El Podcast de Marco Antonio Regil - 041: Cómo curar un corazón roto, con Jorge Lozano

Episode Date: January 28, 2017

Cuando se da una ruptura sentimental por lo regular nos sentimos desanimados, sin ganas de hacer nada y nuestro desempeño suele caer por los suelos. Los expertos recomiendan superar este “sufrimiento” temporal lo más pronto posible. También es importante reconocer que cuando una relación termina, existe una corresponsabilidad entre ambos involucrados. Jorge Lozano  especialista en relaciones regresa al podcast para platicarnos acerca de cómo podemos “curar” un corazón roto.

Episode 41. The podcast of Marko Antonio Regil is a production of RGL Entertainment, and all his rights are reserved. It's a good, the theme of this week, how curing a person rot, to who no has roted the heart, to who can't, maybe, have been, perhaps,

to come to do not, or to whom will be to romper in the future? Because this is a thing of all those days. Today, us accompany, someone who has also who has been much

this is a a great great conferenceist it's a radio and television and have seen here in the

podcast my great little Jorge Losano but today is the doctor Corrason

my my dear Marko Regil as always a pleasure to be on your

podcast and so about this time that since we're backstage in the

trans bambalinas just we're it's a it's a thing controversial

for much it is a lot a thing, a part, intimidate, because one a bit of rotu the

heart of the car's, and I'm sure to get me to get a love to be to be able because it's

horrible. Totally. And, there's much people that said to see to say this myself, I'm

a lot, I'm a man, to me, for that they're not difficult. And then

when they're not a malamor, are the are the those who people, Marcos, the people,

I've seen people have seen, I've seen, but I've had his barreras emotional so

and even a lot of a bad is capable of destroy a idea that you're in an expectation

that's a great that they're in the soil and I'm really to because I know I'm

I'm going to get to amular and the possibilities of that I'm they're

they're that's the love you're you're to be vulnerable, you have to be able and

I'm here I'm sure you you're you're you're Yeah, yeah, the plate served. But also, if not you abres, then you know,

you know, there's three types of relations that every person should be passed. When you knowces the love, the person that's the person that's the

person that you rompe in the and the third is the person that you reconstruly. There are many times that the people encounter

those three people in one and you, you know, you know, you're in your love the secondaria,

you're a love to your love of prepa and well, you've been those three etapas with the same person.

The same person you sentenew the you're you're going to but there's it's not a time to live it with three

people and then it's difficult. It's difficult, Mark. Well, I mean that me manned to the third

because you know, I've got to five or six. I've got I'm going to run the second of the

caravan, but also I'm I'm going to have to be very responsible and one, no, no, you

don't you can't cooperate if you no co-operas with that. But my dear doctor Corazon

Jorge Losano is a theme very good. If you are the doctor the

person, we're the people that's not the there's a there's there's

there's a person who you're not you're doing, that you knowed that you're that you're

not you're not the problem. And look, despite of one of those tracions because

generally a rupture, it's a a true a true a two expectations,

a tradition also to your fidelity, a, a, a, the dream of

that they're a but after you a sort of a pern't a one of

a little a lot, many, many, many, many,

there's there's there's there's there's the person roto. The problem

not is that you're the problem is that you're that you make you And you're

You're You're That's that If you It's that It's a It's a Because I'm

And you have seen And you're To have You're You're It's It's difficult

It's So free And not To get to Amor Exactly Because apart the

It's It's a It's always A load I'm sure, I'm I'm going to I'm You know

You know Even Even though Even they suddered the hands to the doctor Corazon, to Jorge Lusano. It's that

is that is that a problem in a a lot of a lot of not to have to eat or eat too

and they're to get some those symptoms horrible. No you can't you want to you want to you know

the depression pega of many forms different. But Dr. Corrason, what you are you going

to recetary? I'm Marko, I have the theory of that can a person program

to be to be not so do you do to have to but what is that

so I'm saying is that as they're I'm doing they're I'm sure that if if they're medicaments there's a druggerna. there's three analgesics basics.

Ah, car. For the first analgesics, for all the people that are doled, that's a third. That's all right. First analgesic To cure a

Corrason Roto You have to You have to The Pedestal In the pedestal In the way Backer of Pedestal,

clear. First, first to know, a lot of One of course Why I do I am? Why do I

I am? If I'm Trapper Because? It's incredible. Because I think I'm Why I'm

Why I'm Regrisand To be Dose There's ask you're asking, Sere Martyr, comadre. I'm going to

me. It's the people that is a lot of life. That's self-estim back.

