El Podcast de Marco Antonio Regil - 012: Sexo y pareja con la Dra. Cabouli

Episode Date: July 7, 2013

¿Qué tan importante es el sexo en una relación? ¿Es el sexo la solución a los problemas de pareja? En el episodio 012 de Regil Radio la Dra. Liliana Cabouli experta en relaciones y sexualidad, con 22 años de experiencia, nos ayuda a entender y aprender más sobre...

In the episode number 12 of Regil Radio, a petition of to all of you, we'll try our theme specific of the sex in the relations with the doctora Liliana Cabulli and Julietta Ferreiro. Empecels. Welcome to Regil Radio, the podcast of Marko Antonio Regil. Hello, I'm Mark Antonio Regil. From California, I'm saluted with carino.

In this podcast, in Regal Radio, where today we're regisamos to the theme more popular to the moment that is the relations and the pair of our invitation

and our doctor Liliana Kabuli welcomeida how you're how you're contented of that you're glad much that's

content 22 years of experience doing therapies doctorate in psychology Argentina in the United

author of books expert in the material this is what you to do you to do you

to this From, from a chiquita? Because he'd be a psychologist? Of that. How? He asked you. He asked us to your mukechita? He'd prentable to the school

secondary. See, I remember, that they'd ask you about sexuality, about their parents, all. Wow, that's a company.

And also, us accompanied a Julietta of television, of LATV. Hello, Julia. Hello, Marquito. How are you?

You're going to talk? I'm going to talk. I'm happy. I'm happy. I'm here. Thank you. Thank you. Thank you.

We've been two episodes very good, one where we we've seen we know, we've got us in shock

with some other that's put in front and I'm put in the defensive. I'm also. The fact is we're talking the points there

more sensible we, we've got a popularity enormous, that episode where the solteros

we're still we're stillteros well and here we're still still we're still we're you?

You? You? Yeah? Oh, how So, how's it has been so it's

a second last. And you know I'm invited to the boy, Marko. No,

no, no, with a commitment spiritual. No, I'm single, but cooperando.

Cooperando. Cooperando. Well, and today we're going to talk to, if not have heard the podcast number

seven and they're they're going to do you want to enjoy this but they recommend

that I'm we're because are things that are connected but today we're going to

get to a very interesting that we're asking, but I'm doing the thing of the day is

the sexuality in the party. So if you you're a casuality they put play to this

podcast and they're in the hound a very, very very conservative and not they're not

hear to talk of parts of sexuales of the person and I know what's

about the doctora and things very explicit about the sexuality this this is the

podcast for you. Then put them stop, put a pause, halt there, and you're going to hear other podcast. Not this episode, because we're going to be able to talk very abertament.

Now, if you interest to know about your sexuality and learn things interesting and beautiful, then I'm emotional. A me emosiona

the theme of sex, Doctor. Yeah, no, I see. It's re-emotional. Re-emotionate. Because I don't know I don't know the sexo like the sex is something that

has a world. The cabalists are, Yeah, from there, we're in the mind of the human in the distortion, it's a lot of

the distortion, it's a cochinote, but we're not the sexo, no, I know, it's something natural and beautiful, and what beheesse.

Pleasantero. Placentero. When it's well, when it's a good. With the person indicated.

And so, much people says, the sexo is important, not it's all in the life will disappear, nor you

think you're in that's, you're not, the sexo is the most important and it's basic. You, what

you think, Dr. I think that all the person we have people. There are

people that the sex is important then you have to look a person passionate with the person that's not

a good communication and solidarity. You need to get to someone to be a friend or

a friend. You have to be a person spiritual. All we're we're going to doceal

in something with someone. Nobody has been all right. But if for you the sexuality

is something a person that's a person that you like a connection sexual, you have to get to

a person that's active in the part sexual. But that's no, that's not, that's

no, is going to do you know, a measure that's going to be going to the years,

but there's people who do it do you do this there's a seven, eight years

of life sexual plena and then it is going but also also you have to

make the passion, the thing that to make the to be to be

Cresimient, two persons that want to Creser. That's the way that you make sure in the connection

sexual with the other person. Because all the world thinks that the sexuality are positions, me coelgo

to the parrace, me arrake- and the helicopter. And the thing that's the

helicopter. A logo, I'll go the I'm going to the first offer that I've received in all the

month. You know the most. The reality is that the reality is that

the good sexuality is based in knowing to be

present in the moment that you have to have done the sexual

and can feel every millimeter of the person that's in front

you and be completely in connection spiritual mental and emotional

that is what is what is a good sexuality not not being

in the part of another another and not having ejaculation

preco and how so how I have a woman

I have a I'd like would like know how can do you know how to when the people

about it's a way. It's a way. The ejaculation precoza is a problem very great in the community I'm going to an restaurant, to put a good a good plate of a good

and in the moment when you're to put in the tenedor to come to you're to get in the place.

The ejaculation precoce is a form of not able to know to be fear.

In general those ejacularies precoces have anxiety and fear to the

relationship, a no complacet and they are, being, self-overs in the

moment of sexuality. There are techniques to put the ejacculation pre-

They're being auto-observern they're saying, I'm saying, I'm going to I'm going to

I'm going to I'm going to oh my God oh no no no no no no imagineate that's in the mind you're the

mind you're going to you're going to not you're going to start going to I'm going to I'm going to horrible horrible.

