El Podcast de Marco Antonio Regil - 047: Tentaciones e infidelidad por internet, con la Dra. Cabouli.

Episode Date: April 9, 2017

La Dra. Cabouli nos explica que el internet, no solo es una tentación para los solteros, sino también para quienes están en una relación y nos dice por qué tanta gente está separándose como consecuencia de los romances virtuales.  Si eres soltero, casado, tienes o no tienes pareja, este es un fenómeno social que es importante conocer.

Episode 47. The podcast of Marko Antonio Regil is a production of RGL Entertainment and all his rights are reserved. Venos to the podcast of Mark Antonio Regil. Amor for Internet, second part. The theme of today is the infidelidad, a phenomenon social that occurs.

Occurre from the beginning of the times, but today with the Internet, because with Internet is more tentator, is more easy to imagine? options. The options are not only are for those solteros of encounter love, as we've been the occasion anterior with the doctora Kabuli, but

those options also appear for those who are in relations. Why the internet can use you, in best of that you're using there? Why many people are refuged on the internet when there problems? Because

when there's a difficulty in the Pareja, you say, hmm, me going to go to the application where I'm a lot of people. The people

infiel can can be changed? Can be really? The men are infieles for the same reason

that the women are infieles? The same reasons or are different? Today we know we'll

talk about the expert the doctor in psychology and expert in relations passionate of the

person of the personal of the human the doctor Kabuli you You know, where you are?

Where you goreasing the world? What you're doing? What you're going to? I'm going to go to the world. I'm going to be in Greece, I'm in the Isla of Pyrus, and then the dominolego to and then go to

Egypt, to the pyramids, and this, the Marrojo, and then I'm going to Israel, and then then, you're going to you,

you're going to you're doing with Tindor or what? Yeah, exactly. How do you? It's what I do exactly what I do. Exactly what I do.

As all the days. As you're talking about it, like, the time last time. So, I said, well, it's exactly what what I'm going to do.

It's what I'm a good to do. Oh, but much people, much people, do you ask that this, this,

he's going to the world, and every and where he wants, and it's, and options, and options. I would

not like, that what they are doing is to know, but they're not going to people, but have sexuality,

et cetera, in general. Yeah, they're going they're they're getting to be revocated

for the world in the world. Exactly. Let me. Let me, we're trying to do you're trying to do with a person.

But what what I'm do you do? I'm a good. I'm doing that's doing that you do you're doing in the time

to be able to get the space, the, the, the, the, the energy, the

health, and I'm very good. I'm very good for you. Very happy. Very very happy for

your doctor. Much of it's an very interesting. The people well, feeling, well, I'm happy that

I'm going to Dr. Cable, one of the consenties of the program, that's

the last time that we're the time to the people to look the love to the internet,

to the love for internet, even those who are they're much curiosity because they're well,

I want to know, I want to what are doing in those in those applications and they're

many, those who are curiousos, those who are those are exactly there, there's a

because it's because there's a because there's a sensation like those my friends my friends

my people are you like you how a little you I'm like you like this but so

but so but so not only the applications in Facebook in Instagram well there there's

and a people and a person and a question and this is a problem today this

curiosity that the people that those are that are the same for what is happening

in internet yeah it's a problem very for the one one of

one of one of five divorce is because that they know people

in the internet, is because if not the parents they're not the

people having emotional affairs, is saying, having adventures with other people,

or the same physical. Basically, this is so the matrimonio is something very difficult.

It's something difficult. It's a requirement, much compromise, much work. And all

the media social and all the internet, Facebook, etc. and all the dating

of websites, what they're is that you have to be accessible to your man in a minute. It's like if you're an

alcoholic and every five minutes you're talking the door with alcohol. I'm perfect. You know, it's like...

You're an alcoholic and all the day they're offering alcohol. So, like, like, I'm going to

go to be a day to do a day, I'm going to get a dinner and there's with all

the starrows. Imagineate an buffet that they talk in the door every two seconds.

Hey, Here, here's, here's a, here's a lot. You're going to be in a bacca lechera. You know, it's, it's a lot of, so there's

the issue. So, it's very accessible. Imagineate, you're in a relation of a partner, you're getting

super bad with your and you and you're and you find you, you know, you're

on a person, and all are very good and very sympathetic for the internet because no, no,

no you're not you last you're to be you're going to the reality of, day

on the day on the people say things little words and the people

they're so they're so there's there's there's many people that they're

not so that not they know in person and that and the and

the messages in the messages of the text or in the platform social. You can't do you. I'm. I'm.c.? doing your

life all the day, occupied-s occupied-s and you're in a person

that's text-eating and you get to you're doing you're in you're you're

like with your parritho and you think you a relation in a relationship

but basically you're not you don't you're it's it's the

new robot that now you can't have sexualida with a

with a with a with intelligence artificial okay is a robot

is communicating with you with a person that you know you know is your imagination. No, no,

but imagine it's a pretty too. I mean, I said many years and I'm saying it's going to get to be

a robot because all who want to listen what they want, to do you do what they want, and nobody

want to negotiate nothing, then so it's a barbarous with a robot. Well, it's the movie,

how it was called, I think it's the character of the movie, that's enmored to the telephone. Well,

not the telephone, but the system operative that has a voice of a woman, that has a voice of Scarlett Johansson. That's the movie, Hearst.

Hers, of her. Of her. And the program to do said to all the world, but that's also also the internet. If I can't get me super well

with a person in the internet, because he can't say what I'd say, that's divine. The people want to hear things linders. Why?