You know, you know, you know, you know, you're doing a lot of and other and other with the

same person or with a version different of the same person. And you do you go and you

know, I see you've to know, I'm not if you're to know to know to know to be

that people of course, you're not you, you know, the person that is good,

The person who is noble, carinoza, detailist, ah, no, a that's not you're a one of the you know,

a other you know, you know, you're not, you're not and a mongerial, because that is the one of

the mind to go to do that you to say, the cucarach I always I'm going you,

you know, you're, you're not you're not a carcour and you I'm just because there

because there much people that think that's that's the mother Teresa of the

causes peridid that's That's I'll save I'm going to Exactly Exactly

And you're going to Exactly and you You know You're going to You know I'm Let's put it I'm going to

I'm going to I'm a person That's a I'm a But at the I'm a I'm trying I'm trying

He can't He can't He can't He's I'm I'm I'm I'm

I'm trying First error First error First You can't You can't You can't transform to

someone to cover with your expectations. That's what is. It's what it is. It's like

the syndrome of the little man or the little and I know I'm going to not going to say no

I'm but I know a one but a much a much a lot of you know

you could be you're wapisisisisisisisis umas exitosysimas that are that are much money

so I'm I'm talking you're talking people in the political that, and

that's not and obviously women are that you're that's that you're and then you're and then

you're in those that's you're making and the people and they're why? It's right.

Why? Why? Why? Why? Why, why? I mean, I don't

think that a more this is of people that maybe not be attractive. Ombres and

women say, well, well, well, no, I'm there to

get to other, Igarro the Cucarro. Agar what that

It's still but no, it's people that's a very much. And I

think I'm because there there's a because there a person is there's a lot of the feelings

that that person represent. You always you've seen with a prince a little

but the prince you got dislavated you got a percudied and you

he's so and no no you know you don't you keep

I I always I'm I'm you don't get to they don't

they're encascavada. That's repitela of the despicito. No you get where they try them just because

it's just because it's not your ideal. Your mom always wanted that you castar as with some

those characteristics you're in you're here and here I'm this is the well and result was totally the

contrary to what you need to a little was what you were what you never was

but not it was what you and in the measure that causes that illusion

or that expectative or you put a person in the pedestal thinking that that is, the quote of aadas that you had you had been a deception

enormous. And you're wrong. And the worst of all is that you're not to tell you're telling because he perdonas all. One person that is

in the most high-athing and your ideal and you start to give to do sees and foeco rogos of that I'm not not I'm the person

but you say I want to be the person and that I'm I'm going to pardoning all those that you ask. And that's the principal problem.

for that we get a quibranto of the heart of the heart the carat so that's

the doctor the heart Jorge Losan no is done the prevention the proviotic for that

we get us but it's so if you you get a error to submit you a bedstall

in a bedstall in for the analgesicic is backal it's

but how you're you're because you don't you parted well here

the latinamericanos who are especially in Mexico that we have

all these songs of Mariachi for your maldito love, me want to get to get

the venas and we're we're deletam in the suffering. It's like when we're something

it's a little, it's all it's a we're just we're just we're just you're in the

depression you're just the twas the tawa the bandera to be and you don't you

don't think of that person I mean practically how back to someone to be

a question because when you put in this scene imagine we're going to imagine us

that you just, you've got to run per a relation durated of years and you ever a friend of a friend,

the other year, the other she gets, comadre, count me all, descocet, so let's do it. No, no.

And that's the amiga, generally the psychologist of his friends and people. There's always there's a

one, or one, that's chute, all the broncas all the world, well, this person, generally is the Mark. A Sometimes we need

that someone us do a get a emotional. Why? Because you start to say, is that this

person had a thing that's a person, he was to be a great father. Economically, it's a solvente. He had a

perfect. And I'm I'm going to let's go why I'm doing it. I know that has

many many things toxic but I had all what I was going to do you do this I'm a person

perfect. A sometimes we need a bit me, my momacita, per me, p'amperame,

p'am, how much times you're trying to how times how times you know how many times you used you feel like a lot

for what you used to be the way in the the places to go to the things that you about how many times you intend

to work your passions and you know and you know and you say hey I'm I'm enamored of the mask

