El Podcast de Marco Antonio Regil - 020: El sexo y comunicación con la Dra. Cabouli

Episode Date: September 15, 2013

Una de nuestras invitadas favoritas, la Dra. Liliana Cabouli, regresa para hablar específicamente del sexo en la pareja. ¿Sabías que muchas parejas que no tienen sexo se llevan muy bien y otras que tienen una vida sexual muy activa viven peleando? ¿Sabías que la comunicación y conexión física mental y emocional son clave para tener buen sexo?  ¿Qué es ser un buen amante?  ¿Sabías que el sexo y el baile están conectados? ¡Descubre las respuestas a estás y más preguntas y aprendamos juntos en forma divertida sobre un tema tan interesante e importante para todos!

In the episode number 20 of Regil Radio, regress a one of our invited favorites, the doctora Lillianna Cabulli, and the theme is sexo, cintapugos, direct to, grano, and clear.

Kedathe with us in this episode of Regil Radio. Welcome to Regil Radio, the podcast of Mark Antonio Regil. From Los Angeles, I'm Mark Antonio Regil, I'm sorry,

how are you? This is Regil Radio. And today with us We're going to The doctora Kabuli, welcome to Dr.

How are you? How are you? Very good. Thanks for to start with us. Julita Ferreiro. Hello. Hello.

How are you? Hello. How are you? Thank you. Thank you. What we're doing? We're going to do let's talk about

of relations. We're going to what you're going to do you want to do. Oh, and sex is a good theme.

Of sex? We've got some few? Some of many? Some of many? Yes. For who? For who is the

? For what? For what is the question? For me? For the doctor. Well, not for me. Because not for you. Because if we'd be a sexologist or something.

Oh, no me digas. Let's, let's enter to study tantra. No see, but the chikas are allqueaths, my fans, with all the talk about you in the podcast anterior. What did? Dijer.

That's not, you know, they're not even in the camera. So, you know, so I'm asking. Let's see, I'm, see, I'm listening, retroalimentation in the camera.

You know, much retroalimitation to hear very very good. That's the clave. That's the key.

That's the clave. That's the clade that that's the that's up, that's me see you're good that.

It's very good that's that's very good, a person that's not a person that's to get to because the sex

I understand that not is that I'm that's just that is simply, to learn to learn what he's

the person or not you and there you're satisfyinging and I'm an enormous satisfaction in Darnel pleasure to my

Pairja. Well, that's being a man. A man is a person that's a person that's That's a good. So, no. So, so I can't do you do a tallyers

if you don't need more here. Of sex? Talley's de sex? No. Even, to sex, you can't do you. I'm doing tantra.

Tantra yoga. Yeah, I'd say very well. You'd do you? All you've studied tantra yoga? You know? You know?

You know, you know, you know, but I did do that and I'm to do my patients to start yoga.

In the career of the you're a doctorate I'm a doctorate in therapy and a partner but I studied sexology in

the Argentina I'm I'm trying like sexologist and when you're going to you're a school to study

sexology? Is re what are the materials? It's re no because if I study to study

mercantone because if television radio are the materials or I want to be a lawyer

law laborer, lay, no see. Ejaculation Precox, problems of erection, all orgasm,

you're having all modules of different problems like sexual and then the time when I studied sexology

was something that was that was that was to make a to make a something that's something that's

something you can't make someone you can't say the alien and die and stay alzato

calient so, you know? Tate calient. How? How? How? How?

In the moment that I studied sexology we said for example a person for example, a person

going to start to start, and they're going to start to start. But if you're not doing that's in the part psychological and emotional

of why they don't want to that's true. But, but before, in the past when I studied sexology

the people, the first the first schools of sexology was, he was dedicated to it.

It was more more more mechanical all. In the there's no I can

can't call the appellate but that's a book that's

a passionate marriage, that I'm in class school here in the United he's

he's about the relationship and how that's how that your sexuality

how the lack of integrity, the when cede more than you

when you want to you do you know, how all that that

all over that so you psychological and you get

to the part to the part of the that that does that

does sound more to to be? well to Because I think a relation sexual

functions much for the head, no, so, for your mind. So if you're well in that aspect, yeah the body

like, accompany. Yeah, the, when it's a consequence of being in other things, not is that

the sexo and it's in the part emotional, uh, intimate. It's the capacity that you have

to be with alien and is what you are who is what you do a good sexuality. So,

your capacity to be your The first question would be that. If we're trying to ask the questions that we're going to try to do the questions that we've done in Facebook and Twitter. The people that are in a relation, matrimonio or noviazgo, especially in matrimonial, and yet no is sex with her

pariah. And have passed two months, or someone that's going to be there. It's normal to be able to someone and we've got to a year without having sex. But we're not we've got very well, and says, no, we're going to, for me that would be a problem, no? But the theme of the The problem of the

people that have a lack of desire is because they're mintying. They're avoiding conflict. They're avoiding the problems.

What the most destroyer a camera is the eviter the problems and not confrontals and not talk about them.

The fault of honesty is what more does that there's problems in the camera. The fault

of honesty. The more more more than false, better cam. So the pairjas

vianen For example, no, we're we love us, we get really good. But, lamentablelyly we have a passion. So I have

to create the despelote. That we're in psychology, we say we're a piece of a glass to splash the

like that. Like, like. Right, to let the pierre the water. And they're

to say, all the odio that has, the rancol, the resentment all the times that the

other not took, then when they're all of that they're all of to have sex.

In other other, what they're going to do they're to do you to make sure. What they're to say

to say one to do you to not to talk to do you, to do you know what never said. But the other

has to think that, I know, I'm want to say, I'm saying, but I'm really saying that my

partner me is a part of the that's a problem very great in many in many people.

