El Podcast de Marco Antonio Regil - 026: Enfrentando el miedo

Episode Date: October 27, 2013

Marco Antonio nos habla de su visita a la gala anual de la cámara de comercio de Kansas City en donde tuvo el gusto de conocer a cientos de latinos que se han convertido en un gran ejemplo de vida pues han logrado confrontar sus miedos. Escucha y aprende cómo "es normal sentir miedo, pero la gente exitosa actúa a pesar de sentir miedo". Los inmigrantes son un gran ejemplo de lo que significa enfrentar nuestros miedos y en este episodio los reconocerás como grandes maestros e inspiración para tu desarrollo personal.

In the episode of No. 26 of Regil Radio, today we talk about that is very important for those who want to make their dreams. The MEDO, what do you? It's normal to feel fear? The people exitosa,

Sientem fear, the great leaders of the world, those who have changed the world, have seen fear? What is the lesson most important that we can learn of our immigrants? People that's directly,

to leave to their countries to find their own with the MEDAW. Kedensen this episode Number 26 of Regil Radio. Welcome to Regil Radio, the podcast of Marko Antonio Regil. Welcome.

One way more, as every end of the podcast that you can listen when you want, at the time iTunes, of the application Podcasts, or of the application Stitcher or in Marko Antonio,

Regil.com. What good to say to us and that are with us one way more. And, well, If it's that the most popular until the moment

has been when I about about about about about about about about some one of the many of many things important, but this is

very, very important, especially important, the theme of so, keep us with us and we're going to share,

I'm going to you know, I'm going to you know my experiences and my thoughts on respect to the fear, and as always,

if something if something use it, if not they serve, then, then, then, then,

then, every what he accommodates. I use the tools and you know the so they're using.

Kledsakene's with us. we're going to start with the theme of fear. And I've been getting the airport here in Los Angeles, I'm going to go ahead. in New York, like you know, I'm going to go back in Los Angeles, and I'm going to the camera of commerce in Syrikes, with the government of the state of Sakatecas, and also

here in in the States in Arizona, I'm a a few months and now and now in Kansas City. And it's

very me do a great good to be in this type of events because especially here in the United,

if they do these events in these they do this a lot of the people to the Hispanos to the

people who are or immigrants or children that were in the United as Americans, some of

them legally, others without without their papers and then they're legalized but they're like we're

like we're a man ahead and they're without and see how they've done not only

not only actually a in this country with a different with a culture different how they're

fashed contra vient and marya for to be able to and see how now

are they're they're prosperous and they're they're they're leaders and

they're all that Cresiment to me can move the heart of there.

There's moments very many of the great applause for those

there. There moments of the time for the

people for the immigrants. And Kansas City is in the Midwest of the United

of the city of Kansas City, the right of Texas there

to get to there to get to see the one of

the two or three cities of the United that

is that is creasing more in the level of immigration, of Hispanics, of people of Guatemala,

Salvador, Central America, South America, that comes, that's America, even is one of the cities

in the time. But in the in the so it's so it's a case,

the world, I'm a manned a grand, grand, a barasow, they're to do you

do that, to stimulate and to support to the people, that want to change

their mentality, that want to do you And that's so, so, so important. And,

and, I'm going to talk about the story of my life and of my experience in this time

of the, of the business of the, and a thing that for me has been

very important, very relevant in these two times, was the time that in that

conference, a little a lot- but, but the the end of the day for this

podcast, is the thing of the MED. I think in other

podcast or in some occasion, I've shared. But I'll repeat and I

keep it repitient because I'm not I'm know the sufficient number of times. When I

know I'm Robert Kiyosaki, author of Pader RICO, Padre Pover and Blair Singer, author of

Vendendellors, and we said, well, we're a misdickick was a time that we've always

and the time. I'm saying a different my mentality, and I just I'm about the

market Latino, because they always have interested much to to talk this

market Latino and they need to know more so when I talked to Robert Kiosaki and Blair Singer

and I'm how it's how it's the mentality of the people I grew in Tijuana and a night in Kansas