The poor now are like you're no no no they're not desperate because no so in

so in bed instead to be abandoned to the present and a there's there's expectativeness exactly what

I'm in general I'm I'm sure you So apart to teach them techniques of auto-control that's

that's going to make a musturb, before they're especially when they're less than 40 years, because they

can have more erections, that's that's more less less less than the time, and then

they can enjoy more of the connection, and that's that the person before that

can't the because in reality there is that's always to calm the woman

has to have to Because if the the woman is there's nothing for the woman. Well, if there

A your my friend to be a man. To be my am I'm because the woman can

continue. You can continue with other things. It's only the pen. There's

in the language, exist in many things. And the thing. The intention.

What intention and what conscience you're in having sex and you're having sex and the

love with that you have been I'm going to come to be me myself, not it

not is the I'm the I'm my role of my woman and that is what that's

what I'm a pleasure to me. I'm another question. And if the

woman, the other my friend, obviously. If the member masculine no

is erected to the complete, there's there's a solution for this. This is a

problem of erection, and that can have many reasons. There

have problems physical. It could have effect secondary of pastillas, it can

be a that you have that you a man, that a man

can be a And it could be that not chemical with you can't be emotionally

attracted to be a person for example many people and they're engaged with a ex-muched

and has sex with a new woman and they're because in reality still still

they're feeling in not people so the problem of erection

is a thing very algy and that has many and it

is a problem very great and have to get to to do

to more despicito because passast with various things interesting

there's the reason the reason for the one of the problem an problem for the

problem physical for example high pressure diabetes problems heartiacos that's a doctor to get to

doctor is there is a doctor is present in young in adults or in adults? In general

the other part is hormonal for example the endropausia that begins in the woman at

45 years begins to begin to get a testosterone and that can produce problems

of erection. Yes. Then, another of the problem of erection can come for effect secondary of

when the people are in the whole for the alcohol or for the health and that's the whole of the because all those

those are cases of people, and in the young, when you're a child or the

is the most really, in my consultorial never came a young that you don't,

that you have problems to be a therapy. Well, I'm sure that when there's

no, I'm not. therapy. Yeah. Because the frustration is impressive. And,

and the men are more proclives to come to therapy. This, for problems sexuales

than for therapy, because problems emotional. I mean, I always I'm always the

sanagoria with the we're going to get to your sexuality and you make you better this

part with your mother. The other reason that not the age, not for the

endropaus and of that because for the pressure. for the pressure to satisfy

I'm a I'm afraid I'm afraid of this this woman knows of this woman is very linda

this woman or a not I'm not I'm not able to generate or or there are there really

really don't have a great ability sexual is it's not not say let's

let's let's let's let's we're we're we're we're

people we're we're we're we're we're nervous, we're not we're just

a talent natural. Okay. There's the same in the camera. There's a kind of a

person who kind of like it's like like it's like that's like connect to be moving, that's that they're

a certain ability like the people who know the people who's kind of kind of kind of

and there's and there's because they're thinking much and they're in the mind, many things

in the things in the people they're they can't get to the sexuality.

So the problem of erection can have many, many variables of why what I'm going to be able to see. But what I'm going to be able to women's sexual, that no want them to be able to sex. That directly go to the sexolo or the therapist of a pair of a problem. A veces, the problem sexual is also a problem emotional of a war of power in the relation. Because I'm going to ask the question of a million of dollars. Who has more power in a relation? The who wants less sexo or the

want more sex. The who wants the one. Very

very. Because control how quantity of sex can't then.

So, many times when a woman is controlling and that you

the person, the time, the not the no erection, no sex

no this no other, more passive, the woman less satifed

is a way, you want, you you're to be to

not there no there no no there no the

man can't the person to have sex. It's the war more

the war more the war more than the arms. The camera is a place a lot of a lot of

when there's when there's when it's when it's when it's like a a certain where it's

it has to have to be a certain that's not a attractive I'm just when it's natural

natural is that you get the the chispa the encanto no? What is

is the thing is the thing you're going to make a routine like a

time. All the nights or all all the mornings or all the times. It's like

an obligation. And you have to explain if you know that's a routine. That's that's

but record that there there's a time of there's a time that there's a thing that

people are going to understand and they're getting and they're getting a time for

but the sexo is a mechanical when two people that's a lot of one of two no want to put to

their part. Much times is the woman and many times is the woman. Well, the good sex, to me me, I'm

know that a good conversation, a good understanding intellectual and emotional and spiritual, me excite, me, makes desire that

person. Because you, you're a person that appreciate that, and that you can't, right? To other

people, let me talk to say, to be a carcachad, deser chiste without, and do that ha, ha, ha, ha,

ha, ha, ha, and so, so, so, like they could be they're they're doing to be there's

some of the other people but I think that's the extreme when one's because you have to use much your imagination

for you can't do you're doing no I'm like you're doing no I'm sorry I'm not for I'm sorry my my

my amiga yeah my my friend the best the most the first the camera of the world is

the camera the two people who that's all the carmere's the camera impressive of that connection.

All all the sense of the emotion, spirituality. So, so good sexuality

or good sex or a common can be the consequence of that's the consequence. And not

the is that the sex genera the good in the rest of the relationship.

No, for nothing, the is the good is the good

that's, the part of the can't be the can't you

need to what you want to do you want to do this is what I

want to do and I want to do be to be Guarados.

No, because the ego, no, I know. What you know? You know, you know what is to be saying to what is to be

doing what I'm. Okay, with this, this is my manual. The woman has to know their own

their own to know their to know their own to know their things and they have to not a

person to do a person every time that the man does it and they do you like they're

who? Oh! Odie! Odi- They're not. Because not are not are

contented with the other person and think I'm not you're going to you're going to you're going to not.