He's, no me he's not, he's the problem in all the world. The thing is,

the thing is, it's that no, the response, no he doesn't what the

other is seeing with the other is saying, it's just, it's like, if one, you know,

a, I'm a example of my consultory, a person, a person who was doing sex with a

person, and the man has acculation precoce, and the woman has been

a person, okay, and it's a moment, that's a moment, he's just, they're not

super good, provider, try the money, he's over he has a little bit super comod, and he's,

he's, has 20 years that we have sex. And this is an infirno, because I never can't terminate, and I'm always frustrated, and you're very, very torpe in the form that you talk and I'm not like.

It's horrible, right? But that's a bad. It's a matter so that's necessary that something that's going to that something is going, because if you know, that the people that don't have sex,

they're always, the people that are the people who are the best are the best of the best ones. They're in paris, but they're a bit of a bit of

how is that that's a yeah, they're in they're all the day they're all right

in the studies in the other things there's there's many times one are the

one is the one is the one is the one of the other is the validator never I've

never seen let me let's let me know what are what are the validating couples

validator validator validator and that how is that is that is the that is the

this is the this is the dynamic. I really, I really feel that whenever you tell me this, it really hurts my feelings. So the other person, I understand. So, it's, it's, when you

do me really, really, me lastime my sentiments, I'm, I'm understand. I'm very well what you're saying. Validator. You know, I'm, I'm, I'm, I'm, I'm, I'm, I'm, what you say.

But in reality, there's, like, a mental in the bottom of the Alma. Not only is using a technique. Those are the farges of

validators. There are problems grave-simus but no, there's never a discussion. It's all like respect

and validation. But those are those who don't do do you? No, no. Because if you're I'm trying

to do I hear you. I hear you. You're still. But not they're not doing it really. They're using

like something. That's all right. That's all a technique. The ser human is a real idea. But we're

to see. After that the avoiding conflict couple. Okay? That are those that, oh, no, this is not going to

this, this is this, this is this, this is the trash can couple. Let me, let me do you do it, because

if no, the people who are they're, they're, they're, they're not, they're, of the

, of the , of the , and the , but not they're, putting a perfumito for the the parche the party,

so we're so, so, exactly, and then then the other that's, what, what,

what did you? Why? Why? Why? Why? Why? You know what? You're tired.

Me tersearch, blah, blah, blah, and it's a how we're going to a lot of those? They're not. Confrontatives?

No, I said, volatile couple, volatile. Ah, volatile, volatile, volatile. Those are the more people have

more of, more of, more of, more of, more of carino and also more sexo. More sexo.

All this you studied in the United, for so it's, the mind is very interesting. Me

happens. When I'm in English, I mean in the in English, when I what I've

in Spanish. me in the mind in Spanish. All this, I'd like to say it all in English. Sure,

because you're in English. Yeah. But we're not here. We're not.

Much's about. Many people are, but much do. So the ballatil has more sex, the

validora has been the validora. Those are the family. They're not can't be never ever.

You can't? You've ever ever a relation so, and it was just like so.

Never we never we're just never absent. You've been in something? You've been

in a in some relation where no, we're not we're not a

lot of the sex? The sex, a bit, but if it was there. It's not every day

but three times per day. Oh, well, for much people three at the

time. Oh, I remember that 30. At that that age. It's a time.

It's not when one for the woman goes up and for the woman sub and the woman

but in a a pairha. Well, one question. It has been, because this I've heard, that's in a

person human, can be the sex sexual, they say the people, the people, the people,

I'm going to see. I'll be what they're saying. The jones they're less the sexo

that the lottino does more the sexo that's not. I'm not not so. I'm not

not not. No, I don't not not I'm not stereotyper

to that but could say that there there a certain tendency more

that the people more that's especially the people especially the What is what you recommend or what can

do you? There are two options. The question that's to have to be a question is,

I'm going to say it in English, I can I live with this? I can't live with this? I can't live with this? Okay, we're going to

put it to do this so you're so. All the positive that has this relation can complementar

this is if the answer is yes, okay, take it. No, but if the response is no, then

that confront them and say, well, look, in this relation, our decisions sexuales

are very incongruent. We're not we're in the same page. So, I have my

necessities completely not covered. We have to do something. I have a therapy of strategies

many times. I mean, when I'm not put a door of the entry of the door of the

way. If the people is very irrational and not you understand and so

it's do things that are like those things that are the people who are the people

so one of the system is that, for example, a man that never wants to be a man who

does not work with him with a vibrator and that be able to be a bit more contented with the vibrator

and then the man and is this is it what is it and then it's a to be

to reactionar and it's no, it's that with a badbrador and so so it's

so it doesn't so of the vibrator oh, those are so those men

are real serous of the nothing. But, well, the issue is that that is a strategy to to molest to the other person to produce a movement.

Because many it's very easy to say it. Communical. Mentida. You can communicate millions of things and the

people don't reactionate. Look, I'm refrustrated. Sexually, we don't have what I need to. Uh-huh.

Okay. And it's the same. Right? Because the thing of the sexo is that the sex is integral.

Fifate you know, look at the thing. You can't You can't In the You can't

You can't You can't I'm going to Not I'm Not I'm Not I'm sorry I'm sorry It's too

So it's too So it's too The sexes And the Exactly the And it's too To be You're in a

Person You're just to You're You're No, you're In the No You're

You're The Desio's To be The idea It's a Mentire Mentire Tender

T' Retyin' Alexion Mentira Can't A woman no put it in an orgasm of a can't be a

can't can't can't do you? But if a man in the

camera know, because no there's there no no

the sex is sincere the the person the person so

that's the the sincerity the that the that

is the that you're that you're so so an

strategy is an strategy is that that that that's

that you masturbate you but vending to television and then's the other and he says, no, it's that

it's like, like you know, because other accusable before, before I was after the study of spirituality,

he said, we're going to do. What's the did you? He said, he said, an deal to do you. He said, well,

we'll do this. A deal. A deal. A trato. We'll just do you're a car, and you don't know

I'm not, you know I'm not, you know what? No, I'm that you know so you can't provide? Why?