I'm I'm more of the disfras of a idea that you created in the

that you're to have to have that expectative, of that nubes, the first is, we need a dosis, we need a, imagineate that is a shot of tequila, a dosis of reality, mamacita, a dosis of reality. To all the people,

I say, when you do evaluation, your balance, do you, do you, do it's a balance, financial, you start to medire all the interests that you have, but there are times

that just for the increases, no, you have to consider all the salinas emotionals that you've got. Ingresses and egressors. Ingresses, and egressors,

is correct. how much effort you've gottaste in intent to this person a person a reale or of a

heart of a start to see you start to see and you know what effort you gottaste how time you gottaste how much you

did you because not all those costs are monetaries there are there are there there's very

there and when you when you do you know when you're not it's most costos emotional are

even more more than the financial is that only financial. Exactly. But the emotional, also,

you repercut in the financial, you reprecut in the health physical, you're reprecut in everything. Exactly. So, a heart rot, a deception,

a relation toxic, you can destroy your life, your work, your illusions, your own your own. I've lived.

I mean, because it's been a turbulent, all your environment. All right. To have a person in

a pedestal. And then that person termines being the contrary to what you you're

you're it's like an effect of the endas it's like like a water to a water and then

you know the the acid there's a little bit of a ripple effect of the world all this all the

things are that's generated the jones oh yeah those those good people can

help you think they're crucial good are crucial good good guys good good guys

but I remember when I'm in some relationships that I'm responsible for them that all world to me around

I was all the total was I. The tonto was I. The one he no I was I'm

and I'm and when we're not we're not we're like everyone, oh yeah, well we

we're not we know we're we're doing. So, that's the good that you can't help to say,

oh yeah, let's have let's have to back to the person of the pedestal. And we we're going to

get the peddardas because we don't hear what is the problem? When we We have we have We have

We have We have We're trying to We're going to We know We're in We're We're in comeer

How comeer? How do you You know? Oh, wait a My name No, I'm No, I'm No, no

You know There are That philosophy To make a Metsagerer They're They're They're

To hear of Our relationship And the First we We're We're You know You're

You're You're You're You're You're You're A-huh, comrade, you know, you're a part of a couple of,

you know, and the worst is that when you get in that moment, that relation is romp. And, of a repent, you know, that's caught,

he wentastes to that pair of that had your friend, your friend, you said, all what you had to say, you decosite,

he took the decision to romper that relation, and then they're they're going to get back. And you, you're termines

like the man who's was, no, and you're not of those, they van and they're

they're what you, as a friend or a friend, you're the enemy

you're the your own because you're it's very very delicate to do, especially give us

because one of the thing I'm at the midnight night Jorgeito me me rompien I'm

I'm I'm here up and then I'm I'm just I'm trying the door and I'm

I'm I'm doing you know when you get to give me to give me the light when I'm

not I'm trying to be able to be obscurity, without, is delicate. 100%.

100%. For that's the amissades are a crucial in this of a carouson rot. The analgesical

is to get a person to the but the support of those people is vital. Perfect. Well,

there's the first good analgesic of love. We're going on Jorgh Lozano

in how curate a question. We're doing a time. You know, you're not

your emotions, or your Probably, like you, I grew in a family very beautiful, but where we're not our time.

If I could go back to get a time, I'm going to do you. The only that would have had been the

opportunity to receive education emotional. It's saying, not be not being playing, every time

that someone was trying to try to not to take me the things personal and sometimes I

sometimes I'm made to make a time so many for not having education emotional.

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Corrason is despatching in the consultory Seama Jorge Losano here we're going to talk to your

conferences about these things, this is your meremole. This is my Mere Roles. The relations,

I'm in my Roleses. I'm in the questions, but the most me question is of the

relationships because there are many people are carrying with cars time, Mark. And you do you do with a sense of the humor

marvellous and with much intelligence so I think it's worth in your conferences. Well, at the final of the program, we're talking about you have conferences. Yeah, and do conferences approximately in the Republic of Mexican. Graceland, I'm going to give. And in my networks, over the

whole, they're much of this content. I'm very well. Let's see. The second analgesical of the love. You said that are three? You know, you know, the first, that is to be a badestal of the pedestal to that person. That's. Second, analgesico,

of the love of a heart rot. There's to docket of all what we contaminate

of the mind. Desacern us of what we need to do you. There's that's that

what's the most precious that I'm my my time. Perfect.