Cesar and I grew in Tijuana to a quarter literally the house where we did the

house of my Abuel that was the engineer of radio and he had a own own

station of radio in Tijuana was one of the fundators of the radio in Mexico and we're going to Tijuana because he was opening stations of radio for

the whole of the republic assigned by the government federal and finally decided to retire and to get us in Tijuana and she kept with his station and there put his house and

the station and I grew in a a house that had a station of radio and we were a quarter of the state of the border international

of the border the borderer between Mexico and the United and I had the helicopters all the all the nights how passed

and he said things to the immigrants, they'd call them poeos and they said that they'd

say they're to get to make sure and I'm the helicopters and the patrues of the patrues

and the patrual and we're we're doing a lot we're doing and we're going to go and we're

they're they're going to they're back and they're back the people and many people not not

not were people of the people the major part came not only only only of the

sure of the New York but even of Central America. And they had passed for one or two frontiers, even before

to get here. They've passed for the frontier between Guatemala and Mexico, which is a thing of the thing that not is a

frontier very, very, very, rudder, and where the treatment to the people the authorities Mexican and the people of Mexico

and our people do that are very, it is terrible. A time is it is a lot in the form of the people

that they're in the border, but the form in that Mexico treat to the almost never

receive attention is much worse. In the thing, the theme, the theme, the time I'm

a person very suffered. The immigrant are people, it's a person who's all this circumstances.

They're people who did his countries, that's his language, that's their roots,

that's a culture. For many of them, the English, no is a second idea that

is a second idiom learn to learn, but it's a third idiom,

because the first was the language that were in in their community, if they're

of Guajaca or of Guatemala or of other places in Central America, and the Spanish is a second language. And to go to a city more grand in Mexico, and it's a second form of to live. So, enter to the States is a third culture, it's a third idiom. And the people

do it all. And, and, in the United, without guarantee, without to know to what's going to front. Without, without without without without a

without a without a the person to be able to know that you know what they one of the experience

that's a time, that's a United and as he said, Cesar Mijan in the podcast

when he was with us here, we talked to come to come to a front of the front of a taxi

he's in the center of San Diego and he starts to be able to be behind the so imagine

I'm sorry I'll let me he said the immigrant he's he's a absolutely

all right without absolutely no guarantee. Without money without a plan specific some of them

some of them some of them have got to but the majority no. No, no there's

nothing not guaranteed. So Robert and Blair what I said Mark, Antonio, that's that's

that's just the mind of an company of an company, the mind of an the mind of

an brended the person, without without without without without without.

And that This theme has much to be because just what I said I the first of

the first of the way we the way that's the point of the point of a factor determining

between to have success and not to be a business or as as a employee

doing your your family because always to go to a

new we're to not so imagine so imaginees the

people that these immigrants see imagine to go to cross the frontier with the

with the dollars that you're 100, 200 dollars in the bolsa Mirren that had 10 dollars in the

world to give to get to go to and you know you know you know you know

so Robert me said Mark Antonio, that is what does a company

you have to be a little loco you know there no there there

you have in any guarantee you you abientas a a of

money, a sometimes recodando of people that's not a way of

certain without when it's your first adventure. And simply you're

and it doesn't for people, it's for a person, it's

for a people, the people, I don't have money for school

but I'm to get to get to another country because in

this country is my dream, or I say in the case

that that is what is not what I want to go to and do you

go to take a way to go to do you to make a question require to

a mentality of an entrepreneur requires to you know you know you're not you

just know you you know you you know you you know I was

I'm in the night in Kansas City that for me was very interesting

as one of the one of the one of the I'm I'm

to look a life I'm because because I am I'm

am an entrepreneur, I'm doing my own company of production and I'm doing doing things

independent. I don't want to be a salary where I'm to be able to do certain or do what

they're doing, I'm going to do you do that I and for this country and I came to

before, before, to bring my proper business, to learn to learn to learn

as an person, because first in the mind and then the next the next is to do it

is to do it, I'm going, I'm in this way. It's been a way of many

years. And for me it was very curious, how I came in the United to learn

that you and Robert and Blair me said, the the best you can learn to

how think to think to your own people, it's with the

people. Because that you're that's the mentality of an emendendidid what

does the people when they don't a person, that's what is what

an person, they're to the their own, they're in their intuition, simply

don't know how, but, but confian, confian in that in that's going to be able

to be able to get to do you, so you know, one of a few times has got to see

the things to see the different to people to appreciate a people, to be able to appreciate

those more, to be them as much, because when you're in the, so, not is that

not they're not much, but we we're used I'm used in Tijuana, I was looking in

Tijuana, and I I don't my carousal my but I could have

the total dimension of the total dimension of my admiration grew much more to them when I'm

when I'm when I'm so I'm so it's what we're so the thing to our

people to think to think as us we're to us and not only the

immigrants of Mexico or Guatemala or the Salvador there there's

there there Israel and he was going in the Second World War of the Germany or

of Polandia of Hitler, people who went to the world entire and went to Mexico, for example,