You're going to obligar? Because we we're going to obligar a poor woman that he wants to that's a

person who's let him pay. Let him pay. We'll film a contract. The type of no, I want to

sign a contract. It's a way. It's a way. It's a thing. I do you do, I don't last

much much things, but it were like comical to produce a change in the system. To capture get a

exactly. For example, if you your your partner your partner not you did you say

and you did you do you do this only do you do you not do not to give

is to call for the telephone completely. Camby the system. Cambiate of position. So the other

person starts to react to reaction and the thing. What's? Because she doesn't

be a strategy. It's a strategic experience. Strategic Therapy is one of the

therapies familyaries, not more more common because are very complex for are very

very different, but that produce changes in the system. Because the

therapist family that is what is I, it was a question,

because the psychoanalysis produced inside but not produced things. This therapy is changing all the system. So in the problem

sexual in general is a problem systematic, in where there's much porqueria and not they're saying, so I'm going to

do you know the other of my strategies was because those two different, no, we're just we're just

we're just we're just when I'm when I'm a machine to say a lot of things. I used to sign a contract of no confidentiality.

I said, I don't guardable confidentiality. And I had all the information of those. They sent down in front of me and said, you know, when you said, that your mother, ta, ta, ta, ta, ta, ta. You know, so? There's a show. That's a lot. That's it. That's a show. That's it.

And so, and then they said, how? That's what? You're going to this? Yeah, it's right. And then the camera. There was the camera and down. And you'd be down when the person's started the car because yeah the tippa came with another

car, the woman came to another car you know, you know, you know, they're going to get to be around and then.

And you know other of my techniques is that when a woman if you want to have sex, in general, it's a

a woman who no care, because he's not because the time, because the type, no,

he does, I do a little to, a deal to, a type, a good, you want to be to give a

to you, you're going to do you, but for this, this, this, this, this, this, this, this,

this, you want. So, then the negotiations, that has a carino, that has to

say to say to say it's a lot of this, to do it to to be a way to be in the way.

And in general, the because are bad at the car, and you'll say what is a man

in the camera. What is, what is a man in the camera? A man,

a man, a man, a man, is a man, that has a acculation precoce, that no

he's a that's a person, that's not, he's not he wants, much, much does

sex oral, Pessim. Pessim, because no know where they clitoris, no, they're going to be in styrical,

desperated, like no, you know, that's a because it's a infirno that you're not that's all

all right, you know, that's a sexoral in a postado, no say, no, not they're

at the point. Not you have to be a circular, it has been a thing a thing that's a thing you

have to be, the man, it's an art, it's an art, it's an art, it's an art, it's a but every

other is specifically different. Yes, but there's a me, my mores. Let's see. Well, let's see the tips, Doctor. Let's see what we're

going to learn. The men are the people are the men who are people who are not doing so much. So, first, know, they're not

to terminate, know, despot, despot, despot, a bit, number one, are in control? They're in control.

They're in control. So, not terminal to be able to not. No, to terminate to make a lot to make a much

times. They're going to make a much times. They're doing to do sex oral, perfect. Ver to the eyes.

I mean, I'm to look at the eyes. Yes, exactly. That's the key. That's the clave. That's the clave.

So, in general, the people are in the dark when it's the world. Do you know what? Do you know what?

Oh, it's not that's a horrible. That's a, no, I'm saying, no, I'm saying, I don't know what's it.

Like, like a lot of, like a like a like a, like a girl like a ball of the pastas.

Yeah. Well, the, the, the woman, the, the woman, the camera,

to do the love. He does. So, it's a so it's a very much pleasure. Now there's a

problem that in the matrimonial. A man can be able to be able to be to get a to make sure,

and they're to make sure, and they're more to make sure. And as well, you know, you know, to do it,

like a mechanic, mechanical. Yeah. And always the same position, an orgasmito, you also.

And there has to be something with what we about we with this podcast, the theme

of the health, because if the woman, or a woman, maybe could be the man, that's the thing, you know, is the way,

it's a lot of not a exercise, come a pure food, chatarra, is it's without energy, puras things processed and it

is a lent, and, in the energy is bad, and then you know, physically, he costs, it's a

person, it's, it's a way, but I'm sure, that's probably that I'm imagine that after a

kind of mecany the time of sex. For so, the relations that are not spiritual not

because they're going in the thing sexual is that I'm going to repertive when a when a relation

not is based in spirituality has a because the the chemical sexual can do that can't do

a number of years the maximum that I've seen eight years of a natural

but but then but before it starts but for two reasons but I

think that the spirituality a one a human has a

a woman has to the Bible it is in the pedestal

So if you both all the days you get up to the morning and you say God my wife

thank you I'm a my spouse I'm a am I'm what I'm to do you to be able to

be able to not you going to sex mechanical and not and not getting to

get to the pantalones because oh that's that's that's

I'm I'm never never I'm never I'm never

never but there's some time to be that people Or is simply the day-a-day? No, is that the passion

is revive when two people want to be revivate. And for that you have to be so you're revivied to do, what I, you do.

What I do, I'm doing, you want, you want, I'm, I'm, I'm I'm, I'm, I'm, I'm I'm, I'm

passionate, is all what one is, and how people do you do, the 90% of the people, no, they're not

they're doing they're, so, the sex is like a symbol is like one of the last things.