Because they're understimates and they need much confirmation. So, if a woman is in a matrimon,

where the marital where the marital never has never he says that's little, no, no,

no, no, no, he does a important and then the repents you know,

you know, you're the person, you're the most the world, the woman is fascinated. See,

what's that's something, someone that's giving us a person, a bit of

a bit and vice and your man, you're all and I'm , hey,

see, this is this more, don't so you're not you're not you do you,

and you don't know, you're all the thing, you're to be to be

God, Any other the planet would be happy because I'm just here just

you know, yeah, it's just it's all it's divine it's a barbarous no, it's not

it's very it's like it's like it's it's a it's very no, it doesn't

mean it doesn't you know there's we're having the life like

all right all right all a minute you know yeah so you the relations

relations for internet not you So there's to use the platform if you want to know someone but rapidly go to know us

and that's in the last episode where you're with us over us there's like you there's people that's known by internet and result a matrimonia

spectacular but what I want to say is that real until that you know that person I have done that have been

married and they've been to get to run the hair because not they're not because this not it was like

it's not not it was like no you I was a little bit of a day, every two months, in an room of hotel, passing a passion spectacular. Mientrasse your life, me understand? Entendez the conceptito of,

you know, sometimes you're doing your life. It's like to have the best of two worlds, because, for one side, I'm sorry, I'm doing what I'm doing the want to, but I don't knowia, a nobio, in the red social or the messages of text or the WhatsApp. It's like, I feel that I'm...

And you can't mean. And you can't mean to you can't even. It's a fantasy. So you recommend to use it as a tool to use it as a real and to know to the video real to the antiquity.

Totally. Totally. The good of the websites there's a thing very positive. It's that in general attract people that's more in

synchronia with you. Let's put it like the time of the end. When no existed the internet, you know, you know,

you know, you know, to know a party, in a party, you know, a friend, to do you

need to adapt much of what the person was, you, what you were, it's like

you, It's more the type of person that you are or that you like when there a profile in the media, but it's difficult. So, now we're about that. My abuelos, so, so, so they're in the street. My abuel, he was with her nana, he la view

to pass her, and he left a letter and she gave a nana for that and she'd be it. And they'd be it for cart. No, they could be able to be it in person. And so, yeah. And there's re-enemortable. It's your enamoramination

augen when no less you best to bes a person because more idealized. the idealized. Okay, but well, passing to the thing, that's the way, we know, we need to know us in person, use the internet, that the internet not us use to us to us to

us to us, as a tool, to know the internet as well, and to know a person affin, and pass to the life real, and not have this fantasy, if what you want, is, the reality, is a reality.

If what is, if what you want, if you, what you're, you know, because you don't care, and you have to accept it, no care, no care, no,

you don't have, not you, not think, you know, Before to enter more a fond on the

thing of these options that's not only the people but the people that's in a relation

Paul, I've seen someone in a real real estate we've seen a but I'm a

but always the options are there is the exact that's the problem

but before before before I want to to put to be to be the boske

first and then I go to get us to the other And,

in general, why the the women and why the women are infieless? Why exist this, because it's

different? When the women are infieles, is for the same reasons that the women are

infieles? No, the reasons are different. The men, in general, is because no,

there's sufficient sex in the house, in the case, I'd be to get a car and get to

have a sexuality super active, resulta that they they're, then it then it

can be emasculated, is that not they're that's they're not that's put in

that's they're they're in because they're can't because they're they're in they're doing

they're they're that they're the people who for the miscarinities of I'm a super macho

I'm able to get a lot of those people those are the reasons for the women

enganying now the woman enganyed for vengeance in general ah if you

don't me begin so you me going to have, no you're going to be, let me have to be. Look, all those that I'm

behind me. It's for that reason. It's because they're not an emotionate. It's like something

something that's much is for ego. The woman is much to receive confirmation. Those are those,

those are beautiful, those are those, those are other. For so, the ensenance more great that I do

to do my patients is to be insensible to the alagos masculinous to not to get in

this game. And for to escape from a reality to look at a connection of of a more, for example, is a casta

with a man that not is emotional, that is affective, that is like, is like you're looking a love, and

these things of internet are divine for the love, because you're you're inamor of the love, and you're

is projecting all that that you're in your person, someone that's, and you're

you're doing all your fantasies, me understand? Yeah. These are the reasons because the

men are the other is because the women engage. So, let's see.

Let's see, I think. The men tendemes to engage more when the woman, in few words, they transform in a mom. When I'm starting to reagan, to say, to do this, that's,

and I try to turn out of the and try me, like, like, my, like, regany, regany,

regaue, regaue. If you want to say to say, he's saying, very in conclusion. Because no, there's sufficient

intimacy, because the women don't want to have sex. Aha. Okay. In many, many,

women, they're doing mothers, and they'll be a woman. Sure, they're going to make a mom

first and you know in a right, right, exactly. So, there, if the woman does it for sex,

and the woman does it for a connection emotional, for the alas and for the alas and

if the man, obviously, but if the man, but if the man, a good,

a good, a good partner, a good, a guy, and she's, the woman does the

woman, no way, the woman, if the woman, if the woman,

if the woman has no can't receive that's a okay, you can't have the man more

that's a man that's a man that's okay, if the woman has been super-felisk

with that that's a question of a recipient to receive love, carino, effect and

attention. If not you don't you can't receive you, not you you're going

to be a good and spectacular that you try to you're like you you're

you're you're to be you're to be a reina. Okay. That is a good title for another episode. Why

a the women they've got them? To get the mothers. A women, to have the women, and, of all, not all of those, is right. No, no, no. To the people, they love autoestim, they love because they're going to suffer. No, they're in this. I mean. I have friends,

whoapisimas, that are that one, and I do, no, you see when you, no, you see the car? Just to make the car. Just to make them all the way, how she's dress, how she comporta and there they want, they're just

those people but that's because I'm because I don't have to nothing to do not, it's not

super bonita guapa or not with super professional or super plata, nothing,

the autoestima no has nothing, nothing to nothing to do that that's good

that's the back self-stimates. With a not having been not been being

not ever super-perfectionists etc. So, you know they need a person that you know,

a person that's a club, you know, you know, a woman who has that they're that they're doing, that they're

that super-hame, that super-were, because it's a recipient to receive that love. So, as a man,

you have to have a woman who has a lot of and the people, and the person, when the woman

has a back auto-estim, then you can't care, because nobody's you're going to want to be more than the