went to America Latina, all the people, all the Jews who were going to,

the holocaust and the of the camps of concentration and that were to refugials

to other countries. I'm talking in general of the immigrants of the world,

but not not only not only not just like to say, wow, me dole his

or or to feel compassion, but admiration. Admiration, because they need a aggallas,

it's a need a much in your mind to a world completely disconocid. And that's the mentality

of an an entrepreneur, is the mentality of an entrepreneur or of a person triumfator

that simply really want to simply, I'm then I'm I've shared

some words, the president of the camera, compared other, people no

Hispanic American, and the people, people the people recognized, he's

shared your experiences, there's there's so it's like a little a picture

and see a one and other and other and other a other dream to do our people

and see and be how his kids like someone who came to a

person of a unification of Guacaca and cruised the and

he risk all and do it and how his their kids are in the

university and are talking in the people who are people who people are doing to do the people

and all this people are in front a new that's the thing of today. Mied.

Because you think you're you know that this people? Every time one wants

to see to your person normally the fear in your question that's the

mind and you you move from you're to get it and you don't you

do you don't you know we're this is a that I'm a much a lot of you know what

that's the that's the that's the that's the that's the mentality of an an an

that's that's it's to confronts your fears so I always have observed

with much clarity that the great difference between the people that's

the way and the people that's it's frustrated, is that not is that

one's that one is not you're not a lot of you know, not they're not you're to do you

know, and talk to make a lot of people. Now, right, you know, I'm not

a lot of time, but when I started, I had much a lot of a time, I

know the I'm going to to be to a huge, I'm going to be a bit to get to

talk about in English. Me made to talk in English. I did my

conference was the first the first time I've had done other things in

English, but that was the first conference. Of course that's the different people. But we're

the same the same the same in the people, we're doing you know, but no, you know,

you know, you know, or take the decision of what is what you're going to do you're not normal.

All we're seeing a moment in that you you're saying, no, no, no, I'm not,

I'm going to be like a Tonto, the voceit in your mind you say that you're going to to do you, that you're going to do you're going to do you. The humiliation public

is one of the the fears most grandes that we have our family or be rechasasasized in the circle of people that we need and be rechasasasers for those who

for those who not know us understand is also another great fear. So much people no doesn't go for

your heart, no see to your question because they're fear to do you to do you to do you to do you

do the ridicule and they're fear of the humiliation public, or they're in a little or they're

to know what they're to have their reputation or they're to be a different. And then then they're

in the mind and they get there in the promedio. Like burregitos, not all

of the others for not to not front your fears. And the are the people,

are the people who see to the people who do you the people that say no important.

Oh yeah this never has done. No me it there's a

first that's the one more the most the first of the thing is that the only that's necessary is that

someone is that the person does that it's possible, then 10, 20, 30, 40, 50, 50, 50, 50,

50, 50, 50, millions more but the challenge is the first. And so is to be

an emendendidder. The emendidore is that, is that, he makes, a,

a, a, a, a rank, a that never has done that

any guarantee, although the people they say they're they're they're

like they when you know, when you're doing, you're doing, you're

you know, but not you're not you know, but you in our

things, we're leaders like Martin Luther King, who looked for

the equality between the races in the United, or

about the mother Teresa, or about of John Paul Second,

of the the same Christ of Gandhi, of many figures

at the long of the history of the humanity where have been

uppedeated have been crucified or fusilated or assassinated or

those have taken of their organization or their organization

because they have been to be different and not mean

that those great leaders that have people because

there there are spiritual, there people are there's a level entrepreneurial,

there are in many places in many different areas, in many different of the people, not is that they're

not that they're not different. The grand difference is that they not permit that the fear of them.

Imagine me imagine Martin Luther King when he when he was assassinated. He said he

was going to have seen him and he was his wife and he had a second discurs in his

last discurses where he he said, he'd not get to the

other people he's he's not he was going to get to get a matter, and he was

a lot of to have a little of his children, he was he was doing the life. But no

important. A past of that he sent you the fear, he did. And

Christ, well, if if you the Bible, you know, you know, that he

said that he was that he was that he saw, and that he knew revelations

to respect. Although no he had had been it was a

obvious. He was saying things controversial that about the

traditions and the he was he was he was a rebel and he was

he was he was he was he was he was a a person like a

like a an enemy political that they were not the

people the people the people and they cause a problems

So, it's the night, they're just going to the middle of the night when not they're all the authorities

and they're doing the whole of the plot to do you know and run per the way and the day

they're they're before the other thing. He said, he said that he knew that he was a

fear, he was a panic, he was much fear, but he did. And if we're going and the

figures Gandhi in the India that libero the oppression of an empire the empire, the empire