In the sex, you have to have got a sense to get a lot of the same. Ganas of to share,

to get to get to get and what cojones to be there. I'm going to get a lot of when I'm doing a lot of

and I'm really sure it's a great pleasure to give us. But, that's a man. You're in adoration

of her. And me excita to be excited, I'm excited to be a this is a it's a it's a satisfaction

enormous, enormous, that's a man, that's a but many not are so what you're

saying, they're saying how he's going to be sexor to how will be to them,

and I never I never understand a ejaculor precox how can do you.

And then and then what you know what is a much people today

to learn to have to have to have of the pornography. Oh, but because because the pornography

you can't, no, it's the vagancia, the vagance, the vagance. You know, I don't, I don't,

I don't, but it's like, it's like, it's, it's, no, it's a more. No, no, it's,

no, there's, the, the, the, the, the, the, the,

the, um, the, the sexo, is the, the connection mental, spiritual,

and emotional, and physical of two people, that are They love that can be who are the

other and that there are a degree of sincerity of the 100. So, there is there's

there's a integrity, is what you know. This man, this man who wrote the book,

that I took the course with him, I said, the lack of the

human, how affect your sexuality. That's is. If you you know, if you

not can't be able to be able to be in front to other person you,

you can have to have been good sexo. And for example, what does,

I don't say, I'm from a point of view of a point of the point of the women, when some

some women have some some evisions with respect to their body, for example, that they

feel they, for example, their vagina no is a lot of a way, and that maybe

doesn't really and they're there's there much time because it's, or not

they're they don't don't want they don't don't take to or when

when they these these regulations where This, this no, this no, this no. I don't. I think we all right. I think you're not,

but when you're with a woman that has, for one or other reason, has all these rules or taboos or restrictions. And also

it's going to other things. So, as how you have those restrictions in the camera, that's showing a lack of

self-estim, because is just a jugged in the camera in instead of being to be doing, it also,

also, it will be in the when you're coming with you want to be

to be in your life, it's a will have to do you have to be in your because it's

that you know that's the thing that's the end of a person human can't have

a question. If it's a thing, that's that there's that's a question,

that's not not mean, but he not said about her not about the position. No,

not about specific he's talking. He's talking of indivions of the univisions of

exactly there women that have many that's a lot of you know, but you know, but you

have a complexado of the pants, to complage of the piece, of the or the way. Or, or the or the, or the,

or the, that's a, that's a, the, that's a, that's a, that's a other question different.

And it's, that's a other thing. That's, that's other thing. I'm, I'm not, I'm not,

when a woman, when you know, when you know, when you're not a person, not it's you particularly particularly me

doesn't, that, that's, no. And there's a lot of that I think you And that's what I think And so that's And so that's

Tollar To other things Because it's a person that No-to-estimed or that not Sincerer completely That's reprimed

Or that has 20,000 OCD So, then So then you You have to Questioner, the questionation

Is this Okay This is the person That's the This is the Can I deal with it? I can live with it.

I can live with it. And if you Yeah, I'm just a question, No, No, who they have sex with her. No, no, no, no, they have sex.

Because they're deprimed for the money. You know, the truth. For the money, that no gain the sufficient, because the age, because this, because the other.

Then we're going to be sex. Because I don't have money. Exactly. And what I said, the worst that is to be in the life is

to be a bad autoestim. It's the worst the worst relation that you can't be to have to to be a boss. What the other is what the other

is what the other is what the other's she wants, is how you want to you want to it's just so it's easy it's a lot of

I'm, I'm going, when I'm going to have how do you to get this about this she's,

to be the she wants, oh, well, then I'm going to be to be able to you?

How do you want to to be? How's the you're going to you're going to accept to me?

So, one of the things that is a good is getting to see when you

can't do you do you do you to be to be to be to be

or forget. Sincerably I think for that for that I'm, because I think if we're doing that the world

the people the people, we're going to love to your progimo as you're like you and you

like the people, like they're like they and you know, and if you know, you're not,

you're going to say to Juliette is other thing, and that's a very good question too

when you're when something when something you don't you know it doesn't that it's

that it's say the doctor, that not is the way, or some aspect of your life, or some of your other,

but something, in particular, in a lot of you know, you can't be able to not you're going to force.

The sexolal is something very common, that there's that we fascina, and there people who doesn't,

and there's and if you don't you don't know it's and there's there. And no,

I'm going to repeat. The sexo is something is something so integral. What no

you know not you like. No, you know so. I'm going to I'm going to

do you know, I'm going to this. We're going to do this is the drama most great of all the world.

Ah, so? Muchisimous women don't have sexonal much. But it's a drama.

Well, it's a drama because when a man he's a lot of things that and the

people and the people and the women are much sometimes you don't want, no care, you can't

you can't you can't be able with this. The question the million of dollars is

I'm I can't live with this? Yes. I can't live with this. Because nobody is perfect. And always you can't pay a price

of any person with that you're if you're not you're going to you're going to you're and the people who and the

people who were they're not even even if they're going to do you 50% of the second matrimony and 95 of the

thirders and the people change and you can change and it's that it's that depends

of how you you can't be the matter what that would be very good, so you're

going to want to what's the so. If you're going to be able to the sexo, but you're going to be

a lot of you're going to you're going to a propuice to do you, it's like you're going to do that

that means for you not that's not. But for you the divorcee, you're not. But for you

the divorcee is a same in many times. For me for me, I think, I think,

I think, I'm not, for a person, for me, the concept that I have to do what is a matrimonial, is a thing that's a

very idealized because I'm a partner and see how it's a person, so it's to be a person settling, like accepting and

being inconforme completely, me seems a falseed for you and for the other person and also is to keep to

the other the possibility that's with someone that can be to be someone who has been to

think you to think if I'm not, it's just that that I'm just that I Who are you are you

It's just that I stay with you? It's just that you have a person that is thinking of you this? No, no, no is just. Yeah.

