El Podcast de Marco Antonio Regil - 045: Amor por internet, con la Dra. Cabouli

Episode Date: March 25, 2017

La Dra. Cabouli con su estilo directo y sin tapujos, nos dice qué está sucediendo con los romances en internet, cómo hacer tu perfil para encontrar a la persona correcta, qué hacer y qué no hacer en los primeros contactos ya sean a través del teléfono o una primera cita y específicamente qué preguntar para descubrir si están interesados y disponibles para una relación o solo quieren sexo.

Episode No, 45. The podcast of Marko Antonio Regil is a production of RGL Entertainment, and all his rights are reserved. Welcome to the podcast of Mark Antonio Regal. The video has led us has led to other side. This podcast, that I'm parted with you, was originally programmed for a few weeks, because the theme is the love in internet.

But, well, the life was led for other rumbo and we're fulgling in form organica, and now we're going to come. Every every more and more people that that's know in the social or in the

famous applications that are today very common very commonly there's a man of it's another life, it's

another life completely different. We have a life a through our telephones intelligents and what is going

in the theme of the parages. Muchism parages. One of every four or

five in countries like States United, countries is they're doing a through the

of the services in some of the places in some different, even more one of each those numbers

are very important but what happens we're getting travados in the texts and not pass to know to know in person

us convien or not it or how to learn to know to the person that we're contactinging

in reds or in applications the doctora Liliana Cabulli one of the consentida of the podcast is

to talk of this time. She's an expert in relations, in coaching, and we know a lot of

always, we know, without any tapuho, and us make a room that we're doing,

and us do the good important, and even of how to create your profile to know the

person or what you're to do you do you when you're when you're doing a

person, so you're here we're this interview, I'm in California, the doctora Kabuli

is in Florida, my Florida, for there and I'm going to the world. We're

our second my great doctor very good good to say to say my name how you're I'm doing

you're very here in California and there and there and there's and there's many and many questions that

you're a promise that you know that is a question and that is a time that's a time that

the thing to get and getting in internet that's kind of so what is what's

what's getting to anything applications, it's Tinder, it's a bumble, it's a hinge, are in the

site in the internet, that are the majority, are the applications, and you know that people? As far as

the left, you're going to the left, like it's a little bit, like, deschating people, or collectioning

people? What's going in the social? From your point of view, as to a person,

in a person, in all this, Lillian. Look, the thing is the the second, the end of the age and the

group of the type of applications that are using. The Tinder, is using more the people who are

and not I'm saying that there's 50, 65 years of 40 that's also also but it's more a

people there's much people who still using much that's using e-harmony there's many there's people

that are using and sincerely I don't recommend I don't recommend using Tinder because really you're going to

know that that person more than that what you think physically and it's transformed as in a relation

super superficial, where the people, I'm really, I'm in this area, well, I'm going to know this area, well, I'm going to know a man, and he's

a couple of a few days, they're and then sex and then. It's transformed like a lot of and there's much people that's that's having

addiction to Tinder. They're continually with people, to three to four to five people at the best. If Tinder has that

Fama, no, that not all they use for that. I have friends, people, amos that's friends that have made a lot,

and they're in Tinder, and has a reason stable, but the grand majority of the people, or so, has the fame

of that is like a reputation for a question to get to get to get to get back. Exactly. It's, clear that there

exceptions, but in general, they're going to understand a thing. As we know, we have to access to

all the media social, to all those websites, many people that have a low self-estimates

and that need to receive like a feedback of the world and they're to all those these websites,

imagine to get to receive two, three, five, four, there are seven people

that are they're saying, you're doing and you're going to and 20,000 of the world of Chinese, okay?

That's they're looking to reaffirm your own your esteema and then so it's transformed with

an addiction. It's I need to receive a feedback of that I'm a special and now

I'm receiving continually so I'm on Tinder to understand so I'm understand even

even a question to give to any single soid but it's like continually

well now now are those next, now you, next, and socessively.

To me, I'm for that never recommend that I'm recommender that because one, at the contrary, the most

is something that you can learn about the person, but now we're to talk about that, about that

that's about that the right and to eliminate or to eliminate or to provide persons,

it's started because just in sites like Match.com and the sites of the

places to do you or to know of people more established they

did in account that the major part of the people not the

but they were in the photo and I'm like, I'm not, no, I know, I'm just,

like when you go to the car and you've a lot of a car, a barrecito, a barseal, and they're

in the real, you know, me, I'm not got, no I'm really,

and that after you do you do you're physically then, then you're to get to

start you all these applications and give to the right to the right right, and we're

we're It doesn't really. Mark, and that's I'll say to all the people. All the people think that the most important is

the attraction physical, but really the attraction chivis is the most important, not physical. You can't have an attraction

physical very with a person and not have any kind of kind of kind of the other person. A person who

has not a traction physical and you have a chemical, it's much more difficult to renunciate to

then. So, we're from a principle doing a lesson for

something that in reality that's the person, that's that's starting to have less value in the society.

