El Podcast de Marco Antonio Regil - 005: Cómo liberarte de una prisión emocional, con Jorge Lozano

Episode Date: May 24, 2013

Nuestra mente es quizás el instrumento más poderoso que tenemos y cuando nos dejamos llevar por las costumbres heredadas de nuestros padres, la necesidad de pertenecer a un grupo, el miedo de perder algo, o cuando sentimos amenazada nuestra seguridad, nuestra mente actúa en piloto automático creando o cediendo a mecanismos de control tratando de “protegernos”, permitiendo que nos estanquemos emocionalmente, aceptando situaciones que a la larga suelen perjudicarnos más o crear un mayor sufrimiento. Para hablarnos de todo esto invité a Jorge Lozano, joven conferencista internacional experto en relaciones humanas quien de una forma muy amena nos explica cómo encontrar la llave para escapar de cualquier prisión emocional.

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city to my dear friend Joe Losano that is conferencista professional, expert and passionated in

relations for a thing that really interesting and even that does a little when we are

in ignorance how prison emotional. What's very sound to that Jorge? Fuerte, my

carrie. Thank you. Thank you. Thank you much people know this today of today and much

people do you need. Because there's a lot of people. I know what I'm not another way

or other way or in some point of our life we've caught there there. I know

there's no, I'm that's the interesting. That much people think that a prison emotional

has to with the relation in that you're turbulent that you have personal, that relation amorousa, but there are people that are in relations, also very toxic, that are

laborers, in relations amistosas, that's one that's their own own, their own prision emotional, that's also in relations familyaries, that have their own prision emotional, and are so contaminated, so those relations, one of those vets from a perspective external, and he's how can't get to be in a relation

so, knowing all the damage that they do you do this how

they're getting with a person that they have with a little

that's that they're that's the problem that one that's that's but for the

person that is living that is like that movie that's a

movie that's a that's a in in cauteverio in a in a

quarter miniatura with her and as both both both

both both years and when the a little, and when the little bit and when the little was never in a

little bit more, that the world was, the new year, in a new shock emotional, I think a lot of a lot of people have grown

in that quartito emotional, in those four paredes that are around at sometimes of violence psychological,

of violence emotional, or simply of a relation that's because the life so the life

so there's there's really caro there. And they think that that is the only that

is the of today in this podcast, I'd like to share you different prisions emotional for that that we're doing that we're

that we're seeing, those migachas of carino we are not sufficient. There's a little more more. The clave is to recognize that

you're in a prison emotional. Because as as far, to us have passed, that you've been a friend, a

family, that's living a relationship a horrible, that says, oh, that's, oh, that's, oh, that's,

oh, that's a word, that's horrible, but when to me, I've past. And I've been in that,

no is clear. And when me libero of her, for fin, me say, my friends, hey, it's that we're the only that you're the only that you

know what you're, but then tell us, what are, then you're what's there? And in some moment in this first segment,

it would be interesting, also, because we don't know when we're in one. So, no, no, no, no,

no, no, no. No, no, no. No, no, I'm so, I'm really, I'm really, I think, a prison emotional part from

from the education that we're receiving in house. And, and me going to

explain. There's many people that are a lot of the only pattern of

the only pattern of the whole of the only that we've known to the whole that's

been the constant, has been the love that we have been the we're making

the people, the way in the that papa and the that mom he says

a papa, and all you go, and when you get, and when you know, and you

You're designed, I think the Curepment, the Cerebr Human, is designed to do you know, his baggage cultural, what has got and has a lojado and that the definition of

of love is that, for end, that is what you offer you. So, I think the prisions emotional are you parted of an

herence, of a in a herencia that comes to a mom, or pap, and not is an herence

economic, like we're not a person to know, it's a realence a herence genetic.

There are some that's a of the herency of comportment. And you see, that as like the Papa was very necio, you know,

the same traits in English, the same, the same characteristics. You have to talk about, I don't see, I mean, see, I mean,

the other people the woman, is that my love, how are you? You're a, Hitler of the order. And, look, no,

no, you know, want you, that's, that you're, a piscan of your life, and you'll

to seeerita. And the suhita is the same, or the Or the more. You know, you know, that's quite

that's a chain of events, of a chain of herences. And I think that the prisons emotional are

of that's, the problem is to get us a question. So, that we're the predetermination to get in

a prison emotional for programation in our mind subconscious, for the education that

we've given for what we've been to our around. If I think I'm in a

home disfunctional or with things disfunctional and it's totally

I don't want to use the word bad, but incommodo, devaluated, the relation, irrespectuos, no, no, there's no,