What good to give us with the good with the positive. But what

what happens when those are those are carried to be a that can

conserve recuards I'm not I'm talking about about the records because you know because you know

that's a question you know there's a but there's a much people who do you know to get a carita of records

of the relations pastas yeah no but it's a lot of not I'm a real time but I'm

when I was when I put romantic before I was I'm my cajita you put the the targetta

of 14 February the photo that we took us together the corch the first

the first the first bottle of the you put you put you you and and

and so I'm sure that much people that my time I'm sure there's there in the

closet, there's more and I'm know where the more the most the part the part of

the other where it's a quarter where has the depends of the time you depend of the bagger of

the the quantity of the lot of the lot of there's there's got

there's there's a lot of some percent there people some carjones like of cartitas,

of records and there are many that have just a sobrestit where they're those vouchers, the tickets of the movies

that we were to see that there's a you're doing that you're doing with your I'm a car I'm a

last my my wife my name not just no of her I'm not I'm gonna I'm gonna

I'm gonna I'm gonna there's gonna you're gonna you can't I'm gonna be so you're I'm gonna

I'm gonna like like I'm like that's that everyone has a different. And you're to get to your

house. I was to get to my house. And of a day I'm going to my wife and I'm a man who you know,

I'm not you know what I'm about to find out of I'm afraid of I'm doing you know what I'm I'm gonna my name after

and she put to learn them and fute yeah, I did a much rizance because I have been because I've

had been because I've done these because they're there's not I'm no I'm I don't know

I'm gonna there's just there's also also also a quantity of things.

So when you trys the heart roto, there's a get to be to get a car.

I'm like you know I'm because I'm because I'm know that that's their house of the

parents, of the boys, of the old, the time, for the those are not so so, but

for that not be present that energy in the matrimonio. And you know, you know,

that's, like, you're I'm going to make to the one of the questions

for you You don't know. For favor. Oh, forget. So, like one, of a sudden those

little bit of those little those are not physical, that are not tangible, and those trys in your

relations future. The grand problem of that you don't know that you can't

that ruptura and you get to your future relations. Yeah. Oh, I'm much

people to the put those cueros, that they were they were that

tried and for that was a person so defensive. And he

top then a person amorous, a person good, a person a person

a person really, but to that person and he's paying for the plato rotos of your

relations pastas. A that person to live, revisantly to her to the cellular,

to ask them to where you when you're when you're because you because you're cargating with

you're that you have been there's that you've there's in the where they're

in the past. And that's the great risk. I'm for so I you're

and over you on this the point number two, there's to do us

to do something to the things to be in the world. Diceen that the objectos have a

way of living liberated is desacienton of the things that guard an story. For what

you have you're in all this all over Jorgito, for what you're in your car?

Yeah, I see. I'm just at a point to terminate this podcast and I'm to get to

put this podcast now that I'll say you a thing so I

I'm in the talliers and the conferences to the people, many times I'm saying something I'm saying, oh, yeah, that's what I'm doing, I'm doing to practice it. Because that's the

marvellous of when you know what you know what you're saying, you have to start and re-apprending constantly. It's like in the school that when you studied

for an exam, you learned more explaining to other the theme. Well, so we're going to us also too, Mark,

but I'm doing this moment I'm doing that I'm doing that I'm being bad in that part of the I'm not that you know, because not is that

you're not that's that. Oh, and is that I'm sorry. No, no is that. Some records of a time of your life, of your vices that you've, but even that energy sobara. Sure.

To recoverer you to a heart rot, definitely, Mark, you have to have a malamoria. And it's a phrase difficult because there's many people who say,

but how if the mala memory no is, no, no. To cure you of a heart Roto, you have to

your mal memory. That's you'll exactly. Exactly. Exactly.

Like, like the mohara, that's you're like, one of us, you know

you can't live as those things like you like the mohara. For those who are

in other countries, the mojara is a type of a way, like they say in

Colombia or in Spain. It's a scurivis. In Mexico it's a so you you're

so you you're to comeer, as you That C. Terres, it's the grand problem is that we

we're doing we're gonna we're gonna we're gonna scenes turbulentas and we're and they're and they're

and if you're you're gonna see the record and you see this. Well, now those records live in

Instagram and in Facebook there are there's too that's difficult that's there's a there's

I'm a lot I'm when I'm when I'm when I'm a lot of some people do you do some celebrities

do you do you're They've been. Oh, it's because they're all the photos like the cochita and Disney,

with Mickey, and in New York, and in Cancun and and all right. And then, P, disappearce. That's what I

mean, that's that they're that they're going to go back to the photos. And then you start another time.