No, the contrary to me so me that's that I'm that's very that's what that's

the man the man has been the man has been being a problem there's

there's there's there's there's there's there and men and men

that and the most frustrating that there is the thing is a person

is a person is that person has to learn skills has to to learn how to do it.

So, there is a part of the other person to say, look, you know, I'm going to explain what I'm like, what I

know what I'm like to be doing, but me, in what I've seen in my consultory and what I experimented as

a person, for me the sexuality is in that that's a connection about the other person

where you get smas in the other person, where you're where you are like like,

like, like, going to like, when it's such a entire in all the

areas of your physical, physical, of confidence, and of love, and of and of love, and to care to pleasure to the other person and that other person

to care to because a woman, a woman has to be complacent to the woman. That's the role of the woman. And that's the only

the mind, if it's just to be to be able to to be, that that's a man. That's not a man. And in the other

only were all for them to, all right, all right, yeah, that's the type, and the tip, and the tip,

that's the time that's in the time earlier recent. Very, very recent. Because I have much more patients

that have never have ever have been a orgasm. Sure. Wow. If that's I've leased

that in America Latina the percentage of women is that never have been in number the but I know.

And very simple no they know the clitoris. And not? No, know they're

not they're not. And the only, and the only, and the woman not know. But much

people, many, many people think that to talk and satisfy to do things,

is a That's one. Another, much abuse sexual, much trauma of abuse sexual. Another is ideas religious. But fundamentally, I think that

the person is not to know of some kind of a good sexuality with nobody. But, all not to know the clitoris, not able to

not have orgasm. So I always said, no exists, a woman frisida, but it's

to tell you to the man to stimulate, or to the woman to stimulate, and a woman to have an

So you'd say to the that's part of their responsibility totally of your responsibility. You know, it's that the man and you'd be an orgasm, is that you

learn to do you know, my love, to say the thing more that's the thing that's and I'm and I'll do

always, and I write in all my books, when a woman when a person, it's a graciously sincerely,

I'm a my marvellous in the camera. This woman has had 20,000 orgasm, no? This woman

can't have 20,000 orgasm. The The maravitia of the camera is when two people have a

chemical impression and a connection impressive. That's the marivial of the camera.

And how is that's to be to have to have a other that's a friend.

The other people. You know, you know, you know, you know, you know, you know,

that's a sexovia that's I can't tell you I'm being being a I'm being

the ex-nobia that's a grandado, what's that's that's that's that I'm

that I'm that I'm grandando. No, okay. Well, yeah. But, no, no. Mark, is a marvellous.

No, no, no, no, no, no, I mean, I mean, I said, no, let me clarify it. 100% what

did you know the doctor. It was with someone that was very, very, very, very, very, very,

yeah, was she was a and it was a magnificent guy, and I was a good student, and you know,

and you know, the best is the best student. Ah, there's, thank, thank you.

Thank you. This is the thing. The sexuality of the woman advances with the age.

The plenitude sexual of a woman is at the 40 years. So what's you have to be you're 30 years?

There's still things. The women not so not sure of some more when they're more young.

They need to say I'm think so I'm thinking about they're taking the camera, they're thinking in Babylonia

they're thinking in it's quite not so they're not secure to see myself.

It's a thing that is a time in cresate. So then really

So, really, not they're their multi-orgasmic capacity because not seeming stimulandos.

The reality is very simple. You, the first orgasm, the second is more rapid. The second is more rapid.

Exactly. I thought it was the other no, no, no, no. It's more more. How can't

be if you're if you're if you're one of the one of you, no you have to

make to make that time, but you have to continue, and yeah that's,

exactly. You, you're in a rhythm. Exactly. Very very For example, many, many,

most of the women, the woman terminate, then they're going to turn to, the woman to end up next, and then again, and then again, and then,

but the best of me. But the bestorgasmo of the world is the orgasm of the point, the point G with the clitoris

in the stimulation mutuac the two things together. Wow. Wow. That's the how can't

let me a map. The orgasm of point G. The orgasm of the point G. To start to tell the people,

that not all, all know they know that's the point G. Okay, the point G, is a spongita that's in the vagina,

that's a put in the hand in the end of the door, it's more or less, more or less, how many, we'd, say, a pair of centimeters. Three, four,

three, four centimeters in the entry. This, this, the side, right, and it's like a spongita.

The side of the right? No, the side, let's be, the legical. No, it's right, it's right,

but you're, so you're, so you're, so, okay, It's like a sponge that that's

that's that's that's what's the orgasm no, the ejaculation feminine

so if a man, look what I'm going to say, what I'm going to say, you know, I'm going to

I'm going to see that I'm going to imagine who I'm going that's that's terrible what,

the doctorate? No, no, no, no, no, no, no, it's a doctor. It's a doctorate.

Oh, no, oh, yeah, the Howard. Howard's turn. A Howard's turn. Okay.

The theme is this. Look, the programs of radio that the doctor I'm listening. No, never I've heard but me comment

it. The theme is the thing. There are two forms of stimulate the point G and the clitoris

at the same moment. Okay, so. There are two ways. One would be with that

the woman is on top, is to be up, is here then the woman, when it's penetrating,

trying to try to to talk the part of the point G. and like, like, as a area,

meanwhile, the woman, or the same woman, or the same that's just a through Rhetorice. Ah, and Iyer

I'm there's that I'm there's three types of orgasm no, one for the

vagina, yes, yesterday just a year just a man over my one of the

vagina for the middle of the clitoris and so it's the an yeah yeah

but but it oh, yeah of that I'm going to talk that's

that's not that's thing there's there's there there's there a

very very good I'm I'm I think I'm we're we're

But it's the same. A bit more than. It's, for example, that the woman put the end of the woman in the point G. And,

and while he says sexual oral in the clitoris. And that's, it's like a explosion absolute. When a man does be in the

love to a woman, he's going to have a more content, he's, et cetera, et cetera.