no, complicity. It's more being a question of tension and to sabotage in one to other, but if I

think I'm in an hog that's what that's what I know, that's what I'm what I'm to know

to make a a debate that also I'd like to talk to people who probably

probably I've been to the patrons hered contra patrons learned many many times

and it is more a case proper. I've been of a home in where my

parents are separate and I think I'm doing a different that much people

that much people who now I'm my age adult I'm not I'm don't put because I'm

because I'm that's formulas that you don't have those patterns emotional

and the patrons there are there many people that and repeat the

same patrons of his parents. Why? Because they those have in a pedestal, Mark. You know,

a pap, a mom in a pedestal and all what he did was admirable. Oh, yeah, so,

papa, he was machista with mom not he had to be to make a good, he was a

good, he was a mission, he said, he said, what he did a lot of many,

so much so, so, so, I'm, so, okay, okay,

okay, okay, perfect, now that I'm To analyze, now I have the possibility of demitificing, I think that's the part, desmitification the figure of my parents and to understand that my parents were humans and cometeen errors equal or peores to those mios.

Sabiento, I think that is the cincel, that is the clavo that rompe your first cadena of the prison emotional. And I'll say one thing. to live with a prision emotional that has been growing a lot of years after

years is like the elephant that the elephant when it's when it's in the stacita in the circus poveres

and the put the stacita to the and they're they're playing and it's going being being enormous

and it's being powerful but as always they're just the stakeita there the mechanism

of control still they're they're they're they're they're they're

encadenaded from the time of the day until the poor he's a he's able to get to get

this takita but he's but he can't yeah, yeah, yeah, so that's that's the

yeah, clas the clas the pic so, you know, you're, you're this, this is the

life. Now, something something of what did you do you're just this, demitificing to

our people, and that we're not we're that we're that we're we're

we're we're we're going to I mean, I mean, I'm, respect, and, without I'm trying that not are

perfects, like I'm not perfect. And that those errors that were not have to continue to you. Exactly.

So, I don't have to make, I'm trying, and be in disagreement. Amar and to change what

me no me function. Totally. Totally. And, and even, I see, I know that

many families, the day of today there is a prison that is a prison that is clave.

I'm, and if could we We want to do we want to do our presions emotional in three types. I'd say that the first is the prison economic.

Prision economic. The prision economic. I think the prison economic comes to, I don't see if you've passed, that there's many people that there's a relation

tormentosa for the money. And it's, in many matrimonios that don't want disolvers because you're going to get poor,

I'm going to get in the and then I go accustomed to a certain life. And when you've been amazado your

and you say, I prefer prefer to sacrifice the love that would be with that I'm like we, the case of

me, that's the case of many people. That's the case with a woman and they never can't be

and that's the provider and some of them also they're not they're not they're not, to have the

exactly, the money is a mechanism of control and I think the mechanism of control

more antivable that has He has known the man. Sure. I'm because I'm

the ways of the power. I'm the media to control you know the and if

were there many people and there because the prison economic I see the people who

work in a place in a where they they're in where they're in where they

they're in the they're in the world's. And one says, no it's for a

compensation economic you're you know, I'm saying, there's necessities, I understand, there's, there's to pay those bills, have to pay the bills, have to pay the factures, have to pay those

recives, but for a compensation economic, you're to sacrifice your health, your quality of life, your stability emotional, that also is a prison. And, and a, a lot of this, that

we're, that there's many the pairas that they're there's that's we're in the money, and the things

that the money can buy them the tortura psychological. And we're we're afraid but I

for that I'm a phrase clear and I like the people that the people that I'm going to that's

that's you can make runper a prison emotional very powerful. I'm going to know the phrase

says, the phrase says, if you cost to your pass, is a lot. If you cost to

your pass, it's a much that's it's a money that you're for more that you want to

you want to you're the money that you want to try. If you do you want to if you're

a question very sadia. And a reason it has not there can be so dramatic simply if

you're in a lot, put it they're that they but simply you're doing something that's

something that's a little bit of a place a place where you're not you're not what you want your essence

and you're doing and you're doing you're doing and the more they're doing it's a good job and there's a good work

but you're but you're disconnected of your that's the life too and that's a pressure

economic so it's can be much more subtle and that's are a more difficult when there's

when there's when there's when there when they're when they're they're more obvious But when no

And the only What is that I'm going to I'm going to this mission that's a and I'm going to manifest to

and then you're not going to be a tonto how you're going to how you're going to this man or how you going to have this woman if you

try that way but no way that's a precision more difficult and more and more difficult and more difficult.