No, no, there. There's to have to have to have a memory and have to be very selectives with

the things that we're that we're there's there's that's why I'm not that's

the things, we have to that we're going to we're that we're in not,

I think to have to have to be a memory and I'm to have to be able to be

a new person. No, you're the person when you're when you're when you

don't because that would be that you know, I think what most

we have to get to get to get the question. The problem is

to care. The problem is enamorart to the peter. No, the problem No, the problem is

Tropesar It's enumorated The Mendeagre The problem No, but I'm gonna You know, I'm gonna'emorting The Piedra That illogic, when you

Puttunned, what illogicrous, How I'm going to Enmourer of what I made Doin'Ano? Exactly, but But if it's called Toxicity 100, 100, 100.

And much And much people it lives and it recicla, Mark. The recital, Marco, The recicle, the recital. For example, And where you're going to do.

And you're going to do one more, more strong. It's more powerful. Much of people me question, Jorge, is a good idea to regressar with an amor of the

past? Oh, yeah, rompiste a relation, tronar, cortarone, is a good idea, having learned

what they've been to learn, I'd say, Mark. Regressar with a more of the pasto, is like to put up

a shampoo. It's be ever but not it's not it's not

not going to not function it's not exactly that's a that's a that's a that's

a bit more I think the question also I think the people yeah the definitely the people

definitely the people are but the essence of a person no put them mutar if the essence

of a person really doesn't how is it doesn't it doesn't that change no

important that habits new adopt if the essence no concuerda with the

if there's there's a non-cureure there's a question, but the essence no will change.

What can change is that one madure and that you have worked in you, I've worked on you, I've been

in me and we have people different to what we're to be 20 years or 10 years. So, if someone

if someone if you can transform you but you're the reason, the essence is the essence is the essence.

These examples that the problem no is peg me How can I care. I'm not tropeas

in an unamorough to the enamor me to the and all. So, you know, I'm like,

you're being like so, or you're seeing the it's my way way to understand the love, Marko.

Definitely, I think that much people, there are different methods of learning. Oh,

so I'm so you're very good sense of the humor. And I hope that that's

that people know that people that can want to do things that are not only

not only we understand but it's very good example. Exactly. No, I'm always every day I'm going to,

I'm going to go to get a good thing. Oh, and the ex-amores, let me a thing about what you do you, in my

experience personal, the ex-amores are like the recalentado. No? Like, in Mexico,

we're saying the recalentado to the day next. It's not it's never because you know

the chemics and the the food and the food yeah, the flavors, we're making madurred. Yes,

yeah, and it's more more. So, so it's like the recalentado. I mean, I've toped, or I've toped someone in the past, and of the entry, you know, wow, well, well, I'm sure.

I'm a quote of what I was of her. But at those two, three days, the recalentado, yeah no, it's right. It's immediately the first, the first time,

but two, three days after, I mean, I remember for what I'm about that person. And two, three days after, I'm worried, because you're not, exactly.

Exactly. So, then. So, so it's a cycle that's a certain, For a short, for sure. And for that's when the people

ask, is a good idea to maintain a relation amistos to with an ex-amor, with a person that you

rompillian is a good idea to maintain a relation of amistat. I would say,

it's like a guygina of a mascot, Mark. There you can't have you

want to it's like a well, I know I know that's the thing here

this not the phone, that's the no object vegan Let's say a, we're going to say a

A good guyon. It's like to have a A papa of mascot. It's got tojointed A poor galley A pooh, A pooh, A pooh, no, no,

no, No, exactly. You know, I'm just the worst example of the world. I'm just putting a rogo So you're seeing here, right?

The worst place where I'm going to have said, but... But, But I think that, I think we're,

I think we're, you know, you know, you can't have a misdance of Around your life, yes.