people, Nobody will go to more than what they're in to see the one of the

one of the one of the one of the person, it's a get to be abhorried or if if it's

a bit of the man, and then it's like, it's like that the it's like, it's like

you know, it's like, no, I don't see it's like, it's like, it's like it's not

when you're when there when there's when there understand. The example. In the the case,

in the case of a man on the person, because it's same. Okay,

are so concentrated in their insecurity. When a person not has like it's like it's

like a paralyzed. He has to have to be to be to be it's like to be

like that and it's and I'm and Lamentable Marko Lamentable many people with a

self-of-estime and with lack of that all right that all right to be having to start to

start at some self and yourself, but you're the only what you're going to

So, to have So to have you So to have So to have Well, the back security personal, the

low, the back confidence or security, exactly. Exactly. Or, you always,

you'll be someone that's someone who will be your best your friend,

will be your better with the people who think that's narcissism,

for the contrary. If someone not he wants, if someone not you can not you can

do you can do you can do you do you do to do do you do And then who has Bajaustima,

what I'm saying, correct me if it's not is that will have to more possibilities of being

in general. Right, well. Very exactly. And Facebook and all these websites

are perfect for the people of self-oestim because what they're looking is a confirmation.

Entendez? Puten a photo and they say what's what, that's, that's,

what people, that we're we're saying. What? We're, we're we're doing? We're

I'm the love, the love, the affect, the amist, all requires a force, it's a effort, it's a

matter of the thing to be with the time, it's very difficult, it's something that's something really

really complicate your existence. That interesting. We're going to make a pause and continue we're about how

the infidelity can maximization and it's still more more easy, more fast to get to the

on the social and how manage this, how to avoid to get in this, and if I'm living a very important, I'm living a relationship where

I'm not sure that my wife is being unfeel, how manage it. So we're a pauseita and we'll continue with the doctor

Kabuli in the podcast of Mark, Antonio Regal. We're back. The doctora Kavuli, from Europe,

from the Grecia, connected with her carson and the love, expert in helping to help her the time

in this podcast of how the internet has more great and more more powerful still, both to

the person to know a someone, as the person, and what I asked, okay,

we're going to suppose that we're going to the first time, I'm going to a person, what you're that you're

what you're doing to do do you're a woman, they're in a matter of their

social, one way that they're a person in the who are they're to put

to get to be the episode earlier, you're you're you

you're to someone, correct? Sure. Because if no, you know, because if you know,

it's like if you're going to do you're going to do you're in your aladera, chocolate, you know, and you're

all the laden. Listen me, it's a difficult that diet. Because there a rarr, you're a rast your own

and the moment that you get a hungry and you do you know, you're going to focus, but sincerely you'll say something,

when two people are connected one with the other, no they interest other people. But

there's to connect us. What the past is that the connections are not so easy when we've in a world where all are two minutes and where the people are not going to suffer Mark. The people have to fear to suffer. A that

not they want, to that they're to abandon, to that they're not going to these fears, they taping with these things like in the internet. So, if I'm in a relation, or me

I'm focusing on someone and I'm going to all these options abirtas is because I'm a fear to to do it,

to give me to do it, well, I'm going to to make a options, some ventanitas abertas

for if a case. For if me dole. Exactly. Exactly. It's exactly that's exactly

that. It's, it's the fear. The fear. Because really when you amaz a person and

you're you're doing horriblyly, it's really really really. Nobody and you want to suffer this

dolor. So if I don't want to suffer the color, what I do? I'm going to give to get to get to you. And meantime I'm two or three

there's a little bit. And if you're a person more or less attractive and you have things

interesting, you're going to have to have candidates? So, then then you're going to be, you're going to

collecting candidates like who collect a stampilla. Like the like to collection things? Sure. They transform

a collection. Like the like the like, like, I'm have, I have,

I have 30. That's what I collected. Well, for So, in the in, in the applications, like Tinder and

similares, there's there's a phenomenon that's the that's going to, ghosting, or the

fantasmear, no? So, that you connected as someone, but never called,

or interchamial two messages and the communication is more, like a collection of people,

that potentially could you could you could be but the ghosting famous, so is,

so, not you you're, you're, you're we're, we're, we're

we're, Mark, we're living in a world a terrorized of endregers a terrorized of love,

a terrorized of the intimacy, a terrorized of the real. So this is perfect. But it's

perfect. But not you do the vacue, not you don't you get the because it's

full of things that not true. Sure. No, you know, you're

right, I'm very clear, it's all the logic. It's and I do you know,

I'm, I'm, I'm, I'm, I'm, I'm I do you

absolutely the reason. what I do so I'm to start, before I'm going to to start, I'm going to

start, I'm going to someone, I'm, what you're doing, what you recommend, that the people minimise your, so,

so, activity in, in the media, or the phone, to be able to get, they're,

in what, in what moment I, my options? Totally. In- what you, in-called,

you're, to do you, do you, to do, Tinder, match, com, all.

you have to focus you're in what moment I'm in what in the moment that they're first we're first we're

first to start with that nobody you know that's you know you're going to have to try those three months

put it to let's take to the two three months to say those two decided you know

you know we're we're gonna we're we're gonna there's there's there's

it's it's it's three months and then you you're to try

the The people is incredible. Well, I'm going to know very quickly, how is a person because I study the people, but in general the people no,

okay, because no, no, no, is what they're doing it. But it's impressive. It's incredible.

Because there's many people who start reintu's a mad, Marco. Rentus and they're called. They're

they're saying every day, they're saying, they're saying, they're saying, they're doing the walls, and so they're

so they're like they're, in Mexico, we're Marada of Petate, so that's a fire very great and then then it's

apagued all. But there other system. The other system is a person that's a person more of a couple of

people more more than, you put in the orno when you're very frie and you put in the aladera

when you're very hot so that's so that's more a day other days no, a little bit,

a little no, and there's there's there, there's there I'm, there I'm, I'm,

but I'm there's a a period of time. Because that person, assure you that's not going to be a movement.