I know I know I know many chavos, many people are in that range of that are at point to graduate to of some

career that's a point to start to start to be a disjunctive

between what I passion and what I'm really, and I'm to get to get to

you, you're in a decision that you get a liberation and personal and

professional and emotional and emotional and spiritual or in that you get

direct to a prison if you you're you can be that only you

can't there's there I have to start with something. I'm sure. So,

let's go. We're going to let us in what you're in the time and you get to your life, you're going to get in a prison

that's called what had happened. The prison of the incertitum. That's horrible. What horrible, not know, what would have

passed if had said to me car so. Exactly. I'm going to do you need, because I'm in an emergency,

I have to pay the rent, I'm to have to maintain to my my parents or to temporally. But there

I'm going to to work to reconnect me with my carlorn. And apart that is where you can't do

you can't be more money. I'm sure you work to work. I was a market and I was a company, like much

people of the that you're doing my work work. And I saw a people that I'm trying

to work there, Mark. No, I was that they said I want to get here a post

directive and I I'm I'm I don't that my same passion

passion for that same objective, and one day I did and I said, well, it's like if he

he'd to be a chango, nadar during 100, or compete in natation. Well,

obviously, no, you can't to ask you a bird. So, I was in that prision

emotional to say, I'm in a job that I'm not a passionia, and even

when there there's when there there that's not I'm that I'm when I

decided to be to that is now the conferences, that now are this section in television, in the radio, and all this, because I think this

was my mechanism of liberation, of a prison emotional and of a prison laboral and professional. Marivioso. We'll do a pause, as well,

as in the television and in the radio, we're going to Jorge Losano. I'm so much you're connected with your heart, with your

emotions, with your and how I'm sure that there people who are listening and it's still never more

to hear this podcast and will say, here I'm going to change my I'm going to try I'm going to take. Two prisions emotional is more when we'll go to

when we'll go to in the podcast in how liberate of the prison or the prisons emotional. We'll be more. You're going to work for the

money? You're all the day? Convives a little with your family and at the end of the month just you can't you just to

pay the accounts? Imagine go to vacations with your people to live in the house or the department of

your dreams and over all, to start to to live preoccupied for the money,

living the life that you may be able to make a mind, my mind and my conscience to be a

other way. I've done. I've done. I've got to know about a lot of financial. It's super

recommendable at a million percent. For the business that I think I think it's very much.

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us how liberate to one or of many or many and much

presions emotional and we're we're very, very important but you

have other two two Marko. This second prison is very common, and I think that in that description, it's the name, the prison of the stability, the terrible risk of our misconduct of the daynautrily. Oh, God.

It's a fort. It's a great. It's a lot. There's a lot. There are people in relations in where you know there's that not they're

that's that's what's what's that's what's it's much yeah it's

much problem there's there's a pair that are parraces that they're

that they're that person the more yeah the woman yeah the woman yeah

my mom I'm I'm playing a new I'm a idea that I'm my

am how you you're a this age and the The kids? Who's who

to care to the when the parent see that your stability his status quo,

how we call your his cotidianity is been amnased? Yes, the established the

and the control. The control. The control is going to get to get to the wakal.

And so I'm many many relations that can create. And the reason for that can

not creasen is because those individuals not can create because both

have implemented mechanisms of control, that are also a prison. Tanta people that we're talking to

the day of today of that I'm the pantheon, let me know the cemetery, is the

pedas of the world. More car of the world, because there were to cover all those

those those those those those things that not emperendist, all those those projects

that not realized, and what it's, because you were, because you're in

that you that's that's that's but you're stable exactly there's a

right to right because the it's a very strong very feinto but very common

that says more value more for know what know and the and the

mind and the human and that's it's and in the stable he says

here I'm not I'm not I'm but I I'm I'm I'm

we're we're we we're we're a one We can't call it the zone of comfort. That no we're going to end up on that this

because it's a topic. It's another podcast. But the zone of comfort is a prison emotional. There's a lot of people that say, well, I'm here I'm here. Oh, in this work where no, there's a lot of creciness, you know, you're talking about? Well, well, I'm talking to be people

like, Marko. Sure. It's a matrimorion where all is the And what we're going to do, my amor, what do you? Well, what you're doing. Well, well, here we're good.