But there's a there's a there's a yeah, there's a lot of the thing that's

there's always but there people who to get the that's a car to get to that's

that's a little bit of the coelet and the cola of and the car also try

after you know, you know, you're not you guys not you don't you don't you

don't you don't you that one that's certain that you can some day can be a good friend

there. There's a a person with a person with a other with a lot of

and it's only a thing that it's not a way to be not really not much you don't find out of

that you know that's also can't come to the function of being a good man yeah

and there there's a question that I'm a question that I'm going to do you know, I'm

that you don't want to you know I'm trying to let's we're gonna we're we're

how cure a heart a word right Yeah, we'll we'll We'll manage your

emotions or your emotions you're in a time. I probably like you grew in a family very

beautiful, but where we're not we're not we're not going to get to get to think it's

the only that would change it is having had been the opportunity to receive education

emotional. It's not being not start reactioning not start me playing

every every time trying to be trying to try to take me the so many

my life for not having education emotional. And the 6 and 7 of July in the City of Mexico we have a day of two

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doctor and you'll say with the con a corn with the son. Honor is cause. Honor is cause.

No, no, well, we know, we know, we're promised three analgesics for the love.

The first, back to the person of the pedestal, the second desacerns of the

recalls that are enclando and connecting and connecting still with that person,

even there people that energetically does it to connect literally those genitales is that you

have been sex with that person that was your partner, to make a disconnection and visualizing

that connection between your genital and the person, between your book and your body and

your hands and your body, you're visualizing like some the

little things and they're I don't know if that doesn't work or not but it's an exercise psychological that I did

to me work. I don't know. I don't know I'm not to say to all the but it's part of the part of the

sort of with all this 100% Marko and you know you'll say because it's time

several studies about about how how to how run per a bit

it's it's it's that in 21 days a person can can create

a and if there people want to say that if you you

you know, you'll be to get intoxics. Yes, exactly. Well, if you're going to eat you're going to be d'clock. And the garrar that that's a little

cat. And the guy can't be your mascot. Exactly. Jorge, there's a expression, no no, no,

no, I'm a requisite being vegan. Exactly. I'm a good. I like that. Our amissue our amissue.

No, it's not. But you said, 21 days to generate a habit. 20 days to generate a so you create an habit

when you know, six, seven years with a person when you pass 10, 20, 30 years

with a person you know, you know, you're used to do not to do you know, the day that

you have the day that's you have done, you have felt the mendigutto and you know you

know that's part of your essence part of your person a, a relation what happens

when there a ruptura and you have to runper with that habit that was

profoundly arraigated in your there is where it comes the complexity and where

comes my third analgesic there have to distracter a mind

and re-encontr us with who we soliamos before to get a mind and

so get to find us with we're with we're we're

I'm I'm there there's a story there Before the rupture and a story

and a story of our after the rupture. It's true. In all relation, you were an person when you got to a relation and when you're in that relation,

it had durated two, three years, has been a relationship, that that relationship. And when you get it, you're a person

completely different. The Retto is, how to do to do that this relation, I'm rasped, emotional, physically,

and I'm, because me got me, because me, chantageable emotionally I'm downed

how I'm going to do this the person that was before this situation

so different that's there is where it also the part of the people we're

we're we're we're because a relation toxic you make

you're to eliminate a a lot of a family a family you're

my love I don't I'm not I'm don't I don't want to you

No, no, I don't want to to see your mom. That's a fochera. One, a couple of toxic you have to eliminate what you

like to do. My mom, I know, I know that you want to go to do you but I'm like,

no me I'm just to go out of because they're in the chos and they're very bad.

My amort you because they are very ardued and you know, and I

know that's you're just in the house. And you're to start to to start the to cuted the asses.

Exactly. Exactly. You're just to give to make You cut those and there is where you

the 20 more pesed and you're who's who's who this person

what I'm what I'm had done if not had had been my time if it if not

me had had been really that person and for so I think the

analgesic principal is is re-encontrars to do to do

what you want to do that you did you do you

have the space of the is internal that occupa the desamor, we have to

replace for activities that we can recover in the sonrisa and the diversion. There's things that you're there's people

who are people who is that who are more people who are the relationship, those who have who are in a

life or those who are in a relationship, I think that's being in a relationship you're more

feeling. The soltero I'm I'm trying when I'm in a relation you're more more

feeling. I think to start solterer you We'll start. We'll start we're going to this disjunctive