the empire Britannico in that he had submitted and he a

through the one, a flakito vegetarian, he was over to the year, and the

peace, without a lot of a lot of a lot of his biography. Gandhi,

his own his own people, he was a few times, and after that he

did the independence of the India, he, they were notary, they're

not I'm not I'm saying that they have to pederer physically but to what I

refer to is that the the people who are the people who assume the consequences

the immigrants who decide to get to their countries assume they're they're they're in the way,

assume they they can they can have big bigger's assuming that they never regressen

and they never get to their they're they're sure that they're

sure that they're but but a but that's the fear that is the

that's the I'm I remember when I was in Tijuana is that I said my family I'm going to go to

to go to the city of Mexico because well I did I did the city of because I want to I'm really to I'm going to to grow to do

to make my to make sure my I'm going to be to make sure no you're you're going to get a lot you're going to

you're going to you know you know you know and I'm I'm 20 000 reasons for the

which I'm going to be bad and I'm going to I'm I'm sorry but I'm I

I went and I costed much a work. And one one way I was in Mexico and I'm

doing this I'm in my country, I'm doing what I'm doing what I'm my life. My dream

what I'm what I'm require to learn other and it requires to go to United to

and have my own company and to put to enter to the television in English and

to do you get to get to get to the world to get to the world that's

I'm going to I'm much fear because I'm going to I'm going to I'm going to leave the place that I'm in Mexico.

At the more my career now is far as far as I'm going to be so much and I've paid the price. Auret we're very we're going to

get to the air and there were a couple of years in that I don't have any good years and I'm just me I'm just going to the sacrifice

that's the people are the things completely different but in my in my level and in my career I also I'm

I'm scared and I'm coming to come back and a time time over night's because you're

that's lexed a new culture and in what you see you in a new culture and what you're in a part of my

heart in my heart in my person who's that's always that's not that I'm going to go to go to yeah, I'm

a little bit my voiceic me says why don't you don't you get back? If I'm

I'm really I'm I'm a see my my family, if I'm my culture

and I'm I'm I'm sure but so in a matter I'm so

so all we're we're to feel a dream to get to your

heart to do you to do you do this is what I'm going to do you do you know you're going to you're saying

not you know because it's a real realicco me do me do make a lot I'm there's a

really a person in a infirmis and no termina the noviasgo or not he's

or he's even to be having a because he has been to be a so or has

a or has a lot of the critical or to not to not to find someone

to preferriferen to be to be a life not very because that's what you know they're

the importance of your mind's the important I've seen that I've seen every time I'm front you

think I'm a year I'm two months I'm two I've been in a course of leadership personal for me is something that

is a lot of something that's a practice. It's like to go. One is that I've been, and I'm a little bit and I'm going to the gymnasium all the time for being in form of physical. My spirituality, I have to practice my health physical, I have to practice.

My education emotional I practice, but also my leadership, I'm practico. So, constantly, me expung to situations incommodas, that are these talliers of leadership and

the carecimient, where us are doing things incommod, but that at the same time, us make sure. And I've two years I'm in a

time I'm the most great of my fears physical. The most great of my fears

my fears I think I've commented on other podcasts but I from I've

been a panico to the panico at the altures and to the spaces to the

buildings but to the altures in the spaces abirtos to see

a see a one of an edificio, of a precipice, if there's barrandal or something, I

don't, let you get you know, not I've been to get to get to get, because if

someone's that's like, I'm put a nervous and from, I, from my, I've cost

much suffering to, and be that this, and this, after two years, I'm, I'm a

time, where just the objective was to confront our fears, and the,

and the my was the thing was the thing, was the thing

horrible, horrible, horrible that I did in my life because it's a

panic, it's a phobia and at the time the thing the more powerful that I've done to

get to my fears to end up some work of a sogas that they call a rope park or

or the and I was I was we had to get to a poste so we were up we're

on a escalera and then there manichas of metal where we had to move to

the poste you have to the poste you have to have to have to have to the poste,

it was an altitude, like, and it was a marred, we're in a cord atras, but of

any way, you know, know what was going to my infancy of the reason, I got to

the need of the need of the post and they said, no I'm able to be going to

get to here, me want to go to get to and I'm a team, because there's a

group of various processes before to do this. So, I'm and I tried to be

and I'm when I'm to get to the part of the poste. The worst was I'm in the two hands and I'm

to have to do it. And it's, it was horrible, I didn't want to, it's because it's to

keep your protection and I sent to a panic. And after the time to be there simply