And no, there's nothing spontaneous. No, for that's the infidelities because it's a cabba the chispa in the parja and then

you start the travesura, the diversion, the passion, for a furorita, for other other side. And that's,

you get a problem. Exactly. When you're in a prision emotional, you're going to coquetteer

with any liberty that that's the that's that's so the

infidelity so are the so are the the alcohol, so they're the all those are responses to do that's

a trap too because it's like emotional I'm going to do something so you know so

so the so you're so you're so you're you're not you're so you know

you can't you get to the carcel to get to to to

to get the money to to to get to you And to God. If you're in a prison emotional, the grand problem is that you

do you're used to live in that prison emotional and you're at retar to carceler. You're the carceler? You can't be your partner, you can't be your job. Oh, you're in a job that's in a prison emotional or is a prison economic

where no ganas more and you can't gain more, you're going to retar the system. Ah, well, what's what happens if I'm robbing? What's the problem? What's the problem? What's the,

what's a, that you have the microondas of the company. It's a, the mind to look at, how, how quacket to

get to that adrenaline, that you offer us liberation. Better get it better than the relation, and if no,

if not I don't, then I'm the value, the same, to get a quality and a zone of

comfort and to look what really me appasions. So, so you have two. Pricion

economic, prision of the stability, and there another prision. There's a

term let me the prision affective. people that live with with fear to not encounter who wants

and that's very typical, there's much in the chas there's much in the chasos there are much chavos

that when they their first noviour, well you know you know you know is a process of proof

and error Marko is a process of a error you're you talk you

take an experiences gratas and also you take experiences sorpressive

yeah let me you talk they're they obviously there are much

people that have the intention of the love, if this is the good. Nobody enter to a relation

expecting to having to get to get to her. So, so a prison affective,

is that prison where you say, well, if this is the love that is the only the love that's the

only love that's the one of there's a more, there's a other more that's this

person. Oh, yeah, but it pegas but it pegas because me because me he wants It's not

it's not it's not it's all the type of things that they're just to get a one sitting

back on on the speaking perpleho me pega phrases like me because

well if me he got he's his reasons oh what you what you

well well it's well your reasons of machism or or of

or of control or of or of fear to be you to be

because you want to be because you want to get the autoestim.

There you want to keep to keep to keep there controladita but it's a

not a more that's a love. But there you're you're you're a position

affective That's I'm so I say I'm always don't you know

you know to take decisions disruptive of those decisions that they can't

you know that you're that's that Gabriela how how he

how you ask imagine to tell to you Marko how you

don't you know but I know but I No, when when one When one

When one gets to start to see myself, it's going to see myself. And you started about the MED to

that nobody me ame or me like this person, right. There are many many many songs that

can't to help us those, there's a there's a song like, I'm, I'm, but

that concept of like you to me, nobody to be to love, nobody to be a market

quite common in the songs, romanticcones. And we have carried in the subconscious

Nobody me will I want How me want to this Oh, but

my gackas of cario I'm this this philosophy to make mendigar

my gajas of love is really love and I

repeat for the person in the that was to be to make

mackas of not is really really really love

if you you need if you do you

don't then the opportunity no value. If you have to ask you, no, I want. No, I don't know. If I have to pay you, look,

yeah, ni me amas, man. It's like, it's something artificial. It's something that you have to force you to do. A prision affective, you limit to think that that person with that you're the only that you're going to care. And when we're just that we'll give us more,

I'm in my Instagram, in my account of Instagram, there's puros videos enfocados to that. I'm always that the people, I think considerate

a plato principal, filet mignon, filet mignon, and del caro, because

many people that's a custom to feel like a guarnition, like a kind of a little,

something I'm that I'm that I'm a that I've a little a little a seasonat of carino,

sasonadito of love and a so I'm no, no, no, we're we're

we're a plate so far, like you in instead filet of soy filet

vegan A little Lentejitas, some frejoles, some frioles, some champinions. Yes, your plate

principal. 100%. Carnivro, vegan, but is a plato principal. You're not you're the job.

No, you're there's the adornito that they put. But there people, men, and women, that of

that's we're just that they're we're saying that are that they're to be to be people

that they're in little their gags of love. And if you want is to give us love

of the other or someone more to give a other, or someone to get to

and they're and they're and they're they're and they're they're to get to give a

more. No migachas. There's people who can't accept the plato principal.