So, so it was the thing. So, the other the thing. The men are bad

in the camera, not only are mal of the camera, but they're a inferno

for they're in because as they're in an uneducated, then they're also they're also they're the problem more

that's the same, it's not, it's not, but it's constantly. No, yes,

it's a conscientious, the ruin the life of the woman, because it's not quite, absolutely.

How? How? How? How? How? How? How? Yes, see.

The men, those are the women who are not the camera, what are that are that they're

to destroy a woman? But how destroy. But how much? The way. It's like. The way.

Like, for example, try to put it to put a back back, or to get a hysterical for any other

because. It's like. So, because it's a because it's bad with them. For that

we're always we're trying to be to be to be to be the same same. But it's

very difficult to find much people that's because I think you in this world,

all they're no, no, no, no, no no more.

The love is proper, no, is proper. There's the problem. Those two forms of orgasm that I'm talking are the ejaculation feminine

that's, that's that's a lot of the point G, more stimulation clitoriana is the maximum exponent of what is an orgasm. And that is a pleasure of... In Facebook, he'll have put like.

Like. Exactly. It's a wonderful. And as a man... We're giving ideas to the men. For the people who are listening,

let's give one of the experimented, the abandoners to to feel the pleasure to satisfy a woman. It's beautiful. It's beautiful. It's beautiful. It's

something is something is a minute. If you do you do it like you do it in

pleasure or it's it's equal and in one of those it's for the but it's a really because it

because it's it's a because it's because it's a connection precious. But because the

man has to care to give a pleasure the, you know what is to give sex

sexually for a woman is receiving the pleasure that the person to know,

to be the response that you how a woman you're doing a a woman,

is the form to give a woman, it's the thing to be a woman. A good Cama is, a

man who wants completely a woman, and a woman that respond completely to that's that's a

connection to total. Now, I'll say a question. Vena. And you, with all these relations

without of your life, or that you have you did you have been in the

question. In some of some of those, you have been a good sexuality. The sexuality, the

sexuality was in a relationship was in a relationship, where we're in the way of that we're

doing? And you're and you time? And how's the time it took to forget

to do those those pleasures of encounter that you years? Exactly. Ayes.

And it was in therapy, it was a process conscious of a process and to

do you? Is it? He's not she did it is a carous now, me

No, it was, that's another theme, but there was a sexuality precious and there was a very good, but for the most in that moment, we sent him that the stilies of life, no end uprored. If, with what it's now, no-seh. With what I was it, I don't know. Exactly. But what I do you want to explain

is that when you have been a connection sexual with someone, it's so difficult to forgets to that person. It's so difficult to be able to be that person. because it's an encounter. It's like, in English it's like melting.

I don't know how it's used in Spanish. It's like desacerser, derretirese. It's like derretirese in the arms of other person

and that other person is a other person is a derrita in your exposition and it's a vulnerability and an

encounter completely But that that means that is the person with that you have to be

simply that in that department is so great. That was the question that was the question I said I'm saying

in that relation But a sometimes A lot of The relation The relation most Ateorizant that you can't

Is that Anxical in the area For what you I'm saying What I'm What I'm What I'm

Say I'm saying Something that That's also That's sexuality Preciousa It's put Because can Because can

Because can't So you And then They're There's There person Not you That person no

That person No not you've got to the other person. They did it. They said, they've got to the respect.

It's a end of the rest of the time. There's a good relation. The compatibility and of communication, right? Yes. But it's more than that. Look,

I'm the love. I'm the love. I'm the love. I'm the most beautiful of the life is the love. No, no, I don't know

I can't find something that can be more interesting than the love, really. And being being inamorough is a thing is a particular.

Now, the point is that nothing is perfect. So, I'd like the relations were perfect and there would be

three, four things that you're going to do you're going to work. The reality is that's a gamble, as we've said

a little another way. It's a place. It's a post. And that can terminate, could not

terminate, can't be able to get back, can be retomars, it, can pass many of only there.

Only I can't explain to that's how little to experimented to be able to get back because they

energetically when you have sex with someone, you're you're trying a third entity. You're in that

person and that third entity that's both you're in the person. So imagineate those those those those

moments that were those those moments that were, other thing. The best of the person. The people don't know.

The person is the most important of the life. I'd say to any I'd say a person who's

a man. That bece well. Because a woman that wants be to be and that's a person, that

he wants to a connection. A man kinestesical. Because a home steasic and that can be able to

be able to be a lot more in that area of the camera. There are that they don't like

that they're that they're very mechanical that are not really really to be beingulars with the other

person. So, it's important for an man to develop a person. Beasar is

the maximum. Bezal is the but not for all. No, I know, I know, and not

with any person. And and be and to beza and brazzar. One of of the

things that I do to my pair of the pair of to get into to get in my

consultorio during 20 minutes with a music that I'm going to get to

get to the other person because if you're you're you're like,

I'm just like pura aporada or you have a put a or you're just

you're going to do you do you're where you're where you're present 100% 100%

the two parados abasances, sitting every part of the other person

with that that's a chemical that we're about, wow, that's a pleasure. There's a people who's