And that's many little many more chicas of 25 to 26 years. It's like that's starting to be able to

get that type of attraction physical to start a attraction of many more more levels. We're

we're putting more more exigente in what we are the people who I'm what I'm not that I'm

that the children are that are having less diso sexual than what had to that people

of other generations. And Disfrut them less the sex, of what they'd enjoy than people of other generations. Men's? Because,

yes, because, yeah, less. And I'm saying, disfurtar. No, I said, not, to have no,

to have no sex. You know, more sex, with much more people, but I'm much more, you know,

to imagine the of the people who have said, and me have said, is that is that I'm, I'm not,

I'm a lot of time, because no they're not, because, because, because, you need,

you need, you need, you know, a a person, an encounter, a certainia to be a sociality

super profound with a person. It's not doing. What is the sex. The quantity of sexo

that the people have with much people, but is it is going to the sexual and the

sexuality. How about it? Yeah, I'm, I'm, I'm, I'm, what you

observe, is that from, we're we're coming to the people, because to

know people on the much, much, much, much, much more, more, more, more,

more, more, more, more, or Match.com, not only there, but in the social, communities and that are not necessarily

designed for that, but where it's on Instagram and Snapchat, in Facebook. Much of people is connected to. I have a quantity of people who are

known there, that are you are known to through the internet. So I'm going to you, what would be the form of this?

How do you do you do to attract or to connect with the people correct? How do you to who you going to be

to come? How about this topic? Okay. There's a phrase that says, God those crias and the inconsient those amontona. We need to look at people

that are resonating with our vibration and with our energy. That's much of times is what we have to change the type of people that we're trying the dynamics that we

and for that we need to learn the relations. One of the things that people do is mean. Now, why mienes because not they know to see them? No, they don't know what they are,

because I do a much women, to many women and a much the women, but the majority are women, assert dating. So, she's, she has been most to all the profiles of the women, and those are going

and when they're going to, they're exactly exactly what they're not what they're saying that they're. But not because they're not because, they're really not so they're not. I'm an example. If I'm a person very dynamic, that I love much to talk.

You're a new, that you're always to be called to hear you, that just to listen, and that you're not much time in silence. You're not you're not You're not saying you're You're describing to a way that you're not so For that to describe a profile

It's important that you know who know who's who Because they don't get anything to be No, you know, there's nothing to be There's people that people that people that There's people that people that people that There's people that people that people more friase There's a person super cariniosa That's, another that's the other that people more distant

There are people who wants to be all the day with Ali, there's other people that want to a lot of distance. It's a important is to know one of them.

So, so, for writing a profile, first, you have to know to know something. So, when Google did

a therapy, you've done, you did this treatment, you did this count to be able, you know, and you're going to

ask you to me, and say, how I'm going, so I'm going, so you. Then you're to do you do you,

and so, and so you you're going to write, I recommend to the people and I know because I'm doing

because I'm working for you know how much years in helping a person to the person to the family

that's that they're the truth the truth of what they're and the truth of

what you're not meantys how much how time you're going to there's I think

40 I've got 60 you have 50 I'm what you do you

do you say one day that person will that will put in in the

part or put in photographs these people. They're in 15 years

or they're on footographies of when they're delgivisimos or when they're bronzed in the play.

What I'm doing and what I've lived is that the people mean much in internet, but not only

in applications for ligar and to get a lot in their media social because we're

we're just we're just we're just we're just most we're just coming to get to

backations, here I'm doing this there's just doing with people put

above, no, ganaders, like if my life was to make a well, obviously not you're

going to make a lot of when the person because obviously that's not very attractive

although I'm a theory okay, and you let's say first in English and you will

you're going to talk you're going to see if it works be and try the worst to be the word

because if you you're going to be able to be nice, you're not all amorous and you're not no moreoverosa,

or no one of the hair of peasant, or not, that person will know who are who are, okay? Basically,

it's more being the is that when the people that's, that the best that's that they can

be able to and be and care of they're going to be able to more they're

to know, the people and the people, and more that respect as much more

more than you want to more so genuine and the more so who so who.

So, so the first the first the question, the know

the And to tryver me to say the truth, but to say the fact to say the I have to have to learn to care to be the

I'm to accept me. Exactly. Like I'm to do you. I'm doing in the reds social or

in the applications of Lige, start putting who is the ideal that I'm going to what you're saying is that

obviously that person, put it that I'm trying with that perfiel of super man or

super-mucer perfecta one ever that one that's not that's not really really really