There's there. There's there. There's because. Because there there's

people who there's because there can't because from the has been been working

has been been In the school, be you guys people, be you guys to the chavitas people, you know,

you're all the people people, to the people, to the people to the people and you're going to you're going to when you're going

when you're when you're a person, you know, well, well, it's the good thing

that's the whole world is cast and all the world is in relations and it's difficult for

many people to be that time, you know, you've lived, I've lived, start this domino, when you know,

are people, with their friends, with his novias, and you are there with your

pizza, in the path of your house of your and there is where much people

commit the most great error. And for that I'm another philosophy. You know,

I'm a collection of philosophy. That's very good. And another philosophy that I

always I say, and I always I'm I'm don't that

you're that you make to come in the back in the Solita,

you know, that your time not is being occupied to to grow up to make a manner to get with whatever

something that that's about, because the fear or the fear or the of the desperation, to be a

only, you know, you're and you connect with someone that you know that's you know,

that person ideal for you. And it doesn't only only only only the time,

it's much in the whole the time of the night and all the publicity in the

media of the media and children and and then then the 14th of February then you know there's a moment

in that the mercadentia you say it's you'd be you're going to be so you're doing so you're not so if you're this discurso

then then I guess well I'm what I'm yeah the first is bad it's the one's the first and

it's sure it's certain it's and I'm I don't obviously I'm obviously I'm obviously I'm

some some studio I'm sure that would that the major quantity of

relations in those times that you mention you mention that's in December and the

first of February. Because what we've been is what we're we're we're

we're going to we're and I think we're that we're we're that we're two or

three months after we're we're just that the time in this period. Because when

when we when we we're we're going to we've because we because of more

than we we're we can't in a grave error. Yes. You take a decision altamently emotional and little

intelligent based on the mind. And the fear not is a more. The fear not is a more. The love is compatibility.

I mean, we're saying, nobody will be identical to you obviously, but we're not the same. We're the same.

We're doing the conversation and our sense of the humor. The chemistry. It has to have a whole thing.

But that's that would be a more to say, well, I'm going to to share with someone. But when

it's, I'm just not just to get to get to get that's the problem. You know,

you know, decisions permanentate based on circumstances momentaneous. So, you know, you know,

you know, to be able to be able to be able to be with you or a same. Yeah,

totally. You're you're playing against you myself. Dises, with all to not

pass time only, with me with I'm trying with Juanito, well, look,

he's Juanito, oh, it's feitto, But, oh, yeah, but it's good. Well, no,

it's too too. It's what there. It's what there. That's what I'm too. And then then the other

then the words of the word. Well, so that's the life, my wife, no, one does the

one does it one does it. Oh, yeah. That's the better. Because much people who are

not going to see this case, but he knows people that is living this case. And you

he said, and he's he will have to say the the three words that more dole. Te-lo-d-d-jure.

To adverti. This was a prison emotional, because when we we've seen from a third person, it's a third perspective, the

things are more clear. Well, we'll go to go to the last segment and we're going to the solutions.

Because, okay, yeah, I've got I'm a prison emotional, yeah, I'm trying to that I'm

there, I'm, that's all the fear, or the whole, or not saying this person, but if I'm in one, how prevent

to get in one what are some practices or conseils that you can't make it? It's perfect Well, posita

and continue us We're going to learn your emotions is one of the best impressions that you can't do you if you're

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Jorge Losano with us, conferencist, expert in relations humanas and apart with a good good good sense of

the humor because I go that one of your great virtues is that you talk about things very

but you make you. I'm a pass on the things very strong very critical but well

I think it's part of the one of one of one to know to analyze

to a light positive is ryingnons of us to us

to us and then you're you've been your prisions emotional because if you know you could be to get to the

people to end where one has gone to you've been my mind you're your prisons today you're very happy in a party

content but but you're but you've used your prisions without I'm really I think one of my

principales prisions was the prison was the prison that's a prison that we mentionable

in this blog in this segment Vision Extra Linga. We're going to talk of solutions. If we were going to solutions, I lived the prison of the love

proper. When I was a little I was the kid the man. I know what you're the manoe

this manoe the more feo the school no, no, no, no, the really, it's an

experience that me mark and it's an experience that me mark and I remember that the kids were

very bad in that in that in that I think the kids are more cruel as

more cruel as than the adult's. Very cruel. And thanks to that's Mark,

I could have interpreted to do two ways and I'm that you do you live in a

prison emotional you can you know you can do this is the situation

that is the situation that is a situation that's you make you're in two stops.