there. There's people that's those arms like, like, those people, no,

don't get the the person, it's not a distance between the caters. That's,

what on? That's a thing, when they're doing the hand, sobeces,

see, the one little bit, that's that flogita. Or the those, those,

those, those, the man who not a person who's a bit of

a know how much I'm in the woman I'm put to to bring up and you

know the you know like the like that's like that's like that the so the

thing but I again and I'll repeat every piece, every apiece, every bit of the

other person in connection with that you know, in that in that connection corporal,

physical and emotional The people, let's say, oh, we're going to go to go to the stairs, or we're going to to do it in the mess, or we're

to do it, but in reality, not are not quiteients. Not are very much, they're doing something because they're doing something because they're

doing a movie, oh, yes, the movies, me can't, I always I always did a program like a,

like, a movie, a particular, explaining, because that's not to be able to all the reality. All the

people, the people, the type, the type, they're, they're, they're, they're,

they're, they're, So they're like, and say, and you're like, how are you? You're just, no, no, no, they're

like, but a lot of you're doing so, you're doing so, and you get to be so, and you're going to get to be

that you're that's a heart of a lot of a lot of a lot of, that's a question,

that's a little biterian, is a, you know, is, is, you know, is, a person, is a person

that can't a decoerer a decoferfer yeah, I'm, so, but basically for

all the people, over the people, over the people who are talking to start

to start to be able to know the way. Beasarce is important. It's important. Acarice. It's important.

Very important. Very important. And how people can't look at the eyes? There's people that don't

never. Never. No, and when they don't know. Any when that connection. I mean, to

see someone to those eyes, you're talking the hands, you're just but for For that you have to You have to be

present with the other person. And there's people who know that's people who have to be present

with you. Everything starts with one. What can't do you? What I'm? What I'm? Can't be

with me? I'm can't be to be to be to be? I'm able to be?

I'm I'm sorry to be what I'm what I'm so I'm so I'm so I'm

so I'm I'm because I'm more they're more they're more they're more they're more they're

to be it's practice the love. It's a lot. It's a end up

the competition. It's a lot. Because they're they're doing to be not a man

to be that they're that's, oh, that's aggrandada. No, that's that's not,

that's why we can't me be able to me. So if we're not we're a relation

disconnected where we going to have done to have passed to be those carisies,

abracies, eyebrows, a good conversations, that connection, you're you're a result

completely different. It's that the other The women are not They're not

They're more, like they're more men who are more men are more more rapid in that sense.

But also the woman, we're a process. It's the woman that and I'll say something. I'm not

not all. I know, I know many people. I know, but they're rapidly. Like, you want to

get to get to get to get to get to up up, goodbye, and list. Because

also they don't have to get the time. But the woman needs, but the

need to pre-calentament to get to when you sexuality, you know more

a way that they're going going to be going to the years, less. Men's because the

kind of because you know, you know, you know, and the people can get masturbates

in a whole more easily, but it's pleasanter not a world, nor do it

anything, but it's like, in the , you're not you're in a bit of

the preamble. The preamble the preamble that's from the somerizes to make to make

a little bit of some something sometimes some that you see physically if you manders

a message or something the preamble I'm a I'm just a preamble I'm not exactly

and the problem a lot of sometimes is that a person that's a person who's a person that's a

person and a woman more a man more friarer with a repempano or a man retempano

and the woman recalient and they start in disenquential for so I'm the same

last that we've that we've that we've done that you one has to

one has to a frustration continual but what is like one is very difficult to tolerate it.

It's difficult to tolerate it because it's like wow wow, it's very intense. No,

I'm going to say, so resumient to the endrubation, the masturbation, I'm going

to say I'm controversial in the woman. I don't recommend the masturbation

in the woman in the woman, the masturbation is pretty? that, this,

it's so it's so it's too that's a like a man, it's not a kind of

to get to get to be a lot, it's a not, it's not a not really to be a

person, he's the desire to be a person who and I think, and I'm

a person not then. But the woman, no, the woman, no, the woman, naturally, naturally,

naturally, doesn't, naturally, naturally he wants to find out naturally. Naturally

it's not really that's in a woman. In a man, you get to get us to get us all right. It's all right.

Because it's because it's the quitted the time. And apart the work you have to the woman,

it's like that's the thing you're like that's... The other is... ...that's... the light and that the people that masturbate much is like the

dark in the obscured to the world. Yes, and in the yoga, in the tantra, part of the

recommendation is to learn to not have orgasm. Well, you know, I've studied. To have my

list of things to study. To have orgasm without exhacculation. Exactly. Orgasm

without. Exactly. What I have practiced, and I've practiced, is that if you know if you've

done you, simply your energy is going to grow and you're and you satisfaces

more to you. And you when it But in the case of the woman, and the

woman, also? What thing? Get, to get, without don't, that's what you're saying?

No, I'm, I'm saying. Look, there are men who say, too, and know, with

a tone of voice, and they're saying things, that I'm sure, that's a woman that have a organos

and that talk them. But, that's an art, the art, and, and,

and, and, and, lamentably, the women people, but who

who can't a womanee a person, And if the most interesting for me is that a man that is that not is a womanego,

learn all those those techniques of the womeniego I have done myrigo and that are in the same but that are

because they're like they're excellent in the camera in all of that But there's but you're to get used

in the in the camera in the sexuality I'm I'm thinking definitive that in a relation

where there's a connection the sexuality will be a connection hermosy that will always It can't

It can't It can't Always be If the two People are Sure Now that is What I know

Pough of People have That's got That's That's going to Do you It's important What's the