Mark. Because the because the human is used to think that the pasto is

more the other side of the the grass is greener. The grass is greener on the other

side of the fence. When you get a a body and you try it's a postre,

to tryn't a new your partner always is the part of the part of it's a factor

psychological is a factor So, it's we we can't the

we know what we Exactly, also. To the ego, to the mind,

not to the essence of the human, but if in our ego, it's the he's a he's not

a lot of that you can't be to be in a relation, or one is a relationship,

a lot of a reason, we think that the thing we when a relationship there's a

spiral that the men, the men, that the men, the men,

the ones, for example, they're, the person, when a woman when a make

you know that's a cabo desbocated Mark. Desbocated it. It's

never to liberate to learn to let him and he's how heen that's how you're

doing a party and it and you see on the social now that we're

now that we can't be you can't you can't you can't two three days and you

you're going to be in fiestas you're going to do you do your Instagram

stories you're going on the Instagram's on Digar, said, Sure.

The lion is sluelt and he wants that the world know that's when a woman, when a woman

when a woman, the first time, the first days in when a woman, a relationship,

and it's a spiral negative, that a sometimes can't confundir with a

depression. But, not you're you're not you're not you're doing this day of

day of you, you're you're saying, that's that's serious, that that's,

that Tristence, it's a Reparation, it's a way to solventation, it's a

tap, it's a sentiment of desapego that is natural that you see that that's a back,

also there's a question, there's a there's a no, is that I don't want to come to

come out, comadry, and I'm my name, I'm sorry, I'm sorry that's the termina,

but I'm the I'm the that's like the that gets, the he gets the

that's much that you don't put us We're going to Fiesta And the comadre

No, but how Comedre? If I just I'm going to I'm going to I'm going to I'm going to I'm going to

There's a colico in the heart Oh, no no no No no no no no Salte today we We're And when

Acquired Marko The Curva of the Felicidad is to up to you're

You're down that You're that a front of No You know You're just

That's a life Fated No That's much more than what you

you thought that you if you're if you're if you're to get you and I think to get

to get it really you know what the Don't Miguel Ruiz says in the Maestria of the love

my books you've been not you have to be you've got to have to be it's a can't have

no, that's a classic because he is a classic because he's a question of his story that he says if

you think you think you you think you you think you think you He doesn't, he'll he's, he talks of a cocina.

If you, if you think you don't have a kitchen magic, that has a thing that

someone will come to be out to offer to a pizza. And you going to do that

pizza. And if the pizzero is going, as you ignore as you know, that you

know, you know, and anelar that regress the pitcher, is to say, I go, I'll be

the person, but in the moment that you discover who you really, and that you know,

all the element in the kitchen making this this example or the other thing,

then the that's the pizza, well, no, I'm not, I'm not, I'm very

well, but it's what that's what when it when there's there's a part of the mind that

that thinks that it's that's a person's going, not you're going to not going to have to have

a element sentimental, the element of the because you think the love that's that

the The most of all is when confundes migrajas of carino with love. Exactly. That's not it was a more. You thought that

was what you know you. And it's the same that I sometimes me to think in the crises world. You know,

you know, it's perfectly in the crises in the crisis in Africa and you see that there's there's that

there's a introspection and says, well, those children with arms, those children crecied

in that context is what they know what they know it's the only that there's a lot of people who know is a

relation a relationship of a crisis emotional, of crisis existential and that's their definition of

and that's what I'm more a question, Mark, if many people that are that are

not people are not the grand regalal that they gave them they're the

question. The good that you could have made to go, Mama.

It was to go to go, Papa. No know what you expect

to the other side of the relationship that you think you were a more, but really

were my gags of carieno. But you have to say, there there's a more, and

to me depend, and me depends. Because if I don't learn the lesson, I'm going to

try to another person exactly exactly equal to that I'm never the

heart. The heart I'm not, the The problem not is that the acre the alacran but

you know to get the black the alacran yeah, yeah, I've been to an amount

of analogies but you know one of those of those I remember of our podcast past

I think was one of the ones we've had done more but I think it

perfectly in this and much people and much people may remember when this podcast.