I'm trying a A is a something I'm going to to be able to sustain because

not I'm exactly and other thing is nobody is nobody will to care

to a person that's nobody will to you don't you're

not to do you is impossible it is energy all is energy when you

say you know to be you know to love

to you to to be to first to be not

you're not nobody now if I for to

me have to be perfect. I have to be a marvellous. Well, be it. So, so not you will be to not to be

not. Because nobody is perfect. Nobody. So, what you have to be honrart as you

and always to be working. So I, my recommendation always and when I know my patient and

do you know, tell the real, and say the real, who you want to you want to

you want to you want to you're to be a long long-plast or a long-plast or what you

do you do you That's that on the I don't say to not to be saying to not to be in the

you're going to be there because you're not being the manipulation the time or time. We're going to

a pause doctora but when we'll make more more of that authenticity to be

to be but also of other mytho that is no way to let you say

who's let's say not I'm I'm going to want to I'm talking so let's

let's talk we're we're we're we're we're going to the podcast. Continombs with the doctora Kabuli coach of video and transformation expert in

helping to help the parishes to transformers and to cresc. The theme of today is this of ligar in internet, of how, what are the passes correct to know a someone in internet? And the advice that the doctora Kabuli us da in our first segment is, to learn to say the truth, to learn to learn to learn and say it, without fear,

to be sadden us, right, doctor? Exactly. You know, I'm very simple. You what preferrere you? Something that's something

or something that's a minute or 10 to do you to make, 10 to 12 relations for a year or 6 of 2 months

how to pain each one you are reducing and how resentment you are producing that you have making

that you have that makes to care for energy in all the things okay to have sex

is easy to everyone it's easy to have sex it's easy to all the disposed to have sex. Okay? But to have a relation is more complicated.

For me, the problem more great, and what more is important in this moment, that modifices is that a woman has to be in their power. There is a little bit of a woman that we care we can't do what we care we not we can't change. The man he likes to persegir. The

man, he likes to conquist. The man, he likes to do you, as a handling. How is it in Spanish? Hanting. Casar. Casar. If you're, if you're like a woman, you're like, hello,

here's here's a and the type, no, and the type no cased nothing, no cased

nothing, okay, all the has served, he's aburred. That's basic. The problem more great

that we're in the present moment is that there's beautiful, beautiful, beautiful, but no

they're the capacity to expect that the man does the person, to pursue,

of perfect of their, of that, so they're like, so they're like,

I'm a life. Here I'm going to that the women not want to not want to them.

So, this type of women, no matter how the little that are, I'm doing, I'm doing,

and not, we're doing the same role. I'm, I'm doing the women, don't, the women

don't want to have sex with them. So, so it's not to know what the people think.

You know, to make that there's a desire to the person because the woman has to be

in this position. What you always the woman is this is this. You are

the general, of the negotiation. Because a woman is more expert in a relation of a woman. It's the naturalization of a woman. The gerenta. If you're just a gerenta, and your

business is the relation. You're going to be contracting a employee. That's your partner. The woman is going to be a person. What type of employee you're going to be? One that you never, one that's never, one that gets a time, one that says

that will do something and no do you do? That's you're going to choose for your business? No, right? Yeah, no, right? You're going to

let's ask you. A person who puts interest, that they can that want, that's, that the job, that's a job.

No, that you have to be there, there's a, for aftere to do this job, yes,

come, come, no, you have to let's have to the man that's the time.

Oh, but, before, before we just that we back here, before we we're,

we're going, we're, we're, we're, the, the, The path principal is to know,

is to be who I'm and to say the real, no, and not have a fear of because as the fact,

even if you get us to a market more small, will be the, they're those people, those who

are the people, they're in the very, so, so even, but it, although

it's, that we're, what you're saying, is that you're going to get to to,

you're going, to get a person, you're, you're how many people, how many,

how's people, you're, how, how many, But when you think that all the employees are this is,

this is, this is, this is, this is, this is the woman, this is the woman, this is, this is. All right. So,

so, the myth, the mytho, the myth, this is, the myth, so there's there's not,

one, no, no, I'm going to say, who I'm because if I don't like who I'm

going to do a good, is a myth, and the other myth, is, no I'm going to ask them to

ask us to the other person and I'm I do I have many questions, if I'm investigating, and there's where the analogy is to be looking an employee is to find a employee, is, you're to do ask you a interview to contract a

person, you need to ask. And you're going to think what type of employer is the point is the next, that's all the people that get to get, and rapid. That is the rest of the day. For a favor,

that all the thing is to be get to be able to be, and rapid, but you know what, but you know what He's saying, obviously, it's very sabio, that's the way, the way, that's not to try to find a science, to try to encounter a person,

a person that's correct to me. But, obviously, the form in that the media social, we're not, we're doing the mind, is at the reverse. The redes social,

today we're doing to, that the people, I'm more, the more likes, I've got more, while Max, shares, I'm more,

I'm more, I'm more, I'm more, that's all the contrary to what you to what you're doing. Because it's all a

It's all It's all It's all All right I'm a The other day I'm with One day I'm

Okay That's a Dindor, That's a dixion That's So it's So it's So it's

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I'm sorry Me Enavors How are How is this So are So are They're inamor

They're They're ina No, they're No, they They're in They're in The President They're the

Onexxxxxed and you, you're going to so you're much time, and you're not going to not,

but there's no way there's a no way there's, there's a little to do you

a little bit of me, 10%, 10%, 10%, but it's to be what you're in the

life. If you you're a relation of the real, you have to be

you're to you're to you're and if you you're what is, is to spend your

time, three, four months with 20, well, do, but they're going to

three months. I prefer that's the first day the first day is better there's there's

there's there fire slow fire fire fat contract and

yeah yeah contract contract and start to start to start

to start to start to start and be not you don't you don't you don't you

know to give but it's a good is a good the word is a good

the author no I don't but the phrase is good It's the Donald Trump. It's the Donald Trump.