abrasado and you because when you're a phobia, for much to do you a poste

because no because no, because no, those who the people the we have

we have we have we have a phobia. There's people that have a fear of the space

serrated, to the precipices as in my case, to the sea, to the mar, to the animals,

to see, a, one of the people have a phobia different. And in the moment

in the moment in the time I get to abandon me and say, I'm to start

all my practices of yoga, I'm to be the poste, subed my two

feet and me, I'm pared in that in that poste and I

opened my brazos wow it was a moment powerosissimo because I jure that

I was like it was a per a pesadilla and when when I confronted my fear my

and I went to bring up because you have to you have to get you can't you guys

various methods and then it's like a a little bunchi and then

you and the arnette you you you just it is

abandoning the me of the I'm to turn to the horrible

horrible but at the time powerosissimo when I didn't have to be to say I'm

saying that I think I'm that I'm never going to be a that I'm going to ever do

that's the fear more that I have fronted I'm I'm and I'm that's

that exercise not would have a reason why they're not there no time has to

do the thing to do something I'm just suggesting that they're and they're on a post and they're

like you. To what I'm to get a point in front your mind. Because that's a exercise

mental. One of the one of the says, wow, if I can do this, there's people that can't

go to fire in our we're doing a thing with a question, that's that's

that's, that's, that's, that's, you're, that's, you're that's more

that's, you're one of the people, one of the people, and the people,

that's the that's, that what not you matter you make more

and it's it's part of the evolution of the naturalness what you do you

matter when you confronts those you make you make a when the

when the you get up and not you know you don't you

don't you don't you know you're to play to get to

start to you and you you you know

in the The report is normally Garner the Offensive, not the the defensive The most

defensive is the attack, no? In the wars is the In the in the sports is the same.

In the world the world is the business. It's attack, is eventartes,

is launchartes. Because if not it you do you always you're going to what would have passed

if it if it would have been intended. If I never me had been to

Tijuana to go to the city of Mexico to try to enter to the television national and

me would have kept doing radio local in Tijuana. No, I don't mean anything but my when one

when one when one doesn't casers and you clas in your career

and you do you do you do you do care because I have a fear

because I'm I'm and if I have been my people and and if I I'm

and if I my kids and if easy easy and if all the many

all the I'm I'm Ivient and I going to and I want to

be able to be that's that's my list but that's the point. If you do

try and you know it's a your heart and you're you're trying to you're trying to you're not

you're not you're not another thing that's you present a and you're a new new room but

if no you don't you don't know you don't you're never to know that would have been

never you never you're really never you never you never you to discover to all

what you're able so so I'm in this podcast simply that is the message. It's very simple.

I want to invite to that always see them and to the question and to recognize to the human who are

the way of to confronts we can't talk to people people who have changed the history but today

when I'm on an event where I've I've used to be the people that are the people who

have done in the United against the U.S. I'm trying sub-rallar that they're

the example that our immigrants are the example, that the immigrants of the world entire are the example,

that have been to go to another without without a other, is the

the best I want, the I can think, I'm to give us as an inspiration.

It's give us a reconof us, to be doing, we're saying,

thanks for the election, because they're making the the story

of immigrants, they're leans, there are books, there's stories, and as I think to be immigrants only in Mexico,

the United, but in any part of the world. Mario Kreuzberger, Don Francisco, a person to the

whole I've had the good to know much his story because he came of a family of

immigrants, his his papas were going to be in Germany, of Hitler,

of the Second Worldial, and they went to all to China. And they

They got a Chile and the father, the papa was a sastre, no, and Mario Kreuzberger, Don Francisco, he became a sastre. And, he learned, from a little, to the new, to, that office. And, little, a little, were going to be able to do. Debted his work in television. But he's an empresion.

He's a, he has a great company and is a grand leader. So, in all the levels, we're to be able to find stories of immigrants in in any

any kind of in the spirituality, in the side of the law, maestros, medical,

abogados, for where they're looking to see them, and we'll to learn to learn example of

what it's what means to do you and the mind, at the final of the day, as

maybe the obstacle more great that we impede to make our own reality. And with this

we're going to start the podcast I'm very much that you're doing to try to try to find out

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and learn read, read and look in people, busken persons that they call them for that

they're inspired and we remember we that the fear is normal to feel it what is normal and what is

an option is to make the question. You have in your person, the

tools and the power to continue your dreams and to do you

not permit you your fear. Thank you. Thank you. I'm a brother. If you have a Facebook, see me.

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a little a person to the person to do the person to be a person a person

to do those those those immigrants that, exitos that I'm good moved,

moved, they're in my heart and were you inspiration for the podcast of this

week. Much thanks. And until the next.