The two two things, these two are two extremes. So, I'm going to a person, I'm going to

say, I like you, I like you, I'm interested, I'm, in, to find me, in,

if we can't have a, one, a relation, and that you say, you say, you're,

you're, I'd, you'd, start you, to, you're, just, including, not only not

not only not to be a dinner or at the cinema, but to have a relation exclusive to know including the

internet. That is something that we need to talk about today? Absolutely. I'm absolutely to say to the

people that clear, because, not be clear, Marco, I do my word of the only

that is to do you know, you can't not be clear, because it can't be because I'm want,

because I want to be how result the things, because, oh, no, what's horrible that it's, but the really, you know, it's to spend your time. And you know, what's the thing? That's the frustration,

when the frustration is much, because you're not, with one, with another, with another, with another, with and it's just a frustration, that's being more. And that's one's the thing to avoid. Yeah, I said, that one, the last time, I remember

that you said, that no, I'm the way more than someone has been passing for a lot of exceptions of cortitas. And it's really, I've lived, So, you deuce, you know,

you're going without, without any without you, why I'm for what I'm in this? Exactly.

Imagineate that you know, you know, you're going to and you're a lot of a lot of a lot of

something that's wow, and me you go to you're going and I'm and you're going to be circando,

and when you're going to get that you're going to you're how you're going to get a

horrible, cruel, frustrated exactly. Exactly. Exactly. So, look,

I'm, let you let's see the quarnes, a alien, no is the solution

of nothing. Because in general, the 99% of the relations that are

met with not work so it's a period of time. As I am a person that I

think the efficiency of the time, because you know that the unite

to get to get to someone, you're to try to your problem of relation. And if you know

so it's resolve, the you're with other things. First, you have

to clean to But, but I don't know how much? No, it's a triangle.

And those three, not they're two, they need to the other, that's the second, that's

that's the person, that's the so I'm to focus me, I'm to be able to start

my applications. When I found I found someone that I, I'm, I'm, I'm,

I'm, I'm not we're both we're doing, we're doing, and we the, the

the networks social, for example, that are not are not they're not a but they

use them to get a little you know that you say it's a little you know, seera your Instagram or

your Facebook or a certain that would be a realist so yeah that's a so you know

where we put the rallel how to distinguish between a cellos controller that you you're just

trying to get to let me give me and I want to give you and borrow

this and blocka this other and no see no we're going to focus on. What is the equilibrium

sano between those two things? Because there's the two extremes. In a relation,

you have to develop the confidence. And that's something that has a time. If a

person wants to control the environment, the environment, for that you don't

be you personally if it was that person or if I had a patient

that I say that, I'll that I don't want to you don't

you see with a a certain serenity that you do that you can't even if you're going to be able to be living, the detective private? No, what's going to be of? Every day of detective private? Look, what's, look.

What's the person? You know, who, who's just me? That's not, what we're going to do? What we're going to do? What we're going to start? We're going to start taping all right? Really, a relation of parishes

is like to turn to a pizina. And it can be free and can't have water. And there's to givesela. is to have Marko Antonio Regil is to use it. And you can

get to get bad or you can get to get to get to get to get the piece to get to the bit to get a to get to

see, let's get and be it how it's not so so you're so that's so we're doing

to ask to ask you the password or the contraseeing of your other person or the other

person if the other person can't it's like a code of honor it's like a It has to have a code of honor.

For favor, that would be the most ridiculous that I've heard me. Darm me, give you, please. For favor, what is that? No, no, no. But a, but a code. There's to have a code of honor. Confiance. Confianza.

You have to develop a confidence. If you engage a person, if you engage a person, and, another, another, another, another, to give a person with the person who you got to do, because it helped to give you

know, that type of person is, you're doing. You're all right. You're all right. What the person is that the person me engage after because I'm

about you know I'm going to you're not because I'm you're not you know you're not you're not

you're because you know because not was about you're not about you don't talk about that you don't say

that's that's bad in you that says there's something there's a person I have a patient

is divine because they're going to get that someone that's like that's but he's

he's she's but he's you know, but if you don't you like, the problem you know,

Marko, Marko, is the autoestime. It's the autoestim, everything, everything has to do it

and I'm not have to think, and I think that all the man who I've got to get to all because

me they're to get, the solution because I'm not sure of me myself. The solution

then then is control simply to make a a quote, a code, don't know to say,

look, my my mom, chiquita, a chikito, a beautiful,

precious, no? We're going to to know you want to know, I want to be to venter to this alberka,

no see if there's a free and if me going to give a goal but I want to be to make sure

a real thing a relation, a relation of a mother, mature, this, of adults

in our life, a relationship to make a family or for to have children or

simply to be in a relationship but I need to you do do you

do be going to actuemos with an honorability, actuels with with lealted, act we're in because if you want it, if you

do you want, if you do you do you, you want you, you know, you need to you know, that's the

thing, the thing is the coqueto. Because the coqueto is the commencing. Sure. All right.

It's the coqueto. Yes. And, it was more faster. I, for example,

when, before, before the other the media social, I said, I'm

in a relation, well, I'm a bar, no go to a an tr, no I'm going to these places to go to

see that there. There's there's going because I'm going to do you know, but I'm going to your Instagram

or to Facebook. There's the fire. Yeah, but you know a thing, Mark,

there's a world, but that one can connect to not a, not a, that's a that's a lot,

that's a really, that's a little, a connection, not a lot, another, you can know,

very well in the level of interest of a person for how so that you can't connect to conti- if a person tardar days in connect to contes that is the level of interest that you have a person a person a much more in contestant that that's the time is the interest that you know you know that's a question if you

know you're going to be confier in one of those no say some day we'll do some podcast where we invite one person and us a story and I'll let's show how to let in the comportments but

frankly it's very It's very easy to tell how is the level of interest of the person how is that person and if you can get to

get to get to get a the code of honor the people who do you know and it's a and it's like the fear I'm going to

me going to be a very intense no, there's what he's important how you're going to be to you're going to

you're going to do you're to do you're to do you it's a you're like you you're a man you've

been a lot of many years of studio What is that? One does it? What does it? What is it? What is the matter?