No, no, no. No, I said he'll do it. Ah, and well, that would be a marvellous. If he was a man, he got him to go to the cabal

or the other part. No, he got to, he'll agro of the cabal. Ah, okay, because he'll talk to in his books of how to be

an presario. So, he says, Tardt me to try to try to try to, or so, elige with much care who you

get to get, and when somebody not you're dispide, that's very, that's very, very of his philosophy.

I'm, I'm a good Gust to know that it's a great good

I'm no, no, I'm not we don't we're not we're

not what we want to do you do you do it do you know,

because if you're me me know to you're so I want to

understand if I want to me for what people do

they're and how tarrows receive and I listen

to me see you're going to a a

no a an infirno. And if I'm going to valor to me, for how many people me abandoned or not and I don't, and no, I'm going to be, and no, I'm in a-geneer, because my life will be in a inferno. There's one. There's one who's

that you're saying that not are. If you're going to say, you're going to be a porcarry, no way to buy them. No, it's just that's just for you. Simply in this world, the 90% of the people, is that they're not in relations that are they're going to, okay?

And they're taking an opportunity to these people and to the other that are the people, that's they're just just in

simple. It's not of value, of no, it's not to be. No, no,

nothing that bad. It's a question of that we need to find what that we

work to work. Now, there's people that's a time, for a time,

for a time, for a time, to teach you, a lesson, we're, we're, a person,

we're trying, to be a person, that's What I'm going to send you one. What I'm what I'm saying is this.

And we're talking about of this thing, I said a pair of podcast. We did one starting the year of how

to get your metas. And then the second that we said, about the things that us stop them,

the things in the things in the we're doing we're sabotied our dreams. So, so what I'm

thinking of this conversation, Liliana, is that passamela all the day using to

Tinder, because it's a right, right, the right, the left to the right. Of course,

I'm about my dream of the person to find a person who I want to connect to those who are doing sex, well, there's not,

there's a, the topic of today. This is the podcast for, no, you need a podcast for that. Of what we're

talking about here is the who really genuinely in their is to find and connectar. So,

then start doing to think to think, is a period of time, it's something that's something that

is something, it's sabotage, sabotage our our meta. Exactly. But you know, but you're

saying, but you're saying for the thing of your self-esteem. That's what I mean, the reason. But the

point is, no, you value for how people do you like to you or you like, and not,

you know, you know, you know, you know, that's, we're going to come back, to the

pause, and when are going to be objectives in this election. How, how,

what are what are the things are the things are, or in Facebook, or Instagram or where you're

knowing or in person. What are those questions that can help to help? If we're really we're doing the person that's

lineed to us and have a future or no there. Perfect. Well, we're doing the pause. We'll we'll with that

time. Continuamos in the podcast and we're with the doctora Kavuli, expert in relations, coach

of the life, amante of the transformation of the human and of the parents. The theme

of this this is this of the ligadero in internet. The doctora today is explaining,

and we're learning, that points basic are saying the truth, when I'm doing the person to be

a person, when I presento in social with the person to be a person, is to say the truth, to be the

fact, to be the person, and then to the other than not to, not to, not to buy

this myth of that if I do the word, if I'm to ask us to ask us or if I

want to what are the questions that are do you recommend the doctora what are the

questions that are the questions that are the question to do you know for good either in the internet or

be in person very well we're going we're going to those, the questions and the questions and the observations

how we're what we're to ask what you're to ask you do you're because the words you're

the words the people and the people and the people do you let's see let's see what a woman

to show if they're interested in both. How do you connect? How do you contact? You contact a much, a little, or more almost. When a man, you're interested going to, he's, he's going to. You're going to be.

He's going to be. He's going to get it. That's one of the things. You're going to be textia. And you're going to know, because he's in the head. Because the men are the same. And you're going to know, when a woman is to the head, in the head. In the head. Let's start. Let's start. Let's see. If you're

If I'm interested in, in what I'm trying to be in contact? Exactly. And all the excuses, oh, no, that's what I'm going to do. That's what I'm going to do. It's all right.

It's all the truth. Okay. That's the first of, that's the first, that's the time. How many times me contact? But I have a question,

that's applicable for the women, because if the women are, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no,

no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, because, I mean,

I personally, when I, when I have when I've, many patients of the I'm going to you're

that's that's that's like they're that's that's that's not that's

not that they're not going to be doing a different to you're all the time all the time

to be different to you for you know, I don't know, I think the person, the

woman also has to show the person, but it's the person who person who

person to change the dynamics and the women don't, the people,

no, you one other thing. There's a person that's interested-itimus. Oh, who are the ones that are the ones that are the first, right, yeah, yeah, yeah, because what

they want to say, they're in front of sex or something, they're in the love of my life, this woman is perfect, or this man is perfect, and then, boom, when you've seen the reality, they're going, okay? So, so, there, have to medial, okay, when I contact, me,

my contact, is, like, a lot contact, I'm, not, you know, no, he knows, still, my contact at 50 times per day, this is to pincha rapidly. Okay? Now, me contact a three days, this, no, he has no,

he has been much a lot of, okay? Me, contact us all the days, a couple of times, okay, this is fine. This is interesting. Now, after you know, and there, also, we'll see the capacity, and all of the other person.