Or so you know that I'm that you pass it that you're the man that's

the thing that's the I was a mechanism of defense, a mechanism of defense emotional, a mechanism of defense psychological, that me made me value me of my personality. As I knew that he was the kid the most feo of the school, and the people not was to look about my aspect of physical, because it was a man who was a man who wasnto,

because the person waspatic, because it was a young good on. Because it was a young fast to be, of the same degree, Ligeria. That personality, the day of today of is what I made to have a

section in radio that's made a show a program of radio, also here in Mexico, a section in television,

me so do give a conference and the day of I don't more than gratitude for my

prison. Of not I've not had you passed for that, no, I'd

nothing to thank you I'm so I'm questions for a prison emotional,

the first that I would would say I would say it would say it. That's a prison that you took, because thanks to her, in contrast, the mechanism

of defense, that you will be a person that you're. The suffering is your school. The affliction is a bendita, maestro. Like, if you decided to see her

exactly. Because if you put in victim, because I, oh, God, no, God, no, God, no, God, the life, no,

that's not. You're saying, the suffering to it will transform in a a enceance that's a 100%

and for that I know because me has got it's a great-of-you- not because that's experience me gave the

power to do the first of who I'm or who can be you still you're 100% and when you

you're just you're just you're just that the barrotes of the prison have been been able

all the time but you've been you've been trying the key for all the part

and you have been you've intended to get the the you know the door, Marco, you empoders, you're jenas of autoestim,

you know that you can't take the carcels complete, that you can't give the world of those carcelers and you can't be a duke of the carcelain of the

mind of your miedos, do you know of your insecurities, and a person that's full of that's not a year of

you know, you know, that you're doing you also you also have to have rotted with those prions emotional to

generate those mechanisms of defense because I'm I'm going I'm going I'm going you're going

you're you've got you've been a lot of public front of time you've been you've been

and the question is what you know we know we're you're you're going

you're you're going to have been that's that's 20, 30 years that he's

he's that he's that's he's and what same happened with me.

And I do thanks to those prisons because of not have been to them. Probably not we don't have been

here. Sure. You're words say. And you agree with the adnation

is reciproc and the thing. And the great thing is a so it's a first thing. The first

is a good. And I'm saying that I'm part of my school and I can't do the world.

Thank you. Thank you. Thank you. I'm going to go to get to salire me. I'm

second. Darn us we're we're people good. To what I refer to this.

A sometimes we have to do we're going to give us that the reason we're in a prison

emotional was because all everyone was convincedia that there is where we're there's a good

person or a good friend or some a good you get you and you're that's a good

and that's this is the life comadre you're so that's this is the good so that's

that's that's that's a good good is the he regawn and he says,

and what's doing there? And how has permitted that that's or rige to your life? That they

don't your good sarandeyada? I think that second solution to get to a prison

emotional is is to goger the people to the people. To

get a prison, it's very difficult that a person could run per

the person to come in the people to get to the

prison, they're they're the They're arm those clans. No you have to escape to

your prision emotional solo or there's a lot of people. There's a yeah, there's people.

There's people that says, or the therapy is for when you're really bad. The therapy, I mean,

the therapy, I mean, yeah, know, they're playing with, with the courses or with the courses or

or the programs of radio, television, podcast, that you do you don't want to hear

listen, no, when to when to start to a prison emotional what we we're just

we need is a help. There's a way there there's a way there we're not

that we're we need a little bit of who's de a little I think we need to we're doing

we're people. It's that when you can't as a you can't you can't

you can't you can't that the maybe I'm that I'm but if I'm I'm in a moment

but you you're you're doing you're you're you're not that's not you're

Thank you, thanks for recordar me. Exactly. For so, the time of the book, be a conference,

listen to things positive, what you're doing what you're doing, if you're doing a group of people that's

getting, people conscientious, people positive, people people and people and people and people

and people are going to be doing these things, and they're going to help to get to get to

some people, we're the same we're doing, if you if you're in the

middle of a promed of a person who they're maintain promedial the game of

the word of if you you're in a medium of people that you want to be being a

person a person promedio you have you need to get to get to get to make

that you want to put to that you want to do that and that you dole

that prision is just to change your time you to get to get to change of people

to change of and that so that so that's a person is atreve to do because you have to be very valiant

for that for that for that transplant that is a reason for your that's a

question of the exactly. Exactly. And it's what we're talking about it and that could be the

third solution. Toma decisions disruptives. Disruptive the day of today

you're in that you did you know that you're you're doing is a prison

emotional and I think the definition of how we

call we in English it the definition of insanity. The definition

of locura. The locura, we'd say to the definition of the locura is to keep doing

the same and you're doing the prison. But, oh, is that my my dad,

comadry, oh yeah, comad, that, that comadry, that that you have you,

that man that you have you in your house, he's, he's, psychologically physically,

physically, of you, but, but, what fear, that fear, to get

The first we have to do we have to do decisions disruptives. Exactly. Exactly. Exactly. Right. Right. I took a Uber to come to our great Dr. Raul Benavides.

Oh, no, that's a salute. For sure. Fiat. Also, I mean, you know, and listen to the podcast. He likes it. You know, it's your dentist. Well, I came to car.