If you have to get to get good with alien, that person is not for you? So, what is it cool or no, me be cool? No,

that's that power? No, no, is that cool? No, it's just, you know, you're going to be you're going to do you're going to

know, if you're going to do that you're not doing or incul. If you're not you're having to certain fears, show it,

show it's you there's you there's that there there's a there's a word there's millennial that

says, I, and it's, it's used to like a word, and you're

going to, you know, it's you know, it's putting very emotive or very emotional or that

you're going, a lot of sometimes, intenser, if it's like, it's like, it's,

but at sometimes sometimes, it's simply, it's, it's, it's not being,

cool, no, you're, not, but you're, but you, but you, but you,

you, you know, I, opinion, of, the, , someone who has to

have to get a cull, I'm I'm I'm I'm a many of years,

and I'm many people that you can't repeat it, because they're not quite because they're

rarestimates when they're when they're going to be able to or not to be to be able to

and they're there's that I'm that's rarestimate that's a yeah, that's a mix between English

and they're many, but all it's the same? The word the same? The word?

All is the MEDAW What is the MED What I'm What I'm Or what I'm You know,

I'm just And you know I'm like you You know I'm retchase That's, that I'm That's the

It's the Mewing Mew Mewon Tender MEDA MEDO MED Oh, MEDO

And as you know You know, The MOYs To know Where we're Livinger Where we're We're living

In the MOU Or there Or there Or Miety Or Mee Brio VIII,

VIII, comes of the, of, of, of, of, of the, of the interpretations that we have in our mind, what we have occurred. The love comes from, the God. The love is God. The love is inspiration. And the love is it. It's real.

When you, amas something, you la juegas, for your career, for a person, for a country, for a vocation, for an, for an organization. For one experience? Yes. Yes. For what I mean, for what I say.

When I, when I took, for this decision, to do this voyage, You think that when I came to Thailand I didn't know me feel like, wow, I'm in the middle of the world, solo, to be, what, what, what, what, me do you know what, I mean? But, of a repent,

I was elaborating, because my idea was to try me to the piscina to do for my area of comfort. So, the reality is that the life no exists, me, I'm at risk, or meadows, or do I do, or I'm doing, or I'm,

and all these fears, and all this fears in those of the we've lived, is because we're considering the reality of the life, that is like I did an video that's, every day you're to get your ego.

All those days, you're going to be to play with your ego and not you're going to because the type will go to get to do with and he's going to

try to attack for other other side. And our objective in the life is conquistar our ego,

conquistarned to us and we're and every way to manage more the situations and be more in vibration

of love and less in liberation of fear. And you know, when we talk about this and you

hear of this, and I'm going to my, for my mind, every time that you

know, you know, I'm, I'm, I'm, I'm, I'm, really, I'm my my head,

I'm, my head, I'm, feel a feeling, I'm a life, with the

mind. In change, when you're about, to talk, the, to gettals,

the, to get to the thing, That's the great difference. Like, like, like an energy, like a energy.

Because you're saying, well, and what happens if I'm going to be bad? And me va'am and it's bad. And well. And what happens?

And it's, and it doesn't, and it's true. And who to get to the ballad? Decime one something,

Mark, some other you've done, you know, I'm sure, you know, in that moment? No.

You could have to have a when one when one is when one is when one, no, no, no, no, no,

no, no, no, no, The love occupies all the space and

and no exists the fear and when there's a no, there's no yeah, yeah,

and I've seen people to destroy relations with a potential impressionant for fear. Yes,

when you're doing the love with the love, the word, no sexo, amor, amor,

love, love, you do it or I do it like, no exists nothing in the world,

like it's, or the only time that the only time that it's precious. Exactly. And you're saying, you're not

you're saying, you're not in the case. In when you have sex, and you're with with you're with, you can't have fear, that's, I'm saying,

oh, I'm doing doing it, I'm doing this being, I'm in my body, you know, you're in performance. How's it's

in Spanish? You're thinking in your performance. You're saying, it's a performance that means in Spanish, is anglicism,

you're doing a presentation. How I'm going to have? Tendre, I'll be a circulation rapid.

No, not I'll have an erection that's me back I'm going I'm a

so you're in so you so that's the there's a there's a yeah I'm yeah it's it's a

pure sex it's pure sex no you're saying you're to say you're going to say that's that's

for that's so I'm never recommend the people that they can't that I'm a

because it's a is a is to do something is it's a thing

has to be the sexo has this is transform in to do the love,

and that's the placentero. The other is pleasanter. For that the masturbation. More easy, less complicated.

We have to live in love and we have to vibran in love, Marco. And this the voyage

around the world me made sure, that the world is a fault of love.

It's a fault of love and not is going to be going to all the but I'm

to say that all the countries that was in Mexico was a where I felt

more and with more vibration of love. The very The most.

The Americanos, the American, the world. No, the most most carinoes, the

really that wow. And that's that I'm in Mexico. That's me got a horrible, I'm

really, I'm the people, the love, the people, the world, that's a beautiful,

much, there's a much, a lot of, I hear you. And in other countries, I mean,

in Peru, me has talked to in Colombia, in other places. But, but,

well, for no, let's be about the time. We're in a pause. And when

we're going to talk to let's do the doctora Calul and what we're doing, we have to do

how venting that alberka, without me even important to or it's free or or it's a problem, but what's the

case, and I my wife, my wife, my wife, my, my, my novi- novia, is coquetting

on internet and there's there's a podcast with the doctor Kabuli after the after the doctor