When all you're interested, but what's, but what's, we're talking about, we're, we're talking, we're talking, we're talking, so how many times

me contact? First, you have to all the relations that took that person you have to find out you know, you have to find out that way,

what is your story? You have to be the pattern of conduct of that person. If, for example, you can't be that all the relations that were less

five years, all the five years, or that all are two months, three months, that person has that person has been a problem of

that person is going to get to get to and then he will find a grano, the grano, the gran of the ground,

that's the part of the right of your car that's that you no, he's not, no,

no, I don't know, but you're a question, not they're, I'm, I'm,

I'm, I'm, I'm, understand, but I'm really, in the mind, no they're in a

minute, when you're getting to a penitess at the time, it's not good to be

about the life, and it's a tonterer, a tonterer, a tonterer total, because you know, that's what I'm to do you,

you'll repeat, you, you're going to tell you, you're going to it's just, depends of what you

to go to get that on that we'll let's a let's a don't exist that we're

so you no you know you know you know a first a little say I'm oh yeah

let's me say I'm so I'm so I'm and I goro the risk of that

person we're going to we're talking me of the ex-nobios or of the no no I'm

don't know because there there are much more there's there much more it's like it's like it's like

I'm like I'm okay I'm with someone and someone who's to be able to be to be in a relationship and I'm going to start 20 years

talking about about how people how people are how people are to know how much of how much of people are talking of many

people who are people who are people who are people who are very attractive to their personality there's how much

more much more more people are more people are interested in both how much people will be to start

two months How people people to start two months Better is A bit Toch it's a Coach me

How do you How do you How do that How do you How do that How do you You know We're talking

Or in a date And how How do you How much How much? We're Let me Go ahead

Let's go ahead Let me Let me We're We're We're We're We're

What you What you're What you're What's You're What's You're What's

What are you're looking? What are you? Even in the social, like, in Tinder, what you are? What are you? What are you?

What are you? What are? Okay. We're going. Let's go. Let's. What are you? What is what you want?

To me ask you? No, I'm asking I'm, I'm, I'm going to, I'm I'm asking, I'm here, because I'm completely aborted to

encounter the company of my life. Okay, perfect. So you're you that you're looking to come from that person with the that's what you're

saying. Yes. I'm what you're doing. I'm looking. my gemel or you're looking a person that really me interested like to be a chance to pass me to the

life with that person and me and I want to give it to give me to the heart. So, direct what you're asking? So, yeah, so, directly. Yeah, so, yeah, because, you're so. Then, after that, I, I think, okay, the region, because, what you do you know, if we know, we're going to do a thing? We're going to

find, we're going to find out, we're going to let us, we'll be able to, we're going to to tell us our life, we'll see if we're things in common really, if we're we're in

the interest to see them but we're sincere. I'm not I'm not to spend your time or not you

know, I don't you want to get to spend your time, Mark, you know, you're a great, spectacular, and

I'm too, I don't have got to get a time and I'm what we're we don't know, we're talking about,

we're talking about and we're about if there if there's something to make a chance that we're so that's

recommend. Number one, not passers 20 messages of oh, how are you, how are your day, direct? What are you looking? And if what you're asking is compatible, then go to the pass number two, that's, okay, we're going to know us. Or you're to talk to the local, or you

find out of the public. Look, really, I'm going to say something. I've seen a person, like, like, for example, I'm going to be out of the auto for to be that person. And if you're really, that person, perfect.

So, then you recommend You need to bring to the phone call the phone to the same the same to get to the application and the red

social, oh yeah, we're going to talk about or by Skype or something where we can't hear.

That's what I'm thinking. But fundamentally a person that has skills, that has that knows how communicate

and you know to say something to be a secret. But I'm much of I'm going to let's say

my patients or I'm what I'm a coaching when they're talking when they're about so that

they're to learn at the point. Okay, the The thing is the thing is that you're going to

to think, you're going to to spend the time or no and if you know you're going to to be able to you're going to you know.

I'm sure that you know. For telephone. For telephone, yes. For messages for messages text and

for the messages can pass months and not you know you know you know you know that's your depends on

how time you depend on. How time you you can't say how much you say that more? I don't know if you had a person

that you said, you know, you're going to? You're just, you're just getting, you're just getting a got a technology and I don't get to get you

with nobody, no, want to make it, so you get to get to the house, eating all the television,

saying, no, for a man, I don't want to hear you, I don't want, because you've been two

months with three hundred millions of people. This system that I'm going to be able,

it's going to be a person, it's like, Like an interview. Oh, no. I'm a lot. I'm a lot.