That's what I think. Oh, and the parishes, for example, one is where I say, okay, no me doesn't know I like, that's that I don't like,

that's, that's that's all. But when there's a kind of, there's a opportunity, there's a

way of explore to explore and to be able to be able to expand a little the experience

sexual with your family? There's Muchismas forms, but I'm saying

something that's very very different. There's people who are going to be sexual with a lot of

someone that's not. You know? You know? There's there. There's people, for example,

that with a person have had the most a little like a animal, and then

with the woman or with the other, the woman or the same there's a certain

in the movements that a person that a person, a that a person is

a person, a person, a person, I always I'm going to to learn to learn to learn. Because

a person when a person know a really to be doing the that's really. That's right. That's

so you're so. You know, you know, you've never. You've never. You've never

never been there, the truth, the real time. Zumba! I'm going to do it's I'm going to

do you're going to confrontal. Because in reality the ballet is like the sex imagineate when the one is,

for example, a tango a salsa you have to you have to give and turn to turn

and turnartes to be in control and that the that's a lot of you. It's a lot to do you. That's very important. To have a certain certain, if they're trying to make sure, the ball is a form of divertida, an exercise sano. I'm going to apart. I'll learn. A

to learn. A balear? A balker. Oh, I'm going to... I'm going to be a good thing. Are you are doing the only ones? But we're doing the issue, you know, you know, I'm going to, you know, I'm going to, I'm going to to look at

put music and I'm going to do you know and I'm going to and your tantra yeah and the first and the

most of the world is when a major of the thing is that's actually that's that's actually that's powerful

that is powerful because because all that energy of all that's it's being a rousal that's called

a rousal a carl how it's you can't you can't and it can't get and when

a man can't do that they are good Yeah, and to see, but you What's the

What's the What's the What's going to All right? I'm doing. I'm doing. I'm but there's

many people that are the eyes to see to the eyes as the women. And there's many of the

women. No, they can't. No, they're going to because the eyes, a person

that can't look at the person sincere. The sincerity that's can't be to be

to be the eyes and and a person who is is still is still is

about it or is still in our The tallyers that don't have nothing to be

with sex, or the more if they're to be a word, they're in the communication, ventas

and leadership, and the things, we're to do you, we're doing, to be in a time, and they're

doing it's to 30 seconds and and then it's to be going to the capacity.

Yeah, sometimes it's timidness. A me was a lot that I'm was a

time with the sexo because I know, it was, well, no, no I was

like if it's it depends how, so it's like so I'm intimidated a lot. So, it's just

what you in your your head, how do you know, the sexo in your head. So,

what to be in the ventas, in leadership, in sexo, in psychology, in connection. There's a,

there's a, a coach of a that me said that she could do not solution to

many problems that took to do for years because they sent to see to at the

In my eyes, half hour. It's very good. It's a minute. Every hour, all the days sat down. And the only – not did they're saying, we're saying,

we're saying, we're saying, we're saying, we're saying, only at the time. And that exercise of a versa to those eyes, I do, I've done much times, and at least you're

and with people who, because you're trying to, because the people, because the people, listen to, is that when when you're not

the eyes, you know, and that's what you, well, no, that's what you is, eyes

profound. You're going to say, you're going to do you're doing many things of that's

many things. Many things. The eyes is the door of the heart of the alma.

Yeah, yeah. It's. Yeah. One of the question that has to do you know

that's that we're not as that we're talking, how you can't feel?

Or have tend to be indiancies to more than to the obvious of the person in the moment with

their hands in the people, they're not sex, to begin to go to the house

not to you know to do nothing you see a person but there

people that's no she does know I'm a question that's getting in the

woman and that I'm sure I can not you don't know that because

she does that she does that she doesn't that that's that

me that that me that that that is something that one we're

we're going to get to because I'm my but never to what

the man is to do that the man's the she says, no, it's that I'm it's that I'm important that's so that's too, I'm sorry, that's like I'm trying to see, there's a lot of people

there are people that make of course, no. A bit of course. I mean, I mean, I'm saying, I'm saying, I'm saying, to say, this, me does so much

going to get into the querns. No, I do. No, I do, because I'm because I'm

really, the space is so great between you and you know, that could be able to be a person.

So, I need to more sercania, and if you are you are disposed to be more or no,

because the parents you have to find the person who want to want to want to

because it's a drama about the the I think that this this is like this this amiga this is a year

really we've really we've done really interesting because she I'm saying I know my novio is so this is the

phrase in this is needed the American the American those Americans all describe describe me well no

he doesn't say that that's not that's a that's a person that's a person that's

no but I don't know you have to you know you have to sit and to talk to you're

in August so, what egoista that you do, and I said it to do, I say it's that you know, that you're going to that you're going to that you're going to

a person, to be a woman that would be able to talk to be 20 hours to talk to her to be with you, that you're going, that you want to

go, all the day moving to go, all the day, moving to you, making two million of your life, evading your

indicted. Evading the intimacy. I'm, I'm, I'm going to see, that's a bad that's,

not going to be going to be, not going to be in the middle. And when I said, because we we were in the sauna, we took, we've seen, in the spa, junta, you know, and you know, and I said, you know, I'm going to say, I'm going to sit there to listen to more, because she's what I want to do, he's going to, no, no, no, no, you know, no, you know,

you know, when you're going to, you're going to do, you're going to do something, they're going to transform it in an alma, in an soul, in a person, you're going to be able to do, but you're to unir, you're going to, so much space, So, so space enter more people in the

middle. If you don't want to you're in a relationship. But the people do you do that's in

so you're so you're thinking about you think you want to be to come back with a woman and you

want to be the momia because we don't have the momia and they're contented that's the

drama that I see that I'm going to have going to help you know to help to the people

to make a lot of that you and the really that I'm really that is part of my mission

that there's much people with the person equivocated so there's there's a match well, it's like you know,