Lilian Kabuli expert in relations and amorosa a woman that's appasional for because the parishes

can't, the women and we can't grow and obtain a more high level of conscience the theme of today is the

love in the internet the infidelidad for internet that not the love of internet was the episode

this is the part two this is the continuation So, Liliana, what we do we're doing, if you're in a, you're in a relation, and you're going to suspect, your instinct, you start,

you know, I'm not I'm talking of the loco, persegid, of seros, celos, unsegoer, of low, autoestima, no, that's a story, we'll have been, but what's,

but what's, my instinct, me to say, I'm going to, see, I'm, that my parche, well, the, it's,

a, man, the woman, the, the woman, is, the woman, and, and, he, and, he's, and,

and, and, my instinct me, me is saying, something, something to do you. Whel to

infidelity? Barco, that is the instinct, person, observing people, if a

person is doing that all the time, obviously, you're and you need to

have the password, okay? So, so, he says, one, and he

says, you know, I'm not, you're doing that you're doing, I'm doing very bad,

I'm my confidence to be and and I mean I don't like to

feel like to see a way, I'd to say a question, if you're if you know

to say, I'm going to give you can't make these changes, I don't think I'm going to continue

in this relation, in this form. Now, all of because I don't

go to because I'm going to be to and I'm going to do you do you

do you to pay the password, and I want to put your this relation and

you interest and you it's we'll we'll we'll terminate. But that one person so, no, he's going to

pass to the men to the corn. Now, all this, tranquill, so, all this is, and without gritty, and even gritty, and all this, it's all right, when someone is not being, you know, when you're doing, when you're going to be the delito, there, the

dead, no, no, no, it's the mort, listen to me, acceding, no, no, it's, there, there, there, there, and it's, the gritty, and it's, when it's, and the end, and the end, the point, he's, it's, a expert in mentire,

Mient, tapar a Woltta, I don't know you, but if I have a relation that would say that that's going, I go, I'm going.

Obio, but it, but it's you know, I'll be, but, the really, there are things that any of the

one of the one of the thing, is that I'm not there's, that I'm not to be a because if you

go to be to be a person, you go to be a period of time. When somebody not is

focused, you know, you know, because the response almost that's a person is a

person is a person very conscientious and I'm saying no of what you are saying it's a

business is my jeffe or I'm doing this the job so it incomprehensive

or what they're to be a little some role there no difficult

to the first to say yeah yeah sorry I'm sorry I'm

so I'm the the point the one of the he's

a mind and the you're saying all those those

those those pavats you You know, because you, because the other, because I was in the corner, blah, blah, blah, blah. No, no, no, I don't see. So, you know what you're going.

You know what you're going. You know what you're going to, you know, you just said, and I think it's very interesting to, your conclusion. I think we need to hear more to our instincts. Now, if we're not a paranoia that we're going to get the corner,

I think so, I think, if you're going to go to the psychologist, no? You can't have a celomaniah, a celotipia, a celotipia. How I distingo when it's my instinct and my intelligence and what I'm doing and when I'm acting as a loco, celosos, persegied.

There's a, there's a, there's a, I know that this is that it requires therapy and require sessions of coaching, which is what we recommend to all the people,

but there's a lot of different, to see, to see how are my celos and my problems not resolved, insurities of the past,

and how I'm, how I'm doing really, how is, what is, what is, of what I'm doing, it's,

it's very simple, if every that you're going to get you think you're that's you're in your

problem? If you're you're going to you're not you're not your problem, then it is your

problem. Okay. Yeah, I'm very simple. Apart, I'll back to say a podcast

where we'll learn to a person to let's learn to learn that you're to be there's to be there's

to be to ask you if you want to you know? You think you're going to you're going to

questionate? If someone to do? When anyone to do you, I want to know, it's very evident. It's very evident.

As much the interest has, and when someone you interest, it's very evident that there's that way.

It's not to make us to make it. I'm not. The end of the person to get to make, but no,

it's really when someone when someone is there. It's very clear. But also, there's a

only a one single, a single thing that's possible that's passive, aggressive. It's a thing,

it's like, it's a thing, it's, it's, it's a lot, to do, So, then what is is attack you with actions passive,

me understand? And not is because not you know he wants, but it's because he's not really and he's not saying. And that's another story.

But it's only during the time that the person is all the change in their personality? No, no. That is for

one person that is passive, aggressive, and not knows how to not say, a person directly, you say,

I'm, I'm excited, this is still this is nojada, this is no this is, this is not It can be.

And there are people that are people who say they're doing, they do they're doing to be doing something something that you're

that's feeling like that you're feeling like that's that's like they're inaud and they're how to express

it. And the solution is to say, oh, I'm saying, oh, I'm saying that's different,

that's, you're, you're doing something, that's doing something that we're doing to get us

to come to a time to come to a time at the time and you're retarded,

or no me complete, it. is passive aggressive is that type of things.

It's for inaction. For inaction they're not going to make sure you have to be to be,

you'd like to say me what you do you know, the passive aggressive no no, well, I

don't know to be in a relation to someone that's a so I can't help to get to

that's a matter, I'm I'm not, I'm not no, I'm no, I'm don't know, I'm the

most pesed the world, and you know that's what there's many people, so you know, that's

that's enoxed, they're They're in culled, no they're in a personage is pesadissed so much for living it.

The people have to talk and it has to communicate, there's to get to find the intermedios, have to accept

the differences, have to accept I'm not you, you're so so you're so you're so yeah, but basically

there has to have been a desire mutual to to be able to preserve that relationship. It has

two that want to now, about to care if I'm saying, if I am a

person, if I'm see the other side of the money, I'm

I'm I'm interested in my partner, but I'm going to the tentation to continue coquetos

for the social. What I'm recommendarious immediately. Yes, I'm sorry. I'm sorry.