So, I'm a question what you're asking. Passing number two, start of the application, go to the

phone, or to know me in a coffee, a meal, a dinner, checking, obviously, because much people who've

not so much people, they're to be very good-uidosas because never know if the person that's the

other side, in that person, is really the person that you is, there's a lot there's

there's a lot of, there's to peddle, no, it's, in Mexico, is more complicated.

No, it's the United. I have to say for responsibility with the people that we're because there are many people that are

that's sequestered to do prostituals just right to the applications and the media social. So,

so the path of to know in person so, but I have to be to be sure,

I'm to be a lot of that I'm a photoophia to be to be the telephone or the application

that you do your telephone to verify who is that person and have much in where you know the first time.

That's the fact is the error that's the error that I'm committing is like when I when I'm when I'm going to my patients,

no, like I'm looking the people, I'm not doing the people, I'm looking at all the pictures, I'm looking

because, that's my career, me know, this person is a person not, like I'm

like I'm like I'm and I'm so, I think, I've attended never, but never,

one person has gone to have seen with a like a, like a stoker or something like that's difficult. No, it was like people, well, normal. Because I'm going to be a profile. But, of course, forget it.

I don't know. So this person is that person is that I'm looking. The recommendation that I always do the phone of him and call it in private. Pedial the telephone of him and he'll have to be in private or that he doesn't have your telephone. Uh-huh. Very well. In that, in that part, in the, in this part,

it's, well, have, to be, tell me a little your life, to have, tell me, how is your story, to be with your relationship, what's your last time?

When you're the first of your relationship, I'm going to start. And the other, and you also,

you know, I'm going to, I'm, a lot of the people, that I'm, that you're going to the

coincidences. Let's talk about the veganism, for example. The veganism you can take the

99.9% of the people. Because, because much people not is a vegan but,

but the veganism is something is a important, because what you eat so

and the people, and you want to be with an person who comes not you don't want to be a person that's

a person who because that that's really conflictos in the in the in the thing you know,

and part of to live with alian or or something or something is also to come with that

person so that so is important if someone for example eat all type of

or take and you're you don't know you and you don't know

that person that person no that's that thing that's you have to that's what you

effect. The affect corporal. For example, you're all of those are carinoes. You're just to give us. Abreast you, okay, the people are about that. It's a question. When you're going to, when you're

when you're, when you're, when you're, you're, you're cargreenses, or you're carignoso? You know, you're asking. You're just to have the hand. After sexuality, also, there's sexuality. There's people who say, I'm super calient. A me can't

the sex. Okay, perfect. Oh, you doctor. But in the first call and he asked if you're a

little I'm sure I'm like this a lot like this like with the

like I'm going to the people for you get a but not you say hey you're

so you're so because if you're if you're a question you don't

ask you don't even ask you to get to go to get to get to the

sexuality for this when I do when I'm my website that I

have to I'm I'm I'm a question questions that And scales,

of one to the one to the day. If, for example, a person like to have sex, one day for

a week, they think they are very hot, and they're doing that they're doing that every day.

There's a difference, there's a desire. And you're like that how you're how you

questions? How you? That question, then, that you, do you, that's, you know,

I, know, I know, I know, how I'm, to get to I, I'm to do,

I can't do that the first, but I can't just to just all that in one hour. How?

Why? It's just to get. It's going to. To do it. To do it, for doing in one person, for that person

to feel comfortable to be a person, and when I have a patient, I'll just to get to be. I have a question.

I have a question. I have a question it. I don't know. So, I'm, I'm sure. I'm sure.

I'm sure. I'm sure. I'm sure. I'm sure in the life, will be a passionate in the camera.

If you you have, if you something you put you know, you and you're, no, I know about, no,

no, no, if you're a passionate, no? No? No? No.

There's people, there's pure in all the life and in the camera is a yellow? De plano?

That's just me went the voice of the look, look, well, just that

that's because I'm with a friend, I'm, I'm, I'm, I'm,

that she's, that's a tinder, that's all that's all that you can't imagine, you're in a mission

of life with a passion of the loco, and me because I me, because I mean, because I mean, I'm going to tell you, I know, and so I do so do the intimacy of the people, to, I mean, because in my career, there's a lot, and I'm

and I'm saying, yeah, that's, I'm going to do something, I don't know, I'm gonna, I'm, I'm, I'm gonna' me, I'm gonna, I'm gonna be, I'm gonna' do the hour of to terminate, no, no, no, no, no, I pass-on-in'- Well, then, then, then, so Iveridge, yeah, that my system

no, I, I'm, I'm, it's, is, I want to be really, Mark, no I want to give a good to give a person to do someone to be a good

you know, if you do you're sophisticated sufficiently, you know, you can't do you can do

perfectly in one hour and depending on your personality will be to a way to because if you

know, I'm like, I'm, like I'm, like you, I'm just, you know, to talk about,

you, to talk, sex, you're going to be a person, not you feel like, you're not, obviously,