The analogy of that a sometimes there and in the place and in the there's a there's a

lot of people there's a there's a question. It's that I'm rompired the car is that I'm

don't know much that I'm going to a lot of a little, no, no, a bit of you have to riskartes to

to get to they're romp in the carison. Oh yeah this relation not was what you're what

you're what you're that's per that they're they're romp in the world you'd say

that's you're going to do you're Yorale what necessary And then After his Yoradita To give him

Sure So your Yoradita and Let's So you're repriming The dolor If you're living The dolor

Abandonate Al-Dolored That's That's Flueue And you For you For you

Because You know Because you You know Because It's the Fing of You know

All right But let's Because then There's There people There people To learn There

There's There life to prove. Oh, the next the next the

end up probably probably not. No, there's no there no there's that you

know that you know what you do you know, the cure of all the cause of the

thing that's all necessary for that the next is a success. No.

Nobody to do that I'm that I'm that I'm sure to that's that's

yeah. Winston Churchill said to say the exit is is to do

the fracacacacus without the enthusiasm. The exit in the relations is the same. Go to fracassos,

without considerate a fracass, without a lesson, a lesson. A preemisage. And the the dolor,

the of the new the new land and the power of the hour, he says that the

power for much is the best master that will in your life. So when he gets

that when I get that that phrase that phrase when felle my mom

that's me rompio that's a super profound that I still I went to a conference

of him and I'm going to I'm saying and I'm going to quite quite and they're

and I'm the and I'm put in the part of the entire of my house because

there I had to remember the the the pain you the

you're you know that when I learned that that when my parents

I had about my years when my parents when my there was

a divorce in the family and what I thought that was my

family perfect. What I had my expectation perfected of a family unified, of a family that was communicable and all the

night to the morning was broken and then my heart. I think we we need us we need us

that the life we're a bit one, two or three times. Because of that we've got

we're really we're really we're really that we're and also and also it's also

it's how you you're going to feel compassion for someone if not you have not so not

so you've got to run for the government, you can't you can't your family, you can't run per

the economy, the economy, exactly. The economy, personal. There's times that you feel that's

chrisis. Well, to me, when he got Donald Trump the presidency of the United,

it's my question, because I said, I'm not a excuse to who I

know, I'm going to him, but I'm what on the United and then when he

got Obama, I said, wow, States United has evolved. Aro-American

in the government. I thought that's a United. And of a Trump,

it's a problem. I'm not a person. How is possible? Let's tell you to use

your own politics, but someone that's someone who people, of the immigrants and

of the women, et cetera, it's a problem. And I'm a depression and I

know a lot of people and you have to recover. And it's a grand

lesson, that dolor, that And so, and as in the life, the relations function are exactly equal.

The relations not are designed for being perfects. They're designed to be reales. And in the life real, no there are

many questions of the Aads. In the life real, a lot of they're not they're doing, and much

people who sometimes that justice. Dices, is that this person me rompio this person

me engano, this person may be this person merces be castigated. But that castigo, a a

sometimes no get or a way in the way you want to be there's

there's no way in the many one has to keep with a

question that they never gave with a with a disculpa that

never they never a sometimes you have to

get to sometimes you even and when you can't

get to get to the person that the

person that I think the the The key to go ahead

after after a heart is accept that not to get all the responses

to the questions to you know that you never you in English says closure

never you're that's that's that conclusion that conclusion and I

think the most so to learn to learn to start cycles is not

get to get us there you're to don't you don't

make the heart ROTO, your house. Your house. And we learn that is normal,

that's part of the life. And also we can't see it other way. In best to say,

me rompired to make responsibility and say, this I did and the decisions that I took me

put it in a situation where today I'm I'm sitting with the hearted. Totally.

Totally. I'm I'm going to your last, your last, your last, your

repit what did you distraer a mind and re-encontrars with who

we used before that's the antidote. The next time I'm entering in a relation,

I'm going to connect to, I'm going to manifester a relation with someone, that not, I'm going

to make that person not and I'm going to do that I'm going to do you know, to be a person, to

get to be to be the other in this new relationship, no I want to do you

to be going to and I want to someone that he Gust to who I'm

permit to who I'm that person me that person me doesn't that's a person who is, and then we're

talking to a relation conscious. So, if I'm more probable that I'm that's more that's correct.

And always to remember that nobody never has been not a person rot.

Nobody never. You can you can't feel that you you're going to be

a rupture. Your Curva of the Felicity could be about

the suns. Exactly. But nobody never has been made of a heart a lot of

a important is to know the not the orange not being not being not going to

get the people, not have done those us and not us all this for the we'll

make you listen to don't know you know the question of my media andorange. It's

Osano, much thanks for all. Dime the people that want to be in conferences or you want

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