I'm sorry. That's that I'm doing. And I don't do you have done. That you do you know,

you're sure that you're going to do you? You're sure that you're going to do that? The price is trying to

do you're doing with that. It's a drug. It's a drug. A drug. It's like like, like,

like, like, like, like, a drug because you're a little, because you're living a

thing a thing, you're trying to complete with something, something that's something, and many times

it's not, it's a lot of your own, you know, you're going to you're going to you're going, you're going,

you're going, I'm trying, to do you know, to do you're to do this, we're trying to do what,

to do what we do this, to do this is like a diet, it's the same than a diet,

and in all the sense. It's it's like it's like to know how you're going

to have to this relation that you put you're doing so much for a person that's not nobody and that's

that's that's a time? It's a no, no me interested well, let me

get it. It's a it's a because if you compare you with a diet when I

I'm I'm not the sugar or the lacto or the food of the origin animal,

the gluten I'm I'm the I'm I'm sorry the I'm in the process of desintoxication, but then, but then, then, I'm going, and then my

body, me pere the things sanas. Is similar to the process psychological for the way you pass? Exactly. Very well explained. It's totally out of the theory of comfort. But, look, you know, in a, in an interview, that you were a compulsive,

a person a compulsive, is that you're a person, a compus, until you said you're trying to get yourself, right? Before, yes, yeah, yeah, I was in my, of those 20s. This was, obviously. It was in many years.

But now is in many years that's all. But the Ascunt is, when you're a pair, a pair, a pair, and you get to

just, it's an impact it's a impact. Yes. It's an impact for a lot, it's like, wow,

that's that you're not that's an way, and the same. Solo, solo, solo,

solo, I'm going to want to do the and now, and now, boom, oh,

that's the thing, it's all it's all it's the thing of the change, the world,

the things we're animals of animals, we're customs. Whatever that we're going to

change, we're going to have a tendency to not to have a homeostasis an anterior. Yes,

yes, yes, yes, because... I've got many, many people who are many

categories and not they're more. Because they learned to control us. So, they've been

the interest. A person infiel could change? Sure. Look, my first patient,

Mark, that I've had 23 years in Argentina was a infiel in Pernido and

I've beened the person more the person more the entire of the world because it's

it's decided to change. It's all to decide to change. I think it for me is so the

work personal that we have to do we to do this other people is not how they

do the people. It's like a day of a day with you. You know,

I think that I'm should subraying a person infiel can change but oho

you're saying when that person wants to change. I don't I can't. I don't I can't a person infiel.

I'm saying, oh, is that I go to change or I'm going to go to change. That's not we're going to let's say.

We're being signaled. No, you can't to change to nobody. No, can't

repeat. Repetable once, the doctora, you can't change to nobody. So,

so the only that can can be changed are the other. For that I recommend to

have a relationship of a pair, with someone that you say, I'm disposed to I'm supposed to grow up, because if you

don't say, you're going to be able to be a lot of that's a relationship, because all is change continue.

And the reality is that we can not change to nobody. I'm a person who's to help to the people

to change. But I don't change. I'm going a guide. But if they're not they're going to

do you're going to try to say, look, my responsibility to help you to help

to help you not you're with me. But the other change is because he wants, how you're going to do, you can't? You can't make changes in your person and in your comportments that

are going to produce change to the other. That's for sure. Because all is dynamical. You can't? All is a dynamic. So, if I do, I actuo as a. And now actu or B, you're going to change. That's sure. But no

is the function of a person to create a person. The infieldo, no. The infielder will you're going to ever, if the infielno decided to change for

himself. It's like someone who wants to be good, good people, that's going to be a

person more ethical. It's invest it in a person that not because you got to you're going,

but you are in the life, you're being, is trying to learn, is learning, is going to

the therapy or coaching or or, or some system, is, is, is,

is looking solutions if has a anel for the felicity, for the

real to create felicity in their own life. And that's very attractive. When I see that other

person, doctor, that's, I'm, wow, that's, I'm, wow,

that's, I'm a, to make more me, but she because she is in that way,

and how good I share to that's that process, but she is doing for her

exactly. And the thing, but the thing, but the thing, but when

you put you put it in relation a relationship, it

is One of the other thing is to change, you're a voice, you know, a little bit of a day, you know, when you're going to be a lot of, blah, blah, blah. That's a lot of person in front that's a much more difficult. It's a lot. And when it's, it's not, it's not a lot of it's not a time of the media social, because there's all the options

that you're saying, what little are you. No, we'd, we'd say, no, we'd say, or, you think you, you're going to be, you're going to to say this to me, or you're going to say this to me, look, I've been to say this to me. For that, of that, of course, of that, Mark, we have to totally let us to create all the pavadas

that's spectacular. Nobody is spectacular. Nobody is spectacular. Nobody is spectacular. All we have a ego to play. All right. We have things to resolve. Nobody is spectacular.

The reality is that. So, all together is different, and all we have defects. We have things spectacular and things that no. We're humans. We're just together

in this planet, living all to try to make us to make sure to make sure a question doctor, trying to

to cover a major part of the people that we're listening because there's things

there are things that we can't in general. Until the moment we've talked of the people

that's getting and so and is distraying with the with the social or

with the application and you you're clearly recommending that no we're

we that, et cetera, et cetera. But what is, for example, with a person that's really in a relation where he or she, a man or woman, can pass, where his partner, no is a partner solidaria, the, he's,

or not, no, no, no, no, he's not, not, but they're, they're, they're, they're, they're , they're, they're, they're, they're, they're then, then, you, and, you're, so, and, you're, you're, you're receiving love in

your house and that person is a new they're in they're in they're in they're in a

other world and no there's a question and no there's going to and you're there's a telephone and in the telephone and the

telephone receives the attention of the person but I don't me refer to the attention of someone

that just that's saying look that you're just no no no no but of the real of the amistades that

start where when you start that tension that carino that that love of part of other

persons. It's very human to be able to do you get to get to get to get in the

telephone and that's another thing. I'm not I'm sure. I don't know perfect but that would be

the same that if I amalgated or I'm living in a situation very a lot of like the

mother's, and of then we're so we're don't know dorogaticts? We're doing do drug addicts?