And the person that was running the Uber was a woman. That's not going to say no name, nor the example specific, but me did a example of this. I said, I said,

me said, of that the place of Mexico, no I'm going to say, where. And how you got, how you came to, and it's, no, is that it's a horrible, look, and, me, I said, it's, it's a horrible, the situation, it's horrible in the economy. Me, he said, it's horrible,

the form of think of the people in where I lived. For that's, for no, I don't offend to anybody, right? But I said, and my my husband, and I, he said, have family, that, no, my husband and I, we, agaramos,

and we're, there, there's, there, there's, there more education, there, there's, there more has developed, is better than our city, and we've got our things and we're going to

managing an Uber and my marido too, and my marital too. And the fact that's admiration for this woman, because it's a little more

more than a little more than to come to Monterey. But I understand the philosophy. But there's a decision disruptive. When there's

people that never, never, ever, I'd ever be able to to go to another city, to our city of their

city of their same country where where not knows a to be able. There is a point that that's

that's that's that the people are the people know that the point when a vehicle is

when the vehicle gets a certain velocity in where if something is a point of no return, the point of no return,

the point of no return, the point of no regress. Yeah, and we're we're just we're all right. It's

we can't aborting the despeg. We can aborting the dispeg, we're we're

we're we're we're we're I think that much people need to take that decision the day of

today. Oh, I know, no see what going to be going to be going to be a decision that I'm

to do you know, I'm going to do this prison. As your maletas, open the door and if not it

tumba the door and we'll resolve in the air. We'll be able to go back. We're going.

And then we're right. And then right we're going to get to be there's a there. There are

there times that you have to vent of the edificio and in the air, Construing the salas. Construe the salas.

And that's of valiant. Exactly. That's for that's the business. The same is a leader is

of valiant. The atrever to manifest to your own a sport of very. It's a

extreme for many. Yes, yeah. And I love the analogy also of the

abe, of the the pacharo, when a when a pacharro, when a person you

see that the pager has a thing that the person is a the pacer, the pachar, the pfax,

the pachar, is that is going to do it's so far far to get to a prison emotional is to

know that we're to be able to our own own those own, so it's complicate, what it's complicate, look,

the peorres has been and of the betters and you're sure that you're sure, that's always

that's a uditory would have been an applause on a boating a boating a boastion of

a bit. Very well, very well. I'm going to go to go to go to the window I'm going to the first of the floor of the table.

I'm avianto, me aviento. No, but what's, it's so I'm enciended the caracom me inspire,

me, I'm, you know, things super important, and I'm going to the people that's going to

be doing the same, they're going to do the band and they're there, pere, yeah, then,

then, then, then, that the the, the other one

one one one of the question to be people to get them

with the people we're a real risk is that the people

are a person is a one a thing there

sometimes there sometimes that a that we use that we use the

that we we're that we're we're we're we're to be to be

your man my my my, my amor, my my love, my love, I'm going to have to be a

little bit of my mom, I'm going to go to get to some of the but I'm not a lot. I'm not

like that you do you know, I'm not I've seen a few years. I've got to convivir with my

amissaries. It's that your are more more important for you. Oh, my God.

I mean, how there people that use the people who use the heart a charm.

It's a chantajas that's a terrible. Terrible. Chantage . It's a

a cadena grossisimba to romper. You know because attack the more sensible of a

person, a person that's a chantagea in basis sentiments and is tentating

terribly and so because your natural is good. You're a person good,

you're a person noble, a you, it's a little when you

when you when you see a money when you get to your person to

your person to be that you You've jured, Amor eternal, rogandot or saying that no

do you make your, your body, your mind, your sentiments are going to to protect them. Even when

this person has other intentions, all using those sentiments. That person knows that you are good

and for end you use your own to make your controlable, to maintain you a marredita. Ah,

me want to you're going to run the heart. There are some, there's

we're we're to have to do That's when the When the person

Utilize your Sentimentos To chantageartee, A veces we have We're to Arisgars to romperle. It's going to

be a bado collateral. When one When one Salle You can't expect that the walls

They're intact. It's going There's There's There's But you know that

The liberty And the Air Freshco That's more It's more It's Roto in

the Camino. It's Firt But it And so, and no you have to create that

story, because you don't you don't you can't you can't the only the only can

be to run the heart in my person is I exactly and I'm I'm the you're going to

my life you're going to be your heart I'm going to the heart

at the mind of the integrity of my mind depending on that maybe

I mean can't doleer me can can't be able but run the

person? The person is the that needs the the Necesses the therapy. Exactly.