I'm sure that we're saying a show we're saying a man to make a man to make a woman to make a woman to do you know

and I'm sure that we're a list very because I have many fans that want to think it's I'm thinking that

when you're when you're to get to the television is other history because cameras and and

And apart because the tip of what is to be a Mark Antonio Regine, not Mark. And you know, and you're going to and you're going to, and it's a drama that you're going to

live in the life and that you want to talk about when you're when I'm really when you're when you're more prestige or so

famous or what or whatever, or the people get to getcha with that people get to if anyone really really

to get to if anyone wants to be because the motivation and it's so. You're very difficult that's how difficult

that is that's it and you have to to be more atent when the when the when the

people have money or when the has a position of power or the or the position of

or the people are and the money. And the money too. It has to have a

filter very interesting to know. It's a matter of that you don't know a woman

if I want a if I would be a man I'draer a man that's

that's not that that's that's the motivation when they're that you're a

very good part For me, when I go This is an offense practically Exactly. To me, a little

a foco Rojo I'm going to Good Partido is that you're in like a

But for a person to be more than more than a more than a part of

that person has to have a connection to have very good himself

I'm all and I'm from a family of money and I

have lived that I've been when I when I when I

know when I know I'm I'm I'm I've lived with many years

of my life that's so horrible to know who are the people who are the people who are

that they're going to be a tachate of and it's it's a people who are and how people and what's

people who want to do you know but in the podcast a couple of a couple of several

with a second time with the dog whisper the encantado of per that he made a

person we're we're talking how you how you know when you're when you're

a shelter in a perrera, how does a girl to adopt what is your dog? So he said

that's prepared. He was talking to other thing, they were about but he said

that's prepared, that the two errors is one, adopt to the perro that's

in the old is to be a little and the other is adopt to the and you

want to to be that's the that the most of the people adopt. Or with the

the victim says, oh, oh, oh, oh, they're going to say,

oh, they've been to come on this, and you let me, and say, oh, is that

me's coo me, look, how he he's got, and he's the perro correct, is the one, to your space and you

go like a lot single, but the way, move the collar, respect to your space, if you know,

you know, it's not exactly exactly the same, you know, with a person that's a person who is

a lot of a lot of a lot of a lot of people, but also to get with someone

that you're that's without because you know, because you're a person,

but there's I think, and I'm sure, that you're sure that you You're Mark and Tonya Regil, you're known, but you're not,

you know, you know, you know, you know, and in that I'm identifical with you, and I'm,

I'm, the daughter this, the daughter, I, I, no, me creed that thing, no, no,

I'm, I'm, I'm really, I'm, she, I'm, , I mean, , I'm,

, I mean, , I'm, that's, she's, she, doesn't, that's, she,

exactly, and it's, and I'm, so, when a person, first, a person, the problem is that when you're in a place in a place place, the people, we're saying, we're saying,

how do you say that's it? How do you say that? You know, it's, oh, oh, Mark, that's, oh, Mark. That's amorous that you're so. Like, adulations. But all of that, for, for to get to something, me understand? Yeah. So, when it's, you're always like to take, like

a person, because they're saying, oh, if, I'm a friend of Mark, Antonio Rechel, that's famous. Okay? When came to the person correct, that person no, that's a person, no because for her, you're going to say, Mark, Marko, to be a bit of

if I'm a little to be, I'm interested, I'm interested in a question. So,

the point is that I'm to get to get to be used to get a person, a person not to be

to be able to the media, as we're doing it's a dula, in the brown. In English, it's a

in your ass. Kissing your ass. Dend your ass. No, this is, yeah, it's,

for that the millionaire matchmaker, it's, because obviously that if a millionaire millionario,

you know, you know, but it's the television, no, I imagine. That's a show. Yes, it's part of the show.

No, but it's of the fact of the show for that's that's about that. Who makes, who does it, who produces, the objective.

No, because the people vicariously see all those things and they're living that. It's like a novel.

It's like you imagine that you're going to you're an millionaire, that's a goate, you have to say, a clabre,

and say, like he's a clob and the point is that because she really really I'm really

but the real I'm a millionaire mindmaker and you want to say I'm like you know I get it you know what you do you're like that

you're like I'm very long as to be very long as that's a but there's someone that's not because for them

they're a prostituta exactly you're an true so I think of the women when many very much

people a prostituta a sex servider a very well when critiqued when they're when they're and the

difference between you and the prostituta is? Which, because you're with this man for you to pay the

for you're in, because you come here. So, what is your difference? No, that's it.

For that all it depends of your conscience in where you can't be your conscience. You can do

do you do that a or with a conscience B? Yeah, I understand. So the

infidelity when they are, where we've started to when they're when they're to make

less interest, less sex, then, and what you consider that someone that's Merse a second opportunity?

Yes. Merees a second opportunity, but with a price to pay and with some changes that you have to have to have the language to be the worst perro desentrenated and change, just one opportunity?

No, no. One or one? You're not. You've done two opportunities? Yes, yes. Yes, I've done it. More than one? No.