but, and that's obviously, and that you're years, you're another history, you're an adult, but when the people that don't hear that

they're more young, too, like, but the people are, they're more barbarous with the sexuality, but I think, because no, that question in the young, I'd, I'd say, no, I'd, and a young is a thing very different, because you know, they're not in the part of compromise, they're in the part of the

discovery, it's another on, okay? I'm thinking, I'm just thinking more of a person of 30 years to be a lot, you? A boss, you're a person who that's a person who needs to be important? For anyone you says, if you've

had been in a relationship in a sexuality because you have seen that the

person wanted to and you say you're there's that you see that the not so

that's not that's that I'm that's so I'm so you don't know that's

you're that that's that person that's genuinely that's I mean the yeah

I'm I'm how is your relation how you how you how you're the

question then, it's just you know, you know, it's a one of the person

wanted you know, that person wanted to a person where you had a relation where you that person

wanted you want to be more sex or you, okay, yeah, I'm saying, that's very

very well. I'm saying that one of a person that's sexual will be to be to be a

person, there's there's there's sexual and I'm that I'm perfect that's sexual.

And not they don't the chemistry, the person. And me it's perfect. That's

you're not perfect. Acelo. Okay, I want to be a person that's a professional, that I gain of the plaza, that's what you're going to beaunt, that you like to be a lot of the morning. Okay, perfect. Very good. That's what you do you want to find someone that's someone that you're trying to

certain characteristics. Now, one person appassionate, not a curriculum vitality. What he most looks is to see. It's a person that person that's a person, a connection of an alma, a connection of the

type of person that's the type of person that's a person that's more connected with his emotions and a person

connected with his emotions has to be to be connected with his emotions that also that's passionate and for

that person is important you have you've been this experience of life you also you know

when you when you is when you is a thing impression with a person

when you talk the person you're so when other, you can't you can't

try 50 hours about and you have been a good one of a conversation spectacular

but you he'll like you like to something like something something that you're

so that that's so important that's that's that important for me

is so important but so important because I love to take the man and

I'm and I can't think to simply to take the man

and someone to be in the cinema or in a car has a

has been desire to and that person has to be in synchronia with you, it's a person to be in sync

together. Obviously. Apart, and, the chemistry, the chemistry, the skin the skin,

the heat, the heat, the heat, the heat, the day, that's the put the the,

the, it's, it's, it's, it's, it's, in the connection. Now,

we'll, we'll be to repeat, there, there's, there's, there, but there are other people that that

that's important. What are? What's your? What's going? So, then so, atrever to do the questions

that are important for you? Atrever, if you have a style of very specific, for example, there's a

person who is really a and the sport and the sport is a life, and they're with a

person that's like an person, or you're vegan or practicas the food and maybe, or of

some type specific that's part of your style of life, ask them to put it in the mess.

So, not to find it not to put in the mess the things that are the

those points important or those deal breakers, those that could be the accord or

to start the agreement or in the quickly, rapidly, without other of the other of

the things is what you are doing to negotiate? What are you're going to be able to be able to

not to be that's just there's just there's just I have said, I prefer, no me

I don't know me really the sexuality, not me doesn't have a person who's a little bit, but I'm a person who's

the passion. For other person, it's the person is, not living with an alien that's never of money. Other person, not could be able to live with an

person, and I'm gonna that I'm gonna that I'm very content because we're not, because we're we're trying

much people in these podcasts that or are vegan or they interest to began. I think good. When with a person

vegan, especially to be a woman, okay, for example, a man a woman

and you know, I'm going to say, I'm going to the problem of being a person, is that you

change your mind your body and you a moment of desintoxication very pesable. So that person is

a vegan and that's like a person, you know, for all the changes, and then you just all the

other because he was he was going to be able to do that person, oh, yeah, that's what,

I'm going to come to come to come camera, that what you're saying is that finge in adapt to to your style of with your style of

with your style of with taking to get to the camera no? No, not only don't be able to be to be in the camera

not much. What happens is that you can't do you can't want to be for that. For that I'm if you're a

person who's, if you're saying vegan, for favor, start with someone who's that is or is vegan.

Yeah. Not that you you're going to do you have a respect. I, for example,

I said nine years no, not was vegan. I was super carnivro. And no was vegan because nobody me had presented those videos of the cruelty of animal and nobody had been able to the benefits of the

health or the planet. I don't know that information. But in my heart always there was compassion. I always ame much to the animals. So all what I said was that someone, in my case was a master, a master of which I've tolded the history in one of the episodes of the podcast,

of carnivore or vegetarian, in my case was a master, but if I would have encountered with a woman vegan before, then I would have made because I was I'm going to

if I'm going to if I'm going to say I'm going to say to not I'm no, no I said to

do you say that okay no, what you're doing is you want to transform a alien. Now, that's,

that's very good. My idea is how my idea is how to find out of there,

there is, there is, there's, there's, there's, there's because what me gave

the veganism was the was the compassion was the so I'm

this this person this person Ama the animals. This person is compassive. This person has a good heart. So when I see that

these characteristics, I don't try to transform it. But I go, there's a possibility. If I saw that the person's a lot of the animals and the planet

no matter, then I see that no, I'm just I'm the door. Although I know I'm going to transform it.