What's the Yeah I'm going to People No Yeah Yeah Yeah

Yeah Yeah Yeah Yeah So, Yeah And I I'm

And I You know Because One of one of the two No of two

No of want to continue. For so it's a camera. If the two want, if the

two want, no, it's the chemica is chemica, the chemistry is the chemica, the chemistry, the chemistry

for all the life? Many people are that no? I think if two people want, that do you

want to be that you're that's the question in all the things of the other people,

people are people are doing the money, to do the people, you know,

look, you know, the life is is that, is that, is, And I'm still

to pay the price? You're I'm going to pay the price. No, no, no, can't pay the price

of any of nothing. Of nothing. You're, you're, for having got to have yet

to pay them what you're to pay them? What do you mean? What do you do that? No,

that's the price that's you're thinking, Julia, you know, you've got to,

you've got to have to watch recasos, you've got to talk toartes, yes, well,

that's a little a little casuality, but, but, to understand You've got to be

being a little you're going to do do this you're going to because he's still still still but Juliette's still still

but there's but there's but there's not you're saying no, I'm saying the example of Julietta is that Juliaita

is that you're just you're just you're just and you're that's paid that price complete. I think that's

yeah, I'm you're doing to get a price you pay the price I paid the price I'm I'm working

very bad money and I took to change the city and I was I'm going to get to have

my first program of television. So, it's two years. And they're that's 10 years, 10 to 10 to

do you need to get to get to your program to do you. In reality, how those prices have

to pay? It's so I'm to be in the media to be work for the world of

the planet that you can't imagine, radio, television, from here to have to

have to have to do you because it because you want to do you guys because you

are still doing it This podcast, for me, why why do I'm doing? Because here in this podcast I'm about the things that I'm going to talk about the

show to the people. But I want to talk to talk about things more profound and transcendent. And in what it's resolve and not it's resolve, that I can't have

a program similar to this podcast. In the TV, but this is not money. We're trying, we're trying to be we're doing.

Exactly. We're experimenting and we're trying. And this is the price that we're paying for something for something. Because we're going to

do it's a person. And the people don't want to be able to Oh, you know, how people and don't see

want to get the rope? 30% contested that don't want to say the reprieing not to get a

repress in having relations without, wow. No, like, no, like no, like,

that's like, flogel. To get, to be a flogelah, that's that word that I'm using,

but if you go back, or you goadito for the life, you know, and you know, and you know,

you know, when a woman is when a I'm going to put on peaches because so he'll like to

like to my marital, me go to my man, I'm going to do this, I'm going to

not, because that's not the thing you know, that's the things we're that we're what we're

we're just and we're we're not it, we're you know, you know, you know, you're the

woman, I'm sure that if you know what you want to more, or pass, no you

it's interest the camera, the woman more mar' as if we're something that we're going to

it's a it's a but you connect it's how people you're going to not you're saying that's not

but I'm so interesting I'm not we're doing we're not we're not because it's a question

that there's a connection no there there's a idea and what I want to I want to let's

what I'm in the future project that we're with Marko is that the people learn to

to care to care to pay the price to have a good to that was the maximum.

The best relation. The better economy. The better life. The better, the best health. No.

No. I when I went in a place in a place in a person, I did inquest to the people who had cancer.

And it was the most were the diet that had to do that were to get to

the cancer. Those were not more than more than prevenir, they were disposed.

And the others were to come to a condidid, and it?

And it was the diet vegan? No, it was a cruda. Cruda completely with a

cleanisa of colon. None. No element of the origin animal. Nothing. And so what

to hear of do you want to do you know, they're doing this. If I mean, me say in the life, Mirrana, you know,

you're going to do this. I'm supposed to do whatever something to do something to do that. That's what

I want to do you want to do you can't to do. You can't to do. The point is who is who

is doing the person. Very poor. Very poor. Very poor. And that's what said my

mom of the child or the director of television or the doctor of radio then I'm

to practice and I'm a station my mini station of radio in the house and I'm going to

go to your friends but dedicate to the time to pay the pay the thing of the

sexuality the price that one for to have one that's satisfactory for the both is

explore-te it's to talk-to is communicating is is good to be you're very

to come good eat. The both. Yeah, Karina Velasco was the podcast number

there's a oh, I don't remember, buskens it in the catarrow. A person eating raw, a person who's

going to be a more than a person who comes a carna. This is the thanks. Thanks for the promotion, doctorate.

For that me stay I'm saying one person that a person that that's a person who

can do, a woman that's a woman who can't, so you do you, so care

not, so does that make-up is to make-up. Is to to do, do exercise,

to doga, the commersano, coming in the play in the play, to do you put it to put your part.

Is that you do the, my prima, Monica, Sanchez, with his husband, Otto,

came here to Los Angeles and we were talking of the jugues and the and the

and the stuff, and I said to go to the other stuff, you're not to siter and come up,

but you're going to be more more than you're going to do you do you know,

I'm going to buy a a machine of jugs because he put more more cariiose with me.

That's beautiful, no? Yeah. It's really, the jugs reds, the

vegetables, the level of adrenaline, the yoga, the yoga, the other the yoga, and I'm

so I'm a class of yoga and I'm goingosito, no, I don't you know,

no, you know, you know, no, you know, you know, and the other,

and that's a great difference, and a woman, the Sanger in the body and they're in the

people who are sitting at the TV, comienting purses. Exactly. So, you know,

all the prices that you have to pay? Now, the point is, but it's that you

don't know, it's like something, but it's a good, you know, sometimes it's a lot of times.

A lot of it's a exercise, too. Well, to do you do you know, to do you

do this exercise. A bit, to do you. A bit of some, there's, I'm, I'm,

my day I'm, I'm a parted. I'm in the gymnasium. Okay. And for other person, that's a

a crime. But for me, you're a unferma is a question. Dehate to eat to eat as well. Exactly.