No. No. No. No, it's a cheater or one is a cheater. When one is a cheater. But as a one, who does a trap, always does a trap. But, sincerely, I know what type of person is cast

with a cheater. And in general, it's a person that's a person who is in Babylonia. No, I see where they live. They're in other side, no, they're not doing a planet on Mars. So, the type, so, oh, the woman! No? Oh, okay. I think you're just that the woman in the cones that

does calum. Ah, no, yes, yes. 40% of the women are the corners. Because because they're receiving, oh, you're Linda, Hermosa. For so the

autoestima is important to move because he has been to come from out of the So I'm

in a relation and I'm infiel, the first that I'm going to do to do you do you?

No, you know, you know you're not. You're only can know that

you know, there's a person, but that person you met to the

corns because no has been integrity. Because as I've repitiret in the

relations of the one one can't come to say,

you know, is that you know the of the corner that I'm it's impressive a time I'm trying to

I'm trying to and I'm trying on the time. And as we're taking sex or no, we're putting a little bit of

sex or no me does that I'm doing this and I'm doing it's because we're talking about it because we're

going to be going to let's say, okay, what's going to what's going to be doing? It's been going to

be a shock for that. For that's not that's not anyone can have a really can't and that

can't be and I'm and I'm I'm not I'm convinced that from we're trying to get to a

dimension more more than a energyically, of love and where the people can have had relations more profound and more

sincere. It's that I'm that's a woman, then I'm going to say, wow, there's two options. If you're not

you're not you're not how it's possible I'm not how you know, how you're doing that you can't you know,

that's putting me that's a person you know, you'll be like, another to say, wow, I appreciate,

I hear what I'm I'm saying I'm not I'm just I'm just talking but I appreciate what I'm like to make you

know, and then it's not going to make a work in therapy and in a group or something to we're going to

do we're doing or we're to do we're and there there's a other people who even do you do not

for me I'm not I'm not for me where they're okay, it's all right so they're

okay, it's so it's so I'm you know I'm sure I'm Kabala, that he made

that's that they're energetically, every that's a time that's that you're physically,

energetically in your body. Like, that's margated, that sexuality that's

that's that person. So, they're to be to get to get sex,

because when you're not, you're sex with a person, you're to be,

you're to get in your energy, and you can't to be to be to that person.

Wow. And that that's me so I'm so I'm I thought, God me,

and I sonned with a friend my that's a guy with I'm going to a guy about a

ballachia and I'm like that you know, I'm going to I'm going to this woman that's

she's tired of so you imagineate that's a little to be a question

and if you're you're you're you're a question so that he's

about a million of people that also I mean in the but in the

front you but in the phone he's he's cargando with

all the I'm sincerely, the really, I think one has to have much care with who you

know, and I'm like, I'm like, I'm sure, I'm not, you know, no,

no, I'm don't want to say, and you know, I'm saying, many people, that I'm to say,

that's not to say, that I'm that I'm that's going to have been saying, I'm sorry,

that's, I'm sorry, that's the new thing I that I'm of the new that I'm of people want to

you're not, so you're to get to they're , her side masculine, yeah,

they've got of, you know, I'm just, no, I'm just just, I'm just, I'm just

to get to the camera, so, and there's like, like, as well, as they're

like, as well, the world is changing very rapidly. But you know, is, it's because we

are because we don't know inconsientently all the energy feminine, for the human,

we're going, we're, we're, we're, we're, we're, we're they're going,

so, it's, start going to, I've been my patients, they're in desperated for a

favor, I need to get to get to get to do this. I'm doing people who's no

don't know I'm doing present them presentemel them I'm I'm I'm

I'm I'm I'm I'm you're you're talking you're

talking about talking about talking about talking I'm talking to you know something

something that something something something is a master of yoga Rina

she's a man she makes He says that he's going the time, you know,

to do you know, to do you, to do you know, to do you, but the theme is like a club of solteros

organized by them is a business, it's a club of them. So, so you get to

you invite you some of the people, and I invite us and I'm and so we go to

all together and so all the group and it's going to growcing and the

group and they are doing that's doing the dating

that's that's that a place and they're like some mesites That's the speed dating Yeah, but here

there's the inco-as you do you do do you do with I did it one way to do you do it and it's like it's like rare

because you sit as five minutes with every person no. Here the theme is that if I trygo my people do something

deliberately we're doing an activity of solteros no. The solteros and disposed those are the regals.

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this. Then you more you're like you're like to look but in a way.

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make. Now the people say it's some that's but the point.

For that I help you help to help my patient's to arm your own

your own your own your own she's in she's not good I'm like you

let's I'm I'm the more sincere the most sincere of the universe. I want a

man like a-sacea-s-s-sa. I'm so-s-a-sha. I'm this defect, I'm this this virtue. I'm looking exactly this. So all those

that's spanken is good-y- because are less a time. So, in the other than

to try to more people, be a specific to be a part of the I'm not. I'm not I'm sorry.

I'm I'm I'm sure spant-a for not for no 29 sapo besando? No,

let me be two, that's go in the 99 before for that you can't get the guy's

so I'm sure you're going to my own my own person who's so much you're doing so much

he's got to the photo he's and then that's a monster and I'm better than I'm saying

I'm a cat and I'm someone that's that's that's that's better than

they're better than they're they're getting no of I'm people

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a night important because it would be not to be not with my people, if I'm in like that you know,

like you know, like you know, not you know, you're not thinking that's in what you're thinking. No, no,

no, no, I know, yeah, if I'm sorry, I'm saying, I'm sorry, I'm sure, I'm sorry, I'm sure,

I'm very selective too, for a thing, because I'm much things to do, so it's like

to do you so, and it's like I'm going to know, this this this

this second time. It's the frustration. Because the problem as the more more

more know what you more you're going to get to get to get to get upur because this

are the more this is more that's going to be going to the ross because

the thing is going to keep the the thing is the

thing is you're more formated and it's like you have to um mm-mm

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Wow So there's There's There's people There's There's Such a sweet Woman