But I'm material. That is more common in a woman than a woman than a person. But you're going to

get a lot of people who are a person for a compassion with the animals. other people is vegana because

because he thinks for the global warming running for the change climate and other people and other people is for

health and there's people and there's people and there's people who are people who are more because there's other

things exactly exactly exactly and the really that for being you have to have to

have to have self-estimates you know I think to self-estimate because it requires discipline and

the people that has that has to have to be a a partura to a a, a,

a, a, a, a, really, really, the women,

although is very difficult for a person, and that's, but they're, but they're,

those are, those are, and it's, it's, it's very, what you're people, there's,

but there people that don't have the potential, that's, that's, that's,

that's, but, that's, because in the time of the time, you,

you're, you, you contracted the employee, okay? Contracted the employee and you have been in the job and you know all over the job and the middle of the job is he wants to began because no he doesn't.

Sure. No, it's not due to, because no came from the car, no, it was, it was, I do do it, and so no function. No, does it for me. Do you want to do you do you want to do.

Exactly. And other thing, too, that is that of the passion that we're very little, a me per sepaculate, a me me me me can't too, the of the passion, et cetera, but that's not all because the passion

can't be only passion. It's you've put into a reaction that only be a passion sexual, but ignore that love. The love is much more than the passion. The love is much more than than this we're talking. And if you what you're what you're really to

be loved, it's like an art, it's the art of love. And the people see a little to see-simmo that a it's it costs to love

to get to that the love the time that's so

I'm this I'm in this podcast to the people that's

that that's that they that all of that they're that

they're in their in their in so in that

that is the most important but for me

the sincerity no has no experience with the

patients that I've been and with the profiles

when when you sincere, you go better. It's a to be a

true. It's a to be able to ask you and to be able to say, to be, not,

not, not, not, not to use to do you, and it's not really about and with respect,

but to say, this is what I'm to do this to try to my life, without a that they're

to be to be a or that it's, or that you don't work, that it's, but it's

not a, but it's because the thing, because the thing, the uncansance and the

agotament of the of many relations that are in a very short-plastro. That generates a great in the people,

so great, I mean, it does such a lot of, when I've got when I've got patients that in this state.

It's the poor state because they're a need. You're going to develop a need, a that no

function, a need to a that you know that you know, a need to you're a need to

get a more and a worse and a better and the So I hope that I'm trying that with this explanation that I

understand that not is that I'm trying to that they're trying to that they're going to get in things that they're in things that are not going to work

in the in the people, if you're you're looking water, be a real, no, be to the mar, be to where you go to the

don't go to go, because you're going to get to do questions and say, to what you try to do you

investigate to do that other person to be you're at the same line and then then to focus and invest it, but if no,

not to lose the time, not just to be it, for insimita, for insimita, for insimita, and alearty of the realer's life that you in the case of that be connected to someone that's a relationship,

although it's or not be for a life is another story, but an, something that means something that's a lot of a companyer, a companyer of apprenticeship for the time

that will be to be a durer, but that is something and that's a lot that's a lot, that's true, that every relation transformed in a person

better. And the most important that I think is, if I'm with someone that I'm

that I'm that I'm not going to do the more to me or that I don't think to take another

person. Wow. I'm taking to other person. It's true. I'm taking

and that me put a real bad. I have a respect so for the time because you know

you know, you know, you know, you know, you're able to do you can't You can't do you can't

You can't But the time not is recuperate You never You never You're ever You're You're

You're never You're and you're And if we're We're It's irreplaceable So I'm of the The theory of

Think in the other And I think Okay, if I don't feel this This person If I see I'm not I'm doing

To do this and If there is There is this Is there Why I'm going to to get to this person that possibility? Why he will

be starting this mediocreity that I'm doing? Okay? Because, according to, the people is in capricia,

Marko, is in capricia. No, no, no, I don't mean? Didn't know? For the ego,

for the ego and for the self-esteem. I think one has to be ego-eastern because for me the 90%

of the people are with the people and they are taking to another. Because I could not

not have chimica with a chemical spectacular with other person and be going to be going to be

going to be going to me and my time. I'm going to get that person to someone

to get to the opportunity to bring the space to the person that is compatible with me

I mean I have to be able and I'm just being just I'm just I'm just

I'm just I'm just for not the person that is the correct for me and I am the correct to her appear in my life. That's great. Much thanks, Doctor.

It's too. Very, very good. I think with this, we're doing a light very important in this world of the internet, that's something because we're going to,

tant, so, so, time, in our phones, it's a grand part of our life,

like we have a physical and a life virtual in the, in the radio social and in the internet, and this orientation

that you with respect to the parah I'm very very valiosa and you do it thank you

thank you for give me the opportunity to share all this those of the knowledge of experience and that

I'm fascinated to give them is to give us and you don't you consume it thank you thank you

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