate being able to see, you don't want a teen that just looks like a cartoon character that has their hair in their face the whole time, which is what he had become.

And of course I didn't say anything. He can do whatever he wants to with his hair. And he can have the biggest possible jeans that he wants because that's the thing that's happening now. But so yeah, it was salvaged. He's got a little mini mullet kind of thing happening. So all said, not a great start, but a great landing, a great finish.

Locke was, you know, right before he got on his plane back to Miami when we were at the airport, he apologized to Shepard and said, "'I love you, I'm sorry for kicking you.' We all, we had a big group hug." Okay. I think I gotta, you know what?

I'll close by showing you this picture. Oh, that's a good ending. The four of us took together. You took a selfie while hugging? At the airport. Hey, can you take a picture of my family hugging? Yeah, you. Well, we hugged and then I-

That's nice. And then I got a little picture. Yeah, the three of y'all boys look dirty. Y'all need a shower. That's just what I'm observing. What do people do before showers? They got into the nearest body of water. Baths, dude, baths.

Tubs. I think a body of water. I like the salt on my skin. I like what it does to me. It dries it out a little bit. When in doubt. It's clean. Salt's clean, man.

Break the jet ski out. I'm glad you made it back. It's wonderful to be together again on this podcast. I got a rec for you. A rec, baby rec, baby one, two, three, four. You know what? I'm just gonna rec

the latest, the last TikTok I watched before we did this. I don't follow this person. Okay. But this video comes up from The Daily Victorian. She said, there are five things. First of all, The Daily Victorian, she's doing yoga. They didn't do that.

While she's doing yoga, she's telling you five things to make you cool in conversation. But it was basically like tips to be more socially aware in group settings where conversations are happening, like conversational techniques.

Oh, cool. The description says, for my fellow mirror balls. I do not know who mirror balls are. I don't think I'm one of them, but maybe I am now. That's a Taylor Swift thing, right? No, I think it's a, maybe it's a yoga person thing. Okay, Jenna also has no idea, which makes you feel better.

So the Daily Victorian told me that you can be the you were saying person. If you're in a group setting and then there's like, somebody's telling a setting and then there's like somebody's telling a story and then it gets sidetracked and other people start talking, you can be the cool person who's like, Jasmine, you were saying,

and then let them get, so you're the person who like, if somebody's telling a story and it gets sidetracked, sometimes it never gets back. So being that person person who like, if somebody is telling a story and it gets sidetracked, sometimes it never gets back. So being that person who's sensitive, you were, you know, and I'm always looking for ways to improve my social acuity. So for me, I'm gonna try to be the you were saying person. I could also be the stay with me person,

which if somebody's telling a story and then people start dropping off, you can be the person who stays with them. I'm with you, finish your story. Yep, that's good. That's good advice. Yep, there's also the to be fair person. If somebody, if a group of people are talking

about somebody who's not present and they're saying something that's not necessarily gossip, but like maybe it's the critique is founded, but it's still nice to be the to be fair person where you're, she said, no one likes to be called out on being mean or gossip, but like if you can turn something into to be fair...

I mean, to be fair, you got this all from a TikTok. Of course she's doing yoga while she's saying this. violent situation. To be the to-be-fair person, all you have to do is interject and say, to be fair, and then use just a little bit more of a balanced take on the situation. That's it. That's it? This is what I'm recommending. I haven't even gotten through all five of them.

Thank you, The Daily Victorian. Well, how is that Victorian? How is yoga Victorian? Don't worry about it. I mean, I don't want to dictate what somebody's doing. I don't know anything about this, but I thought I'd be getting tips on stockings and not taking baths. Putting fruit up on my nose so I can walk into a room and not smell everybody. To be fair, you do need those things. Turrets.

You were saying? Spinly things. I love a Victorian home.? Spinly things. I love a Victorian home. I'm with you. I love a Victorian home. I'm with you. You know what? I would absolutely love if you would adopt those things from the Daily Victorian.

No cheap shots. No, no, no, I'm saying if you were to say, to be fair, if you were to say, I'm with you, you were saying, that would be pretty awesome. You were saying? Hashtag Ear Biscuits. What will you be saying? Let us know what you think about

this episode. Also, please leave us voicemails with your candid reactions. 1-888 EarPod1! Bye! Hey, Red and Link, this is Tegan. I'm 20 years old, and I've been a long-time watcher and Bye. has been good at maintaining a friendship between you two. And recently I started a podcast with my brother, and he goes to a different college, and it's been really nice to connect.

And I totally relate to what Rhett was talking about, and it's been really nice. So I just want to thank you guys for inspiring me to do the podcast in general. Love what you do. Bye.