There is where you know you I say, I'm generally to the people that live in that prison emotional. I'm the

the worst type of person toxic that you can't talk in the life is the person that you make a

feel that the toxic or the toxic is you. It's you. It's a mechanism of control terrible.

Oh, that you want you want to you want to try to try to start to start to

start to start that virus mental to make you feel but to make you know,

you're going to you're going to get to get a we're going to we're doing we're doing we're

we're philosos we're we're we're doing we're going to that I mean I'm used in the chantajito

very easy and one way that's at the podcast because I'm a where the chantage

and I'm not I'm talking about my family simply was it was part of the culture

the chantage was part of the modus operandi the form to operate so

crease is culposo. I recal culpso and when when I made to know I'm going to make to make sure to do

other people to do this after that I'm until that I did I'm and I'm that I'm

a master that this this is he called communication so yeah that's that communication

socia when you say something when you say something let's let's the see

I'm going to doombo no I'm Marko yeah I'm oh you don't

say oh no you It's important. That's communication sucia. Because if you you're saying

I've got to you know, no, no, no, it's with a necessity. No, it's not

no, that doesn't question our our own our own that. So I'm in a communication

limpia, I accepto that you don't get to be and you're when you're so you're

so that you know, but that's you're not, no, it's that you don't know, it's that's not

that's not the socio is I, the soo you that's trying to get to with that

sentiment With that emotion. Sure. It's more, I'm a cataloged as a malo. If you know

acceptas my conditions, you're malo. And that is the base of the chantage of many relations.

Oh, why you do you have been a prison in your own your matrimon? Why do you think you

don't you can't you can't get to be you can't be able to see you not a

lifeable not really not really to feel you affliged or prisoned no,

there's no other in other forms. And when you is a person that you chantage

emotionally the chain is more gross and you have to get a matter of the because you know I'm sorry

I'm saying I'm saying I'm sorry I'm sorry I'm saying Marko I'm too I'm too I'm too

I'm sorry I'm not you don't you're I'd like I'd like I'd like I'm sure exactly

exactly exactly exactly totally oh no oh I'm I'm the other day I'm I'm too

oh oh oh oh oh oh yeah oh how yeah oh we're just,

we're in the language, of the Mexican, of the Latino. Yeah, 100%. Well, very good.

No confunding emotion with dependency, no confunding carino with cadenas. The love no has to

limit you to not volar. The love not necessarily to, the contrary. It has to construct

escalers, has to have to the salas. The, the amor to say, hey,

if I'm, if I'm, and your felicity is too of me, even I do well

your part of your part of your part of your but I'm doing to I'm going to because I'm because I'm

because I'm I'm sure you love. My name there's a there's a There's right-

There's re-scriber all the people that's all the people who know, he's saying what is this they're saying

we're saying we're doing we're doing we're saying there's a there's much there's just there's a

a prison emotional and no he had noted. From a prison financial, a prison economic, like you're

there's a lot of many people, but the important is to give us time. Exactly. Some other other thing is

about the time, but I don't want to get nothing in the tintero if you want to do you want. I think the

control that can't do that a prison is only so that's so the victim it's not

a bit bit that's very good. Uh, I'll repeat. The power or the control

that can to be a prison emotional, a prision affective, a prison economic is

only so so the power as the victim it's a power, the power, it's the power,

the person, not the victimary, not the person, the person, the that's being the origin of

that's being the origin of that's the solution is to be a victim, that's there's a person, that

person, that's a person, if you're rompest with that the day

of the day of you have to be you're going to to build your own little words, I've got a

therapist, I'm said, some words that I'm saying, in the podcast because we decided use a language family here, but with other words

similar, me said, when I put it, if I'm said, it's that Markito, dear, of my carouson, for that there

has been a tont. But I'm said, but I'm more powerful, much more more fun, much more

if the tauts, so the tonts, for that there was an a C. I'm going to say. And for it has,

it's a it's a there's a so, so there's a there's a there's a so.

So, then I'm saying a tonto, I'm saying, yes, because you're you're making that's,

so it's so it's but it's so that's just what you do you're doing, so that's there's a

prison, it has to have a prisoner, and the day of the day of the people that's

the podcast has to give a kind of to contribute to give

to be Exactly. The people that The people that listen to your conferences, that listen to your conversations, that's the we're doing, because you and we're

too, we're also students. We're always we're doing. I think we're doing, we're just going to make sure that

we're saying the very good. Exactly. Because that's a great I'm not really that's been with us. I'm sorry

that we're the first of much that we're doing. Where you can't find out. I see that you're in all the

to continue Compartying with you and you're a site of the internet where is the calendar of your

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