And there's just a... Exactly. And then he's, exactly. And then you're, the point is, the point is,

what is what is your priority? What is your priority? A few sometimes is to be a

time. To get a certain hour, to have a certain amount of times. And there's a certain.

And all this has to be to be to be with you? Totally. Because it it's, it

seems we don't we're talking about about the sexuality. Totally.

We're talking about the sexuality. Because I'm many of people who have been in a diet

raw. Yeah. And the women are and they're a better sexuality. Much of

people have been in erection with the veganism. There are phrodisiacos like the raw

chocolate this, all what are the blueberries The maca. The maca and

all this type of things. You go you're putting in your organism and it's going to

your testosterone. The superaliments that are the things, that's it's logical. It's like like Povee and the spinaques

more energy. What I would like to help to generate and be part of the movement is to generate

those the women that want in all. We're going to grow up. We're going to grow up.

We're going to create a question specific. A woman that says, okay, doctora, I'm I'm going to say to my wife, my wife, my wife,

how, how satisfacerser me and all. But I'm all these puddors that me said, for the questions religious, of that I'm to have a good little bit of

and that's prostit in this and that that's... That's better the Bible, because the Bible, they're that the woman has

even a woman even can doork a woman if the woman if the woman doesn't know. Where is that, doctor? Well, exactly, but I'll

In the, is Antigued Testament? No, I'm I'm not quite in the book of those two, but I was reading with some my wife's, that were the

judge of Jeobah, and me were showing how it was a ground of divorce if the woman not was a

woman, it's part of the obligation of the man, as a man, to have been in the

book of the Jewish, that's, I don't know, I know, but, I'm, but I'm,

but if it's a obligation that has a woman, to have a good to have some woman, is that

are are not sussing, not soo. But the sex is not so when when you're when you know

you know it, is a little askeroo because really not you're not having a connection. It's like practically you're masturbating

with a person. And what do you want to be with one and other and other and I think they're taking a taping a

a vacio, a vassio very great that they're that they're getting more more than than has done to

make more to turn to pay a serious consequence for that an endregn't total with people

you're you're energetically with other person you're in your your body

your your your orgasm with someone with someone with you know you know

you're I'm I'm sorry I'm sorry I'm not so how you can't

a person who has a a how you're you can't you

start to get to know to seducing and to

first first first I care I'm I I'm

I'm I I'm I'm to I have all the techniques of the world but the theme is

to get two persons that want to understand what important that is and for me it has to be with the

auto-cuitado and with the care of the people do that the two people want to be one just one and that's the

point. When there two, then that's that matrimon is a marvell and if there's there's

it's allio yeah no there's there and a and a there's to but many

times the sexuality is symbol of other things that not that's if something

if a if a something is because there is a much of the money and the sexuality is

very like for example, women with problems of money or or that they don't want to

give money or the woman that there there is there money and the sex is

very of the man very much very very of mind so agree

there's there's in the we're we're we're we're so that

so that for the people have a You have to If they're To do yoga If they're going to do yoga

tantra Huntas If they're To be able to If they're to Cue Rowe If they're to To say

Things Lindas It's a decision It's a decision They're saying Things Lindas One or other All the

People say Things say Things Faeas All right To tell you Teller something To tell you

Aftor To be Amarce in Instead of Adiars That's the So is That the

Puck No The person No, the People don't Do you what's what's

what's what's I think in the fidelity? Totally I'm in the totaling of the infidelity.

What happens if you have problems in a relation and you call to someone more and ceded to that you and you're

that's it's the same that's deprimed and you use drugs. It's the same. You're the

same. You're just not you're not for you, not for the other, rompest your integrity,

you're doing you're doing to do you do you to you know to be a lack of integrity

with you myself. I'm in I'm in the Fidelity. So, that no you know

to do that not you're not a solution to not, and then you know, you know, you know, you know, and

you know, and you know, and you know, and now want to be to go to the woman and no they're doing

to do you, and you know, you know, you know, that's, you know, I'm going to be a real,

no me may be a price very high to pay in your integrity as human, you're doing the monogamia,

I think, I'm totally in the monogamia, prefer a monogamia series, is a person that's a series, with a person to many, a person that's with many,

that's a lot, first, that you can't form a person? Second, that you're not going to be connected with nobody. With who, with this, with the other? No, no, no, there's no, no, connection. If you're going to be able to masturbation, that's what I mean. To be able to, yeah, so. To start with

to whatever, make sure, to... A lot of you know, and you know what you know, and know what you're like, because the other person that neither person, that neither is, a lot of course, is a mamracho. In the mammarchos. Julietta,

you have to get with some my rachos. Yeah I'm for sure. That's

good. For me I've left. Oh yeah, I think I want to put

more more explicit the issue, but we've made to the sexuality. We're

like five minutes. What other other advice? We can't give, doctor, to

create a through the sex, in the pair of the part of the kids? Look, the

You know, the Amas the amazza the most of the reason why? Because a

vibrator, obviously, it's more faster more than a person who's a little a bit more than a

thing, you know, it's a little bit of a but you're doing much orgasm, but you're doing, then you know, it's probably with a biter, it's like that's

like that's like a sensibility. So it's like a arm of double-filo. Metter

Juggetes in the middle of the camera because they can be a competition for the pen of

the man. And many women are used to that they have used to there are that there's