Spiritual sweet Sweet Whatever And other You're You're You're a Bruchus

a first category. You know, is the perspective of the other? One person that's

connected with a part of the good, of that's the profile. Hey, no,

you know, the messages. No, a a sometimes, sometimes we

do it because, because they want to to learn to to evaluate a person,

to capture, I'm to see, the questions that they have to do the how they're

doing a kind of, what's doing the person? Because if no, the

you know, you know, you know, They suffer in every disappointment. Every way that's it. Because you're illusionas. And the measure in that you illusiones

well, the way in the suffering. Exactly. So I try to evitably that and how to capture. I think this, I think, this is this. No, but no,

it's because, this type, this is A, B, C, this no, this is not for you. So, for example, when in those, in those, those profiles to,

say, what are you're looking? And you have the options of a long-placement, a relation of short-placement, a relationship, in

instead of to like to get to get to get to very cool very

very so I'm I'm I'm I'm with my soulmate

and I'm my soulmate and I'm a B C and I am and I

can't and I can't and I don't you know and not you know

you know you're and if you you're F for favor and so then you

that no that no no that no no that not you don't know

if you Julietta if you if you you like you you like

and you know and you know, you know, I'm going to get a lot of my intention, I'm

going to be a lot of the whole of the thing. To be a lot of a child. A little that's what you

recommend is that that's all totally. Totally. Totally. There's there's a point that you

know, when you're seeing a profile that says, I'm looking to the woman of my

dream. I don't I'm I've got I'm 60 years. Well, okay. Let's talk

about it. Okay. But I think you not are you the right. You have to make a

because if in 60 years, it's a question you, it's that you're going to be, look, what do you

want, what do you? Look, what, do you want, what do you do you want, what do you're going to be really?

This an whole world does it? You know, how it's a lot? One dollar about this

an hour. You think 15,000 millions of these an million of those are little little

but so they're little million? 20,000 10,000 of this $1,000,

20,000 000 You're the brilliant. The Brillantyne, the Brillant, not so it's a good so you're going to

take, take them, let, let's try them and that's the and that's a rechasing, okay, you're a perfect,

you're, no, no, no, no, okay, barbarrow. Yeah, because if you, what you're,

you know, what you're, what is for you, what is for you, to do the morning to the light, for the law,

for me, that what's for me, what is for me, what me, What no, for favor,

that's a that's a that's about, that's about it. Please, sacramel. Atrevert to say exactly

what you're Oh, yeah, for favor. In all, in the camera, in the

table, in the life, in the other, and you know, I'm going to be able to be content to you.

So what? So what? Tenor 90% of mowolichos that you're going to get to get to

go to but for no men do you do you do you do 90% of

a mamaachch no no no matter never. Better have 90% of people that he's a

manorachio and that's the sure of the good to know. You know, you know, you know, it's that's really.

A lot of many, you know, about many, but me is vegetarian. Oh, yeah, terror! They're yeah,

it's got to and I'm sorry, and I'm gonna say, and they're saying, and they're so, yeah, and they're just but the

women are but the my postura is more abkirts, I'd say, I'd like, I'd like, I'd like

in the case ideal that's And if, and if not, for the most that's an

way, a system of the natural, I'm a very good a good because I'm a good

not a because the old is the no, I know, I know, I'm, I'm,

I'm, I'm, they're and they're they're, they're, they're, they're,

they're, but for the thing, it's a vegetarian, but you're that's aterian, but you're

because you're to be a person to be a person who's to be a person to be able, okay,

so, so, vegetarian, I'm doing, I'm going to go. So,

I'm going to get a old, I'm going to go to the graduate of the university of Santa Monica and

and it's all going to do it. And the third date me said, he said, he's got, I'm much

me, and I said, I'm really, and I'm, I'm sorry, because I'm talking about and I'm

thinking and I'm thinking you're thinking about and I'm and I'm can't be because I'm

because I'm not so we're doing just for, you're Very good. For that's, no, I, yes, we're saying, you're saying, if you're so sure, so sure that you want to eat

eat in your life, that you can't even have a big door to be able. And yeah, we just to say. And you know what? It's very good. Because it's very good. It's, it's a gift. I know, wow, that's good. No, I parted more time. So, that's, for one side. But, for other,

the other side of the people that say, no, abrette and experiment. No, because if you know, you know, you know, First, one is you have to know that you know, that's the

one of the other way you know, again, this piece of a piece of that's, you know,

you know, no, you know, you know, you know, you know, and you know, I mean,

you know, I mean, I think, I mean, I'm, I'm, you know, to talk about

you're going to talk to you, you, don't want to me. Entient, so, so,

yes, to say what we're, and they're to have to have the rechaste, because,

that not is of you that's that's going to 20,000 years, there's a there's going to and get a

energy and consuming this energy. It's a filter. Well, so it's a time. Thank you, Dr. Cawilli,

for all the questions. And it's interesting this thing. And then we'll talk more of the Facebook,

of how presentartes, in the, in the sites of internet where the people are doing,

that the Facebook no, no, no, no is for those datings. I want one.

We're just, We'll have to arm one. This is my dream. I'm very good. I want to arm one. That's my dream is to help to help

a family but for that's a little the work spiritual. And then you can get aureolega. Let's do it. We'll do it.

We'll do it. No, it's that's going to be a unique. Yes? Unique. Okay. Julietta,

some, a, any, a commentary final? No, no, the fact I'm I've been really, I'm much, and

well, and, well, I'm just I'm just for to have my other day more. Thanks. You can see

the doctora cabuli in facebook. Busken Doctora Cabo Uly with B of B. Cavo Oon, Cabeo Oon. No, no, no,

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