We're going to use marijuana or we're going to live here. It's the same situation. If you're in your relationship of a marriage and your partner not wants to work with you, you're going to have to

have to do some decisions very d'n't. Because no, there's no, he's a little bit of this world, that's a very much, and parents infelisers. And the women, for example, Lillianna, I, that I'm a child of mom, divorced, and that, for the same, know, many times, that, tristently,

because so, they're educated, or so, I'm, I don't know, I'm not, I'm not, I don't know, men, obviously. But, what they're saying, okay, I don't want to be going to be divorced, in countries like Mexico, in America,

Latin, in the States United, is different, but me divorce and I get in the case. Even in the States United, it's where if I

do, what I'm going to do, what I'm to do you want to my children, I'm dedicated completely to the home. The accord was,

I'm dedicated to do that the home and he is to try money, and me divorceio and what I do?

And they're being trapped between the spada and the Spada and the a part. That's a

situation very difficult. It's a thing. If you're a lot of you're in a day that you

have to get to keep a lot of the things are you so you're not in the United. In Mexico or in no, but

in Mexico there's a America Latina? There's a lot of there's a every

every every every there's more every every every there's

every there's I think the is that the ignorance of not there

there's there there of the rights. If you can't look at, but for the other side,

but you're going to say a problem, you're to do a strategy, you're going to create a plan of action, a plan of action

to study something or do something that in the future you can't be in a relationship, that's horrible, that's a

endererner, infirmes, infarmes with people, you're in the time, no, and it's just

you're going to be able to do you not the mind, never, it's preferable in the

car, No, no, I know, I know, I know, I know, who's not too to try to be in the piscina, because it's to get to the piscina,

Marko, how that's, think, all is to be to be able to a business, a career, this,

study something, to do, to choose X things, all is a, a, a, a piece of,

I know, I've, a patient, I, heard, a man, was, a man,

was, that, was, and he got, and he of mejizos. Imagineate

a woman that in his life he's going to a man, he's going to the car with two

children. That woman no had and she was rebuskand and he had to be a car

and he took a bus and he was and I'm but he came to change and

I'm I'm sure in the life Marko and you know you know

know you know all you can't that you can't that no doesn't

no reason nothing or that have to be stuck in a place.

No exists. Always one can't get a regular. Your mom is a arreggled. Other people

are they are getting. Yes, so you can. And today exist in question of the economic more than that

exist are the or not exist that they're that they're and the people, and the people, and me

do a trice to say it but there are many people that are in a lot of tramps legales

to not to do not to do anything when they have a an abogado very

podroso and she doesn't fined, but even so, if that's not that's

not the day, you know, you can't work for have to have faith. Living in a

relationship is a a suicide. And the internet not you do you have to do you know,

it's very different, having amistades that you are by media social and your messages and the

messages but other other thing is romantic by internet by a aspirin that you

go to that's not just you're not just you're you're not you

because you don't The message but no, it's the solution. Exactly. That's a

is an enganyarce, one of one myself. There's to be able to live the time we're going to

gethrerer in this very intense, but what you do with that's the odor? That is what you always have to

take that decision. How do you want to live a life? A life that you feel

that you feel that you feel that every situation that you took to live, advanced to that

situation or you want to to live a life in cobarity yeah and that the doctor

the new earth and the power of now I'm in a time I'm in a time he said that he said I

got me I'm I'm sorry I'm going to I'm going to the period of my mom and he

said that the the door for much people is the master more great that he

that encounter in the yeah he he's he was that he was that was is where

is where it's where you know the one of the one of your mom and a

me that you're not a time is so immense and so terrible

that you go you're doing you do you I'm a much

more more more more than more more clarity in my mind

than when before before when I mother before that because that

the door me made understand much more that

maybe I had had had had our master.

The Dolor is our master. And the and the pain you would be in a divorce

is a question. That's the problem that you're in a divorce is very terrible.

It's the same as the more but you're that you think you because you're

more, that you know, the life you can't you can't live a life and

you're not I'm going to be never because I don't want to be because you

can't and you're to you're you're you can't you

you can't but you you matrimony is a terminated. It's a real life

many things very interesting and very important, that valiant the way of the time. If you never you're thinking you're

not the situation ideal, no exists in the situation ideal. Existe you're both more an ideal

you know. Yeah, me took the peddrava, doctora. Yeah, no, no, no,

no, no, no, I'm the story, I'm, I'm the story, I'm, the story of,

the story of the story of the story of the story of the story of But you think that's what you think, I'm,

I'm, I'm, I'm, I'm, I'm, I'm, I'm, I'm,

those people are the other people, those people, those who massaciners, assassins, exactly, and those who

never do you never, the same thing is the same the person perfect. Well, that's that's gonna be to be,

to be, there's, three types of person and one, that's what would be able the serial killers that preys

with different people, are doing their things, it's like, they're going

the carria, but with different persons, those who are who are not, who are not, that's going to

the person perfect, and I think that never the person who's, and then the other who are the

other people, and the other people who are the people that's that one person very good to make a

very good to make a that's the person not change, and they're that people and they're

making that that's a good, it's an good, it's in my 20s and my time of

my 30s, was the assessino serial the relation, relation, relation, and yes, come, let's come,

come, and then go, let's go to other side of the other side of the other side of the doctora, much thanks,

and I'm going to be more more conscientious of the use that I do I'm going to when I'm and all the

people that we're going to hear that we're all we're all talking about the internet that at the

final of the day, I'm going with a thing that can be a person you can't be

a good because it can be very negative if to use a to you

and it is a disvia of what really you want to you're to live in

your life and the most obviously is to be in that in that you

know, being the heart of the love. Exactly. Thank you Dr. I'm a

big to get a great of Greece. It's all in the photos, as

momamia. Yeah. So, yeah. So, it's precious. It's precious. Oh,

no, it's precious, no, it's a beauty. If you find you that

I'm not in that plan. I'm not I'm not in the plan for nothing. I'm in the plan to

to work in me absolutely no, no, no, I'm interested to be in

relations. But just just about because you're not you're looking, but you're getting me

that's all the time. And you say, doctor. And I'm right. Me, it's all the

time, the possibility because I have to say no, to be a serial killer to

terminate with this serial serial killer situation. Well, you've you've you've Very much

Suarez. Exactly. I'm in a day and the three. Well, you want a

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