that they're not want to not want to move us no, don't want to move in the

camera? No they want they can't much no can't do anything they're

not they're she's up up up to do it, it's a it's a

it's like it's like it's a sexuality the commodity and the community and the

time and the time of the other for secure and you see all right and I

no me important not the arreglars and then to keep getting sitas

and get a so much romantic for that you know the time

all the parties have to get to allas and the community Latina

many are always with their kids in the middle, doormen with the kids. What's the people who are

they're in they're in a person who are in they're just they're not even to start the because I'm going to be able to be

that you're not going to be your wife? Not you're the person that's going to be going to be going to be

that's going? It's a totally. Totally. The point of totally. Papa and mom didn't

moments of private. Oh, is that they're going to do this is going to and that's

that's just that's and that's creases, knowing that the sexuality is something I'm going to

the sexuality is a different. And then it's also what you do you know, is a little what you know what you need to

do you pass, or you know, there's people who have people who have a pairhous of their parents and say, oh,

what's the person, I never to get a person, oh, my mom took a whole,

all their whole life, I'm, I'm, I'm not I'm, I'm going to be,

I'm just, I'm, they're ranca, all the whole, so, I don't, have a pair

horrible that's a pair of the time in the we're in the problems, we're in we've got to our parents,

and we've used to our lives. And if you have a lot, attract us just about what you have to what you're doing.

What you're, what you're doing? What's, you know, one, like, one, one, like,

the world, I'm just just something, I'm not that's just you're doing, so, you know,

you're putting that's a energy in that, because it's so it's so that's that's much,

it's that's just what you form that that that's that's something?

For example a me a lot of me pass a CENTRI I'm not that I'm going to do

that call to 20,000 hours to pass to Mexico to San Diego De Chian the Tijuana

Cetries the the targett that you do that one of one of the one of two

times and I took to go no no there's form I'm I'm going to I'm

going to I'm going to get a bus and that I pass and that I'm passed

no way that I had been you've been doing that call. When you said when you're with that

with that's a really, it's a lot of you're going to do it. I'm not I'm afraid, I'm sorry.

There's there's what you know what you're so there's so there's so that's so in the no I'm going to

focus us in what I'm what I'm going to try to make that that's energy to canalize to get the

the fear and put it in the positive to say I'm saying no I'm saying I'm going to

want to want to be I'm sorry I'm sorry enamorado of a person that's amorous, divina, that me a love, that I love,

that we love, that we're together that's always, and I'm thinking in that, you're thinking an emotion, you know,

a lot of a good, that's full of the spirit of that's that's having, of that's that's trying,

and you're going to you're going to no, no, I'm a divorcee, no, this is a this is a brother, no, this is a this is a brother,

this is a maracho, this is a mamaracho. Mama, ma'amarratch, ma'am! No, but it's sense because when you

take that decision and that passion, I'm going to have this, I'm going to do, so you're going to make a price or whatever. You'll say something, Marko, you know,

I'm going to say, because men, that want to be able to to come back to be able to, to make a woman, and say, I'm going to do to have a good

relation, you know, you have a hundred times more options than a woman. Sincerate? Yes, because the women who are the ones that are

the one point of one percent, and the people are more. And, and do you do to do whatever thing spiritual and you're

to be more women than men. And why you think that's that you know, you're just just only because

you're just because you're just about this after a year and you're going to find out of a family and it's more easy for you.

No, it's true, it's certain, when I go to do yoga or the mastery of psychology spiritual or to the centers

of the center of there's always. It's changing much. There's more there's more people.

It's changing. Many of the men are gays but it's but it's the energy feminine We have

we, you we have to get back and help to help to help to help us to help us

to help you want to want to know, there's two questions that one there's a woman,

I'm doing to make a woman, and when a man can't say, no, I can't

make a woman, it's going going to go back because the man is because the

woman, but not not is, not conscientious of that, of the many defences that

So in the theme sexual, we have to talk. All right. Dime what you like you

do you like, let's how you do let's get to get to get to a man. There you're

so's very macho and if you not you're not a man you're and as you're saying and as

you're to have the valentia of being of your sexuality and to explicitly

to explain what the other what you want you want to you're you're to be

that that phrase. I meresco being to be a matter and she has to the women that finging orgasms. What, what is the

God of my life exists. I don't know I'm not saying. But many of them can't get them to get us because the other

is a lot of and they're doing it and they're doing it. So, so you're gonna you're gonna you? I'm,

my amigua? No. My amigua? Well, my base you, do you, do you,

do you know, do you? You can't oh, well, there are, there are, well, there There's a part

that's the thing he's that's horrible let's be I'm sure you know it's a thing you're in because you're

thinking to get you know, it's not but you know but you know but think that's what you're doing that's not really because he's

really a if the woman has got contraction vaginal she has the pain and the mojade and all that

and all that and not you know they're in babylonia then they're creating an ignorant that after after then will be

to terminate the relationship to her will look to to another person, and that person will say all the

and that person is a lot of the thing is a matter of course because he's he's a lot of and he's not he's not

because he's not really know what he's like, okay, we're doing you do you do you do this and I'm

and you're more or no. Yeah. Yeah, yeah to pass when you're going to get to

when the person, when there's when there's so, so what we do we can do is communicate

to do that's another other place where you have to be able to open to talk about your

okay. And I'll tell you let you have a try to know, not you're but I did some questions. Any other

any other any question? No, no the fact for now my problem all the questions,

so much much thanks, Dr. thank you Marcos. Thank you thank you Julia

Gabuili. Dr. Kabuli, where you don't we can't find in Redes social,

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we're doing we're talking we're talking we're we're so, so we what I'm

what I'm the first probably was not for a Tant to. Just just we've

some words. Well, many thanks. I'm a big of and we're going to give us things that we're

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